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Perform? Also, why do you care? Be good at something to impress yourself, not to impress others.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 04:40 PM
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It is so easy to be lazy and content. Must... push... on...
/r/askTRP06/01/17 04:24 PM
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Ddpyoga. Or dppyoga. I forget which its called.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 02:13 PM
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Go see a doctor and get a blood test and all that. Couple that with a visit to a newagey massotherapist type. Your answer is probably in between, like poor circulation or something.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 02:10 PM
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I love not having Facebook. Most of my closer friends have quit or minimized their presence. The people on it are annoying, the types of "look at me" bullshit is annoying, and the company is sketchy as shit. If you can find company who likes being old school and in the real world, enjoy it.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 02:00 PM
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Own it. "Yeah near mumbai! It is fantastic. Where are you from?"
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:35 PM
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Few thigs to ponder: 1- Are you as funny as you think you are? 2- Really desirable people will get laughs regardless if they are actually funny or not. 3- Everyone is smart about something. "What are you passionate about?" Then its up to you if you feel like hearing about nail care or the kardashians.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:18 PM
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What happens if you say NO and she does anyways (assuming this is bizarro world and you have an absolute way of knowing if she does)
/r/askMRP22/10/16 01:55 PM
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Try putting one drop of lube inside the condom.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 12:22 AM
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Mt T used to say something like Calvin Klein doesn't walk around with your name on his shirt. Why should you pay to walk around in a shirt with his name on it?
/r/askTRP19/06/16 08:58 PM
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This is the right track. Get her to define it or at least feign ignorance. Her definition is like different and non pejorative like on trp. "Like as opposed to stalker creepy?" " I mean i havent robbed a bank lately" "the jury thought so. Or at least that I was not guilty guy."
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:07 PM
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D- disagree
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:01 PM
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Oh and one more thing. This isn't even a "red pill" set of advice you are getting. If you posted this scenario on r/relationships they would all, even the most thickest hornrimmed black glasses wearing green short haired chubby Clinton-rally-attending 3rd wave feminist overalls-wearing rape-whistle-distributing tumblrina, would tell you: bruh you gettin played. Ditch the bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 02:46 PM
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It is obvious you will ignore most of the advice here because you "were gonna marry her," and you have a hard time saying NO without feeling guilty. (Btw there is a book about that ... now what was its name?) But maybe meet your ideal self 1/10 the way. Charge her rent. Make her sign a lease. Lease her her own room. And don't stop dating other women.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 02:39 PM
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If things have been going well up to this point, I doubt it was even you or the kid she was upset with (initially). Her mom is probably stirring up old shit in her and it manifested itself in this way. I am not saying a stronger leader wouldn't be immune to such a lashing, but I am saying a weaker woman (or man) is susceptible to caving in to darker emotions. Ignore the attack. If your kid lashed out at you you wouldnt hold it over his head the next day. Bring it back to her bitch mom and lead h…
/r/askMRP14/06/16 02:26 PM
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She is just crying, etc., to get her way. A friend of mine was a Nice Guy during marriage. Post divorce he more or less swallowed the pill and stands up for himself and what he wants with his ex. He is direct, but willing to compromise if the compromise is fair. She reeeeaaly doesnt like that he is no longer under her thumb. She has claimed to him (and others) he is "being mean," controlling, "not over me," etc. Her tactics when a shared custody issue pop up include that she wails in hysterics, …
/r/askTRP17/05/16 03:53 PM
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He thinks everyone expects him to get married and that he has to go through the motions already set. You can try to tell him that no, everyone would rather see a cut off engagement than a divorce in 5 years or worse a miserable shell of a (married) man in 15. You might lose your friendship over this, but if he gets married to this batshit loon you will never see him again anyways. Maybe try to inception it and have a roundabout conversation where he comes to the conclusion on his own. But yeah, …
/r/askTRP17/05/16 03:27 PM
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She had me accepting and listening to her notions until "to a lesser degree men."
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 06:08 PM
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Seriously. As I was reading this I was thinking "what's the problem here?" Coworkers, especially female ones, should know as little about your real life as possible.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:19 PM
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Strike that. Reverse it.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 01:50 PM
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What a fantastic idea. It never occurred to me that this was a thing.
/r/askMRP05/05/16 07:46 PM
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Possible (though unlikely) counter point: was it a shit test present? She knows she half assed it and may be waiting to see if it rattles him that the wittle boy didnt get the big toy fire truck she knows he wants instead. If that is the case then his was a decent response. And at least it isn't some crappy "dad" gadget or other future landfill fill.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 12:30 PM
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Lol @ 'anyone'
/r/askMRP28/04/16 02:11 AM
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Recently divorced 42 year old. I introduced him to red pill philosophies and NMMNG right after his wife served him notice. 6 months on he is unapologetically a single dad who makes it known from the get go that he gives no fucks about potential relationships. He gets most of his dates online and is told his profile seems honest and that he isn't trying. (Girls want the natural) . He is now cut and abbed but not particularly strong or muscular. He is pretty much shameless, as going through a big …
/r/askTRP25/04/16 03:16 PM
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I would not make any jokes about drugs or whatever that could be used as evidence against you. An lol at max.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 05:36 PM
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Society. Religion. Parents. Siblings. Every movie or book or tv show or news source ever. Laws. School. Locker rooms. Friends. This sub.... pick one/all. It is either shamed, scolded, or simply avoided as a topic. The number of places where it is treated as 100% positive all the time can probably be counted on one (sticky) hand.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 02:00 PM
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Or the roommate is exagerating or not relating the jokey nature of it.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 08:45 PM
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Why do you have to work so much at 3 jobs? If you are earning 5x average Joe, wouldn't dropping one still lead to 3x average Joe? It is about quality of life at some point, which it doesnt sound like you will ever acieve. Frankly I assume you're to be a troll post but for the other lurkers reading this here's the diagnosis. Your mention of your "stats" and arbitrary bench marks with this question is odd. You look for validation from others too much: "skinny girls," strangers on the internet (lik…
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:11 PM
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It is OK to be the strong silent(er) type. Mysterious is better than obnoxious.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 02:41 PM
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Two things: 1- take this chick off the pedestal. She had literally everything going for her, and she threw it away. If that doesn't make you lose respect for her, I don't know what would. Even with the 'please' bullshit you are in her frame and giving her 'feelz for free.' Imagine she is a shitty person skating by on her looks, cause now she is. 2- which should really be 1, because it is about you first and foremost... Lay off the drugs mmmkay. They are a wounding crutch.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 02:36 PM
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I was referring to the "i wish you would cheat /pressure" thing as being a comfort test. The "you're an asshole" could be a shit test. Or just an opinion.
/r/askMRP19/04/16 12:31 AM
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You know I never really understood why dressing up was so high on the list. It is the easiest thing to do, willpower- and personality-wise. A hundred bucks and an hour at Marshalls is way easier than learning how to pass shit tests or putting in hours at the gym. But this comment of yours clinched it for me. It is like using a megaphone and a giant spotlight in woman language. They put such energy on shopping and picking out each outfit ('just 5 more minutes... I have nothing to wear!!!!'). For …
/r/askMRP18/04/16 07:32 PM
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Sounds like a comfort test, a borderline nuclear comfort test, if there is such a thing. A similar one is "why don't you just divorce me already?"
/r/askMRP18/04/16 07:19 PM
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Then don't have kids?
/r/askTRP16/04/16 04:33 PM
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I dunno. You technically amplified, but it seems more romantic/lame than it does snarky or clever. It looks like you wrote a lyric for a boy band.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/16 08:01 AM
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Why do you feel you need to? Is she implying/stating that she contributes more to the well being of the family because she does more unpaid chores than you? AA, ignore, AM, or pressureflip is your friend in the short term. Long term is to become so awesome she desires to do as much extra as possible for you, hoping too much is enough.
/r/askMRP15/04/16 05:38 AM
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Gradewise probably best to ignore. This guy may be a weasel. Could you outweasel him by playing a recording to a professor or dean?
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:40 AM
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Is this a real post? It sounds like a modern day "wild and crazy guys" sketch. I know this is fake because the answers are all over this sub and in the sidebar and any genuine person would look for answers with their eyes, not their mouth.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 12:27 PM
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Well you sure told her. Frame and OI is all about lecturing, right?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 01:46 AM
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Women's tennis is alright. Not everything gets won on the serve and the pace is watchable. It is a good game.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:33 AM
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Wait... why isnt shr sleeping in bed with her sister? Even if this bedroom thing wasn't happening she doesn't sound like a great catch.... big drinker, obsessed with entertainment to the point of going to conventions. It has only been 2 months. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 03:09 AM
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I mean if he confided in you, maybe he knows you hold the answers. You could just leave him be or pretend to be busy of course. That is the safe, stressfree version. Or you could really factually lay it out with him, maybe over beers. Say "look, I am in your corner but I cannot support your marriage. I just remember all the times you said she cheated maybe you are over that, and that is fine. But I don't forgive the girl that repeatedly cheated on my friend, and I won't go to her wedding."
/r/askTRP29/03/16 03:00 AM
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It took me a while, but i think the story is that both the guy and the girl offer to pay. The cashier takes the girl's card, and the girl seems shocked by it.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/16 04:28 AM
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I love this idea. Truly my takeaway today that I will remember. I guess i have been living it but to see it written out so simply... it's like the best frame there is. You can be honest, straightforward, and unintimidated in every situation. Act like people are rooting for you, even when they aren't. Situation 1: "get the fuck out," relax ladies, this bottle can't be corked so give it a moment or get ready to slip on the floor. "Eww gross!" Right?!? Situation 2: "god bless son," already was
/r/askTRP18/03/16 08:59 PM
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Is this someone from buzzfeed trying to write a column?
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:50 PM
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Like the moon around the earth or the planets around the sun... just hanging out in gravity.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:48 PM
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Hang in there dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 07:55 AM
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This is a troll account. Ignore.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:42 AM
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Just be seen with her during the night. Preselection.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:39 AM
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I think you (non)answered the texts fine enough. "Logistics only" as they say. You owe her no explanations, sleeping or not. It was almost like a text message mini main event from her and you did not engage too much. What was your goal with this relationship? Were you striving for something or just passing time? I am not even sure you are broken up, and neither is she. My suspicion is that in a day or three she will wonder as well and start texting you again. What do you want to happen? Some are…
/r/askMRP17/03/16 10:37 AM
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It is also because your dry spell was longer than hers. Thus, for a moment, she felt shame.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 01:05 PM
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So much effort...
/r/askTRP13/03/16 10:49 PM
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Whatever you end up doing, I would add a little teasing to it. Call him private Mario. Ask him how is it going rescuing the princess. "Another Busy night fighting donkey kong?" Etc.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 02:44 PM
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She is practically streisanding herself with that fb post.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 02:02 PM
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You have to call him out in writing for the papertrail
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:23 PM
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Treadmill 5-15 minutes, then stretch, then workout
/r/askTRP09/03/16 05:56 PM
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I dunno. How out of shape are you? How long does it take you to read and absorb things? Again, the real answer is it doesn't matter. In theory you will never stop improving. But practically speaking, it is how much you put into it. Can you go to the gym 3 times a week? Can you read/listen to a book a week? Can you get out there and socialize, practice talking to strangers.. STRANGERS in all situations pretty regularly? All this takes time. If you are a business owner you are already pretty taxed…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:44 PM
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You're hopeless. Everyone here is saying "don't." You keep rationalizing why it could work . The real "redpill,"answer is this: who cares about her. There are thousands of other women. Make yourself so hot, so independent, so alpha that she throws herself at you. Of course, if the transformation is successful, you won't really care if you get her then, either, because so many other quality women will be doing the same. I would wish you luck, but you don't need it. You need a lawyer. Maybe 2 of t…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:58 PM
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You are new. It is so hard to finally see there is a whole world out there that shares your struggle and sees things for what they really are. And it stirs feelings in you. Confusion . Shame. Outrage. These emotions can be so strong, especially the anger and want for justice that you want to engage and explain. Because now that you have looked inward you know you could destroy your wife in an argument. But words... Even winning words... Mean nothing to that woman. When you get the urge to say so…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 03:49 PM
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"When I was younger I sort of had an accident at my first job at the taffy factory."
/r/askTRP08/03/16 03:15 PM
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As her direct superior you are setting yourself up for a magnificent lawsuit. Just leave work an hour earlier twice a week so you can meet some strangers.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 03:12 PM
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I wouldn't speak to her privately at all. First of all, nothing she does warrants any of your private time or perceived precognition. Secondly, do it in the open, in front of other workers (not customers). If she knows it is private, she will share her interpretation with anyone else... and it won't be the version that transpired. The "Your sounding like my boss" quip is a good one. Channel your Han Solo... "Sorry Princess" "I would your magesty, but bossman told me to be here." The polite tactf…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:46 PM
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You know what? I'm ok with it. "Black" seems to get added to "Black Dude" or "Big Black Woman" to add an extra bit of threat and unrelatable differences. I mean it is racist, but I get the meaning people imply. But if we're going in that direction, adding "White" in the middle of "Tall Girl" does make her seem more self-privileged and bitchy.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:36 PM
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Honestly as an econ fan I am enjoying thinking about the converse of this and how true it is. "It's not your money. It's just your turn with it."
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 10:40 PM
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There is beauty and simplicity in this response.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 10:33 PM
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Phone calls for inquiries are less valuable than a personal visit. You could phone and ask when the manager is more available to receive visitors, but get in front of them in person. They can size you up way better and quite instantly. Even if they aren't hiring they will keep your resume, which they won't do by phone. Many bars and restaurants have high turnover so it might not take so long.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 01:52 PM
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Stop smoking.
/r/askMRP03/03/16 09:43 AM
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A simple "seriously? "/look is all that is required, if anything. You should be able to power through this. If revenge is your game, you could go all victimy and report to management that there is a hostile environment here and that you want your membership fees back. That is what they would tell you on r/relationships. But seriously you got 15 years on these babies. Act like it.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 03:01 PM
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Honestly I see it differently now than I used to. "What about mah soulmayeeeete?" has been replaced with my respect for a process that has worked for millennia. Not saying I want it, but I get it. Biologically and for childrearing, man and wife are not supposed to be BFFs. They are supposed to be boinking and playing for the same team. Edit: i didnt really offer any advice, just my opinion as a westerner. Maybe ask some of your arranged married cousins or uncles.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 02:24 PM
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It was explained as dumping inactive/throwaway accounts.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 02:18 PM
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It is pretty foolish not to get to know neighbors to a degree. If you just got here and this guy has been here for decades, you might learn a bit about the area and its resources. Maybe he has got an ulterior motive to sell you a marina slip and it sounds like you will not only be well on guard for that, you can relish shutting him down and then post about your alpha moment here. Maybe he just wants to get to know and welcome the new neighbors because, up until pretty recently, that is the kind …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 07:17 PM
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You are confusing beautiful with attractive or magnetic.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:41 AM
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Your kids just want to be near you, it almost doesnt matter doing what. Going to parks and playgrounds can be a fun way to socialize with other parents and let your toddler become independent. If you dont want to hang out with other parents or play with them (do some pullups on the jungle gym while you are at it) you can always just read a book while they play. My kids love errands. Sure it takes longer but doing mundane shit like going to the supermarket can be awesome with little kids. That sh…
/r/askMRP27/02/16 09:24 PM
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I think he means the climbing wall is st the company hq
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 03:29 PM
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Wait you are an intern who gets commission? Is it the same commission as a regular employee? (Physical) Publishing is straight up dying. This guy (or his supervisors) may be posturing with some unrealistic, unmeetable expectations simply as a ruse to hide the fact that the whole company is rearranging deck chairs on the titanic. Their business model is probably unaustainable currently without lots of interns and very few employees.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:37 AM
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The red flag is the kid not the tat. The tattoo was probably impulsive at the time.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 03:26 AM
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No your time is too valuable. You could tell her this and ask what she wants to offer in exchange. If it is something like homemade pie or cooked supper or something else that requires effort from her then do it. If it is "a date with me!" or "a kiss!" Or "we'll see 😉" Fuck off. That shit isnt even worth it. Oh and dont hope for the fantasy. She wont offer a bj.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 12:59 AM
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Acta non verba. Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 11:16 PM
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Why wouldn't they fall in love with you? You are the prize!
/r/askTRP25/02/16 08:37 PM
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Exactly. The spatulous device for abrasing a surface doesn't like being called a spade.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 03:32 PM
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Or a street magician.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 06:40 AM
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Go to a good fashionable hair salon that has a lot of male clients. Ask them.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 06:17 AM
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K
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 05:30 AM
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Red Pill is the truth behind the indoctrined system. The red pill you are probably referring to is the single guy's lifestyle/sexual road map. This is the red pill for married guys. There is probably a red pill for everything from dating strategies to government conspiracies to choices of watercolor paint brushes. This room ain't the choir you should be preaching to.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 03:47 AM
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You realize you are in Married Red Pill right? Almost everyone here has chosen commitment and most of those want to honor the monogamy implied with it. Some don't. Some shouldn't. But the ideal situation for a lot of people here is to stay married while optimizing themselves and by extension their family. With the right type of woman and the right work by the man, it is possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 03:34 AM
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r/marriedredpill is probably for you
/r/askTRP21/02/16 12:44 AM
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Or live in (gasp) an uncool neighborhood
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 12:23 AM
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If the attorney that is paid for by your student fee refuses you because you are male, that is cha-ching city.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 12:17 AM
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Your university may have a student legal services resource. It should be free to consult there
/r/askTRP20/02/16 05:23 PM
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You are really self aware and humble. That is a great position to launch from.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 05:20 PM
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Well make a point of dousing her hands in Purel when she firsts arrives whenever you see her for sure.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 01:14 AM
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Tell her to sue her boss for sexual harassment. See what her reaction is.
/r/askMRP18/02/16 04:40 PM
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The official stance of RedPill (tm) is on the docket for RedPillCon '16 in Reno this spring. There will be several round table and panel discussions, then a member vote. Ask again after then.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 04:40 AM
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Tubes are no big deal. Even when they put the kid under things are back to normal (better actually!) After 2 hours. A couple ear drops and maybe a day or two of kiddie Advil.
/r/askMRP14/02/16 01:48 AM
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I know whst you are talking about. This is the closest one i could find. http://www.thejokeyard.com/sexist_jokes/shopping_for_a_husband.html But i think there is version that has the mens store and they all get off at the first floor which is "likes sex"
/r/askTRP14/02/16 01:43 AM
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Look, i feel for you man. If you are sad about it it means there are good things to remember. There are many guys, maybe even in this thread, who would be happy in your position because they have grown to detest their wives and their lives. Be glad you are sad. Take it in. Ideally sober, out of respect for yourself and the process. But do as you can. Good luck.
/r/askMRP13/02/16 12:18 AM
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Wow she got her friend to message you? Well you got her hamster going. You also know you were dealing with mentally 12 year old. A lot of posters are saying you aren't alpha enough. It is probably true, (and it is probably true if most people). But some girls especially young ones getting thousands of matches and validation fron tinder are just so wrapped up in themselves that they are horrible people to be around. Do you really want to be the one to bring her back to earth? Good for you for get…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 02:04 PM
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Half the people telling you to "accept it" probably had their parents install braces on their teeth when they were kids. But as you won't likely raise the money til after you graduate, keep on lifting and practicing talking to people and everything else. Otherwise you will be 25, finally "hung", and still be awkward as fuck.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:51 PM
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Everyone else has said any advice i would offer about the relationship. .. but your career? You act like there is only one job for someone with a chemistry degree, and that you have it and it sucks. There are companies all over the world from meaningful nonprofits to gigantic inhuman megaprofits that need chemists. And fuck chemistry, any job needing someone with a technical ability (which is actually what your degree says), from investment banking to Google to b2b sales to marketing departments…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 12:58 AM
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Yes you need to improve as a man FOR YOURSELF. No, you do not need a relationship with this woman. Do so only if you want kids very very badly in the next year or so. Otherwise. .. abundance mentality. Consider getting your ring back. You didn't say your age. May i guess 27? 26? Fiancee sounds prewall, but just
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:17 PM
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His email address seems pretty unanonymous as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:13 PM
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Exactly. From handyman shit to straight up contracting. Easy ways to start: post Ads on Craig's list. Go find other contractors and see if they need day laborers. Take pictures of the stuff you did in your house for a portfolio. Good luck.
/r/askMRP11/02/16 04:58 AM
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The best dread is when you are just being you and someone else gets witnessed giving you IOIs. You didn't try to get the girl's number. You didn't hide it after you got it. You acted like it was no big deal. All the sudden wifey sees that you have value to someone else, therefore you have value to her. Perfection.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 03:46 PM
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It is sad like finding out the truth about Santa Claus is sad. Yeah some magic you were told about when you were younger is gone. But ultimately you have more control over your own destiny. Now you can go to the toy store and buy whatever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 01:28 PM
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Talk to your lawyer first. She has threatened/mentioned suicide twice. She is not right in the head and she was like that before you found her. You need to minimize you and your kids exposure to this lady. I mean maybe it is the way you are writing it, but she seems pet-rabbit-in-a-pot crazy
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 05:10 PM
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I borrowed the whole james bond box set from my in laws. I have been watch it while folding laundry. Also podcasts during chores/driving : bill burr is fantastic, and there are hundreds of them archived.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 06:25 PM
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You asked her.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 02:48 PM
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It is high school. They are both customers.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 01:59 PM
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Cool good luck
/r/askTRP05/02/16 12:09 AM
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There are no hb10s. The fact that she is on facebook proved she is not one. That said, how bad is agreeing with it? It doesnt really compromise you as you are laughing at the idea that it could be possible. You say her questio is entitled. Is it? Her very statement is not a dis but a recognition of reality. She has put herself in a submissive state just by asking it. AM : "Lol right? impossible!" Or the challenge " you could try friday." But I dont know that you need to dis.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 07:52 PM
2

I love the bit about Schroedinger's shit test.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 06:03 PM
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You just described a lesbian friend i know
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:59 AM
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Leaving your phone at home is relativley passive. In fact it is a recommended strategy here in many previous posts by "top friends" or whatever for a bunch of reasons. All i am adding to that is a method to check if anyone is trying to snoop on you. Because, as mentioned in many previous FRs... if she is interested in the new you, she WILL try to snoop. May as well know about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 03:20 PM
1

I dont know what you mean by time clock. I think what I wrote must be unclear to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 03:11 PM
1

He thinks the system isn't working for him. And we ALL look for signs it working. Whether it is taking note of how much sex we are having or noticing if other girls are giving IOIs, or measuring bicep growth... it is a form of validation of personal effort. Asking "am I a good boy?" is bad. But using tools at your disposal to check how things are doing? Maybe not for double secret pro Alpha, but it's alright for the beginner.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 04:13 AM
1

James Bond. The older ones, anyways.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 03:56 AM
0

The point of the phone is to confirm for him that AWALT and that her hamster wheel is spinning. When he gets the notice that there were 29 attempts to get in it will be some third party validation of the dread and of giving her a little of the drama she needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 03:51 AM
2

" some of it works on the wife..." it is not for working on your wife. It is for working on you. With anyone. It gives you a skill and mindset for being the best, most marketable man you can be.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 02:59 AM
1

Next time dont say where. Just pleasantly get up and go. It will be so hard not to tell her where you are going. But don't. "Out" or "for a drive" or "to be productive" or "to enjoy myself" or "to comparison shop shetland ponies" are all ok responses, as is nothing. "Forget" your phone at home with a locked pin and get one of those free apps that takes a pic every time someone enters the wrong code. And enjoy your night.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 02:56 AM
10

This post is all over the place. Subject: women have value. Body: keep emotional opinions that make you sound like an asshole to yourself, a lesson which possibly a woman taught you but also could be from elsewhere; by the way hookers, books, and business experience might also be involved in misogyny and lessons. See how hard that last sentence was to read? And that was still more clear and focused than this post. Do women have value? Does anyone? The purpose of MRP is to give YOU value. Specifi…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 03:18 PM
1

Well, at least you got some free food out of it.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 06:23 AM
1

Save the really specific critiques like that for the anonymous course review at the end. Her department head will see it at least.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 04:07 PM
1

It is the first time i have heard it. I await the chance to use it!
/r/askTRP30/01/16 03:21 PM
1

You don't answer. "Stfu"
/r/askMRP30/01/16 03:16 PM
2

Does she try to involve you at the bar with her friends? Or are you just the sober taxi?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 02:00 PM
2

Are you in the US? They sell paternity kits in the the drugstore. Probably leaving the box on the counter is enough to get your answer
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 01:54 PM
2

A bigoted patriarchal whatever she said would be that you ignore the older ones completely and stick to the young twenty somethings. But you provide opportunity to and see some vakue in even the older, over twenty set. Make sure you mention older or over 20 at least twice for maximum wall impact.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 05:31 AM
1

Shit I am owning: Gym/Fitness. I am gym-tastic 2-3 times per week plus I am on two team sports that meet 1-2 times. The wife has actually expressed jealousy and admiration of the new muscles and trimmed sides. (I had some jiggly handles. They are half gone). Putting up new PRs in the gym. I may have to switch gyms soon as I have maxxed out my rows and presses with the dumbbell weights they have. This week my wife has (re)started to do her exercise videos and enrolled in a spinning class! Sex*
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 09:15 PM
2

Every time he have seen an angry boss it looks pathetic to me. Don't seem mad. Seem disappointed.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 08:32 PM
3

You can go on snorkeling tours there
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:41 PM
4

It now has a corral reef blooming off it.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 04:51 PM
11

Nice. She will accuse you of being angry. You are not. You simply have better things to do with your time.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 03:39 PM
3

Alpha is not letting other people's emotions get to you. You think (insert actor's name) is really a (insert pathetic character role)? Acting!
/r/askTRP28/01/16 02:03 PM
5

Cholomite pretty much summed it up. You need to shut up more. Your arguments and logic are pretty sound, but that all she receives is "he is saying something so my opinion is correct and worth engaging." On the off chance she actually listens to you, all she interprets is "he is saying something different than what i feel so he is wrong." But you are doing better than last week's whiney posts. Keep putting in the work in your body and mentality. It can take a long time to unfuck your situation, …
/r/askMRP28/01/16 02:15 AM
1

"Reward" or "barter" sex feels off even to the most preredpill guy. It is recognizing that type of pattern and being disgusted by it that lead me to the pill. (I think my search terms were 'dead bedroom choreplay' or some such). The logician in you finally puts together that : A stranger can exchange money for back rubs. Back rubs can be exchanged for sex. Ergo... And the whole thing feels disgusting. Sex should be its own thing and have no exchange rate. The only thing it should be traded for i…
/r/askMRP28/01/16 01:40 AM
5

Frame is not against anybody: family, girls, bosses. It is FOR YOURSELF! You want a clean house. Clean it. If you don't want to be talked to like you are a small child (and, presuming you were not acting like one), don't tolerate it. Or AA. If you carry yourself with self respect and self determination and outcome independence, it will be noticed and respected (eventually?). Try not to be a dick if you can avoid it, as it can be confused as butthurt.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 09:00 PM
1

Now I can't tell if you're sarcastic!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 02:45 PM
4

Weak! You just rhymed times with times.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 05:48 PM
6

Oh shit did you lose your purse?!
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:24 PM
3

Red white and blue knighting
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:41 PM
4

Did other bouncer get fired?
/r/askTRP26/01/16 07:33 AM
2

Or she'll see him at the mall. Or in class. Or at a bar. Or at church. You gotta be the best option for a girl to stay with you. Fwiw, that is really hard to be as an ldr.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 10:02 PM
1

Screen shot everything on that family s Facebook. Amass a list of witnesses. Lawyer the fuck up.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 09:38 PM
2

Screen shot everything on that family s Facebook. Amass a list of witnesses. Lawyer the fuck up.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 09:37 PM
2

Screen shot everything on that family s Facebook. Amass a list of witnesses. Lawyer the fuck up.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 09:37 PM
3

You keep writing for advice on all these (potential) interactions. Have you read the sidebar material and all the top posts on the main sub? Most of your questions would be answered by internalizing all that stuff.
/r/askMRP24/01/16 02:22 AM
3

You still need to work on yourself. Married (or committed ltr i guess) red pill has been called red pill on hard mode. Because you have given your commitment, the one chip you have, you have to work even harder at frame control and tests, all while being responsible and using 'next' as the ultimate last resort. So yeah, like the other guy said... stop being a pussy.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:23 PM
1

Diary?
/r/askTRP23/01/16 02:27 AM
3

but yeah I'm all in on moving on and not looking back Attaboy. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 01:12 AM
6

Not fuck that guy. Fuck you. You have a bad attitude and a ridiculous covert contract with the girl/society.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 11:55 PM
6

"Why aren't you changing your sheets this time?" Meh, I only got a 6.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:09 PM
2

Holding frame, amused mastery, outcome independence... Bugs Bunny. Losing frame, hamstering, need for chronic validation... Daffy Duck.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 01:46 PM
1

He called you a midget? Holy 1976 insult. "I think the correct term these days is 'Not an insecure douche canoe who tries to insult people when entering a room'" i mean think it, dont say that. Or do. Whatevs. Edit "is midget even an acceptable word to use these days? I think it is dwarf or little person depending on the type of genetic difference. Did you know that in the original willy wonka....etc" is probably a workplace safe powerplay
/r/askTRP19/01/16 04:33 PM
1

R/relationships and probably most compassionate people would suggest that you nudge her to a Dr or therapist. Do you think her mental problems will just get better with time? Possibly. Girls with eating disorders and body image issues that "solve themselves with maturity" usually start in the teens and end by 20-23. This isnt a "red pill problem." A red pill problem is something that can be solved by changing something in YOU. Your internal change then inspires/motivates/"hamsters" change in oth…
/r/askMRP19/01/16 04:24 PM
1

Probably be more effective given her insecurities. But why would you want an ltr (you are in Mrp) with someone with such a complex? It is probably paired with other severe mental/body harming issues. Abundance mentality... there is quality out there.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 05:58 AM
2

Don't confuse harsh, honest, and blunt with hostile. "What are you talking about?!I am not yelling at you!" "But it feels like it"
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 05:48 AM
1

Pregnant when teen single mom with special needs child. That is some serious baggage at that age. Unless that is some unicorn level lady (she's probably not) Honestly OP should probably cut and run. He probably got drawn in conviced that he woukd be "manning up" and doing the "responsible thing." Op be selfish. Get out. She'll call you all sorts of hell spawn but fuck that. Her mistakes are not your problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 09:44 PM
4

She obviously seems old school/old world. You could threaten her. But whatever your threat is you better be ready to deliver.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 02:36 AM
4

Not to dismiss the rest of your story, but it is not a win against your wife. It is a win FOR you against (the former? Alternate universe? Lazy?) you.
/r/askMRP18/01/16 01:58 AM
2

2 possibilities . 1 - it is true. For a man to be demonstrably superior in any way is attractive, be it lifting weights or doing the best in jeopardy. 2- it is not (fully) true. It sounds "better" and more modern to be attracted to a mind then to a body. People exaggerating to seem like better people on Facebook? That is pretty much the whole point of facebook.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 04:35 AM
3

Sorry bro. Best of luck
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 06:34 AM
1

Club soda
/r/askTRP15/01/16 03:16 PM
5

you shave it off now and I'll have sex with you tonight She is trying flat out using sex a medium of exchange. But tough tities, it is a fiat currency, valued only if both parties agree it has transactional value. She can pump out more Starfish Bucks out of her pussy willy nilly. And you can devalue those clam clams to Zimbabeban Dollars. Economics 101: abundance mentality means that her pussy may be rare, but it is not scarce.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 01:23 AM
2

I am/was sort of like you. Skinnier and in an "intellectual" set that doesnt (actively) pine for the physical over mental. But I have been gyming it for a few months now and don't regret the time one bit. My wife points out my gains and squat-built butt, even though I dont really see them. Couple three thoughts: Physicality not as prized... which will make you exotic in your social circle. I guarantee you if you got even a little visibly bigger things would happen. And things happening is good. …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 12:48 AM
1

Dude, you obviously haven't been in an LTR. (I guess that's a good thing?) Anyways, minute shit or comments from YEARS ago can be dragged out of their purses when it suits them, even if they assured you at the time the matter was settled. "We have the same argument over and over again." That doesn't happen with a logical brain, or a mind that accepts conclusion.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 09:01 PM
7

I get antsy if i go more than 3 days without moving something heavy. Like my body is saying "dude i gotta push something!" I used to have back pain a lot, especially while sleeping . No more.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 03:14 PM
1

Ohhhh! That explains all the fat runners i see in my neighborhood!
/r/askMRP13/01/16 03:00 PM
0

While she is at the mirror, stay low to the ground and sneak up behind her. Stay crouched until she turns around and inevitably freaks out. Casually hide ingredients or food prep stuff she has put on the counter. Go to hold hands in public. Deposit trash such as gum wrappers in her hand. Raspberries. Butt crack showing? My finger's going down it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 05:57 AM
2

You are probably at the right place for now.. the "cardio gym." You gotta dump the fat, which means running/spinning/eliptical/rowing. Your diet is in check. Stop buying shit food and, you didn't mention it, but try to stop drinking. You'll probably drop 5 pounds a week with a modicum of self control. Do weights one day, and cardio the next. You'll be all set until you need to "refine" much later on. Even those shit gyms (I am in one too. It's almost next door and open 24 hours which is perfect …
/r/askMRP12/01/16 08:52 PM
1

Why did she tell you to shut up though? Like if you were saying some inappropriate stuff, yeah you should shut up. In this case maybe if your peabrain could filter your gigantic mouth then this wouldnt happen. However If you were being "uppity"( in her mind) or trying to get your reasonable point across calmly and respectfully, then yes she is out of line.
/r/askMRP12/01/16 06:54 PM
1

Will she meet be the one to meet your "eventual" sexual needs or will you just stifle your sexual needs so you dont have them (as much) anymore. Dread is her fearing you will meet your sexual needs elsewhere. What you are explicitly telling her that you are just going to be less sexual, that your diminished sex drive isn't because you find her the lesser option. That she is helping you by turning you down from now on. There is a power play there... that her pussy no longer calls the shots for th…
/r/askMRP12/01/16 06:49 PM
2

Yeah what is the end goal here? Do you know it? Does your wife know the end goal? Abstaining from bad sex or bad "terms" of sex is good. But what is your strategy for encouraging good sex? Are you giving up porn as well in this 90 day experiment?
/r/askMRP12/01/16 04:26 PM
1

Didn't "he" get outted as a troll each thread he created? There is no way that was a real person's experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 02:22 AM
2

Practice. Everything.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 10:08 AM
1

Boundaries. Practice saying no.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 10:40 PM
3

Act locally if you really want to make a visible difference... Neighborhood groups, local commerce boosters and social support, etc. When "tbtb" make every region and country the same, all we will be left with is our local communities.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:13 PM
1

Me too!
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:09 PM
1

Maybe he should rely on himself for files? Or is it like a group project thing
/r/askTRP06/01/16 09:31 PM
1

Just wondering if rallying the troops behind the scenes is an option, or if you do stand up to king dick, will the other villagers rejoice or be scared. My (evil, shitty , ideally in the past )nature is to mock the shit out of someone. Make up a dumb but sort of accurate voice for someone and always use it when referring to them. You can be direct if needed. "Hey dude you are stupid. " "Derrrrr hey dooode y'are stooopid--- that is you." But i dunno your particulars. Good luck. Post with your res…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:21 PM
1

Are you solid with the rest of the gang on a one to one level? How does he compare there?
/r/askTRP06/01/16 06:49 PM
2

So wait... is it rape or harassment? If the former, get a lawyer/student legal services. If the latter, it could be ok to meet. She will likely confront you with "backup," a friend who believes her. Consider your own backup/witness. Record that shit, regardless of legality. I am not sure i would mention your previous accusation.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:00 PM
3

This + "plus my emojis are better in person"
/r/askTRP06/01/16 02:44 AM
1

No offence taken. Aunt Cheryl... we used to call her Cunt Aheryl.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:07 PM
2

The reaaon it is all over the place is because you should be reading everything all over the place. There is no quick fix. And even if there was it wouldn't have the same impact. Want the cliffs notes? Here it is. Go to the gym. Put yourself first.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:34 PM
1

Stop whining. The difference between you and "the naturals," is you have perspective, and know first hand how sucky the other side feels. That is extra motivation. Getting your shit together is hard work. But like anything, the more hard work you put into something, the easier and more "natural" it becomes. If you aren't up for the challenge, then mediocrity may be in your future. But never think that you can't. And never think that you shouldn't try. Get to work.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:28 PM
4

Sidebar dude. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:01 PM
3

"Hey! / 'sup / polite wave / acknowledgement nod" then go do your shit.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 05:02 PM
3

Drink more water, eat less sugar.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:20 PM
2

Well you gotta play the role you are auditioning for. If you recognize a role as being already somewhere on the red blue spectrum, you already know the traits and body language to incorporate appropriately. If it is not defined, and you want to make him RP, then act that part... gestures, smirks, pauses etc. It might come off heavy handed so be careful.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 12:30 AM
3

Next. Or spank her for being bad and wasting your time. Anything in between isn't worthwhile.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 06:13 PM
13

So all your info about this is coming from one source, a college freshman girl you bang? Are you sure she is not making shit up for the drama?
/r/askTRP03/01/16 05:56 AM
2

People are at home for the holidays. Watch it go up in a month
/r/askTRP03/01/16 05:50 AM
4

I was fucking fed up with the dead bedroom in my life and the pattern of girlfriends becoming disinterested in me sexually. I googled (or reddit searched maybe ) some combination words which included "choreplay dead bedroom desire" and ended up on a married red pill thread. And read. All. Night.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 05:41 PM
3

Your text exchange is decent. But nexting is next.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 04:47 AM
1

Good answer to my question.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 05:36 AM
2

"Alpha vs. Alpha"... Are there any alphas in strip clubs? Like other than the ones working there? That shit is literally on a mirrored, black-lit pedestal with a cover charge.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 04:29 AM
3

Even the 'before' pic is inspiring
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 04:35 PM
2

Hey the truest alpha isn't on advice boards on the internet. This guy needs all the information he can get. And regarding information, if one is seriously considering a split up (which arguably is the highest dread/dgaf level), gathering information (cell phone activity , gps tracking, financials, etc) is probably good to have.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 03:44 PM
8

Keep it up OP and you will be on Jerry Springer. This girl and her family are trashy. Sidenote- gotta love devout christian fucking up society by drug dealing.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 01:22 PM
3

We dont know if tom is doing better. He might have been hearing all day long about OP and had the same realization OP is about to have.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 01:17 PM
8

You say talking overtly is pussy shit, when in fact it is covert contracts that is pussy shit. (I send her pics so maybe she will send me one of her). If we are going to go there, frankly texting too much in general is pussy shit. If you are going to use the medium, use it to its full potential. It is ok to tell someone what to do with words by text. Have you tried your version of "send me a naughty pic" or the more vague "i want a preview of later"
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 10:03 AM
8

I want to thank you for contribution yesterday, as it sculpted my today. At about noon today i discovered I was the last in our house to get a relatively mild and predictable but nonetheless annoying and "evident" stomach bug. And of course it happens during the day when i am supposed to be sleeping to rest up for a night shift. Old me would have been pathetic and looking for sympathy and wallowing in my bed. But this post was fresh in my mind. I purposefully did a better job with the kids baths…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 04:05 AM
5

You cant push your ideology on anyone, even if you are convinced you are doing the guy a favor. You know how you feel when religious nuts knock on your door? You are them right now.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:27 AM
6

It is ok to have your own standards and codes and preferences. If you don't want to be "that guy," you can still be "your own man." Abundance mentality means that you get to be choosy... whether that means "no brunettes," or "no drunks," or "no married women stepping out on their men," it is up to you.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:26 AM
2

What makes you think i would let you fuck me?
/r/askTRP26/12/15 08:19 PM
6

Well first of all, you are racist. Second of all, assume a chicks have been with dudes with both bigger schlongs and smaller wienies than yours. You have her in the bed with you at that moment. Own that.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 02:08 AM
7

I hate tattoos, but you are ridiculous.it is like saying your barber, dentist, or colonoscopy tech has some sort of long term power over you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 02:06 AM
1

Pretty sure all comedians are on reddit. They have to be looking for inspiration and feedback from others and it os a pretty anonymous way to do so
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 02:04 AM
1

"Mommy makeover" Ugh. You gotta spend years at the gym to accomplish a bump that occurs overnight for someone undergoing thus procedure... it is such a shortcut. But also one that smells of self esteem issues of someone at that age. What next... a neck pull? Botox? If she really wants it and you say no, you need to justify it as natural is good. You dont want to be married to Michael Jackson. Encourage cardio and chest exercises. Oh and by the way gravity defying fake tits look bizarre on women …
/r/askMRP23/12/15 12:03 AM
3

I think your lessons 1 and 3 are not valid based on your field report, but you nailed 2 and 4. You didn't come across as an independent fun person. You came across as an entitled insecure prick. Maybe just stick to "optimistic logistics" next time.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 05:28 PM
0

There may be a slight like really slight similarity from ancient times among those who ate / drank milk built from nutrients available at different parts of the seasons... if fatty foods or fresh water weren't available because you were a winter baby or some shit like that or maybe first solid memories occurred in a particular season... but in modern times all you need to know is that girls who believe in that are a little lower on the intellect ladder.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:54 PM
7

"TRP" doesn't advocate for anyone. It's not like there's there's a "we" much less a political bloc. That said, regardless of politics, you must admit he acting as if he is in control of his own self. A good parallel is this: http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/ Watch that video. RT says that guy is probably a shitbag, but one must admire his zenlike DGAF attitude. (direct video link) https://youtu.be/xc0CB6URrV0
/r/askTRP19/12/15 07:11 PM
0

Good example. I guess it is in my male head that all these actions approach the asymtote of physical sex because physical affection must be my love language. For me it is hard to imagine a situation "oh Jesus they are fucking... what next... presents?!?" than the other way around, but I admit it could exist.... especially for women for whom finding and getting sex is literally easier than finding and getting someone to give them home baked cookies.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:53 PM
-2

Fair enough. But don't you think some of the anger would come from the implication/expectation of eventual escalation from emotional to physical?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:25 PM
-2

... because it is dread of physical intimacy with others
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 03:42 PM
5

Your car story, while entertaining, is the story of BetaBux getting back in line after his little "pretend" rebellion.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 01:36 PM
1

One thing i did right occasionally even in my more bp days was make receiving a present a challenge... sort of like scavengerhunt meets game show. She had to answer clues or rely on chance to get/win assorted stuff... little stuff like a cd or lottery scratchem or panties or even the birthday cake itself . The chase and uncertainty gets the emotions/hamster going right away. The best part which i realize now is the subtext... that, as the 'gamemaker,' you construct the entire ruleset and the gif…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 05:28 AM
8

Eh, I have known some dudes who do the same thing.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:13 AM
3

"Plus, a cumberbun just gets in the way"
/r/askTRP07/12/15 06:04 PM
2

"Yep I sure am aging well!" "Loreal scientists have been begging me for my secrets!" Etc etc
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:57 PM
1

Once i moved here i found i didnt need one everyday so I skipped it.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:49 PM
2

Holy shit! That is not 'sick,' that is near death injury.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:31 AM
1

Haha so instead of choosing something simple and established like the boston tea party or even complicated and established like invention of birth control pill, you "went there." Good luck, muschachos.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 03:41 PM
2

That Photoshop line is great. A healthy mind would even take it as a compliment.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 03:12 PM
3

All of the above. Plus there is the whole "why are you choosing to be different, you think you are better than me? " insecurity thing. You see the same rage against people who make certain other dietary or social choices.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 02:55 PM
8

There are lots of retail/temp jobs just for the holidays.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 03:36 PM
3

Radio , podcasts, enjoy silence with mind in calm balance as god intended
/r/askTRP29/11/15 05:58 PM
1

Is that a hickey? "I guess it could be. Huh i didn't notice before. "
/r/askTRP29/11/15 04:35 PM
-1

"I am not sure i know you well enough for that"
/r/askTRP27/11/15 01:20 PM
1

Who cares? Why do you even keep getting back with this person?
/r/askTRP26/11/15 02:31 PM
9

"Ask me again later tonight"
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:14 PM
2

Well any time the police get called on you it is sort of give-a-shit worthy. Are you sure it wasn't coincidence and that she went to the other Starbucks or something?
/r/askTRP22/11/15 11:44 AM
6

You don't. Why do you have to? She wants everyone's attention and effort. There is no need to give her any of yours.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 11:36 AM
2

Did you also buy her flowers when you agreed to her mandate, to show her how much of a good idea you think this is?? I hope she picked out a good room for you.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 04:41 AM
5

It's a shit test. A more grown up version of the "are you a player?" Good for you for holding frame after the first challenge. That was a great comeback. Did you lose it a bit after the second? It didn't seem like the door slammed on you, but she's a hottie, and has doubtlessly had every line on her. Talk is cheap to her, so she claims (right now). Are you solid enough? I think you just need to be more awesome, and it might be a long game. I would imagine if she saw you with some other girl it m…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 01:05 AM
2

"needing only a couple years to finish my degree" is way easier to actually finish at 22 than 32. Get a degree. If you ever decide to move to another country or find yourself needing to do temporary office work, a degree, especially in a science, puts you at extreme advantages.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:38 PM
8

You can even spend less than 20$ and get some generic business cards. "freelance work for events" implies that jobs are irregular. It also could mean everything from promoter or entertainer to waiter or dishwasher.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:34 PM
25

Single moms at first are hot for any sort of action. But eventually they search for/try to make a betabux. The exception might be if she has a very favorable alimony settlement and settling down with someone else might adversely affect her high payout. But even then, her instincts will urge her to get a guy to try to boss around. Plus if you ever do meet the kids, you might develop feelings for them making it harder to stick to strategy.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 02:03 PM
4

Private browsing, alternate accounts... allotta guys in here probably used to hide porn activity in the "old them" days, so that aspect is sadly second nature to a lot of us. I have guy i chat with about relationshippy things on my phone and I delete every single text from him. Also, i make sure our tablet 'forgets' the terms askmrp, marriedredpill or what have you if i ever see it in autofill.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 07:46 PM
1

Touché
/r/askMRP18/11/15 06:57 PM
1

"You are going to wear that while putting up the wreath?"
/r/askMRP18/11/15 01:31 AM
2

I feel like maybe it could be, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 12:53 AM
2

She might feel sore. She might feel unclean/stubbly or have/want to prevent an infection. Or she might just really like giving hummers.
/r/askMRP17/11/15 06:13 PM
3

I think it depends on the size of the department/company. A few dozen: steer clear. Three downtown skyscrapers with the company logo on them, go nuts EDIT : I'd still go out of the department/off floor
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:38 AM
1

Dude the boob job thing is ridiculous. You arent attracted to your wife cause she has become a nasty lazy shrew, not because her tits aren't in tip top shape . You'd just be buying them for Chad anyways.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 09:27 PM
1

The bountiful colourful metaphors on this subreddit are worth the time, even if one weren't into RP
/r/askMRP14/11/15 10:17 PM
1

O wouldnt even specify "Good times." If anything, "yes i remember that" is all. But best action before divorce is ignore
/r/askMRP14/11/15 10:10 PM
2

Work on yourself. The rest will come. When you stop giving a shit about what other people think, you will notice their attitudes often change. And if someone's attitude doesn't change, you will be in a place where you don't care.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 01:04 PM
1

She has her reservations and she is saying she won't allow someone else to hurt her. Stop caring about her and paying so much attwntion to her. Go be seen with some other girl near her and watch her attitude change.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 01:31 AM
1

When everything is firing on all cylinders and roles are in place, a mom and a dad working as a team in a household partnership can be great for raising and managing kids. I am not saying it is the best. But the belief that it is the optimal/affordable way to grow kids is the main reason to consider marriage. I mean if you were wealthy enough, paying a full time nanny would do the same task with less shit... Mr. Drummond style. But even then you still have to make/obtain the kid.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:29 PM
1

"Half of life is just showing up" - Woody Allen
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:45 PM
1

Best friends? Girls come and go. You are being short sighted and an asshole.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:43 PM
1

Browse r/marriedredpill and r/askmrp Bottom line... it is a lot of work to put up with someone else's shit. In the old days, the potential shame of being divorced would inspire commitment from women, but that shame and fallout is long gone, so you need to work harder. Married red pill has been called red pill on hard mode. The only reason to consider marriage is if you want kids.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:38 PM
2

You may want to check the laws in your state to see if you somehow became common law married and owe support. Presumably the first Mr Bux is on the hook for that, but a quick legal consultation might be worthwhile now, whether you leave tomorrow or in three years.
/r/askMRP05/11/15 02:24 PM
1

This comment thread is the embodiment of the challenge of RP. I love it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 03:51 PM
2

I went to a wedding of an old friend recently. I am seriously considering sending him anonymously by mail an sd card full of the pdfs and audio books with an explanation letter
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 03:48 PM
1

Well that's what i am wondering... is the reward tangible? Ia it just more connection? Is it words?
/r/askMRP28/10/15 04:37 PM
1

Nice. May I ask what the "reward" you gave was?
/r/askMRP28/10/15 04:10 PM
4

"Whereth you going mine Paul? Tis dark and I want my footrub." Uh... I gotta um... uh... warn some other towns about invaders?
/r/askMRP25/10/15 12:14 PM
2

Change that credit card pic now. Make sure she sees that it is changed. That is a literal manifestation of betabux. Start dressing a little differently and consider a different going to a good salon and getting a better/different haircut. Everytime you think about getting her a present buy yourself something for the future you ... a new shirt, work out gloves, a savings bond whatever.
/r/askMRP25/10/15 11:58 AM
1

Right? I guess if it is waxed or sealed the right way it will be more resilient.
/r/askMRP23/10/15 12:18 PM
2

An internet shit test! I love it!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 11:19 AM
2

Yeah it's cringeworthy, and I admitted as much. But I'm not washing clothes to inspect panties. I'm washing clothes and happening to see what's on them. I also happen to see my 5 year old boy's skid marks in his underoos and the fingerpaints all over my toddler's jeans. I casually inspect all the clothes as I put them in the washer so a crayon or tissue or other contageous stain doesn't get in there. Have you never done laundry?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 08:57 PM
2

Yes, I realize I am a preaching convert in the honeymoon phase of this. I need to keep my head down and keep going.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 06:54 PM
1

You don't ignore her all day, you focus on you and what shit needs to get done at your work/house/family/self. She did you a favor in freeing up your afternoon. When you see her again, you'll be happy and accomplished, not worrying about whatever that was.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 04:28 PM
2

But... she is also 8 months pregnant and for the next few months is going to understandably be out of sorts. I wouldnt worry about any lack of anything for the next little bit. It is a great time to get fit though. Jogging stroller ftw.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 01:37 AM
1

Mine was probably "duty." BUT twice this week so far. A modern day record. Nice times too. I literally carried her upstairs the last time. She bonked her head on the ceiling. We laughed. Then boinked. Awesome stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 01:34 AM
1

How much money do you have? Could you rent a public storage locker or barn or something and put some weights in it? Do you have any friends who would go in on it with you?
/r/askMRP18/10/15 03:29 AM
1

Well i wasn't as "aware" of things as I am now so I cant specifically recall examples of my/our behavior on the trips, but it is either A) her being turned on by seeing me navigate in an alpha way with regard to plans and dealing with strangers and stuff or B) some sort of conditioning/acceptable pity payment to reward me for taking her on vacation.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 03:27 AM
1

I am new to this, but Spacey in American Beauty has attributes and some really good mantras to follow. Slowly: "You don't get to tell me what to do ever again." What's cool about him is that he is ultimately focusing on himself and what made him happy. EDIT: oh and another one : "I'm just an ordinary guy with nothing to lose."
/r/askMRP15/10/15 03:11 PM
1

thank you for your words.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 08:58 PM
1

Thankyou for the support. Really it means a lot to know I'm not the only one who's trying to manage this situation, and it's so positive to know there are those are doing it well.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 08:58 PM
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