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ADVICEpinkdrawings/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 11:44 PM
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ADVICEpinkdrawings/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 08:01 AM
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DISCUSSIONpinkdrawings/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 12:51 AM
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DISCUSSIONpinkdrawings/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 07:46 PM
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DISCUSSIONpinkdrawings/r/RedPillWomen05/12/17 11:46 PM
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pinkdrawings/r/AntiFeminists17/01/20 03:03 AM
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If I'm not a girl then something weird happened to my penis.
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 06:08 AM
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Nah, I'll get pregnant immediately.
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 05:54 AM
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Its not. Its great.
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 05:54 AM
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A cuck, for sure. Inability to make decisions, handle problems, and keep a handle on his emotions. Can't do basic planning. Look at how he handles a crisis, handles stuff when you're worried, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 05:11 AM
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Hi! Nothing wrong with having tomboyish hobbies or careers. Being feminine is a state of mind. Stop swearing, wear stuff that is flattering, and just be nice. You don't have to be anyone that you're not, but just try to be nice and considerate to others.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 05:09 AM
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Could you get out a day a week, even? You could register as a substitute teacher in your state. Most of the time they don't have requirements on how often you work. Look up any degree requirements in your state.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 05:03 AM
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Did you disagree with him? How did he respond?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 05:00 AM
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In the future, could you get a bracelet?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 05:18 AM
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Why'd you need to get it at all?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:27 AM
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He sounds toxic and doesn't sound like a good match for you (or anyone, for that matter). He sounds possessive. Telling you that you don't love him when he doesn't do something for you is toxic. ​ Getting a tattoo for someone, moving in quickly (and without marriage) are not things RPW generally promotes as they are not beneficial to women in most cases.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 02:06 AM
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Nothing about this is high value in any way. I hope I am not breaking rule three by saying this, but you are not showing high value actions right now. I'd suggest nun mode, get the tattoo removed (if you can) or covered up and get some therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 11:35 PM
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Social media isn't necessary, no. If you want it , though, just be careful to follow more artsy stuff or fun stuff. Nothing that will crush your self esteem. You're 17 so many men may just see that as their form of communication, but definitely don't if you're uncomfortable with it. ​ Snapchat, especially, is a no.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 11:33 PM
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Have you...asked?
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 09:01 PM
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Nobody said that lol. Its aiming to get away from "My boyfriend rolled his eyes at me" "LEAVE HIM" type responses.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 08:58 PM
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As Annekke said, they likely genuinely think they're helping. Just be polite and assure them that you're happy the way you are.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 08:51 PM
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I'm not slut shaming? What did I say that was remotely slut shaming? I don't dislike or hold any dislike towards the women in sex work. I understand that they're just trying to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:55 AM
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Most jobs don't usually involve possible sexual violence, stds, pregnancy, breaking up marriages, etc. Many of these women get murdered, stalked, etc. As well as many of the women not being there by choice or suffering from sexual trauma. Of course, this could/does happen anyway and it happens to men (dangerous working conditions is obviously a huge problem for men, as well).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:54 AM
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It is a both genders fault. This is an issue on both sides. But Aaren is right. This is an internal issue that legalizing sex workers won't fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:10 AM
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It isn't about men. The women are often being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:09 AM
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This. Its very common. Why do you think you see pretty women with ugly men? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:44 AM
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No. I don't think that makes sense for parents to teach their kids how to be 'sexy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:36 PM
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No, it'd be a relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:36 PM
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If you just want to lose it and get it over with - don't tell her you're a virgin. If you want a committed relationship, tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:34 PM
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Yes, all of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:33 PM
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> “She said he was just a friend because she was looking for a new boyfriend to replace him. This girl saw you as a potential option.” This is something that women are very aware of and talk about. They don't use words like monkey branching or hypergamy, but my friends have talked about their "back pocket guy".
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 12:04 AM
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You could try wearing a few more feminine pieces to see if it appeals to him. It will to most men, but it might not for YOUR man and that is the most important. So while you see a lot of posts that talk about being feminine - if your husband truly doesn't care or prefers you to wear clothes you can get dirty in, don't use those steps. As far as sex goes, initiate, initiate, initiate.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 06:34 PM
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He is the Captain lol.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 04:27 AM
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Yeah, a little. I don't post on social media (facebook, instagram, etc) so I don't get value through likes, but I do like getting swipes on tinder. No lol. That'd be an awful idea. I don't post on social media or have casual sex, so no. No. Having a boyfriend would be nice, but it isn't the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:28 PM
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Okay. Be angry. And then move on.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 05:49 PM
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I've met women who have dated criminals but they were all emotionally unstable, wild, etc. They were not exactly..ideal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:06 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:43 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:43 PM
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FDS What is FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:47 PM
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"She's not yours, its just your turn" is exactly what it sounds like. Its something RP men say to each other to basically say: Your girlfriend/wife/plate doesn't belong to you. Its just your turn with her right now. Basically, be ready to move on when she ends up branch swinging to sleep with someone else. Its cynical because they also say this about marriages and its setting things up for failure and disappointment.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 05:53 PM
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I'd date someone with a "former manslut/manwhore" past, but not someone who was a pornstar, sex worker, escort, whatever. To each their own, but I'm just not interested in that nor do I blame men for not being interested in women who were formerly escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:11 PM
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I don't care if they're the same. I care if he can hold down a job. Above minimum wage is ideal, but its not like he needs to have a 70k salary or something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:06 PM
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What kind of women are you going after? If they're a shy type, they might be intimidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:46 AM
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Maybe try to compliment them? Kids love attention/compliments. But if you keep up a good attitude then they should follow because they wont view it as a "chore" (my mom avoided using that word which was great). But maybe talk? Ask them questions, etc?
/r/RedPillWives09/02/20 09:41 PM
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Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:55 AM
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Ah. Sorry. I slightly misunderstood. I do stand that women don't choose commitment. Any women can get sex easy. Any woman cannot get commitment easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:55 AM
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The rise in violent porn? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:52 AM
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I've stopped saying it because I realized how rude it was. However, I also said it to women. It really translated to stop being a baby, do what you gotta do, etc. Lets say a friend was avoiding breaking up with a gf that they wanted to break up with but they were nervous. I'd probably say man up tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:16 AM
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Women who are pretty can attract high-value men who are wealthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:13 AM
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Women don't choose. Men choose commitment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:12 AM
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Yeah. Sadly, we will see the normalization of porn and people whose first porn experiences turned into full blown addictions. With the access to the internet kids have, it won't be rare or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:11 AM
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Because this majorly effects kids? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:10 AM
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I'm not 100% sure. I don't see thinly veiled dick pics often, but there are often photos of men in boxers/briefs/whatever and you can see a bulge.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:10 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:08 AM
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No, but I'm also not like..drop dead pretty. I'd just like someone normal. Normal income, apartment is fine, video games are fine. I just want someone chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:46 PM
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They're absolutely free to do it. It would just be nice if they didn't then go to their beta orbiters and feed them false hope in exchange for very tangible benefits. Men need to stop doing that then. It isn't womens job to coddle them. It isn't nice, no, but its also way more of the guys problem than it is the womans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:43 PM
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Do NOT introduce him to TRP. They'll tell him to leave you. Act more feminine. Default decisions to him. Get him to act masculine by acting more feminine. YOU do YOUR part. It doesn't need to be a discussion that just may confuse him - men have also grown up in this hyper feminist world so he may feel flustered at the idea. For example: - Ask him to help you with stuff that you need help with. Particularly, manly stuff. Having trouble opening something? Don't try to sit there and do it for yours…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 07:46 PM
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You know this is wrong - stop trying to defend it. It doesn't contribute to N-count, but it doesn't mean a bitter guy can't send them to your boyfriend or tell your boyfriend that you've shown everyone in the world your boobs. Stop sexting with guys who don't want to date you. You deserve better than this falsified attention.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 07:35 PM
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Enough people gave you advice about the actual breaking up, but afterwards: Delete him off social media. Delete his number. Don't bother him or pester him or get annoyed when he starts dating someone else. Don't post stuff hoping he sees it. Delete him from your life and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 07:33 PM
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Don't worry about stuff you can't change like bone structure. Worry about making the best with what you have. - Go to the gym and make sure you have a healthy, nice shape - If you want to wear makeup, learn how to wear make up. - Grow your hair out and try fun hairstyles. - Fix your eyebrows - Try on different outfits and see what type of clothing looks good on you. Nice pinks, pastels, blues, etc will look cute on anyone. Don't worry about what other girls are doing or if they're cute and femin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 07:32 PM
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No. You're not even married. Hes been TALKING about marriage. He hasn't done it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 07:30 PM
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You think women shouldn't have the right to vote?
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/20 05:12 PM
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Control your thoughts. Whenever you catch yourself thinking jealous thoughts. Instead, force a nicer thought. Remind yourself that whats going on in her life isn't the same as whats going on in yours. Be happy for her. She's beautiful, good for her. Being jealous doesn't help you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 04:36 AM
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You're honestly being a little aggressive about something that I didn't even know, and I feel like you knew that I didn't know any of that. Do you have any articles I can read about it? I guess I'm also just curious. With your position, how do you think women would have been able to get equality?
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/20 04:17 AM
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Yeah, some of its hard for me to even be like "We need feminists for this!" But its obvious that there is inequality sometimes in America that needs to be fixed. However, current feminism is a joke.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/20 03:39 AM
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Exactly. I'm still a "feminist" in the sense that I'm a feminist for..actual issues (child marriages, etc), but in America.......yikes.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/20 03:14 AM
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100%. "Its so hot when you [x]" "I get so turned on when you pull my hair." Be more expressive when he does things that are dominant during sex. Like if hes going hard and thats what you want - make more noise.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 12:12 AM
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Course they can. But do you think more men want someone who is a good homemaker (cooking, cleaning, etc) skills or good leader. I don't mean you or a few of your friends. I mean the overall consensus. I definitely agree that those traits can be good in either gender. I agreed with someone who posted it earlier, but I think homemaking is more valued in women and leadership is more valued in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:50 AM
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How old are generation y?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:17 AM
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I think they're saying its destroyed because now families with step parents, single mothers, etc are the norm. Not saying I think its destroyed - just explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:17 AM
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We're talking, specifically, in the context of dating. If you don't like a certain woman/man or what they're doing - move on to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:38 PM
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Ooo very good points. I guess independence (to a point) would be a good thing for either gender. You obviously don't want someone so independent that they don't care about you being there, but independent enough to be able to do things by themselves. Great addition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:37 PM
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Being attractive (both genders) Being thin (women) Being tall (men) Having a good salary (men) Having good homemaking skills like cooking (women) Able to navigate social situations well (both) Mentally stable (both) Considerate of the people around them (both) Ability to lead (men) ​ High value is a tricky thing because it just depends on where you're at. Someone who is sort of a homebody might not find a man/woman who is super social and outgoing to be of "high value" because of that. I just we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:49 PM
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I'd like to get married at about 26-27.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:45 PM
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I'd be considered a Red Pill Woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:40 PM
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They sound like they're people who are very angry and resentful of men. As long as they don't act on anything, just let them be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:38 PM
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Most men offer to pay. Most men wouldn't call it "I never consented to to it" because that just sounds like a ridiculous way to word it. Most women (including myself) would pay their half and not have a second date. You also cannot have someone who doesn't invite. Someone has to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:37 PM
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Nobody talks like that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:36 PM
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Exactly. I think its the same for men, too. Men don't care if "women" do x/y/z. They care if their women do x/y/z.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:31 PM
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This is a little bit of an odd question. Do you think the 20-30 year olds on this subreddit caused it? You'd have to ask old, and some dead, feminists what they expected. I'm 23, its always been like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:30 PM
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I do not like to ever recommend divorce, but not being on the same page about kids is a deal breaker. You will never be happy and it is not good captain behavior to not talk to you about that.
/r/RedPillWives06/01/20 07:23 PM
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Don't have sex until you have a strong commitment.
/r/RedPillWives06/01/20 07:22 PM
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I wish you the best of luck while he battles depression.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 07:03 PM
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If the truth is that its them, not him - maybe directly tell him that?
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 04:10 PM
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Ahh I'm so glad!
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 04:09 PM
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hi! nope. when we're using captains here - we're not referring to military. ​ the captain is the "leader" of the relationship. think of your relationship as an actual ship. who is in charge of ships? the captain. i might have a more meaningful background but really its just the person (hopefully man! thats what our goal is) who is the leader of the relationship. he makes the decisions, leads, and looks to his "first mate" (wife/girlfriend/etc) for advice and takes their opinion seriously. ​ Its …
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 07:23 PM
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My SMV is lower than I would like so I'm trying to be realistic. I'm going to give it a shot and try to let it go because my main concern is that like..it just shows a lack of wanting to get the important things done? So I'm gonna give it a shot but look out for other things similar (dependence, not wanting to get important things done, etc) and go from there.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 04:47 AM
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I'm gonna try to just let it go.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 03:59 AM
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Okay! I was just worried that it showed lack of independence I guess?
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 03:48 AM
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I know where hes from. Its not a city or anything. It isn't super rural. Like there are busses in some towns near us but not all. Most people here drive. Like there isn't a mile between houses. Its like a normal midwestern area but it isn't a city.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 03:48 AM
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I was more concerned about, like, what it says about him that hes 21 and hasn't started to drive yet. Like if hes dependent on others, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 03:04 AM
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You don't have to find people who feel exactly like you. Just find some lady friends who aren't super feminist. Even moderate feminists. Most of my friends aren't like me (and are in fact feminists) and its no big deal. Check if your school has any of these: religious clubs conservative clubs anti-feminists or just pro-mens rights volunteer groups fitness groups or clubs/groups for more "girly" things. Just find some people who you get along with and like and worry less about the rest lol. You'l…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/18 09:02 PM
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I started to feel better when tbh I realized guys don't actually care about if I'm smart. I used to always try to be SOO impressive and intelligent and come off as smart and it was exhausting. It was freeing when I realized guys couldn't care less about if I'm intelligent or not past the usual topic of what I'm majoring in. That was so nice to come around to. (Obviously I know that guys don't want a total bimbo). Hopefully I'll be able to come around to that! Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/18 02:33 AM
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Thank you so much! This was a really nice reply to get :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/18 02:32 AM
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That's sort of a hard, vague statement to go off of.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/18 02:31 AM
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Hi! do you hate your generation? No lol. Do you hate that attitudes are changing towards marriage and having children? It isn't ideal, but I also have no interest in controlling what other people do. Why would I hate an entire generation of people because they're doing something I disagree with? That seems insane. The world doesn't revolve around me. Even if I believe I am right. It sucks, but dating is a NUMBER GAME. Lets say there are 100 men you're interested in. Lets say 40 of them are taken…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 07:39 AM
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Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 08:18 AM
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He may have been a bit of a dick, but he isn't a rapist lol. Shes dramatic & had a bad date. Aziz's career shouldn't suffer over this woman.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/18 09:27 PM
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Ask him for help. Can you open this for me? Can you help me zip up my dress/put this necklace on? Please kill the spider. I need your opinion on something.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 09:12 PM
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At one point I directed him towards The Family Alpha but I think he has figured out a good deal on his own. Thankfully nurture isn't everything. Was it awkward to redirect your brother to this?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 01:20 AM
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May I ask why?
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 08:04 PM
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Its not immoral. You can still get married. You just have to be realistic and accept that someone you marry/date will probably not be a billionaire, 6'4 bachelor who settles down for you and only you (as so many movies would like to make seem possible!) Look for other dudes with kids.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 05:10 AM
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At first it was more accidental sorta jokey stuff but its getting more sexual & direct.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 01:52 AM
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I've mentioned that I'm not into hook ups & that I'm looking for more of a relationship. I haven't told him that I don't put out unless I'm in a relationship (I haven't known where to make it fit into convo.) Hes in his early 20s. Not long. Maybe 2 weeks. I don't think so. He definitely isn't very playerish. Hes only been in a few relationships, and he doesn't seem like hes hooked up a ton.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 01:51 AM
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Telling me he had a dream about me, then describing the dream sexually. I try to deflect and he turns it back to sex/sexuality.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 01:49 AM
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Him being a RP man really has nothing to do with this. Do you follow & believe in the stuff RPW has to say? Cause - this doesn't really sound like directly a RP problem. I don't have good advice here, but I wish you the best of luck! You'll get past it. Just move forward and look for a better suited man for you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/17 05:26 AM
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So how can women claim that they are objectified in porn? I'm not really sure! The only thing I can say about porn is that I think it leads to unrealistic expectations of both women and men. It really is a double edged sword. Again - speaking on straight ppl: For women - they're expecting every man to have a rock hard, 9 incher that can last for hours. for the man to be able to hold them in every which way, always know what to say, and always know what to do. For men - they're expecting all wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 02:48 AM
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1: The pay gap: men are paid far less than women in spite of the fact that it is more difficult to find male talent for the roles. There are very few men earning a living as a porn star because he talent is so rare. Leads of movies are also paid more than a random side character. Speaking strictly for the straight porn industry - Women are often the focus. Because the porn industry is shaped around/for straight men. Straight men are interested in women - so that makes their value go up. The tale…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 02:28 AM
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That they didn't care about my degree & if I'm smart. Obviously - men want to be able to hold a conversation. But I would always try to make myself seem suppperrr smart. When I'm pretty average. Its been a huge relief. Honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 02:57 AM
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He shouldn't let go of the past. You're a cheater. He should have dumped you & sent you on your way. You don't deserve him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 04:03 PM
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Absolutely this! It isn't about a table. Its about you not believing he can provide for you. This isn't about a table - its about your belief in him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 02:05 AM
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I also find it super offensive. Because when a ton of people are taking every little thing as rape (being cat called, some dude fb messaging them 100 times, regret, etc) it makes ACTUAL rape victims less credible! By trying to help - they're hurting real victims of sexual assault. Women and men who need therapy, who need their rapist to go to jail and who deserve support less noticeable and important.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 01:57 AM
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Sexual harassment and rape are also two very different things! If MeToo was about sexual harassment and people making sexually inappropriate comments/being pushy/etc - sure! That has happened to most people & is gross. But most people haven't been raped.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 01:55 AM
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She obviously cannot watch it when her kid is playing or asleep. Thats unreasonable.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 07:02 AM
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He sounds like a disaster. Dating "older" guys might be a good idea, but not that old. Being so young - you're much easier to be manipulated. Try guys maybe 3-6 years older than you :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 07:00 AM
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So, is it really wrong that I am more traditional? You're definitely posting in one sub that is going to get one reaction. But no. Probably not. Just a few questions: Are you happy? Are you okay with your dynamic with your fiance? If yes, there is nothing wrong with that.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 06:58 AM
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We discourage people from directly telling their husbands/boyfriends to lead the family. We suggest (strongly) changing your own behavior, deferring to him, etc. Telling him just confuses him and makes him feel like its a test, like something is wrong, etc. You're topping from the bottom. Stop that. I know what you're trying to do, but its making it worse. The recommendation a lot of people give is defer him with small issues. What does he want to eat? You don't tell him. You just do it. Just do…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 10:08 PM
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A lot of issues seem to surround peoples relationships getting boring. So keep it interesting!
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 03:53 AM
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This took a turn.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 03:49 AM
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I feel like men also just have extreme views on what a traditional relationship is. What a lot of people think a good "traditional marriage" is: Man controls everything, doesn't listen to his girl at all, is rude, woman spends every second cooking/cleaning/taking care of children, has no voice, What a good "traditional marriage" is like: Man is head of household, listens to what his girl has to say, both are respected, but have different responsibilities that they both view as important
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 03:44 AM
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Is it unnatural to want a man who has had fewer sexual partners? Short answer: No. Some people are just comfortable with that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/17 01:58 AM
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Act better now. Get into therapy yourself. Get your house into order. Get yourself in order. And. Fast. You clearly do not have time for all of this. You need to start working on yourself and showing him you're working on yourself. This therapist though? It likely isn't a big deal. There is very very veryyyy little chance that she would sleep with a client since she could get in big trouble for it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/17 01:53 AM
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Welcome to RPW. I'm sorry you're joining us under such bad circumstances. My question is he is reasonable in asking and saying I need to lose weight right? like he is not being a jerk or is he? He is being completely reasonable. If he wanted to date a fat girl - he would have asked out a fat girl. Instead - he asked out you (someone who was thin). Guys are visual creatures. They (generally) like thin women who dress well and are a healthy weight. Get yourself to therapy to handle the depression …
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/17 01:51 AM
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I'm very glad you found your way through this tough situation! I'm happy to see another WOC around here!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 02:00 AM
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What do you mean you demand money?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 01:59 AM
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I don't think clumsy is a giant con or anything! Its definitely annoying, but it didn't hinder you from getting into a relationship or anything, right?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 01:58 AM
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To anyone who sees this and is gonna go try edibles now - be careful! Don't eat a ton of them at one time. I know so many people who have made the mistake because they were frustrated it was taking a while to kick in.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 01:57 AM
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Oh I know! My intention of the post (Sorry I'm so late) wasn't to say I have this insanely high SMV/RMV & boys will love me & that was enough. I definitely know its not enough. Being fat is a huge con & so are some personality issues I have. I'm very excited to lose the weight & be both healthier for myself & for men!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 01:54 AM
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Looking for attention =/= Looking for sex
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 01:52 AM
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If he asks - tell him. Just be careful not to do things to make him overly suspicious. Obviously - men exist in the world. You're going to have conversations with them, but if you do things like post thirst traps, flirt with guys (even jokingly), or get touchy with them it'll make him second guess you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 07:39 PM
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Hes controlling.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 07:36 PM
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So women who post anything on social media are looking for sex? Thats insane.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 07:36 PM
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I'm not sure if I think its a good idea, but you could try an escort/hooker for the third party. Just because the hooker is more likely to leave and not really bug you guys.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 07:33 PM
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Its worded weird, but I think she means it as separate things. Like Tips: Dress how your man likes Empower him to be masculine
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 07:30 PM
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I have severe social anxiety. Have had this condition most of my life and avoid crowds Find a new therapist. Your current one is shitty and not working. Have you tried starting slowly? I'm a little less anxious than you, but that's the way I'm trying to learn how to handle social situations. Even just asking the gas station attendant or making a (nice lol) comment to someone in line with you ("God. Its so hot here.") Try complimenting someone everyday. How can a compliment go well? Don't pressur…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/17 10:02 PM
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It sounds like he was just in a bad mood, you were trying to help when he just wanted to be left alone/needed a moment, and he got snippy with you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/17 06:19 PM
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Yikes?
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 08:31 AM
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Irrelevant.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 08:29 AM
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Lets flip this then: I don't frequent red pill women that often but this seems to be the case. Women over there are constantly worried about how men perceive them. It's all about men: Staying thin for their man, being feminine to get positive attention around men, staying submissive to avoid fights Men. Men. Men. Aren't we the ones with all the power then? Why does everything have to be one way or another? It goes both ways. Aomic said it well: Women have power that men don't have, and men have …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 07:46 AM
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Tell him this. Tell him how you feel, and what your problem is. Nicely. Tell him, also, how much you love and appreciate him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 01:24 AM
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I mean I don't think people should be overly harsh or too harsh? Most of those dramatic ~ that happened stories are obvious bullshit, but stuff like that does happen. Obviously I don't think overweight people should be bullied relentlessly, etc. That won't work, but I don't think it should turn into a norm, accepted, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 08:07 AM
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Right? If someone is being weird - block. Someone making you uncomfortable - block. Someone is being perverted - block. Someone is being rude - block. While I do think people in general should be good humans and be polite and open with each other - she (nor does anyone) owe every tom, dick, and harry kindness when she has made it clear shes uninterested.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 08:05 AM
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Guys are so willing to help. I've had three different incidents with cars + guys helping. Every time - a guy as helped. Once - these two different men (different cars, didn't appear to know each other) COMPLETELY went out of their way. They went above and beyond trying to do their best to help, and even show me how to jump start a car so I knew how. Even a man who was clearly more..girly and didn't seem to know much about cars at least made the effort to give me an attempt at advice. It isn't ev…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 06:33 PM
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Why haven't you blocked him?
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 06:29 PM
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I wonder if it could be posted on marriedtrp? or whatever that sub is?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:24 PM
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You're on one? lol.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 04:59 AM
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I would be very curious to see asktrp's replies, but I have a feeling most would be just like "I wouldn't get married anyway. AWALT"
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 04:58 AM
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Being married has other benefits. What if one of them got seriously hurt? They wouldn't have any type of legal ability to make decisions.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 04:58 AM
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How comfortable are you with the idea of having sex? Why have you decided to hold off longer? Those are important questions. If you're waiting for marriage - he needs to know that. How long have you been exclusive for?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 04:37 AM
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I use them. I don't post much on Facebook or instagram. I mostly just talk instagram, and post on Tumblr (the non crazy side lol). I think we all can agree we dislike women who put: their relationships / negative things about their man slutty photos all of their personal info but outside of that? Have fun? I don't see anything wrong with it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 04:31 AM
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No, no. You're in early high school. You're 14. Focus on FUN right now. Not..that kind of fun. Don't worry about all of this just yet. Right now you just worry about having as much clean fun as you can. Running off to the beach, sleepovers with your friends, etc. Too many people worry about boys in high school instead of just having fun! Go be a kid in high school. BUT - that doesn't mean that you shouldn't worry about a few things: * stay fit. get good healthy eating habits. * learn as much as …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/17 03:00 AM
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This may be a dumb question - but what are differences in dating and courtships? I'm not too familiar with courtships.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 07:10 AM
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Plus I totally understand - some women are bat shit. Some women are crazy. So lets say he dated five women. If one or two of the women were "crazy" - I may accept that with a little bit of caution, but I'd accept it. But if all five women (or almost all five) that he dated were "crazy" - that'd be a huge red flag? Cause that means either he sucks at vetting or hes just a dick. But like I said - I don't want to know all of the details. I'm not interested in who did this for him, who did that for …
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 06:13 AM
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Please report back with how things go?
/r/RedPillWives02/08/17 05:26 AM
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That's a good point . I guess I just want to know what he says about people no longer in his life - not so much about the actual relationship? I feel like calling everyone who has broken up with you "a crazy bitch" or something like that is a big red flag. But I might not! Thank you for your insight. That definitely is very important to me, too. Obviously I'd understand if his parents were crazy or something and he didn't talk to them because of that (They're not - thankfully), but how people in…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 05:12 AM
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I'm mostly just curious to hear if he goes "They're all crazy bitches" or something that would be a red flag. I honestly don't want any details (aside from maybe why they broke up if it was something big so I can know that is a deal breaker for him). Cause I don't need to care.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 04:55 AM
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Is it weird to ask if hes medicated early on? I'm not sure how to bring that up.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 04:42 AM
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You'd actually be around the age range. Lmao. Its "J". Sociopathic may be a little bit strong. He wasn't like...very sociopathic. Just very intimidating and made me very nervous. But some people did warn me he was a lil... As for vetting, it's easiest if you have a gay friend or a guy friend that you trust befriend him and say really garbage bro things and see if he agrees or distances himself. Although, a guy might just act macho in that situation. LOL. I'm dying. It does feel a bit manipulativ…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 04:42 AM
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You should. It could be upsetting later on. But I wasn't really asking you to describe yourself. Where do you fall short? Do you have any big flashing red flags to men? These could include: - Slutty (currently or in the past) - Unfeminine appearance (short hair, bright pink hair, tattoos all over, lol) - Naggy - Overemotional etc
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 12:50 AM
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The advice would depend on you. Where do you fall short aside from being a past feminist?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 12:03 AM
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I want to start trying at home, but I'm too anxious for a gym. I know everyone says people only focus on themselves, but I'm scared of looking dumb.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 06:31 PM
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Are you trying to pick up a man at work? If not - treat them like the women who are your colleagues. RPW is a SEXUAL strategy. It is a RELATIONSHIP strategy. This only applies for relationships. You're their manager. It isn't your job to be submissive, defer to them, etc. Its your job to do your job. So do your job and don't worry about being a nice RPW. I mean be a half decent human being to them because that's how you should be, but don't be flirty. Rhino has good advice. Workplace =/= RPW. If…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 06:31 PM
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It could, but hopefully you'll be fine. I think an issue with a lot of women with huge IQs is that they come with..well...huge egos. A lot of them feel the need to be sorta ~~ bitchy to make up for "being taken less seriously as a woman". So I think that any women who have that type of view of it and being the "high powered woman" type could be a problem. I definitely think income could be an issue, though, if that comes up. Men can get VERY prideful and uncomfortable if their woman makes more t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 01:24 AM
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Are you scared of him? Has he ever hit you? Does he yell at you? Does he threaten you? Does he call you names? Does he obsessively control you? (I know - men lead, but there are lines.) Does he force you to have sex? Does he not trust you with no reason to not trust you? (i.e showing up at your work, your house, asking for 'proof' pictures of where you are, etc) Do you feel unsafe with him? Does he cheat on you? Does he threaten to cheat on you? (Does he say 'if you don't do x, y, z?) Does he th…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 12:40 AM
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I would just stay out of this one. Shes allowed to make her own choices.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 12:34 AM
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You play it out like you would anyone else. It really isn't that special (no offense). We do generally have one piece of advice - date. another. man. with. a. degree. A lot of women say they won't care, and then end up caring when a man doesn't have an equal or higher degree. It depends on how it would come up? Men don't care much about your degree as women care about mens degrees, but he obviously would like to have a conversation with you. Just don't come home acting like the boss ass bitch wh…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 12:33 AM
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Oh really? That's interesting! Its nice to have a guys perspective around here occasionally. Good to know :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 06:11 AM
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Honestly? I think the awkwardness could be cut out depending on HOW she could approach men. Just going up and saying "Hi, I'm [name]." is a lot more..awkward and "Why is this woman talking to me?" than commenting on something. "I really loved that book." [if they're buying one] "I really like your shirt." [if they're wearing a nice one] "This place always has the best coffee." [at some coffee shop] It makes it a lot more casual. If shes lucky - the casual conversation can move into something bet…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 04:23 AM
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Yeah. I can't imagine it would be easy to just cold approach women on the street unless you're a solid 8+. Even then that's intimidating. ^ Gotta agree. Put yourself in more situations where it isn't weird if guys approach you. A lot of guys (more so with the screaming of women) feel nervous by approaching women off the street, in a store, whatever. Being with friends, at social places (if you're in school then stuff there, etc), at hang outs (I'd avoid trying to meet people at ragers lol), etc …
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 04:21 AM
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You could ask him to start showering at night? But there really isn't anything to "correct". He is showering. I clicked on this thinking that your husband just..didn't shower much.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 12:55 AM
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"You know you don't NEED a man, right?" "You know you don't NEED [their favorite tv show]?" "You know you don't NEED [their favorite food]?" I hate that argument. I don't NEED a lot of things in my life. I technically would live with out two pillows, but I still like my second one.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 12:54 AM
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I mean it depends? If you politely tell them to leave/that you're not interested/you have a boyfriend/etc and they stop? Leave it alone. If they continue to push - try to walk away, cut off the conversation, get more assertive. If stuff is really going south then theres nothing wrong with people making it known, shouting, alerting other people, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 07:25 AM
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The day their kid is born, first time they say dad, graduation, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 07:23 AM
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I'm a bit late, but I'm gonna pop in that I've noticed with my friends they love it even more if its with things that they love about. One of my friends boyfriends cried over an animal documentary..she loves animals...therefore him showing his emotions seemed to make her like him even more. I'm sure if he was crying over something "stupid" (in her opinion) that it'd be a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 07:22 AM
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*Tumblr.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 07:20 AM
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I understand where hes coming from, but you should really try to keep the peace. Is this really worth possible future drama? There are always issues when families don't like the person their son/daughter is marrying. It might just be best to smile, be nice, and leave them out of your relationship dynamic.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 07:18 AM
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Just let it go. Hopefully they'll move on from it in the future. I get you were just making a joke, but it wasn't a funny joke to them. Even if you disagree with feminism and all of that - it just isn't a funny joke to them. So I'd honestly just let it go and not mention that type of stuff around them (joking or not) to keep the peace. There is no reason for them to be involved in your dynamic that much. So just don't mention it. Don't mention you appreciate his guidance, that you're listening t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 07:16 AM
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I've never slept around. I would say about half? None of my friends road the CC in high school, but now I would say...yeah about half?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 07:12 AM
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I guess probably not a popular one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 07:11 AM
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Trying to be "one of the guys". Dressing lazy all the time (when going out), getting sloppy drunk, smoking, chewing on nails, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 05:35 PM
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Even the ugliest women can get a ton of messages from dudes wanting to talk (i.e hook up). That really inflates the ego to thinking that they're "oh so amazing" because all of the dudes match with them. Have you seen a dudes tinder vs a womans? Girls always have a ton of matches while guys don't get a lot at all. A lot of guys attention = a majorly inflated ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:33 PM
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Exactly. People are thinking we mean: unfeminine = disgusting and we don't want to look at you. It can be cute, but it still isn't feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 05:31 PM
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I think for men it can be a good view of their physical looks, but not mental. For women - it overvalues us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 08:05 PM
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I'm also just going to add in here that while I do hope you can get your daughter to be traditional - pushing too hard, coming off like a hard ass about it, etc could just push her to go nuts. I've seen it 100 times. Parents are too strict about clothing, drinking, etc. They go nuts and the second the child leaves the nest - they go absolutely crazy. Drinking, smoking, and constant sex. There might be phases when shes older where she wants to wear the skirt you think is too short or the tank top…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 07:35 PM
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Thank you so much! c:
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 07:34 PM
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I tried to write this out a few times. TL;DR - It was a slow process of many, many moments and signs. I knew what ROK and TRP was. Occasionally hate read. Thought it was kind of funny and amusing in a fucked up way. Found RPW for research. After that - I kept coming back. I read a lot. Not really at this point in a "I could do this" way. Just out of pure entertainment and interest. Eventually I started to see the things that they were talking about irl. I came around to it slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 05:08 AM
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20-26. Middle Values (I know almost everyone says conservative values, but I'm honestly pretty liberal in a lot of my views. I'd want someone who matches a lot of my views at least for the most part. Obviously I don't expect to be okay with every little detail, but in the same ballpark). Not jaded from women/dating. Knows when to relax / when things get serious / good situational awareness and adaptation. Not clingy / has a life outside of me. Doesn't expect me to be a man. I'd honestly prefer m…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 02:23 AM
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Do you guys think its a slut tell when in a relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 03:29 PM
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This doesn't sound like its about you. It sounds like its about his emotions. Go into girlfriend mode. He thinks you think of him just a provider and helper with the kid. Plan to do fun things JUST with him. Show him things you find funny. Be his slut. I agree with teaandtalk that boring missionary sex won't cut it. Do you know if he has any fetishes or kinks or any fantasies? Bust that out. He has a teacher/professor fantasy? Go buy that little skirt. You can't pull your weight financially, but…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 03:39 AM
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Women don't need to "have their s--- together" unless they're single mothers. Yes? They do? do you hear yourself? A 22 year old girl posting constantly on social media, wanting to get drunk with her friends, and too emotionally immature to not cause fights all the time isn't going to be a good mom.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/17 03:56 AM
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I'm confused why this matters. Everyone has different priorities and goals. I know they do. Being shocked by someone doesn't mean I thought it was a bad thing :) I just didn't expect it. It seems like a lifetime to me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/17 03:46 AM
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Do you think someone could be fun and marriage material?
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/17 03:45 AM
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This isn't our problem. /r/relationships or something. It doesn't sound like its that deep since its happened ONCE.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/17 03:43 AM
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Good luck. I hope to see you around and see updates.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 07:23 AM
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You're being too cool about this - as others have said. If he was using the underwear to masturbate - wouldn't he have it in the home somewhere? I'd be more inclined to believe it was a lingerie fetish if it was in the home, and was around his size.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 11:36 PM
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Exactly. It sounds like hes been open from the very start. He hasn't pulled any surprises. Shes the one that is now realizing that she may not be able to do this.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 09:09 PM
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"I asked him to use protection but he said that was hypocrite because when I slept with him, I didn't use one. He said that he would try but only if it doesn't break "the mood"." NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. Run. Exit. B-y-e. MAJOR red flag. What are you gonna do when he knocks one of these women up?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 09:08 PM
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Honestly? Sounds like her best bet for doing that would be leaving him LOL.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 09:07 PM
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You're in the wrong sub. You should leave him. I have no problem with poly, but you'll never be happy with this. Do you want kids? Do you want a stable life?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 09:07 PM
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Its possible, but may not be super likely.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 06:58 PM
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Red pill terms (smv, rmv, stfu, etc). Then hopefully the vibes will work for you. Even if you can't find super rpw then hopefully you can find some softer "non feminist" women.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 06:40 PM
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You might have a hard time finding women who are in traditional relationships. Most of my friends in traditional relationships really don't use those words? Any place where things are feminine will attract at least somewhat feminist women. They may not have male led relationships, but you may at least find some women who are "softer" than angry feminists.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 08:21 AM
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Eh. My friends don't have the same views on men as I do. It isn't that big of a deal. Buttttttttttttttt Are you a parent? Find a find a facebook moms group. You might be able to find some luck with some stay at home mothers. Cooking classes, yoga classes, etc. You may not find someone who uses the exact words as you do. But you may accidentally find some more traditional women in traditional women spaces. Find things that are very typically feminine. Also one thing that oddly could work is - do …
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 04:36 AM
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I feel like shifting to the feminist style of pursuing men and giving sex in the hopes of gaining commitment. No offense. But what do you want? What are you hoping to get out of this? Advice? To rant? If you want to do that - then do that. Nobody here can stop you. We strongly advise you against it, but we can't stop you. At the end of the day - you live your life. Not us. What is your SMV (approx)? Are you attractive? Are you overweight? Are you sure you're pleasant? Have you tried dating apps?
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 04:30 AM
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Do you think there is an age at which you're almost guaranteed to be incel for life? At any point they could probably and go pay some prostitute. Taking that out of the equation - 40, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 10:47 PM
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Being very obsessive, just showing up places when she said no, being pushy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 10:45 PM
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Yes. I love having fun, laughing, etc. I dislike the "child" part of this like most people, but I think I understand what you're trying to say :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 10:39 PM
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He sounds just frustrated that all of it has been going on. he claims that he loves me and sees a future with me, provided I seriously calm the heck down What more do you need? Just try to relax, let it go, and go about it like normal. Be pleasant, go about what you'd normally do, etc. You could always pop a quick "I'm sorry." and then talk about something else. i.e "I'm sorry about earlier, [pet name]. So did you hear about blah blah blah?"
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 05:00 PM
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All of my lesbian friends are in committed relationships save for one. What area do you live in? This could be a location thing. There are less lesbians in areas than straight people most of the time. Obviously if you're in LA, NY, etc this doesn't really apply. But if you're in the middle of Iowa - there might be a lot less lesbians for them to pick through.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 08:16 AM
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I guess I'll be used for sex by guys alot haha Maybe don't fuck random guys. Then you can't be used for sex. Just do your thing, talk to guys, but don't fuck them. If they run screaming when they realize you're not going to bang them on the first, second, or third date - or that you even require a date - they'll run for the hills. You're talking about it as if you don't have a choice but to be fucked and dumped.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 08:10 AM
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If your parents were good people - I'd say you should probably take a serious look on why they don't like him. However - it doesn't sound like they really are great. Do your friends like him? Do people outside of your relationship hate him? 3) Is this a “serious” issue, or do you think it will go away eventually? Your parents seem like the serious issue here. It'll go away, or it won't. Your parents don't have your best interest at heart. So don't focus on what they want. 4) If you were a guy, w…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 03:39 AM
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I think a middle ground would be nice. Often wearing the clothes he likes, but also able to wear your own clothes that you like. Does the change bother you? If you'll resent him - I would say no. Why is he only saying it now? So far into the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 03:32 AM
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From her other posts - I don't think so.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 03:29 AM
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See? You may not be able to do massages, but that doesn't mean you're non-contributing. You listen to him vent. That is important. He needs someone to confide into. That may be his version of you treating him well!
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 03:26 AM
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To each their own view I guess! I think often lines get crossed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 03:25 AM
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I'm also guessing there isn't a big risk of your husband cheating with Charlie. If OPs husbands "work wife" was a guy - I'd say it wasn't a big deal. That he just made a friend at work. Gonna link OP to the myth of male-female friendship
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 02:55 AM
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Have something to tell us VR? ;) (Kidding)
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 01:51 AM
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That sounds like a great way to deal with that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 01:50 AM
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Love this addition! Sometimes he may just NEED you to take over. My favorite relationship quote is "Relationships aren't always each person giving 50/50. Sometimes it'll be 90/10 or 70/30." Obviously we all know that each person should be giving 100/100. We also know that one person giving in effort isn't the ideal. But in extreme cases (death of a family member of his, etc) - he may need you to take over and lead! Things should not ever be super rigid. Sometimes women won't be able to wait for …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 01:31 AM
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Is he showing any interest in being upset over this? If it really is a problem then check out "Bring your Captain your problem, not your solution.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 06:22 AM
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baby's first red pill Link? I can't find any of it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 06:18 AM
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LS could easily find a man who wants to join her on her quest! Just imagine - a RP couple in the media.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 06:17 AM
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If you like it - you should do it in the most feminine, self respecting way possible. It isn't really that a lot of RPW hate the clothes, but that if you're dressed in 'slutty' wear - you may be deemed a slut. Guys may look at you for someone to 'plate'. Clothes like this I can't imagine a lot of RPW would hate. I personally love the 'baddie' look, but things like this scream out 'PLATE ME'. By all means - wear baddie clothing. I'm sure you'll look very good, but I'd keep cautious of what type o…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 06:12 AM
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We're ladies after all! Its our job to be classy! (Next hit piece "unbiased journalist" - please use that as the 'big text' on the side of the article. Its a great quote) ((I'm totally kidding. Nobody kill me.))
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 03:23 AM
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Did one of yours get used? I'm not weirded out, but more ?? wow ?? . Its just odd to think that a news site used something I've said, and I had no idea. I know they're 100% allowed to do that and anyone can come see what I've been posting here. It just makes me wonder if anyone has linked anything I've written in another place.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 03:13 AM
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I'm still very liberal, but my opinions have softened to not look like razor blades.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 02:15 AM
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I've noticed most people the guys have been 4-5 years older. I haven't seen a significant amount of advice suggesting dating significantly older men. Where have you seen this?
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 01:20 AM
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Welcome! First: does trp/trpw deny across the board any social imbalance when it comes to gender? Not talking pay gap, rape culture, most individualist-minded modern feminist topics. But systematic underrepesentation in positions of political power. Is it inherently anti-trpw ideology to say that society would benefit from more acceptance and respect for feminine values (nurture, nature, compassionate economy) on a grand scale? Well you don't jump around the topic, do you? As Kara said - RPW is …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 01:14 AM
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There are tons? Anytime you feel unsafe or like you could be hurt for being yourself Work related situations Situations where the drama of saying what you feel outweighs the pros.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 12:53 AM
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Cause we're not herrrr type of women.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 12:44 AM
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Sorry! I was more referring to when guys on TRP say they were trying not to lose frame, not to budge from their frame, etc when they get shit tests. I assumed that was what s/he was talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 12:44 AM
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RPW doesn't encouraging marrying RP men. As van said - people may say RP men, but they really mean masculine men. It more of a slang/ease of language thing. At best - TRP is full of immature plate spinners. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Hopefully the article didn't scare you off too much.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:42 AM
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Yeah. Definitely WAY less biased. They made a serious effort to look around rather then acting like we're insane right off the bat.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:50 AM
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They should. It was insanely biased. I don't care about a feminists POV on this. I'd love to hear someone who doesn't identify as a woman that would be into RPW stuff or feminist's take on the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:44 AM
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Frame? That is a RP male thing.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:43 AM
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I'm guessing the guy you'll have sex with will know you're a virgin. If he is a realistic, rational person - he won't expect you to be this sex goddess! As a ton of people have said - be excited! Be happy to be there!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 01:31 PM
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It'd freak me out. It'd make it look like you can't wait.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 06:40 PM
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RPW has a distaste for sex outside of commitment - not marriage. I think it is a bad idea for people to wait until they're married. But to each their own? A lot of people can be sexually incompatible. Sex is a really important part of relationships. If you two have completely different sexual needs, desires, fantasies, etc - the relationship will suffer.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 06:38 PM
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In some ways - sure. However - women shouldn't sit there and make a victim of themselves constantly. They own up to their mistakes.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 06:50 PM
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Expect that the guy you marry may also have children from an ex wife. Be nice, smile, and good luck with your recovery.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 03:49 AM
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What is MMW?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 03:26 AM
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Definitely true! Men have an easier time making logical decisions. Women usually have to kinda "practice" at it more to be able to make logical decisions.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 01:49 AM
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I know at RPW we talk about good men, but we forget that there are a lot of really awful, crappy, sitting in his mothers basement, Cheetos dust over his fingers, too lazy to clean up after himself men out there too. Does he sound like a logical person? Of course not. Does the woman in charge of a small business, has a college degree, putting her finances together, getting her team under control, and taking care of her shit sound illogical? Of course not. Both men and women are able to be both lo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 04:27 AM
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Give him a few notes (maybe one for each week) in a letter. Write the date he can open them on there, tie it up, etc, etc. Make it a cute little lovenote reminding him how much you care about him. So then a few times over the three weeks he can see how much you love him. You could even include little photos of the both of you, etc!
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 04:23 AM
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If I'm being honest - I don't see the reason to be a RPW at work. RPW is a SEXUAL strategy. Unless you're having sex with someone at work - just do your job.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 08:55 PM
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I just use a separate account tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 04:42 AM
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Exactly. Plus - even if you don't have a partner by then. Yes - everyone can toss around that grid of "ideal ages", but hardly any of them can ACTUALLY get a 20 year old unless they're about to step up and be a sugar daddy. Obviously some will manage to get a young girl, but how many significant age difference relationships does anyone know? That wasn't when they met when one was 30 and the other was 45. So yeah men will compare the 35-year-old they just started dating to a 20-year-old that walk…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 02:22 AM
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Some do, some don't. Some want a housewife - some want a working woman. It just depends on the guy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 06:05 PM
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It's a cruel market, but TRP/RPW talks about the age thing so often when there isn't anything to do about it. As opposed to something like weight or hair length. I'd say: keep weight down, take care of your skin, wear nice makeup that enhances your good features, dress nicely, and grow your hair out and you'll probably increase. Obviously there are some things that can't be helped (with out extreme measures) like an ugly nose, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 06:03 PM
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Insert pinkdrawings being an asshole - honestly? I'm kind of over the age talk. It is something that can't be helped. Now how do you bring up your smv despite being 30+.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 07:03 AM
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How do you be more "fun" and "light"? I feel like I can turn sour fast.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 05:21 AM
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Of course not. How old are you? Cause the "Wall" thing can vary. People can be slightly dramatic about the Wall thing IMO. Your husband died - you're not a single mom. So - you will get a lot more sympathy there. So no - I don't think you're destined to be a plate for the rest of your life. Assuming you're in your 30s or 40s - I wouldn't stress about it. You might end up having a few step children, but that isn't so bad. Just dress nicely, lose weight (if you need to), and be realistic about wha…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 05:20 AM
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Improving yourself based on traditional values.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 05:18 AM
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Some do, some don't. I know some ladies who have said they're nervous nobody will date them, and others who are blissfully ignorant.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 05:17 AM
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I like being able to show my emotions, be sensitive, and for the most part not be judged. People will judge if you're too dramatic, but nobody knocks me down for crying. I also love being able to actively express creativity with out judgment. People are more willing to help me. Once my car broke down, and people were willing to go out of their way for me. When my tire pressure button came on and I asked someone random for help - I wasn't an assumed threat as a man would be. Makeup isn't bad eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 10:10 PM
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I've seen it. I know a woman who constantly complains about her husband, his mother (who they give with), and her children on fb. EDIT: I feel the need to note that she doesn't have to work, pay bills, etc. She just has to keep the house clean, everyone fed, and occasionally take his mom to doctors appointments. What is she complaining for?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 02:31 AM
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Should this be considered a form of fraud? You could consider it that - I guess. I can't tell if you mean this in a legal sense or just generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 02:05 AM
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Hi. I don't see the point in "i'll be giving more data, facts, and information in general once you guys engage with me"? Its kind of hard to engage in anything with a vague, random question that isn't relevant to most of the women here. TRP doesn't take lesbian and gay relationships into consideration for its theories and information. I would say yes - there is. But we focus on heterosexual dynamics. IMO I think this would be better over at /r/PurplePillDebate
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 02:01 AM
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You could ask in an estimation when he would want to get engaged, when he would want to get married, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 01:53 AM
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He sounds immature, and like he doesn't know how to communicate to save his life.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 01:37 AM
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I think you might be overthinking this. I'm wishing I hadn't fooled around with those guys. It is what it is. You can't sit there beating yourself up for it. It happened. Just follow your goal now. I'm not saying it was okay, but there isn't anything that can be done now. The problem is I'm seeing a lot of guys saying it's not fair to give it up to some guys and then make other ones wait. That is just a ploy to guilt you. Don't sleep around. Is my N count 2 or zero? Some people would say 0 some …
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 01:33 AM
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You're not. That is two years. You have time. Plus - how is that wasting it? You just can't have them back at your house. Its no big deal! :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 01:22 AM
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We have been dating a significant amount of time. We agree on a lot of major topics in things like political subjects, ethical subjects, etc. We have very similar visions. He is stable, can hold down a job, doesn't drink too much, and doesn't yell (everyone yells sometimes. but i mean someone who doesn't have a habit of screaming every time something bad happens). I'm very bad during a crisis - so having someone a little more level headed who can be a little more rational would be great, but not…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 05:38 AM
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tall, but not insanely tall. i like white, black, or mixed men. i like dark hair. scruff, maybe a small beard?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 07:26 PM
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No problem! Have a good day. For the record - I love other women. RPW is a SEXUAL strategy. At least it is exclusively for me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 02:35 AM
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It sounds like you should be at /r/feminism. Not RPW. You clearly don't fit into the values or ideas of RPW. Which is fine, but this is not the place to spread your ideas about "all women are great women."
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 01:09 AM
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How?
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 09:50 PM
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Do you trust your husband? Why are you fighting him? STFU is good, but you can't use it all the time. Say your opinion (calmly and nicely), listen to his side, and follow his lead. More so over little stuff. If he doesn't think you're being honest when you say great idea - you need to say it more. You could also just change it up. "Alright! Sounds great." "Lets do it." Ask yourself this when issues come up- Will it matter in a year? It is dangerous? If no to both - shut up and hear what he has t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 09:49 PM
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Oh! Sorry. I misunderstood.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/16 03:07 AM
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You don't need to be a social butterfly. Nobody needs to be. Just be pleasant. I usually use context from the situation. Wow. How long have you known my dad/mom/aunt/[friends name]/etc? Compliment Reply if they actually gave something other than "Good, you?" Like if they say "Good. I had a rough day at work" - ask where they work, etc. If they say "Good, you?" Add something to it. "I'm good. I've been working non stop/having to take insane tests all this week/whatever it is." Think of life for a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 03:06 AM
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I'm 19.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 02:33 AM
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Right? Kids are always on my street playing around. Its no big deal. They move out of the way when they see I'm coming in that area. I think I heard her say they flipped her off? Who cares? Like just go home.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/16 02:22 AM
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I was just about to come say that. For a 14 year old kid - he handled that amazingly well. Told her not to assault him, stepped back when she came towards him, and was polite and told her to have a nice day at first. Whoever is raising this kid is doing great.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/16 02:19 AM
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I'm still dying to see this documentary. Pathetic that 1,000 people agree with the petition.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/16 02:10 AM
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What in the world? No. Absolutely not. That is insane.
/r/PussyPass14/11/16 01:54 AM
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This made me laugh a little. I know that! I just don't know where to meet nice men to talk to. Like would it be odd for me to just strike up a conversation randomly? I don't see people talking to random strangers on the street. So its a little hard to determine where to start Step 1.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 12:25 AM
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I used to be offended by TRP, but lately I haven't been. I don't view it anymore as "Wow. They're being so harsh to women." I just view it as "I don't want to be that woman." Pay attention to the things they're talking about. A lot of what I've noticed is about "crazy" women. At first I was kinda like "Okay. Whatever." But now I just realize - I don't want to be the crazy woman they're talking about. They talk a lot about women who sleep around - I don't want to be the woman who sleeps around. S…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 12:17 AM
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Any good Roosh V articles everyone should read? I've never heard of him. A lot of people are worried if they're a "RPW" I noticed. If you weren't - not sure why you'd be here. Obviously something is sticking out to you. Plus - its not like theres a set rule. There's no guide on how to be "RPW enough". You're taking reality for what it is and applying it to your relationship for the both of you so you can both have long-term happiness, right? You're a RPW. You asked for criticisms. How old are yo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 12:15 AM
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Some people are ready faster than others. She could be concerned because of her age.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 12:11 AM
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If you think you're a washed up, psycho, jealous bitch who can't even tolerate to see hot men - why would they want to date you? I'm sorry to be mean, but its true. If all of this is true- why would they want to? Clean up your attitude. Work on losing weight. Stop coming up with excuses to be a crazy bitch, and get yourself together. You don't have to be Miss. Stunning Cinderella, but losing weight, putting on makeup, doing your hair nice and SMILING - will go a long way. You know you have probl…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 12:05 AM
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Just start it like its normal. You could start it based on something he posted. If he posts something about [x] hobby, and you think its cool. You could get started on that. "Hey. I'm EdgeofWorld. I saw you like [thing]. I've always wanted to try it. How long have you been doing it for?" Obviously my example sounds a little forced, but I trust you know what I mean. Don't just send "Hi!" Start a conversation ABOUT something.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 11:48 PM
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Honestly - this is modern day society. Bears aren't exactly the concern in everyone's lives. Making money, and feeling like your man has a good education just in case something happens to your job is very important. Plus - standards are fine. Maybe she should chill out a little, though. I understand wanting someone with education, but what about a bachelors? He is still educated.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 11:46 PM
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This boy is wasting your time, youth, and energy. Don't sit around and let people passively do that to you. He lost all physical attraction to me and that's when the cheating started. Overweight or not - cheating isn't cool. He should have just cut things off. That shows extreme immaturity and the lack of respect for you. Even though women should keep their weight down - he started dating someone who was 300 pounds. So you can't complain about it. He would hide and lie things (because he didn't …
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 02:23 AM
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Awesome! Glad things are going better!
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/16 08:54 AM
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I mean you don't need to sit down and tell him? If stuff about past comes up in conversation - let it flow there. It'll be awkward, and may freak him out if you sit him down like you're about to say you're pregnant or something.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/16 08:49 AM
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Very sorry about the awful divorce!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 08:53 PM
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Everyone is pretty nice even if you do say something a little awkward. I've done it. Just relax! Feel free to contribute more!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 08:51 PM
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Guys in specific have told me that I am immature and childish It doesn't sound like the rest of the stuff is the problem. It sounds like they directly told you the problem and you're not listening? You being 5ft and people being 'shocked' you're an A+ student isn't the problem. You acting like a child is.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 08:49 PM
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I am married 25f, to a guy with a good mix of alpha and beta qualities. He is a good provider, a hard worker, a great father, good looking, fit, and a leader. He is also a great captain in our marriage. I've watched him rise up through several levels of management with his leadership skills, and he does very well in his field (sales) which requires being outgoing and somewhat aggressive. I know women find him attractive (and the older we get the higher his SMV rises), and he is so committed and …
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 08:45 PM
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Don't word it as 'you'. Word it as 'we'.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 08:34 PM
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The only one I've gotten was a weird one about me posting that I was nervous talking to guys. Asking if I wanted to practice on him. What'd you say to prompt the psychopath accusation?
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 08:32 PM
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I'd love to be stay at home, and write in my spare time. I'm not super against not being married. I feel odd, but I'm not swayed hugely in either way. The only things swaying me towards marriage is any medical issues. If he came from wealth - I'd sign a prenup if needed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 08:31 PM
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This isn't relevant to my thread, but thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 06:30 AM
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Work on that then! I REALLY think you're being harsh on yourself. You're really pretty, and I honestly wouldn't have noticed your teeth had you not posted about it in the post. I only addressed it because it seems to be a point of insecurity for you. You have a man - find a point where he is happy and you feel attractive, too. Don't be so harsh on yourself. You're married, have a good man (I'm hoping hes a good man) - all of this seems to be in your head. I feel awful that you're so insecure. Pl…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 12:42 AM
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I don't think you're ugly! You definitely don't look overweight. Are you sure about that overweight thing? Like a doctor told you? The teeth thing is what it is. Maybe avoid wearing bright lipstick or anything that would attract eyes to your mouth. Instead - try sticking with eye makeup. So then that is what stands out. Try a little concealer if you're worried about your under eyes. I think your hair would look really pretty if you brushed it out and straightened it. But yeah. I definitely don't…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 08:08 PM
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Is it really your business? If shes asking your advice - then you should say that you think she should get more serious about looking for a husband. Suggest dating sites that are more 'serious' (aka not tinder), offer to help her find any type of mingling places (speed dating or whatever people do). Ask her if she knows any men at work or anything.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 02:59 AM
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I agree! If theres something going on serious with the child - of course the child should come first. If your child is sick, has an important event (school play, etc) - of course your child should come first. However - declining to go out with your husband just to sit around while your child watches TV? C'mon!
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 02:56 AM
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Being so busy they forget to love their husband. I've seen it a ton with family friends. Being so busy they forget to do nice things for their husband too, or appreciate the nice things their husband does for them because they're too busy with the kids.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 02:55 AM
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How popular is online dating there? You could add it onto a profile of yours.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 08:11 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. Are you happy? Do YOU want a LTR?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 08:09 PM
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Eight years after that wonderful engagement party in 1989, I walked away from dear, devoted, loyal Matthew, convinced that somewhere out there, a better, more exciting, more fulfilling life awaited me. Only there wasn't. Many will mistake contentment for boredom, forgetting to cherish the good things they have. I would urge those who are considering walking away from such riches to think again. It seems like a giant issue for a lot of people is not keeping the relationship interesting. They get …
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 08:07 PM
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It sounds like you have to stick it out there. Maybe you could offer to take her out on a little "girls day" or something to make her feel special? Just an idea, though!
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 07:49 PM
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Once I realized this is men doing what they feel they should do as men - I've tried to stop fighting it. Sometimes I'm just emotional, and need to get the vent/rant out. It is just a silly being over emotional thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 09:35 PM
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Imagine the reprocussions of him going to jail. The people you meet - all of them - will judge you. I know we're not supposed to care about what other people think, but we all do. Everyone will know he is in jail. He will have a hard time getting a job for the /rest of his life/. Most people will feel cautious around your husband if it is for something involving drugs, violence, etc. Even things with business may make him look shady. He will be changed. You may wait 10 years for someone to be co…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 10:46 PM
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I'm not fully against it, but I'm not fully for it. I don't think anything should be changed for women. Nothing. Not one standard - physical, mental, emotional, whatever. If they can pass that? Sure. Why not? They're meeting the requirements. If you have to change stuff, accomidate, etc - no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 09:50 PM
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Figure out his love language. Apply that to your relationship. Not everyone loves like you do. People love differently.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 12:56 PM
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Yeah. I'm not black (I'm not fully white either. Half-white), but a lot of women I've seen get problems from other people for having natural hair.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 10:49 AM
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Hey! https://thefamilyalpha.com/ has a lot of good posts on marriage. Hopefully that can help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 12:52 AM
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Hm. This is a tough one. My ideal society is one where women have all of the legal rights (can own a home, doesn't need her husband to sign off on things, can vote, etc). I feel like that is a given (Are there people in RP who want women to have no rights? lol). My ideal role for men in my ideal society would be for men to be the 'leaders' in the relationship. Dominant. Not domineering. Taking their LTR/wives opinion, thoughts, and everything into consideration. A lot of mutual decisions being m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 12:50 AM
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I hate Trump. Not just for this, though. It is super creepy and weird what he said, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 08:12 AM
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I agree VERY few 18-22 year olds I know are any of these things. Most young people I know don't have a lot of self-confidence or independence.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 08:29 PM
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I'm confused on why you added confident to your list! You can be confident on your ideas, looks, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 08:28 PM
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Do: - Use it to keep in contact with friends, family, etc. - Feel free to share fun things that happen in your life, or exciting events (as that may be easier than calling all of you friends/family) Don't: - Get into pointless internet fights - Post slutty photos - Feel the need to be on there telling people what you're doing 24/7 I love social media. I think its fun. I have friends in colleges all over the country. Its nice to see what they're up to, how they're doing, etc since I can't see the…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 08:01 PM
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I think a lot of people have given tips about just like..backing off, taking a breather, etc when you're getting mad. If you think you're getting mad at him (or you are mad). Simply say you're going to go take a breath of fresh air. Go step outside, calm down for a minute, and then continue. Don't huff, puff, slam the door, etc. Just give yourself a second with out immediately reacting. It seems a lot like the immediate reaction is the angry one while once you've calmed down you have the rationa…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 07:59 PM
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That isn't unreasonable. I'd say try to be a little flexible on education. Cause that doesn't mean he isn't intelligent.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 10:28 PM
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What is the type of guy? Good improvements, though!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 08:35 PM
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That said, I just can't shake the icky feeling that I get when I think of how I let myself become a plate. Forgive yourself. You really just have to forgive yourself. You messed up. Lots of people have, and still end up in good relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 03:37 AM
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It isn't a mistake on your part. Pick the field that is best for you. Cause picking a different field just for this reason may have made you unhappy, or bad at your job. As far as the money thing - just try not to make a thing of it. Does that make sense? Don't cause a fuss over it. When you two fight - don't bring it up because you're upset.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 03:35 AM
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Our Vetting Men article in the sidebar focuses on this in Part 3. If you're doing a lot of reading on TRP, I recommend stop, because that is written for men, specifically reforming Betas. I'm just wondering on why not? I read there a lot, and I'm just curious on others thoughts on why not to read.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 03:29 AM
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Are you upset writing this? Because I'm a little lost. What are you even fighting about? Stop acting like a victim, and take responsibility for your bullshit.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 03:25 AM
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They just want pity from you.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 06:23 AM
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That's actually a great idea. Get involved in stuff, offer to host the playdate, etc!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/16 05:27 AM
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Just be safe and get a good doctor!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/16 05:32 AM
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Honestly? It doesn't sound like you want it. Surgery is a major thing to get for someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 06:13 PM
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Yeah. I'm trying to work on just rolling with stuff rather than 'ABORT MISSION'.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 05:36 AM
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I just don't know how to handle it when I say something awkward? Outside of dating - if I say something awkward I'll sorta move on, be like 'Okay! It was nice talking to you blah blah blah', etc, etc. Generally abort mission cause I'm a little awkward in general. So I just don't know how to smoothly get over an awkward patch.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 03:05 AM
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We work very well together and our child is our top priority. Yeah, we have love and respect for each-other and all the "fairy-tale" crap, but at the end of the day - this is a partnership in raising a small child together and making sure we are together to give him the best upbringing. I have one word: YIKES. It sounds like you're dating him because you have a child with him. Why is he not your top priority? Why are you not? One thing I heard in here that stuck with me is: Kids should be import…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 07:55 PM
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I don't venture over to TRP that often but I'm pretty sure they try to tell you NOT to tell your GF/Wife about the RP. You don't sound like you're up for the RP thing. So some of the advice here might not be what you want to hear. Just a warning. TRP are men who (mostly) have one thing in common: getting burned. Most of them have been burned, and are angry. So the "Don't commit" thing - who knows? Nobody knows if those men will stick to it, or what. He just told me when Its over he would also be…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 05:41 PM
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It depends on where you live as far as biracial goes. I'm biracial, and it wasn't THAT big of a deal. But in other places - it could be.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 05:24 PM
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You may be suffocating him. Don't be his mother. Rein it in. Maybe stick with the keeping the house going, and build up to the helping him stuff. For the record - you don't have to 'wait on him hand and foot'. That sounds a little silly, and a bit over the top. You could start it simple with. "Hey, babe/his name/etc - need anything before I head to the store/go to my friends/head to bed/do the dishes/etc/etc?" So that just lets him know you're available to help him with out being excessive. You …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 07:43 AM
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You could gently bring it up, but not directly about him. "Its so annoying that the sink broke." (before you to go use the other one, or something along those lines). So then its fresh in his mind again.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 12:08 AM
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How do you word it now?
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 09:55 PM
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Am I making a mountain out of a molehill? A little. Continue to decline 1x1 hang outs (or husband/you & her hang outs), but be polite in groups. Whenever she starts to criticize her boyfriend - just blow it off, and change the subject. Don't give a reaction to it. If you wanted to call her out subtly you could say something like: - Oh, I'm sure it isn't that bad. - Well, lets try not to boyfriend-bash. [light laugh] Its generally better to be polite to people you don't like (more so when you hav…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 09:54 PM
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I agree. The second one would come off as more of an asshole than simply being dominant. I would be really embarrassed if someone did that in front of my friends, family, or social situation. It seems way easier to let people know you're with her and that you love her by doing #1.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 07:10 PM
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It sounds like he doesn't get upset at you - unless I'm wrong. You sound like an awesome girlfriend - but don't put so much pressure on yourself. Try maybe putting a little bit more time between blowjobs so he can 'recharge'. It isn't manipulative or lying or anything to offer actual sex! You guys could play around in other ways while hes recharging (making out, reciprocation, teasing him, etc). I don't see a thing you're doing wrong, OP. You're clearly trying to do your best!
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 05:28 PM
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You could try to make porn an occasional thing - and not an every time you have sex thing. But something that you pull out randomly as a "This could be fun again" thing. Has he went to a doctor to see what is up with that? Ask him what he likes so much about watching porn (does he like the loud moaning, etc, etc). Go from there.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 05:11 PM
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Sounds like hes wasting your time. Do you want kids? Cause if you do - I'd work on that, and bring it up. I agre with delores - he sounds likes hes wasting your time by hamstering away about what other people MIGHT think.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 05:09 PM
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I feel like for RPW in particular I have extremely liberal views in comparison. I disagree with how the TRP implies (or directly says) that women constantly are on chance of riding the cock carousel, and act like all women sleep around like crazy. Maybe its just because I'm not in a super huge area? But I think its a little ridiculous how they act like every female around them has slept with a crazy amount of men. EDIT: I also think the 'don't travel alone in other countries' thing is ridiculous…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:59 PM
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I definitely agree on the abortion bit.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:53 PM
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Exactly. My hair is extremely long, and it would be a real issue between a potential mate and I if he wanted it short. Because I am so attached to my long hair. So if it is important to her - she should keep it short as the men who are around her will probably be into short hair. So then if she really likes it - at least she won't feel obligated to do something she isn't that big of a fan of.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:51 PM
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Some men like it. I wouldn't worry so much about it. As a whole - I think RPW encourages longer hair (Makes you look healthy, I think?). But in several threads it has been discussed that some men like it. Do you like your short hair? Because men who approach you are more likely to like it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:02 PM
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I see a lot of people giving advice on how to just be blunt about it. I'm going to assume that if you wanted to do that - you would have. So how to fade a friend (while still being polite/on good terms because I'm assuming you want no drama). Don't text back as fast. Be polite when you're around, but don't engage in any of her annoying behaviors. If you're hanging out in groups - be polite. You'll start drama with other people if you're not. Just focus more on conversation with the other people …
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 01:58 AM
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Don't ruin it for yourself, either! If you keep bugging him about it - the 'surprise' factor won't really be there, right? You can still look up, and wonder, but just leave him alone about it. I've seen people use /r/self to ramble about that type of stuff? If it helps to get it out of your system.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 07:55 PM
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Heterosexual female-female. I mean of course people can cherry pick cases where there was some stalker-esque crush, and all of that. However - those are few and far between.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 05:28 AM
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Not that different from heterosexual friendships, honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 02:09 AM
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I was just about to come add this. The only male friend I've had (that stayed a friend) was gay.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 11:48 AM
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Fake it for a few hours. Sit up straight, be polite, and smile. Obviously don't do anything that is rude with manners. Ask her if she needs help with anything (if shes cooking). This lady sounds a little dramatic. Does she have a little check box? Is she brining a notebook to write down notes? The best thing you can do is be on your 'best behavior', be polite & be as nice as you can be. Just be polite, elaborate, and ask her questions in conversation. Rather than letting the conversation go. "So…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/16 08:21 PM
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Same boat right now! PM me if you wanna talk at some point. Take care of yourself, try to up your smv, etc!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 11:53 PM
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Try to talk to him. See if any of his friends can come over. Can he have a laptop on his lap at the time/have good control of his hands while recovering. Cause he could do stuff on the computer. Watch movies, relax with him, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 11:52 PM
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I'm so happy for you!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 11:50 PM
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Live you life to be the best person and version of yourself possible, and be as happy as possible. That's about all you can do. Your mother - no matter how much of an idiot - is allowed to live her life as how SHE wants to. As are you. She isn't worried about acting how you act (or not being like you). You live your life to be as happy as possible. If you find an issue with yourself - do your best to fix it. Monitor yourself (as anyone should).
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 11:50 PM
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Focus on who you want to be, not on who you don't. Exactly! Don't live your life to be the opposite of your mother.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 11:49 PM
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How could they pledge to do all this stuff for another person when they couldn’t promise themselves the same thing? I decided to marry myself to celebrate my independence and strength. I did it to promise to be my own best friend. Awesome but like...you don't gotta do all that...
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 03:23 AM
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I nearly gagged at the pads part. Your parents are not you - you can be different. You clearly know your mother is a little out of it, and is a mess. Do you catch yourself doing things like her, or anything? Why are you worried?
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 03:21 AM
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Exactly! I hate it. I saw people talking about this on an older post in RPW - a lot of people cannot even afford to work. They end up forking over their entire paycheck to childcare in the first place! So sometimes it makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 01:24 AM
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Good luck! Fingers crossed for you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 01:21 AM
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Exactly! It really depends on the woman, I think. Some women can handle it and still be good, but the majority of women seem like they can't. Which is understandable! They're tired! But I know myself in particular - I'm way happier when I'm not doing that type of stuff, and I'm really hoping for it in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 01:20 AM
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"Safe space" aka STFU!
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 11:01 PM
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First of all - don't get tattoos if you don't want them. But! You know what he has a thing for. So you could make it nice for the occasionally 'special' thing (anniversary, birthday, etc). Anytime you may want to go a little bit more out of your way & make things a little bit more special than usual. People have suggested it but on special occasions you can probably order more realistic, nicer temporary tattoos on Amazon for cheap (cause obviously the quarter in those little machine ones are alw…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 10:31 PM
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Please do not get tattoos because he will respond well, though.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 10:27 PM
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You're close to your goal? Thats awesome! Hope you get there!
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 04:38 PM
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Right? I thought only 14 year old boys had this sense of humor. Trust me. You're not missing much underneath boob pistol of distain. Misogybag—A misogynist douchebag. a few down wasn't the best to read
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 03:04 PM
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I definitely think a lot of women actually want this, but are too afraid to admit it. They won't be the 'strong, independent' women that they say they want to be. Thank you so much! Do you have any goals as a RP man on what you'd want in the future? This question goes out to men, too! I ignore any shame from women or blue pill men. If feminism is about women being able to make their own choices - then they should respect that & be happy for me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 02:09 PM
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Yeah. Giving up my writing would make me really sad. Obviously - I would definitely try to even if I did work. I'm obviously still getting my college education just to have something, but go to getting your own business! Hope you reach your goals :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 02:08 PM
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I think a lot of the time women who work are always too tired, etc to be able to really give themselves time everyday to clean, put themselves in a good mood, etc. Who is going to want to come home, clean, cook, etc when they just worked all day? I definitely could get a part time job (if financially necessary) & still have time/energy to put into the house/my husband. But I don't see why I would if I could do what I love all day, and use my time to make a home that HE loves to home home all day…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 02:06 PM
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Romantically orientation is people who you, well, romantically like. People who you 'crush' on, fall in love with, etc. Sexual orientation is people who you want to sleep with, who you have physical lust for, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 10:17 AM
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I wouldn't be particularly bothered (unless you still wanted to sleep with men during the relationship). They may feel like they have to be more worried about 'guys nights', may be against LGBT people, or worried you're using them as a beard.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 07:25 AM
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At the end of the line? Alone than a wrong guy. Right now? It seems like you need some alone time, figure yourself out, and then look for another relationship. How many relationships were you in before this? It may feel odd to go into another relationship, but work on improving yourself. I would also try to get over your ex before you go into a relationship with another guy, and fuck him over.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 04:00 AM
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Maybe one of the people who have been on RP longer than I have can help you with the thread thing. You said he is an active reader of TRP? If he is genuinely playing the 'dread' game - then I guess (by definition) he wants you to step your game up.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/16 07:01 PM
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What signs of distancing? What does he do? Imo, it sounds like he has one foot out the door just in case things don't work out with you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/16 05:14 AM
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Sorry to jump in on rproller's comment. Try this. It is a vetting thing, but it may help.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/16 05:13 AM
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Is nobody going to address the hookers? He sounds like he has a lack of self control (fighting with strangers in public), little self responsibility (being mad at you when HE forgot his jacket), little regard for other people (yelling at you, trying to get hookers knocked up), inability to control his own emotions (ranting all day over something small), lack of respect (calling you and his mother stupid), etc. This guy sounds like bad news. Would you want him to speak to your child the way he sp…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 09:55 PM
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Welcome to RPW. I don't have anything to add that rproller didn't say. I hope to see you around more!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 04:22 AM
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Welcome to RPW. How is he to you? You're talking about how you are to him - but how is he to you? Does he show signs of distancing? Is he affectionate? How does he react to women hitting on him? What do you do when women hit on him? I'm going to go ahead and link you to Bring your Captain your problem! Tell him you're concerned with out being annoying or pushy. He can't lead if he doesn't know you're worried. And he definitely can't fix a problem with out knowing it exists!
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 10:26 PM
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Secretary, assistant, teachers, book keeping, social worker, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 05:02 AM
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I'm not. My top lip is just slightly small in comparison to my bottom lip.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 03:02 AM
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You should tell him how you feel, and see if he'll talk to his sister. If not, that's okay. It could start drama for no reason. Obviously the petty part of me says to act way more flirtatious when shes around so she gets it. You really don't want to start drama with her because shes his sisters friend. And you live with the sister. So by doing too much or 'checking' the friend you could start tensions. Your husband doesn't seem interested, though. You could just try keeping conversation with him…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 10:36 PM
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There are people looking for a relationship at any age. You can definitely find one. You'll probably have to decide if you're okay with having someone who is divorced, or has older children.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 07:58 PM
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Why do you even need to talk about it with your friend? You're saying YOU want friends to disagree with HER. Let her decide if she wants that. You're not her mother, or her friend keeper. It sounds like you're immature because you're literally asking us how to pick fights with your friends, and keep them. Grow up. I'm not a feminist, and I hate a lot of the feminist bullshit. But she is allowed to have her opinion. I can't imagine most people on RPW are feminists. If she brings it up, politely s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 10:09 PM
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Get out. Now. Nobody here is joking when they say this. Leave him or be prepared to: Save up for hospital trips from ODs, Save up for bail when he gets arrested, Buy a safe to keep your money in to keep it away from him - he'll spend it all on meth, Be okay with him hanging out with other meth whores, Be prepared to get a better job, and be able to support the both of you - he'll be too high to care about work. He isn't smoking a joint at the end of a long day with his dad. He is doing meth with…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 07:22 PM
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Every comment on the RP isn't law. Some guys like it shorter. You could find some type of middle ground.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 03:28 AM
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We generally try not to boss men around. This post seems like it'd be much better suited for /r/TheRedPill. I'm not a mod though, so.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 02:58 AM
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I'm very glad that the trans community has hit the mainstream, and that makes you more comfortable. Welcome to RPW! Bare in mind that they really don't keep the lgbt+ community in mind when writing things, but you'll probably be just fine here! I'm a little confused on what your issue is! It sounds like feminist culture is bothering you? Just distance yourself from it, and remember this is about what YOU want. If feminism is about women having choices - then they should shut up & let you make yo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 12:19 AM
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You could take regular self defense classes? Try that instead. A lot of martial arts classes are, yes, for self defense. But the people in there also sometimes just really enjoy it as a sport. Try a self defense class. It directly relates to what you need.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 12:15 AM
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Right now it seems like you need to seek out some type of therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 12:14 AM
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Bring him your problem. This could be something serious like not being interested anymore, or just wanting more time with friends.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 05:58 AM
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I'd love someone to write that as its own post & elaborate a lil bit!
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 05:49 AM
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That's true. I'm mostly curious cause I'm like...wondering how the wall plays into marriage & aging.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 10:22 PM
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Hi! This is hard to answer because it is so vague. What do you think are your issues? Are you in a relationship, married? How is that going? We need a little bit more background information to help you out. The best I can really do is redirect you to the sidebar information.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 07:32 PM
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Remember that everything doesn't have to be this giant leap to never having junk food again. Want some chips? Get low fat/sodium/etc chips. Want popcorn? Invest in a popcorn maker so you can limit the amount of salt/butter. Want something sweet? Sugar free jello. Want cookies? Granola bars! Its been helping me at first to just ADD in healthy stuff, and slowly push out the unhealthy stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 01:27 AM
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Block her number, and try to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 07:44 PM
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there's no sex involved LOL...Lets be real.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 07:43 PM
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I can't seem to let go of controlling matters (especially financial) because I don't trust that he can adequately steer the ship. Have you tried? A ton of the RPW success stories are women saying 'I didn't think it'd work out, but then...'. Or are you just assuming that he can't do it? Why did you marry someone you can't trust (and who is unintelligent)? But I highly doubt as an attorney that he can't hold his own. If you're worried - bring him your problem. Don't call him unintelligent, but tel…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 04:38 PM
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Right? Anytime a guy has acted protective over me (either because of physical danger or in general) - I've been 10x more interested in them. Obviously being ~too protective to the crazy point isn't good. Nobody should be running around, screaming at the top of their lungs, throwing hissy fits, etc. There is a line, but protection is good!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 04:28 AM
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Right? A friend of mine is chasing after some guy she met on Tinder. Shes basically his plate, and distraught that he mentioned dating her, but then never brought it up again. I want to scream in her face - "He just wants to make sure you'll keep putting out." I love her, but I feel bad that shes going to end up dating some beta guy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 04:20 AM
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I have to admit - I was slightly confused by the '20' and then 'too late'. I don't think you're too late, but I think it will be hard. It is a good thing that you're working on yourself, and congrats for that! I haven't been around the RP nearly as long as some of the ladies here. So they'll probably give you better advice than I will. You shouldn't lie about it, though. But you also don't need to go around giving every little detail. When past partners come up - be honest. Say that when you wer…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 03:12 AM
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Welcome to RPW. I was where you're at very recently. I found TRP/RPW, and thought it was insane. I thought everyone here were complete lunatics, traitors, and "misogynists". I also feel a bit isolated because I feel like my friends would crucify me if I even hinted I was struggling with this. You can definitely PM me at any time if you'd like to chat. I guess what I want to do is ask how some of you have coped with, “taking the pill.” I still feel like I’m some sort of traitor for the way my thi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:59 AM
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This is by far one of the best analogies I've seen for TRP/RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:45 AM
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I agree! That is the most romantic thing I can think of. Wanting to protect is very romantic.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:45 AM
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Unfortunately, around me most girls I know are riding the CC. A lot of them are 18/19 so hopefully they pull it around and stop riding. Thank you so much, and good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:36 AM
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Thank you! I'll message you asap!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:34 AM
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Thank you! Yeah. I'm nineteen. So I'm definitely trying to pack in the knowledge now so I don't have to deal with it being harder later. Thank you for the advice.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:34 AM
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Thank you so much! Yeah. I'm definitely not going to, and going to loo k for some friends with the same set of values.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:32 AM
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Maybe! If they want to decrease their value by sleeping around then that is their life (and none of my business), but I just don't want to.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:31 AM
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I'm not going to. Reading everyones replies has been super helpful. I'd literally get nothing out of it aside from a decreased sexual market value, risk of pregnancy/std, etc. For what? 10 minutes?
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 02:30 AM
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I made a post two weeks ago right here I mentioned how I don't put a lot of effort into my looks, etc, etc. I've made an effort to dress up more, be nicer, stfu rather than being bitchy, put a little bit makeup on, etc. I've completely felt myself sky rocket. I'm still working on losing weight, but I already feel a little bit better about myself. I think it just shows that even a little bit of maintenance on yourself can make yourself feel (and look) 10x better.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 10:20 PM
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It seems like a big red flag also that the men will have to deal with another man (the babies father - if involved) in their lives. So it'll be difficult because there are a lot of moving parts, but it doesn't make it impossible.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 10:13 PM
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If he is a beta & unable to lead - it may not be a good idea. Isn't hypergamy jumping ship to date another man? It doesn't sound like she did that. I agree that the situation sucks, but it doesn't sound like that is an option to her.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 10:12 PM
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Lots of people manage to have healthy, happy lives living with mental illness. As /u/iwpoe said - no one talks about happy parts of their bipolar marriage. So just go into having children and things with a little extra caution, and try to be understand when he may not always be able to lead. As long as he is taking his medication & hopefully in therapy - he should be able to lead. If he isn't on his medication, etc - he may not be able to lead. Him saying you're the light of his life gives me th…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 02:37 AM
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Hi! Unfortunately, it will lower your SMV. It doesn't mean your chances are ruined to have a happy, RP relationship! I would try to improve your SMV in other ways, however. Some of the examples on how to do this (from the FAQ) are: start working out, eat healthy, learn to cook, grow out your hair, dress nicely, have a positive attitude, work in improvement in your weak areas, etc. Men who already have children, are divorced, etc will likely be more open to dating a single mother. Be upfront abou…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/16 10:42 PM
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Do you mean he goes from BP to RP during the course of our relationship? Or he grew up BP, and became RP before we started dating? My ideal would be dating someone who grew up BP, but was RP at the time of us dating. Just so we both could know, and understand different struggles.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/16 10:40 PM
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You could say something simple. One day after you two finish talking - try saying something like "Let me know if you'd like to hang out sometime."
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/16 10:35 PM
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There is a chance it could go badly either way. On one end, you could tell her & show her the proof. She could still hate you because of it. Sometimes women just do that. They'll get mad at you even though he was cheating, and it was clear you didn't reply or were interested. On another end, she could find out herself (or from someone else). She could think that you guys did end up having sex, and hate you because she thinks that you were a bad friend (even if you guys barely know each other) or…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/16 03:31 AM
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I hope things go great for you guys! I'm glad it got sorted, and good job on stopping the nagging!
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 11:04 PM
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I'm someone who has a hard time maintaining eye contact with anyone. I tend to look away, or look at another part of their face. A lot of people read this as being shy, or anxious. A few people thought I was being rude, but that was more in teacher-student type of situations. So people might just read it as being super confident, but I'm not sure. He might just think you're a bit awkward. I'm not sure about the eye contact thing. I don't see an issue with it as long as you're not being creepy. J…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 10:58 PM
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Yeah. Looking back I definitely know Return of Kings is just very clickbait-y, and honestly just seems like a whole lot of trolling. Thank you so much for the praxeology/ideology explanation. that makes a lot more sense. I'll just have to find what works for me/my future Captain. As far as 1-3 goes - thank you so much for the advice & welcome to rpw.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 08:09 AM
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I probably am just hamstering! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 08:01 AM
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I'll definitely try to pick up some new hobbies!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 08:01 AM
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I know. I'm getting help for my issues with depression now, and probably should have mentioned that in my main post. I know, and definitely want to work on myself (weight loss & depression) before I try to jump in a relationship. I will! Thank you so much. Yeah. After a few people have pointed it out - I'm probably just hamstering.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 08:00 AM
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I know! I'm super excited. I wanna try to wear a few skirts (nothing crazy short, obviously), and things that actually flatter. Thank you so much! I'll try to keep that in mind!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 07:58 AM
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Wow! Congrats on the weight loss! & thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 07:56 AM
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It also sounds like he is just trying to be silly/light.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 12:23 AM
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Wow! I'm so glad he is doing better.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 12:13 AM
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I'm new as well! Hope to see you around.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 03:35 AM
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