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Could you recommend a book on this subject?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/16 04:40 PM
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You're not the only one. I fucking hate the fake academic arguing on reddit. Reddit has a lot of pollution. When I started, it was a good source of material but now, I rarely read anything on the main unless it's written by key writers such as GLO, rollo etc. I'm on here giving some advice but I typically just to go the well known blogs and books. Read, reread etc. More focused on my own life using the material, than the forums.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 04:30 PM
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Don't be afraid of loss. "What if" questions are not worth the time. Do what you want to do, loss your not.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 04:22 PM
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I would say no. Media does not work in your favor. There's no such thing as "approaching" online. Approach in real life. It'll get you further. I would work on your game instead of being online.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 04:19 PM
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Girl said bf incoming = immediately expect some type of physical altercation. That guy knows you'll hit back, which is a good thing, making him think twice about starting something again. STFU with the girls (been said already) or the guys. Don't feel ashamed. It came out of no where. Don't let a group of bitches make you feel bad for defending yourself. Refocus your mind, go back to normal. May take some time.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 04:12 PM
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What is lacking to the above is the word discipline. 97% of the above would be curbed with some discipline, even if you were still plugged in.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 03:59 PM
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Set it up on your terms like your first in person encounter. If you got that close to sex, then it's prob going to happen. If flakes, drop. If she wants attention via social media, drop. etc.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 03:49 PM
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So texting is for logistics, mostly. She seems into you but I would stop with the texting. Hook it up in person. When in person, make a move/escalate. If in trouble/doesn't work, post here again.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 05:38 PM
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You post makes me anxious from just reading it. Just lie if it makes you feel better. You don't have to tell some tinder slut your life story. You can buy condoms that don't make you cum as easy.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 05:31 PM
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Maybe you are ugly but that's ok, lots of ugly guys get laid. Stop trying to get with this one girl, she doesn't like you, so stop with that. Work on yourself. Sometimes it takes a long time to see results, so think long term. Your friends probably still know you as "the beta/the loser". Maybe make another reddit account, go to "judge my face" types of subreddits, and get an honest opinion what you probably need to work on. Sometimes friends just aren't honest bc they don't want to hurt your fee…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 05:28 PM
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Yup... Fucking leave. No one here will tell you otherwise. You are number 1. Being tactical though, I would go see a lawyer first while keeping everything at home the same. Ask about what evidence would be needed, state laws etc. It'll cost some money but it'll be well invested for this set up. Good luck, also feel free to post on asktrp
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 05:47 PM
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Only one way to find out, But first, stop chatting (online I assume?). Make a solid move on her. If declined, she's not interested.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:41 PM
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Can you elaborate on your question? It's hard to answer such general questions.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:17 PM
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I think that depends on the situation/context. Maybe post it with a specific question?
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:15 PM
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Being proud of what you have done, what you do etc is really a compliment for me. I would wear that badge with honor.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:06 PM
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Well, drop the information above in the meeting when her bosses are there. If they recognize that it's valuable, they will go that direction. If they don't, then don't fight with her, since her bosses don't care or don't want to pursue it.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:05 PM
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You're going to let a lot of people "down" in your life, and that's just too bad for them. Mentally prepare yourself today for their reactions. Anger, name calling are easy but shaming, disappointment is what you should focus on as we typically feel these the most. Read this over and over again today, write it down over and over on paper: They will TEST you by using these things to get you to DO WHAT THEY WANT, not what's best for you, or what you want. They have their own interests in mind, eve…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:00 PM
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You fucking lazy millennials, SIDEBAR of TRP.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:48 PM
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In general, consult the 48 laws of power. Specifically, without knowing details, do these arguments really change the route of your career? Or are they, on the grand scheme of things, just small changes to business? Don't wage a war over small petty arguments, esp with a woman. You'll be seen more as a trouble maker than an asset with time. Have seen it many times. If she does lie, is shitty etc the bosses will know. Whether they act on it is another matter. Most of them don't give a shit, and t…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:46 PM
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Many wise men here will say "fuck other women". Are you currently with your oneitis? Broken up? Or are you stalking her on facebook?
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:40 PM
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Not being married is EXCELLENT! You have that in your favor. It sounds that you have a sensitive side so NMMNG is a good read but you might not be thinking clearly due to some fear. What are you afraid of? Are you are afraid because you do not want the conflict?
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:37 PM
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My experience is most packages don't gain real %s back or build real wealth the way real estate, your own business etc do. They're ok but you're not really benefiting. There's a post from a guy on TRP awhile ago pulling his money and buying housing, as the only people who were making money were the money managers, not him. I personally have a little bit in these for safety but focus more more elsewhere (Although they have a bit of risk involved). If you are planning to leave the company, I would…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:25 PM
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From 18 - 30 is when you should dig hard at your career IMO. Still work at game, being social but don't kill your career for these things. At 30 you start to peak as a man, and if you have status and cash, your life here will be pretty good. From the above, since your weight is your biggest mental issue, I would calorie restrict yourself, get your weight down, it'll help with your confidence. Once you're "thin" start muscle building. You could do both if you want but losing weight fast might hel…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:20 PM
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Go to: /r/redpillwomen
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:10 PM
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Dude that's tough. By the sounds of it, she's not what you want, so you have your answer there: Don't stay with her. It won't get better with time. You'd be compromising your life 100%. You want to be a good dad, you still can be. If you want to be there for the child, you can be, without being with its mother. There are a lot of great dads who are divorced out there. Stick with your decision of: being a good dad (whatever that means to you; not being with your babies moma in anyway; doing you (…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:09 PM
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If you can swing it, fuck ya, go for it. I assumed from your post that that wasnt an option.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:18 PM
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When I say resources, there's a book an escalating/kino that's detailed that may help a bit more than subs. Another may be that you're SMV isn't high enough so she's "playing around" with you. She probably does like you but you may not be "that guy" yet. Without more info it's hard to really give you advice but if you're willing to give it another go maybe be more chill and don't press so hard for sex overtly. Once warmed up, have her "service you". Pull your pants down/undo them a bit and guide…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:16 PM
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Haha been there. You do have options, answer: Anywhere...but not your parents house (unless they are gone). First date: Car Field etc After you've fucked: Car Field Restaurant bathroom Hotel Anywhere, anytime Best answer is to have your own place but don't let that stop you.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:01 PM
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Same thing you'll see all over TRP, subs are full of this shit. Do you have a specific question?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:51 PM
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You can't save (unplug) anyone but yourself. Spend your energy on your life.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:50 PM
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It works. What I was saying is that it's not absolutely needed if you stike out or dont want to put in the effort.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:41 PM
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When times were good, you could honestly show up. Now with oil low, a lot of oil work is slow, so if you have no experience it's tough to get into. Try going to get a "starter" job at a shop or related. If you're a good guy and you say you want some challenging work, usually they'll feed it to you.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:40 PM
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Not sure where you are or your personality or where you live but usually if you live near or on campus, and are fun, you can get laid. Period. Frats help a bit and may be part of the college but you can do well without them no doubt.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 12:40 AM
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uhh how old are you, what's (if any) your background? Rig work is tough and there's lot of work for supplemental rig stuff. Have you checked welding, plumbing etc? You can do your own businesses with these.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 12:34 AM
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You answered your own question: Meet up, or GTFO. Try an invite where there are a few friends, may ease any anxiety she has. Other than that, stop giving her your attention.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 12:31 AM
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Don't mix your Red lifestyle and work. No matter where you go, it never works. Disconnect from them a bit so you're not too bombarded. In their company at social events you can't miss, just say things like "Guess I haven't met the right one yet" etc but also decline being set up. Do your own thing. Think as you like. Give no fucks.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 06:18 PM
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Great post Archwinger. Posts like these really helped me in the early days and it's always good to get a reminder. I would push you to do a subsequent article on the actually leading component in relation to your article. Married Red Pill has some content that applies but it would be great to see the leadership aspects thrown into the entire continuum of the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 04:34 PM
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Hey man, Been there in my beta days with the LTR. Use to only have a small window to rekindle and used to only fuck once or twice max. I know what this was like and I completely have been there. The deep rooted problem was she wasn't attracted (A girl will kill themselves to fuck an awesome guy) and you're giving her your time easily. I recommend do some side bar reading for this. You'll have to do a hard-boot to get this going again and I assume you're a new RP guy (Note, you may not get to fuc…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 04:08 PM
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LTR? She's crying in the shower likes she's losing the love of her life. "Not an ex, but another guy" 1) She's not your LTR if she's crying like that 2) Tell her to stay since it's "hard on her" 3) Move on
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:52 PM
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Remove this - it gives too much info about you and your family.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 04:07 PM
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Quick answer: people of power get the full listener treatment in order to for you to gain. people who are otherwise meaningless/useless get the full dominant alpha male (Fully alpha male of the group - AMOG)
/r/askTRP07/05/16 03:49 PM
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Chuckle (don't laugh like an complete ass), tell her to turn 180, and as you're slapping her ass say "I really love your ass too", then do as you please (Gym, eat etc).
/r/askTRP07/05/16 03:46 PM
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Too much too soon? Whatever you want, you're the boss. Youre prob feeling nervous. First times are tough. Is it her first time? I would try to get a hand job or blow job in the interim so it's not super awkward. If she's open to the idea of sex, it's open for you to do whatever. She wants you to lead. I wouldn't make many plans in advance that she knows of, this can cause anxity and she may withdraw bc of pressure. I would go with the flo: Do a regular date, go out, kiss her at the car etc. If s…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 03:42 PM
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Initially some see it that way, but I have a short friend who, despite girls short shit testing him at first encounter, end up with this guy. He's charismatic and manly. Group of friends: Built short guy will beat out tall lanky guy with 20 minutes of exposure bc the short guy is boss.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 03:35 PM
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Depends on the guy. If you're old looking (Dont take care of yourself), gross etc (No SMV), you're a "gross creep". If you're 35, have a house and mercedes, and travel often girls will jump on you. A guy at my gym is in his 40s, grey hair but looks 30 as hes super fit and has some tattoos. This guy kills it with young girls.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 03:28 PM
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IMO, so infrequently, it's disturbing to her (plate, GF, LTR). My rule: Only when your dog dies (your only true friend TBH), or a puppy gets hurt that's under your care/rescue. Women see these animals as their children (even tho they are yours) and it comforts them that you MAY be a father figure of their children. Mix of alpha traits with comfort. Otherwise, strength is what you must show (you can cry on your own in private, with bros only etc). This includes any human member of your family.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 02:17 AM
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Your best years are 30+. 18-30 you build everything. Women honestly don't care much about guys their own age (trust me). If you get your voice back at 21, you have 9 years to practice game. At 30, you'll thank uncle red4455. Don't sweat it. Go monk. Kill college via grades. Build your empire.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 02:11 AM
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How would I? I would say that the first step is not being religious but that's me. Religion to me is another form of control, just like government. Religion does put mens balls in a vice because it's tied with shitty man hating laws (America) via wedding. I would say if they must, have a wedding but don't legally get married (possible?). Say it's between you and god, not you two and state.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:05 AM
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I previously have cheated and not cheated. Both have had the same effect. Although when you cheat, it does cut deep to her emotionally, so it's reserved for extreme cases. Rather than cheating per se, dread can work if you are really living RP. If you're blue, it won't really matter.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:01 AM
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In my 20s it was pretty easy: Make min 100,000 per year Get a good car with premium features Buy/get a house Get a few dogs Do my bucket list of things I couldnt do in college like shoot hand guns I've nailed all those. What are my goals now? Fuck man, I have none other than to make more bread to buy sweet shit. It's cool but kind of sad. I never thought I would hit all my goals so quickly. Everyone tells you it'll take years to get from A to B but it you play the game, it takes far less. I do w…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 01:46 AM
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TRP is core to life and so it flows into relationships. I'll try to think back to a specific dread event I noticed had an effect. I feel though, that it's just the basics put into play with a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 01:39 AM
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Thanks. I've been in a LTR before I read TRP. MRP was oddly religious and the logic wasn't there. I've been dancing around trying to soak up advice but it's hidden in TRP. My LTR is better due to TRP and I believe that TRP + the right girl makes a great relationship. But also in the back corner, having the power to leave is really what makes my LTR behave. Dread game and potentially leaving when you have assets really fucking works. Really fucking works. I will never get married. I've convinced …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 01:07 AM
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Eh - after awhile of trying the same thing you are doing now, I'm at the point where I bounce between interests and I feel that's ok. In my 20s, I was into stuff that I find boring now. It evolves constantly: career, interests, type of girls etc. So interests will come and go (a few years for each thing maybe). Go out there, try stuff, getting into something you think you like. Exhaust it, jump. etc.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:01 AM
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So, if I understand correctly, the pictures had to be of him to recognize his face? It's not simply of what computer uploaded that photo.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 10:55 PM
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Welcome. I am also newly MGTOW from TRP. Being an atheist from a long time ago, I learned really quickly about not sharing to people full on but letting a little out/dropping hints I'm not on their team. Ex "It's not for everyone" and "I'm on a different path but I think we'll get to the same place" Don't worry too much about others supporting you through this, you're unplugged, they aren't. Be that rock. They'll love you in their own way I'm sure.
/r/MGTOW09/01/16 10:39 PM
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I support this. A comment from TRP that really got me awhile back was referring to men and having honor. I thought "I'll beat them by being the best man with honor". But why? For example at university, you as a man want to be honorable and play by the rules, be the best and get in by merit alone BUT they let in women to STEM fields JUST BECAUSE THEY SHOW UP. They would deny you a spot when you are working 10x as hard. WHY THE FUCK would you play by their rules, when they are really built against…
/r/MGTOW28/11/15 11:25 PM
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Logged in to upvote. People have this thing against the military thinking it's "the man" which it is but you can definitely do a lot of awesome shit and make sweet cash overseas. Although there is some risk, after a few years you can live a fucking awesome life with some money = win. Take my upvote and fuck fat people at Walmart.
/r/MGTOW28/11/15 11:18 PM
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So much whining. Where have the strong men gone? Oh you read pickup for 5 years? Yea, lots that did. Get your hands dirty with some work. Gym, socially expand yourself, get new clothes/glasses. Change yourself, get better etc. Report back after you crushed a goal.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 03:41 AM
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Go do a search in TRP, guys who are in their 40s fucking the hot chicks you're eyeballing at school, at the coffee shop etc. Looks, money, assets - they buy you freedom, they break the chains that you currently wear. And you can do whatever you want: women, beaches, cars. But you do it all for you and not some soul sucking whore (or society).
/r/askTRP13/10/15 03:15 AM
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You said you don't plan on having any. DONE. So what's right for you with what you feel now. Most women don't care what the men want, especially if their friend have babies, it's like an accessory to them but wrecks your sweet man life. And if you decide to have kids later? Get some caring 22 year old from the community college who's taking cooking classes.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 01:02 PM
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Never vulnerable. She'll test you because she wants commitment or comfort. Give a little comfort, then slap her ass.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 12:55 PM
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Yup. That's it. Being a male who is raising his Smv will distance you from most other men who play video games, get married etc. Like women, you have to meet a lot of quality people before you get to one that is worthy. That's the hard part because there are few of them, especially in their 20s, and you're busy working on yourself. Trick here is to get out and meet lots of people and get comfortable with the fact you're happy alone.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 12:50 PM
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Be cool with him and don't talk to his ho. Don't go anywhere when she's there, only him. Work stays professional and it may help you out down the road. Bros before hoes, especially at work.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 01:08 PM
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Yup, BP for sure. We all feel heartbroken at times. But remember, you're really nothing to her, she doesn't even consider you human. She'd use you to drive her to some alphas place then spit in your face, then fuck that other guy. AWALT. They really are. Go hang without these new girls. Chances are they're just as shitty as she is (AWALT) but maybe they'll suck your dick. Solution: drop that narcissistic ho, go out with some other girls.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 01:04 PM
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A small buddy I have who did a lot of cardio (bike races) recently started lifting. He went from lean runner type to a bit thicker in shoulders, chest and arms. Not jacked but a step or two up from a runners build. He's what I would call an athletic build. Since he is smaller his skinniness really made him unattractive to women but now with a bit of size (and a little more belly fat), girls really are interested in him. I'd go for the weights
/r/askTRP11/10/15 12:56 PM
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Got any good buddies? Usually it's nice when you can look forward to something. Sports with the guys on a regular schedule can keep you up mentally.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 12:48 PM
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You seem nervous about this. Drop some line on going to a chill coffee shop, less stress there.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 04:12 PM
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Yes we have to look far back to see real masculinity. Men who dressed well, had charm, talent, did things for themselves etc. Ol Frank is a good model for many aspects. Even music of that day was far more masculine - deep voices are missing today in mainstream media. Just check that song Downtown by Maclemoore: the singer has a women's voice (honest to god is that a man?), Mack rides the back seat of a god damn mo-ped to some fat chick who yells at someone (reversal of gender roles).
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:05 PM
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Yup. Drop that bitch.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 04:12 AM
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You tell me. Curious? Go do it, get back here with a field report.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 04:10 AM
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Yes she's "testing" you. She wants to see if you're really a man that can handle her. Most girls will just cheat on you so she's looking for some comfort or commitment. You sound like you had some frame and held it together, that's a great first step. Now, don't think about it. Do your thing. Keep it simple. Give her 1/3 the comfort she needs. Aannnnnd if she threatens to leave, tell her to leave. She leaves, plate her or pretend she's dead. You don't have time for bullshit.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 04:09 AM
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Drop it. Always think of exs as dead. Move on.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 03:14 PM
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Excellent write up. Honestly excellent. I'm older but I found this to be concise. Especially the boyfriend holder part.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 02:38 AM
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I try to not comment a lot but I would really like to see posts on this subject. This is far more interesting than most in TRP, if you're not wanting to read on PUA etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 03:51 PM
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At first glance I wasn't convinced that this post was going to be any good. By the end, I'm in front of the mirror with my mobile contemplating grams of protein and Internet pussy conquests.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 03:49 PM
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You sound so whiny. Shut it. If you're making out and heavy petting etc. Hook it up again but just go for it. The men have to do the actioning. After, write us a field report.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 02:40 AM
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...and its regurgitated shit from the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 01:50 PM
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Was in a similar situation: It only gets worse with time. When you see them again, the shit tests are crazy worse, so it seems worse. She probably needs a man in her life (not online) so she's angry inside, so she sends shit your way. Or she cheats, or you cheat. Get her to see you more often and be amazing when you meet again, not beta soft. She'll think "that guy is crazy to be around, I can barely walk from him fucking me so much"
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:30 PM
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1) talk to girls even when you're "dating" 2) have more of a backbone. Call her, no Facebook BS. Be straight forward. If she was kissing your cheek you should've been sexual about it. Go on date, make sure she knows it's a date. Follow the RP dating rules/be awesome when you're leaving the date at your car, grab her hips and her head and kiss her. If you fuck her after great, if it's just a kiss great, if she blocks your kiss great.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:17 PM
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"Teach them to be safe, childless and free of rape accusations" Important that we try to share this info with other men. I honestly can't believe how schools can have a course like this now a days.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 02:05 PM
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That's the way I want to live. Sounds great.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:40 PM
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Women aren't in my goals, they come and go. Even ltr. For goal setting otherwise, I've read many books on goals for business in addition to the 48 Laws of power. That so far has been a good mix.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 02:08 PM
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I thought military guys were direct. What do you want? Random stories? Use the search function - lots of military and stories of military on here. Read the side bar
/r/askTRP21/08/15 02:05 PM
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Oh god, didn't read either. I soon as I read "I asked for distance..." I stopped reading. You don't ask, you don't tell, you don't whine, you don't get feelings for a chick who friend zoned you etc. Go cold. Pick up new girls. If you run into her give her a quick wink maybe a quick kiss and don't look back.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 02:02 PM
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Look up guys like Alessandro Malfrendini. Tell me they're not getting ass under 10 year their age at least. As a man, you get better with age.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 01:58 PM
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If you were really bros he'd do the same for you. Here's a little test I use: Would he get up at 2 am to drive you somewhere no questions asked? No? Fuck him. You're time is too valuable even humoring a call for services from guys that don't meet the test above.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 01:55 PM
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Thank you for posting some real content. It's very refreshing to see short concise new posts. Also aimed more at LTRs which you don't see much. Bluepill relationship advice is always frame attacks, involving the man to really fold, disrupting natural leadership.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 01:57 AM
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I believe in fairness but I'm not going to be honorable to a dishourable system. I pick but do like a moral code because it keeps my head in a good spot. I really like the post "how many corpses do you need to see". Sometimes you have to cheat to win.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:58 PM
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Who cares what she thinks? You got the number. Txt and hook it up, don't chat too much via txt (read txt game). It's either a go or no for the hook up. Repost after if you need help.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 04:08 AM
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You have some issues. Don't worry about getting laid, that's the fun easy part later. As mentioned above work on yourself right now, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 04:05 AM
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Agreed. Logged in just to upvote.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 01:41 AM
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Good move with the small home, utilities are cheaper, less payments, less furniture etc. more cash to be awesome.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 07:37 PM
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Agreed, OPs statements above on how to do it give me a head ache even as an older man who "should be having kids". I want the young guys to plot their lives without pussy being #1 and do great things. You pick your life, you can do anything you want and just because people say having kids is what evolutionarily you were built for you can say fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:49 PM
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Do it for you. Unless your going to get laid, don't bother being Chad. Work on yourself first. Don't want to go? Don't go. A man or Chad would lead the weekend, he wouldn't Hun and haw or whine on what he's going to do.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 12:36 PM
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Go cold for a bit, no communication. They'll usually come back after a bit and if they don't, who cares. This girls sounds shitty anyway. As an aside, you sound like an orbiter that she accidentally made out with and now she regrets it. Work on your RP.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 12:31 PM
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Had no idea, thanks for posting the quote, totally RP.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:08 PM
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Same here, didn't really follow/understand the whole thing. Although some points I can nod to, I feel the whole business angle isn't a good one to use.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:07 PM
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In short, yes. It'll be easier to get laid during the first part of the relationship but they fucking shame and stress you out looking for commitment quickly after.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:37 AM
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Game and getting comfortable with flirting. Start with the "non hot girls" like the 5s, easier to practice with. Take note on what works, research game and shit tests.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:33 AM
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Same advice for after college crowds: hobby groups, sports etc. you can look up similar questions from post college kids on here.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:29 AM
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Only a watch. Too much jewelry seems to clash with timeless styles that I prefer.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:27 AM
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You're on earth for only so many days. Enjoy yourself, whatever that means for you. You follow whatever code you want. Could be anything but you decide. You don't want to meet people, ok then, fuck those guys. Just do you. Art, music, weights, money, travel. Being a RP man is, to me, living the way you want. Go do that.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 06:56 PM
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OP if initiating is the only hurdle (ie: your wife is down to fuck) consider yourself a lucky man! (Sorry if this isn't that case/ was in your history, I'm currently mobile). Honestly I can echo the above - unplug the texting, it'll help be direct, personal and drive seeing you. I would do something new and exciting, work that in with flirting. Make sure she's well rested. Don't tell her what you're doing that night, just do it. Treat no different than a date, escalate, be clear on what you want…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 12:24 AM
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Honestly man, no books but I would print out some "solid RP articles" from the site and cut out the side shit and where they came from. Leave them around or mail them to him. A few articles at first really opens your eyes but to go full RP or read an entire book would prob kill it for someone. Pick soft ones first - like Michaels story?
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:46 AM
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Cali bro
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:41 AM
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Lol dump her, take the job, get the status, roll more ladies. Man, just make moves, ladies are secondary.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:34 AM
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You can easily find this if you check /r/Theredpill bub. Use that key board...
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:22 AM
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My friend, Can we have a topic of what to do to protect yourself other than not marrying/moving in? A lot of guys out here took their pills in some shitty situations (Married, moved in, common law, have kids etc) and need some advice to better their situation as men against the social system.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 09:35 PM
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See her as an object to be used only, no fucking feels. Fully use her, gain what you can/want. She is now a whore to be used and jumped over to better things. She's dead to you, only a body of slut remains. Set up to be untouchable if she wants to cross with you: 1) Create new connections immediately, should she try to pull them. Be the best and the go-to guy. Be bffs with guys at the job etc. 2) Ask for loans/money, get her to buy you stuff that she can't take. 3) Set up for a jump. Prep friend…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 10:55 PM
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You can set money aside. Jewelry, cars, account savings, stocks. Get it out of your name and into cash. She work? Has a bank account? Use her money too. Take it, stack it. House may be harder. If in your name though, LIQUIDATE/SELL. On paper, you should have ZERO dollars.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:48 AM
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Get spots. Strike up convo. Talk about that place you love bc of the beer. Go get beer etc.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:45 AM
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Agreed. Stop bitching. Get to work. Lift, read, monk mode etc.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:38 AM
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Your woman will flop again, when she does, be ready. Work hard and furious brother. Rearrange your assets. You're doing well. House? Get a trusted family member to buy it with you paying them directly. Stack cash, prepaid cards, buy a used jeep and keep a storage locker using cash. Liquidate, load cash. When she goes to rape you, make sure you have zero ass hole.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:36 AM
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I wouldn't. You don't have to reply. Replying takes energy and lowers your SMV. You don't give a fuck, remember? They're asking "Why you so awesome now?". A hypothetical question that you don't answer with words but action.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 10:44 PM
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Just want to say, Been there but I back slid, took her back. If she's out, keep her out. Those emotions make you backslide. It's hard, it's emotional but deep down, it's necessary. Keep to your guns. Better women are out there (Abundance).
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:02 PM
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To build on this, Depending on where you're at in your life. You may want to be there because it may benefit you down the road. Such as, people in your profession will see you are charismatic which you use to leverage projects, say your boss is a family-man etc.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:48 PM
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And don't flaunt your wealth How do you project status without this, w/o flexing muscles?
/r/askTRP06/02/15 08:37 PM
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Status in an area that women have an interest Could you elaborate?
/r/askTRP06/02/15 08:36 PM
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Been there, It's hard at the time but guys like Ben and Steve you have to shed - even the way you write this make me sense you don't like these guys. They do nothing for you and are not straight shooters. Despite fighting it, their behaviour will affect you, esp when you're not a solid RP man yet. You need some hard men now otherwise, these guys will really hold you back and, most importantly, take your extremely valuable time. Advice: Drop them. Be cold. Be hard but not overtly mean (common fri…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 12:06 AM
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Shitty for your friend - at least he's got it better now
/r/askTRP24/01/15 11:55 PM
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I often think the same way - driven to be the guy who made it. Work hard now so I can coast later. It's hard to describe but I have this mental numbness like my mind can't engage. It makes it brutal to even set those goals after a year of fatigue. After lifting, other than feeling rejuvenated I feel beat up. Pretty sure I just need to take complete time off (Without the phone) for at least a few days. Your quick breaks include what exactly?
/r/askTRP24/01/15 11:54 PM
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Locks keep friends honest? Never heard that before, what does it mean?
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Fuck go see a doctor about it, that's weird. At 20, you should have a pretty hard boner even when you're drunk and/or nervous. Something's wrong here.
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It has to be a package deal IMO: nice car, nice flat, nice clothes PLUS game, confidence etc. Girls have seen my car (loaded, new) and its bumped me up a point but it's the whole package that really gets me laid. Do what you want but don't expect the car to be magic, a decent car will go further if you let's say upgrade some other deficient areas.
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I'm worried you will find someone who is a slut but who lies and tells you she's a virgin. Dude, RP doesn't really work with religious ideals. As a man you have ideals but women will lie to your face. Religious women keep those lies on a real lock down. If you're going to get married, you're going to risk marriage rape. If you're in your 20's, spend your 20s building yourself and dating women (whatever that means to you). It'll help you recognize quality women, make you see the world of women an…
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You said it. OP, if you can't suck it up, prepare to spend your days in the gutter. Real men put in fucking hard work.
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Don't worry about it bro, remember, you're hot shit and don't care: She digs you? Escalate. She'll reward you. She thinks your creepy/doesn't give you IOIs/Is now uptight? Dread game and/or lay some other girl. End result: You win baby.
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Not sure what the dread or the father comments are about... But when she says stop, are you trying again? Why do you jokingly ask her about the 10 dates? There's much you can do at that point without cold stopping. Look up kino and escalating resources.
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Just curious, why ghost on a good thing? Single moms sometimes just need "love", some of them know the deal. Why can't she be a plate?
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So refreshing to hear about someone winning (as much win as you can get).
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