So I met this chick on tinder, shes an early 30s former model. I'm mid 30s. I wasn't that impressed with her looks in her pics, but in person shes a knockout. I went out with her with an IDGAF attitude and did decently well for the first date, but didn't get anything more than a kiss on the cheek and several more hours on the phone with her calling me later on.

Turns out the chick is actually quite hot, and gets about 500 likes everytime she posts a facebook pic. Still, I don't feel intimidated by her. Shes also rich somehow, but doesnt have a job. She spends money like crazy and buys whatever she wants. Shes also extremely impulsive, and extremely crazy. She also does not get any of my jokes.

Fast forward to the second date, we go out and I show up in a piece of shit car that's a total beater, dirty as well. She knows I just sold my car and am waiting for my new one to arrive, but she insists we take her porsche instead. I end up agreeing, is this breaking frame? Should I have insisted we go in the dirty beater with me driving?

From here we go to a restaurant. Its a great experience and we both have a great time. Looking into her eyes, I can see that she is highly attracted to me. At the end of dinner we get the bill, I dont offer to pay it. She gives the guy her card and pays for it. She then says that where she comes from, men usually pay. I just respond with, thanks for dinner.

We bought some weed and we decide on the way home that we are gonna smoke some. She drives like a maniac btw, tailgating everyone in her porsche and speeding everywhere. So Im a little uneasy telling her to slow down and stuff, not sure if that came off as beta. She then starts calling one of her guy friends to invite him to smoke weed with us. I immediately object to the idea. She then says, we arent doing anything tonight... Why do you care if I invite someone else? My response was, go ahead and invite him, Ill be sure to invite another girl next time we hang out too. She gave me this weird agitated look. The guy turned out to be unavailable, she was totally comfortable talking to this guy, turns out hes the best friend of her ex boyfriend. Weird situation.

We get back to her place and start smoking some weed. She has a huge couch and sits like 4-5 feet away from me playing with her cat, smoking weed, and playing video games on her ipad while talking to me. I make sure not to appear needy, I just watch tv, chat, and smoke some weed as well.

I try to give her a bit of a massage at some point, but its going nowhere. When it comes to intimacy I fucking suck to begin with, and I obviously fucked things up somewhere earlier in the night, likely when I objected to the other guy coming.

After about an hour of smoking weed and useless banter, she tells me shes getting tired, and I tell her Im heading out. She walks me to my car and then kisses me on the cheek. I try making out with her, but she playfully avoids it, although she does give me some small worthless kisses on the mouth while playfully dodging me. After about 15 seconds of this nonsense, I say goodbye.

The next morning, I send her a pic of my breakfast. Total chick move and a fuckup, but after she responds with something mundane I make a joke out of it and she laughs (on text). Usually she texts me or calls me several times. Haven't heard from her since.

Did I break frame, where did I go wrong? Whats my best course of action at this point. IDGAF about this chick although I wouldnt mind having some success here.