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I just look at her and I'm like "Are you trying to start a fight"? And she is like "YEA LETS GO!" And she came riiiiight up to my face with a smile and her hands up... A response I've used in a very similar situation is commenting about how she might have drugged it. Then just make jokes about how they're trying to take advantage of me and smoothly make things sexual from there. At least in my experience, going for fake confrontation like that isn't as effective as playfully reversing the victim…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 09:17 AM
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Because dating her shows her you're invested, which significantly lowers your value in her eyes I agree with you there but I disagree a bit about why. We have a generation of women who have basically grown up without fathers. The result is a man who is never there for her has become their fucked up interpretation of love. We have their moms and divorce laws to thank for that.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 03:01 AM
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If you're asking why cheating would matter in the first place because all women do it, just like all women breath and we never get worked up about that, then it's because serious relationships cost men resources. Time, money, effort, whatever. Cheating suggests a waste and/or lack of respect for what we brought to the table. The things I don't care about are the things that cost me nothing. If you believe it's inevitable for all women to cheat on you then it's simply a matter of deciding whether…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 10:16 AM
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Your summary was not a summary
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 09:56 AM
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But if that same woman gets drunk, gets behind the wheel of a car, gets into an automobile accident and kills a family, she is prosecuted for manslaughter or murder Incorrect. If a girl drives drunk, boys are blamed.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 11:54 PM
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A small amount (not enough to have physical side effects) could still result in women acting much more fairly.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 08:57 PM
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The thing feminists are obsessed with above all else is power. It's a religion founded on and based around power. As a result, they project it onto everything they see, partly unconsciously and partly consciously, to justify their own obsession.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 08:55 PM
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You have some points and, like I said, it's your call. The way I see it, businesses generally don't risk money that they can't afford to lose, and they diversify their investments/risks so that the ones that pay off make up for the ones that do not. Can't exactly do that with marriage.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:21 AM
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Yeah I get that it's more of an estimate than a very reliable number.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:18 AM
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That was literally what you said Please show me where I mentioned happiness. [crickets]
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:17 AM
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I believe you read into my comment a bit.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 07:42 AM
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Statistics about American marriages say about 50% are success stories. Up to you whether it's worth flipping a coin.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 09:25 PM
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This is nothing terribly groundbreaking. It's been touched on in books such as Sperm Wars and a few others.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:59 AM
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It may also be related to heating a place typically requiring gas, which cooling simply uses AC. I don't remember which textbook it was or what all the reasons were that it listed why, so it could have just been referencing Newton's Law of Cooling.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 07:36 AM
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I didn't either, actually. Got an article I can read on it?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:37 PM
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"dramatically slash energy consumption" I had a textbook that claimed it took less energy to cool a building x degrees than it was to heat a building x degrees. So while cutting back on the AC would cut the energy bill during the summer, having to heat the building to 77 during the winter might make up for that "decrease in energy consumption". Anyway, if this woman actually wanted equality the obvious thing to do would be to set the thermostat to 73.5, which would put it equally between the two…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:24 PM
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The court ordering your mother to pay $1400 a month says something about the family/divorce courts where you live, not your mother's personality. Just saying, I'm sure she's been a great mom and all. Out of curiosity, did your dad get primary custody as well?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:41 PM
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Tim Hunt got what he deserved. Agreed with you right up until there. I get that it sounds all extra manly to say that any guy who can get taken down by this shit "deserves it" but the truth is they're basically a pack of hyenas in mascara.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:50 AM
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It's not a law, if that's what you're asking. Almost every female rapist that pops up on r pussypass avoids registering as a sex offender.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 04:06 PM
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Female rapists don't even have to sign up for the registry. False accusers sure as shit won't even if it were classified as sexual assault.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 06:56 AM
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That some women actually enjoy causing other people to suffer... There is still a little blue pill voice in me that says this couldn't be true The phrase "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" exists for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 05:13 PM
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A law like this is quickly repealed by making sure it hurts women. I encourage New Zealanders to start reporting every sexist thing you see women post. From "he's the man so he pays for the date!" to "killallmen" [Also, start using TOR browser or at least a decent VPN]
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 04:24 PM
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Depends on what you mean by "control". Men have rights in society, but they all come with obligations. Women have all the same rights with none of the obligations. I think putting those obligations on women as well would be a great benefit for society. However, every feminist out there is going to cry about society attempting to control them when that happens. God forbid they be treated like adults and be expected to contribute to society, like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 06:01 PM
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Slut-shaming is primarily something women do to each other. And then blame men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 05:57 PM
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Dude is three sentences in and is explaining why she's unattractive to an alpha male. That's not how you argue with a feminist That's not how you win over the audience
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 11:59 PM
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That's definitely how I would define it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:34 PM
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I figure it's really black box analogy. PUA's study the black box and take note of the various inputs (teasing, outcome independence, status) and resulting outputs (spreading her legs). Red Pill attempts to open up the black box and turn it into a white box so that you have a greater understanding of the system and aren't stuck using the inputs that seem to most reliably deliver the desired output.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:27 PM
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I think you have a point. I think it's also fair to say that giving kiddie glove advice does serve a purpose. There's a reason young kids are told that babies come from storks, or maybe some other answer that's a bit closer to the truth but not all of it. Explaining to them the concept of sex and birth would just confuse them because it involves experiences, emotions, knowledge of the human body, etc that they just haven't had yet. So you ease them into it (at least that's what happened to me). …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 08:50 PM
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I've gotten more mileage out of pointing to the dramatic increase in birth issues at 35. Then saying most guys are going to want a SO who's capable of having a healthy kid, so that's around 35 at the latest. And if they want to build a healthy foundation to that relationship then they're looking at around 30 at the latest. Not as dramatic as telling them they hit their peak at 23, but it gets the job done.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 08:22 PM
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My mom gave me "kiddie glove" advice when I was younger. Now, that I'm older she's taken it off a bit. As an example, we were recently talking about a girl I have no interest in but who isn't accepting it. My mother said something along the lines of, "It seems to be frowned upon now but in my day we called girls like that 'damaged goods'. She's getting close to 30 and is absolutely desperate for someone to marry her. She's probably going to shack up with the first guy who isn't smart enough to r…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 08:14 PM
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I don't see how that was dropping red pill wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 08:10 PM
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South Beach Diet? That shit came out like 12 or 13 years ago. I thought women had moved on to some other fad diet by now. I know a bunch of girls who bought a FitBit or something like it and talk about getting their "steps" in for the day. Like tiptoeing your ass back and forth between the couch and the fridge will make astronomers take you off the list of hamplanets.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:18 PM
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Feminism's rhetoric pits men against each other. Guys like to show they're basically good people and a bunch of them are bending over backwards to give women what they "want" to prove they aren't misogynists like "all those other men". The whole thing also tends to operate like a cult to draw you in.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:48 PM
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Feminism is just old style socialists wearing skirts. I always liked the quote "Marxism in heels"
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:25 PM
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It's also the fact that our fathers were likely raised in a time where "go to work, provide for your family" was not only heavily pushed on them, but also still seen as worthwhile. I'm not advocating following in their path, however they don't deserve to be ridiculed just because women got fatter, lazier, and bitchier.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:02 AM
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I sometimes ask him about his depressing existence. "What's it like, knowing that you will never fuck another human being for the rest of your life?" What the hell is wrong with you? You aren't a woman, so you don't have the excuse of being a fucking child who's completely controlled by her emotions. The dude is your father and has worked his ass off to provide for you and raise you. That should be more than enough for you. Because you're smarter than some stupid fucking cunt. If you actually ca…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 09:47 AM
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Chances are their "social lives" up to this point have involved standing around doing nothing while guys come up to them to win their approval, and talking about other people to people. Their looks have just started fading and they haven't realized yet that They aren't interesting They don't do anything interesting, and They aren't even that enjoyable to be around. In high school and college they could cry "patriarchy!" as the reason guys were doing these things and they weren't, but now that th…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 09:26 AM
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Thanks! Time to look at job ads in Montreal...
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 04:21 AM
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Smart girls can be trashy, too, Chief. A girl isn't automatically classy because she's smart and a classy girl isn't automatically smart. Anyway, I've always felt smart girls are a bit easier to flirt with because they actually have an attention span long enough to hold a conversation.
/r/seduction07/06/15 02:43 AM
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I've heard Montreal has a lot of ridiculously gorgeous women. Can you comment?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:36 AM
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Here it is
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:34 AM
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It's not as direct as that. Chances are you won't be flat out denied because of your looks (unless you don't meet their dress code), but you'll be stuck waiting in line. And as the door people let people skip the line who are gorgeous, or slip them $50, or know someone who works there, and then let in a few people in front of you in line, the club will fill to capacity and you can end up waiting quite a while.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:32 AM
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While women are generally attracted to success/status, bragging about how much you make won't work in your favor. Show it by having nice clothes, a decent car, a nice place. No need to spend a lot on all of them, but enough to show you are well off.
/r/seduction05/06/15 06:05 AM
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tl;dr - Take what women say with a grain of salt and only do what they think if you think it's a good idea and not just because they have vaginas. Because women's moods change a lot and they are largely incapable of predicting them. All wrapped up in nice words and metaphors. Women are still liars when they act according to the definition of "liar" and make false statements with the deliberate intent to deceive.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 03:38 PM
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The issue isn't that TRP hates curves. To give you some idea of what the issue is, here is a list of words women use to describe their bodies and what they actually mean: A few extra pounds: fat Average: fat BBW: fat Big: fat Big boned: fat Chubby: fat Curvy: fat Fluffy: fat Full-figured: fat Heavy: fat Husky: fat Large: fat Plump: fat Solid: fat Some meat on her bones: fat Stocky: fat Stout: fat Thick: fat Thickset: fat Voluptuous: fat Well-built: fat The only words I can think of off-hand that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 08:53 PM
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That's not even entirely correct. /u/gotthelowdown: From The Marriage Calculus: In their smart book, Too Many Women?: The Sex Ratio Question (1983), the sociologists Marcia Guttentag and Paul Secord explained that a change in sex ratios – the number of men to women in a community – changes the behaviour of the entire group. When men outnumber women, the men compete for the women. They become more eager to marry because otherwise they might be left out of relationships altogether. To do so, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 08:33 PM
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You're right, but that isn't what I was going for. I was complaining that we can't get protection from something that would legitimately be a crime, but apparently a guy is now sexually assaulting a woman by living with his parents.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:19 AM
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And yet women who commit paternity fraud continue skipping through the daisies.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 02:57 AM
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Do you have any comments on how this relates to Red Pill? Offhand it seems like it would be better off over on tumblrinaction or something.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 01:52 AM
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Because women receive much more coddling throughout their life and most guys they encounter are afraid to tell them "no" they end up emotionally maturing a lot slower than men. Being huge bitches to each other in middle school teaches them the game of saying what others expect you to say in order to blend in and not let your mouth shoot you in the foot, something they learn much sooner than guys. But when it comes to handling difficult emotions like jealousy, not getting their way, rejection, et…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 11:34 PM
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even a skeptic like me must credit a DNA exclusion rate of 20 percent that remained constant over several years when conducted by FBI labs "1 in 5 women lie about rape" Someone try posting that on TIL and see what happens. [Actually, if you want to create a better discussion go with something like "40% of rapists are convicted based on false or questionable evidence".]
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 01:11 AM
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You may want to keep in mind that a lot of the guys here are in a different age group from you. They've already accepted that they will likely never have the marriage and family our culture sold them on. They have active lives involving careers, hobbies, and semi-steady relationships with plates. It sounds like you're struggling with reaching toward some of that.
/r/AlreadyRed17/02/14 03:59 PM
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I may as well just work myself into the ground because that's all I'll ever be - a workhorse that just waits patiently for the next sunrise and the next workload, until I'm too old and fragile to work anymore. A woman finally understands how men have felt for decades (centuries?) and that's all it took.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 07:29 AM
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Personally, I've always felt TRP was more on target when it points to feminism. When someone is allowed to live a life devoid of consequences - fueled by extreme political correctness, an us vs them mentality, and intellectual dishonesty - they come out fucked up. The evo. stuff certainly helps explain some attraction triggers but not the overall mentality of the modern woman.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 01:08 PM
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Something I think is important to point out on the flip side of this is there are many, many girls who are adamantly determined to call you an asshole any time you treat them like a normal human being. One of the oldest strategies is to think about whether or not you would do x for a guy who isn't your best friend. If the answer is no, don't do it for a girl. And you most likely will be called an asshole for saying no. That doesn't mean you are one.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 02:39 AM
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I believe you missed the article on the 17 year old girl who drove drunk, killed herself, and 2 boys were charged.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 11:56 PM
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The thing that is really throwing me for a loop is I honestly can't tell if she had a point to what she wrote. Look at it... she talks about herself and her experiences for a paragraph... and that's it. What the hell was her point? That being depressed later in life because of your shitty choices is normal? To suggest the data may be flawed in some way? Maybe my reading comprehension has just taken a nose-dive today, but this seems like hamstering turned into an art.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 11:43 PM
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It raises some good points but it misses out on points like feminism's intellectual dishonesty. More than anything I see this as a great example of how much of a difference an appeal to feels makes versus an appeal to logic/facts.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 09:46 PM
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Classic bait-and-switch. These boys will have male role models, but women will be overseeing the whole thing so they will essentially be the role models. Because that's all society is comfortable with.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 03:33 AM
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being the age of 32, time matters "Why can't I just snap my fingers and have a successful man marry me?" No matter what age a man is he almost feels entitled to a younger woman Aw honey, how dare they worry about whether they're dating down. We know you wouldn't worry about petty things like that. And if I do want a white guy that will actually marry me, I have to go down a huge step in overall attractiveness to make up for the fact that I am Indian. I would feel sorry if this post didn't reek o…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 04:47 AM
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You'll get there, young padawan.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 03:04 AM
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It comes from a number of things. We're critical of false rape accusations and how horrible they are with no punishment. To go with that, the idea that it's much more common than people want to admit for a girl to get laid, and then feel ashamed and cry rape. There are other things. I think there was (is?) a poster who was critical of the idea of spousal rape; that created some controversy.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 11:57 PM
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Incoming logical fallacy with some truth to it: If you're not banned from r/askwomen then you're not a true redpiller. I'm banned and I'm pretty sure I've never even posted there.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 11:46 PM
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In my experience breakup sex happens under one of two scenarios: He initiated the split. She initiated the split and he metaphorically went, "Meh." So it holds to red pill concepts like women being attracted to men who act like they have more value and dread game. The endorsed guys can probably go more in depth.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 08:47 PM
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Yeah, thanks for asking honest questions. It isn't something we get often here, so we have a tendency to jump to claiming "troll". Just hitting the gym, learning to be more sociable in general, and trying to get a decent career will move mountains for almost every guy. Also, as you get comfortable that all this isn't inherently manipulative, and get more experience with women, you'll start noticing a lot of the truths behind it. Then you'll have an easier time dispassionately deciding for yourse…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 08:29 PM
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I needed a fresh start with someone who hadn’t seen the worst in me. Another selfish act of self-preservation? You bet. But when she ends up alone with cats it will be because There Are No More Good Men.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 07:30 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. Then the next question is how are you coming to the conclusion that coersion/deception/harm are involved? This always seems to be a conclusion people jump to any time guys get together and discuss how to get better at meeting women: that it must be inherently manipulative. Don't get me wrong, there's discussion here of traits called the "dark triad" that fall in the manipulation category. However, it's generally accepted that while those can get you laid they won't create …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 09:31 PM
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Saying you shouldn't be tearing through as many women as you can is the same as saying you shouldn't kill people. I don't understand this analogy. It only makes sense if you think there's something morally wrong with casual sex.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 08:56 PM
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Dollar says she has a mental illness. The baby-daddy was slapped with all the blame for the dysfunction relationship, so she never went to get therapy and gets to stay just as crazy as ever.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 08:31 PM
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Have you seen your writing create any meaningful discussion among people outside the manosphere or has it all been love/hate?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 12:45 AM
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Quick someone say something easily misinterpreted. Fuck bitches get money
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 08:35 PM
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Apparently a free place to live is worth 9 meals a year and cleaning (doesn't say how often). Well, at least we're establishing a barter system. That means if a guy makes them a meal they owe him 1/9 of a year's rent.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 08:46 PM
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It has been socially programmed that any time men get together to talk about what attracts women, sexual strategy, and sexuality in general it needs to be demonized. Then there's discourse in the 21st century which is all about arguing, yelling, shaming rather than listening to and discussing opposing viewpoints without feeling the need to convert.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 07:12 PM
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Unless it's a man who is sexy to women. I didn't see that video protest the objectification of Ryan Gosling.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:13 PM
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I always love how English majors leave performing experiments to the scientists, but think they're intelligent enough to be the ones who interpret the results.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 10:11 PM
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I’m your standard-issue late-20-something childless overeducated atheist feminist I studied English and Spanish at Harvard University [from her personal website]
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 02:50 AM
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"Bitch your unhappiness is your own fault" dressed up in so many nice words. I agree with it, but I see women using it to manipulate their guys into letting them do things the guys aren't okay with.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 02:45 AM
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tl;dr You can assume I'm ridiculously angry if it makes you feel better.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 05:52 AM
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So you're saying you insist on being in a relationship that fosters calm discussion rather than letting her run away with being an emotionally and verbally abusive twat? I don't see how that could possibly work. And obviously that's why everyone in here is getting downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 05:52 PM
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tl; dr - personality disorders are rampant in western civilization
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 05:27 PM
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If that's what you want to do, do you actually think it's appropriate to call it a "disinformation" campaign?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 04:13 AM
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Getting rejected would only cause a guy to lose confidence if he associates failure/rejection with shame. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a guy going for a girl and getting rejected, but women/feminism/the media have raised us to believe there is. If a girl isn't attracted to us before we approach her then obviously we're creepy rapists
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 12:14 AM
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I don't think there are any rules, which is fine. I just wanted to fit in.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 07:17 PM
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Super cala fragi listic expi ala docious
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 06:10 PM
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I think they need to be treated like the personality-disordered, intellectually dishonest lepers that they are. Seeking out destructive men isn't necessarily indicative of seeking out alphas. It's more indicative of a personality that thrives on dysfunctional relationships.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:33 PM
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Too bad it doesn't work that way. Femininity and masculinity is more about balance and a more masculine guy is probably going to prefer a more feminine woman. And that's why feminists end up alone with cats.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:26 PM
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Last I checked it was socially acceptable to beat a man who cheated with a golf club and then have him do a shaming commercial. Not so much with women. Or did you mean according to TRP?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 02:08 AM
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Her: Lol well I’m not the kind of girl to go that route without a fight. So many openings for jokes. Me: Well then good news! Now's a great time to inform you that pursuant to Megan's Law... Me: Personally, I love it when they struggle.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 12:47 AM
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I think it was a mistake getting drawn into her shit. I don't know why you would bother with that. Also, if you're bailing on plans with someone at the last minute it's generally good form to offer an apology.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 09:02 PM
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Heather Jensen is facing two counts of child abuse resulting in death, two counts of criminally negligent homicide, and one count of false reporting to authorities. So she's facing, what, 14 months in prison?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:41 PM
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My prediction: men get posted onto He's A Homewrecker, then see increases in their sex lives. As a matter of fact, I might just go think up a great backstory with some friends and then post myself on there...
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 10:15 PM
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I think it comes down to society teaching that it's unacceptable for men to raise complaints and talk about their problems. It's something that's so hard to get away from that it's even present on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 05:56 PM
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The top comment was cool.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 03:19 PM
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Better than spending a fortune on a divorce. At least the car will last if you take care of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 08:20 PM
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Relational aggression.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 09:33 PM
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They are a small part of philosophy, they don't invalidate it. Who ever brought up invalidating anything? My original argument was the hard sciences teach better critical thinking skills. Many famous philosophers are also famous and influential mathematicians: if philosophy could be "solved" in minutes with basic math it wouldn't exist today. You're missing that historically there was no distinction between science and philosophy. "Science" as a word didn't exist until the 18- or 1900s. Back in …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 09:13 PM
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Doing acrobatics with such grace around the fact that clearly people are recognizing that people men are already taught not to rape and punished for it that a ballerina would be jealous.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 11:07 PM
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Haha true enough
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 02:24 AM
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Jaw: meet floor.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:55 PM
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I don't believe it's all evolutionary theory and nature that drives things. I think that gives us some answers, but at the end of the day I think it's more of a nurture thing. There was a user who recently posted the story of Caligula and that serves as a great example that men will behave and think the same way as many modern women do if raised to expect everything with an over-inflated sense of self-value. It's a result of being grown to be that way, not female nature. [Edit: I do think there …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:12 PM
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Similar to this, I prefer complimenting things that they do/are in their control. "I like what you did with your hair" over "You so pretteh!" Personal experience suggests it's a good general strategy.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:00 PM
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I agree. I wasn't trying to just say that it wasn't a conscious strategy, but that the egocentrism could be what drives her to pass on what she considers a de facto necessity for lasting relationships.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 03:05 PM
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I think putting intent into it is giving her too much credit. To me, it sounds like good old fashioned ego centrism. Her boyfriend complimenting her makes her feel good so she can't fathom how there might be negative repercussions to that, or that others might prefer something else. Even in the case of her boyfriend. Maybe she's noticed he's different now and a little defeated but it doesn't occur to her why. She probably thinks something like, "He started complimenting me and it feels great! Bu…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 02:53 PM
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Misery loves miserable company.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 08:31 PM
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It's got what plants crave.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 08:28 PM
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I'm impressed that at least one of the ads is a guy, but these people have no idea how All Sluts Eve works.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 08:25 PM
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What if women started wars? They don't play a role in foreign policy already? Here's a question: What if women did all the dying in wars?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 08:32 PM
4

Keeping a girl around because she provides something useful sounds like friendzoning. And you flopped agencies in your explanation - Beta orbiters stick around, so they stay in the friendzone, yeah. Women in general don't stick around a guy they want dick from even if they have something else useful to provide him, so they don't stay in the friendzone.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 07:48 PM
5

No worries, dude. I'm just picking on you :)
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 07:17 PM
12

Another fun hobby: I'm one of those people who thinks the toilet looks best with both the seat and lid down in general, so if a girl is over and doesn't put the lid down I'll chew her out for it. Hilarity ensues.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 07:13 PM
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It's all about feelings. They don't feel disappointed and rejected when they reject you romantically, so they don't care. But when you reject their friendship then they are the ones who feel disappointed and rejected, so it must be wrong. Also, work on your spelling and grammar.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 07:11 PM
7

Women hate being in the friend zone even more than men.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 06:48 PM
-1

That's a good definition, but it doesn't really respond to its being used to disregard emotional communication. [And what happened to the other guy who responded to my comment earlier? There was something about that I wanted to respond to.]
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 03:03 AM
4

Yes. Something I think happens on here quite a bit is to simply write off a girl's emotional communication as hamstering. I think we as a community would benefit from looking more deeply into how emotional communication works. But maybe that's just me, and I've been wrong before. [Edit: Although I would hesitate to call emotional communication "logical", I think there's a pattern to the madness.]
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 10:43 PM
18

Research opportunity: Cross-reference these comments with posting histories to see if they're actually angry feministy types who write about what victims they are.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 08:49 PM
4

On a related note: Does anybody have the link to that news article about the man who was arrested for sexual assault after saving some girl from... I dunno... a car or whatever it was?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 08:38 PM
8

When discussing comedy, parody is only an insult if you don't have a sense of humor. That's the same logic feminists use to claim a joke about rape is proof of a rape culture.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 08:34 PM
1

Quite.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 07:26 PM
9

Entourage falls into some of the stupid lovey shit sometimes, but it has some great messages about male comradery that society is lacking in any meaningful outlet.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 06:41 PM
10

Has anyone started that Teach Women Not To Lie campaign?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 03:51 PM
9

Here's their rationalization: "Well, the average woman is my size now, so I can put down average!"
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 03:42 PM
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I agree with you about how they think, act, and react. But let's be honest: high paying jobs requiring high skill are not being filled by women. An example being engineering. Those jobs require hard work to earn those skills. Mid- to high-paying middle management jobs that are handed out to anyone with a four-year degree showing they're willing to put up with asinine bullshit are being filled by women.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 06:27 PM
1

Much like red identifies a Target employee for you, pink and blue are just identifiers for babies. People don't like answering whether it's a boy or a girl a billion times. Don't know why feminists don't pick up on that.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 05:32 PM
16

I wonder if she realizes that by simply attacking and not trying to understand us that she's adding evidence to this argument that women can't understand men or TRP. Who am I kidding? That never occurred to her as a possibility until she read this comment.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 08:34 PM
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I definitely agree with trp_lurker. I just want to add that many girls suffer from the same insecurities that we do. That complimenting him will be seen as coming on to him, maybe they'll get rebuffed, or humiliatingly scoffed at like girls so often do to guys. Better to just be quiet, not go for a guy you want and never risk rejection.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 08:25 PM
7

Nice to read a differing view on TRP that isn't blatantly attacking it. I wish there was more of this.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 08:20 PM
3

Dude needs to invest in the spellchecker that probably came free with his software.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/13 11:22 PM
16

Dumbass, you let him do a fuckin body shot off you. She's never been held accountable for her actions in her life, so I don't know why you're surprised she wouldn't consider them now. She sees what she wears as having a much more significant impact.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/13 05:06 PM
9

Hi, welcome to Male Privilege. Here's a pamphlet. We have a group BBQ on the third Sunday of every month.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 04:46 PM
1

I get banning us, but banning MR seems like a poorly thought out decision.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 04:35 PM
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What I find interesting (but not surprising) is how the comment completely ignores the reality of women doing the same thing. I've met a number of girls who were into me and as soon as they found out it wasn't a two-way thing they vanished. No apologies, not even an explanation that they only wanted something romantic. I don't harbor any ill will about it, but to claim that women are these perfect little flowers who are happy to just hang around a guy who won't put out and won't go look for one …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 06:00 AM
5

I agree with your observations, but I don't think the mimicking is always a very calculated move either. At least not consciously. I've met a number of girls who seem to be aware of their own inability to have healthy relationships. And rather than putting in the work to dig deep into themselves and change things they've just picked up on a usable short-term strategy for finding mates. It's kind of like guys who think girls are just attracted to money, but don't know anything about game or TRP. …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 06:37 AM
3

It will be interesting to see what happens when they start having kids and getting divorced. What will the family courts do when they can't blindly give the kids to a woman and instead have to choose between two dads?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 06:20 AM
2

Feminism's need for power is the reason why it's not "GLBT". Or "GBLT", which would win support by nature of sounding like a tasty sandwich.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 05:48 AM
14

Well that shout-out went into a black hole, didn't it? Their souls?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 05:45 AM
23

A bunch of quote-mining? Who's surprised, show of hands.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 05:28 AM
2

Victim Complex Denial Proficiency.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 10:38 PM
2

I'm not sure how it's justified completely, but there is truth to the claim that the best sex is with people you have an emotional connection with. (assuming that's what she meant by more personal) Granted, you don't necessarily have to be dating/married to them to have the emotional connection.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 10:32 PM
3

Do you have any kind of commentary on this? I stopped about four paragraphs in because, yeah, it looks like another article that makes women out to be the sole victims. But I don't see how it relates to your title.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 08:12 PM
58

... feminist scholar and a professor emerita of psychology and women’s studies at City University of New York. In her 14th book... This woman has literally made a career of being a victim. And that oozes from the way she writes.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 05:07 PM
5

I particularly like the recommendation to use passive-aggressive tactics to make a guy read it. That'll lead to healthy relationships for sure.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 08:05 PM
3

I just saw coverage on this a few minutes ago. I couldn't stop laughing when they first showed the woman.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 12:13 AM
1

tl;dr - Threatening boys who come over is bad because it makes Daddy's Little Girl feel over-protected and slightly ashamed of sex. NOT because boys are people with feelings, and receiving threats like that is incredibly sexually shame-inducing.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 12:51 AM
10

The reason that all men are considered potential rapists and pedophiles, is because we ARE all potential rapists and pedophiles. This statement you made in one of your other comments really struck with me and brought me to respond. You also state that you're trying to do research and find things to read, so I'll see what I can provide. It will likely be a combination of articles, research studies, and comments from other redditors. As for the topics of rapists, pedophiles, domestic abuse - these…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 11:03 PM
19

I can't remember who originally said this but, "Where the men go the women follow."
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 01:07 AM
43

In her defense: she's apparently a teenager. I don't recall ever meeting a teenage girl with the ability to think for herself rather than rationalize and repeat things she was told by perceived authority figures. Oh, she just deleted her account.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 12:57 AM
2

Something that might be helpful is learning about emotional reactivity and how to reduce it.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 11:15 PM
2

Alright I'll ask: Do you have a source for this study you mentioned?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 11:10 PM
3

Being a "value giver" is advice almost straight from one of the books that's out there. Tao of Badass, I think. If I remember correctly the book elaborates that a guy with status and genuine confidence will tend to bring and give value to an interaction, rather than ridicule people. Honestly, it sounds like this kid just learned about calibrating his teasing. As well as the power of throwing genuine interest and validation into the mix.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 09:15 PM
1

Social circle game.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 09:00 PM
1

Maybe take a break from TRP for a while. Go out, have fun, be aware of things but stop worrying about them. Then come back.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 08:58 PM
20

What they aren't going to realize is they created this. Because it's so damn rare for men to get sole custody of their kids, because we were painted as unnecessary and even terrible parents, it only says great things about us to be seen with our kids.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 08:56 PM
11

Bring it back? It's used against men every single day. And, honestly, it's so toxic I think a lot of the damage it does to people outweighs any benefits.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 07:36 AM
9

I'm back after an unsuccessful attempt at sleeping. Good news: I thought I had deleted her text messages, but they're actually still on my phone. Reading back through it now I'd describe it less as a tirade and more as just being unable to take a rejection. For reference, I live in a different state from my family and she lives in that state as well. So usually on the occasional weekend I'm there I am trying to cram in as much time as I can with family, close friends, and a local booty call or t…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 06:27 AM
15

A girl I was sleeping with put up a fuss when I had to cancel on her to spend time with my dad... which I warned her might happen when she originally asked to hang. She sent a text message tirade and told me not to contact her any more. Didn't give enough fucks to even respond and haven't thought about it since. ~Redpill Moments~
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 04:39 AM
3

I'm curious about the "faded" part... Don't all tattoos end up faded eventually? I don't have any, so I honestly don't know this for certain.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 02:27 AM
5

tl;dr - She's sick and tired of being approached by guys who don't know she's not already attracted to them. She has to live in fear of those rape machines every day.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 10:42 PM
22

The rule actually says "don't link to askwomen for the purpose of stirring up drama." Which, I assume, actually means "don't criticize us in other subs or generally discuss us in subs we don't like."
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 08:51 PM
13

Yeah they routinely ban people who are kind enough to leave their sub alone and make fun of them elsewhere. Though sometimes I get the impression it might be one mod in particular...
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 08:31 PM
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Woman gets married and doesn't want to admit that men no longer have incentive to pretend she's more interesting than she is. Meanwhile, her husband has been permanently given value to other women as well as a sense of competition. Ladies always want what's just out of reach.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 07:38 PM
10

Aaaand in about two weeks this will be a project on Kickstarter.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 03:01 AM
5

But it's your fault for making them downvote you!
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 02:56 AM
2

Communists in heels.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 02:50 AM
9

Eh, I get more fun making fun of women and bluepills. Menrights may be filled with betas but at least they know what the score is.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 02:49 AM
8

The top couple comments seem pretty straight-up about how women interpret it: with irrational thinking like, "Why?! Are you planning on divorcing me?!" [Edit: NAWALT?!]
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 04:59 AM
6

Red Pill theory seems to dictate that a boyfriend should always be mindful of what his girlfriend does, and even set parameters for her should the need arise. This can be something as simple as not allowing her to text during a meal, to more pervasive means of control as forbidding her from keeping a Facebook. What? There's a difference between 'dominant' and 'controlling'. Can you be red-pilled and be gay? There are a few gay users here who can probably answer that better. platonic male-female …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 04:33 AM
7

I'm mostly disappointed that he's deleting a large portion of the pickup content from 09-11. If he's in need of changing tracks that's fine, but at least leave the trail behind intact.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 07:48 PM
5

For guys, yeah. In my experience it doesn't matter for most girls because they'll still try to turn it into a validation dispenser anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 06:29 PM
2

She really starts abusing those commas right off the bat...
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 05:51 PM
24

Because their feelings matter. Not yours.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 05:44 PM
2

Considering the end statement So let's blame the media-not women. I got the impression this post was about where to place blame, not how to fix things, nor hatred. So if we're talking about blame then, like my analogy suggests, the source of the orders would of course be a point of blame. But those who followed orders would still have to face some accountability for their actions. Fixing things is a whole different analogy.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 05:39 AM
3

MURICA
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 04:57 AM
3

Dr Dre - Housewife (Chronic 2001 album) I guess it was Dre, Kurupt, and Hittman. No Snoop.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 12:49 AM
9

On a related note, Dre and Snoop Dogg/Lion couldn't have made it any clearer a decade ago when they said: "You can't make a ho a housewife."
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 10:23 PM
3

Good to know i've already been mostly following this. So fruit is on the menu, as well. Not just veggies?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 03:30 PM
14

Well unfortunately for them the Nuremberg Trials determined that "just following orders" - while potentially lessening punishment - was no longer an acceptable excuse to avoid punishment altogether.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 03:23 PM
8

Now how do I improve my odor...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 02:53 PM
14

Well, since the author has probably been guilty of playing psychological games in relationships she likely can't fathom that a guy wouldn't do the same.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 02:47 AM
1

Yeah I've been learning that recently.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 12:42 AM
2

I told him I was gonna leave a hickey on his shoulder (more like under the end of his collarbone) and proceeded to start to do so. He grabbed me by the throat very aggressively and held me to the floor for about a minute. I started to panic almost instantly, but he didn't let go right away. That's it? That's fucking it? That can be interpreted a billion different ways. Did he not want a hickey and she just wouldn't listen or leave him alone? WHO THE FUCK KNOWS! There's literally zero context and…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 12:17 AM
9

Yeah that's what I was thinking. They broke up because he was being beta. Then he improved himself and figured out she wasn't as great as he originally thought. But that's all just a guess.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 07:59 PM
7

She also mentions that she has high-functioning autism. If that's truly the case I wonder if it will create an exception where she reciprocates these sorts of things despite a lack of love. Or maybe she's just misunderstanding the entire situation. Thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 06:50 PM
5

I agree with this. I would also like to point out that I'm fairly sure TRP's stance is that men and women have different reactions to being cheated on. There's no real stance on the cheaters themselves. For instance when there's a thread about some girl cheating there's always the guys hating on her and, at the same time, there's always the guys saying, "Well when you act blue pill that's what happens. No one to blame but himself."
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 06:44 PM
10

Any time we had a disagreement she would always fall back to this position. That I “just wasn’t ready for a real relationship, and needed to be free to play the field like all men do after they get divorced.”Any time we had a disagreement she would always fall back to this position. That I “just wasn’t ready for a real relationship, and needed to be free to play the field like all men do after they get divorced.” She's projecting. This is what she wants. Go date a 20-something and she'll come ru…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 06:35 PM
10

I think you're actually putting thought into this and that's awesome. But the guy's actions aren't the only ones to observe. Notice how much effort she's putting in because he - literally - doesn't think her vagina is that special. Also, think about this: they were together for 10 years and broke up for 2-3. She never went into why that happened. We're reading only one side of the story.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 06:26 PM
17

She seems to be trying, so props for that. But it's funny how much it scares girls when they aren't able to get guys to think with their dick.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 06:05 PM
8

Yet when I looked into things, I found that no one had ever examined the actual fallout or aftermath of all this. There’d been no examination of conscience and no accountability to speak of. No one has considered accountability for women's actions? Shocker. What Kelly is referring to here is the normalisation of un-civility and emotional (and sometimes physical) violence that women direct towards each other Personally, I think this is a good thing. As women become more politically untouchable so…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 09:03 PM
14

I don't think anyone has said love is an "illusion". Being here means reassessing how you create emotional intimacy with women. Yeah, that means no Hollywood rom-com bullshit and probably no nuclear family. Anyway, strive for personal fulfillment. Whether it's in your hobbies or career or somewhere else you think of. It generally involves 1) something you love doing and 2) getting shit done.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 05:11 PM
3

He shook his head He rolled his eyes He glowered What an oppressive bastard.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 04:05 PM
16

Tell her she's sacrificing his nice income if he doesn't go. See how that gets processed.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 04:57 AM
12

But NAWALT!
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 11:22 PM
5

This is what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 08:12 PM
5

Best comment to the original article from an Anon: You are a very sick boy who obviously denies the existence of female heterosexuality. This is contradicted by the extreme pleasure felt by every woman I ever had sex with. As a virgin, you’re not qualified to say what feels good to a woman. I’ve personally experienced women’s pleasure when our bodies were joined. It’s NOT a one way street. You are a suicidal masochist, and without sex, you’d never be here. I can’t believe you were the fastest sp…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 07:39 PM
3

If you're that unhappy with the relationship just end it. In the long run staying won't be good for you or her.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 12:39 PM
3

Doesn't hypergamy imply that a girl simply can't set you up with anyone better than her? That just wouldn't be working in her best interests...
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 12:32 PM
14

Make it an np link. Did you know we scare klansmen, too?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 12:03 AM
10

Ex-husband better check his privilege.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 10:19 PM
10

Did you never make mistakes before finding the game or TRP?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 10:12 PM
24

So let me get this straight... he didn't fuck the other girl - or even kiss her - so it wasn't even actually a threesome and she... OH, I got it. She's probably just preparing to guilt him into a MMF threesome. Which, incidentally, will involve her actually getting fucked by the other guy.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 10:09 PM
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While I have yet to be able to consider a guy in his twenties, I stopped ignoring the men in their mid-thirties. If a 34-year-old wants to meet for a drink, and he’s not awkward or crude in his messages, I’ll meet him. Why not? Same goes for the man in his early fifties that I once considered “too old.” What’s the harm? It’s just a cocktail and conversation. Oh good, at the age of 40 she finally turned into a fucking adult. Here’s what I noticed once I stopped caring about meeting other people’s…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 10:03 PM
18

"If you really loved me i wouldnt have to sign one" If that's literally what she's saying then notice how she isn't acknowledging that not having a prenup means not getting any of the estate. She wants that money. Don't ever let her shame you into not making her sign one.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 06:44 AM
20

They're all voicing the same concerns that men have for legitimately wanting a prenup. Lol /r/askwomen, you so silly. [Make it an np link]
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 06:13 AM
3

No, I meant someone posted the steps I gave you.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 10:32 PM
10

Someone else posted this before: Step 1: Learn game Step 2: Be attractive Step 3: Don't be unattractive Failure of step 2 or 3 results in jail.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 10:26 PM
8

Honestly this sounds different from, say, that woman a couple days ago who maliciously uses her husband as an ATM to buy stupid fucking mirrors. It sounds like she has a very deep problem and she even knows it (but can't/won't do anything about it). OP's gotta take full control like the top comment says and she probably needs to go to therapy. Or just get divorced again.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 09:04 PM
2

Touché
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 05:55 AM
2

he just wanted some new pussy too Or he was in a sexless relationship and just wanted some pussy. Any pussy.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 05:47 AM
8

The title is a little misleading. She's arguing that taking a backseat/accepting help from her man in the relationship has been really beneficial for her marriage to Orlando Bloom.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 04:53 AM
43

This is TRP. As long as he didn't fall for her shit and followed through in a way that made him happy, what does it matter?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 11:13 PM
9

I like you.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 07:38 PM
9

The guy has a 21-hour-old account. Don't bother.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 07:33 PM
2

So what you're saying is it's time to jump ship for good and head to Whore Island?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 05:41 PM
48

I'm so sick of this Rape Culture bullshit. All it does is justify censorship and perpetuate the demonization of male sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 05:30 PM
13

Do what we tell you or be censored. Do feminists realize they act more like the Patriarchy than their supposed oppressors do? ... Sorry, that was a stupid question. They wouldn't care even if they did.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 05:23 PM
15

30 The United States produces more pornography than any other nation in the world. Men consume far more of that pornography than women do. I actually didn't care for this one. Yeah, men consume more porn, but that's because porn for women is "romance" novels.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 03:27 PM
11

surely someone can make a politically friendly one "Request permission to rate girl?" "How would you like to rate her?: Amazing, fabulous, snarky, driven, or hot?" "Request permission to rate girl? Sorry, but players who objectify women are not allowed. You can only rate one girl every two months."
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 03:21 PM
5

Failing it would be floundering around and not deciding anything while she offers no opinion. PS - MickyD's has kick ass fries.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 01:13 PM
7

Well if she has rotting flesh tattooed around her pussy that's a pretty good indication. But as for ones you can see ahead of time there is one tattoo that you ALWAYS want to avoid and it's not the tattoo you think it is: The tattoo across the chest right atop the cleavage. Almost without exception, it's always something pseudo-religious like "Temptation" in fancy letters and really means "Here be crazy".
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 04:26 AM
3

Shame is such a powerful feeling that they can rely on it entirely to get what they want.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 12:03 AM
11

Take her to McDonald's if she has no opinions. And where is all this bullshit "fitness" test coming from that's been popping up lately? Was there a "White Knight the Red Pill" meeting I missed?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 11:51 PM
3

Oh god, they're already trying to make TRP politically correct. There be dragons at the gates...
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 11:42 PM
4

A group of men in a car started wolf-whistling and shouting sexual remarks at my friends and me. I asked the men if they thought it was appropriate for them to be abusing a group of 17-year-old girls. The response was furious. The men started swearing at me, called me a bitch and threw a cup coffee over me. Who wants to take a bet it didn't happen? I was just about to post the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 09:40 PM
10

"I met this guy at Barnes & Noble the other day. He was, like, really cute and he was totally raping with me!"
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 09:28 PM
2

She's just trying to keep her house from looking as empty as her soul. Once she divorce-rapes this guy and is back on the market she'll get hers.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 09:12 PM
4

My understanding is that marriage is about resources and sex is about alphas. The two used to come in one package but now do not. So the betas can have resources, but still manage to display low SMV through demeanor, lack of a backbone, etc. This makes for a nice safety net, but damned if it makes her gina tingle. She has to go elsewhere for that. Why did she marry a beta with resources instead of an alpha with resources in the first place? I don't know. Lack of supply? Added security with the b…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 07:30 AM
5

Research opportunity: go ask 2x, askwomen, relationships, and askmen (for control group). Come back with the results.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 07:16 AM
2

Upvote for a good lol
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 07:13 AM
17

there is a bunch less responsibility given to men in a straight relationship when it comes to child rearing, and I always found that disappointing. I want to be much more involved in raising my child than the average father ends up being. I think most fathers do, too.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 04:03 AM
18

you view women as objects Well that discussion ended in record time.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 12:02 AM
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Golf clap for 303030303030 for holding his own in those discussions.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 10:10 PM
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This is enjoyable but it's mostly making fun of the really stupid quotes. I was talking about one where people claim to need feminism, then state a fact that suggests maybe women aren't so oppressed. Like the two quotes I made above.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 08:19 PM
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Has anyone started a parody campaign of this yet? "I need feminism because... the CDC refuses to recognize that women can actually rape men too." "I need feminism because... $376 million is spent on prostate cancer research and only $715 million on breast cancer research."
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 05:57 PM
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Agreed. Each personality factor is just a bunch of truisms.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 03:27 PM
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I know you're worried, but don't be. It's still all men's fault for not "manning up". It's certainly nothing to do with the women. So relax; the status quo will stay the same.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 06:32 AM
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If someone lost my dog I'd be pretty pissed, too. But notice in the last two messages in the first pic how she frames it as everything that happened he did with the explicit intent of hurting her. She keeps it up and even starts framing it murder. Then she actually flat out states I feel like I will never see him again and it's all your fault all the sad feelings I have right now are directly related to you. Typical girl claiming someone else is responsible for her emotions and not just their ow…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 05:59 AM
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Looks like Anne Frank got her eyebrows tweezed. Hell, here I come. Here's something you might actually find relevant.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 04:35 AM
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I like dropit's advice, I just want to add two things that came to mind. First, is it possible they're doing this with all the husbands and comparing in some sort of fucked up competition? Second, if they aren't doing that then my money would say deep down they don't want to just watch, they want a taste.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 10:53 PM
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What I mean is don't bother with her unless she shows some sort of actual commitment to hanging out: "Hey we should hang out soon." vs "Hey you wanna go to the art museum Thursday night? They have this new exhibit on cats with sad clowns." And, yeah, unless it's obvious she wants the D (and not just pretending to) then at least think twice about doing it. Is this girl's personality more interesting than your worst night alone? I noticed you never mentioned once in your write-up if she was cool o…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 10:42 PM
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My friends told me to wait for her reply, and not bother if its been too long. But, trying to stay positive I messaged her again with another invite. Still no response. What? They were right. Why didn't you listen? I managed to catch her online and wondered if she wanted to go out into the city with me. She told me she was too busy with school. Yeah, just keep digging that hole. After that, I just said "fuck it" and left her alone. Thank god. In my opinion next time she talks to you, unless she …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 09:37 PM
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You know, I like TRP. But sometimes I think it's all a bunch of elaboration over one simple mentality: they want what they can't have. Better yet they want what is just out of reach. It's like if you dangle a toy in front of a cat. If it's too high up, the cat knows it. It will watch the toy with interest but not really do anything. As you lower it, though, the cat realizes that it might be getting within it's grasp. And that's when the fun starts. The cat will start trying to get it, even try d…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 08:34 PM
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"No matter what number she gives - double it and add at least one black guy and a Mexican gang bang." - Tucker Max
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 04:58 PM
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Now I'd love to hear what you guys make of this. Because to me it tells me that this chick is looking for people to be manipulating her. It's been my experience the people who are paranoid of being manipulated are in fact, manipulative themselves. First of all: bingo. That's my experience, too. Also, girls like this are incredibly susceptible to a really simple manipulation that I'm a little surprised you didn't pick up on your first time around this girl. Rejection. The more you reject her, and…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 06:14 AM
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So are you saying you think there's merit to her notion that men feel no positive emotions? You may want to elaborate more or I think you're going to get called on trolling.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:09 AM
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I'm not hurt; I'm creeped out. Seriously, this follows the same format for how the genocide of a certain people was justified about 70 years ago. If women are actually buying into this then that's a little terrifying.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:00 AM
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"Don't do anything with yourself so I can justify and rationalize never doing anything with myself. Or at least don't let me see it so I can pretend 'you were just born that way'."
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 07:28 PM
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I heard some things and saw some awful behavior I've never seen from any man. You have my attention.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 07:22 PM
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... a guy I have been crushing on on okc contacted me. (I had visited his profile couple times to give him the hint.) I've finally confirmed that even with internet dating women do absolutely stupid shit and claim it's "subtle"! Bahahaha!
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 06:40 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1g80lq/how_low_the_mighty_seddit_has_fallen/
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 04:19 PM
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Seriously this girl and then that Dizzy_bitch from yesterday... Why are these girls so insecure they feel the need pretend they have complete control over every interpersonal situation?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 04:02 PM
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She fucked up and now she can't handle the shame and guilt of fucking up. Good thing he's ducking out.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 03:48 PM
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Lol what am I some kind of cheeseball who thinks there's ONE SONG that always gets a girl's panties off? "Waltz in A Minor, bro! Chopin's the shit!!" Anyway, the way it used to go was I wouldn't even talk much about my playing unless someone came over and noticed the piano against the wall. There'd be the inevitable "Play something for me!" and I would ask what she could play. I'd sit down and just screw around, play snippits of stuff, and chat. Talk about how my parents forced me into lessons a…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 03:30 PM
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/r/theinfraredpill
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:52 AM
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ThomasWaldmann is right about the passion. I've played piano since I was six and it's involved a ton of classical pieces as well as some jazz ones, rag time, random pop songs just because, and songs I came across that I liked. So as a fellow musician I can offer two thoughts: Widen your repertoire and learn some pieces that aren't classical. Maybe some jazz, some rag time (if there are any for guitar), No Diggity. Maybe even look around for some modern classical music and see if there's anything…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 04:11 AM
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Oh, I got it! You're supposed to prove yourself! Like pay for dinner, taxi, maybe a Coach purse, movie tickets, be there for her and listen to her complain about assholes, travel across The Wall to get her a piece of a fallen star, maybe beat the fuck out of a grizzly bear. And then - if you've proved yourself enough - she'll let you know that you two are going to start dating. All it takes some patience and let her know that she's The One :D
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 03:12 AM
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Fifty bucks says she's already pregnant (from Guess Who!) and shortly after she's moved back up there we're going to be reading a post about how happy he is that he's going to be a father. And hopefully the inevitable fallout as he slowly gets the trickle-truth.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 02:18 AM
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This was the best learning experience of my day.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 01:34 AM
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Thanks guys. While I'm at it: is it common for the UK to refer to guys as lads or is it mostly the feminist writers? When I read "lad" I think "boy" so it seems a little derogatory.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 01:05 AM
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As an American: what are trainers?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 12:43 AM
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tl;dr - She saves a bunch of guys from wasting a lot of time. Because I'm not really seeing any reasons why a guy would want to be around her past that 100 milliseconds of post-orgasm masculine bliss. And she seems to know that, too.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 09:44 PM
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Read Everything Bad is Good for You, it presents a very compelling argument about vidya games providing cognitive exercise. I don't see any point posing that argument simply to make women interested, though. And the OP is asking about gamer guys being "bigoted and ignorant" and then segues into how they don't get out of the house. Whatever the fuck she means by "bigoted and ignorant" is a complete mystery and I don't see anyone asking her to elaborate... ... Maybe she's just meeting guys who wou…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 09:19 PM
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I don't think I've ever seen a guy hamster so hard. Plus he's just... a terrible writer. Reading him feels just tedious. I feel bad for anyone who's bothered to try getting through a book he's put out. He isn't even doing basic fact-checking and I get the impression he's got a lot of internalized shame about his maleness.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 09:06 PM
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If he doesn't hit on women then how does this guy meet women? You gotta flirt at some point...
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 09:00 PM
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Interesting...
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 06:20 PM
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As of now she seems to be speaking normally. So no signs of the T-virus yet.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 06:20 PM
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Found this googling: http://www.inquisitr.com/683920/colorado-mother-kills-9-year-old-son-attempts-suicide/ Apparently she shot herself in the head and lived.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:55 PM
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Whoa whoa wait... So now I can objectify a person by discussing their behavior? Next up: Discussing women at all is objectifying them. Don't mention them. Ever. Oh, sorry. I can't talk about that. Now I'm losing my job.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:09 AM
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I was banned too. Never posted or commented there. I'm guessing they didn't enjoy us making fun of them for saying a guy who paid a hooker was a scumbag but a guy who dated one was a hero.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 01:58 AM
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Yuuhp.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 10:52 PM
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that character probably doesn't even really understand the difference between a hooker and a normal female. So you're saying he's pure red pill?!
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 09:15 PM
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I seem to meet quite a few girls who love the show and think Archer (the character) is awesome. He spends a lot of time around escorts/hookers.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 09:05 PM
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I wonder how many of these girls love watching Archer...
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 08:32 PM
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One could argue that the voices of feminism are a representation of feminism. But obviously they don't speak for everyone. Anyway, I expect it's because we don't aim to study feminism. Therefore we don't have any writings unless it specifically relates to a point. Much like feminism doesn't have any required reading in calculus or biology unless it relates to a point it aims to make (we don't require any either, but people are told to cite sources for arguments). That isn't wrong in itself. And …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 02:03 AM
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Thanks for posting something! Personally, I'm not sure what you mean by "feminist writings". Just earlier today there was an article posted by a feminist who liked to scream "No" while she was getting pounded in the ass so... there are writings that come up on here by self-proclaimed feminists. They tend to be representative of "what feminism has turned into". Do you mean traditional writings?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 01:26 AM
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This isn't even hamstering. It's full blown crazy. Oh, and if you're looking for any hint that there's at least some emotional abuse: "Mom you're scaring me!" "No I'm not!" Her own kid's emotions don't even exist to her unless they serve her desires.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 12:03 AM
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remain utterly and completely ignorant of the opposing views You're better off listing some examples if you're actually aiming for a discussion and not just trolling.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 11:59 PM
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And break something of hers on your way out to show your disgust.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 08:44 PM
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Personally, I've still gotten mileage out of simply taking the no at face value, walking away and going and chatting up someone else. Much like is mentioned in Models, either you find a different girl who doesn't bullshit or she'll stop playing a game. Either way you've saved a bunch of time. I never agreed with feminism, but it clearly had an impact on me to a noticeable degree. It might be because it's supported by the law. That adds a whole new weight to it. Any guy with even marginal experie…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 08:44 PM
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Yeah, I remember picking up on how, outside of the bedroom, a no can often just mean "not right now/not yet". It shouldn't be ignored, but not taken as permanence.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 07:54 PM
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Sometimes I think guys should just start taking "no" extremely literally. "No, don't!" "Okay" Gets up, wipes brow, puts on clothes, drops mic on stage, walks out door, girl left with mouth hanging open in confusion.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 06:46 PM
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To make up for the lack of racial issues, I hear the UK has a much stronger class system. I get the impression they are much more conscious of what sort of background you come from, and also that some accents are more desirable than others. Perhaps IllimitableMan can corroborate.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 04:03 AM
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Hyrdoxymethyl, I just remembered you are gay. So I wanted to ask, legitimately, if you see the second quote as a common thing among men as well. Also, as a light defense of your source: the biggest problem with talking about psychology with us laymen is giving examples. Every example that's given will be participated in to some extent by everyone. A clinical psychologist, hopefully, is able to differentiate between the healthy amounts of narcissism present in everyone and a pervasive personality…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 12:27 AM
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I don't know about you, but I've seen more women be the perpetrators of your second quote.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 09:10 PM
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If you notice suspicious behavior, you act upon it immediately Women are always quoted as having "women's intuition" and it's true. But guys have a really good intuition as well. They're just constantly told to not listen to it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 06:55 PM
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Can't agree with this enough. Two more links: If you're interested in issues affecting men then here's a post by a FrenchFuck with a list of concerns and links. And here's a post by a seductress on a simple way you might be able to improve your relationships with the important guys in your life. May or may not apply to you depending on your general demeanor.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 05:07 AM
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OH MY GOD I JUST REALIZED HOW OLD I AM
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 02:31 AM
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... or, when the time calls for it, throwing fisticuffs if it means gaining the attention of that one woman who caught their eye. And that's when I knew she was fantasizing. When a woman is consistently left with the check and the burden of asking for a phone number, we have a problem. Apparently it's a burden. Go figure... She'd probably tell a guy who complained about it that it was necessary to create opportunities and open doors. A woman opening her own doors or creating her own opportunitie…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 02:29 AM
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There's no arguing with two-year-olds. A family is not and should not be a democracy. Obviously you should start treating your kids more like adults as they become such, but it's a huge mistake to do so prematurely I agree with you there. Just needed you to elaborate more.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 02:20 AM
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Lol and I suppose your explanations will be "Because I said so"? I agree that it's definitely important to be able to hold your ground on things that are important to you and household rules, but a kid is not a dog. It's someone who needs to be groomed into being capable of making judgement calls and decisions on their own. Take that kid who accidentally drove to school with a gun, went to the office to mention it and take it home, and then was suspended (expelled?) as a result. Something like t…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 11:53 PM
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Yeah, but I think it leads a lot of newbs to treat their next girl unnecessarily bad. I know I've been guilty of it. I think ideally it comes down to an internal self-talk along the lines of "She's definitely cool. I like cool girls. If it doesn't work out I'll find another cool girl... and probably younger." A sort of warm non-neediness.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 04:27 AM
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Would you look at that... Men so well-trained they actually make their wives cheat on them. Other than that I'd say it's probably related to how humiliating it can feel. A fetish much like BDSM or anything else, really. But that's just my best guess. Well how about that...
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 04:19 AM
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If there is one thing I wish I had never done it's take a teenage girl seriously.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 08:48 PM
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Do I shun relationships? Do I stay celibate forever? For now? Yeah, I'd say shun relationships. But just go get laid. As long as you're angry you won't develop any healthy relationships with the girls around you (no matter what the level of commitment). Eventually you'll stop being angry and that's when you'll be able to think about how to develop healthy relationships that are right for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 08:20 PM
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Reading through the Guy's perspective, it doesn't sound like he was "resorting to violence". It sounds more like it was a tense situation, she shoved him to get out him out of her way, and he responded by grabbing her. He probably wasn't even thinking something like, "How dare she shove me?" It was probably more like, "Why is she shoving me? I don't like being shoved." and just responded in a way that felt automatic. And then this girl only interpreted from her perspective and didn't bother to a…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 08:15 PM
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Haha sorry, I wasn't trying to speak about your quote specifically. I was speaking in generalizations. Like many of the women who come up in this sub and especially about the number of women in that specific example who seem to agree that they see themselves with a low self-value and how, apparently, being okay with someone who is available is some kind of epiphany.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 08:06 PM
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I don't want to turn this into a NAWALT thread because like dlareg says, there seems to be some hamstering going on. However, if we assume there's some legitimacy to the introspection then we get a view of people with potentially serious emotional and mental issues who deep down feel not-so-valuable and express it by rejecting honest expressions of interest, acting entitled despite a low sense of self-value, and other things. This is something I've been suspicious of for a couple years because: …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 07:57 PM
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Props to this commentor for the introspection and taking responsibility for herself. Raises the question a bit if many of the traits we see in girls are inherent or just learned. Also, make it an np link.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 03:39 PM
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You know, if the reasoning had just been the last two sentences I bought it for myself. Because I think I am fucking awesome. I would have been completely okay with that. But instead she's competing with her mom for some reason... talk about fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 03:33 PM
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Meanwhile, J's wife is posting the same question and redditors call for his head on a pike.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 05:31 PM
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Yeah, it wasn't prom. It was homecoming. And it's been a while since I was in high school, but I remember homecoming being fun without being a big deal.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 04:17 AM
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I can't say I'd be surprised, but jesus... That would just be the biggest "Fuck you" ever to literally millions, generations, of men.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 09:05 PM
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Sure, maybe I was never good enough for him. He never mentioned it. He also never gave it a chance. Here you admit the possibility of not being good enough, and then two sentences later absolve yourself of responsibility. And under your theory, there is never a chance. Because all men want varied tail all the time. I can't speak for other guys, but I personally have nothing against monogamy. I probably won't get married because of how one-sided marriage, divorce, and child custody laws have beco…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 03:03 PM
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Shock at the effort comes with the implication that there's something wrong with the effort. The guy is flying to another country for a week to be with a girl who he has no real intention of seeing again after it I'll be honest. It sounds like you're assuming what things are like between them. And there's no regard for him having his own thoughts and desires. What about seeing a new place with a cool personal tour guide? You paint a very one-dimensional picture of your ex.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 02:57 PM
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For example if I wanted something and played on someones emotions to get it, I may still do it, but I would feel bad. Your example involves one active party and one passive party. And you're assuming one person has emotions that the other is using. Why is this? Is it because you feel hurt? Something I've said to guys on this sub before is that you always have the right to feel whatever you want. At the same time, at the end of the day no one is responsible for your emotions but yourself.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 02:48 PM
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This question implicitly assumes the girl is passive in the whole process and the guy is the only one making choices/actions.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 05:48 AM
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You raise some good points. But what she says here is correct: It is easier to accept failure when you can blame outside sources. You don't need to internalise it then. And that's exactly what she's doing by claiming her ex has a mental illness. Easier to do that than admit she was lacking somehow. So I'd say there's definitely some projection going on as well :)
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 05:20 AM
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I lol'd
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 05:04 AM
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It blows my mind the amount of energy he puts into achieving a conquest Nice job subtly shaming him for being able to meet girls who aren't you.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 05:00 AM
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If anything I would say Robb's beta moment was when he beheaded that one guy who's troops left his army as a result. He was prodded into doing it by the old guy despite recommendations of wiser actions, worrying what people would think of him if he did not execute the guy. Robb was betrayed by both Greyjoy and Frey, so it's not necessarily appropriate to let their actions color your perception of his personality. If the betrayals concern you, then is there a redpill consensus on trust and negoti…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 01:08 AM
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Yes, I agree that unrealistic expectations often play into things these days. And that many girls get a by from people claiming it's the guy's fault for not making her happy.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 12:28 AM
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Well, there's something to be said for that advice. It's true that people often cheat because there's something they aren't getting in the current relationship. But this concept has been distorted in the bend-over-backwards-to-make-her-happy idealism. She's cheating because she's not getting pounded by a guy who turns her on. She's not getting that in the current relationship. And generally implying to the guy that "there's something he isn't giving her" is going to make him think about buying h…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:38 PM
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A dildo replicates a dick pretty well. Good point. And we can't forget about "technical virginity" either! "I've only been with 2 guys because 46 of them didn't count!"
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 06:00 AM
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That said, her giving you shit about having had sex with other girls isn't OK either. That part is in the original comment. The writer comes to the wrong conclusion, though, with her "focus on the relationship you have now" bullshit. I'd say at this point the relationship is obviously based around lies and shaming. End it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:52 AM
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It's generally pretty obvious whether it's a girl's first time or not... Some guys will believe anything. Or maybe she's just so terrible in bed they think she must be a virgin, despite other signs.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:48 AM
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I'm mildly surprised. The top comment has some rationalizations ("it only counts if it's meaningful") mixed with some actual decent advice ("her giving you shit about having sex with other girls is not okay"). So... good for that, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:46 AM
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Pickup is about results and self-improvement first and foremost. There is nothing inherently good or evil about that. To go with that, saying pickup is manipulative is similar to saying going to practice interviews so you can warm up for a possible job is manipulative. No, it's just knowing what the hell you're doing and saying. I'm going to give a pessimistic view and say that if it's already at a point where she's directing accusations at you, then this relationship will be ending in T-minus 1…
/r/seduction04/06/13 03:21 AM
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it's us - the men -who have to change (better version of ourselves, of course) Are we talking about making actual changes or just putting effort into looking good?
/r/seduction03/06/13 11:06 PM
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And just when I had almost had an entire day where I'd forgotten that women's unhappiness is entirely my fault. Rats.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 09:25 PM
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I've met plenty of girls who do shit like briefly meet some guy at a party and then facebook stalk him and keep tabs on him through friends (without ever actually contacting him) waiting for a chance to "run into" him again at some other social function and get a chance to chat and flirt. Or sit next to a guy with an iPod tilted just slightly toward his field of vision in the hopes that he'll look at it and start a conversation about her music. Or subtly gravitate toward you and your friends who…
/r/seduction03/06/13 08:59 PM
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The meanness of Option 1 really depends on context/attitudes. It could totally just be a ball-busting frame, which I love to have with girls. "Told ya" gentle nudge "Well it's hard to understand what you're saying when we're going 70 on the freeway with my dick in your mouth! 'This is your exit' sounds like 'Don't cum just yet' It comes out all gargley!" Incidentally, that's also how I destroy any semblance of being polite company.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 07:53 PM
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men want sex (and like sex) more than women. I disagree with you here. In my experience women seem to love sex. A lot. Perhaps they show it less due to either personal insecurities or social pressures, but get them in the bedroom and that often goes out the window.
/r/seduction03/06/13 07:18 PM
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Haha it's weird, but let's back up for a sec: First, by coming here and participating in the community you obviously care to some degree what women want. When guys tell you not to care what women want the way you should really try to interpret it is "Know that you already got what women want and don't be fooled when they try to convince you otherwise." Next, by participating in this community you are also agreeing to at least some degree that men and women process things differently and are ther…
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:20 PM
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There is a lot of writing related to this in the so-called "Manosphere". And it varies from source to source. There are things like this over on /r/fpua as well as lengthier articles like this one. From what I've read (you're welcome to explore a bit and come to your own conclusions) the consensus seems to be that a lot of women are in this gray area between not caring what men want and not having any idea a lot of the things they do actually push men away.
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:03 PM
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But when I use that smart, outspoken bad-assery to challenge their own perspectives, it’s suddenly not sexy at all. It happens when they say something that I disagree with, and I act like a person and not someone that is playing out their particular fantasies. What she probably means is she disagrees with them, insists they change something about themselves, and never let's it go. Because like so many of the posts we see from women on reddit, she can't fathom or tolerate a guy who thinks somethi…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:17 PM
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Agreed. They're trying to cockblock him by getting inside his head and ruining the flow of the interaction.
/r/seduction03/06/13 02:42 AM
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Wait... women still feel love? Anyway, this is a tough one and I like a challenge. As well as failing every now and again. I'd say support him in ways that push him toward doing what he did just before the marriage? That nice little area where there's commitment but he's not owned, branded, and castrated.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 02:05 AM
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Not to defend the friend, because it doesn't sound like he had good intentions at heart, but you probably could have told this guy he had this girl on a pedestal and he never would have listened until he found out she'd actually slept with someone other than him at some point in her life. The story is also so poorly written it's hard to say if she's a shitry person or the guy was just creating some ideal romantic fantasy in his head.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:09 PM
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I'm 6'1 and and I can do pretty much nothing and any girl under 5'5 will not only throw herself at me, but think it's her fault the interaction is boring. Pathetic is not a word I use often, but this is definitely pathetic. So yeah, girls find a retarded amount of value in height. Even when you show them none. And I imagine this is how a girl feels when guys bend over backward to have a conversation just because she's cute.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 02:40 AM
3

At least other people went off on her. I think that's more than most people here would expect.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 01:21 AM
6

Does every example involve the word "fag"? If so they have an even more one-dimensional view of men than we do of women. ... Also, if you changed the first example to two women discussing whether some guy was checking out a girl's ass it's obvious the appropriate answer would be "HE TOTALLY WAS! SEXISM! DON'T TELL ME 'Who cares? His sexual orientation is none of my business' BECAUSE MYSOGINY!!!!! 1"
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 01:17 AM
13

This turned out to be more interesting to read than I thought it would be. I'm going to start out with a hardball question though: Do you have an air-tight prenup?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 02:08 AM
9

You just made me a better redditor for intriguing me to look up "/s".
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 01:05 AM
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Notice how she talks about getting him to see her point of view, but completely disregards his.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 11:04 PM
6

No, they don't. And to give them a little defense - they probably believe feminism is about equality. And that's fine, but here and MRA we get the distinct impression that feminism is about lots of rights with no responsibilities.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 11:02 PM
1

Better start sucking some bear dicks Going to be shamelessly stealing that in the future.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 08:10 PM
67

but will likely only bring a middle-class income at best This is what the world is coming to. Also, does this mean I can rule out women by claiming they're not attractive enough for my income level? I'd love to see the look on this woman's face if a guy said, "Sorry honey, my income means I deserve a girl who's less ugly."
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 07:29 PM
2

Step 1: Open purse. Step 2: Remove balls. Step 3: ???? Step 4: Profit!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 05:46 PM
18

Right. Vilar wrote women never actually believe the shit they preach. They just use it to get what they want.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 05:42 PM
4

I should have elaborated: According to the link it's not "even some men", it's fairly close to equal. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, 22% of all men in the Congo, compared with 30% of women, have experienced sexual violence as a weapon of war. Considering the higher rates of general violent victimization of noncombatant men and boys in conflicts like that in the Congo (at least 2 to 1), the numbers of men who experienced sexual violence before being killed by their …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 02:34 AM
4

You're missing something about the Congo. The men get raped a lot too and, of course, get shunned and ignored for it.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 02:16 AM
11

The metaphor is bullshit. As someone in tech and who is willing to discuss science in front of women I can sum up what actually happens in a conversation snippet: "Ugh! If you guys keep talking about math I'm just going to leave!" "Kbyyeeeeee!" But of course I'm responsible for the choices of hordes of stupid bitches.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 02:04 AM
6

I never want to go further but I have major issues with guilt so I just allow things to progress. I guess it's a self-esteem issue and not wanting to be viewed negatively as a blue-baller but I also don't want to be viewed as a slut. To disagree with everyone a little - what I'm reading in the original post is a girl who's feeling shame for her actions as well as observing potential negative consequences of both her current actions and if she were to stop her current actions. (How often do guys …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 08:49 PM
2

I'd say you can share fears and insecurities. But just the ones you have under control.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 08:16 PM
5

Hey, bro. You always have the right to feels whatever you feels. Don't let nobody tell you otherwise. Emotions are completely normal even if you're a guy. The downside is they're also no one's responsibility but yours and it's important to find healthy ways to handle the tough ones. Unfortunately, guys usually have to find this out the hard way and girls never do :/
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 08:10 PM
4

To disagree a little with LogicalExtreme, despite the fact that he is surely a gentleman and a scholar, there is a certain zen mentality where you can care about someone and that they're happy and, at the same time, not give a shit. Tough thing to achieve though and it doesn't sound like you have it. Maybe a goal to look forward to in the future?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 08:09 PM
3

Solid advice. I just want to add some minor details like don't go for that awkward good-to-see-you-again hug. Just stand straight and if she goes for it then reciprocate. Also the funny thing is this is the mentality most likely to give you a chance to fuck her and not call her again. Or fuck her and then explain to her that you love her, but you're not in love with her and what you had was really great but the past is the past and you intend to cherish it forever - if you're feeling vindictive.…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 07:57 PM
2

You tell me. I tried to write my post representative of my concerns and thoughts about stuff without explicitly telling mal1291 what to think ;) I've read about the lack of own-group preference in men before. One of the questions I find curious about it is if it is inherent in men, or if it's a result of men being constantly told we're, by nature, abusive/rapey/whatever.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 05:45 PM
6

The tone of your writing does not suggest a lack of stress on your part. If anything you sound like you're about one broken plastic fork at a picnic away from a 'roid rage.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/13 06:00 AM
2

Touché!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/13 03:00 AM
5

Or drunk. I've woken up next to a landbeast or two that I don't remember ever meeting in my time.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/13 02:30 AM
6

Eh. A little of column A; a little of column B.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 11:51 PM
13

Agreed. A bunch of whining betas that want to be treated as equal victims as woman. Part of the point of MRA's is that they see a society that refuses to acknowledge that men are just as likely to be victims as women. And by shrugging them off as a bunch of whiners you inadvertently prove their point. Mensrights tends to talk about actual grievances while feminism by-and-large is founded on a fantasy of constant and past oppression. Not to mention most of the feminist articles I come across tend…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 10:49 PM
2

They deserve the same opportunities and to be judged by merit. I think a lot of guys here agree with you on this (and many don't, not a big deal). I also think a lot of those guys would say that they see women being judged positively for simply being women, and not on merit. Now this happens to people of all shapes, sizes, and genders every day. Sometimes you just get ahead for something stupid. But it creates a question as a result: Are women as an entire group being judged positively simply fo…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 02:17 AM
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Or maybe I didn't enjoy it. Maybe I've just been conditioned to be satisfied with intelligent conversation while suppressing my innate urge to bend the girl over the table and fuck her. And that the only reason I sit there complacently and listen to what she has to say is because I'VE BEEN LIED TO ALL MY LIFE OH MY GOD I TOTALLY GET IT NOW I'VE SEEN THE LIGHT! The snarkiness made me lol. And I'm late to the party so I'll settle for just giving your props on igniting a quality discussion.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 02:09 AM
3

I think a lot of problems would be solved by people just considering the quality of a source. For example, I've heard that "women have a 1/5 chance of being raped in their lifetime" ever since I was probably 14 years old. And I cannot figure out where that statistic came from. I see a bunch of sources making that claim, and then citing each other in circles with no clear way to trace back to the original study which would (hopefully) show the math involved in that prediction. It's like a statist…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 10:16 PM
3

This is what happens when you get a free ride through college to get a Bachelor of Arts degree.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 10:11 PM
7

Yeah this article is re-purposing a lot of statements in weird ways. "Most of America's prosperity was created using only about 50% of it's talent - the men." So... men kick fucking ass... And comparing men stopping working with women stopping shopping makes no sense. It might be better to try to compare men stopping something like watching, gambling over, and funding sports to women not shopping... Nowadays it is completely normal for a woman to have a flourishing career and still manage to rai…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 10:06 PM
1

Haven't you wondered how comments and threads still manage to accrue downvotes? I won't flat out say how but there is still a way. And it takes a very obnoxious sort of person to bother...
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 01:16 AM
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I like how she tried to add dash of hope at the end but instead the whole piece ended up coming off as self-righteous. I wonder if she secretly thinks of herself as a martyr...
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 12:05 AM
6

At this point I think inner game has come down to a few things: The old adage of learning to take rejection gracefully Learning how to handle shame, as well as the difference between shame and guilt because we live in a society that's addicted to shaming others. Abundance mentality/outcome independence
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 11:46 PM
2

Nah, there's probably just a little downvote brigade going on. Everyone else is 0 or in the negatives.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 11:43 PM
3

I think it's important to look at how he interpreted "daddy issues". I'm not sure if he chose to interpret it this way or if it was the person he was discussing it with, but they're basically discussing daddy role-playing, having a daddy fetish, or just generally dating old(er) guys as an indication of daddy issues. And I would agree with his end argument that this isn't bad and part of it is an important facet of a guy's role in life. That said, I do think girls can have daddy issues. This isn'…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 06:30 PM
2

Why? Virgins are terrible in bed. Just... terrible...
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 08:47 PM
11

Hey Champ, I think you wandered into the wrong sub by accident.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 09:26 PM
6

The third paragraph sums up what society is dealing with. I'll give her credit: aside from the pointless mental masturbation about TV and current books she does an alright job of taking an honest look at how she thinks and why that might be. The major thing she doesn't do is just straight up come out and say, "I only think of it as 'settling' because I was an overly-entitled asshole."
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 07:34 PM
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Yes, and if you read Esther Vilar she touches on this in her book. I'm pretty sure her book is recommended reading #1 on this sub, so you might want to go check it out. On the devil's advocate side of things: having some beta traits isn't bad and is probably necessary to have long-lasting relationships (if that's what you desire). Obviously having your entire life run by someone else is not ideal. Your army friend probably buys into all the rom-com b.s. and who can blame him? Hardly anyone tells…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 07:06 PM
4

Medium rare.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 02:37 AM
22

TIL people call /r/mensrights douchebags. I mean I get why TRP makes people uncomfortable but apparently it's wrong to care about issues affecting men.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 07:39 PM
5

It sucks to get called misogynistic when you haven't done anything wrong, so just ignore those women. That said - it sucks being new. And getting yelled at is not a good start at a new place for anyone. Has it occurred to you to throw in some explicit validation along with the criticisms? "Hey, you're kicking ass with those 3 am surgeries. At the same time, you GOTTA remember to let the senior surgeon know or you'll get into deep shit." You being right isnt the only thing that matters in interpe…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 07:20 PM
3

I really hope this is satire. Please tell me it's satire. Still, even if it is satire, if the genders were reversed the world would be all over that shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 07:05 PM
4

Even in The Game Neil wrote a bit about how he started using the stuff he learned in work, interviews, and day-to-day life. It's been known for a long time that this stuff works on people, but like any self-improvement product it needed a hook. So people cut through all the politically correct bullshit and focused it on what got the most interest from men: women and sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 05:10 PM
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My experience is that in order to be friends with girls they need to be raised right, be pretty, and you need to honestly have no desire to put your dick in them. The two girls I'm really great friends with fill those categories. They never ask me for any big favors without immediately offering me something in return. They don't whine for validation from me. They never try to cockblock me (although they aren't the greatest wing-women either). I've tried being friends with other girls in the past…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 08:13 PM
4

Yep. And then these girls enter adulthood lacking an important skill set to make them good partners just like men do. Well... men learn about being good partners as far as provider, but not overall.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 09:22 PM
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Honestly, I think deep down the majority of women want to be. The more I meet girls who aren't man-hating or generally complete assholes the more I notice that a lot of girls believe the same stuff that fooled us for the same reasons: it's what they've been told their whole life. And under it all they have this little tick in the back of their mind that something is off and they can't quite place what it is...
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 08:53 PM
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I love the post, but I disagree on some of the corollaries. Particularly the narcissist. Narcissists are really only confident as long as they have narcissistic supply and a sense of control over how they are perceived by others. When those things come crashing down they often go through an experience that feels very much like death. I get the relevant relation of a narcissist to the dark triad, but I think it's important to keep in mind that in many ways a narcissist is like an exaggeration of …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 02:03 AM
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I liked the redditor claiming "this isnt how satire works". I wonder if they ever heard of A Modest Proposal.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 10:55 PM
3

Hey slugger, I appreciate you taking the time to respond. I already had a discussion about false accusers that you can jump to here. So I'm going to refer to the other part of my comment: Unless it happened quite a while ago, she's probably not in a place to be a good partner. This isn't to suggest that there's something wrong with her as a person. It's recognizing that she's a human being and how experiencing rape tends to cause deep emotional trauma that can negatively impact future relationsh…
/r/seduction08/05/13 04:28 AM
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That's some serious entitlement. And the advice given to her was just horrible. At the same time, these parts: I, on the other hand, have a struggling business that I am working hard to grow. ... I'm laboring so hard! Make me think she might just need some verbal validation that she's working her ass off as much as he is. You'd be surprised how a little of that can go a long way.
/r/askTRP08/05/13 12:26 AM
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No, champ. I getcha. Being sympathetic to others is a good thing. And it's completely necessary in order to form healthy, lasting relationships. But personal safety comes first. And nowhere did I advise that he assume she's lying. My advice was to maintain a safe, comfortable distance. I think you might be a little too high on your soap box to recognize measured advice when it's given. People tend to get light-headed in that thinner air.
/r/seduction07/05/13 05:08 PM
7

No, the worst case scenario for him is she made a false accusation. That makes her an explicit danger to him. Which is safer to be around: an abused sheep or a wolf in sheeps clothing?
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:43 PM
1

Ah, gotcha
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 04:33 PM
3

Honestly I dont quite see how this changes anything. A woman claims to be raped and the guy automatically loses any custody, but keeps paying money, until proven innocent. I thought this was already the status quo? I think they're running out of shit to feel oppressed by and the result is redundant laws.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 02:43 PM
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I find it interesting that they felt the need to put "powerless" in quotations. Oh, right, because men are never really victims.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 02:29 PM
3

I actually just had a discussion about that here
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:11 AM
9

My advice would be friendzone her or run. Unless it happened quite a while ago, she's probably not in a place to be a good partner. And the worst case scenario is she made a false accusation, in which case you never want to be near her.
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:08 AM
3

It sounds like your relationship is exactly the way it should be. So how about you don't go and fucking ruin it for both of you.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 05:18 AM
3

Do you have any links for dread game? I've seen it mentioned a few times, but haven't come across a description.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 11:03 PM
6

Have you seen the graph I posted before on what success looks like? It sounds like something out of your control happened and sent you back a few steps. Totally understandable. But now you're trying to avoid negative outcomes again by not flirting. You gotta stick with it, look for your motivation to throw yourself back into the game and get back to spreading legs and breaking hearts. Also, have you considered investing in some self-defense classes? They would build your confidence, be a DHV, an…
/r/seduction05/05/13 10:43 PM
14

So... are all of these your number 1 rule or was that an accident? I liked it, though.
/r/seduction01/05/13 10:25 PM
7

"Dear women, if you don't vote for our laws that may or may not fix global climate change... well... you might look like whores. And you don't want people to think you're whores, do you?"
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 10:16 PM
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Truest one on there and completely unintentional.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 01:12 AM
11

the more you get fucked. He's new so you may want to emphasize that it's not getting fucked in the way we like.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 11:29 PM
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that a man wants a chase. But I also find posts from men wondering why women never make the first move. So which is it? The world has made it pretty damn clear that participating in any chasing ends with men going to jail. A lot of the guys with the best game will promptly end pursuit after an outright "No" or one or two ignored text messages. It simply isn't worth it, so nothing will happen again unless you search him out and consciously get things going again. Not to mention that the majority …
/r/seduction30/04/13 05:50 AM
34

That this is the truest graph you'll ever see.
/r/seduction28/04/13 02:46 AM
7

Have you tried the Build-a-Boy Workshop? Are you expecting to find out that you can pick up your own special mass-produced Alpha to talk to like a real boy in aisle 6 next to a little black dress and power heels? Any resource a guy will find on here about meeting women will only suggest locations he can meet women - never anything about the women there. Because you don't know what a person is like until you interact with them, so sometimes you have to sort through a lot of shit. This is pickup 1…
/r/seduction26/04/13 09:54 PM
13

If you read Vilar then the suggested reason is to get the attention of other women.
/r/MensRights26/04/13 06:56 PM
7

Maybe better than a bar. But not better than a concert and a bar. You could head to the bar before the concert and get amped up. Or head to the bar after the concert, already amped and conversing about your favorite parts of the show. Plus you enjoy the benefits of whatever that term is for when you bounce to several places on one date. It makes it seem like you've spent more time together than you have.
/r/seduction24/04/13 11:25 PM
3

I agree with this guy. You gave great advice, but you hurt egos in the process. Here's a revised version of what you wrote that might have garnered upvotes. You'll notice I basically just removed any sentence where you said "no" or "wrong": you're going to get a girl's number Remember that getting a number should be a last resort. It'll make further roads to go for the insta-date rather than waste a bunch of time with the phone game in any form. "Let's grab coffee/lunch and we can actually talk …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 06:47 PM
5

Have an upvote for being the only person to give actual advice.
/r/seduction22/04/13 04:04 AM
5

Go loiter in a park after 9 pm with one beer that you have to share between five of you, but none of you can open because it's not a twist-off and no one has a bottle opener.
/r/seduction22/04/13 03:27 AM
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The gym isn't the only hobby that makes you a manly-man. Get another one. While you're waiting for the next episode of Game of Thrones to go up pirate Rosetta Stone and teach yourself a language you've always been interested in, practice an instrument, paint a stick-figure masterpiece, or even just go out to a movie alone rather than sit at your laptop clicking the mouse non-stop for thirty minutes straight playing LoL. A lot of people who go out and party every night don't just do it for the so…
/r/seduction22/04/13 02:50 AM
9

I don't know why everyone is calling this girl a bitch. Without actually being present at the interaction it's hard to say if she was serious or joking. And there's an easy way to find out: ask. "Jesus!" to german girl "Are you like her only friend?!" You'll get some response about no that's just her sense of humor or whatever and then you can just blather on about terrible first impressions. Maybe tell a story about a time you made a terrible first impression to re-lighten the mood. [edit: adde…
/r/seduction21/04/13 06:33 AM
4

Assuming that a.) you're getting these girls to a mood where they want to head out with you and b.) they know you're in the military, then they probably expect you to have more rules to follow than the average fellow. I would just casually say that you can't go back to your place because they actually check to make sure no guests are there. And even though you love being naughty, you don't want to do 100 pushups at 4 am. If the sexual tension is high and she doesn't want to do her place then go …
/r/seduction18/04/13 11:21 PM
6

It sounds like you've internalized that you feel better when you keep healthy habits, and that's really a good thing! Besides that, it's important to disconnect how you feel about something you're (not) doing from how you feel about yourself as a person. There was an article on here recently about shame, guilt, and confidence. It might help to read that. Other than that I think an ideal internal conversation with yourself would go something like "I'm not hitting the gym right now. I hate that I'…
/r/seduction18/04/13 11:13 PM
5

I agree with this. Alternatively: Just get dirty in the bushes. Srsly
/r/seduction17/04/13 05:14 PM
17

I drink before I go out drinking.
/r/seduction17/04/13 12:50 AM
14

If she's actually cute then I bang her again in the morning and trade numbers. If it's one of those nights where I go out, drink tequila, yell nonsensical shit at strangers who could easily put me in the hospital, and then wake up next to some landbeast: I usually start with "Who the hell are you?" and roll into wondering how I even managed to have sex considering my alcohol content and what jokes I already made about stampedes. tl;dr - Do what you want and have no shame. Especially if you're in…
/r/seduction16/04/13 05:11 AM
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