TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

pandfour Archive

View 0 posts and 161 comments by pandfour on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

+1 Per Carnegie; let her save face. You telling her she is unattractive won't help anything.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:57 PM
3

Women will date down in terms of money. They won't date down in terms of class.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:33 PM
2

This, I have a group of friends I go out with frequently and we do this. I continued doing this even after I deleted my Tinder as it is a great way to contribute something physical to a story you are telling. Storage is cheap, I don't think we as males take enough photos.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:08 PM
17

"Weird. Let me prove I'm real, what's your number?" Damn, that was hard.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:49 PM
1

M: What is Branchswinging? A: That is correct! M: Thanks Alex, I'll take stupid questions for 400.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:35 PM
2

Hit the gym, go out, make friends, have cool pictures. Bam done. There are some good links in the sidebar that cover this. I've always had much better luck in person though usually through a mutual friend at a party or other event.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:21 PM
2

Yes but only because I got comfortable with myself and washed away some of the blue pill conditioning. I got out of a 7.5 year LTR with my high school sweetheart 3 years ago. To avoid getting too nitty gritty this left me soul searching. Multiple ONS and other flings shortly followed but it made me feel like shit. I wasn't happy with myself, I wasn't happy with the relationships, I just overall was not happy. I had a few short-term more serious relationships in the year to follow but they all le…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:05 PM
1

I've had this issue most my life and finally have it mostly under control. I bought a Fitbit Alta HR late last year and have been using it to track my sleep patterns. This gives me good historical data and something tangible I can correlate my feelings and actions too. I work best on 4.5-5 hours of sleep. More than that I feel drowsy less than that, fatigued. Taking Melatonin never helped me but taking Zinc does. I take it via ZMA tablets shortly before I go to bed. Going to bed at the same time…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 05:49 PM
4

+1 on n-count not mattering. I prefer quality plates over multiple ONS. Sex is better, more chemistry, less risk.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 04:14 PM
7

In fact, none of them are taken. Approach as normal, if your SMV is high enough it won't matter anyway.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 10:50 PM
10

Gym membership Diet Proper clothes
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:17 PM
3

He might have something else going for him. Free time, attention, interesting hobbies, funny? Doesn't really matter, sounds like you dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:09 PM
1

Men care more about the physical aspect of sex, women the emotional. Read Sex God Method if you haven't yet.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 11:30 PM
3

Sometimes these girls get attached quickly and seek an LTR. Proceed per usual, just expect her to drop quickly and resent you if she wants an LTR and you do not.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 07:22 PM
26

OP never said he was jacked. More than likely just seeing enough improvement in the gym that he is feeling more confident. (Even if those changes aren't physically visible) You don't have to be jacked to pull girls, you do have to be confident.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 02:42 PM
1

Should be flared Blue Pill Example on the main forum. Consider yourself saved, don't rush into an LTR. Spin some plates, figure out what you like and go from there. Everything you need is in the sidebar. 25 is still super young. Hell, 20 years from now you can be pulling sexy HB9s from 25 y/o beta boys.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:30 PM
2

Congratulations on the recognition! One of my good friends from high school made that list a few years ago, had his company bought out and got quickly plumped into the industry. He is still happy and successful but no longer living his dream. Just remember: “If you don't build your dream someone will hire you to help build theirs.” ― Tony A. Gaskins Jr.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 08:48 PM
1

20, Moved out of a shit town to the city to make something of myself. So what you're telling us is you lack self-control and independence? ;)
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:35 PM
1

What are you worried about? I carry on almost all my dates and I rarely have any issues. Even the few times I have it probably saved me time because I don't want to dick that politically leaning of a person anyway. I have had a few girls ask me to leave it in my car when we go to her place. This is a minor request I usually don't have a problem doing. As others have said, generally if she is feeling me up that much she has other things on her mind.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:53 PM
2

Soft skills are far more important than programming skills, than any skill to be honest. In business, in life and with women.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 11:57 PM
2

This. Abundance is the answer.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:01 PM
5

Cons I got a speeding ticket Dropped my last plate (I've been busy) I ordered the wrong parts for my car and might be out $60 as a result Still procrastinating working on a project for school. (Due in 5 weeks but it is large) Pros Weather is getting nicer; I hiked twice this week No plate -> No excuse to skip the gym Down 1.5lbs from last week (I'm cutting for summer) I went out twice including catching up with old friends Finished a project for grad school with top marks Hired an attorney to fi…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 04:52 PM
1

Keep it to yourself. You need to want the change not be doing it for social validation. Keep reading, keep lifting and don't break rule #1 of fight club.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 11:20 PM
7

We don't have enough info... You've already bugged her enough, soft next.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:58 PM
2

Funny you say that, my last 3 LTRs have all been nurses. The hard part with girls like that though is finding them. Any suggestions? I'm in a STEM program at school with almost 0 worthwhile women around. Online dating usually isn't worth trudging through all the shit to find a decent girl. Cold approaching would involve going out which aside from weekends I don't have time for.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:52 PM
1

Thank you for the response. I leave my weekends for myself or else I would go insane. Sometimes I'm down for dates but more often than not it is either me-time or time with the bros to unwind. I was skipping the gym and opting for bedroom cardio but I don't like doing it unless I have a high certainty the girl isn't going to flake. Things are probably done here, I could try to recover but it would be a MASSIVE break in frame. I have other girls I could attempt to start spinning but not really th…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 05:23 PM
3

All three are foundations the communities are based on. They are about bettering yourself, gaining confidence and communicating your needs/wants clearly. There is nothing Red/Blue Pill about them. The takeaways are the same as well. (The reasoning behind the takeaways differ slightly though) The same could be said for most self-help books.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:33 PM
1

You've already said it. If she really wants your attention she will work for it. Go find some chick actually worth your time.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 11:08 PM
25

Just ignore them bro, continue ghosting her. Don't even go out of your way to block the number. Just ignore it and it will go away. My ex LTR reached out a year and a half after we broke up. First message some sob story about how I am the better guy. I got it like 5 times from 3 different numbers, 2 different people on FB chat. Second message some angry shit about X,Y,Z, blah blah blah. I got this a few times too. Then I started getting calls from blocked strange numbers, ignored them all. Then …
/r/askTRP29/01/18 11:06 PM
3

Depends on the girl. I've seen plenty of 18-21 y/o with men ~40. A few don't care at all.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:29 PM
1

Who cares? She's a plate. Let's run a train.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:33 PM
6

TRP gives you the tools. It is up to you to apply them. No great artisan has been made without drafts. Similarly, no great man will be made without practice. The tools do you no good if you don't know how to use them. I'd take a rusty pocket knife in the hands of a skilled surgeon over an idiot with the sharpest scalpel.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 04:34 PM
1

I'm approaching this point with one of my plates currently. It almost always ends in one of two ways: Your way The "What are we" talk Sometimes you can recover and spin them a bit longer but ultimately they drop. Cest la vie, soft next.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 09:14 PM
7

Is she into you? -> Not a RP women because you are not a RP man. Read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 04:42 PM
5

Work makes up a majority of your life, of course, they are going to ask you about it. It is your job not be the beta provider, not to buy them drinks, not to buy them dinner because "you make more money". Hell, it is honestly none of their business how much you actually make. FWIW, you haven't even started work yet... Why are you so insecure about it? I can almost guaranty you won't be making enough to see a noticeable difference in these girls unless you drastically change how you act.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 04:22 PM
1

The biggest things a personal trainer gives you is a workout plan, the knowledge of how to do the lifts and accountability to do them. You don't need a top 2% trainer to get your lazy ass off the couch and into the gym properly lifting.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 04:34 PM
1

Relax, breath, kill it.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 09:03 PM
2

What works well for you? I can't sit still for long, reading books is very difficult for me. Listening to books on the other hand is easy. Plenty of free text-to-speech software out there. An even better option is to watch youtube videos. There are lectures out there for almost everything. I've taken entire math courses by watching online lectures while doing something else instead of going to my classes. I'm not saying this is a good idea but it works well for me. Find what works for you, not e…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 09:03 PM
4

The easiest way is to stay busy and focus on yourself. Write down goals and try to achieve them. Even if it is as simple as: Go to the store Say hi to one stranger Go the gym Read for 30 minutes Don't turn to substances, they are a crutch and will hurt you in the long run.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:12 PM
6

A personal trainer is a good idea if you can afford it. If not a 5x5 is a good program and you can watch videos on youtube to figure out how to lift properly. Start light and focus on form.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:43 PM
31

Why do you care? You're abroad, find abroad girls that are dtf. When you return home either those girls will be down or they won't. Let me sum this up for you: Abundance.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:35 PM
1

Keno. It is better to fail then to have not tried. Also ----------------->
/r/askTRP12/01/18 11:23 PM
2

Personally, I've found Tinder Gold to be a waste. I have had good success with the boosts though. Make sure you activate them during peak hours and it should greatly increase your exposure. I don't like sorting through all the shit on tinder unless I am really bored. Therefore I can't expect quality girls to either. Boosting moves you to the top of the stack for 30 minutes which IMO is more useful than knowing who likes you. Pro-tip: If you are out of likes then activate boost you get your likes…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:50 PM
2

I keep my pubic and armpit hair trimmed, The rest I leave alone. I've never had a girl complain but I have noticed girls seem to prefer when it is freshly trimmed.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:31 PM
17

Proceed as normal. She can always cancel plans with her "girlfriends" if you seem like more fun. Just make sure it ends on a good note. Not you being butthurt she is choosing to leave early.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:25 PM
2

Events are an awesome place to find girls. I've had great success at the local brewery tours, beerfests, wine tasting, etc.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 07:29 PM
3

"We still on for tonight?" No response: Soft Next, make other plans Response: Then you know Stop overthinking this.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:45 PM
3

Worth a read if you haven't read it before: Fate of Empires An increase in the influence of women in public life has often been associated with na-tional decline. The later Romans complained that, although Rome ruled the world, women ruled Rome. The issue is not women per se, it is feminine(BP) men.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 08:45 PM
1

and the sidebar
/r/askTRP05/01/18 09:48 PM
3

I carry a gun most of the time. If I am out drinking or somewhere I know will be crowded I carry mace instead. A stun gun is too personal for my liking. At that point, I'd either leg it or deal with it with my fists. Regardless, if you do it right no one should know you have it so no opinion can be cast.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 12:05 AM
2

4 is your best option for the time being. Programming requires passion and a specific way of thinking. Far too many people get into it because it sounds cool or they are interested in the pay then end up hating it. Find something you are passionate about and start there. There are so many amazing resources online to begin programming that there is no point to pay for something unless you know for certain it is what you want to do. I've found Coder Byte, Leetcode and Project Euler to be fun when …
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:52 PM
3

You're in the friendzone. Read the sidebar. I'd offer more but it is pointless when there is a far greater wealth of knowledge just clicks away.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:35 PM
4

Trust your gut. To be honest, you have already fucked things up. Stick around awhile and figure out why.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 07:45 PM
1

This is deleted now but perhaps we can salvage something beneficial. I'm always upfront with my plates that we are non-exclusive. They know this but they don't know of each other. Where this can run into issues is when they share the same friend circle either with or without my knowledge. It has happened twice where they find out about each other. Both times it caused some drama so I ended up soft nexting both then eventually dropping one. Is there a better way to handle this situation?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 07:33 PM
6

To echo the shouts. You say nothing, do nothing, ignore it. She will likely reach out a few times, maybe through friends, FB, whatever ignore it all. If anyone asks why you broke up it just "didn't work out". Don't give her any power over your life.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 08:28 PM
2

I agree that it is wise to text a girl after having sex with her the first time. You are doing this to protect yourself not because of anything she might feel. You ended things with this girl on good terms. Enjoy it for what it was and move on. You're clearly still hung up on her, I don't think it is oneitis as much as it is scarcity. Go out and find a new plate to replace the one you just dropped. Forget about her, she's already forgotten about you.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 04:50 PM
5

I'm 6' and prefer girls under 5'10". I've dated girls taller than me and wasn't a huge fan. That's just my preference though, I have friends who love taller girls. FWIW, 5'9" isn't that tall. Work on your self-esteem, you'll be fine. Just don't get fat ;)
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:57 PM
1

The car worked well for me until I had my own place.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 11:23 PM
2

I agree, women can usually net ONS with guys of higher SMVs. Men of low SMV, not so much. Remember Briffault's Law
/r/askTRP19/12/17 06:10 PM
4

Abundance. If you're concerned about her leaving you she is on a pedestal. You either need to increase your own SMV(which it sounds like you're doing) or remove her from the pedestal in your head.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:28 PM
3

Well said.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:51 PM
3

I wouldn't next her for that unless it bugs you. She's either seeking your attention or validation. Either way, she's still into you.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:51 PM
5

That is a fundamental difference between TRP and PUA. OP is basing his personal success on his success with women. Women should be a byproduct, not the goal itself. If good enough to get women is your measuring stick you're in the wrong place.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:37 PM
2

Screenshot the conversation and keep it saved just to cover your own ass if it comes back up. Otherwise, move on.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 06:43 PM
7

The question isn't about getting girls. The question is about being a better version of yourself. You're still plugged in.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 06:24 PM
1

I don't pay for tinder plus but I do find the boosts to be very helpful. There are too many people on Tinder and sifting through the shit blows. Tinder plus just encourages you to be a trash man, nty. I bought a "5-pack" of boost and used it randomly over the course of the month. Just the fact that it bumps you to the top of the stack will yield you WAY more matches than being stuck down in the shit. I don't have time to sift through the low->mid grade tinder sluts so I can't except girls to eit…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 06:18 PM
2

If she wasn't a oneitis I see no problem matching with her. Swipe right, invite her over. No go? ghost. Sometimes that little bit of familiarity and uncertainty adds a nice spice. Just remember, you control the frame and don't break it.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 06:11 PM
9

Do you think a girl fantasizes about being boned by a skinny dude? Have you seen any mainstream media where skinny dudes are the ideal image of masculinity? Pull your head out of your ass. This is a matter of good enough vs being the best you. If you want to be a complacent beta I'd suggest you find a new sub and stop spreading your blue pilled misconceptions.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 05:50 PM
11

There is a reason it is in the sidebar on the main sub. All of Rollo's work is excellent.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 06:08 PM
5

Why are you staying at home all day? What is stopping you from going out and making new friends? Cutting friends out after swallowing the pill is normal. Now you need to go out and live your life. If you stay at home all the time you will just be alone and depressed. Dale Carnegie has a few things to say about making friends. I suggest you read them if you haven't already.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 10:24 PM
4

Approach. Also, READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR!
/r/askTRP14/12/17 10:21 PM
1

I thought the aforementioned post was decent. Not because there were any Red Pill Truths in the text itself but because of the underlying message and the dialog that came out of it. The informed beta for lack of a better term is a trojan horse and of course, that breaks women. That breaks everyone. Imagine taking an HB10 to bed only to find a dick in her panties. This is exactly how the girl feels. She thought OP was Chad Thundercock only to discover the pussy hiding beneath the surface. To add …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 08:31 PM
1

You won't get the answers you are searching for here. It sounds like she is going out of her way to avoid IoIs so that is most likely an indicator that she is embarrassed or not interested. The only way to really know is to try. Light kino and escalation is your best bet. Alternatively, you could talk about it but that is much less likely to yield good results. Act quickly before you're pegged as her gay best friend ;) If you fail, talk to other girls. If you succeed, talk to other girls. The si…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:41 PM
17

More lies and eventually trickle truths followed by a bunch of nonsense emotions.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:12 PM
3

It is a very slippery slope when messing around with an ex especially if you don't have experience with other plates. You can catch a case of the feels and end up right back where you started. You are honestly better off ghosting her and looking elsewhere.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:44 PM
5

George Orwell feared a world where everyone was being watched, behaviors were forced, individualism illegal and freedom nonexistent. In the words of Keith Lowell: "What Orwell failed to predict is that we'd buy the cameras ourselves, and that our biggest fear would be that nobody was watching." The problem isn't being selfish, the problem is where you get your self-worth. We were trained by society to get external validation. We are so socially conditioned that we no longer fear being watched, w…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 12:21 AM
13

I have a front and rear-facing camera in my car. I have it set to record 24/7. Dumps the footage to my server at home when I park in the garage at night. Some of the best $300 I've spent. Blackvue 650S-2ch or the 750S-2ch
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 12:02 AM
2

Try no fap and you might have better experience. The issue is with your head not your dick.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:39 PM
3

Some girls are just like this. It's their ASD kicking in. If she was hot and it was the first date I wouldn't worry about it. She is obviously interested just it wasn't the right place/time/whatever. If you haven't kissed her the next time you go out I'd next her.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:01 PM
8

+1 on find better friends. Unless it was his ex or something that was completely unjustified.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:44 PM
2

Rollo's stuff can be a bit difficult to process at times. I think he has the most breadth and depth out of the authors here though so it is definitely worth the read. Especially his "Best of Year" posts. Corporate Land is where I'd start with Vasiliy, it is also linked in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:03 PM
2

Yes, Pook is very matter-of-fact and covers a lot of concepts. I prefer Uncle Vasiliy's writing style more though.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:47 PM
4

With my last LTR we used to frequent a gay club as it was one of the best places to party. Cheap drinks, good music, good culture. Gay men are much more forward than women are. Luckily, from what I've seen they are also pretty respectful. Usually, a simple "not interested", "in a relationship", etc will do. It is one of the few times you can enjoy the feminine privilege of having someone buy you a drink. Unless you are a homophobe just take it is a compliment and let him know you aren't interest…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:26 PM
1

Why do you expect them to notice you? Unless you're bringing something to the table you're just a 6'4 hunk of walking man meat. Perhaps that is where the disconnect it. Have you read the Book of Pook? This helped my ideology early on.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:50 PM
1

Try to have more fun with your approaches. Make the goal having fun not getting a number. Smile, be playful. Don't be afraid to bounce if they are killing your vibe. You can do this with anyone. Men, women, young, old. The point is to have fun, make yourself interesting, make these people want to be around you. Most peoples lives are mundane, make them smile and you won't get those cold vibes anymore. SMV helps with this but it is certainly not everything.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:23 PM
3

Try to take better/more interesting pictures. The problem is likely in your approach and not in your actual looks. Either you are going for too high SMV women or you're being awkward and weird doing it. The underlying issues here are usually lack of self-confidence and neediness. Tinder is a validation engine for women. If anything you should be using it to supplement your game, not in place of it. Unless you are 10/10 chad thundercock you will have better luck in person than online. It is a num…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:59 PM
1

Women won't start caring about money until they start approaching the wall. What they will care about is how 'fun' you are. This can benefit from having money but only so much.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:43 PM
5

I had a Honda Civic for my first car. It was a POS but was cheap, reliable and did its job. I kept that car for 4 years and had no problems with it. It took me to school, to work, to pick up girls, it just worked. I never heard anyone complain about it as I kept it fairly clean. The driver makes the car, not the other way around. When I graduated college I bought myself a much nicer car. The only thing that changed was I enjoyed driving more and got random resentment from my peers. It is funny h…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:57 PM
1

Women want plausible deniability. If you give that to them it doesn't matter what they say publically. In OPs situation she is on her way out. Take the advice of others and ghost her for a few days/weeks.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:49 PM
1

Get off your ass, go out and do it. Seriously, go to a skate shop, go to a park. Talk to someone, have them teach you. ps: being a skateboarder who plays guitar won't get you laid by itself.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:28 PM
9

Demote to plate like it obviously should be. Then again, you clearly have the feels for her so good luck. Enjoy the decline.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:16 PM
3

It's contextual; here is what you should do. ESCALATE as if it was a legitimate sign. If it wasn't, you just saved yourself from being an orbiter, next.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 10:28 PM
26

14 dates? You've made it 14 dates and only kissed her?!? What are you: Friends. If you want to be more you need to step your game up.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:28 PM
5

Go for a different girl. When you take her off the pedestal you can give her a go.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 08:41 PM
6

Congrats you're an orbiter now! Next.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:24 PM
3

"It's your lucky day" smirk
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:48 PM
1

I don't often post this link but it is worth sharing. http://esl-bits.net/ If you haven't read it Cat's Cradle is excellent. They have it in both text and audio.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:40 PM
1

Good shit brother. One thing that is always said but most readers fail to realize: TRP isn't about getting women. TRP is about bettering yourself as a man; women are a byproduct of this. Your field report shows this nicely. Well done, I look forward to your next report.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:15 PM
20

You'll learn more going out alone than you ever will going out with a group. Talk to everyone, not just the girls. Good luck
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:57 PM
37

You have to be careful with those false rape accusations though. Honestly, I'd soft next her now before you're her next victim.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 06:55 PM
8

Law 38: Think as you like but Behave like others There is absolutely no need to be an asshole to everyone. Amused mastery is a much better solution than calling people out on their bullshit. In the words of Dale Carnegie: Even if we are right and the other person is definitely wrong, we only destroy ego by causing someone to lose face. The legendary French aviation pioneer and author Antoine de Saint-Exupéry wrote: "I have no right to say or do anything that diminishes a man in his own eyes. Wha…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:17 PM
2

You can keep your account private on POF and still message people. Granted, next/demote your girlfriend. Branch swinging is for women.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:34 PM
2

Wait until last day. Approach, "Hey Y we should keep in touch, what's your number?" Now you don't sound like a creeper and you're not causing drama. Plenty of other girls out there in the meantime.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:57 PM
5

Fine. Go to her place and fuck her. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:41 PM
2

You don't respond. Trying too hard is even worse than not trying at all. If you see them IRL be cordial but continue doing what you were doing. Honestly, the best answer is to go out and do what fascinates you. Keep an inviting posture and talk to other people that seem to be enjoying it. My friend group has changed drastically since I finished my undergrad. The group I used to go out clubbing with every weekend I rarely see anymore. Things change, people change. If you're friendly, fun and do t…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:33 PM
18

I'd next her too. Not worth the drama. BTW, your English is solid. Drop the safety net at the end, you don't need it and it shows a lack of confidence.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 09:56 PM
2

Have you fucked her yet? No -> Not interested Yes -> Not interested
/r/askTRP22/09/17 09:52 PM
2

In my experience that one hot chick is never worth your time. Go out on campus and pick up on outside chicks or girls from your elective/Gen Ed classes. Girls love STEM guys and your options are much much better.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 03:45 PM
6

It's been a month... Move on and stop pedestalling her
/r/askTRP19/09/17 08:58 PM
19

Lifting too much/doing it wrong. Thinking people are judging you. Expecting instant results.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 07:10 PM
3

You shoved yourself in the betabux/friend-zone. Your best bet is to just pretend it never happened and soft next. Carry on just like you were originally. Keep it cordial. She will either be cool with this or it will drive the hamster nuts. Don't shit where you eat. Especially for a girl who is just playing games.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 06:41 PM
2

ghost her. Anyone who believes that shit isn't worth your time. Just document shit. If she really goes crazy you will want all the info you can to turn over to the police.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:36 PM
4

This question comes up like every week. You can use it to supplement your game but you're still better off approaching.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:20 PM
1

I switched from carrying at 4 o'clock to 1 due to concealment issues while at school. I find it prints considerably less here as it follows the contour of my hip. Larger guns aren't comfortable here but with something like a PPS you should be able to easily do it. That or shift more to a 6 o'clock position so it rests in the middle of your back.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 07:06 PM
1

You might need to change your CCW based on what you are wearing. During the summer I switch to appendix carrying my Glock 43. I can hide that under just about anything. You need to find a system that works well for you and what you wear. You may still get minor printing but I've never had an issue with it.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 05:59 PM
4

Honestly, cutting my ex out of my life was the best thing I ever did. Take some time for yourself and cultivate new relationships. Once you have a few plates or have at least played the field a bit you can reconnect with your ex if you really feel like it. What you're doing now is like an open relationship which IMO isn't healthy for either of you. The easy solution often isn't the best. If you keep at this you're only going to cause drama and heartache. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 10:27 PM
2

If she is a virgin at 22 there is a reason. Sounds like you're her girlfriend...
/r/askTRP15/09/17 08:39 PM
4

Your post will get better traction with the MRAs than people here. Regardless, proof-read and reformat your post if you want to be taken seriously.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 03:57 PM
9

Very good, timely post to remind us of the gynocentric world we live in. Enjoy the decline professor.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 03:50 PM
2

What happened here is you became partially unplugged, rattled and plugged back in. Read up on cognitive dissonance. I believe Rollo has covered it and it commonly comes up here. Pro-tip: Start living for yourself, find validation in yourself and not in others. If you're as red pilled as you claim you would understand this. Give NMMNG another read.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 03:30 PM
24

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 10:08 PM
4

All she is looking for is validation. You are best off deflecting or ignoring it all together. If it was me I'd just give her a smirk and change the subject.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:48 PM
3

Still up for drinks? If she responds, great you got a date. If she doesn't, great at least you know. If you are too lazy just move on. Not that hard.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:47 PM
1

Exactly what I was thinking, well said.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:33 PM
1

Or you know... Go to school.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:30 PM
1

CS here, I'm working on a Masters in CS&ETM which might be up your alley. I chose this route as it sounded more interesting than an MBA. Business can be blended with just about anything, no need to throw away your existing education.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 08:38 PM
3

Sit her down and lay it all out. No trickle truths, everything. If she walks out you just saved yourself some trouble. Good luck OP. This is a hard conversation. Hopefully, she sees your sincerity.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 06:05 PM
12

Now that you're attractive they don't want to seem interested publically. In person or via PMs you will see a change.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 09:36 PM
2

The first chapter is just describing a "Nice Guy". The following chapters describe activities to kill the Nice Guy. Pen & paper would be a good idea.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:59 PM
2

No, I pulled that from the link someone posted a long time ago about a free copy of the book. The site he posted had it wrapped in a flash player, I just extracted the direct link so you can download it.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 05:19 PM
17

http://yourlisten.com/player/director/16905599.mp3 Cheers.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:29 PM
2

Books won't solve your problem. You need experience. Talk to everyone. Young, old, men, women, everyone. How to Win Friends & Influence People is a great book to start. Buy a hard copy and really absorb it.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 05:35 PM
1

Get a job, get your own place, go back to school. This is seriously the best thing you can do for yourself and for your relationship with your mother. In other words, stop being a lazy POS and make something of yourself.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 03:34 PM
5

Get out, do something that you're interested in and talk to people. You'll quickly find like minded individuals and build your network.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:17 PM
1

I had my "ah ha" before discovering TRP. The Rational Male Year One really resonated with me though. I'd suggest starting there. It is free and covers a lot of content.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:40 PM
2

What do you think she was dreaming about when she woke up horny? Why doesn't she get the same way when she thinks about seeing you? Answer these and you'll find the crux of your problem -> you.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 07:11 PM
2

Perhaps he's sociable, has a personality and can hold frame. You should try it.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:23 PM
1

Does it matter? Were they receptive? Are they attractive? Best case you just picked up a plate. Worst case you probably just made someone's day. Unless your version of flirting involves sending unsolicited dick pics it is harmless. Move on.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:15 PM
4

STDs. Wants kids now. Victim mentality. Devoted ideology. (Feminism, politics, religion, etc) No job/direction.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:43 PM
3

Why do you think it shows abundance? If I was buying dinner for every girl I asked out my ass would be broke and I'm certainly not poor. I'd suggest always keeping first dates simple. Go grab a coffee, drinks, walk, etc.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 09:04 PM
2

I don't have time to formalize this properly but it comes down to hypergamy. I think the link /u/Docbear64 posted above covers it well. From that Hypergamy can manifest as a desire for resources, superior genes, social status – any of these things. People tend to get caught up on the material when thinking of hypergamy, but to really distil it down to its fulcrum, hypergamy means “a woman will only date someone she believes to be superior to her”.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 08:35 PM
0

All Women Are Like That. All, not some. Men are intrinsically above women. That doesn't mean you should treat them like a whore. Men love women, women love children, children love puppies. Remember this. Read Me: Women in Love
/r/askTRP28/07/17 07:57 PM
14

Status. Different girls like different things. All girls like what other girls can't have.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 07:47 PM
4

In before, "My phone died", "No service"... Ghost her at this point, enjoy your new life OP.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 07:08 PM
1

Perhaps you have not read up on abundance. ----> Regardless of what you do now when things do go south(and they will) You'll be that "controlling asshole" anyway.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 06:55 PM
4

She's a plate She's a plate Soft next and pick up another
/r/askTRP28/07/17 06:03 PM
1

Be a man and take control.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 05:57 PM
2

I'd stop responding after this too. Let the hamster run all weekend. Ambiguity is a bitch.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 05:14 PM
16

"Don't worry we'll burn those calories off ;)"
/r/askTRP28/07/17 05:00 PM
2

I'd break up with her now, you can use the last 3 weeks as an excuse and just mention you should take a break. If she goes on damage control I'd soft next. If she doesn't seem to care or gets angry. Ghost her and be happy we just saved you months of trickle truth.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:45 PM
2

Great work Rollo, I look forward to reading it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:44 PM
34

If you are 90% tempted the hell is holding you back? Next. It need not be said but AWALT.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:11 PM
1

As most people with nice cars will tell you. You get more attention from old dudes than you will from girls. Learn game and leave the car at the dealership.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 09:35 PM
2

Some of the best sex I had with my last LTR was after we broke up. Fucked the shit out of here then made her leave. She couldn't get enough of it at first then she realized I had absolutely no interest in her other than as a sex object and stopped calling. This was months after we broke up. If I had done it shortly after the beta feels likely would have come back. This was my first real world eye opener to what TRP says. Shame I wasted all those previous years with shitty sex when all she wanted…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 06:26 PM
1

'I believe in equality' is the line I normally use then try to take the conversation in a different direction. You'll never win arguing with a feminist, if she is persistent you are better off soft nexting her.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 05:39 PM
4

They will use it as a shit test but no, I don't think it matters. I've fucked plenty of girls from my previous life. "Wow, I never thought you would be..." Just make and hold frame. When they realize they can't walk all over you anymore you'll have your shot. AWALT.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:55 PM
1

From freshman year of HS through almost all of College. First five years were great. Last 2.5 were my former-self trying to hold things together. Live and learn, you can't change the past only better your future.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 07:55 PM
2

Go to the gym, get out of the house, make new friends.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 10:19 PM
4

"I don't talk about my past relationships" Repeat as needed
/r/askTRP18/07/17 10:09 PM
27

Walked out on my 7.5 year LTR at 22 as well. Keep ghosting her, I tried to stay sociable for a few months but just got sick of the shit. I haven't talked to her for almost 2 years now and have never been happier. Focus on yourself. Whatever you do, never bring her up unless you are explicitly asked.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 10:02 PM
3

Hard next and don't say a damn word to her or about her.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:07 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter