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OFF TOPICpennynotrcutt/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 06:42 PM
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pennynotrcutt/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:03 AM
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You KNOW in your heart that this is a huge mistake. “If you have to ask, the answer is no”
/r/RedPillWives29/10/25 01:14 AM
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I’m sorry but criticizing your housekeeping skills while you are sick and battling cancer and working is just cruel.
/r/RedPillWives16/06/25 10:55 PM
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Men aren’t mind readers-ask for what you want/expect while thinking about what is reasonable. As the old saying goes “closed mouths don’t get fed”
/r/RedPillWives26/01/23 11:49 AM
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Don’t do what she’s doing.
/r/RedPillWives07/11/22 02:04 PM
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He wears his seatbelt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 04:03 AM
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Self-delusion is a helluva drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 04:03 AM
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Unless you’re dating a masseuse. But the cobblers children always go barefoot or whatever that saying is I’m guessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 09:23 PM
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I don’t know if it was due to my bad childhood but I have no problem noping out of any situation whether it seems rude or not. That instinct has saved me many a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 10:38 PM
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Gotcha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 10:36 PM
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A proactive man is good though? I’m confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:09 PM
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Well, since they can’t really invite them to their house (aka moms house) for the 1st date, these are legitimate concerns. They’ve never paid for food for themselves so paying for someone else is really difficult. And when mom usually gives you $5 for the Taco Bell box and you ask for $20, tough questions are going to come up for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:26 PM
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I’d love to come home to a burrito bowl everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:44 PM
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I like to smoke weed as much as anybody but presenting me with a “packed bowl” sounds like some high school shit. That said I do t know anything about their relationship—that just stuck out to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:26 PM
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I find men that post about things like this on social media are generally losers to begin with. Why not just wish her a Happy Anniversary in person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:51 PM
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I knew what I was getting into at “spiritually married”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:06 PM
147

To quote a goddess in our midst: “ED pornsick death grip limp dick.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:17 AM
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ED death grip pornsick limp dick Pure poetry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:06 PM
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I’d help him pack and have my appointment with the divorce lawyer set up for right after I took his sorry self to the airport.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 10:00 PM
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100% and then get a nanny and a house cleaner with the extra money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 09:51 PM
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I agree and would also be very hesitant to have a child with this man. I just see a lot of red flags here.
/r/RedPillWives20/12/21 12:08 AM
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My father does this and my brother-in-law does this. Both raging narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:39 AM
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Hard pass, Brian Laundrie but thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:22 PM
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I once had a Dr friend tell me that’s there’s two types of men who go into OB/GYN: men who really love women and men who really hate women. I’ve been lucky in getting the former.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:55 AM
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My friend married a Senegalese woman he met in the Peace Corps and they’re madly in love and he treats her so well. I stay jealous of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:39 PM
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I’m so happy to hear it and I hope you can find something to manage it. It should be something covered under the disabilities act for whatever country you’re in. It literally prevents you from functioning (it did for me) and even if I worked, I wasn’t really there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 12:30 PM
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I wish you peace and healing. Stay strong, sister! ✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:07 PM
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I do not have any knowledge of your situation but if my story can help I want to share it. I suffered from chronic migraine and what helped was getting off of hormonal birth control and getting my sleep apnea handled. The birth control was the big one for me though. I hope you can find relief. Migraine is a debilitating disease. I’m diabetic now but I feel like I’m in better shape then what I was when dealing with chronic migraines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 03:08 PM
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In chains in the basement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:07 PM
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The fact he did something bad enough to warrant a Billboard apology=LVM. That’s just my take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:01 PM
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Ah yes, Ghislaine Maxwell, Empress of Pickmeishas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:00 AM
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This is 1000% it. I was that girl. Thought I had a lot of guy friends (in addition to girls) but when I started dating one, all of the guys just vanished. And I’m talking years long “friendships.” Oh well. The trash takes itself out sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:57 AM
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Occam’s Razor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:51 PM
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Whatever advice you would give someone else if they had posted this….do exactly that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 06:20 PM
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I am in the same position as you. At one point I was seeing a personal trainer and my body’s BANGING! Yet, nothing changed. I do think it’s really not us (completely) so my advice is eat what you want, do the exercise you enjoy (I like lifting weights) and live your life. I’ve started therapy and am trying to figure out whether sex twice a year is enough for me for the rest of my life and how to make that decision and what to do once I’ve decided. I share your pain and I wish you all the peace a…
/r/RedPillWives05/09/21 07:48 PM
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That right there would’ve done it for me if the rest already hadn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:33 PM
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Big dick ain’t shit if you gonna be thrusting around like inflatable tube man outside the pay by the months cell phone store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:30 PM
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That floral sheet has “from my mom” written all over its wannabe Laura Ashley patterned self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:27 PM
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“Girl, I got a red Ferrari. Can I pick you up in it? Hell naw, what you offering me? Plus it’s a one seater, for me. Yeah bitch, I’m 5’4”, you ain’t even cute anyway, you lucky I even tawked to you!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:24 PM
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I have never heard an actual alpha male use those terms in anything outside of science or math.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:20 PM
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Because the men who “own” that vagina would be so eager to share for the sake of their incel “brothers”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:53 AM
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I think you can know by 18 months in. You may not be in the right place in life, or have the resources, etc but I don’t think 18 months is too soon to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:47 AM
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Delete lawyer, hit the FaceBook, Gym up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:08 PM
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St Germain?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:19 PM
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5’ and my husband is 6’3”. I’ve always had a thing for tall guys and every 5’4” dude thinking they were somehow entitled to me just because I was smaller than them was absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:00 PM
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I’m 5’ and my husband is 6’3”. Come at me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:57 AM
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Thought it was going to be Drake TBH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:05 PM
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Is the one guy drunk? I can’t understand half of what that fucking mush mouth is saying anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:10 PM
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I have a concealed carry license and that’s all I’ll say about that. I’m no gun nut but my daughters and I aren’t going to be victims if I can help it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:55 PM
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I’m an Old™️ and I get left alone. It’s lovely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:51 PM
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I don’t think we were bigger as in height but far stronger and wider? I am no expert though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:40 PM
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This ain’t nothing but the truth, the whole truth, so help me God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:59 PM
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I was thinking that based on the “sis”. I’ve never heard any guy but my brother-in-law say that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:59 PM
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My maternal grandfather beat the everloving shit out of my mom but not my uncle. My mom went and promptly married an abusive man and here I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:20 AM
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Please tell me this is from a newspaper you found while renovating your 1920’s built house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:40 PM
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My husband once gave me a crockpot for Xmas. He never made that mistake again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:08 AM
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One of my ex’s gifted me my first vibrator. Probably the best gift I’ve ever been given.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:06 AM
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My husband used to do this shit (not over cheating because that’s a dealbreaker for me) and I finally caught it and now say, “you are not turning this around so that somehow I’m comforting you and apologizing to you.” Took me 18 years to figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:47 PM
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Isn’t that a crime if it’s non-consensual? If not, it damn well should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:55 AM
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What is stealthing, dare I ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:11 AM
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This thread. Y’all gonna make me pop my stitches!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:09 AM
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I think they think that it’ll wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:08 AM
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You just painted a picture that is tragic yet hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:06 AM
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And then a few hip thrusts to try to wake it up. Lord help us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:05 AM
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I thought Cosby was in prison? That’s disappointing if not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:04 AM
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That’s called a blessed life. I would hitch my wagon to that star!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:10 PM
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No worries no worries. I wasn’t paying attention at the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:59 AM
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I hope this guys parents have saved up for retirement because he and his brother obviously aren’t going to do shit for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:09 AM
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Oh my. I thought the point of the video is how she did that for herself and was gassing herself up as she should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:48 AM
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I can see the future and it has women wearing “Girth Girls” t-shirts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:37 PM
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Google cleaning your washing machine as well. It sounds counterintuitive but a musty/residue filled washer will not produce fresh clothes.
/r/RedPillWives21/06/21 12:35 AM
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Also add baking soda to the wash helps with the residue but like OP said above you may have to strip them first.
/r/RedPillWives21/06/21 12:33 AM
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I really haven’t enjoyed any of his movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:44 AM
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I never wear it either. I work from home and shower and wear new (baggy) pants everyday and since I don’t get periods anymore it’s a non-issue. When I do wear underwear I feel like Edith (Edith Puthie to be precise) is being suffocated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:43 AM
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Can I DM you my address? I enjoy dusting and vacuuming. Maybe we can trade chores. Folding is my most loathed task. Not sure why but there it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:40 AM
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Did you see Lorde’s new album cover? She’s another one that shocked me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:54 AM
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This explains her complete 180 about sexual using her body etc. I thought ut came out of nowhere but apparently not. I wander what Finneaus(?) who is so protective of her feels about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:11 PM
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All those expectations but you better not be spending any money on them, or time away from home to achieve any of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:40 PM
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I don’t remember who said it but there’s a famous quote along the lines of “I would never want to be part of a club that would have me as a member”. Maybe it was Scrotetes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:34 AM
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MrSwift90. You want 90 seconds of pleasure? yeah, girl, Special Edd gonna give it to ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:29 AM
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You have to dis a lot of frogs to meet a prince.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:48 PM
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Lord knows it hurts less than giving birth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:57 PM
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Preach sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:06 AM
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Wait, they do??? Good Lord I just need to stick to Reddit and the subs I can curate for myself. She could’ve been the most demanding, controlling, social media, MLM selling, annoying person in the world and that doesn’t call for a fucking death sentence. I can’t even get started on those poor girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:23 PM
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I said above was that he wasn’t a HVM in other ways. He was spineless, didn’t seem very smart and like you said, dude just wasn’t right. There’s quiet and reserved and then there is.....whatever he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:59 PM
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He wasn’t really a HVM in other ways though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:57 PM
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“The bar is on the ground and they brought a shovel”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:56 PM
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No kids but they had a threesome. That’s when it all started falling apart. I saw something on YouTube or somewhere where she talks about it in her book. And don’t fret-going to be 44 this month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:17 AM
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Jesus. Was it that long ago she was with Kutcher? No way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:12 AM
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I need you to come to my house and say this to me 1,000 times a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:49 PM
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I think that people don’t even comprehend how much a baby changes your life and how much work they are. I had a supportive,helpful, hands-on partner but even then I was overwhelmed. No matter how great your partner is there are times you will look at them sleeping peacefully while you’re breastfeeding at 3 am and want to smother them to death. That added stress will not save a rocky marriage and might even mess up a stable one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:38 PM
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Apparently Demi Moore didn’t get the memo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:29 PM
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Congrats!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:53 PM
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I dated a guy who told me he had one kid. I never met her. We dated for THREE YEARS and I later found out he had like 5 kids. How he kept it so well hidden I have no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:03 PM
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And here I am in a dead bedroom wondering what’s wrong with me. Maybe it’s not me? 20 years of feeling like shit of all the shapes and colors and faces I’ve been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:07 AM
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You mean the King of Queens complex? Where a fat dude always lands an in shape hot ass wife? Sooooo many TV shows with that dynamic that it’s imbedded before porn is even a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:21 PM
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I suggest one of the Lelo’s. They’re small, high powered, some of them look nothing like a vibrator (good when you have inquisitive kids) and they charge on a USB. I love mine and have had for OMG like 8 years now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:13 PM
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Indian and my dad and all the uncles would have gone to his house and beat him with their chapals (chanclas). 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:19 AM
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Their mamas raise them to think they are literally God’s gift and they go into the world thinking they really are. Indian moms are as much to blame I swear. Source: am Indian. With a brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:16 AM
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You’re being crazy. Eyebrows are allowed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:59 AM
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I’m old and married 20 years this year so maybe my perspective isn’t the best for your question but my experience is that you’re focusing a lot on his pleasure and not your own. A lot of men really love to see you get pleasure, the kind that you have no control of your vocals, your facial expressions and your body. Every guy loves a blow job so don’t stop but give him something that no girl has never given him: you yourself writhing in ecstasy.
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 02:47 AM
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Oh, about 16-18 years I’d say.
/r/RedPillWives14/03/21 03:04 PM
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While he’s in there send him an article about how sitting on the toilet too long causes hemorrhoids. It’s true.
/r/RedPillWives19/02/21 11:55 PM
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I’m so happy to hear that! ❤️
/r/RedPillWives15/02/21 02:41 AM
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Personally, I wouldn’t say anything today in case he has something planned. If he does nothing then tmrw or when it’s a good time to talk, you can tell him honestly what you are feeling. I disagree with other posters who say you should just be thankful for what he does on a daily basis. We all do tons for our partners as they do for us. There’s no reason you can’t feel a bit hurt about a special day going unnoticed.
/r/RedPillWives14/02/21 08:45 PM
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Melody Gardot. The older stuff is better in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/20 01:58 PM
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Laundry. NEVERENDING laundry
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 04:46 PM
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I have the first and I would gladly take the latter. I’m 43 and as the years pass as long as you’re not living paycheck to paycheck trying to put food on the table, money doesn’t matter much. Companionship, a warm shoulder and a healthy sex life are worth more than all the money in the world.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 11:48 PM
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TikTok and IG ARE all about looks and it’s fake as hell. Everything is filtered and photoshopped to hell and back.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 01:51 AM
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What’s french lemonade? I’m intrigued.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 02:36 AM
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How often do you wash your hair?
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 01:11 PM
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While I certainly respect all posters right to privacy, saying “I live in Spain” isn’t exactly doxing someone. I too am curious what country automatically gives a father 50/50 custody minimum, even after an accusation of abuse by multiple adults and his own children, aren’t you?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 09:34 PM
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My daughter came out as gay to us a few months ago. While certainly not my preference (life can be tougher now) and something I did not see coming, I know that I will support her and love her regardless. You can’t “teach” sexuality. I promise. What you can do, is create and environment where your kid is scared to talk to you and may really end up getting hurt trying to sneak around or suppress who they are. I wish you luck in getting compliance from your kids but I don’t think it’s up to you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 02:29 AM
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What about widows? They can’t really help that their spouse died.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 12:54 PM
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I’m so happy to hear that. A lot of women are not in the same position as you. I wish you all the luck in the world. Stay strong!
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 12:02 AM
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It’s finally nice out so we are grilling. Hot dogs, some steaks, potatoes and veggies. Mmmmm.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 07:51 PM
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I remember you. Where are you going? Do you have a set up place to go? Are going home?
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 03:56 AM
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He doesn’t sound like Captain material in my opinion and I don’t know if, at his age, there is much you can do about that. Whatever your decision, now is the time to make it, not 10’years from now when your SMV is way down.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 08:59 PM
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I’m so sorry. My best advice is when people offer help, TAKE IT. Now is not the time to worry about being a burden or if you’re being annoying or whatever. If someone offers to make dinners, say yes. If someone offers to take the kids off a bit. Say yes. Also hire an attorney. I wish you peace.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 05:20 PM
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Sometimes after you start, you realize you’re into it. That’s how it was for me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 03:40 PM
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You are sorry. Now go get your laundry done.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 01:44 AM
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If nothing else, a stern call from his parents might get him to see reason.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 01:50 PM
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If you have stairs in your home I read somewhere a poster who took each piece of laundry down and back up to the washer individually. By the end of it she had done like 2,000 steps. Going to try it tomorrow.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 02:51 AM
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Red beans and rice are a go to for me. I don’t have a recipe as I just throw things together but I bet you can find one online easily. Cheap, nutritious and delicious. Don’t be shy with the seasonings/spices.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 02:49 AM
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I agree with this about the social media so much. I would scroll through Instagram and think, when did everyone become so gorgeous? They’re not-the effort, poses, filters etc that are put into some stuff is INSANE. Don’t compare yourself to what is, in essence, a complete fabrication.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 10:24 PM
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Be friendly with them, you’d be surprised—they are just people who may have gotten a better shell, but on the inside you may be more alike than you think. And I will say that grooming and how you dress, do your makeup/hair, your teeth and how you carry yourself can be a huge part of your “attractiveness”. Being slim is a great start!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 10:21 PM
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Again, I’m happy for you and that this works so well for you. Eta: I am curious if you and he have children together? With kids this just doesn’t seem workable, but if you’re childless then I think this independent way of life would work well with each person only doing what they want.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 10:11 PM
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I think you and your husband have worked things out quite well but I disagree with you posting what works for you as a guide to happiness for all. Also, would your husband be as understanding if the tables were turned and it was his family and their activities? Just curious.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 07:26 PM
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• pray out loud and come up with an idea to remember the wins • never drink alone (bars don’t count) • lose 10 lbs—move 10 minutes a day. • do one self care thing a week (pedicure,Botox, etc) • leave the house once a day-even to walk the dog • Christmas shopping completed by December 13 • skincare
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 03:44 AM
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You can do it!!!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 03:39 AM
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Awwww. That makes me so sad.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/19 02:43 AM
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Ahhhhh. That’s wonderful. Congratulations!!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 02:19 AM
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Or in the wise words of Dita Von Teese: “You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches”
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 06:44 PM
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You can’t get someone to lead. The very statement is the exact opposite of what you’re asking. Don’t get him to lead, let yourself be led. And if that turns your stomach a bit (I struggle with this as well) then it’s not going to work. Lead by being led with all faith that the man you married and had a child with is capable of being a leader. If you can’t give up control then you have to either accept things as they are (and they won’t change) or leave. It’s that easy and that hard.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 06:12 AM
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I don’t know but I know of two guy friends who have mentioned multiple times that they didn’t like that their wives didn’t have college degrees. They married those women anyway and I think that opinion is more a reflection of their own insecurities.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 06:24 PM
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There was some study done a while back that I wish I could remember but it basically found that men (all ages) found their wives to be more attractive by some wide margin than the women themselves did. Essentially, love goggles are a real thing. 😍
/r/RedPillWives05/10/19 06:40 PM
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I’m a 5’ tall little old lady (by reddit standards) and I was always taught that you shouldn’t start any fight you can’t finish. This whole thing was a shit show though.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/19 03:13 AM
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Well then, fuckyeah and thank you. May you be gilded Sir/Lady Blahblah.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/19 02:51 AM
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What’s “gear”? As far as I know that’s steroids for bodybuilders.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/19 11:30 PM
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Well then asking for a guy above 6’ kinda makes sense in her case.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 10:41 PM
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Is she 5’11”?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 06:35 PM
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I admire your self-awareness, kindness and generosity with no expectation of anything in return. My question is if he brings home a young woman and they are being affectionate and flirty, how will you feel? I am 100% behind your motivation but I still feel like you need to protect yourself a bit. Please don’t set yourself up to be embarrassed or ridiculed. It’s not a common movie theme for nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/19 11:54 PM
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Met in college. I was 20 and he was 28. He had done two tours in the AF and was going to school on GI bill. We both worked at a restaurant (he was a bartender and I was a hostess). We started dating after 6 months of being friends. For those 6 months we never were intimate but flirty. I never dated anyone during that time and he saw who I was and my values. I was definitely not riding the CC and was working hard to get good grades. After a few months when I went to his place he showed me a drawe…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/19 09:26 PM
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I do well in the summer as I wear a lot of dresses etc. Winter/cold weather is what I struggle with. Sweatpants, a T-shirt and sweaters or sweatshirts keep me warm (and my Captain likes the lower heating bill!) but don’t look very feminine or attractive. I would appreciate any suggestions any one has.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/19 08:04 PM
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I would love some links to cotton dresses on Amazon. TIA!!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/19 03:53 PM
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Quite frankly men and women should know how to prepare at least one decent meal, and sew on a button. We learned this is Home Ec in junior high.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 04:00 PM
3

Have you ever watched the show “Everybody Loves Raymond” if you have and don’t particularly enjoy the dynamic between the mom and DIL, I would ask him to move out and create some boundaries or cut bait and run.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 01:02 PM
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I am 8 years younger than my husband so when we met (me 20 and him 28) it was easy for him to be the captain and I his first mate. I was always feminine, but was not on the “marriage path” although when I met him I knew he was the man I would marry. He was hesitant in proposing and I was fine with that. I had an internship I had to complete for college so I accepted one 10 hours from home and just went on with my life. That summer he cane to visit and proposed. I wasn’t playing hard to get but I…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 12:20 AM
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I was wondering the same. Maybe a floss pick ?
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 11:32 AM
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What is the curl wrap? Can describe or link? That would be awesome. Tia!
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 12:19 AM
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Ahhhaahh that’s why I never mentioned test driving because in the car world it would be fine but for my analogy it doesn’t work. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 08:55 PM
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This is my analogy: Say that I like Mercedes, I LOVE Mercedes. I have committed my whole life to only having and driving a Mercedes. My BFF wants to go to a Porsche showroom, I go, I look around, I sit in some of the Porsche’s, I like the way they look and consider them to be pretty nice cars, I may even take a picture of some of the nicer ones. Then I happily get in my Mercedes and go home and continue my Mercedes loving life. You can appreciate, admire even maybe fantasize a bit about somethin…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 11:48 PM
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I agree. My captain is an executive and while he makes all the "big" decisions, he really prefers that I handle the minutiae of life as he wants to just step down from being in charge of everything all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 08:52 PM
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I did not read the post as I can’t access it from mobile but I cook every single day of the week except for Friday which is Disney Movie and pizza night for the family. We go out to eat sometimes but it is rare. I personally love cooking and feeding people. It brings me a lot of satisfaction watching people enjoy my food and if women are saying they are proud they can’t cook, they’re really missing out on a fulfilling aspect of life. My 6 year old and her pickiness makes me question all of this …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 11:41 AM
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Great to hear!! Did you feel any better?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/19 05:00 PM
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Sounds like a good plan to me!!
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/19 12:04 AM
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Feminism is about being allowed to choose and not being condemned for your choice. I’m not sure what your pseudo-intellectual, “woke” wall of text was trying to say but have at it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 05:00 AM
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I consider myself a feminist in that I don’t think any sex (gender?) has any greater inherent quality than the other. However, I do believe we are very different. I don’t need to be a man or do things that men do, just as men don’t need to women and do things women do. True feminism to me is having a choice, and any “feminist” that says that being a great wife and mother isn’t feminist is not really a feminist herself. I hope this makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 10:50 PM
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I personally think he wants a friends with benefits relationship. If he wanted to get back with you he would have said something to that effect by now.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 04:42 PM
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My husband works in finance and he can easily work 60-80 hour weeks. I’m not going to lie and say it hasn’t been hard-especially after kids. I had many years of resentment and feeling like he lived his job more than us-i had to change my viewpoint that he is doing what he has to do to provide for us and set us and our kids up for an easier life. In terms of making life easier, I always have a hot dinner waiting for him when he gets home (usually reheated from what the kids and I ate earlier). I …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 05:30 PM
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So glad to hear it!
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 10:27 PM
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I don’t know the age range but a pandora or Spotify station of smooth jazz played low in the background is always good.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 02:43 AM
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I agree. I was going to post having something green. Brussels sprouts go well with a heavier dish like brisket but green beans are a safer bet. Also, prep prep prep as much as you can beforehand. Some foods actually taste better after setting a bit so consider that. In terms of fats, don’t be shy, whole milk, good butter (I love kerrygold) will make things taste great. Same with herbs and veggies. In my local stores you can buy mirepoix which is a base for almost everything as well as packets of…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 02:40 AM
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Sounds like you have a real winner there. Hold on tight to him!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 08:15 PM
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The past is gone so stop beating yourself up about it and start being kinder to yourself. On one hand you are 24 and you wish you had done things differently. On the other hand, you are 24 and have a WHOLE big beautiful life ahead of you. And I’m not saying this to be trite, I am 41 and at 24 you still have time to be whatever and whoever you want. Leave the past right there where it belongs and start with one thing a day to improve yourself. Do that thing everyday for 21 days and then pick a ne…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/19 04:24 PM
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I love this response. I’m older (41) but my former nanny is a Miss USA and current nanny is a model who is dating an NBA player. These girls are gorgeous, flawless and some of the most kind, down to earth people I have ever met and they are WONDERFUL with kids. I’m so glad that you saw beyond the surface. I have no doubt in my mind that you are just as beautiful as any of them and with the intelligence and poise you expressed in your response, that you will be a great success in your life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/19 04:17 PM
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She is a rapist and pedophile. Plain and simple. Poor kid.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/19 01:03 AM
2

Is it all women with kids or only where there is a bio dad somewhere out there? For example, what about widows with kids? I always wondered about this and hope it’s ok that I ask here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 04:38 PM
3

What if he does love her?
/r/askTRP26/12/18 01:24 AM
3

Because sex feels good?
/r/askTRP24/12/18 10:36 PM
2

If you have Amazon Prime there is a free book that you can get called “Daily Routine Makeover” that walks you through small steps day by day to change your habits.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 01:15 AM
7

He said “stupid OP”
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:14 PM
3

What's wrong with freckles? ​
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:47 PM
2

Pickled eggs in red hot. Mmmmm....
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/18 12:16 PM
5

Minority report but for all my less than ivory ladies and ladies with a great sense of humor: I love Katt Williams, Bernie Mac (RIP) and old Eddie Murphy and Richard Pryor.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 02:55 PM
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My husband is like this and he has a very high-level high pressure job. He says he has to make so many decisions for himself and all his staff all day long and he doesn't want to bother with things like dinners etc when he gets home, because he just doesn't care. I get this and plan the dinners, if he doesn't like what I pick, he tells me and we change the plan. It took some getting used to at first but it's fine. Also, my husband makes all the major decisions, cars, homes, moving so on and so f…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 06:39 PM
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What advice would you give if you read this post by someone else? Whatever that is, and be honest, follow it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 12:07 AM
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This sounds soooooo good. Saving this one for sure!!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 12:03 AM
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Tonight is chicken and veg stir fry. Easy as I just get the cut veggies and cut chicken and add a sauce. Fast easy and relatively healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 12:01 AM
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Avocados are good too for a healthy fat.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 08:24 PM
1

I'm old (41) and have been married 17 years as of a few days ago. :-) I hate to be a cliche but I did meet my husband in college. We both worked at a bar/restaurant and became friends and hung out in a group of people for about 4 months before I realized that he was the one. I was physically attracted to him right away but the admiration, respect, and love came later.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/18 06:30 PM
1

Short (not super short but short) sqoval shape, light pinks and as I get darker in the summer I will go for some bright pinks, reds, oranges etc. I have a personal thing against blues, greens, purples, gray or black on nails (I used to work in tissue recovery and have seen every shade of this depending on how long the donor has been deceased). I'm not a fan of the super long bedazzled (think Cardi B) look but to each their own. Also, I get gel manis and pedis and the polish stays looking great f…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/18 12:36 PM
1

I was raised in a SE Asian household (not sure if that is a factor) and we (4 daughters) were always expected to have our hair look nice, clothes, makeup when we were older and jewelry. I've always loved doing makeup (on myself and others) but feel like you should have nice enough skin and confidence to go out bare-faced and still look good. That said, I always hear guys say they like girls better without makeup so maybe after hearing that, some gals have really taken it to be the truth?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 07:47 PM
1

Was this at a Planet Fitness? Those places suck and they are against actual muscular fit people who can pull a lot of weight.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 04:29 PM
1

Sometimes if you're a big guy (6'3" and muscular) you don't fit in shit either but no shame in that I guess.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 05:42 PM
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He says "reason and accountability"
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 02:43 PM
1

Thank you for your thoughtful and well articulated answer. The thing is, his older brother, who he worships, is the most Chad RP guy ever. 50 years old, rocking an 8 pack, never married no kids, great job, nice car, travels and has HB9-10 plates in every major European country and he says Cialis is the shit (he’s also on T as well). If his brother, who is his idol, is trying to RP him and he’s not interested, then I certainly can’t do it for him. The thing is, in every other aspect of his life h…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:59 PM
1

I asked about that. He says he doesn’t even do that very often anymore. I’m thinking the t-levels Maybe it. Also, motivation for me to hit the gym a little harder and more frequently and lose these 15 lbs.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:58 AM
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I know one of our dry spells was 9 years ago when both his parents died. I understand that kind of grief and depression can devastate you so I just supported him but could he still be depressed from that? I will work on getting him to go to Dr and getting his levels checked. Maybe it’s a simple solution.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:55 AM
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As a woman I'm not going to comment on TRP related stuff, but I wanted to say you are an AWESOME illustrator!
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 04:21 PM
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Haven't watched but I'm guessing some kind of marketing or "social media blah blah blah coordinator."
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 02:52 PM
2

NOOOOOO
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 08:13 PM
1

What about boys raised in environments where the Father wasn't around (work, bar, school, etc.)?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 06:36 PM
0

I don't know about the whole cold shower thing but turning the water to cold at the end of your shower closes your pores and and makes your hair shinier.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 06:59 PM
3

I think this is so perfectly and succinctly put. I couldn't have said it better with such brevity.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 02:59 PM
1

Who is Laura?
/r/RedPillWives05/05/17 12:00 AM
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I appreciate your response. I am working on it and learning the nuances of this sub. I am not perfect but no doubt, I have my opinions, but again, I will learn the appropriate context. Thank you and please accept my apologies if my response was misconstrued. I really though that the OP was being attacked for getting misguided advice from her Aunt, so I defended her, and then myself. Honest mistake.
/r/RedPillWives04/05/17 11:18 PM
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The day that "skank" shows up in Emily Post, please let me know. Until then, it's a base and low class way to refer to anyone. A Lady does not speak in this way in her daily life whether she is on the Internet or conversing with colleagues or company. Disagree all you like but when you Google a term and the first search result is Urban Dictionary, then perhaps you should rethink your manner of speech. I stand by my original statement.
/r/RedPillWives04/05/17 10:13 PM
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Skanks? Is this what we are calling other women now? How elegant. On the other hand, I agree with you in that if a man leaves his SO for you, likelihood he will do it again. And again, and again. EDIT: Spelling.
/r/RedPillWives04/05/17 09:39 PM
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You can remind them ONCE, and I mean ONCE, and then you have to believe that you picked a partner who is capable of being a grown adult, holding down a job, etc. and if they don't do that thing, then it's because they are choosing not to. I do, however, believe that there are situations when people (man or woman) will ask you to remind them and so when that thing doesn't happen/get done, they can blame you for not reminding them as opposed to themselves for not being responsible enough to do it.…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 09:34 PM
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Let's be honest and admit that "reminding" is another word for "nagging." I used to do this too in other things and rationalize it that it was a reminder and not nagging, but it is. No one wants to be treated like a child, especially the person we are supposed to look to as our Captain. Even though you know that being overweight is unhealthy, you CANNOT control someone else's behavior. Either accept this man as he is, fat or thin, and have faith in his ability to do what he needs to do or if you…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 07:49 PM
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Are there any playgroups or something you can join with your toddler to be around other moms or even other moms who are pregnant so you can talk and not feel so isolated and unsupported?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 07:36 PM
3

I had to re-read your comment a few times. I was like what the hell does Kim Kardashian have anything to do with this? LOL
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 05:29 PM
2

I graduated college, and he hadn't proposed yet. I had an internship in a far away state for the summer to finish up my last few credits and they offered me a permanent position. I told him that there was nothing really tying me down to our city and that I was really considering it. It wasn't an ultimatum, per se, but it was definitely a step up or I'm gone type of thing. We did date for 3 years prior but that's only because I was still in college and my Dad would have never allowed me to get ma…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 07:20 PM
1

Why cannellini beans? I am going to try it (have some of that fresh tortellini that cooks super fast in my fridge right now) but I would never have thought to add beans. Do you have to spice them a certain way?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:44 PM
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