ontheavenue123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Can we get some content focused on seducing your partner?		ontheavenue123	/r/seduction	14/09/19 05:16 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with? Exactly. I’ve been dating my current guy for 8 months, and hope to be with him for years. We didn’t have sex until the fourth date, and that’s not remotely because I made him “wait”- it’s because we were going out on dinner dates and talking for hours straight and then going to our respective homes. I knew after the first date that I wanted to have sex with him, but I have cats and he is allergic to cats, so I couldn’t just invite him to my place. After our second date I was very direct: “you sh…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 05:19 PM
35	Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with? Do you know that some men want to wait a little while with a new partner before having sex?	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 02:14 AM
39	Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with? Literally nothing you wrote is remotely true in any sort of general way. Plenty of women (and men) want to marry someone they think is super attractive. Plenty of women (and men) meet someone, hit it off, have sex immediately, and go on to have a long loving relationship and perhaps marriage with that person. There is no strict dichotomous dividing line of “these kind of men are for casual sex only” and “these kinds of men are for long term relationships only”. Human interactions and relationshi…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 02:06 AM
2	Red/Black Pilled men don't think a Chad can be a nice guy? I’m not talking about people who appear to be kind and thoughtful and generous, I’m talking about people who genuinely are.	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/21 12:02 AM
2	Red/Black Pilled men don't think a Chad can be a nice guy? Did you… read what I wrote? “Dark triad” traits are narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. I didn’t mention those traits at all. I talked about people who are kind, honest, and mature. Do you think that those are Dark Triad traits?	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/21 10:27 PM
5	Red/Black Pilled men don't think a Chad can be a nice guy? Something that fascinates me about red pilled men is the fact that they don’t interact with a variety of women, but also don’t interact with a variety of men. If they did, they would understand that qualities like kindness, integrity, honesty, and maturity are not remotely correlated to what one’s body type is like. Some of the best men I’ve ever known, in terms of their character and heart, are conventionally good looking, muscular, fit men. The reason men like that are able to date a lot of wo…	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/21 12:08 PM
29	Do women really have that many options ? That has not been my experience whatsoever. I think that all kinds of people can and do develop traits like empathy, kindness, the ability to understand other's perspectives, etc. However: My personal experience has been that "not so attractive" men can be more selfish when it comes to dating and sex. In my life, I have had better sexual experiences with more conventionally attractive men, and I think this is because they probably have sex a lot more, are more used to communicating during sex, m…	/r/ExRedPill	04/10/21 10:51 PM
36	Do women really have that many options ? Plenty of "not so attractive guys" are mediocre men who don't care if we cum and who are mostly dickheads. I have no idea where men on reddit got this idea that "not so attractive guys" have substantially better personalities. It has not been my experience at all.	/r/ExRedPill	04/10/21 10:39 PM
2	People have the right to live alone for the rest of their lives but... This is not my experience at all. My experience is that people with more partners are better at reading body language, better at ensuring sex is a mutually beneficial experience, better at knowing how to show value and care to someone who may not be in their life all that long, better at maintaining boundaries when needed, and better at communication. Like anything else in life, if you interact with people a lot more in a certain way then you get better at that particular interaction. Just like …	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/21 03:17 AM
9	People have the right to live alone for the rest of their lives but... Why on earth would this just be a discussion for men?	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/21 10:39 PM
12	People have the right to live alone for the rest of their lives but... Sex is a normal, natural, and healthy thing for both men and women to engage in. It's clear you don't understand that but I think it's always worth typing out in case someone else reading this needs to internalize the message. The issue here isn't women. The issue is your own negative and problematic views on sex coupled with your entitled attitude that women should only have sex with the "proper" kinds of men (you). Women should have sex with whomever they want to have sex with. Period. If a wo…	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/21 09:27 PM
16	People have the right to live alone for the rest of their lives but... Then what did you mean? You don’t get to come on here and make dehumanizing and objectifying comments about women and then claim that the reason I don't understand your toxic perspective on women is because I don't have the proper experience to.	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/21 09:13 PM
9	People have the right to live alone for the rest of their lives but... I’m so confused by what you’re saying. Unless someone is a sex worker sex between two consenting adults is always a free interaction. Do you think there is a financial transaction behind most sex?	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/21 09:06 PM
17	People have the right to live alone for the rest of their lives but... Women don’t get “passed around.” Women have agency and sexual desires and act on their desires to have sex with men that they want to have sex with. I don’t understand why you’re so concerned with what these other dudes think. You’re also again implying that you, and these other men, think this woman’s value decreased because she choose to exercise her agency and have sex with some people. This is a very objectifying and dehumanizing thought process.	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/21 08:52 PM
15	People have the right to live alone for the rest of their lives but... So many things wrong with all of this. Sexuality doesn’t have anything to do with value as a human being. Also, don’t equate women with coke plates. Don’t equate women with objects period. What is wrong with someone, man or woman, engaging in casual sex when they are single and then finding someone they really like later and getting in a relationship with them? Why do you call that sad? Why do you label that partner a “sucker”? And do you have this same kind of emotional reaction when thinking a…	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/21 08:44 PM
15	Importance of looks. I’m continually mind blown at some of the questions people ask on Reddit, and constantly have to remind myself that people are of different ages, cultures, and have very different life experiences. With that at the forefront of my mind, I’ll say this: I have no problem with having sex with men I meet in bars and do it fairly regularly. Most of my girlfriends do that as well. However, men on Reddit (such as yourself) totally miss the mark when they think that attractiveness is the driving factor …	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/21 02:07 PM
21	Importance of looks. ??? Of course not, nobody does that. But again, a friendship is something that organically and mutually comes about through repeated interaction. A friendship is built on trust, mutual interests, respect, and communication. It takes time to develop.	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/21 10:50 AM
33	Importance of looks. It’s absolutely not shallow to reject a friendship with a stranger. Men aren’t entitled to my time, energy, and friendship just because they want it. Friendships are relationships that organically and mutually develop. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve had this convo in my life: I’m out minding my business and a guy comes up to me and starts a conversation, usually about something dumb (one time some guy asked me where a particular store was when we were standing right in front of the store.…	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/21 10:46 AM
9	How do I (24M) come in peace with the fact that I will most probably remain forever alone? No need to apologize, you posted to talk about yourself and your experiences so it’s fine to talk about them! You sound like a very genuine and fun-loving person and I think those qualities will take you far. I think it’s important to remember that women are varied and like and want different things. Keep on being yourself and focusing on bringing joy to yourself and other people- that’s the best way to express yourself transparently to other people. I think it’s also important to remember that …	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/21 09:21 PM
12	How do I (24M) come in peace with the fact that I will most probably remain forever alone? Dude you are only 24. Your brain probably isn’t even fully developed yet. My best advice for dealing with this type of feeling is to continually tell yourself “I am 24. Life is long (hopefully) and I will morph and develop into multiple iterations of myself during my lifetime. The future is vast and limitless.” Also I’m not sure what you’re talking about in terms of your personality. Are you saying you’re bland? I agree that most people aren’t into bland or boring people, but I also think most p…	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/21 08:20 PM
3	My story with RedPill You cannot see any other reason as to why women like muscular men? Really? I’m a woman and I certainly like muscular men. I also know that dominance and aggression are giant red flags and I will not touch a man that displays either one of them. Lucky for me, a shit ton of muscular dudes are gentle and kind and compassionate people. Here’s is why I like muscular men: -it’s a marker for good health. I want a partner that cares about their body and their health. -you may not know this since it does…	/r/ExRedPill	21/05/21 12:59 AM
1	Why do people fall for this Is this something you invented in your own head or have you actually talked to women in your life about what they find attractive in men? Do you have any women in your life that you talk to regularly?	/r/ExRedPill	21/05/21 12:48 AM
1	Why do people fall for this I think it could be useful for you, and anyone who finds that this comment resonates with them, to really reflect on why you think that conventionally attractive men are "dangerous bad boys". Alex Pettyfer just seems like a normal human being who was trying to figure out love and relationships in his 20s, much like everyone else. He's now engaged and expecting a child. He has a successful career in an artistic field. What about any of that is a "dangerous masculine bad boy?" And the woman who wo…	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/21 08:56 PM
8	80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they do Because it’s a made up statistic.	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/20 12:01 PM
37	Those who are not in favor of redpill... what do you wish redpill types understood better? Women are people.	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/20 03:01 PM
2	As a young man, I am terrified of women and it really sucks I really can’t wait until society totally divorces itself from the idea that sex has ANYTHING to do with one’s value. I also can’t wait until society embraces the idea that sex is HEALTHY. Studies consistently show that sex is physically and emotionally healthy. Consistent sexual activity is linked to a healthier immune system, lower blood pressure, lower risk of heart attacks, improved sleep, and lower rates of stress and anxiety. Those are GOOD things and should be promoted. Now that I’ve said…	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/20 09:40 PM
6	Do women lack respect for their male “friends” Lmao you definitely did not biologically evolve like that. Rather, you’ve been socially programmed to not think of women as people in the same way you think of men as people. Nothing to do with biology or evolution.	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/20 10:03 PM
35	Do women lack respect for their male “friends” It sounds like you don’t view women as people who offer value to your life besides sex. Do you have any insight as to why you feel that way?	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/20 10:51 AM
6	Is casual sex/fwb even possible for not so hot men? Oh fun, a racist.	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/20 07:27 PM
16	Instagram & it's current state of affairs. Dude... men do the EXACT same thing. Many women have countless stories of men trying to push sex onto them in order to stroke their ego and increase their power. Do you have any idea how many inappropriate and unwanted sexually explicit messages and pictures I’ve gotten from men in my life? This phenomenon of pushing ones sexuality onto others is something that shouldn’t happen but is something that people of all genders do.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/20 02:53 AM
11	Instagram & it's current state of affairs. This whole discussion line of “if it were your daughter how would you feel” is so gross and icky to me because it is predicated on this idea that women’s sexuality is somehow different from men’s and that there is something bad and shameful about women being sexual beings. Why don’t people also talk about “if it were your son as the performer how would you feel?” or maybe even more relevantly “if it were your son as the viewer how would you feel?” Why is it supposedly “bad” to have a daughter wh…	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/20 02:24 AM
2	MensLib's pov on extremist groups and also TRP. It’s a great sub, one of my favorites. It examines issues that are pertinent to men in a respectful, compassionate, kind, and supportive environment.	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/20 03:23 PM
2	Men who are attracted to TRP ideas are because they don't have close female friendships Dude... Europeans came to the Americas and purposefully killed off nearly the entire indigenous population. European culture has historically been extremely violent and non cooperative. Your comment must be a joke.	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/20 12:25 AM
4	Men who are attracted to TRP ideas are because they don't have close female friendships Yep, I’m not going to engage with people who spew toxic ideas. If you find that people regularly don’t want to engage with you, you should open your eyes to the pattern and do some self-reflection as to why. Edit: because I realized you may be confused as to what this sub is about and why people aren’t interested in engaging with you. I recommend reading the side bar. This is very explicitly not a debate sub.	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/20 02:35 PM
4	Men who are attracted to TRP ideas are because they don't have close female friendships This conversation isn’t worth my time or energy. My interest level in interacting with people who actually believe that European normed patriarchal culture is the “best” despite the fact that European normed patriarchal culture has perpetuated mass oppression, discrimination, and genocide on people for hundreds if not thousands of years is nonexistent. European normed patriarchal culture has only been “the best” for the minority of people who yield power in it.	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/20 01:46 PM
8	Men who are attracted to TRP ideas are because they don't have close female friendships Yes, many indigenous cultures in the Americas had very different gender norms before colonization. We also know that many societies around the world prior to the advent of farming also had very different gender norms and were much more egalitarian in how they viewed men and women.	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/20 12:26 PM
9	Men who are attracted to TRP ideas are because they don't have close female friendships None of that is true. Our “biology” doesn’t determine any of those characteristics, socialization does. How do we know this? Because there have been plenty of cultures that operated very differently in terms of gender norms than the current European normed patriarchal culture that is currently in place throughout many countries.	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/20 11:54 AM
29	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. I don’t think you understand what “passive aggressive” means because nothing I said was passive aggressive. Again, this is not a debate sub. I would strongly advise you to read the Community Info because this sub accepts discussions rooted in science, not in anecdotal experiences. You do not get to say “this has been my experience so far, thus this is what women are like.” I think we all would be able to help you better if you could provide a clearer picture of what help you need. Again, at this…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 01:38 PM
53	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Sure is interesting how someone with zero experience being a women feels like he knows all about the experiences of women. You post here a lot. It doesn’t seem like you are learning anything from the replies you get on your posts or taking anyone’s advice. This is not a debate sub. What exactly is your goal of posting the same kind of stuff here so regularly?	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 01:13 PM
2	No such thing as living amorally It doesn’t sound like you’re “going your own way” considering that fact that you’re complaining about women on this sub.	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/20 03:17 AM
2	No such thing as living amorally Are you aware that sexual intercourse that results in pregnancy requires both a woman AND a man? There are just as many single dads as single moms but very few people complain about or condemn them the same way single mothers are condemned. Men also have all the power to prevent single parenthood, but they don’t. Are men choosing single fatherhood or can they not control themselves?	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/20 06:56 PM
1	Explain to me why Hypergamy is not a real phenomenon. No, it just means that people generally try to find other people they are compatible with.	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/20 07:09 PM
71	Explain to me why Hypergamy is not a real phenomenon. Because most people (men and women) look for love, a genuine connection, and a healthy relationship that meets their intellectual, emotional, and physical needs. The overwhelming majority of women aren’t going to sacrifice that just to be with a guy who is materialisticly successful.	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/20 11:53 AM
10	They say females will NEVER date down... is it always true? I think you need to really examine yourself and figure out why you think your ex girlfriend is “dating down” just because she is dating someone shorter than you. You sound pretty judgmental, shallow, and focused on physical appearance and haven’t at all considered that your ex and this other man probably have a genuine connection and chemistry. If this other man isn’t as judgmental as you are, then your ex girlfriend is definitely dating “up”, not down.	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/20 03:49 PM
10	4 years ago I found the red pill and it warped my perception of women. I’m here to warn other young men. I challenge you to really examine why you might think of women as monolithic and a hive mind as opposed to millions of separate different human beings. If you can understand that not all men (and in fact a very small percentage) are jerks, why can’t you understand the same is true about women? And if you cite your one or two personal life events to illustrate what “all women” are like, why are you unable to similarly attribute a few anecdotes to what “all men” are like?	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/20 06:17 AM
6	Where are the succesful stories of me who got out of RedPill/BlackPill mindset? I can't find any in this sub No, it doesn’t at all prove that. People are diverse and have a variety of backgrounds, cultures, and values. Some people are generally great people but a certain person may bring out the worst in them. Different people have different life stresses, past traumatic events, mental health issues, developmental problems, and emotional and social intelligence. Different people behave in different ways. For every human that behaves one way, there is another human that behaves the opposite. This is tru…	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/19 06:47 PM
17	Where are the succesful stories of me who got out of RedPill/BlackPill mindset? I can't find any in this sub If those stories are true, it sounds like you just didn’t date good women.	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/19 12:30 PM
1	Thoughts on the “number count” for women? This is not a regular dude thing. Healthy men and women don’t focus so much on someone else’s sex life.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/19 03:41 PM
11	As a woman, I paid money for a red pill coach for at least 6 months I’m curious as to why you, as a woman, would listen to, and pay for, a red pill coach for so long.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 10:27 PM
1	How to get over trust issues (idea all women are whores) Women dress like that because they like how they look and feel in those clothes. I’m a woman and I sometimes wear clothes like that. I’m currently about to take a walk in my neighborhood and I’m wearing very short shorts and a tank top. Honestly, my butt cheeks are probably visible in these shorts and I frankly don’t care at all. That DOES NOT mean I am looking for sexual attention. I am dressed like this because it’s 96 degrees Fahrenheit outside right now and these clothes are comfortable. The…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/19 08:08 PM
17	How to get over trust issues (idea all women are whores) I think you really need to examine your feelings on this. I assume there are a variety of different reasons as to why you may not be into a particular woman: maybe you think she’s too young or too old for you, maybe you don’t like her personality, maybe you don’t find her physically attractive, maybe she’s very extroverted and you’re more into introverts, maybe you prefer people who have similar hobbies and interests to you and she doesn’t, maybe she treats restaurant servers poorly and that bot…	/r/ExRedPill	01/10/19 09:55 PM
6	Hey Dudes! Right. The simple truth about TRP and any such ideology is that it’s totally false. Women are people, just like men are, and every woman has her own likes, dislikes, dreams, fears, goals, and values- just like men do.	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/19 07:52 PM
6	Hey Dudes! I also would like to know why you feel bitterness towards women when you’ve barely interacted with them?	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/19 06:03 PM
24	RedPill's popularity is showing the unresolved childhood emotional and developmental traumas on a societal level I think that’s a large piece of the issue. I also think historical patriarchy is to blame- these men think they are entitled to women’s affections, bodies, and lives.	/r/ExRedPill	21/09/19 12:17 PM
1	Can we get some content focused on seducing your partner? I wouldn’t say I frequent the forum necessarily. I subscribed to it because I read the description which, from what I remember, says the sub is about dating advice and learning how to connect with others. But whenever posts would pop up on my general feed I realized they were mostly about young men just trying to talk to a woman or get her phone number. I didn’t know if the sub started off with a more general seduction theme and over time it got hyper focused to PUA type stuff or if it’s always …	/r/seduction	14/09/19 02:49 PM
2	Can we get some content focused on seducing your partner? Yep, this is so much more of what I was looking for and what I thought the sub would be about. Thanks for the share!	/r/seduction	14/09/19 02:42 PM
0	That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone! I’m a woman...	/r/seduction	14/09/19 02:24 PM
-3	That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone! How in the world did this kind of sexist comment get upvoted??	/r/seduction	14/09/19 05:03 AM
2	Looking for opinions on Tinder experiments No... just no. I don’t know any woman who is turned on by typing errors or crappy pictures. I’m kind of flabbergasted by that statement.	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/19 09:29 PM
8	Lost in a sea of red pills OP, please know that there is absolutely no research supporting any of TRP’s inane ideas about women.	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/19 12:31 PM
7	Lost in a sea of red pills So in other words, he isn’t correct at all. Your ex treated you badly because she was a toxic person. That doesn’t say anything about women as a whole.	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/19 11:49 AM
12	Lost in a sea of red pills OP, please understand that hypergamy is not real and that nothing TRP states about women is true.	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/19 10:04 AM
2	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? I think you should tone back on the clinginess. Women can sense that and it’s pretty unattractive. If you feel you said something that came across wrong just say “I just want to make sure you didn’t take that the wrong way. I meant to say _____. Sorry if I came across wrong!” and move on with the conversation. I also don’t understand why you are sticking around in conversations that a woman isn’t putting isn’t putting forth effort into. How is that enjoyable for anyone? If you’re not getting muc…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/19 12:16 PM
1	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? If someone is “too busy to meet up” or will “let you know” that means she’s not interested. This means she matched with you and something about your personality in the way it came across in the conversation was a turn off to her. If a conversation is boring to you it’s also probably boring to her; she has now labeled you as boring and probably won’t want to go out with you. Women are not playing games with you by not being interested in you. You sound like you expect that all women you match wit…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/19 11:12 AM
5	My life change for me last night I am 100% positive you are a troll.	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/19 05:30 PM
13	Formar redpill. Trying to piece life bacj togather. It’s not good to have different perspectives on life if some of those perspectives dehumanize other people.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/19 04:20 AM
6	Formar redpill. Trying to piece life bacj togather. I have read the post several times and am still confused as to what you’re asking about. You got your girlfriend pregnant and you are confused as to what exactly? Whether or not you should be a father?	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/19 04:17 AM
2	Formar redpill. Trying to piece life bacj togather. You think women=bad? Does that even make sense to you??	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/19 03:48 AM
14	Formar redpill. Trying to piece life bacj togather. So yes, if a woman is pregnant with your baby then you should pay child support. What are you trying to d exactly- get out of supporting your own child? If you aren’t prepared for a baby you shouldn’t be having unprotected sex. I’m really confused as to how this is pushing you towards red pill ideology.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/19 03:47 AM
3	Question about gender differences in breakups My experience with breakups doesn’t point to any gender difference. I’m a woman and have ended many relationships with men and in my experience the person who does the breaking up has an easier time moving on. This is true whether that person is the man or woman. I have been on both sides of this coin: a few years ago I dated a guy for 3.5 years. We lived together and were very serious about each other. A couple years into the relationship I saw issues arising and would talk to my boyfriend abou…	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/19 03:43 AM
16	Formar redpill. Trying to piece life bacj togather. There is not possible way you believe in the MGTOW message if you have a girlfriend. The whole point of MGTOW is to not have anything to do with women; you have a girlfriend so clearly have a lot to do with women. Don’t keep red pill knowledge in the back of your mind; it is toxic. Treat and enjoy people as people.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/19 03:35 AM
9	Formar redpill. Trying to piece life bacj togather. This is confusing because if you are struggling with the red pill, as you claim, why would you be posting in redpill accounts?	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/19 03:32 AM
3	What can a. Beginner guy do to start a fwb or hooking up? Reddit sometimes is truly the most sex negative place and presupposes that most people are stunted emotionally or cannot maintain healthy human interactions across a spectrum of experiences. You don’t get to take your own negative experiences and assume they are true for billions of other people. You also don’t get to present your opinions as “biological and psychological” facts, as you have done here. I really don’t have anything else to say to you; but I am going to give one example of how a s…	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/19 01:16 PM
3	What can a. Beginner guy do to start a fwb or hooking up? Wow... while I totally agree that it sounds like OP isn’t ready for a fwb relationship since he doesn’t think he could adequately process the emotions that come with it, I totally disagree with this poster who said that hookups/fwb arrangements only work for people who are “damaged” or narcissistic. What a ridiculous ignorant pronouncement. Most people who engage in hookups and enjoy fwb relationships do so because they care about their sex life and want to maintain an active, healthy sex life r…	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/19 11:07 AM
2	How to 're-enter' the game? Date someone who doesn’t have mental health issues. Your problem isn’t women; your problem is that you date people with severe medical issues. So if you don’t want any to deal with those medical issue...... stop dating people who have them. This is what BLOWS MY MIND about red pill people: they have this attitude of “I dated someone with a medical issue and it went poorly so now I think all women/men have that very particular medical issue”. This line of thinking would not hold up for any other …	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/19 04:18 AM
3	Catch 22. Chicken or the egg type of situation with virgin men. Totally agree. Why would you tell someone you’re a virgin? It’s not relevant to anything and it is just weird that you’re volunteering that info. If you want I have sex, have it. If you don’t, then don’t. It’s like fettuccini. Nobody gives a shit when the first time you had fettuccini was. Eat it and move on.	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/19 04:17 AM
1	Catch 22. Chicken or the egg type of situation with virgin men. I’m curious as to why these women need to know you’re a virgin. It’s really none of their business. I feel like you should just be able to meet a woman (which you said you can do) and escalate it to something sexual and she never needs to know you’re a virgin. I can’t imagine asking someone I’m hooking up with if they are a virgin or anything about their sexual history beyond questions pertaining to sexual health. So I don’t feel like you need to be concerned about being a virgin... cause again …	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/19 04:09 AM
2	Am I a new type of "pill"? I’m a 30 year old woman and frequently have one night stands. Most of my single girlfriends also have one night stands. How else are you supposed to get laid when you’re single? You say you have female friends but the things you’re saying here make it sound like you’ve never talked to a woman before.	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/19 04:32 AM
1	A question for the fkbois It is totally possible for men and women to only want to interact with another person in a sexual way. I’m a woman and there have been several men that I’ve met in my life in which, upon meeting them, I realize I’m not really interested in a friendship or any sustained interaction but would love to sleep with them. I would say most one night stands people have fall into this category. However, just because I only want to have sex with someone doesn’t mean that gives me license to view and treat …	/r/seduction	01/07/19 04:18 PM
10	my problems with red pill ideology - please add yours! The red pill says women aren’t capable of love and are only into men for their “resources”. How is that remotely “realistic”???	/r/ExRedPill	23/06/19 11:43 AM
1	Do women get an ego boost from rejecting men? Then they’re not really interested and you’re just not good at picking up their signals.	/r/seduction	01/06/19 11:52 AM
1	Do women get an ego boost from rejecting men? The only way it works if a strange man approaches me in public is if he initiates a conversation that allows me to get to know him some and decide if he’s someone I want to continue talking to. For example, let’s say you’re in a park and you see a pretty woman sitting in a bench eating ice cream and you want to approach her. Do NOT do this: “hey there, you’re pretty/hot/beautiful and I’d like to get to know you better. Can I have your number?” I’m going to say “no, I don’t give my number to stra…	/r/seduction	31/05/19 11:43 PM
1	Do women get an ego boost from rejecting men? If someone likes me then I presume that means they know me and they aren’t a stranger. If they are a friend or acquaintance and they develop romantic feelings for me I think it would be totally appropriate for them to say something like “I know we’ve known each other for a while know, but I’ve realized I’d like to get to know you outside of the friendship we have. I’d like to take you to dinner, if you think that’s something you’re interested in.”	/r/seduction	31/05/19 09:39 PM
1	Do women get an ego boost from rejecting men? This is such a weird question. I don’t know a single woman that gets an ego boost from rejecting men; I certainly never have. In fact, women are often very aware of the fact that rejecting a man can be dangerous for them. Some men get angry and extremely pushy when they are rejected, and that can be very scary because you don’t know what they will do next. Many men think they are entitled to talk to a woman, date a woman, or have sex with her. That entitlement is such a turnoff. Just because a g…	/r/seduction	31/05/19 07:19 PM
1	Middle age man, younger woman I feel like you are reading way too much into this situation. She was happy to see you because she knows you. I’m sure she reacts the same way when other people she knows and has fond memories of comes in.	/r/seduction	23/05/19 02:03 AM
35	21yr virgin male struggling with redpill ideas I’m a 30 year old woman here with well over a decade of dating and sexual experience. First off, I can’t stress enough how much redpill ideas, like the idea that women sleep around when they are younger and then “settle” for a beta guy they aren’t really into, are completely wrong. You have to hold that truth close to you if you’re going to have any meaningful relationships with women. Redpill ideas are not just disrespectful to women but are dehumanizing. It is impossible to have a genuine mean…	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/19 11:01 AM
3	Q4W - Do you care about the n count of your male SO? Personally I think it’s super weird that people keep track of or care about how many people they themselves or their partner have slept with. I’ve seriously dated men who have slept with a handful of people and who have slept with hundreds of people. How many people a partner has slept with is frankly of zero interest to me. What I am interested in is the kind of sex they have and their overall sexuality: for example, I want to make sure they don’t have a history of engaging in coercive sex, tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/19 11:55 PM
2	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? I just wanted to come back a few weeks later and thank you again for your comments. I went out with a guy on a first date a couple weeks ago after having this discussion; I kept your comments and advice at the forefront of my mind and I think it really helped me consider what the dating experience is like from his perspective and how that may be affecting his interactions with me. Thanks again!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/19 04:36 PM
2	What would you consider to be a 'high' ncount? or the average experience Personally I think it’s super weird that people keep track after a certain point. I’m a 30 year old woman and estimate that I’ve been with around 25 different partners, but I don’t know the exact number. I focus on making sure I’m maintaining an active, healthy, and safe sex life- just like I maintain other aspects of my life. And average experience is whatever makes that particular individual feel safe, healthy, and happy and that can vary significantly from person to person as everyone has dif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/19 04:07 PM
3	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? I appreciate your comment; it’s definitely given me some things to think about. I try to be very positive about my dating life and I truly appreciate all the men who have chosen to spend hours of their life with me. I’m always aware that these men could have spent their evenings with their families, friends, or engaging in activities that they enjoy, but instead they chose to spend that time with me. I want my dates to feel like I value and appreciate them, and I feel like a large part of showin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 05:43 PM
4	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? I know that the right partner for me has strong emotional and social skills, yes. To be clear, I go on many dates and meet many wonderful men; but just because someone is a wonderful man does not mean he is the right person for me or is someone with whom I am romantically compatible. The OPs question was about why dating is tough for women. My answer is that dating is easy for many women in that it’s easy to find people to go on dates with, but it’s much more difficult for any person to find a p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 03:58 PM
2	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? I’m expecting them to show intellectual curiosity on a first date as to who I am. So for example, if they ask what I do for a living I expect them to follow up with a question along the lines of “what made you want to get into that?” or “What are your favorite things about that role?” Some men ask questions like that, many men don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 03:53 PM
8	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? I feel like men should also care about their potential partner’s values, sense of self, ambitions, motivations, ways of conceptualizing their place in the world, social and emotional intelligence, sense of humor, civic engagement, etc. Women bring so much more to the table as a romantic partner than just being attractive, fun, nice, and decently smart. I want someone who really understands who I am as a person and is thoughtful and intentional as to whether I would be a good partner for them. So…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 03:39 PM
3	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? This could be true, and is something I’ve thought about. I’m a social worker and talking to people and getting them to open up to me is my literal job, and something that’s so ingrained in me that I do not turn it off. When I go on a date I try to put the guy at ease (because people get nervous on first dates) and I focus on being as warm and engaging as possible. I make sure I ask questions, ask follow up questions to their answers, and engage in active listening. People want to feel like their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 03:26 PM
9	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? Really? You think I have high standards because I want to date people who are genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person? I really don’t have anything else to say about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 03:11 PM
5	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? I am 30 years old and I date men who are usually within the age ranges of 27-35. I am not husband hunting but I am not looking for a boyfriend for a few years; I am very proud of the life I have built for myself but I do want a life partner because I believe love and support from others (whether family, friends, romantic partners, etc) is the key to elevating a good life into a life that can withstanding anything. I’m looking for a very deep love and from years of relationship experience I’ve le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 03:10 PM
9	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? This has been my experience many times over. It is important to me to be with someone who has high levels of social and emotional intelligence. I also want someone who has a strong vision for their life and their place in the world and who is thoughtful about finding the right partner to go through that journey with them, just as I have a strong vision for my life and am thoughtful and particular about finding the right partner to go through that journey with me. Someone who primarily talks abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 03:02 PM
22	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? I’m a woman and I’ve been single and dating for a couple of years since my last relationship ended. Dating is easy but I am very focused on finding a life partner and that is extremely difficult. My impression often is that men have such low standards for women and they make that known and that is such a turn off. What I mean is that more and more I get this sense that many men are looking for an attractive, fun, nice, decently smart woman... and that’s it. They ask me enough questions to check …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 10:57 AM
2	Do you know whether you want to date someone or not before having sex? I’m female, and yes I generally know whether I want to date someone or not before having sex. However, I don’t link the two together as tightly as it seems some other posters do. I’m currently single and it’s important to me to have an active and healthy sex life, much like it’s important to remain actively healthy in all areas of my life. I also go on many dates because I am wanting to find a long term partner, by the majority of my dates don’t end in sex and the majority of the men I sleep wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/19 11:41 PM
7	Would you rather marry a man who’s a virgin, or a man who’s had over 30 sexual partners? 30 year old woman here- I definitely prefer men who have had a decent amount of sexual partners over ones who have had only a few. My sex life is important to me, just like every other aspect of my life, and I want it to be healthy and enjoyable. Personally, I have found that men with high counts of sexual partners are more relaxed and enjoyable to be around. Men who have had fewer partners seem more anxious about sex whereas men who have had many tend to not have weird sexual hangups, aren’t ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/18 09:38 PM
1	Question for women: Does anyone else prefer their (male) potential LTRs to have a low partner count? I have dated men that have had low partner counts (less than 10) and I've dated men who have had very high partner counts (around 200). My current boyfriend is 26 and he estimates he has slept with around 30 people. He has had a fair amount of ONS, LTRs, and shorter term relationships. This is what I have learned about myself: I am 28 and don't have time for either casual hookups or more serious things with men who suck at sex. I just don't. I prefer a partner who has slept with a decent number …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/16 01:14 PM
1	A sexual past/behaviors survey for women Have you ever had a one night stand before? Yes Have you ever had a fuckbuddy, friends with benefits, or purely sexual relationship? Yes In college, did you belong to a social sorority? No Have you ever hooked up with someone at a party in college before? Yes, but this question implies with a stranger. I had a boyfriend of 3 years in college whom I lived with and he and I would throw regular parties and get drunk and have sex once everyone went home. Have you ever had sex while drunk? Yes- I am …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/16 12:06 AM
10	How come a woman doesn't seem to obsess over a guy as much a guy would obsess over a women? Women obsess over guys all the time. Women constantly talk to their girlfriends about it. Whole bottomless mimosa brunches in which they just talk about the guys they think are hot. The difference is women have way more self control in terms of actually acting on their feelings. Women delight in that delicious "oh my gosh I am so into him! I wonder if he feels the same??" feeling, and there is something to be said about treasuring that feeling as long as possible.	/r/seduction	28/04/16 04:21 AM