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| 2 | I don't believe my "product" when I go outOf course. You work on yourself, gain more confidence, and overall understand and appreciate yourself. Overall, you will accept yourself. Then you'll see no need to hide who you really are. Who you really are may be pretty fucking awesome! Lastly, I recommend you look into meditating and read all the great material on inner game in this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I don't believe my "product" when I go outAw shit I got my authors mixed up! Thanks, man! | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 01:11 PM |
| 21 | I don't believe my "product" when I go outI honestly think you need to stop pursuing girls - for now - and work on yourself. Girls will find you attractive temporarily but they will lose interest in the long run when they find out you don't believe in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself then no one will. Any girl worth pursuing will not be interested in you. You will only attract shitty women who have self esteem or other emotional issues themselves. You probably don't want someone with daddy issues, you want someone who has thei… | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 01:05 PM |
| 2 | So... how do you guys avoid getting girlfriends all the time?I took the self improvement route aka inner game rather than outer game. With inner game you improve yourself. You improve your self esteem, your standards and overall life. I respect myself and know I only deserve the best. The result of this is meeting a lot of women who just don't cut it for me. 2 years ago I'd obsess over any woman who would talk with me for longer than 20 seconds. But now, only the best will do. No mediocre women for me. Too bad my city is filled with insecure and unhappy w… | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 07:46 PM |
| 1 | For different girls, do you guys do different first dates? Or do you have a sort of template you go by each time more or less?I take them wherever I feel like. I hate doing the same thing twice so it's usually something different each time. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Tired of the hunt?Ah, my dear boy do I have a lesson for you! As an older hunter, I have a few things to share. Okay, I'm only 2 years older than you but just roll with it. Its been over a year since starting and I've also had amazing adventures. I've had threesomes, I've had amazing sexual encounters, I've had anal sex with a stripper while she was on break on the hood of my car, and I've had my butthole licked. As I tell you my adventures, I get nostalgic but I don't feel the need to keep going. I've had sex wi… | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 10:40 AM |
| 3 | Simple guide to asking a girl out. 1. Have a plan and 2. In the words of Shia Labeouf, just do it!Thank you. Sorry to hear about your death. | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Simple guide to asking a girl out. 1. Have a plan and 2. In the words of Shia Labeouf, just do it!Dude. Fuck yes! | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Simple guide to asking a girl out. 1. Have a plan and 2. In the words of Shia Labeouf, just do it!That's the real way. Remember treat her like a child and dominate her. Your advice works well on immature, feeble-minded girls with self-esteem issues. Take my advice into consideration when you want to start dating real women. | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 10:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Took a girl from Tinder hiking, went back to my place, F-CloseThe biggest victory is the fact that she wasn't a man, a serial killer, or an organ dealer in the black market, or all three. | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 07:46 PM |
| 3 | I spend 30 minutes a day reading this pdf on DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy). It's made me more confident, less of an asshole, and given me the ability to relate to women and see myself as an equal, and not as some chump.Copy, paste it to MS Word (or similar software), then change font. Happy reading. | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 11:37 PM |
| 2 | How to start with old flames again?Depends on the condition that you left the relationship in. 1: If you two ended it on good terms then you can reach out to her. Ask her out for a cup of coffee, drink, etc to catch up. Take it from there. Keep in mind that this hardly ever works. 2: If you two ended it on nasty terms you can try to patch things up. You can ask for forgiveness and try to get back together. Keep in mind that this rarely works and isn't recommended. Once shit ends on a sour note, it rarely works out in the future. … | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 02:51 AM |
| 20 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid.It's been a while but fuck it, here are the most important lessons I've learned: Love yourself. If you can't put effort into caring for yourself, no one else will. Hygiene and good clothes go a long way. Groom your hair and beard, brush your teeth, follow tips that your mother gave you about hygiene! Good clothes don't have to be expensive. I've seen people look fucking awful in expensive ass clothes (look at the guys in Ed Hardy clothes). Clothes must fit you well and match your colors well, ch… | /r/seduction | 07/03/15 03:20 AM |
| 0 | Throwaway - I'm fucked up inside me.You need to read models again, especially chapter 4. You need to come to come to terms with your problems. Acknowledging them is only half the battle because you need to accept and change your problems. For instance, you said you need validation from others. You think picking up a girl will solve the trick. It's okay I was guilty of it too; a lot of us were/are. Approaching a girl just for validation is not honest approach and she'll know your approach, your compliments, and every word coming ou… | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Infographic: Where the Singles areIs San Antonio an exception then? | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Infographic: Where the Singles areDamn that's a shame. I always thought Texas would be home to beautiful women. But the only time I spent in Texas was waiting for a layover flight in Dallas. | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 01:25 AM |
| 3 | How to flirt your co-workerDon't shit where you work. If you and your coworker date then break up, your job goes to shit. If you date and fall in love... your job goes to shit. Source: personal experience. | /r/seduction | 27/01/15 01:17 PM |
| 3 | I avoid escalation, because it may lead to sex (and I'm intimidated by that).Thanks, man! Put it this way, we're part of the circle of life - lame Lion King reference but bear with me - so what is our purpose? We are born, we reproduce, and die. Humans found more meaning and purpose but overall, every single animal reproduces and dies. This means we were born to fuck. It's literally in our nature, it's hard wired in our DNA to have sex. You already have everything you need to have a great time! | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 01:59 PM |
| 32 | I avoid escalation, because it may lead to sex (and I'm intimidated by that).Let's address this! I've only had one sexual partner in my life. You have to accept that this isn't a big deal. I don't know why having one sexual partner is such a stigma among men. Most women won't care if you had sex with one woman in your life. Most women would actually trust you for having one partner as it shows you're not a man-whore who has had sex with countless women. Have you been with your ex long? If so, then you had so many chances to get better at pleasing her in bed. Being with a… | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...Why thank you! Not everyone likes strawberry sorbet but it tastes damn good so those people are missing out. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...I've seen it myself. I've seen deaf people, blind people, and people who are physically disabled in beautiful relationships. Life is beautiful and if you spend your time wallowing in self-pity and in self-doubt then you're wasting it. We are capable of so much, man. Just live each day the best that you can. You'll find joy soon enough. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 03:49 PM |
| 16 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...Dude, you're a fucking champ! Don't think rejection happens because you aren't good enough. Rejection has nothing to do with you so there is nothing wrong with you. We will always be rejected and it's not always our fault. Perhaps the girl you approach just got dumped and is fed up with men. Maybe she's married or has a boyfriend, maybe she's on her period, or perhaps she had a shitty day and all she wants to do is blow some steam with her girl friends. Or maybe you two aren't compatible. There … | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Drugs aren't all bad. Sometimes they can change your perspective of life completely.Smoking pot helped me realized how unhappy I was with my life. I smoked it once as an escape from a stressful month and it put my once shit life into perspective. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Tips for messaging girls on facebook.I always feel like I'm owed something, when I know the entire world does not absolutely owe me a fucking thing, and it makes me want to fucking break something. Just because the world doesn't owe you anything doesn't mean you don't deserve anything. You deserve much better than this because you are valuable. If you plan wisely and work hard there is no reason why you shouldn't get the best. You can do it, man. Remember, you deserve the best! | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 06:49 PM |
| 4 | A Book in Review: Models by Mark MansonYes and no. I worked in real estate and while commissions nearly pushed me to 6 figures, I hated everything about it. I had to sell a piece of my soul to earn my clients trust which killed me. My lifestyle is much more modest now but damn I'm happy. You say you're miserable but is your lifestyle worth it? | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Tips for messaging girls on facebook.I don't think you're weak at all, man. No one here thinks you're a pussy, a weakling, or vulnerable. Don't think you aren't commiting suicide because you don't have the balls because suicide is the cowards way out. So the way I see it, you aren't killing yourself because you have the balls to live. You have the courage to keep pushing forward, to keep fighting for a better life. I used to be depressed when I was your age and even had suicidal thoughts. I'm 24 now and have learned that life is so… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Tips for messaging girls on facebook.Dude, if that's how you feel then you need to tell your parents about it. Tell your parents how you feel so they can help you. Suicidal thoughts are nothing to dismiss even if you rarely have them so long as you actually have them. You think joining the Marines can help but a lot of people suffer mentally if they aren't in a good mental state. I've seen stories of depressed people going in the millitary who end up killing themselves from all of the pressure. Plus, war will leave you broken with … | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Tips for messaging girls on facebook.I hope you're joking. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 12:35 PM |
| 40 | A Book in Review: Models by Mark MansonAs a guy who read this book, you're review is spot on to what the book actually is. If I may, I'm going to ad another thing to your review. While the book is about being honest and vulnerable, it's also about improving yourself. Mark talks about improving your lifestyle because living a lifestyle that you don't like makes you unattractive. If we pursue a lifestyle and success just to receive validation from society it's needy behavior therefore unattractive. This whole time I thought that the on… | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 01:32 PM |
| 1 | A tip for you to use tonight if you find that you weren't able to lay down enough game by midnight...Hehe all right ;) | /r/seduction | 01/01/15 12:36 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Warming up at the barExcellent job, man. Flirting with a waitress, hostess, busser, etc isn't easy so I salute you! Isn't awesome not giving a shit about rejection? It's liberating! | /r/seduction | 01/01/15 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Year in review: Changed my life, repaired my relationship with my brother, and "tried new things." Thank you so much, Seddit!Not saying if I did or didn't but lets just say he found out why I call myself penismissle ;) | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Year in review: Changed my life, repaired my relationship with my brother, and "tried new things." Thank you so much, Seddit!I hope you didn't fall for the Vector Marketing lie! You're right about discovering yourself. It's amazing how we discover what were capable of in regards to attraction and other aspects of life. I hope you've discovered yourself as well and hope you also had success. Thank you for the wishes they mean a lot to me, man. Best of luck in the future and may your new year be much better than the last! | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Grooming Products, something this sub often overlooksI'm glad you know the value of a good cologne, op. I tell my guy friends that I wear cologne which causes them to react negatively. They think cologne is girly so they are confused as to why I use it. Guys, the reason why we wear cologne is because Axe, Old Spice, Tag sprays smell like shit. It smells cheap and its overbearing. Lastly, when wearing cologne remember less is more. You can wear a shit ton of it and overwhelm those around you. Or use small portions so you can smell good without maki… | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Bootcamps - Worth the money?That's not rape as you said but if they're unwelcome advances then, in legal terms, it's assault. I haven't seen the videos but if his advances were welcomed and were enjoyed by the girls then hey, good for them. You can go ahead and try that for yourself but don't be surprised if women react negatively. Everyone is different so while one thing works on a person, it may be perceived negatively by another. We should also be careful because we could get into legal trouble. People sue others for th… | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Bootcamps - Worth the money?No problem, man! | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Bootcamps - Worth the money?I never seen any either but I've only seen old videos from Julien and Tyler so I don't know what their new stuff is about. They could have existed at one point but were deleted after they got bad publicity. I read this blog post which the writter states she was matched with Julien on Tinder and shows screenshots of their conversation. But what's interesting is the writter also posted screenshots of Julien's tweets which are pretty shitty. I checked Julien's Twitter account and found nothing. May… | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Bootcamps - Worth the money?Oh I'm not looking for a coach or bootcamp. I was just giving more info on Julien based on what I googled. Thanks anyway! | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Bootcamps - Worth the money?I googled Julien's name and found out he is in deep shit. He was deported from Australia while people from Canada and the UK signed petitions to ban him from their countries. Officials from Korea and Japan say they plan to ban him as well. Apperantly, he sexually assaulted several girls in Japan and did other shady shit. I only watched one video from Julien which seemed okay but according to critics, his new material is pretty shady. They say he resorts to manipulation and physical force to sedu… | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Year in review: Changed my life, repaired my relationship with my brother, and "tried new things." Thank you so much, Seddit!I'm on my cell right now and it can't load the site very well. I'll make sure to check it out! I finished Couch to 5k so now I'm on a half-marathon training program. So I'll be running more and more within the next 12 weeks. It also incorperates strength training so I'm doing that 3 days a week. Overall, I run 6 days a week, lift 3 days a week, and rest one day. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Year in review: Changed my life, repaired my relationship with my brother, and "tried new things." Thank you so much, Seddit!Wow. When I read your comment I was speechless. It's really flattering that my post touched you. What you said means a lot to me. I never thought I would inspire anyone like I inspired you. Don't know what you're going through but with hard work, careful planning, and persistence, you'll be able to get through this! If you need someone to talk to feel free to pm me, man. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Year in review: Changed my life, repaired my relationship with my brother, and "tried new things." Thank you so much, Seddit!Thank you. Glad you liked it. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Year in review: Changed my life, repaired my relationship with my brother, and "tried new things." Thank you so much, Seddit!You're spot on, my friend! I don't know how some guys expect to seduce anyone when they live shitty lives and have no self-respect. Too bad critics of this sub don't get it either. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 06:55 PM |
| 2 | "Start making yourself into the type of person people want to be around"I highly recommend you don't quit programming. Even if it won't make you friends - it can btw, more on that later - it will help you out in the future. It will open you up to new career choices if you get good enough. In the long run, programming will help you. Anyway, what I recommend. You say you go out, go to the mall, get a coffee, etc. That's great but are you actually talking to people? You must reach beyond your comfort zone by actually approaching people. A popular exercise - which wasn'… | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 06:47 PM |
| 6 | Year in review: Changed my life, repaired my relationship with my brother, and "tried new things." Thank you so much, Seddit!Models really is a good take on everything. Sure we can try cheap tricks but they'll only get us so far! | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 11:11 PM |
| 4 | Year in review: Changed my life, repaired my relationship with my brother, and "tried new things." Thank you so much, Seddit!I love you, man. When this all gets sorted out, I think you and me should get an apartment together! | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 11:10 PM |
| 6 | I'm starting everything from scratch. Where do I start?That's much better than, "Mark Manson sucks stay away from him" so thank you for an insightful answer. Although I don't agree with your opinion, I respect it. Honestly, Mark Manson offered me solid advice on valuing myself, respecting myself, and helped improve my confidence. His advice on getting rid of approach anxiety even worked. I've come a long way and I'm extremely happy. Of course, I don't credit all of my progress to him because I've followed different advice from people such as RSD Tyl… | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 09:15 PM |
| 8 | I'm starting everything from scratch. Where do I start?If I can help 1 guy get good I have done my job. But you're not even doing that! If you want to help at least 1 guy get good you'd actually have to write something valuable. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 06:43 PM |
| 4 | I'm starting everything from scratch. Where do I start?Fuck yes! It really teaches you so much and attraction is just the icing on the cake. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 06:42 PM |
| 5 | my TEN COMMANDMENTS of seddit....Ok but still haha | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 08:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A little thing I do to get a hostess's numberThat's hardcore! | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off?D: | /r/seduction | 22/12/14 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off?Before /r/seduction I wasn't picky at all. I would jump at any girl who showed any interest in me. After /r/seduction, I've gotten fairly picky or at least increased my standards. So the following things turn me the fuck off: Girls who wear too much make up, hate glamed up barbie dolls Brand-whores. So anyone who must have a Coach Bag, name brand jeans, blouse, and shit. Nothing is hotter than a woman whose so confident in her own skin that she doesn't need to wear Michael Kors everything and wi… | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 12:46 PM |
| 16 | Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off?That's enough internet for me for today. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 12:34 PM |
| 5 | Fuck Yes or No (xpost /r/how not to give a fuck)You couldn't be more correct, sir! It's better for a woman to reject you right away rather than waste your days, weeks, or even months leading you on. Since most people - both women and men - don't have the courage to reject someone, the best we can do is to be alert and be brave to walk away when needed! | /r/seduction | 16/12/14 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Quit Doubting Your Abilities!I like how your goals are very specific so it seems like you're a guy who knows exactly what he wants. Yes, your goals are shallow but as long as you're happy and not hurting anyone. There are women out there who just want sex so I screen the women I meet so I don't hurt one that wants a serious relationship, love, affection, and shit. So good for you, man! Wish you the best of luck! | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Looks don't matter. But they do matter. Comprehensive guide.Hmmm.... this is a good question. I am not completely sure but I'm friends with a nutritionist who I will see later this week. I'll ask her and get back to you! | /r/seduction | 16/11/14 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Quit Doubting Your Abilities!Congratulations on all of your f-closes, man! It's nice to meet someone who is in the same situation as mine. I'm kind of obsessed with working out now. Granted, I'm not a typical bro gym rat because I'm over weight but I've lost close to 50lbs and my abilities are increasing every week. I'm obsessed at the possibility of who I can potentially be if I work hard enough. Earlier in the year I lost enough weight that only people whom I haven't seen in a while noticed. Now I've lost enough to the po… | /r/seduction | 15/11/14 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Quit Doubting Your Abilities!Very true. But at least it's like riding a bike because, although you get rusty, you don't forget how to ride. | /r/seduction | 15/11/14 02:45 PM |
| 3 | How I show interest in a guyEvery woman and man is different. You gave some great advice but we must all remember that not every woman will show interest the same way. Perhaps most will but not all. Anyway, it's refreshing to see a female's perspective so thank you for your effort! I hope the negative comments don't discourage you from posting more. | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Quit Doubting Your Abilities!I'm 24. And I was referring to pretending to text as I was writing my comment last night. To me, social skills are like muscles so they're going to cramp up if I don't use them. I was doing really good last month but I've been in isolation for a whole month because I've been doing nothing but going to work and exercising. Anyway, I should probably check myself so thanks for the advice. The night went pretty well and it was quite interesting so I will write an FR after work today. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Quit Doubting Your Abilities!Thanks, man! I'm at a get together right now but I've been inactive for a while and doubted myself until I read this. Now I'm going to stop pretending to text someone and talk to people! Thanks again, bro! | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Looks don't matter. But they do matter. Comprehensive guide.Dude, you give me hope! I'm 6 feet even so I'm not short but my younger brother is 6'3 and I won't lie, I'm pretty insecure about that haha. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 01:32 PM |
| 1 | The one question I ask myself that helps me overcome approach anxiety.True horror story. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 06:37 PM |
| 8 | Sedditors living with their parents, where do you pull?Empty parking lots at night mostly, although alleys work too. Last time I had sex, I drove my car in an abandoned area of the city and parked in an alley. On one side there was a burnt down house and the other side had a cemetary. Fuck I need to move out. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Looks don't matter. But they do matter. Comprehensive guide.It all depends on the person. Each body is different. I'm 6 feet even but for some reason my brother is 6'4. He's 3 years younger than I am. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Looks don't matter. But they do matter. Comprehensive guide.Calcium, I meant calcium. My bad haha | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 02:53 PM |
| 12 | Looks don't matter. But they do matter. Comprehensive guide.Excellent post, op! I would like to clarify one thing and comment about another thing from your post. Weight&Height: -Can't change your height, but can help it grow, drink milk and lot's of physical activity. Men grow until at least 21! Even if you're not that tall, don't fret about it. As long as you're not insecure about it, you should have no problem. Great news for people who are under 30 and are insecure about their height! I became friends with a licensed nutritionist with a masters degree… | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 10:52 AM |
| 2 | DesperationYou have to dig deep into your emotions. Meaning, you have to look at why you're desperate, your faults, and why you're taking this journey. The sooner you come to terms with everything the better. Its best to accept the fact that you have faults and to accept you aren't the man you want to be. But it's much more important to accept you can change, you can be a better man, and you can overcome your challenges. Let's take myself for instance, I used to be shy, lonely, and no good at conversation.… | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Things aren't always as they seem. A few lessons I learned and Mini-FR.Oh, in that case good for you, man. We cannot invest ourselves and our hearts in a dead relationship. I've done that many times in the past and it's resulted in heart break. So it's great you have moved on and you found a nice girl to date. I know it's only been 3 days since you told me about your Brazilian girl but have you heard anything from her? | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Approach like you will never see them again...EVERGood for you! Keep up the hard work! Please post an update fr when you talk to her! | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Approach like you will never see them again...EVERI'll be checking the subreddit, casper41! Do not dissapoint yourself! | /r/seduction | 29/10/14 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Went out with a guy from the local "lair" yesterday. It was the most pathetic experience of my life. I don't know if I can do game anymore.Keep in mind the whole idea of game attracts a lot of narcissists and/or emotionally damaged people. Narcissists like the idea of potentially seducing every woman they speak to while the emotionally damaged people - like guys who were recently dumped for example - game to gain the approval of others. This shit attracts a considerable amount of men, not all, who are emotionally unhealthy. Plus there are a lot of shady douchebags such as RooshV, Neil Strauss, or some of the RSD guys who really fuc… | /r/seduction | 27/10/14 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Things aren't always as they seem. A few lessons I learned and Mini-FR.Yeah, man that's understandable. A healthy relationship is when both people invest equally in the relationship even if it's casual. At this point you have invested more than she has. Hell she hasn't invested herself at all. It's understandable that she may be afraid and all but perhaps she isn't ready to be with any man due to her emotional state. Like you said, let her initiate but if she doesn't it may be time for you to move on. I'm sorry, bro. | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Things aren't always as they seem. A few lessons I learned and Mini-FR.First of all, congrats on an amazing weekend with her. I've never had so much sex in so little time so I salute you, sir! You might be the first she's had sex with since the death of her SO. It's a big milestone for her, her emotions are in overdrive right now so what may seem minor to you may be a big deal to her. I honestly don't know what you should do. Perhaps wait to text her when you're finally free? Or just call her once this week to check in with her, just see how's she doing. If she doe… | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Some girl gave me a fake number. Jokes on her, turned out to be the number of one really cool dudeYeah that would be embarrassing. | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Some girl gave me a fake number. Jokes on her, turned out to be the number of one really cool dudeYou're right, letting it go is the only logical thing do. I don't see how calling her out will help you. | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Club w/ Girlfriend- short lessonIt may work with golddiggers which are women with no personality, no initiative, and are boring to be with. It'll definitely work on them but why would anyone want to be with a person whose only goal in life is to 'fuck a rich guy'? That may be nice for a one night stand... unless she sucks in bed but that's my two cents. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Being friendzoned is not always a bad thing!Dude, you need a hug. No one ever said I was paying for everything when we go out nor has she used me as a shoulder to cry on. I have never paid for her food or drinks when we hang and she's never asked for me to do so. Yes, she is open about her emotions but she never asked me to take on a burden. She bakes and cooks for me, she also gives me advice with women that has actually worked. I won't bore you with the details but it is a friendship with mutual support. You are really missing out on wo… | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Being friendzoned is not always a bad thing!I agree that this sub is for people who love women but there are a few redpill circlejerk fanboys with ulterior motives on here. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Being friendzoned is not always a bad thing!I never really thought that far but I guess you're right. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Being friendzoned is not always a bad thing!This this and more THIS Sexual relationship right from the start. if you haven't then it's not going to go down well. just like the op said. don't hind your feeling from her. ask her out stright away. if she says no. GREAT! you have a new friend! Exactly. You'll only waste but a few hours tops, mostly a few minutes if you make your intent clear straight away. You'll either get a no or a yes simple as that. It'll go down horribly if you take advice from Hollywood. ( you: " but luke i don't need a… | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Being friendzoned is not always a bad thing!Why do you say that? Not trying to fight, I just want to comprehend your opinion. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Being friendzoned is not always a bad thing!Agreed, though from the story it looked like he was friendzoned then became friends with her. Exactly, this is what happened :) Which is also fine, I've done it, and as he said it opens up a new social circle and typically you come into said circle in a positive light. I'm glad you get it and hopefully some of the uninitiated men will get it too. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Being friendzoned is not always a bad thing!The "Friendzone" and "Being friends with someone" are two completely different things. This is very true but I consider it a friendzone after making my intent clear and actually pursuing her but got rejected. The whole, "let's be friends" speech is being put in the friendzone to me. But now I consider it beings friends with someone after I genuinely want her friendship. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Being friendzoned is not always a bad thing!I'm really glad more men understand this! I feel like many men view being friends with women as a bad thing. I don't understand why it's so bad for some to accept a friendship offer after being rejected by a woman. Glad you, /u/MilesTea, and I have come to a consensus! | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Being friendzoned is not always a bad thing!If your friend is hot, chances are, she has hot friends too :) Haha yeah she does have a lot of hot friends and have met a lot of them. The best part is my friend is educated and intelligent. She has a masters degree so most of her friends are just as initiated as well as interesting. What you don't want: girls who try to keep you in the hook. Keep flirting with you to keep you interested and keep you around for the attention without contributing or adding value to your life in general. Cut thos… | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 09:53 PM |
| 7 | Club w/ Girlfriend- short lessonYup! She'll show the money to her friends, make fun of you, and laugh at you. She'll most likely spend it on drinks so OP is a ggg for returning the money. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 06:43 PM |
| 90 | An opener I enjoy using.That's actually pretty funny. I've never used that line but I've joked around with women about women's clothing. Like I'll compliment on a blouse and ask if it comes in my size or talk about booty shorts. It usually makes them chuckle. So yeah, I can see your line working! | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Things aren't always as they seem. A few lessons I learned and Mini-FR.You're right, she has opened up emotionally and physically; it's not like I got a girl off the street to sleep with me, I got her to completely open up with me after a few dates. Yeah, man. Now that I've gotten into this I've had a few superficial relationships and feel like many people like us will do the same. However, you entered into a genuine relationship and the emotional connection between you two is at a much higher level. Almost cosmic. Cherish every moment you have left with her, she's… | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Things aren't always as they seem. A few lessons I learned and Mini-FR.Your patience paid off op. She really likes you since she's opening herself up to you, both emotionally and physically. I may sound like a little girl but hope you don't plan to hump and dump. I met a girl who is supposedly a lesbian but at the same time I was getting iois from her. Turns out she had such a bad marriage that she stuck with girls. Her ex beat her, he abducted their kid (the kid was found luckily), he raped her, and he murdered another guy. He's doing life in prison now. I used to… | /r/seduction | 09/10/14 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Easy and effective openerTIL I've been unintentionally using a solid opener at parties, seminars, and shit. | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Was opened at the mall by a cute 40ish lady, had no idea she was trying to pick me up until after I waved her offand having a cute four year old in tow doesn't hurt either. Looks like you found yourself a new wing girl! | /r/seduction | 07/10/14 11:28 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Easy exchange of number and K-close technique in bar/party settingsHot damn, op! That was one of the most smartest and smoothest things I have read on this subreddit in a long time! Do you mind if I try that out? Haha | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here have autism?Is it possible to overcome your fears and become a better man? That really depends on you. It won't be easy and it will be discouraging but the difference between successful men and the afcs is perserverance. If you keep practicing, if you continue to improve yourself, and you continue to face your fears even after setbacks there is no reason for you to fail. So the question is, will you keep trying? Or will you give up? | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 12:10 PM |
| 2 | What Makes People Boring?I was thinking about what /u/SirByron wrote regarding being a canvas for others to project their fantasies on but what's the point of that? Sure you can successfully do all of that but what about you? Will that make you happy? Will you feel fulfilled? That analogy is focused so much on pleasing others while leaving yourself in the dark. And for what? For a night with a beautiful woman? That's why you I think you're correct, /u/Chinaroos you can paint something terrific but only if it brings you … | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 06:23 PM |
| 1 | [Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this.Huh. Never knew that! | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 02:58 AM |
| 9 | [Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this.And she was only 16 Wut... (legal ;) Oh okay haha and lived in a rich neighborhood so I don't think I need to get tested. Dude, I don't mean to be rude or anything but that's bullshit. Rich people are not immune from STDs. Don't think rich women are not as sexually active as poor women because rich, slutty women do exist. I've met a lot of rich and horny women who get around; I also knew a lot of slutty rich girls when I was in high school. You'd be surprised how many tunnel buddies I've made wi… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 02:51 AM |
| 29 | [Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this.You shouldn't be afraid to walk away when you want to. As long as you are polite about it, it's no problem. You should have walked away after you realized the smell didn't go away. There is nothing nastier than a woman who smells down there. A foul odor that doesn't go away is a clear indicator that she has something that requires medication. I hope you wore a condom. I was about to have sex until I smelled something awful when I was about to eat her out. She refused to shower with me so I said,… | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Approaching walking girls?I never approached anyone from behind. I have initiated small talk with a few people while walking beside them. It would only work in an area with few people. Why? Imagine walking in a crowded street, you initiate small talk with a girl you like but 5 other people think you're talking to them and you have to sort out the awkward, "Oh, I'm sorry I was talking to..." It's much easier to approach a girl walking in your direction. You walk towards her but you stop a few feet away from her, make sure… | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 01:20 PM |
| 2 | I have bad oneitis. I know the cure for this one, but I haven't administered the injection yet...That's a pretty good idea. He can message, text, or call her before deleting her. | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 12:01 PM |
| 6 | This stuff works. . . now I feel bad. AKA post AFC guilt.The 'jerk' thing would be to let her visit you while you're on your trip. It's fine that you want to hang with other girls but you can't give her the run around if you want to avoid guilt. Set your limits. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | You Need to Stop Selling Yourself to WomenDid you write this?! This is actually really good! It's easy for the reader to understand that he must value himself and set standards for himself. The exercises seem really helpful and easy to do. 10/10 I'm definetely putting this advice to work. | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 09:41 AM |
| 15 | The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshitIf you improve yourself only to impress other women or others in general it's neediness. Chances are your efforts will back fire. But if you do it for yourself because you genuinely want to improve yourself, it's not neediness and you'll see amazing results. Women are much smarter and more aware when it comes to being social. They can see through the bullshit, they can size you up in a matter of seconds. They can smell your neediness and it stinks like shit. | /r/seduction | 18/09/14 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, what do you DO?I used to try things that I thought girls would find attractive such as playing guitar and shit but it didnt make me happy. This would defeat the purpose of living an honest, attractive life. So if you want to pursue a lifestyle that women will find attractive you won't feel fulfilled. Pursue what makes you happy. What I do is photography, dancing, raving, running, and improv. I am also interested in trying out a martial art and want to start a blog about my city because I am passionate about my… | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 06:14 PM |
| 3 | FWB is starting to feel used. Advice?Eh this is why I refuse to be fwb with single mothers. Although I've gotten a lot of offers from single mothers, I've refused because they don't want to fulfill a sexual urge. They want to fill an emotional void due to their loneliness. As a child of a single mother, I know they get lonely they wonder if they are good enough for a man or not. They want to feel loved and desired again, they want to be courted by a man. There is nothing wrong with this but for a guy like you and me who don't want … | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 11:35 AM |
| 6 | FWB is starting to feel used. Advice?I'm saving your post in case I face a similar situation because your advice is that good. | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 11:26 AM |
| 6 | I'm getting married today!Oh no that hurt my feelings... | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 07:25 PM |
| 16 | I'm getting married today!You're right, I'm a tool for congratulating a stranger because he found the love of his life and will experience one of the most beautiful events life has to offer. Fuck me for showing a hint of kindness to a total stranger. I better stop being kind to others or else I may piss you off again. | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 07:04 PM |
| 18 | I'm getting married today!That's amazing, man! I wish you two a very happy life together! Don't you ever forget, even a few years from now, that you have to keep the romance alive and you have to keep seducing her. Treat her right! | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Pickup™ vs PickupI've met a surprising amount of guys out there who are into PUA. I'll go to a club or bar and I'll chat with a random dude who idolizes Tyler Durden or Neil Strauss. I used to offer to be their wing because they know PUA since they watched every video and read every book, right? Nah wrong! So op you are dead on my friend. Most of the guys I've winged with are nervous train wrecks who can't act natural nor can they listen to what women say or do. The best things to do imo: Have fun, be yourself, … | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Want to talk forever? I found something that can help.My mistake, I assumed that you were just starting out and not wanting to talk to women. If I knew I would not have written all of that ha ha. Congratulations on your new lady, hope you can achieve everything you want. But what makes a man/woman an introvert is still up for debate to me but I respect what you say. | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 02:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Stylelife Challenge - Day 1 - Let's Do It!So this exercise has helped you then? That is great to hear I've been wanting to do this but I have been sick and the weather has been shitty. So could you tell me more about your experience with the exercise? | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 02:39 PM |
| 1 | [Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over herIt's hard to get over an ex but it is not impossible. The sooner you realize there are many more women who are much more beautiful, much funnier, and smarter women the better. I mean really, I had a hard time getting over my ex but I have met so many remarkable women and had so many adventures that I'm glad we broke up! Go and meet new women and have new adventures! | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 10:07 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Stylelife Challenge - Day 1 - Let's Do It!Don't worry about getting nervous when holding a conversation. In time you will get better at it the more you try so don't stop trying! As far as approaching beautiful women is concerned, you should check out my tactic that I am currently using. It's been pretty helpful for me so far. It's a tactic used by Mark Manson and goodlookinglooser.com. Read more about it here | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 09:28 AM |
| 1 | [Quick Tip] Getting some gets EASY with good logistics.I need to do this. I live in the suburbs so any real action is a 20-30 minute drive on the highway. I think getting a hotel would be creepy for a woman? I dont know, can anyone give me their opinion on this? | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Totally stuckI think I've met more girls on the streets, and by streets I mean actual streets with sidewalks and roads and shit, than bars or night clubs. Where is the best place to meet girls? Literally any place with people. Sure it's easier to approach girls at parties, bars, or other social gatherings but it does not mean meeting girls anywhere else is impossible or even difficult. If you see a girl you like in a mall, coffee shop, street, etc and she doesn't appear to be in a hurry then approach her! It… | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 10:52 PM |
| 1 | It's Back To School Time! What's Your Opener?Openers very seldom work, dude. Most girls will know you are using a pick up line even if she's never heard it before. Very few girls like them, most think it's pathetic, creepy, immature, etc. Just greet them like a human being and introduce yourself. | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Conversing with shitty personalitiesHow do you talk to girls with shitty personalities? Ya don't! Why would you want to bend over backwards for a woman who doesn't deserve you? Why does she deserve your attention with a bad attitude and personality? Value yourself and move on, buddy, you deserve better. There are so many women who are much nicer, more beautiful, funnier, and better company. If someone has an attitude with me I immediately walk away. No shit, I literally turn around and leave. | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 10:41 PM |
| 1 | I lose so much wit and intelligence when I'm nervous. What needs more work? My composure or my wit?Composure for sure. Your wit is fine, no need to fix what isn't broken. | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 10:34 PM |
| 0 | The gracious benefits of not giving a fuck.I dont give a fuck about your story. Wait, am I doing this right? | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are Indian males automatically perceived as "beta"?I never really considered male Indians to be beta as a whole but I do have several Indian friends who are always really nervous, shy, and unconfident. I think I know why. I really think it's because the difference in our cultures. My Indian friends come from a very conservative environment in India where women have to behave themselves. My Indian friends always comment on how wild girls are here - at least comparing to women in India - which shocks and scares them. I have one friend who has a mo… | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How to approach more women?I don't think you can build a bullet proof ego so don't put pressure on yourself. Even the most experienced PUAs have admitted they get approach anxiety. It's okay to be afraid, don't hide it just embrace it. Although you can't protect your ego, you can condition it. Think of an inexperienced and experienced Boxer. The inexperienced Boxer is going to lose because his body can't handle the punches and the pain. On the other hand, the experienced boxer can take many more hits without hindering his… | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Want to talk forever? I found something that can help.No, I said I overcame it so now it doesn't drain my energy. I meant I enjoy social interaction now after months of pushing myself to be social. You wont excel if you keep putting limitations on yourself. If I can do it, you can do it. Push yourself to improve yourself, learn new things, and maintain a positive attitude. If you wont improve yourself and you keep up with the I'm an introvert or I'm antisocial excuse then I suggest you unsubscribe from Seddit. Seduction requires you to get out ther… | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Guys with cars, how do you feel about driving people everywhere or being DD when it comes to seduction?"I'm always the DD when we go out and I never have fun so this time we're taking a cab!" They don't like it? Get new friends. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 02:57 AM |
| 1 | WHERE DID I GO WRONG?!Dont think about it too much. Nights like this happen to the best of us. I've had nights that start great but end up horrible, nights that start horrible but end up great, and nights that were just plain horrible, and so on. It happens, its part of the game and its up to you to recover from it. Since you kind of lacked details, let me ask you the following: Were you using canned openers? Most women hate those. Were you peacocking? I know some books, like The Game, encourage it but I think its tr… | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Want to talk forever? I found something that can help.At times, yes but over time I kept trying, kept learning, and overcame it. Not only do I tolerate it now, I actually enjoy it! | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Want to talk forever? I found something that can help.No doubt. I used to be like that too. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Approaching while out with family / close companyI've approached girls in front of my family and they've cheered me on. I think its best to leave it at a #-close. Unless your family is really open minded, you shouldn't escalate it into a k or f close with your family around. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you hit on coworkers? If so, how?Absolutely! I'm careful of which coworker to flirt with (I stay away from my surperiors) and like you said, I only flirt casually. Look for IOIs before escalating but even then you have to ask if your job is worth it. I've been in a relationship with a coworker. It ended up being so ugly I had to quit. Luckily it was a shit job I had during school. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 12:58 AM |
| 2 | How to approach more women?This is how I've been dealing with my approach anxiety. I just started this yesterday but may not be able to try it this weekend cuz I'm sick so I can't tell you if it will work. Anyway, this is what I read from Mark Manson's Models and goodlookingloser.com gives the same advice. It goes like this: The first day you want to approach 10-20 women but just ask for the time and leave. Second day, approach 10-20 women ask for the time, ask how their day is going and leave. But if the conversation goe… | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Want to talk forever? I found something that can help.I used to be an introvert so I hope you take this the right way when I say, that's bullshit. How can you expect to succeed when you put limitations on yourself? | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Want to talk forever? I found something that can help.As a former introvert who used to loathe social interaction with people, I disagree with your statement. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 12:17 AM |
| 1 | MINI-[FR]: Hitting on a cute Police Officer who is about to give me a ticket..Late to the party but I feel this is relevant | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Random thought: approach anxietyYou are ahead of so many people. So many men, even the extremely handsome and the rich, are afraid to approach women. By simply cold approaching one, you are doing much better than 99% of the guys in your university. You may be screwing up but its great you're learning from your mistakes. Keep practicing and keep learning. I'm doing pretty well myself but it doesnt mean I know everything so I am always learning new material to stay relevant. Good luck, my friend. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 03:45 PM |
| 5 | GLL - How to Avoid Getting Emotionally Attached to Girls Too Quickly (Fantastic Insight)This was actually really helpful. I thought I had my shit together until I read this. | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 01:59 PM |
| 1 | "The biggest mistake you can make at parties is following your girl around like a puppy dog"I used to do this all of the time but always thought it was a good thing that I did. The girl would never protest me following her so it cant be wrong, right? I look back at it and vividly remember how annoyed they would get but I couldnt figure out why. I was such a dumbass! | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 01:43 PM |
| 1 | "The biggest mistake you can make at parties is following your girl around like a puppy dog"Me too man, I cant believe how clueless I was. Its so embarrassing. | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 01:36 PM |
| 3 | To those who do well on Tinder: Please share your pictures with us.How about this tip from another thread: crop out half of the accompanying girl's face to make it look like you don't give a shit about her, but you can still enjoy the social proof. I'll have to try that! It is a bit confusing, some people recommend having a pic with a cute girl, others don't. So my best guess is, wha?? | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 03:20 PM |
| 1 | To those who do well on Tinder: Please share your pictures with us.Thanks for the help man. It should have been obvious to me but I haven't really paid much attention to my Tinder profile. I'll have to change it but it only put that as the main profile pic because that's my main profile pic on my Facebook. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 03:18 PM |
| 16 | To those who do well on Tinder: Please share your pictures with us.I've been trying Tinder for about two weeks and it's definetely a confidence killer. I've gotten about 10-15 matches but only one has actually bothered to talk with me. A few have talked but have suddenly stopped while some never replied. I have a picture of me and a female friend at a rave as my default pic. We're covered in glowing body paint and glow sticks. Second is me with a guy in a Deadmau5 costume at that same rave, a pic of me hiking in the mountains of Colorado, another with a guy in … | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 09:41 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm doing Tinder wrongYeah I learned this the hard way. | /r/seduction | 03/08/14 01:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Quick approachI like Tyler but his infield videos are night game which is completely different from day game. You should look at yourcharismacoach.com or Sasha Day Game's videos. If you try the same shit as Tyler at a conference or anywhere during the day you can get into some bad shit, man. I would hate for you to get into some trouble. | /r/seduction | 02/08/14 10:50 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm doing Tinder wrongRight, most feminists are all bat shit nazi crazy. It seems like this girl is like that as well so it seems odd she's looking for a guy on Tinder when it's primarily an app to hook up with people. And thank you! You seem pretty cool as well and know a lot of feminists are just as civil and educated as you are. I support female equality and think it's awesome that women are starting to dominate the workplace as well as higher education. My mom was abused by my dad but she left him and worked her … | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 10:11 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm doing Tinder wrongThe same way I did in that message. But in reality, I just walk away. People like that are miserable and should be ignored. | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 10:07 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm doing Tinder wrongHaha yeah not my proudest moment. | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 10:05 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm doing Tinder wrongIt was a field report I just forgot to add the [FR] my apologies. And I my point was that Tinder is not that great and men should not use that as a primary source to meeting women. Some men do that so I was trying to explain that it is much more fun and fulfilling to meet women the organic way. Perhaps its just a matter of opinion so I respect your decision. | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 10:05 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm doing Tinder wrongPerhaps but I'm having fun. | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 10:02 AM |
| 0 | Anyone got tips for initiating convos on Tinder?After all this talk of Tinder I downloaded it this morning. Results are meh, okay I guess. Currently chatting with some match right now and we're talking about binge drinking. I just say whatever is on my mind. If they like it great, if not, whatever it isn't a big deal. | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 12:47 AM |
| 3 | What are you favorite questions to build rapport and connection?Pretty much on point, /u/JoeFro0. Ask them something that makes them think, something that stimulates their mind. Yesterday I met a nice girl and I asked her what she does. She said she works at a consulting firm (still cant comprehend what they do). But I noticed she wasnt enthusiastic when she told me so I told her, "It seems you aren't too happy with what you do, am I wrong?" She then gave me a long explanation and even revealed how she feels unfulfilled. We had a deep conversation for 30 min… | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 12:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Unexpectedly f-closed at a wedding but things got weird afterwardsWow thanks for the comprehensive and helpful comment, man! You made a lot of valid points so I will reply in the same format to avoid confusion. Here we go: First off, you probably already realize this but you played this as well as you could have. And played it well. You seemed aware of their states and you knew what you wanted and discriminated between the girls accordingly. I'll have to be honest with you, man, I honestly wasn't aware until you mentioned it. I suppose I was aware of the state… | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 01:17 AM |
| 3 | What do you have that makes your interesting and gives you value that others don't?Same here. Its liberating when you can go out and have fun without depending on others. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 09:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Unexpectedly f-closed at a wedding but things got weird afterwardsOh yeah haha. I'm pretty sure that girl was just using me to make a statement (like you said) because she didn't seem to care about the noises we were making which is why I had to cover her mouth. She was actually really beautiful so I don't really mind. We exchanged numbers so she is welcome to call me when she wants to use me again. And for the other girl, she's a real keeper. She's like one of the guys who loves cigars and whiskey plus she's really fun to be with. I'm working on that! And I'm… | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 02:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Unexpectedly f-closed at a wedding but things got weird afterwardsThank you, thank you. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What PUAs do you agree with? Which ones do you disagree with?Models was a great read. I still find myself studying chapters (especially chapter 4). I've never taken Neil Strauss' advice nor have I ever read the Game. Gasp! I can see some of you cringing right now. I also like Tyler Durden because of how deep and spiritual he encourages us to be. He also recommends reading things from Eckhart Tolle so I read The Power of Now which is a life changer. Julien Manifesto is a good teacher but I think he's a little over the top but then again, so is Tyler Durden… | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Why are you here?Fuck yeah | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Why are you here?I like you, op! When I went into this I wanted to feel validation from others. I felt like other people didn't think I was attractive or good enough to attract other women. My self-esteem plummeted when my own (ex)girlfriend slept with my brother. I felt inferior and depressed. I kept asking myself, "What's wrong with me?" and "Am I not good enough? Was I not enough of a man for her?" So I ran into /r/Seduction because I felt like that was my answer to everything. I could learn to fuck any woman… | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 05:48 PM |
| 19 | Mini-[FR]: Hitting on the girl that's taking my bloodwork... for an STD.I think she was just as eager as op to know the results | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Online game f-close on second date field reportLike a sir. | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 02:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I went solo to a marathon/dance festival. I had a blast and met some cool people, no fucks given. You guys shouldn't give a fuck either.You won't regret it, man. It's a lot of fun! I hear each event is different so each city has a unique event. Enjoy yourself and if you have something fun to report please share. | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 01:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I went solo to a marathon/dance festival. I had a blast and met some cool people, no fucks given. You guys shouldn't give a fuck either.Did you race? I didn't because I was late so I paid $5 to be a spectator. The races seems rad though, hope you enjoyed it. | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)It's flattering you remember my last posts so thank you for that. Her and I went on two more dates afterwards but in my fear of her finding my posts I decided not to report but will only report if something awesome has happened. So far nothing past make out sessions have happened but whatevs. Anyway, just to keep myself on track I'm still out and about practicing game. We haven't decided on another date yet but I'll keep you posted. | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 01:10 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I went solo to a marathon/dance festival. I had a blast and met some cool people, no fucks given. You guys shouldn't give a fuck either.No problem, dude let me know if you're ever up here again. I wish you the best of luck! | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 10:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I went solo to a marathon/dance festival. I had a blast and met some cool people, no fucks given. You guys shouldn't give a fuck either.Aw, dude, no way! You're referring to the one in Baltimore, right? As far as ditching your friends, it's a hard decision but if your friends are bringing you down then it would be a good decision. I've spent a lot of time listening to motivational speakers and successful people and all have said to choose you're friends wisely because they influence you. People such as Tony Robbins, Gary Keller, and even Peyton Manning have all said the same thing. If you want to be successful in real estate, ha… | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 08:18 PM |
| 6 | [FR] I went solo to a marathon/dance festival. I had a blast and met some cool people, no fucks given. You guys shouldn't give a fuck either.I couldnt dance and to be honest, I'm not the best dancer. But it improved by giving no fucks and living in the moment. Perhaps meditation helped with living in the moment. | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 08:08 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I went solo to a marathon/dance festival. I had a blast and met some cool people, no fucks given. You guys shouldn't give a fuck either.Thanks! My only goal was to have fun. | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How often do you realistically get rejected?/u/FinallyAFreeMind don't worry about that girl, my friend. You have to accept that you can't get every girl that you want but that's okay. Rejection is actually a good thing because it doesn't mean your game is bad, it just means the girl who rejected you isn't compatible with you. There are so many factors that you can't control. Perhaps the girl just went through a break up and she was out on a girls night because she's sick of men which would explain why she was surrounded by so many friends… | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Moving on from current friend group...I used to be in the same situation as you. Although my friends weren't geeky and into Anime, they were fucking downers. You know the type that are too smart for their own good? They're too logical so they are always pessimistic which was depressing me as well. Anyway, I went out solo for a few nights which was discouraging but it gets easier and it's fun the more you do it. I even met people who are also obsessed with gaming. The second night I went out on my own I met some guy who is obsessed w… | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Classy responses to "I have a boyfriend."Good for you, man. As long as you aren't obsessing and trying to win someone over when it's, well, over. | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 01:01 AM |
| 2 | What's so great about Models?I'm currently reading it and have to say I'm really impressed. It teaches you how not to be a douchebag but it teaches you how to be the best you can be. In one chapter, the author explains how you need to come to terms with your problems and find your true identity. It also teaches you how you shouldnt be vulnerable and how to not be needy. So it's inner game and it's meant to empower men and transform them into awesome beings. I'm only on chapter 8 so I cant comment further but if you do get i… | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Logistics of the F-close in college?Dude, you can have sex wherever as long as you dont get caught. I've seen couples do it under a giant blanket in a park. A friend of mine did it with his girl in a secluded area of a zoo in the middle of the day. Last Halloween I was still with my ex. It was 3am and we were driving home after clubbing. We were in the mood so I found an empty warehouse parking lot but the backseat was small so I bent her over the hood. We figured no one was around so we wouldn't get caught. We were right. TL;DR: … | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Why do I do this to myself?Ding! Ding! Ding! Right on the money. This is probably the best answer for you op. The good thing is you've accepted your problem but now like, /u/highhopes01 said, only you can practice self-control. Thanks, /u/highhopes01 | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 10:19 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Approached a girl on the street near campus, #-closedOne thing I've learned is it's better to give no compliment at all than to give a dishonest compliment. A dishonest compliment comes off as needy and/or creepy (depending on the girl). Women have very good bullshit detectors so they know when you're lying or masking your true intentions. So only compliment on something you actually like about her. It will work out much better. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 01:09 AM |
| 0 | To all the virgins out there2nd- sex isn't that hard. Some if y'all are prob worried that you won't perform accordingly thus inducing a cyclical death spiral. (If you have performance anxiety gl trying to stick your flaccid penis into some pussy) Just go over to r/ sex read the faq a few times and implement the theory. Chances are you'll be more knowledgeable and prob be just as good if not better than your partner in bed. Just to piggy back off of this, sex is super easy. Let's look at the circle of life for example. I'm … | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Rejection is a tool to help you get to what you want.Thanks, bro! | /r/seduction | 13/07/14 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Classy responses to "I have a boyfriend."Usually when a girl tells me that I say fuck it and joke around with, "Thats okay I'm not the jealous type." I stop caring at this point because I know I wont go further with her but hey, at least laugh about it. I'll joke with her some more and talk for a minute or two before leaving. I'm no home wrecker. They'll lie about a bf to reject you and thats okay, just move on. | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 11:46 AM |
| 8 | Rejection is a tool to help you get to what you want.I prefer an immediate rejection when I approach a woman rather than beating around the bush for days, weeks, or months only to end up in the friendzone. I'm too familiar with wasting so much time with women who lead me on. This doesnt happen anymore as I've set boundries and make my intentions clear. You may resent women who reject you but you should admire their bravery. Their bravery to reject you immediately saves time, effort, and emotions. You shouldnt resent a woman who puts you in the fri… | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, thank you. Changed my bitch ass mindset into an alpha one!Preach, brother!! I used to be the same way. I'd waste weeks, months, and years showering girls I liked with kindness hoping they'd come around. Of course it hardly worked. So glad you've seen the light and begun to value yourself. Instead of giving your all to a woman right away, make her earn it. | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Ya'll turnin' me on !Seddit and the entire pua community has always been viewed negatively. Thats why I'm glad you get it. There are some shady people in the community but most of us are good men who want to break out of our shells and improve our lives. Thank you for voicing your opinion, /u/nachpach. Your opinion is refreshing and encouraging. | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 12:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I approached a law student, we flirted for 30 mins. but I couldn't bring myself to close.Nah I accept this. I have oneitis so I just have to enjoy the trip. | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 12:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I approached a law student, we flirted for 30 mins. but I couldn't bring myself to close.Thanks, man. This is all new to me. For the first time in my life, in my whole 24 years of living, I have options. Crazy shit. | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 12:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I approached a law student, we flirted for 30 mins. but I couldn't bring myself to close.fffuuuu | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 12:48 AM |
| 1 | If a date with a girl is not for another week, should I text to keep attraction?Hey, man I dont know iPhones very well (Android fanboy) so are you the blue bubble or the gray? | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Opening line this weekend, try it.I see where you're going with this but it's really a question for when you are already engaged in a conversation. My mom recently told me I should ask my next girlfriend where they want to be in the next 5-10 years of their life and if they don't know, it may be time to split. That way you're the buyer, not the seller (make her value you) and you'll weed out the women with no ambition. Because believe it or not, women can be fuck ups just like men. | /r/seduction | 08/07/14 01:58 AM |
| 1 | I feel aliveMy friends are afcs as well so I ditched mine too. Glad to hear you took charge and had the time of your life. Your schedule doesnt revolve around your friends anymore but it revolves around you. Liberating, isnt it? | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 06:57 PM |
| 1 | [Mini FR]Pick up on the small clues.FR's are nothing but encouraging to me. Please don't stop and keep ignoring shit talk from others. | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | No gf. No friends. How to pass summer holidays off work?I'm kind of in the same position as you. I have friends I dont contact often anymore but not because they are married but because they are either too lazy or too afraid to go out. My fun schedule used to revolve around them but now I'm on my own terms and go out whenever I want whether its alone or with a friend. Going out alone isnt hard to do, I do it often so here are a few tips I can give: If you're going out on your own, make sure you do so in good spirits. You're gonna have a bad time if y… | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 06:21 PM |
| 15 | Hug or nothing!Dude that's gold! Usually when the awkward situation comes up I'll just chuckle and say, "Come here" and wave them in but what you did was so much better! | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Simple Kino GuideThis probably the most simplest and direct article post on Kino. Honestly, good job, man! | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How important is style/clothingTo some extent, yes. Its a good idea to improve your style but never go past your own comfort level. Check out /r/mfa for the latest trends and choose shit you like. An important tip I learned is to never shop for clothes alone. I went over the top after reading fashion blogs and made a fool of myself. Its always good to get instant feedback before you buy. If you want to date stylish/trendy girls then gym clothes and work clothes wont do. | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Getting numbers from TinderI havent used Tinder since February - but I did get a make out session on a first date- so I dont remember exactly how I did it. But I would always open with something like, "I'm new to this so I dont really know what I'm doing so um, hi?" I got matched 10 times and got 7 responses but all 7 where positive. I usually asked thought provoking questions (questions that require more than a yes or no answer) such as what do yo do, where are you from, etc. I built some rapport and kept being funny. Af… | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Tinder founder is proof that money doesn't = game... This guy's texts are embarrassingSerious question for everyone, does anyone text entire words such as you instead of u? This guy cant spell for shit and his grammar is horrible. His psychotic behavior proves money doesnt buy you class either. Anyway, is spelling correctly important when writing a text message? | /r/seduction | 03/07/14 09:22 AM |
| 5 | These are the 10 TED talks every aspiring Seducer needs to watchYou da real mvp | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 12:15 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Finally went out of my comfort zone and approached a girl for the first time in my life.Felt like a pimp? Dude, you are a pimp! You acted in the moment, used your talent as an ice breaker, and a girl asked you for your number; not the other way around. This was all on your first try? You're a natural, my man. | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 10:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Blumpkin actually. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 05:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Right? | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I don't know why people down voted you, I up voted you because you're right when you say she can potentially find this and it can ruin everything. I'm not sharing to kiss and tell but to encourage others to get out there and find someone special. Women are so beautiful, mysterious, and enchanting (sappy shit but whatevs) and every man deserves to experience a genuine romance with a wonderful lady. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I didn't have sex with her, so ha! Joke's on you! Or is the joke on me? | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I agree with your advice since it worked out for me. We are still working out the logistics but we may hang out sometime during the 4th of July weekend. However, /u/SenorWiggin 's advice is also relevant because sometimes women will take the initiative to reach out to you. It doesn't happen often but it will once in a blue moon. And that is why dating is so fucking hard and advice will not apply to every single woman on earth regardless of how good the advice is. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I agree with you. Thought I should just wing it and go with the flow but it was a mistake. Her suggesting another place was pure luck since I didn't have a backup plan. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Definitely. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Thanks for clearing that up, man. I hope her feelings are mutual. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I like strong and powerful women (maybe that's why I find cougars so attractive) so it's not problem if she did as long as the attraction is mutual. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I poked her with my elbow then I looked at her then I looked at my own arm. I then waved slowly in a downward motion toward the arm I wanted her to grab. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Yes, /u/TerryYockey it was a joke. I was actually quoting Mahatma Ghandi. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Aw, thanks. I hope I gave you encouragement to get out there and have good times of your own. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Can't wait to find out. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)It's a little hard for me because I'm a big guy but it's still a lot of fun. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I heard on the radio that it's the second most popular place to have sex in. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Thank you! I appreciate your support, thanks for reading my walls of text. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Right! I gotta draw that line! | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Don't be jelly, man. I was a pathetic little shit before I started. I'm not a master at all but my luck has improved. Don't give up and never stop learning! | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Giggity | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I'll give her something to suck on... | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Don't be sorry. I'm glad you cleared that up. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I figured going straight for the fuck is pretty boring. The journey is also just as fun. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:49 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)I never thought of that but it's a good idea. She's a gamer so it's a good chance she may be a Redditor. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Thanks for the wisdom, man! I'll have the bluest balls but it'll be worth it. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Haha I love seeing your comments, dude! It was the 70-year old bar owner this time. Oddly enough, I kind of enjoyed it. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Thanks, dude. Glad to see a fellow Mexican get in the game. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:46 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)You have my blessing. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Thanks for the kind words, man. I kind of get the feeling that she may be the one for me at times so I have to keep my shit together. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Ah, I see. I've definitely had that in the past. Thank you for clearing that up. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)To be continued... | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Absolutely, Mr. /u/MyDickFellOff! Sorry about your dick, bro. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Thanks, man! I did get lucky. I'm not as smooth as you think because I still get nervous but it helps to let go and live in the moment. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowHey, man here's the follow up as promised. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowThanks, man! That made me so nervous though. I wrote more about the date here | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:35 PM |
| 7 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowBut thats my real name... | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowAlmost did! | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowNah, dude I'm no boss I was just in the moment and had fun. Thanks though. I have the follow up here | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowI'll tell you what helped me, I meditate and listen to stand up comedy. I usually work out (which has been proven to stimulate your mind) while listening to stand up comics which helps me get new ideas. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowHey it works. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:29 PM |
| 2 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowThanks, man! I'm not always in the moment but it left me sweating bullets. Love the username btw. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowYou misread that, my 92 year old male doctor did that. But it wasnt half bad. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowMeh I dont think so. I do it all of the time. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowAw, dude! Thats awesome! Care to share the story? | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:27 PM |
| 2 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowChea! | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowIf thats the case then I'll switch to another office. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowHey thanks for the kind words, /u/fkingashole! I really appreciate it! Just try and hug someone today, okay? Edit: If you're interested in some more of my bullshit knock yourself out | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 03:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowCool, thanks. Its coming. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 07:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowHavent had a chance to work on it but there is plenty to say. Quick question, should I add the follow up to this fr or make a new one? | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 01:53 PM |
| 0 | I've done over 100 approaches in 2 years and here's what I've learnedI like your attitude, man. Just living for your pleasure and not caring what people say. Never compromise yourself. | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 01:13 AM |
| 3 | I've done over 100 approaches in 2 years and here's what I've learnedI agree you can pretty much approach anywhere during the day. I've approached more girls on the street than in a coffee shop, bookstore, or any mall. I've even stopped a girl in the middle of the street one day. | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Tips from a fat guy: How I went from homely to handsomeThat would have been so awesome, ffffuuuu | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Tips from a fat guy: How I went from homely to handsomeOh, dude I know exactly what you mean. I had only one date doing Tinder and it turned into a k close but this happened after months of trying Tinder and Ok Cupid. Girls will pretty much ignore us online. Let me ask, whats a girl's general reaction when you approach? | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Tips from a fat guy: How I went from homely to handsomeI agree with you, /u/cyberomega it isn't as easy as flicking a switch. As I worked on this post I realized this is a much too complicated subject to cover in just one post which is why I'll put more effort into the next few posts so I can better explain how I got out of my slump. Things you can do now that I recommend: Meditate (honestly it does wonders for your mind) Don't fap excessively. Gross honest moment: I used to do it at least twice a day now I'm down to once a week and sometimes hold o… | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Tips from a fat guy: How I went from homely to handsomeI agree, looks aren't the only thing you need to attract a woman. Confidence and personality are very important as well and that's my point. You have to develop self-worth and joy to become more attractive. I'm talking about a deeper level of attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Tips from a fat guy: How I went from homely to handsomeDude that's awesome! How much I wish I weighed 190. I went from 285 to 264 but I'll get there. Keep up the good work and congratulations! | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis to the point where I feel like throwing upWatch this video. In one part of the video Julian Manifesto explains that every man who isnt confident or in your case has oneitis, you have to be in abundance of girls. He explains that it doesnt mean you should have a dozen girlfriends with a few fwbs on the side, it means you should always approach and meet new women. So that way if it doesnt work with one girl you'll know that you can easily approach another. | /r/seduction | 10/06/14 12:30 AM |
| 0 | I asked a girl to pay for herself on a first date. I didn't feel good about it, but felt I had to stand my ground.I'm Mexican and we are the same way when it comes to romance. The man must always pay for everything and when the man gets married, he must provide. The woman stays home while the man brings in the bacon. It's a lot of pressure on a guy so I know exactly what you mean. Thats why I feel so pressured to get rich and shit. Kudos to you op for collecting money. | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Media blames PUAs for what Elliot Rodger didFor those living in under a rock, this guy - who was diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome - killed several people on a hateful rampage. He planned on killing an entire sorority because he developed a hate for women. He kept bitching how women don't like him and no one will date him so he developed an unhealthy hatred for them. He was subscribed to a couple PUA channels (looks like he was subscribed to Real Social Dynamics) so naturally, the media blames PUAs. They blamed the movie Neighbors starring… | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 11:20 PM |
| 1 | i felt to share a couple of "one liners" i like to think i made upIf anyone is looking for funny one-liners I recommend listening to stand up comedy. It doesnt have to be any specific comedian as long as you find him/her funny. My personal favorites are Louie C.K. and Chris D'Elia; both hilarious. This tip is not something I came up with, I read this tip from somewhere else but I forgot where. If you find what makes you laugh you can adapt that same comedy to make others laugh. The standup stimulates your mind and gives you ideas on jokes of your own. So I jus… | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 12:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "Well, isn't that a cute dress?" Day game approach, instant date, k-close.well, if not on me, I'm sure it'd look great on the floor." That move was pure gold! I'm going to try it next time I'm out shopping. I'll probably screw it up but fuck it. | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Let's discuss this: According to this article, women are attracted to men who remind them of their own father. Bullshit or true?This article appears to be geared more towards women but it has me scratching my own head. I wonder if my chances vary greatly if I remind a girl of her father. It also has me wondering about women who grew up with fathers, could their choice in a man be influenced by another male relative or perhaps they learn what they like in a man as they grow up? | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Going clubbing for the first time in 4 hours. What tips can you give me to help improve my game?I second that. Drink until you get a nice buzz then stop. I like to take a shot of whiskey (or two) to loosen up before hitting the dance floor. I have a high tolerance to booze so ymmv. | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 01:35 AM |
| 1 | What should I do? No social life and feeling quite low now...Dude! I'm 23 and my family is really religious too! I can't have friends, I can't curse, I can't do shit. I'm 23, still in college so I have to be extra sneaky about going out and having fun. My school is a good excuse to go out, I work full-time so I make time to work on my game during breaks, and I pretended to take on a night job at a hotel but in reality, I am out having the time of my life. But I am just a 23-year old college kid with a lot of ambition. You are 27 and you graduated college … | /r/seduction | 24/05/14 12:32 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Fat Guy # Close Cute Skinny GirlAs a fellow fat guy, I thank you for your inspirational post. I'm part of the DC/Baltimore seddit lair and gamer I go out with is in excellent shape. I got so discouraged in the past until I read your post. As you already know, weight isnt shit as long as you're confident. Case in point with us. | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 10:17 AM |
| 3 | How To Make Her Nervous (In A Good Way)Haha! Brilliant! I'll have to see how that works with women in America and I will report back. | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 01:40 PM |
| 2 | mini FR + after feelingsOne of the two guy friends is probably attracted to the girl so it could be possible you cock blocked one of them. But that isnt your fault if it were true because if the guy(s) were doing a good job building attraction, the girl would have blown you off. So dont feel guilty. I also get a lot of opposition when I approach girls. Keep in mind not many men or women do cold approaches so its weird for most. You are one of the few who do and people will naturally hate and/or fear what they are not u… | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Married guy here, I read this /r/seduction for self improvement, unexpected # close at grocery storeWtf? You're trolling right? Read my post again, where in my post did I suggest rape?! Edit: okay, I can kind of see where you got that from. I'm assuming you misunderstood the last sentence? I did not imply rape at all. I meant it would be easy for op to seduce this woman because, from what op wrote, it seemed like she was really into him. Of course it would be easy to seduce a woman if she's really into you, right? I apologize you misunderstood that because I did not mean to say, if a girl is n… | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 10:07 AM |
| 3 | How do you hook up with an ex?If you have read the actual subreddit and actually practice what you read, you should not have a problem talking to other women. Use the same principles on your ex. Before you do that ask yourself, do I really want to? why did your relationship fail? If she broke up with you, why did she let you go? And finally, is she worth the trouble? I'll be honest with you, brother. I first started reading /r/seduction so I can learn how to seduce any woman so I can get back with my ex. Thankfully, this awe… | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 09:54 AM |
| 18 | Married guy here, I read this /r/seduction for self improvement, unexpected # close at grocery storeThat awkward moment when you find out your dad has more game than you. | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Married guy here, I read this /r/seduction for self improvement, unexpected # close at grocery storeI thought you were going to be the sleazy guy who cheats on his wife. It takes a real man to not follow up with a beautiful woman so he can stay loyal to his wife. Especially when the woman in question is into you. | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 01:35 AM |
| 3 | What do you really want: One guy's thoughts after an F-closeHey, /u/figyg you make an excellent point my friend. Everyone who is remotely interested in practicing game should have a clear goal, otherwise, they fail. How can you succeed if you dont have a clear goal? The same can be said for any type of success. Why do some people who want to lose weight lose momentum and fail? Because they dont have a clear goal! How the fuck do you know you succeeded if you dont have a goal? So my goal is to loose 30lbs by Sept. It may seem impossible but I'm walking/jo… | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Here's a game you should all play in nightclubs.So he told her she has a breathtaking heinie and wants to be friends with it? if so, its awesome it works. Did he also introduce himself as Ron Burgundy for humor? | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 01:41 PM |
| 5 | [FR] I have very little free time so I've been taking every opportunity, # closed with my mom, yep my mom.Dude, mine neither. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 04:13 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I have very little free time so I've been taking every opportunity, # closed with my mom, yep my mom.I probably wouldn't have succeeded if I did. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 04:13 PM |
| 1 | AA whenever there's an audience, any tips for NGAF?It's more not-really-friends who hang out with my friends that are an issue - they sort of get off on judging people. Dude! Why would you want to hang out with poisonous people like that? People who get off off on judging others are miserable little shits. Have you ever met a happy, successful person who does that? No. These people will only bring you down to their level because misery loves company and it will only harm your life, not just game, but also life. I've been listening to self-help g… | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 11:17 AM |
| 1 | "Give me your number", "I don't like that you're so demanding" shit test?The problem with the PUA material is that its too broad to apply to every girl. Some girls will actually like you being demanding others dont. Some like it when you're upfront with your intentions. I'm talking about how Sasha Daygame goes around making it clear he wants to fuck girls casually and even makes remarks such as 'lets exchange orgasams' Its funny but it wont work on every girl. It'll work on girls who arent afraid to express themselves and are confident with their sexuality but how ma… | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 11:07 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First field report (college F-close)Nice FR, man! I dont think you would have been able to close with A if you went along with her little shit test. If anything, you passed it by showing how confident you are and how much you value yourself which is why she tried to contact you later. That or she probably saw you with K which is why she texted you. Its amazing how jealous girls get. Just yesterday I was flirting with this girl from my work and she's been receptive and has flirted back. Some new girl came into the office so, withou… | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 10:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally playing the Rejection GameRight?! What is that? | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 01:17 AM |
| 6 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."So true. I was only in two relatonships and dated two women briefly. I gave them my all, I treated them like queens, and clearly made myself a little bitch. They all broke up with my but couldnt figure out why until /r/seduction. So glad I found it. Its become more of a self-help in life rather than seduction but isnt improving yourself what its all about? | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 11:34 PM |
| 8 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."Life is a teacher with a cruel, sadistic sense of humor. But life is a good teacher. It sucks you lost your fiance after being with her for 5 months but there are so many positive things going on for you. I'm glad you made the best of your breakup and you're having a fantastic time. Its grear you learned a lot from it. Hopefully your fiance can see you now so she'd know what a mistske she made. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 11:32 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Pretty momentous day for me"Fuck it yolo swag" is a bit trivial to me but damn it does it work! Good job, man! Now that you got the momentum going don't stop. Keep going! | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Creating attraction while in a carYou can do some kino. A light touch to the shoulder or arm is possible. Ive also touched their leg but that one shouldn't be used on someone you just met or barely know. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 04:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Part II: Left the friends at home, First Solo night out ever. And it was awesome. #-close, k-close, hilarious rejectionTruly inspirational. Congrats, bro. I usually dreaded going out alone but I broke out of it. Now I prefer going solo because most of my friends are afcs. Well, I'm an afc but at least I'm trying to change it! | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 04:22 PM |
| 3 | People quit because it takes too long to see results, because they can't figure out that the process is the resultYou're spot on, my friend. I wont lie, I was discouraged after only a month of trying. I thought of giving up and just wait to see if a friend or something will set me up with someone or try online dating. Fuck that! I'm on month two now and while things arent going great, they are slowly improving. My self-esteem is higher and I feel great! I know anything worth achieving is not going to happen overnight. Otherwise, everyone would be a doctor, lawyer, and becoming the President of the US would … | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Eye Contact - An Underrated & Underused Weapon of Mass DestructionThank you, dude! Eye contact is an important essential which I forget often. Thank you again for reminding everyone! | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 07:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I went to a club finallyIts a little odd you got so many rejections and bad looks. Perhaps it was just a bad night? Dont let that experience define the clubbing experience. Anyway, clubs are awesome! Bars are great but sometimes you get the energy and desire to just move it. Bars can get boring for me and I dont really like to spend too much time on one so I'll hop from one to another. The best tip I can give you is dont just stand there. Dont be afraid to dance and dont be afraid to talk to people. Dont be the guy to … | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 03:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Age is just a number. The seduction community has changed my life forever.HOLY . SHIT You fucking little player, you! No really, you're reaching levels that many older guys havent reached. I'll admit, I havent gotten a kiss during the first interaction. So kudos, dude keep up the good work! Also, did The Game really work for you? I met another guy through the DC/Baltimore lair who loved it. Would you recommend The Game? | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 03:00 AM |
| 1 | THE 80/20 RULE APPLIED TO KINO. LOOKING FOR CONTRIBUTORS!I'm a little weary about Tyler Durden myself. I dont know why I just get a bad feeling about him when I watch his video. The two RSD guys I like is Brad (forgot his last name) and Julien Manifesto. They seem to have the most sensible advice that has worked for me. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 02:52 AM |
| 2 | THE 80/20 RULE APPLIED TO KINO. LOOKING FOR CONTRIBUTORS!Ah, the thumb! Ive done it unintentionally and it has worked ;) | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 02:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a number on first approachI'll be honest with you. I have only been reading /r/seduction and practicing what I've learned from it for about two months now. In my journey I have mostly practiced night game. So I'll try to be as helpful as possible to help you with day game. First of all, I have found girls to be much more flattered when they are approached during the day. I think its because its not only acceptable to to approach a woman at night in a club, bar, party, etc. its actually expected of you. So you're actually… | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 06:17 PM |
| 2 | You're Already Awesome. Just Get Out of Your Own Way!: Judson Brewer MD, Ph.D. at TEDxRockCreekParkThe guy makes a spectacular point. I often over analyze everything. But how do I stop that? Meditate more? | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 01:07 PM |
| -5 | Rejected by a married chickJeez dude you have too much time on your hands. Go outside, haha Edit: Humor is not acceptable on this thread. Got it, sorry. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 02:19 AM |
| 18 | Rejected by a married chickI'm glad you posted a rejection! This is good for our friends who are still struggling with AA because they all fear rejection. When I was struggling with my AA I thought a girl would laugh at me if she rejected me. I would also fear nearby spectators would all stare, point, and laugh at me. I also had the irrational fear that perhaps women would freak out or call the cops. But no, rejections are short and simple. The whole thing only lasts a few seconds! Edit: the fuck is going on with the othe… | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 01:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a number on first approachHey, no problem! Glad it helped you out! This guy was really helpful, it made me realize I had night game down wrong. For a while I tried to approach and close so early in the night but it's never worked out. He mentioned how girls want to experience the whole night before committing to a guy. This makes total sense! So now 10-11 pm will be just for me to relax and have fun. I'll try my best around 12 or 1. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 01:22 AM |
| 2 | PUA blogs and Youtube videos are creating an army of angry douchebags that have invaded sedditA wise man once told me if you're seeing a doctor for an illness or injury and he/she promises you they can completely cure you, run. Its very likely they have a bloated sense of confidence with little results to back it up. Medicine is too complicated, too beyond our understanding to make promises. Therefore, a good doctor can only promise they will do their best to treat you, not cure you. I use the same advice for PUAs. If a pua claims they know the one trick to trigger a woman's sexual emoti… | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 12:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a number on first approachHey, man I found this video to be pretty helpful. The guy in the video is Julien Manifesto and he basically says you need to go straight for the girl. Dont wallow over to her, just directly walk over to her. Dont calibrate on what can happen, calibrate after you approach. Honestly, rejection has not been that bad. The women who have rejected me put me down nicely and we both move on. I never had (perhaps never will) a woman grill me, ruin my self esteem, or yell at me when they have rejected me.… | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How I dealt with being dumpedDude, you made me proud. As I was reading your transformation I thought you were going to say you won her back even though she's done jack shit to deserve you. Because the truth is she would be winning you back, not you winning her back. I am so glad you realized she doesnt deserve you. Its obvious you learned you need to value yourself. It sucks you had to endure a breakup to learn to value yourself but life is a teacher with a cynical sense of humor. I hope one day she can see you so she knows… | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Freaking amazingHOLY.SHIT. | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Freaking amazingSo... what happened? | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 10:21 AM |
| 2 | WTF? Success at first try!Way to go, man! Dont stop! Keep the momentum going! | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 05:03 AM |
| 1 | First date flake. tips on how to progressDid you guys talk at all since this happened? Her apology seems sincere enough but I suppose you never know through text. I agree with everyone else who says you should not take this personally, don't show her how eager you are to see her, and simply reschedule. If she's a bartendner you may want to think about when you want to reschedule. Bartenders (or anyone in the food and hospitality industry) are busiest Thursday-Sunday nights so asking her to meet you at 9am during these days is crazy. Th… | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Super motivated to change my fucking life/u/ElSolitarioJorge, please dont give up. Please dont get discouraged. I was an afc with no close friends and no contact with women. A month after I have made two awesome friends who also read /r/seduction, I havent k or f closed with any woman but whenever I see a girl I like, I talk to her and develop some kind of rapport and sometimes get a number. This is really nothing impressive but I am so happy with myself because I would never approach anyone, I was really shy, quiet, and reserved. Now … | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Broke out of the friendzone, F-Close. Timing is a bitchI found these two articles which seem pretty good. I'll try them tonight and report back. Article 1 Article 2 | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 07:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR]Broke out of the friendzone, F-Close. Timing is a bitchThanks, dude! I've been reading on meditation lately and I found this article. Perhaps this and this may be helpful? | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 07:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR]Broke out of the friendzone, F-Close. Timing is a bitchAh, yes! I've been wanting to meditate for so long! And thanks, man! I wish you tons of luck as well! | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 02:01 AM |
| 0 | [FR]Broke out of the friendzone, F-Close. Timing is a bitchNormally I wouldn't either but if he really is as bad as op says then he had it coming. It's hard to sympathize with men who treat women badly. | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 02:00 AM |
| 56 | [FR]Broke out of the friendzone, F-Close. Timing is a bitchCongratulations dude! I also want to commend you on how mature you're being about the whole situation. You like her, you want her but yet you know what's best for her and you're encouraging her to take the scholarship. I cant imagine how hard it must be for you but kudos on being such a man about it. You're also doing right by focusing on your life. I'm probably going to take it easy too to focus on making myself better. Best of luck to you, bro! | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 01:38 PM |
| 2 | After the age-old debate, and first-hand experience, "calling vs. texting" - this is what I've found.My recent experience with a girl backs up what you say. I met her back in February (long before reading Seddit) and we really hit it off blah, blah, blah. Anyway, we exchange numbers and I text her two days later. We keep texting, snapchatting, and anything but calling. This went on for a week or two. One day she got tired of it so she called me out which I'm glad she did. She said it was really weird that I never called her and it is starting to make her feel uncomfortable, she also said she do… | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 12:28 PM |
| 0 | Should I pay to lose my virginity and gain confidence?Don't you dare! I've met men who have slept with prostitutes and they've admitted they feel disgusting and worthless. One guy ended up with the conclusion that no woman would ever sleep with him and the only way to get laid is to pay women. Sleeping with a prostitute would ruin your self esteem, it wouldn't help you at all. I'm sure men who get over the 'feeling disgusting phase' and start to sleep with prostitutes and even enjoys the hobby, turn out to be disgusting people themselves. I like to… | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 10:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I was approached, **me**True. It happened on Eastern Ave in Highlandtown so the probability is fairly high haha. By the way, are you part of the DC/Baltimore Seddit Lair? I think I may have seen your screen name on Groupme. | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I was approached, **me**Hmm... I will keep that in mind next time but I didn't pursue further because all I can think of is my ex and her two awesome kids. I kept wondering how her son is and to this moment, hope he hasn't been discouraged by the bullying because he is very smart. But now that I know some moms want casual sex, I will pursue further next time I meet a single mom. I have evaluated my life and came to the conclusion that marriage and having kids is not a good idea. Thank you for the advice. | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 03:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I was approached, **me**In the words of Swiss Beats, "I ain't tryna save dat gurl." I may need to reevaluate my life for quoting Swiss Beats ha ha. | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 03:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I was approached, **me**Thank you for so many things, kind stranger! Thank you for complementing on how honest and real my report is. I figured if I would lie to all of you I would be lying to myself and would end up in a narcissistic fantasy world which would hurt me on so many levels. I don't want to be a master of seduction and have sex with a new girl every night, I just want to live life to the fullest and not be scared when I see a nice girl. And thank you for congratulating me, I've made small (and positive) cha… | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to the "I have a boyfriend" without using the same old "well he's a lucky man"?Damn it! You beat me to it! That Snuff Box skit is the only proper way to respond! | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Guys, keep a journal for your days/nights. It will help so much.I have a really bad memory so I'm considering going in with a hidden mic, review it later, and take notes. | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 01:45 AM |
| 1 | My first # close was a fluke which is discouraging but refreshing at the same time (click to see what I mean)No I don't. Maybe she moved to Baltimore? What's the story with the one in Atlanta? Haha | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to practice my night game for the very first time alone, do you guys have any tips?No, sir! If anything I'm hungry for more! | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 12:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to practice my night game for the very first time alone, do you guys have any tips?Thanks dude, that's exactly what I did! Feel free to read my progress report here | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 12:28 AM |
| 2 | I'm going to practice my night game for the very first time alone, do you guys have any tips?Dude! Thanks so much for the tips! If I was able to give you gold I'd do it in a heart beat! And yeah I will be persistent and will endure the rejections. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 12:26 AM |
| 3 | **Progress report** I went out last night on my own. Although I had moderate success I no longer see why going solo is such a big dealI feel your pain, man! I've never been in a relationship that long but the few women I've dated have been lying, manipulative bitches. They all put me in long spells of depression and the last girl I was messing with left me for my brother. It really took a toll on me and I wallowed in my depression every minute I was awake. Now I'm pushing myself to be better, pushing to be happier, and pushing myself away from nasty women. I wish you the best of luck, dude, it's not easy to move on but not imp… | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 12:19 AM |
| 1 | **Progress report** I went out last night on my own. Although I had moderate success I no longer see why going solo is such a big dealThanks! | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 11:54 PM |
| 2 | **Progress report** I went out last night on my own. Although I had moderate success I no longer see why going solo is such a big dealThanks, bro! | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 11:54 PM |
| 1 | **Progress report** I went out last night on my own. Although I had moderate success I no longer see why going solo is such a big dealAbsolutely! I took the day off today to nurse my hangover but I'll be at it again real soon. | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 11:54 PM |
| 2 | **Progress report** I went out last night on my own. Although I had moderate success I no longer see why going solo is such a big dealI agree with the Richard Simmons voice but he doesn't seem that ugly. But you are right he's definitely the unlikeliest pick up artist. But that's what makes him awesome. | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 11:53 PM |
| 2 | **Progress report** I went out last night on my own. Although I had moderate success I no longer see why going solo is such a big dealIt was pretty good, I'm glad I didn't bitch out. | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 11:51 PM |
| 1 | **Progress report** I went out last night on my own. Although I had moderate success I no longer see why going solo is such a big dealAw now you're making a grown man blush. I try my best but am no means a pua. Thanks, man! | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 11:50 PM |
| 5 | **Progress report** I went out last night on my own. Although I had moderate success I no longer see why going solo is such a big dealOh, no I did tip her she just didn't ask for one. She took me to some dark area where other strippers were giving lap dances and noticed the other girls asked guys for tips. She didn't ask but I gave her a tip anyway. | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to practice my night game for the very first time alone, do you guys have any tips?Bombs away! | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to practice my night game for the very first time alone, do you guys have any tips?I agree with you, going out only to hit on women will keep me from having a good time. At first that was my goal, I had to approach women and I had to close but it wasn't going well. So I lowered my expectations and had a good time. | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 02:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to practice my night game for the very first time alone, do you guys have any tips?Hey, /u/AnonyBot32 thanks for all of your tips, man! I followed your tips and my night was fairly successful. I only had one # close so it isn't a big deal but I am proud of myself. I wouldn't have dared to go out on my own before. If you're interested, I wrote what happened here | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Because of /r/Seduction I am finally coming out of my shell!True, man! Shoot now ask questions later. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Because of /r/Seduction I am finally coming out of my shell!Thanks, man! Yeah its been great I'm getting there. Today I approached a woman in the middle of the street. I mean literally in the street. We only made it to the median when crossing the street. I approached her by simply saying, "Excuse me, I just had a question." She seemed freaked out at first but with a smile and small talk she calmed down and we talked for a few minutes in the middle of the street. I would have never done that before. Sadly, I'm still trying to defeat my anxiety and didn't… | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 06:15 AM |
| 1 | How to master the smirk (I'd like know what you guys think)I see what you mean how it contradicts itself about the eyebrows. But I suppose its just like /u/DownvotesCatposts says, do it if you're experienced. Honestly, I've never seen anyone but Jack Nicholson do it. I've tried it and it just feels and looks awkward. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How to master the smirk (I'd like know what you guys think)What? The are you going to buy me a drink or do I have to punch you in the face is an actual line?? Does it work? | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Spent one day on this subreddit, got my confidence up. Already have a date with a girl I've been crushing on.I feel you, man! I bent over backwards just to please my ex. I moved mountains for her, left no emotion unexpressed, and I stayed loyal. What does she do? Sleeps with my fucking brother. I stopped being a bitch about it and decided to move on. I haven't had the same luck as you but I value myself. There's no way in hell I will let a woman take advantage of me again. I will no longer fall for manipulative women and won't hesitate to set a shitty girl straight. Good for you, op and good luck on yo… | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Because of /r/Seduction I am finally coming out of my shell!Sound advice, sir! Have you ever seen the first Iron Man movie with Robert Downey Jr? When he was testing out his suit he said, "sometimes you need to run before you crawl." How right you two are. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Because of /r/Seduction I am finally coming out of my shell!Yes! May it live forever! I found that you have to practice talking to everyone male, female, young, old, etc. Other than talking to people professionally at work, I have no social skills so it's important to develop those. Start by chatting up receptionists, cashiers, anyone you can find. Good luck bro! | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 01:21 PM |
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