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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | The Scrotation PlaylistI also stan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 05:54 AM |
| 11 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childDrop the link sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:28 PM |
| 197 | Misogyny at its finest. I chortled.Tbh I see no point in trying to correct men like this anymore. I have reached my limit. They are grown and can handle the consequences of their own actions. Even if they arent, thats not my problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 09:40 PM |
| 36 | Cautionary tale - a man will literally take your kidney and cheat on you with no remorseNo one on this earth is getting my organs, ESPECIALLY not "my man." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 206 | Even in Imperial Russia, where women had to get married, community dick and age gap relationships were avoided.18 year old* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 11:00 PM |
| 61 | literallyThis was half of my hometown on the regular before I deleted social media for good. Guess I havent missed out on much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 10:30 PM |
| 6 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beIm glad Im an INTP because at least the people in there admit theyre professional dumb@sses. INTJ is a whole other level of headache...that J really brings on a haughty attitude and that r /iamverysmart vibes... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 06:45 AM |
| 24 | Man hides 14 y/o daughter from fiancé for the entire duration of the relationship. Either he was trying to have two separate families ,or he was trying to trap her into supporting the daughter. Something malicious is at play.Oh yeah. I saw a guy a few years back and then a month in he brings up a kid. I knew him for an entire year before and it took that long to mention a kid. I was 23. The kid was about 6 or 7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 03:39 AM |
| 118 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?There was a post on a popular subreddit about the point you made in the bottom paragraph. The men were calling the woman a monster because he wouldn't finish and she didn't want to lay there forever and wait for him. Bizarre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 03:56 AM |
| 5 | Rewatching Friends and realizing sweet, funny Joey is actually T.E.R.R.I.B.L.E.I thought the point of Frasier was to show how the brothers are in psych but refuse to take accountability of their actions. Blaming ex wives instead of themselves, Maris being overdramatic 24/7, Ros being a "slut," Daphne being a dream girl, Martin and Eddy being lower class and slobby (though it's really the brothers being snobby). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 06:29 PM |
| 9 | When he says you're out of his league... time for you to tell him bye.Did they say it in front of him too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:46 AM |
| 9 | So I'm deleting my Facebook. A strategy?Deleting social media was a g0dsend to me. I was in therapy for numerous years for anxiety and depression. I deleted facebook after a bad breakup and graduated therapy mere months after. I let people get too involved in my life and I cared too much about what other people thought of me. At the end of the day, I have less than 30 contacts on my phone, about 15 of those business or work contacts. My social life is completely revamped to people who love and care about me- people who aren't using me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:21 PM |
| 24 | This is what reproducing with a LVM looks like. She says she paid for everything her last pregnancy (getting by on her savings) and that he won't let her be a SAHM even though her whole salary goes towards childcare.I can agree with this. Maybe Im just not ready to be in a marriage, but I worked entirely too hard to get my money right to have to share it all with some guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 10:15 AM |
| 24 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Already accepted an engagement once with no ring- it lasted 5 days for a reason. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodI got 17.8%, or "down to earth." Any race, 23-35, any weight, my height or taller (5'4"), and makes at least 50k a year. I just feel like my preferences lie in different things. Is he obese and trying to lose weight or does he not care? How is his hygiene? How does he treat wait staff? What are his passions? There are excellent men out there who work in teaching or social work. There are men in my age group who could be in grad/medical school. You can make $200k a year and be bad with money, or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 08:38 PM |
| 16 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.Theyre $1k a month where I live 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:27 AM |
| 7 | How long did it take you to stop randomly cringing during the day while remembering past pickme behavior?YES! I agree with this. Thinking of what you did in the past should only make you more proud of the woman you are today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 07:58 AM |
| 30 | As of October 2020, 55% of men say they are satisfied with household labor division, compared with 38% of women. 74% of mothers say they do more to manage their children’s schedules and activities than their spouse or partner; only 3% say their husband does more of this.Gen Z here. This is why Im choosing the first option. I get money and I dont have to deal with the wildly unbalanced division of labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 16 | Working on Leveling up and I’m on my financial goals right now. This woman has been a huge help and I cannot express how great it is to see women reaching their goals and sharing their success secrets with other women. Share and grow together and one day we will rule the world;)I see so much of myself in this comment. I love hearing about another queen succeeding financially. I love hearing you using money to worry about yourself first and foremost. This is why money equates to success! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:01 PM |
| 5 | WHICH ONE OF YOU QUEENS DIVORCED THIS LVM LMAOI mean this in the least nitpicky way possible, but Staph can't grow on a MAC plate. Your comment did make me laugh tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Thank you FDS, I am finally emotionally freed from my ex!This is so inspiring to hear. I am happy you found peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 15 | I'm tired of hearing men complain about how they're expected to "perform" in the bedroom.This is my ex to a T. The sex was good and considerate for a while. Then he stopped foreplay and made me 100% for my own orgasm, meaning if I didn't give MYSELF foreplay during him shoving it in dry for PIV, I didn't get off. And yes, I would barely get off in the second half of that relationship. Once I brought up the idea of more foreplay, we suddenly didn't have sex AT ALL. I would be lucky for once every 3 weeks of mediocre sex with him finishing in 1 minute or less. Now lets observe. He wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:27 AM |
| 12 | FDS QueenTo put it nicely, it's a company that is against everything FDS stands for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:57 PM |
| 3 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"Statistically, yes. I'm not going to tell you about how women carry weight differently so on and so forth, because I trust you did your research. You are absolutely allowed to have your preferences- just know that women who fit your criteria have just as much of a right to pass on you for not fitting theirs. EDIT: I wanted to add that I don't even think it is a bad thing to advertise what you want blatantly. You can weed out overweight girls (which you want) and the skinny girls who think you ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 38 | FDS QueenBarstool sports Im HOLLERING 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.hashtag kickhimout2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 08:23 PM |
| 4 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)You are AMAZING! Get that dolla! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:45 AM |
| 2 | NVM stands up forever girlfriend at their wedding and is elated when she says she will never bring up marriage again. Calls her "wife" in public to continue to rub salt into her wounds.That was probably the grossest part of the post for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:27 AM |
| 2 | what are you proud of?Thank you so much ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:54 PM |
| 12 | what are you proud of?What am I proud of today? My depression has been kicking my @ss. One of my cabinets wouldnt close and maple syrup fell out and went floor to ceiling in my kitchen. I deep cleaned my kitchen and my bathroom! In general, Im proud of building an environment of comfort and stability with the ability to work on art and cooking yummy food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:40 PM |
| 3 | what are you proud of?Congrats sis! I wish I could have the opportunity to do art like you. Im big into FIRE. Lmk if you wanna bounce ideas off each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually?6. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | It was my birthday yesterday. Treated myself by making a romantic red velvet cake from scratch😊 it was a quarantine birthday but being self-partnered was the best thing that could have happened.GIRL, thats amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:18 PM |
| 83 | “If he wanted to, he would”... what matters is he didn’t! Who cares! Keep doing you!!This is so freaking refreshing to hear. What a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 04:20 PM |
| 20 | Wife benefits vs girlfriend benefitsWife benefits: Owning property together, having children together, added to legal/medical paperwork, co-mingling finances, meeting my loved ones, accommodating you in everyday life Girlfriend benefits: Mutual (and conditional) love and respect, meeting your loved ones, accommodating you in my free time, sexual exclusivity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 3 | 3 Quality Traits Most Important to You in A HVMLoyal, Hard-Working, Attentive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:45 AM |
| 5 | Women have the stereotype of being needy and clingy whereas I keep meeting men that are needy and clingyI feel personally attacked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 4 | This is why I don't even date.Weird to say, but I havent been in a relationship with someone who says physical touch. I always hear quality time (and they actually don't try anything!!!) Normal men on the street are different Im sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 13 | How do you ladies feel about being told you are "intelligent" or "competent" by a male colleague or superior? I always took it as a compliment, then I realized I've NEVER heard that said man-to-man. As if it's assumed, and intelligent women are unicorns...?I find the opposite to be true in my field. Women are much more patronizing towards me. Outside of my field, I cannot stand when people call me these things. I am an academic at heart. A simple google search of me will only result in information about my intelligence. Once men find out, they love putting me on that "not like other girls" pedestal, which I find extremely annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Another oneStuff like this is the reason why I don't date men who use apps like instagram and snapchat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:48 PM |
| 11 | Elite vibes 👸Queen energy all around! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 8 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!Ah yes, I forgot "marriageable women" meant women young and dumb enough for you to still be able tear apart their self-esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 01:10 PM |
| 21 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.This is a blessing in disguise. It took 2 months, but he finally gave you a sign that he's trash. As soon as you told him he was trash, he took himself out! Block and delete so the garbage doesn't end back up on your doorstep. 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:46 AM |
| 3 | HVM Sexual behaviorAre BDSM and kink interchangeable terms? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:27 AM |
| 3 | “Why dont you try online dating?” The guys on dating appsWhy does he look like Justin Bieber? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:32 AM |
| 1 | These pickup artists are literally teaching men to be emotionally manipulative and to disregard boundaries. There is no reason to be kind to someone in a movement that works so hard to blatantly disrespect you. Leave, block, and delete!My friend actually sent me this screenshot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 08:00 AM |
| 9 | Maybe means no. Men will move mountains if you're important to them. Don't settle.His smile is so radiant! I think it's fitting for his HVM personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:47 AM |
| 10 | LVM prefer forever-gfs over being single!I can highly relate to this. 9 months is the sweet spot for me. People give me the nickname of black widow because if this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:41 PM |
| 21 | I saw this today and thought about you ladies. How many of you have heard one or all of these lame excuses? I know I have many times over.Wowowowow I thought the viking part was a one off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:14 AM |
| 1 | This woman is so deep in the fog. What can we do to help?Please let us know if you need anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:19 PM |
| 16 | These pickup artists are literally teaching men to be emotionally manipulative and to disregard boundaries. There is no reason to be kind to someone in a movement that works so hard to blatantly disrespect you. Leave, block, and delete!Thank you for sharing your story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:11 PM |
| 7 | I LOVE seeing women looking out for each other elsewhere on redditWhat sub is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Im assuming you consider yourself unattractive because your past paragraph. If you think your looks are subpar, what are you doing to get women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Men are insecure because they are falling behind. In reality, men had security and their ego stroked when they knew women were behind them. Most women were taught how to run a house and be pretty. Men made the money and did jack shit when they got home. Then women went to work and/or got an education. They moved forward and learned how to work and balance finances like a man, but run the house and look pretty like a woman. Men are threatened by this- they are moving backwards because they don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 03:45 PM |
| 10 | The scrotacity 🤦♀️My friend's grandfather did taxes as a side gig, and that man wasn't smart with his words at all. He was great at math tho. Then again, he had a wife for 20 something years and wasn't trying to prey on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:40 AM |
| 18 | I never want to hear “you deserve better” from a man again.When my ex's parents first met me, THEY THANKED ME FOR DATING HIM RIGHT IN FROM OF HIM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:16 AM |
| 55 | The audacity. THE AUDACITY!With a side of the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:06 PM |
| 10 | I AM CRYING 😭😭😭💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 08:47 AM |
| 12 | This reeks of NVMHe's definitely going to use that as blackmail to get her to see him and rope her back in. Sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:09 PM |
| 9 | Don’t stay with a guy like this even if he apologises. This is really sad, and this girl is deluding herself.My worst moment was staying with an ex like this. He dumped me a few months later to get his Lolita, struck out, and is bothering me all the time again. My partner and I find his antics funny. (I can't block and delete because he got a promotion and is now my supervisor.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:04 AM |
| 21 | Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄They are doing a week without mods. Unfortunately, the incels are coming out of the woodwork. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | What to do if your ex threatens to kill himselfThank you for the thoughts. I really do appreciate it. I have some coworkers that will help me get through. This place is really toxic overall and I cannot wait for my contract to end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:27 AM |
| 2 | What to do if your ex threatens to kill himselfNot really to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:48 PM |
| 4 | What to do if your ex threatens to kill himselfI really should. P.S. I love your username! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | What to do if your ex threatens to kill himselfThankfully, he is one of 4 people I work with in that position so I see him 1/4 of the time. Reporting him is a very tricky and slippery slope for me because of reasons I would rather not mention on this thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 36 | What to do if your ex threatens to kill himselfOh my god. Where was this post 12 hours ago? I actually had this happen yesterday with a coworker who is in love with me, but is not my ex. I thought we were friends at one point, but he got very ballsy and came up with this HUGE V-day spread at work and told me to not tell anyone. Fat chance. We were communicating at work yesterday and he seemed off. When we got home from work in the morning (we work nights), he sent me a picture with a gun to his head saying "I pretty sure this makes you happy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:31 AM |
| 9 | Why are you a queen?I am a queen because: I am self sufficient. I have lived alone and worked multiple jobs to pay my bills since 17. I am intelligent. I obtained over $200k in scholarships and was #2 in my class of over 700. I am a first generation college graduate. I lived in a poor area with wildly high rates of teenage pregnancy, gangs, drugs, and police brutality. I did not succumb to failure because the cards were stacked against me. I am resilient. I dealt with all of the above while watching both of my pare… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:39 AM |
| 8 | A satirical tweet that's much more real than it seems; take care of yourself first and foremost, ladies!Omg I also posted that 3 days ago! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Experiences With Selfish Men?Omg. Did we date the same guy??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 07:11 PM |
| 10 | I never thought the sleep apnea subreddit would become relevant to FDS but here we are 🤦🏻♀️"But muh DICK!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:00 PM |
| 15 | I never thought the sleep apnea subreddit would become relevant to FDS but here we are 🤦🏻♀️I work in the lab, so I dont experience patient care. Outside staff see me to pick up blood products on occasion, but that's the extent of interaction. I work nights with almost all men and I have lab techs, OR techs, phlebotomists, security guards, A FREAKING NURSING SUPERVISOR, my superiors in my space constantly. Male depravity knows no bounds. Dick jokes, inappropriate questions, asking me out to dinner, winky face emojis on written communication, coming into a biohazardous area to give me c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:59 PM |
| 40 | Sexism and misogyny of "How I met your mother"Ross is hot garbage, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:02 AM |
| 16 | Very important for those that don't feel "good enough"Theres 0 reason to attack me like this. Hoo child. 🥵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 03:54 AM |
| 53 | Looking for a New Year's Resolution? Here ya go!Ive used these consistently with wild success rates. Do people think Im a bitch? Definitely. At the end of the day, their convenience shouldn't sacrifice my comfort and safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Actually an advice for the whole 2020!ugh... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 09:29 PM |
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