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| 216 | DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional".They like that women in that lifestyle are easily controlled, but resent and belittle them for not pursuing male-centric choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 41 | What women want...Not a 40 year old man giving out hoodies... but in all fairness, the girls he chases are probably still into that 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:29 PM |
| 7 | Repost: A man who cares takes action, a man who doesn't do not.Facts. It's usually always #2. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Birthdays before and after FDSThank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:00 AM |
| 12 | Birthdays before and after FDSIt's the most chilling feeling when the person who's supposed to love you treats you so cruelly. Glad he's your ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Birthdays before and after FDSThank you!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 7 | Why is it that men that call themselves ''lucky'' to be with you, or that can't believe you gave them a chance, eventually treat you like trash?No, but I'll take that as a great compliment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 10:40 PM |
| 28 | Birthdays before and after FDSThank you! Not letting any more LVM waste my 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 19 | Birthdays before and after FDSHappy birthday! That sounds wonderful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 188 | Why is it that men that call themselves ''lucky'' to be with you, or that can't believe you gave them a chance, eventually treat you like trash?When a woman settles, his ego will eventually make him believe he deserves her. He'll start to think she's on his level, and that he can attract a similar calibre of woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | If he wanted to, he wouldThank you for writing this! I just realized this is what I need to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:32 PM |
| 83 | Why FDS doesn't talk about Man-Pleasing.The more you try to please a man, the less he respects you. They already know how to please themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 07:19 AM |
| 3 | 21yo seeking advice--what would you tell your 21yo self?As a 22 year old who has been through similar stuff (but not as bad) you are 100% on the right path!! All those things you have written on post it notes wouldn't even have occurred to me a year ago. I don't have too much advice except: Keep doing what you're doing, and trust yourself always :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:05 AM |
| 5 | How to control yourself during first dateAlways make a plan before the date!! Imagine you're having a good time with a guy. You're a little tipsy. He invites you back to your place and you think why not, I like him. Next thing you know you're in his bed. You have to decide beforehand: I will stick to 2 drinks. I will not go with him anywhere other than the restaurant. I will not go home with him. I will take an Uber home. Write it in your notes app if you have to! Leave no room for serendipity- fuckboys are counting on you being flexib… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Men are so gross!! This is my ex’s coworker. I didn’t even know he had my number. He said he wanted nothing but then proceeded to ask me to come over 5 min later as if I would’ve been like “omg yes I thought you’d never ask! On my way!!!!!” Entire convo last 10 min. The audacity.The disrespect... I am disgusted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Being a forever fiancée is worse than being a forever girlfriend“Barack looked at me playfully. He'd baited me. It had all been a ruse. It took me a second to dismantle my anger and slide into joyful shock," she said. "He'd riled me up because this was the very last time he would invoke his inane marriage argument, ever again, as long as we both should live." And all the headlines are calling this cute and dreamy. How??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:52 AM |
| 5 | Appropriate age gaps?Thanks for posting this! I posted a warning about age gaps today and I was thinking of this too. I recently met a 28 year old, I'm 22. I'm not looking to get married/serious anytime soon. Is 6 years too much at my age? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:28 AM |
| 21 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...You should be bookish and demure, but can't be too ambitious! If you're at school for anything other than you MRS degree you're ""low quality"" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:04 AM |
| 93 | Do not ever, ever put yourself into the situation where your last friend is your boyfriendThis happened to me. I neglected my friendships and made him my world. But instead of exploiting me, my ex grew to resent me being so dependent on him. He took everything I did for granted, and tried to leave because he thought he could do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:04 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.Always, always go with your gut! Honor your instincts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 45 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.A girl in her early 20s was asking about dating men in their late 20s, and how they think of younger women. So true. That's why men love women who don't know their worth. They're easy to manipulate and they expect the bare minimum. My ex was actually turned off by confident women 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Hate to see itThank you for sharing your experience! I definitely noticed the obsession with prestige and status. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:13 PM |
| 102 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.Exactly! They NEED to believe we're stupid and naive so they can feel smart and powerful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:35 PM |
| 46 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.You'd think they'd grow out of it... but no 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:04 PM |
| 48 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.No!! This is a comment from a post about age gap relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Hate to see itTell me more about laywers!! I just met a guy who does mergers & acquisitions / business law. Red flag? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:19 PM |
| 46 | Men who dismiss what you said and counter with their own opinionI have had so many men do this to me. Especially when I dated older men. Everything I said, every preference I had, every personality trait was wrong. It's like they gain validation from it. Why??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:06 AM |
| 22 | “I can’t stick my dick in your master’s degree”Sticking their dick is all they know how to do, so naturally that's all they think about. Imagine looking for a non-sexual trait in a partner, crazy right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever heard a man say his love language is NOT physical touch?My ex said quality time, but he always "needed space" and "didn't want to be my main hobby". I'm convinced he didn't have a love language at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | ❤️Don't even state it! Just walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:51 PM |
| 18 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!I'm struggling with this so much!! I've only been celibate for a couple weeks and I feel like I'm going to explode. But whenever a guy actually approaches me it's like...ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:41 PM |
| 28 | Men want confident women? Or insecure women they can exploit? Help me work this out.In my experience, men hate insecurity because it requires them to do emotional labor. But they also hate confidence because a woman who loves herself won't tolerate low-effort bullshit and manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:33 AM |
| 20 | Reason #104730194740107583947365 some men really suckThose men insist all college-educated women are in 6 figure debt for "underwater basket weaving" (ie, any degree other than engineering). It's a way to look down on women's work AND condemn our education. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:32 AM |
| 8 | For realI used to have "I like dark humor" in my Bumble profile. Guess what I got? 100% of the time, without fail, a dead baby joke. These men aren't very creative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:19 PM |
| 37 | Do I plan on ever responding? No... I’d hope you would have picked that up by now. BLOCKED."This sender is not in your contact list" As he should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 9 | Too many women retreat into gender roles because they're afraid of their potential.This was on RPW, for context. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 2 | How can anyone post this and claim this as fact?One of the reasons for men "committing" suicide more is that they choose more lethal methods. Men are more likely to shoot themselves, while women choose "neater" methods like pills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Thank youLove that for you :) It only gets more amazing from here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:48 PM |
| 54 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.Very true. In general, talking about bisexuality is an open invitation to men. They'll assume you're "freaky" or "slutty" just because you're attracted to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:41 PM |
| 38 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Facts. I live in a city with some of the most beautiful women in the country. The men? Mostly ugly, short, and out of shape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Oh. My. God. Are you frigging kidding me. How do these people exist!!??If you're successful enough to buy a beautiful lake house at 26, what do you even need a boyfriend for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 189 | And they wonder why we call them incels..."Just watch porn to understand this logic" That tells you all you need to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Guys Who Quote Divorce Statistics are the definition of “Glass Half Empty” thinkers. 45% of marriages ending in divorce means 55% of marriages don’t. And all divorces are not terrible.Exactly. This statistic includes third marriages, kids getting married straight out of high school etc. etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:01 PM |
| 5 | I was reading the comments on this video and I came across this!!These uneducated scrotes used their high school level understanding of science to invent the ""pair bond"" theory. Oxytocin is released during orgasm, so I guess the majority of women never end up bonding to anyone 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:24 AM |
| 8 | I was reading the comments on this video and I came across this!!Noticed this too! 90% of content here is so thoughtful and articulate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Peak ProjectionThese guys just forwarded each other the TRP page "Women are the most responsible teenager of the house" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:21 AM |
| 3 | "New in town"Yes! Went on a date with a guy like this. He would go to bars every night (during the pandemic mind you) within walking distance bc he didn't have a car. After we went out, he hit me up every Wednesday-Friday like clockwork for same night plans. But with no set location because "he didn't know any good places down here". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:16 AM |
| 7 | I got the most lukewarm apology via email from my sad excuse of an ex after he blocked me 6 months ago 🥴He couldn't even hope that life is treating you WELL, just okay. smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:22 AM |
| 50 | Pickme MusicI freaking love Lana Del Rey but her music gave me some really toxic messages when I was a teenager. I thought violence was romantic. "He hit me and it felt like a kiss" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Me @ my ex who always needed homework helpI didn't know this!! Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Pedophile incel mansplains pedophilia in my DMs after my last post.Sorry you went through that. It was the same with me, and so disgusting because he had a daughter only a few years younger than me. You're spot on. They go after late teens because that's the youngest they can get. If you look up barely legal porn, they wear pigtails and schoolgirl uniforms. They don't look like young adult women, they look like children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 12:07 AM |
| 36 | Pedophile incel mansplains pedophilia in my DMs after my last post.From 17-19 I dated a guy in his 40s who I consider a pedophile, so there :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 09:45 PM |
| 136 | Me @ my ex who always needed homework helpHe later ended up dumping me, in part because I "always needed help with school and work" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:58 PM |
| 72 | Because a wife should be subservient to her husbandWilling to bet this guy believes in "American values" and "life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness". Just not for wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 6 | What If Friendship, Not Marriage, Was at the Centre of Life?My ex was my best friend. I moved around a lot my whole life so I don't have any lifelong friends. It definitely made me latch on to a partner to fulfill my loneliness. It was devastating when that ended but thankfully my girlfriends helped me pick up the pieces <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:41 AM |
| 7 | When a man truly loves a woman, he’ll show her and do everything in the bright of day to make her day feel special. When a man truly cares about a women, he’ll do everything in his will to make sure she’s safe and protected.Luckily, when we love ourselves, we can feel the same appreciation and specialness on our own 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:07 AM |
| 15 | The scam of believing men will bring you fulfillment<3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:37 PM |
| 154 | The scam of believing men will bring you fulfillmentThanks for sharing, I went through the same exact thing. Sometimes I think about what life would be like if I married my ex and had kids in my 20s like I wanted. Imagine the despair I'd feel when I realized becoming a mom and wife wasn't the answer. Thank God for the joy of single life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Another Prime example of lvm missing the entire point of this sub....what else is newThe fact that there are people out there who think "sexism and racism against white men" is even a thing just.... makes me lose it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:52 PM |
| 98 | A man wanting to have sex with you does not mean he likes about you. Male sexual attention is abundant and low value. Also, the same men who are going bareback with women are also the same ones who will complain the woman “trapped them” if she gets pregnant and decided to keep it. 🤡This also applies to men who say "a key that unlocks many locks is a master key". It's not so admirable when all your locks are desperate and diseased. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 10 | Blaming women for their own sexual exploitation and somehow making it about how oppressed men are... just what?So the problem isn't predatory agents and porn studios making millions on naive young women, it's girls who sell booty pics for $5. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:21 AM |
| 33 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?Just take a look at the NYT wedding announcements and you'll see this isn't true. Highly educated, successful men from established families marry their counterparts. Only new money/entertainment industry type guys marry down significantly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | The irony of this post is that the comments are full of people saying that they had experienced abuse and were using BDSM as a coping mechanism. The lack of self awareness and denialism within the kink community is just astounding.Thank you <3 I didn't think of if it that way but you're so right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:44 PM |
| 10 | The irony of this post is that the comments are full of people saying that they had experienced abuse and were using BDSM as a coping mechanism. The lack of self awareness and denialism within the kink community is just astounding.One time a guy asked me if I've ever had sex with a guy who could go to jail for it. I said yeah, I'm in therapy for it now. Such a great first date question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:09 PM |
| 23 | Get out and meet people to find dates. Make a list of things you want in a partner, then a list of deal breakers. Most importantly love yourself, invest in yourself, take good care of yourself and realize you are deserving of love.Smoking doesn't seem like a habit you can just overlook or negotiate. Either way you'll be caring for his ailments in 30 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:58 PM |
| 131 | WTF is a SIGMA male? A guy I blocked had his friend telling me that he was a “sigma male”... I looked it up out of boredom. Sounds like a Beta with some undiagnosed clinical self delusion 🥴"'Sigma"" is how basement dwellers convince themselves they're alpha. They're obviously outside the social hierarchy by choice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:22 PM |
| 20 | Women in their early 20s are dating LVM/NVM because they think that all men our age are like this.It's true that a lot of guys in their early 20s are too immature for a healthy committed relationship. But the ones that lie and manipulate only get worse with age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:11 PM |
| 28 | After lurking on asktrp, I found that men there both wanna casually f as many women as possible , and disrespect the women they had casual sex with. So:I've seen RP men say they disqualify women for not having sex on the first date, bc she should be so attracted to him that she throws away her morals and boundaries. But ONLY him ofc 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:09 PM |
| 58 | After lurking on asktrp, I found that men there both wanna casually f as many women as possible , and disrespect the women they had casual sex with. So:Exactly. If we ask for a dinner date and wait for sex, we're entitled prostitutes. But if we Uber to their house after 5 messages, we're shameful sluts. They just find any way to hate us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 28 | Even Lauren Southern’s boyfriend expected her to pay for him. Goes to show that libfem logic is pushed onto women from all sides of the political spectrum. Yes, she was stalked and harassed like the rest of us. But she had been a 🤡 from the beginningHutcheson looked uneasy as his girlfriend continued to talk about her career ambitions. “All of us Europeans have the responsibility to reproduce,” he interjected. Southern looked down at her plate. “That’s a very cold way of putting it,” she responded. “Do you want to have a family for the sake of love or just because it’s a duty thing?” “Motherhood is to women as war is to men,” her boyfriend replied stolidly. “I want to serve my nation.” Southern’s eyes glazed over as Hutcheson kept talking. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:43 AM |
| 17 | Bottom Of Your Face - SNL Parody Music Video"He just want you topless, pulling up to his crib, swallowing his droplets" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:24 AM |
| 60 | Alright ladies! How many of you have been in a fight like this?! (The Break Up)Thanks for reminding me never to argue with an emotionally stunted male again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 81 | Age gapsIt's hard to understand how creepy age gaps are until you reach the age of the person you dated. I'm 22 and I can't imagine having sex with a high school kid... gives me the creeps. Not to mention the men who were even older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:37 PM |
| 126 | As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments.I've seen men say that too. "We're not all creeps". But in the same breath they'll act like they're entitled to leer at our bodies because we're in a "male dominated space" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:15 PM |
| 536 | As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments.It makes me so angry that men think the gym is THEIR space. As if exercise is a male-centric activity! Where tf else are we supposed to go? Also they hate us no matter what we do. If we cover ourselves they're mad, if we expose ourselves they're mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:09 PM |
| 9 | So apparently this man is engaged but still has the time to write an essay on why FDSers are evil and entitled b******. If he was so happy, why would he care about what women he’s not dating are doing?In his world gratitude = never asking for anything, 0 standards, accepting whatever low-effort treatment a man deigns to give you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 44 | Finally people who get itMen don't think our work is work but they'd wither without it. Imagine what the world would look like if all the women took a break for the day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:08 AM |
| 6 | He's just "polyamorous" and "age fluid" guys! *sarcasm* (remember guys like this actually exist and they're everywhere!)"She is not allowed over or what happens isn't on me." These are the people that are starting wars and running economies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:06 AM |
| 8 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsI love that for you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:12 PM |
| 14 | How Many Women Were Taught (through fairytales or society) Their Worth Comes From The Men They Are With? Life Is More Enjoyable When We Have Interesting Experiences Ourselves.Same! It's the most rewarding feeling every to FINALLY be content with just me. Putting all that energy I spent obsessing over him towards my self betterment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:59 AM |
| 3 | The huge contrast between the hobbies/leisure activities of guys and girls I knowI live in south florida and will NEVER date a Latino, hands down the most LVM in this city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:11 AM |
| 108 | The huge contrast between the hobbies/leisure activities of guys and girls I knowI used to read TRP and they think men have "real" hobbies, unlike women who just do makeup and post on IG. As if men don't waste 90% of their time on video games and sports. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:54 PM |
| 55 | NEVER beg for a relationship! NEVER settle for off and on! NEVER take nudes!I'm threatening to do something highly unethical and illegal in other countries, AITA? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 05:58 PM |
| 126 | Hope she drops this pathetic scrote, rooting for the FDS-minded momCalling her "my LTR" gives me strong redpill vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:26 PM |
| 73 | Setting Standards for First Dates - OLDI just went on a Bumble date last night that went surprisingly well. He was very kind and respectful. We got sushi, appetizers, and lots of drinks. The tab was likely over $100. He was happy to pay, and said he can't wait to take me out again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 65 | The Coffee Date SidestepThe thing is that once you set the standard of effort for a man, he'll never top it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:09 PM |
| 7 | I can't read relationship subreddits anymore...This was me until I realized I wasnt the problem 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:42 AM |
| 163 | Boyfriend's "RULES"At this point, what does he add to your life? Useless, distant, and unavailable. I hope she realizes she's better without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:36 AM |
| 12 | You guys finally helped me find my worth at 16 and probably saved my life in the long run. Thank you. (this was so hard to write)I went through something similar at your age. I 100% understand how isolating and shameful it feels. Please don't blame yourself or let negative comments get to you. Blocking someone with a mental/emotional hold on you is NOT easy, it takes strength! Moving forward, I would suggest avoiding boys for a while and focusing on yourself. Rediscover old hobbies and try new ones. Care for your physical and emotional wellbeing. And remember, you can always PM me for encouragement or advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:21 PM |
| 27 | Beware of men who use idioms like "when I want to learn to fish I ask the fisherman, not the trout"The sad truth is that men don't think women have agency. They think we exist as pretty empty-headed creatures just waiting for the right man to coax us into bed. That's why they're so possessive in relationships. Any man can just walk up to your girl and convince her to cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Surprisingly valuable advice from my exOkay gotcha! No problem! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 8 | Anyone else not finding a home first date with Mac and cheese fish crackers that cute or HV?That sounds like a meal for a 5 year old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Surprisingly valuable advice from my exHmm, I don't know about this. Definitely don't settle, but any guy who "feels like he's too good for you" is probably a douchebag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:34 AM |
| 9 | "hitting the wall" is real. And it does usually happen around age 25-30. But it has nothing to do with looks. It's the age at which you stop seeking validation from men. And once you hit it your desirability (to LVM) will tank. It's a beautiful thing.I'm trying my best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:36 PM |
| 5 | "hitting the wall" is real. And it does usually happen around age 25-30. But it has nothing to do with looks. It's the age at which you stop seeking validation from men. And once you hit it your desirability (to LVM) will tank. It's a beautiful thing.I absolutely love that. I can't wait to hit the wall and start loving myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:34 PM |
| 75 | Found on fbExactly. If you spend time with a group of teens/20s guys, you realize their "humor" is just racial slurs, edgy jokes, and insulting each other. Women don't do this so they must not be funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:38 PM |
| 32 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?.04%. I have trouble orgasming with a partner but still. I should count my vibrator as a partner at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 15 | If a man sees doing something for you as a dreadful task, DON’T give him the time of day.My ex once said I made him do all the work during sex. Even giving them your body is a chore!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:47 AM |
| 38 | The fact that she feels the need to ask if she's an asshole...My ex used to do this. I hope she stabs him by accident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:10 PM |
| 6 | Important Points on Self-Love/ Self-Respect. Read even if you don’t think you have low self-esteemThank you for this!! I can really relate to being shy with my goals/interests and excusing it because I'm a private person. I realized that I can't be fully confident if I feel embarrassed to talk about my dreams. I'm going to try to be more proud and open next time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 6 | Types of PickMes and how to heal your inner oneThis is amazing! I'm childhood wound and bored :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:37 PM |
| 42 | MGTOW on Tinder lolIt means he was in the military, sprained his ankle, and now lives off disability while harassing women on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:33 PM |
| 158 | Found this on Instagram. The scrotes are justifying their creepy behaviour and the pickme’s are shaming her 🤮Men will fuck a McChicken, so how is she full of herself for not wanting to be ogled? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:31 PM |
| 21 | 🔥 Men will drop you like it’s hot 🔥 so don’t go soft for themEven the guys who do bitch on the internet aren't blaming themselves. If a woman isn't acting right, she's obviously a thot with high standards who just wanted a free dinner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:37 PM |
| 10 | Beggars can't be choosersYour bargaining chip theory makes so much sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:33 PM |
| 10 | Analyzing who HVW chose to be their husbandLove this idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:07 AM |
| 27 | Why do Christian Dating Coaches ALWAYS Women have “Unrealistic Standards” for men and we need to lower our expectations. 🙄 I’m tired of these Pick-Me grifters exploiting women in God’s Name.Probably because she and her sisters raised the 10 younger kids, while her dad never changed a diaper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:13 AM |
| 31 | Don't give them the time of day. Assume they're shitty untill proven otherwiseWhy does this sound like EVERY boyfriend I've had They were always the ones pursuing me in the beginning, but by the end they all insisted I was asking for too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process....Thanks for sharing that! it really resonates with me and confirms I was right to leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:30 PM |
| 146 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!Men are vIsUaL CrEAtUreS but the second a woman has a physical preference they lose their minds. All men want a woman with a .7 waist/hip ratio. But that shouldn't matter if she's confident and nice right?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:47 AM |
| 75 | scrote finds out his fiancée had one night stands in college and cancels marriage because he had to wait three months to bone her 🤡So four years of a relationship mean nothing compared to a few sordid stories from her teens/early twenties? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:57 AM |
| 9 | Anyone else deleting and redownloading dating apps?Yes! I swear I see worse and more disrespectful guys every time I redownload an app. I realized that it just disturbs my peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:55 AM |
| 38 | Not sure if this is appropriate for the sub, but I am scared and in need of urgent advice.The shirt is his way of trying to make contact with you. I wouldn't message the friend, because that's what he wants. Do you feel unsafe? Can you spend the night with friends/family? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:54 AM |
| 30 | This is why I’ll never put a dick in my mouth. Men have absolutely no respect for us.Honestly! What straight woman gets off on making other girls horny?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 11:38 PM |
| 5 | “Used like a human fleshlight, how do I move on??!!”So true! Saving this for next time I start crushing on a guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 10:30 PM |
| 14 | “Used like a human fleshlight, how do I move on??!!”I definitely agree with your theory. It could also be that we seek validation through people that remind us of our wounds- that obsessive longing feeling is our trauma trying to resolve itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:09 PM |
| 10 | If women wrote a list of dating demands like angry men doThis but unironically!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:56 PM |
| 72 | “Used like a human fleshlight, how do I move on??!!”I'm starting to think that crushes are a sign to stay FAR away from a guy. I've never had a good experience going after a guy I was crushing on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 20 | The absolute delusions scrotes will haveThe funny part is both those men look liken the first one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Men are the ones who trade food for sex.Notice when men talk about "free food". It's only "free food" when she doesn't put out. Because they KNOW the woman pays in another way. Nothing is free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:56 AM |
| 69 | Excuses so common we’ve all heard them.Thank God for that ending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:00 PM |
| 37 | In an ask men post, I came across hundreds of comments in a thread talking shit about FDS, saying no one here has a boyfriend or has ever been near a man, and that women here have only baby daddies and have no jobs. What the heck?I'd wager there are more careers here than on RPW, but for some reason they don't seem to have a problem with them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:54 PM |
| 47 | Ad for a pickme of his very own! Don’t worry 18+ only 🤢Who wants to bet that he's going to use this poor woman's insecurity to gaslight and manipulate her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:51 AM |
| 10 | Can I just share, ever since embracing the single life I don't have panic attacks caused by arguing. No one triggers my flight or flight unless I allow them. I'm starting to realize, how easily my significant others affect me.Same! I'm amazed at how peaceful life is when there's no man in my life affecting me with his every action. I feel so much more in control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 50 | They try to invalidate grown women because impressing us is harder 🤷🏻♀️According to University of Rochester: Recent research has found that adult and teen brains work differently. Adults think with the prefrontal cortex, the brain’s rational part. This is the part of the brain that responds to situations with good judgment and an awareness of long-term consequences. Teens process information with the amygdala. This is the emotional part. In teen’s brains, the connections between the emotional part of the brain and the decision-making center are still developing—and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:45 PM |
| 211 | They try to invalidate grown women because impressing us is harder 🤷🏻♀️Also, notice that 25 is the year our frontal lobe fully develops. These LVM can't handle a fully cognizant woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 68 | idk if this is the right flair but this had me dying 😭. No a coffee date is not acceptable! If you’re broke........ THEN JUST SAY THAT! 😭LMAO this plotline was impeccable Also how is he making 6 figures but has time to post on Whisper?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, if you’re lucky enough for this guy to ask you to get a drink, you’d better bring a stopwatch! You’ve got one hour!I took this test, and I'm an orange too! It just means we're " witty, spontaneous, generous, optimistic, eager and bold". clearly too much for a LVM to handle! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, if you’re lucky enough for this guy to ask you to get a drink, you’d better bring a stopwatch! You’ve got one hour!Probably because INTJ is supposed to be a cunning, rational, lone wolf type, which all men think they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:06 AM |
| 15 | Upon learning that a close friend of mine had died, I get this dm from a scroteDisgusting. I hope you're okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 28 | Epiphany on the "mEn aRe ViSuaL cReAtuRes" argument and the implication that women aren'tThis hits the nail on the head, I want to read his books now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:33 AM |
| 48 | Epiphany on the "mEn aRe ViSuaL cReAtuRes" argument and the implication that women aren'tProjection at its finest. Men are supposedly biologically programmed to need a VS model, but as soon as a girl says she likes tall guys she's a shallow b*tch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:32 AM |
| 57 | How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me?I definitely felt this way after getting rejected/dumped. One thing that helped me was looking at celebrities who got treated badly by LVM. If it happened to Beyonce, JLo, Taylor Swift, Katy Perry, it can happen to anybody, regardless of beauty/status/talent/money. I know it doesn't perfectly apply to your situation, but just know the way you are treated does not define your worth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:08 PM |
| 23 | Do you ever just want to go back in time and punch your former pickmeisha self?Don't punish her, she's been hurt enough! Protect her and promise her you'll never compromise yourself again. Teenage girls shouldn't even have to know about FDS but sadly this is the world we live in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:54 AM |
| 42 | Just a short list of demands from a cross-eyed man. Must be seXualLy oPeN.Why do these men have an obsession with teasing from brothers? This is the second time I'm seeing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:49 AM |
| 17 | Broke up w a man bc he couldnt satisfy my sexual needsPorque no los dos is the motto. Good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:07 AM |
| 3 | After my post earlier....lolWill someone save these poor oppressed males from doing laundry and risking money into a person he doesn't even know?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 25 | Pickmesha calls us InCeLs 🤡Learning to set boundaries and stand up for yourself in a world that raises women to be doormats IS big. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:03 PM |
| 23 | Hell, nahMen say this, but they will 100% lose respect, appreciation and attraction for a woman who serves them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:18 PM |
| 26 | If the man you are with is not worth caring for if he became totally disabled, leave.This hit me hard. I think my ex is a decent person, but I doubt he'd stay more than a couple months if I got sick/injured. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:06 PM |
| 39 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?Of course it seems like "most men" when you and all the men around you are unwashed gamers with 0 social skills. There are so many beautiful girls out there with average BFs, the bar is in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:03 PM |
| 75 | Please, just PiCk HeR already! The drive for male brownie points is high in this one at 5’11.... brave soul. I couldn’t sis.Does she think the shorter guys are going to be less into themselves or interested in gratification? Good luck hun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 126 | If he wants a casual date, then you should casually drop him ❤️That actually sounds like a really cute date. LVM could never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 11 | “I’m not a feminist for very simple reasons. I love being a woman. I love men. I can’t wait to get married and start a family and I’d gladly make @GTSFarmer a sandwich, every time. Feminism is a scam. If you think Lena Dunham and Kathy Griffin are happy — go be a feminist.” - Candace OwensI would rather be a successful writer, journalist, and actress than a maid, chef, and sex doll. But that's just me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:48 PM |
| 17 | I don't understand why there's so much normalising bad and unhealthy relationships with "marriage is hard" , "honey moon period" ,and "lovers spat" (I think that's what it's called)Totally agree. Same thing with those quotes that are like "don't just throw away your relationship, fix it and learn to communicate". It just keeps women doing labor for unsatisfying relationships where the guy probably isn't trying at all. When I started feeling unappreciated my ex told me it was normal when the honeymoon was over. 9 months later he dumped me because he didn't appreciate me anymore. Go figure! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 323 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑One of the comments: "If a woman is really into you it doesn’t matter what the date is." So she's supposed to be into him enough to go a fucking FIELD, but he's not into her enough to pay for a $10-15 sushi roll?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:43 AM |
| 7 | Incels new chart about women.Sunshine and top girl idk the text makes my eyes hurt 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:46 AM |
| 42 | Expressed attraction = objectification now?People will always make excuses for cum deranged men. It's not sane, it's just the world we live in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:42 AM |
| 4 | My level up / life goals! ❤️💅🏻💸💁🏻♀️Looks incredible, godspeed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:40 AM |
| 25 | Some insights you need to BELIEVE in before getting back into the dating zone.I'm literally tattooing this on my arm the next time I talk to a man!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Typical Scrote attitude right here. It’s not fair that I don’t get sex right away when she had sex with other people! https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/iv4itd/a_lot_of_cynicism_from_men_about_dating_revolves/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmfThis is literally the description of my ex's car lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:32 AM |
| 77 | Typical Scrote attitude right here. It’s not fair that I don’t get sex right away when she had sex with other people! https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/iv4itd/a_lot_of_cynicism_from_men_about_dating_revolves/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmfThey really think a woman who's had previous relationships is comparable to a trashed car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 20 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.Gross. I'm sorry your good nature was exploited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:32 AM |
| 91 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:Eating together is literally a form of social bonding, so if that's too awkward, you might as well crawl under a rock and call it a day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 14 | Do You Like Yourself When You Are Alone?Being in a long term relationship made me forget how to be alone. I had a rich inner life that sort of faded when I enmeshed with him. Being single has made me rediscover the girl I used to be. I've found peace and joy in the little parts of my daily routine- morning meditations, finishing a project, eating a good lunch, writing in my diary, doing my skincare before bed. I've learned to appreciate the stillness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:13 PM |
| 13 | Apparently there is little to no effect on men. Thoughts?Funny how both this study, and the one that says women's sexual partner count predicts divorce, were published by ultra-conservative organizations. No agenda there at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:25 PM |
| 5 | More wholesome content....my Leveled Up, LVM-FREE LIFE.Wholesome, I wish this for you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | My ex collage!My ex did this all the time!! I would say something quietly then he'd say it louder, and everyone would laugh. I swear we all dated the same guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 3 | My ex collage!Same!! My ex would brag about his investments and how rich his family was, but call me a snob for liking craft cocktails and food (that I paid for myself) 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:30 AM |
| 21 | Friends, here is my pic collage of my LVM ex husband. This was hard to do, but very cathartic.Thank you for sharing! It looks like you're way, way, way, better off without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:14 AM |
| 9 | How can I stop feeling like men are entitled to me/my body?I respect your religious beliefs. But since you feel that masturbation is sinful, and still tried to satisfy men sexually- it may have given you the idea that sex is solely for a man's benefit. Is masturbation or oral sex really less sinful than PIV sex? If you chose to be completely chaste and abstinent, that's totally fine. I think the problem is that you feel the need to give sexual gratification to men to prove your worth. And I think it is important to discover what you like. If not by your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 119 | Why are most men so unattractive?They know their societal worth isn't based on their sex appeal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:05 AM |
| 8 | How can I stop feeling like men are entitled to me/my body?This is going to be a long journey that no one can really outline for you. A first step is owning your sexuality. Remove yourself from the presence of men. If your religion allows it, discover your body and learn how to please yourself. Your self esteem and sexual energy have been badly damaged by men- as well as your own insecurity. You need to nurture yourself and rediscover your inherent value far, far away from this toxic sex cycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:03 AM |
| 9 | Maybe my smile is the only one I needThis is beautiful! I just tried it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Would love to comment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:37 AM |
| 99 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Pisces men are supposedly sensitive, but turns out they're only capable of caring about their own emotions 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:28 AM |
| 3 | How do you stop letting men define your value?That makes me feel better :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:24 AM |
| 2 | How do you stop letting men define your value?Thank you, I'm working on my selfishness! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:15 AM |
| 5 | How do you stop letting men define your value?Haha this is a great way of looking at it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:15 AM |
| 61 | Ain't that the truth."Women are all the same" yet all they do is play video games, watch sports, listen to Kanye, and lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:25 PM |
| 111 | They're insulting themselves at this pointAnd that's the woman's fault because? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 17 | Women having standards make them SO mad! The level of reach in this post is comical. We want men to level up, not ‘go die in war’ 🙄Exactly. They're only mad at women who want a perfect Alpha, when they actually value themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 32 | People on this subreddit downvoting me for telling OP to stand up for herself, AND OP FOR HER FEELINGS!! The gaslighting is next level.It literally makes me sick to my stomach when a sensitive, caring woman is told to minimize her feelings for some asshole that would barely notice if she left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 31 | Why Good Women Are Losing On Dating AppsI'm in South FL too, it's fuckboy and PUA central | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 52 | Posted on Entitled Bitch .... I just see a HVM trying to do something special for his lady.I hate how that sub is gendered, as if women have monopoly on being malicious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:05 PM |
| 26 | This whole twitter thread is priceless. If your current mans has said any of these, he’s an LVM. Link in comments."I was just joking" "You're still mad?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 29 | Bet he'll still want her to go half on bills and dates. lolSo she's supposed to bathe the kids while dinner is on the stove? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | I'm just focusing on myself!Friends, money, ass. Not bad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 9 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex dollYou're right! Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:02 AM |
| 31 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex dollThis is me. I still got dumped, lied to, taken for granted! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 27 | Why to never let a LVM back into your lifeGoing through the same thing. Props to you for moving on! You'll never regret moving forward, but you'll always regret letting him treat you like an option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 111 | Written by a man.Men really believe this until they meet a woman who bends over backwards for them. Then they take her for granted and give her the bare minimum, because they know she'll accept it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 152 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂Saw this on instagram. One of the top comments was a guy saying "we can't be a team if you won't listen to me because of feminism". So I guess they admit relationships are antithetical to women's dignity and freedom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:40 PM |
| 25 | "Act" being the operative word here. Anyone had this happen to them lately?Broke up with my ex because he was the ultimate low-effort emotionally unavailable bf. About 6 weeks later we had to collaborate on a work project. Suddenly he was supportive, respectful, gave me lots of praise. When I started seeing him again (I know ew) I demanded gifts and he was willing to jump through hoops for me. But in the end, my standards had changed, and it made him insecure. He decided treating me with respect was "too complicated". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:06 PM |
| 128 | This is something to bear in mind. The devil doesn’t always come with horns and a pointy tail. Sometimes, he can come in the form of everything you’ve ever wanted.The "good guys" hurt you so much more bc you let your guard down. With fuckboys you already expect them to mess up so you keep your boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 58 | Scrotes are finally starting to get mad at EACHOTHER for why they can’t approach womenMen's trust issues come from divorce and paying for dates. Women's trust issues come from a lifetime of rape, abuse, harassment, and commodification. It's not about "trust" for these men, it's about the power and ownership over women they lost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 319 | Scrotes' way of thinkingnO oNe iS TaKinG mY fEeLinGs iNtO aCcoUnT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:17 AM |
| 29 | Ladies with HVM: How Did You "Level Up"?I focused on school, worked 2 internships at the same time, and went out with friends when I wasn't studying or working. I started spoiling myself and adding beauty and pleasure into my life wherever possible. Every day was self-care day. All these things made me realize I make myself so much happier than my ex ever could! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 85 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisI hated that Jim got to live his dream starting a sports company, while Pam worked and took care of the kids. She never got to be an artist other than painting the mural. Some dude on r/theoffice said Pam was "holding Jim back" and I wanted to punch him. Imagine what she would have done if she stayed in New York and kept working on her art. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:08 AM |
| 47 | If I have to ask, I don't want it.Why do men do this?? My ex drove me insane with this. If anyone knows please inform me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:28 AM |
| 153 | Why do I feel like we all have been here. SORRY THIS IS THE LAST ONE I PROMISE! (Not my image: found on fb)Men are so stunted when it comes to identifying concrete emotions or qualities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:37 PM |
| 6 | I can’t stand complimentsFuck Graham 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:07 AM |
| 33 | Her reaction is so heartwarming! It’s not about the money, it’s the effort to make her feel specialNever settling until I find a guy like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:02 AM |
| 40 | “I just don’t feel like I’m good enough for you”Needed to hear this today! It's insane how men can be fully aware of their shortcomings and feel 0 motivation to improve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 29 | Can a man be both HV and an abuser?Cons: abuse and torment Pros: basic adult responsibilities It takes a long time to process abuse and learn to trust yourself, but I know you'll get there :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | How to stop thinking about men/relationships? I’m tired.Haha we all live the same lives :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manShe said she didn't like online dating because men fetishized her Asian/mixed background. Should have posted the comments of men being offended that "what are you" isn't an acceptable greeting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 14 | I feel like I’ve forsaken my self worth and future love life with idiotic hook ups and overall bad decisions.The things you did in the past don't define who you are in the future. You're so much more! Forgive yourself, be kind to yourself, and remember who you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 15 | But what is this?So a woman who's a lawyer dating a plumber isn't dating down. Got it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:52 AM |
| 23 | How to stop thinking about men/relationships? I’m tired.I can totally relate, before I started dating I was constantly daydreaming about guys and crushes. School and work are definitely great distractions. But it's really important to change your mindset. If you're like me, you get these obsessive crushes because you feel like there's something missing in your life. You see a really cute guy and instantly project all your dreams and needs onto him. But he's just some guy, another young flawed human being. And chances are, he's not going to give you w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:34 AM |
| 23 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manUnfortunately this was just in the DC subreddit. Men like this are thriving out there in the wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:10 AM |
| 36 | Priding myself on being low maintenance as a pickmeThey hate what they know they don't deserve! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 170 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverI honestly love the non-dating posts. I would much rather focus on my self-love than worry about what disgusting men are saying on dating apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:45 PM |
| 24 | Gosh! No thank you, I'm intolerant this bsThis attitude had me stuck in a dying relationship for 6 months, busting my ass to fix things and improve myself while he did nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 10 | Find yourself an anthem or a dozenSo true! Here are some songs that help me: Better By Myself- Hey Violet Solita- Kali Uchis My Future- Billie Eilish In My Feelings- Lana Del Rey Neva- Megan Thee Stallion Successful- Ariana Grande | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:52 PM |
| 23 | Did I do the right thing by calling this guy out?Definitely not an overreaction. Block and move on. He won't "communicate better" and he doesn't value you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 62 | How to cut things short or walk out of a bad/boring date? And how to speak up instead of being too accommodating?This happened to me recently! Honestly, you kind of have to suck it up and be willing to offend. You have to learn to prioritize your safety and wellbeing over some guy's ego. Practice saying no, I'm not interested, and I have to go. Learn to love enforcing your boundaries. One thing that could help is making an escape plan. Before you even go out, make sure you have set boundaries of what you will and won't allow. Come up with a couple excuses for leaving early. Be prepared to leave at any poin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:02 PM |
| 12 | Lying Awake At Night After Getting Played for the 12th Time Thinking Maybe Those FDS Bitches Are RightThis has been me so many times omg... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend wanted to break up and I’m feeling bitter.Thank you so much! I was having a hard time articulating what I need from him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend wanted to break up and I’m feeling bitter.I'm bitter because I feel rejected and don't trust him not to change his mind again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend wanted to break up and I’m feeling bitter.Thank you, you're totally right. I shouldn't think of it as a loss. It's only been 2 weeks, and he said he will bring it up if he has a problem. But I don't think he's ever done that before, so I don't really have faith. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/20 11:28 PM |
| 5 | Q4W. Is it convincing/coercing a woman when she says no and I say "Ok, if you are not that interested, I will just go with that one girl"...It's not coercion but it's extremely cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 06:23 PM |
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