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i don't agree with TRP. alpha and beta are concepts used by men, that is evidence that men think more about personality than women if anything. if you say that men prefer women of some type (silent you suggest) you are admitting that they care about personality. you simply don't want to accept that a more passive (in an extroverted sense) personality is nonetheless personality. from my perspective you are the one denying the value of femininity. men love women and do not hate anything that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:26 PM
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i don't believe that women are more interested in a man's personality than men are women's. for sex only, sure, men have a stronger sex drive generally, in the sense of lust for the physical body blind to other aspects of the person. men do fall for a woman's personality, it generally is true that physical attraction acts as a gateway to this possibility. i think we can say that often a man's achievements and his expressed romantic interest for her act as gateways to a woman's love of an individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:01 PM
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in your opinion, do women love men generally? do women not feel the need to control and take possession of a man? do they deep down respect the things men say and do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:21 PM
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it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:37 PM
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50% obesity in the US by 2030
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:25 AM
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you're INTJ with Fe PoLR. save yourself the stress and try to have faith that other people experience this, rather unfortunate and difficult to manage, vicarious suffering stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:22 AM
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i agree that it can be very difficult to try and see the real human being behind the thoughts of random internet strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:49 PM
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fine for you, but what is wack about people taking it seriously here in real discussion when the genuinely do care about it.. just as you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:55 PM
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loving relationships are the most significant thing in life to the majority of people. it's true: people base their life around seeking sex, love, and relationships and take it "super serious"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:33 PM
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also there's less pressure to keep a partner. if you lose a relationship with someone like this, the next person you meet is likely to be an improvement no pressure, very comfy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 03:49 PM
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i agree completely. i think this is at the heart of the "nice guy" phenomenon. their niceness is an "outcome dependent" tool, not fundamental to who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:22 PM
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those types tend to be concerned for the well-being of society as a whole, not their own personal interest. you can disagree, but you might as well understand them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 01:59 PM
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the flipside is the insecurity that accompanies the feeling that your partner "could do better"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 01:44 PM
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sure, i agree. still, it is my experience that if you can manage to stop entirely for an extended period of time there is a significant effect on motivation, determination, sense of strength and well-being, etc. it's reasonable enough not to particularly care about those things if you're satisfied where you are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:08 PM
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try it, or don't. i didnt quote any scientific studies. the proof will be in the experience for you, or not. is drive diminished by satisfaction or not? we all know the truth and science just tells us what we all know already when it comes to humanity.. when you jack off are you motivated or less motivated afterwards to go fuck a real woman in life? there's no secret or mystery to it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:15 PM
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yeah, i know how it is. the truth is what is it though. where's my cult?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:09 PM
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nicely done. angry make-up sex should be (high) on the list
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:39 PM
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pursuit is masculine, porn compromises the pursuit of real world women because you're satiated. it's like when you're starving you might be willing to go very far to get food (including violence --masculine stuff); but fat ass modern people (surrounded by food) are not willing to spend 15 minutes preparing something healthy a lot of the time. it's not as big a problem for women because they're not generally, or at least expected to be/judged upon being, the pursuers. a man constantly satisfied b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:31 PM
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an improvement over hating them and asking for them to tag themselves so you could ignore them. post pics of your hapa kids, or at least DM them to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:16 AM
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you love Asians. i take some credit for having shamed you during purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:29 AM
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women can buy beauty (you've seen what they're doing in Korea by now I'm sure), more so than men can buy what it takes to be truly desirable to women.. of course men have to do something with themselves, but genetics and circumstances of birth play a huge role obviously; the latter being far more important to men than women, generally speaking and teen body? i thought you were late twenties, no? how'd your Chinese lover pan out?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:20 AM
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women are the original neggers.. i thought everyone knew this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:02 AM
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cultivating your mind tends to make you boring to the average person edit: perhaps, it's more pertinent that the average person becomes boring to the cultured intelligent person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:00 AM
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the negatives of being far above average is that a relatively smaller number of people seem satisfying to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:58 AM
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attractive is way better and it's not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:43 AM
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the opposite is most certainly closer to the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:40 AM
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you're alright with me Geyejoe7
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:19 PM
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yes, clearly. but it's probably fair to say that most people involved are misanthropic and have contempt for most men, women, and even themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 05:39 PM
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conscious or not, games are fantasy roleplay and people feel 'accomplished' through video game 'achievement' that has no practical connection with the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:54 PM
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don't know about you, but if you can't see that people feel empowered by their membership in fan groups and political parties then i don't know what to tell you.. these things can be central to many many people's identities and they can really build their self-worth around them. imo being a 'witch' is more 'real' than being the fan of a sports team whose life revolves around the outcome of other people doing things on their TV screens
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:52 PM
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video games are acting out of fantasy, sports fans feel empowered vicariously, political groups let you feel you're connected with someone that has basically nothing to do with you, comic book/fantasy/sci-fi roleplaying types, porn... how many deluded fantasies do you want listed? almost everyone lives in a fantasy on some level through the massive amount of entertainment that people consume now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:18 PM
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Atlas_B_Shruggin
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:50 PM
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yes. i've imagined there's a real connection and that people are now actively enhancing their 'oppression' credentials in the belief that this will both practically and emotionally benefit them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 02:48 PM
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- i didn't mention oppression nor did your original comment. introducing loaded concepts in the middle of a discussion without any attempt to establish what the other person believes about those concepts demonstrates bad faith and the discussion should simply be brought to a stop most of the time - your 3rd and 4th paragraphs do not fit the reality of the affirmative action world that I am familiar with here in 21st century United States. - homemaker stereotype is entirely a thing of the past at…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 01:49 PM
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people want to sex those that turn them on sometimes. doing it for $ is something else entirely. i'm sure you can see the difference. it's like the difference between eating a free delicious steak or being paid to eat a shit sandwich
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 12:20 AM
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yes, but they won't admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:46 PM
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it has nothing to do with morality and i've never seen anyone claim that it does
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:42 PM
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- all meaningful "equality" is at an individual level. it doesn't matter if you're a member of elite group A, B and C if you yourself don't measure, in fact it looks much worse for you than if you were in disadvantaged group D - there will never be "equality" of groups. if there was women would immediately abandon their pretense of wanting equality because the stereotype of being weaker serves women not men. i promise you that a huge percentage of men would embrace the idea of being the weaker s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:33 PM
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impressive summary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:13 PM
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i'm glad i'm not the only one noticing these things Madman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 11:34 PM
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Lot of cultural explanations someone could try giving to explain that. Was the guy Korean or Japanese?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:38 PM
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You've come a long way in 5 days Ms "attractive white girls don't want anything to do with Asians". Or was it just to prove to yourself you were right all along?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:19 PM
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People are only responsible for themselves and this place is filled with whiny men who need to stop crying about women and blaming them for their own bad behavior, weakness, and inability to control themselves. All moralizing aside, no woman respects a man with a victim mentality and it's simply practical for many here to realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:59 PM
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Nothing uniquely Islamic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:55 PM
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these are great. i hadn't heard your first one.. reminds me of: Always Look On The Bright Side Of Life ,which i love and Flowers Are Pretty - Vandals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:39 AM
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are you the Rocket Queen type?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:35 AM
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have another: should hit deep given the reality of Kurt and this being the last released song You Know You're Right - Nirvana I will never bother you I will never promise to I will never follow you I will never bother you Never speak a word again I will crawl away for good I will move away from here You won't be afraid of fear No thought was put into this And always knew it would come to this Things have never been so swell I have never failed to fail Pain x3 You Know You're Right x3 Frances Far…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:16 AM
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William Wallace as Braveheart
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:59 PM
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i agree that reddit, and perhaps ppd particularly, can be even more R than IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:00 PM
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romance is about valuing (idealizing) to the exclusion of other things.. pragmatism is about taking what is expedient and at hand, it avoids valuing anything too greatly because there's a lot of pain to be had in valuing what you can't have, or especially in admitting that you're not worthy of what you value romantics get the highs and lows; pragmatists just stay comfy and take what's handed them - i'm a fairly extreme romantic and view pragmatism as cowardly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:22 PM
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nobody-cares children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:02 PM
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nerds like him have to play up their masculinity, masculine men have to be able to show their soft side...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:36 PM
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if it had that much effect on you I suppose that makes you the retard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:54 PM
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Brothers Karamazov (anything Dostoevsky), Anna Karenina (anything Tolstoy), Faust (Goethe), The Man Without Qualities, Autobiography of Malcolm X, Meditations (Aurelius), Hesse, Nietzsche, Jung, Kierkegaard, religious texts..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:29 PM
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only to a very limited degree, more or less mimicry/acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:13 PM
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that's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:07 PM
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Masculine: Very High 94% Feminine: Very High 81% that's pretty much how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:46 PM
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the underlying logic is the dehumanization/objectification of the women and the recognition that you're putting on a kind of 'performance' to impress an 'audience' -- it just shows that the game is played for ego reasons, not for actual pleasure or real desire to intimately associate with large numbers of people whom you have contempt for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:38 PM
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i'll trade my snobbishness for your easy to please .. i can hardly watch most modern movies tbh, but what i do like i really love edit: pretty inline with my attitude towards dating/romance to make the ppd-relevent connection
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:28 AM
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i'm sure there's plenty of movies we'd agree on Sublime. i wouldn't nominate any of the three for Razzies, they're not poorly made films and there's entertainment to be had from them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:56 PM
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nobody that valued the woman/women in their life would use the term "spinning plates" to describe their romantic life. any man that uses those words is lacking in 'abundance'... it's a debate forum and i think i'll hang around as long as i please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:28 PM
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every woman you've ever been with would choose me over you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:18 PM
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30 times a day, every day, for 100 years
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:16 PM
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abundance is about being satisfied and internally strong/fulfilled; chasing after empty encounters with women you have no respect for is the opposite of this mentality.. it demonstrates emptiness, lack of satisfaction, neediness, weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:12 PM
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If You Wanna Be Happy - Jimmy Soul If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:45 PM
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Eat Pray Love, Inglorious Basterds, Get Out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:41 PM
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everybody's kumbaya upfront
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:03 AM
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Christian not Muslim now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:12 AM
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"lots of personality" is not the same as good personality... generally it's the opposite imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:11 AM
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they're going to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:29 AM
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no surprise. yellow fever and you secretly love bros
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:14 AM
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no doubt. and it'd be better than almost any woman can give.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:03 AM
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i feel confident that you can find a less bro Asian man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:58 AM
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personality is not overstated. it's just that incel personality is not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:56 AM
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yeah, they all should give it a shot. really up that N-count when you're playing the whole field
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:55 AM
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not bad..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:54 AM
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low self-esteem people can fuck up your life if you're not careful. "Player" types love them because they're easy to get in bed and don't care about the fallout because it's all rearview mirror to those assholes. player types are, of course, themselves low self-esteem wannabes. ironically, people that have low self-esteem tend to display themselves "as if" they have high self-esteem .. which invariably fools other low self-esteem people. true high self-esteem doesn't go out of its way to peacock…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:05 PM
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you dont know the first thing then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:41 PM
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everything SK is telling you is correct and you'd do well to listen closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:36 PM
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they're indirectly saying that those men have low self-esteem, and they're right. birds of a feather flock masculine women don't have a tendency towards high self-esteem, just as feminine men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:35 PM
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it's fantasizing about having sex with another person. if the pornstar lived across the street i think your gf/wife wouldn't find it quite so innocent. the more you dream of fucking other women the less you're invested in your partner, but maybe your partner doesn't care..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:29 PM
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briefly, i think mother's are generally the primary purveyors of culture and that in Western/white countries AMWF children are oftentimes brought up to view themselves as Western -- they fit in better. somewhat more tenuously, the AMs in AMWF tend to be of higher quality than the WMs in WMAF and a lot of the hapa angst seems to be aimed at their WM father (for his faults), or at the AF for taking the WM despite his faults (fetishizing).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:51 PM
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Roseanne Barr, Paula Poundstone, Gilda, Jane Curtin, Madeline Kahn, Teri Garr, Janeane Garafolo, Julia L-D, Ellen sometimes,Wiig sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:38 PM
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i'm mixed-race 'hapa'/eurasian and pretty happy to be alive, but yeah i had identity and self-esteem issues for a couple decades. rare Asian father variety though. AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:13 PM
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yeah i don't, but do your thing.. i didn't have in you mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:06 PM
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you finally realized you can't have your sister's children be far cuter and smarter than yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:00 PM
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by considerate i only mean 'not in your face contemptuous'. i don't mean ego-stroking wet nurse. any inappropriate private messages can, and should, be ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:30 PM
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it costs you nothing to be considerate. open contempt drives people deeper into their neuroticism/resentment. there is zero benefit in being a bitch; it's not impressive or a sign of being 'empowered' to dunk on the weak. the people that come here to troll on the weak are just displaying their own weakness - true for both men and women. can't fight fire with fire; two wrongs don't make a right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:23 PM
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Beauty and the devil are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:15 PM
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he certainly dreamt of being one. i'd suggest his suicidal depression was largely due to his inner-knowledge that he didn't measure up to the macho-man myth he built around himself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:13 PM
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you're right ♥
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:53 AM
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you're with the wrong person if you expect casual sex with stranger to be better than sex with your committed partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:05 PM
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we just need the AI algorithms to get to work assigning us perfect partners. Google already knows more about you than you know yourself.. throw in everyone's DNA records to help sort things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:03 PM
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i'd never.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:32 AM
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yeah, them also wokein and civilseaworthiness, but maybe they weren't banned
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:43 PM
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are dudes putting their love of video games on their OLD profiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:49 PM
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♥ i already gave you the title of sweetest ppd poster so you know the feeling's mutual. fortunately for our budding e-relationship: i too refuse to date, or to receive oral pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:59 PM
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easy to find in 1 minute of google searching: people born to genetically diverse parents more likely to be taller and more intelligent says study and more facially attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:39 PM
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yeah, she should've gone full minority for the perfect 50/50 babies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:29 PM
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you can choose your own society and identity now. just reinvent if you don't like the current hand dealt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:28 PM
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this person ruined whatever natural beauty they possessed imo. hard to look at honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:22 PM
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Seal and Heidi - because interracial love is so hot right now during ppd purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:18 PM
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they exist, but who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:13 PM
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this is why you should be taking those offers from your Indian suitors and start making with the cute kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:11 PM
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i don't think you'll see its value unless you can really accept that one type seems much more you than all the other types.. which might allow you to then go on to better understand yourself, your blindspots, find people that think about the world as you do, consider what type is best for you romantically, etc etc.. there's definite power in it if you take it seriously, but you won't get anything out of it if you just want to take one test and then move on. what do you test as? what are your tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:07 PM
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can't argue with science
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:57 PM
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stuff like that would be a turn on for a lot of them and for the crowd too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:34 PM
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Eve was a mistake wasn't she
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:26 PM
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white woman's woe (indian men) For Indian men, nothing's fairer than white, and nothing 'more available' - white skin fetish plus western girls seem easy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:21 PM
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it's definitely a thing elsewhere and irl, but most men here seem equal opportunity/take what they can get. is this how they talk to you in your DMs? just a reminder, the appropriate tag is: eurasian master race
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:06 PM
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i don't think i've seen a single post, or even comment, here by a man of any race fetishizing white women. race only seems to come up when whiny white women bring it up. i'm half and half asian - white
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:57 PM
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have the men in your life helped make it feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:06 PM
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you're the common denominator in all of your sexual encounters. if you have lots of women and they're mostly mediocre guess what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:56 PM
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what's up for question is only whether your life is valuable and whether you make those around you feel valuable. if so, you will be a good partner and good father to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:44 PM
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i'll name the man at the heart of what you're dancing around: Judd Apatow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:36 PM
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it's wrong to have children if you think that your genes are shitty, yes. not because of your genes, but because you don't respect yourself or life. it would also be wrong for you to take a lover for the same reason. if you find a way to be glad of your existence then i don't think you'll doubt any longer if it is worthwhile for someone inheriting half of you, and half of a woman of your choice, to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 11:48 AM
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God is a concept by which we measure our pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 06:58 PM
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:) i don't think humans are obsolete. i don't know that current models of education are focused on human issues and the development of creativity.. but i'd be happy to be wrong about that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:53 PM
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education as we know it will go completely obsolete within the 21st century imo. it's largely obsolete already. we carry around all symbolic knowledge known to man on our phones and AI can answer any question we pose better than we can
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:54 AM
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we should learn from our mistakes and make peace with our past, but we can't let the past weigh us down. the time for focusing on is the present where new 'future regrets' come knocking every day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:40 AM
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i dig you dandy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 03:57 AM
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you're right. in other words, it's used completely incorrectly by people that are probably functionally solipsistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 03:55 AM
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one that you changes your mind about yourself and humanity. if you continue thinking as you do now you are absolutely better off alone and any attempt at a relationship will be harmful to both you and anyone you engage with. the superficiality is in yourself if you believe that men only care about looks. if you're a genuine narc and admitting it then you're on a good path as that's not easy to admit. good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 02:54 AM
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generally matches with my experiences in life. chivalry is dying because masculinity is dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:33 PM
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Bells Of War - WuTangClan Y'all niggas deal with emotions like bitches What's sad is I love you cause you're my brother You traded your soul for riches My child, I've watched you grow up to be famous And now I smile like a proud dad watchin' his only son that made it You seem to be only concerned with dissing women Were you abused as a child? Scared to smile? They called you ugly? Well life is harsh; hug me, don't reject me Ether - NAS
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:12 AM
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i dont really know the answer. but here is my guess. beautiful people have often been beautiful from birth, whereas sexiness is both a demeanor and a way of presenting oneself.. often with special effort paid to emphasizing/highlighting sexual desirability/availability. the beautiful from birth people have been, in general, treated more kindly by the world since birth. extra cute babies --> extra cute kids... the world loves them and they become well disposed to the world. when it seems like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 03:34 AM
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you want a woman with aesthetic sensibility which she actualizes in her person and deportment. you have taste and want a woman of taste. i'd replace stupidity with vulgarity in Nietzsche's quote personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:04 AM
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being a liar is worse than any other quality you can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 01:08 AM
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i answered your questions. my original statement answers the OP. confidence and faith are linked. ambition on display is not attractive, it shows that you're incomplete and have something to prove. if you must have it then at least have the sense not to crow about it. nihilism is extremely unattractive and your definition is wanting. better to say this: "life has value and meaning because i say so, and if it doesn't now i will create the meaning and value for myself and others" let's stop discus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 07:25 PM
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it's actually justifications that are useless (when you're living according to values). no matter how much you perfect or hone whatever values you have it's the living them that brings the benefits of them to you and the world. life requires no justification. love requires no justification. pleasure requires no justification. etc etc you should realize by now that the highest men don't stop to justify anything. beliefs may be useless. the will is not. if your life is useless it's just you that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 07:03 PM
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that's true. and so? valuing objects has always been the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:33 PM
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i like your confidence ;p but no, there's a way back from the bottom. all the stories talk about it. if you're a nihilist then certainly you're not the one to say what works and what doesn't. you have no values so it's better for you to listen to those that do to at least make your days interesting. the difference between nihilism and salvation is just perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:21 PM
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call it faith if you prefer. nobody said it's easy. nihilism is about halfway there i'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:05 PM
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not as easy to achieve this type of confidence as you might imagine. even if you can fool your inner voice, there can still be another part of you that knows better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:41 PM
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it's true. no sarcasm. sarcasm is for the weak
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:37 PM
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Biggest problem to have is hating life and loving nothing. We got a lot of that in this so called 1st world. Maybe Last World is more fitting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:36 PM
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how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:31 PM
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if he genuinely believes he deserves her then she'll take notice. most of the time men making a play don't really have that type of self-confidence. in that case he is lacking awareness -- of himself most significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:33 PM
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Green Day - Nice Guys Finish Last "Nice guys finish last, when you are the outcast don't pat yourself on the back, you might break your spine" also this one: The Offspring - Self Esteem "I know she's playing with me, that's okay, 'cause I got no self-esteem."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 10:09 AM
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would i compared to the average person? yes, undoubtedly. of course standards could be put in place. anyway, it was a random BS impossible thought and i have no more to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:43 AM
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do people date now? i thought they just got their rocks off. killing off dating entirely sounds like a plus to me tbh. but i don't agree at all that this would happen. rather, quality people would be able to better judge who actually is worth their time dating and a sane dating market would develop. as in any market, information is always beneficial towards improving outcomes. and i don't see at all why the government would be involved. quality people would strictly benefit from this information…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:00 AM
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most men have little to no respect for themselves or other men. but if you think of some man you do respect who has a partner you also respect, i'm guessing you can imagine how it feels to be disappointed if you find out he's sleeping with every girl he meets behind her back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 09:04 PM
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Permanent searchable sexual history database for all adults with reviews and comments
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 08:49 PM
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it's an insult and it always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:19 PM
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Dick-heads
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 01:21 PM
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in practice women care about men's status so personality traits are (indirectly) very relevant, even in the beginning. (given that both are integrated into an established social group where some people are clearly higher status than others) the fact that people meet as total strangers and there can be little chance for the woman to truly see how the man interacts with other peopl is definitely a problem though. in the world of Tinder men with no real friends or true leadership ability can capita…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:20 AM
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Your 7th function "blindspot" is Fe Atlas. Fe plays a prominent role in attuning to and empathizing with others’ emotions. It allows FJs to recreate another’s emotion state within themselves, allowing them to literally feel what the other person is feeling Loss of love is often due to things that cause the person who is failing to suffer. A Fe dominant will remain focused on the suffering of the person that they might otherwise be judgmental or rejecting towards. They can see the fault of the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:17 PM
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it means having concern for, aka valuing, a person no matter what they do. it obviously exists and yes mothers will never stop caring for their sons even if their son was a homeless murdering thief that steals from her to buy drugs. The tree in the famous child's picture book "The Giving Tree" is a classic depiction Unconditional love for all people is a religious ideal and the quality of the perfect saint; or the core characteristic of the benevolent/merciful God
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:47 PM
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"nice guys" aren't good. they just know they want to be seen as good in the most basic possible ways.. like never being offensive, saying inane positive platitudes, etc. they're mostly harmless and can be pleasant to be around. at their worst though they can seem to be feckless cowards/posers. when they they start getting fussy about how the world's not fair to them because they think they're actually good it looks pathetic i'm sorry to say masculine men face life and see problems and seek to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:47 PM
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apologizing to those you have harmed is a worthy gesture
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:40 AM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:38 AM
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devil may care attitude might be better, but taking responsibility for yourself is certainly great too and much easier said than done. the former does help you realize the latter pursuing a passionate vision(s) with bold dedication is nice as well. (not caring can, surprisingly, help you be bold and passionate while taking responsibility)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 08:34 AM
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ahh, i dont think people read this chat thread enough for you to get much attention i'm afraid :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:44 PM
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fun. maybe you'll start a trend until the mods crackdown on it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:52 PM
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1.yup they should have their own morals, but being able to operate harmoniously with the established ones is ideal. this is part of respecting others imo i'm not that way, but i can respect someone that has that type of self-control the ideal partner has no fixed vices but is open and able to partake in anything without becoming attached to it depends on the law depends on the law generally yes not overly so, but there's nothing positive about that it's not a sign of good character
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:31 AM
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you need a really romantic emotional guy, with some aggression, to get you out of your head i'd say or an exorcism maybe. did you consult the tarot?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:08 AM
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the feeling's mutual PJ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:41 AM
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i like your style. :) a couple new ones for me so thank you. that Shatner cover is hilarious. :) but yeah, the Pulp version is an all-time classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:41 AM
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Yeah, I'm not moving to Detroit anytime soon either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:08 PM
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Happy for you. Do you hate those that don't respond as well to adversity as you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:58 PM
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I've felt this way too at times. Sometimes it's the ones that feel the most like you do that end up giving up though when the situation seems impossibly broken. I feel something similar from MGTOW and Incel types at times. Resentment to despair to abandoning hope. Nothing good comes from hate, better just to ignore what you can't see the good in. I suppose that's good mgtow not resentful mgtow. In my opinion the drug addict is "enjoying the decline" just as so many RP types do. Get what you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:59 PM
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are you sure that you'd be any different if you were born in their position?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:20 PM
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The Purple Pill (TPP) does not endorse this. Blue Pill - Women are oppressed. Red Pill - Men are oppressed Purple Pill knows the truth; Everyone is the oppressed and the oppressor. Try to be nicer friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:02 PM
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need is too strong of an attitude, yes. but feeling vulnerable towards a person, in the sense that you are opening yourself to them sincerely, is not the same as needing. on the contrary, allowing yourself to be open can lead to trust in the relationship, and perhaps more importantly in yourself. building trust actually lowers the sense of need generally, because the feeling of need is strongly connected to jealousy which is founded on lack of trust. you are right that we must learn to love and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 01:18 PM
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you should've told me about this song sooner. now you owe a list of some more good songs; this time for living not dying. please, ty :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:22 AM
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The Kinks - Strangers Fearless - Pink Floyd Prince - Erotic City New Order - Temptation Allegri - Miserere Mei, Deus Life on Mars? - David Bowie Only Love Can Break Your Heart - St. Etienne Volcano - Beck Superstar - Sonic Youth Radiohead - Street Spirit (Fade Out) Talk Talk - It's My Life Pixies - The Happening
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:21 AM
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misogynistic take that women can never choose anything for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:07 PM
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humans fight! lots of men dead and all the loser men are slaughtered completely! the men at the top are terrible at sharing with the other men! most men are basically poor slaves... lots of women are left to the men at the top thanks to how shitty men are to other men. if they preferred death they could always choose the exit door, so many men have no choice in the matter. well, i suppose all those dead men could be hangin with virgins in heaven.. so they got that going for them. Women aren't sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:05 PM
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you upholding your own ideals is your own responsibility; and you can't claim ideals that you don't live by. it's an old idea sure, but it never goes out of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:23 AM
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Hate the player, not the game. Men without conscience, without ideals. Spreading their sickness. They themselves are the decline. How enjoyable is it really?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:27 AM
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i like women that try to appeal to me the reason? they're appealing and they're trying edit: this means that she tries to sell herself hard as being 'different' than other women too? yeah, she really should be special, let's hope so - obviously she should act that way only for me, not desperate for every and any man ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:45 PM
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do you cuddle with your bros?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:44 PM
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found the perfect solution for so many of you ppd men: Men's cuddling group aims to redefine masculinity and heal trauma At a time when traditional ideas of manhood are facing scrutiny and such terms as toxic masculinity are becoming more widely known through the MeToo movement, the group aims to provide new ways for men to express themselves. “So often, we’re taught that to be an emotional stoic is the mark of manhood,” said Scott Turner, a 46-year-old interior designer and cofounder of the gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 03:08 PM
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would you prefer that people that help others gain no happiness from their benevolence? hard to believe that you think this would be an improvement for the world. and if kindness is so gratifying than why don't we see more of the "most graceful acts of kindness." in fact there is much more to doing good for others than you imagine i assure you; it is certainly not always emotionally rewarding or pleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 12:16 PM
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hopefully with time you'll find it easier to find men that are more understanding or at find a way to make expectations more established upfront
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:43 AM
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why does your mind not want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:16 AM
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have you looked for support and understanding from others that have had narcissistic parents? there is a large sub on reddit (460k subbed) for people who've had to deal with N parents. https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 03:51 AM
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is that how you feel about your own acts of kindness? do you ever feel that you are not acting a self-serving manner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 03:48 AM
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are you not able to limit your strong desire for sex to the confines of a committed relationship? or do you have no interest in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 03:47 AM
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yes. it is practical to be a narcissist now, as it always was. being 'loved' for the mask you wear, you know somewhere inside that mask isn't you. it's a bad place to be when you're loved for your things, your job, your fading looks, your photoshopped social media pics, etc etc but when you think the best of things are outside and not inside you don't know what the best thing is (loving and feeling loved); narcissism is a problem of love in the end. - not trying to say there's an easy solution
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:44 PM
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narcissism is inward weakness, outward inflation. it is the 'love' of a false image that you create outside yourself (in your perception of how others' view you). when you try hard to be perfect on the outside in hope that someone will give you the love that you don't feel for yourself internally. this is why it's so unstable and needs to be fed constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:36 PM
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too hard on yourself :( but you admit that part too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:28 AM
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my second sentence explained that this way of thinking is not for everyone; ultimately this is just semantics in most cases --- nonetheless i wrote more thoughts for you another way to frame 'challenging' positively is just to say: "they make me think", "i have a deeper or broader perspective because of them", "i hadn't thought of that" - some people will have a hard time feeling this way and will instead feel insecure instead of appreciative -not everyone feels that debate is antagonistic. some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:32 AM
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it means they want an intelligent partner with thoughts and convictions of their own. [smarts and spine] - people can have these things without enjoying debate, but this is the positive meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:42 AM
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life, human relations, understanding others; these are arts not sciences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:29 AM
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absolutely true. "you are how you see the world" is very often true and everyone should consider it deeply. -if you think most people are assholes; guess what? you're the asshole. think everyone only cares about sex? it's you that only cares about sex. everyone's greedy? it's you. can't trust anyone else? you're the one who's not to be trusted... on and on [some people avoid this style of projection entirely of course, but it's very common] this type of hypocrisy is easy for everyone to see when…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:42 PM
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crazy people are good in bed i heard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:05 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/d5m4zf/what_is_wrong_with_you/ i think i saw you in it, didn't i? ;p maybe you don't think confession is a good word? :p a lot of soul-baring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:47 PM
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that confession thread is incredible. i had no idea ppd could be so open
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:00 PM
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say their name three times and maybe they'll hear you from the void
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:42 AM
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What makes you say that? my own sordid life. ;p you're probably more generous at heart than I; which is absolutely respectable of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:43 PM
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you must have good taste in men. no doubt it's possible to be respectful towards ONS/flings. i don't believe it's the norm (but maybe i've been surrounded by crappy people for some reason?) and being respectful in ONS is a very low bar let's be honest. there's a difference between respecting and treating respectfully. stick around ppd and hear how some people talk about all the other people they've fucked.. and this place is pretty tame
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:27 PM
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Why would I care what he did when he was single? As long as he respected those women he banged then idgaf - the odds that these two thoughts are not in conflict is not as high as you seem to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:12 PM
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Vermin Supreme: When I'm President Everyone Gets A Free Pony " My name is Vermin Supreme. I’m a friendly fascist, a tyrant you can trust and you should let me run your life because I do know what is best for you. Yes I’m a politician and I will promise you anything your electoral heart desires because you are my constituents, you are the informed voting public and because I have no intention of keeping any promise that I make. "
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 09:25 PM
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climb out. stop flinging it around
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 08:59 PM
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happy belated red queen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 12:56 AM
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try not to take it personally man, keep doing what you're doing and when people have low expectations sometimes it's a blessing in disguise when you force them to realize that they've underestimated you - that can leave a real impression. what city was so shitty?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 12:27 AM
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you made your feelings clear (sorry again), but you didn't really say what they did to make you feel that way. no worries if you don't feel like recounting in detail. i see they asked about weed? it says more about them than you Workaholico
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 12:00 AM
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how exactly did they behave that made you feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 11:46 PM
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for women: N's or F's, especially NF's, especially INFPs for me as ENFJ for men: ENFJ naturally, ENTJ second
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 11:38 PM
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favorite/least favorite ppd poster of opposite/same sex 2020 Presidential pick giving or receiving
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:10 PM
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invite them all and have them compete for your sexual favors, or run a train
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 11:24 PM
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no need to apologize at all, i should've clearly stated that i don't celebrate any of what i said there. but ty for being so considerate :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 03:07 AM
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not advocating for it. just what i believe will increasingly happen as the need for human labor increasingly becomes a thing of the past. but i'm no expert and don't really know what i'm talking about. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:01 AM
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in the next hundred years: population controls, eugenics, genetic engineering in the future: cloning, natural births become a thing of the past, man will probably find a way to merge his brain with the internet low iq populations (countries) will be outcompeted and fade away
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:40 PM
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it really does work like that and it's a good thing for us. try to imagine a world where we didn't eventually ignore our attraction to people that we could never have. practically unattainable can mean a lot of things beyond out of your league. on the other hand, i can well admit that some people are very physically attractive while being totally undesirable as a personality; and perhaps that's the case here. i'll agree that actual models are mostly undesirable as partners and can understand peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:33 PM
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very good. in fact, showing that you're honest about your faults and you've overcome them, or even if you're just clearly working towards it, allows you to turn a weakness into a strength. everyone has weaknesses; it takes strength to own up to them and work to correct them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:22 PM
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out of your league effect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:19 PM
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"sexy" people are often assholes, beautiful people are generally not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:17 PM
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I'm seeing a lot of manly men defending the honor of their community.. dare I say, their God? I'm proud of everyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 02:25 AM
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nice. keep spreading the kindness here angel of ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:22 PM
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kindest ppd poster i could think of: Maybelowsmv. Her kindness rating: 99% Camo's kindness: 32% The science checks out. Now I'm on a mission to find the perfect 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:07 PM
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Gogol Bordello allusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:24 AM
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rich vs poor is the true story of human oppression not man vs woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:02 PM
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sorry man. i think there's a lot of guys experiencing similar things at ppd, and related subs. definitely agree that understanding others isn't going to guarantee anyone success with women. still, if your understanding can translate into treating people how they like to be treated then this definitely contributes to successful interactions across the board in your life. mbti would predict this isn't your comfort zone, but there is room for improvement imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:45 PM
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only thing clear is that a MGTOW man ain't like me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:33 PM
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"what's your man got to do with me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:26 PM
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this is like a woman opening with a man by saying, "so i notice you have a lot of money. i like money."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:16 PM
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i tried... fwiw I was about to guess INFJ, but then I got a T feeling from you and second-guessed. Obviously, I'm no pro.. but it's still amusing and I'm trying to learn more. I really do go on the ENFJ sub and feel that people are writing comments there on my behalf; which i almost never feel experience often elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:52 PM
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:) that doesn't surprise me; i too studied psych (neurosci) fwiw. i never gave it much thought before starting to post at reddit this year, but it's a game i'm trying to learn to play so i'll go ahead and wager that you test INTP ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:39 PM
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ENTP vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:32 PM
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it sounds like you're operating at a higher, more subtle, level than most. i applaud you. still the way that people use these generalities to describe themselves and others can give you a helpful initial approximation of what they're really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:26 PM
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it's cool with me if mbti isn't useful for you. it definitely helps some people understand themselves and others a bit better. at least you should be able to see that astrology is not at all based on active determination of personality while mbti tries to be. i can say that someone is charming, funny, intelligent, considerate, kind, etc and there's no science to it and people will disagree on it... still those words have value and meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:00 PM
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i'm arguing the value of mbti here ;p i don't care if it's not a science. understanding people is an art! [ENFJ empathizer]
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:20 PM
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fine, but saying they are 16 different types of women or men even if it can be hard to match them to an exact type certainly gives room for more sophistication than saying AWALT, which is popular among low emotional intelligence types around here. If you're good enough to see all humans as individuals than you have no need of MBTI no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:03 PM
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it's absurd to read this here at ppd over and over where every thread is nothing but generalizations about men and women all being x, y, or z. [as if there's any true science of human relationships] MBTI is far more discriminating than almost anything here. Which explains why it is resisted here. Men here can't be bothered to think about how women aren't all the same. Yes, there are real personality differrences
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 06:06 PM
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mistaken identity then, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 09:56 PM
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is this the BPD girl you mentioned? (i think that was you)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:36 PM
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cool. now i miss reading sci-fi :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:01 PM
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yeah, but you didn't debate anything i said. i agree that people can live their lives as they choose, my opinion notwithstanding. challenge the viewpoints if you care to, tbh my hearts not in it to put up much of a fight, but you can make your point (e.g. porn is uplifting, noble, something humanity can be proud of, worth defending, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:45 PM
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Other people's personal choices regarding porn and how they live their life as a whole is their choice, and not yours. yeah, i'm aware of that friend. did you think that i thought i could control what other people do? i'm not on a soapbox on the corner here. i made a low-effort post on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:01 PM
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sacred -> profane in short; emblematic of a cultural turn towards secularism, vicarious experience/passive stimulation, commodification, vulgarization, detachment, ego driven appeals to anonymous strangers, narcissism... stuff like that. cultural decay things, degradation of humanity as a whole more than active degradation of those involved (they're already degraded).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:58 PM
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what's been your favorite so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:58 PM
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porn is degrading and harmful to all of humanity; misanthropic if you like. i'll say it's worst for those that consume it regularly - it's most harmful to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:47 PM
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i do see now that i was thrown off by your concluding statement regarding "weird value attachment" and failed to remember your first words; sorry about that. since i view all values as subjective then there is nothing weird about valuing one way or another. values and meaning are both subjective and linked; what is relevant to my values is always meaningful to me. "positive or negative" are just value words and again subjective. nonetheless, there are trends in the aggregate subjectivity of a po…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:33 PM
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yes, if you ever lived in a commune it says a hell of a lot about you. yes, if you've been purposefully homeless it says a hell of a lot about you. yes, people have different values. people who do those things have different values than Trump supporters generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 06:53 PM
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if Mr Branca had used PPD printouts instead of old newspaper, not a cleaning lady in the world could have doubted the value of his work. cleaning lady is to modern art as ppd mods are to inspired trolling efforts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:16 PM
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every PPD comment is a work of art.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:52 PM
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yes, i gave male examples in my original comment similar to yours. i believe your reasoning is an explanation that places blame. sorry, if i misinterpreted you and i'm glad you're not trying to blame men that shame women for the lies of women. i don't feel attacked at all. i just like when people take responsibility for their own actions and do not like when liars and cheaters have their actions justified. that's all i have to say. take care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:05 AM
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You and men like you being disgusted by sluts are the reason that sluts lie about their past "women lie because men." there is no escaping this interpretation of your words. take it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:44 AM
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you're clearly trying to shift blame from women that lie to men that gave them reason to do so. you're not subtle at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:38 AM
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nobody forces anybody else to lie. stop denying women their power to control their own behavior. nobody respects liars of either sex. man: "women's preferences forced me to lie about my job, wealth, sexual stamina, and marriage status to get her into bed." boo-hoo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:26 AM
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Twink vs bear? Does your Chad score go up when you're sleeping with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:28 AM
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We all have times of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:40 PM
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weak people are opportunists. weak people have a tendency to react (instead of create). weak people use other people, sexually (p&d) or otherwise. [all these things can be done by men or women]
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:11 PM
0

transgender m->f and a lot of man-love
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:29 PM
2

FUcking gay as hell. How do I receive and give emotional and physical intimacy and love but not make it gay and stupid. stop thinking it's gay; done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:11 PM
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above you say you don't equate them. however, this statement is equating blue pill with feminism as "the pervasive common western culture" T/F? edit: are you perhaps suggesting that BP is relatively timeless and that it currently aligns with feminism, but could take some other form in a different era?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:41 PM
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you should edit this and add more thought or it's going nowhere. are you implying that age brings wisdom and power that the young cannot comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:43 AM
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you read my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:38 PM
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what she's describing is not bonding, but bullying (singling out the weakest for humiliation)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:30 PM
1

money can't buy you love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:27 PM
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i describe it as life experience and wisdom. wisdom does exist, you are correct that it is not IQ. wisdom does exist and older men and wisdom are wiser than their younger selves almost universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:23 AM
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is it their mental/emotional maturity that attracts you? or is it really a physical preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 04:23 PM
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a wise woman once said that reading books was for homosexual undesirables. i'm sure the same can be said for long posts about books. i warn you RP men: don't let Atlas fool you into thinking reading isn't gay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:37 PM
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like a parent is responsible for a child, it is the one that is considered ultimately responsible that is receiving respect. this is actually a case of highlighting men's power and minimizing female agency. it's misogyny not misandry. (imo) i know that it plays out practically as unfair towards men, but that's the natural way of things when some group thinks they're the victimized and yet they are able to punish their persecutors. as you point out, the weak victim develops a feeling of entitleme…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:20 PM
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kindness, grace, sincerity, modesty, purity, intelligence, patience, gentleness, loyalty, inner strength, always charming and seemingly in love with life, devoted daughter, wife, mother, etc basically they charm, help, and care for everyone around them and make us all happy to be alive and give us faith in humanity. ideal women can be found in Religious traditions (Mary, Fatima, Sita, many others), Disney princesses: Belle, Snow White, so many stories; basically an angel on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:13 AM
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average faces are basically the definition of attractiveness in scientific studies, along with symmetry. Images of faces manipulated to make their shapes closer to the average are perceived as more attractive. The team also found that brains processed very attractive faces faster than unattractive ones. And they processed average faces even faster. That means their subjects’ brains found averaged faces easiest to handle. Subjects also rated the averaged faces as most attractive. https://www.scie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:53 PM
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right, i forgot the lobotomized men could never write back anyway. it's fun to think that you consider your comments to be part of an actual discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:48 PM
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but doesn't it hurt a woman's feelings when the letters they send to prisoners go unread? now teach us about how IQ in women is related to putting out and pleasantness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:19 PM
1

i'm adding you to my exorcism list instead
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 03:17 PM
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i had you down for one god pill, but i'll scratch you off the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:39 PM
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most definitely not, i patiently await an answer in good faith. i am channeling verticordia now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:04 PM
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exactly 7 cups of water a day, never 8. consult me again after you have mastered this system for 3 decades time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:23 PM
1

Guess I'll be the only one then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:28 AM
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Working on it. Any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:59 AM
1

Lynched people are totally impure in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:07 PM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:13 PM
2

what soul(mind)-body view do you believe in and in what ways do you find other views to be unhealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:19 PM
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interesting that this the trend you're noticing. US right? i have the impression that young people aren't much inclined to believe in a separate soul at all. maybe it's that i don't associate with religious crowds very often
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:52 PM
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in this case: i believe that some people are far more mentally mature than others and I was curious about mental maturity as separate from plain physical attraction. you're one of the super mature ones
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:33 PM
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yeah, that's why it's a silly hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:30 PM
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also my answer, though how would i ever please a goddess?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:26 PM
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that's a compliment. i definitely prefer to ask a question that is unique in some way. i never thought like this before the moment i created the post. BTPB post that asked if all men would choose a 15 year old over a 30 yr old. obvious answer from the get go is way too immature mentally.. this variation was created to pursue the thought further. also, i was curious how people think about mental age
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:33 PM
1

teasing you a bit.. in my mind mystical and idealized love is completely satisfied with the current partner 'love is blind' style; this is actually the opposite for me: a cynical, calculating view of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:31 PM
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insecurity, that's all. makes sense you can't understand as it would seem you've never had a moment of self-doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:20 PM
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no. concubines and mistresses have had inferior status and their children extremely inferior status across cultures and throughout human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:55 AM
2

better get your ethot bucks while you can
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:00 AM
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recent news: " A seemingly youthful Chinese vlogger known as “Your Highness Qiao Biluo” was outed to be a 58-year-old woman when the face filtering software she used to make her look younger glitched during a livestream. " ​ i'll predict a market bust within the decade when anyone will be able to look however they like in real-time with video software. catfishing is going to reach absurd and disturbing levels very soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:12 PM
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Sexual immorality makes a man lose "purity" [cheating, rape, fill in ______ ]
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:36 PM
2

Vladimir Putin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:09 PM
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people whose lives are going well aren't generally filled with bitterness and anger at the world. hatred and resentment is for groups that feel the world is against them mostly... you'll see these groups on reddit quite easily ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:14 AM
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maintaining a well-functioning LTR is the difficult thing, much moreso dangling it in front of them and getting them to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 08:00 PM
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I think he's cute 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 05:35 PM
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love can forgive anything, so who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 02:55 PM
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maybe i take it back and disagree. perhaps i'll argue over it tomorrow. edit: yeah, i fully renounce what i said. not sure what came over me, probably just my love of contrarian positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 05:30 AM
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4 exclamations.. I feel loved now. ty Alex88s!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:01 AM
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I agree with you. Looks like you'll have to change your flair some impostor wrote this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 03:19 AM
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are you not entertained?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 12:10 AM
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basically exactly how i think, though history of cheating is a very big deal for me; i think as you can become older it will likely become a larger concern. have you managed to remain civil and friendly with your cheater exbf?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 11:44 PM
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once you find that you can do it, it's really not a challenge at all. if you're (superficially) attractive to one, you'll find that many feel the same in the short term. becoming (superficially) attractive is challenge, sure it's much more challenging to attract a person and maintain that in the long run when they see you for what you really are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:03 PM
3

Empty snark as bad as circle jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:26 PM
2

Good ol St Dick just want to come down your chimney with his bag of goodies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:41 PM
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very significant emotional cheating. you should leave him as quickly as you are able to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 10:30 AM
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so even though you may have an opportunity to exploit; you choose not to) so this understanding either gives you an opportunity to exploit this type of man does exist. you're right that many will lack the introspection and extroversion to make use of this balance (very nice observation). if you're this type then you will attract women and will have the self-control to connect with them how you see fit; a question of values, life goals, philosophy, etc. did you write this because you feel this wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 10:27 AM
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np. i just found these studies right before posting, very interesting to me. added a link in an edit showing homosexuality connection as well, really fascinating to me given current trends in sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 10:17 AM
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autism is associated with hyper-sexuality https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5789215/ also associated with 'paraphilic' behavior [food for thought regarding the rise of certain kinks these days] Paraphilic disorders are recurrent, intense, sexually arousing fantasies, urges, or behaviors that are distressing or disabling and that involve inanimate objects, children or nonconsenting adults, or suffering or humiliation of oneself or the partner with the potential to cause harm.Overview o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 10:01 AM
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autism is associated with hyper-sexuality and not associated with a desire for deep emotional connections (LTR). red pill is relatively autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:51 AM
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How can they be so deluded? hope springs eternal. like buying a lotto ticket the payoff seems very attractive, plus you don't pay for the ticket with $ but instead with sex. no loss, possible reward (if sex is no big deal)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:33 AM
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hooking up lowers a woman's value not raises. short term raised for sex (which is not ideal when you want a relationship). long term devalued. people that are treated like sex objects aren't driven to become interesting to the opposite sex.. no one dates, meet and get off.. why bother being interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:30 AM
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you're right. people can pretend to be something they're not on the internet now for practice though, not that you should because it probably will end in bitterness for you. nobody knows what you look like here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:26 AM
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definitely, but considerably less. the mate of a powerful woman has power as long as she uses hers on his behalf, but almost always a woman would rather have a man help her than be forced to help her man. makes sense to me and will never change imo (women think of their children subconsciously and more status for the children is huge)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:06 AM
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viewed as wife material by men and actually good for a man can be different things. [npd or bpd people for instance seem very desirable but are known to ruin lives] i don't know her so there's 0 reason to defend this particular friend of yours, just talking generally. i don't mean to attack her, i'm sure i'd fall madly in love if i met her. peace
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:02 AM
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yes, love and attraction are always subjective perception; the good kind. nothing sexy about objectivity; no escaping subjectivity you can step back and see that the person you're hot for is just a big mess of blood and organs wrapped up in a bag of dead cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:09 PM
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what you're describing isn't love to me. love really can blind (you to everyone but your partner)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:48 PM
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" Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac" - Satan (in the form of Kissinger)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:42 PM
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i feel like you restated what i said more or less. ;p well, you said it yourself in the top comment... she must be crazy hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:21 PM
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lord of the flies stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:23 AM
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certainly possible if they become very close to you and romance is impossible for whatever reason. of course there can be difficulties with jealous partners and making time for friendship once you are in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:22 AM
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one gives you a hard time, run to the other. standard practice of a cheater now without the secrecy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:34 AM
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clearly it's a reasonable practice at times when a large percentage of the male population is dying from warfare, or other reasons. the alternative is spinsters, single mothers, concubines, sex slaves, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:32 AM
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they're more of the dog type i imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:35 AM
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can't compromise. lives only for herself and not her partnership. egotist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:32 AM
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do you believe that the feminization of society is being purposefully engineered [deleted]?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 08:56 PM
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elon musk been building those tunnel shelters, you got an invite yet to the underground orgy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:43 PM
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the international communist conspiracy to sap and impurify all our precious bodily fluids. Kubrick gets thrown around as being in the know on a lot of these kooky conspiracy theories. All I know is that he was a brilliant director..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:28 PM
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your bodily fluids have been impurified because you're a capitalist pig obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:11 PM
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the true story comes out. you've been denying your wife your essence all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:05 PM
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the word "generally" preceded where you cut the quote. you know what it means. kinks are play. yes, hunting is a common and understandable metaphor for male pursuit, but generally doesn't imply the actual violence when the hunter finds his 'prey'. some men are violent, some depraved scum, many talk in a way that is not consistent with how they behave. i think we'd be in a basic agreement on these things (it's not that deep)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:55 PM
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i don't disagree. civilization is always a system that pacifies/redirects male aggressiveness imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:57 PM
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if men were all this way then you would not call it evil. it would just be the way it is. rapists and pedophiles stand out as evil because most men are not rapists and pedophiles. OP isn't advocating rape, he's just being loose with his language.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:50 PM
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active/passive or pursuer/pursued, these are better words because generally men do not want to destroy, or even harm, the woman that they desire. "actively looking for a partner" is better than "hunting to consume" i certainly agree that men can prey on women in a sense, particularly in times of disruption of the social order.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:44 PM
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well said. women can be truly preyed upon (rape,etc) and this wording always is unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 12:43 PM
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they can still date if they try hard enough, as always. but now there's free naked women at all times (men used to be willing to pay a great deal of money for this), possibility of casual sex, increasing possibility for paid sex, and catching women after their 'fun phase' to settle with(yes, this can be seen as a positive not a negative for them) there's +'s and -'s but i'll argue it's a net win for most men (in a sexual sense).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 08:37 AM
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All those things benefit low value men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 08:00 AM
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if you're meaning how they inflate their partner when the # is the truth not the picture then maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:27 PM
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only a matter of time before jealous people start asking their partner to wear a body cam at all times. that or networked chastity undergarments with monitoring app
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:05 PM
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if you'd like particular clarification of my opinion than state or ask something specific, otherwise don't waste both of our time. thx
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 09:47 PM
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i mean that he is not taking responsibility for himself, he is saying it is ok because of her attitude, behavior, code of conduct, etc not his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 09:41 PM
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You are justifying your own behavior with the opinions and values of a 17 year girl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:57 PM
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Take responsibility for your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:45 PM
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Women that sexualize in that way are themselves are doing their part to create and reinforce the culture. "Enjoy the decline" mentality, same as RP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:43 PM
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wow, first i've seen that place and you weren't kidding. amazing how many people post there to get those trash opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 07:08 PM
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movie star good looks, congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 07:05 PM
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isn't it fortunate really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:58 PM
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the average man would be a 3, or even a 2.5 by those standards. truly delusional idea of average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:44 PM
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we agree then :) latent, passive, and resting can all be used interchangeably in the sense that i meant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:58 PM
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tell your funny story, don't waste the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:22 AM
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take a break mods. bring back the purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:20 AM
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Don't think about it tell it happens. Then it's instantaneous. What a stud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:55 PM
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what's harder to accept mediocre looks or mediocre personality? my money's on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 09:34 PM
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"Leadership is about people granting you power, because they want to willingly surrender it to you". YES "Leadership is just a means of gaining power". NO, refer back to your own words above. Once you are in command you get what you want through other people, they use their powers in service of you. It is itself a power; a better, multiplied power. "Power is that ability to command others to do" Yes again, but please see that you're all over the place. That's all for power or leadership from me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:20 PM
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empathy is not sympathy or justification and means trying to understand their behavior by imagining why they did what they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:03 PM
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what do you think you're trying to prove to me? i wrote two sentences and the first said that violence (active or credibly latent, sure) is in fact a form of power. the credibly latent kind is the better kind then the kind that has to be exercised is my point. the king is in fact stronger than his soldiers though they could kill him very easily, any one of them could beat him one on one. it is the soldier that has to actively make a show of power in war, not the king. but the king has more power…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 04:45 PM
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consider: the more i feel that you're beneath me, the less i care to respond to you or justify myself to you in any way. "like i care if praisethesun799 laughs at my comment". right? if i raged and defended myself it's because I'm weak and insecure, or at least that I care what you think. are you impressed when people rage and defend themselves when anyone questions them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 04:31 PM
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it's a greater power when they do what you want without your command. the more you have to command the weaker you are as a leader. when you have to call your guards you are showing relative weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 04:21 PM
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Just for you Edit: yes, the title of the song is "Just"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 04:17 PM
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yes sir mod sir. violence is one way of exercising power. knowledge is also a tool in the power arsenal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 04:08 PM
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the king sits on his throne and everyone dances around him and does his bidding. the slave does. ​ when you find out that your boyfriend is fucking someone else and you demonstrate however you like that you can hurt him or don't need him (you're powerful!)... are you actually more powerful or less powerful than you were before you were cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 04:02 PM
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B. anytime you get what you want, or do anything at all, it is an exercise of power. every single action can be turned into a story about power and saying "Rape is all about power" is on the level of saying "I'm writing this shitty comment on Reddit because I want power." I took Susie on a date, bought her flowers, helped her paint her house, wrote a song for her, and married her because I wanted power over her. so in some sense everything is a mix of A and B, but it's just so limited and pedant…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 03:40 PM
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does a man that pays for a prostitute feel as powerful as a man who is pursued by that prostitute (or some other woman) and given her love for free? the greatest power rests, it never needs to exert itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 03:16 PM
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same way you maintain interest in living life as an individual, except with another person you really like accompanying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 01:12 PM
1

isn't it time we end gendered language at ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:47 AM
3

Futurama has the answer for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:55 PM
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Listen to your heart there's nothing else you can do. I don't know where you're going and I don't know why But listen to your heart before you tell him goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 06:14 PM
1

ask them politely to keep your basement cell damp and cold
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:07 PM
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I was drawn to all the wrong things: I liked to drink, I was lazy, I didn't have a god, politics, ideas, ideals. I was settled into nothingness; a kind of non-being, and I accepted it. I didn't make for an interesting person. I didn't want to be interesting, it was too hard. What I really wanted was only a soft, hazy space to live in, and to be left alone... I didn't care. --Charles Bukowski, Women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:30 PM
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any history of friendships with extroverted guys that you really mesh well with but never dated for whatever reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:04 AM
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had any relationships where the communication was almost ideal for you? if not, maybe it's time to give a more extroverted guy a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:32 AM
1

do you tend to be attracted to introverts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:21 AM
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do yourself a favor and don't get sexually initiated into a gang :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:15 AM
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fortunately for you, you get to pick the men that you date and eventually who you'll marry. there are plenty of men that like showering their women with attention. no reason and nothing gained from this type of worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:09 AM
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gauntlet has been thrown, time for RP men to go post measurements
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:04 AM
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r vs k mating. low-N = k correlated with intelligence, higher class, stronger pair bonding, lower # offspring, longer life-span, greater parental investment, etc.. you link a stat that shows low-N partners are less likely to cheat... you answered your own question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:30 PM
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but you stand out as one of, in not the, most humble contributors here to me. i don't know you and haven't observed closely, but i've had the impression that your uncertainty about how men view you is more a lack of experience than anything. don't take anything i say too seriously.. i definitely over-generalize to make lazy arguments around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:01 PM
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it does if you want to understand their true motivation, assuming that it were sour grapes, and how a person that really wants something can say that they don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:49 PM
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it is true to say that men are more interested in society-level control. but they also seek to control other men just as much as they do women if not moreso, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:24 PM
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you can't control me edit: seriously, women seek control of their partners. perhaps their ways tend to be more subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:18 PM
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have you been married to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:15 PM
3

i agree women are often insecure about their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:59 PM
3

both men and women want to control each other to some extent, this is unavoidable. all people manipulate other people with the goal of getting what they want, to varying degrees perhaps. this type of observation is so hollow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:58 PM
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Are these the same men? I assume that any men that are encouraging women to get married earlier must be doing so out of respect for marriage and LTRs. edit: obviously many of the voices here and in related places are a result of sour grapes style frustration that cannot be taken at face value. imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:54 PM
2

A person is secure when they accept themselves. Unattractive people that accept themselves are secure, attractive models that know they can have almost any men can still be insecure if their standard of worthiness is supermodel looks and life. Insecurity is just a lack of a stable sense of self-worth, generally caused by overestimation not underestimation of self. A humble person is satisfied with what they get from life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:44 PM
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Unironically, these men are valuing relationships more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:25 PM
2

Overestimating oneself causes insecurity when the world doesn't respond to you as well as you expect it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:14 PM
1

you did well. you're an experienced empathizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 10:41 PM
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Like every other topic at ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:14 PM
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People that have deeply satisfying relationships do not crave empathy from strangers, fine. Everyone still appreciates being treated with empathy in a completely platonic way; and, yes, especially people that lack the feeling of being understood. Almost all respect is platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:24 AM
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used in this context you know very well that men are not asking for the average woman to treat them with awe. by this definition, the minority of people receive respect from anyone in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:05 AM
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admiration is increased when you are cognizant of the difficulties faced, internal and external, by the person you admire. admiration without any underlying empathy is on very shaky ground, consider how easily people can turn on one another and 'admiration' can become contempt when their former hero is no longer in a position to benefit them. still, it's absurd that you would use the term respect to suggest admiration and awe; there is a huge gap between these concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:59 AM
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Communicated understanding is intimately connected with demonstraring respect and goes very far for people that feel misunderstood. Even when praising someone, empathy makes your words more sincere, more meaningful. Once again, there is no true respect without some level of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:47 AM
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When you communicate empathetically you make the other person feel more respected, always. Even when you already admire a person, communicating that you recognize the difficulties they face/overcome increases effective respect even further. Respect without empathy is actually a hollow shell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:38 AM
1

Sophia Loren
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 07:56 PM
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purple best. so classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:59 AM
3

you need a guy like PMUrHoeStories
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:48 AM
1

ask your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:47 AM
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your best work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:58 PM
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a well thought out post and I agree with your basic outline, though I expect the correlation would be fairly weak - at least in the USA. Worth noting that Upper Class is generally defined as a family with many generations of wealth which leads to significant connections with other established families and a legacy of leadership and power; i.e. not the nouveau riche. You definitely would not expect the anything but a small minority of the established Upper Class to openly practice anything approx…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:28 PM
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it's true that upbringing is significant still, many young people rebel, particularly against traditional/conservative parents, even if they otherwise respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:17 PM
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Royal purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 09:02 PM
1

I tried manifesting $40 through reddit comments, but so far the spirits have not provided. Should I be channeling Jodi Arias?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:17 PM
2

ideological sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:01 PM
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There are some obvious differences between upper middle class and TRP: - You are not allowed to spin plates as a guy. A mistress is the best you get. - Marriage is almost mandatory. You are expected to marry both as men and as women. Divorce rates are lower for the upper classes. - Upper class women are not allowed to sleep around as much as the lower classes, and having sex with lower class men is definitely not accepted. - Slutty behaviour by women is not accepted. Such things have to be done …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:47 PM
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I've seen it suggested here more than once that TRP/PPD users tend to be from UMC. Judging by your conclusions it seems that you are as skeptical as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:55 PM
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X0X0
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:48 PM
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What are the benefits of Leo season? Did you manifest some shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:41 PM
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the material conditions are irrelevant compared to the value we place in life, ourselves, and our relation to others. it's possible, if not probable, that the self-actualization to which you allude in closing may be more elusive than ever in this time of button pushing, passive entertainment, safety, and 'comfort'. at least we can say that men and women seem increasingly dissatisfied with one another, and that is a large part of what is discussed here at ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:38 AM
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do you think threatening or not is mostly about mental-stability as someone else suggested?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:45 PM
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homosexual men have lived their entire lives posing as straight men, spies and double spies exist, people seem happily married until their kids reach 18 and then it's revealed they always hated one another and stayed together for the children... you can fake it for a long time, longer than you or I have been alive and just because you fake it doesn't mean that it changes who you are inside. i agree generally with your second paragraph though. in the context of this discussion: a man can seem and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:44 PM
1

Emotionally is better in the long run man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:12 PM
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if you don't believe that a man is intrinsically alpha or beta, only demonstrating those traits in certain situations: do you believe that any man can adjust himself to consistently behave one way or another? are you suggesting that there's no correlation at all between generally alpha in most situations vs beta in most, or that these styles of behavior are not generally stable across a man's life? i don't agree that a person is simply their behavior. i strongly believe that a person can be more…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:00 PM
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nice. still, would you say that a man that is most alpha on the most levels, in the most situations, is the most attractive to you? Or is there a more ideal balance possibly? Alpha projecting while beta inside for you, or vice-versa..etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:46 PM
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alphas that like you are not threatening.. but are alphas that are not well disposed to you generally the type that seem threatening? or is it weaker men that seem more threatening somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:38 PM
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do you think that these concepts can be helpful to the men here, or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:33 PM
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do you think there's a correlation with threatening vs not to alpha vs beta as it's used here? are threatening men somehow sexier or more desirable? (I imagine them as more likely to be alphas)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:32 PM
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guilty. punishment: marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:58 PM
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u/nwordcountbot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:57 PM
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u/nwordcountbot u/peterlongc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:28 PM
2

say no to vampires
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:27 PM
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self-control saves your soul Tomatoccino
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:52 AM
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nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:42 AM
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When you get a girlfriend, do you think you'll be unable to find her sexy if she isn't, objectively, the very embodiment of sexiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:10 AM
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are you suggesting that mothers that drink, smoke or use meth are more likely to produce children that would go on to vote conservatively? Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:07 AM
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Rat models show high fat diets impact pancreatic gene expression in female offspring. That's the strongest support for your argument in the article you've linked. Agreed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:01 AM
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nice meeting you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:39 AM
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yes, there is no data demonstrating the claims that you're making. vague assertions abound.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:35 AM
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Follow the chain of comments friend. Provide some statistical data for any of your claims regarding 'faulty sperm'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:34 AM
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Show me some data demonstrating paternal epigenetic effects in humans of any kind, I'd really love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:31 AM
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Please link evidence of any kind supporting your assertion that obesity in men causes chromosomal abnormalities in sperm cells which contribute heavily to fetal development and cause birth defects in the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:56 AM
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I'm sorry but you're mistaken. Low semen quality only means that it will be more difficult to impregnate a woman. I agree that a father should be concerned with his health and the health of his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:53 AM
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'Semen quality' is relevant for getting a woman pregnant and totally irrelevant once fertilization occurs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:31 AM
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So no, not a foregone conclusion that a pregnant woman will give birth Nowhere was this even remotely implied. You're responding to a post where I am addressing miscarriages. I accept the reality of miscarriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:58 PM
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Is it correct to say that your ideal man collects people that care about him, but does not return the caring? Does it make him less masculine if he pretends to care? Would a men's rights group largely consist of men pretending to care about other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:43 PM
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I shouldn't have said think, though I believe what I'm implying is clear enough. I'll try another rephrase: you believe that caring about other people's feelings is a weakness and the opposite of what is desirable in a man. If a desirable man joined a group it wouldn't be because he 'cared' about anyone else in that group, it would be because it benefited him. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:04 PM
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I'm sorry for over-generalizing and see how I was careless. Perhaps you'd agree if I had I said that masculine, desirable men DGAF about what other people (or just women?) think? Is it wrong to say that you celebrate the 'dark triad'? The connection is that (from what I perceive as your standard) masculine, desirable men are not the type to create emotional support systems for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:49 PM
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You seem to be supporting my suggestion that shaming is moving towards irrelevance; attempts to shame are nonetheless still prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:02 PM
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women who have 2 drinks a week are 50% more likely to have a miscarriage; 4 or more drinks a week = ~75% more likely. https://academic.oup.com/ije/article/41/2/405/691800
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:58 PM
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Shaming has lost most of its power in a society where most people you meet are strangers and people can easily find like-minded thinkers that will justify and celebrate almost any behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:50 PM
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Your statistic only supports my suggestion that the prudent assumption is that the baby in question will be born.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:42 PM
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It's hard to imagine what definition of liberals you're operating with that leads you to feel that they'd generally want to legally deny a woman the right to drink during pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:25 PM
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Just assume that the human will be born and not aborted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:23 PM
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Women with no concern for the health impact of their childrens' diet should also be shamed, and they frequently are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:20 PM
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The fat guy is harming only himself. The alcohol is harming the future human, not the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:05 PM
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Your most common refrain at ppd is that men that give a fuck about anyone else are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:29 PM
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male bonding is all about having a common goal, threat, or enemy. we just need a war against the aliens to bring us all together brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:38 PM
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I wouldn't say anything here that I wouldn't say in real life. On the contrary, I'm more willing to say something controversial/extreme to someone I know will give me the benefit of the doubt and I really can't relate at all to feeling that I'm giving a romantic partner less the real me than random anonymous internet strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:16 PM
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you're not ruined and of course you can still be loved. very few men will be bothered that you had a serious relationship that didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:39 AM
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legally enforced physical fitness standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:07 AM
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only if nobody really cares what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 10:31 PM
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you're right. talking here about random people isn't the same as pointing the finger in anyone's face though. people use moral tones and language these days without believing in strictly objective moral truths, almost everyone does this for things they feel strongly about. tends to occur when we view big things abstractly, but then most people can be more reasonable when face to face with an individual. not trying to preach anything particularly here Mr_Smoogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:20 AM
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We're all forced to make assumptions about other people's behavior and emotions. It is true that nobody does it perfectly. We don't even do it perfectly about ourselves. People make mistakes all the time about the effect that something will have on them emotionally, yes? You hear it in PPD and similar places constantly.. I'm sure there's some situation that you can think of where you believe that your well-meaning advice could help them avoid doing something which you believe would be harmful to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:34 AM
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And I don't think I'm the one to convince you. Maybe you can imagine how someone could believe that this type of behavior doesn't lead to happiness for anyone involved most of the time and call it immoral. I personally assume these women don't stay on a list like that if they play hard to get in any way, but I'm no expert in the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 10:36 PM
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do you believe that there are generally no negative psychological effects of prostitution? do you believe men are indifferent to whether a possible romantic interest has a history of prostitution? do you believe that these women are generally emotionally well-balanced and end up happier at the end of the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:22 PM
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In the same way that Satan mythically is the king of evil, he gets your consent by preying on your weakness and you become your own undoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:56 PM
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we don't yet have the technology to guarantee every man a loose woman at the cost of a few finger swipes, but we're working tirelessly. please have faith that one day, in the near future, all gratification will be instant and require no more than 5 swipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:59 AM
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Devaluing the opposite sex is a defense mechanism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:14 AM
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more proof that Trump is a Russian puppet. edit: (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:58 AM
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US liberals specifically, or Western generally in your mind.. and Russia?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:41 AM
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Good to hear they still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:41 AM
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Admirable candidness CW. I'll hope that you find a way out of what sounds to me like a self-defeating negative loop. It seems to me that if you genuinely find yourself hating women as a whole then pursuing them at all can only lead to continual self-loathing. Maybe that's MGTOW, I'm not really familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:39 AM
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fair of me to assume that RP tends to the right politically and BP to the left, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 10:44 PM
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fairer to say that leftists should now be called progressives and not liberals if you're focusing on the censorship/free-speech aspect. it's liberalism that has the focus on individual freedom and rights. you'll find people on both the right and the left claiming the mantle of true liberalism in the USA at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 10:43 PM
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Let it be, yours is a worthwhile counterpoint to the predominant mentality found here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:38 PM
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xo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:36 PM
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Good guess ES. My ex was diagnosed BPD though doctors had considered NPD, she wasn't the perfect example of either probably. Narcissistic parent though probably not diagnosable. They're pretty much the opposite of what I love and admire, but nonetheless it seems I do a decent job of supporting them when they're wounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:33 PM
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you must admit though that there was something about it that appealed to you at the time. good for you if you've learned to see through much of the superficial appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:01 PM
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that's exactly how i think of it as well, they try so hard and live for the admiration of others. it's no surprise that it works a lot of the time given how dedicated they are to achieving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:37 PM
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it's simply wrong to believe that genes don't play a role in behavior and emotion, or that evolution hasn't shaped our instincts. our attempts to relate this to the real world in a practical way may be more or less sophisticated or successful. you shouldn't particularly expect the scientifically minded to be masters at understanding human behavior. the mixed-race thing has been scientifically demonstrated. facial attractiveness particularly, also height and intelligence. but not mental-health..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:27 PM
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it's the narcissism part that is charming
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:13 PM
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I accidentally knocked him down a peg though and he absolutely lost it. this is a fundamental way to spot a narcissist. their confidence rests on very shaky ground
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:10 PM
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Wise of you to resist his charms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:46 PM
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very dramatic... like he is, no? ;p I bet you're both INFP. Passionate people can be loyal and it's not true that there is nothing romantic about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:27 PM
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is it news to you that artists have the reputation of being harder to pin down?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:20 PM
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i like your style, but this won't be popular here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:19 PM
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I wish I was Russian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:48 PM
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Degenerate has never meant stupid and is totally unrelated to stupidity. Wisdom is not the opposite of stupid, that would be intelligence. The opposite of wisdom would be innocence, naivete, ignorance at worst. Many otherwise intelligent people are very unwise when it comes to human relationships. When someone tricks another person they are preying on the person's trust, innocence, naivete, goodwill. In this case, the one doing the deceiving is the true degenerate. Words have definitions, you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:36 PM
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And what would a woman do with that wisdom if they had it? If you say "have sex anyway" then your distinction is meaningless. The degeneracy is in the act (i'm not speaking for myself particularly here). Lack of wisdom is ignorance and nobody labels it degenerate particularly when it is being taking advantage of by the unscrupulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:20 PM
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I tricked this stupid fucking bitch into having sex with me, what a degenerate whore I was using his word. Surely you can't deny that it's a common for men pursuing casual sex to devalue (consciously or otherwise) the women they fuck for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:09 PM
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Have you heard of the 'halo effect' of physical attractiveness? It's worth remembering when considering our biases when considering if a potential mate is "bad or dangerous". As repeatedly demonstrated through scientific research, we (men and women) are significantly predisposed to consider physically attractive people (faces particularly) as more trustworthy, kind, intelligent, altruistic, friendly, funny, mentally-healthy, successful, on and on... Clearly we are somewhat blinded to the negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:48 PM
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Do you think that your attitude towards women speaks more of you or of them? If you were a homosexual man is it likely that you would not view other men as 'fully-fledged human beings' whose minds were irrelevant at best? Do you believe that men are harder to manipulate towards degenerate behavior? ​ I respect your openness and would not question your self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:10 PM
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Do you respect other men generally? Or yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:01 AM
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And the years pass by
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:04 PM
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It can be difficult for the romantic relationships to live up to the relationship with the mother and the man's idealization of his mother. Sometimes the mother is actively involved in undermining her son's relationships out of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:01 PM
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Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 06:40 PM
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the men who buy women drinks understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 02:01 PM
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It was a nice dream
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 12:33 AM
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Yeah, I can think like a hippy too friend. Free love didn't lead to world peace sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 12:30 AM
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Yeah, I was listening to John Lennon today when I changed it, from purity.pills.debauchery. I was thinking battle of the sexes not pacifism though. I wouldn't label myself trad fwiw, but I can sincerely think like one at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 12:24 AM
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love's pretty traditional in my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 12:15 AM
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just join a cult and leave politics for the heathens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:28 PM
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the Enlightenment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:19 PM
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here's a shocker: your hormones will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:16 PM
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" isnt degeneracy the POINT? " thankfully not for the majority of humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 02:40 PM
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why would you care about their quality as a human being if all you want is a sex partner? viewing them as a human being is just going to get in the way for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 01:08 AM
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any feminists care to discuss Miley Cyrus and how she's empowering women? particularly with regard to this music video which her promoters would have me believe is the "ultimate feminist anthem" does anyone here believe that virginity is purely a social construct?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:39 PM
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Yes, money is significant to women. relevant scientific study Pictures of men were shown to women and attractiveness was rated. Random salaries were added to the men and attractiveness was tested again. On average increasing a man's salary 10x increased his attractiveness by 2 points on a 10 pt scale. Men were tested in the same way. Increasing salary 10x had a 0.5 point effect. To have the same 2 point effect a woman's salary had to be increased by a factor of 10,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:11 PM
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9 Reasons Why INTJs And ENFJs Belong Together edit: actually I'd assumed we'd be as incompatible as could be, this just happened to be the first hit. though a glance at the first search page wants me to believe our types could work, I'm skeptical. Maybe when the sexes are reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 03:13 AM
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so the tests tell me. and you happen to be the person whose comment led me to retest myself a few times some months ago. and i'll wager you're an INTJ, though I don't pride myself in my ability to 'type' anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 02:59 AM
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i fully agree that i wasn't empathizing there, and yeah it was a throwaway comment to amuse myself. worst of all, i was sympathizing (sincerely or not) but you didn't have to tell me that stuff about your feelings, you can at least imagine that we're capable of having some understanding of another person's character style... particularly as you seem to be a student of personality theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 02:20 AM
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take your empathy pill like a good girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:57 AM
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article title: " I’ve Had Sex With Well Over 100 Men, but That Does Not Define Me As A Slut" ​ It's funny that she's not actually denying that she's a slut with this title; common usage: such and such doesn't define me as a person, or as a mother, etc . Apparently something else about her is what she really takes to heart as a slut. ​ Also she self-identifies as a crazy cat lady in her little tagline at the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:50 AM
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everything is projection > you only project > you of low empathy assume that no one empathizes. no? ​ i'm sorry if you've never felt that anyone could empathize with you. ​ sincerely, an extroverted feeler
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:43 AM
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self-respect is what is wanted; confidence is one aspect. all things will be more satisfactory with self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 02:35 PM
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70% relaxed, 92% engaging i think you're on to something here Ms Maybe. i certainly don't relate to TRP ideals and would hypothesize that the men that fit this mindset best are avoidant types.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 02:17 AM
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minor flex + compliment. implied sexual domination
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:54 PM
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send them vids of you sleeping with other guys before your first meetup. sex positive men love the idea of a woman sleeping with other dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:59 AM
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Look for someone you trust at least 95% not 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 01:41 AM
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thoughts and prayers for you BRW. pretty sure you're the most entertaining ppd poster for me so you need to stick around. think i'll donate blood sometime this week with you in mind. i'm sure you'll get the technical problems here sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:12 PM
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you, Moldy_Gecko, must be the most desirable man in the history of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 02:12 AM
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the thing you might get or have is a cool life. you're the who defines what's cool, which is nice. he's right that women don't want a needy man, they want one that has all he needs and then some (to share with them)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:08 PM
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i'll agree that you can't truly respect what you don't understand, or if you can't be truly honest about the positives and negatives. Red pill associated guys do have the tendency to leave out the positives of women (beyond sexual release), while BP could have the problem of ignoring the darker side. Take both and see if you can still respect your woman of choice, purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:35 PM
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they have boys; they have husbands, brothers, fathers, etc; men in their communities are relied upon for survival and prosperity; possible social status rewards ​ obviously there is some level of sympathy. women can clearly have concern for men and it's easy to see when they're ill, dying, starving.. it's true that women don't seem to have evolved sympathy for weakness, shortness, stupidity, cowardice, etc in men and it's likely that there is a strong tendency to be more sympathetic in times of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:06 PM
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you are INTJ? yes, i do love to see Fe in others and it can be a challenge not to feel judgmental in a way towards those that seemingly lack it entirely. It's unfortunate to think that there might be some here on PPD that would find your sage remarks to be "accidentally insensitive". I know you would only wish the best for your subjects Queen Atlas. ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 03:59 PM
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a Darla here at PPD? I haven't noticed, though I imagine such a person would get my attention in short time. how do you get along with your mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 03:24 PM
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ENFJ. [the only one so far, and yeah i don't really belong here] people like us it seems, caring about other people can be a drag though. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 03:53 AM
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have you not gone a single time to see the situation for yourself and establish yourself as the boyfriend? you need to go at least once if you haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:38 PM
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you've simply hit upon a primary meaning of the word settle ​ yes, people that commit stop searching and start committing. good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:11 PM
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they do: see TRP, PUA, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:48 PM
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true love gives completely without asking for anything in return ​ i think that's a fair summary. i'd like to replace the word true with pure, ultimate, or ideal to make your point more easy to accept. i do generally agree with how you differentiated between masculine and feminine aspects of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:32 PM
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you seem alright to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:37 PM
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I understand that you do not want to conflate them and I agree that they are conflated very frequently.. which can be understood and explained. However, I would suggest that its valuable to separate them completely and TRP particularly would do well to recognize the difference. I would suggest that there is no disadvantage whatsoever to empathy properly understood and in fact it is the combination of agreeableness and lack of empathy that is most problematic. The raging 'nice-guy' incel is an ex…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:24 PM
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empathy is not agreeableness. what you are describing is agreeableness. if anything, in your example empathy would give you the chance to see the ruse for what it is while agreeableness simply has you go along with the authority regardless of whether you had any sense that you were being played for a fool. the distinction is important because empathy is the greatest social power a person can have, while agreeableness can be seen as a mixed-bag. (TRP tends to see consider it as a definite weaknes…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:47 PM
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if they would've treated you the same, you would have never changed. is it better that you changed or not? i think that it's quite likely that you find benefits to your new attitude towards life that are totally independent from your attractiveness to women. try to think of standards being in place (in all aspects of life) to encourage us to improve ​ other thoughts: obviously women have the right to have standards just as you certainly do (everyone does); you are not the same person as you were…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:05 PM
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does he say that in the OP (i don't see it)? or do you know that from some other comment? but yes, i was kind of assuming he could use some of the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:30 AM
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experience and comfort with women. that may not be a problem if you're naturally socially adept
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:42 PM
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you know very well he's not appealing to the masses in the same way as the Kardashians. That's the extent to which I care, take it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:04 PM
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Yes, he's just a dude, just like you and I.. not always right. But he's also the other thing I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:52 PM
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it shouldn't surprise you that the people farther from the boundaries tend to be the most fitting examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:41 PM
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i'm with you. there's a big difference between 80's and 90's people in my experience and opinion. 80's, especially earlier 80's are much more Gen X I'd say. I'll accept 1988 for a dividing line since we 'must have one'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:40 PM
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you'd be better off arguing that preference for intelligence, leadership qualities, or male facial attractiveness are social constructs. there are quite a few famous short male actors, they have to make them seem tall through movie magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:07 PM
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as always, things can be framed in many ways. you have not recognized in your comment the possible attitude of (though I believe that you're aware that there is room for): discouraging people from behaving against their best interests, giving warning, encouraging prudence, etc ​ there is bullying, of course. but many people go too far in labeling any judgment of values or statement of inconvient facts as 'bullying'. i expect that you'd agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:00 PM
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yes, that's why he's the most in-demand speaker in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:00 PM
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fun. Bromance comedies tend to be this way already though I think. of course, the focus isn't generally on self-improvement or getting laid. I'm thinking particularly of cop movies where there's a macho cop and a 'nice guy' cop, maybe you wouldn't call that 'bromance' but the dynamic is very similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:25 PM
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unquestionably. men are the creators of romance and women are the receivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:18 PM
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since you have Islam in your name, I believe that you are traditional enough to not entirely dismiss these thoughts: the worst aspect of sin is the betrayal of yourself (your own standards), you compromise yourself by your own dishonesty, you've cheapened yourself for a base need and pleasure, you've wronged both your partner and the person you have cheated with, you've misused your time and energy, etc etc ​ in short: there is no such thing as a victimless sin; you are always the victim of your…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:51 PM
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it is immoral. but it takes two to tango. and most people basically don't believe in morality anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:51 PM
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yes, it's immoral to sell cigarettes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:51 PM
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i'd expect, and i'm seeing it in this thread already, that many men would be more turned off by the guilt than any sexual indiscretion. an 'anything goes' attitude towards sex is seemingly the norm now and i don't see that swinging in the other direction anytime soon. to be honest, i'd think she'd likely go up in value for the majority of men (at least the ones I see here on reddit) if all she's done is post nudes... these guys are sharing nudes of their gf's with their friends all over the plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 09:26 PM
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from what you're saying, that part suggests that i'm interpreting someone else. but also, what you quoted doesn't logically follow from the interpretation I made of Atlas' words. the only thing being discussed was raping and ravishing, not all that other normal attraction stuff. i don't have a taste for raping or ravishing and said so in a later comment. what you said about attraction was totally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:05 AM
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i didn't imply anything that warranted your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:41 AM
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yes, this way of thinking matches mine. i'm sure you'd agree that's a lot of room for tragic error in that type of risky, high stakes game. anyway, rape fantasy stuff definitely not my style and so that's all i've got to say on this subject
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 01:15 AM
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yes. playing a game of rape in order to feel more "like a man". fascinating don't worry! it's safe! they're not really men ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 12:37 AM
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sensitive gentlemen LARPing as rapists. remarkable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 12:33 AM
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from what you're saying, the only difference of note is that rape is when a woman is not attracted to the man and ravishment is when she is; in both cases the man is losing control of himself and taking her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 12:30 AM
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herd behavior in a degenerate age. not really anger... lazy anger, anger with no teeth. aimless venting of frustration. maybe you can say it's the anger of the weak and fragile, like barking chihuahuas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:25 PM
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it's naive to think that a person that is sexually adventurous in this way is for everyone. that everyone would be able to fall in love with a sexually adventurous person. that being sexually open to having sex with two men at once doesn't suggest something about personality, mindset, or values. (the internet is telling me that less than 2% of women have engaged in MMF sex: one source article) as far as i'm concerned this hypothetical is faulty because i believe that generally a person that will…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:01 PM
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nah, your v hasn't been c'd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:19 AM
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false
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:40 AM
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i suppose you may be correct, but they've always seem closely linked to me. perhaps i would expect that even if a high self-esteem person was not confident when it came to dating they would be willing to take more risks in learning the ropes and would be more resilient to the difficulties/failures involved in the learning process. also, i think that the high self-esteem person generally would "set their sights higher" .. i suppose this might contribute somewhat to the possibility of a higher "fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:55 AM
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i would suggest that if the same situation was male-female then the odds that sex would occur would be quite significantly higher. also, it's male-female sex that is a far more significant risk in the big picture because: babies. yes, evo-psych; we have instincts and hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:45 AM
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i think it mostly comes from how your parents treated you during your formative years, your peers after that, then some inherent personality effects, then your fortune in life good or bad... well, all that before looks. There's way way more than looks, but looks do affect how your peers, and even your family, treat you... and looks can contribute to success. Still, it's not the predominant factor ​ so i was curious and there's research about this naturally: Children's self-esteem already establi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:39 AM
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age and desirability levels make a huge and obvious difference here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:28 AM
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men are more sexually aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:18 AM
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the thought that female humans might, like the mice, be less strongly predisposed to sex differentiation in a physiologically determined way really is quite interesting, and I can definitely think of a number of ways this could help explain differences in mating behaviors in humans. i like your positive/toxic masculinity theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:14 AM
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the fox and the grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:59 AM
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because despite what some might have you believe: men are still men and women are still women ​
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:31 PM
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the higher you go the less you value sex/relationships with the average person (generally) often true of intelligence, looks, success, self-esteem, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:14 PM
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while i'm quite happy to accept that's true of your general attitude, in your comment above (and the preceding ones) you did roll out 3 major identity groups and it was pretty tempting to read between the lines and feel that you weren't completely neutral (yes, you weren't hysterical or hateful). Sorry if I seemed harsh in pointing out what I thought was a case of mild hypocrisy, obviously there are far worse offenders. I strongly agree with and respect your ideas about taking personal responsib…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:22 PM
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when people have something great they try to hold on to it. (true across all domains) if a man is an incredible sex partner then it quickly becomes too much of a hassle to multiply his partners because the women keep coming back for more. that's what i've seen in life. high variety is for those still seeking fulfillment, the sex does not satisfy and the search continues. or do you really think that high N people give it their all for every partner? it's clear that you don't care about quality of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:10 PM
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You're playing the game at the exact same time as you so righteously denounce it. So, what prize do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:55 PM
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again, getting women in bed in large numbers says nothing about how you perform once you're there. in fact, i would wager there's a negative correlation at the high N values.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:11 AM
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quantity is not quality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:51 AM
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i really enjoyed this interaction. thanks to both of you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:26 PM
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i was just about to comment about this. the results should be fascinating...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:21 PM
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you believe that you can identify these men (without fail) even on anonymous internet forums?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:16 PM
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when i hear this i believe that they're talking about young children (maybe through adolescence); and i think that's true. edit: does that count as CMV worthy? I think so. OP is misinterpreting the common understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:14 PM
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the more externally-oriented your identity the more this type of thinking matters; for most 'growing up' should move the center of identity closer to home
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:09 PM
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being nice does increase your desirability, always. this isn't understood because undesirable males recognize that being nice didn't get them sex/relationship. well, if the undesirable man wasn't 'nice' then he wouldn't even exist to her. friend zone is a step up from non-existence. it's just not enough on its own. very desirable males do not have to be so overtly nice because of their other (perhaps more significant) qualities. to OP: yes, i think you're on the right track in your thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 05:22 PM
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BPD (not bipolar) has been described by some professionals as extreme (mental) femininity. [the extreme masculine counterpart arguably being autism (again, this isn't exactly mainstream - particularly because social sciences are currently trying to deny the masculine/feminine distinction)] if you accepted that, and i'd be happy to argue in the affirmative, it shouldn't be too surprising that a BPD woman can exist as a symbolic 'perfect example', like a Chad, for TRP; a BPD woman is the extreme e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:30 PM
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tale as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:25 AM
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well, i honestly am too lazy to care about this. but i did quickly glance over an article you linked and the one data set (graph) I saw had them 50/50 at 115. I genuinely believe that 115 is pretty close to the sweet spot to have the most direct impact on society. [not science, engineering, professional fields, etc] It's kind of trendy to say that IQ isn't even a real thing these days isn't it? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:25 AM
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very generous. you're saying there's a significant statistical gap at 115?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:10 AM
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i'm glad that you believe there's some merit to my suggestion. i was going to clarify that i was thinking of culturally primarily.. and sure genius level stuff can eventually filter down to the 130 IQ folks, but even then I sort of feel things end up being bastardized and neutered before they really get to have 'societal impact'; maybe that's too cynical. here's my final thought on this for now: the things that are only understood by super-geniuses basically don't matter in life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:06 AM
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people at the extremes of intelligence aren't shaping society. there's your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:32 AM
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communication is one of the most important parts of a relationship, so it's not like an online relationship that involved a genuine emotional connection wouldn't have value.. unfortunately I'm not the person that's going to be an expert on this.. there's whole groups of men on reddit with somewhat similar experiences though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:28 AM
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you never know. people can turn things around very quickly and dramatically sometimes. have you had no dating life at all? i'm sure you see that a lot of people's experiences end up making them more frustrated rather than less, you may be better off in some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:56 PM
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a matter of perspective. i appreciate that you're so (apparently) upfront with yours, you've helped further my understanding of an attitude quite different from my own edit: better for me to say: an extreme version of an attitude that i am capable of, but which is not my primary mode
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:49 PM
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a bit more than half my life actually, roughly 20 years. but a lot of people grow up faster.. [not the majority maybe]
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:08 PM
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i had a similar attitude for about half of my life. now i know through experience that this general mindset/emotional state can be overcome. a lot of it has to do with acceptance, which is consistent with what blackedout is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:26 PM
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it's not fulfilling if it's not fulfilling. fulfilling is a feeling, success is not a feeling. you stated recently that you believe you have alexithymia. well, some people actually feel their feelings. it should come as no surprise to you that they might see the world quite differently. there can be mismatch between the external and the internal for people with feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:20 PM
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when you're happy with what you've achieved, or when you're ready to give up. that's life friend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:13 PM
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well, you are judgmental then and you are not yet comfortable admitting it. that's understandable, we live in a time when withholding judgment (tolerance) is considered the greatest virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:27 PM
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you're venting your anger at someone that openly says that they don't behave in the way you despise.. though you also say that you aren't judging anyone and that maybe you see the use for yourself in these 'bad women'. ​ you are a mess of contradictions. and the way you're speaking to women in this thread in your comments to wokein is seemingly very "Nice Guy" i.e. resentful phony edit: i read some more from you and see more clearly now that you're not a full blown Nice Guy, which is nice to see…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:20 PM
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i don't know if it will help you at all, or if you have much personal experience with narcissists, but it may comfort you to know that true narcissists are never really happy, they don't enjoy their successes (though they'll act like they do), they can't feel or share love, etc. [they're empty and that drives the constant need for 'winning'/affirmation] or did you know that about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:47 PM
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do you want to be able to treat men badly? (this is the logical interpretation of your second sentence) i'm guessing not, so i'll ask again: do you think these narcissistic women are getting the type of men that you'd like to get? or, do you believe that they are achieving the type of relationships that you'd like for yourself? or, do you believe that they are satisfied/happy in a way that you'd like to be as a result of their 'bad behavior'?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:40 PM
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would you trade places with a narcissist/do you envy them? do you see narcissistic women succeeding with men that you desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:21 PM
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actually you can do it to boost other peoples' egos. most people like that i heard. do you really believe that the one flirting gets the ego boost generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 02:27 AM
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i'm experienced. yes to all (3 being conditional on changing said view) [1 and 4 are relatively recent developments for me] i do believe that you are correct in noticing a correlation; there is a significant difference between romantic and materialist mindsets ​
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 09:07 PM
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if they don't understand you then they can't love you; if they feel love it's not really for "you", but just an image.. 'love' like that has a hard time lasting [male]
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:00 PM
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yes, her current popularity (in America) is what i was referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:58 PM
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you're referring to my statement regarding the BP correlation then... thanks for clarifying. in my opinion you have misinterpreted my attitude in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:56 PM
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what you're referencing (Marie Kondo) is a reaction to loving shopping so much that your life is overflowing with the stuff you bought
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:42 PM
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where did i say that anyone was hostile or condescending? are you referring to me or someone else? i'm truly at a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 12:24 AM
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i believe that this is a reality for everyone; projection occurs even in face to face interactions and long-standing close relationships. are you pointing out a particular blind spot that you believe I have in this case? you're not disagreeing regarding the universal nature of hypocrisy (to some degree) are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 10:41 PM
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these guys would likely be the type you are talking about if they were interacting with women in person. 'white knight' types
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 10:35 PM
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you could argue that the emotional help is more a matter of validation than empathy, and that perhaps this is what these men feel they need most in the short term. in the long run is likely to be less than ideal for them unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 10:33 PM
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it's a shame that disagreeable people are so incredibly noisy and self-assured
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:25 PM
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I didn't know it was possible for someone dunningkrugering (what a neologism!) both one's competence as well as one's moral integrity it's actually far far more common in a moral sense. in fact it's almost universal, perhaps that's why you don't notice it. some people are rather extreme examples of moral hypocrisy (I couldn't say about BDtY, though BP definitely seems to correlate these days with holier-than-thou attitudes)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:13 PM
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attractive enough to notice 3.33%. actually desirable for me more like 0.111% so interesting to imagine what life would be like if 80% of females were attractive as multiple comments here state. it would be fun to live like that for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:57 PM
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"ultimately faithful".. yeah you're right. but a lot of people (vast majority) have to settle for a lot lower degrees of faithfulness, if they can manage to secure any at all. only a saint deserves a saint.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:48 PM
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these trends need not be in opposition: ​ feelings of inadequacy relative to internet super-hunks leads to retreat into fantasy. grandiose displays of bloated egos are really (over-)compensation for injured self-esteem. [narcissists are the extreme example of this 'confidence mask dynamic]
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:26 AM
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in your open-mindedness you are ignoring the 'problematic' nature of closed-mindedness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 12:27 AM
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people that are attracted to a message are very frequently the ones that were most in need of learning it (they were lacking) and can see the improvement it makes in their life. easy enough to understand. similar to ~~BP (~~I mean the Left, but naturally I associate BP with Left) tolerance/racism.... and many other things in life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 12:18 AM
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thank you. i appreciate and respect your candor. i found your thoughts in this thread to be consistent with mine and would have been surprised if you were to tell me that a woman had written them. (no value judgment implied) i had thought to potentially be somewhat critical of misrepresenting your identity though I do understand your motivation. take it easy on us humans Mr Misanthrope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:01 AM
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EmpoweredGirl: "I wouldn't say I'm a bad guy" please clarify, for my curiosity's sake ​
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 12:03 AM
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everything you say suggests that she's into you and almost everything you say suggests that you're far more desirable as a man than you either believe or let on (intelligence, height, humility, not a 'nice' guy, etc) ​ what could she gain from 'using you for attention'? is she the type to cruelly humiliate people for sport? even if she was and was 'only playing' (almost certainly not), you can still play along just to show her up in the end. ​ have courage. nothing to lose. ask her out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:34 PM
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i said nothing about cause and effect. nice talking with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:29 PM
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look up otaku. the Japanese are at the forefront of porn and videogame obsession and a lot of our Western incels are engaged in this Japanese anime culture. but it's not just Japan, sex among the young is declining in US, Germany, England, Korea, China, India, Hong Kong, ... those are just the countries I managed to pull off the 2 first pages of a lazy search -it's not like it's getting harder to find willing partners, it's getting much easier ​ Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:22 PM
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as in.. not interested at all ​ A survey of Japanese people aged 18 to 34 found that almost 70 percent of unmarried men and 60 percent of unmarried women are not in a relationship. Moreover, many of them have never got close and cuddly. Around 42 percent of the men and 44.2 percent of the women admitted they were virgins. [ The study, conducted in June last year, covered 8,754 single people and 6,598 married couples across the country.] 2016 survey JapanTimes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:10 PM
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i have no strong opinions about this either. but nothing you've said made me feel that soy couldn't have been having an effect this entire time (which actually i don't care to prove, but here we are =p) ​ I totally agree with your basic attitude towards everything you said. I don't think hyper masculinity makes the greatest men (balance is best and leaders are not brutes) and if soy slightly increases estrogen perhaps men are the better for it in moderation. but still, soy eating Asians are not …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:26 AM
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how are you to say that there's no connection? japanese men were not all ultramasculine, they were dutiful soldiers that followed orders without questioning, they were not all ronin samurai lone-wolf gods. a beta can make a fine soldier in the right culture and you definitely don't want every man thinking that he's the boss. i don't think Japanese men from any time period have ever been portrayed as predominantly stereotypically high testosterone by Western standards .. samurai aren't vikings.. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:48 AM
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it's the hitting girls part that makes you stand out as maladjusted, sorry. hitting boys can be positive or negative depending on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:16 AM
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yes, it's better to drop the word equal entirely. "men and women are not the same"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:14 AM
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there's that inner nice guy, right on cue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:12 AM
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because ultimately they are often only this way on the surface. scratch them a bit and they become bitter, raging malcontents (see reddit for examples)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:10 AM
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and now japanese masculinity is on life support; in Japan soy boys are called herbivore men. ​ wikipedia: "The term herbivore men was also a term that is described as young men who had lost their "manliness" ..... Surveys of single Japanese men conducted in 2010 found that 61% of men in their 20s and 70% of men in their 30s considered themselves to be herbivores ..... In a 2011 poll of Japanese boys aged between 16 and 19, 36% said they were not interested in having sex " ​ this trend is the fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:04 AM
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If everyone is made to know their place, only the exceptional will break out of said place. ​ there you go, the first part is unnecessary. in fact, i would suggest that 'knowing your place' (being honest about your true condition) is the only way to start getting ahead. Not being honest means you live in a fantasy world and have fantasy successes, or just sub-optimal success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:57 AM
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we'll probably have some sort of orgasm controller in our brain so we can have them whenever we want at a push of a button. plus porn and drugs will be better than ever and people will almost certainly be less sexually desirable than ever. people will be cloning themselves one of these days and artificial wombs will be a thing (they already did it with a lamb), but probably not by then.. intercourse down 66.6% is my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:05 AM
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Babies love the boobies and they we never stop loving those beauties. What more can you say? Come out of the womb, gotta love looking at mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 07:12 PM
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people having less sex proof that men will sleep with anything? please show your steps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:02 PM
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have you tried only spending time with her in groups? if you're seriously concerned then I think that you could start politely declining 'favors' that you show any sign of being romantically motivated (probably almost all of them). Really the best way to put an end to things like this is to start dating someone else.. or you could at least talk about other women you were attracted to in her presence. You can even make up a long distance gf if you need to. [you're a rare breed it seems, the major…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:43 PM
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Niceness is good. There's really nothing wrong with niceness and actually its probably 100% attractive , though it's tainted as a word perhaps. So a super desirable bad boy that also has a nice side is even more desirable because of it. The problem with a Nice Guy is that this is the number one adjective identified with him. If your most outstanding quality is niceness then I'm sorry but women probably won't be very into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:00 PM
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why not try starting off with a ladyboy? might be best of both worlds for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:41 AM
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the biggest problem of humanity? not enough romance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:37 AM
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The jerks are desperate too. “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation. From the desperate city you go into the desperate country, and have to console yourself with the bravery of minks and muskrats. A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind. There is no play in them, for this comes after work. But it is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:35 AM
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we are of like mind so far. i was not aware that TRP had a rational traditionalist side and have seen little evidence of this here at PPD. I am curious to see just how much they have delved into these thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 01:21 AM
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yes, i see your mindset more clearly now that you've expressed yourself further in this thread. i wasn't trying to advocate the attitude at all, quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 01:19 AM
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There are many, probably the majority, that have little to no taste for these things. Getting better will simply be an issue of material prosperity, comfort, and safety for these people. It's not unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:41 AM
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You are admitting here the prevalent demoralization of society. Really I feel you simply are complaining about someone trying to be honest about the current state of things. Nero behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:26 AM
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Actually the pessimistic mindset can be quite liberating. In fact I would suggest to you that this cynical mindset is now basically the default and encouraged outlook. Which explains the current libertine attitudes, and increasing dissatisfaction for many of both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:23 AM
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I think it's less about learning and more about age. If women were forever 23 I think most would just keep getting burned forever. Yeah, it's cynical. But there's a pleasure in heartbreak too that few will admit. Also, many will realize that pursuing career success is really not going to be all that amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:12 AM
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"If you think something, don’t try to think it over and over, just do it" - that's about as big a cue as you're going to get, unless she's finally just willing to initiate it herself ​ she gave you permission and is asking for it. it's almost disrespectful not to kiss her at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:22 PM
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i generally use the word 'cute' like females use the word 'nice' .. but it's ok in younger women (women too young for me) edit: sexy is a bit of a condemnation for me too though actually.. it's still a relatively low bar
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:43 PM
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i think you're overstating. i think that we can both easily think of many groups in our society that are dominated by men and are largely, if not universally, considered to be positive forces. those groups do not generally draw the ire of feminist groups because they simply go about their business without particularly trumpeting that they are serving men particular (--which can be negatively construed of being anti-woman--, and will also pull in men that are quite clearly resentful and truly ant…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:36 PM
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there's no shortage of 'movements' that make men better people; they generally don't frame themselves that way and they might even allow women to join them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 02:15 PM
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pick a story with a man being a hero [yes, there's millions of them] be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 02:02 PM
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well, since i am not disagreeing regarding this shortage of good men i am tacitly admitting the fault of men. (i think that should've been clear). Therefore, I was seeking to balance out this notion of 'the failure of men' by suggesting that women had a role to play in making men what they are today. I did imply several aspects in which women have played their part, which apparently you choose to ignore. if you would like more elaboration i believe that you will find no shortage of explanation h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:26 PM
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do your thing then, but you can't expect people to want to handle debate the same way as you. (i almost said playing games again. well, i like playing games and that's mostly what i do here; so that wasn't harsh criticism) edit: a humble suggestion. I believe that if you wanted to improve conversation with someone like A_A you could try to play along and make an assumption about what he means when he invites you to do so. he wants you to show that you understand without being told. you could try…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:13 PM
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i'm generalizing. who am i pointing at? myself? am i taking responsibility by being here and considering these issues? ​ i'm talking about society at large. are you disagreeing or not? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:10 PM
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are you a really a lawyer? haha. seems right. well, you do know what he's saying and you're playing games. IMO you want details so you can pick it apart endlessly and leave any clear point being made in tatters. IMO ​
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:06 PM
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women raise children and men raise adults i like that, thanks. could help people understand what's going on in our society if they cared to consider it. [just looked up stat: 33% of children currently raised by an unmarried parent? remarkable (about a quarter being single mothers)]
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:02 PM
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you're arguing against your own premise when you say things like "Men can't parent like women. They don't have the paternal gene," as an opener, but then close with "Ignore the manosphere, fight for your kids!" ​ Well, do you believe that the women should get the custody as the natural caretaker of children or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:59 PM
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yes not 'clinical' necessarily of course. bloated ego, diminished empathy, selfishness, lack of humility, victim mentality, refusal of responsibility. it's a spectrum of course and the worst offenders will generally be the most narcissitic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:53 PM
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women have played their part in creating the men that exist and continue to play their part in discouraging and devaluing men. it should come as no surprise that as women literally enter roles where men existed and displace them that now there will be less men that meet the standards women wish that men had. obviously we celebrate women displacing men and then ask why aren't there more good men with good jobs... ​ blame and responsibility are extremely complex, but simple people enjoy pointing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:53 PM
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it takes determination and purposeful self-control. of course you can't do it if you're not committed to it. ​ people can go on hunger strikes for weeks. others can't hold a diet for 2 days. well, they're not committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:45 PM
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beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:42 PM
3

maybe.. but it's not that difficult to look at someone and assess their confidence and capability (yes, people try and fake it)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:37 PM
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people can control their sex drive. period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:35 PM
2

i've developed the philosophy that shaming women is almost always a lost cause. [but maybe women can shame one another more easily?] women don't exactly have a sense of 'honor' in the same way men do (from my male perspective), for better or worse well, honor and shame are dying out in men too as far as I can tell. people openly celebrate the end of shame actually.. shameful ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:34 PM
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my advice would be to be open about recent weight loss up front. it's really impressive so it's a good thing to talk about it (you probably do). after that it should be easy enough to give a bit of a heads up about what they could expect. if they seem a bit weirded out about the possibility I'd probably just take it slower with them. Or leave your shirt on .. it'll get better and easier. congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:26 PM
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No. There is no necessary connection between the size of your group and how it is situated relative to the mainstream. I would guess that if we were talking about feminism you'd agree that a relatively small group of self-described feminists could have a large impact on and relevance towards the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 02:36 PM
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I respect your honesty, but it's also depressing to hear someone state it bluntly like that. Well, I relate to your feelings personally. But if you say that about yourself then you're not a real narcissist 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:48 AM
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i won't attempt to wager a percentage of male inflated egos in X group guess, but I'm happy to suggest that TRP itself is a breeding ground for " disillusioned, narcissistic and egotistical" thought... the core ideas can be perfectly fine (though I reject that) and that wouldn't change the fact that it clearly appeals to guys attempting to overcome negative feelings through (future?) self-celebration. Even PPD functions this way for many IMO. Hey, maybe I'm a narcissist ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:41 PM
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it's because i feel that PPD at large is Reddish that I shade my bias a particular way. In fact you have misidentified me, but that suits me just fine. I'll share with you as a peace offering that Led Zeppelin was my favorite band for about two decades of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:01 PM
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i see a lot of men saying this is just about women. those men are in denial imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:28 PM
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agreed. well, that's how its been. but maybe women don't need men any more tbh; at least that's what many seem to be thinking these days. interesting time we live in
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:21 PM
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i wrote 'strong' like this for a reason and perhaps i could have written 'take advantage'. i've spent a good bit of my energy here at PPD criticizing those that refuse to take responsibility and blame others that have it 'better'. A criticism was meant.. in this case I was attempting to avoid favoring one side over the other. I don't associate myself with either left or right these days fwiw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:38 PM
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you are totally correct and most people in this thread will likely deny it or say that it's only true of 'the other side' ​ well, it's not just internet/social media.. it's modernity as a whole that creates the hyper -ego individual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:20 PM
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what opposition do you think i'm opposing as i criticized both sides? what side do you believe me to be on? these are rhetorical questions and you shouldn't bother answering ​ unless you want me to start quoting song lyrics for you again? that was really fun for me actually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:18 PM
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it's true of both sides. in this instance i was talking about the right, but you have a good point. ideological people in general have a pet hatred and justification for why the world isn't everything it should be [passing the blame to the other side]
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:39 PM
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blame dudes for not sleeping with unattractive females, or each other. ​ men are quite ready to settle when they land a woman that seems to be the best they can do (better even then they expect often) and rightly so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:37 PM
1

you've got the patience of a saint.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:21 PM
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looking down on others is also RP RP looks down on the weak, BP looks down on the 'strong' that take advantage. (generalizations)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:16 PM
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turns out 'education' is kinda the opposite of real world experience a lot of the time. also turns out that a powerful intellect is great at rationalizing (aka warping the truth to fit its preconceived notions)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:45 PM
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very good. tldr imo: the capacity for success with women is a consequence of being a respectable man, not the other way around [though of course it can be faked/cheated]
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:19 PM
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frustration and bitterness + revenge orientation, grouping up to oppose the evil 'other' are some of the commonalities. it's no surprise that these ideas can coexist in a discouraged modern individual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:19 PM
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I develop feelings quite readily and can find something to be attracted to in a large number of people, said love to 3 different women. Married->Divorced. Probably never really had "true love", someone I felt that I had to have, "the one"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:05 PM
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i wasn't talking about you and there's no reason to be hateful edit: removed self-defense and explanation i am sorry if you feel personally injured or wronged by my comment, that was not my intention
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 01:50 AM
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if you genuinely didn't know beforehand then of course you're not at fault. but let's be honest, a lot of the time know that the girl is messed up/damaged/hurt and take the opportunity to have an easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 11:04 PM
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that is emotional vulnerability. that type of crazy comes from pain and suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 11:03 PM
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The main thing to me is this: when you prey on and take advantage of crazy people (the wounded) then it turns out that youre a really shitty person. We all know that it's wrong to take advantage of the weak and vulnerable, many love to ignore it when it comes to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:47 PM
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a thread was made recently during "The Purge" (or whatever it was called) where PPD were invited to post their picture. It failed miserably with only a handful of contributors. You may gather something from that regarding how confident we generally are here; or not, maybe it's humility, lack of interest, etc. ​ So you're quite brave to share with us :) I for one think that you deserved a considerably higher rating and of course judging based on one picture is really limited (and you didn't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 05:18 PM
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creep signaling has its uses
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:15 PM
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still they stayed together. i didn't mean to imply that everything was harmony when two opposites meet. and i'm not praising extreme masculinity or femininity. i would recommend people to seek to balance out these qualities in themselves if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 09:03 PM
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you're not particularly disagreeing with me, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:20 PM
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tolerate.. maybe. perhaps the more masculine the less he understands the feminine and is prone to chaffing against it. nonetheless, i'd say masculinity is mesmerized and in thrall of femininity. and perhaps vice-versa. i don't like your word tolerate. obviously masculinity loves femininity does everything in its power to protect it and lays down its life for it if necessary ​ i have no problem with the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:16 PM
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i believe that to be the opposite of the truth. masculine men don't care for masculine females. i believe that you have a masculinized image of the feminine. but what i do know? a queen is a masculine female generally speaking, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:10 PM
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unless that feminine person were paired with a masculine person and both didn't feel the need to excel in one another's spheres. hopelessly anachronistic i'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:01 PM
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magnanimity and grace. i think that's very good. i like nobility as a single word for both, or virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:58 PM
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i think you can drop the female/male victim differentiation "toxic behavior causes suffering" and you'll closer to objective truth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:50 PM
1

NPCs serve a purpose, but they can't think on their own; they don't act on their own volition. they exist to serve the purposes of others. of course it's quite easy to see how the vast majority of humans could be painted this way if one had the inclination to portray them in this limited way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:46 PM
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there are reasonable people out there on both sides. i believe that the voice of reason is being drowned out by extremely motivated and loud voices from the extremes. i'll join you in a realistic love of femininity. men love the feminine more than the masculine and vice-versa.. that's the story of humanity and life [though maybe things are upside down for many of us these days]
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:52 PM
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indeed. and it's made all the worse by the sheer hypocrisy. the loudest would clearly choose to be as masculine as possible (to 'empower' themselves)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:48 PM
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our modern technological capitalist paradise for you, maybe it's a phase. we could use a lot more compassion no doubt, but who's really preaching that? the Left? Feminists? not loudly enough if they are, the voices I hear are all so shrill
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:44 PM
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we're in full agreement on that. as i've said recently, what i believe is really going on is that the current breed (at least the loudest) of feminists want to be both the best at masculinity and femininity... though they're pretty dismissive of femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:41 PM
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maybe, but women will still go to bed with and even marry men that they're not attracted to in the way you describe. you see it all the time.. half of relationships even? more than half I bet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:38 PM
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just imagine that motivation is enough then. motivation is extremely important, it drives attention. attention structures the way we think (it gives us the data that we manipulate with our thoughts). our thoughts guide our actions --> men pursue jobs that are more abstract relative to women, women prefer working with people. Is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:33 PM
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quite right. but in your efforts to push 'equality' (quite noble) you are ignoring that at the extremes [high level abstract STEM let's say vs compassionate roles (yes, medicine is a good example)] there is no room for compromises. The best individual will fill the role and we see this in the ratios at the top levels in society.. many people have a problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:30 PM
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i believe this reasoning explains much of human behavior. both female and male. relationship and otherwise. trying to be 'good' and standing out makes one vulnerable (especially if it makes you stand out), not worth the effort for almost anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:18 PM
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i didn't miss your point. we disagree about whether a comic can be celebrated if what he is saying is not insightful in some way. yes, he is dressing up the concept by making it somewhat absurd (though it's hardly absurd at all, this is exactly how many men and boys i've known talk and think)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:43 PM
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traditional femininity is being rejected and traditional masculinity pushed forward for women. the opposite is true in the case of men. however, it is unquestionable that traditional masculinity (while it is posited as the primary problem) is the main thing being promoted for women. ​ encouraged for women (traditionally masculine): pursuit of success, aggressiveness/assertiveness, leadership, acceptance of promiscuity, acceptance of vulgarity, rejection of traditional standards of feminine beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:37 PM
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comedy is only funny if it surprises in some way; what is common sense plainly stated is not funny i don't particularly mean to criticize or dismiss him. i get that this comedy works now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:07 PM
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it's pretty sad to me that this kind of fundamental understanding of stereotypical male behavior now stands as something insightful. i mean, i feel like anyone over the age of 10 should understand that this is part of how men size one another up. this is how men treat their friends, this is how they establish who is truly fit to lead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:55 PM
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Modern feminism already functions as the rejection of femininity ​ feminism celebrates masculinity at the same time as it criticizes it; the issue for feminists (generally) is that they want women to be the masculine ones not men. traditional femininity is not encouraged at all for females and (less blatantly) promoted for men [generalizations regarding extremes, it's the extremes that cause problems and create friction and debate]
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:48 PM
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in the end we have to deal with individuals and being in group x, y, or z has no bearing on how intelligent that given individual is. perhaps more importantly, extremely intelligent people are often extremely wrong and people of average intelligence can quite easily behave intelligently if they simply follow the intelligently crafted guidelines laid out before them. ​ i believe that it could be agreed upon that men are more willing to take and commit (huge amounts of effort) to risky endeavors. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:28 PM
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i thought you were 20 years older than that. and i thought you were intelligent, but apparently you're very stupid. ​ but you do seem really idealistic with all these notions of openness and honesty; people can't even face themselves most of the time. and i don't know how many relationships would survive people being honest with each other these days.... hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:35 AM
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apparently when you open up a bit more it works for you. but yeah, i understand you.. i've always been that way myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:26 AM
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men cause the biggest problems when they get out of line [like causing wars where millions of people die]. and you could argue that they are capable of the greatest things when they work on society's behalf (if you're a filthy, sexist patriarchy-lover). so it's really in society's interest to be most careful about male behavior. plus, women don't really respond that well to criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:24 AM
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really? it shows you have spine... balls. of course a woman (most of them) wants a man with some fire/ability to fight & to protect her. both men and women like people with some passion and heart, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:19 AM
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i think you must be an extremely logical person (hence your name?). you'll just have to take my word for it that there are people that are not like you, there are people that go out of there way to always defer to others and definitely prefer it that way (i'm not recommending this). please believe me. you think people are all like you (is my impression), but some people are the opposite. and other people are a balance of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:17 AM
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i'm not talking about things like that. i'm sorry but i consider something like that pretty trivial. if you or the people around you want your own way ALL THE TIME i think that you need to learn the value of compromise, patience, cooperation, and the taking happiness in allowing others to have their way sometimes so you can have your turn later. ​ Seriously... are you serious? maybe you are.. you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:08 AM
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What are your thoughts on it? I'd think it's no surprise that they'd be intrigued by man's capacity for violence. I don't anger easily so I don't have too many thoughts on it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 11:49 PM
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why should we care to narrow all disparities between the sexes? maybe we should be content to understand the cause of the disparity and better appreciate the way that the two sexes might complement one another as a result of their differences. ​ the causes of the disparities are well known and maybe someone else will be inclined to repeat them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:44 PM
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this is all very well thought out. but we're not having as many kids and many people think they'll have 0 children. things have moved very far from the 'natural habitat' of our traditional instincts (our biological/psychic reality). women simply don't pay as much as they used to due to significantly decreased maternal requirements, not to mention decreased domestic requirements. ​ it's hard to be a man or a woman these days and people should be much more understanding of each other
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:38 PM
1

most vanilla ice cream is pretty boring, we've had it a million times. but a truly exceptional scoop of vanilla is really my favorite. ​ that's pretty much how i view all exceptional things in life, they don't need to overcompensate [chads, sluts, TRP, BP, etc]
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 06:21 PM
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women like displays of emotion from men when they come from strength, but not from weakness. also they'll like displays that flatter them, but mostly only from men they find desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 06:14 PM
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then you're very fortunate indeed. you must have very good qualities yourself to attract someone like this though, you can give yourself credit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:14 PM
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i suppose that's how you think a good leader behaves then. or how a 'superior' treats an 'inferior'. i disagree, but won't belabor it any longer. you can be the queen here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:10 PM
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you know very well that reddit as a whole rejects that notion. you'll find no shortage of people that agree with you 100% and will go even further you can't even stand to hear a contrary opinion now and then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:48 PM
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it is appropriate to admit that one is inferior in the domains where this is reality. further, even if you are perfect in every way there is no way to be all things at all times. one must delegate responsibility and even defer to ones trusted subordinates at times. i do not believe in nor do i care for judging others as superior/inferior holistically anyway.. it's really quite pointless and ultimately naive IMO. different people have different strengths and abilities. some have the strength to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:40 PM
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yes, in a relationship both partners are at the mercy of one another. even if in one domain there is one that appears to 'lead', that partner is still dependent on the follower to 'follow', to trust, etc.. and it's not like it's possible for one partner to "dominate" all aspects of a relationship ​
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:37 PM
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yes, but it's the responsibility of the follower to choose a proper leader. in that sense it is their responsibility. followers often want to place all the blame on leaders and this is inappropriate. you see this everywhere and leaders really don't get the respect they deserve for putting up with ingratitude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:49 PM
1

it is only inferior to be deferential to someone you consider inferior. it is appropriate to be deferential to something you consider superior (in whatever way). this is true beyond romantic relationships.. this is the appropriate attitude towards life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:30 PM
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yes, this is important. control goes both ways when it is healthy, people don't understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:28 PM
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you're speaking in ideals and i am as well. i prefer my ideals. ​ - communication: high N count people will generally be poorer at communication and put less effort into it; if they were good at communication and putting in effort then they would not have bounced around so much to begin with - "control" : yes, a person that values their partner will want to ensure the quality of the relationship going forward, they will be interested in preventing their partner from doing things that degrade the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:49 PM
2

they're also the type to cheat on you or replace you easily a person that desires you particularly and thinks you're the greatest and the only one for them is ideal . IMO high N count people have shown that they are capable of desiring large numbers of people, YOU are not that special to them (relatively)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:09 PM
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i absolutely would and openly express my contempt for Chads here at PPD edit: i should say the 'promiscuous lifestyle' associated with Chads. individuals have their own reasons and difficulties and I'm not trying to hate on anyone individually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:58 PM
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the reasoning is: this woman lays down for a lot of dick, she's not that selective. if things aren't going great in the future it won't be that high a bar for her to be taking another stranger to bed destroying the relationship I'm trying to build. there's a lot more to be said there but that's enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:55 PM
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Desirable men can drop girls more easily because they know they can pick up another and probably do better. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:49 PM
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semantics. they have very strong feelings (the most strong feelings they're capable of at the time and behave as if they are in love). are you a man? because i think male fantasy powers are different than female ​
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:48 PM
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I watched. You are right. It seems they are encouraging women to admit how dissatisfied they are in their marriages.. attempting to undermine the already shaky foundations of marriage? Well, I would guess they're right that this woman represents a somewhat common attitude among self-hating narcissists. Fascinating stuff.
/r/MGTOW16/01/19 12:40 PM
2

that doesn't stop the penis from dreaming of getting on better terms with attractive women in close proximity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:21 PM
1

I don't think so. All this talk about men becoming more beta in marriage is in reality just weaker men demonstrating their true self once they no longer have to put up a front in my mind; they put in the effort to achieve the goal of getting a woman and not because it's part of their nature. The greater man is only strengthened by marriage and wouldn't marry if it wasn't going to strengthen him. ​ True masculinity is a state of mind more than anything and it doesn't have much to do with how many…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:19 PM
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Mankind is capable of concern for their fellow men (even if they're stud Chads that will only rake in more pussy thanks to the feminizing of men generally) ​ There's good reason for this: men throughout history have to go to war alongside their fellow man, or if they're rich then they at least depend on the strength of the army for their survival. Efforts to neuter the men in a society are very troublesome for men that care about maintaining their society, their family, and their life. It's poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:11 PM
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uncanny valley, it will be overcome don't worry. maybe not in our lifetime let's face it, humans are becoming less 'human'.. capable of romance/charm/socialization/relationships (living in the real world) .. i really think robots will be even better than humans (the majority of us at least) at being (what we've always thought of as) human
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 07:51 PM
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dudes are falling in love with pillows, cartoon characters, holograms, and virtual girls presently. Western incel culture has nothing on Japanese and you should read about it if you're curious. I feel confident that men in all developed countries will move in that direction; never as a whole of course, increasingly. ​ jobs will go down, welfare state will become ubiquitous, soldiers will be replaced by robots, people will prefer video games to real sports, masculinity continuing its decline inex…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 07:49 PM
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Were women dominant in your suggested old forms? I was being serious. I really like looking at women's selfies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:34 PM
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The greatest art is the art of living. Who can tell me which sex is better at this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:32 PM
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women are masters of the new art of the selfie. all of history has been a prelude to this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:18 PM
0

yes, that's what all the f_cking is really about poppy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 12:01 PM
1

you're right, it's been me every time. am i attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:53 AM
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fucking is fun, right? you take me way too seriously. but love is a drug, and sex is like crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:49 AM
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just because they report it doesn't mean you have to accept it.. hahaha. I mean, women can definitely compartmentalize their knowledge emotionally (in a very innocent way even). I've been trying to give them the benefit of the doubt though and tell myself that they're really that naive. I think there's cases of both innocence and calculated manipulation with innocence being more commonplace edit: i think it's cool too and apologize if it seems that i was being dismissive of your contribution.. i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:46 AM
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Sex drive declines and the dynamics of seeking it are much more relaxed. Old men are not the Chads or playboys I'm talking about and you know it. The sex life of the middle aged is not the primary point of discussion for RP, BP, or PPD as far as I can tell. And once you're sleeping with women past the point of breeding age nobody really cares what you do. But yes I understand the basic facts of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:43 AM
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i understand completely and am not finding fault. i am saying that i perceive everything you wrote to be common sense for those that don't seek to fool themselves, but i often expect too much of others
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:37 AM
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because life extends beyond the age of 30 if you're lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:18 AM
1

i heard meth users think it's pretty fun too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:17 AM
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moral panic? lol. like morality rules the day. you just can't stand to hear one voice in a 100 suggest something that doesn't pat you on the back. this pathetic knee-jerk defensiveness needs to stop. it's exactly victim (boohoo, you hurt my feelings) mentality. i said potential and i already gave a disclaimer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:15 AM
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i'm glad that you'll admit the possibility. you must be either quite attractive or quite charming to carry men along for so long while keeping it platonic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:11 AM
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is it (generally): a)they can't be bothered to empathize/it's not in their interests b)they simply are incapable of understanding the minds of men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:03 AM
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you make an argument and then undermine it, all in one sentence. fantastic display
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:54 AM
2

they all wanted you at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:50 AM
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i predict that the number one factor in how a person honestly answers this question (in their own life) is how sexually attractive they are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:47 AM
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college kids are the age that matters most because that's prime pair bonding time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:45 AM
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social sciences telling us what we already knew (if we had any common sense) yet again. though i do appreciate that it's there for those that understand life through lectures and textbooks. this is exactly how it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:42 AM
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it's because of their penis. it won't die
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:37 AM
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responsibility is shared by hunter and prey
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:43 AM
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it's never to young to realize that your actions and attitudes have consequences for yourself and others. particularly if you are old enough to be copulating and potentially ruining people's lives edit: it's not like i'm out there punishing anyone for misbehavior. i'm making a post on a debate forum and seeking to provide balance and food for thought, maybe i'm not that great at it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 09:13 PM
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you sound like someone that would believe me if you thought i was a Chad (edit: someone that banged a lot of babes). I assure you that I'm not angry, but I don't care to prove it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 08:12 PM
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i found that fasting has helped me 'reset my tastes' to some degree and i believe that intermittent fasting can help maintain that. well, you said it yourself regarding liquid diets and the reasoning is similar, whatever works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 06:33 PM
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yeah, i'd say that's the chad in the mind of reddit and most of what i see is bullshit. i'm speaking to a particular audience in a particular place. if you think i speak like an incel i'd suggest you recalibrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:45 PM
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i'll talk about the stereotype of a person that selfishly uses others with no thought of the impact upon the other person.. sex fiends, playboys, man-sluts, "Chads" they lower the standard for everyone, including themselves. they have great power, but fail to show any responsibility. women that have to deal with them end up jaded and bitter towards men in general. selfishly take advantage of 'beta' provider men. destroy established relationships and families. discourage others from engaging in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:05 PM
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i would actually advocate for everyone to stop blaming others entirely as i think is clear if you can read between the lines. take responsibility for yourself, seek to understand other but don't waste time crying over their sins.. that doesn't change anything and weakens you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:21 PM
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sex bots. sorry human beings you'll be obsolete in no time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:30 PM
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manwhore Chads are bottom of the barrel scum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:29 PM
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"Chads" are just as guilty if not moreso they encourage others to take the low route and undermine the notion that good relationships are worth holding out for. A person can be high N-count without being like this (destructive of others and self), but that's quite rare I'd say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:28 PM
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or you could say that they devalue it so much that they fancy themselves worthy of it. we can't reach things on high pedestals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:25 PM
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dial it back. women share responsibility for "pushing and testing limits". they are not robots. 50-50 is much more reasonable if you must assign "blame"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:24 PM
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depends on if that's your true end goal or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:22 PM
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can't expect much independent thought from people that identify strongly with any broad ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:19 PM
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all too rare, i'm afraid. still i think we can encourage and develop this in ourselves and others. a person capable of actually sharing in your happiness is definitely what people need to seek if they want to be part of a healthy relationship. shame that TRP seems to think this is so 'beta'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:17 PM
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agree that these terms should be moved away from. they are not used in good faith or understanding generally,imo . 'muddying the waters' definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:15 PM
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sure, if you don't like women, just want to pump and dump, feel like walking alone, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:10 PM
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where can i go to avoid these burdens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:34 PM
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i second this motion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:34 PM
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A woman is instructing you on what she likes. HINT: Listen to women when they do this stating what she likes is not entitlement; just like men saying that want some hot 20 something doesn't entitle them to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:31 PM
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Well, the premise was that you'd disagree and it's true that I'm just making things up. But starving people can end up as cannibals and I believe that our tastes fit our needs in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:11 PM
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It's true. But you don't have to really like your partner or yourself to stick with them. Often these people end of hurting one another when their true feelings come to light. Of course, there are times that people start together from a bad place internally and work together to support and help one another ; sadly I feel this is the less common reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:09 PM
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i'd prefer to see a caged deathmatch with the winner getting to divide the loser's assets among a selection of worthy charities also you're the first person i've seen say the exact thing i think in sentence 1. ty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:15 AM
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that ones got an angel inside too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:04 AM
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now you're enlightened. your angel just got a new pair of wings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:32 AM
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by not letting a bunch of other lame dudes tell you how to score chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:30 AM
1

please explain more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:27 AM
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what you're saying now is.. they do explain, you just don't like or believe their explanation. that's quite reasonable, really
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:25 AM
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Mansplaining is a thing. I bet you complain about that thing too. Men do explain - more than people want. But yeah, being mysterious is totally awesome and will get you laid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:23 AM
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they'd all be popping out his babies and treating him like a king once it settled in that this was really the best they would ever do. that's reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:20 AM
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TRP answer: Women generally don't orgasm because their partners are low quality men to whom they are not particularly sexually attracted [low quality men tend to suck in bed, sorry]. Women do orgasm for high quality men at much higher rates. The low rate of female orgasm is a net positive in the system because if the woman is able to find a high quality mate she will be far more likely to continue to have sex with him [orgasms are AMAZING!], even if she's already paired with a low quality mate […
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:16 AM
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redditing is pretty hard work now that you mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:06 AM
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congratulations and good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:03 AM
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i mean that people generally need to find their identity in groups first to have any sense at all of who they are. there's not really just a shortcut from childhood to full-blown self-actualized adult (for the vast majority at least)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:02 AM
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and break their reserve for them. i think this is what both sexes want really. it's true that high-N is less punished by women, for pretty clear reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:56 PM
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no. i would agree with that suggestion as well. though i'm suggesting that they tend to do it less, RP is trying to change itself somehow. BP generally is quite content with itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:09 PM
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it's not completely different. it is a general statement that includes layers of subtlety, like all general statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:08 PM
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be the best version of yourself that you can be, don't pretend to be something that you're not at all. maybe you will eventually be that thing you dream of, but probably you'd realize along the way that you could never have been that thing and never would've wanted to be it if you could. that's how it often goes I think
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:03 PM
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women like men that could be high-n but chose not to be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:55 PM
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it's not weak for me to say exactly what i think. run along now though. hit and run
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:52 PM
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when you say "I’d rather not debate with someone that has to lower themselves to personal insults" you are absolutely insulting another person. Paraphrase for clarity of understanding: "you're mean, i'm not wasting my time on you" well, in fact that's mean-spirited and placing yourself above the other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:51 PM
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you hide your sneers behind a very thin mask. this is what people see as smugness. sarcasm just like cat just pointed out to you ("i'm soo smart and noble, and you're an ignorant imbecile"). it's so weak honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:49 PM
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you don't see that you wrap your insults in nice, pleasant packages but they are what they are. disguised insult. passive aggression. i respect civility, but you should own up to your attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:44 PM
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BP does tend toward dreamer territory, no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:42 PM
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capacity for independence requires a stable foundation. many have lost/never had that foundation. agreed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:38 PM
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keep popping them and see what happens ;) maybe the slope goes up, not down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:35 PM
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it's an attitude then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:31 PM
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you are correct that BP is more passive. more prone to fall into the trap of creating their identity based on negative stances towards others [this is really bad when it comes to being truly attractive as a man]
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:31 PM
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take both. realistic idealism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:28 PM
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people have to like themselves before they want someone that would actually like them. otherwise it's tooo uncomfortable and can't be trusted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:27 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 08:27 PM
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Yes. Let it encourage men to be much better than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 04:26 PM
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not for most, you're right. it can be helpful to be aware of possibilities on the edges i think. something to strive for if you like. it is possible to make the woman the beggar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 01:13 PM
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Yeah. But if you can give them great sex then you can turn the tables and manipulate them.. If you're into that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 11:37 AM
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APA really hurting my feelings as a man. Toxic APA going to make me question my identity. Toxic APA wants to "constrain [my] behavior, result[ing] in gender role strain and gender role conflict and negatively influence [my] mental health and physical health." they're responsible for anything i do from now on because they really made me doubt myself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:28 PM
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yes, correct. sorry, you don't like it. you can't get what you want and deserve by pretending to be something you're not; in the end you will be exposed for what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:49 PM
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if you continue to do x, y, z when you would've a, b, c'd and it becomes part of your unthinking nature then you have actually changed your personality. women do care about personality, above all actually. personality is seen through a person's actions. a great man acts great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:41 AM
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'be yourself' is the appropriate phrase learn to find whatever is truly part of you that you can build your confidence around. then seek to develop your strengths and be honest about your weaknesses as well. have self-knowledge. seek improvement realistically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:35 AM
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Good to see hyper-rationality getting called out. They're trying to turn even the girls into little robots now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:59 AM
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Also being able to take an insult with no concern, or in fact to preemptively put oneself down, self-condescending, in a carefree way (humility) are powerful signifiers of confidence generally Laughing at insults. Not even needing to fire back
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:46 AM
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emotional intuition, innocence, compassion, look good, smell nice, sing, dance, walk, treat me right, be beautiful.. be gracious, suffer in silence, probably lots of domestic things (oh no!) i dont really care much about the things men can do better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 08:00 PM
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i definitely don't think you should feel guilty. nonetheless, it doesn't hurt to face honestly what others may hold against you so that you can more appropriately address their claims (by simply showing understanding perhaps). We all carry grievances from the past to some extent..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:28 PM
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sure. trying to keep track of who i feel is projecting what at whom makes my headspin.. but I assume projection more often than not when it comes to criticism of others. seems to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:25 PM
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actually i don't assume that. it's just my sloppy style of over-generalization for effect. well, the topic was divorce and i think that what i said contributes. but actually I don't think that most women cut ties completely unless they have an alternate man lined up to support them and any children.. i have no idea about the stats on that - it's my impression
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:22 PM
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well, he did say bohemian.. but then he said calculating; so it was a bit confusing. i try to be optimistic :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:06 PM
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by coming to understand humanity, throughout history, you come closer to understanding yourself. you are not a blank slate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:52 PM
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just imagine how enlightened we all would have felt if we had women in the trenches in the World Wars or working themselves to death in the coal mines. those damned men have all the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:50 PM
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these fabled men might be more abundant if women took the time to raise their sons well and encouraged/supported them (all men) along the way (it's a difficult road). don't you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:35 PM
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i have a feeling you respect artists, no? are they capable of producing something approaching 'truth'? how could that be possible. what can science tell you about your soul? for your sake i hope it's little to nothing.. or are you a machine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:34 PM
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the place that Freud got it from was life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:22 PM
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so have you joined a nunnery yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:20 PM
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it takes a lot of time and effort to be a good adult. sure, have sex but the time for chasing it like a Chad needs to pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:10 PM
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yes. give up on chasing sex and get on with being an adult. a lot of people like being a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:02 PM
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a matter of degrees: the capacity for love. respect for himself and others. subtlety. intelligence. charisma. integrated femininity. capacity for leadership. humility. true self-confidence. aesthetic taste. self-control. understanding of power. a real man. etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:55 PM
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you can do it as long as you're able to convincingly show that all those problems don't hurt you at all, in fact they only prove your strength
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:46 PM
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Men don't mind having a mistress and keeping the wife. When women want to move on they really need to kick the old guy to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:32 AM
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Mostly frustrated RP men. Welcome, you can help bring balance to PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:30 AM
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While humans are more similar than different.. Yes, I believe there's quite clearly different.. Personality types.. let's say, I don't think that's controversial at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 02:46 AM
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no, i want you to be far more concise. i didn't imply that actually and in fact i agree with you. you took issue with the OP, i said - that's nice but not really relevant to the discussion at hand. now you want a cookie. have one. we're done edit: i see you down there. that's why i'm done speaking to you. that's how you act. last word is yours forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:02 PM
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i should've known better than to ask for evidence from university social sciences. i consider them predominantly ideological (there is no question that studies in the social sciences can be shaped to prove any thing that the researcher cares to prove if they be so inclined) and i think we will have to agree to disagree at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:59 PM
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that's the view from Bluetopia maybe, but it's a rare view and you need to recognize that you're a special case surrounded by special people (apparently). i try to stick to generalities because they're true for the majority and i'm here talking to anyone and everyone (yes, reddit sucks in this way). you can't seriously believe that NSA sex generally ends up creating healthy, 'friendship', relationships. it's a pump and dump world out there i don't know where you could possibly be getting your st…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:54 PM
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you really didn't say much in your post. quite ironic given your opening line. it's not all sex and relationships.. ok, but that's what's being discussed at ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:42 PM
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i never recommend full sociopath. rather i'd say you're a bit moldy and could use some fresh air and sunshine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:27 PM
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friends don't fuck. fwb is an illusion. men and women aren't really meant to be pals. you hurt your 'friend' and now you're mad at her about it. women don't like being treated like sex objects even if they say they're cool with it. women have feelings. oops, even you have feelings. etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:18 PM
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fair enough. i think you could replace "evopsych" for 'facts of life' and you might have less of a problem with it. who cares what they call it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:39 PM
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well, it made sense to me. there was implied sarcasm and english isn't his first language
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:27 PM
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You didn't commit. You took her for granted. You failed the non-monogamy shit-test. Now you're replaced for a better man. Hopefully he'll be better to her than you were and not treat her like a fuck toy. Sorry. Try better next time. Guys here will tell you to find another fuck toy probably; I'd suggest you learn how to value other human beings and refuse to be a hypocrite about her fucking other people when you do the same. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:25 PM
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fair enough. but do try and remember the larger context and i had the impression you were overly concerned with how much you 'respect' the messenger
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:20 PM
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lots of moms don't have time or energy to play the part anymore. and so we get men in need of mommying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:19 PM
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this life thing isn't generally played for fun alone. there's death involved for the losers i'm afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:18 PM
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the very nature of your description and the emotional connotation of the words you use betray you and prove his point edit: i believe that is what he's suggesting, but personally think the ideas up for discussion are only partly true. $ is not the true source of value
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:15 PM
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I'd buy a collection of your works
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:58 PM
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Woah.. I guess you could say that about anything. Even scientific facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:57 PM
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Different class of men. Workers, warriors, nobles.. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:56 PM
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The context is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:53 PM
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Wrong answer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:52 PM
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Leaders. Good men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:52 PM
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i can definitely relate to this. but it's not like women don't give anything to men (to 'reciprocate') during the good times. they give themselves and what more does a man want? at the end of the day does he want pity and protection in his time of weakness? let his children do that for him if necessary men that can't get beyond this must admit something to themselves... they want a mother, not a lover
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:38 PM
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being yourself, fearlessly, with no compromises. you may be fortunate not to be too exposed to others' ideas (including mine) of what it should mean to be the man that you are. but you really got to take the being true to yourself part seriously, it's not just something people do by default..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:25 PM
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This is probably the best post I have read here. Good choice, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:47 PM
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i should be nicer. meanness triggers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:43 PM
1

unity in these troubled times? why not fixing personal issues? could be good who to rally behind?.... yourself. lose all groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:22 PM
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they're rogues in my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:46 PM
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a true rock god has unmatched levels of: charisma, swagger, beauty, boldness, creativity, style, voice from the heavens, power, darkness, mysteriousness, sexual energy, fearlessness, worldliness, independence, sensitivity etc etc .. Prince, Bowie, Freddie, Mick, Roger D, Morrison, Axel Rose, Chris Cornell, Elvis, Sinatra.. come on. even men want to bang these guys hahaha; sure i forgot a lot of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:43 PM
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i tried to offer advice. good luck young virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:30 PM
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shitty people get with shitty people and nobody wants to commit to shit. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:43 PM
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it's probably harder for someone that hasn't 'sowed his wild oats' and found that to be unfulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:40 PM
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the clergy definitely have a chance to get close to a lot of people.. people just dying to come to you and tell you their most personal problems. you could basically be friends with them if you weren't the type that feels the need to distance yourself from your 'flock'. but all that closeness can lead to problems keeping the celibacy thing going. if that's really the priority you could always try monkhood of course. monks can be supportive of one another i'm sure. lots of options out there for y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:38 PM
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maybe you could find a nice religious girl that would be willing to help 'educate' you. lots of those girls have it in them to try and save lost souls like you.. just don't take advantage of a nice girl please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:33 PM
1

you'll live. it'll be exciting. only thing to fear.. fear, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:41 PM
1

you're really fortunate if nothing very sad has happened to you already; so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:17 PM
1

i respect a well-ordered troll
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:15 PM
2

O_O deal's a deal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:14 PM
2

Alright then Yann. i'll check out your next book if you really want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:55 PM
2

who knows. even you might be famous for all we know. but it's fun to treat any conversation as if someone super-important is listening
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:52 PM
3

...who needs society when we've got sluts... no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:35 PM
1

bodies in motion are all pretty miraculous. some seem more fun to copulate with, but that's not the whole point of things anyway. honesty is good if you're not trying to hurt anyone with it are you suggesting that this quote sounds like a particular poster on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:20 PM
1

try to be strong. it is a sign of your strength that you are honest with your feelings but don't hold them too tightly. it is true that if you really love something then you must be prepared to let it go. try to move beyond your feelings when you can and begin putting yourself back in order. if you can rebuild yourself you will likely find that you have somehow become stronger than you were before. as you are stronger, so you will attract a person that is even higher than what you have lost.. bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:16 PM
3

a dark art
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:11 PM
4

lotta shame to go around it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:10 PM
0

it is basically the same idea as 'player'
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:08 PM
1

you sure showed me. i bet no woman would want me now. who could love me. you could love you. xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:06 PM
6

a dickhead. chose the wrong head. a walking jizz bag. less than human
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:33 PM
1

does the trolling become tiresome?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:32 PM
1

seems fair, seems balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:25 PM
1

We get to choose the games we play. We shouldn't play any that we hate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:13 AM
1

maybe you're lucky to be done with your boring, stuck-in-adolescence guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:55 PM
1

you're improving but he wasn't able to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 12:43 PM
1

let us hope you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:25 AM
2

i believe that basic outline to be a fair simplification
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:46 AM
2

yes, life has generally gotten easier in a practical sense. but there's ups and downs in history naturally. but easy times always bring decadence is my thought
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:44 AM
1

all the ones that i imagine existing before ours seem to be more traditional in my mind. that is: more dangerous, less forgiving of error, less soft and coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:41 AM
2

no wonder you're hard to read
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:19 AM
1

tell me :) i don't follow this stuff so i wasn't purposefully referencing anything particular there. maybe a bunch of movie and literature heroes i thought of
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:16 AM
3

it's hard for me to tell what your attitude towards "thinking like a woman is"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:08 AM
1

our society rewards 'lower quality' men with power and $ beyond what they would expect in a more 'natural' environment. so lots of 'beta' guys are running around with $$$ they probably wouldn't hold in a more 'traditional' society. ​ therefore: there develops a discrepancy between what is instinctually attractive and what is practically attractive. since both are worth considering [both raise her status and that of her children] - the female heart is divided in a sense. ​ it's different for men …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:04 AM
2

the rogue is the most lovable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 01:24 AM
0

are you completely serious? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:41 PM
1

take the good and ignore the bad if possible social media has tremendous upsides.. and downsides (i think)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:39 PM
3

reddit can act as therapy if you listen to the therapeutic voices. unfortunately i'd wager it functions as just the opposite most of the time.. well, there's a lot of voices here that need therapy maybe; but there's very wise and helpful voices at reddit no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:12 PM
1

i'm ready for it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 03:34 AM
3

enjoy your solipsism. i have to live in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:42 PM
1

so he gives you something in return? he's not bad after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:15 PM
2

i don't approve of him whatever works for you. does it turn you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:59 PM
3

it is my interpretation that users of that word, when they are not doing so in commentary upon such usage (as i just did), should be assumed to be using it hatefully interpreting another person's usage may be somewhat of an art.. but let's be real. TRP uses it with contempt/hate 90% of the time at least
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:58 PM
-1

so many don't aspire even that far hotel rooms, back-doors and backseats and yet children are the innocent ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:36 PM
3

no one likes it if you do it you're cheating yourself and the other person your bf sounds pretty lame whenever i hear of him tbh they demonize because they're lacking in empathy. needy narcissists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:24 PM
2

prepare the sacrificial altar jk i'm sure there's a young saint among the RP community that is well-deserving. you can play the matchmaker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:22 PM
1

let me know if you ever encounter one perfect in innocence ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:01 PM
3

i do believe that reputations will always matter to some degree, and moreso when trying to find someone to spend more than a few drunken hours with (which is not even to treat them as human really). i believe that it is true that interactions with strangers pushes human relations towards the superficial and fleeting. ​ some hope for the future: people are realizing that the libertine lifestyle is not as appealing for either sex as had been imagined. further, we are only beginning to become adept…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 01:42 PM
1

you're right, it's not 1:1 correlation no doubt and there's countless variables at play.. i don't believe that pure masculinity is the most attractive to females (generally) and that usually what is most attractive is something superbly balanced/refined. ​ i agree that confidence has some magical power, but it's not something someone can easily fake. it may be helpful to consider anxiety... anxiety in my experience is something of a mind-killer; it can cause one to freeze or shutdown. when one i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 01:15 PM
1

i agree that women need to be better looking.. but for me they're always better looking than men ;D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 01:09 PM
1

maybe clearer to say soulmate if you're going to talk about 'looksmatch' do androids have souls?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 11:53 AM
1

i'm not here to tell you how to rule the world. yes, i don't know how. nonetheless, this is it how it occurs at lower levels and builds up exponentially. you are correct about the power of money and organization. nonetheless, JP is clearly facing opposition from large, wealthy, organized powers.. almost certainly not the highest powers.. but you and i do not know about what those highest powers are up to. ​ and here you are on reddit arguing with me ad hominem style. you've got an awfully long w…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 11:50 AM
1

this is the parable of the (innocent) beauty taming the (wild) beast. the lion laying down with the lamb
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 08:02 AM
1

yes, anyone that quotes another man as authority is a servant. period
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 07:43 AM
1

women that ACT like that are PLAYING. the greatest reality and power is silent, invisible. it's a shame that you left your psychology underground , radish
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 07:42 AM
1

news flash: the most alpha male has to have a message that is accepted by the powers that be until he can seize power himself, if he can. you can cry about that harsh reality on your street corner
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 07:40 AM
1

if you never use shame as a tool to educate you will simply never get anywhere close to the top
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 07:28 AM
1

you have fairly interpreted me VL, ty. my poor choice of words was in some sense purposeful. i at times would choose to make use of words that are hard to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:16 AM
2

i agree. we shouldn't draw one another's problems out into the open for others to gawk at. you deserve an apology and I apologize. i will not make the same mistake again towards you LC, promise. ​ I hope that you will see that you too are guilty when you throw out the question "who hurt you?" so flippantly. in all honesty, your behavior is painful to me and i gave you my sincere answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:03 AM
3

sluts only dream of sluts. that's all they understand anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:44 AM
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"creepiness" is the judgment of the third party. you'll have a hard time finding people that judge their own efforts as 'creepy'. therefore the 'creep' is very hard to 'shame'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:43 AM
1

i'd think of that as a final step, maybe even a correction to 'rationalization'. but we don't need to play word games, i believe that we understand one another. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:20 AM
1

yes. it is seen as good when it is in fact bad. rationalization has this implication for me edit: it's not clear to me that you agree that it goes beyond self-injury. the self-injury must be 'realized' through acceptance of guilt. far too few narcissists can ever accomplish this. they would have to form a vision of themselves in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:49 AM
1

people don't necessarily have to will their own injury, it happens all on its own. you might say that they need to accept the true cause and nature of their injury. or did you already imply all that when you said 'narcissistic injury'? if so, then it's quite excellent what you said. :) ​ your last sentences is called 'rationalization'. the overly-rational are experts at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:20 AM
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thankfully for the sincere seeker.. you only need to find one woman that wants to live by your standards.. one and done maybe even. it's not really THAT hard if you set yourself to finding a 'traditional' woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:14 AM
7

slut is not a neutral word. it is a hateful word
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:12 AM
1

you're projecting as usual. and you already told me your answer. a BPD woman hurt LewisCross. I'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:11 AM
1

i too would be happy to join (many) groups if it weren't for the reality of the members
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:10 AM
2

there is actually scientific evidence of this link, though it's kind of bad manners to point out brutal 'facts' like these. well, first RP would have to admit to themselves that the standard 'Chad' is not the epitome of male attractiveness. the perfectly attractive human (particularly face) is a balance and harmony of masculinity and femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:08 AM
2

promiscuity has its ups and downs. it's being argued by some here at PPD recently that attempting to stretch beyond monogamy can be detrimental to the strength of relationships (and some people still enjoy strong relationships/monogamous love)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:53 AM
2

it's not as uncommon as you might imagine for a strong woman to be the 'brains of the operation' behind the scenes of a marriage. it can all be done quite subtly. this can be true of even top level male leaders, but you can see it all over the place if you look for it [men can be pretty dumb honestly, like children; women are low-key more grown up in general (imo)].. we may have had some presidents like this recently.. the new Dick Cheney movie has this as a central message. i think some of thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 01:28 AM
4

i've had the feeling that all the virtues have been hopelessly out of style for quite some time. what do you think? Chastity, Temperance, Charity, Diligence, Patience, Kindness & Humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:49 PM
1

do you feel better about your perspective now? or would you go back and pass on the pills if you could
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:07 PM
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the solution to your confusion is this: we are existing in an era of peak narcissism (both men and women), there is a massive amount of projection from all sides; i think we are officially moving back towards sanity though, thankfully
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:04 PM
1

yes, binaries exist to facilitate basic understanding. truth is not binary and exceptions are the rule .. this is why i say 'generally' over and over.. and 'there are other arguments'.. etc [honestly it's such a pain]
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:52 PM
1

you're entitled to your opinion and i haven't clearly stated mine. i'm laying out extremes so certain things are clear to see and i think they're very clear. ​ if a man doesn't want to take some control then he doesn't care. period. it's fairly twisted for a man to want to have a woman be true to him (monogamy) and call that 'toxic' control. to want to provide or treat with care and consider that 'toxic' control. -you're free to choose a man that lets you do whatever you want, fuck whoever you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:32 PM
2

it might be worth considering this. there are arguments on the opposite side of course ___________ what a man loves he will generally want to possess/make his own/have control over. generally a man will not want to share what he loves most, he will be most jealous of it men protect and care for the things they value most [this goes with family name, he brings the woman into his family - family is a protection unit] etc. ​ vice-versa for everything he doesn't give a crap about {how many men treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:10 AM
1

i would argue it is a practical and necessary pursuit; you can embrace this entire attitude without any thought of morality imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:57 AM
1

more humble and real ​ edit: actually it might be the opposite of this too. depends on the person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:32 AM
1

understandable. i hope that you will find ways to develop trust in your current relationship(s), or that you have success in seeking out partner(s) that you can place your faith in. ​ a good first step: become trustworthy yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:55 AM
2

you know it. and you can choose. choose (your own adventure) glhf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:42 AM
1

mmhmm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:40 AM
4

every MAN can make his own GAME. every WOMAN can make her own GAME. stop pretending that anyone forces you to play any game. know when to hold 'em; know when to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:40 AM
5

it could in fact go in the complete opposite direction. or, you yourself could commit to going in the opposite direction if you chose to. because you have free will and the ability to set your own standards. grow up. be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:37 AM
-1

your English was perfectly adequate and you've expressed something quite meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:34 AM
0

yes. i believe you are correct. shame
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:31 AM
1

i wouldn't want to either. you can judge for yourself if your commitment to your standards has had an overall positive or negative effect. standards can always be adjusted, even on the fly..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 12:44 AM
2

what do i win? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:13 PM
1

yes, things can be different at the extremes or once positivity is established. but in the beginning i think it's true that women generally prefer for a man to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:12 PM
1

don't lie to me beautiful taco
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 04:27 PM
4

try using both. better to listen to the heart though, if you care about women.. and life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 04:26 PM
2

has the age of aquarius begun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:59 PM
1

then the whole family will love you, no doubt about that. i don't know that the world is quite that funky yet though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:57 PM
1

her dad probably wouldn't be thrilled
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:53 PM
1

i encourage you not to waste time on one such as me if it does you no good. look the other way, if i got nothing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:48 PM
1

maybe this is one of those 'shit test' things. hard to get. hardest to get. the mom may know something you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:46 PM
1

dirty games alright
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:31 PM
2

if she really likes you she'll let you pay. ;) her paying is a good way for her to say "i'm not letting you have any power over me" ​ edit: this may be nonsense. but it's instructive nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:29 PM
5

this. be above it all. in command while indifferent. effortless dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:26 PM
2

it's ok. maybe 1 day was perfect after all. i think the conversation is elevated. plus there wasn't as much dirt out there as i had hoped
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:11 PM
2

true. basically every woman gets to make her own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:00 PM
1

to the extent that he wants her to want him generally. but he should be flexible as well if she truly desires to pay. ​ chivalry first, with flexibility
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:46 PM
1

more power to you. it'll be interesting to see your reception here if you stick around. tough audience though. it should be fun at least ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 08:18 AM
3

nah. maybe if you could recreate them in a better way. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 08:16 AM
3

where's your worthwhile contribution to PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:17 AM
6

funny how you point the finger and absolve yourself immediately. what a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:17 AM
3

women speak from the heart; if you have a heart it's easy to understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:16 AM
5

not a bad idea. purchases will all be tracked soon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:15 AM
5

god did it. or some stork.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:15 AM
5

miracle whip
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:14 AM
2

you're preaching to the choir friend. i'll definitely give you some online support. see if you can guess if any of the people here end up following you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:12 AM
1

1%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:07 AM
1

you're going to have to tell them your N-count for starters. then maybe a few pics of chicks you slayed. maybe think of some catchy allegorical medicine you could 'sell' them. gl, i like your style ivanlee. what are you russian/chinese?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:06 AM
1

i just started on instagram a few days ago. i had a chat with this supermodel. it's pretty alright there if you work with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:03 AM
2

i just used prince as an example yesterday. nobody cared :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:01 AM
2

but the guys here just want orgasms with sexy sluts. how will your leadership work for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:41 AM
2

when you wish upon a star makes no difference who you are anything your heart desires will come to you ​ home of the magic kingdom. fun in the sun all year. hot women being hot always. you'll get plenty if you just take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:35 AM
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i encourage you to give less credence to the opinion of a group of men that is (largely) unsuccessful with women and dissatisfied with what 'success' they do have. rather, you should seek to understand women directly to the best of your ability. imo ​
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:06 AM
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you're overemphasizing the importance of male physical beauty for women because you're trying to understand them from the perspective of a man.. basically you're describing gay men more than women. i'm sure you've heard that before, but it's still true. to understand women, listen to and believe women... i mean, women are pretty open and honest about these things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:52 AM
2

you're quite right, of course. i simply pointed out that the reasoning you used in placing blame on men for being accused of rape (he should have known better basically) can be used in the exact same way against women (in the examples that you choose). ​ i mean, there are clear cases of rape where the woman made no risky choice whatsoever, but your examples are not like that. those women are naked and sexing a guy that then goes on to mistreat them. they could be seen to share some of the respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:33 AM
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i'm sorry but there are almost no implications at all to this line of thought. some women are taller than some other men; ok some are more muscular than some men: ok. ​ on and on... there are always exceptions to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:26 AM
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you can say the same thing about women and their lack of understanding of who they allow to get close to them... all your examples being those of a woman who has already consented to sex and then is 'taken advantage of'. ​ in your examples the woman has failed herself by engaging in sex with a low quality/duplicitous male
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:23 AM
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they should stop trying to blame anyone and take responsibility for themselves. the women are plentiful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:19 PM
1

how can things get any sillier. well, it's time to laugh that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:11 AM
1

let our vices lead us to virtue. mayhem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:10 AM
1

people seemed to be primed to picking out threats to them from all the noise that surrounds. it makes sense that threats are made the most salient (through the magic of attention) because in our ancestral environment a great many threats existed that could result in death rather quickly. Death bad. Well, with all the lack of gentility characteristic of so much of the internet... it's no wonder that our threat detectors are on high alert and subtle thought is rather difficult to manage We should …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:16 AM
2

That's fair and I am guilty as charged. I will try harder to be more productive with every comment . FWIW I agree generally with almost all that I've heard you say in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:10 AM
1

i believe the "difficulties may be too great" for you William_Howe. perhaps you should hand over the responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:34 AM
3

it was nice, but we were promised 7 days
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:32 AM
3

MEOW men envious over women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:21 AM
3

it's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:59 AM
2

drop the ivanlee reference. make your own ig now and plug it. get everyone to promote you because you're the most amazing and how could they not. then do your thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:04 AM
5

sadly enough, i've been told that relationships no longer come with sexual exclusivity understanding included
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:03 AM
1

men like danger. women like dangerous men. boo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:00 AM
1

i had no idea. i see 88 and think 'eight is great' apparently i've been hopelessly naive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:58 AM
1

i wish i was cool like those other dudes i heard about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:57 AM
2

you forget that too goat. you're wearing a goat original all the time. you're the goat, friend. that's the attitude, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:54 AM
2

i was born wearing a shirt... forget that. my skin is more powerful than his shirt, but it doesn't look good on anyone else. no you can't have my skin ivanlee!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:46 AM
3

You are being ironic I hope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:24 AM
4

You have misinterpreted I believe. They enjoy anyone that does not stand in the way, all the better if he facilitates, their goal. You're describing 'cuck' style
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:23 AM
1

fair enough. but others may need reminders where you have already learned the lesson. HNY Uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:06 AM
1

Remarkable work. Ty TC, please continue contributing here. HNY19
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:14 PM
0

Reminders can be helpful. Sometimes criticism is hollow. I believe that you hold certain traditional values that you feel are worth repeating/reminding
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:13 PM
1

you've combined the two; that's wise imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:20 PM
1

where can i find my own goldfish? or do we have the same goldfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:31 PM
9

what about posting at Reddit? is that a game that can be overly abused in the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:26 PM
2

Simply "being there" is definitely a thing. One of the most important things maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:20 PM
1

Is that some sort of lizard woman on your shirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 05:49 PM
1

It's true. Do you prefer to be referred to with a feminine pronoun?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 05:25 PM
1

What is most precious to you? How should others come to realize what is most precious to them? [sorry this is two q's but i couldn't choose, feel free to pick just one to answer. ty]
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 05:09 PM
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i wouldn't change a word but it's pretty irrational and it might just be irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 05:00 PM
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i'm not seriously suggesting arranged marriage in our time and age. but i believe that it had its place once, when parents may have had better sense than their children and marriage occurred much earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:30 PM
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do you speak for anyone other than yourself? edit: interesting notion that science and debate do not draw primarily from 'life' in your mind. maybe they should
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:28 PM
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how do we bring peace, love and harmony to PPD?.. and through it end the division between men, women, and pillpoppers everywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:30 PM
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That's exactly the trend I have been concerned about, particularly here at PPD. We must do better to see one another's humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 12:37 PM
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You are right. I have oversimplified. But I do trust women's intuition generally
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 12:34 PM
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understood. forgive my errors i see what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:52 AM
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women in general don't seem to enjoy dispensing justice (directly). why should it be different for feminism? ​ am i mistaken?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:48 AM
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it never sat right with me. i mean, i try to sit right and it seems uncomfortable. i don't like making people uncomfortable if it can be avoided, especially when i'm just trying to get some loving done. ​ but if you're sure it's great, why not? ...i could be wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:46 AM
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i guess i need to start using /s . man, i hate /s. should i stop being /s or find a new way to represent /s? i'll try to clean it up. ​ don't use steroids friends, that's a dead end IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:44 AM
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atlas' love atlas. i've already seen plenty of dicks and pussies in my time here. i wouldn't mind faces, but ultimately i like making my own map anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:33 AM
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you should start your own post for that whale
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:28 AM
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