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| – | [deleted by user]What kind of work have you done to embody this way of being? You just switch to friendly mode when you feel like it or you still have some kind of resistance? Thank you for telling me your experience! | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You must be really in a dark place dude, I feel really sorry for you Your entire belief system is based on appearence and you think you are stating the obvious just by letting your mind wonder about what a random dude on the internet wrote By the way I don't really consider your point of view valid but thank you fo using your time to comment. 👍 | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:23 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]This is eye opening. I guess I understimate the importance of being friendly without a reason. When you see things like you presented you actually feel more curious about others. Thank you brother | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:12 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]You are the one who started the "handzome" bait, ok dude, I'm sorry this is your reality and you are projecting it on everybody, but it's not like this out there and you should not adopt this mentality Just the fact that you are trying to define if a random dude on the internet is physically attractive or high value tells me you can't really see outside your box There are no opinions here, you just think you are spitting facts and I'm ok with it but please stop giving your perspective out as if … | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:03 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]This just got a big blackpill nest If you are not handsome you can't be shy Ahahahahah this is really fucked up To other guys who brought their experiences, thank you! Let's keep this real and bullshit free | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Of course, blackpilled guys Still talking about "sexy" and shit Downvote this too now | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 09:46 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]I think you are 100% correct about succeeding and needing the help of others , in most cases nobody is gonna help you, you just have to help yourself and if this implies asking strangers or getting out the bubble you must do it But I don't know if this applies to dating success too, I mean, trying to be outgoing at work to get a better relationship with colleagues can serve a bigger purpose, but doing the same with strangers in a context when you shouldn't need anything from anyone like dating..… | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 09:32 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I don't know where I said I have problems talking to girls btw the point is not going and talking to the girl you like or anything approach related. The point is staying secluded in group contexts if you feel like it or don't have anything to say or you just don't want to chit chat I mean of course you can't get to know people (not girls in particular) if you don't talk to them but what if you don't really have anything to add to the conversation, let's say maybe in a group of stranger randomly … | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes it's not going where I wanted, I don't want to carry the flame tho. Somebody isn't just getting the point of this. It wasn't about results but just adjusting a bit to avoid losing shots Do you want to share how do you "put yourself out more" ? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]As I said before, these black and white views on human dynamics are pointless. I'm sure I can talk for most people but taking my experience this is just false I'm not crazy attractive and I still managed to get attention when I acted naturally being silent | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:03 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]This is food for thoughts, you really hit the point. I'm wondering how much you can align to that spectrum without having to fake behaviours I mean, we are not talking about math, so hitting the optimal "amount" of needed extroversion must be achieved with slow little changes unless you want to end in the loop of faking What's your opinion on that? If you are an introvert how did you sort it out? I appreciated your point of view | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Great attitude bro | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes this is entirely possible, I guess having a bad or sad expression won't help, but other than that I don't get how if you are not super attractive you should force yourself to talk more. How should this help? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 07:14 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Is it worth to change your attitude in public (silent to chatty) to avoid looking close or mysterious? Or is looking 'intimidating and loosing some shots the right price you need to pay to stay yourself? This is the point It never was about not making a move or expecting girls to make it for you. Being silent doesn't imply being still. You can shoot your shots without being the chatty guy For those who are still misinterpreting all this just to speak your truth about the one and only correct att… | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 06:56 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Read the comments dude, I disregard general assumptions (as yours) made as if they were axioms You are assuming too many thing here and I just don't want to quote every single thing How do you know the reason I'm quiet? You are projecting your thoughts (about yourself) on me Where's the evidence? "I know that from personal experience" doesn't mean anything dude, I'm sorry. Knowing it means you tried fucking being a clown, you got x results, then tried other ways etc etc If you have this kind of … | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 05:54 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Yeah I was thinking the same thing, my fear is to attract girls who just aren't my type because of a mask which will eventually fade under my true self | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 05:42 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Comments like yours are gold, this is exactly what I was searching for, not for the hype (thank you bro) but for the trial and error I find deep in my soul creepy as fuck to talk more than I need to or to talk when I don't give a damn about the subject (or being ignorant) and as you said I hate when people start talking about nothing just to fill voids But I still don't have the (your) attitude to don't give a fuck and accept it. I faked being chatty a lot of times and it hurts | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah of course being quiet doesn't mean not taking shots. When I'm chill I just wait for signals and then I introduce myself as you said | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 05:34 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]This is exactly what I think but strategy-wise I'm still very open to new approaches | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 05:32 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Confirmation bias Some shy guys are successful Some "insert random adj here" guys are successful The point is understanding what works best and if it's worth changing your "personality" | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:29 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]90% of this comment is internet biased assumptions 10% reality, ok you are an introvert, are you getting more results being outgoing? Women are noticing you more? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:24 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Again, are we just talking about random observations or what? Are you an introvert or you have friends like that? Who said you can't be shy? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Is it your experience? My point wasn't about being approached, I wonder if being my truly self would result in less successful interactions than acting loud and fake but I must say I got random success in both ways, even if "acting loud" exhausts me. It's just that I get the feeling that being silent can be intimidating, resulting in lost opportunities | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if it's the right sub. But I am not sure what exactly this girl wants? Weird.Sa pro | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:25 PM |
| -3 | [deleted by user]Is this your experience? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:22 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Thank you man, finally someone talking from experience, I think we must discuss things from a concrete perspesctive and not just theorize I usually try to get as fun and "loud' as possibile but it just isn't my style and It takes me out of the game quickly. I mean, there must be a middle ground in our approach | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:09 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]So an average silent guy should aim to change his behaviour to get noticed? I don't think this would work honestly...it's forced | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 01:29 PM |
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