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LEVEL UPp3n3lop3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:18 PM
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NAH, SISp3n3lop3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:34 AM
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Discussionp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:18 AM
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RANTp3n3lop3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:30 PM
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CMVp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:58 PM
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Advicep3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 01:09 AM
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Advicep3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 03:21 AM
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Question For Menp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:27 AM
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Advicep3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:38 AM
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p3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 07:37 AM
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Question For Menp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:13 PM
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Question For Menp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:15 PM
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Question For Womenp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:26 AM
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Discussionp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:36 PM
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CMVp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 02:02 AM
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p3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:06 AM
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CMVp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:34 PM
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p3n3lop3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:25 PM
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Question For Womenp3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:49 AM
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Advicep3n3lop3/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:06 AM
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Ugh, girl I'm so sorry you missed out on your one chance for free sex with a basic, broke, ugly and average dude :( I have NO IDEA HOW that opportunity will ever come your way again. Maybe send him a message and find out when he will next be in your area?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:29 PM
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B...bb..bbbut aren't you impressed by this car he took a picture in? (Psst...it was a prize car sitting in the mall. He'll be asking you to uber to his house for the free sex since he actually doesn't drive :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:36 PM
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I love how men are so dumb that they think we think like them? "HUH? Some guy is offering FREE SEX?!!!!! Holy shit... I'd better call every girl I know and let them in on it!! Better yet, maybe I'd better save all the sex with this dude for myself. OMG where do I sign up? Where is his PHONE NUMBER!!!! My clit is on fire!!!!" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:28 PM
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Aw, nice! He posed inside a prize car at the mall to take his pic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:23 AM
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All women would pick woman 1. Male attention is abundant and of low value. Having male attention is no achievement. Average looking but a millionaire? Easy fix there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:40 AM
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I agree. But you misunderstand me. I am saying that a woman who pursues a relationship with a man SOLELY due to sex is abnormal and unwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:05 AM
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hairy ass!! ladies, stay away!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 08:17 PM
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How's your hairline though? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 08:14 PM
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Why else would she want to have sex with you then? LOL Men are so delusional. We don't want sex like you do. Occasionaly we do want sex in that way if the guy is really hot but otherwise, we want more. Resources. Get it through your skull.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 08:06 PM
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Someone who makes relationship decisions based on sex is man, not a woman. If it's a woman, it's a mentally ill woman. She probably also eats poorly, doesn't exercise, has some trashy tattoos and/or piercings, has birthed bastard children (since she loves sex so much), had abortions (disgusting), smokes cigarettes and/or pot....ie, not classy, not healthy, no self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:23 PM
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Then you're a degenerate woman who makes bad life choices but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:14 PM
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It's a deal breaker sure, but good sex is not a reason to stay long term with a broke dude unless you are a loser yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:58 PM
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LOLLLL ME TOO This sleuthing list of his is truly hilarious and unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:45 PM
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past friends(now enemies) LOLLLLLLLL XD Yeah, good luck with that! What are you going to do? Send them a facebook message? Why the eff would they care about you? Are you offering money? And what enemies? Good grief. This is truly funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:44 PM
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Women don't care about good sex like men do. We'd much rather have an uninvolved wealthy husband, loving family and friend for emotional connection and the occasional gardener on the side. Don't fool yourself into justifying your laziness. Being good at sex as a man is no accomplishment. It's better than being bad at it. Being good at something is in general better than being bad at it. But your good sex is not going to put a roof over her head or keep her feeling provided for, feminine and rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:40 PM
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How come every time I go to upvote a comment here while laughing hysterically, it's YOU who wrote it?????? EXPLAIN THAT!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:27 PM
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if a woman just wants sex never the case unless she is mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:51 PM
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5-6 hotness LPN with a beat up used Toyota who is 25-34, never married, not social or hot enough to meet a ton of guys, nice enough, identifies christian but never goes to church, went to some random state or local college and partied sometimes but not enough for wild stories, and would honestly be pretty happy with a beta. *dead. (this is sort of me holy fuck)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 04:27 PM
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God, yes. I am looking for someone to do this with. If people are important in your life, you should see them in person or have their number in your phone andvice versa. I want to live an old world human life, not be a dopamine addict making bucks for zuck. The guy I am currently seeing loves posting selfies and he is over 40. :|
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:22 AM
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However, high school behaviour isn't really a good reflection of the adult world. oohhhh yes it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:02 AM
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I do sense often with older men especially its absolutely not supposed to be 'please sex with me' or 'please feel uncomfortable', but that there is kind of a kick from talking to a much younger woman about how she looks. Which is pretty uncomfortable. You're good with subtleties. This is exactly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:48 PM
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I thought you care about everyone singing kumbaya around the fire? Am I not your sister? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:42 PM
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He however, is still pining after the hot yoga chicks he wants, while in a relationship with a wholesome good quality girl who can do better than him but thinks his (parent's) money is impressive. But ok. He will never get that hot chick he wants hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:36 PM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:36 PM
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Actually LOL-ed for real. Thanks for this. Good luck in life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:35 PM
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I'm so glad I have an eye for you all now. My last long term was like this and it was a huge mistake hahah. He was such a sad, longing lil beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:33 PM
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An attractive person can exist without me having an existential crisis over whether to compliment them or not. She sure got you worked up! And now here you are writing about her on the internet and answering comments for hours lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:28 PM
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NOPE. I'm not an overly expressive extrovert lacking in emotional regulation, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:27 PM
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It's stupid. Men and women are different and treated as such. If my bra strap got stuck at work, I'd be fine asking a female coworker to help me fix it. In your ideal world apparently, there should be no difference in my asking a female or a married male coworker lol. Nice dreamland you've got there. And no, I'd never drink something a stranger gave me, male or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:26 PM
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If people can tell you "like" a client, you are not holding your cards right and lacking emotional control. Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:24 PM
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Yeah, I figured. This doesn't surprise me. You are an extraverted guy who is overly interested in women. You are the male version of the chick who gets married but still posts her cleavage selfies with a motivational quote on social media to collect thirsty likes. It's not cheating but she needs the attention and has plausible deniability: "I liked my hair in this photo!!" lol I feel sorry for your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:23 PM
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sharing positive feelings with zero further intent, You are lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:20 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:19 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:18 PM
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Also, if it makes you feel better, I compliment other women in public a lot if the mood strikes me. I did so with a young woman at a McDonalds drive thru, actually. I was just struck by her beauty and could tell she'd put effort in "You look gorgeous!!" I said. She beamed and said thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:02 PM
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In an ideal world, a lot of things would be possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:00 PM
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I was volunteering at a charity last week. A few older male volunteers started loudly commenting on my smile and freaking out that I do NOT look my age etc, while I'm surrounded by less attractive and older women volunteers and homeless people. It was humiliating somehow. I mean, I appreciate it and know they did not have ill intent, but god, I did not know what to say or how to react in that environment. After, while working I felt awkward. When I saw her, I was thinking, “She’s very cute, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:53 PM
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I was volunteering at a charity last week. A few older male volunteers started loudly commenting on my smile and freaking out that I do NOT look my age etc, while I'm surrounded by less attractive and older women volunteers and homeless people. It was humiliating somehow. I mean, I appreciate it and know they did not have ill intent, but god, I did not know what to say or how to react in that environment. It somehow made me feel guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:49 PM
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One group of fat old farmers used to come in every Friday and ask to sit in my section and called me Dimples. Why is this causing me to fume inside? I've known men like this who watch daddy/daughter porn and then go visit their little nieces like nothing. It's all well and good now but the odds that some of those men are child touchers pisses me off!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:35 PM
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LMAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:33 PM
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First of all, she would immediately interpret anything you said as you hitting on her. Secondly she would get gassed up, like, I got dudes hitting on me from the drivre-thru that’s how hot I am. Both of these would be true. Imagine if those construction laborers we women. And a guy stops his car, and starts walking towards them carrying water bottles. Would that ever happen? They probably wouldn’t even feel safe drinking the water. Yep, men and women are different and cannot be treated the same.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:31 PM
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How is your best friend some other girls' fiancee? How does that work? What do you all do together, have sleepovers and paint toenails? Are you his best friend? I would not marry a guy with another woman as a best friend lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:40 AM
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I once went for dinner with a guy who, went the bill came, we were discussing what we should do after. He says "I think......" puts hishand on the bill "We should go..." pulls the bill towards him "...to your place". Last part of sentence pointedly as he takes out his wallet lmfao. What an idiot. I already knew I wanted to sleep with him before dinner. Why he felt he had to act so creepy and coercive, who knows? He was tall, attractive, somewhat famous and successful. Men are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:56 PM
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Turned off. Repulsed. Pitying. Disgusted. And I wouldn't trust him around other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:52 PM
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Ok so, 40 year olds with 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:27 PM
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most part every girl may not consider any guy a backup but almost all are backups if they want them to be. :O
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:25 PM
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What comedian made that joke about "break in case of emergency" dick? I thought it was Dave Chapelle but I can't find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:24 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:20 PM
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I think if you are an attractive, urban, western woman and you do not have backups you are doing it wrong. I am doing it wrong then. What am I doing wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:20 PM
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extroverted women. they actively keep options available more often than not THe men do too. Ok, I think we found the root of the issue here...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:17 PM
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I am literally asking you to quote anywhere where I state I am involved with these men? I did. In this comment: Seriously explain it. Quote it. Okay! why wouldn’t a woman be aware of men who have made it clear they adore her? This insinuates present tense and intimacy. I wouldn't say a man who has "made it clear he adores me" are the construction workers catcalling as I walk down the street. "Made it clear he adores me" sounds like a conversation based on knowing you. To be aware of these men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:03 PM
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How old are you? 34 Do you have friends? Barely. Many are much older. What’s your profession? Internet related Do you get invited to events? No, lol. Sorry if you mean those questions in a shaming way. I am not ashamed of my social activity and I don't base my worth on it the same way an extrovert might. I see you're an ENTP and yall love to draw out useless arguments. I'm out!! XD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:01 PM
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I think you’re just insecure in ways I will never imagine or relate to. It's possible. I had a really bad childhood and have issues still with self hate, despite outwardly being a desirable person to others. That is why I engage in these conversations online. I'd love if I were proven wrong. Unfortunately, that hasn't happened yet. You change the subject to attacking my debating skills instead of answering my question. You’ve created little fantasies for how you believe others behave online and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:54 PM
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Since I am not Miss Cleo, I cannot explain your life. I have given examples of the words you use and how they insinuate on going conversation. I have asked you why you used this languages and you can't seem to explain it. I am legitimately curious, no need to get hysterical. It's just the internet, it's not worth raising your blood pressure lol. If you don't want to talk further, it's called the "BLOCK" button or disconnecting your wifi, girl. It ain't that hard!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:52 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:46 PM
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:O
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 10:03 AM
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his part of the rent LMAO oh hell no none of these 50/50 men Get a roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 10:00 AM
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That's like saying women are laughing at the "fat land whale" memes Some us are. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:58 AM
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Women don't get shamed for beingshort, the equivalent there is being shamed for being fat. Fat chick shaming memes are funny too. However, it is still unfair because the fat chick can lose weight and chooses not to. The short guy......well, he chooses not to have leg lengthening surgery lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:57 AM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:55 AM
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I found out he was going through a divorce last year and expressed honest and heartfelt condolences for his situation. They are both good people and I did not know or try to know if there were problems until he told me. HOKAY! *straightens my glasses and flexes typing fingers. SO I thought everything sounded reasonable until this part. You say they are both good people. Did you reach out to her as well, then? Were you in a relationship when this recently divorced man you've had a "relationship f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:54 AM
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basically if you work at a place for long enough, in a small enough town, everybody knows everybody and it's not weird to ask about those things. Yes, agree. I've lived in a small town before. But I'm from a big city. So I suppose these standards and rules are not universal. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:29 AM
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What does "loyalty" look like in cases where nobody's actions are really predatory? Define predatory. Making small talk in order to maintain connection with someone you have a crush on who is in a relationship.....that's kinda predatory. If you like someone and they are uninterested or unavailable, you should leave them alone. You are not "friends" and you never will be. You don't have to IGNORE them if you see them at social events etc, but just a smile and "Hi how are you good good" is courteo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:26 AM
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But apparently this is disloyalty to Aren. I didn't pick this up from his comments. Not sure why you're so incensed over him. What you have written about how you conduct yourself here sounds reasonable to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:23 AM
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Also.....why does he know about your grandma? You didn't answer. Why would a guy who had a crush on you but is not actively in your life know and/or feel comfortable enough to ask you something like this? That in itself is a problem. I read all of your comments (some good lols, thanks for that), but I don't see any examples of how to set a boundary without yelling fuck off. I don't think most people know how to be polite and dismissive. They inadvertently or subconsciously (because they want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:20 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:11 AM
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This is logical and well explained. I don't like it, but I can see how it's true. I don't think my mind works like this. I like to pick the best one for me and let the rest fall by the wayside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:10 AM
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Same. This puts me at a disadvantage in dating apparently, because the guys I date have backups and orbiters AND they orbit other women. What am I doing wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:08 AM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:05 AM
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WHAT DOES THAT LOYALTY LOOK LIKE TO YOU, IN ACTION? Deleting orbiters from from social media. If it's an ex, or a guy who asked you out, or has a crush on you or hearts all your selfies, or comments compliments, delete. The only men you should have on your social media are relatives, old friends from college/school, people you share hobbies with etc. If they get too over the top, or it's obvious to anyone observing their comment to you (compliments etc), delete. For example, I had a guy who woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:00 AM
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This is literally the norm for a lot of people. Have you never dated a person who other people found desirable? Should my mom feel insecure that my dad had past girlfriends and none of them were “bad breakups.” I think he was on his way to marriage with one. It really sounds like you guys should only date people who no one else on this earth knows exists. Or date extremely unattractive people who no one anywhere would ever desire except you. Nope, this is not the problem. The problem starts when…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:50 AM
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Manners and etiquette keep the boundaries up. These people do not understand this. They think there is only flirting back or yelling "FUCK OFF I HAVE A BF/GF" Can you give an example of using a manners/ettiquette to keep a boundary?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:36 AM
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half a dozen women at three different gyms who would jump on him in a heartbeat. What is he doing to encourage this? Existing? I don't think so. How else would he know this if they are not interacting? What purpose does a married man have of chitchatting with single women at a gym, unless they are staff (and it's just pleasantries)?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:34 AM
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What you seem to be suggesting in this thread is that, in attending this wedding and knowing that this man will be there, I'm somehow being disloyal to my husband No. In fact, it's admirable that you did not respond to his Facebook messages. However...are you on each other's social media? If so, why? That is keeping a backup imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:32 AM
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Seriously explain it. Quote it. Okay! why wouldn’t a woman be aware of men who have made it clear they adore her? This insinuates present tense and intimacy. I wouldn't say a man who has "made it clear he adores me" are the construction workers catcalling as I walk down the street. "Made it clear he adores me" sounds like a conversation based on knowing you. To be aware of these men insinuates they are in your life or at least your periphery. What did you mean by that? Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:22 AM
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It seems there is no alternative in your mind between flirting in response to "hows your grandma" and "FUCK OFF I HAVE A BF". How about being bland, polite and slightly dismissive, shutting the conversation down quick. "Thanks she's fine, back at home now. You know, old people. Have a good day!" Also.....why does he know about your grandma? That is more intimate than coworker talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:15 AM
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It wouldn't bother you because youre doing the same thing? What is your age btw if you dont mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 07:58 AM
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Yep, they are that desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:27 PM
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Why keep men who have a crush on you that youre not interested in in your life? Are you that desperate for attention? Are you that unkind? Have you no dignity? That is not a "friend" and yoy should move in. u/aaren_augustine has a point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:26 PM
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They keep them hooked and orbiting using social media. Its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:24 PM
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Disagree. Theres a difference between being desired from afar and actively encouraging a connection. Most women find it easy to keep men on the hook with social media by posting selfies and throwing orbiters the occasional like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:22 PM
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No, I dont do this but a LOT of women do. I don't think they think of it as back-ups but as "being nice" or "friends". Beware women who entertain orbiters and exes. They are hooked on that male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:20 PM
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He was amazing in some ways and REALLY REALLY CLUELESS/horrible in others. I can't trust myself because I see the good in people and give them more credit than they deserve. I have never got involved with bad boys etc HOWEVER just because someone has a good job, you meet their lovely parents, they say they want a relationship that leads to marriage, they are intelligent and interesting, you have similar values and hobbies and interests and great conversation............doesn't mean they aren't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 11:36 PM
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I actually last dated a man who was an "exploitation manager" on his actual business card. Came over to my house, ate the dinner I cooked all evening in one gulp, left his dishes around the house, had sex and sweated all over my bed, wiped his sweat on my towels and dropped them on the floor, peed and left the seat up and then walked out the door with a smile. I looked around my house and it had gone from domestic bliss to looking like a bomb had went off. I was so upset. And he wasn't an a-hole…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 10:13 PM
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I am a "pick me" but I am a pick-me in ALL areas of my life. I just try really hard and have high standards. I care too much. I have learned though that in general, men will take this for granted and pine after the women who reject them so I'm over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:39 PM
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Thanks for this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:19 AM
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Gosh I wish I could downvote this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 05:21 PM
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What is the actual post? But yeah, hell fucking no would I ever fuck a man who left me to die to save his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:24 PM
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/s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 03:24 PM
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No I didn't think that you didn't have a life before LTR. I just think that women who talk to men (in person, not on this forum) about their sex lives are low class women desperate for power and attention. That's all. The wording was strange. Wouldn't you think it odd if your wife said " I know a bunch of men who can't get off if they are masturbating withtout the tv on. They need everything stimulated at the same time. One even tried to train and make his penis more sensitive by always keeping …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 03:29 PM
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What's bad about avoiding MLM tho? Thought it was a good thing that they dodge it. Omg are you serious? See, your line of logic here.... I wonder if that was what he was thinking? Good grief. The problem is NOT that he turned down the MLM. The problem is that he turned down an interview with a legit company with an awesome job for an interview with the fucking MLM. He could have taken 2 seconds to Google the MLM and discovered, it's a door to door MLM. But no. I am so glad I no longer know that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 03:18 PM
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You are annoying too. Talk too fucking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:25 PM
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Hokaaaay, where do I start? Example, knew an INTP who was unemployed for half a year. Lived with his dad. On a bare mattress on the floor with no blanket (I have known numerous INTP men who slept on the floor/had nothing to eat because they were lazy and made bad decisions, but anyway). So he constantly went on about how smart and talented he was at this one computer thing. He was not able to get a job doing that (he had amillion reasons why) but because he thought he was so smart and talented, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:21 PM
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INTP woman? Lol sorry for that luck in your life 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:09 PM
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Well no you don't a man grunting luke a pig or crying out like a chick in a porno. Even "mmm" or "ohhhh" is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:08 PM
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Aren't you married? How do you "know a bunch of women" who have in depth talks about their sex life and orgasms with you???? :))))
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:06 PM
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INTJ and INTP are two different beasts entirely. INTJs are winners and make great mates. INTPs......are good at IT jobs, internet trolling and fascinating conversations about nothing. They make lifechoices that repeatedly result in them sleeping on a mattress on the floor in a dirty bachelor apartment into their 40s....they are nonchalant about everything (except for trolling), including you and your relationship with them. War cry of an INTP is: meh. Unimpressive humans. Interesting to talk to,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 02:55 AM
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I don't know. I guess I just got lucky in that area and should just shut up!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 02:01 AM
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According to your logic and the type of vibrator I use my clit should be practically burned off LOLLLLLLL ok that was the best laugh I had all week, girl thanks lmao. Yeah ok I don't know what I'm talking about, tbh. My experience only.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:48 AM
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wayyyyyyyy stronger than vibrator orgasms ............I was just going to suggest that maybe you can't orgasm from PIV because you've rug burned your clit and vag to death with those plastic and metal vibrators. But then, you offered it right up! I have never used those things. Never had a problem with PIV orgasms. Good ones too, and rather quickly. I don't think that's a coincidence. Vibrators are to women's sex life what porn is to men's. NUMBING.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:35 AM
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I'm not a serial killer, I don't want to fuck the dead lol XD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:31 AM
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INTP You dodged a bullet, believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:30 AM
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Have never had a problem orgasming from PIV in about 5 mins or less lol. Not sure what the issue is. Must be women with buzzed out vaginas numbed out from high vibration metal and plastic stuck up in there regularly lmao. Have had orgasms from oral but meh, could take or leave that. Leave, probably. I don't like that he's so far away. I want to be closer. That said, only happens with a man I have love for, a genuine connection and who is just enjoying the moment instead of "trying to make" me do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:28 AM
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I'm curious...how much do you weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:21 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:20 PM
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HAHA what a shit life XD Can't even have a moment's peace. So funny. Not having kids is awesome. Being a lonely old person will be awesome too. I'll just go off in the woods to die. At least when I had my youth, beauty and freedom, I spent it being young, beautiful and free :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:19 PM
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I love how men say "She was sane.....then she lived with me for years...and suddenly she was CRRRAZY" Gee...I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:12 AM
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AKA being with you made them "crazy". How lovely. Take note ladies! WGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 03:04 AM
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No, MGTOWS are like a vegan who goes around bitching about meat in the obvious hopes that someone will try to convince them otherwise *eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 03:03 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 03:02 AM
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Those things are truly vile. I bought one ONCE thinking it could help extend my nun mode indefinitely. This was dumb because the main reason I like sex is the emotional connection, but yeah, I was dumb back then. Those things do not feel good. The vibration is also too much, even on the lowest setting.I don't like men who are numbed out on increasingly more outageous porn and I wouldn't like women numbed out on higher vibrating pieces of metal and plastic jackhammering their nerves down. Just ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 03:01 AM
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Oh my goodness lol you all are salty!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:49 PM
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HE has a grandkid, a flourishing marriage and many close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:41 AM
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Do women have sexual lust for their boyfriend even if she doesn't think he's impressive physically? No. Hit the gym for once and quit whining. You don't have to be an Adonis but don't look pregnant and put some muscle on your arms/forearms. Not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:25 AM
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Nope, just tall. The guy I have now is 6'5" and skinny :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 11:51 AM
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ok manlet. your bitterness precedes you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:56 AM
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Fat ones aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:58 AM
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Small, dainty. Like he is much bigger than you and can protect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:30 AM
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THIS. I consider short guys but in my mind, I'm settling. I'd never admit it though, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:29 AM
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She does a lot of hookups. No with you though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 12:38 PM
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Yeah, there's a thong in the back AND the front now. Yep, I've been there and seen those crazy liberals as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 12:29 PM
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I saw an instagram post by an entrepreneur chick...the entire account is her bragging on her rich lifestyle now. The ONE pic of her in a bathing suit with the sides of her crotch showing (is that a new thing now?) and she tags the MARRIED mentor who taught her entrepreneurship and writes some dumb diatribe about following your dreams. I hope to god he didn't take the bait and like her crotch showing bathing suit pic but damn these women are sneaky. I want a relationship (and life) free from soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:00 AM
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Can I just say I love you? Internet high five.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 06:49 PM
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Hint: Don't tell them, as they are not telling you. Make them fight for you and not even realize they are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 06:34 PM
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Actually I think the best advice is for them to lose weight and get a makeover. If you're happy being fat, fine but if you're getting creative trying to hide it, it's time to put down the ho-hos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:53 PM
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*applauds There was a quote by a famous Stoic to the effect of: the people did what they wanted. What they wanted became a habit. The habit then became a need. It was in reference to something other than sex, but it always made me think of that. There is no biological sense in having sex more than once per nine months. This "I need sex daily" nonsense is a result of social conditioning and porn addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 04:02 PM
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There were times when I had a rough week and felt I looked bloated, so I flaked. Usually, I can feel someone's growing desperation and eagerness to see me and that will make me flake/ghost as well. That includes when we have a date set (met online) and solid plans and in between, you're texting my ass morning noon and night "Hey how's your morning?" "How was your day?" "What are you up to" etc. I immediately regret my decision and will likely just block you at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 03:51 AM
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There were times when I had a rough week and felt I looked bloated, so I flaked. Usually, I can feel someone's growing desperation and eagerness to see me and that will make me flake/ghost as well. That includes when we have a date set (met online) and solid plans and in between, you're texting my ass morning noon and night "Hey how's your morning?" "How was your day?" "What are you up to" etc. I immediately regret my decision and will likely just block you at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 03:51 AM
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There were times when I had a rough week and felt I looked bloated, so I flaked. Usually, I can feel someone's growing desperation and eagerness to see me and that will make me flake/ghost as well. That includes when we have a date set (met online) and solid plans and in between, you're texting my ass morning noon and night "Hey how's your morning?" "How was your day?" "What are you up to" etc. I immediately regret my decision and will likely just block you at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 03:49 AM
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There were times when I had a rough week and felt I looked bloated, so I flaked. Usually, I can feel someone's growing desperation and eagerness to see me and that will make me flake/ghost as well. That includes when we have a date set (met online) and solid plans and in between, you're texting my ass morning noon and night "Hey how's your morning?" "How was your day?" "What are you up to" etc. I immediately regret my decision and will likely just block you at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 03:49 AM
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She knew the risk. The father of your child is the most important decision a woman will ever make. She failed. It is a man's imperative to spread his seed. I don't like men, but it's true. She could have done what I do and not have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:43 PM
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I love the part where she says she was on a date on a private jet with him......aaaaaaaand still on her phone texting her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 02:21 PM
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This is what I suspected. Good to know. It's great being single and away from men's obsessions :) Now I just work on getting hotter and hotter and enjoy rejecting them. Fuck you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 01:54 PM
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Ugly women should NOT reproduce. Same with short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 01:12 AM
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EWWWW though. No. Come on. Women want a man who is inspired by our beauty as well, not thinking how our personality allows them to overlook it. No woman would want that. Hopefully she found a man much much uglier than her and they are happy having goat children together *shudder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:47 AM
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I wouldn't use social mediaeither if I looked. Like. A. G. O. A. T. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ew
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:01 AM
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IT's possible you have a different definition than I. I'm not talking about inceldom or attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:00 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 10:12 PM
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Meh. That's why I'm black pilled. Just accepted our doom as part of the cycle of life and what we probably deserve as a race. *shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 09:54 PM
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Singularity ain’t coming tho sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 09:51 PM
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jaw looked like a goat *nausea
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 09:21 PM
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LOL there is ZERO appeal in commitment from an average guy. You are thinking like a man, women don't care about how good the sex is or how hot he is (unless these are women tryingto impress their friends). The only value in my getting commitment from a man would be to add to my future financial security. If that's not happening, then Joe the retail manager with the one bedroom apartment who takes the bus and loves me to bits can shove it. xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:40 PM
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"PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:46 AM
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Otherwise frequent rich clubs, doll yourself up find a guy and try to get pregnant. Keep the baby and either that hooks him in or you are in good stead for child support and government assistance. Also, try not to get murdered after you reveal the pregnancy because this something that happens to such women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:32 AM
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Honestly, just get a boyfriend who has money and is a bit of a beta. I've gotten cars, years of free rent, one of them also gave me an allowance by getting me a credit card. This guy was like, 28 but we lived together and I drove his car (before he bought me my own). I would get gas and not have money so he got me my own credit card to make it easier. Soon he was paying for everything. I lived with no bills, rent free for years. I had this in numerous relationships. Young, attractive guys with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 05:09 AM
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Wrong again ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 05:54 PM
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So is believing in a fairy tale...very mentally unhealthy for you. I"m not clicking your dumb link either. You're a fool to think I've arrived at my conclusion without years of study and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 11:23 AM
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I dislike all fat people equally, but to me it's even worse on a man. Being fat and emotional eating are female things. I hate when I see tubby men reaching for sweets at events that I attend. They have no shame! Fat people should also pay more taxes. Your argument is a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 08:38 PM
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just go your own way I like you :) I have come to this conclusion as well. My story is different though, I am assertive. I am independent and self caring.......................until I meet a guy I like and I turn into this sad person. I am going my own way now. It may take years of being alone and therapy before I overcome my issues. I don't mind. Even if I end up alone, that's okay too. I have other work to do in this world. Good luck to you as well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:16 AM
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Size 22/24 is optimal. Not for health, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:18 PM
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Geez what did you do to her I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:14 PM
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He sounds like a sick person. Good thing you realized it. I hope you stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:13 PM
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HOOLLY FUCK reading this enraged me. I would have been unable to prevent myself from enacting physical violence on this person. I am glad I'm single. Good for you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:11 PM
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No, he's right. We want something: validation, to feel chosen, to control someone, to feel wanted, to be worshipped, to be obeyed......better house, security, more money, to impress our friends, to silence our family. It's always something. Same with men though. Humans in general are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:22 PM
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accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:17 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 12:28 AM
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If you have to ask, you're short. And not rich. So yeah, calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 09:50 PM
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I am a codependent. I have avoidant attachment. I've been into that stuff for years and it hasn't helped me but thanks. Been in therapy for years but it's possible that my childhood has just destroyed me for relationships. I will keep working on myself but that is a reality I have accepted. I am very cynical about relationships as well and how humans have come to view them. I used the gifts as an example but I am not big on gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 09:50 PM
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wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:49 PM
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You list the fact that you're having sex with him as a reason why he should treat you better, This is you interpreting things through your lense. I don't think this way. I am saying I AM the one having sex with him who is actively showing that I want him yet the girl who has never even given him a peck on the cheek is the one he is pining after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:49 PM
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Yep, thanks. You're right. I am going to be doing that today.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:48 PM
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Use google moron. I never said any of this shit, you are twisting my words to your incel rhetoric. fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:45 PM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:56 PM
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Yeah but are you tall, handsome and rich, moron? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:56 PM
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I had to tell a guy to fuck off when we first got together. She wouldn't do it. REDDD FLAGGGG. I made myself the promise I would NEVER aska guy to tell his female friends to back off or to stop talking to some chick he had a crush on who friendzoned him etc. I just walk. OH you're already married? Run some dread game on her. Start going to the gym and talking to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 02:50 PM
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she's quick to repeat that she has high standards She's rationalizing something. don't marry a woman who is attached to her orbiters. He's only one you can see. There are probably more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 02:28 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 02:27 PM
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They've already banned me lol And I know what they would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 02:27 PM
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He is NOT a Chad holy fuck you guys are like robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 02:16 PM
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Seriously though, why marry someone who entertains orbiters? You're right she does look like a terrible, selfish and manipulative person for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 02:14 PM
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Also, that she is apparently being utilized to catch the attention of the object of his oneitis with the hope of kindling some jealousy. If the social media activity is a sign, it may be working. OP's purpose is perhaps a noble sacrifice: to force the other woman to confront her feelings for the guy. By being an attractive girlfriend to him, she acts as a challenge to the woman the guy pines for: are you willing to lose the guy to this good-looking other? So far, the other woman has kept the guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:40 PM
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They friendzoned themselves. Never made a move or let me know their intention, just tried to be my friend and did favors for me. I am tall for a woman and a few of them were short for a man (5'5) or still in their mid/late twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:32 PM
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This message was so kind, accurate and needed. Thank you, I am tearing up. I hope we both figure it out one day. Thank you for inspiring me to be more compassionate with myself and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:30 PM
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lol well writing it out is helping me realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:27 PM
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I have tried. And tried and tried and tried and tried. Re validation. You are right about this. I feel there's no hope for me. I should just live my life alone and work on myself and be happy by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:26 PM
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All these things are true to some degree. Although, in my previous long term relationships, they were with men who did more for me than I did for them and we were both happy. I have wondered if I have a personality disorder. I'd get diagnosed but I'm not sure what I'd do about it beyond that. I already go to therapy, practice mindfulness, eat well, sleep well and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:24 PM
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This is so good. Thank you. Thank you for your help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:22 PM
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Truth in this. Goes back to childhood and parents of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:20 PM
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See, that is what I am realizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:19 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:19 PM
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I've read 'nice guy' posts that sound very similar to yours...the second people start pointing out things that might be contributing factors, the narrative suddenly changes. Yeah. I'm sick in the head, I don't deny it. I don't know what to do anymore. I have been like this my whole life. I should just be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:18 PM
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No, I am not average. I am not perfect now but considerably more attractive than most women my age. I was signed to a major agency in my 20s and traveled with modelling. He is female-ish but does masculine things for work requiring science, analysis and sometimes physical strength (ocean science related). NOOOO the girl is not good looking at all. His ex wasn't either, I am embarrassed over how plain/almost manly she looked. I rarely use the word ugly, but.... Oneitis is not higher status than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:13 PM
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LOL bitter. I am not short, I am a brunette, congrats on spouting off your red pill/incel script despite not knowing anything. Your post wall rhetoric always makes me laugh. Keep telling yourself that to help you sleep better at night lol. There are blind, fat, broke women in their 60s who still get men after they are widowed. Also, I don't really care much anymore either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:45 PM
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you seem to do so much to get recognized by these people - guys, girlfriends... why? What is so great about them? Nothing. I am a sad, lonely person, that's all. Thank you for pointing this out to me, though. It helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:37 PM
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Doesnt this tell you something? She didnt have to give anything becauss she herself was interesting to him. You supposedly give and do so much just to keep up. He isn't into you. Thanks. This is helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:36 PM
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you probably do not have friends or if you do they are fairly superficial relationships. In short, I would not be suprised if you struggled in some way in all relationships. Correct. Getting attention from men and going on dates was fun after my last long term relationship ended. It's not fun anymore and I'm over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:35 PM
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rOk, you are right. We are already having sex and agreed not to see other people before we started doing this. Also, I was not interested in dating when I met him, but he and I were so compatible. I am still technically not interested in dating now, let alone 3 other men. I didn't start seeing him with an end game in mind. For now I am enjoying the companionship, sex, friendship and favors he does for me and vice versa. IF I get back into dating at some point, I will take your advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:32 PM
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What if he wants commitment with a woman for whom he does have deep feelings, but she doesn't reciprocate? Then HE is being delusional. This has nothing to do with you. Your problem is that you want commitment with a man who doesn't have deep feelings for you. In this sense, you both are delusional. You both are making the same mistake. Thank you. Someone finally got to me. This is the message I needed to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:29 AM
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I'm not having kids. It's fine for me to toy with men occasionally. This is fun for both of us, it's been a very long while since a man interested me and I just don't care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:28 AM
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He does. And he cooks for me too. And does free contracting for my company lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:27 AM
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Guys who are pining after someone else are usually guys with avoidant attachment problems. Yes he has told me this already, point blank. And I have the same issue as you. I have never dated another avoidant before. On one hand it's kind of nice because I don't feel smothered at all. But I may have finally met someone who can beat me at my own game and well, I'm getting tired of it. I am annoyed to read what you wrote about his fantasy of this stupid woman. It's like he's looking at one thing and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:27 AM
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But men don't go bitching on the internet about how beautiful and unique they are and how they can't find good women despite having a bunch of good qualities. Excuse me, they DON'T??? LOL what internet are YOU on??? lol XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:18 AM
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I gave up on love in my early 40's. I just don't believe I would ever be able to find someone that is capable of loving me the way I am capable of loving. And I always have this feeling that I would be wasting my time. YEP. I'm there already. Why should I give someone else something before I give it to myself? Good luck, and don't change you, change your mind. Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:17 AM
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You're right. How is it a red flgad he told me he was into her though? We talk about everything. He mentioned it once vaguely, in passing and I asked him later to clarify and he told me the whole story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:15 AM
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He’s in love with the idea of another girl. Regardless, to your perspective it’s a distinction without a difference. You’re a placeholder. ok THIS. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:13 AM
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Betas aren't betas by choice, we're put there by women's reactions to us. NOPE many betas never even try. Too chickenshit. I've known several.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:44 AM
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OH And PS if you are coming at me with that wall BS about my age, you can stuff it. I have ethnic genes, good skin, workout, diet etc. I look better than the 20 somethings. Yes, men have told me this. You and your wall nonsense is pretty funny. Men hit the wall too with their pattern baldness and beer guts, broke with alimony and child benefit payments and looking for a pretty girlfriend lol please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:41 AM
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I agree with everything you said. Thanks for the slap upside the head. And I know what you mean about women and their lists. I have some seriously bad traits too but I am aware of and working on them. Honestly this game is much to hard for me and I think I am ready to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:39 AM
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basically in love with someone else No. You can't be in love with someone who has never given you anything to go on other than facebook likes, lets be real here. I asked him this and he told me that he didn't know there were girls like me out there and that I blow her out of the water and he feels embarrassed about all of that. Also, you don't know the situation. He has been helping me with a work project that is saving me thousands in contractor costs. I have no friends and he and I have a grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:36 AM
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First question: any guys out there that treat you well, but you just aren't into? Yes but the reasons were legitimate ugh. It's typically true for anyone who is attractive and fun but can't find a decent partner: they're choosing terrible people because that's what attracts them. Yeah. I can't trust myself to date anymore. It's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:32 AM
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it's odds game, so why play the unfavorable odds? lightbulb So honestly I'd say you made very little progress all these years. In some ways yes, agree. The fact that I am aware of my behavior now is huge. I actually don't feel like meeting anyone anymore, though. I don't have the energy to play games and pretend to be less interested and try NOT to be helpful and giving. I'm just going to get a dog and to hell with it all. Or go back on the standards I set many years ago when I first realized th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:31 AM
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he's just biding his time and is basically saying he's not going to settle down with you Yeah, obviously the story about the 40 year old was a cringe fest, I realize that now, duh. As for the biding his time guy, I think you are right. However, I am biding my time too, honestly. I like men who are more financially successful and have less contact with their family. However, he and I are benefitting each other mutually right now and really enjoy each other's company. I don't like that he said tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:22 AM
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When I go out with these female friends of mine, I see them clearly cheating on their BFs. Shit is fucked and I'm glad I'm not playing. Why do you want disloyal "friends" anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:15 AM
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we're still friends today, 35 years later. YOu are either fat or ugly. Possibly both. I knew guys who had chicks like this around that theyliked for thier personality but told me she was too fat. Don't kid yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:12 AM
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it became clear he was outright chasing her. You should be more understanding, that was probably the most exercise he ever had in his life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:10 AM
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Some men yes. But a former beta? I doubt he thinks like that. Obviously I don't know shit though, so..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:07 AM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:05 AM
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Hm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:02 AM
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XD Ok lemme try dis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:01 AM
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This is good advice. Thank you :')
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:00 AM
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No, there are a ton of guys like this lately. Guy who were nerds all throughout school. Now they have high paying tech jobs and starting lifting because they heard it on a Jordan Peterson podcast etc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:00 AM
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Stop doing things for men who aren't your boyfriend. See what I mean though? You have to tell a white knight this: stop doing things for women who don't want to be your girlfriend. Why do I act like a male beta??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:58 AM
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Actually. I will say that I want sex from him and I quite enjoy it (this is a first for me). I am not doing it in the hopes he will want to be with me (which I have done before). I like this idea but it does seem like an arm twisting tactic. I feel if I ever said this to a guy, he'd ask me to be his girlfriend the next day just to get some. A "boyfriend" is still a cheap promise, but I get what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:57 AM
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Sure you don't have a type? betas, to be honest. former nerds like me who are now attractive but don't act like it.....like me. most people are sentient trashbags who waste oxygen. You want people to be nicer and more thoughtful than they actually are. SIGH
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:55 AM
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Stop doing things for men who aren't your boyfriend. Including sex. :O
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:53 AM
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Thank you for the thoughtful reply! Well, we did agree not to date or have sex with other people before we started having sex. But it's been 3 months of this and he is still referring to me as a friend. I can't say that I am certain about him either at this point but I like what we have so far and am willing to wait a little longer. ONly a little though. I am not losing much in this relationship, he is giving back as well. We'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:52 AM
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Yes, I've heard this before. This would require me to play games though ugh. So unfortunate that men don't know a good thing and want to pine over the the plain jane they can't have
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:50 AM
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sigggghhh I have been thinking hard about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:22 AM
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Basically what I'm saying is I always end up with guys who are still oneitis in the back of their mind and orbiting some dumb chick. I must have terrible taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 02:14 PM
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I would make them have dignity so they stopped orbiting women, flat out ignored them, and instead appreciated those who actually like them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:13 PM
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Well congrats for even inquiring into your behavior! I did not have this insight at your age. I quite enjoyed my male friends (aw, memories, inside jokes galore, etc) and was completely oblivious that they were all in love with me. As soon as I got into a relationship (with someone who was not one of them), they turned on me, pouted, got clingy/needy ie attempting to cockblock my bf, aaaaaand one of them blocked me on Facebook :))))))))) Looking back now it's embarrassing to have been that cluel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:11 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't consider myself a healthy person Do you care, though? (serious question) How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 10:27 PM
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Lol well at least you're aware of what you're doing, which is socializing like a bonobo. I mean it's not a terrible strategy, it just seems to be lacking in integrity to me. If you have no qualms, and don't mind looking a certain way to people with different standards, then just do you I suppose! If you need company like people need air to breathe, it makes sense you'd have backups. That said, I don't think that need seems entirely healthy, but I am messed up myself and truly no one to talk...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 10:16 PM
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Very interesting! To get even weirder with this, I find it's only INFP women who have this ideal. Why? Because we are very feminine and attractive to the opposite sex. We know men fall in love with us. INFP men though? Highly emotional decisions, very effeminate and struggle with the opposite sex. Prone to getting friendzoned and beta orbit behavior and keeping opposite sex friends. From what I've seen anyway. I find extraverts really annoying and no longer date you all lol, but I appreciate thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:20 PM
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"forsaking all others" " ------ will you take ----- to be your lawful wife/husband, will you love him/her, honor and keep him/her in sickness and in health and forsaking all others keep only unto him/her so long as you both shall live." Well congrats on having the same beliefs as the rest of society on that one. If you are an unattractive woman who men have no troubles seeing as a buddy or pal, ok. Myself I don't keep men as friends. They fall in love with me. I'd never marry a man with a bunch …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 03:34 PM
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Then don't get married...? "forsaking all others"....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 03:24 PM
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EWWWWWWWWWW
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 04:42 AM
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if you don't let your wife By the way, you should LET your wife do whatever she wants and pay close attention. Keep those papers at the ready lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 03:29 AM
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drunken cheating culture yup. degenerate world we live in. hopefully you found a good one in your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 03:28 AM
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LOL! I have a coworker who named one of his kids to have a portion of his work wife's name, unbeknownst to his actual wife. Truly despicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 02:09 AM
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Major city. Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 02:08 AM
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Ok I just went back and wrote out a list. It's actually 25 which I feel irrationally considerably better about lol. There were a couple of Davids, A couple of James, and a few I titled simply as "fatass baldie" "army" "cried after" Poland" and "Toronto".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 02:06 AM
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Not arguing that I'm not slutty (I have been), but I have friends from all socioeconomic backgrounds, different races and ages. The most attractive ones have higher counts than me. What women tell their friends is their N will be different than what they report to a study or tell their boyfriend. THanks for this though, now I know what number to say lol ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:55 AM
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Coworkers talking solely for work related reasons. I've seen married people at my work with work spouses...acting like bf/gf while at work. Brinign each other coffee. Going for lunch. Commiserating and chit chatting. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:50 AM
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LOL for my age? 7? You're cute :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:48 AM
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MIne is 30. I think that's high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:26 AM
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(I once dumped a guy for sweating) Same. It was pouring off him during sweat, dripping like a faucet in my eyes, oh fuck no. Goodbye!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:26 AM
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I hate other men even talking to my wife. IF they're not relatives, employees of a business she is patronizing or coworkers, why should other men be talking to your wife anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:23 AM
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I change my mind a lot. If I'm dating or in a relationship with someone, I often consider leaving but I don't tell them. Once I do leave, it's over. You do not exist. I'll get over you FAST. I don't care if you have terminal cancer, never call me again. I hate all my exes (but try to talk positively about them when dating because I know it's a red flag lmao Irritable. Moody. Road rage. Bad terms with all family members and pretty much no friends History of addiction in my family ( I have an eati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:04 AM
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Most do not even register to me although I am constantly vigilant for ones who may try to harm me. I am mildly annoyed by the rest. Disgusted by a good handful as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 11:26 PM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 11:22 PM
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you are only as old as the ones you touch. eW
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 11:14 PM
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21-24 year olds OHHHHHHHHHHH. nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:37 PM
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What is that quote..might be from one of the Stoics... about how the people got so used to having things that it became a need? I am trying to find the quote. It applies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:32 PM
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Also,next time use comma. It will make more sense. "...span the spectrum, sweaty"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:09 PM
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OH. I thought you were just an idiot :P Well some woman are ladies. Not those ones, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:08 PM
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in terms of pure looks they span the spectrum sweaty. So not only are they low quality women who like to casually discuss their sex lives with random men, they are also "sweaty"? How unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:49 PM
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I know plenty of women who bitch about this day in and day out Plenty of women who moan to men about their lacking sex lives? Sounds like low quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 09:20 PM
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I don't know any. Ryan Reynolds? Is he still a thing? I never found him attractive. Modern pretty boys don't have soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:45 PM
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Now this 60 year old wants a bang maid capable of bearing multiple children (so under 35-40) while his physical peak was enjoyed by other women and his lucky wife will get to take care of him in old age (so in 5 years or so). Men will avoid commitment for as long as possible and will only start looking for their "life partner", their "soul mate" when they're either no longer able to have affairs with hot women or have been convinced they can't get them in the first place after years of attempts.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:31 PM
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Prince Williams who dated Kate Middleton for a decade and only married her after he went bald. He turned out to be the cheating brother. :O What! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:30 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:33 AM
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World reknowned sex symbol, rich etc....still subject to the wall lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 11:10 PM
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I don't think it will be much better from what I've seen, to be honest. Realistically I am planning on going my own way. I am realizaing that with a goodjob, friends, family, some pets (heh) and hobbies, I don't need a man. I don't want the drama of having to deal with someone else's kid's neuroses. I find men (most people, really) to be not worth the hassle. And I'm not having kids. But I did just realize how dumb I was, falling in "love" with men around my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:46 PM
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You could have a point. I am older now but even when I was actually hot, I still behaved this way. I did get a lot from men in return though. But the wheels are turning...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:39 PM
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There are a lot of INTPs in life unfortunately. They are all over reddit for sure and dating sites. They are uninspired, lazy, socially inept and bad in bed.But they are smart and interesting. Too bad they never put it to use in any way other than internet debates and video games and IT jobs. *except for Eastuss on this sub. And this one INTP I met.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:55 PM
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There are a lot of INTPs in life unfortunately. They are all over reddit for sure and dating sites. They are uninspired, lazy, socially inept and bad in bed.But they are smart and interesting. Too bad they never put it to use. *except for Eastuss on this sub. And this one INTP I met.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:55 PM
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tons of hobbies no girl would ever care about. ok, try me. whatcha got?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:52 PM
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I realized this about this myselftoday. That I don't date strategically. I am looking for "love". It always sounded so virtuous but today I asked myself what that actually means to me. Yes, it means someone I feel admiration for and have shared values, interests and life paths. But also, tingles. The disney feelings. I am 37, too what the hell am I doing dating guys in their 30s? I should only be dating 45 and up. I have used my sex following my "heart" with these useless 30s men. I should be be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:50 PM
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You are very annoying, actually. Goodbye! *blocking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:14 PM
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There are facts on science. An opinion on what a global group of people may be thinking, yeah sorry. No sauce. Don't be dumb now, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:13 PM
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Ok so you weren't kidding they are long...over an hour each. But they are GOOD. And very funny. I am laughing. Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:44 AM
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I read "dead inside" conservative chick on YouTube and I knew exactly who you were talking about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 10:36 PM
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Blonde in the belly of the beast? Isn't she single? What a harpy. Tomi is way cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 10:33 PM
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because I would never just be platonic friends with a man, I tried before and they all fell in love with me because I'm very hot and fun, but also self-aware and aware of my Woman Nature enough to know that leading men on is bad Oh my goooooooooodddddddddddd another woman like this exists in the world!!! :O People think I'm crazy if I say things like this. I am an irresistible woman. Men fall in love with me. I don't keep them as friends. I learned the "just friends" lesson in my twenties. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 10:29 PM
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Also, I don't "hook up" with "lovers" and go the extra mile to beg them to stick around lol. Eff that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 10:26 PM
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I prefer the other ones. Everyone prefers the other ones. The question is whether you are a quality guy or a mooch/timewaster/loser/cheater etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 10:19 PM
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Ok okay, that makes sense. A reasonable and thoughtful reply on reddit, what a miracle! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:57 PM
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That is just what I was looking for. I will listen to the long videos! I am a considerate person. I like taking care of people. I like cooking for people. I don't put up with nonsense though and have only dated quality men so... I don't know. But this is somewhat alarming. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:54 PM
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I am starting to realize I have had some of these traits in relationships, ugh. In my mind, I was being an "awesome girlfriend". Are there any resources you have or insights on how to counteract this? Even a more googleable diagnostic term? Is this codependency? Low confidence? Ugh..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:44 PM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:41 PM
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I was going to high five your girl game buttttt.....letting male "friends" pay for you with no reciprocation implies a date. Would you let any of your female friends pay for you all the time? You are cashing in on their interest. Lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:39 PM
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pickmeisha XD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:38 PM
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Honestly, where the fuck do you expect people to get evidence for this lmfao?? Can you give an example of what you would consider credible evidence of one person's opinion? lol You're acting like a budget Stefan Molyneux.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:36 PM
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girl with actual game aka low BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:35 PM
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OOF! This is dead on! This is also the rare chick who gets friendzoned by a more attractive male and tries to cock block him to attractive women, while providing favors galore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:34 PM
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I appreciate your responses! OP is out for a fight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:32 PM
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Damn, this is dead on about how my journey with the red pill went. I am black pilled now lmao. WGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:27 PM
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I could be a pick me girl. In fact, replying to this comment and identifying myself as a woman annoyed by dishonest female behavior is definitely pick me territory! For the sake of this thread, I will oblige but I generally keep these opinions to myself, share with other women and avoid publicly virtue signaling to men. So it's not genuinely hating those things that makes me a pick me and pisses other women off, it's the act of publicly virtue signaling that to men. Kind of like what I'm doing h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:25 PM
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No... "love" is the name we give the feeling of the dopamine rush. If love is on the same level as anger, then like anger, it comes and goes based on triggers. Which is basically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 03:36 AM
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Hmm... even that is biological instinct. I don't think it's real love either...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 03:35 AM
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Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:32 AM
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This is one of the BEST subs for realistic and useful relationship advice on reddit, imho. But you have to have a real question first and use an appropriate flair. It helps to be realistic about your SMV and RMV. If you think she's a slut, ok...would a less slutty or virginal woman be interested in you? Would you be able to tell the difference, especially since all women lie about this, even church women are promiscuous these days. What do you want from a relationship? Is that being provided? Is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:22 AM
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icebergs XD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:23 PM
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Why would you pursue a man who was living with a women like that and flirting with someone else lol Taaaaacky.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:55 AM
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Eventually, though, he decided that he wanted me for himself. I made it clear that I had no intention of being a side piece and that he could fuck right off if that was his plan. aKA you led him on to the point where he wanted to leave his then gf. Theirs was not a fantastic relationship to begin with and they had already broken up once or twice. She is now a SAHM in one of the Carolinas, which is exactly what she wanted to be. Part of the reason their relationship wasn’t so great was that she d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:27 AM
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I am not a "creep" or a "bud", thanks. I don't respect anyone unless they earn it. Fellow women who post their T&A on the internet lose license to how their pictures are interacted with, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:07 PM
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So...did he know you liked him? DId you have an emotional affair? I am trying to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:45 PM
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deserve basic respect. Nah. if you're posting your T&A all over the internet for any troll to swipe and post on reddit, they don't even have basic respect for themselves, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:30 PM
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You said when you met him he had a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:10 PM
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But I've done things for him that I would never ever do for anybody else. Like what? Did you break them up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:09 AM
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Romantic partner also does not equal maid, prostitute, mother etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:06 AM
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that if he cheats or hits me I get half HM! I like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:41 AM
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But I would do it again. Typo? Are you serious? Why? Good to know!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 07:11 AM
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I want to say yes, because my intuition is gold. But I have no experience with divorcees or cheating, thank god. So I have nothing to throw this up against. I think he.....seems like someone who......hm. I am not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 01:51 AM
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If someone admits they were wrong vs blaming it on fractures in the marriage, that would make a difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 01:40 AM
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he'll either admit it fully or lie about it altogether. So...if he says he didn't he's a liar? lol This is why I feel weird about asking. I will though, I guess. Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 01:39 AM
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They want virgin nymphomaniacs. Just like women want a cutthroat succesful CEO...who will care about their feelings and have time to spend with them. I have seen this in real life. These delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 11:42 PM
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I like you. Smart woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 11:36 PM
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he'd just be done dating altogether 4 years? Is he um, going to marry you then??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 09:39 PM
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I've always assumed that women couldn't possibly have a point where they'd get no attention if there's any point where they can get any. Huh? What does this have to do with anything? Women get in shape to get attention from more and higher quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 08:23 PM
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OH my god this is me. I need to WGTOW for real next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 08:15 PM
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HE would tell me how awesome they are and how glad he is to be their friend......and then bitterly how their boyfriends are douchebags who don't deserve them etc lol Textbook. *yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 08:11 PM
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HAHA I hope so too. He had the looks of a Chad but didn't even realize it. Really quite funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 02:02 AM
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lol no, he was into red pill, that was what we connected over and talked about. But he was blue pill af when it came to women. Beta orbiting chicks with boyfriends and everything *eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 01:49 AM
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No, he was brilliant! But also very beautiful. And had been in a long relationship with a woman who ruined his self esteem. I stopped being friends with him. He was just too hot for me not to react sexually to. I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:10 AM
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It's a no for me. I knew a guy like this. He looked like a hotter version of a young Harrison Ford. He thought women constantly chased him and wanted to be his friend because he was "smart".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:04 AM
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lol I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:08 PM
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If they were so wonderful why didn't you date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 08:09 AM
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This is what I suspected. It is undignified and disingenuous!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:30 AM
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No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:47 PM
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This is a reasonable answer, thanks. So once, he's in a relationship, how does he limit this behavior from the women he allowed it from before who don't care that he is no longer single?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:47 PM
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Didn't ask you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:31 PM
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Men that aren’t getting laid don’t make good friends for women. Lol. point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:22 PM
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They mean everything to me, and I can’t live with out them. I would do anything for them. They make me a better man, and make them better women. I see. So the only difference between them and an SO is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:22 PM
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you can't go around insisting a man can't stay in contact with his female friends - that just sound nuts. At what point did I say I would ever try this lol. You take people as they are or you leave them. I'm not sure what you mean by this question - do you mean "Are you only hanging out with them because they're good looking?" Well there are a ton of fat, ugly women with no fashion sense who don't wear makeup but are really funny with great personalities. How come there aren't men like you lined…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:18 PM
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This is not helpful or insightful at all. I never said I policed anyone but I have a right to make decisions about who I will or won't date. You are triggered and projecting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:02 PM
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If it gets to the point where they're trying to probe me for a relationship/sex, I'll let them know I'm not interested. How do things change after that? giving a female friend of mine some rides to work If you're single, no problem. Otherwise this looks sheisty. I wouldn't care for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:19 PM
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Exactly! The person I am with does not seem to know the difference. You don't go out of your way or risk a good relationship for acquaintances who lack boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:16 PM
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Interesting. Good for you! Many women lead men on for free food, attention and favors letting the man think they'll get sex and they never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:38 PM
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Are you single? And also good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:30 PM
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What you wrote here is pretty dead on, to be honest. Eventually you just get sick of seeing him make bad decisions over and over again. Your respect lowers until it hits a breaking point of no return. This happens fast in my head. Then it switches to disgust. Nothing he can do after this will make things better, just worse. Everything he does is wrong or annoying. The last time this happened to me, it was after seeing him make dumb decisions in trying to get a job. And then hearing him complain …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:27 PM
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But they aren't really "friends" to begin with So, basically, dating. Not being a "friend". Do you keep them while in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:21 PM
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Yeah. But I just went through my facebook friends list and hearted and liked all athletes, mma fighters and entrepreneurs who had friended me back when I was single. I forgot about them all! I had one-it is. I feel better now. I asked myself what was really going on here and this tripped a bunch of insecurities from my childhood and my mother. I feel much better now and am going to see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 10:42 PM
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No, it's like looking up into the camera full body selfie in a bikini in front of mirror. Not lounging at the beach with friends, no. Full on, attention getting pictures taken for no other reason. Or wearing sexy club outifts with cleavge and cutouts, again, selfie looking up into the camera or taken in a mirror. Multiple of these per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 08:58 PM
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simply being friends with her is a problem It's a problem. For me, it's not so much about his intentions (which are likely innocent), it's about her obvious desperation for male attention (tons of selfies and scantily clad photos) and that he is fulfilling that need for her to some degree now. Although, I have decided not to mention it and enjoy our weekend together for what it's worth. It's striking me now as very silly. It has reduced my attraction for him but it was really high before. Maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 07:57 PM
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Can a man be "friends" with an attractive young woman he is bombarded with bikini pics of all day long?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 07:25 PM
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Yes but are they heart reactions on quotes about love? Is your facebook profile filled with selfies and scantily clad images of yourself? Context.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:52 PM
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F, 35, INFP, Brunette, Goerte, https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php, 563789110 Women tend to think of good sex as intimate, intense, and even negate the act of sex and focus on how good the foreplay was. Nothing other than this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:48 PM
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Yeah, I have no idea what you're talking about. You should probably get a therapist. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:30 PM
1

Translation please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:23 PM
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No, I just had a feeling. After I typed that I checked your post history and well, yeah. I don't believe that people are doomed. Everyone can change. Everyone can looksmax, mindset and change :P
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:22 PM
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Guaranteed I'm waaaayyyy more introverted than you. And I actually love myself. And spending time with myself. As a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:26 PM
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I am childfree. Good looks (lok much younger). Smart. Educated. No debt. Aaaaand..... I have good life and don't mind ending up alone ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:19 PM
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Thanks. This pretty much sums it up I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:13 PM
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Please, still interested in more opinions and advice. I am really at a loss here. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 08:39 AM
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There's a freaking limit to how damn impressed a person should be by some things. THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 08:33 AM
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He's not like that. I don't think he's trying to fuck her If my man could be lost to a pretty face hottie, she can have him and they can have each other. Best wishes to all involved. I don't like drama. There won't be any tears or blaming. I'm going to tell him how I feel it looks, how it made me feel let him know his life is his choice. He maybe needs to date around after his divorce. And that I want him to heart and like and follow all theb ikini girls he desires to his extreme hearts content.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 07:19 AM
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I want to understand what you mean but I don't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:09 AM
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Well no, but if you were hearting his posts and he came back and hearted yours and commented on things and you had a ton of selfie pics and bikini photos and Melania was kicking around on Facebook on night and saw it.....well......
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:46 AM
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Honesty can be a precursor to usary. u·su·ry /ˈyo͞oZH(ə)rē/ the illegal action or practice of lending money at unreasonably high rates of interest. "the medieval prohibition on usury" synonyms: extortionate moneylending, payday lending; I am confused lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:45 AM
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GIRL. I AM NOT MOTHERING OR LECTURING WORTH SHIT LMAO. I am observing his behavior and deciding if I want to deal with it or not. THAT'S IT! Flirting online with 29 year olds does harm to the trust in your relationship, yes. And it's indicative of future issues. You're the one freaking out here, calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:09 AM
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Thanks for your inquiry :) He was. They both scrapped the religion about 6 years ago. I don't know that he'd say that, but he still has the overformal, religious guy way about him with every one but me. His authenticity drew me to him. He talks honestly about how he feels, what he thinks and he is genuine about it. He has put time into getting to know himself. He asks good questions of himself and of me. He has a warm smile and deep, beautiful eyes. We have an excessive amount of fun together no…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:06 AM
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Lol how is that not an accident? Any relationship he had would be long distance. He lives in the middle of literal nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:55 AM
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Also I am not 40, he is. I am 35
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:51 AM
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But you are right! We are trying to take things slowly but it's hard with long distance, since he has to come and see me and it makes sense for him to stay here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:51 AM
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We have spent A LOT of face to face time getting to know each other on a deeper level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:50 AM
1

I am childfree and so is he. Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:49 AM
1

Me too!! DOn't the MGTOWs have their own forum???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:49 AM
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let him flirt with his FB crush and quit making him your only option. Good point. I was good to go WGTOW before I met him so yeah, he's my only option. But considering my other option is a life alone with all my money and a clean home and quiet every evening, no drama, I am actually okay with that option as well. you only met a few months ago and you are "madly in love" nop you are not. Yeah, you're right. let him flirt with his FB crush and quit making him your only option. Don't have some long…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:48 AM
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lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:42 AM
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Deadbedroomed by a religious wife for basically his entire marriage including the honeymoon. We met on match.com
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:41 AM
2

Thank you and thanks for your insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:41 AM
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ANd oh, it's been about 3 months, partially long distance. It feels soul matey but I have been on guard to a degree and ready to walk if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 03:48 AM
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Thanks. No, he is 100% divorced for real. This thought has crossed my mind, that I am the rebound. I'm not dumb. My ex did the same thing to another girl before I was even out the door saying she was his soulmate etc. She came crying to me for some reason 3 months later after he left abruptly for no reason. Your reply though smacks of "the wall" warnings. I am in excellent shape, a good catch, no kids. I would be happy with an older man with more insight, so I think you may be right. And yes, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 03:47 AM
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Roosh V
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:54 PM
1

My sex drive fluctuates based on my partner's skill in bed and my emotional attraction to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 02:52 AM
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I'm in my 30's, have had a handful of long term relationships and a string of FWB and ONS in between. I kind of regret them, but not really. I don't cheat in relationships. I am not emotionally damaged beyond repair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 02:21 AM
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I would be okay with it! If he were still violent, I would be able to tell and make my own decisions from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 02:21 AM
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You guys are so dumb if you think you will ever know the truth about a woman's sexual past lmao XD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 01:45 AM
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don't know how tall 6 foot actually is Yes we do, You fools are the ones who don't. I've met too many manlets claiming to be 5'11 who would be maybe a hair under 5'8 with shoes on if they were lucky. Fuck you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:20 AM
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thought I would be taller. I held frame, explained that I am normal height LOL she wanted you to be taller, regardless of whatever stat you read on the internet. That's like fat/chubby women quoting stats on the average size of a woman in the US (12) etc etc. It's just rationalizing. I feel sorry, I mean you can't change your height but obviously you lied to this person or you omit or lie online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:17 AM
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If I ask your height and you start by saying "five...." you're a fucking manlet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:14 AM
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nope, not for a manlet ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:03 AM
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I am five foot ten, so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 07:30 PM
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No one said anything about 6 foot 3. But if you're five foot....something, I'm instantly turned off. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:54 AM
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Magazines or reading material in your bathroom by the toilet. NOPE, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 08:09 PM
1

You're shallow for not wanting your future sons to suffer from shortness??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 05:21 PM
1

LOL nope. You are bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 09:40 PM
1

These are guys in REAL LIFE I have dated or been friends with that I am referring to here. Dead serious, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 09:01 PM
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First, I know who you are lol. Stick to cooking. Secondly, the majority of guys who need to read tips on the internet are going to misinterpret it and end up looking like demanding former betas. Changing your standards doesn't make you an alpha lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:59 PM
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You're wrong. You're talking about naturals, not red pill men. I have met a natural before and I still think about him when I get myself off to this day. He had an old school macho dad he had a good relationship with, was raised on a farm, learned how to ride and repair motorcycles, play music. He wasn't all that booksy and at age 25 didn't even know how to google search things lol. Never heard of red pill or even been on reddit before. Too busy hunting for dinner (literally) or working his blue…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:55 PM
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These are guys in REAL LIFE I have dated or been friends with that I am referring to here. Dead serious, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:46 PM
1

ok, true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:45 PM
1

if she just wants casual sex? women are not interested in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:43 PM
1

Thank you for existing. No one seems to get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:47 AM
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humanity is one step closer to ending. Win win win in my book. *applauds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:29 AM
1

naca National Advisory Committee for Aeronautics? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:27 AM
1

If you know you sweat a lot, you can do things like oh, give your partner the towel first to get your sweat out of their EYES before using it on yourself? I might put up with it if he was considerate about it and good in bed but no to both of those. That time is not coming for me, I have ethnic genes and keep myself in good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:50 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:39 PM
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Ladies, unless you want to be a human fleshlight, WGTOW is the only way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:18 PM
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yup. they want a naive and gullible, living fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:15 AM
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They see you all as sex bots and living fleshlights. They want to usurp your youth and beauty with their sad little dicks with little to offer you. Smart girl, stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:09 AM
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Yes he is a loser. Probably has no or a mimimum wage job, at least one kid already out of wedlock, you know he's texting and possibly sleeping with other girls, smokes weed every day etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 09:19 PM
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No, it's a term for a guy who is a loser but still hot in a trashy way and/or good in bed so he still gets women. Even though it's obvious he's not relationship material, the women get bitter after and throw this term around. Ladies, if you have sex with a fuckboy, you are a fuckgirl!! No judgement, as I have done it and it was the best sex of my life lmao, but still!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 09:11 PM
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You like looking like livestock?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 02:07 AM
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You, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:24 AM
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WHOA lots of bitterness and assumptions here. First, I am not...well....the majority of models do not look like tyra banks and heidi klum. I have a unique and strange looking face with good skin and big eyes and am naturally very skinny and tall. I'm not a victoria's secret model, I look like a cross between an alien and a praying mantis. If I don't wear makeup or dress up, I don't get noticed. And I don't like dressing up. I know people will get distracted by my looks if I dress up/wear makeup …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:22 AM
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THIS is why I come to this forum now. Some intelligent and insightful posters. Thanks for this. I think you are headed in the right direction, but a bit off. First, we didn't even get to the meeting in person stage. We just talked a great deal on Bumble and I found out he is really intelligent, sounds like he's done a lot of work on himself, hardworking, witty, curious and we have a lot in common and work in the same industry. Despite all the people on here who love to try and call me a spinster…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:23 AM
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Yeah this is what I'm thinking. Thanks for corroborating...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:30 PM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:19 PM
-2

Not taboo, basic bitch territory on par with lower back tribal tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:19 PM
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Nose ring. On a chubby, plain late 30s something starbucks looking kind of chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:18 PM
-2

Ew, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:17 PM
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No, not into the livestock look, myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 08:17 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 08:16 PM
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I feel someone with bad judgment and desperation would marry a woman with a nose ring to have a kid with. I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:59 PM
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They have a kid together and it's amicable. I just saw a pic of her and her lovely nose ring on Facebook and suddenly I don't want to deal with any of this anymore...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:57 PM
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^^ This guy is probably 6'2" with all his hair...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:46 PM
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Your comment, in light of what mine says and the content of this post, proves OP's point exactly. Thanks for that! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:27 PM
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Really? I haven't come across it at this age. I didn't realize he was one until after I broke up with him and thought about it. He wasn't a devout religious man who was waiting for the one.... I think he was just dissuaded by religious superstitions and family pressure and approach anxiety but he told me he thought about sex constantly since grade school. We had sex after a month :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 07:59 AM
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The connection we had, the effort I put in and the sex we did have. He just had some dumb red pill rule he read on a forum stuck in his head and threw away what we had.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:08 AM
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He was a religious incel. I should have known.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:52 PM
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He was also completely fucking ungrateful and basically used me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 09:22 PM
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Met a 40 year old virgin who tried telling me sex must be a minimum of twice per day and 3 times on weekends lol. Horrible in bed lmao. Can you imagine? Being obsessed with doing something, demanding other people do it with you, but NEVER putting any effort into learning or even reading up on how to be good at it yourself? XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 08:27 PM
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I dated this guy last year. You forgot to also add funny, smart, successful and rich virgin. I broke up with him. Why? He was obsessed with the sex he hadn't gotten, even after we started having it. We had sex daily, even a couple times a day but NOPE that wasn't enough for this former virgin. Told me that after marriage it would have to be twice a day minimum and 3 times on weekends lol. When I told him his attitude was unacceptable to me and we were incompatible, he agreed we were incompatible…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 08:24 PM
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OH! Good to know....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:10 PM
1

No, on this sub you can only downvote a comment if someone has replied to you and it goes to your inbox
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:28 PM
5

Anyone can get a six pack Anyone can, most don't. A guy who is 6 feet tall min, makes 6 figures and has an average dick could be be fat. Doesn't make you a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:58 AM
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Er no, no one is impressed with 6 inches. It's 6 feet, 6 figures and 6 pack lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:23 AM
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tldr: reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 08:22 PM
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Down voting is against the rules on this sub and will get you banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 08:14 PM
1

Sorry, life is hard for everyone. Stop going around saying fuck you, focus on your task at hand and quit being a btch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:59 PM
2

Just lowered standards WOuld rather die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:25 AM
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she will most likely die alone. Not worried about this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:25 AM
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Possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:24 AM
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When I was younger I did not know any better. If I had married, it would have been to the wrong person for sure, much like my peers who are all now divorcing. I held out for love and making the right decision so I wouldn't make a promise I'd break.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:24 AM
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Then he makes bad decisions to marry a no good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:23 AM
1

Then he married a bad woman and makes bad life decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:22 AM
1

At least it shows he tried. ANd failed. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:22 AM
1

Killing someone to avoid divorce also shows seriously bad decision making skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:21 AM
1

You're an idiot if you can't tell these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:20 AM
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Are you really that dumb to marry someone and not be sure of this first? I am judging.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:18 AM
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Agree but I'm talking about divorce specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:53 AM
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I'm sure there are many good reasons for divorce. But then why get married and make a promise you can't keep? This shows seriously bad decision making skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:52 AM
1

Sorry for typo in title: "...the man you are DATING has an ex-wife..."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:51 AM
0

In my opinion, if he settled for a woman like that to have kids with, he shouldn't get access to women like me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:50 AM
2

I also hope you're giving "duty emotions" / actions. This needs to be framed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:04 AM
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Welp, if you look at a man's natural desire to protect and provide for his family and his wife as his wife trying to snatch his assets, you aren't a healthy person either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:22 AM
2

I agree with what you said and was starting to feel self righteous about this. But I never really wanted kids and so didn't see the point in marriage. Living with a man helped me save a lot of money. Many of them supported me like a spouse when they did not have to. If I'd wanted to have gotten married, it would be on me to find a man who had similar goals and wanted to do things the right way. So sadly, I must actually disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:16 PM
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Yeah well if we don't give you sex it's a waste of time. Get a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:13 PM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:07 AM
1

Oh, that worked. A reply in my dm. Thanks. have my downvote :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:05 AM
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He's an idiot for buying into it though and not being happy with what he had. That would be like me going on women's sugarbaby forums and coming back to him and being like "other women are getting louis vuitton purses just to to go on a date with a man, you should buy me a cadillac" lol How dumb would I have to be? Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:34 AM
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Nope, would never do that because a man who would even cheat with someone else's girlfriend would be repulsive to me. That said, most men get cheated on because they are trying desperately to keep women who are out of their league. They don't want to "settle" for a less attractive or out of shape woman, they want a super hot chick who all the other guys will chase and when the better offer comes along, well, look who can be superficial too...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:15 AM
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LOL!!! Why the FUCK would this hot, prefect woman be DYING to be this idiots booty call?? XD He is probably one of those guys that gets scammed by bots on dating apps because he believes a russian supermodel is desperate for his dick right now so call this number lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:12 AM
1

how do I downvote this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:09 AM
2

And all he would have had to do was be a decent normal guy and not try a bunch of douchey PUA bullshit on me and I prob would have fucked him. YEP! Been there! I was in what could have been a good relationship with a guy I really liked. We had sex daily but he read on a red pill site that women lose interest in sex after marriage so we had to have sex twice a day and three times a day on weekends for him to know I was really into it. I literally laughed in his face. Bye bitch. Now you get none.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:07 AM
2

Oh yeah. Men have figured out that paying for dinner now and then is cheaper than hiring a prostitute. They say "women like sex too!" lol to convince us we're getting something out of the deal too. Like we crave their sad little dick lmao. Realistically, you can't get mad at him though. He was honest and just a dumbass who read redpill PUA forums and was not smart enough to realize that shit only works if you're the dude from fifty shades of grey, not joe the plumber with a beer belly, an exwife…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:03 AM
1

ok thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:20 AM
3

I would have said you're wrong but I know now. Had to learn that lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 10:13 PM
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Would never have believed this if it hadn't happened to me, but a 30 year old and over virgin is a bad fucking idea. I thought it meant he was wholesome and committed to his religion. NOPE, he just couldn't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:24 PM
2

disgusting!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 06:49 PM
1

finally
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 06:49 PM
1

I think she's got it backwards. Can you explain please? I legit want to know what I am doing wrong. Keep orbiters until in a relationship and then cut them? That is lame as well but is that what people do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 07:08 PM
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wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 07:07 PM
1

How long have you been together and how did you meet? Congrats!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 03:04 AM
1

Yeah see. I don't really want anyone that badly. I don't need a man, I just wouldn't mind one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 02:55 AM
1

Yeah, thanks. I agree. TO me high value means works out, very intelligent, good sense of humor, not a crazy liberal, healthy self confidence and awareness and decently hard worker. I do tend to get lucky in life though, so we will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 02:41 AM
1

I know. You thought you could make an honest woman out of her but instead you almost lost your life when she attacked you with a shovel over too dark toast. Now you spend your days trolling women on reddit. YOu could have just listened to me, Carl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 02:15 AM
1

She was single for like 2 YEARS before she met you! Why? Because she was riding the cc that's why!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 02:13 AM
1

Lied and told the relatives I was "sick" when not at the wedding lol. I refused to condone that marriage. Did you at least know the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 02:11 AM
1

You can’t expect to find a “diamond in the rough” waltzing around casually with no women in tow. Hm. You're right. I usually attract high value guys which means there is competition. THe alternative you suggested is not appealing either so it seems I must choose the lesser of 2 evils....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 02:07 AM
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She even told me she was going to "ease up" on the birth control to get that ring situation on the go. I warned you and you didn't listen. SHE HAS A TONGUE RING! Marrying someone with a tongue ring? Really, Carl?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 02:06 AM
1

I swear this is my cousins bitter ex husband lol. I told you not to marry her, now you just troll the internet all day XD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 02:00 AM
1

I already answered this question. And I don't blame anyone, I made my own choices. You sound like you have issues with mom, I can recommend a good therapist if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 01:53 AM
1

your previous lifestyle was incompatible with the type of man you are seeking What do you know about my previous lifestyle lol? I am the perfect match to what I am looking for but I'm not a normie and it's rare. Salty incels lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 01:45 AM
1

Thank you, ONE SINGLE PERSON ON THIS ENTIRE subreddit. Prepare to get downvoted to oblivion by beta orbiter collectors and cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 01:39 AM
1

Don't care about your bragging. You are probably overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 01:38 AM
1

Yeah, thanks. THis is the problem I am facing. Yet every guy I meet has attractive female friends and it annoys me. So if I am to accept this dating paradigm and join it myself, well I am in the conundrum you have already outlined. I want to find a man not doing this but they apparently no longer exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 01:38 AM
1

It was a truth told in a trolling way. This is a real issue. I don't care what you think to explain further.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 01:36 AM
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I'm looking for a man who doesn't keep inappropriate relationships with women and exes, isn't obsessed with social media or porn, childfree, not divorced because I don't believe in taking a life vow before god and revoking it, not a crazy liberal or virtual signaler, has done some personal development (a lot probably, like I have). I mean, that would be good enough for me. And yes, yes I have a lot to provide in return. I've posted it here before. A lot of guys describe me as their dream woman a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 12:41 AM
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Do you have very narrow requirements or a type that's making things hard? Yes :|
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 12:33 AM
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tldr? not clicking. thanks for the effort though. you seem to really care alot :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 12:31 AM
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hubby *shudder So gross when people call them that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 12:30 AM
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That would be nice, yes. But that is not what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 12:18 AM
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Well yes but that is different. They are more like acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 12:18 AM
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That was a troll lol. I am not unaware that I have a public post history, Sherlock. He's an fwb, which is also another new low I've considered stooping to that everyone else seems to be doing and I am missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 12:17 AM
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Ok, well to be up front, I am a former model, ok? I don't want to be some guys' friend, their girlfriends/wives have always hated me. I don't know how to navigate this and it just seems inappropriate to me, especially since even though I act with dignity and dress appropriately, it's safe to assume men find me hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 12:10 AM
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NOPE! Didn't want and not having kids. Buzz off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:47 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:42 PM
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Actually, I'm 35 ;) None of those orbiting cucks had the balls to make a move, not husband material, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:42 PM
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why don't you just befriend new men and during one of your first conversations mention you are dating someone else This seems extremely tacky to me. I met a man at a meetup group recently who was really interested in talking to me all night. Only at the end did he say he was married and was not wearing a ring. I was PISSED.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:33 PM
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lol oh my god
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:20 AM
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if a woman keeps asking stupid questions and won't drop the issue: pretend that you're not that political but lean liberal, dislike Trump, are okay with feminism, hate bigotry, don't care about sex history but think a two-digit partner count is perfectly normal and average, think rape is worse than nuclear genocide, and so on. But then just change the subject. XD omg Is this what you guys are willing to do to get laid (and possibly me-tooed in the process???) lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:17 AM
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Er, no, the ones I get say What is your definition of equality? And who is your favorite feminist? It's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:15 AM
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somehow worthwhile, even though the fact that they’re resorting to an online dating site suggests otherwise, XD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:12 AM
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he stock replies are meant to make the average man look like the biggest soy-consuming blue pill social justice warrior who probably spends his free time thinking of clever replies to cards against humanity jokes while writing his 199th yelp review about how some local-only-never-a-chain restaurant didn't have the right kind of feta cheese. LOL'D at work. Thanks for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:01 AM
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No, they are in school and have met men there with education. There is just too much nonsense from them, apparently. Lack of maturity etc. I've tried to suggest to them to find successful older men but they like young, good looking guys, somewhat supporting the carousel theory I suppose, but they are not sleeping around and aren't all that interested in sex....at least that's what they tell me. And they have no reason to lie to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:53 PM
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I know I could find guys willing to partner up with me, I just haven’t met one I’M willing to partner up with for life. Thank YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:06 AM
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Same, I work with super attractive women in their early and mid 20s. They are fed up with men already and DO NOT date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 01:29 AM
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I have a rule about not sleeping with virgins why
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:42 PM
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a couple of them got pretty weird after we had sex how?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:41 PM
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But the only cure is sex or castration. Nope you can masturbate, you can lift weights... Estrogen drives women to be hysterical, lose their tempers etc. As you develop into a responsible woman, you would never say, WELP my estrogen drives MUST be satiated! If I don't yell, scream at someone etc etc I will go crazy. That's just how it is!! No, you examine yorur desires, you do the work, you find healthy ways to temper your base urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:37 PM
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People tend to focus on what made their last relationships flame out, Thanks, you are right about this. And that last one was a narcissist for sure, even before he pulled the sex nonsense on me I knew. Good advice on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 11:41 AM
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had a whole lot more to offer my life than sex Do tell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:09 AM
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ok, point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:48 AM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:22 AM
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lmao ok let me try that!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:14 AM
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So what are you bringing to the table? You cant just say "Im not looking for resources here." What can you add to a man's life that he needs, and would be worth giving up his freedom for? Well in previous relationships, I have helped manage their life. For example, in my ex's family it was always really important to attend birthday parties and holiday gatherings. I always made sure to remind him when these were coming up. I would cook a dish to bring to a dinner, or get the perfect gifts, wrap t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:12 AM
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you're a weird person to deal with lmao ok ok accurate ok thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:00 AM
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This makes sense. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:48 AM
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My wife even expects me to pursue her sexually as a proof of my attraction to her, on top of the commitment display. Ok this is kind of cute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:47 AM
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What would be your ideal frequency for sex? It's not about this. I have been in a relationship where it was multiple times a day and it worked for use both. I explained in another post. It's about the attitude. I guess I have to find a guy who has had more sex but my issue is I like wholesome, nerdy guys.... because they are usually more willing to commit, smarter, more interesting, less likely to have orbiting women.... maybe .... I need to up my competition as a woman and go for sexier men? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:46 AM
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30's
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:43 AM
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Ok, I think my problem is I am attracted to betas/nerds, but they tend to be in a scarcity mindset about sex. I have been in a relationship with a hot guy (he had to pursue me hard, not my typical type) who historically had no issues with women. The sex was great and often and neither of us had a problem. Maybe time to give up on the wholesome nerds. Or go back into nun-dom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:41 AM
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Thanks for this. No, it's not that I don't want sex, I just don't like that men are obsessed with it. Maybe you like buying a woman dinner but wouldn't that change if you knew she expected it from you regularly to maintain her attention in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:36 AM
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This is possibly true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:30 AM
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Why are you talking like your selfishness is righteous but not the other's? Really, what you value highly in life is sticking your organ in a hole and moving it around? Fuck I hate humans so much. I hate men's obsession with sex. How would you like if it I wanted to talk about your money all day, I monitored how much money you were making (so I could spend it), pouted and got bitchy if you spent less money on me one week than the last, watched sugar daddy videos all the time online (like how men…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:28 AM
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I see so it's impossible for a man not to be controlled by animal brain mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:20 AM
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I've known guys who do NOT want kids ever, who are still obsessed with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:16 AM
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Women are programmed to highly prize a tall man with lots of resources. You want a woman who is dumb enough to just follow her animal brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:11 AM
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Thanks. How did you meet? Is she religious/previously married?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:19 PM
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the girl I'm dating now didn't use and has never used online dating at all and is pretty turned-off by people that do. How old is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 09:04 PM
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Most women don't have a really high sex drive, and are able to provide for themselves. THis is the main thing. Having a man is like having to be a sex babysitter. And they will pout and get bitchy the second you need a break. NO THANKS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:33 PM
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refusing to drive because you cannot afford a Ferrari. Well no, the alternative to a Ferrari in terms of men is a jalopy that is going to break down fairly often and cause more trouble than it's worth, really. In the end after all the time and money you spend on it only to have constant problems and inconveniences, you wish you would have just walked or phone an uber.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:31 PM
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This comment is useless and if you did have such a blessed life, I'm not sure why you'd be trolling around on reddit for validation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:14 PM
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These girls want rich dudes. Enjoy your classifying of them, none would likely ever look your way if their life depended on it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 02:58 AM
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Yes. But just as we have to deal with hysteria from our estrogen, they have to deal with emotions caused by the drive of testosterone. Being rejected because the person you supposedly love has a headache is not a fucking trauma lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 08:13 PM
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MAKE IT WORK. DEAL WITH IT. nah, just divorce rape him and walk :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 08:11 PM
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It is experienced as a trauma. lol sorry unless that starfish is holding a gun to your head to continue on having sex, that is not trauma, that is a choice you made. to screw a starfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 08:09 PM
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When I was 20, I wanted a COMMITTED GIRLFRIEND. REGULAR ACCESS TO SEX
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 01:46 AM
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Now, INFPs, that's unique. Hello :) We are crazy in relationships. A red pill INFP = super high expectations lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:47 AM
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men truly are more attractive as they get older. Their resources are. Younger men will always be more physically attractive, sorry. This 21 year old girl's version of "older" is guys who are in their late 20's lol. Not someone's dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:43 AM
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I am realizing through this discussion that I was slightly confused. I didn't know, I never saw it, they didn't bring it up and I didn't ask. Realizing I might be ok with that. The last guy I was with had some strange sexual standards despite being a virgin at 40 and claimed to have a "high libido" lol I figured he watched a lot of porn. I don't know. I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 05:22 PM
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. Estrogen doesn't require a release. Wrong, yes it does. It drives a woman to emotionality. But part of learning to be a virtuous woman is learning how to temper your drive for drama and hysteria, not expect your man to learn how to just deal with it and service your emotions because estrogen. And vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 05:16 PM
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I am annoyed slightly because I thought I had it figured out all these years. I appreciate the perspective. I'm still never fucking a man who buys jerseys, sports figurines and paints his face. Though to be honest, I'm sure I could think of an artistic, lofty and noble reason why the majority of women buy cosmo magazine, love the kardashians and read garbage like fifty shades of grey like it's the bible. It's still unattractive behavior in the majority of the population, regardless of the reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:59 PM
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You're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:55 PM
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I have found Eastuss comments to be useful in my thought process. You need to chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:23 PM
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friends with for 15 years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:35 PM
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Lying to their wife, AMALT? Uh, no. but they watch porn and they do not fit your standards, somehow you can't get whatever ideals you were capable to get before, but instead of blaming yourself you blame others, AWALT. LOL. Why should I blame myself? And actually, looking back, I have been happy in relationships with men where it was never brought up, I didn't ask, I never saw it and I didn't care about the p word. I just think it's degrading to the human spirit is all. It makes a joke of a man.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:31 PM
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True, but they still feed on men's ambition and competitiveness and they're over stimulating, while it gives nothing back. If you dislike porn you should also be disliking video games. The arguments you have against porn can be applied onto most male activities. Hm, this is really making me think about what is really going on here for me, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:27 PM
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I see. So a completely horny and sexually uninhibited woman.....with a very low notch count. This is what you want, right?? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:25 PM
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I think there are a lot of women out there who don't want their men watching porn but also don't want to have sex with him as often as he would want. Not saying you're one of those women, but if you are, then what do you expect him to do with the extra libido? Just spend all that time teeming with frustration? Porn manufacturse your addiction. That's like women who spend all their time looking at kim kardashian on instagram and reading cosmo magazines and thinking they don't have enough purses, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:22 PM
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If sex is a basic need, how are there 40 year old virgins who are not dead? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:20 PM
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YEP, THIS. After I broke up with him, he basically said something to the effect of: "Well at least I got to date a -his numerical rating of me- for xyz number of days and I had sex xyz times." I couldn't freaking believe it. Not "At least I got to know you" or anything like that, no. I will say he was a great companion and we spent a lot of time doing fun things since we had similar hobbies and interests. We would talk for hours, sometimes all night or half the day on the phone when we were apar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:15 PM
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LOL a private investigator to find out how many men she slept with and what kind of sex she gave them??? AHAHAHAH good luck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:08 PM
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I almost bought into this analogy until I realized....um...how has porn become the only way a man can fulfill his sexual needs? Please. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:07 PM
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Idealistically anti-porn, yes this is what I like. And no, I have no interest in normies, even if it means I end up alone. I understand about rough patches, what you wrote doesn't sound so bad. I don't want someone who is really into it, uses it daily. can't live without it, follows slutty girls on instagram etc I don't want a man who has dopamine conditioned himself to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:06 PM
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is trying to find a woman to replace porn. He was almost 40, not 50 and yes this was actually the case. We did rather enjoy our companionship and talks though. We had lot of fun together. But when he made it clear that willingly being a human fleshlight was part of the package, I showed him the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:03 PM
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LOL yeah no, if I needed my emotions regulated by constant attention and chatting I would fulfill on the internet if my partner did n't give it to me, I'd be a sad, pathetic, typical human incapable of managing myself and having an internal locus of control. Kind of the way you are portraying yourself here. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:00 PM
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Ok, you're right. I just don't like men who get emotionally involved in sports, that's all. I prefer nerds who also workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 02:57 PM
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I don't mind playing sports. But cheering for other men doing physical activity in tight shorts? No, that's really sad. You sit there and watch millionaires excercise while cheering on your couch with your beer belly hanging out? No. Video games, I didn't mention those. They execrise imagination and creativity. No as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 09:05 AM
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I see, so if he wants me to quit social media, he must fill the gap by constantly prasiing me with compliments, texting me non stop and admiring me? Is that how things work? Maybe I should quit a social media addiction for my own personal growth, the same way he should stop with the fucking porN?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 09:02 AM
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you best be up to matching his sex drive. Really hate when men talk about this like a warning or a threat or a chore. It's an instant no for me. How would you like me saying "WELP, you best be up to meet my shopping drive!!" Kind of a turn off, no? Ot just that just make you whip out your credit card in glee the way my panties are supposedly supposed to fly off?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 09:00 AM
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OKAY. Yeah t his makes sense as I am averse to social media and cell phone addiction as well. When I am spending time with someone, my phone does not exist. If we're at a restaurant and they go to the bathroom, it still does not exist, or even tempt me in any way. I hate seeing people who have to whip it out the second they are alone for any milisecond of time. No. One time I was in the parking lot when I realized I left my phone in the office. I just left it and went home for the weekend, rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:46 AM
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That is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:44 AM
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Good call, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:36 AM
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I would be gone from this completely if I didn't use it for work. I suppose I could hire someone to manage it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:36 AM
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Thank you for this. I dated a red pill freak show, virgin at age 37. Told me he would feel uncomfortable if I had had too many previous partners, then goes on to tell me he expects sax twice a day and three time a day on weekends, minimum. This guy was literally a rocket scientist. Beyond retarded about women and life in general though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:27 AM
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“so he can pass out and i can finish watching Sabrina” Yeah no. This sounds like babysitting. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:18 AM
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Verry useful. Thank you for this! I like religious leaning people but... if you believe you will go to hell for watching porn and that is why you don't do it, we are not on the same level intellectually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:11 AM
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No problem with this as long as it's not addictive. It's the porn addiction I have an issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:00 AM
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Oh, so.... just my free will entirely? lol cool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 07:59 AM
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Oh, I see. Changed flair to question for Redpill, sorry chose the wrong one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 07:58 AM
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I guess I'm trying to understand the female equivalent. For example, if I said OH I want a guy with huge muscles and a 6 pack, but I'm a couch potato, well that doesn't add up. Most women are not nearly as into porn as men are so for me to say I don't watch it so he shouldn't either is not fair. I am 100% turned off by men who are obsessed with porn and I can tell them a mile away. They just carry this sad, gross vibe. Congrats to you anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 07:54 AM
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Please refer to the comment above, apparently not as rare as you think. Imagination is fine, the porn is disgusting and an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 07:52 AM
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She is not willing to give me her best (compared to Hmm how lovely. How are you going to determine this? Get out a yardstick or a tally sheet and conduct a poll? I hate this mentality. Are you giving her more than you gave your ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 07:48 AM
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1) Smoking 2) Liberal/ SJW/ NPC/ White knight of any type 3) Weed (any amount for any reason ever is a no from me) 4) Doesn't work out, stay active or build muscle in some way 5) Living at home. Sorry I've tried. 6) Catholic (too negative) 7) Has close female friends 8) Friends with exes where no kids are involved 9) Into spectator sports. Nope, buh bye. 10) Bad spelling and grammar 11) Lack of curiosity about their motivations, feeling and past trauma, Unwilling to go to therapy if neccesary. 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 07:40 AM
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later that evening she came over and knocked on my door again with a plate of chocolate chip cookies. This is a lie. Or there was exlax in them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/18 03:50 AM
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TOUGH SHIT. DEAL WITH IT. HAVE SEX WITH HIM ANYWAY. You picked him, and that includes all his faults. Part of being a wife is giving sexual access at reasonable intervals. That's your job as a wife. So do it. WGTOW thanks. Don't need your money or your lousy sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/18 03:09 AM
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Congrats on failing your biological imperative cuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/18 02:43 AM
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Women will always have beta orbiters. Attractive women will have even more beta orbiters. You’ll never have a relationship where you don’t have to deal with beta orbiters, so just get over it and get used to it. If the dude is a 5 and she’s an 8 then just let her manage him and do whatever the fuck she wants. Women have a deep psychological need to stay connected to people, especially male people. Who is going to hunt food for her if you get mauled by a tiger in the jungle and die? Answer: the b…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 09:22 PM
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how do you KNOW that all women subconsciously parade around unsuspecting males I'm sorry, I meant the attractive women do this. The unattractive ones, such as yourself from what you have admitted, are another story. It's interesting how angry/triggered you seem to have gotten over this. If someone accused me of something that I 100% have not done, I am not going to get pissed off and start throwing out all the reasons why I didn't do it. If someone comes up to me and says "You shot JFK, I know i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 04:04 PM
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The onus usually falls back to the most unattractive person in the pairing, which would have been you. Did you feel sad/jealous when they would get girlfriends? I don't expect you to be honest, most people aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 03:33 PM
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I have known some attractive men who have done this to less attractive women. They have ugly women harems that attack any actually attractive woman he does wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:42 AM
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Any woman who waxes poetic about her male "friends" is doing this. Subconsciously. They are not self aware to admit it, but this is what they are doing. Parading unsuspecting males (also lacking self awareness around ) to say: look whose attention I can keep without fucking him lol I'm so desirable. NOOOOOOOO we're just FRRRRIEEENNDDZZZ
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:11 AM
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How is 2 months an "LTR"?? lol
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:32 PM
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I feel like if she had eyes to see on her worn-out cunt, she would be of great value herself, especially to the scientific community.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 02:06 AM
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Can confirm. I tell guys now that I don't have sex outside of a relationship, that I've been in LTRs most of my life and had about 4 boyfriends. I let them assume. In between those 4 have been about 25 dicks though ;)
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:08 PM
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LOLLLL!! love this chick. prolly a troll though lmfao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/18 02:54 AM
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Congratulations, Freud. Would you like the nobel prize??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:06 AM
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Close opposite sex friends
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 12:16 AM
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If his business is in a low period, can't he help out more at home? Good grief.
/r/RedPillWives11/07/18 04:02 AM
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LOL! I'm allergic. Wow I guess I really got to you. You need a life ahahahaha.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 03:56 PM
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Blocked. Please go enjoy your happy marriage with your husband and his female friends.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 03:43 PM
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I will immediately stomp my foot and demand that my husband cut ties with every woman in his life who is not me. Would never do this. I just wouldn't get involved with a man like that in the first place, just walk once I found out, no questions asked. But glad it ...allegedly worked out for you! Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 03:32 PM
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Yeah.... I'd only be doing these things for a man who provided for me. If you're splitting the bills 50/50, you have work to do girl. This might be a bit much. Also, would NOT recommend moving in with a man before engagement at least.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 06:20 AM
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What husband keeps female friends? Taaaacky.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 06:12 AM
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They're pretty over the top but what do expect from an album called Aphrodite?? lol Whatever, these songs and videos make me feel pretty :) I believe in you, Kylie Minogue: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZp2bk4YHFY The One, Kylie Minogue: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGxn2jIKiR4
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 05:17 AM
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Keep in mind....the wealth, the success, the desirable personal traits....all of these were attained with the ultimate goal in mind: YOU. That's why he bothers with ANY of those things ;)
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 06:59 AM
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Wow, that's amazing! Thanks, yes we both have a desire to improve so I'm excited that there's hope :) Curious, how long til "I love you"s? Also, did the sexual floodgates open after a month? Or are you keeping certain things for...later...or? If too personal you don't need to answer. Just all things I'm considering on my own and trying to reconcile. All input appreciated. Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 01:17 AM
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OMFG so happy for you :) I'm in a similar situation...it's been a month. We're still feeling it out but ECSTATIC about each other. His communication, arguing style and lack of interest in therapy concern me greatly. But everything else is literally perfect. We'll see. Update us on the engagement :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 12:56 AM
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This is so helpful! So you did have sex after a month? How long until engagement talks began if you don't mind?
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 12:12 AM
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I just want to surround myself with a community A community of other men while your fiancee is away? I just rank highly agreeable on the big five personality trait scale I was going to suggest this. Good that you know. However, you seem to think it's a perfect excuse for your behavior. There is a reason why you rank high on this scale. You wrote this post because you recognize that something is off. It would be worthwhile to figure that out. If you are a woman living alone in a "bad neighborhood…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 04:15 PM
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Recently, I have allowed myself to depend on other men around me for things like changing the oil in my car, or walking me home after dark (I live in a dangerous neighborhood) or for non-romantic companionship. This is asking for trouble and looks suspect. It's good that you realize it's a problem. 1) Why don't you pay to get your oil changed like normal people? I'm sure I could recruit the men around my neighborhood to do all manners of favors for me, but it looks bad and gives the wrong impres…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 02:49 AM
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More advice to 20 somethings: Details in how you present yourself as a woman of class are important. Also, remaining calm, dignified, light-hearted and humorous, open and willing to learn are all traits of a fine woman. And don't forget to use the block button on trolls who would rather argue on reddit than cuddle their supposed husband. Being in your 20s in this day and age is tricky but with the right head on your shoulders, you can do it. Good luck :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 02:01 AM
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More advice for 20 somethings: learn how to take a lesson with grace instead of lashing out. That's the sign of a classy woman and way to always be open to learning in life :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 01:45 AM
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beta fish wants It's betta :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 01:42 AM
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to be alive is when your older Also good advice for 20 somethings: learn the difference between "you're" (means you are) and "your". Please and thank you ;)
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 01:41 AM
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You’re mere existence Also good advice for 20 somethings: learn the difference between "you're" (means you are) and "your". Please and thank you ;)
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 01:27 AM
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Hm. What is your feeling about why it happened? I'm not buying the child thing either. What is your gut telling you?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 07:49 AM
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I realized one day that my boyfriend had an ongoing flirtation with the sexy young chick who did his hair at the salon. She just wanted a high tip from him, which she got. So pathetic of him. Maybe he was worried she'd see...?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 07:36 AM
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