oyoungpadawan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
28	Girl using dread on me all the time.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	30/10/18 01:08 PM
27	HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr'	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 09:35 PM
24	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me"	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	28/03/18 08:28 PM
15	Shit test, she sends me a snap of a speeddate event and says I should go.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	28/04/18 03:22 PM
15	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 04:33 PM
14	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 02:38 PM
13	I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 04:15 PM
12	Took a girl to a party, took another home. First one won't return my bike membership card....	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	03/04/18 01:20 AM
11	Female roommate suddenly acting up.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 02:15 AM
10	What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date.	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	07/02/18 10:58 PM
10	She keeps texting but flakes dates	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	06/01/18 08:33 PM
8	Took a girl home, she was put off by my high hearthrate and eventually left.	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	10/12/17 03:44 AM
8	Ran into an ex, (she dumped me) she was still attracted to me...trying not to fall into old habits.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 03:52 PM
6	Acquiring "The eye"	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	29/03/18 04:01 PM
6	Best mate wants to date my ex.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	06/08/18 02:19 PM
5	Night with female friends, and redpill lessons learned.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	20/04/18 01:30 PM
5	Will be going to germany for 6 months in september. Any advice for me?	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 03:29 PM
4	Trouble getting followups after making out with girls at parties/bars/clubs.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	19/05/18 12:24 AM
4	Prudish hb8 angry because I hurt her "reputation"	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	22/06/18 05:22 PM
4	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical?	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	02/07/18 11:12 PM
4	My sister is dating a weird dark triad type... ideas how to help her, if even possible.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 05:11 PM
3	gf wants me to use condoms again even though she takes the pill	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	09/09/19 09:47 PM
3	HB 8 made out with me at parties whenever I met her, and behaved weird.	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	05/05/18 02:27 AM
3	I thought I was past oneitis but my ego gets in the way. How to crush ego.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 01:00 AM
3	Grandpa's advice	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	07/01/18 04:24 PM
2	Acquiring "The eye"	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	29/03/18 04:22 PM
2	Ex moved into close social circle and was invited in group travel plans, any advice?	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	22/04/18 10:15 PM
2	Any belgians here? Discussion of tactics/theories/venues/parties or wingmen all welcome.	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	14/07/18 03:07 AM
2	Best dating apps apart from tinder?	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	03/08/18 04:00 PM
2	Tinder shadowban for moving age filter down too much?	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 07:12 PM
2	Translate for me please.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 10:22 AM
2	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 03:28 PM
1	FR: HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr'	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	11/05/18 08:27 PM
1	29 and back in uni, should I also pickup women there?	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	26/03/18 12:39 AM
1	Cold sore hb9 and thirsty buddy, don't be this guy.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	19/05/18 12:43 AM
1	We had a good time on this date but she talked about other dudes she is seeing. How to ask her out for a second date.	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	15/01/18 01:13 AM
1	More success with hb7-9 then I do with hb4-6???	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	22/05/18 02:42 AM
1	Major stepback, made out with an ex and she rejected me all over afterwards.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	16/08/18 04:26 PM
1	I did better as a "beginner" then I do now.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 03:29 AM
1	Beneficial friendzone, but still friendzone. Continue friendship?	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	03/01/18 12:50 AM
1	Switching from nightgame to daygame. Tips?	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	19/07/18 08:06 PM
1	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical?	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	02/07/18 01:31 AM
1	I feel like the dude in "long nights short mornings"	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 01:29 AM
1	Always get high interest at start but it fades quickly.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	28/06/18 11:53 PM
1	How to break up with a plate who thinks we have something serious.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	29/08/18 08:02 PM
0	How to plate girls like these.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 04:13 AM
0	"You'll need more then this to get me out for drinks with you"	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	20/07/18 03:28 PM
0	I do way better with tall chicks then short chicks?	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	27/08/18 03:48 PM
0	FR: first time clubbing alone, better then I expected but it was a minefield + weird cockblock girl that made out with me.	oyoungpadawan	/r/seduction	21/05/18 05:21 AM
0	Best workout routine to regain muscle mass? (from 8 years ago)	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 03:04 PM
0	Bird of paradise	oyoungpadawan	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/18 03:43 AM
0	My "no talking" experiment, astounding results. I recommend doing this.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	19/06/18 02:19 AM
0	Feel like I need to be top 1-5% to be happy instead of top 20%.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 11:23 PM
0	Trying to please her vs your own pleasure.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	05/11/18 07:19 PM
0	It won't happen again, I'm taken.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 10:51 AM
0	Took another redpill. Used for fluffing. Reminder to guard your valuable time.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 07:20 AM
0	Tried to fuck hb9, failed twice, use her for social proof?	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 12:49 AM
0	Will be leaving my country for 6 months, plate acting up, don't know how to handle.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 12:36 PM
0	Shittest: "You'll need more then this to get me out for drinks with you"	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 08:10 PM
0	Any belgians here? Discussion of tactics/theories/venues/parties or wingmen all welcome.	oyoungpadawan	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 02:57 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	gf wants me to use condoms again even though she takes the pill Also very true. I could use some of your wisdom. I live in the moment I don't see the past or the future of emotions. I tend to forget that she once jumped on my dick soaking wet allready. And suddenly find myself having condom talks... had this with many other things in life where I suddenly find myself in places I don't want to be and then changed direction. Maybe I should do the same now. This one triggered one, thanks.	/r/askTRP	10/09/19 12:38 AM
1	gf wants me to use condoms again even though she takes the pill Period often late causes stress, those new pills fucking with her mood also. Then again the mind tends to see what it wants, which is not always reality. More likely she met some new studs at her uni since the new year started and it's the usual 1st semester mating rituals again. Didn't think about thay, I'll keep my eyes and ears open thanks!	/r/askTRP	10/09/19 12:32 AM
2	gf wants me to use condoms again even though she takes the pill Yeah man I don't get why not everyone has a IUD. Those pills are horror, gave my sister a depression, don't even work half the time. No one tells good stories still doctors push them over all other methods... I wouldn't take those cancer pills if I had to (should they invent a male pil lol) And yes if she don't want to see reason I'll break it up.	/r/askTRP	09/09/19 11:53 PM
2	gf wants me to use condoms again even though she takes the pill That's what I tried to communicate... She started taking the pills because she had horrible periods before. That it does both doesn't compute. I think she wants to cover herself so she can forgets a day or so once in a while and just keep taking them for health. Suggested getting one of those copper implants as my last gf had one and it worked fine both don't have to stress ever. But itchy topic	/r/askTRP	09/09/19 11:25 PM
1	gf wants me to use condoms again even though she takes the pill Yeah you're absolutely right I got too comfortable and lost the way somewhere I realise. Too late now, this time she won't "forget" about condom use so I'll have to solve it another way. It's not a good topic to let the fate of the ltr depend on though, easy to twist it all kinds far after the ltr lol. Isn't it better if I break up over something else a while after then use this shit for it? Reputation and all, I'll look like I'm trying to get girls pregnant.	/r/askTRP	09/09/19 10:31 PM
3	gf wants me to use condoms again even though she takes the pill Always wrapped it with every girl, but come on in a ltr...on the pill... I am looking for a solution between losing frame and doing it, or finding another girl.	/r/askTRP	09/09/19 10:22 PM
2	gf wants me to use condoms again even though she takes the pill Allright allright, good point about rule 5. Always did with every random girl. But how to solve this shittest? She was never a bitch before and usually I just ignore the small tests. This time I can't though I feel like she was probing for my weaknesses with the small ones to then give me this one. I don't have much experience in LTRs I didn't have these kind of problems with casual stuff.	/r/askTRP	09/09/19 10:19 PM
3	Identifying transgender? You live in the past, my boss had a "instagram model" trangender friend. No one knew, they started the procedure so young and correct it on all fronts so you can't see. And if they got plenty of money they'll correct everything else also so they'll be hot... Ofcourse like you said the ones with broad shoulders and big hands you might suspect, but there are real girls with broad shoulders and big hands too....	/r/askTRP	25/08/19 01:06 PM
1	I'm afraid of spending money. I do not have much money and I also made it a habit to turn every penny. Buying everything second hand etc. But every few years I find myself with a shitty outdated or broken wardrobe. It's important to keep a good style also. I agree, buy the shoes and if you have trouble justifying it put it towards "wardrobe/style/image". It IS worth something to wear clothes you feel good in.	/r/askTRP	12/05/19 08:44 PM
1	Where to bring a girl on a date if you have no drivers license? Know your surroundings I guess, there are some cool spots within 1km of my house. Get a bike and improve your operating radius... Or you know take the bus and let the girl also come to said destination.	/r/askTRP	05/05/19 07:49 PM
22	Do nudes always mean DTF? I got nudes from my ex once and noticed they were snapped to multiple dudes...	/r/askTRP	05/05/19 07:47 PM
2	I hate my parents Take a hard look in the mirror and tell me if you like the person you see. It's time to face the truth and start improving your shitty behaviour.	/r/seduction	04/05/19 01:59 PM
5	I hate my parents This response makes it even more obvious your mindset is the problem. And I was already being nice because of your fragile ego. *Working on yourself is not only about your body.	/r/seduction	04/05/19 12:42 AM
2	I made the black pill mistake When girls talk about looks they talk about the whole package. Like they do in those makeover shows. You cannot change the way your face is shaped but you can have an awesome look.	/r/askTRP	04/05/19 12:19 AM
2	I made the black pill mistake Yeah looks are overrated, you don't have to look good to be attractive. What does help is to stand out, get a haircut and outfit that fit your style without too much effort. You need to be an unfiltered unapologetic genuine INDIVIDUAL.	/r/askTRP	03/05/19 11:48 PM
1	I hate my parents Exactly, no woman wants to date you NOW. Work on yourself a bit and they will want you ;)	/r/seduction	03/05/19 11:44 PM
1	I made the black pill mistake Yeah man I got a few friends that look good but they are so awkward with girls. It's a shame. Some others don't look too good but they attract a lot of hot girls.	/r/askTRP	03/05/19 11:41 PM
1	Would she kiss you if she wasn’t into you? I believe the guy she liked didn't show up that night or something. Meanwhile I was young and stupid. Yes probably she would have fucked anyone that day.	/r/askTRP	03/05/19 11:38 PM
4	3 year rut. What do? Hey man I've been in shit's creek before. I was stuck in that rut for years. Had a shitty job, no friends (well some but I didn't like half of them anymore). Lost the job, forced to move back home with parents...and then another shitty job. You won't like my advice, but you need to go at the shitty jobs again. But this time with a different mindset, go to the shitty job, work hard, show up on time. And SAVE money! And you know what, it's already shitty so why not stack the shit together. After t…	/r/askTRP	03/05/19 11:32 PM
0	Would she kiss you if she wasn’t into you? Man I've had a girl fuck me to keep me into orbit in my bp days. I was distancing myself a bit because I liked her (like all bp orbiters) We had sex (which she initiated) one night and afterwards said she felt bad about it because she never saw me that way.	/r/askTRP	03/05/19 11:18 PM
3	Unpopular opinion: none of the shit on this subreddit works unless you're healthy Agree on the sugar. But the no porn thing is tricky. If I fap too much I'll be too docile in interactions with girls. If I don't fap for too long I'll be overly thirsty. Somewhere inbetween keeps me on edge, like once or twice a week.	/r/seduction	02/05/19 10:35 PM
1	I am a [20M] model but have never had a girlfriend Try to polarize a bit and go for a more manly haircut and wardrobe.	/r/seduction	02/05/19 10:30 PM
1	I am a [20M] model but have never had a girlfriend Yeah man girls fall for those "he's hot but doesn't know it" types. We men also love girls who are 'hot but don't know it'.	/r/seduction	02/05/19 10:29 PM
3	Should I opt for a Don Draper or a Peter Quill like behaviour ? Opt for a "Alcatraz-12" like behaviour.	/r/seduction	02/05/19 09:58 PM
1	Worth getting an exotic car for dating? Haha I'm broke as fuck and had the shittiest car in the world for a while. Rusty, old, small but it had character. It fit me, I actually miss that damn car. The newer one doesn't stand out at all. You're right the vintage ones seem to do best.	/r/seduction	02/05/19 09:57 PM
3	Anyone have poor results on dating apps but better results IRL? Aight thanks for the heads up.	/r/seduction	02/05/19 09:51 PM
3	Anyone have poor results on dating apps but better results IRL? I will solve half of your problems with swift judgement. Haircut, short on the sides longer on top. You won't have a problem maintaining that messy look. Wardrobe, to fit the messy haircut get a vintage jacket. Black tees and pants. Monochrome black or white sneakers. Take pictures after hairday and post on tinder. Go smash em! Edit: The other problems are in your head.	/r/seduction	02/05/19 09:48 PM
1	Worth getting an exotic car for dating? If you are already attracting a lot of girls, sure. If you suck at picking up girls, not worth it. Money is of no importance for game, just bonus. I personally would spend such money travelling or living abroad for a while. Get some new experiences.	/r/seduction	02/05/19 09:42 PM
1	women that have ONE picture in their profile and don't want to send more See you soon on MTV catfish.	/r/seduction	02/05/19 09:29 PM
3	I need advice... Fuck this is so true, always those suckers who do overtime 5 times a week and then after years of groveling they just promote some slimeball boss-ass-licker lol.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 08:01 PM
1	Tinder shadowban for moving age filter down too much? Aight I thought I'd give the ole tinder a go again but guess I'll stick to daygame. Guess I can't swipe the same quality of girls I can get in real life. You're both right that aint happening on tinder. (yet) Thanks for clearing my delusions.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 07:42 PM
8	Kissing Guide This! I was fine at kissing (or not who cares) when I started untill the 10th girl or something said I was a bad kisser. It got to my head and guess what, more of those comments followed by other girls because I started bein a tryhard. Agree on the reptilian brain, don't overthink it you'll never have complaints.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 07:35 PM
5	Tinder shadowban for moving age filter down too much? On tinder yes ;)	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 07:21 PM
5	How can I get over the woman that alpha widowed me? Nvm man he doesn't want help he just want his ego stroked for getting a "9". Nice combination of bragging, pedestalling and passive-agressiveness and veiled self-pity here. Something is off here and if he's not willing to work on it or even recognize it. Ah well...	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 04:24 PM
5	How can I get over the woman that alpha widowed me? This is no competition, you have nothing to prove to no one.... So you're telling me you'd pass up an 8 with a nice ass and a good personality just because you once had a 9? I'm calling bullshit, you just got the oneitis.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 03:50 PM
2	Salvaging my LTR Agree, just end it. You'll know from her reaction...	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 02:42 PM
6	Shoulder injury, fucked up my life Come on man there are a 1000 things you can still do, don't focus on the things you can't. Go read an interesting book, visit some art galleries, have chat with some people. I'm sure you can find some ways to pass time and still feel usefull...	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 02:38 PM
2	Need advice on LTR’s behavior This, took me a while to understand because everyone always says fuck this or that person. Disappear, cut them from your life. Even this is too much work. While yes we men certainly have to to dose our attention, I stepped off the hard no's. I don't think we should unnecessary burn bridges. I learned the hard way. This applies to friends, coworkers and family too. No need to tell old friends to fuck off if your paths don't align. Just let the relationships naturally die or revert to being just a…	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 02:33 PM
6	How can I seduce without being arrogant? I had this problem, I did better being arrogant/cocky then I did before. So I thought it was good and went over the top with it. While yes it helped me too to be cocky, after a while you see it all doesn't matter that much and things fall in place. You finally start being your real self instead of the fake showing off. Being genuine = better for your mental health overall and you'd be suprised how much you can get laid by being your unfiltered self.	/r/seduction	30/04/19 05:14 AM
5	I don't even know why I should have to ask this question, but... Man you can be the biggest scariest mofo on earth still guys will try to sneak in and steal your girl. No need to start a competition with them, just watch what your girl does.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 05:07 AM
1	How to get Laid Online with Bad Logistics Here too but come on, living with 3 other ppl or so in a shitty appartment even is miles better then living with your parents...and also dirt cheap. Ofc I only realized that when I moved out	/r/seduction	30/04/19 04:22 AM
4	Bumble response This, same BS as "it's not that easy" or "you have to earn it" after the ask.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 04:07 AM
9	Bumble response No reply, see how long she takes to give the whole number. Test her patience	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 04:05 AM
1	I feel weird making eye contact with random girls??? Even when I notice a hottie staring at me something tells me to look away. How can I get over this? If they’re someone I know it’s different for some reason This, it took me a while took figure out if they are looking at me or lOOking at me. And ofc some have good pokerface. Doesn't hurt to test the waters in these cases.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 03:51 AM
3	How did you guys keep yourselves from being self-improvement junkies? TRP is nothing more then a set of truths and guidelines to keep in the back of your head. I lurked a long time without improving at all, then I stopped reading for a long time. Suggest you stay away from trp for a while, forget about all of this. Go do some new hobbies and be social, at first you will notice no changes. But after a few months/years you'll look back and see how far you've come.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 03:45 AM
2	Unsure about first date I'm guessing she was disappointed you didn't make a move earlier. Window closed, I've been there too. Don't push too hard for attention now.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 03:37 AM
1	I picked up a rich 10 but she is extremely flaky I see, you are attempting to skip steps. One does not choose a girlfriend and work to get her. If it feels unpleasant it is because you have an inner conflict, you know that you are not being yourself. Your only duty with these girls is to stay true to yourself and have a good time Go on the next date expecting nothing, just have fun. If it's a bad date at least you had a good time. Date or fuck a few of these girls and eventually a few will really want you for you. Filter out the ones you don't…	/r/seduction	30/04/19 03:03 AM
2	need advice on this sticking point : Can’t figure out the “no but yes” It was an honest and clear approach, she recognized the attempt and stops it super early Be thankfull to her, she was saying she had no interest at all and did you the courtesy of ending it quick. Smile, say 'aight' with a shoulder shrug and move on. In this case even if she was interested it wouldn't have worked. I wish more girls were like this.	/r/seduction	30/04/19 02:49 AM
14	Approach anxiety hack Swim in awkwardness, make awkwardness your bitch. You love awkwarness for it is opportunity and adventure.	/r/seduction	30/04/19 02:44 AM
8	I picked up a rich 10 but she is extremely flaky Yeah there are like 17 cringe moments in that report. The girl actually got scared and tried the "yeah yeah come with me" Instead of saying no to avoid a blowout. This one is over. But hey OP if you can land a 10 you can land another!	/r/seduction	30/04/19 02:42 AM
-1	Need advice on LTR’s behavior Yeah I wouldn't drop her yet if she is good in other areas, indifferent sounds good as a reaction. You can't fix it anyway, if you tell her it's bad she'll just be more sneaky about it. It's better if she lets you in on these things. But don't encourage it or partake in the action like I did. I spotted it too late, you sound aware though you'll connect the dots if needed one day. Like aptote commented, it is a ticking bomb though. Keep the feelz back a bit and observe.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 02:35 AM
3	r/seduction virgins being better at sex than the players. Hey man, I am going to try to answer this headache of a post as no one else will. Sex is not what you think it is. Find yourself some great social hobbies, make some new friends. Cut back on videogame time. Go do some sports and dress better. Try to be more social and a new world will open to you, over time you will see and feel the social interactions. You will know if people are attracted to you and if they 'might' be interested in having sex with you. This is where sex starts, the strings of …	/r/seduction	30/04/19 02:25 AM
1	First date in 2 years. Any pointers or checklist? Hey man, remember she (although she might not show it) likely feels the same. Don't stress yourself, don't try to prove yourself this is just about seeing if you like eachother and vibe. Just get to know her. And I mean have some fun and see what she's like, do you find her interesting etc... Don't start an interrogation. Pick a place you like and just be your genuine self. And expect nothing! IF you feel there is a click, you know what to do ;) And if it goes bad you had an exciting night meeti…	/r/seduction	30/04/19 02:03 AM
3	Dealing with public humiliation? Agree, the world is a big place. Plenty new adventures to begin! And delete that facebook, or clean it up at least.	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 01:39 AM
1	Dealing with public humiliation? Not in those small towns	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 01:38 AM
8	Need advice on LTR’s behavior Once I had something short with a girl like this for a while. Found out she stole stuff, thought she was bored and actually encouraged it a bit and I joined her in the 'criminal' behaviour, sneaking into clubs or bars without paying etc. Buildings at night. (didn't partake in the stealing) Fun while it lasted. Then I noticed (too late) that she was sneaking upon other dicks right in front of me. Wasn't serious yet but blatant disrespect playing hide and seek with me trying to fuck someone else w…	/r/askTRP	30/04/19 01:33 AM
3	As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars? This, if a girl I've never seen before compliments me on my shirt or sweater. I see it as an invite to play for a bit, see if we vibe. Same if you find my jokes too funny, or touch me. Into girls with a good sense of humor who are also active, so a big yes on the showing enthousiasm. I'm not into the "hovering around me 20 times thing btw" if i'm into you I'll go talk to you after a few looks. Hovering won't help. I'm ok with the "I want you to kiss me" line but I still prefer things to progress…	/r/seduction	09/04/19 04:28 PM
1	I was getting outplayed at dinner and felt helpless to do anything about it. "my friend comments that I have trouble getting girls" That's not too nice either :p	/r/askTRP	08/04/19 05:24 PM
1	Tinder/social media/real life and the difference between male/female dating pool I used to be angry about stuff like this, stop thinking about this shit. Yes the world can be unfair, are you gonna let that stop you? I pulled maybe 4 girls off tinder in 3 years but they were all decent looking and chatted while sitting on the toilet. Tinder is for "bonus-girls" like bumble happn and all the other shit. Build a social circle and go out on your own if need be.	/r/askTRP	08/04/19 05:09 PM
3	Contemplating suicide I'm going to give you some unpopular advice. I'm not going to talk you out of commiting suicide. If you are unhappy allright it's a solution BUT it's your LAST line of defense against unhappiness. After all life is given to you and what do you know of it? You only know your current world. You know nothing yet. What you need is new horizons, new sensations, new experiences, new emotions. You can have great friends and great family, a great job and still fill lonely and unhappy. My friend you can …	/r/askTRP	08/04/19 04:58 PM
1	How to deal with people bashing your looks Girls dig that shit, same as boxer's lip, scars etc as long as you have the attitude to go with it.	/r/askTRP	08/04/19 03:24 AM
3	is it beta to ask a girl if she ever liked u before? (havent spoken in a while and use to be close) I used to wonder about these things for ages, absolutely pointless. Seize the day my friend, the past is over. While you are thinking about that shit you are missing new oportunities.	/r/askTRP	08/04/19 01:26 AM
1	Went back to university, insecure when confronted with questions about it. Hey man similar story here, I started to study again at 30. I worked in a couple of shitty factories and other shitty ass jobs for about 5 years and was sinking deeper and deeper. Bad health, almost no friends, only think I looked forward to was gaming. Best thing I ever did was move to another city and start over again, the right way. Super weird at start (I was the weird 30 years old) but it was because I thought this way, like you, that it became weird. In reality no one cares and if they do …	/r/askTRP	08/04/19 01:23 AM
7	Fake it till you make it: TRP vs. reality Damn good advice!	/r/askTRP	08/04/19 01:09 AM
4	Escalate With Average Chick for Experience? I'll make it easier, turn the brains off. It'll sound a little crude but it's the truth. Is your dick attracted? I used to be like you "oh she's not good enough" only thinking about the hottest girls and passed up a lot of decent pussy for nothing when I was young. If it's a so-so chick the tiebreaker is your dick. Does she have nice boobs? Or a nice ass? or a slim waist? Maybe nice lips? Does your dick want her? Don't think about the other stuff for a while.	/r/askTRP	08/04/19 01:08 AM
1	How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around? You say you are an empathetic person with 'morals'. Assume girls are interested in you and want to get to know you. They ask some questions but you are essentially lying to them instead of being your true self. Ergo you are now a lying weak ass piece of shit. Doing dishonor to yourself and others just to make them like you. Flip the script to honesty. Who cares if they don't like you. I think you got enough tact to not insult everyone either so don't worry about that. Just don't be a lying weak …	/r/askTRP	06/04/19 04:12 PM
1	The Obsessive Climb Sounds cheezy but the journey is part of the destination my friend. Seek pleasure in all things big or small, enjoy the journey, enjoy exploring life while climbing the mountain and good things will come to you. Never ever get stuck in groundhog day. "Until then I'm a broke, physically weak, unattractive social retard and I have to claw my way desperately upwards, fuck the world and it's distractions, fuck emotions and desires, fuck mental health and good night sleeps, until I make myself into s…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/18 01:40 PM
3	It’s kinda sad, right? Underrated comment!	/r/askTRP	01/11/18 02:26 PM
3	Any advice on how to be better socially? I’ve been applying some TRP things and they help a lot but I just noticed something today that made me reevaluate myself. I noticed that two of these guys I thought I was pretty cool with seem to get annoyed when I’m around Yeah man they can be vicious, I know some girls who fucked whole groups of friends and drove them apart. If friends say they'd never do it it's just because they don't get the chance to, if they are able to fuck your gf most of em will. Same with exes.	/r/askTRP	01/11/18 02:02 PM
1	still haven't even gotten to first base and I'm 23. Should I just go ahead and give up? If it hasn't happened now it's never going to happen. you don't need to get jacked immediately you see results from the moment you hit -15% bodyfat	/r/askTRP	01/11/18 01:46 PM
1	still haven't even gotten to first base and I'm 23. Should I just go ahead and give up? If it hasn't happened now it's never going to happen. Thats not the point, do all the other shit. Find yourself, explore. Try some new hobbies, get in good shape, make some new friends, try a new clothing style etc...	/r/askTRP	30/10/18 04:38 PM
2	still haven't even gotten to first base and I'm 23. Should I just go ahead and give up? If it hasn't happened now it's never going to happen. Allright, that is what you need to do though. For me the answer was turning everything around and see to my own happiness first. I saved up for a few years, quit my job and started to study again. I took up a few new hobbies. I moved to the city. I got closer with my sister (26) who also lives in the city. Made an effort to see some other places, go on a few trips, open your eyes to the world. I'm not doing great in the looks department, so I started dressing and grooming better. In this whole p…	/r/askTRP	30/10/18 04:10 PM
2	Girl using dread on me all the time. "unambiguously infatuated " The last girl I was fucking for a longer time had this but I had to cut her loose because of it.... Ah well, good while it lasted. And as you said, an absolute eye opener. First time it had happened to me.	/r/askTRP	30/10/18 04:03 PM
1	Girl using dread on me all the time. thanks man you're right I'll watch out and put the breaks on this one for abit.	/r/askTRP	30/10/18 03:59 PM
1	still haven't even gotten to first base and I'm 23. Should I just go ahead and give up? If it hasn't happened now it's never going to happen. You're on your way if you don't take some advice from people here buddy.	/r/askTRP	30/10/18 03:45 PM
5	still haven't even gotten to first base and I'm 23. Should I just go ahead and give up? If it hasn't happened now it's never going to happen. Virgin till 28 here untill I decided to turn things around. I recently turned 30 and fucked 8 girls and made out with a ton in the 1.5 years. It's not that much but the girls I get are getting progressively hotter. If I can do it you can do it!	/r/askTRP	30/10/18 03:38 PM
3	Girl using dread on me all the time. Ofcourse she's not obligated. But I would never go on a date with a women I wouldn't at least consider fucking. A lot of women do. That's why I never go on very time consuming or expensive first dates.	/r/askTRP	30/10/18 02:03 PM
0	Best workout routine to regain muscle mass? (from 8 years ago) Yeah I've been eating clean and enough protein, I've been getting leaner and leaner but not seeing much muscle gains anymore. Thanks I'll increase calories abit and keep going!	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 03:24 PM
0	Best workout routine to regain muscle mass? (from 8 years ago) Allright I'll just keep hitting the gym but I've been hesitant to do the bulk-cut stuff again. I like being at 15% fat or lower, I feel good now. Better then I did when I was twice my size but fatter.	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 03:18 PM
1	How can I make money online with $1000 a month disposable income? I do this with antiques and design items, the problem is you need a lot of knowledge and you need to look hard to find them for cheaps. You cannot look for specific items, you can only look at the market as a whole and pick out the items that are priced too cheap. But that is actually the fun part, the hard part is the selling. You'll only sell quickly if you also sell under market value, or you need a fancy store. So you gotta find the stuff at 1/10th-1/5th of the price after which you can sell…	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 02:36 PM
1	How to break up with a plate who thinks we have something serious. She knew it at the start but she now somehow assumed we were exclusive... made a whole story in her head how I'm not like others etc...	/r/askTRP	30/08/18 07:25 PM
0	How to break up with a plate who thinks we have something serious. Well she knew what it was, we both had to leave and kept it light. Then suddenly she took gifts for my bday etc, she said I like how we progressed naturally into a relationship.... without us ever saying lovey dovey stuff or doing serious stuff. Yeah this is the first one that I applied some trp stuff too, made her addicted :s Thanks I'll tell her she can visit if she wants but I'm certainly not ready for a relationship.	/r/askTRP	29/08/18 10:17 PM
1	How to break up with a plate who thinks we have something serious. You're right!	/r/askTRP	29/08/18 09:27 PM
1	How to break up with a plate who thinks we have something serious. This one never wronged me but you're right she probably would. I'll call her tonight.	/r/askTRP	29/08/18 08:27 PM
1	How to break up with a plate who thinks we have something serious. I liked things as they were, casual nothing more. Thanks I will!	/r/askTRP	29/08/18 08:26 PM
2	I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates? Thanks this one rings a bell for me too, sometimes I truly don't give a damn what we will eat but they see it as weakness or indecisiveness for example.	/r/askTRP	27/08/18 04:38 PM
1	I do way better with tall chicks then short chicks? Weird correlation, I'd expect tall ones to look for tall dudes and tall dudes to look for tall girls. I guess it's to fix their short girl genes that they look for the tallest ones... Thanks, fixed, metric system here normally.	/r/askTRP	27/08/18 04:01 PM
44	My gf exhibits inappropriate behavior around homosexual men Oh yeah this, gay men will be in relationships with men but they often fuck women too just for fun. And they get offered plenty.	/r/askTRP	27/08/18 03:56 PM
10	How to deal with high school girls? Just be at the right place at the right time ;)	/r/askTRP	26/08/18 04:04 PM
3	My sister is dating a weird dark triad type... ideas how to help her, if even possible. Read, he does not ever fuck them. While yes I could learn some from him, most of his game has no purpose. What do I care if I get endless validation from these babes if I never fuck em?	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 06:58 PM
3	My sister is dating a weird dark triad type... ideas how to help her, if even possible. I will never and have never whiteknighted. She chooses who she fucks what do I care. The problem in this case is that he ISN'T fucking my sister. He's fucking up her brain for no reason. And I see her becoming very unhappy is it not normal to want to help her? I'm guessing you don't have a sister. But yes it probably won't matter a thing if I'd say something.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 05:18 PM
1	Translate for me please. I didn't fuck here because the first time I met her she wanted me to fuck her but she was so shitfaced drunk that there was no point. And the next time she was all over me but went home, didn't want to seem slutty after the first time ah well. Thanks!	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 05:02 PM
1	Translate for me please. Wouldn't it be fun to try agree amplify here too? Like say "oh noooo I was totally in love with you" But I wouldn't be suprised if they just took that seriously too lol.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 04:58 PM
1	Translate for me please. Probably yeah	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 04:49 PM
1	Translate for me please. Nope the first time I met her she wanted me to fuck her but she was so shitfaced drunk that there was no point. And the next time she was all over me but went home, didn't want to seem slutty after the first time ah well.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 04:48 PM
1	Translate for me please. Yeah I did that in the past sometimes, it never convinced anyone but it's so fucking tempting to put her in her place and say I wasn't looking for anything either (I'm leaving the country fucksake I only wanted to fuck her, why do they always spin everything around.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 04:45 PM
1	Translate for me please. Thanks for this clarification! I never complimented her, said to her that I liked her or that I found her hot, I thought I kept my cards close but that's kinda hard when you're making out with a girl... While I fucked up many dates in the past I honestly think I played this one good, she was all over me and kept asking me questions etc... guess she just found another dude or such. It's not about this one, it's about not making rookie mistakes anymore for me. I hope to reach a point where I can h…	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 04:43 PM
1	Translate for me please. Thanks I'll do this, just abit hard to wrap my head around as she was all over me on the dates. Guess like you said I wasn't attractive enough to her and she was just thirsty those nights, or she found someone better.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 01:03 PM
3	Translate for me please. Yeah you're right no needs justifying myself it wouldn't make a difference anyway. I chose the place (didn't let her know where we would go before) and she was happily hopping behind me all the time, touching me etc... Made out a few times. Then she says "Sorry I dragged you along :)" like others I can only conclude she found someone better and hamstered it away, turning it all around in her head.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 12:59 PM
1	Cock blocking Yeah I'm still struggling to keep the plate rack full too. I can't seem to be able to keep em longer then 3 months, then they start pushing for commitment, they find someone else, I get bored of them, or like you say her friends come between... Always something else. Or I get comfortable because I have three plates, drop new leads and suddenly I'm left with only one. Should always keep fishing.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 11:48 AM
-1	Translate for me please. Thanks, but should I not try to make it clear somehow that I'm not looking for serious stuff either?	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 11:41 AM
2	How to use tinder properly? -"yet every one pushed for a relationship hard afterwards, despite them clearly stating they were just looking for a hook up" -You matched 700 girls. A+B= You are way higher smv and they did what they could to try and hook you, instant sex. As others said here, go for hotter girls.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 01:44 AM
2	Cock blocking Plenty of men do this too.... after a party when I was in bed with the girl she showed me "warning texts" from one of our mutual friends telling her she shouldn't go home with me. I've seen former friends scare girls off of eachother because they didn't want the other one to get one up. Pathetic.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 01:39 AM
1	It won't happen again, I'm taken. Yeahhh she told me I could eat her out but I really really didn't feel like a mouth full of hair tbh...	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 09:45 PM
7	Plastic surgery worth it in my case? Hey man, I had the same problem you had. I have the biggest nose ever, also made posts about it at one time. Then I went on a journey of self discovery, got new hobbies, friends, courses etc... found trp after that, just at the right time. It was not my big nose that held me back from getting laid, it was my lack of confidence. I'll be real with you, YES a lot of girls are turned off by it. BUT a lot of girls really dig it because you stand out. Only a percentage of girls like it, but this perce…	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 05:41 PM
1	How often do you guys get rejected on an approach percentage wise For me it comes in waves, I had some beginners luck and closed a girl every weekend for a while. Then I had nights where I approached 30 and catched nothing for weeks. Competition is fierce in this city, usually when I get lucky it's because I've hit a golden spot. Where there are almost equally as much girls as dudes. Also I try to go for same night lays because you will be replaced the next day by someone else. Hardly any text back, or fail to meet the next time. The grass is greener mentality…	/r/seduction	22/08/18 05:26 PM
1	It won't happen again, I'm taken. lol no, it's just we were in bed and I couldn't get past lmr/asd. Fingered her abit, wouldn't eat her out because she wasn't shaven... Then she started giving me a handjob, but yeah next time I'll just refuse	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 05:08 PM
1	It won't happen again, I'm taken. You're right I stopped all contact since then.	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 03:10 PM
1	It won't happen again, I'm taken. Yeah very well could be.	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 03:10 PM
0	It won't happen again, I'm taken. Thanks I'll do that next time, had another one go mad because she couldn't make me cum recently. Became way more submissive... Didn't think to use it in this situation.	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 03:10 PM
2	It won't happen again, I'm taken. Bah I sent "ok" and then said she should set up the next time but that I was full for the rest of the week. Made a rookie mistake because she was obviously into me when I saw her, thanks this was the answer I needed.	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 03:08 PM
3	Why Tinder is a waste of time for most guys what's a beta bio look like?	/r/askTRP	21/08/18 05:53 PM
7	Dealing with a co-worker from hell "Has come out and said " I don't like you" then brought food the next day, i guess she felt sorry" She might just like you...	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 04:44 PM
6	Will be leaving my country for 6 months, plate acting up, don't know how to handle. Yeah this is the most successful plate I had since discovering trp. I said and did all the right things and tested some trp ways. She has a totally different image of me then girls in my past did, she gets wet when she sees me, always trying to please me. I remember reading a post about "being her best option" but oh my the world of difference I couldn't have imagined. First time I had this. Learned a lot from this one. Thanks! You're right she'll just hop back on tinder and it'll be fine.	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 01:21 PM
2	Will be leaving my country for 6 months, plate acting up, don't know how to handle. Yeah I tried not to do that, did almost all of "The talk" from the sidebar. Worked for a long time but she's going in overdrive now. I haven't been on this side much, girls wanting me this bad. Felt like I owed her an explanation. Yeah I want to go to germany without any strings attached in any area of my life. You're right it's better to just drop it and go, who cares. Thanks! I'm looking forward to it.	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 01:04 PM
1	Does shitting where you eat apply to Highschool? And even then.	/r/askTRP	07/08/18 02:32 AM
2	My tinder date in 2 days is absolutely adamant that she wants me to wear a dress when we meet Don't know why the downvotes... I wouldn't show up in the dress but I'd definitely play dressup with her like we were both children.	/r/seduction	07/08/18 02:23 AM
2	My tinder date in 2 days is absolutely adamant that she wants me to wear a dress when we meet Suprised how serious some people take banter. If you react like this you'll get 0 pussy.	/r/seduction	07/08/18 02:22 AM
3	My tinder date in 2 days is absolutely adamant that she wants me to wear a dress when we meet He won't be wearing said dress... he's going to play with costumes with a hot girl. Why would you not go? It's a girl that wants to have fun, I rather take a girl like this then one asking about how much money you make.	/r/seduction	07/08/18 02:21 AM
3	Recently started PUA. Been seeing improvement, I actually get numbers now, but rarely ever get texts back, and when I do they always flake on the date Had the same, I just have some fun making out now and I'll try pull em home. It's night game, the passion of the moment will often be forgotten by the girls next morning. Many also have bf's or just wanted to have some fun. Just keep doing what you're doing but try escalating more on the spot. Don't worry about the flakers.	/r/seduction	07/08/18 01:56 AM
9	My tinder date in 2 days is absolutely adamant that she wants me to wear a dress when we meet Ok I know a few girls like these, you're in for a ride. It's one of those rollercoaster girls that needs her thrills. She wanted the phonecall to make sure you're not boring, you passed. Do not show shame, tease and dare her to do shit too. Make it a fun date, start having fun while picking the dresses together and with some luck you'll be making out in the changing booth with the dress on. Watch out for friendzone shit with these attention/thrill seekers, keep escalating. Do not keep giving her…	/r/seduction	07/08/18 01:14 AM
2	Should I change my name? Turn it around and use it to your advantage as a conversation booster whenever someone brings it up. By now you should have some good deflections or stories to link.	/r/askTRP	07/08/18 01:02 AM
2	Can be alpha to every girl except one, what should I do? Been there too, I hard nexted one and she came back months after for some more. But it's was still miles off of other girls behaviour that melted for me, it's hard to regain frame as first impressions stick. They just see it as you acting butthurt when you suddenly become cocky or dgaf. Has to be there from the start.	/r/askTRP	07/08/18 12:59 AM
1	Best mate wants to date my ex. Yeah I'm actually doing good now, some ONS and two plates spinning. The thing is I was trying to get him laid, let him meet a bunch of girls and going out with him.... he doing good too but he just never pulls the trigger when needed. Untill a ex gives him attention (to fuck with my head?) it eliminates the need for him to game. I know it shouldn't bother me but I don't want to awaken old sores you know. I would love for my friends to get laid but not in this manner....	/r/askTRP	07/08/18 12:52 AM
1	Best mate wants to date my ex. "He might not respect you as much as you respect him." Apparently not.	/r/askTRP	07/08/18 12:48 AM
1	Best mate wants to date my ex. Might be true, recently been introducing him to other friend groups etc... Trying to put in some rp wisdom along the way, wrong choice it seems.	/r/askTRP	07/08/18 12:47 AM
2	Best mate wants to date my ex. Yup this is exactly what happened, had I kept my mouth shut against my bro he'd have acted as normal and probably struck out fast. Thanks for the advice!	/r/askTRP	06/08/18 10:36 PM
4	What to do if you are getting a lot of make-outs but not bringing any girls home How would you know though...	/r/seduction	06/08/18 06:51 PM
7	Best mate wants to date my ex. Agree to a degree, I wouldn't fuck a mate's ex if there were 3 hotter girls eying me that night but I didn't have the balls to move on em...	/r/askTRP	06/08/18 03:07 PM
3	Best mate wants to date my ex. While you're right I should just not care. But I'd rather have him just take her home and fuck her then this explanation. If it's only because he can't get anything else... shouldn't he be able to contain himself to uphold said "bro code" he always talked about?	/r/askTRP	06/08/18 02:50 PM
10	Best mate wants to date my ex. Yeah same night he asked there were a few unknown girls eyeballing him all night but he didn't have the guts to make a move, seems he'd rather go after my ex because it's easier. Had primed another girl which he tried to swoop but failed, I didn't think anything of it it was still fair game. But when he asked this question after and the random girls eyeballing him I started connecting the dots. I've know him for 10+ years, I'm kinda disappointed after this.	/r/askTRP	06/08/18 02:46 PM
9	Indicators Of Interest Suck - This Is The Real Way To Tell If A Girl Likes You This. "We're not gonna have sex" almost always results in sex. When they say it, I already start feeling them up while saying "ok let's just go to sleep" or I stop all contact and they'll start the nut to butt 5 mins later like you said. A few were "true to their words" and only gave me a blowjob, still fine with me. And if she is really unresponsive I just go to sleep and often in the morning they start feeling me up... I have a few smarter female acquaintances that go straight for the couch be…	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/18 03:03 PM
1	Indicators Of Interest Suck - This Is The Real Way To Tell If A Girl Likes You I don't know, I go for the kiss asap. But I make it a very short one and then I pull away for a while. Shows her I'm not afraid to take what I want but I'm also not too thirsty. And it weeds out attention seekers fast.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/18 02:52 PM
2	what do you consider to be the most important factor in SMV? Money only helps you once you have all the other factors.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 05:46 PM
7	what do you consider to be the most important factor in SMV? This, took a while for me to figure out. But I've had girls come back to me after rejections even because of my "delirious confidence" they start hamstering why I'm so confident and come back to find out. Also rejections are way less harsh if you approach confident, you're no longer a creep, just a guy making an honest move.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 05:45 PM
15	it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t. Awesome list but the order may vary, it's not strict. Some girls will only kiss at step 19 for example... and some only want to be touched after or during kissing. Seen some weird ones.	/r/seduction	04/08/18 01:54 PM
1	Favorite plate broke down crying after sex I'd rather not either! Just playing devil's advocate ;) My point is no one wants to bang a "taken" girl, 9/10 you'll never know if she has a bf or not. Just as many girls say they have a bf as first line of defense while it's not even true. If she doesn't even tell people is she really "taken"? The truly taken ones you don't have a chance with and they don't go out hunting for dick.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 12:16 PM
1	Favorite plate broke down crying after sex No one should rely on taken girls. I agree you shouldn't actively pursue clearly taken girls. But who are you to say no if some taken girl wants you, there is obviously something wrong in her relationship if she wants to cheat, if not you she'll take someone else. Ofcourse if I even know 1 mutual person I'd never do it. "Why create more misery for other guys?" You'll always create misery for someone even if you fuck a single girl there are always a bunch of other guys fucking her or pining over …	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 11:49 AM
1	Favorite plate broke down crying after sex This, it's her job to tell you if she has a bf, if I go asking her she might say yes even if she doesn't have one. No point in stabbing myself in the foot. You don't know what their 'relationship' is, might be a 6 month sexless one, long over or other issues.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 11:37 AM
1	Favorite plate broke down crying after sex Some girls are in a ltr forever, how do you think this happens hmmmm. She's fucking the next one while with the previous one. Try some "single girls" almost all of them have multiple strings attached, abusive exes, first loves that they can't get over etc... They just label things differently. Also most girls don't even tell you that they have a bf, once you know it's too late.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 11:34 AM
2	Favorite plate broke down crying after sex Yeah cheaters will cheat, better it's you then some other dude.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 11:30 AM
7	Favorite plate broke down crying after sex Yeaahhhh you're in for a ride my friend. You'll be suprised the things they tell you once they know you're openminded and non-judgy/dgaf.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 11:29 AM
2	Best dating apps apart from tinder? Aha apparently distance settings are disabled in my country due to low member count	/r/seduction	04/08/18 10:46 AM
1	Best dating apps apart from tinder? Tried that but it has no distance setting, matching with girls living 100km away and such.	/r/seduction	03/08/18 04:07 PM
2	I need advices from you guys for this one She doesn't want to be exclusive atm. Continue to have this "extraordinary sex" with her, do not try ANYTHING serious from your side. If she wants she'll try reeling you in after a while, if not so be it.	/r/seduction	03/08/18 04:05 PM
1	Tinder is Now My Main Source of Lays Nowadays; Alternately, is Night Game Dying? Where I am half the dance clubs went bankrupt but there are still a few decent ones (60% dudes). I pickup there once in a while but there's plenty of sharks like you in there, you have to move fast. The bars here have become more busy but totals cocksfests (90%+ dudes). Not worth it. And online pickup here is getting horrible too, guys are catching on fast and putting up decent pictures, hitting the gym etc... Girls just put up 1-2 shity pictures of their face and done. Noticing a shift amongst …	/r/seduction	02/08/18 04:30 AM
4	After playing the field and having multiple girlfriends and FWB over the last couple of years, I decided to try my hand at dating properly again. Did I mess something up (details in post)? Hate this shit, I'm 29 and I've seen this mentality on a good portion of the high-in-demand 18-23 range of girls. It's like they ride the cc so much they need to be constantly reminded why they chose to fuck you every time. Each time you see them you need to run successful game from zero to a same-night lay again. Nexted one for 3+ months untill she reached out herself and still needed all of the above again. Fucking annoying, and not worth it. Just enjoy your notch from the first lay and leave …	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 04:01 AM
5	My boss hired my roommate at $1 more per hour than I currently make. Yeah don't compare, your boss will lower your friends pay before bringing up yours if you complain and compare. Wait a few weeks or longer, start exploring other job offers (abundance mentality, yes it works for jobs too) and discuss with your boss.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 03:50 AM
2	Frustration on BP friends This, some friends I had turned bitter and angry after years to the point I couldn't even bring them along to other friendgroups (too socially weird and provocative). Two of them resorted to fucking prostitutes... I cut them out and one of the 5-6 dudes came to me after seeing the others burn and finally realising he needed help.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 03:47 AM
2	Girls out of your league Yeah but they will often kill a vibe or good conversation you had going on or put her back on a pedestal that you just made her forget she was on. Like you say most of these I let them talk themselves in a corner or let her reject them. But there are some smooth criminals that eat up a chunk of your 'date time'. Ran into one of a girls orbiters a few times too, she can't get rid of them fast without losing the orbiter and I had to act like a 'friend' for a while.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 03:39 AM
2	Girls out of your league Same I bore easily if I can't do my own thing. So if I have company it better be good company. Tired of all the drugged up dudes and boring chicks, keep meeting those way too often even if I try to avoid them.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 03:14 AM
2	Girls out of your league This is very true, dated an 8 this year, turned out she thought she looked way below average... Had sex with a 7 that thinks she's a fucking instagram model because guys of all smv keep hitting on her. Doesn't stop bragging about it. When she's drunk she'll do me occasionally but she still thinks she's too good for me... Also 7's tend to surround themselves with worse looking girls too whereas the 9-10s flock together (they know they are hot but it's not special). Less delusional and way more fr…	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 03:11 AM
2	Girls out of your league This, I had a date with a true 9 this year. Fucking annoying it's not that all guys try to hit on her most just stare but all the sharks come out to play... the true bold dudes. Some start to talk with me then quickly switch over to her, some hit on her when I'm on the toilet, some hit on her right in front of me... Bah man learned my lesson there, I try to take the true hotties out on daytime dates now. Not anything involving alcohol unless it's at my place.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 03:02 AM
2	Is she trying to make me a beta male orbiter? He's caught by her dark triangle.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 02:15 AM
3	How to handle ‘rollercoaster girls’ This, I'm 29 and still have trouble not breaking hotter plates... fucked up a lot :( You just have to get used to them, you'll always have some pitfalls but after a while you'll treat them all the same.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 02:13 AM
3	You sound boring - Speak with emotion and confidence It'll sound too rehearsed and humblebraggy, and then you switch to the question about her life. It's not fluid. If you have a conversation where you have to ask eachother questions like main passions it's not going well overall. You can steer conversations abit but you should try to catch "links" to previous memories/experiences or opportunities for humor in her answers. Doesn't matter if they relate to the previous question or not. Convo's will be way less boring and you'll end up on interestin…	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/18 01:56 AM
2	How can i learn the basics of sex? This. I chased away a few girls due to bad sex. Started reading some online sex tips etc... didn't do much. That internet technical robot shit does nothing, it's too easy to get carried away in it. Only experience will teach you. What helped most is not to hold back, grab her hard but sensual. Do whatever you want in bed but with confidence. Show your desire and she will desire you.	/r/askTRP	27/07/18 03:02 AM
1	Should women be able to vote? All of or votes aint worth shit, young old rich poor male or female, face it.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:54 AM
3	Should women be able to vote? "high income earners have more of a say" So you want to give more power to the rich people. Come on wake up, we have no say in politics. Then again it does not matter at all what we vote, it's one big play. Every politician is nothing more then an actor, they have no power. We are mere puppets, stop playing the game, wake up. TRP is apolitical, politics are part of the matrix not of the real world.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:53 AM
1	Exercise for sex this! I don't know why this got downvoted mma/bjj is amazing, you can use the transitions during sex and you show dominance...	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 02:28 AM
2	Why is it called the "million dollar mouth piece" ? Because social skills can be so powerful. Most ceo's or other sociopaths have such conversation skills that one word can make a difference of a million in a negotiation.	/r/seduction	21/07/18 04:46 AM
1	"You'll need more then this to get me out for drinks with you" While you might be right, is it not better to see it as practice instead of running?	/r/seduction	20/07/18 06:16 PM
1	"You'll need more then this to get me out for drinks with you" Nice one! I'll say it with a coy smile. Yeah I do better in person, online is such nonsense, only good for practice.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 05:23 PM
1	"You'll need more then this to get me out for drinks with you" Yeah I'll keep practicing! Inner game is doing better lately but I'm still struggling with what to say sometimes. Irl you can correct it way easier as opposed to online or text. Every line counts over text. This sounds amazing! As it's vacation I lost a lot of preselection, many of my friends are travelling or working. My favorite venues are closed during summertime too. I'll try being more social overall, making some new friends and expand social circle, or start going to some bars regularly so…	/r/seduction	20/07/18 05:19 PM
1	Best lines for going back to her place Whenever I asked to use the bathroom, I only got to use the bathroom...	/r/askTRP	20/07/18 05:02 PM
1	"You'll need more then this to get me out for drinks with you" Online, but I've heard this in person too. I must be doing something wrong because I've heard it a few times already.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 04:44 PM
1	"You'll need more then this to get me out for drinks with you" Hmm this could be it, thanks for the critique. Any pointers on how to do it better?	/r/seduction	20/07/18 04:35 PM
7	How Do Narcissists Get Girls? An old friend of me was a narcissist. Enormous ego and confidence, almost delirious. He got girls by opening them and acting like they should be grateful to be in his presence... You can act this to a degree but not on that level. Shit was absurd, girls got so confused by his delirious confidence that they started to chase him to see "why he was like he was" or "there must be something to justify his behaviour". Some went nuts. He knew there was a timer to it, they'd sooner or later find out he …	/r/seduction	20/07/18 04:06 PM
2	Switching from nightgame to daygame. Tips? Hahaha no, some really chatty ones though. You're right this is good advice, I try to talk to everyone, lowers the barrier to talk to hot women. And life is generally more fun with people smiling at you. If rather become a antual super-social dude then one that only approaches hot girls to try and get laid, seems more genuine.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 03:54 PM
-14	Jaw improvement? Fuck off with your surgery comments every time.	/r/askTRP	20/07/18 03:50 PM
5	Jaw improvement? Only works if you have reasonably low bodyfat.	/r/askTRP	20/07/18 03:50 PM
4	Jaw improvement? Drop bodyfat, grow a short nicely trimmed beard along your jawlines, BOOM problem solved. Now stop thinking about this shit and improve all other areas of your life.	/r/askTRP	20/07/18 03:49 PM
2	Switching from nightgame to daygame. Tips? Thanks alot for the advice! Will put it into good use ;) Logistics is the biggest problem here, I live in a grandma neighboorhood. 15-20 mins by bike to where the good stuff is.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 03:34 PM
3	First gf dumped me then slept with another guy the next night "At least she was kind enough to dump you first." This, I've had one taking a dude home in right in front of me at some party. Instead of breaking up with me she'd rather show me it was over. Next level disrespect.	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 11:41 AM
1	I thought I was past oneitis but my ego gets in the way. How to crush ego. Oh damn you're absolutely right, I have come a long way since then. On some areas I still need alot of practice though. Won't be able to bring anyone hotter easily atm though. She's somewhere on top of the crazy/hot scale you know. Do have a same level plate but she wants to keep things secret and is almost equally crazy. And one hb6 that melts for me. Maybe I should bring her as she's so submissive? Might have the same effect, even though she's not that hot.	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 11:37 AM
1	When a girl wants to know my past? Absolutely this, had to learn it the hard way.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 11:51 AM
1	How to NOT Be Creepy With Girls \| 7 Things You MUST Avoid It seems walter white is not here yet, man up and talk to her.	/r/seduction	18/07/18 05:01 AM
16	Sacrifice one girl for potentially many more. Or go for one girl and hope i can still get more cause fuck it.... She is probably just friendly because she thought you had a genuine interest in joining. I'd not go switch it up and try to game her because you seem thirsty. Better to join the association and meanwhile start to lift, dress better and get some hobbies for the new year, prepare yourself for said "pussy/party central" ahem. And why not join a fraternity?	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 04:58 AM
1	When a girl wants to know my past? read pook and day bang but I can't find original bang and text	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 07:48 PM
2	How do I expand my social circle/network ? Be careful with saying "people at your level". Keep a cool head. For example someone who has no interest in money but has an extreme passion for cooking and owns a very small restaurant in a small village might very well be much more of a friend to you then others. Some people have what you don't have. A friend of a family travels the world on dollars, he's broke as fuck but he has great stories and he's one of the most charismatic men I've ever met he doesn't give a shit about money. Guess what…	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 06:59 PM
1	You Never Took The Red Pill And Never Will How can you ever be free if you can't even see your chains. Force yourself to open your eyes to the harsh realities and free yourself from the weights that are media, politics, bread and circus acts, smartphone addictions, porn, games, and many many more. All of these are tools to easy you into and make you comfortable living a boring and pointless life as a drone. Let no one decide what you want. No need to be angry, most people are better of being played like a puppet by the puppeteers. Just d…	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/18 05:59 PM
1	Being too fit can actually backfire Yeah you have some points but ummm.... We should all aspire to have the same problem he does, most of us won't get to that level anyway. Sure you're not just hamstering to not hit the gym?	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/18 05:27 PM
3	When a girl wants to know my past? My past was boring af and I prefer not to talk about it. So I throw some breadcrumbs or some cool stories of the few actual good times I had. Never tell your whole life story, she'll be bored fast.	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 12:00 PM
1	(27/m) The last couple tinder dates I’ve gotten ended with little interest and I get a text the next day saying “I didn’t feel much of a spark” or just that they don’t feel interested. Wtf why do people downvote this. I know weak dick game is hard to admit, took a while for me too to see it. Ego takes a hit, but I've started gradually implementing some sgm methods and it produces fantastic results for both partners.	/r/seduction	16/07/18 11:42 AM
0	PUAs act like making out with random thots is a skill Aha but have you tried it, and succeeded with these "thots"?	/r/seduction	16/07/18 11:14 AM
1	do unattractive women serve any purpose? What about hitting the gym, work those glutes and build that ass to put it blunt. Not many men will be able to resist a super fit woman.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 06:02 AM
7	So I'm 27.5 and I've never gone out on the weekends. This, you need to start discovering yourself. Pick yourself apart and rebuild, improve and keep doing so. Pick a sport you like or try some new ones, stick with it and eat good. Find some new hobbies, travel to some interesting places. In the process you will make some new friends. Change is does not happen overnight, but it's a snowball effect. You'll look forward and see no end, but one day you'll look back and see how far you've come. Then you'll look forward again and see no end again but yo…	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 05:18 AM
2	do unattractive women serve any purpose? You described how I felt when I was a shitty ass dude who was at zero in every area of his life. Everyone needs to keep moving forward in life.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 05:09 AM
2	Chick comes to my place in an hour... I found it to be a negative extra factor used in lmr or asd by girls. Very easy to just go sit straight again and "pull her pants back up" all in one move because she's seen the movie before and "the good part" is coming... Not that big of a deal just easier with music imo.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 05:03 AM
5	I found the girl of my dreams Yes it's hard, I know all too well. Lost a few of these "dream girls" already. I learned this shit the hard way. Figured it out after a while, all the ones I "really liked" I would crash the relation due to not being my normal self. Or pedestalizing the girl. The ones I did not care so much about I never had problems with. I know the feeling, just don't go worshipping the ground she walks on. She is a woman and she wants to feel desired not worshipped. Hence, escalate and have sex, save the othe…	/r/seduction	15/07/18 04:58 AM
2	Contradictions... The point is not to become better then other people, that's pointless. There will always be better stronger smarter or faster men. But they also have plenty of problems. DO NOT COMPARE TO OTHERS. The point is to become a better version of yourself, so that YOU will become happier, more confident and will have a great fulfilling life. You do not have to be a normal guy, most "normal" guys are boring. "If a guy can capitalize on being eccentric and different" Any guy can capitalize on this, everyo…	/r/seduction	15/07/18 04:51 AM
8	Always struggling to go for the kiss "There's no way to make it like the romance movies. It's not going to be smooth, magical transition." Oh there is, make awkwardness your bitch, revel in it. See it as sexual tension instead. Here are some ways I've used: -During a full conversation stop talking and just stare at her, she'll stop too and the tension will build up. Move in and kiss. -While walking walk in front of her for abit and turn around, stop her in her tracks, she'll be too slow stopping and be very very close to you. Kiss.…	/r/seduction	15/07/18 04:19 AM
9	Wtf just happened? Never answer such questions directly, learned this the hard way too. You kill the mystery and you seem thirsty. Same goes for girls asking how many girls you slept with, there is no right answer. Next time say something like, "that's for you to find out" or "you'd like to know wouldn't you" That being said, it's just girl on tinder for attention probably, toying with the boys abit. Don't worry.	/r/seduction	15/07/18 04:09 AM
33	I found the girl of my dreams "Me and her have been hitting it off but I honestly don’t want to just bang her." I mean this in the best way possible. It's good you came here. Here it comes: JUST BANG HER I lost many a great chick learning this the hard way. Contain yourself, do what you normally do with girls you are not this heavily attracted to. Do not skip steps, sex first, and do not change your ways, she is attracted to you for a reason, if you go all limp now she'll bolt faster then you can blink. Bang her first or you…	/r/seduction	15/07/18 04:02 AM
6	My social skills fluctuate from really bad to really good, how do I get it to stay at a constant level, and why does it happen Had one of my best first dates conversations ever recently, girls on other tables were even listening to us to hear what I'd say next to the girl. And other days where I can't be bothered or the creativity just isn't there and I'll seem dull. Talking is an art, you can't always have a stroke of genius. It will never be constant. And only through practice can you raise the overall level.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 03:28 AM
2	It’s one thing to be ugly in one country... it’s another to be ugly in ALL of them. Yeah if every girl nopes out it's a personality/vibe problem I bet. Something is off and it can be hard to identify yourself, people tend to hardly see their your own mistakes or flaws.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 03:17 AM
4	How to avoid having your frame crippled when a higher SMV/Value guy is around? While this works often and is good advice, there are also situations where both the dude and the girl start ignoring you, then it's time to bolt like usain.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 03:11 AM
1	How to escalate on a first date when logistics arent in your favor? Hahahahaha you need to talk to your parents. And I noticed the whole post is hypothetical. You'll make it work, start with fixing your curfew. And get a shitty cheap car. It will give you some freedom to step out in a brave new world! Also just have fun and make out with a few girls first, worry about this later. If they want to fuck you they will.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 03:07 AM
4	Girl I met today told me she had a boyfriend, and still gave me her number. Thoughts? Oh they are usually more clever about it then bluntly asking for a blunt ;)	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 01:58 AM
18	Two types of "nice and sweet" guys, become the high SMV "nice" guy Yeah man, I just try to do the "decent" things. I won't buy any fucking flowers or drive her to useless place to pick up groceries for mom. But for example this year I've walked one girl home after a shitty date even because she lived in a real shitty ass part of town where some friends of me were robbed. It was like a 20min detour for me but I had a bike. I didn't care if she views me as beta or alpha, I don't need her getting raped on the boardwalk on my conscience. If she chooses to go out ne…	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/18 01:56 AM
2	Girl I met today told me she had a boyfriend, and still gave me her number. Thoughts? He'll learn, I did that shit a few times only to arrive at dry pussy land. Meanwhile you can give it a shot ;)	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 01:21 AM
15	Girl I met today told me she had a boyfriend, and still gave me her number. Thoughts? "I texted my boyfriend to tell him how miserable I was and he rolled a couple blunts and brought them here and left them in my car" Uberweeds. This guy is her personal weed dispenser but she might be up for trying some other strains ;)	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 01:11 AM
5	Whats the dumbest thing you did in your early 20s? Oh this shit, because of ridiculous oneitis I always managed to put myself in friendzones or beta bucks relationships where I'd not get sex for months while she was being railed all the time behind my back. And ignored a great many lay opportunities because of this. After a bunch of these I let myself slip into darkness and gave up for years.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 01:03 AM
24	Instant Gratification: The Age We Live In My grandma told me how they arranged things between friends and lovers back in her young years. They all meet at some place and who shows up shows up, and those that don't just don't. No hassle with calling them, texting them, trying fb messenger and all that crap. Clear and no fucks given. Then when at the bar they set the next meet, with some new persons maybe, same over. Same with meeting the opposite sex. I'm not saying they didn't fuck around as much that's bs but people were forced to show…	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/18 12:59 AM
2	How to improve looks when you have a slightly below average face? Sick of these comments about plastic surgery they should be banned. Get your fucking life together, lift and lose weight, dress well. Find some new hobbies, do some interesting stuff, get mentally healthy first, make some new friends and become an interesting fucking person that can enjoy himself. THEN see if you still need surgery, if you've taken all these steps I bet you won't give a fuck anymore. And if you do, by all means go for it but be prepared for the man in the mirror.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 11:15 PM
1	If a girl suggests the use of sex, does that mean your dick game is weak? Sounds amazing, yeah I'm experimenting with the sgm methods now. I had read it before but it's better to learn while gradually testing it on girls for me, it's getting more natural to me now instead of being a beta that just spanks a girl once in a while. More something to do with releasing my desire on them and just doing what I want. Not spanking them because I think it will get em wet.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 09:21 PM
5	How do I fuck her? This, if I haven't fucked her yet on date 1 or 2 I'll just invite her to my place or her place to "cook something" or some other bs excuse. Had a girl last week make something with what was left in my fridge while I watched with a glass of whine and a cig lol, so easy food and I got to fuck the hot cook afterwards. Starting to love trp.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 09:13 PM
1	If a girl suggests the use of sex, does that mean your dick game is weak? This, I recently started doing only a few of the things you mentioned and I already saw a world of difference in wetness from this...	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 09:09 PM
3	Tinder Girl invited me over for wine date (i think sex too if she will be into me) but im scared to go due to trauma Ok so I had a girl that didn't like how I kissed, this is how I played it. I didn't like how she kissed either. HER: You're a bad kisser and I can't continue this because I like kissing and it's a hard rule for me. ME: You're right it doesn't feel good to me either we shouldn't continue this. HER: (after some silence) I like alot of tongue use. ME: I don't. HER: Ok we'll do what you want. Bingo, and she continued this in the bedroom too, just doing what I wanted.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 09:03 PM
2	Is it normal to get toyed with by these savage bitches on swiping apps? How do I avoid it? Ah yeah you're absolutely right, upvoted.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 08:42 PM
4	Is it normal to get toyed with by these savage bitches on swiping apps? How do I avoid it? Yes the unmatching was a shit test, he should have gone on her instagram and started investigating to see where she lives. Then show up on her front door in the evening playing his guitar and singing. Shit test passed. Let me know how it goes.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 06:33 PM
2	Is it normal to get toyed with by these savage bitches on swiping apps? How do I avoid it? Doesn't matter what he said at all, she wasn't gonna fuck him anyway.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 06:30 PM
2	Is it normal to get toyed with by these savage bitches on swiping apps? How do I avoid it? The rock might be flaked on by some girls for a night with brad pitt. Happens to everyone.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 06:28 PM
4	How to bounce back/recover from a night of losing frame and being an idiot..? This, and don't start apologising to other people about your behaviour at said party or try to make up for it in weird ways.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 06:25 PM
3	Meet her at the club last night and she gave me her number. I texted her that once I got home from the club but she didn’t reply back yet. It’s been 7 hours since. NOW. How can I fix it ? What should I do ? She also shared her IG with me. She was really into me!!!! Age 20s. Help...... Probably won't, I still fuck up like this alot while being drunk. Even if you do it right you won't get an answer 50% of the time, it's no big deal. Radio silence for a week, maybe hit her up once if she doesn't reach after that. But honestly your best chance is just to let it be and should you run into her accidentally one day, try again the same night. Keep going for other girls!	/r/seduction	14/07/18 06:22 PM
4	Meet her at the club last night and she gave me her number. I texted her that once I got home from the club but she didn’t reply back yet. It’s been 7 hours since. NOW. How can I fix it ? What should I do ? She also shared her IG with me. She was really into me!!!! Age 20s. Help...... Next time no "??!!!" Way too needy, send nothing anymore untill she replies back. And no instagram stalking, liking all pictures and checking stories within minutes.	/r/seduction	14/07/18 06:14 PM
2	Getting called cute. Lol true, just giving examples. Gotta find what you like to wear, something that fits your personality and not just look like everyone else.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 03:15 PM
9	How so many men end up friendzoned You get downvoted but I've seen this shit actually work, a ripped collegue of mines does this often.	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 03:06 PM
3	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. Removed the "very" only high in our city, you're right it didn't make sense, and I'm not good at rating myself... so the difference might be larger.	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 06:56 AM
2	Contradictions... I'm 29 and I was totally ripped from 18-22. I was also a virgin at 22 and could not for the life of me get laid. Here is a list of some of the things that held me back. -boring -insecure -dressing like shit -no own place -no social life -no hobbies -no car -no experience either sexual or life in general -no stories to tell -no conversation skills -thirsty for sex -often focusing on one girl -and many many more I have fixed all of these and while there is still much to learn I am doing ok now. Fu…	/r/seduction	14/07/18 06:47 AM
9	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. ”I’m offended by everything”-haircuts. Lol	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 06:34 AM
3	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. Oh you're very right, it was the combination of his higher smv + my mistakes. I had been on trp for a few months and while I started good. Landed some girls etc, I somehow thought it ok to drop 2 other girls for this one very soon in the relationship... and I lost frame maybe only twice, but on crucial moments. I believe I am not that far behind him in smv, maybe 1 point. But I believe I dropped weekly in her eyes. I've come a long way since then but I still have a long way to go too.	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 06:31 AM
3	How do I get through a bitch shield? No really, you're doing it wrong. Bitch shields might be passed sometimes but essentially it means off limits to you. First and foremost, have fun at the party! Enjoy yourself with friends, enjoy the music, dance. Don't hold back, become one with the athmosphere. Be the life of the party. From this position girls will start to join in on the action or start showing interest. These girls will be the one with lowered bitch shields. Amongst these it's your job to filter out the ones that just want …	/r/seduction	14/07/18 06:15 AM
0	How do I get through a bitch shield? With a bro laser.	/r/seduction	14/07/18 06:10 AM
8	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. True, although unlikely he'll settle for a very thirsty 8. Considering the amount of pussy thrown at that kind of smv. "Often women claim to have a broken heart, when all she really has is a sprained ego." I believe "love" and "ego" hand in hand for woman. I've seen hb8+ girls in social circle absolutely freak out because "some boytoy fuckbuddy dared to dump HER". And only after were they suddenly "in love" with the said person who was nothing more then penis #5 in the rotation before. Then they…	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 06:02 AM
3	Getting called cute. I heard this often myself a few years ago, for me it was appearance. You probably look boring, choirboyish, or too "safe" to them. Ergo lack of outer personality. Find your edge, go from cute to sexy in their eyes. The line is not far. You need to find a personal style and go just a tiny bit overboard with it. Stand out. For example get a peaky blinders haircut and some vintage clothes mixed with good fitting new blue or black jeans. Cool sneakers. Wear these with dgaf attitude, edge found.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 05:50 AM
2	Talking about myself If you ask question, pick in on her answers, divert to nonsense, tell your stories or anecdotes. Don't immediately proceed to the next question. Drop some hints and breadcrumbs in all of the above, her interest should raise and she'll start asking you questions too. Throw some humor in if you see opportunities (no premade jokes) And it's not always your fault, some girls are just boring or bad at conversation.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 05:41 AM
1	just help me :( This is the right advice!	/r/seduction	14/07/18 05:30 AM
1	How to get the cards back from a girl after showing to much interest Yes food communication, cucumber meets sushi, food synergy.	/r/seduction	14/07/18 05:28 AM
1	If I’m not good looking then do I have no chance in getting girls in public? "I rarely get any matches from online dating" Online dating is a shit show, 90% of the girls are fishing for male models or attention there.	/r/seduction	14/07/18 05:23 AM
3	If you're above average looking, there's no reason you can't pull everytime you go out if you want to I'm a 7/10 ,I usually have a hb6 fwb for when I get too thirsty. Have sex with some random hb7 sometimes. And between, I shoot for the stars! (hb8-9s) a couple of times in a year I succeed and get to fuck real babes, I'm never sex starved, and never have to fuck fatties. I prefer it this way by far :)	/r/seduction	14/07/18 05:11 AM
3	Anyone else suffer from anorgasmic anejaculation? Fear not, I've fucked many a girl without cumming due to too much alcohol. If you get an opportunity just try to fuck her, it's uni, just say you had too much to drink (you probably won't even be lying) if it doesn't work out.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 05:00 AM
6	Anyone else feel less emotional since getting your life together? Distant from loved ones? Is this healthy? I met with some old buddies again today after them repeatedly asking me and we had a party. Worst I've felt this year, it was fine at first we drank some beers and did some catching up, had a good laugh, then it went downhill and they were watching shitty "funny" youtube vids (the same ones as 5 years ago). Started to see some patterns there. Then two of them turned out to still play wow and league. One of em had an ugly gf and started amoging the others for not having one ....Two of them got fa…	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 04:56 AM
4	A drunk reddit post He does not need your validation, why would he.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 04:47 AM
6	Anyone else suffer from anorgasmic anejaculation? Go to the doctor first. Stop thinking about this untill you know more. If the doctor says nothing is wrong go to a psychologist or try fucking a girl.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 04:45 AM
15	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. I don't believe so, the "better alpha" would have to be magnitudes better then the "original alpha" that strung her along for years. The one that she couldn't get to commit, too much emotional damage there. And she's only an 8 opposed to a known musician, most likely there won't be a greater chad going after her, sure some will fuck her but she won't get them to commit to her either. And should one commit, I bet he'll be cheated on with OG alpha too.	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 04:30 AM
6	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. It's the terrible combination of what I did not have at the time and the musicians much higher smv. That sucks man. Well you can read all you like, but untill you take some real red pills you won't wake up. We took some pills and we will be better for it in the end! I now treat every one of these shitty situations as lessons, they gradually make us stronger, better, more aware (and many other things) and our lives will keep improving.	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 04:21 AM
3	I live in a shitty-ish place and I'm insecure about bringing girls over This. I make some "design" furniture and lighting myself, it does something for girls. But I've seen far greater reactions for shitty ass paintings that I've seen dudes I know make. Girls creamed their panties when they started blabbing some explanation about the painting. It's almost better if it's shitty emo art. Also my appartment is clean but there is heaps of useless shit that I like, I guess I'm on the verge of being a hoarder. Every thing tells a story, I wanted to get rid of a bunch of s…	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 04:05 AM
10	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. Probably untill she dies, I predict she will make babies with the next dude she barely likes in order to fill the hole in her life. She already made small hints at this during our time together. Then shit will truly hit the fan.	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 04:01 AM
1	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. Indeed, one step back two forwards I will get to that point!	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 03:56 AM
33	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. Yeah I'm happy I discovered within the first few months. Before me she had a half year long relationship with some other dude, but had to have an abortion due to fucking the musician unprotected. Same here, with me always protected sex. Quite sad self destructive behaviour actually, life resetted each time she meets him. Then desperately lovebombing another beta untill shit hits the fan again. I pity the ones before and the ones who follow in my footsteps, and I hope they'll find out soon too. (…	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 03:52 AM
1	Do you go down on tinder dates? 1) Only if that pussy looks amazing and is clean shaven. 2) Tinder girls never	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 02:59 AM
1	Do you go down on tinder dates? Also from belgium, noticed this too. But I do wrap on tinder girls, as every soa available is going around on tinder. One girl told me she had three in one year...	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 02:53 AM
2	Theory in Progress: Making a woman actually addicted to you. This is true, a girl I fucked once told me some of the crazy things she did.... I'm a little bit on the "devil may care side" so she had some attraction, but I was till too tame for her and she constantly tried to enable or escalate my risk taking behaviour (not only during sex). Dangerous woman. I mean I enjoy dominant sex but I won't ever choke a women to near death or beat them for real. She dated some true psycho's that I can't (and won't) ever be able to top. One of these dudes even sent de…	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 02:34 AM
208	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. I met a girl like this, she was an 8. She went after me hard, we fucked a few times and she tried to get me in a relationship, stupid as I was I went along with it. Little did I know that she was just trying to fill a hole in her life from some high smv travelling musician, I didn't stand a chance. Untill this dude was at an event I was too, I was dropped like a stone and he fucked her the same night. Dude doesn't want anything to do with her except fuck her hard whenever they meet, she's just a…	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 02:08 AM
6	Rate My Ascension Plan Let's assume this post is satire This is actually a good post	/r/TheRedPill	13/07/18 12:35 AM
1	What's my next best move? nothing to do with phone game and entirety to do with how much she likes your face This 100%! hahaha also took me a while to realise this.	/r/askTRP	12/07/18 08:02 PM
6	How to answer the "how many fwb's do you have?" question? Last week I was with a girl she kept asking the whole night how many girls I've slept with. Ignored it, made it a joke multiple times, didn't work. She kept asking untill I just laughingly said "you'll never know". Old me would have told but there is no right answer to this question. Trp has tought me. Too low she'll be put off, too high she'll be put off, will she even believe you no matter what you say? Anyways I still fucked her, you don't have to answer everything.	/r/askTRP	12/07/18 07:59 PM
3	How do you guys respond to "Maybe" Heard this a couple of times now, maybe = very low interest. I've only fucked one of these "maybe" girls and it was only after she saw me hooking up with multiple other girls. So if you don't know her at all the only solution is next.	/r/askTRP	12/07/18 07:54 PM
2	Need advise on this Yeah well, I think it was more about my reaction to the flake. I don't chase girls anymore (I did for a long time though, chump that I was). I just told her ok np and I went with some other people that night no biggie. Then I shot her another invite a week or so later, then it turned into her chasing me :) Trp often advocates immediate nexting but I feel like that's sometimes too much, these girls have soo many options that you'll be forgotten in the blink of an eye. Ofcourse never be needy but …	/r/askTRP	12/07/18 07:45 PM
3	Masculine bedroom design Fix the lighting first! Like others said. I had white light office lamps on my ceiling when I moved in... noticed this killed the mood on a couple of occasions. Replaced with some second hand cool design lamps. Put in a bookshelf, some paintings or cool posters on the wall. Some small audio speakers.	/r/askTRP	12/07/18 06:00 PM
2	Need advise on this Recently had a girl praising me for asking her out again after she flaked the first time and being cool about it. Tells me she flakes every first time to check for neediness... She only told me all of this after me fucking her on third date.	/r/askTRP	12/07/18 05:53 PM
7	Am I purposely being used? "So in person everything goes great" No it doesn't, you hung out multiple times and only cheek kissing. Yes you're being used. Next.	/r/askTRP	10/07/18 12:43 AM
3	"Don't shit where you eat" I don't count this shit as real jobs anymore, also these kinda places often fire you without notice anyway even if you do your job well. It's almost modern slavery usually, get what you can out of it and do it fast. Make some new friends, go out with them and the girls, see what happens.	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 03:25 PM
2	I'm 22 never had sex yet met a girl, she asks if I'm a virgin what to do This I've told two girls before, worst decision ever. Some girls are ruthless to betabucks. One dangled sex over me for months and the other let me do everything to her but put my dick in. When it finally happened I took half a cialis for anxiety. Googled some foreplay vids and just reinacted a porn movie. I got lucky and she loved it, I now know they don't all do :p	/r/seduction	09/07/18 04:43 AM
1	''Sorry, you're not my type'' = the new ''I've got a boyfriend'' Dude I've had girls calling me straight up ugly several times. Fucked two of those few months ago, sure they won't ever date me in public but who cares. You can sway many with long dgaf/preselection game. I've had another calling me sexy after her not seeing me for a few years, I've got the same damn face... Only my attitude changed. Girls like boxer types with broken noses too for example, while you are ugly, you will be sexy to them. Find your edge.	/r/seduction	09/07/18 04:33 AM
2	Problems after Massive Increase in SMV In my country inviting them to your house doesn't work very often. If I go for a quick 30min coffee or beer the defenses are much much lower next time.	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 04:22 AM
0	What's your best advice for staying lean? Keto	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 04:20 AM
15	Accidentally nuked a girl from orbit. What now? "This girl is very insecure about her looks" She's fishing for compliments, don't cave. Don't feel guilty, she called you a fuckup she deserved that answer. And don't be so serious, treat it like a friendly sparring match nothing more.	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 04:19 AM
10	Lost Frame. Blew up at my friends. Don’t know how to proceed. No contact for a while and see who reaches out to you, time to see which of these dicks actually like hanging out with you man. Or next them all, go find some new hobbies.	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 04:13 AM
4	Problems after Massive Increase in SMV After following this conversation I say the thing you lack most is frame and game. And you seemed to have lost touch with your inner self. Do not try to be a new person, you need to be your 10 years old self in a superman suit. Or living in a fucking batcave. Why should you care what people say about you, be it good or bad. Who cares if he is right or you are right, it's a waste of time. HB8+ girls may be in your reach looks and status wise but you won't survive any of the shittests, you need a …	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 04:09 AM
2	Problems after Massive Increase in SMV "I suggested we get trashed together" "I invited to a pool party where everyone gets hammered" You trigger their anti slut defense pretty hard man. These things do sound fun but it should be spontaneous, now it just sounds like you want to get them drunk asap. And no paying baseball tickets on a first date!	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 03:26 AM
1	Problems after Massive Increase in SMV This, you always see other people's errors easily but almost never your own. And often no one will ever tell you, frustrating...	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 03:22 AM
11	Which is the craziest and hardest shit test a woman has thrown at you? A girl set it up so me her, and her violent ex would be at the same party.... This shit happened TWICE, with different girls.	/r/askTRP	08/07/18 04:32 AM
3	What should I be doing right now Do a bunch of "free tryouts" at martial arts schools. Most have between 1-3 free lessons.	/r/askTRP	05/07/18 03:18 AM
17	Low SMV, High Attraction? Dude you're attracted to her, don't overhink this, just have some fun!	/r/askTRP	05/07/18 02:13 AM
3	Ruined Reputation Just go full beta, say you really really like her and your drunk self interpreted signals wrong. Apologise to her. You'll go from creep to "just having a crush on someone". She'll feel better and pedestalized, just treat her normal from then on.	/r/askTRP	04/07/18 05:57 PM
7	How to land the girl I'm into tomorrow? Have fun! Can't emphasize this enough. Have fun with your friends first and foremost. Be the life of the party. Do some drinking games or whatever, just do your thing and if she joins in or likes what you're doing you can go for it later in the night. Don't focus all of your attention on her, just do your thing and have fun.	/r/seduction	04/07/18 04:16 AM
1	Forcing myself to not fear rejection. Anyone doing the same? Makes sense, have fun! Oh where do you live?	/r/askTRP	04/07/18 04:04 AM
1	Unpopular opinion: all this strategy talk and tactic advice might change what you do, but it will not change who you are "who am I and how do I add value to a girl's life" Who am I is every mans own problem to solve. You can look for answers everywhere and I know it sounds cheesy but you'll have to find it within. Time to do some soul searching. Other people can only help you move in the right way. "how do I add value to a girl's life" --> by adding value to your own, being your own independent self "focus on the nitty gritty day-to-day interactions" -->Because experiencing these situations firsthand change you an…	/r/TheRedPill	04/07/18 03:31 AM
25	Anything wrong with making Date #2 a cooking date at my place? 🤔 Sizzle some steaks, toss some salad, eat some tuna, y'know	/r/askTRP	04/07/18 03:18 AM
43	Unpopular opinion: all this strategy talk and tactic advice might change what you do, but it will not change who you are This is not an unpopular opinion. You just described the only right way to implement trp in one sentence. "When you start implementing the habits, philosophies and mentalities that bring lasting change, and change not just what you do, but who you are, that's where you'll find gold."	/r/TheRedPill	04/07/18 03:16 AM
1	Forcing myself to not fear rejection. Anyone doing the same? Why the 13th?	/r/askTRP	04/07/18 02:43 AM
3	Throw in the towel on this one? Ask her out once more but suggest an actual day, time and place. What have you got to lose? Also your texting is very very dry, I used to do this too but now I just shoot the shit. Don't take it so seriously.	/r/askTRP	04/07/18 02:40 AM
1	Friendzone or Lets hit it? "The play here is to make her put up or leave." How would you suggest doing that? Withdrawing attention alot? I succeeded at this once long ago and I had sex after a friendzone but it took a looong while. Not worth it imo, do you have better ideas? :)	/r/seduction	04/07/18 01:57 AM
1	How do you get rid of dead/lifeless eyes? Hey man, I had this problem. I know it sounds easier then it is but try to be in the moment. Just think about what you will do to the girl ;) And your eyes should give another message.	/r/askTRP	03/07/18 11:44 PM
1	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical? "If you are unable to have good sex, don’t have sex." Oh man this is absolutely what I should have done. Should've just made out with her abit and went to fucking sleep. The thought didn't even cross my mind at the time ofcourse... Often you only get one shot :p But you are 100% right. Didn't expect it to be reset this heavy though.... absurd. Yeahhh it was already enough hassle before I finally got to sex with this girl, then she resets it.... I don't think I deserve to jump all the hoops again…	/r/seduction	03/07/18 02:39 AM
1	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical? Yeah I'll try doing this, seems best because can't make much sense of the situation anyway. I'd have expected her to do this instead of me haha.	/r/seduction	03/07/18 02:14 AM
1	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical? "It sounds like you have her figured out." Partly guess game :) we never truly know. Just don't know how to handle, didn't expect the "nothing physical" stuff. First time this happened to me. I'll be leaving for 6 months in september no point going for anything serious, and she'd be a serious headcase to be in a relationship with I guess. But I'd like to carry on for abit as she's quite hot :) If I didn't have to leave I'd probably go for it and shouldn't (such a headcase). So I guess I have a f…	/r/seduction	03/07/18 01:36 AM
1	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical? This could be it, although I've heard some slutty stories about her (and directly from her) she's also liked talking A LOT about guys that wanted to fuck her and she denied them. She likes to have the upper hand or something, all the power. Trying to keep her "reputation" up. Yeah I guess I'll just friendzone her for now and go for other girls meanwhile? It's one of those girls I guess she likes me but won't ever admit it sober, she told me a few weeks ago drunk but that was it. Apart from that …	/r/seduction	03/07/18 01:11 AM
1	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical? Sure I understand, she knows I was drunk af though... could've cut me some slack? Do it at another time, sober. Yeah I did that but I was just too drunk for that too (no calibration) . I was celebrating a graduation, it's not that I'm always this drunk. Alternatively if I wouldn't have been this drunk the sex would've probably never even happened... I rather have her ghost me then doing whatever this is, this I don't understand. Her wanting to keep meeting me but nothing physical.	/r/seduction	03/07/18 12:51 AM
1	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical? Yes the sex was bad I drank too much (she didn't) :( Unfortunately I don't have a time machine. Didn't expect her to withdraw all physicality though.... Thanks I'll try this, and if she keeps doing it I'll just go for other girls.	/r/seduction	03/07/18 12:39 AM
1	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical? Yeah could be, only I don't think she was looking for a relationship as she told me before. "Where is the seduction question in this?" Maybe there are some seduction solutions? :p Yeah now that I think about it it's maybe the wrong forum for this. I'm fine with her not wanting a relationship, I leave for 6 months soon so I'm good with only sex. But I don't understand what this is...	/r/seduction	02/07/18 11:54 PM
1	Had sex with a girl, she keeps trying to meet afterwards but nothing physical? Stopped my advances cold. Last time we went out we had a fun time but still...	/r/seduction	02/07/18 11:52 PM
4	Been being stoic and getting shit-tested constantly "Today I decided to try being as stoic as I could." Ofcourse people you already know are going to give you shit when they see you do this...	/r/askTRP	02/07/18 04:03 AM
1	What's your favorite TRP post? The lightswitch effect, my favorite post and most hated phenomenon. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4cax09/the_lightswitch_effect_why_women_rewrite_the/	/r/askTRP	02/07/18 02:18 AM
1	Depressed because I can't workout for two months This, I lost most of my beer belly working shifts. Decided to pair it with a diet and this was the time I was most ripped in my life.	/r/askTRP	01/07/18 02:38 AM
1	Severe gynomastachia is killing my motivation I've heard keto diet for a long time fixes it. Might be nonsense, but why not try it. It fixed some of my allergies.	/r/askTRP	01/07/18 02:35 AM
1	Basics of bar/club game? "Be the flame not the moth"	/r/askTRP	30/06/18 01:41 PM
2	I only ever get with bitches at club/rave if I do my own thing and disregard them "Be the flame not the moth" Yeah this is the way at all parties/clubs, one of the only areas where I do real good. Only problem is although you can pull some hot ones they don't often turn out to be quality girls lol. Just have the most fun, see who's interested and escalate.	/r/askTRP	30/06/18 01:35 PM
2	What should you do if you had to fight a guy with black belt in martial arts? I agree there are alot of mcdojo's. But for example there is a full contact karate club here where they just spar barefisted... alot of cops and ex soldiers go there. But yes I'd still recommend thaibox, mma or regular boxing. Maybe krav maga if they are serious.	/r/askTRP	30/06/18 01:31 PM
11	You're not her top option Thanks man this post hit home. Experienced the same thing you did a few months ago. Amazing chemistry, did all initiating. Asked me to come over etc, made me breakfast in the morning. Treated me like a king. Then one day an ex entered the picture and I was forgotten and dropped like a stone in the blink of an eye. I later heard from someone she was totally alpha widowed by the guy. Like you I tried not over-investing, still met other girls, but when a girl is sooo into you it's hard. Didn't help…	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/18 02:50 AM
4	Constant negging from alpha Oh man I've used this a few times. The manliest of men will break the hardest if you hit them with a couple gay jokes. All the girls will laugh in his face too because he will look so insecure about his masculinity. But yes beware, they will get red hot mad :p	/r/askTRP	30/06/18 12:04 AM
2	No contact question Yeah I still fall for this trap sometimes and it makes you lose power, no contact at all and go for other girls meanwhile.	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 11:49 PM
38	Chick makes out with random dude "I was fat and felt fat self esteem wise" Sorry dude, lift. Don't be fat. Especially if it hurts your self esteem. Confidence is king. "random short ugly dude" = you could be him I used to be fat, if I can do it you can do it!	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 11:47 PM
21	I’ve been rejected all year and I’m losing motivation. go fuck some 6 to get the wind back in your sails Words of wisdom. I went for 8-9 often and hit a dry spell. Just keep fucking 6-7 (even 5's with nice asses when drunk) and sidegame/long con 8-9's, they will fuck you but you can't look desperate at all.	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 11:41 PM
1	Girl roomate, anything i should be aware of? Hey man I've lived with a female roommate for 6 months now. Honestly it was amazing at first, we'd play wingman for eachother and she had some hot friends. Found a good drinking buddy in her (good preselection) and she cleaned the appartment. Brought a bunch of girls home and she brought some dudes home. Now something changed and she's lowkey cockblocking me all the time... Enjoy it while it lasts, also be fine with her fucking other dudes. Turn it around and use her as preselection.	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 11:38 PM
10	Why is this the only thing they talk about? I used to avoid dudes like this when I was younger. But seriously it's a very very easy way to connect with those types. Just tell them some stories of your own and they'll be your best bros during work time and they'll invite you to afterworks drinks. Gain some wingmen, they aren't all bad.	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 11:33 PM
1	Female roommate suddenly acting up. Yeah you're right. Two times now that I come home with a girl and she's "suddenly awake at 5 in the morning" strutting around in the living room. Major cockblock, don't need that.	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 02:41 PM
-2	Female roommate suddenly acting up. You're right I'll go at it again tomorrow, just wondering why she starts this shit after 6 months of no problems...	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 02:44 AM
0	Female roommate suddenly acting up. It did not make sense to me either, I should have just said "womanese" Anyways, "roommate does not keep her mouth shut"	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 02:38 AM
0	Female roommate suddenly acting up. No she's a roommate ofcourse she knows alot of things, can't hide everything. And she always kept her mouth shut up untill now. I'm not fine with the fact that she blurted out shit in a full room of people. "To punish me" suddenly. And I started noticing that she tries to become friends with people I've had sex with alot more then my other friends... Trying to make sense of it and put her back in line? It was vague behaviour on her part with vague explanations, so I can only explain it vague.	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 02:32 AM
1	Always get high interest at start but it fades quickly. Oh this used to be my problem, I escalate as fast as possible now. Too fast often. Probably the dread thing then. You're right I should start using dread even after the deal is sealed.	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 02:18 AM
2	Always get high interest at start but it fades quickly. Oh yeah I've seen a few return to bf's or even exes. Can't do much to stop that, there is always someone more interesting to them. Especially for the ones with high n-counts. Some did come back after a couple of weeks only to disappear again. You're right I do this at start but I should keep letting them chase me forever I guess.	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 01:11 AM
1	Always get high interest at start but it fades quickly. I've gotten ok at passing enough shittests to get laid. But I've felt the power dynamic changing after a while a few times so I guess I can never rest. Maybe it take it easy too much and take the girl for granted now that I think about it.	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 01:07 AM
1	Always get high interest at start but it fades quickly. Not that attractive, and never has someone called me boring. Maybe the opposite, too much? I guess that'd get boring too after a while. Yeah maybe assume the deal is done and I get needy?	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 01:05 AM
4	Girl is all over me, but resistant to escalation? Fuck me my parents named me after him and I've been a Yuri countless times when I was younger. This one will stick.	/r/askTRP	28/06/18 11:31 PM
7	Girl is all over me, but resistant to escalation? Hey man I had the exact same thing happen this year. I flipped it into a lay but it was not worth it imo. I was constantly being invited by a girl that's so hot that she's everyone's type. She saw me behaving wild at parties a few times and started to invite me, being flirty etc. When I escalated it was always a rejection. Then more flirting etc. She didn't use me for money, she wanted to add me to her collection of exotic animals. As starting parties and getting them going is one of my qualitie…	/r/askTRP	28/06/18 11:30 PM
7	“Women have lost the art of making a man special“ Girls will sleep with lower smv, but it's not the same. Had a girl I used to orbit sleep with me once just to pull me back into orbit. Another 2 slept with me but did it in secret. All of these didn't do much effort in bed though. Ones who perceived me higher went the extra mile... Ones who perceived me higher worked hard for it in bed.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/18 11:00 PM
10	Why can’t I close??? "I’m exclusively chatting up 8s, 9s, and 10s" Why not break the dry spell with some 6-7s?	/r/askTRP	25/06/18 02:46 AM
11	Strength, Integrity, and making everything you do seem absolutely effortless. Oh man hungry is the worst one, I've seen friends flip out and totally lose frame just because their belly was abit empty. Tired is harder to hide sometimes. Anyway my kickbox teacher would punish anyone who showed fear, pain or tiredness. Also the base of many self defense classes.	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/18 12:25 AM
33	Strength, Integrity, and making everything you do seem absolutely effortless. I like this, we should take this over the top. Do not ever let them see you go to the toilet. Do not eat and drink anything when among girls. We do not need to do such mundane tasks. Gods do not piss and shit.	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/18 12:12 AM
7	Should "don't shit where you eat" be applied to study too? Just go for it	/r/askTRP	25/06/18 12:05 AM
1	Feel like I need to be top 1-5% to be happy instead of top 20%. You're right thanks, just writing this made me realise. All I need to do is keep improving myself!	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 11:55 PM
1	Is it okay to sleep with a good friends old ex? Yeah as of a year I've been friends with some guys with true abundance, most of them don't mind at all if other people fuck someone they fucked. And they don't mind fucking someone elses ex or fwb either. It's the girls fault if that happens. It's actually a relief, though they are the source of some dramas they do not care about drama. Feels like next level bro's before hoes.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 11:41 PM
8	An old bros ex... fair game or off limits? Yeah they say sure np do it, but afterwards the whole dynamic changes. Also make sure it's not her doing it just to fuck with his head.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 10:12 PM
5	When to push boundaries with someone who's rejected you once already She tries little things to get it back If you remove some attention she might use bigger things to get it back. But it'll still only be to pull you back into orbit. Had one girl fuck me once just to put me back into orbit. Then after that it was just the same story over. Play those games if you really want but for the love of god keep busy with other girls meanwhile! Girls like these are bad news.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 10:08 PM
5	Recently discovered TRP, am I a lost cause? Hey man I was a 28 year old virgin. For me the answer was turning everything around and see to my own happiness first. I saved up for a few years, quit my job and started to study again. I took up a few new hobbies. I moved to the city. I got closer with my sister (26) who also lives in the city. Made an effort to see some other places, go on a few trips, open your eyes to the world. I'm not doing great in the looks department, so I started dressing and grooming better. In this whole process fir…	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 06:51 PM
11	Can one of you please yell some sense into me Read the list of cons 10 more times.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 06:41 PM
1	Will be going to germany for 6 months in september. Any advice for me? It's one of the smaller cities, Magdeburg. But said to have around 20k students. Yeah I'll join a gym and will travel and go see a lot of other places when I have time!	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 02:04 PM
1	How to plate girls like these. Was just asking how to proceed as she remains unreadable as before. I don't know what she wants and how to handle. I saw her today, she asked me for drinks but she was cold and cordial, couldn't get her to loosen up. Felt like she just wanted to see if we're still cool or something. So I just went with it and acted neutral too. As she's put off by attention I think I won't contact her again and let her initiate. If she doesn't I guess I'll just wait till the next opportunity and just keep going …	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 05:39 AM
5	The Red Pill IRL: Double Standard Situation Double standards suck. Recently I made out with an 18 year old girl, female friends called me a fucking creep and said I should never go for 18 year olds. (I'm 29) Started ruining my reputation. Untill I showed em the messages she sent me, she was practically begging me to fuck her. Then my female friends said: If she wants it this bad then it's ok, fuck her good.... Wtf	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/18 05:30 AM
1	How to plate girls like these. You're right, now that I read it again. It was last thursday.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 05:21 AM
1	How to plate girls like these. Oh I've only made one move on her a like 6 months ago, she threw me some signals but when I went for it she started fucking screaming that I shouldn't touch her, at a crowded party. Brutal reject. So I left her alone and gamed other girls, but she knows people I know. She was at a some same events and saw me picking up a few girls. I lost some weight during the months between, upgraded wardrobe and started going for hotter girls, implemented some trp knowledge. Then one day after a party she lan…	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 05:09 AM
3	How to plate girls like these. I did have oneitis for her but she noticed and shot me down HARD. I started fucking other girls to get over it and gave her no more attention, months later she had sex with me after some party. She liked to fuck with my head but I just didn't care anymore. I go home and she's there with some dude asking if they can sleep over. I don't bat an eyelid and say sure take a couch and went to my room. Not even 5 mins later she had sent the dude home in a cab, let him pay for it and jumped in my bed. Re…	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 04:45 AM
1	How to plate girls like these. Yeah man I had oneitis for her months ago, got shot down and started gaming other girls. She saw me picking up 2 of them and met one of my hotter exes accidentally. Then one night (afer seeing all this) she landed in my bed. I do not want an ltr with this girl, she's has plenty of issues and rides the cc hard. What's wrong with me asking how to proceed? I do have a weakness for big tits on small frames (who doesn't) so I'd like to fuck her again.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 04:32 AM
1	What does it mean if a girl says she wants to avoid dating and stay single? Man some of the girls I know now.... A few of them I've only know for a year and if I count this years stories alone it's like 20 already like you say. Only from the stories.... Two of them even told me they lost count by now lol... that's not a problem many men have. There was a dating show on tv here and one of the girls revealed under pressure that the number of guys she fucked had two zeros. I'm assuming it's not 100.... and she was only 23 or something.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 04:24 AM
7	What does it mean if a girl says she wants to avoid dating and stay single? Yeah you're right I didn't think about things like that. 50 different guys is 50x emotional baggage too.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 04:15 AM
-3	What does it mean if a girl says she wants to avoid dating and stay single? I don't know man girls that have been ragged by 50 people or ragged 500 times by a bf, it's all the same. half the girls 'dating' someone are still riding the cc on the dl.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 03:51 AM
2	Will be going to germany for 6 months in september. Any advice for me? Thanks, I will!	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 03:41 AM
1	Will be going to germany for 6 months in september. Any advice for me? Thanks alot for the advice, I will keep all of this in mind when going!	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 03:40 AM
1	Will be going to germany for 6 months in september. Any advice for me? You're right but I'll have to work with cold then as I'll be there for 6 months. Ice queens take too much time to seduce usually :( And I won't have a social circle there for proof.	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 05:31 PM
2	Will be going to germany for 6 months in september. Any advice for me? We went to tresor and watergate. Yeah never seen such mix bag crowds. All age ranges, and from people in suits to people going barefeet in robes.	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 05:24 PM
2	Bird of paradise True that I did write this on a very very bad hangover, at the time it seemed a good idea. Ah well, I'll refrain from posting here for a couple months and tell it straight another time.	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/18 05:21 PM
3	Will be going to germany for 6 months in september. Any advice for me? I went to berlin last year for a week, almost didn't survive the clubbing... good music though. Didn't see much hooking up there though, people (including me) were all on drugs and just enjoying the music.	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 05:08 PM
2	Bird of paradise The zoo I don't have to explain, the gazelle was a oneitis I had to get over with. The various exotic animals were 7-8's and the bird was my first hb9. Basically it's my journey from dabbling with 4s and so in the zoo to giving up and not going for women at all. Then improving myself and still not being able to get the girls I want. Finding trp, doing better with girls and falling for an 8 (gazelle), reverting to bp ways. Toughening up and applying trp ways, putting preselection to work to game …	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/18 04:25 PM
1	Will be going to germany for 6 months in september. Any advice for me? Magdeburg, not a very big city but alot of students apparently.	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 04:16 PM
1	Bird of paradise Ya'll just too lazy to read, the mods can delete the story if they want.	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/18 03:57 PM
2	Hosting a party tonight of 15+people any advice and shit not to tolerate? Don't worry about the aftermath. Make sure it is a good party. Get some good music (party music, not sleepytime music) And set up the shots and drinking games meanwhile. Make it one to remember! Good luck.	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 03:55 PM
2	Will be going to germany for 6 months in september. Any advice for me? Sounds like a good plan if only I could play. I can't play decent soccer, tried countless times. Maybe I should give it another shot. I'm better at things like skating, surfing, wall climbing, martial arts. Want to join a grappling or mma club there, but injuries always fucked me. Like two times in a year I'd get a cracked rib or sour shoulder or something and I'd be out for 6 weeks again.	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 03:45 PM
1	Go to a party with my ex? Try take another girl there so they can see how hot your ex was = preselection.	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 03:01 PM
1	Bird of paradise Should I put up a translation?	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/18 02:25 PM
0	How to deal with people taking your shit without permission? Replace protein powder with salt. Laugh hard in his face when he's drinking it.	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 02:12 PM
3	Women say I have no emotion Yeah man I had a plate who did everything for me, untill she started saying I was an enigma and some people talked to me about how I was an emotionless robot with her. I opened up abit and not even a week later she lost interest.	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 02:01 PM
5	Bird of paradise Thanks, it was my personal journey into hb8+ territory.	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/18 04:23 AM
1	Prudish hb8 angry because I hurt her "reputation" Yeah I do, I made this mistake a few times when I was younger. I would tell someone and everything blowes up, had a relationship crash because I asked someone for advice and that person immediately told everyone... Lessons learned, this time it was just a slip of the tongue. One mistake is all it takes. One time I left a condom somewhere and the rumor mill started speculating and investigating. Will remember your law thanks!	/r/askTRP	23/06/18 12:42 AM
4	Fucking girls I dont like/find attractive? This I recently fucked a 5 because such an ass on that small frame damn. I got hard just looking at that ratio. Your mind is attracted to other things then your dick is. And my detector was right, she moved those hips in ways damn.	/r/askTRP	22/06/18 10:57 PM
1	Prudish hb8 angry because I hurt her "reputation" Yeah actually you're right, the dude that overheard was a friend of her and he went home with one of my female friends.... So even though he got laid himself he still felt the need to embarrass her and fuck it up for me.	/r/askTRP	22/06/18 09:32 PM
3	Prudish hb8 angry because I hurt her "reputation" Damn haven't even thought about that, will ask my friend. Yeah I admit it stinged abit, she's hot but not THAT hot to be this angry... And she was the one taking me home.... 3/4 of the flirting was her part. Thanks will do, I've gotten quite good at handling awkwardness due to a few other situations. And I know this sucks for her, but after such a reaction I feel like she doesn't even deserve my attention anymore	/r/askTRP	22/06/18 06:22 PM
1	Prudish hb8 angry because I hurt her "reputation" You're right. I always do but I slipped up, I'm not perfect. I was asking how to proceed.	/r/askTRP	22/06/18 06:11 PM
4	Prudish hb8 angry because I hurt her "reputation" Thanks I'll do this, damn I did apologise for telling when she angry texted me. Yeah won't try her again, her asd was already super high. Now it will be a chinese wall. Cordial sounds good as I gotta say I do feel abit disrespected too by her overreaction.	/r/askTRP	22/06/18 05:48 PM
7	Prudish hb8 angry because I hurt her "reputation" Yeah you're right, I'm more like a 6 maybe 7 on a good day. But I win em over on personality and have learned to put preselection to work. I don't mind having sex with hotties in secret. Funny enough hearing this particular gossip was enough for another hb8 to land in my bed :)	/r/askTRP	22/06/18 05:44 PM
5	Is it just me or are there too many men in bars and clubs? I'm 29 and I've also watched a decline, even my sister and her friends brought it up. I was a regular in a club where it was always close to 50/50, it closed ofc... I moved on to artsy or underground bars & parties. There tend to be abit more girls and less aggressive dudes. Still lots more men but it's doable. Also keep moving, look for new places, girls know when a club or bar has gone to shit and will stop going there. On bad nights there are 90% dudes. But once in a while when the stars alig…	/r/seduction	21/06/18 12:31 AM
1	Upon agreeing to be an LTR, girl tells me she saw her ex earlier today Yeah man, I had this once, within a day after me agreeing to be exclusive she fucked an ex... Should've just kept fucking her abit longer, never commiting.	/r/askTRP	20/06/18 11:23 PM
3	Partying in a healthy way (ie not losing gains) Hey man I'm 29 and I had the same problem, the solution for me was simple. Do not predrink! Don't do it at home, don't go to predrinks and drinking games. Just show up fashionably late, say you were busy doing x or y, on a date or so. This doesn't hurt your smv. You'll show up looking fresh and sober, the drinking time will be cut way shorter you'll be less dehydrated and without good foods etc. You'll have way less severe hangovers and can still swoop in on the fun. Even beter, start planning s…	/r/askTRP	20/06/18 11:17 PM
2	What shoes/boots are "in" right now? white air force 1's, awesome with a vintage look	/r/askTRP	20/06/18 11:08 PM
2	Lads, how do i kick a drug addiction? Hey man cocaine is too easily available where I live too, I still get messages to buy some. Some coke is fine but the situations it created were bad for me. I took it 2-3 days every weekend for a while... While the night started good usually I kept ending up in shitty places or 24 hour druggie bars... Next day I'd be a trainwreck, I lost a full day to extreme hangovers, dehydration or sleep. With an empty wallet and looking like a fucking zombie. I had to go back to find my bike or had chewed on…	/r/askTRP	20/06/18 10:34 PM
3	Women Will Be Sexual With Lesser Alpha Orbiters To Keep Them Hooked (Trap for Advanced Gamers) There is more then looks, 5 minutes is plenty of time. You improve your clothing style, work out, charisma, have stories to tell, use some game, gain some confidence in the process. Plenty of times I won girls over with other things then looks. I have also been unable to bang girls that really made up their mind. There are 5's that I know would never bang me, regardless of how much I improve. And there are 7's that will. It's not blackpill.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/18 01:02 AM
2	Women Will Be Sexual With Lesser Alpha Orbiters To Keep Them Hooked (Trap for Advanced Gamers) when your smv improves you'll have an easier time banging NEW girls. old ones already made up their mind about you, first impressions and all, you need to drastically improve smv for those and even then it probably won't work	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/18 12:52 AM
1	Jeans * Joe's Guide to Perfect Eye Contact if it's a girl, move closer and closer and closer.... you know the rest	/r/seduction	15/06/18 07:23 PM
1	How long, typically, does one have to suck at this before it becomes easier? This, I had some beginners luck and got laid two times when I just started and assumed it was easy while I just got lucky. Then nothing for months untill I started improved myself alot and practiced more.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 02:59 AM
4	How long, typically, does one have to suck at this before it becomes easier? Yeah I keep practicing but only the big things really made things click. First hand experiencing lightswitch effects, being cheated on, angry boyfriends showing up (not knowing she had one, the little princess). Every time one of these unexpected things were thrown at me, lessons were learned. And I'd gain for example +1 dgaf or -1 naivity. I'm sure I'll get to learn many more lessons and I look forward to them.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 02:41 AM
61	What's a good way to make friends and meet girls? Same, we had a very tight big group of friends and I saw them drop out one by one to depression, drugs, workaholics, married with children etc. Only some of the boring ones with 0 ambitions or hobbies still want to meet to 'just hang'. And I had to cut some of those. I made some new friends due to new hobbies and courses. It takes time, just be open to social contact, and if you meet someone that's cool just ask them along somewhere. It's a snowball effect, it starts slow but eventually you'll k…	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 02:34 AM
1	My situation is hopeless This, he'd even feel better living in a car then with his ex. A place I worked let me live in the storage room, I'd go shower at the gym. It was shitty but better then nothing.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 02:29 AM
2	Getting in with a guy who seems to plate everyone is this a good idea? Prepare, they probably will probably fuck your oneitises at one point. Which at the time was a bitter pill for me but also a good lesson. The rewards by far outweigh the downsides.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 01:17 AM
6	Question for looks maxing A year or two. Physically first and mentally and style along the way, something like that I guess.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 01:14 AM
2	City vs Countryside - Wow Yeah but the city I moved to has fierce competition too, about 3/4 of the young people here is male. Half the parties and bars are cockfests. Only after improving myself heavily am I seeing results in the big city.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 01:00 AM
1	Extremely High Standards:( Yes this is it, I was a porn addict and wasn't attracted to anything under hb8. While my smv at the time was a 3-4 or so. I stopped watching porn and became attracted to 6s, and 5s when I'm drunk. Also improved myself alot.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 12:48 AM
1	I’m a retard, help me It's not about the amount, I get that for you it feels like 5 dollars. But I still won't buy some random girl that comes up to me a drink.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 12:35 AM
1	Would you recommend tinder at 18? Better to go for some other nice inexperienced 18 year olds irl.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 12:29 AM
2	Girl I want to fuck has a friend who is into me. "if I am fucking 2 of her friend, is that enough for her to put out" If she wanted to fuck you she probably would have. I had a 'plan' like this one once, it didn't work. Just go for others girls because you want to fuck them, not to impress her.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 12:27 AM
1	How to dress in the work place? Will get downvotes for this. But I hate fucking suits, I feel like a dancing monkey in a suit. And a tie feels like society's chain around my neck. I long stopped giving a fuck about dresscodes, now I just wear whatever I feel good in. (not talking about cargo shorts) Sure I'll dress up sometimes but I'll do it my way.	/r/askTRP	04/06/18 12:19 AM
2	Plastic surgery…. You can't build muscle properly, but I bet you don't eat properly too or you wouldn't weigh 90kg. Changes are not made overnight, try paleo or keto diet for a few months and then come back here. I'm sorry you got dealt a shit hand but everyone has his own problems. Don't compare yourself to others. Build a better YOU.	/r/askTRP	03/06/18 11:53 PM
1	Joining a frat worth it? Watch out though, back in the days I went to one of those nerd frats. While I killed my liver several times, except for one or two guys we all got 0 pussy. Pick a good one.	/r/askTRP	03/06/18 11:33 PM
28	Question for looks maxing An collegue of me was bald and miserable untill he went to the gym and got ripped. He also grew a beard. Something clicked and now he's a chick magnet. I can learn some from him. Basically his facial aesthetics are still the same but he just looks 10x more masculine now. + the newfound confidence does wonders too.	/r/askTRP	03/06/18 11:30 PM
5	Girls tell me I look 18.. I'm 21. "if you're looking to be challenged, and have deep meaningful conversation, save that shit for your bros. " This, I tried that with women when I was 18-22 It only landed me in countless friendzones...	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 02:49 PM
8	Girls tell me I look 18.. I'm 21. "my youth will almost be over" your youth is only over when you say it's over it's all in your mind man	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 02:48 PM
72	Bullied This, I'm 29 and I've seen the "cool dudes and bullies" from my highschool become fat slobs with fat girlfriends. I'm not gonna lie I liked seeing it.	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 02:11 PM
47	Girls tell me I look 18.. I'm 21. be happy you'll look 24 when you're 30 like me don't turn down 18-19 year olds when you're 21 come on	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 02:08 PM
4	How are you dealing with the fact that not everyone will like you? "I've also been called ugly a few times. Or told I had a big nose." "It is clear that I'm not conventionally beautiful: I have a strong nose/jaw." Haha same story, and I'm a man. Same as you only a percentage of girls find me hot. Some girls I'm really really not attracted even find me ugly. I bet this is what hits you hardest, people below your 'league' thinking you are ugly. Took me a while to figure out that some of the ones that found me attractive were actually girls I was super attracted t…	/r/seduction	28/05/18 01:20 AM
1	I just had the most fucked up date of my life. ok it seems I can't stop you from texting her at least sleep on it then	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 01:12 AM
2	Body is partially damaged from years of health issues. Is it too late for me? Damn that video is good motivation for everyone... Also try going swimming	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 12:56 AM
1	I have 3.5K $ available, what to do with it? I second gym membership + wardrobe + new hobby?	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 12:51 AM
1	I just had the most fucked up date of my life. this sounds bitter and butthurt not cold and dark if you were such a 'cold' man you'd have already forgotten her	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 12:47 AM
3	I just had the most fucked up date of my life. don't	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 12:43 AM
2	What's the fucking point? I did a mix of both, I was a bp beta that orbited 8-9's. While in reality I couldn't even get a 4. Lowered my ridiculous 'standards' (thanks hollywood) to 6-7's. Once in a while I can get an 8. And once in a while when I'm smashed I smash a 5.	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 12:28 AM
10	What's the fucking point? This, I fucked a 5 last weekend. Meh face but slim body and a big ASSS. Was going after a few hb7 girls, unlucky streak I was about to go home alone at 04:00 then I realised how stupid I was. I kept thinking should I/should I not, she's not that hot. But I took her home and we fucked eachothers brains out, she sure made up for that meh face. Also no asd/lmr/shittests, nothing just smashing. And she made me breakfast in the morning :)	/r/askTRP	28/05/18 12:22 AM
2	Wasted time sent you a pm	/r/seduction	28/05/18 12:02 AM
2	A Guide to Gaming the Third World I meant there is one black guy and 2 black girls in terms of diversity at the college. If you think like that they will choose the white guy first yes....	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/18 03:34 PM
1	A Guide to Gaming the Third World It's not in a big city, arts department. Yes only one dude, and 2 girls. There's maybe 500 people tops there.	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/18 02:09 PM
1	More success with hb7-9 then I do with hb4-6??? "Just focus on the 7+’s and don’t look back." You're right thanks, it's also feel alot better when doing this, even if I get rejected.	/r/askTRP	22/05/18 01:59 PM
1	More success with hb7-9 then I do with hb4-6??? I'm still learning and practicing, to me making out with a 7+ is still success. Made out with a bunch of hot girls last few months but only got 2 of them home. I still need to work on that part.	/r/askTRP	22/05/18 01:59 PM
1	More success with hb7-9 then I do with hb4-6??? Could be this, thanks. I'll keep going at it.	/r/askTRP	22/05/18 01:57 PM
1	More success with hb7-9 then I do with hb4-6??? Yeah I noticed that didn't work but other things didn't either, maybe because I'm not genuine to them? As others said.	/r/askTRP	22/05/18 01:56 PM
1	What happened to us? Help please -I’ve been talking to this girl for a few months now too long, should've asked her out or made a move -We would send 10-15 messages to each other daily too much Talk to more girls	/r/seduction	22/05/18 03:16 AM
5	Wasted time Dude I only started to be able to connect with people when I was 28. The only time is now.	/r/seduction	22/05/18 03:13 AM
11	How do I stop being boring? You really need some hobbies/passions. I had the same problem you had, a bland and boring life. I took up a few new hobbies and dropped some old (gaming). One of my new hobbies for example I didn't ever expected it but I became interested in design and architecture. I started visiting museums, reading books on vintage design, making some citytrips, etc... Now I go to thriftstores and fleamarkets and resell the items I bought there for cheaps. I hardly meet any girls there but I have a cool inter…	/r/askTRP	22/05/18 03:00 AM
11	What’s that feeling you get when you feel immortal, happy, confident, perfect, with a grin on your face all day? mdma	/r/askTRP	22/05/18 02:44 AM
2	How to reach out my ex? Don't go down the ex road man, shit will just hit the fan again soon and you'll spiral back into misery.	/r/seduction	22/05/18 12:10 AM
2	Need advice with an ex Don't go down the ex road man, shit will just hit the fan again soon and you'll spiral back into misery.	/r/seduction	22/05/18 12:08 AM
1	Give me Actionable Advice! Yeah I did :)	/r/seduction	21/05/18 11:12 PM
2	I notice women who are interested—but cannot "I see a girl that likes me but I cannot get my lazy self to be able to go up and impress." Do not try to "impress" her, just go talk to her like you would to anyone. Make your intentions abit clear (but no telling you really like her either), no endless convos into friendzone.	/r/seduction	21/05/18 08:08 PM
0	Want to ask a girl out, but I'm being a coward. Give me some motivation to just do it Yeah man I had a oneitis again last year, overthinking in my head forever. When I finally asked she rejected me HARD (she wasn't even that hot, no need for her to be this rude). One of the hardest rejections I've ever had lol. But my head was no longer in the clouds, and I was able to get with some other girls after this. Rip off the bandaid. Next time do it sooner, the sooner you do it the fewer it hurts.	/r/seduction	21/05/18 08:04 PM
1	The Pain Of Rejection Is What's Holding Me Back From Dating Success Example: 1 out of 20 girls are attracted to you. You approach one and you are crushed, chances are 95% that she wasn't attracted to you. Approach more, don't put one on a pedestal. Now if you talk to 20 girls surely one will be interested.	/r/seduction	21/05/18 07:59 PM
1	Can you tell when a guy is faking confidence and value during an approach? I fell into this trap when I was younger, I faked it got a foot in the door and as soon as I started relaxing I'd be done. Yesterday I was dancing with a hot girl, we talked some, I tease her abit and she told me "your so delusionally confident" I pulled her closer, arms around her back and she said wtf are you doing, hands off. I act as if nothing happened and dance abit. BUT, she is still dances next to me and starts asking me questions about all kinds of things. I used to take this as a rejec…	/r/seduction	21/05/18 07:54 PM
1	Give me Actionable Advice! I've actually had to do this.... yesterday a girl told me "I don't think you can handle me" and started a staredown.	/r/seduction	21/05/18 07:43 PM
1	FR: first time clubbing alone, better then I expected but it was a minefield + weird cockblock girl that made out with me. Oh I did make a bunch of friends in the last year. I did go out for the music, I really like the atmosphere at this particular place (no bouncers, no dress code, no line at the door). But yes the focus was on girls, as I still need practice being more outgoing etc. This night was a stepstone in my book.	/r/seduction	21/05/18 07:33 PM
1	FR: first time clubbing alone, better then I expected but it was a minefield + weird cockblock girl that made out with me. I'm not serious about it, I just didn't really know what to do. I've never had this happen before.... maybe I should have gone for jealous girl. When I went outside I felt like I made a mistake :(	/r/seduction	21/05/18 07:30 PM
5	If the girls in your social group treat you like a friend (beta), how do/would you respond to it? The problem aren't the ones that actually treat you as a friend. The problem are the ones that use you, just like toxic male buddies from years before. You know the ones.	/r/askTRP	20/05/18 09:44 PM
3	Field report - First night out in home country after two years Yeah man I went to croatia once, we did a few nightclubs with the same outcome as you. Out of almost all the countries I've been to... croatia was near impossible for me. 90% of them just turned their heads if you wanted to talk or dance. Here it's like 50% that does that. Some real beautiful women there though.	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/18 09:26 PM
8	A Guide to Gaming the Third World This, a buddy of me is the only black guy in my uni. On top of that he's 6.7" and super buff. Most of the girls want a taste of him, he has hardly any game and he doesn't need it.	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/18 09:10 PM
2	Not being reactive vs do what you want attitude. I used to do that too. Now I just ignore and have a laugh about it with those girls. Say something like "he seems pretty frustrated, he must not get any from his wife"	/r/askTRP	20/05/18 09:04 PM
1	You will cycle through periods of women being repulsed by you and them wanting you It helps alot but when you hit a dry spell for a weeks you start overthinking things.	/r/seduction	20/05/18 08:55 PM
16	If you're a virgin, should you tell her before? Yeah don't tell, I was a late bloomer and 2 times girls got "scared away" by me telling them. I just wasn't an option anymore in their eyes. When I did finally get laid the girl didn't even (and still doesn't) know. Just fake it till you make it.	/r/seduction	20/05/18 08:53 PM
12	What was the reason for your mind shift from beta to alpha and discovering TRP -Been in a bunch of "friendzones" -Cheated on -Used for attention, driving girls to places etc... -Spiraled down into completely stopping nearly all interaction with women Since I found trp I had to go through all of the above phases AGAIN before I finally got the message. I'm a long way from alpha, but I've ditched some toxic friends (male and female) and had some success with girls since trp. It's going the right way.	/r/askTRP	20/05/18 03:50 PM
1	Trouble getting followups after making out with girls at parties/bars/clubs. True, I got some hb8 girls in social circle they even brag when they got fucked by a decent male..... I mean they just stand there, reject one or two and the third gets to go home with em... so easy. Yet afterwards they act all proud like they could get any dude they want... dudes be so thirsty come on. If I was a 10/10 male I'd go for 9+ babes...	/r/askTRP	20/05/18 05:06 AM
4	My most muscular friends have the ugliest spouses. Shouldn't they attract best women? I knew a guy like this, fucks anything that moves, crawls or rolls. He was jacked, just didn't want to put in ANY effort.	/r/askTRP	19/05/18 08:11 PM
1	Trouble getting followups after making out with girls at parties/bars/clubs. Yeah you're right it doesn't mean anything to hb7+. You're just used and discarded if you're lucky, not that I mind.	/r/askTRP	19/05/18 05:26 PM
5	Cold sore hb9 and thirsty buddy, don't be this guy. You're right it aint, but would you make out with a girl who has half her mouth covered in it? You'd feel the crusts against your lips...	/r/askTRP	19/05/18 01:18 AM
4	10 Signs a Girl Wants to Sleep With You Agree, spammers will downvote you though	/r/seduction	19/05/18 01:03 AM
4	[FIELD REPORT] Controlling my expectations. Nice one! Yeah always helps to remember that no one is perfect.	/r/seduction	17/05/18 02:07 AM
2	Can't lift for 4-6 weeks because of a thumb fracture, best workout routine to regain lost muscle mass as quickly as possible? Yeah that too, there is a similar peck deck that you can push with your elbows also.	/r/askTRP	14/05/18 08:29 PM
1	HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Don't half the hb8s and up act like they own the world? Hell even most hb6 here act like that ... They just have too many thirsty dudes throwing themselves at em, inflates their egos.	/r/askTRP	14/05/18 01:44 PM
6	HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Oh damn that would've been nice.	/r/askTRP	14/05/18 12:29 AM
3	HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Haha yeah let's see if she'll contact first for the money, she hasn't so far (4 days later) I don't think she will, she's a stubborn one.	/r/askTRP	14/05/18 12:27 AM
10	Why do I only attract girls that I am not interested in? This, when you're interested in a girl you usually turn into a needy dude. I still fall for this sometimes. Key is to treat them all the same, I know it's stupid but it is how it is. Dial back your interest on the ones you're interested in.	/r/seduction	13/05/18 11:55 PM
30	A girl slapped my ass Should've slapped hers then. Or say something like 'at least buy me dinner first'	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 11:21 PM
11	HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Yeah that's what I thought, thanks I won't. Don't even have her fb or insta, and I still owe her money for the uber to her place.	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 10:37 PM
3	HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Answered below	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 10:35 PM
7	HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Her phone had been blowing up that morning, she ignored it but apparently she made an appointment with some friends. (don't know who but might know some of em from the night before) I thought it better to just sneak out and keep it on the dl. The fucking wasn't going to happen anymore at that point anyway.	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 10:35 PM
4	I am extremely enraged at everyone in the world for treating me like dirt throughout my life, assigning subhuman status to me, & using the 48 Laws of Power against me, but can’t escape my current living situation - how to cope? "Get better not bitter"	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 09:32 PM
2	Can't lift for 4-6 weeks because of a thumb fracture, best workout routine to regain lost muscle mass as quickly as possible? "slowly improve my thumb mobility" I have broken my thumb before, it will be longer then a week or two. Best way to regain mobility is to do the dishes, not kidding. Also meanwhile you can keep eating right and train legs and abs? I remember I did alot of light peck deck at that time (with the cast still on)	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 09:29 PM
1	FR: HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' You're right I'd like to see it as a labyrinth, she has paved the way for you but there are many pitfalls and dead ends. Shorter routes and longer routes.	/r/seduction	12/05/18 12:48 PM
1	FR: HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Never tried that, but there's a danger of being labeled a creep there. Much like "the naked man" I'd like to try that once too.	/r/seduction	12/05/18 12:47 PM
1	FR: HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Yeah we did abit of spooning the night before but that's it. Besides my place was quite far so I was happy I didn't have to pay for an uber!	/r/seduction	12/05/18 12:46 PM
1	19 years old, 400 ng/dL Testosterone levels, what do I do? Make sure to get enough protein, there are vegan ones aswell. Also avocados for good fats but you probably know that.	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 01:47 AM
6	FR: HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Oh yeah I've had that happen a few times too, afterwards they thought I was a pussy and treated me like a piece of the scenery... but in those cases I actually was both thirsty and a pussy. (I see now that that's not an attractive combination of character traits) I know now that it doesn't matter what they say, if they land in my bed now I'll feel em up for abit and I know pretty soon if it's 'just sleeping' If she says nothing is happening but starts breathing all heavy or rubbing her ass again…	/r/seduction	11/05/18 09:53 PM
5	FR: HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' Thanks I won't text her again.	/r/seduction	11/05/18 09:22 PM
2	FR: HB8 field report, keywords 'just sleeping' 'whiskey dick' 'asd' 'lmr' I guess it's more of a "don't be thirsty for sex" story. This one went abit crazy that I wasn't running after her like a dog. (which I have done before lots of times when I was younger) And she's super comfortable with me being in her bed by morning. A few times I landed in a bed with girls by accident they actually wanted to sleep sleep. Nothing at all even if you are in a bed with them, some sure like to fuck with our heads. Also I don't get very turned on by girls that allow kino but don't gi…	/r/seduction	11/05/18 09:22 PM
8	Make Her Drip --- Indomitable Eye Contact --- Installed In You Touch him next time he does this, he'll get the message.	/r/seduction	06/05/18 11:27 PM
2	"You're a nice guy but... "coming on way too strong, way too quick with these girls." Or no escalating?	/r/seduction	06/05/18 11:22 PM
1	HB 8 made out with me at parties whenever I met her, and behaved weird. Yeah I always try to play it straight, unfortunately the majority of girls doesn't. You're right, I have to guard my time and dignity. I won't contact her, and indeed she certainly isn't LTR material. I will keep going for other women, but knowing my stupid self I'll probably give it another shot if I meet her by accident... I shouldn't. It's more that I am still figuring out situations like this, not particularly her, only been active in seduction for a few months. Thanks for the advice and btw…	/r/seduction	05/05/18 04:02 PM
1	HB 8 made out with me at parties whenever I met her, and behaved weird. First of all thanks for taking the time to read my wall of text and giving me your opinion! -I did text her after the first time I made out with her, then came the no response and the 'fishing for free drinks' (and I only did it to not be a cash cow, not to play games) -You're absolutely right, I mistaked friendly push/pull for straight up manipulative games I see that now -Thanks I'll work on not encouraging games and saying no -Haven't contacted her since the party thursday, but how should I t…	/r/seduction	05/05/18 01:00 PM
1	Took another redpill. Used for fluffing. Reminder to guard your valuable time. Damn nice one! I should have done that a few times also by now. I got mad when a plate left with another dude, I had the opportunity to leave early but instead I broke frame for everyone to see. Well I guess we learn from every situation. Yeah you're right to be proud!	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 10:45 PM
1	Took another redpill. Used for fluffing. Reminder to guard your valuable time. You're absolutely right, I will work more on being in the right frame and being outcome independent. Yeah ofcourse I meant the toilet thing as an example, he was that clingy, and it was more of a 'hang' thing with some music then a party. Hell if I know why she even invited me. As you said I should've just tried a few times and propose to leave, and then just bail fast. While I am totally ok with girls fucking around this was kind of a cheap move on her part imho. I didn't feel much like fucking…	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 09:07 PM
1	Took another redpill. Used for fluffing. Reminder to guard your valuable time. Nah he didn't even go to the toilet once.... never let his hands off her. He didn't have any game really, but the girl for sure was playing one. For sure I would get fun out of it if it was his game, but I didn't want to be playing hers. As soon as I entered that house I fell into her trap... next time something like this happens I'll just bail FAST.	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 08:40 PM
1	A redpill story from blue pill guy Unfortunately yes, at least that's what happened to me a few times.	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 06:05 PM
31	Your own sense of style This is what got me from omega to beta. I got clothes to match my personality now, ditched my glasses. Bought a bunch of vintage clothes, oversized old bombers, 80's adidas sweaters and more. Coupled with good fitting slim black jeans and oldskool nikes or adidas. Usually super basic no-print black or grey t-shirts and jeans with a cool old jacket or sweater. Works wonders, often a girl will comment on one of these and the conversation is started. What other people said though, because some of t…	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 06:03 PM
2	Why do some days I feel super confident other days socially anxious? Yeah man once in a blue moon I'm firing on all cylinders and I feel invincible. Rejection doesn't even graze me, girls start hitting on you because they pick up on your mood... Other days I feel like I don't belong and I feel like a creep approaching girls.	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 05:39 PM
1	Took another redpill. Used for fluffing. Reminder to guard your valuable time. I will get there, one step back two forwards! I've read most of trp now I need to actually stick to it in real situations. Since my trp journey started I've seen a bunch of shit already, each encounter prepares me more for the next one. This year I went from omega (0 lays) to 'beta fucks' through new dressing style, losing weight, getting hobbies. But I still have to bring A game, zero mistakes, some sense of danger and unpredictability, create some intrigue and only then did I get laid. It's st…	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 05:34 PM
1	Took another redpill. Used for fluffing. Reminder to guard your valuable time. Yeah I didn't do any of those three things. Dude was clinging to her hard so it would have been a 'fight' thing. No option to isolate either. He was constantly trying to amog me, I just sat there with a pokerface and had a laugh with the other dudes. I didn't get upset either, although it looked abit like that ofcourse when I left. He was cringe level thirsty, creepy dude. We did a drinking game he didn't drink one drop (faked it all to stay sober to fuck). Clinging to her like a baby, constantl…	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 05:19 PM
3	A redpill story from blue pill guy "If you start liking a girl more than you should, it's already over" Yeah this, had oneitis this year for a chick it's long gone now but she STILL thinks I 'like' her. By know I experienced her cunning and using of men firsthand, I see her for what she is now and would never be in an LTR with her. But they will never change their first beta opinion of you, even if you fuck others. You'll be an 8 to other girls and a 5 to the girls you liked....	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 03:04 PM
1	Been going through alot of rejection lately, time for another monk mode or is it normal? Yeah a friend of me is 6"7, athletic built and good dress style. As soon as he opened his mouth they lost interest. I told him wtf are you doing you're the biggest dude everywhere we go, half these chicks want to fuck you, just keep your mouth shut. Since last month he has 3 plates... just because he didn't talk anymore, didn't need to with his genetics.	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 02:55 PM
1	Weird Feeling Yeah it's hard to gauge sometimes. In my country a dude gets +2 if he speaks british for example, just so the girls can put some variation in their cc.	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 02:50 PM
1	Weird Feeling I've had this happen lots of times, harsh as it is, they probably do see you as lower smv then the 'low smv' dudes you talk about. Hell I had it happen last night, still sucks sometimes. This is not about jealousy it's your ego that takes a hit. Maybe their game is better, they hold frame well, or she's in the mood for a beta this month after chad dumped her. I've been the low smv dude that fucked the girl also, some wanted a break from chad.	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 02:43 PM
3	How to game a shy girl? Yeah man I've lost a few like this too. Felt weird pushing through on kino when there is no feedback or validation. And then next day I hear "dude X" fucked her same night...	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 02:38 PM
1	Took another redpill. Used for fluffing. Reminder to guard your valuable time. Yes I do but in this case she was getting felt up by the other dude while eyeballing me. It was like she was waiting how I would react? Her eyeballing me while getting felt up, weird. Don't know what to do in that case I should have left yes. I can swoop a girl at a party or bar, I'll just be the life of the party and usually some want to join. But situations like this where I have to 'fight' for her attention, not my cup of tea. So I end up tagging along when I should just next fast.	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 02:14 PM
2	Took another redpill. Used for fluffing. Reminder to guard your valuable time. You're absolutely right, I felt fucking used. And I felt like I betrayed myself. I have a tendency to do this around hot women. I talk myself into thinking there is a chance to fuck and then I become a timeho. While in reality even sleeping is way more more productive. I'm also the dude that stays in the club till closing time if I haven't picked up a chick before. Even if it's a fucking cocksfest by then.... I'm a dumbass that way.	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 07:48 AM
1	Took another redpill. Used for fluffing. Reminder to guard your valuable time. $50? I know it's a shit rant, it's not only about this post but I've noticed I give away my time way too easily. While I do ok with chicks this is the number one thing that holds me back. That and saying 'no'	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 07:39 AM
1	If your SMV is an 8, do you stop fucking 6s? Similar situation, some 8s and 9s in my social group too now. As you said my 'game' hardly has any effect on them and some of them have very strong 'turn you into orbiter' game. Yeah they turn around or amplify everything. One even sets fucking conversation traps all the time, so you talk yourself into dead ends. It's good practice indeed. Right now I've got 5-6 actively going for me, I have to do normal game for 7's (and some 6s) and the 8-9s are x10,x20 difficulty. They are so fickle, easily d…	/r/askTRP	30/04/18 05:04 PM
5	If your SMV is an 8, do you stop fucking 6s? Would like to know also, I have a 6 in semi-close social circle dying to fuck me. But most of the others are 8-9's and at one point I'd like to fuck some of those. Will it hurt my chances if I fuck the 6? Or am I being dumb and should I just look at it like "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush"	/r/askTRP	29/04/18 09:13 PM
0	NEVER Feel Guilty About Using Her for Sex What about if she's 18 and I'm 29? I got a 18 year old chasing me... I thought she was too young, don't give her attention and this drove her wild. Should I give her what she wants?	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/18 07:08 PM
1	Shit test, she sends me a snap of a speeddate event and says I should go. Yeah that was very clear when I saw her, but you never know untill you try	/r/askTRP	29/04/18 12:58 PM
1	Shit test, she sends me a snap of a speeddate event and says I should go. It was a random girl I was trying to fuck. Updated above.	/r/askTRP	29/04/18 01:25 AM
2	Anyone else here usually stop short of fucking the 1st time together, even if you could? This, I've wasted some opportunities when I was younger. Last one I've fucked went back to her ex 3 days after we've fucked. If I didn't do it that night it never would have happened. Often there are only small windows of opportunity. Anything can happen between the times you see her (meeting others, changing their minds,etc...), such fickle creatures women.	/r/askTRP	28/04/18 06:29 PM
1	What to do in bad for 2 weeks? Read some books, watch californication	/r/askTRP	28/04/18 04:15 PM
3	Have girls ever given you any GOOD romantic advice? "asking a cow how to cook a steak" awesome comparison! Yeah man a few months ago I really didn't know what to do with a plate who wanted more and said I never showed emotions, asked one of my bp friends for advice. The one text that I've send with his advice destroyed the whole 'relationship' She now looks at me like I'm a lower form of life.	/r/askTRP	28/04/18 02:40 PM
4	Know When Your Turn Is Up You're right but I've had bad experiences with this. I don't mind driving at all, especially if it speeds up the night. Wether it's a party or a fuck date. I drove a girl 15mins and she went all like "thank you you're so sweet" with the condescending tone you know it. Drove another one 45mins to fuck, guess what, no fucking. And the next time treated me like an object, a piece of decor. A female friend of me teased a guy to come over (she had even fucked him before), he drove 45mins and she just…	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 05:05 AM
5	Know When Your Turn Is Up Yeah had this happen, 'the long game' A girl suddenly dropped me and months after I hear from someone that one of her friends manipulated her for weeks on end, making her flake on me etc... Now ofcourse if she really wanted me bad she would have kept fucking me. But on the just have abit of fun so-so cases. They will drop you.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 04:59 AM
1	Know When Your Turn Is Up I've had this happen to me two times now. These were both easy to manipulate girls and turned out the mother hen and her friends bombarded her for weeks. They made her flake once first and eventually one just dropped me because she was starting to hate the drama and couldn't stand up to her friends.... The other one one of her friends hated me for some reason and kept talking shit that even reached my own social circle, that ended the same. Your turn might very well be up.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 04:55 AM
1	Tried to fuck hb9, failed twice, use her for social proof? So just keep teasing em aswell? Just to have fun even though it goes nowhere.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 11:29 AM
2	Tried to fuck hb9, failed twice, use her for social proof? Yeah you're right. But any ideas how to game this category of chicks? Because alot of those are seriously hot.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 02:09 AM
2	Tried to fuck hb9, failed twice, use her for social proof? Yeah that sounds like a better plan. Someone who winds you up but never puts out, they usually just kick on seeing men go wild. aka those who love giving men blueballs. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cock%20tease	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 01:40 AM
1	Tried to fuck hb9, failed twice, use her for social proof? Yeah I've got a few female friends, one wingmans even. Works wonders. But this one is such a cocktease, unclear if I should try again if opportunity presents.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 01:07 AM
0	Ex moved into close social circle and was invited in group travel plans, any advice? She has shown absolutely no interest in me though.... maybe she only wanted my "entourage" ?	/r/askTRP	23/04/18 12:36 AM
1	Ex moved into close social circle and was invited in group travel plans, any advice? Yeah maybe I should, fuck them and her. Thinking about buying motorcycle and doing some travelling on my own. Still doesn't solve the problem of seeing her often though. I'll just have to develop thicker skin I guess. And in the long run maybe make some new friends.	/r/askTRP	23/04/18 12:30 AM
1	Ex moved into close social circle and was invited in group travel plans, any advice? Ofcourse, I only meant I won't meet any there. I'll have to bring one.	/r/askTRP	22/04/18 11:10 PM
7	Swallowed TRP, did a 180, need help Same problem, I found some amazing new friends but they are busy often. As am I, when I do see em we have a good time usually. Old friends are ALWAYS available because they just smoke weed, play games or rewatch movies for the 14th time. I need to find some new social circles.	/r/askTRP	22/04/18 10:57 PM
3	Ex moved into close social circle and was invited in group travel plans, any advice? There won't be much fucking other girls because it's going to be a nature thing. Rent a house in the middle of nowhere in the mountains and do some hiking, drinking, swimming etc... Seems my only option is finding someone to bring along fast. I got 2 months to do it and she has to be a 7+ Will be hard to do as I have alot of projects with deadlines to finish untill then....	/r/askTRP	22/04/18 10:33 PM
1	Live-in GF getting bored. What do i do? how would you reset? asking because I've been in similar situations	/r/askTRP	22/04/18 10:23 PM
1	Why she hangs out low-status men? I had this with 2 girls, you and the other guys are just gears in the greater works of her realizing she'd rather be single and ride the CC again. You helped her realise she doesn't want to be with him anymore, that's all.	/r/askTRP	20/04/18 11:33 PM
1	Trying to Fuck but think I am Fucked Had a girl over 3 times once, she rejected all kino but kept wanting to come over.... tinder chick with issues. Ghosted her the last time, and learned another lesson. Ghost sooner next time.	/r/askTRP	20/04/18 11:21 PM
1	Trying to Fuck but think I am Fucked "But the three that I didn't MAKE A MOVE on? I remember them THIRTY YEARS LATER." Words of wisdom, I try every girl I'm interested in now, even if it's close social circle. Some awkwardness is well worth it to put my mind at ease. Just act normal afterwards and it's as if nothing happened. Stupid crushes and oneitis cases are over in moments instead of months when I was a teenager. So stupid when I look back at it. Some of them I thought were only slightly interested landed in my bed. And other …	/r/askTRP	20/04/18 11:14 PM
3	Indifference and Control: Why You Don't Wanna Be Chad Yeah I don't think indifference game only works, I feel the need to supplement. Like ufc fighters you need striking, submissions, groundwork, a good physique, insight.... Any ideas what to supplement it with?	/r/TheRedPill	20/04/18 10:09 PM
17	Indifference and Control: Why You Don't Wanna Be Chad You're right I've noticed the same, every time I go out for a longer time with them this starts to happen. I truly do not give a fuck what I will eat tonight, as long as I just eat something. But in their eyes it's a weakness.... I choose fast and they still think I just pick something because I can't choose rather then not giving a damn. " My indifference that the 500th dude hit on her at the bar makes me look like I'm afraid to stop it." Seen this happen too, at start they like that I don't ca…	/r/TheRedPill	20/04/18 10:07 PM
2	Night with female friends, and redpill lessons learned. Yeah you're right, I knew this but it's something else to see it happen right in front of you. All of them wet within minutes.... I for sure wasn't the alpha cock there, can't beat foreign instagram model tattoo artists who arrive on motorcycles. Maybe if he wasn't there I'd be able to get with hb8 that night but I sure as hell couldn't get her that horny that fast. And I'd have to fuck her super good to make her even remember me. It's a good reminder of what we should aspire to be, he had the f…	/r/askTRP	20/04/18 02:18 PM
1	Am I an idiot for preferring monogamy? Unfortunately I'm 29 and never had a relationship longer then 2 months. I was never interested in an LTR except for two girls that I fell hard for so ofcourse those relationships crashed and burned soon because I liked them too much and they lost interest or cheated on me. Even dudes think there is something wrong with me when they hear I never had real LTR's. I was just super bluepilled and am slowly starting to see the light now.	/r/askTRP	16/04/18 02:34 AM
1	I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled. And you're right I need more experience and escalate more. Past year I've been escalating 10x much more then before but this one set me back abit because she seemed totally unreceptive.	/r/askTRP	16/04/18 02:03 AM
1	I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled. Thanks! I already escalate 10 times more then I did a few years ago, usually girls respond in kind, or at least don't move away... I'm not sure heavier escalation would have gotten me anywhere with this one. As I said below I pulled her on the sofa with at one time me while falling in it. She turned her head and got back up as if nothing happened. Then all the while she sat next to me she hardly looked at me.... I moved closer touching her legs and rubbing her back, she sits further again... and…	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 11:57 PM
1	I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled. You got me there, first I tried touching and moving closer. She moved away every time. Then I looked at her, pulled her on the sofa with me while falling in it. She turned her head and got back up as if nothing happened... Kinda hard to kiss her this way I'd say.	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 11:47 PM
1	I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled. Yeah you're probably right, I didn't expect her to make moves. But I also didn't expect her to move away every time you touch her.... True I blew it, keep out of orbit and try again when an opportunity presents itself?	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 11:43 PM
1	I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled. You're right, but hell if you keep touching her up and she never responds in kind....even moves away when you start escalating... I like your response! Take em both home.	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 11:37 PM
0	I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled. GF20OW?	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 11:35 PM
1	So I had a talk last night with my sister and female childhood friends about female sexual promiscuity and I really have to ask... Haha a girl I know once told me that the number of guys she fucked has three digits..... and knowing her I'm sure it wasn't just 100.	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 04:52 PM
2	I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled. Yeah ok probably 1. Because failure to escalate is in the past for me, I always go for it. I guess I was used to make chads jealous and for attention in this case. Seemed to me no matter how well I held frame or how good I responded to all the shit tests, it didn't look like she was going to fuck me. I do think there was some interest from her but certainly not enough to wet her panties.	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 04:44 PM
8	I thought I got a booty call at 01:30 in the night. Puzzled. Gotta admit it does sound like that after reading it again, I'll upvote, what should I have done different? For future references. That's why I went to the party because I saw it was going nowhere. Just didn't expect her to still come home with me after the party.	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 04:26 PM
0	Accidently damage an item while moving for a friend . Buy him the same size tv but second hand. His wasn't new anymore either.	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 02:59 AM
3	Girl dodged me telling herto come over This, I've had amazing first dates where we made out and had a good time. And STILL sometimes they flake. They are fickle creatures, who wants one thing and the next breath they want something else.	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 02:55 AM
1	What do you do when you’re trying to get someone but all of a sudden someone with higher SMV comes and snags? Same, I've had female friends of a girls cockblock me from the moment they knew me and her were dating. Saying it wasn't the right fit us together etc... Apparently one of them kept going for weeks I heard after. Didn't even know some of those 'girlfriends' Strange indeed, I guess some of them had bp bfs, long ago gave up all hope and wanted to see their hotter friend get together with a brad pitt type, not with me. Getting involved in every detail of their lives because their own are so boring?…	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 02:21 AM
1	Ran into an ex, (she dumped me) she was still attracted to me...trying not to fall into old habits. True, guess I just needed a slap in the face thanks.	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 01:12 AM
1	Ran into an ex, (she dumped me) she was still attracted to me...trying not to fall into old habits. Yeah I wanted to, but this was one of those kryptonite cases for me. Afraid I'll crack and move back towards bluepill man again. I sooo much wanted to though, she's was so fucking hot....	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 12:50 AM
2	Girl approached me and it got me questioning smv Oh yeah some female friends of me are always bragging about it, "I've got 200 matches last week" One even got a message from tinder that said "you're doing good, over 3000 dudes liked you" As if her ego wasn't inflated enough already.... The pictures are all in bikini or showing alot of skin, with 15 filters over them on top of all the makeup and posing. She messages half of these thirsty dudes for ages without ever meeting them, tells me she'd never do that and then just laughs. Then she gets s…	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 12:44 AM
3	Girl approached me and it got me questioning smv Haha true, But you're right I've met alot of 5/10 girls that truly think they are 8/10 just because they got plenty of 8/10 dudes to fuck em once.	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 12:31 AM
-1	What do you do when you’re trying to get someone but all of a sudden someone with higher SMV comes and snags? I'm like a 6-7/10 and I usually go out with a 9/10 alpha and a 9/10 female friend. Does wonders for your own smv.	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 12:28 AM
2	Girl approached me and it got me questioning smv Don't you ever "shoot for the moon" ? I do and I don't care if they are insulted, which they almost never are. And sometimes you catch one 2-3 points higher then you.	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 12:25 AM
14	How to be the life of the party? You need to remove some inner limitations. Just make sure you enjoy yourself first. If you can't, identify the problem and fix it. For example I went to a birthday party of a friend. Me and a friend arrived, it was fucking lame no one said anything no one drank and no one danced. We had a confetti canon, before bdaygirl could say nononooo doon't please I'll have to clean up. BOOM TOO LATE So I get out the shots and tell everyone to drink because the party is lame, only one dude wanted to do shot…	/r/askTRP	09/04/18 12:19 AM
1	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. I try to.... just never expected it to happen, my frame was shot to shit only this happened not before. Then again even if I had a stone cold face when this happened, those friends of hers would still be laughing at it I bet...yeah toxic. And wouldn't that be an abit over the top shit test? How could I avoid such situations?	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 11:47 PM
1	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. I'll hit the gym, as I said somewhere else in the comments I don't feel intimidated by those dudes, I trained mma bjj and kickbox. I just don't intimidate them...and don't know how to deal with them. Thanks for the advice so far! Hand of god sounds good if you get to do it! Not if it's done to you. I've done it in clubs too in a way, if I see bored girls getting hit on near the sides, I'll just take them to the dancefloor. Half the time they are happy I 'saved' them and proceed to dance with me …	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 11:39 PM
1	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. You're right I'll try isolate quicker as once in a while I find myself in a bar with 90% dudes. Hate those fucking places and that time of night, fucks up the whole atmosphere. I'd never go there alone or even with male friends, but some girls loooove to go there ofcourse. And some dudes just enjoy a good cocksfest I guess. I'll try the openly appreciating another time this happens thanks!	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 11:15 PM
2	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. You're right I'm still working on being a better man (in the trp sense) They don't intimidate me I've done mma, bjj and kickbox. I just don't intimidate them... So I guess yes I should get more buff.	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 11:08 PM
1	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. Thanks I will! You're right I'll ditch them faster if they keep disrespecting. Yeah man it's like taking hot girls into a lions den, you did all the work, got em all horny and a little bit tipsy. Then at any moment they can get swooped away or distracted by "deep conversations" with girlfriends, many more. While I can avoid alot of those, when it gets late at night or the girl drinks abit too much everything can still happen.... it isn't over untill she's in my bed. I'll read up on AMOG and work…	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 11:05 PM
3	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. Thanks man this is good advice, I'll try apply those methods. What about if the dudes straight up ignore me? I've seen a few of those too...	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 09:56 PM
1	Ran into an ex, (she dumped me) she was still attracted to me...trying not to fall into old habits. True that, super weird 'deja vu' night. It was like I first met her again, I had the fucking same ragged old vintage sweater on as the first time I met her at some party and took her home. And it was at one of the places we used to come. Like the universe trying to teach me a lesson again, you're right I won't do it. Would be easier if she was uglier though haha.	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 09:50 PM
1	Ran into an ex, (she dumped me) she was still attracted to me...trying not to fall into old habits. And I think you are right, I was fine without her but when you put her in front of me.... I better don't do it then.	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 09:43 PM
1	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. I never mate guard, usually girls reject quickly or I start talking to other I'll keep upping my game and start lifting more. But once in a while she responds to another dude's flirting. Had this happen to me a month ago, a girl I had fucked twice now asks me to go home and fuck again. Not even half an hour later she leaves with another dude. I found it abit hard to "smile" about it...	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 09:39 PM
2	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. Yeah you're right I need better logistics, too many variables even with good planning. I've seen cockblocking friends, angry ex boyfriends, all kinds of nonsense dramas. Half of those girls get absolutely shitfaced drunk and the hamsterwheel goes in overdrive. You go to take a leak for 5 minutes and they are making out with another dude out of boredom, lack of resistance or being 2% more attracted to someone else. Some just get super horny and will go home with literally almost anyone. Being out…	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 09:31 PM
0	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. Stopped like a year ago when I went back studying, only going like once a month now. Regret losing half my muscles.... This was another wakeup call, I'll hit the gym tomorrow!	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 09:24 PM
1	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. Yeah that happened to me recently, I posted about it. Went out with one girl and came home with another, first one went with another dude. Fine by me if I also have one. Chaos theory is the right description for this madness sometimes. I'll try to drink less and bail before every place is a cocksfest! Thanks	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 09:23 PM
3	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. I think you hit the nail on the head there. "other dudes are trying to swoop in because they see you two and think you're not very good looking" Few months ago I actually heard some dudes talking like that about me and a girl. (how can he be with her he doesn't look good at all) I don't think I look bad, I know I do look abit "different". Adopted my clothing style to it and it works for me. Girls either think I'm super ugly or they think I'm super sexy, regardless of their own hotness. Yeah I'll…	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 09:20 PM
2	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. She sent them away after 2 lines. So that was ok but she was getting abit annoyed from all the being hit on after a while. Guess I need a more dominant frame? Would be nice if this happened abit less. Won't bore you with details but we couldn't leave to my place yet. Always struggled with the late night caveman style game where 10 thirsty dudes are swarming one girl. I'm more of a fun loving life of the party dude and usually some girls want to join in on the fun early in the night.	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 04:01 PM
1	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. Hahaha point taken. You're right except for lifting and holding frame at all times there is not much to do. Weird thing is I was buff before, but I was bluepill buff. I repelled those dudes but also the girls. Now those muscles would help me a great deal. I'll hit the gym again.	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 03:04 PM
5	Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there. True, still much to learn. A friend of me hooked up with a hb6 last week. I go for a smoke in another room, she follows me, and spreads her legs over me. (she knew he was following, he sees what's happening and almost goes mad lol). They sure like to rattle our cages... I myself lost my cool a few times too unfortunately, a hb8 plate that I had asks me to go home from a party to fuck and 30mins later she leaves with someone else....her friends saw me got mad and some of them even laughed at me. …	/r/askTRP	08/04/18 02:55 PM
2	Took a girl to a party, took another home. First one won't return my bike membership card.... Yeah it's real handy when you somehow end up or get lost in unexpected places. Or you got there by car and too drunk to get back. Usually I just take my own bike and if I need to bring someone along I can just let em take one of those bikes.	/r/askTRP	03/04/18 02:46 AM
1	Took a girl to a party, took another home. First one won't return my bike membership card.... Yeah she ghosted me at the party, first time I properly held frame and just went for another girl when in such a situation (happened a few times to me this year, noticed alot of girls just don't give a shit doing this kind of stuff, even after making out with you) So I consider that a win. I'm 29 and she was 23, yeah it's petty of her. Yeah noticed before that she wanted me to lead everything but got irritated when something wasn't going her way...then 5 minutes later she was happy again. Alot o…	/r/askTRP	03/04/18 02:11 AM
2	Took a girl to a party, took another home. First one won't return my bike membership card.... I know, could hit myself in the head. Should've asked it back when we got there immediately, just didn't think about it.	/r/askTRP	03/04/18 01:59 AM
5	Took a girl to a party, took another home. First one won't return my bike membership card.... It costs 50 euros but it has like a 6 month wait list on it.... I could report it stolen but that would set her back 3 weeks also. Yeah you're right, I just didn't think she'd pull something petty like that as she wasn't a total tinder stranger either. I just lend it to her on the way to the party, we did a few bars before too. Actually had a fun time but she dropped something like she fucked the guy she left with before, and found a quick way out. I think she wanted to fuck with my head but I w…	/r/askTRP	03/04/18 01:56 AM
2	Should I bring this up or drop it? I always do the first round and let them buy the next.	/r/askTRP	03/04/18 01:24 AM
2	Hey Seddit what's the weakest part of your game? Still happens to me alot at parties, make out with a few girls. Just enjoying yourself and forgetting to just take her home before I'm shitfaced, the party is over, or she finds another target.	/r/seduction	02/04/18 04:45 AM
3	Acquiring "The eye" Thanks, I will watch this!	/r/askTRP	29/03/18 06:25 PM
1	Acquiring "The eye" Yes I came from far below. Lazy fat gamer, I'm in shape and have hobbies and friends now. I'm getting interest now but also alot of mixed signals, usually I just bypass them and go for it but I feel like there is a better way. I will learn the strategies and options but I feel like I need this stuff first.	/r/seduction	29/03/18 04:44 PM
2	Acquiring "The eye" Thanks, right now I'm reading What Every BODY Is Saying by Joe Navarro. Yes I realise it's a skill that takes alot of time and practice, I'll have to implement it in my everyday life. I'd very much like to be able to read social cues and body language, as sometimes you can't trust a word that comes out of their mouth. Had girls say they don't like me and next week I'm making out with them. I've had girls say to their friends they would NEVER get with me, again next week... Then again I also miss…	/r/seduction	29/03/18 04:41 PM
12	A year into the Red Pill "I had to give up a lot of my toxic friends along the way." I feel you man, I had to do the same. I brought some of them along with my new friends and they almost crashed and burned everything. They went bitter over the years, talking to my female friends about metoo and shit like that. Shaming gay friends of a hb8 I was hooking up with and more unacceptable public disrespect like that. The others are now in pussywhipped ltrs or became 9 to 5 robots with 0 passions. Most of them beyond repair.	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/18 04:32 PM
2	Acquiring "The eye" Thanks! I will	/r/askTRP	29/03/18 04:19 PM
2	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" Thanks I'll try that next time. And yes flirting is fun! I hated it when I was younger but once you don't care about the outcome anymore it's actually fun! Right now I'm reading a book on bodylanguage, curious where that will get me.	/r/askTRP	29/03/18 06:02 AM
1	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" Thanks, I will! Yeah I have a good relationship with my sister (25) so I can see the other side of the coin and. All the ways she gets fucked over by men. But then again she also has no interest in anything other then alphas but has trouble getting any of those to commit. Quite sad stories there too sometimes. We were both raised very soft and had to figure out this stuff on our own.	/r/askTRP	29/03/18 04:19 AM
2	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" Including me, I still have much to learn from real men. I thought I was getting there as I can get girls in my bed now. Couldn't have been further from the truth. Had plates begging me to show my emotions, the moment I give an inch the whole dynamic changes or they drop me. Then again if I do maintain control, sometimes shit still happens... It's only your turn has been an eye opener. Glad to have found this place.	/r/askTRP	29/03/18 03:24 AM
3	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" Yeah you're right, it's been shit every time. Then again some of my bp friends advice is even worse then that of a woman... "Just text her more, she might think you're not interested" "A real man explains his feelings" "Give her a nice gift" "Send her a letter" And more of that...	/r/askTRP	29/03/18 02:53 AM
2	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" Thanks alot! Will read and apply all of these, as I'm becoming 30 this summer and am going on a student exchange program where everyone will be younger next year.	/r/askTRP	29/03/18 01:04 AM
3	askTRP Megathread March 28 This, I've been sleeping around and partying as a man. Once in a while one tries to pin me down, and some of them I go along with it to then find out they still haven't stopped sleeping around, or cheat on me.... Don't do it or take heavy caution.	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/18 10:45 PM
2	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" Yeah I was thinking about that too, could've corrected it there. Another good option thanks!	/r/askTRP	28/03/18 10:41 PM
8	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" Thanks I will try this! And yes I have many things to learn that's why I'm here. I came from absolute zero though so as long as it keeps going the right way and I keep improving it's all fine. I don't mind losing or getting rejection as long as I learn from my mistakes.	/r/askTRP	28/03/18 09:16 PM
6	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" "It pretty much happens in the moment or never since they have the attention span of goldfish." This I learned the hard way, when I was BP I thought I had to ask em out and "treat em right". Wasted many opportunities. A few weeks ago I'm making out with a girl hb7-8 and a mutual acquaintance comes to me and says "treat her right, don't take her home now, take her out for a date". I took her home and fucked her of course, turns out she just had a fight with her bf. If I didn't fuck her then I nev…	/r/askTRP	28/03/18 09:12 PM
3	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" Nice, I tried things like this but then they just go: "seriously now how old are you"	/r/askTRP	28/03/18 08:49 PM
5	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" You're right, sometimes I say "you are too young for me anyway, not experienced" or something like that. Noticed that, the younger they are the more put off they are by chasing or showing too much interest. The older girls wanted to be asked for coffee or drinks and the younger ones it worked alot better if I just showed a little interest and then waited untill I ran into them at a random party or bar.	/r/askTRP	28/03/18 08:49 PM
4	Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me" Yeah you're right. We did the guess game first she thought I was 25. Then my friends told her I was 29 ( I tried telling on of the female ones to not do that ) but that got abit weird fast because they then assumed I asked it to hit on their friends, which was true. Now I'm just straight forward and non apologetic about it, mostly they don't care or they find it intriguing. Most of my new friends nowadays are 23-25 gives me access to younger girls, they go out alot. They are cool people and my o…	/r/askTRP	28/03/18 08:44 PM
1	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. Yeah I'm starting to notice that. Some of the nightmares I can spot in time as I got a hot female roommate that eats men alive. Only the worst of scumbags can touch her emotionally, the rest she just toys with for months long, simultaneously. It's like you said, the ones that seem good prospects at the start and really connect on more levels that are the most dangerous. I'll read up on it thanks!	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 09:30 PM
1	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. "These girls will often come off as what TRP deems unicorns/good LTR prospects early on (high interest level, submissive, compliant, sexual)" You hit the nail on the head! While I do follow most of the above rules when one of these comes along I tend to get far more lenient and shit hits the fan! I'm not particularly alpha but I left my former beta self far behind too. I started from absolute utmost beta, I couldn't pick up ANY girl, not even fat ones (not that I wanted those). I got my life tog…	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 08:47 PM
1	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. I'm not, why would it make difference?	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 08:21 PM
1	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. Actually online dating was only good for me when I started my journey, I can't really get anything higher then hb4-6 from tinder.... They are expert photographers + add 5 filters to their pictures so they seem hotter. Not really worth the time for me anymore. I rather go out, enjoy myself and meet girls in real life. I'll try what you say and go to exhibits and shows that I would do by myself or with friends. I can do tinder dates, nighttime pickups and social circle. But for some reason the las…	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 06:17 PM
1	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. I wasn't broken, I was lost trp helped me move in the right way. A few years ago I couldn't get any girls, now I'm picking up girls and getting attention, but I'm struggling with the parts after picking em up. Still much to learn...	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 05:52 PM
1	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. Yeah same, big city here. Damn you are right, I've seen most of these signs happen. I avoid addiction and self-harm ofcourse, the other signs show up later. Lacks impulse control; I've seen this with 50% of ALL girls, can work for or against you though. Problem is usually pickup at parties, bars and events and I don't like full-on makeup barbies at r&b clubs either. At least those creative types aren't boring. Ofc I'm also tindering but that's also a russian roulette, the most stable people I've…	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 05:42 PM
8	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. Thanks, just making this post made me realize how dumb I am. I guess I do have a soft spot for hot damaged girls subconsciously now that I think back on previous encounters. Time to improve and move on from those.	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 05:08 PM
2	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. You're right I should try that, I pick up alot of girls at underground alternative parties and in the artsy scene because it's easier for me there. But it seems the girls there are more likely to be crazy or damaged. You're right I should change locations, thanks.	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 05:05 PM
5	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. Yeah you're right, stopped seeing a hot tinder crazy, this close to fucking her but I felt something was wrong, asked a few questions. Turned out she was raised in a nudist club and her ex went travelling, came back and gave her 3 stds. Still she missed him.... Glad I didn't fuck her yet, would have been dangerous for me.	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 05:02 PM
2	Always attracting crazy or damaged/unstable girls. How can I know before that there is going to be drama...	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 04:51 PM
1	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. I just read it...wow that was exactly what happened. We had a bunch of fun times we made out in a fucking bouncy castle... Had some other adventures that always ended in fucking. She did all kinds of stuff for me, she wanted more and melted for me. Then BAM, one moment. Everything out of the window as if it never happened. And a very weird explanation that made totally no sense. Yes hamster wheel was spinning at 100% This was a bitter lesson for me, but you're right better now (29) then later.	/r/askTRP	26/03/18 02:16 AM
1	29 and back in uni, should I also pickup women there? Yeah ofcourse! The first year was a shock for me, they all seemed like children with 0 experience and no stories to tell. Then I gradually connected with some cool people most of em 22-25 instead of the usual 19. Gaming is easy and not easy, half of them are still princesses (daddy pays everything) that get orbited by 20+ thirsty college dudes I keep away from those. One almost had me orbiting her before I knew it ... I find the ones with a bunch of individuality alot easier. But most of all you…	/r/askTRP	26/03/18 01:29 AM
1	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. True, This one was always whining of how I'm an enigma and she doesn't really know if I like her or not. Throws dramas or situations at me to get me to show emotion. A few weeks ago she was flirting with dudes, I didn't flinch. Seems this week I got the nuclear "leaving with ex" test right in front of me... abit too much for me. I showed I cared, aaaaand I'm done for. Thanks, over the top shit like this happened a few times since my journey, now I get over it in a day or a few whereas my younger…	/r/askTRP	26/03/18 01:26 AM
1	29 and back in uni, should I also pickup women there? Thanks, any ideas how to deal with the disapproving cockblocking friends though?	/r/askTRP	26/03/18 12:54 AM
1	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. That's what I was trying, only fwb or dropping her. Kinda made it clear yesterday that we were done, apparently some of her friends overheard me saying it. That's why she stopped by my place to turn it around and "dump me"	/r/askTRP	26/03/18 12:44 AM
2	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. Yeah seems whenever something doesn't go their way, drama will be introduced to see how you react. By now I've seen all kinds of weird unpredictable dramas pop up, from girls giving blowjobs while their bf is in the other room to exes that want to fight me. Can't know the solution for every variant. Still trying to harden myself more for battle, but once in a while one catches me offguard..	/r/askTRP	26/03/18 12:15 AM
1	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. Damn I let her talk, described below. Super weird talk & explanation, all over the place. I couldn't translate half of it. She started about the dude. I tell her it's ok that she can do what she wants but I'll do the same, she almost cries there. Then she starts spinning shit around. Makes it a whole thing as if we were together for years... (known her for 3-4 weeks) I act cool with it throughout like I don't care and then she leaves happy? I don't see a way to salvage only fucking, do you? I'm …	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 10:21 PM
1	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. Yeah it was a real redpill moment for me, last few weeks she did everything for me. Only attention for me when I saw her, then BAM complete 180 as soon as this dude showed up. The very same woman who did all for me now thinks I'm weak for being abit angry with her for leaving with another dude... I mean I can handle alot but I'm not made of stone. She said she doesn't want to fuck anymore, that she could only be in a real relationship with me but doesn't want a relationship. I went from alpha to…	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 09:44 PM
1	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. Too late she just came by my place.... she did have her heart to heart. Said she didn't fuck the dude that night (clearly lying and even if she wasn't it was still fucked up). I tell her she should do what she wants and then I'll do the same. Then she tried turning it around by saying she doesn't want to see me anymore because apparently some of my friends came up to her that night to say she was making a mistake. And she can't handle peer pressure. She said she didn't want drama....says the gir…	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 09:36 PM
2	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. Yeah that's what I thought too, apparently she has a weak spot for this dude but he doesn't want anything other then sex from her. So she fucks me in between or to get back at him or something I guess. Which is all fine but like you said maybe not right in front of me...	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 06:12 PM
1	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. Yeah but you need caveman game at that time of night batting 20 thirsty dudes away for one hb4, I'm better at picking em up halfway the party. I just enjoy myself and usually girls want to join in, half the work done already.	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 04:38 PM
1	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. Thanks I will do that, I gotta rise above it instead of letting myself get sucked into dumb dramas. Would be better if I could have somehow prevented it though.... It was too late at night to just go for another girl at the party, by that time it was already a cocksfest.	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 04:24 PM
2	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. You're right, I don't mind them doing it but right in front of me... I didn't feel jealousy I felt disrespected...but I gotta let that shit go I guess.	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 04:18 PM
1	I get offered a threesome, 30mins later she leaves with an ex. Thanks man, so when I see her I act as if nothing happened? Thing is she wanted more before this happened so I don't know if it's possible keeping her as a plate. Any ideas? But I certainly can't do LTR with her after this....	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 03:53 PM
1	Well that quickly took a 180 yeah this would be helpfull!	/r/seduction	25/02/18 09:41 PM
1	What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date. Exactly, I much rather have her say no then having her contact me again next week and having the same story all over.	/r/seduction	08/02/18 12:02 AM
2	What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date. But she just did that (started contacting me again after I stayed silent). And still I get a fucking maybe :p	/r/seduction	08/02/18 12:00 AM
1	What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date. Yeah you're right, but it's not the time that bothers me. It's the fact that she contacts me every time after a while. She's playing with my head. And I'm keeping busy with other girls but still it bothers me.	/r/seduction	07/02/18 11:36 PM
2	What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date. Ignore till a yes or no? If you ignore it it usually stays silent and then they start contacting you again with other non important stuff (at least she does).	/r/seduction	07/02/18 11:34 PM
1	What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date. She's not into me as a friend either, does she just like the attention maybe	/r/seduction	07/02/18 11:25 PM
1	What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date. I wanted to say something like "cool let me know" but that puts all power in her hands. Stupid thing is she keeps contacting me herself every time I cut contact for a while. Then when I respond to it and ask her out I get this shit?	/r/seduction	07/02/18 11:13 PM
2	What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date. Ok, but what would be a good reply then? Apart from not replying at all.	/r/seduction	07/02/18 11:07 PM
1	She keeps texting but flakes dates Yeah so this shit happened with her lol https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7vglo8/went_to_a_party_with_a_girl_angry_boyfriend_shows/	/r/seduction	07/02/18 03:20 AM
1	She keeps texting but flakes dates Yeah I went to a bar with friends also after the date! Texted for a while during. Also she mentioned she is seeing another guy casually (hence the free spirited). I don't mind, at least she's honest about it. Didn't text her anything yesterday, I'm not that good at the whole texting game. I like to speak to people irl lol. Any ideas what to text her today or soon, to get to meet her again? Thanks for the advice so far btw!	/r/seduction	15/01/18 04:22 AM
2	She keeps texting but flakes dates Hey so I got her to meet me! She was abit shy or uninterested at first, but opened up halfway the date. Only had like 2 hours, in which I had to drive her back to the trainstation. So I didn't have alot of time, saw no good opportunity to kiss her yet. She didn't touch me or anything either. She saw my appartment (she had to drop her bags off) but wanted to leave it immediately. At the end of the date she said next time she'll find a place to sleep with a friend so she could stay longer. I mean …	/r/seduction	15/01/18 12:54 AM
1	How does an average guy hook up with a Tinder match? True that, I match with 2 girls in 7 days!	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:43 AM
1	Is social circle game worth it? When I do social circle it sometimes gets weird because they know some people you do etc. You hear from other people she does not or does want to see you etc. I think you should only do it when you have a genuine interest in the girl in your social circle.	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:41 AM
1	I'm a known people pleaser/yes man, and I want to take things farther (relationally) with a woman I've been dating...and it feels like things have fallen off a bit... Whenever I message girls I almost always kill attraction. Try to just message to setup meets! When you see her face to face make up for it.	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:39 AM
1	Alternate ways to phrase "let's get a hotel" without being sleazy? Are there bars near your place? Just ask girls to come to your neigbourhood, a good amount will go for it!	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:37 AM
5	Am i friendzoning the Girls i like? He's right, show intent!! You got friends enough you don't need anymore! If it fails it fails but at least you tried, you'll like yourself better for it!	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:36 AM
2	Does smiling too much kill attraction? Yeah smile when you want to! I noticed just being happy and enjoying the little things does wonders!! Don't smile just for the sake of smiling!	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:33 AM
2	Developing a social life and getting invited to events I way a naysayer and a negative person once. What helped for me was being positive, enjoy the little things in life! People will notice and will want to be around you! And as other people said, say yes to invitations, if they suck they suck. But will it suck more then being alone at home? It will ALMOST ALWAYS be better to go!!	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:23 AM
1	Can you try again? I notice whenever I want to be serious with a girl, it fails the hardest!! Treat her like a girl you are only moderately interested in, it will go alot easier!	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:19 AM
1	I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection? Everyone is different, sometimes you have a way better connection with a hot girl then you do with a mediocre one!! Just try to find some common ground! I agree sometimes it's near impossible, then it means she's not the right girl for you! Always remember it's a two way street!!! It's not always your fault!!	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:17 AM
1	Is it possible to reach a point in Game where you’ve learned all that there is? I don't believe so, everything in life keeps evolving! Stop adapting and evolving, it's over! When I was young people called eachother instead of texting......	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:14 AM
1	Is telling a girl she’s attractive/beautiful/hot a good idea? How else am I supposed to imply I’m interested? Whenever I tell a hot girl she's hot, it's over. However if it's a normal girl, do tell her!!	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:12 AM
3	The key to meeting interesting women without being a super cool suave robot with 1000 hobbies Don't look for girls with the exact same interests you have! If they are passionate but not boring about 1-3 hobbies it's fine! This is not only about girls, try to be able to speak about anything with everyone. On a basic level.	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:11 AM
0	I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection? I had the opposite problem, I find too many connections and end up in friendzone. Make your intentions clear! Escalate! This helped me alot!	/r/seduction	08/01/18 03:08 AM
1	She keeps texting but flakes dates Thanks, will update this week, should she message again!	/r/seduction	07/01/18 04:24 AM
1	She keeps texting but flakes dates Thanks will do! I'l try again when she texts but I'm prepared to next her already, don't like her games lol.	/r/seduction	07/01/18 04:14 AM
2	Are girl who appear 'slutty' actually so? I have seen very classy dressed girls turn out to be very very slutty. And have seen very slutty dressed girls who aren't slutty at all! I have seen girls do a ton of drugs and do nothing apart from doing drugs. You never know!	/r/seduction	07/01/18 04:12 AM
1	She keeps texting but flakes dates Bah, any ideas how to fix this? It's always the same, whenever you might actually like the girl it gets next level complicated.	/r/seduction	07/01/18 04:00 AM
4	She keeps texting but flakes dates Thanks, I prefer yes or no vs this timewasting stuff. Fucking annoying because the first time I met her IRL there was some chemistry. I feel like if I get her to see me again then it will be fine, but it seems she knows this and rather let me hang from a thread.	/r/seduction	07/01/18 03:53 AM
6	She keeps texting but flakes dates Could be, a female friend of me told me she and her friends have a rule: "keep as many options open as you can". Real fucked up.	/r/seduction	07/01/18 03:40 AM
1	She keeps texting but flakes dates Thanks, as I have learned here I always try to set the meet asap. If it fails it fails, but I haven't had alot of this shit. Where it fails and she keeps texting, she's not even going for friendzone it just looks like she's fucking with me. I even do the thing r/seduction told me, always wait a long time between messages, don't send too long messages. Still this girl turns it around.	/r/seduction	07/01/18 03:39 AM
2	Took a girl home, she was put off by my high hearthrate and eventually left. UPDATE: I didn't text her after that and she booty called me on christmas eve at 23:00 after her family party. It was a good christmas lol.	/r/seduction	03/01/18 12:59 AM
1	Need help with Older Women. I don't get why people remove shit all the time. This was a normal question and WAS going to be extensible answered by people in a few hours.	/r/seduction	14/12/17 02:15 AM
2	help I wasn't there but it doesn't sound like he deserved a punch, at least not to the face, do you have a short temper? Sorry I can't offer more advice, maybe someone who has been in such situations will :)	/r/seduction	14/12/17 01:24 AM
2	In a bit of a dilemma. Not sure whether she wants me or not. Would love to hear what you think Has she been in the country you live now? Would be nice if she came to visit and you can show her around! Like a citytrip of some sorts, and you wouldn't have to go out of your way. I can't offer advice on how to set that in motion though :p	/r/seduction	14/12/17 01:20 AM
2	In a bit of a dilemma. Not sure whether she wants me or not. Would love to hear what you think Yeah I wouldn't travel all the way for a coffee. Do you happen to go back for holidays or newyears? Maybe you have old friends or family there that you might want to visit?	/r/seduction	14/12/17 01:08 AM
2	In a bit of a dilemma. Not sure whether she wants me or not. Would love to hear what you think "Thanks to current circumstances distance wouldn't be an issue anymore." There you have your answer! I think she was trying to keep you interested untill you were closer. Just ask her to grab a coffee or a few drinks and catch up!	/r/seduction	14/12/17 01:00 AM
1	help Did this someone deserve the punch?	/r/seduction	14/12/17 12:56 AM
2	Should I tell her I am a virgin?? I told it once to a girl I was dating for like 2 months. She was almost disgusted and extremely turned off and stopped dating me. As a result my confidence went out of the window for a year (it was already low at the time) Now I know luckily not all girls are like that.	/r/seduction	14/12/17 12:10 AM
6	I really hate texting, but so many girls insist on it. Is it harming my game? "rampant miscommunication" Upvote, I need this info too. I'm also 29, I think we missed the boat on texting game buddy. I like to talk to people face to face, texting only ever complicated things for me.	/r/seduction	14/12/17 12:06 AM
1	How do I get out of the "I'm going to die a virgin" and "every girl hates me" mindset? Fake it till you make it!	/r/seduction	14/12/17 12:02 AM
2	[22M] Virgin, How do you get laid? Can't argue with that	/r/seduction	12/12/17 11:43 PM
5	[22M] Virgin, How do you get laid? Why not? Or websites like okcupid or other dating websites. A friend of me had good luck on one of those paid websites, said people were serious on there.	/r/seduction	12/12/17 11:13 PM
1	Some lessons I've learned about dating apps Was he a gay friend? If not you just discovered he's gay.	/r/seduction	12/12/17 11:04 PM
1	I'm 18 and feel like I have little to no sex drive, what could possibly be the cause of this? Having sex will also make you have more sex drive.	/r/seduction	12/12/17 10:57 PM
8	[22M] Virgin, How do you get laid? Most bars/clubs here are 90% filled with thirsty dudes, usually regulars of the particular bar. You gotta fight half the bar to compete or get near. So tinder!	/r/seduction	12/12/17 10:56 PM
1	Took a girl home, she was put off by my high hearthrate and eventually left. I only thought that maybe she won't text again because she might think I only tried to fuck her. And that I needed to make clear I might like her somehow, not just for sex. But you are right, I will move on to other girls! Thanks for the good advice! Especially regarding self respect.	/r/seduction	11/12/17 01:46 AM
1	Took a girl home, she was put off by my high hearthrate and eventually left. Ok thank you, I was starting to overthink this. I'll hold off on texting, maybe I'll send something lowkey when I don't hear from her like next week.	/r/seduction	10/12/17 11:03 PM
1	Took a girl home, she was put off by my high hearthrate and eventually left. Ok yeah not much to do about it then, would've been better then if this fiasco didn't happen maybe. As I liked her on the date before, and we had a good time. Now she probably won't text me again after the weirdness last night. And people here advise against me texting her.	/r/seduction	10/12/17 04:08 PM
1	Took a girl home, she was put off by my high hearthrate and eventually left. Only had the heart rate, not the other signs. And she asked for the weed, next time I will just say I don't have any lol. Yeah she made a sudden 180 and was weird when I tried escalating again after, then I gave up and drove her home. Awkward in the car ofc.	/r/seduction	10/12/17 03:13 PM
2	Took a girl home, she was put off by my high hearthrate and eventually left. Well I did try to cuddle abit after that but got a cold shoulder and awkwardness like you said, then I drove her home. Also I can't make her jealous as I don't see her anywhere and I only have her phone number. I forgot at that moment but she did say the last guy she was dating tried to move too fast on her, looks like I made the same mistake.	/r/seduction	10/12/17 03:03 PM
1	Help I’m in love with a girl I’ve never talked to Yeah this is lust, not love. Go for it but casual, I fucked up many times being too serious.	/r/seduction	10/12/17 05:45 AM
1	I almost lost my virginity but performance anxiety is a bitch. The first girl I tried it with was a dead fish in bed, really doesn't help the situation as it puts 10x more stress on you. The next one was all over me, playing with herself between, saying what she likes. Sex was way better. As people above said, get a viagra or similar. Just knowing you have it in your drawer just in case can already be enough. Also her playing with my dick felt weird at first too, just go down on her while getting your dick hard, and she won't even notice the problem meanwhi…	/r/seduction	10/12/17 05:21 AM
1	Took a girl home, she was put off by my high hearthrate and eventually left. You don't have to know it to know it's going super fast :p	/r/seduction	10/12/17 04:47 AM
5	Is it possible to talk too much? As a man who talks way too much (I can't stand silences) I know this problem all too well. I am aware of the problem and still I talk too much. First I learned to tell more interesting stuff while still talking way too much, this made the problem even worse, you become ultimate friendzone material. You have to escalate and make your intentions clear! And try be comfortable around silences, fill the time with other things.	/r/seduction	10/12/17 03:57 AM