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raimondi1337/r/seduction29/07/18 01:25 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction07/10/14 04:56 PM
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Field Reportraimondi1337/r/seduction14/04/14 04:10 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction12/10/14 11:38 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction23/06/15 04:08 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction09/09/14 01:06 AM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction14/03/16 03:36 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction14/09/14 04:08 AM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction06/01/15 03:51 AM
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Field Reportraimondi1337/r/seduction18/06/14 03:23 PM
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Field Reportraimondi1337/r/seduction30/03/14 11:20 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction28/01/21 04:16 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction15/04/16 03:05 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction01/01/15 11:46 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction05/01/20 05:45 AM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction21/04/14 07:25 PM
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raimondi1337/r/seduction09/04/14 08:14 PM
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The best time to buy bitcoin was 2009. The second best is right now. Statistically speaking the peak attractiveness age for men is 30, you're barely past the hump.
/r/seduction21/05/25 06:58 PM
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I have a friend that has great game, talks to everyone all the time, high energy, charismatic etc. If I'm hanging out with him, not saying anything for long periods of time, and then interject and talk over him once and he defers to me, so does everyone else for the rest of the conversation. Just something I noticed recently. So it's not necessarily that you're talking, but that the group is addressing/deferring you I think.
/r/seduction03/04/23 12:25 AM
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Tldr touch grass
/r/seduction17/09/22 07:06 PM
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Or they just aren't interesting themselves
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:02 PM
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Women do think one word answers get men's attention cuz usually they reply. For every Chad that ignores it, there's 10 simps that don't
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:01 PM
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You just have to suck it up and watch the occasional superhero movie, keep up on current events, go i that new restaurant near you that has 100 ads posted, etc. if you wanna be able to talk to normies that aren't interested in your hobbies.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:45 AM
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Fear of the unknown is a basic trait of sentient being.
/r/seduction20/12/20 09:21 PM
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Pretty shit advice, like saying "just be yourself". If you're not well adjusted it's just plain invalid.
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:50 AM
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Big fukken mood Attitude of abundance
/r/seduction11/09/19 02:22 AM
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The most sexual part of a woman is her brain Isn't that everyone then? It's a moot point though, most of the women I've slept with have been unable to orgasm without mechanical (vibratory) stimulation regardless of circumstance.
/r/seduction24/05/19 10:37 AM
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My point was that a male is physically incapable of penetration if he can't get aroused, unlike a female, but okay.
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:49 AM
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Vaginas are far more temperamental than dicks. Really the only advantage is that they're always operable.
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:19 AM
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(she can only get off with toys, tut tut) Just FYI that's pretty common
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:04 AM
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If you're confident it means you know what you're doing, if you know what you're doing you create value, if you create value people want to be associated with you because they think they'll get some benefit from being around you.
/r/seduction25/04/19 04:49 AM
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All right, we'll go somewhere else then.
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:19 AM
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>having enough friends to party with before going to the party Fuck I miss college.
/r/seduction10/01/19 07:52 PM
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I find that I do well in social situations after a busy day where I've been being productive and talking to people. Like if I've been running around all day and getting shit done and having to interact with people and I'm pressed for time and in a rush and go straight to a party, I'm usually on top of my game. If I wake up late and shitpost and masturbate for a few hours, then spend two hours preening myself and getting ready for a party because I have nothing better to do, then I go to the part…
/r/seduction08/01/19 10:33 PM
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I understand why she has this reaction, that's why I said it's unimportant.
/r/seduction23/09/18 04:45 AM
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My ex says catcalling is terrible and horrid and then immediately gets insecure that she never gets catcalled and is jealous of her friends that do. My logical conclusion from that anecdote: this isn't important.
/r/seduction22/09/18 10:46 AM
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Just got Addy script, we'll see how that effects my social life.
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:38 PM
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The threshold for ugliness is also astronomically lower.
/r/seduction25/07/18 06:46 AM
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If I get her number of Tinder or something I immediately text her with "Guess who". I thought this was a great idea - I've had mixed results.
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:35 AM
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"A gentleman wouldn't ask and a lady wouldn't tell." If she presses further "Why do you think I'm a virgin?" And then maybe just tell the truth. No shame tho.
/r/seduction09/07/18 08:05 AM
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don't fear fear Wat
/r/seduction04/07/18 10:01 AM
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Enough to get my blood flowing, 2-3 sets of 10 strict nose to ground maybe. First album usually, though recently I've been listening to random powermetal radio on Spotify. Sabaton is one of my favorites.
/r/seduction28/06/18 08:41 PM
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Pushups and Iron Maiden.
/r/seduction25/06/18 11:15 AM
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It's not if you're a decently well put together and adjusted guy looking for decent women. Some guys figured out some magic sauce that, when properly employed, gives chubby awkward losers the ability to trick hot chicks into sleeping with them occasionally, and that bled into normal dating advice.
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:37 AM
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their
/r/seduction15/04/18 05:14 AM
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That's just rude and most women will be able to tell they struck a nerve and you're insecure.
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:39 PM
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Omg me too.
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:39 PM
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tl;dr get some sildenafil citrate (generic viagra) and pop half of one on your way back to her place next time
/r/seduction09/12/17 10:45 PM
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Skinner Box neat
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:19 PM
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Yeah but they're much more likely to be looking for either a really good fuck, or someone who already has their life together to settle down with. Being a virgin at 25 decreases the chances of both of those things.
/r/seduction01/08/17 08:05 AM
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This is the dumbest shit I've read all day. Chill out dude. Being redpilled and talking like a cringeworthy anime antagonist is only going to make you bitter, unhappy, and undesirable.
/r/seduction01/08/17 08:04 AM
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I lost my virginity at 19 and it was very anticlimactic (hah), didn't really effect my life at all. But I'm 24 now and starting to have real adult relationships and real adult life issues. I'd say anywhere between 22-25 is when you enter the real world and your potential partners are looking for life companions and maybe kids, not experimentation and discovery.
/r/seduction01/08/17 07:59 AM
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I will never own a bed larger than full unless i become stupid rich or end up living with 2+ girlfriends.
/r/seduction11/03/17 08:56 AM
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As someone who was a beta and got friendzoned, then wasn't a beta and got out of it and dated my ex for a few years, then was a beta and got broken up with, then wasn't a beta and got her back, and then was a beta and got broken up with, the whole impressions thing is BS.
/r/seduction11/03/17 08:48 AM
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Yeah, going out is expensive. The only time I'll ever pay for a girl is if I know I'm going to get it back immediately. No cash for the cover? That's cool, just put the first round of drinks on your card.
/r/seduction05/03/17 01:24 PM
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act as you would anyways/did before.
/r/seduction24/02/17 04:34 AM
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Completely ignore the fact that she ghosted you, act as you would anyways/did before.
/r/seduction24/02/17 04:04 AM
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If she's cool friendzone her, she'll probably decide she's into you once you pull some other girl.
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:47 AM
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spicy
/r/seduction04/09/16 11:54 PM
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"I'm such a mess with love and sex, But I don't fuck around with my best friend's ex"
/r/seduction04/09/16 07:31 PM
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Your second point is called "analysis paralysis".
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:30 PM
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Either you're going too fast or ASD (Anti-Slut Defense).
/r/seduction30/08/16 04:21 PM
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This parallels my most significant relationship but is 10x worse, down to trying to open things up and fucking everything up from there on out part. Thanks for the boost OP, boy do I feel better about my life.
/r/seduction30/08/16 06:48 AM
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Yes, that's exactly what I meant.
/r/seduction25/08/16 04:59 PM
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A) There's something wrong with the way you interact with your girlfriends. Relationships are calculated neglect, maybe you're killing their interest. or B) You keep selecting (ending up with?) women that do not align with your wants. Maybe you're not noticing these girls aren't interested in long term relationships.
/r/seduction25/08/16 06:37 AM
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I think your post is misguided. If you care enough about picking up chicks to frequent here, you need to live in a city even if it's small. If you're not completely independent, that should probably take priority over chasing chicks, a topic I've seen addressed here often, because that's one of the biggest things to boost your game you can do. Nobody prefers a dude that lives with his mom to a dude that has a studio downtown or a house in the country - unless your mother lives in your house. If …
/r/seduction19/08/16 01:00 AM
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The average girl that thinks she's hot shit gets that notion from inside her own head, not external validation, so you can't really knock her off her own pedestal so to speak. She also sounds like a waste of your time and thus a non-issue.
/r/seduction18/08/16 06:52 PM
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Hot chicks get that constantly, you're just another Chad now, but unless you're one hell of a Chad, she doesn't care. The old school neg style pickup works better on extremely attractive chicks. When they're used to compliments all day every day, throwing them a "2/10 elbows too pointy"/"that gap in your teeth is so cute" breaks them out of their pedestal frame a little bit and may make them seek validation from you. Do that to an average girl and she'll probably just get sad tho.
/r/seduction18/08/16 03:24 PM
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Create a pet name on the spot, pass go collect double points.
/r/seduction16/08/16 09:49 PM
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I usually chug a cup of coffee, blast some Iron Maiden/Sabaton and do some push ups. Really gets the blood flowing. Talking to people earlier in the day definitely helps too.
/r/seduction16/08/16 07:23 AM
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Roses are grey, Violets are grey. I am colorblind. Lets got coffee.
/r/seduction26/06/16 07:54 AM
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Can confirm, do basically this every single time and took my last GF like over a year to notice that I did the same exact thing every time. Only eaten out a few girls but they all have told me I'm the best they've had - as much as you can trust that. Really the most important bits are a lot of build up, and remembering to use your hands the whole time. I like to act like I'm going to start, and then kiss down their inner thigh and back up, then act like I'm going to start again and do it to thei…
/r/seduction04/04/16 03:41 PM
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I do several large bottom to top licks to get my bearings, depending on how much of a roastie she is I'll use my hands, usually not.
/r/seduction04/04/16 03:41 PM
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The point is to just not try and hide your intentions or be sneaky/smooth about it. Pretend to accidentally touch her hand with yours? Do you think any natural ever has done that?
/r/seduction23/03/16 01:24 PM
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Not really, I don't like doing stuff like that. I'm not going to brush a girl's hand to see if she's receptive to it, that's beta AF. I'm going to take her hand if I want to hold her hand and thats the beginning and the end of it.
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:47 AM
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Ever seen Bo Burnham's stand up? He often segues jokes smoothly by addressing the segue blatantly instead of trying to actually be smooth about it. "Isn't it super cliché when a guy does the yawn thing to put his arm around you? You know like-" fake yawn, actually put your arm around her "Let's see if this is awkward or not-" take hand while walking Shows confidence and completely removes the pressure to be smooth.
/r/seduction20/03/16 11:06 AM
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I usually suggest coffee, but if either of you have a job you can't meet in the morning, so I switch to cocktails. x10 bonus multiplier if it's within walking distance of both another venue and your place.
/r/seduction14/03/16 06:17 PM
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Make moves son
/r/seduction14/03/16 04:49 PM
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I totally understand this. I don't drink IPA's or watch real sports, so the environmental factors I can talk about are limited. I'm not trying to sleep with them so there's no flirty shit being said either. I usually just end up talking about women or motorcycles with other guys. You ride here? What model Audi do you drive? Bitches man.
/r/seduction03/03/16 12:29 AM
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If you're just trying to have a good time (which you should be) just do it. Don't waste your time though if all you're trying to do is pull the hottest chick away as soon as possible. I'm pretty sure Style said "don't approach greater numbers". That's not to say that you won't get a chance to get some face time with the one you actually like, but you have to be interested in the group to socialize within the group, not just one person in it.
/r/seduction03/03/16 12:25 AM
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I got out alone semi regularly, mostly on week nights when other people are busy being productive members of society. go to bar order drink less than 25 people here all attractive women are with one other guy if I decide to talk to them I usually just ride the guy's dick a bit to give him some social proof in case it's a date end up playing pool with an unattractive girl or a guy usually It's definitely practice at being social and not relying on friends to be comfortable, and I get to win at po…
/r/seduction03/03/16 12:20 AM
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I got out alone semi regularly, mostly on week nights when other people are busy being productive members of society. go to bar order drink less than 25 people here all attractive women are with one other guy if I decide to talk to them I usually just ride the guy's dick a bit to give him some social proof in case it's a date end up playing pool with an unattractive girl or a guy usually It's definitely practice at being social and not relying on friends to be comfortable, and I get to win at po…
/r/seduction03/03/16 12:20 AM
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Wow you're totally right. You should get coffee with me tomorrow.
/r/seduction09/02/16 10:52 PM
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This happens to me sometimes too. The last chick I slept with was pretty hot, but she wanted me super bad and let me know it and after that I was just not into it anymore and felt no desire to contact her again.
/r/seduction22/01/16 08:58 PM
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Copulate.
/r/seduction11/01/16 04:10 AM
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He took this verbatim from The Game. Cheesy but it could work.
/r/seduction21/12/15 01:42 PM
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Throw in some cold reads to take the edge off. Just find something she wants to talk about and hammer it home. Be attentive.
/r/seduction14/11/15 06:11 PM
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DON'T FUCKING TALK TO THEM ABOUT ANYTHING. GO READ HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE. GET THEM TO TALK ABOUT SHIT. LET THEM TALK. FOREVER. THEY WILL WANT YOUR FUCKING COCK BECAUSE NO ONE WANTS TO LISTEN TO YOU, THEY JUST WANT TO TALK. I don't know why I felt the need to yell
/r/seduction14/11/15 12:19 PM
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This is called cocoon mode.
/r/seduction10/11/15 07:24 PM
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Get em.
/r/seduction21/10/15 06:23 PM
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"But you hate me why would I come over?"
/r/seduction16/10/15 05:43 AM
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This might actually work, thanks dude.
/r/seduction16/10/15 05:42 AM
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"What kind of a question is that?" Was my answer when I was a virgin. If they asked how many girls I'd slept with I'd say "None silly, my wiener is too small!" or something like that. I wouldn't lie about it, but if it's a source of insecurity for you, just dodge the question and don't think about it. Ideally, you shouldn't be insecure about that though.
/r/seduction13/07/15 06:28 PM
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It's an Archer reference.
/r/seduction06/07/15 02:24 PM
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Smile you dumb idiot
/r/seduction05/07/15 01:43 PM
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It's only a problem if you decide it's a problem.
/r/seduction24/06/15 05:34 PM
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I've done that kiss before but that's a passionate relationship thing, not a "this isn't a date first kiss thing". I've done the role reversal thing before as well, and would have again, but her legs weren't out, they were pulled in to her chest.
/r/seduction23/06/15 06:11 PM
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It wasn't a date, I just happened to be passing through her town on the way home from a motorcycle trip. I asked her if she wanted to hang out. She's living with her grandmother for the summer so after I took her home there was nothing to be done. I could definitely have done the corny kiss her when I say goodbye thing but consciously decided not to, because I've done that before and feel like it's stupid. Maybe I should have. I texted her the next day and said I had a good time we should do it …
/r/seduction23/06/15 06:09 PM
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What if I told you...
/r/seduction02/06/15 06:39 PM
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I would go to the tiny bar next to campus on a week night, since it will be mostly empty and I'm familiar/comfortable there. Explore on your own or with friends, try new places, take note of which ones would be good for dates.
/r/seduction08/04/15 07:59 PM
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One Simple Trick That Women Don't Want You To Know
/r/seduction30/03/15 04:33 PM
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I'm making a mental note of how to furnish my new apartment. Thank you OP.
/r/seduction19/03/15 06:39 PM
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Don't forget about your hands when you're kissing her. If you can't tell if she's into it or not, but she hasn't pulled away yet, pull her against yourself and inhale (through your noise you dingus) loud enough for her to think you're having a moment of wild passion. Often times it will get them going.
/r/seduction09/03/15 04:38 PM
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Start with lips only, sneak a little bit of tongue in, go back to just lips, more tongue later. Keep things playful and interesting.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:08 PM
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Screening - get her snapchat before you make plans to meet up
/r/seduction02/02/15 04:23 PM
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"You think? Lets find out." Kiss her before she has a chance to formulate a response.
/r/seduction09/01/15 05:19 AM
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Your content is correct but your tone makes you sound like a dick to the carebears that use reddit. God I hate this website.
/r/seduction09/01/15 04:59 AM
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The reason most of the community is social outcasts is because naturals do what we do without the need of a community. I think the mentality shift from when a man wants to stack the bitches high to when he wants to settle down and commit later in life is easily explainable by natural changes in hormones, particularly testosterone depletion. Once you have low T you lose libido and energy, and having a partner to rely on makes life easier and more enjoyable at this stage I think. Also, like anythi…
/r/seduction06/01/15 09:50 PM
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Depends on the people really. If they're the chill, sexually liberal type you might be able to get away with some raunchy shit, with a little luck anyways.
/r/seduction05/01/15 06:27 AM
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In the scope of the United States dingus
/r/seduction03/01/15 05:58 AM
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I have this same problem.
/r/seduction03/01/15 05:57 AM
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If you have the time to build rapport and have her get comfortable with you after you get her number, just keep escalating until you can go in for the kiss. This usually requires some amount of isolation and it will be easier after a venue change (maybe an 'instant date'). As for the F close it's all about not breaking states, getting her back to your place and escalating once again. Magic Bullets by Savoy goes over all of this well.
/r/seduction31/12/14 10:10 PM
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So what color of underwear did you choose to wear to seduce me with today? Gold
/r/seduction29/12/14 01:21 AM
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To play devil's advocate here, if she's willing to cheat on him with you, it's just going to happen with someone else soon enough. Not like you know the guy that'd be different.
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:54 AM
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He can approach but he comes off as needy I think even though he's not really desperate. I think his race definitely comes in to play, but I think it helps sometimes and hurts sometimes and balances out.
/r/seduction22/12/14 01:15 AM
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I'm a white male so I don't have this problem. One of my best friends is black though, and he was a severe minority in my hometown, so he grew up 'white' or whatever you want to call it, and has the same mannerisms as me and all our other white friends. He seems to have no problems with attracting white, black or latina women due to his race (his game on the other hand is another story).
/r/seduction21/12/14 05:27 PM
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I also do this.
/r/seduction17/12/14 07:48 AM
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repost
/r/seduction16/12/14 04:03 AM
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I have plenty of female friends. This is how it works. The closest thing I've ever seen to a 'tactic' is a girl saying "Want to come watch Netflix?" and just hoping that the guy will try and sleep with her. Short of that its making sure her favorite/best/sluttiest/whatever outfit is on.
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:56 PM
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Women don't usually need tactics. If they're attractive all they have to do is wait for a guy to come talk to them. I they see a guy the like all they have to do is open and the guy should take it from there. If they're unattractive it's the same as above just with less attractive/more desperate guys. Not 100% of the time of course, but typically.
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:28 PM
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It's not possible to ball too hard OP.
/r/seduction04/12/14 03:53 AM
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right in the childhood
/r/seduction03/12/14 09:56 AM
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How did you follow up? Did she respond later?
/r/seduction28/11/14 02:03 AM
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Very good content.
/r/seduction20/11/14 07:47 PM
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She invested in you by getting ready and being vulnerable enough to come out on a date. Stopped reading there.
/r/seduction13/11/14 05:11 PM
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The Game was more of like a primer and an entertaining read that got me into seduction. HTWFAIP was mostly deconstructing social situations so my socially inept brain could figure out that you aren't supposed to critique people/argue/etc.
/r/seduction11/11/14 12:55 AM
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read The Game read How to Win Friends and Influence People read Magic Bullets lurk seddit tl;dr got onitis as a freshman in uni, super bad like bad for my mental health bad. got over it. bought a motorcycle. stopped being a bitch. still working on being more extroverted and escalating properly.
/r/seduction10/11/14 03:11 PM
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I had never had a conversation with a girl my age when I had graduated High School. Now I close every once and a while. Progress is progress.
/r/seduction10/11/14 08:55 AM
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No. I don't go on dates.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:24 AM
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asking for sex asking for a kiss asking for a date asking anything not telling Never gunna make it brah
/r/seduction04/11/14 01:34 PM
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I hit her up just now: Me: I had a good time Friday. We should do it again this week. Her: Me too. Yeah certainly, I think ill have some time I'm pleased. This will be the first second date I've ever gone on.
/r/seduction14/10/14 06:30 AM
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tyrone biggums suit wut
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:49 AM
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If you have the slightest hint of abs, do Maximus from Gladiator. Do chicks still like Twilight? Maybe the guy from that.
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:45 AM
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There's a lot of ways this could go down. If you asked someone for a smoke and they took one out of their mouth and gave it to you, I would assume they were sharing. If they did that and then immediately got up and started moving about, I would assume they gave it to you. If they got up and started moving about and then held their hand out to take it back, I would assume that I was wrong and they meant to only share it. Point is, if you're being dominant, whatever you want it correct, and if the…
/r/seduction04/09/14 05:55 PM
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Yes, since that's clearly him giving her one and him letting her borrow the one he is using.
/r/seduction04/09/14 05:24 PM
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I read this somewhere a good while ago, seems to be spot on: You'd be amazed how well women respond to commands.
/r/seduction04/09/14 02:22 PM
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Not really seeing what your problem with this situation was.
/r/seduction15/08/14 06:49 PM
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Hobby groups. I ride motorcycles. I could go to any city in the US and find a motorcycle club to join. It's much the same with any hobby that is possible to enjoy with other people. The alcohol things sucks, I really find it annoying that everything people do has to be accompanied by drinking. I try and not drink at gatherings too but it feels out of place and people make assumptions about you, like you're super religious, a snob or just soft. I am a snob but not about alcohol.
/r/seduction08/08/14 07:57 PM
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L O N D O N O N D O N
/r/seduction08/08/14 02:52 PM
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I always have this problem. I usually end up walking around from group to group not really doing anything. I've found two way to get around it: go play drinking games, either get on the table, to find an empty one, get some cups and yell at groups of people (preferably women) to come play until you have enough people. girls love flip cup. if you know the host(s) get to the party early, like first or second person there. make friends with everyone as they come in to avoid feeling overwhelmed. Sta…
/r/seduction11/07/14 02:32 PM
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Maybe both of you aren't fun at parties and you're a great match.
/r/seduction11/07/14 02:23 PM
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"Oh I totally want to hear all about your ex, tell my everything!"
/r/seduction03/07/14 08:26 PM
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I've read Bang, it's got a decent amount of content for beginners, but Roosh is kind of a douche. Read Magic Bullets, The Mystery Method, The Game and How To Win Friends and Influence People, compare notes.
/r/seduction02/07/14 04:51 PM
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You're right, with her friends around I didn't want to go overboard on the kino. Even so, if B wasn't down I know A well enough that I could have crashed on her couch. Unless she came on to me I wasn't going to go for her, being my roommate's pseudo-girlfriend and all.
/r/seduction18/06/14 04:05 PM
0

"Oh I don't pay for dates, fight the matriarchy maaaan."
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:38 AM
0

That means she's thinking about having sex with you. Just blow the statement off like a shit test. "Oh I'm not that easy."
/r/seduction05/05/14 02:55 AM
0

None of the above, don't stroke their ego. It works if it's in the form of a neg I guess, but I don't really like to neg so I don't do it (ex. That gap in your teeth is so cute.) You can also say it sarcastically, even if you mean it.
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:51 PM
2

This is straight from Mystery but he says "Do you want to kiss me?" which can basically be the male version of a shit test if you pull it off properly.
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:48 PM
2

I would not text her the next day. If she's interested let her sit and think to herself "i like him i hope he likes me why isn't he texting me back" just a little bit. Text her the day after to make plans, skip the "I had a good time last time" part. If she texts you you can say whatever you want, but it's usually better to skip the small talk and make plans to hang out again.
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:42 PM
5

I like the two-dates approach that Savoy uses in Magic Bullets. Go out for coffee kind of early in the evening, then change venues to a bar/lounge. It makes them feel like they're already on a second date and a lot more comfortable with you. Ideally both venues are within walking distance of each other and your place so you can go back there afterwards for a second venue change and a possible F-close.
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:22 PM
42

This is fine. Women are rarely going to text you first. If they text you back at all they're interested. Don't fall into text game, only text her to make plans.
/r/seduction26/04/14 01:31 PM
5

To quote How To Win Friends and Influence People, "Take a genuine interest." I have the same problem, I'm faking it until I make it.
/r/seduction25/04/14 04:57 PM
5

I'm going to go ahead and disagree with this. Awkward kino is bad yes, don't force it, but good kino is important.
/r/seduction19/04/14 06:24 PM
3

Making it not awkward starts with the approach. Sit next to her on the bus, not across the isle. Sit next to her at the table not across. Touch her the moment you approach, this sets the frame that with you, touching is normal and not awkward.
/r/seduction19/04/14 05:54 PM
0

I did. She didn't know what the fuck she was doing, so I used my own.
/r/seduction15/04/14 07:22 PM
4

I had to get hard first, bro.
/r/seduction15/04/14 12:09 AM
3

I agree they have nothing to do with closing, but it makes building attraction, isolation and logistics so much easier.
/r/seduction14/04/14 06:47 PM
1

Hot Babe
/r/seduction14/04/14 06:01 PM
33

This didn't happen in Rochester did it? I might have been the dude arguing about motorcycles. Motorcycles > Women
/r/seduction30/03/14 10:33 PM
2

I'm going to use this with my phone interview in 10 minutes.
/r/seduction19/03/14 05:11 PM
1

I've recently been wondering about approaching at the gym. You see an HB9 on the treadmill, earbuds in, no one else around. What do you do?
/r/seduction24/12/13 02:51 AM
52

Make friends with her friend, sounds like a bomb ass wing woman.
/r/seduction26/11/13 04:02 AM
1

Unless you have a huge cock and she loves huge cock, you have to make moves.
/r/seduction02/10/13 07:59 PM
2

I was best friends with a chick for most of freshman year of college when I was an AFC. She flew home to CA for the summer, I spent the summer learning how to be a man, riding my motorcycle all over the country. Then I flew out and seduced her. We dated for a year. She broke up with me over this past summer. Now we live together and wingman each other. It can work.
/r/seduction02/10/13 07:35 PM
1

Find a way to do it without imposing. "We should get high and watch the Notebook. I bring the green you provide the couch?"
/r/seduction02/10/13 07:09 PM
1

Also, if you're thinking "I can't do that, that's totally out of character for me!", they don't know that, only you do.
/r/seduction27/09/13 10:15 PM
1

When you make eye contact, smile. Wait a half a moment. "Hello." She will probably say "Hi.", and probably be smiling. She didn't talk to you, even though she was obviously interested, so she's probably just afraid to say hi, just like you. Make it easy on her.
/r/seduction27/09/13 10:14 PM
6

Purposely become friendzoned is exactly how to do it, just don't go too far and be used/become an emotional tampon.
/r/seduction12/08/13 10:51 PM
1

I treat guys ad girls the same, depending on how I want them to view me. If I want them to like me I laugh at all of their jokes, make it clear that I catch their references, talk about the things they seem to want to talk about, it's all about them. If I want to close, I run game.
/r/seduction12/08/13 10:50 PM
10

Her: "The weather is nice today." Me: "y-you too..." it was my girlfriend, she laughed
/r/seduction14/07/13 08:32 PM
-1

I'm trying to attract a woman.
/r/seduction04/07/13 01:34 AM
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