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| 2 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP? | rebbit_reddit | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 02:03 PM |
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| 1 | What are the stages of dating?I’m a guy who is speaking from experience | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Discuss: SettlingThis is some of the most pragmatic but still insightful and practical writing I have read here. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/18 10:19 AM |
| 23 | If your wife becomes terminally ill to where she can’t have sex and needs you to take care of her. What are you going to do?I respect that. But for God’s sake put the fork down and get to the gym | /r/askMRP | 13/07/18 10:04 AM |
| 6 | What are the stages of dating?He’s seeing several girls. By accusing you of it, he is either projecting his own behaviour into you or he is trying to make you feel ok about seeing other guys because he would rather you were not seeing him exclusively so he can feel guilt free about seeing other girls | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | The meaning behind a predatory gaze?Having read your other comment, it seems you already know him. That’s even easier. Just say Hey how’ve you been. Don’t make it complicated | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/18 07:54 AM |
| 2 | The meaning behind a predatory gaze?If you’re in a group, move away from the group. Easy example is to go to the bar on your own. Turn your body part way toward him. When you notice him looking at you, make eye contact and smile. Most girls then immediately look away. Shy guys take this to be a rejection. So you’ll have to glance and smile at him about three times. If he still doesn’t approach, you can try just placing yourself in his vicinity and use open body language so that he can approach easily. If he is as shy as he sounds,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/18 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Solving The Manchild ConundrumWhat about getting all the womanchilds to grow up too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/18 10:50 PM |
| 24 | The meaning behind a predatory gaze?It means he finds you attractive and either : he is socially uncalibrated and just perving on you but is harmless he really wants to talk to you and is hoping you will give him an unequivocal sign that you’re happy for him to approach you but in the meantime he is nervous and in his head and that makes him look like a serial killer he actually is a serial killer | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/18 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Attention all women - Don’t worry, the men of the Red Pill have your backsNah. He means understanding what they respond to sexually and being aware of hypergamy | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Oral sex and me... need some adviceThere is a great video by Nina Hartley on how to perform cunnilingus. Watch it together and make sure you both get hot and horny while watching it. Tell him that’s what you want | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 26, 2018Go back and do the tree climbing challenge. Force yourself to do it. If you do, you teach yourself that your brain is always scared of everything because it is still a lizard only worried about survival. Realise that you are not the lizard. You can do whatever you want and fear is just noise. Resistance points true north | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 26, 20185’1”? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/18 03:10 AM |
| 80 | Have Proof Before And After SexStrap a GoPro on your head | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 02:09 AM |
| 6 | Wife likes the idea of me but hates me in practice.Divorce before the pay rise | /r/askMRP | 25/06/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Flowers and Forges - Never pull back the CurtainWomen have lots of potential. They are just not taught to value it or to use it. All a girl has to do is look pretty and she has value. A man is valued for what he provides - resources and leadership. Good looks are not worth as much in a man. So a man has to build himself so that he can provide. Sure, a woman can also develop herself and become knowledgeable and productive but a lot don’t bother because it’s easier to be an Instagram model, YouTuber or release a sex tape | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 12, 2018Respect is earned | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/18 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Is the reason for shit tests to change us men?Lucky there was a NSFW warning | /r/askMRP | 09/06/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I’m fucking this upI love her no matter what issues we got going on Wrong | /r/askMRP | 07/06/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is frame?Be at the cause, not at the effect | /r/askMRP | 06/06/18 09:55 PM |
| 8 | It's Not HerRealise that a feeling is just a feeling. Then set it aside and perform the right action | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 29, 2018In hindsight, a better course of action could have been to answer the first question (seriously or not) and then leave the room before she has a chance to issue the follow up question No. That’s fear. Fear of her response. It would be better to wait for the follow up question and then walk out. Or use AM. The real question though is why you’re so scared of her feelings and judgements. Why do have to fix her feelz? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/18 06:06 PM |
| 8 | Consultant?The Fat Controller | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/18 08:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Being a career-focused woman is a good way to obtain a high-quality partnerDoctors to nurses is more than one class down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 03:17 AM |
| 9 | What your wife wishes she could say to you but can’t because you’re a bitchI think a useful litmus test is whether or not you know what shit needs to get done. If you do and you do your bit and delegate the rest then you are the captain. If you don’t and she needs to tell you, no matter how much of it you do, you’re a bitch and deserve all the cuntiness she gives you | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/18 10:31 PM |
| 3 | iPhone X and blowjobsThe problem is Apple will keep changing the shape of the hole | /r/askMRP | 14/05/18 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Mothers Day“You’re a bad mother. And I’m a bad motherfucker.” | /r/askMRP | 13/05/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 08, 2018Nothing happens for a reason. Shit happens and then we retrospectively assign meaning to it. A more positive way of looking at it is that no matter what shit happens, we are able to deal with it and learn from it and it often helps to shift our perspective so that we can see other opportunities. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/05/18 12:34 AM |
| 4 | Caught out...“You don’t need that darling” “It’s not for me. It’s for my girlfriend” But seriously. I think it’s a good sign that she fucked you. If she had acted disgusted and not fucked you it would mean that she thought you were pathetic. The fact that she fucked you means that either she thinks you’re wanting to become more masculine for another woman and she feels the dread it else she is imagining what you’ll be like in 31 days and she is turned on by that | /r/askMRP | 09/05/18 12:36 PM |
| 5 | Holding Frame = TinglesNot sure if you’ve misunderstood the quote. Women want a man who can’t be hurt by her. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Isn't the use of the word "toxic masculinity" already toxic itself?Thanks for saving me the time of writing all this. I fully agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | How can a marriage with with a "dead bedroom" be avoided?I’d rather be fucked because my partner thought I was hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Toronto Man pledges allegiance to Incel rebellion and kills 10 people in terrorist attackBeing conniving, passive-aggressive, manipulative, emotionally abusive, neurotic and irrational is being extra feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 07:45 PM |
| 10 | Toronto Man pledges allegiance to Incel rebellion and kills 10 people in terrorist attackWell then, it should be called insecurity. Women also feel insecurity and express it in undesirable ways. Why is this not called toxic femininity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 02:47 AM |
| 2 | 60 DoD 2018 - Week 4: StyleDon’t let the wife buy any of your clothes. It’s Sahara-inducing | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/18 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Sex is a nightmareIs there a chance he’s cheating on you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How honest are women being when they say they don't mind male vulnerability? Do women emotionally burden men as frequently as men do for women?Have they ever reacted by getting their panties wet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Do You Ever Find it Confusing When Some Women Don't Fit The Red Pill "Narrative"?She probably knew him for years through her social circle. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/18 05:47 AM |
| 3 | How can I be most effective in the gym starting from nothing?Go and lift and your finger won’t be so fat | /r/askMRP | 07/04/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Five months in - lessons learntWhy do you think it’s called Imperial? British Empire. The question is why do Americans use the system that they fought so hard to become independent from | /r/askMRP | 31/03/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What your confidence should be based onGreat post. I think that a lot of what you are referring to is what I think of as “frame”. A game changer for me was realising that confidence doesn’t mean knowing that you’ll be good at something. Confidence is knowing that whatever the outcome is, you’ll be able to deal with it | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/03/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018Use the Headspace app. 20 minute guided sessions | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/03/18 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018I thought you meant 8”. I’ve been getting a range of responses | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/03/18 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018It was kind of like hovering above our relationship and seeing some of the dynamics play out in an objective way There is no spoon. Meditation also helps. A thought is just a thought. A feeling is just a feeling. The real you can sit back and observe the whirlwind of thoughts and emotions and maintain clarity to choose the best next step | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/03/18 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Mad at me for taking a shitIt’s not the nail | /r/askMRP | 23/03/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018Feels really stupid though - x marks the spot! Pretend it’s Mia Wallace | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Laundry shit test...Chad ate the sixth one | /r/askMRP | 16/03/18 05:17 AM |
| 2 | How can I help my husband find his alpha side?Sign him up for a sport. It’ll get him exercising and put him around men | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/18 06:54 PM |
| 6 | FR Wifes Birthday successA bag of skittles would have been easier | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/18 07:55 PM |
| 22 | Field report it started with a toothbrushIf a girl just brought spices over to “improve” my kitchen I’d be a bit annoyed. I don’t need people treating me like a kid and deciding for me what I should have in my kitchen. However, if a girl came over and cooked a meal for us and we had a romantic night in and then she left the spices there, I would think of her every time I saw, smelt or tasted those spices. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/02/18 03:15 PM |
| 3 | How to be rough in bed with your guy?I thought you meant using teeth during a blowjob. Carry on. Dominance isn’t about a particular position or act though. It’s about exerting sexual power over someone so that they submit | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How to be rough in bed with your guy?On the off chance you’re not a troll I just wanted to say don’t use teeth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | about HTWFAIPhttps://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/6xtatj/is_how_to_win_friends_and_influence_people_really/ | /r/askMRP | 15/02/18 11:45 AM |
| 1 | I can’t find my mission...There doesn’t have to be a specific end goal. It’s more about looking at each aspect of your life - career, parenting, social life, fitness, diet, relationship/s, finances, knowledge, music, hobbies, etc - and trying to get better at them all every day. For each one you can set a ten year goal or just a one year or six month goal. But every goal has to be broken down into steps and you take a step every day. | /r/askMRP | 11/02/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 06, 2018So you finally noticed. Hi, I’m Steve, your husband’s body double. I’m the one with the stunt cock | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/02/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | I am being stalked, what should I do?Bravo. Poetry and wit. That was awesome | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/02/18 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Always be willing to approachWhat you have to keep at the forefront of your mind is that the vast majority of girls are bored and they are just hoping that a high value guy will approach them. You don’t need a sophisticated opening line. You don’t need a plausible reason. You just need to say hi. She’s dying for you to talk to her. If she’s at all interested she’ll give you 30 seconds. Use that to buy a minute. Use that to buy five minutes. If you get to five minutes she’ll at least give you her number. When you’re talking … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/02/18 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Always be willing to approachProbably both. It depends on his subcommunications. If, in her mind, he is a nice guy who is nice enough to be nice and nicely help her choose a router or improve her deadlifts, then it’s an indirect, covert nice guy approach. If, on the other hand, she can tell by the way he looks at her with sexual intent that he is interested in her sexually then he can say whatever she wants and it’s “direct indirect”. I tend to use something direct like “Hi. I saw you and you [look elegant in that dress/hav… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/18 09:11 PM |
| 12 | Always be willing to approachDon’t hide behind an indirect approach | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/18 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Unknowingly dreading a world class hamster. Need adviceHave you read No More Mr Nice Guy? Does it apply to you? | /r/askMRP | 08/02/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | That was a really strange response from her. Especially the fact that whatever she felt was so intense that she had to leave the room. Either 1. She felt guilty because she is doing something dodgy on Facebook, in which case you just check the messages she has been sending and you search in Facebook to see if she has her own account 2. She spoke out and was afraid of your response, which suggests you’re treating her like a lowly deckhand, rather than a First Officer | /r/askMRP | 01/02/18 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 23, 2018For day game, YouTube Tom Torero, Todd V Dating, the Natural Lifestyles | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/18 12:21 PM |
| 4 | Teach me your ways!Anyway, there is no spoon | /r/askMRP | 22/01/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | On the Topic of PornographyWatching porn is like watching a sci-fi action flick. Professional actors, multiple takes. Probably green screen effects, body doubles and stuntmen. He probably jerked off before filming and took three viagra. Maybe has numbing cream on his dick. Maybe he came three times while he was fuckig her or it was filmed over three days and they edited it all into one video. If you don’t last long enough, practise edging to learn to control it. Consider practising with a Fleshlight | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/18 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Noob third child issue37 years old. Apart from the increased risk of Down’s syndrome, there’s also a higher risk of having twins | /r/askMRP | 19/01/18 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Make post sex an intimacy reward for her.Instructions unclear. Got dick stuck in flowers | /r/askMRP | 19/01/18 08:18 AM |
| 0 | On the Topic of PornographyUsername checks out | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/01/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Please and "thank you", asking vs. telling?Presentation and tone. Which can further be broken down into posture, physical size and appearance, frame, self confidence, eye contact, “breaking rapport” tonality, sub communications, etc As they say, the actual words are only (insert small number here) percent of communication. | /r/askMRP | 16/01/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Please and "thank you", asking vs. telling?The cop pulls you over and says “Please show me your licence, sir” | /r/askMRP | 16/01/18 08:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Our first time out as a teamHaha! Ok. Just checking. Thought you’d had a stroke | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Our first time out as a team“This has made you realise that you only need her” ?? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/18 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 02, 2018And be aware that a can of beer is 1.4 drinks, not 1 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/01/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | New BF [m, 29] is a relatively quiet guy and I [f, 27] am not really used to it. But I don't want to overthink things!You shouldn’t be looking for someone to ”complete” you. You should work on making yourself a complete person and then find another complete person that you choose to be with | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/18 04:02 AM |
| 8 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 02, 2018Put your arms out like Da Vinci’s vitruvian man. Bring your arms up until your hands touch at the top. Lower them to your side. The position you are in now is the perfect posture | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/01/18 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Can we add this to the sidebar?http://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/fanon-discontinuity_xkcd4_9883.png | /r/askMRP | 29/12/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 26, 2017Rather than trying to get rid of a habit, it’s easier to replace the bad habit with a good one. Work out what it is that triggers the desire to smoke. Find the earliest trigger. Decide on a good habit. As soon as you become aware that the trigger has triggered, do the good habit. After a while, it becomes automatic and the good habit replaces the bad | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/17 05:11 PM |
| 3 | The meaning?This is Seligman’s TEDtalk. He’s disappointing as a speaker but it’s still worth listening to https://youtu.be/9FBxfd7DL3E From memory, this was better. https://youtu.be/4q1dgn_C0AU There’s a book called Search Inside Yourself, a google engineer’s approach to self mastery and then mastery over others which is very good. It’s like 7 Habits of Effective People mixed with mindfulness and positive psychology. Edit: added second link | /r/askMRP | 26/12/17 11:36 PM |
| 3 | The meaning?Don’t worry, you’re not a special snowflake. Early 20s is when a lot of people realise that life isn’t all Hollywood and fairytales. Your brain is only fully developed at 25 so you’re just becoming fully conscious. Life is essentially meaningless. We are born. We bitch and moan for 80 years. We die. From an individualistic point of view, most of our life is taken up by trying to find happiness, or at least contentment. Martin Seligman has done a lot of research into this and says that happiness … | /r/askMRP | 26/12/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I Always end up losing power in relationships?You sound adorable | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Knee Pain(Note : this is advice I'm giving without examining your spine myself and looking at your imaging, so weigh it up for yourself) I would think that any exercises that do not produce excessive compression or torsion forces on the spine would be fine. Weights machines don't engage secondary stabilisers as much but for most of us, as long as you're loading your muscles regularly and gradually increasing the resistance or reps, your muscles will respond. For chest - bench press (free weights or machi… | /r/askMRP | 26/12/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is a thing, but it's disappearingBro, I'm not saying that your theory is right or wrong. I'm just pointing out that you can't draw that conclusion from the study quoted. Also, the second part of the study showed that the girls preferred "toned" men over "brawny" men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Knee PainThere are plenty of exercises using weights machines that you could do safely, even with your spinal conditions | /r/askMRP | 23/12/17 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is a thing, but it's disappearingNo. That study just shows that muscular men have more sexual partners, which is slightly different to your assertion that women are choosing muscular men. Also, correlation does my equal causation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 06:58 AM |
| 10 | Overcoming ArgumentsWhat are you trying to tell me? That I can dodge bullets? No, Neo. I’m trying to tell you that when you’re ready, you won’t have to. | /r/askMRP | 19/12/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Looking for perspective or advice.I need more popcorn | /r/askMRP | 19/12/17 07:21 AM |
| 22 | Dealing with her after I cheated.Grabs popcorn | /r/askMRP | 18/12/17 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Please help me know if what I did was really wrong or he is overreacting.Pavlova | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 06:37 PM |
| 3 | How to get out of "sure I'll do that for you honey" fram and into "sur, if you make sure you deserve it" frame?I’ve never seen you all play so nice before. Must be Christmas | /r/askMRP | 15/12/17 09:43 PM |
| 2 | The shame and frustration of a fat wife after red pill awakening.No, he’s probably right. Once you get past a certain weight, it’s been shown that your nody’s Weight set point changes to the higher weight. As you diet and lose weight, your Jody thinks you’re starving so it decreases your metabolism. You can actually start gaining weight as you diet. The only way to get the weight down and keep it down is extreme amounts of intense exercise on an ongoing basis (at a level that even people of normal weight would struggle with). Surgery is effective. Especially … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/17 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Is having an effeminate mannerism in men a universal turn off for women?Johnny Depp. David Bowie. Even Russell Brand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 10:17 AM |
| 21 | I don’t like muscly guysFor years when I was married my ex would say “I don’t like muscular guys”. Then one day I asked her who she found attractive and she named two of my friends who are both tall and one is really built. So I started working out harder. As I got bigger pecs she said “I don’t like pecs. I like big arms”. When my arms got bigger she said “I don’t like big arms. I like big shoulders.” On the night we broke up she said “I don’t find you physically attractive. I never have and I don’t think I ever could”… | /r/askMRP | 03/12/17 08:44 AM |
| 2 | What to do with tired wife? (May contain traces of puke)She’s tired because of a lack of sleep last week. Is that because she was unwell/working/other legitimate reason? Or because of too much Netflix/partying/Candy Crush? If it’s for a legitimate reason, look after your FO. Tell her “I’ve got this, babe. Get some sleep” and take the kids out for an afternoon so she can have a nap. When she wakes up feeling refreshed and comes to thank you say “You know how to thank me” and smirk/smack ass/grab her right in the pussy | /r/askMRP | 02/12/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 28, 2017Maybe she enjoys the punishment | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/11/17 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Tip: how to improve yourself by 20%* in one fell swoop...https://www.amazon.com/Stop-Snoring-Easy-Way-Reasons/dp/1542991803 | /r/askMRP | 28/11/17 07:28 PM |
| 2 | "Are you seeing somebody else?"🍆😵 | /r/askMRP | 21/11/17 07:38 PM |
| 6 | MRP_Padawan's Introduction - Awareness/Anger Phase QuestionsHe wore women’s clothes for drag racing, obviously | /r/askMRP | 10/11/17 09:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with illness and painWas the heart checked with ECG or 24 hr Holter monitor? | /r/askMRP | 28/10/17 07:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with illness and painThis book helped my sleep apnoea. It’s a set of exercises devised by an ENT surgeon. https://www.amazon.com.au/Stop-Snoring-Easy-Way-reasons-ebook/dp/B072LTSD6Q Regarding the dizziness and blackouts, have heart arrhythmias and meniere’s disease been excluded? | /r/askMRP | 28/10/17 02:10 AM |
| 2 | AF:BB - A grown up’s perspectiveMore like shifting goal posts to the point that MRP becomes useless | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/17 09:08 PM |
| 10 | Handling cognitive dissonance, post break up ?For me personally, it was after three or four women women told me how desirable/hot/sexy/great in bed I am that I started to believe it. I started to realise that my ex found me unattractive mainly because I was blue pill. Then I also realised that part of the reason why a lot of women now find me attractive is that they don’t know me well enough to see the the remnants of the blue pill that are still within me. I’m off to the gym | /r/askMRP | 25/10/17 04:29 PM |
| 2 | AF:BB - A grown up’s perspectiveJust because flaired members agree doesn’t mean that they’re right. Only that they agree. It is reasonable, however, to say that whatever the majority of members on this sub agree are the definitions of alpha and beta holds true for the purposes of discussion on this sub. I don’t know who Stann is (I’m not American). This is where we debate ad infinitum about whether Stann comforting his wife is alpha behaviour or if it’s beta behaviour being displayed by an alpha. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/17 01:51 PM |
| 1 | AF:BB - A grown up’s perspectiveThat’s the trouble with this sub. There is no concrete definition of alpha and beta. Everything positive tends to be labelled alpha and everything negative is labelled beta. By those definitions, obviously being as alpha as you can be is desirable. I don’t think providing comfort is alpha. I think it is a beta trait that some mostly alpha males can demonstrate | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/17 07:33 AM |
| 1 | AF:BB - A grown up’s perspectiveThe problem with this is that it’s presented as a dichotomy when in fact it is two axes (plural of axis, not the wood chopping sort) with bux being a subcategory on both axes. Depending on what type of man you want to be and what type of relationship you want to have, you dial up the alpha and beta accordingly. Alpha relates to things like physical and social dominance, a disregard for others’ opinions, take what they want, ability defend against threats of any sort, confidence. Beta traits are … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/17 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 10, 2017I found the Headspace app to be excellent for meditation. It's a whole series of daily guided meditations (over a year's worth) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/17 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 10, 2017The trick is to have two or three women on the go at the same time. Really easy to maintain frame when in abundance YouTube RSD and James Marshall | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/17 02:14 PM |
| 4 | NSFW Advice: How to Respond to Boyfriend's Fluctuating LibidoMy guess would be that he watches too much porn and now finds it hard to stay aroused during real sex. if that's the case he needs to do a "no pmo" (porn, masturbation, orgasm) reset which can take a few weeks to a few months. Also, look up karezza. Take away the pressure of expecting him to cum | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Can’t lift due to medical restrictionAre you not supposed to lift because you aren't allowed to get your heart rate/blood pressure up or because of a musculoskeletal problem? | /r/askMRP | 08/10/17 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Meditation’s best kept secret: learning how to open to and experience pain. Befriend your complete experience, the only way out is through.Re equanimity, you lose the highs but instead you get peace and contentment. My guess is it feels like how Eckhart Tolle looks in his YouTube videos | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/17 06:27 PM |
| 5 | My Male Action PlanOther things you should have learned/implemented from RP : Be fun, game your wife, flirt, kino | /r/askMRP | 02/10/17 06:15 PM |
| 1 | New Father has to go back to the basics...Swallowing the read pill. Nice | /r/askMRP | 30/09/17 01:02 AM |
| 3 | help with situation tomorrow with wifes boundriesAgreed. But don't leave the house. Change the locks and put all her shit on the curb | /r/askMRP | 29/09/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What's the MRP stance on responsive sexuality?There's a difference between how responsive/spontaneous they are and how overtly they initiate sex. A very conservative woman may be horny but not initiate | /r/askMRP | 20/09/17 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Advice - Keep working on LTR or cut losses.she's only got reasonable looks, she's sending sexy selfies to other guys that she flirted with on a trip which included a visit to stripperd and she's giving you a dead bedroom. In a year, when you're down to your ideal weight and looking ripped, will she still seem like the prize? | /r/askMRP | 15/09/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | I've been lifting for the past 3 months. I bike or run for 30+ minutes, and I was doing cables but have started free weights. Working out 5-6 days/week. I'm very much a novice and I have no idea what I'm doing. I'm 5'10 175. Should I use supplements? I want to have more muscle mass and definition.That was actually part of what I found rewarding about going to the gym. Started off intimidated by everyone. Had to face those fears. Then gradually, only intimidated by half of them and started giving and receiving bro nods. Now only intimidated by a few, chat to a few, had a few compliment me on my gains. Now the gym feels like my turf | /r/askMRP | 10/09/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | I've been lifting for the past 3 months. I bike or run for 30+ minutes, and I was doing cables but have started free weights. Working out 5-6 days/week. I'm very much a novice and I have no idea what I'm doing. I'm 5'10 175. Should I use supplements? I want to have more muscle mass and definition.Win free weights you need to engage more stabilising muscles so you are working them out too | /r/askMRP | 10/09/17 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Tips for first pregnancyWith our first, my ex was really horny from the second tri onwards. She was also more sexually confident because her tits looked amazing. With our second, she wasn't quite as horny. Didn't help that the marriage was falling apart by the. Initiate and calibrate. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/17 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?If Carnegie was looking for leaders to write about today, he would be looking at people like Trump. And Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Elon Musk. I don't see them behaving the way the book suggests. But you do you | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?There's a book called How to Lose Friends and Infuriate people. That's an interesting book | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?I agree with you but it seems we're in the minority | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?It's all about being primairly concerned about the other person's ego | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?I was just checking it really was a screwdriver and not a rotten banana | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?I'd rather hold frame and get what I want. I also subscribe to the "7 Habits of Effective People" philosophies of Understanding their point of view and Creating Win Win situations. I just don't kiss their ass in the process | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?Fair point. Thanks | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?I manage a lot of people. I'm considered a tough but fair leader. They respect me and, yes, fear me a bit. But of all those on the same level of the hierarchy as me, I'm the one that gets the most thanks and presents, etc. I can see how Carnegie's strategies are useful but I think he goes way too far. In my opinion he is self-effacing and obsequious to the point of being spineless. It comes across as manipulative rather than strong. Yes it's effective but it's not what I consider to be strong le… | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?So how did it make it to the sidebar? | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Is How to Win Friends and Influence People really RP?Maybe you're not in their frame but you're still sacrificing a lot of your own frame to get them to do what you want. It just seems slimy and obsequious. | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on "AWALT"?Do you mean that women love how a man makes them feel but men love who the woman is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/17 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit - Own Her SexTry doggy style in front of a mirror. She can still see your face. As you fuck her like an animal | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/17 09:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I'm getting on top of this... Still need to work harderNice. Only thing I would as is "Now what are you going to do for me?" smirk | /r/askMRP | 28/08/17 02:23 PM |
| 1 | 5 months in, positive overall changes, sex still sucksWhat you should think is that it's weird as fuck on a Tuesday at 9pm that my wife doesn't want to fuck her amazing husband. | /r/askMRP | 17/08/17 12:30 PM |
| 3 | How many of you are still married?I'm betting OP is actually u/[deleted] testing us | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Creating a Plan to Solve the Disrespect and Co-DependencyIn my view, co-dependency results from you needing another person for support, caring, sympathy, etc. "You complete me". I think the way to change this is to become a self-contained unit. Maximise your self-esteem. Read Six Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Brandon. Learn to self soothe. If you're feeling less than awesome, don't run to someone else for comfort. Learn to distract yourself, calm yourself, reassure yourself. Build self confidence. Challenge yourself with things that make you fee… | /r/askMRP | 09/08/17 10:27 PM |
| 16 | How do I explain to my wife that I need her to make her body amazing?You want to be sure that the "flab" is fat and not just stretched skin and soft tissue from the pregnancy that will never go away. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Action vs. Over-reactionJust tell her you know she's been texting the guy. Ask to see the texts. Done | /r/askMRP | 05/08/17 11:45 PM |
| 3 | lingerie failureBuy some sexy/slutty lingerie for her. Hand it to her, tell her she's got five minutes to put in on and then you're coming to get her | /r/askMRP | 29/07/17 12:46 AM |
| 3 | The sub-par BJThen cum into a glass of pineapple juice and she can drink that | /r/askMRP | 24/07/17 05:32 AM |
| 1 | The sub-par BJDrink pineapple juice a few hours before. Makes your cum taste sweet | /r/askMRP | 23/07/17 03:24 AM |
| 1 | My Special SnowflakeIf you do it the way it's taught, it's basically tantric sex with the mysticism removed. When I did it with the ex, I came and she didn't. It was actually more tease and denial for her as I would repeatedly take her to the edge of cumming but not let her cum. It takes the pressure off her to orgasm and actually makes her want to cum even more because she's "not allowed to". Done for days in a row, she was hornier than usual and wanting sex every night. Was wet from beginning to end. Add in a bit… | /r/askMRP | 22/07/17 08:08 AM |
| 1 | My Special SnowflakeLook up karezza. Non goal oriented sex in which orgasm Is avoided. It goes against red pill teachings but I had some success using it on my ex long before I found rp. Went from once a week to daily when she was willing to try it | /r/askMRP | 21/07/17 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Recently started swallowing the pillIn my city there's a meetup group for nmmng | /r/askMRP | 18/07/17 01:15 PM |
| 4 | My Wife, the balance to my MasculineAlthough it's always appreciated when she's complimentary | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/17 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Sudden hyper-sexuality; age related or something else?Naughty forties | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/17 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Hello, and My storyThis isn't about learning tips and tricks that will attract your wife. This is about changing your beliefs and attitudes, which in turn leads to a change in behaviours. Don't "practise" on other people. Be aware of your interactions with other people as well as your wife. It helps you take your focus off her so you realise this is more about improving yourself. As you improve, your interactions with everyone will improve | /r/askMRP | 20/06/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do women love wit so much?Nice try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do women love wit so much?So why are so few women witty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Improvement QuestionsAre you happy on your own? Or do you need a woman to complete you? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/17 09:00 AM |
| 6 | Failing the jumpGet into the bath with her | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/17 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 09, 2017There's a book called Extended Massive Orgasm. Just quietly, you can find a PDF of it on the nets. People here might say it's not RP but it's about training her to be able to concentrate and enjoy every single stroke of her clit. The author's wife can apparently cum for an hour or so non stop. It seems to be mostly based on techniques involving masturbating her but at it could probably be modified to involve PIV | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/17 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 09, 2017I'm normal weight and I developed sleep apnoea. I was considering surgery to avoid having to use a cpap machine but apparently the results aren't that great. Eventually I came across a book called "Stop snoring the easy way and the real reason you need to" by Dr Mike Dillard. He is an ENT surgeon who has come up with a set of exercises to do that tones your tongue, soft palate and throat. 5 minutes a day. I noticed significant improvement (no more nightmares about chocking to death, less waking … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Just started - and still a wimpWell now you know what to spend part of your $500 on | /r/askMRP | 08/05/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | ADVICE: How to handle RedPill humor/banter?Guy's point of view (sample size = 1). I've come across a few girls who have given witty replies to my teases. It makes me more interested in them because it shows they have intelligence and strength. But if they do it too much, it makes them seem less feminine and less attractive to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/17 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Need frame advicehttp://img.auctiva.com/imgdata/1/8/3/8/9/6/5/webimg/694903651_o.jpg | /r/askMRP | 16/04/17 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many young women like to travel?Because when you travel you are not working, you're seeing interesting things, you're out partying every day. It's instant gratification but you can kid yourself you're learning about different cultures and that that somehow makes you an amazing person. Then you can post your adventures on Facebook and get lots of external validation. It's a whole lot more fun than actually doing the work to improve yourself and add real value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/17 02:02 AM |
| 1 | AM I RAMBO??? REALLY???He works in mysterious ways | /r/askMRP | 05/04/17 04:25 PM |
| 1 | AM I RAMBO??? REALLY???Calm your tits. It's a joke | /r/askMRP | 05/04/17 01:33 PM |
| 1 | AM I RAMBO??? REALLY???I agree. Get a vasectomy without her knowing. Then tell her you're willing to try for another baby. Every night | /r/askMRP | 05/04/17 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Low Testosterone, experiences?I think there's a good chance you have sleep apnea. That would account for being tired and grumpy. There is evidence to show that it can contribute to weight gain. Consider getting a sleep study done. Apparently there are home kits so you don't have to go to a sleep lab. If you have sleep apnea, it's generally solved by using a CPAP machine when you sleep to keep your airways open | /r/askMRP | 25/03/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Low Testosterone, experiences?I think there's a good chance you have sleep apnea. That would account for being tired and grumpy. There is evidence to show that it can contribute to weight gain. Consider getting a sleep study done. Apparently there are home kits so you don't have to go to a sleep lab. If you have sleep apnea, it's generally solved by using a CPAP machine when you sleep to keep your airways open | /r/askMRP | 25/03/17 09:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] It Actually Happened.Now I'm not sure if you realise you wrote transnational rather than transactional | /r/askMRP | 25/03/17 12:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] It Actually Happened.But transnational sex is awesome | /r/askMRP | 25/03/17 01:07 AM |
| 4 | CMV: The blue pill may be right for some people, but the red pill is truer for dating the older you get.Just because two people have desirable traits doesn't mean that they'll be able to make a marriage work for more than a decade or so. People are complex. Relationships are complexer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/17 12:48 AM |
| 2 | FR: Cold BloodedOne of the 21 Convention guys. Probably Nick Sparks | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/17 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Can a woman really get any genuine enjoyment out of pegging a man?Probably should have googled it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Can we come to a consensus on proper "Game" advice for men?Search for rsdmax on YouTube | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/17 04:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the idea that women with a higher N count are better at sex is a bullshit myth that white knights and high n count women tell themselves.This is may be true if I am overly concerned about how she experiences sex with me. If not, the more sexual experience she has, the better the experience for me. I've been with a girl who admits to having done everything with everyone. I don't think I impressed her very much but I came buckets. Amazing experience. A win for me. Also been with young inexperienced girls. They enjoyed it. I found it boring. Wouldn't do it again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/17 04:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys with mysogynist attitude suck at sexOnly one bad lay? I suppose he was the Misogynist. Sounds like confirmation bias to me. You need to do a cohort trial. Sleep with 10 misogynists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Ladies - Do You Feel Welcome On Other Subreddits?NAWLDeadsandsushi | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/17 05:15 PM |
| 2 | How did your wife react over time?Hope coupled with the sunk cost fallacy | /r/askMRP | 11/02/17 12:24 AM |
| 1 | What's so bad about being a Beta Bux and or even a Beta Male for that matterThanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/17 11:41 PM |
| 2 | What's so bad about being a Beta Bux and or even a Beta Male for that matterEven that's not quite true. She can fall in love with a beta and then later on realise that she's not sexually attracted to him and loses interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/17 09:31 PM |
| 1 | What's so bad about being a Beta Bux and or even a Beta Male for that matterAs respectfully as is possible - How sexually attractive do you find him? How often do you want to be fucked by him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipMake sure she's not depressed or being bullied. If not, the other advice here is solid | /r/askMRP | 10/02/17 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Girls that date non masculine men doesn't prove TRP wrongConfidence was a bad example you see, it's extremely vague and one of those TRP things that applies to both genders. Not really true. Plenty of good looking shy girls who would be popular with men. In fact they're easier to approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/17 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Be Amoral in Your Assessments, Be Ethical In Your ActionsI think it's reins not reigns | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Internal Validation & The need for validationQuoting form the book : "We typically encounter two fallacious assumptions about self acceptance. One is the belief that if we accept who and what we are, we are indifferent to change and improvement. "But of course the question is : If we cannot accept what is, where will we find the motivation to improve? How will I be inspired to grow" It's about accepting the realities of ourselves, rather than being in denial. Once we accept reality, we can then set about improving. Also, once we accept and… | /r/askMRP | 06/02/17 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Internal Validation & The need for validationSix Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Branden | /r/askMRP | 06/02/17 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Know it all wife and unfortunately losing frameI was hoping no one would notice | /r/askMRP | 03/02/17 09:24 PM |
| 8 | Know it all wife and unfortunately losing frameIf this had been the year 1500, it would have been a leap year | /r/askMRP | 02/02/17 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Should I confirm date?If I write that to a girl, it means I have organised another tinder date for that time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 12:43 PM |
| 1 | How should I approach makeup?Guys don't realise that all the women who look natural actually have a lot of makeup on. When they say they don't like makeup they mean smoky eyes, lots of obvious blush and bright red lips | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/17 03:44 AM |
| 5 | How should I approach makeup?Guys don't realise that all the women who look natural actually have a lot of makeup on. When they say they don't like makeup they mean smoky eyes, lots of obvious blush and bright red lips | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/17 03:44 AM |
| 2 | New Relationship - How do I make it last?Naughty FaceTime | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/17 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Question about flirting and initiatingAlso depends what trimester. My ex felt shit during the first tri. Then she was really horny during the second. During the third she was still horny but was getting a bit tired by the end. I wouldn't be using dread once the baby is born. It's a shit time for everyone when there's a newborn. Her whole life is turned upside down, she's sleep deprived, she's still dealing with altered hormones for at least 6 weeks and probably until she stops breastfeeding, she's facing an identity crisis around be… | /r/askMRP | 09/01/17 09:18 PM |
| 6 | How to respond to text?"*You're" | /r/askMRP | 08/01/17 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test After RejectionEven if you're just crying in your car outside starbucks Has anyone been caught out by the wife checking up on you with the Find My Phone app or looking through your location log through your google account? | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 11:21 PM |
| 7 | What's your desired end state?The problem I have found in being too goal oriented is that it meant that I was always living for the future. I would set 1, 5, 10, 20 year goals. After having kids I even started setting 50 and 100 year goals, planning out a dynasty. It is very empowering. It gave me focus. I would try to ensure that every action I took today aligned with my goals for 50 years down the line. And it worked. I have achieved a lot. However I was never happy. Because at any given I was always in the process of achi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/17 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Interesting way I created dread.. how to capitalize on it?Ha! True | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Interesting way I created dread.. how to capitalize on it?It takes a couple of sessions. That doesn't sound too onerous. But you do you | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How I quit porn. (My own x-post from /r/pornfree)Religiously watching porn. I'd join that church | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/17 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Interesting way I created dread.. how to capitalize on it?"You can't make someone desire something that they are indifferent to or outright disgusted by." Sure you can. It's called behaviourial conditioning using intermittent positive reinforcement. I don't believe all sex fetishes come about because people were naturally inclined to like them | /r/askMRP | 04/01/17 07:44 PM |
| 6 | How to have an EASY LTRWell of course LTRs are easy if you next them when it gets hard. If you believe in marriage for life (which not any here do) then it takes conscious effort. But that's what a red pill man does - puts in constant effort to always be improving | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/17 11:20 PM |
| 9 | You can have the best year of your life: RP took me from a 24y/o virgin to fucking 12 girls within a yearYouTube RSD and 21 convention. A whole rabbit hole in itself | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/17 09:53 PM |
| 2 | "Happy New Years!" - Don't send this text"So which of your New Year resolutions are you going to break first?" | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Tactics for running the Familyhttps://youtu.be/J6oMG7u9HGE | /r/askMRP | 31/12/16 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 27, 2016https://youtu.be/VbmbMSrsZVQ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/16 09:15 PM |
| 4 | [Q4all] Why do people think doctors and lawyers are rich?Have you forgotten Seinfeld's dermatologist girlfriend? https://youtu.be/mGFoAX2Rf6g | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/16 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid being Butt Hurt (Mini FR)One of the rules is that you can't negotiate desire. You don't want her to see sucking your cock as a disgusting chore. You want her to love doing it. The only way I think you can make that happen is by using conditioning, Pavlov style. Get her very aroused and keep her there, by either you or her or a toy. Then put your cock near her mouth and bring her to the edge of orgasm but not over. Then pull away and let her calm down a bit. Repeat that several times and as she responds, escalate by touc… | /r/askMRP | 09/12/16 10:39 PM |
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