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The amount of upvotes truly scares me. No wonder guys get a bad rep and do horrible things. They think shit like this is okay…
/r/seduction15/07/21 04:30 PM
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Yes in this fake story the creep wasn’t the guy who got rejected 2 times already. It was the guy talking to the girl once, who this “savior” deemed him creepy because he is the ultimate body language detector. Please fix yourself if you think this is okay in any way
/r/seduction15/07/21 04:28 PM
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I definitely call bs. Hopefully no guys actually listen to this
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:21 AM
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I call fake. Guys, please don’t do this or get ideas from this. It’s not real life
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:20 AM
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Nah, cause she slept with 35+ without getting an STD. She’s got good experience in bed and knows what she wants for the rest of her life without needing to explore
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:09 AM
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I consider cold approach as anything when you have no idea who the girl is or her name. So both of those.
/r/seduction06/07/21 09:10 PM
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Would love to see you explain any of those 3 comments and how it relates to my post at all
/r/seduction06/07/21 05:28 AM
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I have met plenty of women at random places too. 1 at a gas station, a few randomly on the street who I stopped, a few at a grocery store, 2 at fast food joints, a few at the beach. It isn’t all that different. True that it requires more confidence, but I think it’s actually easier than nightlife because their guard is initially way down, and you’re only competing against yourself. So once you build that initial rapport for 1/2 minutes, they’ll relax if you have a calming, non threatening presen…
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:37 PM
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From the beginning, I would always go on dates with the mindset that this girl could be a future wife. I always gave them a fair chance and was never douchey about it IMO. However, I was always very up front and honest with the casual ones. I never said the exact reasons to them because I didn’t want to hurt their self esteem. But before they got any ideas, I would simply say that I do like their personality, however I don’t see this being a long term fit for myself and I don’t plan on taking th…
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:27 PM
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Yeah I used to meet a lot of women in class and in nightlife that were completely from cold approaching. Different situations require different tact, but the essentials and mindset are the exact same!
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:09 PM
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Nope not at all. Glad I got it all out of my system and don’t have to wonder what’s new out there. Plus I know exactly what I like in bed and she satisfies my needs completely
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:08 PM
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I don’t expect her to split the bill. I expect her to offer, or show willingness. If I ask a girl out, I will pay the bill always. If she asks me out, I’ll offer to split or she can pay.
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:37 PM
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No because it doesn’t have to do a lot with game. I know a 5’5” guy who absolutely kills it with women. He just has confidence and a great personality
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:36 PM
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One of mine is not dating meth heads
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:59 AM
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Go do some meth
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:59 AM
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You can always work on your personality. It’s not being fake or sociopathic to do that. It’s literally growing as a human, and becoming a better person for yourself and everyone around you
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:33 PM
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Yup 100% in person. Never met anyone from online dating!
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:38 PM
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Typically if I’m actually into the girl I’ll wait at least until date 2 to initiate sex. If I know she’s not relationship material I’ll try to have sex on the first date because I don’t want to waste my time or money on her. I always try to kiss on the first date. If it’s a decent match, I’ll kiss 95% of the time. I try to stick to 1/2 places max, go mostly I just go with the flow.
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:21 PM
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Because I find it deeper and more fulfilling personally than staying single and having randoms never get to fully know me
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:17 PM
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She white and Italian. I’m a small business owner
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:28 PM
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You will be seriously answering right after. But you can inject some light hearted humor before and set the tone of having fun. You also shouldn’t be humorous with every answer, but it’s a big mistake to be serious the entire time
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:04 PM
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Good luck! I think it’s based primarily on personality and confidence or I would’ve killed dating apps. When I’m actuality I got almost no matches and from no one I found attractive. However, when I’m out. I feel that I’m the best person there, that’s my mindset
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:52 PM
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Social places. Only used dating apps for a week and I did terribly
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:34 PM
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I have high physical standards. I want them to be head turners, or I just won’t take it far
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:33 PM
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You’re welcome! Good luck
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:32 PM
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I went to Spain and slept with 5 different people in 8 days. A lot yes, but I was feeling myself and having fun with randoms!
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:25 PM
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It wasn’t tedious, I’ve always been extroverted at heart so it was nice just meeting new people in general and seeing what’s in their minds. If I wasn’t interested, I was honest from the jump, I would simply say that I don’t think we’re the right fit, but if you want to continue seeing each other then that’s perfect for me. I didn’t really remember details of fwb stories, that’s more for women who I want to seriously date, because I care to put more effort for someone I see something long term w…
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:21 PM
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You’re welcome!
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:16 PM
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Exactly THIS for everyone out there! Great mindset
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:15 PM
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I had relationships sprinkled in between and I went on hot and cold streaks. Also work would get in the way sometimes. I started dating more seriously when I hit 25
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:14 PM
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Yup, exposure and momentum!
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:13 PM
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They know what they’re getting into. Like I said I’m honest from the jump if I don’t see something long term with them. If they want sex, and I want sex, I don’t see the problem.
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:11 PM
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I didn’t plan to go through a lot of women. In fact, the single bachelor life gets boring after a while from the big perspective. I wasn’t looking for a girlfriend, but I realized I wanted to take things more seriously when I hit 25
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:08 PM
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Girlfriend and yes. She doesn’t care
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:06 PM
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😂😂
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:05 PM
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I do both. Usually alone if on the weekday after work. Try to just introduce yourself to groups or guys, then snowball the night from there when you’re alone!
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:05 PM
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America, Los Angeles!
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:04 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:04 PM
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That beta male and alpha male shit is dumb lol. Do whatever pleases you
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:03 PM
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😂
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:02 PM
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Yeah you’re correct, it’s a fine line and hard for people to be good at. I commented on my actual explanation some place above where I echo your thoughts. It’s just not done right for most people
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:01 PM
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Yup 90% in, leave the 10% for her
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:00 PM
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Chances are if you go on a date she wants to like you. With this you’re just putting yourself in the best situation to be yourself and succeed!
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:59 PM
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You’re very active on this thread… love the judgment. Cheers
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:58 PM
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That’s not a bad start!
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:57 PM
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I’ve always had a great personality in my opinion, just not a lot of confidence. Since young, when people get to know me through just one conversation they usually like me a lot.
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:57 PM
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I honestly am half the time. Most of this gym equipment is weird and idk how to work half of it. I even ask them til this day when I have a gf because I actually want help
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:55 PM
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It’s just joking around, being sarcastic and lightening the mood. You’re seeing how gullible she is and honestly above all else, you’re trying to make yourself laugh. Then once you do, you can be more serious
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:54 PM
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You gotta always tease until the moment your dick is in her. When your kissing, you pull back and make her WANT your lips. You want to make her grab your face. If you don’t do this, you’ll end up in situations like I have where you think it’s 100% a done deal, you ask verbally if you’re fucking halfway through and they straight up turn you down. Of course, I make sure not to push without enthusiastic consent though!
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:52 PM
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You’re welcome, keep staying positive, keep working at it. And when you least expect it, it’ll happen and that weight will lift WAY off your shoulder
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:47 PM
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Listen, I say if you can do it in a non threatening and non annoying way. Go for it. I always would because I hate living with regrets. Now if she’s not in the mood on first approach, then don’t persist, just leave lol
/r/seduction23/06/21 06:19 AM
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Not my wife yet, but she likes that I have gotten everything I need to out of my system, that I know what I want sexually, and I’m experienced to know what I’m doing. We’ve also both echoed that our sex is the best we’ve ever had and it’s true for me forsure
/r/seduction23/06/21 06:17 AM
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Lmao I do this all the time. My close friends know I’m bullshitting but the newcomers always fall for it and it’s the funniest thing! The whole group enjoys it
/r/seduction23/06/21 06:15 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction23/06/21 06:06 AM
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Glad you enjoyed it! Go for it
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:59 AM
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Either my place, her place, a hotel or a car. Lol depends on the vibe of her and the logistics
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:54 AM
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Ok
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:53 AM
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I mean I’m not just gonna casually fuck someone who I think is perfect. Just because they have yellow flags doesn’t mean they’re bad people. They’re just not for me. They don’t have bad intentions, they’re not gonna poke a hole in my condom (red flag energy), so why would I care.
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:49 AM
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She’s been with exactly 36, she’s 28 years old. And that seems high for most guys but I love having a girl knowing what she wants in bed and someone who’s equally as sex positive as me and not afraid of the negative taboo
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:47 AM
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Completely agree. In a lot of aspects in life, you get what you give!
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:45 AM
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Haha that’s an awesome trait. And it definitely goes noticed both ways. I love when a woman remembers little details of mine too!
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:43 AM
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Yes, yellow flags in my book, not necessarily yellow flags for other people. And then I put them into the friendzone, acquaintance or fwb category because I know I don’t want a relationship with them
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:40 AM
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My girlfriend says this all the time cause I’m quite good at this lol. I remember the most insignificant details of a story, and if comes up months later I somehow remember it
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:39 AM
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No, red flags is immediate stoppage. Yellow flag is proceed with caution
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:37 AM
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Well, I just didn’t find the one I wanted. They are conventionally high quality to most people. But if I saw yellow flags early on, I wouldn’t wait around or make things serious. And there’s no better way to pass time looking for the right one than having some casual sex Until I found someone without any yellow flags and looked beautiful too, then I settle down.
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:34 AM
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Glad to see it! Keep developing your skills and practicing. It’ll all come together one day
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:30 AM
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I think that if any single person in this sub were to see any of the 70, they would date them given the opportunity
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:28 AM
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Another person shouldn’t dictate your self worth. Only you should. And if you’re not up to your own standards, then you need to find a way to slowly work your way up to there!
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:27 AM
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Yeah I kind of got inspired by another comment on another post and jumped the gun, but I’ll start from the beginning because I know you gotta ask out the girl in the first place lol
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:25 AM
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I’m going to make a post sometime this week on actually getting to a date!
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:09 AM
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You’re very welcome. It’s going very strong. In fact, it’s even better than that post, we are moving in soon! Honestly, we have gotten into disagreements but it’s not constant, and we truly communicate super well so we always work out our problems that day. It’s a very healthy dynamic.
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:09 AM
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I have dated probably 150+ women. Not sure of the exact count. But I’m very good at closing. It’s gotta be around half my dates
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:06 AM
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Questions that lead to more than a yes or no
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:05 AM
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It’s never too late! Don’t want to say my college but it’s on the west coast. Trust me, you gotta not regret things in life. Everything truly happens for a reason. Don’t feel sorry for yourself and feel like you missed on opportunity. You are in the drivers seat for your future, so why not start tomorrow. Get over the hurdle in your brain and just work on this aspect of your life. Start with small goals, such as a kiss or make out, and work up to the big goal, losing your virginity. Then you’ll …
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:04 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:00 AM
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Thanks. Yup I worked hard on myself to achieve this. And tbh did it purely for aesthetics, but I love the way I look!
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:50 AM
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No idea man, move to Bombay lol
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:49 AM
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I think I’ve slept with all attractive girls. My friends would sometimes find someone at the end of a night to fuck as a last resort, but I would never if they didn’t meet my basic standards. I lost my virginity at 18 in senior year of high school to my gf. Broke up that summer. Was not sexually active again until 20. Yeah, I found that I was more confident in bed with experience. But I became most confident when I realized that sometimes the hottest model type of girls are THE MOST insecure out…
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:48 AM
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Lol not at this moment. As I mentioned, I’m taken.
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:43 AM
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It’s not bad once you hit your mid 20’s. It essentially averages to one a month since being sexually active.
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:42 AM
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At the gym you start more as acquaintances than hitting on them immediately. It’s very non threatening and non chalant.
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:41 AM
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Sure, here’s a few off the top of my head. These are all the necessary ones. 1.) Respectful of my time. 2.) Not on their phone during the date, unless it’s an emergency. 3.) Family oriented 4.) Eats healthy, works out. Healthy lifestyle. 5.) Mentally stable 6.) Ambitious. Not necessarily career wise. But with something in life that they want to accomplish. 7.) Not needy. I have shit to do, don’t bother me all day or get mad for not responding. 8.) High self esteem. 9.) Kindness to everyone, no m…
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:40 AM
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Thank you so much! Yup there’s a lot of shitty info on here, but I tried to keep this realistic and not douchey or gamey
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:33 AM
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I might be able to try from my perspective
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:32 AM
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She has met every one of my standards, and far surpassed anything I could’ve imagined. She challenges me to be a better person, and she is extremely supportive. Everything in our life, goals, mindset, communication, values, morals, libido, and sex life aligns perfectly. And lastly, she makes me extremely happy and always makes me laugh.
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:30 AM
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My mindset shifted. I realized that approaching shouldn’t make me nervous. I should have fun with it and at the very least, I could amuse myself, or I could brighten up a girls day. At the very worst, I get completely ignored. Once I realized that the girls who don’t give me the time of day are the ones missing out on MY life, is when I started really succeeding.
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:28 AM
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Well, I was terrible with girls in HS. Had one gf who I lost my virginity to, was my only lay for 2 years and I only got her because she was obsessed with me. Then in college I figured I really had to work on this, because while I was a social guy in general. I think I was traumatized from getting rejected HARD in middle school, and that carried on until I put myself out there in college. My family is not wealthy, I put myself through college by working full time and studying minimally. About 20…
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:25 AM
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In America, Los Angeles. But I would assume it’s applicable everywhere
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:14 AM
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Almost all my kisses come from that awkward silence. It seems terrible, but it’s really the best!
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:13 AM
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This is an entertaining take
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:12 AM
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LA
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:12 AM
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Yeah fuck that noise and whoever has that perception. My motto is that I make my own perceptions! Glad you like it
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:44 AM
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Read some of the comments. I’ve mentioned a few things about approaching in general and you can apply it to the street approach!
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:24 AM
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Lol you’re welcome. Hopefully there’s some practical stuff in there for ya!
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:23 AM
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Say YES to everything you can, even if you don’t see the value of it at first. You can always leave if you want. If your tired, if your schedules tight, if you gotta sleep a little less. Just say yes. Especially while starting to build it out. Because sometimes one missed invite on the first try from someone else, will not ever get you another one again. And you just branch out from there. Funny enough, my girlfriend was introduced by a guy I met from a social sports league who was TERRIBLE with…
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:21 AM
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Yeah you got it spot on. I wrote that specifically because it’s honestly really hard to make self deprecating humor funny. And a lot of guys try and they just make themselves seem like a negative person or that they don’t think much of themselves. If you’re more advanced you can gauge when and how to use self deprecating humor. I used to tell women all the time that I have a small dick, but they don’t truly believe that (not that dick size matters much). Essentially my confidence while I say sel…
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:03 AM
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I have an athletic body. Toned, slender, and muscular, but not extremely cut or bulky
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:52 AM
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Thank you. Yup that’s great, take your time getting to reknow yourself as an individual and you’ll be back up and better in no time!
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:51 AM
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Gym is honestly tougher and takes time, it’s a slower game so you don’t seem like a creep hitting on people right when you see them. My approach was to just be social with EVERYONE there. Girls will notice if you’re the guy who just knows people there. They’ll wonder why you haven’t gotten to know them yet. And once you finally say hi to them (not during a set), she’ll just see you as the friendly social guy. My best way is to play dumb and ask girls how to use a machine they’re on. They’re more…
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:49 AM
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Yup, for me communication is up there too. Both people in a relationship need to know how to communicate their thoughts and feelings effectively. You got it spot on with my thinking though. Definitely need long term goals to match up, I get those questions out of the way early so that I know if I wanna hook up or potentially be in a relationship!
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:40 AM
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I get what you’re saying, and I see how this could be dangerous if interpreted or implemented wrong. Essentially what I meant was that you should initiate small, non threatening touches and gauge her reaction. You can learn from people’s non verbal cues on whether they’re into it and you should escalate or their uncomfortable and you should back down or stop.
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:37 AM
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Glad I could help some people!
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:34 AM
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I’m in Los Angeles. Act like a king means don’t let people control your actions. Do what you want. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind, state your opinions. Be genuine. Be yourself. Know that your standards for dating seriously are for queens only, not people who don’t respect you or your time.
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:34 AM
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Lol no course, just wanted to pass some sound and practical advice that I’ve learned through the years now that I’m taken
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:32 AM
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It’s whatever you think it is. There’s no social cutoff for prime age!
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:31 AM
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Maybe location has a little to do with it. Because I know where I am (a big city: Los angeles), people tend to settle down way later than rural areas. But you shouldn’t use age as a bad thing. You should turn it into a positive. Maybe you’ve experienced enough now to know exactly what you want so you’re more selective in your choices now!
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:30 AM
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Thank you! In a sea of bad information on this sub, I’m happy that I’m resonating with a lot of people in an actionable non douchey/gamey way
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:28 AM
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Write a list of standards down that are non negotiable. Then write a list of standards down that are more wants. After this little exercise, you’ll truly understand what the minimum you’re looking for looks like, so you know it’s just not even feasible to put up with anything lower than your non negotiables. That’s where your standards are born!
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:27 AM
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I mean the hug honestly could be friendly at first, it’s just a way to touch. But hugs switch meaning when they’re more prolonged than usual and when you look at them in the eyes as you back off from a hug. It’s a great time to kiss when that all happens
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:25 AM
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Haha thanks bro. Had to throw that out there because I know how tough the mindset is for Indian guys. I was there in hs and college until I changed my thought process!
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:12 AM
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Good luck! Don’t let your background mentally detract from what’s the most important, your confidence.
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:11 AM
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You state or show your intentions from the moment you meet her. You don’t act like a friend first and then build up to a date. You date first and see if you can be friends after. These girls still wanted FWB’s after I was honest because girls like sex just as much as guys do and I have the experience to be good at it
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:10 AM
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Yup! That’s really the best mindset to have. Good luck
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:08 AM
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Gotta up your mindset man! Shorter heights mean FAR less to a high quality woman than a lack of confidence does.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:40 PM
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I commented above somewhere on how to cold approach. As far as keeping the conversation going, just ask open ended question and piggy back off of certain things in the conversation by asking a follow up question or by relating your own story to her answer. It should flow like you’re talking to a friend, but your flirting with her by messing around like she’s your little sister that you’re poking fun at
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:37 PM
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5’11”
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:34 PM
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Yup. And it’s actually in your favor if your good in person. Because with technology, people are way more socially anxious to hit on someone else nowadays. And on top of that you get to show off your personality with very important non-verbal cues in person.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:18 PM
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5’ 11”
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:10 PM
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Haha no, THAT would be an experience. But not one I’d want to try. 50 year olds aren’t too bad though ;)
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:10 PM
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What kind of stats?? I mean I go for anyone I’m attracted to and has a good personality. I obviously have preferences, but any girl from any race could like you. I wouldn’t filter anyone out because you think it’s less likely.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:09 PM
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Noooo not getting married just yet. Likely in 2 years. I feel like I’m in my prime now, but definitely not settling. I found a keeper!
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:07 PM
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Being social is a skill just like being good at a sport. You gotta practice new moves and fall short a few times before you start seeing results. Of course some people are more ‘athletic’ or ‘socially skilled’ than others, but even the unathletic ones can thrive with practice!
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:05 PM
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I did in college for a week when I was lonely. I wasn’t good looking enough to do well on them and I would’ve settled for women I wouldn’t even give a second look to in real life. I learned quickly that a lot of the super hot ones aren’t even on them, so it’s better to just meet them in person!
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:02 PM
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So I go with two methods stemming from a curious mindset. First one is I find something unique about them (non looks) like I’ll say I really like your necklace, where’d you get it? Second one is, I’ll find some common thing to talk about in our shared environment. In a grocery store: “woah looks like you know how to cook, I’m stuck, do you have any ideas”. My favorite line that works best for me in a bar. I go up to a group of girls (2+), and say, “you guys look like you’re really fun, I wanted …
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:12 PM
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That’s great! Yeah it’ll take a few months. Maybe try out a social sports league. That’s where I met a good amount of people and had access to many circles quickly
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:04 PM
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Truly anywhere. Bars, out on the street, grocery store, gym. I’ve done it all. Different settings require different tact though
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:03 PM
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Yeah it’s a big statement, but when you know you know. Especially after dating a lot. We just match up and communicate extremely well, have a lot of fun together and I can see her taking care of me and any kids we have. Truly my best friend. I have a post about 6 months ago in r/dating that describes it a little more and I feel even stronger about her than I did then.
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:06 PM
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If I had to break it down I would say 70% cold approach and 30% warm approach. Tbh the warm approaches (friends of friends) are the best, because you really end up have similar values a lot of the times. Social Circle game is SUPER important. You gotta have a lot of different sets of platonic friends, women and men, that’ll introduce you warmly to new people.
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:02 PM
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It’s probably a combination of both tbh. I have that type of personality that I can say almost anything I want because I’m great at conveying tone. A buddy of mine has tried to copy the same exact things I said right after I said it, but to a different girl at a bar and has gotten slapped. He’s gotten a bad reaction using my same words multiple times. I eventually told him to stop and just be himself lol
/r/seduction15/01/21 10:42 PM
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Ill give you a few tips. 1.) Don’t ever mention explicitly that you want to have sex. You can hint towards innuendos and be super flirty, but never say “I want to fuck you” if you haven’t already done it before. In fact, don’t even say this during foreplay. Once your dick is inside of her, then it’s okay 2.) As I’m sure you’ve read before. You gotta escalate with touch and build yourself up to sexual risqué touches. It’s too long to type out fully, but start with intense eye contact, and slowly …
/r/seduction05/10/20 04:06 AM
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You’re welcome! Not sure about “expect it to be met” though. Keep in mind people have schedules, so one very specific day and time may not work. Be general in mentioning the days, but give specific time slots so there’s more flexibility and it also shows that you’re a busy person. Well I actually liked the first line. And I like how it seems you’re trying to joke around more instead of being serious. But I think you just need a different way to go about the joking. After she says he doesn’t like…
/r/seduction02/10/20 01:41 AM
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I’ve done better after college than in college. And I did very well in college, at a casual sex friendly-large party school on the west coast. Honestly, I find there to be a better pool of women if you build various separate social circles after college. Not only can you choose what types of girls you’ll meet by hanging out in specific circles, but you’ll also meet higher quality and more relationship seeking types of people. Which I’m assuming you’re going for if you’re in your late 20’s. As fo…
/r/seduction02/10/20 12:37 AM
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Jeez this was cringe. You’re trying to sell yourself and qualify yourself so hard. Don’t say your important, and don’t say you’ll see the parrot enough anyways. Just show for it. Also “is that doable?” Seriously. You’re catering to her schedule and its showing you’ve already prioritized her for no reason. Honestly she doesn’t seem super into you as evidenced by her non-commitalness. But you possibly still have a slight chance. Next time you meet you gotta escalate to at least a kiss, and you got…
/r/seduction02/10/20 12:24 AM
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I guess it depends on the city, but the social circle game you could get from joining is still always up for grabs
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:35 PM
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Depends what city you live in, but I have met some great friends and gotten the most dates after college from joining a casual/social sports league. Currently they’re all closed in LA due to Covid, but when they resume I’m in. I’ve done everything from flag football to beach volleyball to kickball to cornhole. There’s attractive girls in each one, and if not there’s always the social circle game that comes with time. Also, it keeps me active
/r/seduction26/08/20 02:04 PM
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First off, solely exchanging numbers in no way suggests that you’re interested in her, especially a coworker. It’s a pretty common and casual thing to do anyways. A perfect way to go about this is to suggest a farewell drink with you two sometime in the next few days, then if she’s in, you’ll exchange numbers anyways. Contrary to common belief, you don’t even have to call it a date if she doesn’t ask. Just be flirty over text beforehand to set the tone (don’t text too much), then on the date mak…
/r/seduction28/07/20 04:42 AM
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Lmaoo I wrote it, and then thought to myself “damn...good times”
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:11 AM
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Of course, good luck!
/r/seduction23/07/20 12:14 AM
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The more your try to make it verbally sexual in these situations, the more you’ll likely be in your head and fail or freak her out. After the pleasantries, slow down your talking, talk on the quieter side, and in those long pauses create deep engaging eye contact. Then, when that awkward moment happens where nothing is being said for like 10 seconds and you’re looking deep in her eyes, go for a the kiss (90% of the way). The tension comes from the awkwardness and the feeling of not knowing what’…
/r/seduction23/07/20 12:09 AM
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Here’s a little guide that has been engrained into my mind over a lot of trial and error: 1.) Approach: Start with “excuse me” or “hi” to get their attention. If they’re walking, stop them. 2.) Opener: Once I have their attention, I start with a question that is relatable to both of you in that moment. e.g. Where’s that Starbucks from? You look stylish and I’m trying to find earrings for my sisters birthday, any suggestions? Make sure to give solid eye contact during steps 1 & 2 otherwise it mak…
/r/seduction01/07/20 06:20 AM
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A kiss on the first date is not necessarily what I try towards, it’s not a goal. Reason being is that if you have this goal in your mind during a date, you’ll be so focused on reaching the goal that you’ll likely be less present and less in the moment than ever. However, usually my dates are physically escalated enough through touching, and there’s always deep eye gazing with those high sexual tension pauses in conversation which some people may call “awkward silences”. This is all enough to kis…
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:19 PM
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I word it somewhat like the first one, but instead I’ll say “Let’s meet up/go out for drinks, how does Thursday or Friday work for you?” I’ll pick concrete days, and if they’re interested, they can either agree or they’ll suggest another day. If I’m too vague, I notice a drop off in response, or a dreaded I’ll let you know which essentially means you have to ask her out twice and with horrible results. I never mention the word “date”, some girls see this word and freak out over it. However, the …
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:14 AM
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Sounds like a straight up bitch. There’s a difference between shit tests and being an asshole. I personally wouldn’t spend any time with someone like that because I respect myself too much, whether a friend or girl
/r/seduction27/12/19 07:19 PM
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If they say that I would just respond with some playful joke like, “what’s considered serial? Cause I’m only at 4”
/r/seduction24/12/19 08:16 PM
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I was always really good at talking to girls, making them comfortable and like me, but mostly as friends as I was such an awkward middle and high schooler and didn’t have the looks. I had major self esteem issues entering high school because my first crush that I could remember in middle school that I was essentially obsessed with rejected me so hard and multiple times that I felt something was wrong with me for years, and placed so much value on looks alone. This throwback pic that I found whil…
/r/seduction30/10/19 03:34 AM
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My personal favorite first date. Start with ice skating and then see where the night takes you. It’s a great excuse to hold hands, you get to sit close and talk during the zamboni break. It’s fun, it can be funny, and it’s very memorable.
/r/seduction24/10/19 03:36 PM
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When you’re alone and talking, don’t fill the silences and pauses between conversations. Just stare deep into her eyes until it’s just a little awkward for both of you and then you’ll just know when to go for the kiss. You gotta do it soon (preferably when you see her next) or she’ll lose interest.
/r/seduction12/10/19 07:36 PM
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It’s the perfect way to turn the conversation from casual to sexual without seeming creepy. After you’ve introduced it, after you’ve nonchalantly talked about sex and she seems comfortable, it’ll be much easier to orientate the conversation towards her sexually
/r/seduction01/10/19 08:32 PM
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Bring up a friends sexual story about a crazy time with sex as the main topic
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:32 PM
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I’ve done this twice (once on vacation, once in college). Both times, I fully convinced myself and the girls, that we have one life. We might as well live it up and experience these things while we can and just have an adventure that we would remember for the rest of our lives. I framed all of our interactions the night of the threesomes with these kind of thoughts in mind. Also, both times I already slept with one of the girls prior. On vacation, I met these two girls and they both seemed into …
/r/seduction14/08/19 06:06 AM
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THIS IS WILD BRO. Please do not ever confess your “feelings” to a girl at a bar. Especially when you just met. Girls are emotional, not logical, so they will respond better to you showing them your feelings (through appropriate/consensual physical flirting) rather than telling them. Also, I feel like you are new at this. But it’s generally a bad idea (unless you’re advanced) to tell a girl let’s be best friends. Keep in mind this boyfriend of hers might not be real, so you got a chance still
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:46 PM
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That’s already super fuckin creepy that you found her like that, unless you stumbled upon it which I highly doubt. Stop making up all these scenarios in your head and just go talk to her. What’s the worst she could say, “No, fuck off”. Then you confirmed she is a bitch and you dodged a bullet. What’s the best thing that could happen? It’s limitless
/r/seduction10/08/19 06:14 AM
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Unless you’re an very physically attractive guy, girls will almost never come up to you at a house party if you’re just standing around and being a wallflower essentially. At house parties, what you need to do is just have the most fun possible, with whoever is there. Guys, girls, ugly, cute and everything in between. Initiate shots, be loud, make dumb jokes and say stupid/funny things, be weird, and overall just make people around you laugh. Be super social, be the life of the party! THIS will …
/r/seduction09/08/19 12:44 AM
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You could’ve responded better (with more wit), but seems like the interaction went well anyways. Verbal game will come with time. Good luck!
/r/seduction08/08/19 11:37 PM
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Loool SAME
/r/seduction05/08/19 01:04 AM
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Not in a big city. In LA they are everywhere. It has come to a point where if girl says she’s an aspiring actress or model that I almost get turned off lol
/r/seduction04/08/19 04:46 PM
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This is terrible advice. As a generalization, the single 25+ year olds that I know all fuck like crazy and know what they want sexually and don’t play games. Meanwhile the younger crowd isn’t as experienced and are generally more tame
/r/seduction02/08/19 07:54 PM
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Bro I tell girls at first that I work at 7/11 as a desk clerk and I watch how they react. I also mention that one day I want to work my way up to be the manager, and that that’s my goal. They usually can tell I’m full of shit by the way I present myself, but nonetheless they stick around and question me about it more. After some more talking I finally tell them I run my own business. If they care about your job more than your ambition and mindset, they’re not good enough for YOU. I’m able to use…
/r/seduction30/07/19 03:07 PM
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DG the one is bomb too. The light YSL is really good as well
/r/seduction28/07/19 12:43 AM
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Lacoste, white bottle. Amazing. Lots of compliments
/r/seduction28/07/19 12:41 AM
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For something unique, say in a sarcastic tone “I guess the face lotion I’ve been using really does make me look younger”. For something that works generally, the “are you sure you’re not too old for me?” is pretty decent
/r/seduction28/07/19 12:41 AM
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Why date a woman who isn’t eager to date you? You should be going for women who are super excited to even have the chance of going out with you
/r/seduction24/07/19 10:32 PM
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It seems as though you’re not really living in the moment with girls. You seem so determined and are placing so much weight on the end goal (sex), when really you should just be enjoying the entire process of everything from flirting, to intense sexual tension, to kissing. Being present is really what I’ve focused on the last couple of years. I have much deeper emotional and physical connections doing this, and I honestly could care less if a new girl and I have sex after a date or two because w…
/r/seduction24/07/19 10:16 PM
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“Hey you guys look like fun! My friends and I were talking about (so and so), what’s your opinion on it?”
/r/seduction24/07/19 09:20 PM
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Co-Ed Social sports leagues. Usually you play the game for an hour or two against one other team. Then go to a bar to hangout if you want with all the rest of the teams (this is where the interactions become really solidified). Super easy way to network, meet girls and meet friends. Also, join it solo (without a friend) and you’ll just be forced to be way more social.
/r/seduction24/07/19 08:20 PM
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This may work freshman/sophomore year, but by junior and senior year the high quality popular girls (definitely not the low quality popular future gold digger types) will definitely be looking for high quality guys who may not be in the spotlight, but are just fully embracing themselves and their personality and don’t care about all that stuff. In college, there’s basically is no popularity, so the latter mindset will be perfect base to have going forward. Rather than the immature mindset of try…
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:37 AM
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Deep, engaging eye contact. In pickup or even socially. It will change your interactions and your life, no joke.
/r/seduction19/07/19 10:44 PM
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Social sports league. Not basketball or something male dominanted. Maybe kickball, soccer, ultimate frisbee etc.
/r/seduction19/07/19 10:41 PM
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If she wasn’t saying it maliciously; but rather in a joking manner; you should have joked back with her and asked “if you wanna borrow a couple of cup sizes”. Depends if you were into her looks wise. If she said it maliciously, then proceed the way you did lol
/r/seduction19/07/19 10:39 PM
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You’re welcome. Yeah trust me I’ve been in your situation many times when I was younger and I always wanted those questions answered because I would overanalyze the shit out of every text and interaction after and see what I did wrong, but I learned to just become more present and worry about the now instead of something you can’t change. For me easing off would be never texting first. Replying courteously but keeping it short if she texts you. Don’t just flat out ignore her, but don’t put too m…
/r/seduction19/07/19 07:12 PM
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What’s the point of asking her all these things when clearly you’ve been friendzoned? You either waited too long to make a move (when she was holding your hand and stuff that would be the perfect opportunity), or she’s more touchy feely and physical around other people than you initially thought. Is it possible to get out of the friendzone. Hell yes! But you gotta stop placing your future with her on a pedestal. Ease off her for a while (3-4 weeks) then once you go back make it seem as though yo…
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:46 PM
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Next time a girl that you’re interested in (who you also think likes you back) starts talking about an ex, look deep into her eyes and say “I can help you get over him real fast”. Be totally serious with this, and don’t say anything after. Just keep looking at her until either she says something or diverts her attention. You can play it off as a joke after, or if it works and she says something flirty back then it’s go time.
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:15 PM
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Lol funny story. A girl I’m friends with was giving me a bunch of shit one day for dating multiple people at once and saying sometimes you end up having a one night stand. She was visibly pissed at my character at this point. Then two weeks later she’s going home with some random guy from the club and she claims because they had a really good connection
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:57 PM
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Young nurses are freaks, I’ll tell you that much.
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:51 PM
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I think you need to realize that complimenting someone shouldn’t be a really big deal, and you need to stop placing so much weight on it. I used to be the same way, telling a girl she’s cute or has pretty eyes even though I knew she was into me was a huge mental hurdle. I used progression to get rid of this irrational fear. First, I started complimenting friends and family more. Just in general, like hey I love your shoes. Then, with girls I thought were cute I would give very friendly complimen…
/r/seduction07/05/19 01:37 AM
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I just graduated in 2018 and I can emphatically say, YES there is, and the majority of your lays will probably come from your social circle game (directly or indirectly). Directly, would be a friend group that you make and one or more of the friends in the group, you end up sleeping with. Depending on your closeness to the friend group, this may or may not be a good idea if you like hanging out with all of them. Indirectly, would be when you’re out with said friend group and you approach random …
/r/seduction02/05/19 02:07 AM
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I’ve had many great rock climbing first dates, so don’t shy away from trying it again. Just calibrate better and make it more fun. I suspect that was the problem. Couple things to note: Don’t try to impress the girl or seem all bravado, just do what you do in there and if she compliments you accept it with grace. Try not to be cocky unless you usually pull it off really well. In a situation like this, it more than likely demeans her spirit and it’s very hard to pull off. She’s there to have fun,…
/r/seduction26/04/19 11:56 PM
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Opener: Hey, you (girls) look like fun so I wanted to come say hi! Their potential response: We are fun! or hi! Then I do an assumption or ask a question based on an initial glance of their looks, the environment, and their enthusiasm from their response: You look like you’re in some crazy deep thought right now about your weekend plans/So my friends and I have a debate about so and so question...
/r/seduction22/04/19 04:54 PM
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I totally agree and I think this is an important distinction that many people need to conceptualize. I don’t ever show trashy/flashy moments of my life. I don’t post my inebriated bar/club nights and definitely don’t flaunt my money or material items. Hence, a picture of a girl eating my food, or perhaps watching the sunset, hiking, rock climbing etc. are all great ways to show that positive image you’re talking about whether it’s with a date or friends.
/r/seduction19/04/19 05:29 AM
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Agreed, generally girls are bad at flirting and you have to lead them a lot (expected) But if a girl posted something similar and the roles were reversed, I would make it sound not needy but still interested. For example, “you, me, cooking competition” Granted it would be someone who I’m dating or about to, I never slide in random dms.
/r/seduction19/04/19 01:39 AM
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I hate attention/validation seeking too, but I feel like they weren’t actually sad and thinking “why not meee?” They were just attempting to start some flirty banter
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:01 PM
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Personally, I post what I want to post on social media. Sometimes it’s with a hot girl I’ve been dating, or sometimes it’s just a hot friend that I’m hanging out with. The other girls can interpret it as they want. More often than not, it’s a hot friend. If a new date/girl sees this and asks, I’m always truthful, but I make sure to go about it in a non-douchey way. For example, I would say yeah I’m kind of just dating casually and having fun at the moment but if the right person who I’m super co…
/r/seduction18/04/19 09:04 PM
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I have found that it’s best to uniquely compliment employees with something about their looks, voice or personality etc. and then throw a small stupid joke in after they acknowledge your compliment. Then I gauge their reaction and ask them out if I they receive it well. Unique compliment example: I love your voice, it’s so soft and charismatic. Joke: I feel like if you read a book to me I’d fall asleep like a baby. Also make sure you look deep into their eyes while talking and don’t look away af…
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:34 PM
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You definitely get what I was trying to convey and expanded on my thoughts perfectly. I feel like we probably have very similar mindsets in regards to relationships and socializing
/r/seduction20/02/19 02:40 AM
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Nah not saying friend zone yourself. Like I said in a comment above, I’m always flirting with girls around me (whether they’re hot or not, whether I’m interested or not). But in work type scenarios and within friend groups, I don’t necessarily sexualize it or ask for their number or ask to go out the first time that I meet them. Since there is no time crunch, I can escalate those steps slowly over meeting then 2+ times.
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:54 AM
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When someone is in a relationship, they’re still attracted to other people. I could be banging a Victoria’s secret model and still think another girl is beautiful as well. Just live your life and if something ever happens to their relationship, then feel free to state your intentions. Don’t wait for them, interfere, or have a plan, just do you
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:39 AM
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I think you interpreted this wrong if you think this is manipulative tbh. I’m just saying when you’re in a group setting that’s at least somewhat consistent and not just a one-off, try to slow things down. Don’t just start hitting on her, and calling her cute and grabbing her number. You can take your time with it if you know you’re gonna see each other again
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:27 AM
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Totally agreed. A lot of my relationships with girls have a certain base level of tension, and that’s because I just flirt with everyone out of self-enjoyment. It doesn’t mean I act on it or sexualize it all the time, but an emotional connection with a girl just makes both of our lives more interesting and as a result a deeper relationship
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:56 PM
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Best way is to go out with them as friends and talk to and hook up with other random girls that you meet when you’re out. Women like men that other women like. If they think you’re a good flirt and good at sex, they’ll want to share that experience with you. This especially works to escape the friend zone if you’re able to pull girls who are 7+ in front of them at least twice.
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:58 AM
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I honestly just flirt with all my girl friends. Good practice and makes your relationships more interesting and emotional. Doesn’t mean I act on it or make it sexual but sure does make it easier if something ever just happens
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:01 PM
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Seriously. Sometimes I can’t even tell if some of these people are trolling or if their self confidence is really that fuckin low
/r/seduction05/02/19 06:55 AM
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You’re welcome, son
/r/seduction05/02/19 06:23 AM
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I guarantee at least one woman has found you at least slightly attractive in your life, and I bet it’s many more than one at that. Some people see past certain “bad traits” and other people love those so called “bad traits”. I don’t know where you live but you need to just get out more and interact with people in general. Learn how to carry memorable conversations with guys first, then girls you’re not attracted to, and then finally women you are attracted to. Co-Ed sports leagues are a super un…
/r/seduction05/02/19 05:18 AM
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How can you expect a woman to like you if you say that you have never met any woman’s standards before. If you aren’t your own biggest advocate, why would you expect someone else to be. The point of the post was to show that looks don’t actually mean much, it’s how your portray yourself and how confident you are. You need to work on self love before you can do anything my man
/r/seduction05/02/19 05:06 AM
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Exactly. So many girls have told me looks really don’t matter in the big scheme of things. Sure, on initial glance looks are big. But after that introduction is done for someone good looking, it’s literally all confidence and how you make her feel emotionally for everyone else.
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:30 AM
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There are 3 possible scenarios that could unfold if you just ask her out ASAP 1.) She likes you but thinks it’s too early. Well at least she knows your intentions and now you can try at a later date down the line when she’s more comfortable. 2.) She likes you and agrees to go out with you. 3.) She is not interested in you romantically. Now you can relax a little and not waste your whole semester with her. AKA find another cute lab partner. There are literally no bad outcomes I see here, just go …
/r/seduction15/01/19 03:11 AM
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Thank you, appreciate the kind words. Stay positive and motivated, good luck!
/r/seduction12/11/18 08:24 PM
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1.) Set up the date during the interaction by mentioning a favorite bar or new place you’ve been wanting to check out 2.) Try to prolong the initial conversation as much as possible without it getting stale. 5-10 min is good. Think about it from her perspective, she’s going out by by herself with some random dude, she needs to be comfortable with you beforehand. It’s a scary world for girls 3.) Ideally, mention something you talked about in the conversation through humor. It gets their brain kic…
/r/seduction12/11/18 05:22 PM
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Very cute food rep at Whole Foods who I briefly talked to once before while shopping with my mom. Hate hitting on girls in front of my mom so didn’t make a move. Saw her again and she happened to remember me actually from last time from a story I was telling her. Talked for about 5 minutes and asked to exchange numbers, first date was a lot of fun. Onto the 3rd date tomorrow night
/r/seduction12/11/18 01:06 AM
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It can be, depends how attracted and forward a girl is though. I’ll give a business example which I find often translates well with pickup. When marketing on a landing page, it is best to have a call to action. A statement leading the buyer to do a specific thing like “click this link”. Sure, without this CTA you might get some to really like the page and click anyways, but when you put the statement it leads/jumpstarts more unsure customers into doing what they otherwise wouldn’t have
/r/seduction02/09/18 03:58 PM
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Great initiative! When your making eye contact on the dance floor and a girl reciprocates the eye contact longer than usual, just try to do either a simple hand wave or a come here dancing motion with both hands. The come here dancing motion works the best because it shows you’re having fun still no matter the outcome. Hard to explain the motion but it’s almost like a mime pulling in a rope or something
/r/seduction02/09/18 01:39 AM
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It’s not baiting, it’s making sure what you say can elicit a unique response. If you say something like “oh that’s cool”, what’re they supposed to say back? “Thanks”....then the conversation is dead
/r/seduction14/08/18 06:18 AM
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Solid 8, ginger, looks almost exactly like a fit Alexandra Breckenridge
/r/seduction14/08/18 03:54 AM
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The most important thing I’ve learned is to imagine what the girl is gonna say next. By saying that Beyoncé thing I knew she would mention either her singing skills or maybe another favorite artist. If you text something but even you couldn’t think what she would respond back with, probably not a useful text in most cases.
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:42 AM
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K big boy
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:02 AM
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Sorry, I don’t kiss and tell ;)
/r/seduction13/08/18 11:47 PM
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Meh don’t like to neg much and even more so over text when I don’t even know the girl. It’s better in person when you sub-communicate facial expressions.
/r/seduction13/08/18 08:47 PM
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This is so fuckin cringy, bet you this girl is screenshooting this shit to her friends and they’re all having a ball
/r/seduction10/08/18 05:25 PM
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I met her in a college class where social status doesn’t matter nor would she ever know how much money I have in our first couple of dates, and trust me it’s not much at all. Not in a fraternity or anything either. Sure she noticed I was talkative to other peers which she has mentioned before saying I’m outgoing but money or social status didn’t do shit
/r/seduction28/07/18 07:53 AM
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Well obviously if she is dating someone who rates themselves a 5/10 physically (goes without saying but i have high confidence and self esteem), then what she says and does is the same thing. It’s obvious you’re trolling though
/r/seduction28/07/18 07:48 AM
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Since everyone has already appropriately bashed you above, let me give you some hope. I’ve been seeing the absolute hottest girl I’ve been with in my life, she’s a stunner 9/10. Think of a sexier, exotic, asian inspired Meghan Markle who when we’re out almost every guy we pass cannot stop looking at her. When we’ve talked about who she’s attracted to, she maintains that looks only contributed towards half a second of her time, but she is only attracted towards personality. I was confused because…
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:22 PM
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Hence the moving onto something else in a few sentences part
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:25 PM
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In this situation first thing I would have tried is to introduce myself right away to be guy and acted buddy buddy with him for a sec. If he continues being a douche, then after that I would have flipped the script and told him that I work in the same industry as her and she was looking for a job at the place that I work at [networking] If she was into you she would play along until the guy pissed off.
/r/seduction23/07/18 06:40 AM
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With my humor I would honestly act like a smartass and confuse them by saying something like “You just have that Harvard med school type of vibe”. Once they’ve responded though, I’ve basically hooked them into at least talking to me and move the conversation onto something else after a few sentences. Sometimes I’ll tease them in the conversation and call them Dr. Sophie or something if their name is Sophie and they’ll give a little chuckle. Only in real life, this would honestly fail so hard onl…
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:34 AM
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I didn’t realize that actually. But I think the inflections when I’m speaking make it sound more like finished statement.
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:24 AM
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Perhaps she’s not interested. But at this point I would just be direct and say something like, “why don’t we go out to [dinner] this week and find out”.
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:14 PM
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Don’t compliment a hot girl broadly about her appearance. Meaning don’t give a blanket statement like “you’re cute” or “you’re pretty” because they hear these all the time. Find something that’s unique about her looks (or actions) and compliment her on that. For example regarding her looks say, “I wanted to come say hi because your smile is really cute and lights up your face”. Or for a little push pull, “Random but your eyes are so striking and cute, are they color contacts?”
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:24 PM
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Nice! Yeah I actually ended up going on this route mentally the next day and it worked out well with her. A major problem I have when I have a girl RIGHT there to come home with me, is to make some type of excuse of why I shouldn’t do it. It’s almost some type of guilt. I really have to get over that and stop being the “nice guy” when it’s just plain unnecessary.
/r/seduction25/06/18 04:19 PM
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Hahahaha my thoughts exactly when I was hammered
/r/seduction23/06/18 07:30 PM
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Okay, good to hear from another’s perspective
/r/seduction23/06/18 03:49 PM
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Yeah huge debate in my head, obviously it’s totally a personal decision though. I don’t think I’ll have to worry about the husband or attachment. She lives in another state and she’s 30, I’m 23 (so it would definitely be a one time thing)
/r/seduction23/06/18 03:39 PM
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Oh fuck this actually might work, great response! Shes definitely into the kink Will try out tonight, let’s see how it goes
/r/seduction15/06/18 09:17 PM
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“Do you want the D now or later?”
/r/seduction09/05/18 03:18 AM
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The tone where it sounds like you’ve just seen a friend that you haven’t seen a long time and are excited to see them
/r/seduction01/12/17 08:58 PM
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Actually not an inflection, I used the wrong word. It’s more the tone of your voice
/r/seduction01/12/17 05:09 PM
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Can’t name any specifics off the top of my head, but read some social psychology books and business sales books as well (Grant Cardone is dope AF) These helped my game the most. Pickup is literally just being social with different [romantic] intentions. Compared to your intentions making sales calls or making friends. It’ll give you a good psychology and mind base that you can strengthen, and that you can eventually tailor towards pickup.
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:49 AM
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Read the recent post on talking/socializing to everyone in general, not just girls. I consider myself to have pretty decent game and even for me picking up girls in the gym is super weird when you don’t talk to anyone else in there. I don’t like to really be bothered during a workout either so I know the feeling. The only exception is that if you are just one of the more social people in the gym and talk to the front desk people and other people before and after your workouts. Which I actively t…
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:39 AM
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Definitely at the gym, if you have any hobbies like golf or something then at the golf course, rock climbing, any other hobbies you can find groups that do them together. Shooting range, grocery store. Wherever really. PS I tend to meet more quality people while doing similar things that I’m doing anyways than people in a bar scene or nightlife.
/r/seduction26/11/17 09:57 PM
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Lifting is such a confidence booster for yourself when you look at the progress your body has made. If you actually work out hard (which is like 20% of people in the gym) and don’t just go to the gym just to maintain or just for the sake of going then mentally you become a lot stronger as well as physically. When you set goals and you put forth massive amounts of effort to fight through mental hurdles, that in turn is useful for many other aspects in life that give you hurdles to jump over. Whet…
/r/seduction26/11/17 03:02 AM
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Great perspective, thanks!
/r/seduction25/11/17 09:34 PM
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Yeah I could definitely see that. Anyone who walks around here in LA and smiles and just says a simple hi is considered a creep or someone who wants something. Over there the simple pleasantries exchanged by everyone just make for a friendlier society. Exactly religion talk is generally off the table on my initial dates anyways.
/r/seduction18/11/17 06:37 AM
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Great info. That intensity/personal space and religious stuff is exactly what I was looking for. Obviously yeah you do have to treat every girl as unique but quality stuff right here in regards to just the general knowledge I need.
/r/seduction18/11/17 05:57 AM
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Wow I’ve never read something so perfect. Great advice, I’ll be sure to implement this not only on this girl, but my hot teacher as well. You must fuck girls left and right, such as inspiration you are.
/r/seduction18/11/17 04:19 AM
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I would like to know the best answer to this as well. But anyways here’s my perspective... It’s may be a little fucked up but attractive people (guys and girls) tend to hang out together, and vice Versa for unattractive people. There is obviously always outliers but from what I’ve seen this holds true in general. Therefore to become a part of an attractive social circle I try to become friends with the attractive guys in the circle first and then once you become buds, then you’re in the easier w…
/r/seduction18/11/17 02:48 AM
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Look at it from the girls perspective. If she’s really that hot, she probably goes out on dates all the time. Why would she be into a guy that finds that the date was just okay. There has to be something else, something different about you that’s creates a spark in her mind. Something that grabs her attention. I had a problem with this earlier on in my college years. Not only with dating life but building deep social connections with newer friends too. Some business and talking/conversational bo…
/r/seduction15/11/17 06:38 AM
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Thanks for the input, great wording for me to use!
/r/seduction30/10/17 07:53 AM
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