| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 21 | My most productive Match.com profile summary. | poonishapines | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 03:45 PM | |
| 15 | To all you pussies: online dating edition | poonishapines | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 12:54 AM | |
| 1 | I'm back in the game! Hit me up if you're in the OC/LA California area. I need some wings to go tear up meetups with. | poonishapines | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 01:23 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | What should i do next with this woman?Yes, if she's talking to you (a person your age) she wants to fuck. Pay attention to logistics when making plans. | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | I actually did itProud of you. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 12:50 AM |
| 9 | Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling.Right, we'll just read your minds. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 12:32 AM |
| 0 | Are these girls interested or not?Nice humble brag post. You have enough experience to know they're interested. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Tinder success storyI'm happy for you. 😀 | /r/seduction | 28/12/17 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Tinder success storyDamn, that's a great analogy. | /r/seduction | 28/12/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | In text game, how to respond to this?Your version is better. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 07:43 AM |
| 2 | My most productive Match.com profile summary.They all say they want something serious but some will be open to it after your first date. I just tell them I don't want anything serious after the date. They usually know what that means and they decide if they're okay with that. | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 01:23 PM |
| 1 | My most productive Match.com profile summary.I always kept the jokes "safe" and never really pushed that boundary until the first phone conversation. During the conversation, I say something like, we're adults and should be comfortable talking about adult topics. After that, I push that topic a little. Just know, most of the girls have a wall against casual hookups on a paid site like match. So, they kind get put off if you overly sexualize the conversation right away. It doesn't mean the relationship can't evolve to fwb. Good luck man! | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 01:03 AM |
| 4 | My most productive Match.com profile summary.Thanks man! Yeah, I definitely noticed a difference in my response rate after some of the changes I made. | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Field report from someone older than 20!I'm really happy for you brother. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Need a solid opener for girls at starbucks. Goal: one girl's numberGood job man! | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 07:04 AM |
| 2 | "I had a good time, but I am not sure if I am ready for something serious"OP, please follow this dude's advice. It's right. | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 07:01 AM |
| 1 | From a 22 year old virgin who used to have no game, thank you.You're welcome... I'm taking all the credit for this one guys! ALL MINE! | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Not sure how a first date went?The followup question is how does he do that from here? | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Ignoring the girls text?Okay, either I'm too high to read or the wording/grammar is retarded. | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".I think the point he was making is that what you know about that is theory until you experience it, then it's knowledge. | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".Bitch I'm happy for you. Dirty slut... | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 06:34 AM |
| 1 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsGood stuff man! Way to give back. | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 10:13 PM |
| 1 | I live in a small city, I'm afraid of approachingIf you're in a bigger city where the likeliness of your targets know each other is significantly less, would you really eliminate approach anxiety? If you honestly said yes to that, I suggest you take a few days in a big city to test out your theory. Dude, my guess is there will always be approach anxiety. Best of luck either way man! | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 11:40 PM |
| 33 | I discovered something that makes me feel incredibly less tense and nervous in social situationsSounds like you leveled up. Good for you man! | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 11:26 PM |
| 3 | How to get girls from chatting to actually meeting on Tinder?You're clearly fucking it up with how and what you're communicating. So it's not your ugly mug. Run some tests by being direct/aggressive, direct/funny, passive/limp dick, or whatever. Find your groove man... | /r/seduction | 29/06/17 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Girls go COLD at me after pulling themDude, I'm not Elza, so chill out. You and I basically gave him the same feedback. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Girls go COLD at me after pulling themWhy do you say that? | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Girls go COLD at me after pulling themI read your edited updated post. Your date is obviously designed for getting laid, which seems to be in line with your true intentions. Change one or both of them. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Girls go COLD at me after pulling themI don't know why you're getting down voted, it is retarded. Must be white Knight fags. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 03:32 PM |
| 2 | If women find my face repulsive, is there really any point to approaching them?You look like this dude that used to work in my office. He met and married a beautiful white girl that makes more than he does through online dating. They actually had a kid together recently. Let me tell you the kind of fuckhead this guy is. He sent an email to the whole office saying he won't call the cops if his wallet is returned by the end of the day. Later that afternoon, he found his wallet in his car. So he sent another email saying something like, the wallet was returned and the cops wi… | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Girls online won't even talk to me. Do I have hope approaching in person?I understand it's frustrating when they look nothing like their pic. You have you code of ethics, I have mine. | /r/seduction | 01/06/17 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Girls online won't even talk to me. Do I have hope approaching in person?My point is it's always a numbers game. Nobody bat's a thousand in this game. | /r/seduction | 01/06/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Health, Wealth...but struggle in intimate relationships??I've read you post and responses to everyone and I don't see any glaring holes in you're game. Best guess is that you're not connecting with them enough and/or you're coming across as desperate/needy. | /r/seduction | 01/06/17 12:27 AM |
| 0 | Girls online won't even talk to me. Do I have hope approaching in person?You don't think you need numbers in the field? | /r/seduction | 01/06/17 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How To Deal With An 'Alpha' Douche Trying To Steal Your Set - The AMOGMy best guess is that in trying to be a little different, but not too different, they end up looking alike. The advice was pretty good though. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Good response to comments on age?I would use it to flirt a little. Say something like, "at my age, I'm definitely going to make some naughty mistakes." say it with a playful smile then pull away. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Girls online won't even talk to me. Do I have hope approaching in person?This is probably the most constructive advice here. Op, online dating isn't hard. Think of it like a live essay that you have to keep revising (without being dishonest) until you get your desired result. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Girls online won't even talk to me. Do I have hope approaching in person?It depends on where you are in life. If you want something more serious, you'll put more emphasis on personality. Still won't date an ugly twat but you'll gravitate to personality more. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Girls online won't even talk to me. Do I have hope approaching in person?Online isn't harder. That advice is from inexperience or lack of effort. Nonetheless, it's shitty advice bro. Op, if you're not hideously deformed, your sales pitch needs to be revised. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Can't F****** approach. Feeling depressed.You're concerned about the false pretense of asking for directions only to open. Try walking around and compliment a girl on something with no intention of opening her. See if you're more comfortable with that. If you find that you are, begin allowing a conversation to unfold after your comment. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 10:43 PM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionMy ex was half Chinese half Cambodian. Smoking body but in retrospect, I dodged a bullet. Pare ko, banatan mo na! Dude, as a Flip, you're naturally charismatic. It's in our culture to be playful and silly. Chinese are hard working, Japanese are intelligent and innovative. Koreans have a bit of both Japanese and Chinese. We know how to bullshit people and make them like it. Let that come across in your profile. My pics were mostly solo. One solo was on the top of Angel's Landing and the other was… | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 06:02 AM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionNo worries. I felt like a loser after my break up and worried shit was hopeless. It would make me happy if I can help someone over that. You're going to look how you look. All you can do is put pretty wrapping on yourself, smell nice, and wear a confident smile. Just like the dude that has a hang-up about his height, you can't show you're worried you're not good looking enough. I think the fake it til you make advice works well for this. You'll stop worrying about your looks after banging a cert… | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 03:09 AM |
| 6 | How often do you start seeing women you've just slept with?Nobody is forcing you to actually live in abundance if you only have the time or energy to focus on one girl at a time. My main issue with having only one is what if you end up not clicking with this one girl? Now you have to start over from the beginning. Constantly cultivating your pipeline eliminates the lag time. Again, don't force it if you can't, nobody's putting a gun to your head. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionGlad someone got the point. In all honesty, my male ego made bullshit excuses all the time. I settled with the girls who made it embarrassingly obvious they wanted me until I got over this. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionI forgot to answer your other question. Your outgoing message will depend on how much info they share on their profile. Always mention something specific in their profile. The girls I went out with never responded to anything that looked like it was copy and pasted. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionI used match primarily. In the last few months, I felt like I messaged most of the women in my area so I also signed up for eharmony, which I didn't like because the platform was too restrictive. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionSome girls have their amateur photographer friends take pics of them for their profile. To me it looks staged but give it a shot. You never know. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionI deleted my profile when I got in a relationship. Honestly, if you read enough profiles, you'll see that most women have basic info and pics. Then once in a while, there's a girl with an awesome about me that really communicates they are fun, interesting, and have a life. Model your profile so you're one of the ones who stand out. You know, someone who can intelligently articulate he is fun, non-threatening but not a pussy, and lives an interesting life. I bet you the profiles of most men are b… | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionI feel you about the pics. I'm just a goofy looking guy, no matter how I angle that shot. I appreciate you stepping up. Hopefully it helps a brother see the light. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionI feel you about the pics. I'm just a goofy looking guy, no matter how I angle that shot. I appreciate you stepping up. Hopefully it helps a brother see the light. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 06:56 PM |
| 2 | To all you pussies: online dating editionYou don't think women filter for ethnicity? I've made my point, you can hold to that chip if you want to. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 06:22 AM |
| 1 | To all you pussies: online dating editionPlease see my response to him. It's not about having the perfect stats. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 05:57 AM |
| 3 | To all you pussies: online dating editionI'm Asian and can walk around and say white girls won't fuck me. But I'm with one now. Change your attitude about your height, they can sense that man. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 05:55 AM |
| 2 | To all you pussies: online dating editionThis wasn't exactly the message I was trying to convey. It's not about having all the right stats. I want the guys here to understand that online dating is actually a low hanging fruit and they should take advantage. The ability to approach in the field is great but it's not for everyone. In addition, it's very time consuming. With online dating, you have their profile info to use and base your opener on. It's a great tool that you don't have in the field. In any case, I'm happy your smashing it… | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 05:52 AM |
| 3 | To all you pussies: online dating editionI hope people don't take it as advice to lie about their profile. I'm just saying they should revise it until it gets the desired responses. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Lost virginity, whole new person all the sudden?I'm 38 and I've learned women are just like us. They just want someone to love them who can also fuck the hell out of them. Like Mark said, she's rooting for you. Anyway, start talking to them slowly by spending a day just asking them for the time. When you're comfortable with that, ask for the time and how they're doing. Escalate from there. Good luck and get laid. | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 02:00 PM |
| 14 | I approached a model the other dayGrab your balls. See how they're harder now? Good job. | /r/seduction | 28/09/16 02:27 AM |
| 1 | I'm back in the game! Hit me up if you're in the OC/LA California area. I need some wings to go tear up meetups with.Meetup.com is good for meeting new people. Socal people should meet so we can learn from each other. | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 10:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm back in the game! Hit me up if you're in the OC/LA California area. I need some wings to go tear up meetups with.What's going on there? Let's talk. | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 03:11 AM |
| 1 | I'm back in the game! Hit me up if you're in the OC/LA California area. I need some wings to go tear up meetups with.Meetup.com. Most untapped resource for people with some game. | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 03:09 AM |
| 1 | I'm back in the game! Hit me up if you're in the OC/LA California area. I need some wings to go tear up meetups with.Are you active on meetup? There's a lot going on. Honestly, my game is rusty but I understand the importance of kino and escalation. I'm week at cold approaches that's why meetups are perfect for me. I'll send you a few things I want to go to. We can meet before and lay down some foundation. Then we can tear it up. Cool? | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 01:46 AM |
| 1 | :( , was going to have my sons birthday party today, his mom decided that she rather take him to his step dad's instead to watch a movie.You're a good dad man. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/16 01:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR]I went on a date with a girl who was "out of my league" last nightI'm happy for you. Great job! | /r/seduction | 31/10/15 08:29 PM |
| 6 | THANK YOU SEDDITI'm so happy for you! | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 07:54 AM |
| -1 | How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations?I seriously don't think you know what you're talking about. If you don't have the ability to assess your advice is not meant for noobs, then you probably don't know how to read other situations. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 05:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Took a girl from Tinder hiking, went back to my place, F-CloseGood on you buddy! Buy the roomie some beers. | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Got a girl's number when she had a boyfriend. Whats your favorite response to "I have a boyfriend"?Amen! | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Be your fucking self.Which is the point of OP's post. He thinks he's the shit since that was his normal self. | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Be your fucking self.A few questions for you: 1. Did you touch her? Where did you touch her and how often? 2. How much of the bill did you cover? 3. Did you exchange contact info? If yes, numbers, email, or social media? | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Be your fucking self.He says he didn't let her situation faze him but he never planted the seed that they're boning as soon as she becomes single. It's like calling dibs, which he never did. That's was a partial joke btw. He's an orbiter that's giving advice like he's achieved absolute enlightenment. | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Did my first cold approach today...the girl looked at me like i was a leper....:-)Love the attitude! Do it buddy! | /r/seduction | 20/03/15 09:24 PM |
| 8 | So I had my first Tinder date yesterdayGood job on getting out there. Sorry, I don't agree with everyone else here. First, she did most of the talking and this is your only date. How can you say you have no problem talking to girls?! Second, she led you on this date and you followed along like a puppy. You were the friend that listened and hung on her every word. This is okay since it's your first date ever. Just know you are not dictating the nature of the relationship when you do this. If you fuck her, it will be because she led yo… | /r/seduction | 20/03/15 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Successful 'ugly' sedditors: how did you get over the fact that you're ugly?Best pep talk material I've ever seen! | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Met with ex , lessons about oneitis , relationships, mentality and curesSolid stuff! | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 08:18 AM |
| 1 | So... How do I ask her out without being able to drive?This is what I did in high school. We usually met at the mall or at a friend's house. | /r/seduction | 24/02/15 06:47 AM |
| 7 | First Field Report! Holy Shit..Congratulations! BUT! You have one thing wrong. You weren't successful because you're good looking. You were successful cause you approached. | /r/seduction | 13/02/15 01:59 AM |
| 3 | If a girl on Tinder says she isn't looking for anything serious does that mean she is down to fuck?That is the assumption I would operate on. But, I would be careful not to waste time on the ones just looking for attention. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 08:58 PM |
| 2 | approach seems fine, but then she says "oh im gonna get a drink with my roommaate" or "im gonna go to bathroom". what gives?If this same thing happens over and over from different girls and settings, then you're doing something to make them eject. Be brutally critical of yourself and self-analyze the different stages of your approach. It's hard to give enough info over the net for us analyze the problem. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 09:27 AM |
| 3 | [FR] brunch with sallyFirst of all, I'm happy you found someone you can connect with. Now that's out of the way, you are letting her lead. If you never escalated or tried to bam bam, you are waiting around for her like a pet. I'm not saying you have to bam every girl on the first few dates, but you have to dictate that it's going to happen and it's expected. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Hidden Seduction, I bet you guys didn't heard of this yet, cause I didn't too but its awesome.Click bait posts like this really turn me off from this sub. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 03:49 PM |
| 28 | Text back or not?!She could, in fact, be busy. Give her the benefit of the doubt. Ask her when she's free, so you can see if it works for you too. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 03:42 PM |
| 52 | [FR] girl who works at StarbucksReally, the only thing you could have done better was approach 20 other girls. You survived this approach and you'll survive the rest. Get out there. | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 07:08 PM |
| 5 | [FR] No Girl's numbers today but I got the whole Karaoke Bar to rap along with me. (1/100 Set 1)That's really cool! I like how you decided not to cheat yourself by not counting the bartender as an approach. | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 09:33 AM |
| 1 | I can't be the person I want to be and it's making me want to kill myself.There's a lot of good advice here already. But I want to give advice on something specific. All those negative, self-defeating, thoughts in your head while you sit next to a person you want to talk to must be ignored. You do not have to listen to your own thoughts. You deserve better, think like it! | /r/seduction | 19/12/14 04:32 PM |
| -7 | Guys, I fucking made it. Last night, at 23 years old, I lost my vCard. And it's all because of you.I'm not willing to read that will but I'm happy for you! Honestly, how long did you last? Don't lie fucker! | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 09:58 PM |
| 8 | Guys, I fucking made it. Last night, at 23 years old, I lost my vCard. And it's all because of you.Dude, don't be a prick. | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 09:57 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cutie studying at a coffee shopNo clue... But Indian dude's I gamed with were balsy. | /r/seduction | 16/12/14 01:38 AM |
| -5 | [FR] Cutie studying at a coffee shopYou're right. Why don't you spend your life formulating a perfect stat sample with an absolutely random sample with double blinds and shit. Who has the time for that?! Exactly! That's why I just asked around. Duh! | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 05:30 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Cutie studying at a coffee shopPretty spot on. Some girls threw in Latino/Hispanic before or after Asian. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 05:07 AM |
| -9 | [FR] Cutie studying at a coffee shopFuck! Who said it was a formal study. Goodness... | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 05:06 AM |
| 11 | [FR] Cutie studying at a coffee shopI'm Filipino and I've done an informal study on this. I asked a bunch of my female friends to put every race in the order they'd fuck them. Asians are not last by far. Except for women with strong cultural influence, white peeps were usually first. Lucky bastards. Sorry Indian peeps. | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Thank you guys.I'm happy for you man! | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Girl invited me to watch a movie at her place. We obviously won't watch the movie. So how to initiate sex ?Thanks! In a serious relationship now, so this is all I got left. Hope it helps someone. | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 04:53 AM |
| 34 | Girl invited me to watch a movie at her place. We obviously won't watch the movie. So how to initiate sex ?I think you both know you're sexing that night. Give her a warning that opening credits turn you on like no other, and it can't be helped. Start making out with her when the movie starts. Then blame the movie or her for turning on the movie. "Look what you made me do! You naughty girl..." Be playful through all this. Have fun buddy! | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 01:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cute cashier at Yoga storeGood for you Asian brother. Now neg them by adding, "for a crack whore." Just kidding buddy. | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 12:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] From 0 experience to NC/KC/FC in a few daysProud of you buddy! | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Just Friend Zoned, what action should I take afterwards?Teach her to wing for you or bird dog for you. Don't waste any more time and energy trying to convert a sale on this. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/11/14 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Walked up to a random waitress and got a number(1st time!)Proud of you buddy! | /r/seduction | 15/11/14 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Is a coach worth getting?Personally, I think it's worth it. I met my mentor through a weekend class. He coached me in the way I needed to be coached. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 07:26 AM |
| 1 | I'm turning to shit, i need back in, please help!Great book! I highly recommend it. Op, basically, you've made small changes in your behavior that led you to this. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 07:23 AM |
| 8 | Principles to Live ByAn aussie friend of mine says, "take a spoonful of cement and harden the fuck up!" | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Why holding your frame is so very important.I agree with you. A man telling his son to be a man means noting unless he teaches him. Many people dismiss the importance of holding your frame. But, this alone significantly changed the dynamics of my LTRs. Guys, learn it, love it, live it. | /r/seduction | 18/02/14 03:57 AM |
| 8 | Wingman role.That's a very general guide. The perfect wingman would open sets for me. We would have a code if the girls are primed for me to move in. For example, I would stop by the set and say, "have you seen Catherine?" That's the code asking if he's ready to introduce me. He would either say yeah, she's at the bar (this means not ready) or no, but you should meet blah and blah. Then he would introduce me by saying something like, this is my best bud Jason. He just got back from Peru where he hiked up Mac… | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 07:25 PM |
| 2 | A problem I've noticed about Seddit latelyWell said. Thank you sir. | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 12:53 AM |
| 1 | A problem I've noticed about Seddit latelyYou make a solid point. | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 11:43 PM |
| 2 | A problem I've noticed about Seddit latelyI kind of agree with you. The only reason why I don't completely agree is at least they put themselves out there. It's the accomplishment of the first milestone and should be celebrated for their courage and willingness to grow. | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 10:01 PM |
| 4 | A problem I've noticed about Seddit latelyI agree completely! But, what's been bothering me lately are the replies to requests for advises. Some of the replies I've read are more in line with what AFCs would normally do. When a person, who doesn't understand seduction, gives advice, they do it only to feed their ego. In reality, this is what I see when I read those replies, "Guys, look, I posted a reply, you should believe I know what I'm talking about and get laid every night! Please give me karma. I need it to validate my existence, e… | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 09:55 PM |
| 3 | After lurking for a while, I finally had the balls to make a moveGood job buddy! Excited and happy for you! | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 05:53 AM |
| 9 | [FR] First Date from Online site.Dude her profile was very clear that she wants to bam. So, you go out with her and judge her for wanting to on the first date?! And you post a report on what? She was handing herself over the whole time. There was no seduction necessary. You've got some things to figure out man. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 05:41 PM |
| 3 | [FR] K-closed a girl I've been friends with for 5 years. Also happened to be my first kiss.I'm truly happy for you! Great job! | /r/seduction | 14/12/13 06:54 PM |
| 1 | If there's one thing you could say to change the topic of the conversation, what is it?No! You need to face this and get comfortable with talking about yourself. Otherwise, you become a generic male. Sharing about you makes you 3 dimensional. They will remember you and will make it easier to set up that next meeting. So, start by writing a short paragraph about yourself. Then memorize it. | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 04:41 PM |
| 11 | Kino/Escalation during dinner datesI used to thumb wrestle. Make a bet out of it. Loser buys coffee at the next spot you're going to. My mentor taught me to always take them to at least 3 different places. He said this helps makes them feel like they've known you for a long time. Anyway, I used the bet to transition into the next spot. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Apologizing?I completely agree with you. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/11/13 06:14 PM |
| 1 | What women mean when they say they want a nice guy.Lol, thank you! | /r/seduction | 20/11/13 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Giving a woman a ride home after a first date?I've always tried to set up the dates to be walking distance to my place. That way, I can walk to the date location and my date can give me a ride home. Not only this, but i can come up with more reasons why she should come in to my place than me to come in to her place. But, if you're set on you going to her place, you should have laid down reasons why you should come in to her place before you even start the car. If she has a pet, you better tell her how cute those things are and how she has t… | /r/seduction | 16/11/13 08:14 PM |
| 2 | The answer to 50% of the questions on r/asksedditThe theme strikes a chord with beginners. Unfortunately, the faulty message is very subtle and difficult to see. This is a very basic concept and it makes me wonder why OP doesn't have a complete grasp on it. I mean he should since he's giving all this other advice as if he's qualified to do so. Others have posted, directly or indirectly, questioning the OP's level of understanding on seduction. As far as I can see, OP has not replied to any of those replies. Makes me wonder why... | /r/seduction | 15/11/13 02:56 AM |
| 5 | The answer to 50% of the questions on r/asksedditI'm not sure if I completely agree with your message. For me, seduction means laying down the ground work to help influence a girl that she should eat my pickle. Just flat out asking girls to go out goes against how I see seduction and is more in line with how guys ask out girls in the movies. Lead male approaches girl, he asks her out, she giggles and says yes. We all know from the times we've done this and got rejected that this does not normally work. That's why we're here isn't?! Because tha… | /r/seduction | 13/11/13 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Coffee Dates; Down The Road or Somewhere New?Exactly! I don't know why others are saying it doesn't matter. It should be closest to your sex location! The idea is to get laid. So, make it easy by avoiding logistical issues with being too far from the sex location. If possible pick a spot that you can walk to. She can give you a ride home after. | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 06:29 AM |
| 2 | "You're not like any guy I've ever known :)"Good for you buddy! | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 05:03 PM |
| 2 | How to spark up a sexual conversation?My mentor, nicknamed Fast Eddie, taught me to talk and joke about it. The important thing is your attitude about it. Don't make any apologies for being sexual. You're both adults and sex is an adult topic, so it's okay to talk about it. | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 02:05 AM |
| 1 | No more seddit until 100 sets!Rooting for you buddy! Can't wait for the FR. | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Today I overcome my crippling oneitis.I know this was tough for you. Good job buddy. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 06:04 PM |
| -8 | Dealt with a flake like a man, now she's chasing me. All thanks to seddit..This... | /r/seduction | 05/10/13 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Girl slipped me her number after talking for about 20 seconds in line at the grocery store. Thanks seddit.Please don't get stuck in this level. Yes, girls can reject us, but we, ultimately, choose who we get with by making an approach. That is our greatest power as men. Congrats OP. | /r/seduction | 05/10/13 05:31 PM |
| 19 | Best response to "why are you single? You're funny/atttactive?"Man... I don't ever want to be that guy. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 05:43 AM |
| 9 | Girl I've never spoken to asked me out. Caught me by surprise.My current gf of over 2 years asked me out first. Of course, this is after laying down 3 weeks worth of social proofing, cocky/funny texts and behavior, and some push and pulls. Every guy I knew that tried to get with her got rejected. I believed it was because they came on too strong and too fast. So, I put in the work and waited patiently. I was careful not to get friend zoned by always being sexual, not directly to her but also made no apologies about it. Didn't do any kino escalation until t… | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 12:05 AM |
| 4 | I'm in high school, going to a big party tonight and I want to get laid. How should I go about getting a girl to have sex with me?Dude, you're under age. The girl you might end up with could also under age. I don't know the legal ramifications of giving you advice on how to lay a girl that is under age, but i don't think seddit (including myself) will give you much of a response because of this. Sorry man... | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 02:55 PM |
| 1 | The girls I approach are interested in me, but I can't maintain interest because I'm too "boring."This is a good starting point. Don't worry, I used to think everything I did was boring. Let's start with California. Where did you stay in California? Did you do anything athletic while in Cali? Did you go to the beach? If yes to any of those questions, tell me something interesting that happened during one of those outings. For example, I hiked a trail in Malibu that had 3 waterfalls. It was really cool because you have to pull yourself up with a rope to get to the last waterfall. The view was… | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The girls I approach are interested in me, but I can't maintain interest because I'm too "boring."Look, the theme of all the comments already posted are saying either: you are boring, that's why you talk about boring stuff; or you have trouble communicating you are fun. So, get a pen and paper now! Go, I'll wait right here. Okay, write down ten things you've done that are fun and/or interesting. Message me when you finish this. | /r/seduction | 15/09/13 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Recently outer game advice on seddit is almost nonexistentI completely agree. Natural or animal instinct?! Look, you're obviously on seddit cause what you've already done has failed over and over again, not because you needed help unlocking the animal spirit out of you. | /r/seduction | 15/09/13 07:29 AM |
| 1 | If she brings up sexual discussion and you have no sexual experience at all?This is the best advice here so far... Can't lie to her if you want to bang her more than once. After you have sex with her, she'll know you lied. So, be honest but be playful about it. Say something like, "If you play your cards right, you might be the first to unwrap this baby. I'll even let you post an 'unboxing' video on YouTube.'" Yes, your a virgin, so what. I read somewhere that we should feature our weakness. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 05:02 PM |
| 21 | Dealing with racist girls?In my experience, Asian girls who says they don't date Asian guys were not any tougher to get with than anyone else. I'm filipino and my current gf, who is Chinese, only dated white guys. Look, that's just another wall of defense they put up to weed out the chumps. Roll up to them like you don't care about their preferences, because none of that shit applies to you. It doesn't apply to you because you're the one deciding whether she can have your cock or not. REMEMBER THIS: YOU have the power to… | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 09:42 PM |
| 2 | I've never touched women, where do I start?You'll hear/read about kino on this subreddit a lot. Most of the time, it will only talk about how it is used to make the target comfortable with you touching her. BUT, it should also be used to make yourself comfortable with touching her. So, read about all the non-sexual ways to perform kino. Hand shake, arm pat, hip check, shoulder rub, hand on her back, thumb wrestling, etc. Learn to kino girls AND guys. Touching other guys will make you comfortable with you. It sounds really gay and it will… | /r/seduction | 13/08/13 05:22 PM |
| 3 | I think I just went Alpha,but did I just miss my chance?Welcome to the matrix... Keep it up and you won't have to dodge bullets. | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 03:40 PM |
| 8 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/2/13 (please upvote - zero karma)For the first question, it's generally a bad idea to take a girl to the movies. The main reason is it makes it difficult to talk to her during the movie. Because of this, it will prevent you from sharing your sexy/cool personality with her. In regards to your second question, I'm high and I think I'll go do something else with my life right now. | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Nightgame: "Buy me a drink?"I'm not on the market anymore but this is really good. Thanks for sharing. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Have a first "date", but sexual pretext already exists. How should I handle this?This is spot on. Good luck op! | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 05:32 PM |
| 1 | I've known about this stuff for years but just can't do it. I need a coaching/bootcamp. Suggestions?I did a boot camp held by 2 guys that took Mystery's boot camp. I personally think it was the best $300 I have spent. I am kind of a slow learner and need to actually see how things are done. Also, the boot camp forced me to approach. I don't think I would have had the balls to do it alone. Some people can learn stuff quickly and has the courage to just go out there. I didn't, so I'm happy I took the boot camp. The other benefit is you get immediate access to a local network of pua's. Think abou… | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Mini [FR] halloween at the bar. Wasn't planning on gaming, got the # close.Don't wait a few days to text her. You should text her now to keep you in her mindspace. Something playful/flirty. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Whenever I tease a girl, they act or are offended. Advice needed.I've had this problem in the past. A friend of mine shared this trick with me. He told me to give her a playful hip-check, smile playfully and say, "awe did we just have our first fight? If this is how it has to be, I'll have my lawyer draw up the divorce papers. I get to keep the donkey and the guitar!" Then, wait for her to cone back to you. If she doesn't, she comes off as a prude. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 03:55 AM |
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