quietpua Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	A seddit success story		quietpua	/r/seduction	21/07/15 05:14 AM
4	[FR] Outcome Independence, Observation, Conversation	Field Report	quietpua	/r/seduction	15/02/14 09:10 PM

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10	Five numbers in one night with this one weird trick! Note: This was also discussed Cialdini's "Influence" book: http://www.amazon.com/Influence-Practice-Robert-B-Cialdini/dp/0205609996/ Worth a read too!	/r/seduction	17/03/14 06:14 PM
4	My 6 month journey and how I've changed there is more to life than a daily routine of work, coming home, smoking weed, fapping to porn, then videogames until bed while reminiscing about what I had. I can relate. I did this for a year. It's a sad existence. I looked into r/Nofap and explored what that's all about. NoFap helped me tremendously. When you remove the crutch of pornography, you're much, much, much more inclined to talk to women. I still smoke weed everyday; it's come to a point where I NEED my fix after work. This is my nex…	/r/seduction	28/02/14 08:10 PM
3	Is it good to have no expectations when going out? I don't want to arrive there and become severely disappointed if I don't see any cute girls at all or if most of the girls there are really clique-ish and are not open to being approached. This is the wrong mindset. Are you going out to this show because you like the band? or because you're out to pick up girls? A healthier mindset is to go out and enjoy yourself. Go to the show, enjoy the music, and most importantly HAVE FUN. If you go there with the expectation that you must pickup, then you w…	/r/seduction	28/02/14 05:17 PM
1	[FR] My first day in the field First, bravo for taking the initiative. The first (and best) step is for you to get out there and practice talking to women. Approach anxiety is, and will always be, a tough obstacle to get over. My careful planning all gone to pot. That's what usually happens when you overly plan your approaches. Remember the 3-second rule. When you see someone you're interested in, approach within 3 seconds. You end up over thinking or spending too much planning your perfect approach if you wait any longer. Si…	/r/seduction	27/02/14 05:37 PM
1	Dealing with girls that ignore you until you move on? I like this response. Don't play their games. It's a waste of your time, effort, and energy. Another way to think about it - Let's say you somehow start dating this girl. If she's already playing these petty games with you right now, imagine how shitty your dating relationship would be.	/r/seduction	27/02/14 04:19 PM
1	If you are positive a girl is going to reject you, should you even bother asking her out? How can you be so positively sure that she is going to reject you? That mentality is preventing you from taking chances. Ask her. The worst that can happen is that she says no. Is that really that bad?	/r/seduction	27/02/14 04:17 PM
2	So if you are talking with a woman who just got out of a relationship... If you decide to be her emotional sponge or her shoulder to cry on, you will be relegated to the friend zone.	/r/seduction	27/02/14 04:14 PM
2	How do you stop caring about individual outcomes? When she dropped, "I want to stay friends" that was your cue to stop seeing her and move on. You're catering to her neuroses, whims, or fancies. She obviously knows you want her (lowering your value). Which means I have to wait it out for a bit, and find the right time to make a move. This bothered me the most. You want to hang around and wait for this girl to stop dating (read: fucking) another guy and then swoop in and start dating her? The problem isn't that you're trying to overcome individu…	/r/seduction	27/02/14 04:09 PM
1	Re-interpreting Seddit Terms Why do you even care about posting this outside of /r/seduction?	/r/seduction	27/02/14 03:58 PM
2	Re-interpreting Seddit Terms How's this: Negging is a tool for throwing the girl out of her frame. When confronted with something she's not accustomed to, it allows you to 1. hold your frame better 2. break down hers.	/r/seduction	27/02/14 03:56 PM
1	How to obtain a feeling of value. "Indicator of Interest" Does she seem enthusiastic when she's talking to you? Does she touch you? Is she playing with her hair? etc	/r/seduction	25/02/14 10:49 PM
1	I get told (frequently) "You know all the right things to say, like you've done this with every girl." and they become disinterested. Definitely came on too strong. I'd treat the #-close something that will happen naturally with proper rapport. She may even give it to you without you asking.	/r/seduction	25/02/14 08:16 PM
2	I get told (frequently) "You know all the right things to say, like you've done this with every girl." and they become disinterested. Of course it's a fair point. Why did you want her number within 5 minutes? Were you actually interested in the girl, or did you just want to have sex with her? Women can see right through that.	/r/seduction	25/02/14 07:43 PM
1	How can I Make good girl go bad, she's boring me.. You say that she's chasing after you, but what do you want from her? Are you genuinely interested in her, or do you just want sex? If it's the latter, move on - there are many other women to have sex with. If it's the former, you've already stated that she's boring, what makes you think she can change?	/r/seduction	25/02/14 07:33 PM
1	I get told (frequently) "You know all the right things to say, like you've done this with every girl." and they become disinterested. Perhaps you're just unlucky with the last few girls. Provide an example interaction with one of them that lead to the rejection	/r/seduction	25/02/14 06:52 PM