So heres the situation. Im 19. At university. Never had a girlfriend. Never had sex. Been kissed twice but these were ages ago and feel pretty irrelevant now. Ive always had interest from girls without trying (sounds amazing but ill soon explain why its not). Unfirtunately i NEVER took any of these girls up on their offers (and believe me when i say there were A LOT of girls trying to get with me at skool-its still hapnin to me at uni). This was mainly due to having mixed messages from parents about relationships, and also coz i was just in a bad kind of arrogant mindset becoz of the amount of attention i had always had from girls, making me feel too big for my boots. Anyways i dont go on nights out much at uni, maybe like once a week, but i went out the other day and had loads of interest from girls, a lot oflooks basically saying "Come and talk to me!", and was even approached by girls. This is all from me not even doing anything and just walking around with a drink and not even dancing!! (Sorry if this sounds like im showing off but im just trying to emphasise how pitiful I am). But every time this happens, i just get scared ad lose all my bottle. I think this lack and fear of action stems from the fact that ive never really botered trying to speak to that many girls, as the amount of attention ive had has made me think i can just do nothing and let it fall into place. One lrgitimate problem i do hav is that my hearing isnt very good (a trait on my fathers side) so trying to hav conversations in a club is pointless for me (tried a few times and can nevr hear any sh*t the girl s saying even tho she can hear me okay.

Seriously though guys im feelin terrible coz im confident with so many things in life but i feel like ive got so much to catch up on here. I just dont know how to turn on that sexual spark. Even outside of clubs i dont hav a problem speaking to girls normally but as soon as they turn up the heat i just dont know what to do, even when i want to take things further. To make things worse im basically a carbon copy of my father in every way except for the fact that at my age he was a complete natural with women and still is, so i know i must hav some potential that just needs to be unlocked, but how??!!??

Any advice will be greatly appreciated guys,thanks p.s sorry about the typos and poor grammar, i wrote this on my phone