| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 175 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?It depends. I'm divorced and my kids are grown. I would date a man who has older children. Older meaning at least graduated from high school. I will not and have walked away from some seemingly HVM because they had young, school aged kids who lived with their mother. I raised my children and I'm done with that phase of my life. I have no intention of helping raise someone else's kids and being a stepmother. It's a big boundary for me and I have been very firm enforcing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:47 PM |
| 4 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.That is so foul. I would never stay with someone who was ok with living in filth like that, let alone brag about cleaning up like it's cut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 6 | So I was cleaning my vibrator and...🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 08:08 PM |
| 3 | So I was cleaning my vibrator and...I'm gagging just thinking about this. That's foul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 06:38 PM |
| 239 | So I was cleaning my vibrator and...I think it's sad for us women. We finally get to the age where fear of pregnancy is gone and now they can't perform. I am so done having sympathy for men. Trust me, they have no sympathy for us. Furthermore there are medical options now to deal with low T and other causes of erectile disfunction, and most are too embarrassed to get treatment. Well, every year I have a pelvic exam and mammogram, highly invasive and embarrassing, but I do it for my health. Telling a health professional you can't p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:48 AM |
| 14 | I left a perfectly good man because FDS made me believe I could do better. And you were rightAwesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 06:37 PM |
| 54 | No good comes from being a Pickme.Thank you for this. I guess I'm just being hard on myself because I'm feeling sad right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 3 | I think I may have been harassed for the first time. My mom didn’t believe me.I'm glad you trusted your instincts and you ate safe. But I'm puzzled as to your mother trying to justify this by saying maybe he was asking for directions. I actually chuckled when I read that. Since WHEN have men EVER asked for directions? 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 11:53 PM |
| 11 | To My Fellow Chronically ill HVWThank you for this. I was once a high energy person, singing, dancing, mountain climbing, lifting weights. Then I was in a car accident that basically ruined my life, dislocated my knee, and fractured 2 vertabrae. I'm still in constant pain and will probably never get better. I've put on weight, and can only walk short distances before needing a break. I still matter, I'm still a fun person. I still deserve to be treated well. Thank you for the validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Thank you FDS for giving me courage to take care of my needs and wants.Lol I actually went to Paris, Texas for my trip. One day I will make it to France. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:18 AM |
| 19 | LVM has no emotion or respect.Omg what a turd! And I want to extend my condolences about your father. I know today must have been rough for you. (((HUGS))) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:00 AM |
| 10 | More young men are living at home, not participating in the workforce, and playing more video games. What a surprise! /sNot just young men waste hours on video games, middle aged men do too. Before I got sick of OLD, and before I found FDS, a lot of men's profiles had gaming listed as a hobby. At the time I filtered matches to the 45-55 age range, which is appropriate for my age. Well even pre-FDS I put those gamers as an automatic skip. Screw those guys, get a real hobby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 03:05 AM |
| 46 | To My Divorced Women- How Are Things?Recently divorced here after a 23 year marriage I'm loving every minute of it. I get to make my own choices. My apartment is the way I like it and nobody else can mess it up. When I was a teenager my pick me Mom used to tell me I had to be nicer to the boys or I would end up living all alone with a bunch of cats. For the first time in my life I am alone. I have a cat. I have so much enjoyment just me and my kitty and I wonder why did my mother warn me that this would be a bad thing? I hope I get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:31 AM |
| 40 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureI am a woman in my late forties. I work as an environmental geologist and am outdoors most of the day in the hot Texas heat. I don't wear makeup at work because it will just melt off my face. At least that's what I tell everybody. In reality, I have hardly worn makeup for at least 20 years. Over the years I used to compare the pressure to wear makeup the same as wearing of a burqa in extremely conservative Muslim countries. Women in those countries are forced to hide their face with a covering. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:31 PM |
| 9 | I love pick mes that are so ignorant to history and to why some things exist... 🙄Beyonce says it best: If you liked it, then you shoulda put a ring on it. 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?Thank you for the suggestion, I just did. 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 25 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?I didn't think about hidden cameras and Snapchat, you're absolutely right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:38 PM |
| 17 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?I reread what I posted and I realized I may have come across as being judgmental and that is not the case. I think it's more frustration than anything else. Especially after being on FDS for a while knowing only LVM would make such a request in the first place. I apologize for my tone in the op. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:36 PM |
| 6 | Another day of men having the audacity. Yeah my gf is a PhD candidate, works full time and works part time, but calculus is so HaRd!!The hardest part of calculus for me was sequences and series. I just couldn't get it. But heck I loved integrals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Sick and tired of hearing i "look good for my age"No one believes I am 47. I don't lie about my age either I own every year that I have lived on this Earth, because each year is a gift. Any scrote who makes that comment to you at your age is an jackhole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 21 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Oh hell no. If I were given an ultimatum it's me or the cat, my cat would win every damn time. And that cat sounds like an awesome one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 38 | Can we just laugh about howAnother reason I am convinced they are anti abortion is that half the fetuses that are aborted are male... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 14 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits never denounced Aimee Challenor, and never denounced pedophilia. Currently, their top post is bashing FDS for wanting female-only spaces which they consider "hateful" (notice how they don't have anything bad to say about pedophilia)Thank you! I agree with all you say here 100%. I wish I could give you an award but please accept this in it's place. 🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:18 AM |
| 27 | Sexism with men in STEMLong story to tell, sorry if I'm rambling. I have a STEM degree, a B.S. in Geology to be exact. I quit school in my sophomore year of college in the early 90s when I got pregnant. I went back to college at age 36 to complete my degree. I did experience sexism in high school by teachers, it's ok if girls can't do math, etc. In college the mix in the geology program, was 50/50. I currently live in a southern state in the US. I lived in the northeast US up until 6 years ago. My first job after coll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:59 AM |
| 11 | Just broke up with a porn sick man. Thanks FDS for helping me assert my boundaries and hold my own.Good for you sticking up for yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 261 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮WTF? He totally ignores her conversation, changes the subject to talk about his ass and poop and she's smiling? Even at the height of my pickmesha old self I would not have thought this was cute. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 37 | I'm absolutely disgustedWhy is chivalry something that is taught in school in the first place? And it is outrageous that the assignments given to girls were to please the boys so they get prizes. I am just outraged by this and my kids weren't involved in this lesson at all. The only glimmer of hope I have is that the school board came to their senses and decided that this lesson should be pulled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Old letters from LVM? Photos? Clothes? Burn themhttps://thelittlestangelsgowns.com/ It looks like they aren't accepting donations right now due to Covid. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 18 | Old letters from LVM? Photos? Clothes? Burn themWhen my ex-husband and I split up (married 23 years). I had my wedding dress and I was thinking about cutting it up in tiny squares. Someone mentioned a charity that takes old wedding dresses and sews them into gowns for stillborn babies to be buried in. I donated it to that charity. I found a few love letters recently that my ex wrote to me. I read them and put them in a file folder. I was thinking about burning them but I didn't yet. as far as the jewelry goes he did get me a lot of nice thing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:21 PM |
| 18 | Why is Hair Pulling and Choking (aggression) in Sex the Assumed Norm w/o Consent?Holy crap I'm in my late 40s and I've never once had this happen to me. Is this something new with younger men? I'll stick with men my own age on viagra then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 7 | Ladies can anyone recommend a good dildo/vibrator ?Oh wow! My first award! Thank you kind stranger! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:49 PM |
| 38 | Ladies can anyone recommend a good dildo/vibrator ?For real this is the best vibrator in my collection. I don't even use my others anymore. 5 stars. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0895NJSTJ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_TT2HWV1JVEQ4V0FG0DP1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 82 | I wonder what that means about the rest of them...This is a peeve of mine. I'm not going to shave my bush! I did it once at the request of my now ex husband and it was awful. It itched, I got ingrown hairs, never again! A child is bald. A woman has hair! Now I have nothing against keeping it trimmed but I will not shave it off and make myself uncomfortable ever again just because a man has sick "preferences". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:59 PM |
| 14 | Divorce papers came in the mail yesterday!Congratulations! What a great Valentine's Day present! Get yourself some flowers, chocolate, perfume, whatever you like to treat yourself! My divorce was final right after New Year's. I bought myself a bottle of champagne and a gold chain! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂I found this sub the exact same way. It was described as one of the most toxic subs on Reddit. So I thought I'd check it out because the name female dating strategy seemed innocuous enough. I like it here and I don't see this as toxic as well I see it as empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:55 AM |
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