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You've got the wrong mindset. This is all about making it better for her when you should be thinking about making it better for yourself. Is giving her MDMA going to make it better for you? Probably not. If you're not good enough for her then who gives a shit. There's a million others that you would be good enough for.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 02:08 PM
2

So you're trying to drug someone to make them fall in "love" with you? Why not just get better at sex?
/r/askTRP04/08/17 01:55 PM
3

I had the same problem when I first started out too. I would read something that finally clicked and then I would go out and try to put it to the test immediately. I would focus all of my efforts into proving to myself that the idea I read was true even if it didn't exactly fit into the situation. You're looking for positive reinforcement that your ideas are valid. We just have to learn to slow down a little and try to be more analytical in our approach without jumping head first into it.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 01:53 PM
10

Holy shit. This is nuclear grade autism.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 07:53 PM
1

You're literally telling her that you don't want to pay for her. How is this passive aggressive? Maybe it's not the nicest way to go about it but it's to the point.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:21 AM
1

You're bragging about how you made a friend? You're pissed at her mixed signals but don't want to fuck her. What is it you want?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:19 AM
2

The divorce part is important. You are definitely the side piece, and she is freaking out trying to hamster cheating on her husband. She can't outright leave him for you because she will look bad but she still wants you around. All you're going to do is say OK and then be a rock. Let her freak out and she'll come running back whenever she needs you. Which will be soon since you said she has no other plates. You are in a good position right now, just don't be too available and smother her.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:25 PM
2

Next time you go to the movies just buy a ticket for yourself. She'll bring it up and you just tell her that you don't want to always pay for everything. You don't need to make a big deal out of it, just say it calmly and confidently. If you're not just a beta-bux she will oblige. Otherwise she will throw a shit-fit. You can't win against a woman by using covert language.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:04 PM
2

That's still a date... The point is that you're way too available.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:58 PM
6

Dude, you have a severe case of oneitis. You've gone on 5 dates in 10 days? Do you not have anything better to do? From your last thread it seems like she was telling you that she is not ready to date you because shes dating someone else. And now she is bringing it up again? She is trying to tell you that you are just a plate but that's not what you want to hear. There is no "handling this." You say OK and go pursue other women. Don't burn any bridges but soft next her and stop investing so much…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:55 PM
4

There's a fine balance between entertaining and being obnoxious. Girls always want to be around the guy who stands out most from the crowd because he's fun and popular. As long as you stay on the entertaining side, girls will flock to you.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:27 PM
2

What exactly are you getting out of this?
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:18 PM
1

But if that's the case, why would she even bother responding initially? Because she craves the attention. Wanted to put you down a peg. How dare this guy only ask for sex? Who does he think he is??
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:10 PM
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You messed up as soon as you started talking to her. She got exactly what she wanted. The attention of a (presumably hot) guy and she ended it on her terms. Now she can hamster away how she was too good for you or some other bullshit. If you were just there to get laid you should have just unmatched her as soon as she sent her first message. You shouldn't have time for pointless conversations since you made it abundantly clear where you stood. Bottom line is this was a sinking ship from the begi…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 06:04 PM
3

Holy shit dude. You are stalking your own girlfriend. You have some major oneitis and are mate-guarding like crazy. If she's going to cheat there's literally NOTHING you can do to stop it so why not just stop letting it bother you? This is not a problem with her that you can fix, this is a problem with your crumbling frame when faced with any sort of threat to your LTR. Ill give you some anecdotal advice now as well. I had an LTR that had a male best friend. Every time she would bring up going o…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:13 PM
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You are over reacting. She cancelled twice with two pretty good reasons. You did well by ignoring her for a bit. But she knows what she did was wrong and apologized. So why not get her to set something up and hit her up? Not every little thing has to be a ghosting.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 10:58 PM
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Both of you are just petty assholes. You don't wrestle with a pig, cause you only get muddy and the pig likes it.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 10:49 PM
2

That's the thing though dude. You will never know. So your only option is to trust but verify. Unless you can find concrete evidence that she cheated there is no point in stressing over it. That's a shitty way to live
/r/askTRP29/05/17 08:12 PM
2

If you really can't trust her then break up. But you are basing all of this on some weird text msgs rules which makes you sound completely paranoid.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 07:54 PM
4

You should break up with her. Not because she cheated on you, but because you're clearly not able to maintain a relationship. This is mate guarding to the extreme
/r/askTRP29/05/17 07:34 PM
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There's no "fixing it." You don't like her anymore so you should break up with her. Who cares if it's fucked up? If breaking up with her makes you happy then do that. Or don't, but either way you decide how happy you are.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 06:59 PM
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Sure, if you're a movie star or a billionaire. But at 22 i doubt he has this high of a SMV where random people at bars and party are so intimidated that they cannot possible hold eye contact and start tripping over themselves. The more likely scenario is that he comes off as too try hard and makes people uncomfortable enough that they start looking for an out.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 06:55 PM
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So what's the problem? Your ex tried to murder you. You left and are seeking custody, and now have an awesome life with a new girl. You did good. Under no circumstances are you to ever let her back into your life in any way shape or form.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 06:36 PM
3

Whatever man, you do you, but this is a date.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 06:26 PM
0

She brings up that she wants some a romantic relationship basically unprovoked. That's a pretty good sign. So have fun on your date.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 06:13 PM
8

WTF. Just soft next her till she calms down. Just cause she tries to feed you shit doesn't mean you have to swallow it.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:26 PM
9

You are not exclusive. She is a plate. You should not give a shit who else she spends her time with.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:24 PM
13

I can almost guarantee that you do not come off as "too alpha." You most likely come off as trying way too hard.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:23 PM
3

Spot on.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 04:49 PM
2

You care too much about what people think of you. So what if you creep some girls out? It's not like they're already throwing themselves at you anyway. High school is not important. The only people who care about high school after it's over are the people whose lives suck.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 04:28 PM
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You've been pining over this one girl for 5 months when you spent one night together. She wouldn't have sex with you but you gave her head anyway?? And you want to get her back?? You never had anything in the first place. Get over your oneitis, SHE IS NOT INTERESTED!
/r/askTRP26/05/17 04:22 PM
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You do nothing. Never mention it ever again. Just soft-next her for the time being. She will either get over it on her own, in which case she will come back to you, or she will never recover, and your relationship is over. Either way, the more you bring it up the more she will think about it. Regardless, just drop it and don't engage her anymore and focus on your self.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 05:29 PM
9

You leave her alone and focus on other girls...
/r/askTRP21/04/17 07:51 PM
1

You are probably lacking in other things. Also girls have preferences. Maybe they just prefer your friend. You start lifting to be above the threshold that girls will fuck you. Once you're at that threshold you will get diminishing returns for your efforts. Both of you guys probably hit the threshold but you friend is just more interesting or something.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 05:44 PM
1

Maybe you're just ugly...
/r/askTRP21/04/17 05:25 PM
10

Sure, that seems reasonable. Just reiterate the point where she should be careful about giving her number out to strange men but make her know that she can tell you anything.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:56 PM
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I think you are overreacting a little bit. It sounds pretty reasonable that she thought he was trying to set her up with some tickets. She did tell you immediately that he asked her to lunch and that she said no. Just let it go. If you continue being angry with her next time something like this happens she WON'T tell you. And then it's much worse.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:32 PM
3

Good for you
/r/askTRP21/04/17 03:31 PM
5

You are beyond saving.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 01:21 PM
10

You don't say shit. Delete her from your life. She is not playing games with you, she is disgusted by you and your beta behaviors.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 06:40 PM
2

So then you've already won. Rubbing it in his face makes you the loser.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:46 PM
2

Fuck his mom. But seriously, why are you trying to get validation from this loser?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:43 PM
7

Just go MGTOW. Less competition for me.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:16 PM
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I misread the post. I thought she wouldn't tell you if she had cheated on you. Either way, you are going to be competing against guys that are available when you are not. I've been in your shoes. My ex left for the same amount of time and we tried to make it work. When she came back she said that things were different and that she didn't feel the same way about us. I can never prove it but I'm almost certain that she cheated on me. At first I was pissed but then i realized that it was my own fau…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:13 PM
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"I assumed that I shouldn't even be posting this and simply move on" You right
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:06 PM
1

I don't mean leave the relationship, I mean leave in the physical sense that she is not going to be there. From what she said to her friend she is clearly ok with lying to you about cheating on you, should the opportunity present itself. She has decided that your relationship is not more important then a 6 week term, she has said that she is ok with lying to you, and she is putting her self in a position where she is going to be completely free of any obligations to you and no oversight. I'm jus…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:08 PM
1

It's up to you man. If you know you won't be attached then enjoy it still. If you think you can't handle it then its better to break it off now then wait. Either way consider yourself single from now on. That bitch is not waiting for you so don't even think about a LDR. Who cares if she gets more invested and you hurt her. She's the one who has chosen to leave you. Not the other way around.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 07:21 PM
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Here's an idea. Break up with her.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 02:32 PM
2

Let me explain this to you. You can choose to be MGTOW. MGTOW are guys who have seen the true nature of women and decided that instead of adapting and bettering themselves they are just removing themselves from the gene pool. TRP is about making yourself a better person and not crying about how hard the world is. MGTOW is about accepting that you are too weak to adapt and willingly removing yourself from civilization. If you want to stop being a loser then accept redpill and improve yourself. If…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 08:00 PM
1

It happens. It's no ones fault. If the tables were turned do you think she would do any different? Hell no
/r/askTRP18/04/17 07:31 PM
4

You can just tell her it's over and face your fears. Or if you're too much of a pussy just cheat on her. It will solve itself eventually. You owe her nothing!
/r/askTRP18/04/17 07:22 PM
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Just because she is hot doesn't mean that you should just ignore this behavior. You've told her you don't want her coming over but she is basically stalking you. She clearly isn't going to get the idea so drop her. Why would you want to keep someone around that is stalking you? How would a girl react if a guy waited outside her door for her unannounced? This will get worse so you're only delaying the inevitable. This bitch is crazy.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 07:20 PM
1

I mean you can do whatever you want to. But I don't see why you would need to drop everyone. You can completely cut off all contact with everyone but to me that is just a sad miserable life. I think you're just in the anger phase and being way too abrasive with everyone around you to the point where no one really wants to spend time with you. If you do choose that path then TRP is not really for you because this is inherently a place where you try to work on your relationships, not end them.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 05:08 PM
1

Ok so what do you suggest? That people start posting videos of pick-ups and conversations with their plates and have people critique them? The diffrence between TRP and PUA is that TRP teaches you the knowledge of how to be your own man. You take that knowledge and implement in anyway you want. The way you implement the knowledge you gain here is what defines you as a man. That's what growing and bettering yourself is all about. Not simply learning some steps and following someone else's moves t…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:08 PM
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Zoning out is what puts people off. No one likes it when they're talking to you and you're thinking about something else. When you are talking to someone actually focus on what they say and try to internalize it. If you are talking to someone pay attention to them, don't look around for squirrels to distract yourself.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 03:19 PM
0

Why are you even talking to her? She's your EX for a reason. Why do you give a fuck about who she fucks? No shit you can't move on.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:44 PM
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If you thought she wasn't going to be faithful why did you enter the LTR? There is no magical cure for this behavior. You have to learn to not be so invested in this. It sounds like you are putting too much of yourself into making this work and it's forcing you into overthinking and worrying too much. The way you fix this is abundance mentality. This will help you understand to not be outcome dependent. If you have many options you won't care if on of them cheats on you. Just replace her.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:53 PM
0

Just cut her off. You are in a LDR which is the worst form of oneitis. She can offer you nothing in her current state so what is the point of investing your time into something with no payoff. Who cares if she dwindles by the time she gets back? You should have other options anyway.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:52 PM
1

You have major Oneitis. You cannot move on until you deal with this oneitis. Read everything you can about Oneitis and get over it. You must cut her out of your life completely, no excuses, or go on living the rest of your life miserable.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:50 PM
5

You're worrying too much about what other people think of you. There is no short cut to confidence. You have to get to the point where you genuinely don't care about what people think about you to achieve confidence.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:27 PM
10

You don't owe her anything. If she isn't making her happy go somewhere else.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:25 PM
7

ok then. just cry about it. That will definitely help.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:28 PM
6

So then what's the problem? Either go to your new shitty gym or go back to the old gym. Don't make excuses.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:03 PM
6

You've already made up your mind and are just looking for someone to back you up. Go ahead and LTR her then...
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:00 PM
5

Why are you looking to LTR her? You're fucking an 18 year old with massive red flags. This girl is not LTR material you just have no other options. Why not just enjoy your turn? Why does it have to be ghost or LTR?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 03:49 PM
6

Go lift. Or go running. Do anything very physical. Not only is it good for you but it will tire your body out and you'll be able to sleep.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 03:43 PM
5

Not for me. Your basically dating long distance and the girl has a perfect cover. Think about it. You will never find out if she cheated on you with some stranger she just met. She was lonely, in a far away place, with no accountability. Things just happened...
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:32 PM
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I had a similar problem. All you have to do is replace video games with another, more useful habit. Start hitting the gym, or rock climbing, or anything else really. If you are super serious then just sell all your shit and you won't be tempted to play them anymore.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 07:07 PM
1

Yes that's exactly what they want. They don't want to date you but want you to be at their beck and call. So you can either give it to them and be an orbiter or just ignore them.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 07:04 PM
1

You're over thinking this. You asked her a question and she responded. What more do you want?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:46 PM
2

Don't let her see that this bothers you. Just shrug it off and get on with your life. Pull back some attention and don't engage with her. She'll know what is going on. This is a really good post.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:11 PM
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You're mate guarding hard man. Read the side bar post on it here. You can't tell if she cheats on you. And if she does who cares? There a million girls like her out there, just go find another if she does things that make you unhappy.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:08 PM
1

You're never stuck man. Like I said, do whatever you want to do. If you don't want to share a flat then don't. You don't have to explain yourself to them. Just start cutting back the amount of effort you spend on them and focus on something else. You're only stuck because of your own fear of taking chances.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:05 PM
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You let her go. If she cheats on you then you dump the bitch and ghost her forever because she wasn't LTR material to begin with and better you find out now then 7 years later. Just go do something else and under no circumstances should you contact her at all that night. You've made your position clear and she is going against it. You punish her by not giving her your attention. What else can you do? If you try to tell her what to do you are only pushing her farther away.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:01 PM
1

If you've really moved on what's the point of this post? Just mental masturbation?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:55 PM
1

Why wait till next year? Just treat them like a plate. Even though you have them as a plate doesn't mean that you stop looking for other plates. What do you owe these people? Just slowly phase them out slowly if you're worried about hurting their feelings but look for other friends constantly. I have many different groups of friends. Some are activity friends, some are just drinking friends, and some are community friends. You don't need to be exclusive with any one group. If they make you unhap…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:52 PM
3

What if I wrote the following? What kind of advice would you give me? "I'm stuck in a LTR with a girl that I am unhappy with. I can't act how I want to and I'm constantly looking for her approval and trying to please her." What kind of advice would you give me?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:39 PM
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You definitely haven't moved on. Just the fact that you made a whole post about how much you proved to her that you moved on, means you haven't. Why are you doing things to gauge her reaction? If you've really moved on you wouldn't care what she thinks about you talking to another girl.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:35 PM
1

Dude, she clearly only hooked up with you because she was on vacation (no consequences, things just kinda happened, she was drunk ect). But now that she is back in the real world she doesn't want anything to do with you. She was just having fun with you knowing full well that it had an expiry date. That's how you should look at it. Your vacation had an end date and so did you and her. Read the sidebar--->
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:59 PM
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If you constantly text her leading up she will think you are needy. However if you don't text her at all and she flakes, well then you're not wasting your time on a girl who wasn't really into you in the first place.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:55 PM
3

Let me reword your post a little. "I am unhappy when I am with my LTR but very happy when I am focusing on myself. She makes me very beta because I have oneitis." Do you see what the problem is? It will be very hard for you to suddenly be redpill around her because you do not have abundance. You are worried about losing her even though working on yourself makes you happier.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 07:19 PM
1

Yea right? I know what i'll do. I'll corner her with no escape options and demand that she loves me!
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:02 PM
1

Just tell her "no" then... Whats the worst that can happen? She gets pissed and ghosts you? Great, you weren't invested anyway.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:56 PM
1

Good. It should. You've been lied too your entire life, you should feel angry. Eventually this will fade giving way to acceptance. I was in your shoes once. Girl crushed me and i was pissed. So I wanted revenge against all women. Then i realized that that just made me a shitty person and eventually you just learn to accept the truths and adapt. You've got two options. Pretend this is all bullshit and just go back to being an average frustrated chump or accept it, be angry for a bit and then bein…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:51 PM
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Side bar-----> But seriously man, holy shit do you have oneitis. She is just a girl. You should never make a girl your best friend because they are incapable of being a good best friend. Your only way out of this situation is to completely drop her from your life until you get over your oneitis. If she want anything to do with you she will come find you, so drop her and go get your life together because nobody wants to date an emotional wreck.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:23 PM
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You need to GTFO. This bitch is not right. and the longer you go on with her the more fucked up it will get once you finally end it
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:15 PM
1

Then perfect. When she says shit like that just hug her and kiss her on the forehead. Either way there is nothing to do about this situation. She will feel whatever she feels and there's nothing you can do about it. That friend is inadvertently instilling dread on your LTR which is good, but good choice on cutting him out. Who is he to meddle with your relationship.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:09 PM
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I went through the exact same thing. She is trying to branch swing or break it off but can't. So basically what she is going to do is reframe it so that it's not her fault she doesn't want to be with you anymore, it's your fault for being distant and weird. The next step is that everything she used to like about you will start to bother her and pretty soon you will become the "bad guy." Things are just "weird" now. Hopefully I'm wrong and it's just a comfort test but watch out for future red fla…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 01:28 PM
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You are absolutely right. Some men are just born to be betas. Those guys at the office who wear the same outfit every day, who have dad-bods and say shit like "happy wife, happy life." They are forever betas. The simple fact is that not everyone can be an alpha and being an alpha is not a finish line. It's a never ending process to constantly improve yourself as a man. The sheer fact that you are reading TRP and trying to improve yourself makes you better then the vast majority of guys but you'r…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:29 PM
1

Yea, I was in the same boat too. Oneitis is a bitch but it goes away eventually. At least you've acknowledged that you have it and now you can work towards getting rid of it. Just try not to mate-guard as much as possible but if you've reached your breaking point say something. Basically just tell her your expectations and then follow through with whatever you decide. But the important thing is TO FOLLOW THROUGH. If you decide to demote her fine, if you decide to end it, also fine, but just know…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:03 PM
2

You've got some oneitis going on here. I had the same thing with my ex. Everything was great except for the fact that she liked to travel alone. It was only one little thing that bothered me to no ends. Well I let it fester until I couldn't take it anymore and realized that if this thing bothers me so much I should say something. There isn't going to be a bad outcome from this. She either says "you're right" and doesn't do it, or she says "You're wrong" and does it anyway. So you either get her …
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:16 PM
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You do nothing. She'll get over it. I had a similar situation in my past except i was the guy whose girlfriend was leaving. She went on a 6 week holiday so i broke it off. But then i took her back a couple days later even though i knew it was a bad idea. She ended up leaving and then when she came back she broke up with me and left for another 6 weeks to a different destination. The moral of the story is that LDR's are garbage and you made it very clear as to your position. Good job.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 12:51 PM
3

OK, but what if the sex doesn't dry up? My last relationship we would fuck constantly. We even fucked the day before we broke up. I just don't know how to interpret that.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 05:57 PM
3

Kind of anecdotal but whatever. I was spending the weekend at my girls place and she has this really annoying sunlight (window thing in the ceiling, not sure what's it called). There's no blind on it yet and it keeps waking me up early in the morning. So she left for work and I had a couple hours to kill so I put the blinds up that were already there waiting to be set up. It was mostly so I could sleep in in the morning and not be woken up by the sun. But when she came back she was so grateful s…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 09:50 PM
1

Honestly what is the purpose of this post. The first thing anyone tells you around here is to lift. Was it really necessary to have an entire circle jerk post over how this one guy did the single easiest thing about red pill?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 10:46 PM
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Another thing is that some of the streamers are just straight up entertaining. Some are funny and say or do funny things and interact with other players or the viewers. You're more there for the streamers personality as oppose to the gameplay. At least that's how I see it
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 04:13 AM
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