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Rant/Ventingpostreformedpua/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 05:53 PM
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Red Pill Theorypostreformedpua/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 03:39 PM
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Men's Rightspostreformedpua/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 03:23 AM
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I did, and I agree with the premise of being the master of your own fate is the antidote to being caught in someone else's plan. It doesn't change how women choose though, so if you want to be with a woman you still have to grind.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:27 PM
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So you're suggesting to only get girls on your terms, but is it ever really your terms? She is the one doing the sexual choosing, and like you say she is getting better offers every day. This implies that to stay competitive takes consistent effort. Consistent effort forced at the hands of someone else is ... slavery? With that logic you might say, well is work not then slavery? I would say there are a lot of parallels. However I'd say it's more possible to find work that is tolerable or enjoyab…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:18 PM
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This explains why women dominate in marketing and why we're susceptible to it while having inbuilt disgust for it. When we talk about frame we're talking about the mental resistance to emotional manipulation. That is what all marketing is, it's what everyone in your life will do to you at some point, men and women, consciously or unconsciously. From your plate trying to have 'a serious discussion about our future' to your boss trying to get you to stay late 'because you're letting down the team'…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 12:17 PM
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He does if he thinks like a bitch. There is a lot of those around.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 02:10 AM
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Yeah dude why not play with that mine sitting in that open field. It probably wont go off if you poke it with a stick and poking things with sticks is fun! Spoken like a guy that hasn't experienced a real BPD. BPD doesn't mean 'you know she's a bad girl' it means she pretends to be exactly what you want her to be, it means her ability to manipulate knows no bounds. I could go on but please take one for the team and jump on the next mine you see.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 12:18 AM
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Nothing much to add other than I was also married to a BPD. It was my own fault for being so naive and ignoring red flags. I'm pretty sure I'm on the spectrum and I sometimes wonder if the somewhat socially oblivious are the natural prey of the BPD. I certainly have clued in now, mainly thanks to this forum. After all I went through I don't see myself ever even coinciding an LTR and I don't really see it as a bad thing in the current climate.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 12:34 AM
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I recommend watching anything and everything narrated by David Attenborough. From a young age I picked up these parallels between the animal world and humans, really it's only arrogance that makes people see themselves as separate. I'm also reminded of the time my ex would get turned on while we were watching a series about insects. Even in that world male competition, cheating and hypergamy are prevalent.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 01:11 AM
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Exactly, if you find yourself in the position of just working constantly then obviously something is wrong. Just spacing out playing more Xbox or taking hours on end to navel gaze about how everything is meaningless isn't what they wanted more of. They wanted more experience. Spending time with family, going to another country white water rafting, challenging and pushing themselves. Those are the things to look back on with happiness and pride.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 11:05 PM
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You're caught in a different kind of ego trap - one of a victim mentality. To have an ego is to be human and you can either enjoy as much of the experience as you can or you can complain about everything being unfair while justifying your non existence as being free from your ego. There will be plenty of time for not having an ego when you're dead. I guarantee you that no one says on their deathbed "I wish I did more nothing".
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 02:10 PM
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Self improvement or "growth" is the only game in town. It can be driven by what interests you or a certain goal you have in mind. It's supposed to be hard and put you out of your comfort zone but it should be equally rewarding. There will be life events that come out of nowhere that will be painful, but they will also make you grow and become stronger as a person. The more you can handle things the more you can do. The aim is to look back and say 'wow, I did a lot'. As for all the complaints abo…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 11:22 AM
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I'm in on this, no porn, sugar or social media and I'm going to find time for a walk every evening.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 12:17 AM
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I've been to that site about 20 times, each time closing it after about 30 seconds of trying to work out wtf it was about. Only just now found the links in the top right to take you to the subreddit style forums. They need some UX / UI help, jeez.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 09:39 PM
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Can anyone else search this subreddit now? I'm not getting any results. Not that the search was worth a damn anyway.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 10:34 PM
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Dude are you me? Lost a load of weight in my early twenties, it was easy, just calorie counting. No responsibility meant it was the only thing I had to worry about. Now it's harder to lose the weight and putting it back on is effortless.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 12:09 AM
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It's "healthy, wealthy and wise"
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 03:13 PM
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I watched this interview with Eckhart Tolle and it really changed my perspective on game and, more importantly, life. Really recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 12:28 AM
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I agree with that, I just don't believe telling people 'everything in moderation' will help anyone. Shouting at them 'Stop eating so many carbs you fat fuck!' might.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 01:17 AM
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It's extremely effective with [...] those struggling with an abnormal lipid profile. So 74.1% of the American population that is overweight then? So it may not be an acute poison but it's certainly a chronic one. You just have to look at the stats and what it does to people metabolically over time. Sure a side of potatoes won't kill you, but eating pizza and chips every day will. There isn't an essential carb, there is no process in the body that requires people to eat rice or Doritos. There is …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 12:59 AM
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just like eating anything else in excess will be harmful Sure but getting to excess is much easier with carbs. Have you tried eating 1000cals of just fat and protein in one setting? It's impossible it's too satiating. I agree on paper it is possible to lose weight with a hypocaloric diet but it's not as sustainable by the average person. The type of weight you lose is also different. You will lose way more muscle on a hypocaloric diet while Keto and IF turns you into a fat burning machine, liter…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 12:28 AM
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While you're young and fit you might not initially see the damage eating lots of carbs will do, but I assure you it's happening. Constantly spike your insulin by eating the Standard American Diet (SAD) and you will get insulin resistance. This forces your body to store fat and trigger lots of metabolic syndrome effects in your body. Keto is a way to repair some of the damage for those that are obese and sick. It might not be optimum for someone that is already fit and healthy and can balance a m…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:38 PM
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Absolutely, eating too much is an addiction people develop slowly over time to the point where they can't stop. Overeating and overindulgence is a cornerstone of western culture, it's mainly why everyone is fat, ugly and not getting laid (well the guys anyway).
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:32 PM
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Hey dude why don't you calm down and get your mom to make you some more tendies.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 10:26 PM
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If you're not improving you're losing.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 08:20 AM
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Societal problems aside there are two ways of looking at this. 1) OMG ladies won't unconditionally love me as I am right now like my mummy would. 2) This garantees that the more I improve the better the women waiting for me will be. I say this as a guy that has been dumped for better prospects many, many times. You've just got to get better.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 08:04 AM
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Sounds like you need to get out of the bar and start opening girls during the day.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 01:55 PM
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I recommend trying to use amazon's free tier and rotating through different accounts. Serverless and s3 are options to look at. I'm a JS dev if you need a hand with that.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 12:20 AM
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ding ding ding
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:39 AM
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Currently on a diet, dropping down from 270, currently at 225 but aiming to get to 180. Noticed better interactions from people but still in monk mode until I get lower. Looking forward to making a full post about it.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 02:33 PM
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Being really good at programming and having really bad social skills go hand in hand. Most in the software development world are on the spectrum. Keep up the good work developing your skills and try and complete a project that shows them off to the fullest. Then keep trying to get interviews for entry level positions. Trust me when I say good software development managers know how to get a sense of a persons abilities and don't care if you are a bit socially off-kilter, it's practically expected…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 11:59 PM
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My hobbies have been life saving for me, guitar and music production has given me an emotional outlet, making websites as a teen gave me a career and my new hobby gets me out of the house. I think you have to be in the right mindset to decide to pursue something. Ultimately for me its the 'coolness' factor. The next time you think to yourself 'wow that's cool' spend some time looking into it, you never know it could be the spark of a new passion.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 09:50 PM
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It's not neediness it's just sensible economics.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 10:04 PM
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This is what I'm trying to work out. Is it desperate or is it just sensible economics? The more common a good is the less value it has.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:42 PM
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Do it for the experience unless you have better options.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:40 PM
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This is interesting, it would make for a good TRP post.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:38 PM
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Now I realise youd normally just say ghost her or whatever but this is more serious You're young and this seems serious to you right now because your brain chemicals and hormones are going a mile a minute. I can guarantee you though it is not the end of the world. Serious is losing your kids forever and knowing they are calling a new man daddy. Serious is being thrown in prison on a false rape charge. Being dumped by a girl that was never that into you at 22 no less is not serious. I realised ho…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:32 PM
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Mushrooms are probably a gentler way to go for ego dissolving but I've not tried either. Clearing my mind for a long period was enough of an ego loss for me. You should also consider trying an isolation tank before any hallucinogens. I know it sounds very new age but we are so bombarded with stimulus these days all it takes sometimes is for all that to be switched off for an hour so we can look within. Your therapist was also on the right lines with a hobby (just not interacting with women REF: …
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:21 PM
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I feel like there is something intrinsically wrong with me which will destine me to be alone forever, which objective facts point out is the case. I would stick with the therapy. You are definitely showing signs of actual clinical depression, the above being very clear example of catastrophic thinking. Have you tries CBT? I've read it can help with the negative self talk (of which I still occasionally have but it's much better). If you are not meditating get on that right now. I think you need t…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:58 PM
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Be careful going to that link LinkedIn tells people who are looking at their profile. Wouldn't take much to put two and two together.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:32 PM
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Exactly right, if anything I'm surprised the figures aren't more like 80/20.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 11:41 PM
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She doesn't mind being a slut, she just doesn't want her friends to find out and tell hubby.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 01:06 AM
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Real solid 'not giving any fucks' stance there.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:32 PM
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Lol better give up then and move back into my mom's basement.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 09:12 AM
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Funny you should post this now. I've just got my T levels checked and they are at 346, I'm in my mid-thirties. I'm now trying to decide if I should go through the process of convincing my doctor to put me on TRT, or just buying some because they are legal here.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 09:58 PM
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It came back at 346 ng/dl, taken first thing in the morning. Guess it's time to research TRT.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:28 PM
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Yeah the first step is to get tested. I've found an online service that can test for DHEA-S, FSH, LH, Testosterone, SHBG and FAI. Not sure if that is more or less useful that just getting Testosterone and Oestradiol (another option).
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:13 PM
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Personally not a fan of the auto generated 'drawing' style video. They were cool when they actually required the artist to have the skill to do it. A bit of code generating a rapidly moving hand isn't getting the point across better.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 07:56 AM
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This is a nice idea but not everyone is going to be able to make their hobby their money earner. I agree though there should be a lot more going on in your life than just work and women.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:02 PM
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I do sometimes wonder if having a big dick is the only thing women care about. They go on and on about size not mattering, but they usually say the opposite of what they think. Also we have the largest genitals of any ape, which would suggest a sexual selection preference.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 11:08 PM
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I have a theory that we are experiencing a form of cultural inflation. As it's easy to shape the kind of things you agree with (or algorithms predict the kind of things you like) in the digital world you will start seeing more of it and that will become your new norm. From there you will be shown more extreme versions of those ideas to get your attention then that will become your new norm. Steadily over time you become an extremist in that one particular area and join others that feel the same.…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 05:38 PM
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You find out who your real friends are when you go through something like a divorce. You hit the nail on the head that some just want to enjoy the drama and to see someone struggle so that their life doesn't seem so bad.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 09:53 PM
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I don't think there is a person alive that wouldn't want to work less hours for more money. Everyone wants it so it makes for a good self help hook. I've yet to see any practical advice on how to get there other than 'start a business, make a third world person do the work'.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 07:01 AM
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Way to go shitting all over a guy struggling with low self-esteem. What have you ever contributed you abusive cunt?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 12:02 PM
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Don't all girls do this?
/r/askTRP08/06/17 08:58 PM
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What does it mean? Must have missed that one...
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 05:01 PM
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I do get a lot from it. I've always been quite a domestic person. I still have a lot of things that keep me out of the house. The thought of having a home cooked meal ready and waiting at home is a big plus. But if it all changes I'll be kicking her out.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 03:17 PM
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but I don't regret anything between the two of us The thing to concentrate on here is she doesn't regret sucking his dick over yours.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 07:55 AM
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I really like this advice. It means you should allow yourself to feel good about the small victories. As a big picture thinker and a perfectionist I find myself putting down my accomplishments regularly because they are never 'good enough'. This post reminds me we are simple creatures. If you hit a dog for doing something right he will very quickly stop doing it.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:36 PM
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I totally disagree with the above Java devs and sw architects make way more at my place. You'll always get a job as a Java developer and I say that as a JavaScript dev.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 07:31 PM
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That is some straight up RP shit.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 08:29 PM
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Same thing happened to me. I posted a story about a shitty things happening, got told about TheRedPill, but I was so brainwashed I rejected it. I'm here now though. Sometimes all it takes is time.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 10:26 AM
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Right on brother. That's the way to frame it.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 10:18 PM
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I've often thought about becoming a DJ just to get in the lifestyle
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 01:12 AM
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One ended up being put down not long after, it was apparently for medial reasons, but I suspect it was for convenience and to just hurt me or get some attention.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:17 PM
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Guys of TRP, who married sluts, how did it eventually turn out? After seven years together she fucked a friend and co-worker. Almost ruined me. Took our dogs. Looking back there was periods of her acting shady so probably cheating a lot generally. In short, bullet dodged, never marry - least of all a self confessed slut.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 12:00 PM
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I don't think it's possible when you are that rich. If you were sitting on a multi million payout it would be a constant battle to not pull that handle.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 01:48 PM
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Fuck, I should get my teeth fixed. Damn...
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 01:44 PM
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This is hilarious, that dude is the chaddiest chad I've ever seen. Man I need to step it up in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 12:30 AM
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Never heard of vitamin C serum, thanks for the head's up!
/r/askTRP11/03/17 10:58 PM
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That's a great collection of excerpts. So much RP truth. Nice work.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 12:31 AM
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Tears lower testosterone. Men have evolved to detect fake tears, women have evolved to cry realistically. All this isn't a coincidence. They want to trigger that protection instinct so you don't leave them / kill them. We want to escape a lying cheating whore.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:12 PM
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That's what I thought this thread was going to be about. It'll probably get taken down too.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:08 PM
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A good example of 'always trust your gut'.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 11:54 AM
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In my current situation I have to be a wage slave to be able to do what I want. Like I said my interests don't earn so it's not an either / or deal. I'm ok with that though.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 10:18 PM
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I struggle with the idea of purpose. I have hobbies and passions but they aren't the sort of thing that makes money. They still drive me though and I'm happy with that. I personally cannot be passionate about making other people money. I also cannot be passionate about competing in a rigged capitalist system. So what is my purpose then? To endure a shitty day job, enjoy my interests and keep improving. All the while not letting others get in the way of that. I guess that will do.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:39 AM
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These days it's never off. For the right guy anyway.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:35 PM
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Lol I'd like to see a teen make an enterprise level SPA or WYSIWYG editor. Not all front ends are simple web design.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:28 AM
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you can make this back in a few weeks Err no, not everyone can find a job that pays north of 100k.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:43 AM
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You're not alone dude, same here.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:37 PM
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Thanks for the advice, really appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:57 PM
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I'm confused, are you saying it's better to go into sales only if you're not making bank programming? I'm very introverted myself, I doubt that will change by learning sales but I am looking for a change.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:36 PM
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In your opinion is sales an extrovert only career? I'm a programmer and the difference in personalities between our team and sales is night and day. Programmers are very introverted, sales people are very outgoing and talkative.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:22 PM
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Yeah I've improved a lot as I have developed with lifting and TRP. I hope it continues.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:16 AM
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Holy crap the ego on this one...
/r/askTRP27/01/17 11:35 PM
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Stronglift 5x5 get the app it's great
/r/askTRP27/01/17 11:29 PM
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/r/malefashionadvice
/r/askTRP27/01/17 11:26 PM
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I truly believe the only thing that is real to them is how they feel in the moment. It's preached a lot on here feels before reals.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:08 PM
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Thanks buddy I'll do the same. Good luck to you too.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 05:03 PM
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Yeah you can see why Women are so secretive about the things they say in private because it is the harshest stuff you can imagine. My ex wife of seven years said to the guy she was trying to bone: "I wish I met you first" She literally rendered our whole time together null and void. Harsh.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:01 PM
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I'd love to be financially independent. Having to work a 9-7 job to pay for the CEOs and board members yachts is soul crushing. If anyone has any ideas where to start I'm all ears.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 09:15 PM
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It's funny you should mention that but yard work is my biggest weakness. An internet / software business is more my strength. Thanks for the suggestion though.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 06:00 PM
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I would apply for some other jobs if I were a fuckwit like you. There you go, highlighted the advice for you.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:00 PM
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Just keep dipping the pen in the company ink and see what happens, I'm sure it'll work out rosy. In reality you are a cunt hair away from getting an accusation via HR then fired. I would apply for some other jobs if I were a fuckwit like you.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 03:40 PM
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This blows my mind. The amount of vitriol they spill about cat calling - the most timid thing I can think of - and here they are supporting someone who raped a person to death with an iron bar. Just because it's a woman against a man she is celebrated. Blows my freaking mind man.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 08:47 AM
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This is a much deeper insight than I was expecting. I don't feel like I'm pushing on old bad habits or wounds but they definitely seem to surface from nowhere while I'm doing well.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 01:07 AM
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Hmm you might be on to something there.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:34 AM
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Starting a blues band - that's what I'm most excited about.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 04:00 PM
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This rings true for me, although I do think that our own thoughts can affect how we perceive things which in turn reduces or increases our stress response. I'm very interested if you've had any success with improving your hormone balance and how you came to these conclusions.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 12:07 AM
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Classic woman.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:06 PM
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Good point
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:54 PM
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End game is to lay 10s, like most here, but happy with anything atm. I just don't think there is any point until I'm fitter.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:53 PM
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Why are you here?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:50 PM
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Wow she gave you the tiniest of tests and you failed. Hi fives all around.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 10:20 AM
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It's a term to describe how you can store fat internally between organs but outwardly look slim. Look it up.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 12:47 AM
11

For men the attraction of a high performance car can be all about the object. From an appreciation of the engineering or its feel on the road. Also feeling like a badass is good too. For women a car is all about the status and attention it affords. Regardless that's a good quote from zyzz - RIP
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 12:43 AM
36

This is cracking advice. Overcoming an addiction or breaking a habit requires deep introspection that reveals a deeper understanding of yourself and your triggers. To 'know thyself' is personal power, it's transformative and attractive. It's also hard which is why most don't do it.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 07:54 PM
1

Teach us how you slay so much pussy while being a fatty.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:25 AM
1

These girls are looking for ONS not relationships with these guys. I've seen it all over the place in the UK.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 07:49 PM
4

Try lifting first
/r/askTRP31/12/16 09:10 PM
1

Probably a combination of not being in a good location, being average logging and not having stellar photos.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 08:55 PM
1

I have terrible luck with Tinder, few matches and no meets.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 07:04 PM
5

It is possible to suffer from BPD, yet still be an empathetic, loving, fun partner. You missed 'emotionally abusive' 'manipulative' and 'unstable'. One of the prime symptoms of BPD is disassociative behaviour. Meaning one moment your partner feels like you love him and the next second you're riding his best friend's cock. Then attempting to kill yourself because your partner doesn't take you back. Yeah sounds like reaaaal fun.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 09:57 AM
3

I wonder how many lives you have ruined.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 09:50 AM
15

Play with fire - get burnt. Edit - lol found the post in your history hamstering about pushing the infidelity in your marriage further and further. Classic.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 10:39 PM
3

I've had this thought before that it is our secondary sexual characteristics that makes us more attractive. We like big boobs and butt, they like big muscles and a strong jawline.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 06:33 PM
1

Sounds like you're panicking about your mortality. I had the same sort of feelings worrying about irreversible damage done to my body at your age. Take a breath, relax. Give yourself a couple of weeks off from exercise and working out. If the pain is in your wrist / arms it's probably from using a computer. Get an ergonomic mouse / keyboard. If you're not getting any better see a doctor. They will tell you better than we can. If they don't take it seriously find one that will.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 01:24 PM
1

I'm in my thirties mate, no far forward. Thanks for the advice though.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:43 PM
1

You have to do something that you're way fucking better at than anyone else, so much better that someone else will PAY you to have it done. This makes sense to me, but I struggle to working out what I do better than most other people. I don't have a good grasp of what other people can do. I trivialise my accomplishments and I suffer from imposter syndrome because all my life I've compared myself to people that are better. Also it's interesting you say better than anyone. I think it's unhealthy t…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:32 PM
1

But is it that big? If not are they not disappointed?
/r/askTRP29/12/16 09:48 PM
2

By force?
/r/askTRP29/12/16 09:39 PM
1

I'm a ginger so no chance, lol
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:59 AM
1

In that case you can host me and introduce me to all your friends.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 01:05 AM
2

Very tempting!
/r/askTRP28/12/16 12:37 AM
1

Good points
/r/askTRP28/12/16 12:00 AM
2

Fair enough bro
/r/askTRP28/12/16 12:00 AM
4

Probably because they are actually attracted to us and are submissive. Opposed to the cuntish entitled western woman.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 11:21 PM
2

I wouldn't say they were equal, the guy is almost always more attractive, several points up the scale.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 11:57 AM
2

Erm there is nothing strange here, just a bit of cam whoring. Stop obsessing over this stuff. You aren't getting pounded raw every weekend like average girls your age - so nobody cares. Once you're in a LTR as long as you can resist the cam whoring you'll be golden.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 05:49 PM
1

Another person looking for the cheat codes that give unlimited pussy. You have no intention of working hard? Good, more for me.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 09:59 AM
5

You forgot to switch accounts bro. Weird.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 09:55 AM
5

Well done, you've come up with a plan so conveluted that no human could stick to it. Now you won't feel guilty when you fail. Also you're trying to be rewarded for coming up with such and awesome 'plan' instead of actually going out there and doing shit. Don't waste your time with writing this silly shit. Be a man of action.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 09:45 AM
3

He isn't a fatty, that's what most want IMO.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 11:05 AM
3

If you have nothing better to contribute than that you really are in no place to criticise such a quality post.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 03:39 PM
3

I'm a dude that wants to get his dick wet. OK go.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 02:45 PM
11

What is the best way then? Social circle game? Why don't you write a post about it?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 08:57 AM
31

Oh my, you have described my problem in a nutshell. Engineer minded autist that can't talk about trivial shit.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 12:29 AM
1

I'm doing stronglift 5x5 with some bodybuilding 3x a week. I could do better with my macros. I'm curious as to what you think it could do for my face?
/r/askTRP14/12/16 07:55 PM
2

Silence, make her chase you.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 06:13 PM
1

I'm going to go out on a limb and say she sensed you are pedestalizing her and has moved you towards BB. I'm going to guess that she has other irons in the fire.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:56 PM
2

Yeah it's an interesting theory, they could fight the tingles to try and get power from an AF.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:20 AM
39

when you realize how easily they give it up to someone else its like a slap to your face. They don't really want to fuck you because you're hot, they want to control you and turn you into their slave. This is a fundamental RP truth. You're either AF and get filthy sex without hesitation or you are BB and she needs time and commitment.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 10:36 PM
18

Dunno man sounds like she wanted the D you just weren't inserting it.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 10:05 PM
30

I've encountered this type of woman. They will send nudes but always flake out of any set up encounter. Don't give them any attention.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:49 PM
1

Look at the big girl and her big girl opinions, well done you. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:36 PM
1

Damn women are cold. Yeah radio silence, find someone else.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 12:46 PM
1

This is a great comment. Make it kinky - she will love it. I totally understand your reservations though. Any kind of rash - badly thought out decision is enough to give anyone pause. Plus it is a bit controlling a bit of a 'you can never leave me now' play.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:07 PM
1

What is the kill move?
/r/askTRP06/12/16 10:53 PM
9

I've got a home gym and it works perfectly for me for many reasons. I get to focus solely on myself, I don't have to think about others judging me or waiting for the squat rack. This was critical when I was still working out what to do. I also don't end up comparing myself to others and getting discouraged during lifts. A big one is I don't have to listen to the shitty blue pill music about going out with the girls and getting dick. It fits into my schedule and finally it's nice to have a room d…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 10:43 PM
2

Well your problem is in the title itself. The reason we call them unicorns is because they don't exist. Anyone that thinks they've found one is clearly delusional by definition. Take her off the pedestal, dread and if it doesn't work try someone else.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 10:35 PM
3

The first time a woman visibly checks you out really is amazing. Her eyes flicking to your chest or arms with a noticeable look of desire. If I knew all it took to get that was losing weight and lifting I would have done it long long ago.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 06:13 PM
6

Amazing change, congrats! I do wonder if you guys should be concerned about doxxing.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 06:06 PM
1

Yeeeeeahhh.....no. I'm not even going to read that shit. Then don't bother replying.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 10:25 AM
0

Maybe we should designate a safe space for you too.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 10:23 AM
6

This is non-fetish version of the word where: males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 03:31 AM
9

Tell you what, give me her deets and I'll find out for you. I'll also find out her favourite sex positions and fetishes for you for free. Then once I'm done I'll hold your hand and bring it all the way to her pussy for you.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 05:36 PM
8

BPD guaranteed. Run.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 12:23 PM
12

This is terrible. You had the dog before you met your wife, what judge would rule it is hers? The sad thing is all it means to her is winning points by making you upset. Unfortunately you just have to overcome.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 08:37 PM
121

Women and their actions only make sense when viewed through a selfish-gene lens. Super good genes become available in the form of dreamy chad. That makes her genes more likely to survive so off come the panties and the DNA rammed in so hard even the king of England couldn't retrieve it. Then BOOM omg I need a provider to look after my progeny. I am now more in love with this ATM than I have ever been! Wash, repeat. Be chad fellas.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:17 AM
2

That's short sighted. Part of being alpha is having a long term plan where you end up on top. Getting locked up for slinging dope shouldn't be part of it.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:06 AM
6

What you have is worse. It's a quote of the whole post but you can't distinguish what you wrote or what was the op.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:39 PM
18

That is why you don't argue with a woman or anyone really. Just agree and amplify, DGAF and change the subject.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:35 PM
5

This sounds as fake as it could be. Regardless you may already have a target on your back, don't make it guaranteed. Puss isn't worth it, EVER.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 09:36 AM
1

Thanks for the suggestion I will check it out. For my ex I built up a whole model in my head of what her thoughts and feelings were, like a simulation that was permanently taking up brain power. It's fucked up now I think about it.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:03 PM
1

A lot of this seems too subconscious for that.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 12:08 PM
1

I do really identify with the points the guy makes.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 12:08 PM
1

Nope
/r/askTRP24/11/16 12:07 PM
1

Totally agree with this. Also provide with as much safe sex knowledge as humanly possible. Consider the HPV vaccine, tell her about the dangers of hiv etc.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 12:17 AM
3

My ex wife sucked her first cock at 14 "eagerly" (her word). She blamed being sexually abused by a baby sitter as a very young child. Who knows maybe she was just born fucked in the head. I don't think there is anything you can do to stop her. Apart from keeping her under lock and key, but she won't thank you for it, in fact she'll likely resent you for it for the rest of her life. Dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 12:06 AM
3

Feelz before reals every time
/r/askTRP22/11/16 05:42 PM
2

I'm not in disagreement. My issue is you presented your boundaries as a simple solution. Twenty paragraphs or so later we can see it is anything but.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 11:19 AM
6

The whole point is that you don't know if a plate is faithful, that's how you get an STD. So it isn't 'simples'.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 08:54 AM
1

Then we'll have to agree to disagree.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 10:35 PM
1

I'm probably coming across as ignorant but I assure you I see them as they are, and from both sides. Doesn't mean I have to like it. The same way I don't have to like the rain (although that I do like sometimes).
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 10:14 PM
1

I don't have to appreciate shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 09:15 PM
48

There is no way to guarantee fidelity, no matter how alpha you are. You can't just 'require' it. Doesn't work like that.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:35 PM
8

Typical hamster ramblings that are totally false. That's why 'watch what they do not what they say' is gospel.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 04:45 PM
0

Have you ever wondered why women have large egos and yet simultaneously fragile about being rejected and afraid of embarrassment. I have but I'm still no clearer as to why after your post. Honestly though I'm just coming to the conclusion they are fucked in the head. Irrational, emotional, cum collecting, baby gestating, life ruining, manipulative jerks.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 03:04 PM
1

Don't let the door hit you on the way out sweetie.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:43 PM
1

I have no intention of ever getting into a LTR. Once you know the nature of women - and I mean know it from personal experience, you realise it is suicide by a thousand cuts. I fuck women and let them cook for me occasionally - that is it. That is all I need.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 01:54 PM
1

Good points and I agree, but to learn your have to try.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 09:27 PM
1

Don't want to see her again? Ignore - she will get the message. Want her as a plate? Invite her over to 'talk'.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:07 PM
5

Wrong. Women will pretend to have empathy one moment and will use your weakness against you the next. Usually when you least expect it, at your lowest point. That is how they work, they test us all the time. Wake up.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:31 AM
5

Can confirm OP's advice worked for me to the letter. The best friend part is an important aspect don't gloss over it. My ex didn't.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 02:41 PM
1

Not being desperate is key. Be cool but still escalate. Push pull etc. The main thing is to not be bogged down in theory. Make sure you actually do something, don't just sit in your room thinking of theories. Set a date, either way you'll learn something.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:28 PM
2

Don't bring it up, if she does pass her shit tests which is what it is. Amused mastery. Then fuck her brains out, clearly she is begging for it.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:17 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP13/11/16 11:46 PM
4

I would like to see game broken down more on TRP. I feel like I'm missing a big piece there. Use your imagination, what does that mean? Tell them stories? Etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 06:45 PM
2

Lifting won't change your face but losing bf will. Are you down to below 15% bf?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 06:56 PM
1

This is very defeatist. Are you as buff as you want?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 05:33 PM
1

That's baffling. I wonder if he turned her down, lol.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 11:49 PM
3

Don't listen to her words, watch her actions. If she wanted to fuck she would have made it obvious. Some feedback you can discard.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 06:54 PM
1

Could you give me an example of what you do in your direct game?
/r/askTRP08/11/16 04:41 PM
1

Reach rate?
/r/askTRP08/11/16 03:39 PM
1

Things like the apocalypse opener. General brash non apologetic 'wanna shag' style.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:54 PM
1

Thanks for clarifying we are now in 100% agreement! It still stings I didn't find this in time to save my marriage. Funnily enough she knew about this place she was vitriolic towards it. She was still loco though so I'm probably better off.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 12:22 AM
2

It's actually not that hard. This is condescending. You got lucky. Try not having "natural RP instincts" or try growing up in the post feminism late 80s. I imagine if your wife is also in her 40s she hit the wall before tinder became a thing making things even easier. No matter how RP you are there is always a bigger fish in the pond. That's why there is the saying around here 'she isn't yours, she is just your turn'. Saying to everyone who had to face down a divorce or a bad breakup were "[just…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 11:13 PM
0

A friend did this to my wife. I was helping him get over a breakup and in return he cucked me by fucking my wife. IMHO it is weakness to not have any standards. Are you so desperate for validation you have to get off on fucking a fish-in-a-barrel bored housewife? Ultimately it was my fault for not dumping her long before due to other red flags. So I can see both sides of the argument. Still though, I will never knowingly ruin a marriage. A LDR or LTR? Yes as long as I don't know the guy.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:44 AM
1

Link to research? I often wonder why we have evolved to see low BF as attractive, you would think that it would broadcast higher quality hunter gathering skills back in our primitive days.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 10:50 PM
1

I have no problems with risk but I wouldn't know where to start.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 03:34 PM
1

I don't believe you pay for sex one way or another. For the right guy she would pay and the sex would be wild. These are whores plain and simple. Cheaper than marriage sure but it is still BB. You can bet that those girls go home and fuck a real chad.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 10:05 AM
2

I'm average but my finger game is on point. I stretch them out with 4 fingers sometimes. Making sure to hit the roof of the pussy. I have a girl literally addicted to me. If she is addicted to you she'll want your cock as well, trust me.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 09:48 AM
1

Anywhere better?
/r/askTRP04/11/16 09:59 PM
56

:( I thought it was great. Clearly you've discovered the one weird trick that makes the mods nervous. ( ) )) (( // \\ | \\____// | \~/ ~ ~\/~~/ (| _/o ~~ / / ,| (~~~)__.-\ | ``~~ | | | | | | | / \ `\ /' `\_ _/' ~~~~
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:11 PM
3

Aw depressing. Hope someone saved it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 01:45 PM
16

I love that this is already defacto advice now.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 07:41 AM
3

As a guy just finding his stride at 33 I hope this is the case.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 07:39 AM
1

Ha ha ha. I needed this. Yeah online dating is doing a number on me. I need to get out there but that approach anxiety bro. It's doing a number on me.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:33 PM
1

I really do wish I could find gaming enjoyable and fun but it instead I find it stressful and awkward. Especially with all that self doubt flying around.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:51 PM
2

I'm very confused by the responses in this thread. There is a strong sentiment of oneitis from op and everyone else. 'Better fuck her before someone else does' is not the frame you should have. That is HER frame! If regular breaks from sex is important for you, hell even if you aren't 100% in the mood, LAY DOWN THE LAW. Not today baby... but after tomorrow you won't be able to walk for a month smirk. Mix it up, keep her guessing and you'll fuck her when you are good and ready. If she gives you s…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 11:16 PM
2

Not sure what the problem is. That age gap is fine. What is more worrying is how you're setting yourself up for BB. Virgin at 20? Not bloody likely.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:10 PM
1

Takes time dude. Take it from a guy that goes from oneitis to oneitis. I still have thoughts of my ex but it isn't based on logic. Got to let it fade.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:04 PM
5

More like 'how to get a prison sentence 101'
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 12:17 PM
1

Does anyone have any good examples of high smv dancing?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 09:04 AM
3

I almost started reading all of this but I mostly scanned over it.....I'll say this I'll say something almost completely irrelevant because I didn't read it (I almost did though - do I get bonus points?). Also this can be copy / pasted below any TRP post blindly. Actually read it next time and you might get to write a relevant reply.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 07:24 AM
5

Sometimes it feels like the only winning move is not to play. It makes me appreciate MGTOW a bit more.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 07:15 AM
1

I hear you buddy +1 here
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:43 PM
2

I suggest you read models by Mark Manson. He talks a lot about being non-needy and why by trying to be nice and accommodating you are really doing it to get something in return. You aren't being authentic or your real self which is what makes people actually want to invest in you. If you invest in people too quickly you straight away give off the vibe of 'needy' or wanting something or trying to sell them something. Instead put yourself first and see what happens. When you are coming from a posi…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 08:42 AM
3

Their relationships aren't stable and they usually aren't with stable people so don't last long. They also enjoy sex as much as normal sluts so don't mind going on tinder to get exactly what they want. They don't always need a relationship and because they don't pair bond it is easy to do.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:48 AM
2

You must be pretty good looking, I'm having almost zero success with tinder in England.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:18 PM
3

Yes flattery I forgot about that one. They will learn what thing you are most insecure about and flatter you until you are no longer insecure about it. She will then - when you least expect it - use it against you to try and destroy you.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 06:28 AM
54

I came here to see actual signs of BPD. But instead I found some weird Taylor Swift fan fiction. ACTUAL SIGNS OF BPD Evidence of self harm - Look on arms and legs for horizontal scars. BPD girls use self harm or 'suicide attempts' as the ultimate method for frame control. Often coupled with 'look what you made me do' or 'look how sorry / upset I am - I am the victim you can't be angry at me anymore'. AKA a nuclear shit test. One that would trigger empathy in even the most hardened player. She ha…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 09:22 PM
78

You know what else releases a fuck ton of dopamine? Reddit. Everything in moderation gents.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:09 AM
17

Dude you must be handsome af to get a 9/10 escort to give you the puss for (almost kinda) free, especially after being so blue. You're going to slay v attractive women if you have any kind of game.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:02 AM
4

Testosterone levels and race is an interesting subject. Does it explain 'jungle fever' for example, or why Asian men might find it difficult to get some. Or we can just repeat the same thoughts over and over like an echo chamber you boring fuck.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 07:58 PM
1

All that matters to her is how she feels right now. All past feelings are irrelevant. Trust me that this is even more true for BPD girls. She probably felt a little bit disgusted that you came across as clingy 'do you miss me' so couldn't imagine being close to you at that moment. Forget her dude and be more guarded in future. Look for the flags - rape, self harm and depression. I tell you going from a 7 year relationship with a BPD gives you frame control like no other when it comes to normal g…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:14 PM
7

You're living in a dream world. She only offered for you to come to give the impression nothing is up. It could even be win win. You don't come she can fuck chads 'oh but you weren't here and he was'. If you do come she can fuck you while being eye fucked by a bunch of chads (maybe fucking the odd one while you are looking away). Spring break is for fucking and nothing else. Sorry you are in denial.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:06 PM
1

BPD girls can warp you into their frame more than any other. Then they will then try and kill you emotionally and maybe physically once they become disassociated from you. This can happen in a heartbeat too. You get so close to them because they have all this deeply personal shit wrong in their lives. Rape, self harm, depression. It triggers the nurturing protective nature in us so we want to solve all their problems. Unfortunately they are broken. They were broken long before you and they'll be…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:59 PM
5

Hard next. She fucked last break and she will this time. Girl going away without you = fuck fest.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:41 PM
6

Are you kidding? Absolutely. Heard the phrase 'death by a thousand cuts'. A married man came up with it, I am certain.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:37 PM
3

Have you read the sidebar? She is shit testing you. Wymen do this automatically and without thought. If it stings it means it's working. Amused mastery, agree and amplify, pressure flip, give her shit back or ignore it. Those are your options. Don't want her to get away with it? Don't let her.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:33 PM
4

That's funny, I've been fantasising about someone with a tighter vagina. Maybe an Asian. She is just doing what women do, search for weakness. Looks like she found one.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:24 PM
1

Ha ha nice. You need a 'stop harassing me' message at the end there.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:33 PM
2

This seems like some kind of cuck fiction, I find it hard to be true. But for now I'll ignore that. You are looking for someone to come pick you up and give you the cheat codes. The fact is that strength to get back up has to come from you. You are the only one that can bounce back from your current low. Nobody else can give it to you. You don't want the usual advice? Tough. It is the only thing we know that works. Lift and sidebar. Try to get better every day and stop competing with a myth and …
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:25 PM
1

I'm in a similar position and it's the classic of how can someone have high confidence and be continuously improving? Well it's because confidence comes from improving yourself it doesn't come from being perfect. There will always be ways to improve, you won't get to a magic bf % and then all girls fall on your dick. Even if you get your body perfect (literally impossible), you might start to think you need to earn more or be more well read, etc, etc. You need a good realistic understanding of w…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 07:27 PM
3

Saturated fat is needed for testosterone production. Eat that bacon up yo.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 10:07 PM
2

It's weird as fuck seeing someone else verbalise a weird theory you came up with. Also for me don't give a fuck about round one. Round two is when you make her your bitch.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 10:03 PM
73

Wow. Does game really have to be this intricate and Machiavellian to get a chick? I can't imagine the average chad thinking about any of these things this on a Saturday night out. It's seriously impressive and I don't doubt it works but there is no way I could do this for real. This game is next level.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 09:05 PM
0

I like the sniper vs shotgun analogy. It's an interesting perspective.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:06 PM
3

Are you arguing you don't have to do these things or that they aren't difficult?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 07:00 AM
1

I've done a shit load of approaching and I'm fortunate to be tall and reasonably attractive it was a positive experience for me. But I saw exactly what you said, my average colleagues either grew deludedly optimistic about doing more appraoches (it was like a fly constantly smacking itself against a window trying to get out). From another post of yours. I don't want to be the fly that never stood a chance but kept going anyway. I went out with a short Indian guy with a hearing aid. I could see h…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:58 AM
2

I can't get over the thought that they don't want to talk to a stranger. I guess that's because in their position I wouldn't want to chat to a stranger.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:45 AM
1

You are right, I may be exaggerating a bit, but what is the minimum then? The whole ethos of TRP is about being in the fuckable top 20% of men. Getting there isn't easy, if it was everyone would be getting laid and TRP wouldn't exist (see what I did I took the argument to the other extreame).
/r/askTRP28/09/16 11:45 PM
0

never get married Too late for that but I only have to make a mistake once to learn from it.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 10:52 PM
3

Thanks buddy I do feel the pressure and should lighten up. Will have a read.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 10:45 PM
0

I understand it effects my motivation, but I don't believe it comes across in my interactions. While I do believe it's objectivity true for 90% of young attractive girls, it could also be sour grapes from striking out, as I feel it stronger towards the end of a night.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 10:42 PM
218

With my ex I could be taking about the most matter-of-fact thing and she would always think there is a subtext. Like 100% adamant. It would seem to really confuse her. 'why would you mention that now?' 'what do you mean by that?' etc, etc. I've just realised now that it was because when she spoke there always was an agenda. Every conversation wasn't about exchanging information, it was about controlling the frame and manipulating me. Women be nuts man.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 04:06 PM
1

Exactly. The point people seem to be missing is that daughters learn from their mothers and grandmothers. Grandma is slutting around instead of being a leading example of worthwhile low n count feminine qualities. The result? Turbo sluts. Women who have the 1000 cock stare by the time they are 18.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 03:29 PM
6

It means you can never be safe. You can never assume she is off the cc, even if you think she is done. It is forever 'she isn't yours, it's just your turn'.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 12:39 AM
1

Yeah and you are left totally confused and caught off guard. It usually happens just as I'm thinking 'huh, maybe this one isn't a sociopathic manipulator'. Honestly I don't think any average guy will be as good as a woman at manipulation. It is root level instinct. A man's strength is his strength. A woman's strength is the ability to manipulate the man.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 11:35 AM
1

Not fit enough yet, working on it though.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 10:07 PM
1

Too bad fella
/r/askTRP19/09/16 10:04 PM
1

North East England
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:13 PM
2

Correct, I guess some might get laid by chance but they don't try to.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:39 PM
1

So how does one enjoy / profit from the decline in your opinion?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 01:43 PM
8

So what is the average schlubb to do with their 1-2 k in savings (if they are lucky)? This advice is similar to buy low - sell high. Easy to think about but without the contacts and insider knowledge you have no actionable steps. Don't get me wrong, if you are in the industry maybe you have some information you can share. Otherwise this is just telling us 'invest in something' and I'm left with my dick in my hand.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:47 AM
1

So it sounds like pick up is easy not hard? None of what you said sounds 'awful' as you put it. Would you say attraction was linear to size or does it taper off
/r/askTRP10/09/16 05:34 PM
5

Read this.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:37 PM
1

You need to hear this
/r/askTRP07/09/16 10:08 PM
1

This is like a borderline personality disorder checklist.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:24 AM
1

No it means you act butch instead of being feminine.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 09:59 PM
1

It's an interesting theory that I only feel configurable approaching girls that probably have a beta bf. Hmmm.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 08:38 PM
3

Hang in there fella, it will get better.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 01:52 PM
4

Damn that sucks. Hang in there dude.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 01:51 PM
9

My ex wife was BPD. The amount of shit I had to deal with was insane. I just thought it was normal because I didn't have any relationship experience (something she admitted she capitalised on to get what she wanted). Multiple suicide 'attempts' done just trying to get pity. Now I'm pretty sure her rape and abuse stories were made up for pity, but I believed it all at the time. Once, late at night, a huge 7 foot dude just walked through the front door (which I'm sure I locked), I ran and blocked …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 09:33 AM
-7

Is there a point to this post? The three of them have definitely had significant affects on my mood, mental outlook, and general feelings. OK, I assume positive effects. Maybe placebo but who knows. How does this relate to TRP?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 10:56 PM
2

Now we know why she doesn't think he is mature enough. The guy is a retarded man baby.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 07:12 AM
1

Earn money for you. Learn game to get laid.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 06:30 AM
1

Once you lose your v card you'll wonder what the big deal was. The reason you are scared is because of scarcity thinking. If you fuck one you lose all of them. Fuck that, think in terms of abundance. There are loads of girls in your future, don't sweat it. Hell usually if a girl wants to fuck you once she'll usually want to fuck you a few times. Plus sometimes it is an ego boost for a woman 'omg I'm so hot he came almost instantly'. What is more important than not cumming early is knowing how no…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 06:18 AM
1

Is it worth putting it on your profile if it is an average height? (5'10")
/r/askTRP03/09/16 12:05 AM
5

So I don't know about this. I teared up in front of a plate while talking about my cheating whore of a wife. Still fucked. YMMV. I think there is middle ground between being a whiny bitch and actually being a robot.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 11:43 PM
1

Being able to accept never getting married.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 01:36 PM
1

My BPD sense is tingling. Regardless why not just point him to TRP and tell him you miss the way he was. If he doesn't do anything leave.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:37 PM
2

I agree 23 really isn't that many, especially when he has had more. If he feels like he can't dominate her in bed that is a whole other problem. Not being able to fully express your masculinity in the bedroom is the worst.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:09 PM
3

This was intended as more of an open ended post intended for discussion. It's not solid enough to be a pure RP post.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:46 PM
6

I wonder if she got 'lonely' after taking five gallons of cum from every chad in the neighbourhood and none of them called her afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:00 PM
13

The downside is it forces you to look into the abyss. This is such an apt description. That feeling is the bottom falling out of the concept of romantic love that you once had. Leaving a blackness in your chest accompanied with a sense of relief that you are on the right side this time.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 10:40 PM
1

Where do you recommend? I'd be interested in Japan maybe.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:54 PM
1

Hmm it's a really shitty situation then, sorry dude. I thought my marriage would last forever. It's such a shame women can delude themselves and objectivity ruin their lives.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 09:41 PM
5

Keep at it dude. You're young, you have plenty of time to deprogram yourself.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:21 PM
3

It sounds like you have never spun plates. Try it, see if you like it before you MGTOW.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:18 PM
4

Are you lifting? That coupled with abstaining from my normal morning fap gave me crazy sex drive to the point I couldn't think straight.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:14 PM
1

There is something about working in software for so long that you end up craving to work in the real world. Owning a gym sounds amazing. I'm interested in sales but have no idea if I'd be any good at it.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:40 PM
1

Don't do that
/r/askTRP27/08/16 02:27 PM
13

Yeah dude it's too late you should just give up now, order that pizza and play round after round of overwatch. Leave all the pussy for the rest of us chads while you disappear into your own mangina. Definitely don't start lifting, you are clearly too special for that to help you. The best time to start was 10 years ago and that's all that matters right?
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:01 AM
0

Damn, I hate having to act so shallow, but I guess if you want to play the game...
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 08:01 PM
1

I'm having terrible luck with tinder, bumble etc. I'm guessing my physique just isn't there yet. What sort of photos are you posting to get that level of success?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 05:23 PM
84

VPN or get a data plan, either way stop being an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 01:42 PM
1

Anyone have access to the full paper? EDIT here it is.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 09:56 AM
3

No, if you argue with her, it's because you're mean and you're trying to hurt her feelings. Because that's why she argues with others. Oh so that explains every argument I've ever had with a woman has come to nothing.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 08:31 PM
3

Good for you, want a cookie?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 08:39 AM
4

That's stupid. If johnny depp couldn't work it out what chance does the average schlubb have?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 08:19 AM
9

On the one hand people here say overcoming BP conditioning is difficult because it is so prevalent. If you aren't automatically alpha though you deserve no sympathy? Which one is it?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 04:55 AM
2

Yeah that seems like a good balance for a LTR. It's interesting that the max duration is three years. I often wonder if that is just the natural max and a species we aren't really monogamous, more like bonobos.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:20 AM
1

I'm curious, in your LTRs do you cohabit?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:15 AM
2

Yes to the first question - it is like a father's love. Read my replies to the other woman that struggled with the concept. Plating is the defence to the female concept of love / sexual strategy. I can tell though you aren't here to gain an understanding just to attack and complain.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 07:10 PM
2

While that makes logical sense I think we are all aware by now that women are very much feelz before logic. I'm of the opinion denial of commitment does something to womens brains. Maybe it's nothing more than 'why isn't this guy committing, all the others do' or maybe it is more low level. It definitely inspires a subconscious desire to win approval via sex, at least in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 01:50 AM
15

I'm not sure I did stop, you just have to forget you do for your own sake. But really all it comes down to is semantics and how much oxytocin classifies as 'unconditional'. My argument is men get the same amount of oxytocin that women do for children and women don't get the same amount for men.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 11:38 PM
2

I don't know what your concept of "unconditional" is , but to me, "unconditional" means you will love that person no matter what she/he does or says. I'm not sure why you are struggling with this, we both know what unconditional means. If you have read any of the stories on here you will see it really can take a lot before a guy 'wakes up' and sees that the unconditional love he is giving isn't returned. It usually takes complete emasculation or betrayal before it happens. Sometimes it might be …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 11:01 PM
1

Well I'm telling you for certain men can love women unconditionally but it is just one way.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 10:36 PM
20

Men can love women unconditionally I know because I've done it multiple times. Right until I realised women can't. I believe it to be our gender's biggest downfall and probably the main reason TRP exists. The fact you dismiss that it exists at all between a man and a women adds evidence to my assertion.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 10:27 PM
8

I'd disagree with that. They aren't emotionless robots quite the opposite, they are controlled by their emotions including love.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 06:26 PM
60

The hardest part of TRP is realising that unconditional love is not something a woman can give you unless it is your mother (sometimes not even then). What women experience instead is a feelz rollercoaster as rp_phoenix says. The trick is to keep her riding from love to hate to any other extreme emotion. If you are getting indifference then she is already on someone elses ride.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 05:17 PM
2

Yeah this was my first thought - a jealousy shit test. As you didn't shut this down she is going to think it is acceptable while you are away.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 12:53 PM
1

This isn't about believing the media it's about how the next generation is being raised to believe this is normal. It's even in cartoon form to appeal to kids ffs.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 10:38 AM
1

What do you think that is supposed to mean?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 07:10 AM
1

Maybe bottles are like seahorses.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 07:50 PM
8

I'm also from England and have to disagree. There is self depreciation and then there is extreme cuckolding. Edit as a thought experiment can you even imagine this getting on TV with the roles reversed?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 07:14 PM
8

I would push her off and walk out.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 06:35 PM
10

Is there a reason you're assuming the ages of everyone involved? Besides women are children, they don't grow up.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 05:20 PM
25

No do not wife that unless you want to watch all those good qualities disappear overnight.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 12:59 PM
0

I'm interested in more theories of BPD as I'm pretty sure my ex-wife was BPD. Sometimes I wonder if BPD is just an extreme case of Alpha Widow if they were raped at some point.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 03:49 PM
2

My whole life has changed since learning TRP. Understanding you are constantly being tested is a big part. It lets me truly stop worrying what some girl thinks and get on with my life. When you expect it you can deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 03:45 PM
29

That's exactly what my wife said as she walked out the door to fuck someone else 'I want more'.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:18 PM
2

Right in the sidebar 'The Red Pill - Discussion of sexual strategy'.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 11:25 PM
2

Everyone has different priorities and to dismiss one of the core aspects of human experience is a bit silly. Especially when the TRP is a sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 10:45 PM
3

I've been researching the holographic universe for the last few hours, brilliant. It's almost as if frame is all there is, and we define it!
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 07:36 PM
15

Yep, I've had so many compliments about my performance since learning this. There was a great post on here recently 'how to fuck your girl rough', I suggest everyone reads it.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 07:04 PM
3

This is so spot on. In my marriage I once allowed wife to post to GW for a blowjob, thus cucking myself for sexual attention. I felt so bad after I didn't do it again. I was an idiot so please don't be like me, listen to Archwinger. BONUS CRINGE taking sexy pictures of her just so she would shut up about it, which she later shared with a work colleague / best friend. Winning!
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 06:29 PM
1

It's too perfectly TRP for it to be fake IMO. Happy to be proved wrong though.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 09:10 AM
2

I too looked at, turned over, analysed the weakness and strengths and made the decision towards my ex, no matter how hard she tried, she wasn't the one for me. Yes and that was personal too. You were judging her. This isn't about being angry at being judged, it is about being angry that you didn't make the grade. This post is saying you shouldn't take things personally, I disagree, we absolutely should. Only then will you do anything about it. Blaming others or the system is a woman thing to do.…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 07:24 PM
5

This is placating bullshit. It was personal. It was the most personal shit you can ever conceive. You were looked at, turned over, your weaknesses and strengths analysed and the decision was made that despite how hard you tried that you aren't the one for her. You should be fucking PISSED. You should be ASHAMED. You need to CHANGE NOW and become a DIFFERENT PERSON if you don't want it to keep happening to you. You need to use that rage. You need to fucking fight for your place on the podium, hel…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:03 PM
5

You know we have a female PM right now that wants to ban anything other than missionary sex...
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 05:38 AM
7

As a dude in his mid thirties it's funny how those in their early twenties are complaining they weren't drowning in pussy when they were 18 or younger. You guys have been saved from a terrible fate. You have been given the keys to your future life. Looking back thinking about how much of a fool you were is hamstering. You can be angry at the state of the world, or how people have fucked you over, but use that to fuel your lifts. Men can go through their whole lives without any clue how fucked th…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:35 AM
2

lol
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:15 PM
3

Nope, if it works for you fine but for me it makes me feel like a cuck. It also takes away my drive for real women. I still jack it but I'm concentrating on myself not some chick I'll never touch.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:05 PM
4

This post slayed me. So true and so fucking funny.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 06:44 AM
10

The ultimate question is: does being selfish gets them to come back more than being considerate does.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 10:28 PM
8

Holy crap this is mind blowing.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 06:18 AM
2

Thanks for confirming what I was thinking. I almost broke frame there.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:49 PM
1

Same thing happened to my wife dude with my best friend too. AWALT indeed. It will get better I promise, it was an awakening for me.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:26 AM
1

Yes this is true, thanks.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 10:23 PM
2

Oh wow and I thought I had it bad. This is living nightmare. God speed dude.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 03:25 PM
1

Really well put and something I've been thinking about. He put a bro before a hoe because he was weak. As a result he is now ousted from the pack.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 11:58 AM
2

Yeah that is a very real possibility :/
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:36 PM
2

Yeah I have come to all these conclusions as well, right down to the BPD. Monk mode for me.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 10:26 PM
10

I love this reply. Yes I have never spent longer thinking about revenge and violence than the last month. However TRP has really put it into perspective and I don't want to risk any more drama in my life over crazy cunts. It also helps to know it happens to everyone because AWALT. I am working on submitting divorce papers, she wants to separate just as much as me.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 06:32 PM
1

Who are there MRP guys?
/r/askTRP05/06/16 06:03 PM
1

Thanks for the empathy, it means a lot. The divorce is going smoothly at the moment.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 05:59 PM
1

Yeah same dude. Think I'm going to have to leave the country.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 05:58 AM
1

Fair enough! Any tips for someone new on the scene?
/r/askTRP04/06/16 08:04 PM
1

Women are more degenerate in the UK? Not disagreeing just wondering what you are basing it off.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 07:59 PM
1

Thank you, and yes I'm trying to internalise the difference.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 10:46 AM
1

Good points. Is there anymore resources about TRP in the bedroom?
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:42 AM
10

If you are getting what you want, keep getting what you want. Just be careful you don't fall 'in love' because she 'really understands you' and 'isn't like other girls'.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 07:35 AM
3

Yeah, not easy at all to do, but you are 100% right.
/r/seduction01/06/16 09:03 PM
3

Nope, separated, getting a divorce and feeling free. Also as a bonus 'she wants to be shared', lol.
/r/seduction01/06/16 08:59 PM
2

Good point sir, I have been doing a lot of that, but yes, no need to rush. They will be there waiting!
/r/seduction01/06/16 07:26 PM
1

Yes, it was a huge amount of work for reasons I won't go into. Sorry you can relate. It is slowly coming back to me.
/r/seduction01/06/16 12:31 PM
1

Sorry to hear you are in the same boat. Thanks for the recommendation!
/r/seduction01/06/16 12:30 PM
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