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Of course you go the disarming route first. But sometimes you get in situations where it just doesn't work. You make a stand, or as you pointed out in 3), just eject out. P.S. Yikes, is the SRS downvote brigade griefing seddit? Or is someone just pissed and going on a rampage?
/r/seduction06/12/13 03:34 AM
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This is by far better the better route. Especially if they're guys you're going to run into again. If they're just some random dudes you won't ever see again, you can block them out of the conversation with body language and positioning. Or pull the girl out of the AMOGs area.
/r/seduction06/12/13 01:48 AM
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Hover Hands. Google it. Something similar was posted on seddit a while back.
/r/seduction14/04/11 10:13 PM
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acartoontiger, your advice to ask her a question then shut up is golden. I noticed some nights I'm very "on". Quick witted, coming up with great responses to everything. Holding court, being the center of attention. Humorous; all my jokes score a hit. I've heard this referred to in the pickup community as "being in state". That's just PUA lingo for being "in the zone". Unfortunately, I simply can't get "in state" every night. This drove me crazy for the longest time. Finally, I read PUA suggesti…
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:26 PM
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Who a woman chooses to date or marry vs who she fucks are separate things in my opinion. I've met many jobless, slobby, living-with-their-parents type men who have no problems pulling and sleeping with women. They're successful with women in spite of their situation because they follow the basic rules of female->male attraction. Preselection, alpha-ness, etc. But I noticed these men usually have trouble keeping women for anything long term, however. Not saying that's necessarily good or bad, dep…
/r/seduction12/04/11 10:33 PM
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a guy gets stuck in the friend zone when a woman wants to keep him around just in case he makes something of himself. I've never heard this theory before. I know girls have lots of motivations for keeping orbiters and friendzoned pals around, but this is the first time I've been informed that girls are waiting for them to make something of himself. Can you provide anymore background info on this?
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:45 PM
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"emotional tampon" is another similar term I've heard.
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:37 PM
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Depending on other's to define your worthiness is not an alpha trait at all. It's called "looking outward for validation" and doesn't do anything positive for you. Search around on seddit for tips on "inner game".
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:32 AM
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I always wondered what happened to the 2girls1cup chicks.
/r/seduction05/04/11 06:21 PM
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Your advice is the opposite of the politically correct way to lovey dove a woman. The hyenas would shred it over on /r/relationship_advice. But damn if it isn't spot on. You're going to have much more success leaning towards caveman than Mr. Gentle N. Polite. Excellent post frogma.
/r/seduction05/04/11 06:16 PM
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Her knowing Mystery, I figured she would have brought up his VH1 pickup artist show. Chris is probably the guy that goes by the PUA name "Lovedrop". He's got some audio tapes that are pretty good if you search around online.
/r/seduction05/04/11 01:21 AM
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ok, I got it now. I often run into those situations. especially like at a group dinner table or some kind of spectator event or something. sometimes it's tough to get to the target.
/r/seduction04/03/11 01:33 AM
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In depth explanation of shit test
/r/seduction03/03/11 11:51 PM
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What do you mean by "blocked"? Examples?
/r/seduction03/03/11 12:37 AM
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Not a shit test. Simply an IOI. Reverse the roles for a moment. If YOU asked a girl if SHE had a BF, isn't it obvious you're interested in her? Thank your HB8.5 wingwoman for making that happen. Wingwoman gave you preselection and triggered the HB7 to desire you.
/r/seduction03/03/11 12:00 AM
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What Chazz said is so true. They look outward for validation much more than older women. Win over the friends.
/r/seduction18/02/11 12:37 AM
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You're naturally negging these girls it sounds like. Community consensus on negs are that you only need to use negs to bust through bitch shields on women who PERCEIVE themselves as high value. Usually HB7+. When you say things like "You're boring me" to a HB5, that's gonna destroy her. She'll either withdraw into her shell, or lash out in anger. On the other hand, a HB7 will need one or two negs, while a HB10 might need a few more than that. Bottom line, it sounds like you just need to calibrat…
/r/seduction17/02/11 11:45 PM
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Didn't loose my virginity til 25. I'm not going to lie to you, it was akward, clumsy, and unsexy when I did the deed. That was true for the first two girls I slept with (both experienced). I tried the soft gentle loving approach. Besides the fact that I was scared shitless, I treated the girls like fragile china or delicate flowers. Chicks don't seem to respond well to this. Now I'm much more teasing and playful and have no qualms about administering them a good tail pounding. Keeping the playfu…
/r/seduction01/02/11 10:55 PM
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I'm not sure the seating arrangement for your commons area, but if you have enough room for the all the girls, wave them over to your table.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:01 PM
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If you're the new guy, use that to your advantage. Try steering the conversation so that you get yourself invited to a weekend party. Imagine your boundless options by rolling into the party and already knowing those eight girls.
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:53 PM
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Damn, that sorority table's gonna be a hornet's nest to go into. I'd be kinda intimidated. Just trying to think what kind of Alpha A-game I'd have to bring to control a set that large.
/r/seduction01/02/11 01:19 AM
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We're going to continue downvoting you until you until you fall off your pedestal. In heat.
/r/seduction21/01/11 01:45 AM
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I really got a lot out of the "Blueprint Decoded" video series from Tyler Durden. But as other have said, get out in field. Supplement your field experience with information here on seddit, etc. The information you learn through the Internet, books, and video, will take on much more meaning if you have field experience.
/r/seduction18/01/11 12:35 AM
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Humor and physical looks to get women! Wait a minute, this isn't what seddit taught me. What's going on here?
/r/seduction14/01/11 10:43 PM
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I've been thinking about humor a lot lately and it's place in pickup. I noticed when I have high value in a group, that people will hang on to my every word and laugh at practically anything I say. Haven't we all been in a class, meeting, church, or party where the teacher, boss, pastor, life-of-the-party says the most stupid joke ever yet the whole group laughs along to it? Laughter is an acknowledgement of the status and value that person has. To me humor is AMOG'ing and negging/teasing. Humor…
/r/seduction14/01/11 10:12 PM
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Ya, she stuck her tongue at you because she was revolted. Um. no.
/r/seduction14/01/11 06:41 PM
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She's established the frame that SHE's the prize in the dynamic between you two. Not good news for you in building attraction if you accept her frame. If she does end up flaking on you, which seems to be the case because she ignored your texts, I suggest you start showing up as a customer to the cafe with other girls. Knowing cafe girl will build great preselection/attraction for your dates and, at the same time, getting cafe girl to see you as the sex worthy guy. On a side note, when Cafe girl …
/r/seduction13/01/11 07:29 PM
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Your other post mentioned she stated she had three other guys ask her out already. Already getting shit tested sounds like. You need to call her out on that with a tease or neg when she pulls stuff like that. Think your instincts are spot on, it sounds like she isn't attracted yet.
/r/seduction13/01/11 11:31 AM
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Ok Cheddar. You overlooked one of the most proven sales techniques in in history. Get some of your girls to pose with your items.
/r/seduction13/01/11 11:20 AM
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Yep, as long as you take care of the things you have control over, you'll be fine for looks. Grooming and fitness won't get you women on their own. They'll just get you more "interviews", if you will. You still need to run game as normal from there.
/r/seduction13/01/11 10:44 AM
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I think the whole report is bunk and flawed in it's logic. Perhaps we can interpret the information in a different light? The girls that get messaged the most express more sexuality in their photos. Makeup, tattoos, piercings, styled hair. These all express sexual availability. They look ready to share their fertile seed. To me, the girls that didn't get messaged as much look less sexually charged in their photos. Just my take on the whole thing.
/r/seduction11/01/11 09:33 PM
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Um, why did dancing with the "low value girl" lower Delightful_White's value? White's mistake was kissing low value girl with the hot friend there. It didn't lower his value, but just made the situation socially unworkable for White to get to the hotter one. Putting yourself in hot girls shoes, imagine if you saw a chick making out with your good buddy and suddenly she bails him to come over and hit on you. Awkward. Hot girl was left with little choice but to steer clear. White went WAY beyond d…
/r/seduction10/01/11 08:18 AM
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Don't play into mcadvice's frame. This "fatty" want's to have sex too just like everyone else. Just have fun with her and don't lead her on into thinking it's building to a LTR. That's where the heartbreak will come from, not the sex.
/r/seduction09/01/11 09:21 AM
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bacon's advice is spot on. Consider banging her. You've only slept with one girl so get some experience. If you're new to pickup, you're going to be in for a mind fuck when you see all her friends wanting to sleep with you soon after.
/r/seduction09/01/11 09:14 AM
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Was wondering this myself. I notice Chris Rock always incorporates preselection stories into his routines. I've even seen him perform the infamous pickup community opener "Who lies more men or women". Joe Rogan is another comedian (who also commentates for UFC mixed martial arts). Check out this segment where he smacks a female heckler down. Skip to the 1:40 mark for the good stuff. I assume guys like Rock and Rogan pull plenty of tail. I remember reading an article a while back about the late g…
/r/seduction09/01/11 07:56 AM
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cheddarmix is from austin too, he's one of the better contributors on seddit. Maybe you can talk him into being your Mr. Miyagi.
/r/seduction08/01/11 09:27 AM
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Man the battlestations. Troll-dar detects incoming BS from everything the OP is saying.
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:58 AM
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The goal should probably be to avoid ever hearing the "What are we doing here?" question, by managing expectations from the beginning. I've just recently was thrown the "what are we doing?" line. I just wanted FWB, but didn't express that and she stopped calling. Safe to assume she was expecting a LTR?
/r/seduction07/01/11 10:55 PM
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-Tell hot women they need to sleep with you or the world will suffer the consequences. Save and show them pictures of Hitler and Napoleon.
/r/seduction07/01/11 08:13 PM
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can someone summarize what exactly this is before I download?
/r/seduction31/12/10 06:43 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VBkreD9eZ0A
/r/seduction29/12/10 07:21 AM
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No, I've never had them come into sets on me. They're good about that part. Chumpta, you're right, they see me as Beta, and I suppose I still am in a lot of ways. I never used to hold court with our group, especially when we were accompanied by women. My buddies were the ones that dictated the conversation, when and where the group rolled out to, etc. They're not shitty guys at all. They're actually really cool most the time. It's just lately since I've been more uncharacteristically dominating …
/r/seduction28/12/10 09:59 AM
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I'm having a problem with a couple of buddies who aren't AFC's at all, but are now in LTRs so they're kinda out of the game. When I go out with them lately they're AMOG'ing the holy shit out of me. Usually in the form of verbal cuts and teasing. It's relentless. I feel like I'm going into battle. Because of what I've learned about seduction, I'm starting to hold court with groups more. Their girlfriends give me a lot of attention and teasing even though I'm not directly hitting on them at all an…
/r/seduction28/12/10 12:52 AM
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How does this strategy work? It doesn't seem to follow the typical PUA documented triggers of attraction like preselection, social proof, leader, protector. How is this emo approach attractive to women?
/r/seduction27/12/10 11:53 PM
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I don't like negs that involve physical attributes the girl can't change. Like height, age, body type, etc. Things about her person that she has on her own free will are fair game. Tattoos, dyed or styled hair, jewelry, clothing, purses, etc.
/r/seduction25/12/10 06:13 PM
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In any case, I'm sure the earlier interactions "put you in state" as it's been called. By the time you got to condom hat girl I'm sure you were brimming with alphaness and confidence.
/r/seduction25/12/10 05:53 PM
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White, I'm curious if you felt that preselection and social proof from your earlier foosball and beer pong interactions allowed you to have the strong positive opening with "condom hat" girl? Or did she only become aware of your presence in the room after you initially bumped into her?
/r/seduction24/12/10 08:44 PM
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Er wait. I saw an earlier post that stated testosterone levels peak out after approximately 7 days without spanking the monkey. Are you saying to take the "Something About Mary" approach and clean the pipes out before the date?
/r/seduction24/12/10 12:45 AM
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Is this really a problem for models? I've been told that the super super hot women actually don't get approached as much as say an HB8 where the guy thinks he actually has a chance.
/r/seduction21/12/10 06:29 AM
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I've seen guys try the "show the girl how to use the equipment" opener, but it's painfully obvious to everyone in the room what's happening. I don't think I've ever seen it work. EDIT: I guess to keep congruent to that approach, you'd have to be the type of guy that helps EVERYONE. Men, old ladies, <HB5, etc
/r/seduction20/12/10 11:22 PM
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Start by making friends with the people manning the counter. Just introduce yourself and joke around with them. When you're walking by people make sure to hold eye contact with both the men and women. Smile back and nod or whatever once they acknowledge you. It's true that some folks at the gym are all business. These are usually the folks with headphones on. Other folks are more than happy to socialize and chat. I notice that it's much easier for me to open guys first to build a little social p…
/r/seduction20/12/10 11:18 PM
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You got trolled. He knows what he's talking about, he's just sarcastic as holy sin about it.
/r/seduction20/12/10 09:50 PM
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SenorSandwich, I assume that question was directed at me. I met the 19-yr old sorta at work. She works in another building but we met at a cafe in my building.
/r/seduction20/12/10 09:21 PM
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I'm 39 and got a K-close with a 19-year-old HB7 recently. A year ago, I would have never even thought this remotely possible. Not even kinda sorta maybe possible.
/r/seduction20/12/10 06:58 PM
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39 here. Just started this a few months ago.
/r/seduction20/12/10 06:53 PM
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No I didn't. I had a hb8 on the line but I fucked it up because my game isn't very tight yet.
/r/seduction20/12/10 08:24 AM
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This is SPAM. No clicky the linky.
/r/seduction12/12/10 10:26 AM
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yep, I'm totally in the same boat. As awesome as having a naked woman next to you is on paper, if you're not used to that human contact and intimacy, it's a shock to your space. I'm in my late late 30's and didn't get laid til 25 and have only slept with four women total. For me it's been thousands of solo nights then, boom!, suddenly a naked person next to you.
/r/seduction11/12/10 09:58 AM
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call her on it?
/r/seduction06/12/10 11:12 AM
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My friend is a salesmen, and he's probably the best pickup guru I know in person.
/r/seduction06/12/10 08:37 AM
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What Error401 said. I'm pretty sure Facebook just added that option in their latest software makeover update. Account->Privacy Settings->Connecting on Facebook->View Settings
/r/seduction05/12/10 07:36 PM
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For some reason I want to listen to Motorhead now.
/r/seduction05/12/10 11:44 AM
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It usually takes something drastic for a woman to delete FB. An ex from her past causing her to delete FB seems extreme to me. Maybe she simply set her profile to unlisted and ignored your note.
/r/seduction05/12/10 11:38 AM
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I've never closed a girl at the gym before. But I noticed that if I worked the crowd like one would at a bar and engaged in friendly conversation and banter with the men, the women were way more receptive to my approach. I've also had women come in and actually open my group of men when we're all laughing and joking around. Guess they want to be a part of that vibe. Just gotta learn how to take from there I guess.
/r/seduction26/11/10 09:33 AM
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I have several hobbies, such as shooting pool, hunting, fishing, but none of them involve situations where there's an abundance of women in my environment. I'm laughing imagining myself taking a yoga class. That's going to take a big leap on my part.
/r/seduction25/11/10 01:50 AM
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No I do not have any close female friends. Whenever I get in isolation with women of any type, be it young, old, pretty, not-so-pretty, I never feel relaxed or comfortable with them.
/r/seduction25/11/10 01:38 AM
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Insightful. appreciated.
/r/seduction24/11/10 10:33 PM
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