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| 8 | So today I got the number of a girl having a first date with a guyFor some reason this sub gets a hard on about 2 things: When people do stuff low-confidence guys are scared to do When people post stuff that makes low-confidence guys feel better Even if #1 is just a completely made up story like this post. | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Benefits of EscortsWent to a massage parlor a few months ago a banged this little latina with a fake butt. Lost my boner cause her face just wasn't that attractive. She didn't speak any english either. It just felt dead to me. Like, if I could have talked to the girl for 20 minutes to get to know here and flirt and get seduced, I would have probably enjoyed it more. I also don't like not being able to kiss them. That's kind of my favorite part. Kissing's more intimate than sex to me. Without that I don't feel any … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 11:15 PM |
| 0 | Don't give up after your first try. People change their minds.What's wrong with stepping up and being a man for the rest of the relationship? All women want to feel special and there's nothing wrong with that. A good looking girls gets hit on nonstop by all kinds of guys with different approaches, all day, every day. Rejecting dudes is a natural response. Show that you think she's worth a little more work, and show that you're not a little bitch that can't handle small rejection. That redpill attitude of trying to compensate for your insecurity by being co… | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Don't give up after your first try. People change their minds.Trying another approach doesn't equal begging. Sometimes girls just want you to try harder. Sometimes you have to catch her in a better mood. Sometimes she will change her mind after getting to know you more. However, I will agree don't be a fucking creep. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Don't see a phone number as the end goal. A number is worthless if you have't made her interested in hanging out with you again.I love that insta-date idea. Usually I'm already trying to set her up for the next date before I even ask for her number by giving her something to anticipate. However I've been trying my old "what are you doing later?" type of scenarios where I try to make the initial interaction so exciting it turns into a date on its own. Definitely much more rewarding | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 07:08 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Cute cashier at Yoga storeIf asking one simple question is such a big part of the game that should be "mastered" then you are focusing on the wrong things. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 03:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Cute cashier at Yoga storeIf you practice bad game, then you solidify bad game. You just start to develop the mentality that getting a number means your game was successful, which is a false feedback. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Don't give up after your first try. People change their minds.Sounds like you should move on. You shouldn't have been kicking yourself over it for more than 15 minutes. If she doesn't respond forget about it. Just be chill next time you see her at the coffee place. Don't make her uncomfortable or be awkward about it. There's a probability you might build up more chemistry after you interact more, but I wouldn't count on it as she's literally required by her job to be nice to you. Don't obsess over it. I don't recommend hitting on girls at work. They get hi… | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 02:58 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Cute cashier at Yoga storehttp://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2nw10y/dont_see_a_phone_number_as_the_end_goal_a_number/ | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 02:02 AM |
| 13 | So if I want to attract girls, I cant be noticeably nervous?Because you're a guy. Girls will rarely ever hit on you and when they do you won't realize it until 2 years later. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 01:16 AM |
| -8 | [FR] Cute cashier at Yoga storeThis is beta advice. Why get a girls number that you had no chemistry with? Numbers are worthless and anyone can get a number. What's more important is getting them to like you and want to hang out with you again, not looking like a desperate loser. And you guys wonder why girls don't text you back | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Friendzoned?theres no such thing as a friendzone. either youre fucking a girl or youre not. believe it or not you can fuck your friends. and believe it or not its okay to have female friends you aren't fucking. its some internet term neckbeards make up that can't understand that "let's just be friends" means "I'm not interested just move on" | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Best way to respond to "you're going to have to work harder than that" when asking for a girl's number?Laugh it off and keep flirting with her. Wow I'm glad I don't take advice from people in this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 03:49 AM |
| 4 | Best way to respond to "you're going to have to work harder than that" when asking for a girl's number?I don't know why the nerds here don't understand. It's just a flirty joke and wants you to talk to her more. Just laugh it off and keep flirting. | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Seriously, how do I enjoy clubbing more?Best advice in this thread. Also, a lot of clubs just include people standing around with drinks in their hands just bobbing their heads. I find those harder to work game in because you can't hear anyone talk AND they don't dance. Best way to dance with a girl is to learn how to lead, but if you just aren't the kind of person who's in your body and enjoys dancing, maybe club atmosphere isn't your thing. | /r/seduction | 16/11/14 03:59 PM |
| -1 | I'm a student at a university. Is there any rule about approaching women in class or at school? Should I look for women outside my school?or you could use the search if you were serious about getting results and not being lazy looking for attention | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 05:33 PM |
| -2 | I'm a student at a university. Is there any rule about approaching women in class or at school? Should I look for women outside my school?this question gets posted every fucking day | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 12:13 PM |
| 2 | After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest...What makes you think this? | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 11:59 AM |
| 1 | After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest...Wait, you're going a whole month or two without even fucking them? You're doing it wrong man. Two weeks max. Also, 1-3 months is the typical breakup period for dating. Most people usually lose interest by the 2nd or 3rd month. | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Get The Hell Out Of The Friendzone Forever By Risking Never, Ever, Seeing Her Again.Try to ignore the whole "friendzone" concept. It's very self limiting and just draws fake parameters in what could be very fruitful relationships. Moving on to more girls helps fix that feeling of being stuck on one person. "What If" won't be something that you can't turn off because you'll be thinking that about tons of girls, not just focusing your horniness on one person. If you're really that stubborn about not wanting to be a friend then it may be a bit smothering for girls. Just saying you… | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Get The Hell Out Of The Friendzone Forever By Risking Never, Ever, Seeing Her Again.First of all, she has a boyfriend. You want to be the dick to screw up the relationship and cause drama? What goes around comes around my friend. Believe it or not, you will be attracted to many women. Many different women will also be attracted to you. You don't have to hit on all of them or be a creep so you can get validation that someone likes you. Being a friend is not the end of the world, and you can always fuck your friends later contrary to what this subreddit believes. Sounds like you … | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Any men of color in large cities getting 0 luck on dating apps?If the majority of people on OKC in my city are X race, and the majority of people prefer dating their own race, statistically people of Y and Z race are going to have fewer responses. I'm not short or overweight. I think I'm good looking and have some pretty interesting pictures. I just wish I could filter what people prefer. It's a waste of time for me to hit up tons of girls if they're not interested in dating my race, would rather save time and message the ones that are. And I'm pretty "ethn… | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Any men of color in large cities getting 0 luck on dating apps?but going out costs money! I want to find sex on the internet for FREE | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 07:09 PM |
| 8 | Any men of color in large cities getting 0 luck on dating apps?did i say it was? | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Any men of color in large cities getting 0 luck on dating apps?what did confidence have to do with him changing his picture to black and white? | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Any men of color in large cities getting 0 luck on dating apps?There are plenty of women who date colored men How many are on compared to the amount looking for white guys though? It feels like a waste of time since I can't filter what race(s) they prefer . There's also quite a lot who "highly prefer to date/marry their own race" in their Questions. I don't have a confidence issue because I get much better luck in person anyway. Most of the spots I hang out at are very diverse racially, and tend hang around dancers, entertainers, and artistic types. There's… | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 10:37 AM |
| 1 | 18 y/o going for a 22. Advice?Talk about something more intimate than cars or jobs ya dork. Build up to questions about personal life, experiences, sex, take her somewhere fun where you can have fun and connect. Generally it's a very bad idea to date coworkers though, for multiple reasons. Made that mistake before. | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Opening on the gymHang out in the studio/exercise room and talk to chicks while they stretch. Don't be a creep, you should be stretching too. | /r/seduction | 04/09/14 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Three Qualities of the Superior Lover from the Way of the Superior Man by David DeidaBook is actually pretty good, not sure about this guy though | /r/seduction | 04/09/14 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Three Qualities of the Superior Lover from the Way of the Superior Man by David Deidacommon sense is subjective. Many would say picking up a girl is common sense, yet here we are. | /r/seduction | 04/09/14 12:04 AM |
| 1 | When has seduction advice not worked for you?Just talk like a normal person. Ask personal questions. Make eye contact. Smile. Stand confidently. The more you think about it the less natural it becomes. You have to develop game that works for your personality. MOST of the stuff posted here does not work with my personality. | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 11:56 PM |
| 5 | When has seduction advice not worked for you?Waiting to text back. For the most part girls just get irritated that I take too long to text back. Making people jealous. It works sometimes if done unintentionally, but most girls who respect themselves won't want an asshole that plays those games. Going to a club with a girl(s). I find that if the girl is good-looking or wants attention from guys, I just have to awkwardly stand on the side while men approach my female friend all night. This has only worked with girls that weren't too pretty, … | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Do most women just wait for a guy to show interest?now i feel like a dick. there is a lot of info on here just search around. hope you can pull plenty of girls and have a great future of love, fun, success, and excitement. good luck | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 04:49 AM |
| -4 | Do most women just wait for a guy to show interest?subreddit should be renamed to /r/awkwardvirginadvice as this gets posted everyday like they lived under the stairs their whole lives | /r/seduction | 03/08/14 10:45 PM |
| 0 | By far the Best Explanation on Hooking a girl.why don't you downvote & move on? Ditto. Not me. I've already done well, I've spent money and never thought to be ashamed of it. I got great. I'm much better than you, I know this just due to your attitude... Funny guy. Did they teach you how to boost your self esteem by judging people by the way they type on the internet too? dumb shit. I have some tips for you: Leave your house. Stop wasting your time venting on the internet. Workout or something. Get more confidence in yourself. You seem very… | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Are you an exciting person? So what are your exciting hobbies?My hobbies that girls get the most excited about: Dance. I'm not even professional anymore but being able to dance sets you on a completely different caliber from the people who can't. I don't just mean jumping around or confidently 2-stepping, but really dancing. The dance world girl guy ratio is commonly 5:1, changing depending on style. Get in the ballet studio and you'll be only guy out of 30 firm ballet butts. Spend enough time in the studios and you're bound to hook up with a number of hot… | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 09:22 PM |
| 19 | By far the Best Explanation on Hooking a girl.The guy who needs to pay for a workshop in order to talk to girls is a calling me a little man. Okay player. | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Any LA sedditors want to meet up or show my buddy and me some good places for night game?People saying UCLA must not be familiar with LA. Westwood/Brentwood's one of the worst areas IMO unless you just wanna talk to asian/jewish girls that go to UCLA. It's easy game cause most of the guys that go to the school tend to have terrible game at least from my experience. You wanna hit up Hollywood, Santa Monica, Venice, West Hollywood, and Downtown. Tonight there is an event called RHONDA which is one of the fastest rising scenes. Venice Beach should be pretty popping today, or hit up the… | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 08:51 PM |
| 43 | By far the Best Explanation on Hooking a girl.Dude this shit is 2 and a half hours long fuck that. | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 08:46 PM |
| 3 | I am going to be starting college soon. I know the stereotype that surrounds college and how people are easily DTF. But when that's not the case, how would I approach?Get in shape. Dress better, you don't have to overdress like a preppy MFA kid. Waste less time on your computer. Make study buddies with girls in your class. Sit next to hot chicks. Crack jokes an make yourself noticed. Most easily: get involved on campus in something a lot of girls also do. It only gets harder and harder after college, so get your practice in now. | /r/seduction | 13/07/14 04:57 PM |
| -2 | Dealing with Robocops: Girls who start calling/texting and won't stopI'd agree but that's not at all what I'm saying. I'm actually saying these bitches do indeed keep a player down with their reluctance to accept a No-Strings agreement and instead incessantly keep track of me like a Robocop | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Dealing with Robocops: Girls who start calling/texting and won't stopWomen deal with this problem too though. I think everyone does who is sexually active with multiple partners that doesn't want attachments. Why does any topic that doesn't sound like something this guy would post always get downvoted in this forum? Brb going to post a topic about how I overcame depression by handing the girl at the grocery store my number written on the back of someone elses business card while giving her the creep wink Is there not a subreddit for people actually in the dating … | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 06:17 PM |
| 1 | /r/Seduction Helped Me Beat DepressionI'm going to be realistic and say there is still a chance of rejection even though she's meeting with you. Be willing to handle rejection and move on to other girls. It's part of the game and you'll have to suck it up. Constant rejection can be a depressing experience and we all go through it at one point or another but it makes our game stronger in the long run. Don't count your eggs before they hatch or you'll be setting yourself up for disappointment. | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble getting laid? Get different friends.quality > quantity | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 07:14 PM |
| 2 | My rules for improving my lifeEvery man needs to learn how to fight. Some people (like me) tend to stick out wherever they go, and possess characteristics others might be threatened by. I'm multi-racial so no matter what group I'm around, I'll never completely fit in. Add to the fact I dress however I want, am not afraid to speak up for myself, and do things that make me happy. People will always find a way to project their insecurities or anger on someone else. You might fly below the radar but not everyone has that look or… | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 03:35 PM |
| 1 | My rules for improving my lifeJust because you don't get into fights doesn't mean others do. I'm multi-racial, Every man needs to know how to fight, whether to defend himself, his family, friends, or step in when there a situation that needs a defender. | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Does a new session with a girl require building up kino again? [General Question]Depends on how comfortable you guys are so far. If youre already holding hands then its no problem. If all you did was rub her leg or hug her, yeah you might have to start over cause you didn't really get anywhere. | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 02:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First Big Breakthrough - Give her your number!Dont count your eggs before they hatch. Most service workers are supposed to be nice, it's their job, it's okay to take a little advantage but you're not really making progress hitting on someone who's required by their job description to be acquiescent towards you. Also, you want to get THEIR number. Girls very rarely ever call first. Do you not have a cell phone to put numbers in? Man up and ask women for their number. All you basically did was have a conversation and pass out your number. Got… | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 02:56 PM |
| 3 | She doesn't feel right having casual sexStay friends. If the sex was good she'll come back around when she's horny again, or when she sees you making moves and wants some of that alpha dick in here again. She also might have other fwbs and picked a better one, or found someone she really likes, or she just might not be that kind of girl and prefers a boyfriend. Don't get emotional about it. Give her space but don't be afraid to flirt a little. Be a cool ass friend and make her mad at herself for saying what she said. And one tip, whic… | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Any advice to become interesting?Social hobbies that women do as well: dance, cooking, exercise, yoga, pilates, fashion, sex, meditation, hiking, camping, sports, it goes on... But your focus should be self-improvement after such a major fallout in your relationship. People becoming interesting by having multiple interests that make up their personality. IF you've been married 18 years it's possible that you're a little on the boring side. I would also try getting advice from people closer to your age. Most people here are in t… | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Girls at the gym.I just hate the whole headphone situation. If she has headphones on she isn't gonna hear me, and if she's wearing them, it's kind of saying don't talk to me. Same if I have my own headphones on, then I gotta be all obvious and shit with my headphones off trying to talk. I hate getting rejected at the gym and having to continue with that awkward ass feeling through the rest of my workout. I like to talk to people in the studio when they're stretching or warming up. Too much commotion on the gym f… | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Girls at the gym.What you have to say is pretty good, I think you're just getting downvoted cause of the opening line and a lot of people here are self conscious of getting made fun of at the gym | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How exactly does good posture develop?It's something you'll have to be aware of the rest of your life, but as you work out and get stronger your muscles will naturally adapt and it will be effortless to have good posture. In fact, it will begin to be preferable. It all also depends on your body, what's tight, what's loose, what's weak, and what's strong. Some people need to loosen up their bodies for better posture, others need to tighten, etc. | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 11:54 AM |
| 1 | "So um... do you have... a .... boyfriend????" How to casually find out if she has a boyfriend.Or she will waste your time/money because she just wants attention or a free drink. | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 11:47 AM |
| 1 | If I get rejected by a girl, I do this thing where I make sure I am TRULY rejected.Don't do this. It's very bad. When I'm with girls and they show me texts of the creepy guys that won't stop bothering them or take a hint, that's who you are when you do that. Stop being so afraid of that stage of uncertainty. Sit with it. One of the problems is being stuck on one girl. Move on other girls and do other shit in your life and you won't have time to keep thinking about the girls who flaked on you. You won't always get immediate gratification. Sometimes you have to walk away from so… | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 05:53 PM |
| 4 | For every super hot girl, there's a guy bored of fucking herAlthough I'm not using it in an intentionally offensive context. Quit being so Sensitivepornguy :p | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 04:17 PM |
| 2 | For every super hot girl, there's a guy bored of fucking herWhy because the way I talk is different from the way you talk? | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 04:12 PM |
| 4 | For every super hot girl, there's a guy bored of fucking herin my head I was think "lust" by typed loathe | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 04:29 AM |
| 0 | For every super hot girl, there's a guy bored of fucking herI avoid virgins actually. It's terrible sex. It's very painful for the girl, they arent enjoying it much, and you can't really fuck a virgin the way you want to. (Unless maybe if you have smaller penis) Would choose an experienced slut over a virgin any day. | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 04:29 AM |
| 2 | For every super hot girl, there's a guy bored of fucking hermy bad i meant to say "lust over." | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 04:23 AM |
| 0 | For every super hot girl, there's a guy bored of fucking herPlayerhaters gonna playerhate. | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Is game really a "thing" in high school?School game is amazingly easy. For high school just get in shape, take care of your looks, be groomed, dress attractive, do your hair, etc. On top of that, do something interesting. Not some magic the gathering crap, but something social that girls do too, like salsa, dance, music, sports, something that's not just stuff nerds do. Picking up girls in High School and College is the easiest experience picking up girls you will ever have | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Creating attraction while in a carI usually rub or grab the leg first to see how they react. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Chickened out on girl at the gym. What should I have done?Believe it or not, a lot of people, men and women, treat the gym as a pick-up spot. Over time you'll learn to spot them out. Classes actually offer more talk time than just hitting the weight room, give it a chance. Plus, when you start to regular there, you'll see the same people and there will be more unplanned interaction which works out better cause it's not as forced. | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 03:47 PM |
| 0 | OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further?I think his advice is fine. If you've been dancing intimately the chemistry is already there. Assumably at that point your bodies have already expressed a sexual interest in one another and have already built up some sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 11:27 PM |
| 7 | OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further?grab her hand, raise it above her head, and use your wrist to turn her around. then grab her waist and get close | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | First time here. 24m just got out of a bad relationship with my girlfriend of a year. Not feeling confident at all about getting back out there. Seeking advice.It may take you longer to get over her than you think, but just know that your wisdom will grow deeper from your experience, and that you can use that knowledge to have better relationships in the future. I wouldn't be too crazy about trying to force yourself to belong to a scene. The place you are happiest, around people who make you happy, is where you belong. A setting or people where you can show your best qualities. This post on bodybuilding has some of the best breakup advice. Also, please… | /r/seduction | 24/01/14 12:37 AM |
| 1 | What is your game plan once you're back at her/his place?Why would that kill it for you? Most girls like to refresh and maybe wash up a bit first. Get a little hydration before working out. Drinking should have already started earlier. Once you get to my place it's all about the fuckin. | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 12:39 AM |
| 2 | What is your game plan once you're back at her/his place?I don't invite them over until I've already started the kissing beforehand, that way it just flows more when you get inside and the heat is already rising. Offer some water or a quick bathroom break, then put on some music and get to the fuckin! | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!I wouldn't say it so absolute, black and white, but I'll definitely try to be more aware if I'm just giving myself an awkward delay in my nervousness. | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 09:25 PM |
| 1 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!Sometimes I dance near a girl waiting for the right song or moment. I'm also scouting to see if the girl can even dance. A girl that is a bad dancer, has no rhythm, or can't follow is a real turn off for me. It's important to find the person you have the right physical chemistry with a dance is a good start. | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 05:52 AM |
| 2 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!I find clubs playing hip-hop/R&B to be a better pickup environment though. It just puts people in that mood. Can't bump and grind to dubstep. Can't slow dance and get intimate with electro house. Just a different environment. | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Good openers for online dating"Would you like to see my penis?" | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Best way to approach a girl in a class who sits with friends?Start by generally socializing and meeting people in the class. Since you're in engineering school I imagine you're around penises all the time so channel your horniness to be social. You can go for it but rejection will make class awkward the rest of the semester. Just talk to her outside of class, or talk to other classmates/her friends. If you're likeable you'll eventually get introduced. Talking to other people easily shows you're a friendly sociable person and makes you more noticeable/attr… | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 04:28 PM |
| 2 | MILF guide?Kind of in the same situation. Girl I'm messing with doesn't understand that dating a guy my age is just going to set her up for heartbreak later down the line, not to mention I don't even have my shit together at all. She looks past my shortcomings and appreciates me, but I think their want to settle down, reproduce, be in that nurturing mother-role can get to their heads quite a bit, and rightfully so. | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 04:22 PM |
| 28 | MILF guide?Currently dating a 34 year old (I'm 25) I'll say older women are much less drama, as long as they don't have family/kids around. I can't speak for women in their 40s and up, but I notice women in their 30s know what they want and really aren't that different from 20-somethings. They don't care about the games, you just need to be sweet, confident, and charming. Don't try to pretend you're older than you are, because then she might aswell date an older man. Being with older women I find I can mor… | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 08:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went to the club for the first time ever by myselfGets in the way if I have to attend to entertaining my female friends. Girls are also higher maintenance and are more likely to want to hop to other spots, whine more, or I gotta deal with guys walking up to us all night trying to talk to the girls. If I'm just hanging out and not worrying about picking anyone up, sure I'll bring girls. But if I'm trying to get some pussy I'd rather go with guy friends or alone. Men and women have different objectives. | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 11:55 PM |
| -1 | [FR] Went to the club for the first time ever by myselfYou don't need "social proof" if you have game. | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 11:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Went to the club for the first time ever by myselfKeep doing it and youll get better at it. It will really help to learn how to dance better. You'll have even more fun dancing and the attention you get will be a lot more positive. If you're dancing crazy and look ridiculous you're more than likely to get rejected more. Also, you don't have to hold your hand out like some prince charming. Let your body and eye contact tell her you want to do dance, follow her steps or match her body, calmly, or just ask. Depends on your style and the situation. … | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 10:54 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Went to the club for the first time ever by myselfI always get less success when I bring girls. You don't bring sand to the beach. | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else feel like some of the better known PUAs are a little bit full of shit?There's a saying my boss once told me : "Keep the meat but throw out the bone". Take from a lesson what could usefully apply to you, discard what doesnt. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 08:05 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First Party at College/EverOh man finally I laughed today. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 01:09 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean when you're maintaining great eye contact, but the girl is looking all over the place?I need to work on my eye contact behavior too. A lot of girls have called me out on it and I'm sure a lot of people get mixed signals from it. Howd you improve this? | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 06:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I got a pizza slice from a girlIt's all good man honestly the more you do it and work on improving the better you will get. Takes patience and belief in yourself. Don't put yourself down. You probably keep bringing up the ethnicity thing because it's easy to talk about (when you look at somebody the first few things you probably think about are their ethnicity). Isn't a horribly bad thing just try to find a way to use the subject more smoothly? "Well you have this long beautiful curly hair so I'm guessing your greek?, Italian… | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 09:15 AM |
| 0 | Too much sex, not enough happinesswhoah and to think she might end up being one of your future girlfriends. sleeping with tons of guys isn't really any great success. just about any girl can get almost any guy they want to fuck them, we are animals programmed to spread our seed. no amount of guys you fuck can make you forget about your ex until you find soundness and resolution in yourself. would you want the next person you end up really liking to have a similar story ? | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 05:33 AM |
| 5 | [FR] I got a pizza slice from a girlhow can you guys seriously remember this much detail? especially the dialogue? I might remember what I talked about or what jokes I cracked but I could never recall my convos line by line like that. makes me feel like some of these FRs are fiction. I felt really annoyed reading all this dialogue. And why do you need to keep bringing up race? That shit is annoying and makes you look ignorant. It really should be the last thing you bring up. Asking if a girl likes video games just cause you find o… | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Doing sports activities as a datePhysical activities can be some of the best dates in my opinion, being somewhat athletic myself. I'd do something diff from reg sports like kayaking, rock climbing, trail running, just to show that you're outgoing and open to doing new things (if you are). | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Hand them your cell phone when asking for a number. Here's why.I've seen this go wrong though!: Sometimes the girls will just play around with your phone and give it back without putting their number in, so make sure your game has driven her to put it in, | /r/seduction | 05/07/12 08:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Straight guys, gay clubs are your friend.thats cool you had that experience. In Los Angeles, enough straight dudes already know whats up, and its not rare for girls to get hit on in gay clubs here unless theyre ugly. I must be attractive to guys because i get hit on and groped on a LOT, but I just don't feel like enough girls are there to meet guys. I mean, theres straight girls, but I don't feel there's enough of them looking for guys for it to be worth my time. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:48 AM |
| 4 | What are some good baby making music?depends on the girl, the setting, and your own style. Lately I've been bumping The Weeknd, Frank Ocean, and Drake. This Song has not failed me once at all. Been using it for years. Plus, R&B songs tend to be nice and long. Pandora isnt always good cause a commercial or wrong song can kill the mood. Have your playlists set up ahead of time. If you want I could send you some of my knockin boot mixes | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 07:42 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Quick FR on a clever opener I had last nightMost def. Having more and more people like you will always work in your favor. Complimenting people shows charisma, charm, and also security. Take advantage of opportunities to make others look good, it makes you a person people want to be around. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 07:37 AM |
| 1 | I seem to only be attracting older women. Can't keep a girl my age interested. Any theories?This has worked both decisively for, and brutally against me in college. Definitely feel out the personalities. I actually ended up losing some very sweet cute girls pulling the asshole idgaf atitude. | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 10:23 AM |
| 5 | Club Bitchesman I got a headache just reading this, too much. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 11:09 PM |
| 3 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2True, but models tend to have body dysmorphic disorder, at least the ones I've dated. They throw up in your toilet when you're not looking. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 06:02 PM |
| 4 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2If you’re a big guy, say “Why are you SOOO fat? Jeez, go to the gym sometimes…” Be careful though. Nope. Do not use. Girl will remember this forever. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Sing to herradiohead - creep | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 05:05 PM |
| 9 | Has pickup made you loose faith in women ?Yeah but he's saying that these girls that are in committed relationships have engaged in random sex. This has reduced my faith in trustable relationships aswell | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 08:37 PM |
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