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pokinthecrazy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:55 PM
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So if you go below the surface, this is an interesting question. This guy was NEVER HV - but he could appear HV, I guess. But he is clearly an asshole if he doesn't even worry about raising his kid. And life circumstances just conspired to let everyone know what a LVM he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:20 AM
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What? So he can't buy you dinner but you're supposed to supply him with dinner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:07 AM
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I'd be afraid he would want you to pay for the chocolates and wine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:04 AM
3

What the fuck are these guys thinking? Do they think you'd actually care about their opinions? Do they think you're going to try and prove you're actually nice by replying to them? Are they expecting you to say "OMG - I have seen the error of my ways. Quick! Get your dick out!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:59 AM
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Strangling? Errr. That is a big predictor in men who eventually kill their SOs. She should be scared shitless. Hope she comes to her senses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:57 AM
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“Helping around the house” - like they don’t fucking live there too. Like we all know that housework really belongs to the woman but these absolute princes will do a load of laundry and take out the trash once in a while so of course they deserve thrice daily blowjobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:17 PM
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An engagement means you are ready to get married but need to plan the wedding you want to have and wait for the venue to be ready. If you’re not preparing an actual wedding, you’re not engaged. I don;t give a fuck if you have a ring or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:17 AM
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Take a look at some of the executives. Some are very nice looking. Some are not. I am serious about this. They ALL look very put together. So that is what you need to do. The nicest dark suit that you can afford. The nicest pumps that you can afford (I know there is an exec in asset management who has a rule that no toes or heels can be visible in work shoes). Some subdued make-up. A neat and professional hairstyle. Understated jewelry. ​ And practice case interviews. Practice answering question…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 09:51 PM
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Fuck yeah! Go you!! I am so glad you are done with emotionally abusive assholes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:20 AM
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Why do you think you won’t get it? Obviously you have the credentials or they wouldn’t even be interviewing you. Take some cold meds, explain briefly that you have a cold and then blow them out of the water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:13 AM
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A date was always the plan? It's fucking dinner, not the Allied Invasion. How much planning does "hey wanna grab a pizza?" take?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 12:42 AM
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I am not blaming women for common male behavior but if we continue to pick bad men, we have to stop and take stock of your situation and figure out what WE can do to avoid it. We ALL have some head snakes and for some of us with less emotionally healthy attachment styles, a good guy is likely to feel weird or off but friends can often see it. We just have to have the maturity and humility to listen to friends and family we know have our best interests in mind. ​ People can keep up an act for a w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:05 PM
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Yeah. I wouldn’t befriend someone who wouldn’t provide basic human support to a stranger in an emergency. So why hold someone to a lower standard than that if you’re getting naked with them on the regular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:06 AM
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Still your husband?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:03 AM
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I think most HV people male or female are. And I do think emergency circumstances are defined differently depending on level of friendship. I’d sit with just about anyone alone in an ER. But only my absolute besties can borrow my car for a week or call me at 3 a.m. to help ditch a body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:02 AM
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Give yourself some time to heal and get any new guys vetted by your friends. I am convinced that some of us have bad-picker genes and have to have solid friends who will point out red flags 🚩 like it’s their damn job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:57 AM
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Shit. Hope you recovered well. Hope his face looks like a Picasso.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:53 AM
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You gotta really work at it if you want an obedient dog. These losers are likely too lazy for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:52 AM
35

So you’re too old for him at 24?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:49 AM
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Oh hell yeah. There seem to be a few wives of very high earners who have husbands that earn enough to hire out a lot of household functions so they aren't basically slave labor in maintaining everything in the house and working. A lot of women in marriages where both partners work take on the lion's share of household and life-maintaining labor. A guy thinks he's a fucking prince for taking out the garbage once in a while. And even marriages where the woman far outearns the man, you've got Wonde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:48 PM
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Whoa! Mind blown! Sometimes the truth is so apparent that it hides in plain sight until someone points it out to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:41 PM
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So deep and true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:35 PM
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You can be upset. But you want to ask for some time before you respond and you use that time to really sit with your feelings and figure out what is causing them and what assumptions are you making to have your feelings become oversized for the situation. Practice makes perfect on this. You have to do the work and you do have to want to do the work of being very introspective and figuring why small things have an oversized emotional impact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:34 AM
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Hell NO. “Wow - I would have thought you’d be too busy with school and family to spend time calling me.” And then block his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 05:12 AM
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Side chick sucks but why live with a cheating sleazeball while trashing some woman? That’s not knowing your worth. Ditch the fucking boyfriend who turned your life into a trash fire and let the other woman have the skeevy cheating boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 03:59 AM
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The best way to let him know that his low effort is not going to work is for his low effort to not work. That means you don't tell him anything and don't pursue a friendship with him. Sorry - I know it's not what you want to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:44 PM
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So what do you do as a forensic psychologist? Are there any jobs outside of law enforcement?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 05:59 AM
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ANY person putting “no drama” or similar sentiments ANYWHERE on the web tells you a few things: 1. They fucking LOVE drama - they will turn the tiniest inconvenience into an absolute catastrophe and 2. You as a partner/friend/whatever don’t get to have problems because Mr. HatesDrama has the corner on that and 3. You don’t want them around when the shit hits the fan as they will take your miserable day and do whatever they can to make it that much worse and 4. They’ll probably take your best day…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:37 AM
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So all those relatives that think she’s the asshole have undoubtedly invited brother to come live with them so they can host “bullet dodged” parties for him and his shit friends, right? And how fucking stupid do you have to be to not see that even the priciest abortion is going to be shitloads cheaper than having your wages garnished for child support?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:19 AM
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I love that show but don’t think I would use any of those people as role models.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:51 AM
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NO! IF you don’t drop your panties on the date, you’re just a manipulative bitch trying to take a guy for your $30 meal. And if you do have sex then of course you’re not wife material. So we just can’t win. Typical misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:46 AM
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Damn that was douchey. I love how he thinks he’s a genius for putting that together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:34 AM
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this is great One thing I read that has stuck with me is that sexual predators (like Weinstein) often have patterns of shit behavior across a broad range of situations. One example was the sexual harassers tended to have far more suspect expense reports. It made me think that every guy I have dated that was abusive (and most of these weren't for long) was super-willing to lie/cheat/steal/whatever and was comfortable with other anti-social behavior in general. I see women (not this sub) who see a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:19 PM
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Depending on what you mean by intervene, this is bad advice. Domestic abuse is a complicated issue and your interference can have unforeseen consequences for the victim and yourself. Best to let the police handle it and model best practices by tolerating no violence in your relationship and pursuing criminal charges against any man who lays a hand on you. No matter how sorry. No matter the repercussions he’ll face. He should have thought of that shit before he hit you/ another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 01:01 PM
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???? This is just prostitution. Which is fine. But be honest about it. I fuck guys because I want to fuck them - not because I am getting paid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 03:57 AM
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I am sorry but why would your boyfriend, and by extension you, befriend these shitty men? I don't care what a girl has done, a guy knows not to talk shit about a woman he's fucking if he's halfway decent. Water seeks it's own level - I gotta wonder about your boyfriend given the company he keeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 03:55 AM
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Go make some other friends. I know it's easier said than done but he's telling you through jokes that he's not into being anything more than friends, if even that. So go find some more people that like you and hang out with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 03:51 AM
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You're bruising their ego. You're not supposed to be able to ditch them and go do your own thing. You are supposed to pine after that amazing dick! And appreciate all that he can give you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 03:49 AM
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So men's sperm is healthiest at like 20. So what do 21 year olds do for the rest of their pathetic lives? "Look dude, just jizz in a cup and let's go ahead and get on with the inevitable - jump in this pit." And furthermore, is procreation the only purpose of humans? That's a sad way to live. Or is just the only purpose of women who after all have roughly a 50% chance of getting to bear real humans (i.e. men)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 10:45 PM
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That is a valid point as well. I do think that sex work has such a stigma that there is quite a bit of this quasi sex work going on where everyone feels like they’re toeing the line and haven’t crossed over into nasty, dirty and illegal sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 11:46 PM
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I’m not saying it’s great usually. And I am middle-aged so no one’s going to pay me. I guess I see these guys as a step above the dumbasses who think some woman should be grateful for the chance to date him. That is the guys who actually have money and are pretty explicit in their desire for a more transactional relationship. There are lots of guys who will talk about how rich they are but are “big hat - little cattle” types who don’t really have shit to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 11:39 PM
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I think there are people looking for different things and at least these guys are clear about their intentions and what they are bringing to the table. I don’t have any issues with sex work or quasi sex work. As long as everyone is on the up and up and has a good understanding of the situation. These things go sideways when someone tries to make it something it’s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 11:20 PM
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Quarterize- that would have been so hard not to respond to in order to just correct it. Damn, you’re strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:48 AM
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The whole show is fucking crazy! You got this one guy (or woman) who may look good but really isn't all that. And then you have all these people who are supposed to be "there" specifically for this man. This man you don't know, can't possibly have real feelings for, haven't vetted at all. But if you even show halfway normal, well-adjusted concerns like "hmmm - I don't know if this guy is right for me" then all hell breaks loose. Like you should be 100% invested in a person when you have a 4% (ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:45 PM
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I was that dumb bitch! Where was this sub 15 years ago???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:45 PM
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So he does nothing and yet it’s the woman supporting him that’s holding him back from his huge earning potential and getting loads of strange. Because what woman can resist the douchebag couch potato? And of course there will be scores of employers looking for someone with his skills in loafing, bitching and feeling entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 01:07 PM
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Damn. Sometimes the truth kinda smacks you right in the face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 02:10 AM
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I think I’d rather be alone than fuck a guy who saw a woman’s value as residing in her unused or very-lightly-used skiddlyboop. It just makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 07:20 PM
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Fuck him and his shitty little edit. Woe is he - he had to be told that hitting his girlfriend is not okay. Fucker doesn’t need to be single; he needs to be incarcerated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:42 PM
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Can you elaborate on this? Not arguing but just curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 05:16 PM
12

fuking loser ​ New rule: hold out for someone who can spell fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 05:13 PM
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I am least going to try to deprogram you first. Traditional marriages work if both partners are on the same page. So you have a woman who wants to be a supportive spouse and a husband who understands 1000000000% that having a spouse at home who takes care of everything obligates him to go out and earn the money and take care of shit knowing they only have a home and kids because they have a wife. The problems come in when shitbum men like the idea of a woman doing everything at home and also bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 03:28 PM
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I am middle-aged and CF. And I see all these 50+ guys who want kids “someday” and I am just hoping some woman doesn’t waste her fertile years on these assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 02:55 AM
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