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panhandlur/r/seduction07/07/22 12:26 PM
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Conversationpanhandlur/r/seduction05/06/22 07:39 PM
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I sent first, asking how she was & how her work thing was moving. Let's see what happens. Agree that the ball technically was in her camp, but felt confident and sent anyway. Regarding the "she blew you off" - comment: possible, but I'd prefer to hear it a bit more clear-cut if that's the case.
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:41 PM
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You're doing great, have fun!
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:31 PM
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Wouldn't do it over text. Try to get her to do a one-on-one activity with you. If she doesn't want to, it's a no for sure. If she does, try to flirt, touch her carefully, tell her you want to kiss her or try to kiss her. Then it will become perfectly clear. Usually it doesn't work when you try to get with a girl you've been friends with, but there are exceptions.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:01 PM
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It would bother me, too. Sounds like you need to talk it out with her. The questions you proposed, seem good starter points. Better to say it out loud than to keep it bottled in.
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:50 PM
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Ending a date at a high is good, but I have experienced that cutting it short can give off an impression you don't want. She may think you're not interested after all. The museum is a nice activity, but it's not the ideal place to get more personal/intimate. I've had a good experience taking a girl to a museum and chilling at a park afterwards, would recommend it!
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:56 AM
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A nice park maybe?
/r/seduction09/06/22 05:46 PM
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Being too pushy / insistent.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:49 PM
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Your heightened awareness is a strength, not a weakness. People like it when you actively listen to them, offer good conversation, pick up on their emotions... If you're under the influence, that's almost impossible. You can never be emotionally self-sufficient if you're dependent on drugs, attention, affirmation... I think it's important to really strive to be content with who you are. Easier said than done, of course.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:28 PM
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Of course this is positive! Great that you've overcome your anxiety and asked her. Now I think it's important to get her to agree to a definite date. And think about what you want to do after visiting the history museum.
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:46 PM
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Quick update: since I asked her out two and a half days ago, she hasn't replied. I think she was more friendly than interested, and it's time for me to abandon this pursuit. Still glad I tried; thanks again for the reactions!
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:21 PM
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The idea that you were more successful when you were on drugs is your addiction trying to trick you into using again. Don't listen to it. No sensible woman wants a relationship with a drugged-out 29 year-old. The ones who do, are not who you want.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:10 AM
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Thanks for the helpful responses! After I left her on read for a day or so, she hit me up me again today. I told her I was looking forward to seeing her again. She quickly responded that she felt the same way. I rebutted by asking her to grab a drink over the weekend. Still waiting for a response. My interest is probably clear now, so let's hope she doesn't back away. Anyway, whatever happens, I'm glad I gave it a shot.
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:31 AM
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