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| 1 | scenario: at bar this past weekend. hb7 was dancing in front of me. having loads of fun. She looked very approachable. But she was moving around with her friends. Pros in seddit, how would you open this set?but how would you approach? an example | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 04:38 AM |
| 1 | My two friends unfortunately don't really game properly. Lot of AFC stuff. I almost feel like their afc stuff is rubbing off on me and ruining my mindset in talking to girls and keeping a proper frame. what to do?yup..i agree. I am just going to change my frame, tighten my game up even more. And become the leader of men, i guess lol i am also going to look into seddit groups in my city, and maybe get in a session with them once a week or something. So i can fix my game up, and then when I go out with my friends, i can really bring the magic to the group. | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 05:48 AM |
| 6 | My two friends unfortunately don't really game properly. Lot of AFC stuff. I almost feel like their afc stuff is rubbing off on me and ruining my mindset in talking to girls and keeping a proper frame. what to do?fair enough edit: its good to get a good cold hard assessment once in a while | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 06:30 PM |
| 1 | My two friends unfortunately don't really game properly. Lot of AFC stuff. I almost feel like their afc stuff is rubbing off on me and ruining my mindset in talking to girls and keeping a proper frame. what to do?lol...i dont really have any friends who are into pua stuff. So i guess getting in touch with the local seddit group would be next best thing then | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Once the opener has happened, i am having a hard time transitioning into the conversation. its the next thing i say i find i am bad at.fair enough...but I also want to avoid being like every other afc at the bar who goes up and says "wow you are so pretty, blah blah" how can i do it in a way so that, i do let my intentions know right off the bat, but at same time, i convey to her (indirectly or whatever), that i will not let her beauty throw me off at all? an example would great. i just get better idea through examples. | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 12:23 AM |
| 4 | What are some great simple openers and what do you say next to get you into the convothis is so true. i do go in with a mindset to impress...but i should be going in with the mindset of who is she? is she cool? I am definitely going to try it this way tonight. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 10:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some great simple openers and what do you say next to get you into the convoand that exactly is my problem my friend. it is the transition into the conversation that i am having trouble with. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 09:44 PM |
| 4 | What are some great simple openers and what do you say next to get you into the convoThis right here! is my exact problem. I get the situational openers, use the location the event, surrounding or what she wearing blah blah to get something going. But you mention 3-4 predetermined conversations....can you give me maybe 2 you use? I don't go in with a plan, but maybe i think i should start going in with at least 3 things to fall back on if things go silent to help me get over that initial hump. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Once the opener has happened, i am having a hard time transitioning into the conversation. its the next thing i say i find i am bad at.I never use that line, i just copied and pasted someone else's line for example. I always go for situational openers, or a simple hi. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Once the opener has happened, i am having a hard time transitioning into the conversation. its the next thing i say i find i am bad at.i understand conversation threading...but its the initial stage i am having trouble with. lets say you say hi, what is your name? 99% of the time, girls will respond to that what is an appropriate thing to say next to allow myself to have options so that i can thread the conversation? I want to ask an open ended question that will give me several options, would you kindly be able to give me like two or three good ones i can use? i am new, and i need some direction please. thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice pleasei was thinking this too, because nothing else makes sense. also that is what my friend said too. But i guess the best thing to do is just keep going out, and let this one settle, maybe she'll come around lol. since we have common friends.... | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice pleasewell since i know the little piece of info that she is down to meet up. I just inquired about her schedule for end of week. I know its kind of beta, but I can only do friday/sat (since its christmas), so I was hoping she would be free one of those days. I was told to text her on sunday by the girl, thats why i did it, or i wouldn't have. But yea, she hasn't got back to be since my last text, so i am not going to pursue unless she msges back. Its very weird considering the context of it all.... | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice pleasenegative. but i do have another story for you. Met this girl on sat night, through a friend (girl) and she hooked us up...did my whole thing...made out with her, and next day apparently my friends cousin was texting her and the girl i made out with said that she would be down to see me in a non drunk setting and chat etc etc. Then I msged her few hours later and she initially msged back, then i asked how her week was looking like, so that i can get a better idea to take her out. But what do you … | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 01:59 AM |
| 1 | thought girl i met sat was flake after she didnt respond to follow up on plans tonight...then just now she msgs me...what do i do?EDIT: i used what i learned on this wonderful subreddit and came up with something to her response that she is going away this weekend and to be in touch. I replied: is okay, dont worry about. Have a fantastic weekend! I'll msg ya sometime next week. go for drinks next weekend. you know...before i forget your face...or bday :P I said that last part because I had a hard time remember her bday when we met..and she was chirping me for it. good line? critique? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice please2nd girl msged me jut now saying sorry shes been really busy and what time is show. i played it off by saying i found someone else cause i thought she wasn't coming....but invited her to drinks tomorrow night then she said sorry, work was soo busy, that she is going away this weekend, and she cant..but to keep in touch! what should be my response? thanks for help! | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:50 PM |
| 1 | thought girl i met sat was flake after she didnt respond to follow up on plans tonight...then just now she msgs me...what do i do?she said she is going away this weekend, but to keep in touch! with a exclamation.. what would be an appropriate response if any to hint at a future undecided date | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:44 PM |
| 1 | thought girl i met sat was flake after she didnt respond to follow up on plans tonight...then just now she msgs me...what do i do?i said that , but she said she is going away this weekend and for me to keep in touch! with a exclamation lol should i respond and be like...no worries. But you owe me one with a wink? or no msg or other suggestion? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice please2nd girl....She msged me just now saying omg sorry so busy, what time is show? What should i do? how should i respond? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice please2nd girl....She msged me just now saying omg sorry so busy, what time is show? What should i do? how should i respond? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice please2nd girl....She msged me just now saying omg sorry so busy, what time is show? What should i do? how should i respond? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice please2nd girl....She msged me just now saying omg sorry so busy, what time is show? What should i do? how should i respond? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice pleaseok so i get a text today from the 2nd girl saying oh i am so sorry, iv bee soo busy, what time is show tonight? i was going to take her to a comedy show, which me and my buddy had extra ticks for how do i respond? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approacheshow many times have you tried this? has this worked? please elaborate. I want to give this a try | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice pleasewhat would be the average time lapse before I send another text, and what would it be? I am moving on, starting tonight, but I think I will keep this number in the lost and found section of my phone, maybe in a month or so I'll send a msg? what do you suggest | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice pleaseI am hearing conflicting arguments on this. Some say text, some say call...wtf is the pua final stance on this? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice pleaseawesome responses guys, thanks. Ima keep soldering on. I guess I felt a little down, because these two were hotter than what I have done before so yea. Whatevs, live and learn. Its friday and tonights gonna be a good night! | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice pleaseat bar/club | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 02:28 PM |
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