I learned the lesson of orbiters and friendzoning my mid 20's.

Since then, I have not kept male friends in an attempt to be honest and virtuous in holding out for a man who will have similar standards.

I guess this man doesn't exist and every guy is keeping his exes around, making friends with single women on dating apps.

Meanwhile if I need to move something heavy as a single woman, I have to hire movers. If I want someone to cook for, it's just myself.

I am missing out by not taking on orbiters and male friends and there are no men who really appreciate this about me and are behaving likewise.

Fuck this!