If I ever talk to people and just be normal, I feel kind of boring, and like people aren't that interested in what I have to say. Or even if they are, its in a very friendly kind of way. I know the recommendation here is "turn the conversation sexual" but it never feels like a smooth transition, and is usually met with some bad results.

If I go into "fun mode" I'll get laughs and jokes back at me, but I'll often get "Oh my god you are so weird!" Or "So awkward!!" or awkward pauses. Even the "You remind me of my little brother" thing.

It feels like either way it doesn't work out for me.

What do i do?