Hey Seddit,

In case you haven’t read the last report: As mentioned in the title, I had a doctor’s appointment and managed to get a cute nurse’s phone number. We talked the same night and she agreed to go on a date with me. More info on that post can be found here. On an unrelated note, she clarified that she isn’t a nurse, she’s actually a Phelbotomist. Either way she looks great in scrubs.

Actual FR: We agreed to meet up at one of my favorite bars last Saturday (Jun. 21st) because this bar had an intimate atmosphere and it was a nice place for a quiet drink. It even has this awesome projector that lights up the wall with awesome murals. Unfortunately, when we got there I learned that the bar changed since now it plays EDM and they added a small dance floor (and a photobooth ha). We had a beer before we were annoyed enough to leave. We only spent about 20 minutes so I didn’t want the date to be over but I got nervous again. “That’s so weird, that bar used to be so chill” I never used the term chill and it seemed so out of character for me. Luckily, before I started to stumble on my words, she suggested another place we can go to that’s “still chill.” I smiled and told her to lead the way.

I wanted to work on some kino since I didn’t have the chance to do so in our brief 20 minute date at bar #1. So I poked her with my elbow and motioned her to grab my arm. She giggled softly and let out a sarcastic “Fiiiinnnneeee” while she rolled her eyes then she grabbed my arm. We kept talking as we were walking to the bar; we mostly talked about video games because she’s a gamer. I told her I don’t really play video games anymore and she teased me about it. She also mentioned she’s a Kingdom Hearts fan girl so I teased her back with, “Oh god..” “What?” she replied, “So you’re one of those people” I said. “What people?” she asked, “Y’know” then I whispered, “Kingdom Hearts gamers; they’re the worst” she responded by hitting my arm and calling me an asshole to which I just laughed. Good signs so far : )

We arrived at bar #2 and I was surprised by her choice. She chose an old Irish Pub and the patrons were a bunch of old guys with their wives, it’s not really a place where you’d find a girl with a lip piercing and jet black hair. As soon as we walked in, half of the bar looked at us and greeted HB7 with a smile. Turns out her dad has been coming to this bar since he was in his 20’s and she’s also a regular. We spent a lot of time talking to the other people there who were all really interesting people. The owner of the bar was really nice and he told me how his bar is one of the oldest in the city and it’s been passed down his family for a few generations. I could go on and on with the awesome people there but that’s not what this FR is about.

She and I finally got a chance to sit together and share a drink. I thought I couldn’t like this girl anymore than I did until she told me she loved whiskey while she ordered a shot of Jameson and a Guinness. I ordered the same thing because I also love Jameson whiskey and hate beer that tastes like piss (looking at you Budweiser). “I can't believe you love whiskey, we might actually have a shot” I said and then laughed. She replied, “You’re all right I guess” and smiled. I started to ask more about her and I didn’t ask just to build some rapport or keep the conversation going but because I was genuinely interested. I wanted to know her more, I wanted to get deep with this girl. I know oneitis is frowned upon but this time I just can’t help it.

The entire time we talked I sat at an angle so our legs touched and she didn’t seem uncomfortable at all. We both found ourselves leaning close to each other; perhaps it was the whiskey or perhaps it was genuine attraction. This girl is an intellectual so every topic I brought up (topics in science, history, news) she already knew about. We spent some time talking about the situation in Iraq and whether it was a good idea to go back. This girl keeps her cool so even if we disagreed we brushed it off and changed topic. I know talking about politics and shit is a bad idea on a date but when you can have a civilized and stimulating conversation with someone, why not?

Things started to get interesting when she got up and said she has to use the bathroom. She stood up from the barstool and stumbled a little on the way up. She may have done it on purpose but suddenly I found her standing up between my legs. I placed both of my hands at the end of her waist (I was a little tipsy at this point) as I looked into her eyes and softly said, “Careful.” She just stood there for a little bit and looked at me. I also noticed her eyes wandered into my lips. She smiled and said, “Thanks” then she pulled away and went for the bathroom. When she left I couldn’t help but blush and smile.

We hung out for a little but this time we were sitting really close to each other so before we got bored I figured this was my only shot, it’s time to fucking close. I chanted the ancient mantra once again, “Fuck it yolo swag, fuck it yolo swag” thanks, Dalai Lama! “Wanna go?” I asked. “Sure” she replied.

I walked her to her car when shit got even better. As we were crossing the street I held the small of her back and she leaned her head on my arm. We got to her car but this time I wasn’t nervous, I didn’t have to chant my mantra. I looked her in the eyes with a smile then I said, “Hey” and went for the kiss. I didn’t want to be forceful so I stopped half-way and waited for her to meet me half-way. She raised her head and we kissed.

Some of the intimate details When we pulled away from the kiss I still had my left hand on her waist and my right hand put her soft, jet black hair to the side and behind her ear. We held a gaze for what seemed for eternity, she smiled and we kissed again but this time it was deeper than the last and my right hand was behind her neck this time. Our lips were together long enough for us to take a deep breath. We kept making out without hesitation this time. As I was holding her, she reached into her purse for her key fob and unlocked the car. She stopped and smiled and I let out a soft chuckle. We got into the back seat.

We kept making out but this time our hands were exploring our bodies. I felt the beautiful curve along her back. My hand started from the bottom and I softly rubbed my hand to the top and onto her shoulder then I pushed her upper back closer to me. She hugged me tight. I went on to feel her breasts with my other hand which she liked because she pressed my hand into her chest and squeezed. I went onto kissing her neck then I rose her shirt and kissed from her abdomen up to her chest. She started to grab the hair from the back of my head; I was in heaven.

I swear we could have fucked right there and then but we were reminded that we were parked in a public street when some guy yelled out, “Aww, dude! Look!” A guy and his three friends looked and cheered us on. This startled me which caused me to get off of her and I hit my head in the ceiling of the car in the process. “Yeah, you’re the man!” one guy yelled and did an air high-five. HB7 and I were not interested in giving a show so we stopped and straightened ourselves up. “Holy shit” she giggled. “I know, how did that happen?” I said and laughed. “I don’t know, that was crazy” she replied. Although we were still in good spirits the mood was ruined and we called it a night.

We are still talking and we agreed we want to see each other again. I won’t see her this weekend since an old high school friend of mine is coming to town and she’s working this weekend. I hate to say this but I really like this girl, I can’t stop thinking about her and when I think about her I smile. I have to see her again but I can’t be too needy. All in good time, Seddit.

Edit You guys are fucking awesome. Thank you all for the support and for clarifying what Oneitis actually means. I know some famous PUAs frown upon having sincere feelings with a woman and having a ltr but I disagree. It may be too soon but I could see myself dating this girl for a long time, then who knows? Thanks again, guys!