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3

If you need a lesson in why "popular doesn't mean top tier or high quality" I implore you to look at network TV, mainstream music and movies. While some of it is decent or good, plenty of it is complete manufactured trash designed to appeal to the masses (and it works!)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 05:11 AM
3

That IG model is not even close to top tier. Basically like if the Greeks had a goddess of fake and high maintenance. I see a dozens of girls more attractive than her every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 05:02 AM
1

It's for both of you. Best overall BC on the market
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:45 PM
6

So women who get wet and/or have orgasms during rape aren't rape victims? They're clearly aroused and arousal is consent according to you! Also, you have very little grasp how male anatomy works. Erections can happen randomly or from physical stimulation alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 05:28 PM
15

"Please. Woman on man rape is pretty much a myth. The frequency is so low that it's obvious that all those accusations are just some man using his privilege in order to take away what little the woman already has. I've seen stories of high schoolers raping their teachers as well. Don't call me a troll when you have no fucking clue what you're talking about." -You So you're hopefully just a committed troll
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 08:53 PM
12

Except he literally had a wife and kid. And has pursued an on again, off again relationship with Unity.
/r/MGTOW03/06/17 07:35 PM
1

People with a healthy mind set view sex as a shared experience. Came here from all and forgot I was posting in a cesspool of bitterness.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/17 05:14 AM

Heard a breakup story where the girl said, "I faked all my orgasms!" Guy responded, "I didn't, thanks."
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/17 12:10 AM
1

Find a balance using a harder grip on yourself when you masturbate and stroke slower. The tighter grip should make you last longer when having sex. Just don't go overboard, there are people in the "death grip can't cum from sex" group as well.
/r/seduction20/04/17 11:57 PM
1

There's a large possibility he's gay or asexual. Might also cause problems :P
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:15 AM
4

"Libertarianism is astrology for men."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:11 AM
1

We are arguing two different things now.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 07:44 PM
1

I think false accusations should carry the same penalty or worse. What you're advocating though is letting 100 guilty rapists walk the streets to protect one innocent. The recidivism rate of sex offenders is incredibly high. How many more people are you willing to let be raped to protect one innocent person from going to jail? The people you are letting be raped are innocent, why does justice for them not matter?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 05:57 PM
1

There's no way to get the time back for the innocent who you let be murdered. I'm all for vigilante justice (when done correctly), but it's fucking unrealistic to rely on it.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 05:40 PM
1

The 100 to 1 ratio is an awful argument. You are condemning far more than 1 to death or rape. How is that better?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 08:17 AM
-1

I hope you don't work in a field that involves math.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 07:50 AM
-1

I hope you or someone you care about is murdered by a guilty free man. Guess which one is more likely.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 07:43 AM
0

I have no idea where your defense of this actual case is coming in. I think she should face harsher penalties than rapists. However, the world is better off with 100 actual rapists or murders in jail if that means sacrificing 1 innocent. I would only agree with you if there was a guarantee the rapists and murders would never commit another violent crime.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 07:36 AM
1

Not when you see how high repeat offender numbers are. This claim only works in a vacuum or if you don't actually care about justice.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 07:25 AM
5

Bad advice that shows up everywhere. I talk about politics on almost every first date. Has never blown up in my face. Only seems to work in my favor. Especially because it's something I'm passionate about. Religion also doesn't have to be off limits. As long as you aren't a fucking asshole about it. Abortion doesn't need to be brought up, but in my political chats Planned Parenthood or pro-choice vs pro-life has come up organically and again, stating your beliefs can only be beneficial if you ar…
/r/seduction31/01/17 07:20 AM
8

"You know, there's a million fine looking women in the world, dude. But they don't all bring you lasagna at work." OP needs to think long and hard about the wisdom of Silent Bob.
/r/seduction17/01/17 10:11 PM
3

Thanks for the stats, but OP's not in his circle excuse isn't valid at all. I've never dated someone from my circle. OP is just living in a bubble of solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:43 PM
3

Promiscuous women don't go around fucking ugly, passive guys. They are actually more selective than the average person (because they can be). Your world view is rooted in solipsism. The sex that all these 'sluts' are 'handing out' is being disproportionately enjoyed by the top ~20% of single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:41 PM
5

I wouldn't call them sluts, but promiscuous women are pretty damn common in the Western World. You don't need 'sluts' in your circles to be aware of their existence. You must have some sort of blinders on (which maybe partly explains the incel thing). What is your thesis anyway? That single women are only having sex in LTRs? The women I talk to generally express not having sex for even 3 months as a drought. Moderately attractive women are not living as female incels. Women don't have difficulty…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:56 PM
0

Love your analogy. Great fucking post OP
/r/seduction10/01/17 07:02 PM
1

Always Sunny represent!
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/17 08:13 AM
1

It is you who is using them incorrectly Dick too bomb Thunder Dick
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 02:02 AM
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That's up to the individual. The purpose of this sub is to improve with women.
/r/seduction31/10/16 07:26 PM
1

There's more than twice as many unmarried women, not 22% less married women. Maybe I'm wording it incorrectly, but that's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 08:42 PM
0

Because the margin went from 18% to 40%. So it more than doubled. Much like it if health insurance covered 90% or 95% of medical bills. That's a 100% difference, not 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 08:31 PM
1

More like a 110% decrease, not 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 07:30 PM
2

How do you know this? Sounds like absolute bullshit you made up to fit your narrative. The same thing you about the side with opposing ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 07:27 PM
12

Your sample size isn't large enough. Girls are more likely to be dating older. 80/20 rule helps top males more than top females. Ease of finding a partner is easier for women because of this. Despite your intro I would guess your bias for unattractive females vs unattractive males is relevant. Below average women are more invisible where you see a below average male and justify his status with things like he lifts and is social or don't properly analyze his real SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 03:25 AM
3

The average 9 definitely doesn't have lower self esteem than the average 6 or 7. You're also clearly very bitter about the whole dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 03:06 PM
8

I have another theory. Really attractive women (along with educated women) are much less likely to keep an unwanted pregnancy. So there's less "risk" for the man. Of all the women I personally know that are an 8+ none of them have children. It's just not a priority. A possible theory why. Attractive women are less desperate to feel loved. Average or below average women see pregnancy as extreme validation and a child as constant source of love for them as well. I think it's also less about "repro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:10 AM
-19

The "fucks" part of this expression refers to not getting married. Not about paying for sex. Going to prostitutes is the white flag of sexual strategy. Literally the opposite of Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 07:57 AM
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Agreed about the running thing. I would run ahead and then run back. Sounds like he made a competition out of something where he is already superior.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 06:28 AM
1

I mentioned this in my response to the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 09:15 PM
1

Wasn't trying to attack you. I'm purple pill myself. Harvard just put out a study that the job thing is true. I was just showing that it's not like that across the board. This study changed my perception of relationships a good amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 10:02 PM
2

Men are much more likely to leave their SO after Cancer diagnosis than women. 3% of women leave vs 21% of men leave. That's a huge fucking difference. Doesn't exactly fit your narrative. Source: http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/11/12/men-more-likely-to-leave-spouse-with-cancer/?_r=0 Link to the full study in that article too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 09:56 PM
1

A lot of that gain in height is due to superior nutrition and sanitation reform (less illness, which robs the body of growth). Not simply natural selection. Source: http://theconversation.com/why-did-humans-grow-four-inches-in-100-years-it-wasnt-just-diet-25919
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 03:22 PM
0

Find a girl who was in a LTR or used to a be a sea cow. If she went from not hot to hot, she's racking up a body count now though.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 03:15 PM
1

According to your data there are ~50% more male virgins. 25-44 is little more than a quarter of the population. Some quick math and that means there are almost half a million more male virgins in that age bracket than females virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 10:16 PM
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Unattractive females are in this same camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 05:00 AM
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Sounds incredibly insecure to worry about how much influence/power female characters in popular fiction have.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 07:14 AM
1

Attractive people don't get away with bad behavior? You really think they are treated the same as everyone else? And while preferences exist, to think attractiveness is completely subjective among humans is insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 05:12 AM
1

It's a very strong, albeit misdirected, desire for justice. Vigilantism really only doesn't work because people don't do their homework.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 05:27 PM
8

This is pretty brilliant. Prevents fraud. There are situations where multiple possible fathers is not cheating (non exclusive dating, open relationships etc...). However, the woman shouldn't basically be able to try and stick the "best" man with the baby and if that fails move down the list.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 04:37 PM
1

Women do not lack accountability. No one holds them to it. Same goes for the rich and powerful. They lack accountability because they can afford to.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 03:57 PM
10

Whales aren't thick, they're amorphous.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 05:22 AM
16

Exactly. There's a difference between having oneitis on a college campus and on an oil rig with one attractive female.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 07:57 PM
0

I did this with a girl I was dating. Tons of fun. Biker dude yelled, "get a room!" and gave me a thumbs up. Little did he know we were on our way back to the hotel we were staying at :D
/r/seduction28/05/16 04:24 PM
5

I've literally been accosted for the same scenario while these same female friends (usually my male friends' girlfriends) will gush about celebrity men 20+ years their senior.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:13 AM
0

I don't see how removing the agency of a 25 year old woman is okay in their minds. It's possible for people to use each other in a mutual benefit. They are both getting what they want.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:11 AM
0

Me four
/r/seduction21/04/16 06:49 AM
23

Ex-slut sounds like male hamster in action. Calling someone an ex-slut is like calling someone an ex-murderer
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 07:52 PM
1

Intimacy, desire, chemistry, shared experience, emotional connection etc... You're not gonna get just about any of this from a prostitute. However, you don't need to be married to get any of these things either.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 07:48 PM
1

I think Red Pill gains so much more validity if it came across as 'human nature' instead of 'women's nature'. AHALT Loyalty and honor are male only traits for just a select group of men. Men will stab you in the back if they think they have a small chance of fucking your girl. Men literally kill each other over [often mediocre] pussy.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 05:25 PM
5

Yeah it sucks and it's cowardly, but don't sweat it. You should only want to spend time with people who really want to be there. You can only control your own behavior. Don't worry about them.
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:12 AM
0

Yeah, but I also have full blown conversations. I'm just not afraid of running out of things to talk about during dates. The consensus seems to be about saving topics for in person. I disagree. If you have a real connection you won't run out of things to talk about.
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:04 AM
2

Maybe I'm just naive, but I don't feel like texting is a trap. Just don't come across as needy. I let her initiate texting most of the time and it's not like I'm gonna act like I'm too busy to respond. Worked pretty well for me so far.
/r/seduction06/03/16 06:01 PM
0

What's a good response to a shit test like this?
/r/seduction28/02/16 08:15 AM
11

Agree with this one. I think Red Pill has more legitimacy if you apply many of its principles to ALL people. I don't even consider myself a cynic. Just believe that people are largely out for themselves. Especially true the weaker and more desperate they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 09:31 PM
1

Okay so explain why Hollywood is extremely liberal. Along with most of the best scientists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 03:01 AM
3

This is true on all fronts. Job interviews, learning to drive, taking tests, competition, approaching girls. Always nervous at first and gets easier each time. Hell, I even use to shake playing the arena in WoW. Over time your body stops pumping you with adrenaline and let's you focus more at the task at hand.
/r/seduction05/02/16 04:35 PM
1

I'm not here to debate semantics and arbitrary rating values. Your points are mostly valid, but her sexual attitude, vibe etc. should be bonuses on top of an already attractive girl.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 02:40 AM
52

I think there's more to it than that. Girls care more about emotional connection when it comes to attraction. They can't get that through a few pictures and a blurb so they filter all but the top. However, if OP was approaching in person he wouldn't have zero "matches." Having your shit together and being genuine creates attraction for girls. Tinder doesn't offer that to them.
/r/seduction31/01/16 04:50 PM
1

I'm not disagreeing, but can you elaborate on those strengths women have over men?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 04:47 PM
-2

Most single mothers are NOT getting impregnated by alpha genes. They're letting some scrawny, wife beater wearing, douche mongrel cream pie them because both people are fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 06:51 PM
-4

Still in the anger phase I see. Just calling you out for being overly dramatic about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:20 PM
-7

Ruin my life part time work at a Chinese restaurant Being a bit dramatic, no? What she did was absolutely deplorable, but try not to be so sensationalizing about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 10:48 PM
1

Why is status so important to high status women? They are freed from the needs of security giving them much more access to mates they are physically and mentally attracted to. Like, why is millionaire supermodel Miranda Kerr dating Snapchat's skinny fat douche CEO?! She could absolutely do better, but her hamster won't let her.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 01:19 AM
1

Can't find anything she's said like that besides, "Men can be imprisoned by gender roles..." Do you have an actual quote? Or are you filling the narrative?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 01:12 AM
0

Yeah, drug addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 11:02 PM
2

Less than 10% of the population has a dick bigger than 7 inches. Your averages are terribly off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 05:41 AM
4

Being well spoken and using texting for logistics are not conflicting. You make a lot of good points, but you seem obstinate in thinking speaking like a moron doesn't affect your game. Being mildly clever in texts also doesn't take 10 minutes (if you're clever) and is a great way to add some fun while setting up plans.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 05:29 PM
7

Maybe more successful for getting laid, but less successful for pulling in high quality women. Educated and intelligent people are gonna look down on ghetto speak.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 04:52 PM
13

Type out whole words. I refuse to believe you can pull quality women with "Ur" and "U" "Super cute kiss emoticon" is also blowing it out of proportion. Didn't know dudes liked emoji's that much.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 03:21 PM
1

The back and forth gets boring if a guy doesn't think there's interest. Don't just say, "we should hang out sometime" and expect plans to magically happen. Take the initiative to invite him to something. Whether it's drinks or an activity or Netflix and Chill™.
/r/seduction28/11/15 04:33 PM
2

It isn't rape if they give prior consent. I would love to be woken up by sex. If someone can sleep through the whole thing, they are on some heavy drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 04:02 AM
1

100% accurate hahaha
/r/seduction25/11/15 11:45 PM
8

The implied rule is who invited pays. If she wants to split it and I want to see her again I say, "you can get the next one :)" If it's something cheap like coffee, don't give a shit about who pays.
/r/seduction25/11/15 08:26 PM
4

Continuing to fuck a girl you find attractive is a much more efficient use of time/resources than ONS. Note: unless you become exclusive, this doesn't affect your ability to also fuck other girls. You ONS girls who were low effort in bed or give off crazy red flags. Getting no call back for sex because you are bad at it is not something to aim for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 03:16 AM
1

Living together (married) versus not usually living together (not married), averaged out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 03:09 AM
32

This is why online dating tends to be such a waste of time for most guys. Women have this laundry list of check boxes when online, but in person they basically only care about how you make them feel.
/r/seduction15/11/15 10:14 PM
1

I said over 80 not 95. But let's even use your numbers. 60 something women, but you can filter almost all of them visually. Only have to approach the one's you're attracted who don't have immediate red flags. Your 60% number success is wrong though. Even guys with high SMV aren't on that level.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:23 AM
-2

Amazing how many "rational" men fall for bait that supports their narrative. Male hamsters in overdrive in this thread.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:43 AM
101

You should be avoiding (filtering) way over 80% already.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:40 AM
1

Oh, I didn't take any offense to it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 07:45 PM
2

Hey, that's me you're quoting. You don't pedestalize (that's a word now) girls like this. Well, you shouldn't put any women on a pedestal, but especially ones like her. She was asking me about my new place. I just bought a house. I kept it brief and said, "play your cards right and you might get a tour." She couldn't have seemed happier to hear that. "I am the prize." You have to truly believe it and then others will too.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 07:02 PM
2

Your username reminds me of another related point. I've had "gym bros" make fun of me for using a Smith machine (when a squat rack isn't available) when they aren't lifting at all. Gotta live on your own terms.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:14 AM
101

Lots of good advice here. However, men order whatever the fuck they want. If you order what you think is masculine and then struggle to choke it down, you're more of a bitch than the dude sipping on an Appletini.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 04:34 AM
28

Just bought a house. Guess who starts sending me drunk snaps after 3 months of no contact?! Feels good. Onto better things though.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 03:14 AM
29

Told my girlfriend at the time I was working overtime. She got all concerned, "are you having financial troubles or something?" No bitch, this is why I don't have financial issues. I had over a year's salary in savings and she had no fucking clue.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 01:15 AM
81

1.) Inner game - you gotta love yourself. Truly love who you are and be confident in your appearance. Assume attraction and be authentic. 2.) Slow down - Your movements, your words should be deliberate and slower. Think for a second before you speak. Gives the illusion you are smoother than you actually are. 3.) Approach - nervousness and anxiety go down with each approach. Keep approaching. Gets easier every time.
/r/seduction01/11/15 08:17 PM
1

I don't think you know what most means.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:17 PM
1

The average millionaire in the US is ~62 years old. The younger you go from the that, the closer you get to anomaly range. Idk just claiming millionaires "aren't that rare" means you either don't understand economics or you have a very different definition of rare.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:16 AM
1

All I'm adding is that "absconded" is an awesome word.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 02:08 AM
14

You're a fucking moron. What percentage of people are millionaires?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:03 AM
3

Thanks for giving such great, thorough answers. I'm really dominant in bed, but I can totally see why your boyfriend loves all of what you described. The two of you's communication combined with your level of self awareness is a big reason this dynamic works so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 04:09 PM
2

Your sex life sounds awesome. Some people get so bent out of shape over non-traditional roles, but if it works it works! What do you mean "lesser partner"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:06 PM
3

How is your sex life? Do you masturbate thinking about your current boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:52 AM
1

I was pointing out one of my main issues with Red Pillers. So I'm assuming you agree with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 12:18 AM
1

I identify as purple. Red Pill: AWALT while ignoring AMALT. Most are in denial about male hypergamy too. I think they'd have more validity if they were more honest with themselves. Before I hear arguments like, "we believe in AMALT it just isn't relevant to our own sexual strategy" explain why Red Pillers think that concepts like Loyalty and Honor are only from men. Men are loyal and honorable when it serves them. Same capacity for being shitty as women they just act more "loyal" in relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 09:03 PM
7

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:27 PM
-3

A 4 cannot become a 9. That level of illusion doesn't work on a man with even decent SMV.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 04:47 PM
-5

Don't really think America is full of sleeper cell insurgents. The average American can't cook without a microwave or even camp 2 days in row. The government is also not going to slaughter it's people in droves. We are literally its sustaining force.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 11:36 PM
-8

You think personal firearms will stand-up to drones and Armored vehicles? A militia stands basically zero chance in modern warfare. Not to mention the government would NEVER let it get revolution bad. The government needs tax payers to survive. I'm not even anti-gun. Personal safety/home defense is the best justification for owning a gun. Hunting/recreational use is next. Owning guns incase you need to overthrow a tyrannical government is a shit reason.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 09:40 PM
0

Yeah, imagine if life spans tripled in the next century. I don't think we should be suddenly shocked if people aren't marrying at the same age as before.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 05:22 PM
1

Plate em or give em nothing.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:22 PM
5

Mostly on social issues. Against Gay Marriage, anti pro-choice, harder on non-violent criminals, favor rights of employers over employees (anti union) etc... This also isn't the place to debate politics. Just highlighting reality.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:44 PM
2

Most? Only from the very far left (Islam apologists and whatnot) Conservatives are much more interested in eroding liberties.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 07:02 PM
10

Wicked awesome kid.
/r/seduction30/08/15 11:57 PM
-3

"Lemme give you my number." How do you save it with a "dead" phone. Admit you were lying for an excuse to talk to her? You carrying a pen? Idk, I think you're much better off using the situation and being dynamic.
/r/seduction09/08/15 06:34 PM
39

25 is the worst one. Everyone has a phone now. Find something better to open with on attractive women. Usually something that relates to the context of where you are.
/r/seduction09/08/15 05:27 PM
-1

Using a single injury and not a debilitating disease like Cerebral Palsy means you're looking for an excuse not to get in shape. Hell, even just eating better and doing cardio will make your body 10x more aesthetic than apathy.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 08:22 PM
8

That's a rational mentality. Get the fuck out of here.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 11:24 PM
0

Their White Knight investment plan™ isn't panning out quite as well as they'd hoped so they have to discredit the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 06:17 PM
43

Yesterday you said tomorrow... JUST DO IT!
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 02:36 PM
22

If you're having trouble getting hard because of her attractiveness level she isn't a 7.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 12:37 AM
4

This is actually the plot to law abiding citizen. Kind of.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 02:16 PM
1

Say that in a casual conversation and then tell me it didn't relate to dark humor. Even if it's reality, it's a morbid sort of reality.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 12:10 AM
1

I possibly want a relationship with women I have sex with. Not the other way around. Approach them like any other woman. Don't lie about your intentions if it comes up.
/r/seduction12/07/15 04:17 PM
3

Low self esteem is not a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 02:22 PM
23

Count to 3 and just go. Same as jumping in the water when it's cold. Hesitation doesn't soften the blow, so just go!
/r/seduction04/07/15 12:29 AM
4

Good response in a debate sub Reddit :P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 06:15 AM
1

Not sure why you're explaining this to me :P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 06:12 AM
5

Why does that require marriage? Consider this Devil's Advocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 03:10 AM
2

Yeah, age is definitely a relevant factor. But it's also a reason Red Pillers generally want younger women too. For 24 I would say you're in the lower range of sexual partners. I consider myself Purple pill and to me partner count matters a lot less than to a hardcore Red Piller. Current attitudes about sex, history of cheating etc... are a lot more relevant to me. I can see why your "doesn't really count thing" is up for interpretation too :P Hearing girls say it doesn't really count of "I just…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 03:47 PM
3

Why does it not count? Saying a sexual experience "doesn't count" is a red flag for immaturity and not taking responsibility for your actions. The only time it's acceptable in my opinion is in the cases of rape or sexual assault. Asking if your number is bad? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 03:25 PM
-3

This is anecdotal. She fucked you because she's a slut. Sluts dominate the sexual market so they seem more common. This is cognitive bias and statistical analytics 101.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 11:13 AM
-1

We all have different goals. I'm not looking for a wife or a potential mother of my children (I don't want either). Not a huge fan of churches. I love slutty college girls. Regardless these N numbers are way too high.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:06 AM
-3

You're talking about two ends of the entire spectrum. There's a massive in between.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 11:56 PM
5

Your perception of young women is too narrow. Their N count is high, but not "100 by 26". This sub is supposed to be rational, c'mon.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 09:49 PM
11

A different cock every month is unrealistically high.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 07:57 PM
1

Now we're getting somewhere. Yes, I would agree that poverty is a huge contributor to violent crime. And that women are more protected from things like homelessness and poverty (if they don't squirt out children at a young age).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 05:45 PM
1

I'm not even Blue Pill. Your examples (true or not) don't counter my argument. Women and rape have nothing to do with why men get murdered more. Nice logic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 04:54 PM
1

Some victim blaming is warranted. You shouldn't have to lock your car at night, but you're still an idiot if you don't. Gangs, drug dealers and other organized crime are primarily male. They make up a large portion of murders. And like I said in my first post, men escalate situations that are potentially violent. I say this as a male who has run his mouth from time to time. You are getting so defensive, so quickly. I hope you don't call yourself alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 02:49 PM
0

No need to bring your frustrations about feminism into this. Why are men at a higher risk for being murdered? They are harder to murder. There are clearly other factors at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 01:28 PM
3

Men are more at risk because they are more likely to escalate situations that might involve violence. Swallow your ego and your safety increases ten fold.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 11:32 PM
6

Stat rolls are determined by 3D6, not D20. Fucking casual.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 10:34 PM
10

Why should we be concerned with something not going over well if she isn't interested already? Also, if a girl can't take a light hearted joke. I'm not interested anyway.
/r/seduction18/06/15 01:27 PM
7

So much truth in this post. [Sexually frustrated] guys I've considered my friends have become my enemies when I started having sexual success. Like, I don't even brag about it and they just start to resent me out of nowhere. I try to help my fellow bros when possible, but some people are so far from victory. Just talking with a guy yesterday and he says, "girls say they want a nice guy, but they don't." The butthurt was sooo strong in his voice. I almost didn't know where to begin.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:15 PM
71

This is absolutely the case. Girls have this very specific check list that comes into play on online dating. However, when you approach them in person they only care about how you make them feel.
/r/seduction14/06/15 02:14 PM
-5

If you think taking a large number of dicks makes a girl literally loose you are a fucking retard.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 06:44 PM
36

"I am altering the deal. Pray I don't alter it any further."
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 12:05 AM
0

None of these women are even a 7 imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 10:58 PM
0

I know you are attempting to use satire, but bitches mirin' my quads all the time. That's where the dick thrusting power comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 03:38 PM
1

I wish/hope this is satire. Not all Redpillers are looking for "statistically" ideal wives and mothers either. Different men have different goals in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 05:39 AM
3

The 4 year relationship is also more likely to cause a riff in a new relationship than a handful of emotionless hookups and short relationships. Another example of Redpill logic failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 04:06 AM
0

Is this even English?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 04:03 AM
2

I think the data for desirable women is more pertinent than all women. These are who high quality men want and a 7+ has constant opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 04:00 AM
2

I would be more concerned with my SO coming from a 7 year relationship than having a handful of partners. That is permanent attachment, that relationship is a huge part of her being and she will always feel something for him. This is just one example of Redpill logic failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 03:56 AM
1

Nothing to lose trying to hit em up before a delete. Outcome independence still takes precedence.
/r/seduction23/05/15 09:31 PM
0

You can't shut an elevator. You can only fail to hold it open. No, the close button doesn't shut the door. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 12:11 AM
5

Lost a great girl because of getting comfortable. The silver lining is I feel more focused mentally and physically than ever before.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 08:51 PM
1

intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 06:52 PM
0

Not hating, just curious. How old are you? How many times have you been in love? How long did each time take?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 10:23 PM
3

She's your girlfriend in one post and a plate in another. She isn't exactly a plate if you're exclusive and doing romantic shit together. That's a fucking girlfriend (and there's really nothing wrong with her being that either). Stop trying to get approval from strangers on the Internet.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 03:46 PM
3

If you think this is somehow gay, you are actually the one in the closet.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 02:36 PM
1

Or an intelligent patriarchal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 05:31 PM
4

A lack of mental stimulation is also a factor. You think twins, one with zero education and the an had with access to great schools would score the same on am IQ test?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 04:18 AM
6

It's a combination of factors. Environment is one of them. I'm real fun at parties.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 01:23 AM
-6

Yeah, committing adultery against a man you were FORCED to marry is complete AWALT. Get the fuck out of here with this bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 07:28 PM
0

Are you condoning stoning to increase fidelity?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 07:26 PM
6

Squats are arguably the most effective single lift. However I 100% doubt this is the only lift he does. It's probably just his favorite.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:43 AM
7

If this was a relationship I would suggest talking about this fantasy with her. However with a hookup, when you feel yourself getting close just tell her, "Oh I want to cum on your face so bad." If she's into it she'll let you know. A lot of girls get very submissive during sex. If she isn't, DON'T cum on her face. Avoid getting cum in her hair and/or eyes if you want it to be more than a one time thing.
/r/seduction30/04/15 02:19 AM
9

That study is from the 70's People have fucked up mentalities about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 04:28 AM
4

When he's with his husband he does both.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/15 12:20 AM
-2

His wife isn't the villain in this story. She'd choke on his cock til mascara poured down her face if he gave her tingles. That's on him.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:41 AM
3

I once got downvoted to hell for suggesting genital size correlates with height for men and women. Short guys have smaller dicks on average. Tall girls have larger vaginas. Neither wanna to accept this reality. Somehow genitals are an exception, while every other organ and body part are not. Short guys can have above average dicks (and they'll look bigger too). Tall girls can have the tightest pussies (fitness and kegels can help with this too). But regardless the odds are in neither's favor.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 05:47 PM
-7

It doesn't work. What is adultery exactly? What about open marriages? Is refusing sex also illegal?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 06:46 PM
9

Why should adultery be illegal? Paternity fraud should be illegal. Adultery definitely shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 06:04 PM
3

Females develop breasts when they become sexually mature. Girls with small breasts have a harder time breast feeding their babies on average. How are these not related to fertility?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 06:23 PM
3

Foot fetishes are not analogous to an evolutionary predisposition to finding attributes that advertise fertility sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 05:44 PM
2

So it has nothing to do with the fact that boobs are literally designed to attract a mate? Or that boob play makes many girls much wetter and some even orgasm from nipple stimulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 12:13 PM
7

Tits are sexual, period. Many girls gets so turned on when I play with her tits. Hell, some girls can even orgasm from nipple stimulation. Are these socially constructed? If so why is that bad? I think breast feeding in public shouldn't be sexualized or stigmatized, but the notion that breasts shouldn't be sexualized at all is fucking ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 12:10 PM
9

Seen that. The girls that are actually attractive (Tori Black) look good without makeup. The ones that look like train wrecks without makeup are the kinds of girls I'm not attracted to with makeup either. Guys are too easily "tricked" by being dolled up. That's my point.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:38 PM
3

If you think a 4 with makeup is an 8 you're pretty terrible at evaluating attractiveness imo. More likely you are just finding her attractive because you think society will think she is. It isn't her fault if you're over valuing.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 08:00 PM
44

For the record I call myself Purple pill. RP would hold more credibility to me if they didn't act like men are so noble and women are sluts. Both sexes are filled with people who cheat and deceive. Both sexes seek validation (often in different ways). AMALT is as valid as AWALT, simply with some different qualifiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 02:36 AM
4

Bragplaining - complaining about something that they also enjoy because it validates them.
/r/seduction12/03/15 08:23 PM
20

Let's say your boss has been stealing money from you by doing something like rounding down your hours even when you stay late when he asks you to. If you simply call him out and threaten to report him the ball is in his court. He can wait, find a valid reason to fire you and his problem is eliminated. Rather you should gather evidence and report his illegal actions to someone above him. Get his ass disciplined/fired and any action he now tries to take against you will almost guaranteed fall shor…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 07:43 PM
-13

What is gained here? Being right?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:05 PM
1

For example, lean in 90% for a kiss. Make her go the 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 01:22 AM
44

http://m.imgur.com/R9P8pBT NSFW. You're welcome.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 02:56 AM
0

Barney Stinson's lemon rule. Seriously though, finish the date and part ways. Use something vague, but true about not being interested. Something like, "you're really attractive, but the chemistry just isn't there between us."
/r/seduction02/02/15 04:57 PM
16

Trying to redefine "fight like a girl" is the worst one. It's a dangerous mentality for women to think they aren't at a disadvantage in combat. Girls will talk about "being able to take a guy" or give an anecdote about actually doing it and 90%+ of the time the guy didn't fight back at all or else she would have been obliterated. You can debate some differences between men and women, but biological ones like strength/muscle mass needs to stay in reality.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:34 AM
0

Is your entire idea of romance novels based 100% on 50 Shades of Grey? Women find hard work attractive. It's about context. They don't want a dirty grunt, but something that mixes skill into it (repairing cars) very commonly turns women on.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:38 PM
-5

If you yourself are an alpha, your girl being an alpha widow shouldn't matter much at all.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:09 PM
33

Her conclusion is basically, "we drank a love potion and fell in love, but it wasn't because of the potion." Good ol' cognitive dissonance.
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:19 AM
10

Yeah, without porn I would have wanted an average looking girl that's boring in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 06:08 AM
2

Testosterone - it's a hell of a drug. Societal expectations - whether it's providing or being successful. Sometimes it's other things like being "protective". Sexism - women given smaller sentences for the same crimes. Mental illness - it is taken less seriously for men. Men also have less support systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 08:59 AM
-3

I probably would have fucked her and then told the boyfriend (assuming he isn't bigger than me or come across as a psycho).
/r/seduction28/12/14 03:48 AM
-14

Oh how great libertarianism is if you're a sociopath.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 12:32 PM
3

Could also be that Indian culture is outdated and bigoted in a lot of ways. I don't have a problem with what the brother did and Amit can have his standards even if I might disagree with him. However, let's not go assuming that her sexuality is something that must be "damaged." Whole lotta insecurity there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 07:24 AM
2

"It is the mark of an educated mind to entertain a thought without accepting it." Yeah, definitely a lot more people responsible for this break up than just the brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 07:06 AM
4

I'd say it has way more to do with the overall socioeconomic status of the students and the sex ed that is made available.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 09:05 AM
0

Totally agree. Hobbies are great for your mental health. The key being in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:14 PM
0

I literally typed out Boomkin and Moonkin and deleted them because of being triggered :P by "Tumblr" people.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 04:22 PM
18

Balance is key. You can play games for fun while maintaining a social life, gym, success etc... And by balance I'm not talking about Druids.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:47 PM
10

Date whoever you want. Don't ever get married. Profit. Hooray?! I would also say there are other variables at play here. I would like to see the happiness ratings of each demographic. Some people don't get divorced even when they should because of things like religious reasons or being incredibly stubborn. This obviously doesn't mean their lives are better. I don't really understand the obsession with partner count. Don't get married period. The only exception is maybe if you want kids.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:16 PM
2

Rexxar is a legendary hunter from Warcraft. "Let the hunt begin" is like his go to catch phrase.
/r/seduction29/11/14 08:45 AM
3

Rexxar?
/r/seduction29/11/14 07:41 AM
-11

Acceptance of gayness was [partially] responsible for the fall of Rome? One of the most laughably ridiculous things I've ever seen. Way to sound like an 80 year old ultra conservative.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 04:42 AM
1

I often get downvoted unless I explicitly say I'm being sarcastic. Many don't know what sarcasm or satire actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 10:18 AM
-46

Murder is not analogous to promiscuity. Shit like this is what gives the Red Pill its bad name. Drug addiction is a much better analogy.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:08 AM
12

Oh, did the millions of chumps die overnight?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:09 PM
1

I'm missing the AWALT part. Tons of women admit to watching porn.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 11:58 AM
3

These pictures are taken by men...
/r/MensRights06/11/14 12:38 PM
3

I'm not sure how your post really proves or reinforces anything. I was waiting for the part about her cheating on him or hitting on you or really anything of value. These appear more to be your insecurities and preconceived notions being imprinted onto another person.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:01 AM
0

You think 100% of women have slept with their boss? Your hamster is out of control bro.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:41 PM
-2

This is completely unnecessary in this thread. No one's forcing you to be attracted to transgender people, but you don't have to be transphobic about it.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:05 AM
5

Also fitting because college chicks never get older for us bachelors :P
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:15 PM
12

Just make sure you are getting in person meets in too.
/r/seduction26/09/14 03:02 PM
0

I know. Butches are generally for unattractive or overweight lesbians. There are some exceptions though.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 04:46 PM
5

The butch is the rapist, regardless of intoxication level or who initiated. /s
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:15 AM
3

Not Voltaire (although often attributed to him).
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:09 AM
7

Dual rape. This isn't rocket science. I would like to see a ruling on this though.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 06:42 AM
4

Much like letting someone do stuff for you because you imply sex is on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 09:15 AM
-3

Yeah, that logic is bullshit. Weapons, speed and tactics can all make you dominate someone larger than you.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:15 PM
3

Yeah, sometimes getting their pussy eaten turns them on so much they just need to get fucked (something a lesbian author might not understand). There's definitely more variables at play. I had a girlfriend who got self-conscious and anxious about how long it takes her to cum or how she tasted (like heaven). A couple times early in our relationship she told me I could stop if I wanted to (once fingering her, once tasting her). Both times I helped her relax and told her I was really enjoying mysel…
/r/seduction30/08/14 02:54 PM
23

Overall good, but there is some stupid shit in here. If a girl isn't enthusiastic about sucking your dick it isn't gonna be good either. It kinda neglected fingering a girl while you work her with your tongue. Some girls love this. Or just what to do with your hands in general. Play with her tits, or put them under her ass, use two fingers to expose the clit, hold her hand(s), grab her hips and pull her into your face etc...
/r/seduction30/08/14 05:12 AM
-1

You think having sex with someone else while in a committed relationship isn't cheating. You know what most adults do? They discuss exclusivity or boundaries instead of pretending that only marriage makes it count. The only reason people should get married is for religious reasons or legal ones (like tax breaks and decision making while one is incapacitated). Still a huge gamble I'm not ever willing to make.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:51 PM
-2

You sound like a fucking moron that doesn't live in reality.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:33 PM
-1

Why do they have to be married? Violating exclusivity should be good enough. I also think any serious intimate contact is a form of cheating, it's just a spectrum of severity.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:16 PM
0

Stuff like keeping an eye out for females at parties and your friends at bars/clubs. Walking a girl home or making sure she gets home. Minor things, but they still have some impact.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:12 PM
-1

I'm much more interested in hearing your definition.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:05 PM
0

Don't worry about the feminists who are against it. There are plenty of men and women who think this is a good idea. Simply the existence of this kind of technology is a deterrent to the usage of roofies. And even if their usage is rare, it is still a real threat.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:03 PM
-3

It's almost like people can have independent thought and can't be lumped under one term that defines their entire being. I mean, I identify as liberal, but am still pro death penalty, pro gun, pro drug testing for welfare etc...
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:15 AM
-4

Define rare. I think 1 in 4 is bullshit and agree with most of what has been said in this thread, but also think sexual assault crimes are far too common. Men should care more about helping mitigate the raping of women than about victim blaming (even if they should be doing way more to protect themselves).
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:11 AM
4

People do break up without cheating you know.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:26 AM
4

The median is misleading. Especially if it isn't specifying whether it's discounting outliers like prostitutes and nuns.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:58 PM
0

You are correct, the mean cannot be different.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:43 PM
-1

Heterosexual men and women have the same average number of sexual partners. It takes two to tango.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:42 PM
0

Vulnerability and emotional expression is also a big reason why musicians swim in pussy.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 10:27 AM
2

"Motivation comes from doing."
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 10:10 AM
0

Thanks for the tip, Ali G.
/r/seduction21/08/14 07:08 AM
0

A pussy that you didn't make wet might feel good, but has no psychological benefit. Something programmed to always be down for anal isn't nearly as appealing. There's no powerplay and no taboo.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 07:23 AM
7

You are quite the wing ma'am.
/r/seduction13/08/14 09:25 AM
11

Be an attractive girl. Go flirt with him. Compliment his shirt while grabbing his arm/bicep. This would boost his confidence and likely make the other girl want him a lot more (preselection).
/r/seduction13/08/14 08:56 AM
2

You could argue she didn't or maybe both didn't and that no one is worth millions. The difference is while they were married he could choose to share his wealth with her and once divorced that decision is being made for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 03:20 AM
3

I'm not against alimony at all, but virtually no woman deserves tens of millions because she married someone highly successful. It needs an updated formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 02:26 AM
-1

Men also get emotional support and social status from women. Women can have children in and out of relationships. Men kind of need women to have kids. A man having kids outside of a relationship guarantees him very little.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 12:51 PM
3

Yeah, I'm purple and agree there are multiple possible interpretations. I'm much more a fan of case by case than absolutes. That being said, I think (outside of pregnancy) there is no excuse for gaining 60 lbs. The only reason to stay with that person in a monogamous relationship is crippling fear due to low SMV or like you said, some kind of fetish for it. It also sounds like him always saying he'd "divorce you" is a way of dodging the question and isn't really having fun with it or answering s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 03:25 AM
4

It can be fun, but you are testing his responses. The more drastic the change and more compliant he is to still loving you, changes your attitude to him (for better or worse). For example, if you asked "would you still be with me if I gained 60 lbs?" and he says yes it shows his SMV must not be high. This would likely cause you to lose attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:53 AM
0

Great advice, but you only don't have power if your bluff is called (or if they bluff and you don't call it).
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:08 AM
1

I've had girls give me shit for pursuing girls in their early twenties (I'm in my late twenties), yet the male celebs they swoon over are all 10+ years older than them and even as high as 30+ (Bruce Willis is still a stud haha).
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 08:03 AM
1

My friend's wife sent me this article. http://m.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/05/what-if-men-stopped-chasing-much-younger-women/275916/ I just know this will be a big hit for you guys here hahaha. She isn't a bitch to me, we get along quite well. I think she just feels threatened when she hears me talk about dating younger women and not having any desire to settle down.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 07:50 AM
-2

And anytime I hear a guy tell me virgins are ideal I wonder what century I am in. If you look at my original post you'll see that I said "no one is marriage material." Unicorns do not exist.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 11:21 PM
0

I'm also gonna disagree that a virgin is necessarily ideal. I want a girl who likes sex and knows what she wants. I can teach, but I can't change someone's brain. A virgin is definitely more likely to view sex as "not that important."
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:32 PM
-4

Age, attitudes towards sex/relationships, stance on abortion, etc... are all more important factors than their "number." Like others have said, the "how" is the key. For example, casual sex is a much smaller degree than cheating, even if they both are +1 on the partner scale. I also count dicks sucked as counting more towards the partner count than the average female would.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:16 PM
4

If you think someone has to be a virgin to be marriage material you're delusional. No one is marriage material :P
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:11 PM
13

Contraception makes it less of a liability. Changes the game in a way. Still a liability though. Just to put it another way, I'd rather fuck a slut who has had an abortion than a girl who "is pretty sure she wouldn't keep it." In terms of long term material, it's a neither.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:08 PM
1

A 5'7"+ chick who weighs 130 can easily be fit.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:55 AM
3

The friend zone exists, but it isn't really something you can justify complaining about. You failed to attract her, you failed to sexually excite her. Why should she want to fuck you? Don't hang out with girls you can't turn it around with (or that you aren't fine being "just friends" with).
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:03 AM
5

"Human rights are more important than culture." (paraphrasing) "Our future cannot depend on the government alone. The ultimate solutions lie in the attitudes and the actions of the American people." "For too long in this society, we have celebrated unrestrained individualism over common community." You are also implying we'd be better off with Paul Ryan or Sarah Palin in that position which is a fucking joke.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 02:21 AM
0

I hope you gave her the same tongue twister as your title haha.
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:33 AM
1

You are still 100% bragplaining. Hypocritical hit!
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:10 AM
4

Shoulda been like "Maybe if you play your cards right..."
/r/seduction21/06/14 06:42 AM
1

I'd say it's some kind of viscous two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 06:55 AM
-1

Your example doesn't really counter OP's point. Men are biologically predisposed to be attracted to fertility. This is why young healthy women are generally the most attractive. Being pregnant is literally proof of fertility. I never want kids and still often find pregnant women beautiful/sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 06:07 AM
9

Girl on Tinder asked me how tall I was. She looked a little thick in her pics so I told her and then asked her how much she weighed. She was taken aback. Told me and shortly later was begging me to fuck her. I did not fuck her. I can do better.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 03:20 AM
0

Not every compliment is about beta bux...
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 08:15 PM
-2

Maybe, but probably not. She's a smart girl, but 5+ years younger than me and no college. I don't think she knows about concepts like straw man and such. She loves my argumentative and debate skills. She told me her and her mom were discussing that I should be a lawyer. This was over a year after we broke up.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:43 PM
12

Just yesterday I saw my ex call two different girls a slut and a whore while arguing over social media. What they were arguing about had ZERO sexual context. I thought about texting her and giving her a lesson in why ad hominem isn't an effective way to win arguments.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 04:06 PM
1

Women don't approach because they fear rejection, often far more than men.
/r/seduction23/05/14 05:30 AM
2

Turned a fumble into a touchdown.
/r/seduction18/05/14 01:44 AM
1

I've also run into the Double standard from women who have no problem fantasizing about older men (mostly celebrities) or who have even dated men 10-20 years older than them, but if I date a girl younger than me I hear stuff like, "she isn't your peer, what could you possibly want from her besides sex?" Complete bullshit double standard. When threatened or faced with competition, women constantly drag down others. Insecure men do this too, but many of us are much more likely to strive to be bett…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 03:20 AM
0

Saying no homo after a hug is muy homo.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 12:06 PM
-17

He still got to live those 11 years and he probably enjoyed a good deal of it. Guy is a fucking idiot, but if you think he completely waisted 11 years because of this you are weak willed and need to work on your mentality.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:10 AM
-3

Yes, many take it to the next level and no moral guy wants to be thought of as a rapist of any kind, but there are also a ton of women who are straight reckless and oblivious in this way too. Also, sometimes it's less about being fearful of rapists and more of a weariness of predatory men.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:14 AM
-5

They are also afraid of rapists, which are more common. Idk, it's good to be vigilant, just not paranoid.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 05:09 AM
1

Bitch, sarcasm is my native language. Is that why you asked for gold like 4 times? Enjoy your negative karma.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 01:51 AM
-2

Your begging for gold is as pathetic as a beta crying about the friend zone.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 01:41 AM
27

Who posts statuses on Facebook about their booty calls?!
/r/seduction03/05/14 12:59 AM
6

And I'm no scientist, but I think bowling balls are denser than fat. She should lose weight, but her bf also sounds like a loser (doesn't work).
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:15 PM
21

Over 90% would say OP's body is more attractive than your example.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:09 PM
4

That's a reasonable reaction. /s
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 07:38 AM
-2

Next time you spell cunt like that you get downvoted. Good points though, so you get upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 07:37 AM
1

I like Ted as a person and he fucked a ton of hot girls during the duration of the show. He isn't an alpha role model by any means, but he's better than average.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 04:26 AM
0

Let's say I only care about women who are attracted to me when I look happy. I don't give a fuck if more women would find me more attractive another way. Statistics are a numbers game anyway and don't necessarily correlate with quality or compatibility.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:40 AM
0

And too many men offer nothing but a source of sperm for spawning offspring and providing financial support. Both genders need to strive for excellence or else they shouldn't complain when they aren't happy.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:25 AM
-1

How often does this happen? There is a difference between vigilance and paranoia.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:55 AM
2

I'm pretty sure you can upload pictures to FB that only you can see, but still access them on Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 12:51 AM
0

This is a terrible analogy.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 08:00 AM
0

And?
/r/seduction12/04/14 02:51 AM
12

This culture needs to end. Girls cock blocking themselves, girls getting overly escalated on because guys think it's LMR, guys put in a tough spot to take her on her word or not. It's bad all around.
/r/seduction10/04/14 05:10 PM
1

Story turned out to be bullshit, but the idea still remains.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:57 PM
6

How his date went: :) :( :)
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:11 AM
3

The laws exist because men are more likely to be predatory when pursuing sexual endeavors. Basically the immorality of a few men put a ton of men at risk to the predation of women.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:16 AM
0

People often add reps instead of weight as well. The point is to put him on the defensive, not to be 100% logical. I generally don't talk about lifting anyway since so many people care way more about 1 rep max and I only work on working sets. And I'm not gonna add ~30% to my squat or bench working set and say it's my 1RM unless I specify that.
/r/seduction29/03/14 04:20 AM
1

Most people who tell you their lifts ending in an even number are bullshit'ing or rounding up (for pounds). I use 2.5 plates when progressing every lift that isn't deadlifts.
/r/seduction29/03/14 04:04 AM
2

If it ends in an even number ask him if he adds 2.5 lb plates when he deadlifts hahaha.
/r/seduction29/03/14 03:52 AM
0

I would say joining the military is the biggest gender difference in this statistic (for the US).
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 04:50 AM
0

Spell your name with your butt. Dancing solved. Next problem?
/r/seduction07/03/14 07:48 AM
1

Haha, yeah there are so many factors. I would like to see data on it though. My guess is that men incur more costs. We often let problems fester and are more reckless physically are the two major things I can think of. Little anecdote: I've read that girl's that participate in sports are much more likely to get injured. Females are generally more frail (that's biology) and they are less likely to be well conditioned.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 01:31 PM
10

David isn't erect so that's largely irrelevant. Source: grower with an above average sized dick.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 03:30 AM
1

I think most people would agree that increased costs due to having babies shouldn't make women pay more for health care. If women still cost more as a result of higher rates of obesity or something then they should pay more. There are tons of other factors though. For example, it's a lot easier to get injured playing sports than sitting on the couch watching Netflix.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 03:28 AM
-2

This screams being written by a RedPiller as an example of TRP working on someone who is against it. I'm very skeptical this is real.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 11:23 AM
-2

Fair point. I was trying to encompass all of them, not just smileys :)
/r/seduction19/02/14 04:32 PM
11

What kind of monster puts noses on his emojis?
/r/seduction19/02/14 08:27 AM
0

Or the girlfriend's friend has a strong set of morals.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 03:08 PM
11

Modern day blacksmith.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 09:20 AM
0

After my ex broke up with me she put me on a bit of an emotional roller coaster ride. She kept me in a Limbo somewhere between back together and just friends. I got sick of it and threw a hail Mary that did not get caught per se. Things were rough off and on for awhile, but now we're good friends. You gotta do what's best for you. Be straight up with her.
/r/seduction26/01/14 08:45 AM
0

Have you guys had sex? Sounds like you are going through too much bullshit, but if not then you are going through WAY too much bullshit.
/r/seduction26/01/14 08:12 AM
2

Every time I shave my face, it comes back as soon as I take a shit. I think you might be pushing too hard :D
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 03:02 PM
1

Maybe because people interested in pickup are more interested in tangible girls. Not random ones that they have no idea what they look like or where they are located in the world.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:01 PM
1

I hope your comment is satire. It sounds like a shitty advertisement.
/r/seduction17/01/14 11:58 AM
0

Generally men and women are fucking each other. If it doesn't feel like this you are fucking the wrong women.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 05:06 AM
32

This is a Hail Mary for when you don't think you will succeed. Not for possibly blundering near guaranteed sex.
/r/seduction08/01/14 12:16 PM
4

Single moms not being TRP long term material? Shocker right? I feel like OP is just a total fuck wad. No one should be impressed by any of this. A 6 single mom that he gets butt hurt over when she breaks off the casual relationship. What's the takeaway here? Also, what's the big deal with a single mom trying to secure beta bux? Who cares if some sap buys that "lemon"? Not your life. Not your problem.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 12:56 PM
0

No :P
/r/seduction27/12/13 05:51 AM
11

Is a mafia boss who calls out hits completely free from guilt as well?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 05:31 AM
-12

It was her boyfriend. Assaulting someone who violently/sexually abuses your girlfriend is hardly "white knight" behavior. I'm not condoning his method (he should have been more precise confirming their guilt and protecting himself), but cut the shit.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 05:29 AM
1

If the companies are worth an equal amount it's still only 10% equity!
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 08:21 AM
-6

What you aren't okay with =/= guaranteed beta behavior.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 06:51 PM
2

Jealous of the poutine.
/r/seduction04/12/13 03:37 PM
0

Or you know, they aren't that compatible...
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 02:55 PM
9

*Miranda ffs
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 02:54 PM
3

A lot of these are not rationalizations... More like selection bias.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 05:50 PM
2

I also loved this.
/r/seduction30/11/13 08:50 AM
6

Hope you get to put it in her bread box :P
/r/seduction29/11/13 01:12 PM
2

I would say don't listen to a lot of these comments and do what you want to do. You said yourself she isn't LTR material. Pull back a bit (see her 2-3 times a week) and be upfront with her about wanting to keep it FWB. Don't string her along with her hoping it turns into more and try not to get too attached to her. Enjoy having fun and the sex with a hottie. If it ends, no big deal. Frees you up to invest your time and energy into something or someone else :)
/r/seduction29/11/13 07:43 AM
7

Yeah, I was gonna actually mention your outcome independence was good too. It was an enjoyable read :)
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:24 AM
24

Besides kissing her at the party I don't see any other game or seduction. Regardless, congrats on the sex :D
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:13 AM
2

I think the 600/200 split is a bit extreme, but I do think a LTR couple splitting everything 50/50 is also a bit extreme. There is compromise where both people can live amicably. If I was in that situation (using their numbers) I would have no problem with something like a 500/300 split if I was on either side of it. This is a compromise between 50/50 and percentage of income towards rent.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 08:15 AM
0

I like the way you think. There is more than one path to smoking hot and you simply outlined one of them.
/r/seduction21/11/13 02:37 AM
18

I like to turn conversations sexual. Girls love to talk about sex (if there is attraction) and it puts them in a good frame. For example, if she asks if I have any tattoos I'll respond with something like "now you're just trying to get my clothes off, I know how this works." Most of the time she'll do some combination of blushing and/or "damn, you caught me ;)" Or I'll jokingly complain about an injury I've had and if she says something about hating pain I'll ask "what about during sex?" Convers…
/r/seduction07/11/13 05:31 AM
8

You must Australian or British haha
/r/seduction07/11/13 05:19 AM
1

Just remember to skip anal.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 02:54 AM
4

Chipotle and sex is a pretty sweet gig.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 06:24 AM
2

Thanks, that was basically my plan already. I'm going for the music first, she's just a bonus.
/r/seduction25/10/13 06:49 PM
6

Based on her reaction Idk if I'd even consider that a rejection :)
/r/seduction25/10/13 05:41 AM
12

Statistical problem being the better looking girls are more likely to be in relationships. Younger are more likely to be single. Also, from a research standpoint, you knew what you were doing going into it, which creates bias in your analysis of "hot" when you see their age. I would love to see this kind of study done with the general population, both genders being analyzed.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 02:58 PM
2

Something tells me there might be some bias at work based on your survey. This is the equivalent of making a judgement on Americans' health by talking to people in a McDonald's.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 10:43 AM
5

Imagine being a woman. How many men do you know that you would consider dating if you were a female? Humans in general are low value.
/r/seduction20/10/13 04:32 AM
9

He's 12.
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:53 AM
2

I believe who said it was Michael Scott... quoting The Great One.
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:50 AM
1

Gotye's "Somebody That I Used To Know." randomly came up on my playlist when I started the first article haha. Take the good from the relationship and move on. She can't take your positive memories unless you poison them. Distractions are paramount. Hobbies, working out, hanging with friends etc... All great.
/r/seduction09/10/13 07:27 AM
8

Or the guy will.
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:35 AM
2

Not sure that's how math works :P
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 01:46 AM
1

Lenny Kravitz is half jewish already...
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 11:47 PM
3

QFT is as old as Internet forums. Generally used to grab a selected point for emphasis and to show approval.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 01:51 AM
1

If these are the precautions you take to have sex you are doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 09:35 PM
7

Quoted for truth.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 09:23 PM
-7

That I can partially agree with, however what makes him so great? Is he somehow now an Alpha male just because he subscribes to TRP? As Alphas it is important that we don't just allow other males to call themselves Alphas simply because they agree with us.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 12:56 PM
-10

You judge someone that you were "obsessed" with. How are you better?
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 08:10 AM
6

You kiss her.
/r/seduction22/09/13 06:32 AM
3

You don't think guys are interested in how girls appear to others too? That's bullshit. Guys love to show off a hot girlfriend/wife.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 04:30 AM
9

Ah, the Email close, just above eye contact close.
/r/seduction20/09/13 11:57 AM
2

Alternate title: Best man gets best chick.
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:43 AM
1

The widow is almost guaranteed to be single! Don't even have to ask.
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:41 AM
-7

Definitely worth hating women over an isolated case. Maybe things like this attitude are why you are a virgin. If a woman won't fuck you because you are a virgin then you shouldn't want to fuck her anyway. She's doing you a favor by walking out.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 03:15 AM
1

Say hi to Wolverine for me :D
/r/seduction03/09/13 06:21 PM
20

I thought this was gonna be about how to increase your gains in the gym.
/r/seduction02/09/13 09:17 AM
2

You go to Xavier's Institute?!
/r/seduction02/09/13 08:52 AM
2

I thought I was on /r/sex for a sec and thought this might go very differently based on the title haha.
/r/seduction02/09/13 08:49 AM
1

"Motivation comes from doing." You gotta start, the rest will take care of itself.
/r/seduction02/09/13 07:26 AM
4

This article is full of holes and terribly bias. The article fails to define slut and the dichotomy that women are either virgins or sluts is simply retarded. Virgin women are definitely not at the top of high social value unless you live in an ultra conservative, religious compound. Virgin brides are much more likely to stay in an unhappy marriage. Also claiming that the lowest divorce rate correlates with the happiest life is like saying the best driving experience correlates with the safest r…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 04:26 AM
2

Apparently anyone that isn't a virgin, by this article's standards.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 04:10 AM
-2

In the eyes of TRP how is her story not a success? She is essentially doing what an Alpha does. What exactly is an intelligent woman supposed to do? Find an Alpha to settle down with?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 05:12 AM
1

Attraction. I've said the dumbest shit to girls that are into me and they eat it up. I think you can start a fire from a tiny spark, but it's basically impossible to get something going with no spark.
/r/seduction12/08/13 03:48 AM
-5

Premeditated murder is obviously a solution to abuse. Not necessarily the best solution, but there are definite instances where it is applicable. Of course there should be evidence of the abuse, but I doubt there are many (if any) cases where no evidence of abuse is supported, yet the court lets the female off completely free.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 12:54 PM
-6

If they have actually been battered, what's the problem?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 12:19 PM
4

This is a tiny minority of sexual encounters.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 07:22 AM
7

Nice concise report. I like the two date thing for a lot of reasons. Kind of an illusion of choice.
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:51 AM
3

The Departed. One of my favorites. I also didn't click the link :P
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:07 AM
1

If she was Jean Grey she could read your mind. Didn't think of that, did ya?
/r/seduction29/07/13 01:50 AM
1

I can articulate why someone is wrong quite well :P Certain issues don't have a debate. There isn't a real argument for being against something like gay rights. I wouldn't just agree to disagree.
/r/seduction20/07/13 08:45 AM
1

Totally agree that there is a time and a place. Definitely certain topics I really can't see myself respectfully disagreeing on haha.
/r/seduction20/07/13 08:19 AM
23

Religion, Politics and Abortion can be good topics to discuss if you wanna do some heavy filtering and/or have an intellectual conversation.
/r/seduction20/07/13 07:12 AM
3

In a sea of nails, the author is a hammer. I wish I read this article like 8 months ago. Just kinda recently I realized I was chasing someone I didn't even really want and stopped. Life is a lot better now.
/r/seduction13/07/13 04:19 AM
3

I meant more for the environment.
/r/seduction10/07/13 01:37 PM
47

Are you breaking open glow sticks, pouring the contents onto the balls and then hitting them into a lake? Please don't do that. The shit inside glow sticks is toxic or acidic and is awful for anything living. Source: I killed plants by pouring glow stick juice on them as a child.
/r/seduction10/07/13 09:51 AM
26

This is incredibly lame to me.
/r/seduction03/07/13 03:10 PM
3

Different flaws in each gender. Based on this post alone I'm sure you are a gem.
/r/seduction01/07/13 07:01 AM
6

How does this make them lucky? They simply use online resources because it takes the guess work out of finding out someone's orientation. Imagine being a gay/bi woman who is into lipstick Lesbians. Would be much more difficult to find a partner than most.
/r/seduction01/07/13 02:22 AM
2

Gets harder/impossible if you are an atheist and/or you didn't go to college :P
/r/seduction01/07/13 02:19 AM
13

I really liked your shit test responses. I'll keep em in mind.
/r/seduction17/06/13 09:06 AM
43

"Hey your an asshole!" You should have teased her on her incorrect use of you're :P
/r/seduction17/06/13 08:56 AM
0

You are an excellent writer. Your post so eloquently reinforced my mindset. Thank you.
/r/seduction16/06/13 11:41 PM
4

I'm guessing she texted her friend to come rescue her. He was dead in the water the moment she decided to do that.
/r/seduction08/06/13 06:58 PM
5

Misused. Her being a girl is relevant here and not a cry for attention.
/r/seduction30/05/13 03:20 AM
6

I'm afraid people won't know you are joking... I hope you are joking. Note: I'm a huge fan of finger banging while making out, but this is a guide for a first kiss ;P
/r/seduction30/05/13 03:19 AM
24

Exactly. Very well said. Confirmation bias is huge and what I meant by a "statistical fallacy".
/r/seduction15/05/13 03:30 PM
8

If women are "idiots", then men are idiots as well, just in different ways.
/r/seduction15/05/13 03:29 PM
213

While this is good advice. And he makes a tons of good points. This is still bad advice for trying to establish a relationship with a high quality woman. Many women are loyal, he is just reeling in the ones who are not. A statistical fallacy on his part. Then again... even as I type this I'm questioning what I believe. I feel like so many people aren't even loyal or good, they are just cowards to do what they want. Cowardice stops them, not morals.
/r/seduction15/05/13 01:55 PM
3

My wording was harsh. Your tone came across as arrogant to me. Kind of a false bravado maybe. I did enjoy the read though.
/r/seduction11/05/13 04:38 PM
1

Anyone else think OP sounds like an immature tool? So much of what I read in this sub is not stuff I wanna emulate. Filter, filter, filter.
/r/seduction11/05/13 10:09 AM
3

Abundance of girls. Losing a girl you like doesn't mean you have nothing it means you have something different.
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:42 AM
0

I was joking. I've seen the same advice I've posted a few dozen times without this much butthurt'ery.
/r/seduction06/04/13 03:35 AM
-14

First thing I would do is be attractive. Oh and remember, don't be unattractive. Edit: Lighten up neck beards. Topic is stupid and most advice had already been given.
/r/seduction05/04/13 04:08 PM
8

A great read. Literally read it with my ex in my periphs less than 20 feet away (we work together) :P This would have been more helpful to read last year when she crushed my heart, although I might have just ignored the advice.
/r/seduction22/03/13 08:22 AM
2

I feel like you will be kicking yourself over this later. Had you been escalating kino? That makes the tension more obvious and the transition to kissing more natural.
/r/seduction21/03/13 10:09 AM
41

Kind post?
/r/seduction16/03/13 06:58 PM
27

I gotta start thinking the "accidental" things girls do are actually intentional more often. Also, these all increase my interest in a girl.
/r/seduction13/03/13 06:57 PM
2

"Take what makes you weak and let it make you strong." -Darth Bane
/r/seduction04/03/13 11:40 AM
4

A friend's girlfriend? That's a no. A girl in a relationship? Less likely to pursue, but not gonna turn down advances generally.
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:29 AM
37

There's gotta be a way to be like "not for long." without sounding like you are gonna rape her. Too tired atm :P
/r/seduction03/03/13 11:37 AM
12

This isn't always the case. I've seen the "Mean Girls" scenario play out many times. Some girls don't get along with many girls because other girls treat them like shit. Often, for no other reason than jealousy/envy.
/r/seduction26/02/13 12:01 AM
2

Get some!
/r/seduction22/02/13 05:46 AM
25

This is a great example of taking what you've learned and applying it in the field. Gratz on your well deserved results.
/r/seduction20/02/13 07:46 AM
1

Tell her she'll be doing squats at the gym and after ;P Disclaimer: I'm not totally serious.
/r/seduction20/02/13 06:41 AM
2

Serious question: Why don't you have feelings for her? Fear of ruining a great friendship and not being romantically compatible are two very different things. Or is it something else?
/r/seduction16/02/13 12:12 PM
20

Ummm, that makes you the sicko...
/r/seduction11/02/13 12:33 AM
3

Approach Anxiety.
/r/seduction18/01/13 03:21 PM
29

Cringed
/r/seduction18/01/13 02:32 PM
6

There was a page 2.
/r/seduction28/12/12 09:20 AM
11

Send her texts about what you guys have done that you really enjoyed, but use it in a tone like you can't wait to do them again. For example, "I was thinking about that time we... (be specific and fairly graphic)... it got me so hard, I wish you were here to take care of that ;)" Things like "I can't wait to taste you again..." are also good.
/r/seduction15/12/12 12:46 PM
14

Simple: be her best option.
/r/seduction07/11/12 02:35 PM
16

Try to make it obvious that you are into girls without being off putting. "Your sexy little outfit is kinda turning me on." is better than "I love your hair/earrings."
/r/seduction06/11/12 08:32 AM
3

I feel like investing is a choice. How do you get your SO to invest? Don't they have to do it themselves? Things like requests often come off as needy and ultimatums can scare people away.
/r/seduction03/11/12 07:18 AM
3

Be as obvious as possible. Subtlety is not your ally. Give them a compliment that is blatant or shows you are attracted to them i.e. "You look hot in that shirt." as opposed to complimenting their shirt or something subtle about them being cute or something.
/r/seduction31/10/12 06:55 AM
1

You don't play with fire expecting not to get burned, but that doesn't mean you stay away from it either. Weigh the pros vs cons (as you should always). From personal experience I would say the flirting at work and the making out and fooling around on breaks/lunch was totally worth it. There was a semi-rough period (seeing her virtually everyday), but we are good friends again now.
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:33 AM
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You are kissing... how is a boner awkward? As long as you aren't forcing anything on anyone, never apologize for a boner a girl gave you.
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:15 AM
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