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Everyone seems to have the advice aspect of this covered, but I will tell you that I had the exact same issue as you. Towards the end of my freshman year I met a man that I put my foot down with- I knew he was into hookups and had no issue getting them, but I really liked him, and I wanted to have a Relationship with him. He respected that, and we’ve now been together almost six years. So it is possible!! Just keep firm in your beliefs- the right kind of man will come along eventually.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 01:53 PM
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Girl, I’ve gathered from your post history that this is all spiraling from a bad break up. It sounds like you are not in a good place, at all. When people have been advocating to you to see a therapist, it’s because that person can help you, understand you, and work through this kind of stuff with you. They can help you understand the situation from a different perspective and give you coping mechanisms. I mean this with love, honestly- your perception of events seems very off, and I really do b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 11:42 PM
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So I’m not too seasoned, but I would be careful about suddenly pulling away because it might give him the wrong idea. I’m getting the vibe that you might be over thinking this a little! If he’s not pushing you away, or asking for more alone time or what not, don’t mess with a good thing. As long as you’re not giving him wife-privileges then this all seems like a very fair and natural progression. As for the party, find something to occupy your time while he’s there. Don’t let it ruin your Friday…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 05:16 PM
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Of course! To be honest, when I met him he was quite literally surrounded by women, holding court like a king. They were hanging off his every word and giggling incessantly. I heard him say something related to my degree and I said something snarky and that was how it all started. So I guess, in a way, your musings are partially correct, at least for me lmao. I thought to myself- who is that hunk?? All that attention..... 😂
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 11:40 PM
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I don’t know how to be more helpful than giving anecdotal evidence- my n-count was low (but non-zero) when I met my SO. his was somewhere north of 10. I accepted and even appreciated that his was higher, because I knew that his being exclusive with me meant more (because he clearly did not have any issue getting tail) and that he had already “sown his wild oats” for whatever that is worth. He appreciated my low n-count because he knew I was careful with who I gave myself to (exclusively committe…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 11:27 PM
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Weird you posted this! I was just talking to my BF and best friend about this, we weren’t sure it was true anymore. I live in LA and I feel as though women don’t seem to be dyeing their hair blonde so much anymore. I’m a natural blonde, and always used to get comments on it or new people with their annoying blonde jokes, lol. Not so much any more. Weird to see that at least in this experiment, it is preferred.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 12:17 AM
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My SO and I are both in the middle of job changes, but his last job was hell on earth, and he put up with it for our future (extra work meant extra savings). He often came home only to continue working on call. So my ritual was: dinner ready the second he stepped in the door. His favorite candy or drink or something similar set out, so he knew he had that to look forward to after dinner. I set up the coffee table with his work laptop, all plugged in and booted up. I would great him at the door w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 02:41 AM
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Thank you! The only problem is, he eats the whole box 😂 one time he had to work 8 days straight- 12 hours in person, 12 nights on call. So I bought like four boxes and separated serving sizes into sandwich bags and drew on them so he could still have them but also not overload on candy. He thought it was the funniest and cutest thing ever. I spend more time doing little things like that instead of grand gestures and it seems so work best!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 02:40 PM
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The one thing that somehow always makes my SO turn into little-kid-happy-mode is that when I get a text that he’s having a shit day at work, I always pick up his favorite candy (mike-n-ikes) For whatever reason he never buys them for himself and when I set up his computer at home for on-call work with a box of that candy you’d think I gave him the stars. It’s adorable and I love doing it. Little things!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 02:12 PM
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I was a wicked tomboy when I was your age. What really forced me into femininity was my changing body 😂 but what truly made me into someone who wanted to be a joy to be around was learning to embrace life and every challenge. Work on having a sunshine, positive attitude. Surround yourself with hobbies you absolutely love. Take up baking for your friends and classmates- it’s fun and nurturing others with food you made yourself feels great. Enjoy yourself and embrace being 15- don’t try to grow up…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/19 05:15 PM
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Big fan of Jordan Peterson, very redpilled views about family and raising children and all that. Really smart guy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/19 12:06 AM
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We were both 18, freshman in college. He was the Uber cool alpha male spinning plates like it was his job. When I first saw him he was literally surrounded by girls hanging off of his every word. I thought to myself, “what a douche. Hot though...” when I heard him start to talk smack about my major. I leaned out (sitting on the same long bench) and told him he simply wasn’t smart enough for my major, must be why he found the class so difficult! He immediately got up and sat next to me, looked at…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/19 05:09 PM
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My SO and I both have divorced parents with two very different circumstances. His parents were just wholly incompatible and got together in their 30s to hurry up and have a baby. My parents had substance abuse problems, I raised my younger brothers, and the divorce was nasty but necessary. We both reached the conclusion, independently, that for us- divorce is not, and should never be on the table. We talked about what it does to children, and that if we chose to get married, it will be for good.…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 04:42 PM
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I wonder if these two types are enough to know a person? I find them very interesting. I’m an ENTJ and 3w2...my SO is an INTJ but idk if he’s ever taken the other test!
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 01:07 PM
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Start with things that are easy to do!! I dove in head first and got a haircut I had no idea how to style properly. I looked worse off. Start with styling your hair- Pinterest is a huge inspiration for me. Searches like “casual updos” or “hairstyles for work” are usually low maintenance/easy to figure out. Also start with “natural makeup looks” or “natural eyeshadow for (eye color)” and practice in baby steps. For me it was also doing my makeup every day- that way I can’t fall back into the lazi…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 08:19 PM
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Everyone else has this pretty much covered but I would add that it sounds like you have imposter syndrome- lots of very successful people feel this way. It’s something that a therapist can definitely help you work on. Be gentle with yourself as you work towards changing this- you have so many redeeming qualities, and there is a reason he is with you! You just have to work on this one thing, one step at a time.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 02:15 PM
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For weight loss- I am the worlds biggest evangelical for intermittent fasting!! Eat whatever you want as long as is doesn’t exceed like 1200 calories and only within a few hour window. I went through a similar thing. The one thing that made a HUGE difference for me was going with somebody who wasn’t themselves looking for clothes. They picked out clothes they thought would look nice (I trust their style implicitly) and I modeled every single outfit for them. I bought more clothes that day that I…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 01:21 PM
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Whatever works for you!! Eating at a caloric deficit is definitely a fool proof method. I use that app too! In regards to learning to cook and all that- I started out with “easy” recipes. Like googling “healthy quick dinners” or “easy dinner recipes”. When you start off with quick meals that take minimal prep work and you’re done after half an hour, you can get the confidence you need to start trying more complex recipes which generally take longer. It only took me a month or so of recipes like …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 09:14 PM
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Following this sub and it’s ideologies has changed my appearance so much! I joined almost a year ago. I’ve grown my hair out and now either wear it down or in nice updos. I’ve lost 40lbs (intermittent fasting + healthy choices for food and drink). I’ve started wearing more feminine clothes- floral patterns, things that show off my figure. I’ve redevoted myself to “learning” makeup and rock a “my face but better” type of look most days. I quit drinking Starbucks to redirect that money towards get…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:36 PM
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Hi! I’m not your age, so I don’t feel qualified to give advice regarding makeup and clothes, but I’ve just lost about forty pounds so I figured I would throw out my experience! I started at 170 pounds. I tried lots of little diet and excersize plans, but I couldn’t stick with any of them. I realized I had a horrible relationship with food in general- I was using it as a comfort and something to do when I was bored. So I decided to start intermittent fasting, to change my relationship with food. …
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 01:30 PM
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Thank you!! Intermittent fasting is a god send 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 11:57 PM
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Lol that’s essentially how I’m dressing now. And at least I know I’m not the only one!
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 07:46 PM
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Slowly but surely!! I’m having troubles finding good stores to shop at 😭 everything is too young or too old, and I have to try stuff on because idk how anything fits on my “new” body.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 07:22 PM
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It is an amazing feeling! I’m just stressed to death about finding new clothes. Everything looks like it’s for 16 year olds or moms, and I’m in my mid twenties. The search continues 😂
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 07:21 PM
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That’s impressive!! I’m desperately trying to get into lifting, but I’m terrified of the weights and have no idea how to start. Because of my SOs schedule, he can’t come with and help. How did you get into it? For context, I’ve just lost 40lbs and I’m working on strength by using the machines as best I can, but I’d love to start squatting and dead lifting and things like that. A lot of my trepidation comes from the fact that my gym is full of really strong men that honestly intimidate the crap o…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 06:44 PM
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I’ve lost about 40 pounds, but don’t have a lot of new clothes yet, so most of the time you can’t see quite how small I’ve gotten. Yesterday my SO said “honey are those leggings too big? You keep pulling them up” I lifted up my shirt to show him that yes, they are now massive on me. His eyes literally lit up and he went “damn Piggenheutte!!! You’ve really lost so much weight!!” He looked like he felt as though he hit the jackpot. I was so damn proud in that moment! I try not to fish for complime…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 06:35 PM
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So I’ve only recently learned to cook myself- it’s a lot easier than you think! I mostly use Pinterest for recipes. Assuming you’re new to it (since you said you aren’t a great cook) Start with dishes that are described as “quick” because that also means really hard to screw up. That’ll get you comfortable with what flavors go naturally together, and how meat cooks. It’s also helpful for learning your pans and stove- you get to having preferences, and some ovens get hotter than others. There are…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 10:52 PM
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I mean, you might be? My SO has said similar things. Sometimes he has cravings or wants certain things, and I’ve just made it clear all he has to do is tell me. Recently he mentioned to me the night before that the next day, all he wanted in the world was my enchilada recipe. I completely forgot and made something totally different. He was bummed, but he had food to eat, and I made it the next day and he was just as happy as he otherwise would have been. If you’re real worried about it, just inv…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 10:44 PM
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My man once told me “I literally could not care less what you make for dinner most nights, as long as it’s hot and ready when I get home from a long shift” and honestly that’s taken a lot of stress out of dinner for me. He probably feels that way too! I mean don’t go heating up TVdinners, but if he loves pancakes and bacon, that sounds perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 09:57 PM
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That might be a good angle! My SO has a very high libido but almost never initiates sex the days he works- he’s got 4 12-13 hour shifts and he’s just too stressed/tired. Your hubby might just be feeling really overwhelmed and thus not in the mood. Anxiety is definitely a culprit where that’s concerned, too.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 08:59 PM
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I’m far from any kind of expert, but is it possible this problem is all him? Maybe the stress of parenting, working, and providing while you are home has crushed his libido. I don’t know how you could work that into a conversation and ask him, but it’s quite possible that he’s experiencing his own issues down there and that it has nothing to do with you. If you can find a way to gently bring this up, he might be able to get help (doctors, therapists, what have you) and get him back into the game…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 08:17 PM
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I was very, very blue pilled growing up. We were poor, received gov’t aid, and the internet was really ramping up with feminism when I was in high school. I thought it was the right way to be. I was not feminine, had all male friends, and kept orbiters because it made me feel pretty. When I met my FDH five years ago, he was thoroughly RP and I couldn’t believe how different he was but something about him was magnetic. Slowly, and I mean slowly, I came around to everything. He was patient but unw…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 04:03 PM
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Head on over to r/raisedbynarcissists because this sounds more like a personality problem than it does a RP problem. It’s possible that she gets her hands on the surrendered wife and just finds ways to weaponize it- like look, all the cleaning and cooking I did! You OWE me for it, because I am a Good Wife™️. Read the stories on that sub and see if it sounds like your mom (mine was very similar). It might be that she would benefit more from therapy. Once she has tackled the underlying issues, she…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 03:17 PM
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I have three go-to’s. A shade that’s only a little bit darker than my natural lip for “no makeup” looks, one that’s a few shades darker than my natural lip for work and more made up looks, and one that’s darker and more red for going out. I find that it’s more about the applications you’re using them for than just having a bunch!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 05:41 PM
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I don’t know your personal situation, but I’ve been living with my man for three years now (almost four) and we are planning to be engaged soon. When we first got our apartment, everything was 50/50 and we fought about damn near every chore. It was an adjustment period. I was blue pilled, and didn’t know I was harming our relationship by refusing to do dishes because “they’re icky” “you do dishes and I’ll do the laundry” etc. Slowly but surely we got the hang of things, and moved out to a new pl…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 02:41 PM
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With my SO, I’ve noticed that even if a mans advice would be appropriate, he lets me know if he wants to hear my opinion. Recently we have had two major discussions where I offered my advice (and he took it)- one was about some childhood trauma, which we took a few hours to work through (probably woman’s territory though) and the other was about work. Honestly I was shocked that he A) wanted to hear my opinion and B) actually took my advice. However, I would not have given it to him if he did no…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 01:14 AM
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Idk if this is really the place to post this, but I’m going to offer some advice before your comment is redirected. If you have a diagnosis of BPD, try to make a serious game plan with your therapist. If you haven’t started Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, make a game plan to start that. See them as often as you can, and keep your apt every week. Don’t just go in and tell them to help fix your BPD/depression, go in with a list of things you want to fix. “I am addicted to porn- I need to stop. I a…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 06:02 PM
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Listen if your man is truly into it, this will be such a huge thing for him. And it will grow out eventually! It’s not like you’re going from platinum to black, and if you trend toward cool skin tones itll probably look amazing! Good luck!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 10:55 PM
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As a natural blonde who’s always been too chicken to change my hair color, I feel you on this. Black/blue can be difficult to grow out. Do you know if you have a warm or cool skin tone? You could google things like “black hair on warm skin tone” to try and get an idea of what it’ll look like on you. I do this with new haircuts so it might help! I would also recommend doing one change at a time- maybe dye it first, and then if you’re still game for it, get bangs (or the other way around). That wa…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 08:41 PM
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Yesterday I made turkey tettrazzini to use up all the leftovers.... it’s delicious and I freed up a ton of room in our fridge! Plus now leftovers of a totally “different” meal for lunches. After thanksgiving sandwiches, I think it’s the best thing to make with all your leftovers! Easy and yummy.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 06:38 PM
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I can’t speak to making a decision between the two, but I would advocate for being honest with both of them from the start. IMO you should explain to the ex your situation, and how you feel about the man you’re with. Make no promises. And tell your current BF what your ex said to you- you don’t need to tell him that you’re considering leaving him, but he should probably know that another man just confessed his love for you, so that A: he can trust you, provided you chose to stay with him and B: …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 03:14 PM
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I grew up with a couple of Wiccan girls, and their single mothers were Wiccan too (two separate family’s but close friends) and the mothers treated it more like a duality- they had respect for the masculine nature and despite definitely not being RPW, they seemed to understand the separate strengths and benefits of each gender and practiced in a way that related to that. The daughters, my childhood friends, tended to be a bit more feminine focused and I think that actually led them to be more BP…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 03:09 PM
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I’m going to recommend some YouTube videos by a kind of controversial YouTube personality, but his videos on parenting are from his younger less inflammatory days and I found them very well thought out and agree with them completely. Search YouTube for Stefan Molyneux’s parenting videos (which are from years ago at this point), basically he advocates treating children with respect without losing the “firm hand”, but also explains why spanking is shown to be harmful to development and some philos…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 12:58 PM
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He really is I’m so lucky 😭 hopefully whatever man you find will respect your choices and be equally patient with you!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/18 09:05 PM
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Tbh I think you should stay your course and just explain it to your future man. When it gets to the point you’re cooking for him, just explain you aren’t sure how to cook it/what’ll make it taste good but you’re willing to try for him! Have a cute cooking date where you cook together and he shows you how, or do tastings. If you’re trying your best he’ll likely just think it’s sweet. I learned to cook for my bf and he was super patient with me in the beginning- I learned to take constructive crit…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/18 08:25 PM
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That’s it! It’s as convoluted as it looks. Definitely don’t pay $70 for it....it’s a rare game but there’s zero demand for it because of how bizarre and specific it is. I can’t wait for you and your fam to play it- just don’t blame me if they get frustrated with it, you definitely need a really good sense of humor to make it work. I usually bribe with food and liquor to keep everyone satiated lmao
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/18 02:01 PM
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I just checked eBay- there are a few copies if you go to the “toys and hobbies” section and just search Ubi. They’re like ~$25 so not bad! Definitely update me if you find it and play it because I need to share my love of this game lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/18 01:40 PM
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We literally got it as a gag gift from a friend who purchased it at a church mouse market. Since graduating college I can’t find anyone to play with because it truly is miserable if you don’t know any of the answers 😂 but seriously, if you can find it snap it up. It’s actually beautifully made and we could never stop laughing when we played. I’ve left out some of the “best” aspects of the game so you can be pleasantly surprised when you get it 😂
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/18 01:37 PM
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If your bf and his siblings are nerds, try to hunt down a copy of a game called Ubi. It is the strangest, most bizarre version of trivial pursuit ever. It’s complicated and a little difficult but also absolutely hilarious because it’s just so completely strange. My friends and I were all history majors so the questions weren’t too hard (especially when we had teams) but the game itself is just...so convoluted and ridiculous it’s basically a good time no matter what- but ONLY if they’re history b…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 09:18 PM
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Head over to R/justnomil and read their stories. A lot of those MILs are crazy pants, but they give excellent advice- communication between you and hubby are essential, boundary setting, etc etc. She may not be even half as bad as some of those women, but perspective is always good and their advice is applicable to more than just MILs! Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/18 09:20 PM
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All that matters is that you learned a lesson from him and you’re safe and happy now! Don’t worry about trying to teach him a lesson about it-it’s likely he’ll never learn, or want to change, since you’ve already left. Just focus on you and find yourself a better man ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/18 07:42 PM
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Sometimes I can’t help but laugh when I remember how blue pilled I was until my boyfriend came along and showed me the way. I would try and pull the silent treatment on him, or storm off expecting him to chase me. And he didn’t. He would walk away. And it drove me NUTS. Finally I asked him, why don’t you react when I do these things? I’m clearly very upset! And he explained that it was childish behavior, so he was depriving me of a reaction- just like you would a child. I snapped right out of it…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/18 05:33 PM
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Whenever I feel like the flirtation/chase feelings have gone away, and I miss them, I kick into overdrive. I used to try and talk to him about it- but actions speak louder than words. I make him cute little drawings or buy his favorite candy. I flirt and laugh and goof around, and channel all my childlike wonder. Because of our dynamic, this works really well, and he goes right back to trying to pinch my butt in public and twirling me around and flirting right back. If there’s one thing this sub…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/18 03:06 PM
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If I want to be comfy when I get home from work, I always retouch my makeup and hair and then throw on an oversized T-shirt or sweatshirt with leggings- that way I’m still presenting as cute (as he’s told me I look adorable in a huge t shirt, usually his) but I can be comfy as all get out too. It seems to work out well! Makes me feel feminine but also like a little snuggle bug :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 07:18 PM
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I am always looking for good body weight routines! Thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/18 01:14 PM
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I had the same problem. Every time I caught myself with a nail in my mouth I physically stood up and distracted myself. I put a healing clear coat on it every day and carried a nail file with me everywhere so that if one did split or chip, I could make it smooth and not have any urge to bite. It took months but they are finally growing out strong and pretty!! Good luck, it’s a very hard habit to break, but it’s so so worth it. I see old pictures of my hands now and cringe so hard at how it looke…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 02:24 PM
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Recently I tried an alternative method to breading and baking chicken with a crisp. It involved mayonnaise. It went horribly- tasted okay but the skin was weird and dry and the “crust” was much too thick. It also made an awful mess. My only saving grace was that I had his favorite dessert to follow it up. Maybe I did it wrong, but I’ll never know because I am never trying it again 😂
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/18 07:52 PM
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My bf has a similar fantasy and we found a middle ground where we’re both happy. He takes pictures of me that I approve of, or I send him pics, where you can’t see my tattoo or my face or hair at all. They feel very anonymous. Then he posts them to whichever subreddits, from his account, and he’s able to enjoy the exibitionism of it and I feel like I’m still maintaining privacy. Maybe there’s a compromise you two can reach! But also like the others have said, don’t feel obligated to do anything …
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 01:37 PM
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This is definitely a younger generation thing. I’m 22 years old but most of the girls that I went to high school with act this way in some form or another on social media, but it seems a lot like a posturing sort of thing. There is one girl, 21 years old and a single mother, who literally posts those exact quotes and more on Facebook every day. So these types definitely exist, I just think that a previous comment hit the nail on the head when they said it’s young girls trying to become women and…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 03:46 PM
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I had a similar issue with a close friend of my bf- we were very different, and he worked with her and her bf so they all spent a lot of time together. I knew my insecurity was unfounded, and that I was only driving my bf nuts every time I brought it up. I started planning double dates for us, and after a couple of times spent together as two couples, all of my fears were gone. Not only did spending time with her make me realize that she had no ill intents whatsoever, but I also learned about he…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 04:27 PM
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It might help if you could outline a couple of your specifics behaviors that you think pushed him away. Was there a confrontation? What exactly have you done/said that might have made him wary of a LTR with you?
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 04:17 PM
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Hi OP! I have similar issues when my SO and I disagree or have arguments. Usually once I realize I’m slipping into bad habits or getting very emotional, I take a couple of deep breaths and try to really listen to what my SO is saying. By purposefully not saying anything and doubling my efforts to really hear what he’s saying, I often realize that I’m overreacting, or that I wasn’t quite taking into effect how he had been feeling. It’s actually really freeing to put my own qualms aside and work a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/18 05:49 PM
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