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pschr/r/seduction22/03/15 11:12 AM
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pschr/r/seduction19/05/14 09:02 PM
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Don't apologise, this is what the comment section was for! Next time you hit up Stockholm city, I urge you to let the rest of us know how it went. You know so much, you ought to use it!
/r/seduction20/05/14 03:00 PM
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That really depends on what you feel comfortable doing as I would argue both direct and indirect game would work. If you're being very direct and straightforward, you definitely have to remove yourself from the "creep factor"; I refer here to the older, dishevelled guys who talk to the younger girls on the busses or trains in a rather quaint way. By removing this factor, you should not be afraid to steer the conversation, smile a lot, use strong eye contact. Many will advice you to not use stron…
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:38 PM
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Now, I don't know what you did so I can't comment on that. However, when going out fikaing, you should try to break the platonic barrier. That has worked for me. Try to get some kino going and try to escalate. Remember, a big thing of picking up in Scandinavia is to throw caution to the wind when it comes to proxemics and do something no one else would do. Normally, guys probably wouldn't try to pick up a girl when on a fika. You should do that, it's more effective than what people would tell yo…
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:34 PM
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Yeah, Nordics was probably more fitting, I did not think of that. Thanks for sharing this information. I had no idea things were this different in Finland.
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:29 PM
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Thanks for this, I really appreciate it! And I'm sorry about my lacking knowledge of Scandinavian geography, One thing I have to ask you; does Finland have a last call? Last calls are not a thing in Scandinavia (so brace yourselves), but are they in Finland?
/r/seduction20/05/14 11:18 AM
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I agree with you. One thing I would like to add that even though the girls are very insecure, they will seem as if they are not. They will pry in your business, act stupidly, act cocky with nothing to support their behaviour, etc.
/r/seduction20/05/14 09:43 AM
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I wouldn't know from personal experience. Albeit a part of Scandinavia, it seems as if the Finnish people feel a bit left out. However, they seem to have a somewhat close bond with the Swedes and if no Finns can answer you, maybe a Swede can. Sorry, I couldn't help out. If you go to Finland, however, you can test things out and tell us at the forum what you gathered.
/r/seduction20/05/14 09:42 AM
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Lastly, daygaming in Norways is super-easy, girls are not used to be hit on at all. Yes, agreed, I didn't think of that! The same goes for the girls in Sweden and Denmark. Just remember the novelty factor and you'll be golden. If your going out several nights, try to meet some groups and be invited to a pre-party, this is part of the experience, its called a vorspeil. Yet another good thing you brought up! These pre-party things are called "forfest/førfest" in Danish and "förfest" in Swedish. Th…
/r/seduction20/05/14 09:40 AM
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Let me sum it up so that your attention span gets it: Stop caring, go out more often, talk to the girls (check the sidebar for great stuff), etc. And about your hearing; you shouldn't be talking to girls at clubs anyway. Isolate her and take her outside or go to a place with less noise.
/r/seduction19/11/13 11:50 AM
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Doing so, your body language is very sexually suggestive. The girl may not pick up on the signal, but her subconscience surely will. It's a way of implementing sex and sexual behaviour into the other person's mind.
/r/seduction08/11/13 05:29 PM
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I smoke. A lot. And what you are doing sound sort of similar to me. However, the places I come, there are lots of girls smoking outside (or just standing there with their smoking friends). I usually act as if I've forgotten my lighter and chat them up that way. A fellow Sedditor once suggested that you could ask them to "buttfuck" you (lighting your cigarette with their own, you know what I refer to), which quickly turns the talk more sexual. Once I stood outside my lecture hall and asked a lone…
/r/seduction06/11/13 10:31 PM
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It is! Go to the most upvoted posts - this one is number one.
/r/seduction02/11/13 04:25 PM
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Amazing line!
/r/seduction02/11/13 12:21 PM
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That's from the 4chan post. I don't think it is completed, though; here it is: http://i.imgur.com/1cYyZ.jpg
/r/seduction02/11/13 12:17 PM
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Hmm, I haven't tried neither so I am not really the best one to talk to about it. However, I have tried picked up some Poles (which, I imagine, could be similar to Estonia). In Warsaw, people weren't too chummy, true, but they did seem very open to a foreigner such as myself. As with almost anything, being the novelty will help you out a great deal. And if you'd care for my two cents on Finland, I don't imagine they are too different from Sweden or Denmark. I guess it is the same mentality. I wo…
/r/seduction02/11/13 11:11 AM
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Oh, don't think those terms! For example, you can start off small, by making your greeting to the cashier be sound more intimate. For example, the cashier will say "hej" or whatever, and you can say "hej med dig" or "hej på dig" (it depends which country you're in); just included the other person in the greeting is a surefire way to make them more interested in you. I am not talking hardcore pick-up stuff, but enough for them to continue the talk and turn it into a flirt, etc. I feel you should …
/r/seduction01/11/13 10:52 AM
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Definitely this to anyone reading. I have nothing to add to this. However, I haven't really thought about comparing Stockholm and København but I will next time!
/r/seduction01/11/13 10:49 AM
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Aalborg. Skal vi sarge en dag?
/r/seduction01/11/13 10:47 AM
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Oh god, I laughed at those two words. Thanks so much, mate!
/r/seduction01/11/13 10:47 AM
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Exactly, spot on; I don't get why people look at Scandinavia with such PUA fright. People are, contrary to popular belief, pretty nice and complaisant. I always greet women with a kiss on the cheek and I have et to hear anything on how weird or creepy I am being. Taking certain liberties, which let you out of your own comfort zone and into someone else's personal space, are a great way of picking up in my experience.
/r/seduction01/11/13 12:15 AM
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I can't tell whether this is sarcastic or not (another Scandinavian trait; not being able to pick up on a compliment) but many foreigners hate us for speaking English to them instead of our own language. I guess it is rooted in our need of showing off?
/r/seduction01/11/13 12:13 AM
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I guess I can relate to this one. However, this should not stop you (and I am not claiming that it has done in the past); I find that chatting up a lass at a bus stop (or whatever) yields good results if done by the guidelines of the Game. Maybe a person needs to be more determined to get over his AA in the North, though?
/r/seduction01/11/13 12:10 AM
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Sorry, but I have to call bullshit on this one. I am from a Scandinavian country (Denmark), but have picked up women in Sweden before. It is well-known that proxemics in the Scandinavian countries is bigger than in most other countries. This means that you should avoid kino and standing close to each other in clubs, bars, etc., right? Wrong. In my experience, not giving a fuck about proxemics gives you an advantage and an element of surprise, all in a good way. Which is why I think your story is…
/r/seduction31/10/13 09:59 PM
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And then go out with her right after the shift ends?
/r/seduction29/10/13 01:43 AM
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I agree; sounds like something legit. Do not, however, become too attached still. Keep a certain distance thoughtfully; she may not want the same things as you, you may not be compatible, etc. To me, this has been internalised (thankfully). For example, if you guys have each other's numbers, do not give her a name on your phone. Simply respond to her texts or call her something that has a distance to it ("Random Girl", "One of Many", etc.). That is the best thing I can give you; internalise that…
/r/seduction29/10/13 01:32 AM
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This is easy. She pays her shit, you pay yours. Don't think for a minute you're supposed to pay the girl for dating you. We're not in 1930 anymore. Those days are over. That said, don't be anal about it. You're young. Completely agreed on everything but especially this.
/r/seduction28/10/13 11:44 PM
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Take notes, fellows. I found myself in this situation before I found this subreddit, and I loathed every second of it. I read these things to keep myself in check; I would never like to revert back to that thing again. If you are in this slump, do yourself the favour of getting out of it again. Well done, Ryan.
/r/seduction28/10/13 11:37 PM
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Then accept it as a fact and get on with your life.
/r/seduction26/10/13 09:45 PM
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By the looks of it, you are brushing off every single solution people come up with in this thread. We can't help you if you constantly do this.
/r/seduction26/10/13 09:12 PM
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As mentioned earlier, you tell that mirror to go fuck itself and stop lying to you.
/r/seduction26/10/13 09:03 PM
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Revert back to that old you, then. I must say you are starting to sound completely hopeless. Gaming has little to do about looks and more to do about how you feel inside and how you make these feelings shine so that other people pick up on them.
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:53 PM
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Nah, because the mirror never portrays the viewer with complete accuracy. Why such you suffer at the ideals of society? If you tell yourself you're good-looking, you will believe that and be that and don't care about other people saying otherwise (I don't know if they say otherwise, but you get my point).
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:34 PM
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You just do it.
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:07 PM
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You tell the mirror to go fuck itself and stop lying to you. The mirror is not supposed to validate you, you are supposed to validate yourself. Fuck those shitty mirrors, you are a handsome fellow who can get any woman you want.
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:01 PM
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Well, I don't see this as a bad thing, mate. We all have some sort of standard; she should have a good personal hygiene, she should have some sort of aim at life, etc. The qualities I look for in a girl is whether or not I connect with her. This allows you a very broad selection of girls as you are not hindered by barriers. Talk to her and find out if she is interesting, curious, likes trying out new things, etc.
/r/seduction26/10/13 07:56 PM
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I agree. Upvote for you, mate.
/r/seduction26/10/13 07:45 PM
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"So every day I focus on my career, and do pickup when the opportunity presents itself. The only fear I want to have is the fear of regret. I hate regretting not taking advantage of an opportunity. It ruins my day." Even if you disagree with anything in this post, please take this snippet with you. I whole-heartedly agree. Great post, mate.
/r/seduction20/10/13 02:35 PM
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Jesus Christ, Allure, stop changing my life with every post. Well done, mate.
/r/seduction19/10/13 01:03 PM
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I agree with salsamander, but I just want to add that you should set the frame properly. When you make plans with her, make sure to phrase it in a non-platonic way and in lieu in an all-romantic way. When you guys meet up, you should never enter the friend territory, either by too friendly remarks or lack of kino.
/r/seduction13/08/13 10:34 AM
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Try looking up IOI's in the search field.
/r/seduction12/08/13 10:08 PM
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If she does not reply, I urge you to move on. You're too good to wait and in the end, it's her loss.
/r/seduction12/08/13 08:39 PM
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Going back to university, too. Rekindle the old flame by kinoing the second you guys meet up, and escalate from that. Then ask her out. When it comes to other university advice, I would encourage you to talk to a lot of strangers and thus make new friends. During my first two semesters, I always sat next to strangers at lectures and made a lot of friends and lovers. Me extroverted and try not to say "no" too much (within the realms of reason, that is).
/r/seduction12/08/13 08:37 PM
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Just approach it like a new experience. The worst thing that could happen is that the night doesn't go too well, the best is that you could welcome a new person in your life - if only for one night.
/r/seduction12/08/13 06:16 PM
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I feel like you should only work on yourself if you genuinely feel you do need work. One thing you should keep in mind, though, is the fact that your ex probably has some feelings for you, either negative or positive. Her opinion shouldn't matter to you, only yours. Don't change yourself for a girl, change yourself to become more happy in life.
/r/seduction12/08/13 06:12 PM
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If you want to do something with her, just go with it. Be confident in yourself and the supposed awkwardness will be gone.
/r/seduction12/08/13 06:08 PM
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Seriously, when a girl responds something this cunty, you should just move on. You don't deal with uncertainties; either she comes or not.
/r/seduction11/08/13 09:37 PM
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Yes, I would take that into consideration at the very least. I suppose you have to set the frame quickly in your Facebook interaction to something more than friends. My advice is to do this very early in the interaction. When it comes to specific ideas, I am sort of at a loss. However, in connection with the above, I would probably go for a very direct and straightforward game. Say that you think you had a good time and that you would love to take her out (don't write "hang out", "meet up", or a…
/r/seduction11/08/13 04:17 PM
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I would always prefer to ask a girl in person, but as mentioned; be careful of how you approach her on Facebook and phrase your intentions. Much can go wrong when you are not doing it face to face.
/r/seduction11/08/13 03:04 PM
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Did she give you her Facebook or did you find her by searching for her name? Either way, I would be very careful about how you approach and phrase your intentions.
/r/seduction11/08/13 02:58 PM
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You say "fuck it" and go for it, mate. Many people will tell you to not shite where you eat but if you really want to go out with her, fuck it. Ask her out, not on Facebook, but in real life. And in regards to that guy; never mind the bollocks. If she likes him, she'll turn down your advances and you can move on to other girls. Fairly simple.
/r/seduction11/08/13 02:44 PM
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I think people overlook one important factor: the execution. This area, like any other, is dominated by the grey zone; nothing's completely black and white. These "commandments" work for me due to a lot of them are right up my alley, however, they may work for everyone if you adjust them to your own personality. It's sad to see people dismiss them entirely for being douchy.
/r/seduction10/08/13 10:32 PM
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I will sort of concur with DreadMe; a great first impression is one in which the other person will be baffled by something, and a confident demeanour is definitely a great place to start. Stand up straight, shake hands properly if you are talking to a man (or go in for a hug if you are talking to a woman), take up a lot of space, and have great body language. I don't think peacocking (some of those things you mention is a bit up this alley) will get you very far - and if it will, you will have t…
/r/seduction10/08/13 05:46 AM
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In my city, those charity folks are literally all over the place and I usually talk to them, too, if I need a 'warm-up'. A guy mentioned the importance to get into the 'game mode' by talking to girls you're not necessarily attracted to; I think it's a good idea and one a lot of recovering AFC's could use.
/r/seduction10/08/13 05:41 AM
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The best way to get rid of your AA, in my experience, is to practice. I don't see any harm in you approaching her at that specific location; if she tells you to fuck off, then fuck off. If not, see if you can close her in some way.
/r/seduction10/08/13 05:37 AM
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I guess you can take a look at the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. I don't see why it should change all that much; I would, however, advise you to use a lot less kino than you would do with women.
/r/seduction10/08/13 05:34 AM
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If I really can't get myself to go along, I usually spend the time doing something that can improve my game, and myself, next time.
/r/seduction10/08/13 05:32 AM
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What I do is just sit next to them and start talking. Asking them how they are, maybe something about the course material (I study law so many people have troubles in this regard). Basically anything. If it goes well, I will usually ask for a number and a meet-up. If, however, the girl were to sit next to you for some reason (not enough seats, friends not here yet, etc.), I just tell her that the only way she can sit here (they usually ask if the seat is taken) is if she will talk to me. If your…
/r/seduction10/08/13 03:23 AM
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Right here, mate: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI
/r/seduction10/08/13 03:20 AM
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You shouldn't be scared, though. You need to touch her to have sex with her, to go out with her, to be her boyfriend, etc. If you cannot touch her, anything else is pointless. It doesn't have to be an ending; it all depends on the situation. And the example you gave is not something to say; it makes you sound needy. It all depends on the situation and the frame you're setting.
/r/seduction10/08/13 02:00 AM
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I second this one.
/r/seduction10/08/13 01:02 AM
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I svenskere har det forbandet hårdt, mester! Tag færgen til Danmark! Well, we need some more detail in order to determine whether you were interesting or not. The good thing about this is, though, that it doesn't matter. It's better to be interested than interesting because this, among other things, make her invest more and possibly even qualify herself to you. I think you should have escalated and then asked for the number when the timing felt right to you. It's not always easy determining this…
/r/seduction10/08/13 01:02 AM
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Right, there is no definite answer to every single thing that could happen in the interaction. If your humour can carry the conversation without her becoming disintered, then just go for it.
/r/seduction09/08/13 11:30 PM
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I am sorry for being unclear; kino should be done always but talking should be done a more quiet place. And I get pissed, too (Sheffield people, we can't help it), but if you can game her still, that's totally cool. And you should always assume attraction. There was a thread a day ago about women's IOIs. There are all kinds of signs, just do a search for it, mate!
/r/seduction09/08/13 11:25 PM
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If the music is loud, do not ruin the flow of the location by talking. Either dance with her and use kino a lot, or isolate her in some way; preferably outside.
/r/seduction09/08/13 10:26 PM
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1) There's this video of Sparks going around Seddit; he mentions how you can shift the supposed awkward tension to the woman so that she initiates conversation. Other than that, I reckon you can comment on your surroundings in a jokey sort of way and let that be the lead into a more stable conversation. 2) You can either use him as a motivational factor or ditch him. Personally, I have never liked the idea of a wingman (and wingwomen are a lot better, I think) but perhaps this guy can be your ca…
/r/seduction09/08/13 08:58 PM
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It's sorta impolite if she's expecting something to happen, innit? However, I suppose it's all up to how you look at it. Simple Pickup on YouTube does this all the time. I guess there's no severe harm to it.
/r/seduction09/08/13 08:54 PM
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Read everything in the sidebar, sit next to new girls at lectures and open them that way, be open-minded with everything but canned oneliners, maintain strong eye contact, use kino all the time, and be confident.
/r/seduction09/08/13 05:26 AM
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By building rapport and setting the right frame. By doing strong eye contact, you are putting forth the message that you are confident and not afraid of her. Always let her break the eye contact first. When it comes to kino, that is essential to the female attraction. You want to have sex with her (or date her, or be in a relationship with her, etc.) and all of these things require you to touch her. Follow the Escalation Ladder (use the search function) and things will work out well if you do it…
/r/seduction06/08/13 10:37 PM
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Secondly, you made it a big thing, as if you were requesting that she grant you with the holy grail, the climax of the interaction, the all-elusive number. This struck me as being a wrong move, too. Sounds a little bit needy and as if you are putting her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction06/08/13 04:31 PM
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If you are interested in the woman who is opening you, kino is the way to go (which is the case for almost every woman); words don't matter too much. Be confident in yourself and be flattered by her approach (why wouldn't she approach you, you're fucking awesome, mate), and just keep the talking brief enough to ensure a decent flow. Escalate, escalate, escalate.
/r/seduction06/08/13 04:26 PM
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Whilst it is true that you can set up meetings via Facebook, I think you should go with gj667cc's advise and chat to them in real life. If you are going to do this through Facebook, just try to play it completely cool and try to get to meet them as quickly as possible.
/r/seduction06/08/13 04:23 PM
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When it comes to texting, I strongly advise you to just keep it around as a method for setting up the next meeting. One way of doing so, and still incite sexual tension, can be seen in the "Yes, and ..." thread that's popular right now on Seddit. When it comes to sexual tension in real life, you should rely heavily on kino (especially rapid escalation) and strong eye contact. These two factors speak louder than any words that can get the sexual tension going. However, if you want some verbal cue…
/r/seduction06/08/13 04:19 PM
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Just went through the table of contents. Aaaaand purchased!
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:37 PM
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Can I find you somewhere? Got Facebook or something similar?
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:20 PM
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I think we should be more people about a subreddit (how many Danes are there actually on here?); how can I contact you, mate?
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:59 PM
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You are a lovely human being; thank you for that! I get what you are saying (and I must say I agree completely) but the reason I asked was that I just felt it was unnatural to touch someone when you're cramped together on two tiny seats. I commute often and I have bookmarked your post; thanks a lot once again for the post and the elaboration, mate!
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:51 PM
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Successful, mate! One thing I am wondering is how you kino; do you touch her arms or just let your legs brush? How do you escalate in a bus setting?
/r/seduction29/07/13 12:25 PM
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I am a native Dane. I have no idea where; maybe we can set up our own Reddit or make our own post? And it's true, Aalborg is very wicked in terms of intensity levels.
/r/seduction29/07/13 09:33 AM
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Not to my knowledge. I only know one PUA guy, and we went sarging completely by accident. Maybe we should meet up.
/r/seduction29/07/13 03:55 AM
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A girl should both floss and use a tooth brush.
/r/seduction28/07/13 11:50 PM
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Aalborg, mate. Please tell me you're close.
/r/seduction28/07/13 11:14 PM
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So close, mate ... Dane here.
/r/seduction28/07/13 10:15 PM
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She probably gave you a fake number due to your username.
/r/seduction28/07/13 12:14 PM
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One thing I do, that has changed my game for the better, is to rate women on the binary scale rather than the normal one-ten scale. If a woman interests me (is fit, quirky, seems intelligent, etc.), I award her a one and pursue her. However, if she does not interest me (off-putting in one way or the other), I give her a zero and do nothing. Instead of thinking about talking to a very beautiful girl, and perhaps fucking up along the way, I can focus more easily on the task on hand. Maybe others c…
/r/seduction26/07/13 09:21 PM
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"I just went from Charmeleon to Charizard like THAT." Fuck it, I am trying this, too.
/r/seduction26/07/13 08:48 PM
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Great stuff! I did laugh profusely at the line: "She is doing this for no reason other than she wants you inside her. In her vagina." The way you specified just made it better. Love your posts!
/r/seduction26/07/13 10:35 AM
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Vsauce's video on the friend zone actually explain these things very neatly (and there are links there, too); it's a beginning to a major topic. But that only covers the biological area, though; the whole societal change thing is another, dull thing.
/r/seduction18/07/13 07:15 PM
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Well, it seems as if you did know all the theory but was unlucky and immobilised mentally by your AA. I had to look up the Apocalypse Opener, but that seems like a great strategy when it is done with the right attitude. OP, maybe you had a rough night, but you did at least inspire a fellow sedditor. Thanks for doing so, mate!
/r/seduction18/07/13 11:21 AM
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You did in fact describe me right there. We're odd people, aren't we, FutureFlyDoc?
/r/seduction18/07/13 12:15 AM
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I concur with this.
/r/seduction18/07/13 12:14 AM
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Going to my brother's wedding on Sunday. Plan on picking up a girl. Wedding game doesn't differ from normal club game, does it?
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:06 AM
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Thanks for that link, mate; love it!
/r/seduction15/07/13 04:49 PM
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Oh yeah, that was what I was trying to say, too; if you just leave her be after she uses "friend" (or whatever), then perhaps she will be intrigued if there still is some attraction.
/r/seduction15/07/13 02:13 AM
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When it comes to these things, I usually just try to guess their bra sizes. I pull a Kassem G; if they clearly are small, I will tease them about being AA's or A's. I have yet to experience anything bad happening to me yet but I reckon it's all about how you say things (truly profound).
/r/seduction15/07/13 02:12 AM
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Non-physical interaction is only for logistics; set up a meeting of some sort, mate!
/r/seduction15/07/13 02:06 AM
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This is always a tricky one, I reckon. However, whenever a girl starts to use "friend" (or something similar), I just end the interaction entirely. I would rather move on in lieu of this sort of game. And the cutoff of the interaction usually make her long for you. I would love to hear if others have the same or another point of view.
/r/seduction15/07/13 02:05 AM
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Yes, agreed there!
/r/seduction14/07/13 03:37 AM
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Congratulations, mate; you did much better than many other debut AA-storytellers do. However, and this is very important, be very careful with complimenting a woman on her physical looks. Tease her about her decisions, not what she's stuck with.
/r/seduction14/07/13 03:08 AM
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Women always tell you what they want, not what they react to. If you're asking a woman about such things, always take it with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction14/07/13 03:04 AM
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I have two I always go back to. If you're at a bar or a club, the first one is great as an opener: "You know, you look really good in the dark." It is sheer ambivalence in just a few words; you're complimenting her looks but you are quickly taking the compliment away from her again. One other thing I learned in a PUA forum was to take her hand (or hands), touch them (kino technique), call them soft (pull), and then calling them sweaty and put them away from you (push). These are ones I like.
/r/seduction14/07/13 03:01 AM
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Don't use the bathroom stalls to jerk off.
/r/seduction14/07/13 12:15 AM
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First of all, you need to get out of your head and into the moment, mate. You won't necessarily grow out of it; you have to practice your way out of it. The sidebar provides you with an enormous amount of quality material - start your journey there. And when it comes to conversation topics, you have to wing it. Don't prepare things; let it all flow from the randomness of the setting.
/r/seduction30/06/13 01:57 PM
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Commenting just so I can find it again. This is great stuff, mate.
/r/seduction26/06/13 04:03 PM
1

I know it's your first time, and I greatly admire your courage, but I just personally dislike complimenting a girl's DNA.
/r/seduction22/06/13 12:32 AM
1

No, you're on your own. Do well, kid.
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:02 PM
1

I never gave it THIS much thought. However, I will remember this for the next time. And when it comes to what you are smoking, my Marlboros are usually a bit rare in my country (due to them being more expensive than other brands) and people have a tendency to notice them. I thank you for the advice, mate!
/r/seduction16/06/13 07:54 PM
1

If she gave you a lot of positive signals beforehand and then worried about you being her type, then that sounds like a shit test. You should reframe and make her qualify. Read the sidebar on shit tests to get a more thorough answer.
/r/seduction15/06/13 12:19 PM
6

Written communication should mainly be used for setting up physical interaction; it is difficult for the girl to maintain attraction only through text.
/r/seduction14/06/13 09:43 PM
1

How much do you value and cherish the friendship? Does your friend contribute in a pleasant manner; does he have connections for you, does he provide you with a positive vibe, is he hampering your game, etc.? Of course, everyone fancies a quick fuck over a friendship in the short run but think, too, about the long run.
/r/seduction14/06/13 09:37 PM
1

Why not initiate a conversation face-to-face instead of through IM's?
/r/seduction14/06/13 09:34 PM
7

I would urge you to see what you want the most: the friendship or the fuck. Maybe you fucking her will only cause a minor dent in your friendship. However, weigh in the positives and negatives.
/r/seduction14/06/13 09:33 PM
3

This may vary to some but I would encourage you to do it all as fast as possible. There's no need to drag things out as the girl can get bored, disinterested, or maybe think you're not interested in her. My advice is to escalate as quickly as possible; but do it in a respectful and non-creepy manner.
/r/seduction14/06/13 09:31 PM
1

My apologies; I withdraw that criticism and stand by the rest. Good job.
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:17 PM
1

Kudos to you, mate; the first time is always hard and it didn't go as bad (even though you watched her stuff for her); great job!
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:11 PM
3

Impressing a girl is not really a thing we practice on Seddit. And don't get offensive, mate; I am just giving out my two cents.
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:35 PM
4

I am all in favour of trying out new traits one may have discovered via a film or a TV show; but to emulate another person, fictional or not, is not the preferred way of discovering oneself.
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:20 PM
1

Ah, gotcha. I personally prefer whisky and a cigarette. I thoroughly enjoy the two simultaneously. Sure, comparing smiles to car parks can be considered negs but look at the context in which you did it; you first said that her smile is amazing and that it lights brightly. This is a compliment of her DNA. You then proceeded to say that if you two were trapped in a dark cave (I would advice against using this scenario - or anything similar - because you were a "negative novelty" in that situation;…
/r/seduction14/06/13 04:51 PM
3

This is straight to the point; I think I'll try this one.
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:51 AM
1

I guess your username goes well with this FR.
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:50 AM
1

This can serve as a qualifier, too. Qualifying openers are pretty cool to me.
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:44 AM
1

I agree with TommyPUA; and I can't help but wonder that it didn't go well. Why would you otherwise post the last paragraph about how she didn't mean that much to you? But you did do a mistake, however; you complimented her on her DNA (smile) and people should refrain from that.
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:41 AM
1

Hah.
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:38 AM
0

Approach her from the front, and approach her head-on.
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:37 AM
1

People need to learn that when it comes to the game, you learn by doing. That's it. It doesn't really matter how you perceive girls (albeit a respectful approach might be a good thing); I never bought into the whole "practice by picking women I am unattracted to". No, you have to go for the ones that you are attracted to so you can, first and foremost, learn not to put the attractive ones on a pedestal. And if you do well, you may just close in a way you couldn't fathom at the time of initiation…
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:36 AM
2

Well, I am a tall dude and as such I can't really put myself in your place. However, when we're talking my own perceived shortcomings, the best advice is either to 1) work on it or 2) forget about it. Since height is pretty much unchangeable, you have to somehow internalise the fact that, in the long run, it quite frankly doesn't matter to you. If a woman only judged you on your height, fuck her and move on. Apply the knowledge you have obtained about the game and height won't be an issue, I pro…
/r/seduction14/06/13 12:25 AM
2

This one: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/jq20j/rudest_thing_ive_ever_heard_from_a_girl/
/r/seduction14/06/13 12:16 AM
1

One advice I've heard someone give another person short of time; when in a night club or bar, make a speed run through the interaction and apply everything you know about the game in this short interval. This should be possible, however, difficult but since you have a lot of time to practice this, I don't see why this couldn't be effective. I don't think you should lower your standards but perhaps this is necessary in order for you to practice your game. You have to weigh the experiences you obt…
/r/seduction14/06/13 12:14 AM
2

As far as I am concerned, any non-physical communication should be done sparingly and only with the intention of meeting (rendezvous). If these things have worked for you then that's good; I would tell people to think things through carefully before attempting this.
/r/seduction14/06/13 12:04 AM
2

In lieu of being boring, be interesting!
/r/seduction14/06/13 12:00 AM
1

Transformation stories are countless in this subreddit; I guess you could look for something there?
/r/seduction13/06/13 11:59 PM
7

Whatever your background is, there's only one thing to it: just do it. This may seem resolute and harsh but that is the best method. You have read the sidebar information, fantastic; now you need to try things out for yourself. Dive head first; it will be an amazing journey for you. Specifics about shortness; that is mentioned, too, in the sidebar. Otherwise, you could make a search on Seddit only. There are loads of great posts.
/r/seduction13/06/13 11:53 PM
1

This is golden. I thoroughly enjoy your responses to the questions. Learn from this, OP, I know I did.
/r/seduction13/06/13 10:19 PM
6

You can get pretty fucking far, mate. The game is not about picking up as many chicks as possible (that's a positive side effect); it's about finding yourself and become the best version of yourself. I don't remember any lines when I hit the city (occasionally, I will try out a line or two from Seddit but that's it). You can practice this at any place, any time. And don't run about buying women drinks; my opinion is that this should be done rarely and carefully. And do try cold approaches during…
/r/seduction13/06/13 09:17 PM
1

Hey, I have these, too (albeit mine are barely noticeable). I didn't know what they where until now. My experience: fuck it, go talk to women, have a great time, and do not let this become another barrier for you to break through. You're awesome, mate, don't forget it.
/r/seduction13/06/13 09:09 PM
1

I don't get this.
/r/seduction13/06/13 09:06 PM
4

Well, I do enjoy the cum talk.
/r/seduction13/06/13 09:03 PM
2

What about us who actually can control ourselves during intoxication?
/r/seduction13/06/13 02:44 PM
1

I agree.
/r/seduction12/06/13 04:12 PM
1

Congratulations on your cake day, mate!
/r/seduction10/06/13 11:02 PM
1

So simple, yes. You need to internalise this fact, anonymousIX. It doesn't even have to be a "hi"; try whatever's on your mind: "So, you like whiskers on kittens, too?!".
/r/seduction10/06/13 11:02 PM
0

I think that curiosity could be jealousy.
/r/seduction03/06/13 12:23 AM
1

We can die peacefully.
/r/seduction02/06/13 08:55 AM
19

Golden!
/r/seduction24/05/13 09:53 PM
3

Spot on here, mate.
/r/seduction24/05/13 09:52 PM
1

I don't think there is one great way to do this (please respond if you disagree, I would be happy to learn something new); it all depends on your inner game. And, like people already have suggested, your composure and body language is doing a lot for you here. And as even a newbie could've told you; strong eye contact is crucial/vital (whichever you prefer).
/r/seduction22/05/13 08:52 PM
1

I am glad to hear that; bear in mind that though you don't see the introverts (hereby exclusively referring to the reserved lot), they are definitely more reserved than the Mediterranean guys. Try to notice it if you ever stumble upon them at their own base. I am eighteen and about to start university, but I guess the overall "sluttiness" is very subjective from one person to the other. I reckon that either your game wasn't up to par a specific night, or, I think this more plausible, that you ha…
/r/seduction19/05/13 06:57 PM
2

Thanks, I will make sure to check it out. I really appreciate this, Dandy.
/r/seduction19/05/13 10:39 AM
1

I am from Denmark (I already feel close to you, mate) and one thing people need to learn about European people is that they grow more extrovert the more south you go; in Spain, Italy, Greece, Portugal, some parts of France, etc. people are more happy to engange in conversations with strangers and seem less reserved. However, in the Scandinavian countries, Germany, Poland, England, etc. people tend (tend is the key word) to be introverts, even in a social venue such as bars, clubs, and alike. As …
/r/seduction19/05/13 10:31 AM
6

I have always heard that one should refrain from buying women drinks; is buying her two such a good idea?
/r/seduction18/05/13 10:55 PM
0

I agree with this; anything you do in life involves a risk. STD's is one of the risks concerning the game; however, as pimms4london remarks, they can be prevented.
/r/seduction18/05/13 09:17 PM
2

I think his reasoning and argumentation in the written qualification piece is great. I became so interested that I am now going to watch the video lecture. I really like the idea of random non-sequitor teases in moments of uncomfortableness.
/r/seduction18/05/13 09:15 PM
1

This is still very new to me but I want to give it a go. Thanks once again for your help!
/r/seduction18/05/13 09:07 PM
3

In spite of Sinn's awful warning (these things never look well, do they?), I will read this. Thanks a lot, mate; upvote for you!
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:57 PM
8

I have never heard of qualification before. Do you have any reading material (from Seddit) that can help a bloke out?
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:45 PM
3

Then you make computer science fucking interesting, mate! I study law; think people find that shite interesting? No, I make it interesting by undertaking the role as the public image of law and being awesome in every single aspect of it. Go make computer science interesting!
/r/seduction18/05/13 04:50 PM
1

This is gold.
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:10 PM
1

Never really thought of this; I will try to do this at my school. Thanks, mate.
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:09 PM
1

Well, I am not very jumpy or butterfly-ish (I am known for my languor) and I have the same amount of enthusiasm (or lack thereof) toward every girl I encounter. However, you can turn your "hyperactiveness", which I assume you regard as somewhat of a weakness, to your advantage. Perhaps you could make it seem as if she is the most special/unique woman in the room? I am looking forward to the reactions from people.
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:03 PM
1

I agree with the other comments; this is great stuff. However, I would really like to add body language to the list. Be good at this alongside being a Kino-Master will bring results.
/r/seduction15/05/13 09:29 PM
1

Yeah, this hit me, too. Thanks a lot.
/r/seduction15/05/13 02:28 PM
5

Spot on, mate; I completely agree with this statement.
/r/seduction15/05/13 02:25 PM
1

This, my friend, was inspirational. Thanks!
/r/seduction15/05/13 02:23 PM
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