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Being dependent on exogenous hormones isn’t bad. Yeah you have to inject yourself like once or twice a week but it’s not much different than other maintenance items like brushing your teeth or going to the gym or changing the oil in your car. I agree that you shouldn’t use steroids when you’re young but when you’re 30 or 40 it’s a good tradeoff considering you can literally feel like superman throughout the rest of your life. Why do you think so many people do it? Who cares if it shrinks your ba…
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:17 PM
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What if i told you door #2 is right behind door #1
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:50 PM
-5

O wow i had no idea whatsoever
/r/seduction30/04/25 01:04 AM
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You are clearly a young and inexperienced dude making a lot of assumptions. Who said OP has a receding hairline and wrinkles? Lots of college age girls are into older men, ive fucked lots of them and im 32. Yeah you still have to be attractive but an attractive older dude is waaay hotter than an attractive dude her own age.
/r/seduction29/04/25 10:12 PM
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Sex with strangers will always be risky bc there are people like me walking around who never disclose their herpes status which is more common than you think. If you are banging multiple women and intend on doing it for a while you will eventually catch it and frankly, it’s not a big deal. I get a breakout like once a year and nobody has ever complained. It’s impossible to completely prevent infection but if she isn’t having an active breakout it’s unlikely you will catch it
/r/seduction29/04/25 10:05 PM
1

Go out alone and meet others like you, boom, new friends
/r/seduction29/04/25 07:03 PM
-4

I don’t tell any of the girls im sleeping with that i have herpes. No I’m not a monster I won’t fuck a girl if i have an active breakout but yeah nobody has complained yet. This lie is kind of perfect because you can just pretend you didn’t know you had it since it’s so hard to detect since it’s often asymptomatic
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:31 PM
5

Yeah but don’t you want other hot girls interested in you?
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:39 PM
10

The only point of fucking 9s is appearing in public with them to get other 9s interested in you. Go out with them to local venues and post them on your ig story.
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:57 PM
1

I recommend you try daily affirmations
/r/seduction01/04/25 06:01 PM
1

Health should be your #1 priority, im big on fitness. No matter what happens in life the only thing that’s yours is your mind and body.
/r/seduction01/04/25 05:47 PM
17

Think of it like this: imagine you’re trying to get honey out of a beehive for the first time. If you just hover around the edges, you might sneak a little honey here and there, but you’ll never figure out how to handle the bees or get to the real payoff. Now, if you dive right in, yeah, you’re gonna get stung—a lot. But with each sting, you learn: how to move, when to stay still, and how to grab the honey without getting swarmed. Over time, you get sharper, more confident, and the stings bother…
/r/seduction29/03/25 06:50 PM
2

Just avoid west 6th and dirty 6th and you’re golden as those are very much the designated “college” bars. Everywhere else age don’t matter too much. Check out east sixth, the domain and rainey street. If you like metal music check out hotel vegas. If you like edm check out the concourse project
/r/seduction27/03/25 06:21 PM
0

You can get away with being fat if you’re tall bc chicks dig big men who can smother them or whatever. Less so if you’re short. Either way, lose the weight, fatty
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:59 AM
4

You were done before you even started. Just from this tiny excerpt it is painfully obvious you are still obsessed with her and she was right to dump you. It is over bro. Stop embarrassing yourself. Get your shit together and move on. I am willing to bet you have not touched anyone else since the breakup either.
/r/seduction26/03/25 09:48 PM
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So when you’re sober you take time to think about what you’re saying to try to make it hit well. When you’re drink you just say it without thinking without worrying if it will hit or not. That’s confidence.
/r/seduction25/03/25 07:14 AM
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I started two stepping in September and quickly gained a bit of a “player” reputation. Yeah, there are rumors about me, but surprisingly they actually work in my favor. Women gossip, but here’s the thing: I have already been with some of them. And because I treat them well, making sure they are satisfied and respected, they actually vouch for me. It creates this interesting dynamic where the conflicting rumors make me more intriguing. When women hear both good and bad things, it sparks curiosity…
/r/seduction24/03/25 10:03 PM
-2

You reek of insecurity and inexperience
/r/seduction24/03/25 09:52 PM
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Oh I get it. It’s definitely chivalrous but still not seduction. Would opening a door for a lady be seduction? I would hope you answer no. It would do you well to try to understand instead of being arrogant
/r/seduction24/03/25 08:59 PM
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This is simply not seduction
/r/seduction24/03/25 06:21 PM
4

Hit up the piano bars my g
/r/seduction25/01/25 11:02 PM
4

Career women will love it. Golddiggers and babytrappers will not.
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:59 PM
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No bro what foreheads kisses are essential for sinking your claws into em
/r/seduction22/01/25 06:42 PM
10

Demon mode: block her on hinge and tell her you deleted it and don’t feel like you need it right now
/r/seduction10/01/25 11:37 PM
-1

Ask if she wants to do cardio at your place
/r/seduction09/01/25 01:28 AM
1

Buy an ad
/r/seduction08/01/25 11:53 PM
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Just be friendly and don’t commit to anyone but honestly bro you’re a dumb 18 year old you have a lot to learn but whatever you do always wear a rubber and don’t get anyone pregnant 👍
/r/seduction05/01/25 12:48 AM
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I’m not leading her on into a relationship but I can tell she by the way she acts and the questions she asks is that’s what she’s hoping will happen. I don’t intend to lie to her or anything I’m more looking for specific phrasing so that she isn’t hurt and would possibly want to continue keeping things casual.
/r/seduction31/12/24 04:33 AM
1

Approach until your eyes bleed, next
/r/seduction31/12/24 04:11 AM
7

It sounds cringe but regularly listen to confidence affirmations on YouTube. Trust
/r/seduction28/12/24 07:35 PM
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This kind of mindset is harmful because it gives people an excuse to stay miserable instead of taking responsibility for their lives. Sure, there’s a small percentage of people, like combat veterans with severe PTSD or lifelong meth addicts, who might not be able to overcome depression through lifestyle changes. But for the majority, that’s not the case. If you’re depressed but refuse to eat real food, exercise, build meaningful relationships, or pursue anything fulfilling, you’re choosing to st…
/r/seduction28/12/24 07:30 PM
0

You must be. I'm not going to be your therapist so instead you can ask ChatGPT the following: Can you help me identify which of my needs are fulfilled based on Maslow's hierarchy of needs?
/r/seduction28/12/24 07:18 PM
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fix your depression first. hint: it's not just a chemical imbalance in the brain, it's more to do with you not doing what you want.
/r/seduction28/12/24 09:03 AM
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Bois imperial. Trust.
/r/seduction26/12/24 11:48 PM
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just text them when you're not horny. that'll be 350 dollars
/r/seduction16/12/24 05:02 PM
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Step one by friendly and learn to talk to everyone not just the pretty girls Step two learn to flirt with the pretty girls and show interest. Flirt to flirt and make them feel giddy without getting any phone numbers or dates Step three once you’re comfortable talking to people and making pretty girls smile and blush then you can start being suggestive and give them a BUSINESS CARD which is the only socially acceptable way to do this at work. Make it look good and put sales specialist or somethin…
/r/seduction16/12/24 05:01 PM
1

Why do you think you have any authority sharing your unenlightened opinion when it’s painfully obvious you’ve never seen pussy irl? It’s not a man or woman thing, the person who is the “prize” is the one who needs the other the least.
/r/seduction14/12/24 11:13 PM
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Pussy attention seeking behavior. Wahhh I want her to make me feel wanted. Grow the fuck up bro
/r/seduction12/12/24 10:52 PM
33

If they wearing jordans they down
/r/seduction12/12/24 10:46 PM
9

I like skyn and lifestyles. It’s very much personal preference so try a few. Get a variety pack or something from condom depot dot com
/r/seduction12/12/24 09:18 PM
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Yes but please for the love of god do not fall in love with them or get them pregnant. Condom 100% of the time, check expiration date and condition of the packaging prior to use. Also don’t keep them in the car or in direct sunlight
/r/seduction12/12/24 09:02 PM
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Why lie? Because women want to feel genuinely attractive and a dude who goes out every night being a slut is just going to see her as another notch in the belt and that is NOT something women are interested in being so yeah lying is essential if you're into the whole seduction pick up thing because, let's face it, we're walking red flags
/r/seduction06/12/24 08:25 PM
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Love it 😂
/r/seduction06/12/24 07:24 PM
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I go out a lot homie my friends aren’t up for it
/r/seduction05/12/24 08:51 PM
5

Haha that’s cute
/r/seduction05/12/24 08:51 PM
0

Nah just tiny rings
/r/seduction05/12/24 08:49 PM
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You need a stronger frame. Others may look down on you for trying to score and they’re entitled to their opinion but there’s nothing wrong with it and you are well within your right to do what you want. It’s not like you’re gonna get kicked out or anything. It’s perfectly reasonable to go to a bar and hit on chicks.
/r/seduction01/12/24 10:57 PM
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It’s normal and everyone does it. There’s no shame in going out to hit on hotties, in fact that’s exactly what these places are for. The fact you are asking this question shows us you still have some shame for wanting to talk to girls, you should work on that.
/r/seduction01/12/24 10:04 PM
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When girls say a guy is too nice they mean the guy is too inauthentic and tries to be nice for the sake of fucking them and not cuz they’re actually nice
/r/seduction27/11/24 03:21 AM
1

Honestly bro I haven’t touched that stuff but I can definitely see myself getting into it
/r/seduction24/11/24 08:41 AM
1

I'm seeing a bunch of BlackDragon books. Is there specific material you would recommend me?
/r/seduction22/11/24 07:16 PM
2

Your posts really resonated with me, thank you so much.
/r/seduction22/11/24 06:30 PM
1

Thank you, that helps
/r/seduction22/11/24 06:20 PM
1

The whole thing is smooth bot just that one line. You completely reframe the interaction by pretty much disregarding what she said and kissing her.
/r/seduction22/11/24 05:58 PM
2

Yo that’s smooth af
/r/seduction22/11/24 08:56 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction22/11/24 12:16 AM
2

Yes I am. I go for hairpullling neck kissing and ass grabbing
/r/seduction21/11/24 11:53 PM
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Any tips or material you can recommend for creating a more sexual frame? Also, are you saying I shouldn’t bring them to my place?
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:09 PM
5

In that case you need platinum. No other way around it. If you don’t want platinum then just pay for boosts and set them off at like 10pm. Tinder is pay to win even if you are attractive because there’s people just as attractive as you that do buy platinum.
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:05 PM
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If you don’t have the body of a Greek god tinder is nightmare level difficulty
/r/seduction21/11/24 09:43 PM
1

Just work on your social media bro it’s not hard. Get good pics over the course of the year, make some photographer friends and do cool stuff that are ig worthy
/r/seduction19/11/24 06:53 AM
2

My bad homie, I misunderstood your post 👍
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:12 PM
2

News flash: you can change. Revolutionary, I know
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:08 PM
1

If you’re always the one reaching out, it might be time to question what you bring to the table. Asking, “Why should I offer value if they don’t?” is a weak mindset. Strong relationships aren’t built on keeping score; they’re built on showing up, even if it means being the one who gives more at times. Being a good friend isn’t about waiting for others to earn your kindness—it’s about making a difference because that’s the kind of person you choose to be. When you genuinely show up for people, th…
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:07 PM
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I can’t watch those videos right now, but I’ll definitely queue them up for when I need a comedy break. You’re out here acting like ‘playing the devil’ and chasing one-night stands makes you some kind of visionary. Spoiler: it doesn’t. And throwing in morality? No one even brought that up. The fact that you think empathy and morality are the same thing just highlights how painfully shallow your worldview is. Maybe get some real life experience before trying to drop ‘wisdom.’
/r/seduction05/11/24 08:47 PM
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Well I already answered your question. If you feel like these friends of yours don't add anything to your life then maybe you need to make some new friends that you actually like. Groundbreaking, right? You come off as someone who might struggle with empathy, and that’s probably why your relationships are more ‘meh’ than meaningful. If I were you, I’d take a hard look in the mirror and ask myself some tough questions: Am I creating an atmosphere that others find enjoyable, or do I sometimes come…
/r/seduction05/11/24 08:06 PM
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Look, being hot helps, but you’re seriously overestimating the level of 'Greek god' you need to get a girl interested. You don’t need a 10/10 face and abs carved out of stone. Just look like you’ve made some attempt at being presentable. Get a decent haircut, wear clean clothes that actually go together, and please—invest in some basic hygiene. After that, what really matters is your personality. Spoiler alert: If you aren’t bringing Brad Pitt looks to the table, then charisma and actually being…
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:59 PM
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If that’s seriously how you feel, you might be chronically online, my dude. Believe it or not, talking to other guys has actual, real-life benefits. You can make friends, do cool stuff together, get invited to parties, and meet people who aren't just pixels on a screen. Touch some grass—there’s a whole world out there
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:48 PM
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I like that!
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:45 PM
1

Brother I doubt you've seen a titty in real life this year without paying for it. YOU are this post's target demographic
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:45 PM
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When I meet someone new, I’m genuinely curious about who they are. I want to understand their personality, their passions, and what makes them tick. Each person is on their own path, with perspectives and experiences I can learn from—even if they differ from mine. This kind of curiosity isn’t just about small talk; it’s about showing respect and valuing the depth of someone’s story. If this sounds foreign to you, it might be because you’re lacking empathy. Low empathy makes it harder to connect …
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:43 PM
1

That’s really fucking weird dude and her face should be your indicator that you messed up, you need to keep going out until you learn what you should and shouldn’t say.
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:27 PM
1

Absolutely! My best interactions ever start with me just going up and being like hey how you doin and going from there.
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:25 PM
2

Without a doubt
/r/seduction01/11/24 08:21 PM
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It’s common for doctors to be socially retarded because they focus so much on career so don’t feel too bad about it. It can be fixed but you’re gonna have to put it some serious leg work to undo all those years of poor socialization. The solution is to spam approach. 1-2 on weekdays and 10+ on outings. Treat every failure as a learning opportunity and don’t give up no matter what. Be a scientist. Observe others, experiment, and keep pushing the envelope. Maybe supplement with a general pick up b…
/r/seduction01/11/24 07:47 PM
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Anytime lil bro
/r/seduction01/11/24 06:01 PM
1

The same way you get better at walking, you walk. It’s not rocket science, people
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:26 PM
1

Elaborate pls cuz I’m tryna date a stripper rn
/r/seduction30/10/24 07:39 PM
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You wanna fuck em tho
/r/seduction30/10/24 03:51 PM
8

99% of girls on dating apps who have ig or sc on their bio are OFers who want you to sub or bots
/r/seduction30/10/24 12:08 AM
1

what's your favorite genuine game literature?
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:59 PM
1

Nope never unless it’s a fashion, art or music guy
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:22 PM
1

It certainly doesn't hurt and in my experience it helps a lot. Do you want play or do you want 8s, 9s and 10s?
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:13 PM
1

Firstly if you’re fat, small or weak hit the gym. Linear progression program like leangains or greyskull lp and eat .7 grams of protein per lb of goal bodyweight every single day. Then learn to dress decent, if you aren’t sure how then take inspiration from other men you see on your outings. If you are good in those departments then focus on dialogue aka get into as many conversations as possible. We’re talking like 30-40 conversations with both men and women a week. 1-2 on weekdays and 10+ on o…
/r/seduction28/10/24 08:52 PM
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Like 90% lol. I would never have success if I didn’t go out and spam approach which is why I recommend that over pussyfooting around with like 1 approach a week which is ridiculous for 99% of guys here
/r/seduction27/10/24 01:21 AM
1

It’s literally the simplest thing to go talk to a girl and see if y’all vibe too many think it’s life or death lmao
/r/seduction27/10/24 12:45 AM
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Oh, so OP is asking why no one helps the 'community' for free? Plenty of people here do, including me. But let’s be real, I’m not about to set up a tripod and make YouTube videos just to be nice. If I’m going that far, you bet I’ll monetize, coach, and get paid by those too scared to just walk up to a girl and start a conversation.
/r/seduction26/10/24 05:56 AM
-5

We’re busy getting laid. Not everyone who likes to chase girls is a pua influencer. Are you 12 years old?
/r/seduction26/10/24 04:36 AM
-7

Great observation, Einstein
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:08 PM
0

I went out and got rejected thousands of times
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:51 PM
1

💩
/r/seduction22/10/24 08:11 PM
4

Changing how you see yourself doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time, effort, and consistency. But there’s one simple technique that might help speed things up. It’s called confidence affirmations. I know it sounds a little out there, and I was skeptical too, but it actually worked for me. It took me about 5-8 weeks to start noticing a shift, but eventually, I saw real results. The idea is simple: you listen to affirmations, which are just statements like "I’m confident," "I’m capable," and "I’…
/r/seduction17/10/24 09:03 PM
2

I wasn’t normal bro I was a video game playing no shower having depressed anxious shut in for years. I’m not hating on anyone and give mad props to anyone looking to improve. I’m just saying seduction is not learning to say hi to a girl. That’s basic social skills. I really don’t think you can deny that. Yes basic social skills can LEAD to developing seduction but saying hi is the bare minimum and the goal of this post is a reality check to those who are stuck at basic social skills and haven’t …
/r/seduction15/10/24 06:28 PM
3

You are exactly who I’m talking about. Shut up dweeb I can immediately tell you haven’t spoken to a girl in months past stammering ‘h-h-hello c-can I have your n-number’
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:28 AM
0

What exactly did he say?
/r/seduction14/10/24 09:30 PM
21

Quit being a bookworm and go out as much as you can
/r/seduction14/10/24 07:56 AM
30

Be fit, dress nice, have some charisma and social intelligence and you can approach women in their late 20s easily
/r/seduction13/10/24 10:41 PM
2

My advice bro is pick a bar you like going every week and become a regular. Meet the other regulars and just have fun without trying to get laid. Make this your home bar then once you get a grasp of being in that kind of social environment by being there and watching others start going to other bars and chase poon there. Fuck this whole subreddit bro this is the best advice you’ll ever get
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:19 AM
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If you are there just to see her then yes, you are being a creep.
/r/seduction12/10/24 08:08 PM
4

No, why are you in such a rush? Quick is for bars and clubs
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:54 PM
7

Yeah don't talk to girls who are working, it's generally a bad idea unless you are a regular and see them frequently and build rapport slowly week by week
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:50 PM
7

Yeah that's bad. You need to build rapport. Try having 5 minute conversations with both men and women without asking for their contact information.
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:39 PM
6

Tell us your strategy when approaching girls in DETAIL, step by step
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:20 PM
5

The same way you practice walking
/r/seduction10/10/24 09:30 PM
3

No. You can slay as a fat fuck but it's a lot harder in a fitness centric activity like yoga because those girls care more.
/r/seduction10/10/24 09:22 PM
-4

Only works if you’re fit
/r/seduction10/10/24 08:01 PM
20

Always assume attraction up until the point she tells you she has a boyfriend or to go away.
/r/seduction10/10/24 01:53 AM
2

Text fat girls that are way below your league and get those reps in boii
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:41 AM
-1

What if I told you you should want them to see other girls message you
/r/seduction09/10/24 12:23 AM
2

You can give physical compliments when you first meet her but start with non physical compliments first.
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:52 AM
3

Physical compliments are cool, but they’re better saved for when you’ve got some chemistry going. Early on, focus on what makes her tick. If she’s into painting, fashion, or crafts, hit her with, ‘You’ve got that creative vibe, I like that.’ If she’s talking academics, go with, ‘Smart is seriously attractive. I’m into that.’ And if she’s all about ballet or the violin, say, ‘That kind of dedication’s rare—you’ve got some serious discipline.’ The goal is to show her you’re paying attention to wha…
/r/seduction08/10/24 01:32 AM
1

Security is a bum job. If you want to stay in the industry start your own business. Otherwise, get a new job that makes more money and has more status.
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:26 PM
7

That “exotic” line is painfully cringe. Seriously, no one enjoys being turned into a stereotype or fetishized based on their looks. And the “sweet” line? It’s passable at best, but stacking it right after the “exotic” comment just makes the whole thing double the cringe. Pro tip: skip the shallow flattery and focus on something that actually shows you see her as a person, not just a face.
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:12 PM
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It’s not about the words you use; it’s about actually giving a damn about them as people. Genuine interest is like a breath of fresh air for women who are used to dealing with guys who barely try to understand them.
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:49 AM
2

No it's not what you wrote is unironically really profound and wise
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:34 AM
2

Bro you’re smart af can we be friends?
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:12 AM
1

On a good weekend I can convert into 3 dates
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:11 AM
1

Which topics would you like to see me cover?
/r/seduction06/10/24 11:02 PM
1

And what do you think becoming socially calibrated entails? That’s right! Approaching and being okay with fucking up. Crash and burn and try to do a little better next time :)
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:09 PM
1

I’m glad it moved you. I recommend saving it in your notes and reviewing it every so often.
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:07 PM
5

Are you really this dense? Isn’t it obvious that the fear of saying or doing something stupid comes from the fact that no one wants to get rejected?
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:55 PM
10

Just a quick glance at this poster's comment history shows they’re a 44-year-old NEET still whining about how their parents treated them. This is what happens when you wallow in self-pity—congratulations, you’re living proof of how not to grow up!
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:28 PM
5

It’s not rocket science. You can literally walk up to any girl and say, “Hey, how’s your night?” She’s not going to bite or set you on fire. Stop overthinking it and just act like a normal human being for once.
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:18 PM
7

That's why approaching is so important—it forces you to face challenges and actually grow. You want a risk-free interaction? Try staying in your comfort zone forever.
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:05 PM
1

Same way you deal with other sins–repent.
/r/seduction06/10/24 08:54 AM
1

For me nail extensions are those that view relationships more transactionally aka gold diggers
/r/seduction03/10/24 01:07 AM
1

If you’re fat, no
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:45 AM
2

You’ll have to do some research for your city. I’d check Reddit and Facebook groups for: city name salsa, bachata, two step, country swing, swing or just dance.
/r/seduction24/09/24 03:31 AM
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Especially if it's a golden retriever puppy
/r/seduction23/09/24 08:58 PM
1

It can be either or. Sometimes I literally extend my hand out and they'll grab it and we'll dance for a whole song and not exchange a single word. Sometimes I'll start a conversation before I ask. Sometimes we'll dance and I'll ask them how their night is going while we're dancing. But bro don't get stuck on the details man the thing you should be focusing on is # of approaches and dancing is phenomenal for that.
/r/seduction23/09/24 08:56 PM
3

Go out and approach at least 10-15 women a night every weekend for like 6-8 weeks nonstop. Dance socials are great for this because it’s expected to approach in order to dance. That’s it man you don’t have to make it more complicated than that.
/r/seduction23/09/24 08:24 PM
2

Number 1 goal for you is weight loss. I’ll try to make it simple for you. 500-750 calorie deficit every single day. Track everything in the Chronometer app. When I say everything I mean literally everything, including sauces and oils used in cooking. It’s good you already walk to work but I want 10,000 steps every single day. That’s about two 45 minute walks. Lastly I want at least 150 grams of protein every single day. If you can manage that then great but ideally you’ll also start lifting weig…
/r/seduction23/09/24 05:59 PM
3

Honestly it’s just any male dominated space
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:25 PM
0

Figure out what makes you anxious and keep doing it until you’re not anxious anymore. If you’re the therapy type look into CBT therapy.
/r/seduction20/09/24 05:54 PM
-1

You're projecting. That pressure you feel is exactly what anxiety is.
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:02 PM
1

Yes I'm in TX
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:00 PM
20

Do you ever feel this way with friends? Probably not. Your problem is anxiety and you need to put yourself in a non-anxious state. What has helped me is dancing at country bars. I approach 10+ women a night asking for dances and doing that alone has made me 100% comfortable approaching anybody and getting rejected.
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:45 AM
38

They’re testing to see how thirsty you are. And bro end every first date with a kiss trust me it’s mandatory
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:41 AM
1

Not really, I just went with the main recommendation I found on reddit. The only thing I suggest is to try to take lessons from multiple people as everyone has different teaching styles and you may learn better with a particular instructor.
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:52 PM
1

I simply searched "two-step my city lesson Reddit" and found several threads discussing local companies that offer free lessons. From there, I visited their websites, checked their schedules, and went to the venues, which were typically western-themed bars around town. I also suggest looking into Facebook groups—just search for "your city dance," whether it's two-step, bachata, swing, or whatever style you're interested in. Another option is to call local dance studios and ask if they know of an…
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:14 PM
1

I do two step. Beginner is like two stances, the bridge between them, 1 lead spin (man), 1 follow spin (women). intermediate is 2 more stances and spins out of them. I’ve yet to do an advanced class. But I imagine it’ll be more stances and transitions between them.
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:51 AM
3

Decently large cities should have free social events aka “socials”check Facebook groups and call some dance studios and ask if they know about any free lessons
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:22 PM
3

Hell yeah brother you’re killing it
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:04 PM
1

what city you in
/r/seduction14/09/24 09:38 AM
2

The key is to be as good looking as possible and have great photos. If you have that you can have shit texting and still score. Like if you’re not looking your best it’s a loser’s game you might as well get off the apps and cold approach
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:29 AM
0

OP is indian btw
/r/seduction25/08/24 08:48 PM
5

If you live in Austin I’ll coach you one weekend for free
/r/seduction25/08/24 09:21 AM
1

Maybe, post some screenshots and get feedback
/r/seduction24/08/24 05:41 AM
15

Not ugly and those are rookie numbers. Set aside 3 months to go out every thu, fri and sat and hit on as many girls as possible. I’m talking like 10 approaches a night minimum. It will suck and be cringe annoying and embarrassing but by the end of it you’d have developed a good base for social skills which is really what’s holding you back, not your looks. The fact you even think it’s about looks tells me how absolutely terrified you are of approaching women. You’d rather think you’re ugly than …
/r/seduction24/08/24 05:25 AM
14

Many college age women will disqualify you because of your age. That doesn’t mean you won’t get any but hedge your expectations.
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:04 AM
11

That’s cuz you’re arrogant and will probably be for a long time
/r/seduction23/08/24 10:03 PM
6

That part is important so she doesn’t feel like a slut. “If feelings develop” is your fallback if you get any drama.
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:40 PM
6

Game recognizes game 😎
/r/seduction23/08/24 08:35 AM
60

Just ask her out on dates and try to fuck her. If she asks what you’re looking for tell her you want to keep things casual and maybe more if feelings develop. Don’t ever say I love you first and if she does it’s time to end things unless you actually wanna date her then.
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:49 AM
1

No. Someone in his position can’t just flip the “be cool” switch. He’s desperate, you understand? He’s a virgin at 31, you understand? He’s WEIRD. Do you have ANY idea how hard it is for someone in that position to develop enough social skills to land a gf? They’d have to go out every weekend for a year probably, maybe more. Let’s hope he’s not bald or ugly either cuz at 31 we’re entering old creeper territory with younger women and women his age will sniff out his lack of social calibration alm…
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:39 AM
6

Ok then they not for you. You wanna lie? I like pussy as much as the next guy but you can still respect people enough to not lie to their face for your own gratification. Be honest and they’ll respect you for it and I promise some of them will fuck you for it where they wouldn’t have if you tried to play it off like you wanted a relationship even tho you don’t. They deal with men doing that all the time and they WILL sniff you out most of the time.
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:17 AM
18

Pulling back only works when she has already fully invested in you. Her investment ebbs and flows but an example of when it’s at a high is when she fucks you. That’s when you can pull back and have her coming back
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:11 AM
46

Women have a certain creative playfulness that most men don’t have or understand. They like aesthetics, creativity and making stuff. That’s why they like thrifting, sewing, baking, painting, interior design, etc… it also helps them ease their anxieties as they’re focusing their mind on something creative. The art guy is just someone who sees the world through a lense that most men don’t and that’s attractive to women because it’s a novelty and it’s something they can relate with
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:09 AM
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Women wanna be sluts too. Just treat em normal and when they ask what you’re looking for just be like casual dates and maybe more if feelings get involved and leave it at that. That’s it my boi
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:02 AM
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Nothing seems to work? Really? Chances are he’s not trying to improve himself and just wants to inner game his way into pussy when he should be getting his ass in the gym.
/r/seduction22/08/24 02:57 PM
24

I’ve went out with some guys from game groups and honestly like 90% are weird af and it’s embarrassing to be seen with them sometimes
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:32 AM
1

This question entirely depends on your city. If you live away from the city you’re not gonna have a Rolodex of honnies as opposed to somewhere like SF, Austin, or Denver
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:39 AM
9

Ask better questions
/r/seduction09/07/24 03:12 PM
2

If you feel good you act good. So learn to enjoy yourself. If your body is stiff take swing, salsa or bachata classes and go to socials.
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:52 PM
14

IMO yes every time. I always go for the kiss no matter what
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:26 PM
2

Bro you already have a base now you just gotta approach until your eyes bleed
/r/seduction21/05/24 04:03 PM
2

Take a hint bro she don’t want you
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:17 PM
2

You’re such a pussy dude just hit her up and be like how ya been what are you up to this weekend o cool hey you wanna check out x venue with me. If she’s down with you she’ll say yes if not ask her what she’s doing and if it’s a lame excuse you know she’s not interested. End of story it’s literally that easy
/r/seduction20/05/24 06:40 PM
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You will absolutely fuck this up and I can tell that just from the title you chose for this thread. It reeks scarcity and that will not change overnight. My best advice is to learn from when you fuck up and do better next time. You will probably fuck up a hundred more times and if that seems like a high number you aren’t approaching nearly enough. My advice to you is keep texts to a minimum. No more than 3-4 a day. Skip some days and keep it mostly to logistics.
/r/seduction20/05/24 06:30 PM
35

If you got good vibes and not stifled/reserved you’ll do good. You really can’t do the mysterious shtick you really have to learn how to be the life of the party
/r/seduction20/05/24 06:22 PM
1

yw. save it off reddit cuz i delete my posts regularly
/r/seduction27/04/24 11:25 PM
1

If you go out enough you're somewhat attractive you'll know the timing. Just make eye contact with everyone throughout the day (smile, don't be a weirdo) every day and and make observations on how long different people look at you. It's especially obvious with older women who are past their prime. It's like half a sec vs 1+ seconds. They'll play along if they're interested in you, otherwise they won't. Yes you should've, just put your hands on their hips and lean back while pulling her in so she…
/r/seduction27/04/24 11:24 PM
3

On the dance floor it’s all abt body language. First thing first is you need to dance to the music and smile, nothing crazy just some shoulder and hand work. Look around for moves you can mirror from other people (even those you arnt interested in) so if someone is waving their hands in the air you can wave yours in the same fashion. This is just having fun on the dance floor 101, it amps you and their state when they see your mirroring them. If it’s with a girl and she’s into you she’ll lock ey…
/r/seduction27/04/24 08:02 PM
32

Perfect
/r/seduction27/04/24 07:07 AM
1

Google libgen
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:07 PM
1

What did he say
/r/seduction24/04/24 04:21 AM
1

Thanks, I was in a special mood when I wrote that
/r/seduction20/04/24 12:50 PM
4

Eye contact is simply a glimpse into their soul. You can gauge so much about what she’s thinking just by reading her face. It’s intimidating because it makes her feel vulnerable because she knows you can read her emotions. It’s pretty much like taking off their clothes.
/r/seduction16/04/24 04:40 AM
2

You just gotta get good. If you find a girl you like you approach no matter how inconvenient it will be for you.
/r/seduction15/04/24 03:56 AM
31

As a man who used to be sweet and accommodating, it got me nowhere.
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