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She isn’t an anti feminist. She is a feminist against the Sex Revolution
/r/AntiFeminists23/03/23 11:38 AM
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I mean in that religious and non-religious reasons are both equally reasonable reasons for abstaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 09:15 AM
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I don’t see why it is any different waiting for religious or non-religious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:22 PM
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I argue there is a lot of crossover between feminism and traditionalism than most close minded people like to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 07:40 AM
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Completely agree with you on the backbone and drive. A powerful woman can say/do so little but influential in that with that 1 vote the man has. But I differ in that children need their mum 247. Women have always worked in history (1960s is modern). Yes children need their mothers 247 in the vital early years, but after that children need their own space to thrive to build self sufficiency. Grandparents whom are often retired can help here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 07:28 AM
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Definitely not “internet trad”. It also depends on what specific tradition you are referring to. I can’t stand traditionalists that are obsessed with optics, rather than the more important unseen traditional spirit. I argue a tattooed feminist could have been a homemaker if she was raised in the 13th century, whilst a “trad” looking woman could be a prostitute raised in that era. I mean, many happily married male tattoo artists seem to be with homemakers that help on the side. I don’t see how ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 07:12 AM
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By this logic, looks like Muslims and Jews are traumatised for life then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 06:56 AM
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This is a dumb question. Many women are awful, many are decent. A lot of the resentment towards women as a collective is often a personal reflection of the individual themselves- often a poor relationship with their female family members. Intelligent women have existed throughout all cultures, religions and ethnic groups. Yes there are women into dumb petty stuff, but the same can be said about men. Intelligent women avoid dumb, negative minded men- hence why it can seems as though all woman are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 06:53 AM
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This is a dumb question. Many women are awful, many are decent. A lot of the resentment towards women as a collective is often a personal reflection of the individual themselves- often a poor relationship with their female family members. Intelligent women have existed throughout all cultures, religions and ethnic groups. Yes there are women into dumb petty stuff, but the same can be said about men. Intelligent women avoid dumb, negative minded men- hence why it can seems as though all woman are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 06:53 AM
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Women born women having differing issues to trans women is bigotry? You are wet. Lmao.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/20 08:56 PM
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You are just using big fancy words without having a clue about TERFs.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 07:09 PM
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No one is scared of trans people, just that they don’t face the exact same issues as biological women (pregnancy, periods and being perceived as a woman from birth). To ignore this distinction is delusional.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 06:39 PM
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No, TERFS is irrelevant to red or exredpill
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 05:44 PM
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I had a red pill coach that told me to not bother thinking about my career as that’s a man’s job.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 04:02 PM
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But if you are financially independent then you are basically acting like a man which is unattractive. Ughhh, you can’t win.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 12:29 AM
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Beautiful
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 12:27 AM
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So true.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/20 01:19 PM
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It’s hard to disguise it, the human eyes are the windows into someone’s soul.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/20 12:55 PM
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“Bad boys” So clearly there are men who don’t have family values too.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/20 07:31 PM
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Stupid red pill rubbish. Maybe the women in your life don’t, but many women do. Many men don’t care about family values. It goes both ways.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/20 04:45 PM
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My only criticism is your facial expression, I detect a rather anxious spirit within you. If you were more confident in your own skin, that will show in your facial expression and your attractiveness will certainly be higher. Therapy is good as others suggested. Thinking you are too ugly for love is a delusion, and that makes me sad. You need to love yourself as you’ll love your potential partner dude.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/20 09:35 AM
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I disagree, sure they won’t date the “bobs and vegana” types. But a smart, kind, hardworking one who takes care of his appearance is definitely a potential! They can care more about family values than some Western men.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/20 09:17 AM
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You sound like a thoughtful, smart guy. Your humbleness is an attractive trait to a good woman.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/20 11:48 AM
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Ironically, TRP is such a beta philosophy
/r/ExRedPill08/01/20 10:12 AM
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Feminism is not about about egalitarianism. Maybe in the past, but certainly not now.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/20 10:11 AM
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Finding more intellectual and nuanced movements.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/20 10:56 AM
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NoFap isn’t related to TRP.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/19 12:30 PM
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Why do you think we are more prone to fringe ideologies?
/r/ExRedPill25/12/19 10:55 PM
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How comes you feel that way?
/r/ExRedPill25/12/19 08:41 AM
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Really depends on the woman once again and what a man needs from a woman. In relationships- even alpha men needs something from women.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/19 06:53 PM
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Most women don’t even know/care about betas. It really depends on the woman and what is a deal breaker to her- we are not as monolithic as TRP makes us out to be. I don’t believe women “make men betas”, it was already within him and maybe the woman just helped bring that side of him he hasn’t yet faced. When a man’s behavior is lowering a woman’s value, incompatibilities are not resolved and she has has self respect to not tolerate- this can trigger a breakup. Both parties has every right to lea…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/19 10:31 AM
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What did the red pill mean to you?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/19 10:33 PM
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Eh, what’s wrong with two betas being together? Honest think true alphas are exceeding rare, most are fakes. Everyone shit tests, it is not exclusive to any gender.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/19 10:32 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to put the red pill on the same level as Christianity. Even if you don’t believe in Christianity.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/19 03:29 PM
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It has taken a long time, really blessed with everyone on this forum to help me see the light.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/19 09:51 PM
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Precisely.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/19 09:50 PM
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The 1950s stuff is an excuse. They probably would have had similar issues if they were born in a different generation. Women have always worked. Just that a lot of the stuff in the house was not automated so it meant there was much more to do in the house. Men have automised most things to give women the freedom to use her time on other pursuits. In economic struggles, women had to help bring some income. That could be making wine at home, nursing or farm work. Grandparents often raised the chil…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/19 10:26 PM
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Steve Mayede is good on YouTube. He is also a divorcee whom ended up in prison, lost custody of his children, was involved in MRA and left it because he hated the victim complex. He now remarried, has a new family and building a series on how stupid TRP is.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/19 04:11 PM
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You are surrounding yourself in the wrong crowds if you want a wife. Avoid club and tinder for sure. Religious minded women will certainly be open to marriage (consider that more women are religious than men). Or consider those that come from strong knit family backgrounds (whom might be involved in academic societies, charity work etc). Sure some women don’t want marriage. But some women are willing to do sacrifice a lot to get married and have a family- but the man needs the emotional and fina…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/19 04:05 PM
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Hi, I’m interesting in being a mod. Been part of this group for a few months and I regularly use it.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/19 07:56 AM
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How is it different for RPW in your view?
/r/ExRedPill28/11/19 12:09 PM
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This sounds awful and I’m so sorry you had to experience this. But there is hope for something better in the future :)
/r/ExRedPill28/11/19 12:08 PM
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The openness to procreation is largely from religious study, not the red pill. The red pill doesn’t even really talk about this. Faith has brought me hope and warmth into my soul as TRP left me in despair, self hatred and isolation. I do agree with you on the rest. Despite unsubscribing from it, I still find myself diverting to it from time to time when someone brings it up aspects relating to it or it pops on my newsfeed from my internet history. 3 years of TRP and being part of Molneux’s Freed…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/19 10:43 AM
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Didn’t say it’s bad if used in specific circumstances, but normalising it statistically leads to more people treating sex as a recreation. Of course sex happens outside of marriage, but you can’t deny that having three 3 factors available decreases the occurrence. I don’t think it’s fair to void the emotional/physical side effects women face on contraception and having an abortion- just that effects are not as blatant as the other things you have brought up.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/19 12:10 AM
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Yes it has, because when you have sex without reliable contraception, the odds of creating a child is pretty high. Sex is fundamentally for reproduction, it feels good because that’s our biological nature trying to stop humans from dying out. Medical contraception, improvement in condoms and accessible abortions is what opened the door to casual sex as now you can have sex without worrying about child creation. Not that it didn’t exist before, but it certainly wasn’t normalised (after establishi…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/19 11:20 AM
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It’s because sex has been reduced to a recreational sport and not as something opening the possibility of procreation.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/19 10:09 AM
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Be thankful that you realized this now than later. I’ve spent 3 years of my life with this and didn’t pursue my studies on the basis that it would make me unattractive. The red pill doesn’t preach true masculinity. It has a warped perception of femininity. Men with happy daughters don’t have this fake perception of femininity. I’m finding a lot of peace learning out male dominance in the context of Christianity- it’s not what the red pill men tell you.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/19 11:15 AM
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Men thinking that men are not only free from the consequences of hook ups/casual sex but can actually benefit from using “easy women”. That current dating culture only hurts women. No sane, young, trad minded woman would settle with a man who brags about sleeping around. Instead of these men recognising their own shortcomings, they prefer to blame/pass judgments on to women. This mindset will eat the living soul inside of you.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/19 12:28 PM
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Lol, you sound like me apart from the fact I’m a woman. 😂 They definitely do exist, I don’t think it makes you foolish. The red pill tricks you into thinking that all men are x and all women are y. There is a lot of diversity within a gender! Rather you just need to be open minded that such women tend to be more dominant, lack traditionally feminine traits and may possibly older. Which isn’t bad per say if that’s what is compatible for you. There are many modern women really reject the idea of b…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/19 11:35 PM
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There is a lot of truth to what you are saying, so I do sympathise. But don’t be fooled in thinking traditional minded women don’t have their own issues. For many men refuse to date/marry a women who doesn’t offer any form of physical intimacy. Or that they have the expectation that a woman NEEDS a career, or she is just a lazy “gold digger”. There are modern minded women (not feminist, but have benefited from past feminism) that are open to earning more than their man and him being in charge of…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/19 10:25 PM
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Incels have always existed when people started having a choice in who they can date/marry. Not feminism. It didn’t exist (for the most part) when arranged marriages and extended bachelorhood was considered shameful. The red pill cherry picks history from its own propaganda. Question is- is being incel making you red pilled or the red pill making you incel?
/r/ExRedPill22/11/19 10:20 PM
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This is beautiful 😍 What value did she have for you, that the age gap wasn’t an issue?
/r/ExRedPill20/11/19 08:55 PM
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So true.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/19 11:15 PM
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She claims she doesn’t blame them and sympathizes as she views most women in that lens
/r/ExRedPill18/11/19 06:29 PM
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Isn’t that just a feminist talking point though?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/19 01:24 PM
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What makes you think it’s paid?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/19 01:24 PM
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I agree
/r/ExRedPill13/11/19 09:59 AM
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Maybe he had luck, but it wasn’t luck. Charismatic personality, very caring and inspiring. He didn’t allow his disability preventing him from achieving his goals. Complaints of “well feminism” is super self defeatist and unattractive. Odds are, you probably wouldn’t have had success if feminism didn’t exist.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/19 08:37 AM
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Because monogamy isn’t the focus? No fault divorce will prevent this. Hypergamy is present across both genders, but it’s just more women have access to it compared to men.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 07:39 AM
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Honestly, arranged marriages can solve a lot of these problems. Previously every man had to be married or he would considered a homosexual/deviant. Now, a lot these otherwise below average men have little chance compared to below average women.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/19 10:06 PM
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Sounds like redpill promotes stupid black/white think persona of men, which is rather toxic. I don’t have the solutions, but can say with certainty that plenty of men without muscle, beards and aren’t the most masculine/dominant can find women.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/19 09:18 PM
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Not true, whilst not as common, some men really like it on occasion. Being the dom man in bed can get exhausting after a long day of work, nice to chill for a bit.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/19 08:42 AM
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Ok then explain why some men pay crazy money for domanatrix women or fap to their partner sleeping with someone else? They say this because they are weak minded and try to make themselves appear “alpha”.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/19 12:14 AM
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This sounds super depressing, but I admire your strength.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/19 06:52 AM
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Having sex with someone creates a VERY strong bond (especially if you are a virgin). Usually the (unideal) way to break that bond is to sleep with someone new. To be fair, rebound relationships very rarely work out long term. It’s best to remain single after a breakup for a while until you figure out what went wrong. High SMV men do this as well if they had options. This is not exclusive to women, but just that your average woman has more options than your average man.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/19 09:11 PM
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Be very careful with guys who come from nothing and make a lot of money at a young age. Especially if they are always “busy”, they use work as a means to escape from problems. I had a really bad experience with this, and relate to the first few dates feeling beyond amazing. Don’t be fooled by lust and greed. Maybe he isn’t a bad guy, but you don’t want to find out the hard way by rushing. Wealth skews women’s perception of men being better than they really are and it makes you more tolerant of b…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 09:08 AM
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Coach red pill. He was my addiction. I can’t watch him now as I realised he is a fucking mess.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/19 04:29 PM
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These types of guys also use women for social and emotional gains. They often need sex, yet blame women for giving away sex. They aren’t as noble as they think they are.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/19 08:56 PM
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I really think the only way I can get over this lost time is to actually expose this bullshit online. So many women are jumping on the red pill bandwagon on the basis that it can help them get a trad lifestyle. It won’t. Red pill men have NO CLUE about true traditionalism. They are just projecting deep unresolved mummy and dating issues.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/19 08:54 PM
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I focused on it too much on the basis that I was getting red pill coaching with someone who was planning to help me get married. I’m not even kidding. I gave up my career ambitions on the basis that it didn’t matter as I’m going to pop out a baby anyway. I’m getting away from it now, but gosh I wasted so many years of my life on this misery crap. Ironically, the Molyneux approach made me LESS attractive to men as it made me come across as desperate and someone that had no ambitions. It also cost…
/r/ExRedPill07/10/19 08:51 PM
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What’s super high though? For some, 2 is super high.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/19 08:42 PM
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Lol how so?
/r/ExRedPill06/10/19 06:10 PM
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Probably this need to correct my past mistakes, desire to change myself for the sake of achieving stay at home motherhood and being a better mother than my mother. Probably depression and a form of emotional self harm too.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/19 09:42 AM
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What do you mean, she was part of the red pill????
/r/ExRedPill06/10/19 09:38 AM
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Or just this idea that I don’t even need to worry about work/ambitions as I can just find a man who will deal with that as that’s not my job.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/19 10:06 PM
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Long story but one thing that I remember is my indecisiveness in career choice is because my body desperately craves a baby.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/19 10:04 PM
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I love this!
/r/ExRedPill05/10/19 09:04 PM
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It’s tricky to get over 3 years wholeheartedly believing this and popping MGTOW videos non-stop.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/19 07:17 PM
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This is insightful and appreciate you making this post.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/19 07:08 PM
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Cheers, but I don’t think a comedy skin is going to automatically deprogram me from years of a reality I bought myself into.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/19 11:14 AM
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Interesting but loooooooong
/r/ExRedPill25/09/19 09:40 PM
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She is bullshiting and wants a baby from you. Don’t be an idiot and get dicknapped. Think with your brain, not dick.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/19 11:43 AM
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Good on you! I dunno.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:26 PM
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Yes I do since I think there seems to be more reasonable and recognise the importance of women having their own in-groups. Feminism is a trashy one.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/19 12:12 AM
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They need to know the truth, but men with mummy issues are terrible source to rely on. I still think men are important, men from close knit family units respect their mothers.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/19 12:10 AM
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What was the original comment about?
/r/ExRedPill22/04/19 04:56 PM
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For real? That’s messed up
/r/ExRedPill21/04/19 03:12 PM
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Forget yes and no types
/r/ExRedPill15/04/19 06:36 AM
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I relate to many of what you said...!
/r/ExRedPill13/04/19 06:51 AM
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I am not with anyone
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 10:14 PM
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Why?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/19 09:21 PM
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Really? This shocks me. I am a woman. Give me examples:
/r/ExRedPill12/04/19 09:21 PM
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The women are fake accounts? What about actual women in the movement?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/19 08:52 PM
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Oh definitely true on men and women in their 40s. But women in their 30s are not undateable, they just don’t have AS MUCH options compared to their 20s. If you look after yourself, you pass as being younger y’know?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/19 07:13 PM
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It makes a big difference when you are surrounded by race realists, some whom believe identity is everything. Since the alt-right is basically white.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/19 05:28 PM
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I don’t think it is completely false. But it’s an exaggeration to get men hooked on the red pill. It may have had more value historically. However, it does not accurately reflect on the current dating trends. For a first, many women in their early 20s are unwilling to date a man 10 years over their age. A man’s SMV does not shoot up as high as the red pill types make out, unless you are famous or have large sums of money. Do you seriously think a man his late 40s has a chance of picking up old t…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/19 05:26 PM
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A woman in her 30s does not has a similar SMV to a man in his late 40s (unless he is rich and/or famous). That is bullshit. It’s true that woman’s SMV declines during her 20s, but not to the extent as shown on the graph.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/19 05:16 PM
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There is a reason for this. It gets the men completely dependent on their content because only HE has the answers.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/19 05:00 PM
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Yeah great way of tackling an argument by resorting to deflection. You realise I’m an ethnic minority, lol. If such things shock you, maybe consider propping up your borders.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/19 12:47 AM
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That’s what you get by importing the East to the West.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/19 02:05 PM
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LMAO that’s funny.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/19 11:17 AM
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