I subscribed to this sub because I thought it was about actual seduction/dating advice and stories. I’ve been lurking on it for several weeks now and I’ve realized it is heavily, heavily male centric and seems to heavily skew towards very inexperienced men who are looking for advice on how to talk to a woman for the first time ever. Also, on nearly every post I find incredibly misogynistic generalizing comments about how “all women are like this” or “all women are like that” and it’s always with a negative bent.

I am a 31 year old woman and I don’t have a problem getting dates or being in relationships. I thought this sub would be more about things like “how to make your partner feel special” or “light some candles, pour some wine, and play this particular John Legend song in order to give your partner an amazing Friday night” or “if your partner’s love language is words of affirmation, these are some things you can say to make them feel loved.” When I think of seducing someone I love and care about, those are the kinds of things I think about.

Clearly, myself and the disproportionate amount of men on this sub have very different ideas of what “seduction” means. Is there anyone else who feels like this sub needs to be more diverse and robust in terms of the content? Or is someone able to point me in the direction of a different sub that may be more of what I’m looking for?