Dealing with last minute resistance from 9s and 10s

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-11-21T22:11:26+00:00

the bad kind of last minute resistance is where the girl wants to leave then block you. Not much u can do about that, this is when she finds you sexually unattractive.

If she's sees you as expendable yet sexually attractive, she's more likely to hook up with you fast.

When a girl likes you and sees complete package potential, she will also give resistance because she cares if you think she is easy.

In the later scenario, it's to test your interest level to confirm beauty can't hold power over you to make sure u are that full package. Play it cool, walk her to her car or drop her off on good terms, behave like it don't matter if u get laid or not. If she is interested, she will reach back out to you or respond if u ask her to hangout.

burncushlikewood · 2024-11-22T02:38:01+00:00

Give her space, be patient, slow things down

Informal_Sherbert251 · 2024-11-22T10:19:15+00:00

Last min resistance is NORMAL. It’s a part of the game. Let them have that safety.

Like in American football there’s a time where the two teams stop to set up their defenses again. Let the women have the ability to say no at anytime and have that self control.

Big reason on why this is a huge power play is: It shows the woman you have respect. It shows that if something goes wrong you aren’t just focused on sex. It allows her to believe that you are a safe guy and will probably make herself want you as the guy more because that’s actual provision.

Be outcome independent on if you score or not. Would also highly recommend stop focusing on trying to penetrate her in the earlier part of the sex play. Put her first and after the first part of escalation kiss her all over her body then ask how does she like it. And then if she says anything other then being ate out first, ask instead of “don’t you wanna be eaten up?” IF YOU LIKE TO MAKE HER CLIMAX.

This is a huge fundamental that most men just don’t do. If you don’t know how to make a woman climax, just look it up because it’s not just penetration. But by putting her first you’ll get that second call from her 80% of the time. And it’s wired in their brains to satisfy someone else after they get satisfied. So if they get their fun, you’ll get yours.

And it’s better this way. Do you honestly enjoy putting any more effort into a woman after you climax? Is your sex drive necessary to go multiple rounds or are you just so happy to feel all the sensations you get? Would highly recommend looking up a fellow named BlackDragon for his fundamentals for how you are with 9’s and 10’s and how to take your game to the next level. Happy hunting and I hope this helps.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-11-22T08:17:06+00:00

There's usually a lot of resistance to 9's and 10's sleeping with someone or having a one night stand. If she's gives you some LMR you're going to have to counter back. 9's and 10's are notorious for shit testing. If she says she wants a date first I'd say "And what'll that tell you? My favorite color? My favorite movie? It's all the same in the end." And then I'd go for the kiss.

Pat_VeiledIntentions · 2024-11-21T21:59:01+00:00

You fail to create (enough) sexual tension and a right man to woman vibe. You put yourself into a provider frame, probably as well pulling under a pretext to your place as I can read out, and then ofc they let you wait

LucaCoco_ · 2024-11-22T04:46:08+00:00

Those are shit tests. Be laid back don't push. Pass the shit test and let her come to you.

ThrowAwayInevitable1 · 2024-11-21T23:20:31+00:00

Men that don't understand women think it's all just one perverse game on which somehow women have collaborated in order to make sure men don't get sex. Reality is there's a rational reason for why women hit the LMR, and usually it comes from a place of wanting to ensure some class of commitment from the guy that's about to sleep with them, so they don't feel used, and so they're sure of what theyre about to do. It's a safety/value thing, because once they've slept with you, they no longer hold that over you. There's no better way for a girl to feel scammed/in danger than if you don't have a proper connection with her, or are rushing through the escalation in order to simply have sex.

The reason it happens is because you haven't built enough (emotional) connection alongside attraction for some girls - they feel like they're about to be short changed or that they're getting the wool pulled over their eyes by some guy trying to sleep with them. If she's escalating with you and is longing for sex with you, you won't get lmr; if you're escalating ahead of her and pushing the pace, you potentially and probably will face LMR because again, she feels like she's not in control/comfortable/getting bamboozled.

One way to avoid this is to be making sure you're connecting with her and she feels a connection to you, so that the sex isn't just a fleeting logical progression thing- but rather something that she's comfortable and content with that has come together because of the connection you share. The second way to avoid it is as mentioned, taking the pacing far slower, so that she feels in control. Once you do face LMR, it's a bit more awkward and now you need to entirely step off the pedal because you've triggered her alarm bells.

SplashGodNate · 2024-11-21T23:25:20+00:00

With women like this, I find that usually convincing them to spend the night(sleep over) and showing them you’re harmless, secure, and respectful usually opens that door to the bedroom. I can go into how to “convince” them to sleep over, but it is pretty calculated lol

Effective-Antelope-8 · 2024-11-22T04:53:14+00:00

Lmao…you are not using the reframing technic properly

KoleSekor · 2024-11-21T22:52:36+00:00

Are you making out with them?

ThotBubble · 2024-11-22T18:46:11+00:00

Ice them out stop giving them attention find more 9’s and 10’s

redspikedog · 2024-11-22T04:41:14+00:00

Shit test. Double back at her.

Title	Dealing with last minute resistance from 9s and 10s
Author	postbody
Upvotes	28
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Date	November 21, 2024 9:34 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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