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| 1 | So I'm a hardcore people pleaser, which seems like a bad thing for attracting people. My issues mainly come with attempting to make people laugh and not make them mad. How do I break this bad habit?Yeah I fall in line with the first paragraph more 🙃 | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 10:45 PM |
| 10 | So I'm a hardcore people pleaser, which seems like a bad thing for attracting people. My issues mainly come with attempting to make people laugh and not make them mad. How do I break this bad habit?I realized some tendencies that were very similar to the book and what not, however, none of those realizations really "changed" me if that makes any sense. I couldn't do some of the activities because of logistics at the time (i.e. take a trip by yourself) but most of the ones that involved writing about yourself and stuff never really helped | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | So I'm a hardcore people pleaser, which seems like a bad thing for attracting people. My issues mainly come with attempting to make people laugh and not make them mad. How do I break this bad habit?Any advice for working on self? | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | So I'm a hardcore people pleaser, which seems like a bad thing for attracting people. My issues mainly come with attempting to make people laugh and not make them mad. How do I break this bad habit?Could you please elaborate? | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 07:03 PM |
| 7 | So I'm a hardcore people pleaser, which seems like a bad thing for attracting people. My issues mainly come with attempting to make people laugh and not make them mad. How do I break this bad habit?Yeah, I got the theory behind it, but a lot of the "solutions" didnt really click for me. | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 06:57 PM |
| 2 | This shit is so fucking hardLifting kind of makes me feel like shit sometimes. Theres a voice that says I can't do it a lot more than it should | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 02:22 AM |
| 2 | This shit is so fucking hardLifting makes me feel like shit sometimes. I feel weak and theres always a voice saying I can't do it | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 02:20 AM |
| 1 | This shit is so fucking hardBut really how much better can you get? Can you honestly say you're 100% without insecurity? | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 04:37 PM |
| 10 | This shit is so fucking hardI appreciate the advice. I think I need to take it to heart. The only problem is I'm not too sure about what I like. I know i like running, video games, books and movies, but I dont know if those are too great of "self worth" building hobbies. Weight training makes me feel like shit when I dont do good. Not sure what else i should do | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 06:44 AM |
| 1 | I have a deformed head. I think I'm beyond the typical help this sub gets.How has your success been? | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity when I was 16 - I've slept with 22 different girls now, and I'm 18 yrs old. Here's my most honest guide on how I've done it.See I just cant get flirting down. If I apply it I'm too heavy handed or desparate or goofy. If I lighten up, I'm too light and I'm just friendly | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Can you get away without being that witty?Its hard to find that line sometimes until you cross it, then it's just too late | /r/seduction | 24/07/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | 100 Women in 50 Days Update, and how I got gamed by a beautiful saleswomanSee this series every once and a while, but haven't gotten around to reading. How much success has this netted you so far in terms of dates or lays | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Sense of self worth tied to relationship status. How do I fix this?Thanks for the help homie | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Sense of self worth tied to relationship status. How do I fix this?I appreciate the advice man. You're probably right about me needing to take more chances. I've been shooting my shot in an area I'm not comfortable (bars) and probably getting negative reinforcement because of it. If I change my area to a more day game type of thing, itll probably be better | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Sense of self worth tied to relationship status. How do I fix this?I'm not asking for pitty. I'm just saying that I don't really like bars or the party scene. If I told you to go pick up chicks at the rodeo, and you fucking hate the rodeo, how good do you think you're going to be or how bad would you want to go? And I think the desire for a relationship is making me needy, and I don't know how to fix it, seeking advice from some who might have had the same issue. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Sense of self worth tied to relationship status. How do I fix this?Definitely not enough. However I don't like the bars. I don't really like dancing or drinking that much. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Sense of self worth tied to relationship status. How do I fix this?While that sounds good, it isn't very good when you aren't getting any, and havent for years | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Sense of self worth tied to relationship status. How do I fix this?Love it. Just wondering what I can start doing to appreciate myself that doesn't tie to other people | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | My two cents on “Models”I see both points. If you're in college there are a lot of causal people out there if you're a more serious dude And if you're in college its kind of hard to just decide to drop out for the pussy lol | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Kill the science/intellectual talkMaybe thats just who you are and what you care about, and maybe you should align your demographic more with how you like to talk. If you love talking about theoretical physics, and can't help yourself from talking about theoretical physics, then take it to a convention with like minded people instead of taking it to a club where you're going to be talking to club chicks who don't really have an interest in that. And if thats not an option, make it relatable to your demographic. For instance, I t… | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 02:35 PM |
| 0 | When talking to people, being normal feels boring, while going into "fun mode" feels like over kill. Either way I feel like I'm screwed, what do I do?The other day at work we had these two girls come in. One of my co-workers were like "Oh my gosh they're such a cute couple" To which I said. "Do you know if they're lesbian?" to which she said "No but they should be." I said, "Go and find out, tell them congratulations and ask when the baby is due!" (jokingly) and my co worker goes, "Oh my god you're so awkward!!" | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Models by Mark Manson - What is Neediness?Short and sweet version: If you ever think "I'll do this to get her/them to like me" = needy If you think "i want to do this, and I'm doing it because I want to do it"= not needy Basically, you should make yourself as happy as possible without other people | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Really weird question but... How do you take a proper shower and be groomed for the day?Wash rag, loofah, or just the bar of soap? Thanks for answering!! | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | I've been "virgin shamed" by 2 girls in the last week. I'm 18 years old and it hurts bad. What gives?Dude you cant be talking to freshman in high school, thats illegal as shit. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Friends girlfriend who’s relationships on the edge has been flirting super heavily with me. I’ve somewhat fallen for her and she’s given me every opportunity to pursue her further.Shes probably using you to make him jealous. And if it comes down to it where you guys are going to do something, ask yourself if you're willing to throw your guy friend away forever, or maybe even get your ass kicked. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Read "How To Be a 3% Man" & 99% of your questions will be answeredNot really. What's the alternative? | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 06:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - First night practicing game. Complete blow outs everywhere, pretty sure I'm just hideous.So how many approaches have you done since you started? | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 06:17 PM |
| -4 | I have trouble landing 7s and 8s, what do I do?I'm pretty lazy, and afraid of putting in the effort for it to only not pay off | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | My confidence is completely goneTry jacking off and porn less. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Girl bolted after finding condom wrapperDepends, did you tell her you were exclusive? | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | The most common mistake I see hereif you're getting good signals keep pushing. That feeling when you don't get good signals | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Be careful of who you take advice from on hereYou can see their comments are made within hours of each other sometimes | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 02:00 AM |
| 9 | Be careful of who you take advice from on hereFirstly, I'm not trying to name names, secondly, I don't really care enough to go digging for it, but the other day I found a post titled "I'm a pussy" and was talking about how he pussed out of an approach or something. I had a sneaking suspicion, so I checked his post history, and next thing I saw was him telling someone else about assuming attraction, etc. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 07:33 PM |
| 7 | I'm a pussygive me motivation this is why you can't get girls i don't wanna be a lonely chode forever! this is your motivation | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 10:47 AM |
| 6 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.Excellent post, just have to say that your user name is amazing. | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 04:55 AM |
| 3 | STOTD - Would you fuck my friend?I really struggle with the while try hard aspect. Can you give me tips to not be try hard? | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 09:48 AM |
| 42 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)This sub has the dumbest yet funniest comments I've ever seen | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 09:45 AM |
| 6 | Ever tried going out with a wedding ring on?If you're in school on spring break and wearing a wedding ring, people are going to be wondered why the fuck you got married so early | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.I don't see how being social is being a sheep, but okay | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.Where did I say kiss ass? | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.Care to elaborate? | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 09:05 PM |
| -11 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.Maybe you had a different experience during school, maybe you're in a different country, maybe you had a kick ass friend group. Either way I know for a fact I'm not totally alone in this experience, and that many people out there find the whole social game of college annoying. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.Follow the golden rule: "Saturday is for the boys" Boom you're good | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 06:42 PM |
| -1 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.I remember at my old job I overheard these girls looking forward to their first year of college and how, "They're going to get sprayed with champagne" etc. Its so dumb how obsessed with status a ton of these girls are. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 06:24 PM |
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