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That's good advice, thanks. I wouldn't have taken it in the first place, it just happened so fast.
/r/seduction30/10/10 12:58 PM
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Thanks a lot. You're just about the only person who answered the question I asked.
/r/seduction21/10/10 06:56 AM
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Well, in extreme cases I agree. But, most everyone I know has about 2-300. The rest only have a few like me. I don't know anyone with 1000.
/r/seduction20/10/10 10:20 PM
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I never said it should be a close. My question was very specific.
/r/seduction20/10/10 10:02 PM
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Well, all the hot girls I meet are into Facebook. That's all that matters to me. And I already said in my post I didn't have a problem explaining why I had so few friends if asked.
/r/seduction20/10/10 10:01 PM
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I don't think so. So many women are into it, especially those in their 20s. It's just another communication option. I hate Facebook as much as anybody else, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to use it to my advantage.
/r/seduction20/10/10 09:57 PM
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Here's my tip on clubs... don't try to look cool, try to look happy. Pretend you're having the greatest day of your life. If you're alone, say you're friends went home early, or flaked on you at the last minute, or some shit... but, show that you wanted to stay because you were having such a good time. People get drawn to you. They want to be part of your good vibe. Smile at everyone you make eye contact with. If it's a woman you want, use David Wygant's trick... imagine her masturbating to the …
/r/seduction20/10/10 08:35 PM
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I'm 41 and usually it's girls in their late-20s. Part of this is because I almost always pick-up in clubs/bars, and it just tends to be a younger crowd. Not that I'm complaining or anything. ;)
/r/seduction20/10/10 07:28 AM
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Well, I'm sure some sedditors with more PUA experience will answer your question better than I can. But, I think/hope I would have given up after she didn't call Monday. I don't think there was a move you could make after then that wouldn't come off as desperate. It sucks, but chalk it up to a learning experience. I know that's not easy... I'm just learning this PUA stuff too and have a hard time with it. I was so pissed after my last fuck-up. But, I know if I can't get myself to move on to the …
/r/seduction20/10/10 07:08 AM
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Your next move is to get over her. Sounds like she's just not into you. Seriously. And the "Are you still alive?" text... I'm not sure it's possible to sound more desperate.
/r/seduction20/10/10 06:42 AM
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Thank you. You're my reddit friend now at least :)
/r/seduction18/10/10 04:32 PM
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Don't shut up yet, you forgot to tell me she's an ugly bitch. Good tip about opening the men though. ;)
/r/seduction18/10/10 04:21 PM
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Thanks. That's actually pretty helpful. I really did try to play it right. Maybe I will go to a straight bar tonight and see what I can make of it. Oh, and I did post a field report on how I met that cunt. Here
/r/seduction18/10/10 03:47 PM
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Thanks. I hope I'm getting better, but my regrets are overwhelming me right now. The problem wiht doing this whole pick-up think as a lesbian is it means I'm a crazy woman too. We're all fucking nuts.
/r/seduction18/10/10 03:15 PM
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You're probably right. I don't know what the fuck I'm doing.
/r/seduction18/10/10 02:56 PM
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As far as pulling of a confident look, don't try to look "cool" try to look happy. Smile a lot. When you are talking to someone, give them all your focus and look as engaged in the conversation as possible, even if you don't really like the person. It's important to seem approachable and easy to be with.
/r/seduction18/10/10 05:46 AM
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Yay! There's another one here. :) I will definitely post something more formal/general about it when I get some more experience. In the meantime, I'll be posting here because I'm finding it helpful to talk about this stuff as I try to learn. One thing I've noticed so far that's pretty effective is turning down their kino once in a while. For example, I was out a couple weeks ago and this girl I had seen around and flirted with a bit in the past came over and sat down next to me and took my hand …
/r/seduction18/10/10 05:29 AM
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Maybe she's not so into texting. Why not give her a ring?
/r/seduction17/10/10 03:48 PM
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Maybe it's just me, but I think that fuck/marry/kill game is kinda creepy.
/r/seduction17/10/10 02:55 PM
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Hey, that's three questions! :p I actually came across PUA on reddit on IAMA. Initially, I just wanted to get out of a long dry spell and was fed up of not having the success with women at the level I felt I could. I hadn't thought about it, but my goals have changed a bit. Basically, I'm looking for an LTR, but that's not something I'd rush into. Besides just wanting to be sure it's worth it, I want to make sure I don't get in one again before I've played the field a bit and can feel ready to s…
/r/seduction16/10/10 09:04 PM
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Thanks :) I don't know how well an AMA would go over here, but when I get more skilled I'd like to write something up about girl-on-girl pick-up. There's pretty much nothing out there on the subject. While most lesbians would probably have a knee-jerk negative reaction to PUA, I'm sure that there's some curious souls out there (come out, come out, wherever you are!). I'd like to dispel some of the negativity if I could. As I see it, PUA is really just another path to self-improvement... a path t…
/r/seduction16/10/10 05:48 PM
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They then asked them if they would find the same qualities desirable in potential mates. What bullshit. You can't just ask people a question like this. What people, especially women, say they want and what they respond to are often very different things.
/r/seduction16/10/10 04:57 PM
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You have her number... why not just call her?
/r/seduction16/10/10 02:17 PM
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Well, I almost excusively pick up in clubs and bars. (I'm lesbian so it's my pretty much my only choice besides online.) The loud music is a hassle, but as ajcook921 mentioned indirectly, it's a great opportunity to have close physical proximity and to do kino. It also gives you a chance to give off a confident, happy vibe without having to say a lot. Try to look at it as an opportunity instead of a hinderance, and you'll probably have more success.
/r/seduction16/10/10 11:57 AM
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You're a busy man, in demand, not a last-minute date option. Totally this.
/r/seduction16/10/10 06:50 AM
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I'm 41 (never lie about my age) and most of the women I sleep with are in their late 20s (once in a while I have the opportunity with even younger women, but I find them, under 25, to be too immature and into drama). The thing that seems to matter the most is attitude. They care if you seem young and can enjoy the same things as they do. I find this a lot of times is just being able to let loose and party with them. I also find it most effective to use more subtle moves on them and get them purs…
/r/seduction15/10/10 11:13 PM
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is your self esteem so low that you really need validation by using someone else for sex that you don't even like I just want to say that it isn't like this for me, and that's not what I was trying to say. For me, it's just about being open to women that I don't instantly think I want. In the past, I have ruled out women in seconds for minor things. That's not productive for learning pickup or pursuing someone I might want to develop a LTR with. I haven't slept with anyone I didn't develop since…
/r/seduction15/10/10 10:43 PM
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If they're more interested in you than you in them (or even if they just think they are more interested), you get them to work for your attention. You back off and let them game you. The advantage is not having to worry about the close - they'll make sure all you have to do is recognize when they provide openings and "pull the trigger", and they'll take care of everything for you. I think this is the style of game that suits me best. I'm lesbian, btw, so there aren't the same rules about who sho…
/r/seduction15/10/10 05:34 PM
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Too many guys who start out are trying to play in "Advanced" mode when they should have selected "Beginner" mode. This is really the core of my point with this post. I wasn't learning nearly as much trying to play on Advanced as I am now. I actually think I'll move up to Advanced quicker than someone that refused to even try an easier mode. For me, it's really about getting over a bad tendency towards oneitis and to stop using "I'm picky" as an excuse not to put myself out there.
/r/seduction15/10/10 05:24 PM
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I agree with you. I've gone through some long dry spells and never want to do that again. Plus, dry spells tend to make me less good at sex because I get too eager and nervous in bed after it's been a long time. Plus, like I said in another post, personality is really important to me. A 7 with an awesome personality is good score in my opinion.
/r/seduction15/10/10 02:53 PM
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What you're doing sounds like what I'm shooting for. Ultimately, I'm actually looking for an LTR, but want to have as much fun as possible along the way. Also, I need more than looks from a woman. Personality is really important to me, and it takes time to get to know people. Ha, as far as HB10s go... I'm actually not so terribly interested in them. I mean sure for a night of fun, but I don't think I'm confident enough (yet) not to get jealous if I were to have something long term with one.
/r/seduction15/10/10 02:24 PM
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That's great it's been working for you. I think what way works best depends on the frame you're starting from.
/r/seduction15/10/10 10:24 AM
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Well, I think the thing that can be difficult is when you do get someone much more interested in you than you are in them. I used to worry a lot about that. But, then I realised that it's not the worst problem to have. I'd certainly rather deal with that than being alone. Sometimes you got to be straight, sometimes you can just back off a bit... depends on the girl. But, even that is good practice too because you're getting to know how to handle different romantic/sexual situations... which lead…
/r/seduction15/10/10 10:20 AM
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I think apologising is fine IF you wronged someone, and can even make you seem like a strong responsible person, but it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. You don't explain specifically what you were doing damage control about, but it sounds very general. Don't ever apologise "in general". It just makes you seem weak. Gentlemen aren't weak. I can have can I have the same tendency, but recently I've realised in those situations it's only myself I should be apologising to for not handling …
/r/seduction15/10/10 08:53 AM
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Thanks. Yea, I did drink too much. After consuming some beers to be social, I usually try to switch to red bulls or cokes. I can often use a kick to help me keep up with these kids anyway.
/r/seduction10/10/10 05:56 PM
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The wingman is also lesbian.
/r/seduction10/10/10 05:22 PM
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Hey, the little sister could be the right dynamic. She is a lot younger than me, but I wouldn't want to use that as a reason. That's more of a teasing reason for someone I actually like. (Ha, I love a girl trying to convince me she isn't too young.) Most importantly though, I still get to seem nice and attractive.
/r/seduction18/09/10 09:26 PM
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Found it. Thank you. This is exactly the kind of thing I was looking for.
/r/seduction16/09/10 05:09 AM
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Thanks a lot. I'll definitely check it out.
/r/seduction15/09/10 08:22 PM
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I did look at it. Quite a bit actually.
/r/seduction15/09/10 08:18 PM
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Actually, I'm just learning the PUA stuff, so I need more help than statistics. I was hoping there were some PUA materials specifically about online dating, but maybe there just aren't any.
/r/seduction15/09/10 07:47 PM
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Thanks, some interesting stuff, but I'm looking for more PUA type material.
/r/seduction15/09/10 06:57 PM
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On the subject of drinks, I like: "If you buy me one first." (with a teasing little smile of course)
/r/seduction15/09/10 04:32 PM
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Yes. I find drunkenness very unsexy.
/r/seduction15/09/10 07:34 AM
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Solid 8 - nice to see enough pics to get a fair impression. Looks like a nice girl too.
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:49 PM
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http://www.okcupid.com/profile/heidicedgren/pictures
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:39 PM
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http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Cyrika/pictures
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:34 PM
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Lol. From me, it's bad. Just not my thing...
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:32 PM
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I can't get a clear impression from those pics.
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:18 PM
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6 - I want to go even lower because she looks like such a bitch.
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:16 PM
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Boring
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:14 PM
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I agree. She looks like a tranny to me.
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:13 PM
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That's a good one. Thanks!
/r/seduction13/09/10 02:11 PM
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Thanks. I won't. Last night isn't really worth a post of it's own. I just made some pretty obvious mistakes... I fixated on one girl too much who wasn't giving me much mind. I didn't talk with any of her friends (quite a few) until after she left. Her friend that I did talk to very briefly was actually cuter than her and gave me some nice eye contact. Then the place closed. The friend told me where she was going. Maybe we'd meet up there. But, when we got there that place was closed too. Night o…
/r/seduction11/09/10 10:58 PM
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Ha, I almost feel I have to wait until I get lucky. I think the story of a failed lesbian encounter would greatly disappoint all but a few readers here.
/r/seduction11/09/10 03:14 PM
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Yea, that's the kind of stuff I'm thinking about. When I'm at my best, I do tend to have more fun with it.
/r/seduction11/09/10 03:12 PM
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Ah, no what you mean with the DHVs makes sense and is helpful. Thanks. I know I have to be a little careful coming off too masculine because girls have told me specifically that. It's largely because it's not congruent with how I look or generally behave, so it seems weird and awkward. If I were a big butch dyke a masculine pick-up style would work in a lot of cases. But, I have to be at least little careful. But, not too much either, a good game just needs to work.
/r/seduction11/09/10 03:09 PM
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Cool. Thanks. I'll check it out.
/r/seduction11/09/10 02:58 PM
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Thanks. Nah, the marriage/divorce thing isn't terrible. In the big picture, it was a great thing really. I just kind of expect girls to be judgmental somehow. I dunno. I guess I'm a little weird about it. I generally just try to change the subject. I definitely need to find a good way to play it, turn it around into a positive thing. That's just what I'm having a hard time doing. I'm reading the books. I guess I was hoping for something a bit more specific to my situation. Being a foreigner, the…
/r/seduction11/09/10 02:44 PM
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Oh, I divert to that as quickly as possible. I think that's what saves me from failure sometimes.
/r/seduction11/09/10 02:31 PM
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Hmm. I moved here to marry a girl who I ended up divorcing. So, actually, the inevitable question I dread the most is "Why did you move to Denmark?" I should have remembered to ask about that too in my original post. I never feel sure of the best response.
/r/seduction11/09/10 01:25 PM
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Oh yea, I forgot that part.
/r/seduction11/09/10 01:17 PM
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Ouch. Great write up though. Very informative and a good example. I'll have to read more about the ladder. There may be some cultural differences though. I'm in Europe and we don't really date like in America. It's very casual. I was actually a bit surprised you didn't end up in bed with her that night.
/r/seduction11/09/10 12:59 PM
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Perhaps I was focusing on the negative side a bit, and I'm sure some wing-girl situations can work, but I think it's a tricky one to pull off and depends a lot on your chemistry with the wing-girl... any woman with the slightest interest will be paying close attention to it.
/r/seduction11/09/10 12:23 PM
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I'm a bit new to all this, but I'll throw in my thoughts. I think one of the dangers of a straight girl as a wing is that it might get you friend zoned very early on. I think the girl is initially going to be very curious about your relationship to the wing and asking herself these types of questions: Was she a romantic or sexual interest? If she was, why no longer... why are they still hanging out... is one hung up on the other? If she wasn't, why not... why wouldn't she be have been involved w…
/r/seduction11/09/10 10:31 AM
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Hehe, I'd be more like: How do you objectify women like that?
/r/seduction11/09/10 09:31 AM
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There aren't so many lesbian partners available This is at the crux of everything and why being a lesbian is not as great as some might think. One big difference in the gay and straight scenes is that you don't want to burn bridges in the lesbian world... it's a small scene and girls love to talk, so piss off one bitch and half the available women might end up hating you.
/r/seduction11/09/10 06:37 AM
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what works for girl-girl seduction may be different from the norm in Seddit I'm really curious about this and think it should be fun and interesting to find out what works best within the lesbian world... and hopefully I'll get some more pussy along the way. ;)
/r/seduction11/09/10 06:33 AM
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This used to be very true, hilariously true, but it's gotten a lot better over the years. It is different because, unless there's a strong butch/femme thing going on, it's not clear who should be pursuing whom. But, it's also one of the things that I really like about the gay scene, it's more open... anyone can (for the most part) chase anybody they want without challenging social norms.
/r/seduction11/09/10 06:14 AM
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When there's something worth reporting, I'll be happy to do a FR.
/r/seduction11/09/10 06:05 AM
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Thanks! Introducing myself to the group just seemed the polite thing to do. :) Yea, there are girls that go after straight chicks pretty aggressively. Now normally, I'd find the conquest angle attractive... but, fuck that for two reasons: 1) Straight chicks are full of drama and too into being fawned over. 2) They are generally absolute shit when it comes to lesbian sex and just expect to be serviced. Yea, fuck that.
/r/seduction11/09/10 06:03 AM
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If you're in southern Sweden, sure. I'm actually in Copenhagen, just on the other side of the bridge from Malmö.
/r/seduction11/09/10 05:52 AM
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Heh. Yea, they're quite nice indeed. But, to be fair, Danish and Norwegian girls are of pretty much equal hotness. Scandinavia is awfully kind on the eyes in general.
/r/seduction11/09/10 05:50 AM
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