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Women that put "no" or "absolutely not" in your bio on your profiles what is it that you're trying to accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:31 AM
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That's not what this is about. This is for the "I was having a bad day at work so my man texted me and told me to go home and pack my bags because he just booked a flight to Cancun. Ladies, if he wanted to, he would!" That's what I mean is toxic. On both sides. He is making sweeping plans without including you in the decision making. And you are projecting this irrational, grand gesture as something that all men should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:09 AM
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I'm convinced they have to be fake because the partner is always so clearly in the wrong that no sane person would think otherwise, and that's the very nature of engagement farming. It's designed around something that is readily obvious by a majority of people that enrages them to comment. That's why you see these "guys I'm vegan and my boyfriend slipped meat in my dinner on purpose, can we fix this?" posts. All low hanging fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:17 AM
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"If he wanted to, he would" culture is toxic femininity and creates unrealistic expectations of men. Yall be too effort-pilled for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:13 AM
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"Pair bonding" is just some evolutionary psychology bullshit that always gets brought up by red pill to sound smart. It really is as cheesy as trying to explain every facet of human behavior as if it's supposed to serve an evolutionary purpose. "You see, women wear tight jeans because in the caveman days, wild animals would be able to drag them by their loose fabric" it's like please stop, not every thing has to link back to some made up scenario lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:22 PM
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I believe you can definitely judge character by the profile. The phrase "red flag" applies here. For example, here's a big one: Are they holding up a fish in one of their pictures? Red flag lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:08 PM
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Do you think that it's the average case that women are a) swiping on men that look like thumbs b) getting to the date stage c) getting treated badly by them? I don't think so. Does it happen? Maybe, sure. But I don't even know if we're getting past the first here lmao, let alone 2 and 3. Even so, you know as well as any that women posting about their "nightmare Hinge experience" isn't mostly comprised of thumb-looking men. Cuz that would most definitely be called out in this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:06 PM
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If you're at the point of coming to social media to complain about your matches/app dating experience I can only assume that you've been burnt one too many times on swiping on conventionally attractive men with the depth of a puddle. The common denominator is always them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:48 PM
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I assume that there is something that is drawing them to these men that would alert them about their character before making the match. Every man can't be manipulative, emotionally unavailable or needing therapy. Just like if I kept complaining that all the women I match with are scamming, gold-digging and materialistic, it would likely be a me problem that I continuously match such types.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:46 PM
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Yeah but that's the meme lol, I'm just using it because it applies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:41 PM
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I love reading complaints from women about men on dating apps because it's a direct reflection of who they thought was attractive enough for a match. Like complaining about your sandwich at Subway. Lady, you made the sandwich!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:38 PM
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When it comes to compliments, people are always like "Compliment her on something other than her appearance!!" and it's like ok, telling a girl she has such a unique personality is still "I wanna fuck" with a few extra steps lol. Like the motivation behind it is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:04 PM
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Yall ever see that Asian woman who skateboards in dresses and heels on Instagram? Super cool, but for once I'd like to see how she rips in normal clothes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:27 PM
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Because a fool and his money soon part ways bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:57 PM
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Been in a casual/FWB situation with a girl for almost a year now, but recently the conversations have gotten more hostile and she started blowing up over me asking little questions about what she has going on in her life. In my mind I thought I was showing interest in a non-sexual manner that she'd appreciate. Only to be met with "Bro, use Google" 😭 I could use Google but I'm asking YOU so we can make conversation about the thing you're telling me about!! So I cut her off. And now I'm like, well…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:55 PM
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And that's fine, but that still reinforces OP's point. Find him hot but also take accountability in rewarding the hot criminal guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:59 PM
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Their argument can only survive on "I was deceived" as if every single man is living a double life instead of imagining that women are attracted to that lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:53 PM
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Yes I do because most of the time the scam is obvious af haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:50 PM
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Sometimes yes but sometimes no? There's an archetype of player and badboy completely devoid of any deceit that still gets chosen. Think of the drug dealing felon with 8 baby mommas. The heavily tattooed/long bearded guy in a biker gang. These men are showing you who they are up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:48 PM
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It sounds like you're making OP's point here. If objectification is so open to interpretation and subjective then it can be conditional as to what objectification really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:22 AM
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Very true. But sometimes they can intersect. It is a fine line, a gray area. In practical terms I feel like "wanting to look hot and sexy" is fine if you're doing it for yourself, it's when you invite an audience that it crosses the line into objectification. What say you? Or what specific conditions would you say someone is objectifying themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:32 PM
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There's a false dichotomy of "Onlyfans girls" vs. everyone else that I've seen argued many times on this sub. The prevailing logic I'm seeing in this thread is that the Onlyfans girls are objectifying themselves for money and nobody other woman is doing any self-objectification, and that men are objectifying across the board (this could still be true, I won't argue this but it's also beside the point). However, it is not just Onlyfans girls. It is Instagram baddies just trying to get followers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:07 PM
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Before I begin, I would like to say that I know I'm being shown this because I've been proven to interact with similar content. But my Instagram feed has become nothing but big breasted thirst traps. Only some of them are Onlyfans advertisements. Many of them are just doing it for the love of the game. And there's no set demographics either. It's typical IG baddies and party girls, gym baddies, goth girls, hipster girls, gamer girls. I'm impressed by the sheer variety here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:32 PM
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Idk like half a year or so but we just started talking more frequently. And I do vibe with her a lot, her energy and attentiveness is nice and I fell for that quickly but I'm realizing that I should not continue to fall like this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:21 PM
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Thank you. It hurts because she's awesome on so many levels, but I also don't want to fall deeply for an unattainable person, so there has to be some distance for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:09 PM
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I'm currently in a situation that every girl is wary of: The guy who starts off promisingly enough as a friend and then once he finds out that she is unavailable, wants to walk away from the friendship. Well, I'm not going fully no-contact, but I'm less invested in keeping this friendship going now that I know that she has a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:04 PM
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How did they count 2 million swipes? That's a lot of swiping lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:24 PM
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Every time this comes up I always wonder two things, one, why is it that all international women get painted with this superficial brush, like they are all groveling at the feet of every foreign man they meet, that they only want money or a green card. Frankly it's insulting. There are women with lives as diverse as your own and many of them detest the idea of being seen as a gold digger or dependent on a man for help. Also, why do you assume that Western women aren't also doing the same thing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:00 AM
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It probably is, but I have notice the trend of similar stories, "A man at the gas station paid for my gas, washed my entire car and shined my tires. He was so nice! And he didn't even want sex" I'm making it up but that's how all of the stories go lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:08 PM
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Acknowledge the kindness, I already said that's fine and okay, but why throw in the "... and he wasn't even trying to get LAID" jab in there too? Like what purpose is that serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:07 PM
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Here's an example that I found prior to posting this. And it just seems kind of backhanded, "There are still SOME good men left in the world!" vibes. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:58 PM
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Ladies, do you romanticize the guy that does random acts of kindness in public but never once escalates or isn't doing it to seduce you, only to be nice? I mean it's fine if that happens but do you have to run to the internet and point out "AND HE DIDN'T EVEN WANT SEX" Like what does bragging on his pure intentions do for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:47 PM
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It did 10 years ago. Now I'm in my 30s, not so much. But in my 20s, a girl invited her own self back to my apartment with plausible deniability, based on the kitten I had been posting on my insta. Hey, whatever works. 😂
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:45 AM
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I don't disagree with the "invite her to plans you're already doing" vibe but I don't know why it has to be one extreme or the other, either. In your first example you're painting the picture of an approval seeking guy that is trying to see if she's free so that you can rearrange your whole schedule around hers. In the second example, it comes off as something out of a "seduction playbook". There needs to be no power play or psychological games. Hey, if you're free on x night, I'm doing this - s…
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:37 PM
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The best date is the one a girl agrees to go on lol
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:34 AM
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Agreed. This isn't a feelgood post! I want my woman to choose me initially, not play games.
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:18 AM
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My problem is I don't want a soft no, I want a hard Yes. As soon as you're lukewarm on me, I'm out lmao 😂
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:17 AM
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Sometimes it's the "nobody else tried" theory. She's only with him because no other man stepped up, either out of fear of rejection or this whole "I don't chase, I attract" mentality that rarely works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:23 AM
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How many women have you gotten in this manner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:22 AM
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Edit the main post to include that she's 2000km away lmaoo bro,
/r/seduction14/04/25 07:09 PM
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So what I'm not understanding is that it seems like Joy Taylor operated on her own accord, where does it show she was combining efforts? If anything it seems like Faraji wasn't going along with any of the bullshit that Joy was doing. It's the old adage "If your friend told you to jump off a bridge would you do it?" Faraji didn't do it. Joy was jumping off that bridge all by herself. Is that grounds for a lawsuit? I'm so confused lol
/r/MensRights06/01/25 04:13 PM
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I still don't understand how any of this impacts Faraji lol
/r/MensRights06/01/25 01:34 PM
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but now the girl is on a trip, and I found out... she did not tell me, but I found that she's been out with another guy on a date So how did you find out? I think that would add a lot of missing color to this post.
/r/seduction05/09/24 06:53 PM
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What else do you want to hear? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:54 PM
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That's true but what OP wrote goes beyond that. He's talking about her nailing 6'5 doctors and shit. Doctors got options. They aren't going for regular degular chicks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:31 PM
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Yeah I didn't wanna say it but it sounds like OP's sister is hot. Lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:17 PM
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It’s usually said by people who easily found someone or get loads of attention. I actually find most advice to be this way, but never heard it phrased this way before, but it's so true. People who never had to struggle to get a date (not saying QUALITY date, just date) don't understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:07 PM
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The problem is, and always will be: If a person can afford to be selective, they will be. That means they're mostly outcome independent. They don't have to commit to any individual interaction when they have plenty of options. If a person cannot afford to be selective, they'll operate with a scarcity mindset and act outcome dependent. Meaning every interaction that could lead to romance has more weight to them. Now you fill in the blanks here. Yes, Person A is most likely a woman and Person B is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:33 AM
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Yeah I think people think way too highly of themselves, "Bro don't chase her bro you are the prize bro" BRO, She ain't losing no sleep over your ass!! You better pursue her and stay at the front of her mind if you want to keep her interested lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:28 AM
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Ironically, once you stop chasing women you begin to draw their interest naturally without effort, and even if you don't draw their interest, it doesn't actually matter. This can happen, but most of the time, if you're not chasing you're getting overlooked or you are overlooking their interest. Try to chase a woman and then back off for a few weeks, she'll pop up with a whole nother boyfriend lol The advice should be to chase but only if she's receptive to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:28 PM
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I mean look what's happening now though. The majority of the "passport bros" as they are called, are black men. Yes, historically whiteness has been worshipped, but how much of that is because other races of men simply haven't stepped into that space yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:44 AM
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Thanks for articulating better than I could lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:30 AM
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I'm saying that based on how they carry themselves on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:03 PM
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Something something patriarchy. I'm not going to debate this in good faith, sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:58 PM
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Lol I feel like I'm going to start my own thread on this soon enough but this is a great point you've brought up. All things being equal though, it's harder to get the attention of that American woman vs. an overseas woman. That's all. Now, whatever you want to attribute that to, we can spend all day talking about, but I think the most important aspect of it is, the fact that you can simply "come as you are" to an overseas girl and have a far better chance of attracting her than an American woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:29 PM
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Because let them tell it, all the problems that men complain about are of our own doing/the patriarchy, and it implies that they're not doing anything wrong at all. Or maybe that, on average, men do more wrongdoing than men. But that's a whole nother debate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:12 PM
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I'm not saying that there isn't a lot of that on the other side either 😂 but come on. Women are supposed to be better than men when it comes to this kind of stuff, lol. Plus, in a Western men vs. women debate, the Eastern women are a neutral party that doesn't deserve to get dragged.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:39 PM
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It amazes me that people often start these arguments in bad faith. It's actually insulting to women overseas to assume that they're just gold diggers or docile traditionalists who just want to roll over on command for a foreigner. In reality, and people would know this if they actually spent time talking to people from different backgrounds, is that they're just as varied as anywhere else. You can't go to Thailand or Philippines assuming that they're all looking for a green card or a provider. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:51 PM
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You ma'am are a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:19 PM
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Yeah I always think this ancestor bullshit is just bullshit too lmao, it ain't the 1st century no more we don't have to behave the same way as we were quote unquote "wired" to behave
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:13 PM
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Honestly, bottom middle girl looks like wifey to me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:13 PM
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i laughed out loud at this one too
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 12:34 AM
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There's too much blithe Cartesian dualism what...??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 04:45 PM
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This. All the other replies that amounted to "fuck dat bitch, next" are missing the point. You could have gotten some skins if you played your cards right. That was your time to show her you're an upgrade.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 05:16 PM
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i can barely parse this post, but your friend clearly has raised his SMV and doesn't need the attention of this gal. abundance mentality
/r/askTRP27/04/15 03:47 AM
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Patrice O'Neal is a favorite of the sub, he's constantly posted. Most comedians in general really, make RP truths as jokes.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 02:57 PM
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Yes, I believe going out with random women and dating around can help, but it's a bandaid in a way. You cover up the real issues, latching onto other girls, spreading your oneitis feelings around to multiple girls... depleting your want/need for the one girl. Yes, it works, it's just not as constructive. If you go into it in that manner. If you date around to "replace" your feelings, you're doing it wrong. If you date around because she's dead to you and you're on to the next... that's better. T…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 02:52 PM
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Female breasts are sexual, that's why if you grope a breast it's considered sexual harassment. A girl can touch a guy's chest all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 01:48 PM
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The package of a woman is more than tits though. Seeing an attractive woman naked is going to be more enticing when she's naked and that part isn't changing. You might make a case for less attractive women. And only being sober too. Some people put the drunk goggles on and then every woman is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 01:47 PM
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I don't agree; only because some people have been watching porn everyday for years. "Over time" would have to be like, centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 01:45 PM
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good info! thought it was j. cole too.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:47 PM
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I've been thinking in this line of logic for a while. I'm less interested in whether male/female brains are the same or different (I lean strongly in favor of different...) but rather, what kind of implications can we glean from either conclusion. If male/female brains are truly different, does that mean that men and women are better or inferior in certain areas? Does that silence the "women can do anything just as good as a man can!" crowd?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 01:06 PM
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Bands, currently? Beach House, Grizzly Bear, Sufjan Stevens, Joanna Newsom, and St. Vincent. In the past, you could also add Brand New, Coheed and Cambria, and Four Year Strong (lol) Top 5 movies? again, hard. but, currently: The Dark Knight, No Country for Old Men, The Original Kings of Comedy, Kids, The Social Network. in the past, add: Garden State, Eternal Sunshine for the Spotless Mind, Rushmore. Top 5 shows: The Wire, Breaking Bad, The Newsroom, Game of Thrones. Any one of these could take…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 12:47 AM
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More details. What do you do during the transition from bar to home? And when you get home, what's next etc.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 04:34 PM
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I had a 21 year old female friend going out with a 30 year old. I agree with you, shit is wrong, but in that instance, almost everyone makes excuses. She felt there was nothing wrong with her relationship, that she was a Strong Independent Empowered Woman. Yes, she is allowed to date who she wants. But if you want to say "What's a 23 year old doing dating a 16 year old?!" You could still rightfully wonder what a 30 year old wants with a 21 year old. At 24, I'm more likely to get strange eyes for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/14 11:21 PM
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Personally I don't really know any women over the age of 18 who take Cosmo seriously. They definitely exist, but I think our culture is slowly waking up to the fact that blatant sexism towards men ("train your man to love the leash in 5 easy steps!") is as intolerable as it is towards women, mostly because men are getting tired of being constantly accused of being dogs and potential rapists. In your head, this is true, but.... I'd argue the average person is not as aware, and this behavior is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 03:46 PM
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50 years ago spitting in the street and littering was legit for everyone, even upstanding citizens who considered themselves socially conscious. Now it is not. Where are you from? I spit in the street and see other people spitting in the street. I have no issue with it. I mean.. if you have to spit, you have to spit. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 09:07 PM
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blames others, isn't working on them, Do you mean to imply that redpill doesn't try to work on their problems? Because... that is the very reason for the sub, is for people to work on their problems... My last point is this: You point out a certain "torture" inflicted by the blue pill script, and I'd tend to agree with you there, but let's not get caught up in that. What I was focusing on is this part: "an absurdist dodging of personal responsibility." Now... why is that? Why is acknowledging th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:18 PM
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you also think many red pill types are recovering from the torture inflicted on them by the blue pill script which as i've pointed out is an absurdist dodging of personal responsibility. if she had a narcissistic father, she may have been unwittingly attracted to narcissists. is she dodging personal responsibility? i mean, if you want to cite a parental role in what the woman is attracted to, why can't a parental role be cited when it comes to blue pill scripts?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 04:49 PM
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TRP isn't devoid of policing anger. I didn't even have to look far to find this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2jmxqf/deconstructing_emsk_why_the_red_pill_will_kill/ Alright, fair enough, there are quite a few posters here still getting over the anger phase [6] , and it's understandable that they want to express their feelings. Personally, I do think that we could do with toning it down. A post that is just venting is all well and good, but unless it's contributing something …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 01:18 AM
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I get the sense that you are asking rather incredulously, but... I do believe exactly that. I think we have to be careful in making broad brushstroke claims such as "the majority of the sub seemed to dip into the anger phase all at once." Are we talking about the majority of the sub, or a number of visible angry posters? And then just because there exist a number of visible angry posts, doesn't mean the majority of the sub will be will "become a place for misogyny." That's a leap of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 12:15 AM
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If I may chime in, it's because TRP is allowed an anger phase. When you're new and you find out what you've been told is a lie, you'll get some anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 11:28 PM
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RedPillers think that if your an asshole to a girl you'll get sex. This is simply a false claim, so it's no way to argue against it. straw arguments ftw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 11:12 PM
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Both pills criticize, I suppose. And the kicker is, each pill thinks their criticism is constructive in some respects. Redpill, for all its criticism of women, is still about self-help for men -- things like working out, advancing in your career, having confidence, holding frame, etc. are undeniable good traits for men. Where I see bluepill criticize is men holding the more (and I can give a leeway here) toxic ideas of TRP. Some ideas aren't so toxic, they're just un-PC. I still think, given the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 01:55 PM
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"Reprogramming female beliefs"!? Really? I'm sorry you gawked at that. Isn't that what feminism is aiming to do on a grand scale? 'Reprogramming' in this sense isn't to say that we are all robots or whatever, but when someone says, "Yeah I've just been unlearning all this internalized misogyny" in other words they are saying they are reprogramming their beliefs, getting rid of the negative and proceeding with the positive. Obviously, it'd be great if we could redefine masculinity entirely and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 03:16 PM
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If a non-masculine guy finds he's attracted to a woman who doesn't like him back then tough luck, there are women who are attracted to other things. Does it help matters if a minority of women is attracted to a group of men that you wish to see having a place in society though? Like, I don't get why we are trying to pave a way for this type of man without similarly reprogramming female beliefs about what is attractive in a man. Edit: In other words, me personally, I like being a softie, listenin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 01:52 PM
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Just because you have a masculine boyfriend doesn't mean you don't want traditionally non-masculine people to have a place in society. The issue occurs when these traditionally non-masculine men want women who want traditionally masculine men -- the same women who want to preach about being non-masculine. Colorado, what now? If you want men to be traditionally non-masculine you better lead the movement on making sure that women find these men attractive, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 01:14 AM
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See Prince You haven't seen Purple Rain.... he was a pure alpha douchebag to Appleonnia in that movie. If it's to be believed that that's how he is in real life (and I am inclined to believe that, since it was such a thinly veiled Prince vehicle anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 12:43 AM
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Also, "aggressive" is different from "outgoing" "not shy" and "bold". She's not being horribly precise (and I'm sure she never expected these snippets to be compared out of context) but I read this such that she doesn't want to be made uncomfortable by overly-aggressive and pushy guys (left), versus she still like socially outgoing people in general that are fun to be around and talk to, in particular guys that she meets (right). she's not being horribly precise yet you extract her exact meaning…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 12:40 AM
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Maybe I unfairly equate feminism to bluepill, but I feel like feminism makes men out to be bogeymen while never criticizing women for their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 01:40 PM
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I definitely find myself siding with redpill more than I do blue, because red works more often than blue. Redpill is also going to keep your game sharp against women who, in an increasingly feminist society, seemingly can do no wrong and have no responsibility at all. See, I like to think that girls aren't dummies. They're not children. They know what they're doing. However, I do feel that some women abuse their "female privilege" and many of which will then try to act innocent or use their femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 05:51 AM
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This is nuts. So she's stumbling around, high on cocaine and Xanax, and is just supposed to have no culpability at all? I'm not saying "she's high on cocaine and xanax -- force her into sex!" I'm basically saying girls need to act responsible with their drugs and at least follow some buddy system or some shit. I'm not gonna be walking home high on cocaine and xanax for any reason, nor going with some "creep" girl anywhere. Fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:23 PM
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This. One of my boys came up to me in the gym and told me my ex tried to contact him on OKCupid. Now, I don't know this fool from Adam, so he could have been feeding me the "lol this bitch is crazy for messaging me" angle while secretly giving her a fat load behind my back. At that moment, I really didn't care though. Not only was I banging new chicks, I also felt bad for her that she was using my name to try to make herself relevant to guys on the sexual market, lol. I also never confronted her…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:16 PM
3

maybe he met another girl who showed more interest or he got really busy at work. I don't see these kinds of reasons making the girl feel that bad. Her hamster would have kicked in after no contact, though. She'll notice he hasn't been talking to her and ask him why. That's when he hits her with one of your options "oh yeah I met someone new" or "Yeah I just got this promotion at work" now she sees his value. Textbook, man.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:10 PM
1

Amazing read, thank you. This really stood out: If you want to dread a plate who respects you, you have to be a manly-man alpha winner and go game girls in front of her. But if you want to scare a disrespectful wife or girlfriend, give the beta comfort they’ve been trying to beat out of you to someone else. I'd also add that settling down with one girl sends your plates in a frenzy too. A day after getting into a relationship (happened on Friday, so the day after was Saturday) I was out at the b…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 04:32 PM
1

The point is, it's not about digging deep. It's about responding to a position advanced by one person. Perhaps we are discussing two different things then. I am talking about how BP'ers have formed opinions on what TRP is based on quick glances at the sub, not through one person's position.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 10:59 PM
1

No, not a "burden" but if you're not even going to attempt to dig deep to understand a position how can you even argue against it? That's like me taking a cursory look at the tenets of feminism and concluding that they're nothing but hairy armpit misandrists who are just mad that they can't get any men. The oversimplification of TRP detractors shows that that they are not trying to understand TRP and thus why I say they need to extrapolate a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 10:26 PM
1

But TRP focuses on women that fit their worldview in the same way that feminists focus on the problematic men of their worldview. why would a group on one topic discuss anything outside of its topic? I mean, after you acknowledge that not all x are like that, all that's left is to discuss the x. consider this when for example a feminist says that she feels uncomfortable walking down a street at night. not all men are rapists, but you don't know which men will rape. Just like, not all women are "…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 09:19 PM
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Should women be obligated to sleep with boring nice guys then? yes, this is actually what i believe. i actually started a pretty good discussion on that topic here: http://www.reddit.com/r/FeMRADebates/comments/2b391s/should_women_select_for_more_submissivebetanice/ my argument is that women should select for the change they want to see in men. now, i know that every woman isn't walking around with a feminist agenda or whatever. but i truly feel if women want less lies, manipulation, they should…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 05:55 AM
2

a lot of women want the bad boys. not 1000. hundreds of thousands. it's relevant enough to be posted about. even if it's "not all women" there's enough talk about that phrase for it not to matter innit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 01:13 AM
2

Even if that wasn't the case, can you really blame women for preferring to sleep with an attractive and exciting loser/criminal over someone whose main redeeming quality is 'not a drain on society'? I'd actually argue "yes" here. It's socially irresponsible, not to mention personally irresponsible in many cases as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 01:09 AM
2

the difference between TRP criticism and feminist criticism is that TRP criticism shoots straight to "misogynist" "toxic" etc. Most feminist criticism I see centers around feminists perpetually playing a victim. And feminism has the moral "high ground" while it's admittedly hard to turn TRP into any favorable light. This makes it hard to criticize feminism without feminists deploying some sort of shield to turn YOU into the asshole, lol... whether it be "you're mansplaining/making it about men" …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 01:41 PM
1

I hate to get gridlocked on such a minor sub-argument in this thread but.. TwoX, while it may or may not have an anger phase (not sure? i don't frequent that sub) doesn't have an agenda like TRP does. to compare anger phases in a fair context, you have to look at a group with a mission, which is why i threw out feminism. and i know feminism is very broad, and that is why i then narrowed it down to tumblr feminism (which is where i see the most vitriol/anger phases). to expand on that point, /r/T…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 06:15 AM
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Often time the front page is filled with men in the "anger phase," so a bystander reads and interprets what I wrote or something similar. And I can look on tumblr and find a bunch of feminist women in their anger phase, and yet more people are willing to accept the frustration of women under the guise of feminism. Why? And if you say "because women are oppressed" then you are doing what I like to call "comparing nuts" -- which means, you're saying because x have it worse, y can't complain, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 10:38 PM
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They claim to know the truth yet seem to have very little real world experience. Really? Because I see real world examples of what they claim as TRP truths on their sub all the time, and even in my own life. Sure, it doesn't apply to the entirety of women as they may claim. It's more along the lines of identifying general patterns of behavior of women. Many people have trouble taking TRP in its entirety/at face value, I get that. But there is value in the sub. edit: let's make up percentages. Le…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 10:31 PM
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I guess I don't know what you're getting at here. what is an example of focusing on a flaw? I've read topics from users that acknowledge certain mistakes, like not holding frame, letting someone walk all over them, etc, but i think the focus mainly being on women could be because the content is mainly coming from seasoned members. not to say that these members are perfect, but you're more likely to see focus on flaws from beginner TRP'ers and a lot of them are lurking and soaking in what they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 07:16 PM
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You are men, so you should be aware about your own flaws/pitfalls as well when you want to improve yourself/be succesful. kidding right? i see so many tips/posts about maintaining frame, working out and generally handling your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 07:02 PM
1

And it's a nice rhetoric to say, a single instance is just sexualization; not necessarily a bad thing. It sounds good, but I don't actually agree. Because in order for something to become commonplace, it had to start somewhere. It's like saying the first person who judged someone based on skin wasn't necessarily a bad thing but when it became this commonplace thing it's a problem. That's a rather nitpicky argument, I know, but that's okay because when are you ever going to have one instance of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/14 12:14 PM
1

Let's just check to see if we are on the same page: you argue it's not the same kind of problem because the scale is different, right? Is this not what you meant by "it's nowhere near as common" and "it's nowhere near on the same kind of scale"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/14 10:52 PM
1

what else are you enjoying a naked photo for... charming personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/14 10:37 PM
1

Few things: When you use the "scale" argument you are playing a few games here, so to speak. First you're playing the "if it happens to women more, it's more important" game. Don't compare nuts here. Things are bad even if they aren't on the scale you require for an issue to be an issue. Secondly, you can't even properly gauge how large the scale is anyway. I think you're seeing things through rosy glasses--and women see men as walking wallets enough for that criticism to be valid. In short, fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/14 10:32 PM
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30?! haha damn, idk why i thought he was like in his early 20's.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 02:35 PM
1

Dude, bragplaining.... my mind is blown.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 01:53 PM
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Part of the cultural phenomenon that is currently taking place where people feel good for being self-righteous and calling out/intervening in what they believe are "problematic" behaviors. I certainly think a lot of white knights want to prove to a woman that they are mature and noble for defending their honor. It's really another spin on the whole "doing what you think will gain respect with women" narrative that men have been learning (i.e. "just be yourself!" "just be nice!" "just white knigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 10:28 PM
1

Legally, the girl still lives there I'm sorry, but how? She's just his girlfriend, not his wife or anything. How is it any different than giving your friend a place to crash for a few days?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 11:51 PM
1

The difference between the two doesn't matter, though, at least to some women. The question is quantifying how many women just aren't sexually moved by nice behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 10:15 PM
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No, but not all future deadbeat dads go around wearing flashing "RED FLAG!" signs. Many men will act very upstanding in the early stages of a relationship, lie about wanting commitment to get easy sex, and only later on will the woman realize he's actually a douchebag. You know, I hear this so many times. That douchebags don't wear the red flags. I disagree. I think they do, but women willfully look the other way because they are caught up with the "excitement" he brings and the bad boy behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 12:19 AM
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I'm willing to concede that both sides are at fault, but you seem to be a woman apologist. This I cannot understand. Are you assuming innocence in poor judgment? There are sheer numbers of people (men and women) who know something is bad for them but decide to do it anyway. If you smoke cigarettes, for example, you exercise poor judgment and you're damn right I'm gonna call you out on that. In this case, cigarette makers are assholes for selling death, but you still decided to put the cancer sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 10:56 PM
2

Plenty of terpers in this thread have thrown out the claim that absentee fathers are predominantly "Dark Triad" types i.e. TRP's idea of "alpha" men. that's false, dark triad is one type of alpha but not the defacto alpha. tons of alphas aren't dark triad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 10:32 PM
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Her cheating was WORSE! He clearly didn't even know why he cheated, according to her, spur of the moment decision that was purely physical. She breached his trust even more by cheating WHILE HE WAS AWAY and worse, cheating with a roommate who her boyfriend most undoubtedly had to have had suspicion of. You don't just get drunk and fuck your roommate, I've gotten drunk with my female roommate plenty of times... nope, she had to have been brooding on that decision. The hamster is strong with this …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:26 PM
1

For every stay-at-home dad, that's more high-paying positions that open up for women and one less man for the lower-ranking women to compete for. Now you know...there aren't enough stay-at-home dads for that to even happen. I'm not arguing against your logic; it's theoretically sound, but you'll never see it happening so it's not really useful to convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/14 04:45 PM
1

Examples: If a seat is available on public transit next to a man, take that seat rather than one next to a woman. If you are walking outside in the dark close to a woman walking alone, cross the street so that she doesn’t have to worry someone is following her. If a woman is standing alone on a subway platform, stand some distance away from her. But isn't feminism for women AND men? Aren't we "equal"?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 10:42 PM
1

The feminist lost all credibility when she called him a chillwave artist. He's been kicking around way before that trend. Trash article
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 06:10 PM
1

Black women use it. Alot. It's also becoming more common, in my area, for college girls (of all ethnicities)
/r/trpGAME30/07/14 03:16 AM
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I mean.. it's way different. Plus you're talking about some BDSM shit -- the girls who are into that shit are way more sex-positive than just normal girls. I think it'd be privvy to the topic to post an estimated ratio of girls WHO ARE STRANGERS that you approach vs. those that you bed. i.e. out of the last 20 girls that are complete strangers that you approach, you've bedded x amount. And there are so many variables to this it's not even funny. Location being one. The "kink" shit is another. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 02:03 PM
1

I was a typical case: Spend 19 years being a virgin "nice guy", finally decided to man up and tell a girl I wanted to have sex with her gasp, she responded favorably. It's funny because in this infantile state of awakening, I was doing stereotypical "alpha" things and kind of getting in my own way. She told me, "You don't have to come off as hard, I'm already gonna have sex with you." Pussy whipped me. Second relationship I tolerated my girl hanging out with guys after hours. Didn't wake up unti…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 01:42 PM
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Black here: I don't put up with shit from black women. Lol. edit: I never dated one.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:36 PM
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From a comment on the video: Barry Wilson5 hours ago +unicornpastry Did you miss the part where they tried to rob him of his property and then had no hesitation about threatening him verbally and physically? These incidents are rare, but not anomalies. The women who do this, like the girl who assaulted the kid with the drone a few weeks ago, are not hardened criminals. They are regular women who for someone reason do not fear any consequences for attacking a man...legal or otherwise. Do you thin…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 10:15 AM
1

An example would be advising men to no longer view women as individual people, but as a number (HB9, for example). That comes more from the PUA community, like r/seduction. I rarely see that in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 12:49 AM
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where do you live bro?
/r/seduction15/06/14 07:05 PM
1

I can also attest to upgrading or "resetting" from a categorical position. Mostly to do with my physique -- I was bone skinny all throughout high school and college and finally started working out and gaining muscle mass and confidence. It has worked wonders on my game and success with women.
/r/seduction30/05/14 11:27 PM
2

Nice "clickbait" esque title lmao
/r/seduction30/05/14 11:00 PM
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I was rushing into this thread to say, "Like Plato's Allegory?" haha, nice one.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 08:06 PM
1

I remember the quote as: "For every bad bitch, there's a nigga tired of fuckin her." Joe Budden :)
/r/seduction19/05/14 10:54 PM
2

Hit the gym if you haven't started already.
/r/seduction19/05/14 10:52 PM
1

light bulb just went off in my head
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 07:49 PM
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I try to keep in mind young boys (boys or are 15 or younger) might read this and take it the wrong way. I was 12 when I read this article. I realized it was just humor back then, much like all the rest of the articles, and I'm no worse off today. being a preteen boy isn't akin to being a dumbass who can't comprehend any level of subtlety....
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 07:32 PM
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It's probably from our members here.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 07:23 PM
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they're being manipulated not to think so in the first place. Gaslighting, as it were.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 07:18 PM
2

On some Emarosa type shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 07:00 PM
2

Who's she's gonna feel closer to? The guy who works with her all day or the guy she sees in the evening who's tired from work? Exactly. This is money.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 05:13 PM
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Because women have to portray themselves as not being easy, and not being manipulated by a man, and not being one of many in some guy's stable of HB's. Side note: It's actually quite funny when women go off on this, "It's such a double standard to call girls sluts but no one ever calls guys sluts!" It's like fair enough, but "player" evokes the same idea and has just the amount of shame attached to it!
/r/seduction29/04/14 12:59 PM
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No homo my dude, but I can see you pulling chicks with light game no problem. Seddit seems like it strengthened your game so you had all bases covered going in with hot chicks who obviously wanted you to go balls deep. The rest from the FR sounded like logistics, mental "foreplay". Congrats.
/r/seduction27/04/14 01:31 PM
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When I got D and A's name I asked for their names first and held out my hand. I didn't do a man handshake I put my four fingers under each girls( separately) and for a second just lightly brushed my thumb on top of their four finger, both smiled when I did this. I like this. Gonna add to my repertoire.
/r/seduction27/04/14 01:29 PM
1

that is why r/trueoffmychest was born.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 12:07 AM
1

There's like one sketchy area of Baltimore ... Inner Harbour/Fells Point, the main part of UofM, Hampden are all good areas. The only Wire-y parts I saw were all contained in the inner city, and there would be no reason to go out there anyway haha (unless, like me you had to pass through commuting to work)
/r/seduction19/04/14 12:18 PM
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now on facebook I see the gf posting things like "____ would be a great father for ___ " with a picture of my friend and the kid, as well as " ___ is the man of my life." Get your friend to r/theredpill, pronto.
/r/seduction19/04/14 12:15 PM
1

Your point isn't lost. If everyone let their confirmation biases get in the way, our world would be in trouble. "A black person robbed me once so I really don't like hanging around black people." LOL
/r/seduction19/04/14 12:14 PM
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Many women will not outright put you in any platonic state. They will flirt and tease and IOI you just because it makes you feel good. Don't get strung along, make sure your intentions are clear and learn to walk away when you are not getting your desired results.
/r/seduction16/04/14 04:59 PM
2

girls love band dudes That's all there is to it.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:25 AM
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If this is not a troll post, I will say don't be afraid to walk away from a girl. You buckled far too quickly over an innocuous jab (your catfish comment) and if this is your third attempt trying to hang out and she flakes, you might need to look elsewhere. don't force a girl into putting forth effort.
/r/seduction18/01/14 07:31 PM
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Simple, yet straightforward. I like the bit about how you build up confidence through action. He says that after he got rejected 200-300 times, he was approaching girls with no fear. He says, "that's the universe's gift to you, for working." Well put.
/r/seduction08/01/14 03:15 PM
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Cringe. I hate the word "vibe" -- I never use it.
/r/seduction07/01/14 03:04 PM
1

From the article: Romance is being beta when your value is high enough You will notice things like this all the time all around: if a Brad Pitt type guy brings a girl flowers, it’s the most romantic gesture in the world. If a low value guy brings a high value girl flowers, it’s creepy.Girls want romantic (or beta) gestures from higher value guys. It’s actually good to do this if you have much higher value than hers. These are the types of things that will make a girl fall in love with you, beta …
/r/seduction02/12/13 03:51 PM
2

When you told her you'd be at place and time, were you inviting her or just throwing it out there? If you were just throwing it out there, that might be why she asked if you and your roommate were going. If instead you said, "Let's have a drink together, I'll be at place and time" and she's still asking about your roommate, then that is when I would clarify about it being one on one. In the past, I might have even lightly teased her about mentioning the roommate, but that was only if it was a de…
/r/seduction01/12/13 12:32 PM
1

Norfolk resident here, I think you'll either find the club atmosphere of VB really awesome or really off-putting.
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:15 AM
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You get upvote for speaking about seduction in a way I would (I'm black.. haha). I'm heading out the door but I'll digest this fully when I get back and leave real feedback.
/r/seduction12/11/13 12:56 AM
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Think about it like this. One day you'll be on your deathbed. Will it really matter that that one time when you were 20 you got rejected by this girl or that girl? I know that is morbid sounding advice and may not help, but here's an anecdote from the other night. Before I start, I'd also like to point out to you that I commuted for 5 years of college while living with my parents too. So I feel your pain. I was at a local bar with my female friend and her 3 other female friends. Eventually more …
/r/seduction10/11/13 02:27 AM
1

just curious, what's your country? Okcupid is free and seems to be very internationally widespread.
/r/seduction07/11/13 07:42 PM
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Like /u/synthrockftw said, it's 2013 and texting is here to stay. Why the steadfast negative attitudes toward texting? Sure it's easy to commit texting mistakes, you can't read body language etc. but it's not inherently bad. I and many guys I know have had success with it. That being said, I find it best for my style if I establish early on that I'm comfortable with talking about sex in a general, non-creepy, relaxed way because what will happen is that both of you will start speaking about sex …
/r/seduction07/11/13 12:57 PM
1

Nice work man! I see that inner game is working well for you.
/r/seduction07/11/13 12:39 PM
1

no disrespect as i know plenty of girls into that kind of music, but to be honest it is kinda male-oriented music. You shouldn't really expect any girls to know what's up with it. That being said, I'm a fan of music, and it's easy for me to connect on a wide range of music. Everything except mainstream pop and country. If a girl likes that, I know for a fact I won't be trying to connect with her on that level. It'll bother you, but try to push through it. And if you want to expand your taste int…
/r/seduction06/11/13 08:41 PM
1

I really want to start a no fap mission. What would be a TL;DR approach? I don't want to delete everything cold turkey, I think it'll be better to wean off it.
/r/seduction05/11/13 03:02 AM
1

Co-sign to the fullest. That was exactly my situation. I could never sneak women in my house because my mom is such a light sleeper and also had security cameras in the house (yikes...) before I moved out, my hookups were confined to friend's places, party houses, and my car. The very fact that I knew I couldn't bag a girl at my house became somewhat of a limiting belief and I'd approach less because of it. Being on my own has been moderately successful because you can always just say "Wanna go …
/r/seduction02/11/13 07:30 PM
1

Fixed. Thanks!
/r/seduction02/11/13 12:13 PM
2

This is an amazing read. It gives clarification to the "catch a fish" saying and also what others need to, at a very basic level, keep in mind when it comes to how both sexes perceive attractiveness.
/r/seduction30/10/13 02:17 AM
1

Masterfully done man! Upvoted. I loved this
/r/seduction28/10/13 12:39 AM
1

"Find a girl that's receptive, ask to come over." - nothing wrong with that, humble advice to the OP. "I almost got laid this way" - fact. It almost happened. "but I had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to feel guilty" - reason why I stayed faithful that night. "But we talked about sex the whole night until I left" - another fact of the evening. Sorry if you misinterpreted man. I find that sometimes people who think something is a brag are just mad about the facts of the situation, tha…
/r/seduction27/10/13 09:38 PM
1

I'm disappointed that you thought I was bragging about that.
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:52 PM
-4

Lol you mad?
/r/seduction27/10/13 07:27 PM
3

Find a girl that's receptive, ask to come over. I almost got laid this way, but I had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to feel guilty. But we talked about sex the whole night up until I left.
/r/seduction27/10/13 02:47 PM
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Am I missing something? You start off saying you're focusing on your career rather than dating, and then you say you're dating a wonderful guy that makes less than you. The fact that you're not demanding this guy to be Mr. Wealthy (and the fact that you're dating at all) means you are not the type of gal that that article is referring to o_O
/r/seduction26/10/13 01:10 AM
1

Upvoted. Excellent post
/r/seduction06/10/13 11:10 PM
1

You make good points. Although I am coming from the point of view that if she legitimately wanted to do it, and I take her rejection at face value, she may be kicking herself for not following through and will work to gain my attention back after she sees it's lost. Or she doesn't. Whatever, point is to keep on truckin. ;)
/r/seduction06/10/13 04:51 PM
3

Yeah.. it was legitimately getting late.. if I had more time I would have, but abundance mentality (I have a date with a new girl tomorrow)
/r/seduction06/10/13 02:43 PM
2

Care to share a mini review or some highlights from the book though???
/r/seduction03/10/13 02:46 AM
2

Dude, can you pastebin that text convo so it's easier to read (line breaks). You f-closed, so, congratulations there. Man, she was giving you some heat on the text messages near the end. Now that you hit, I wouldn't take much more of her attitude, nah mean. Let her know you ain't with the bullshit.
/r/seduction22/09/13 01:15 AM
1

I like The Juggler Method by Juggler (aka Wayne Elise). I don't seem to see the dude mentioned here alot. Maybe he's old school. Different books will be easier to incorporate into your existing game than others.
/r/seduction19/09/13 06:26 PM
3

Upvote for the title alone. I have no advice, but I am interested in seeing how this will turn out. How old are you?
/r/seduction15/09/13 07:23 PM
2

I agree, you should back off a bit. Easier said than done but you don't wanna get the oneitis. If you're on social media, gram yourself hanging out with someone else. Not to make her jealous, just to let her know you still have a life outside of her.
/r/seduction15/09/13 05:09 PM
1

One of my most impressive pickups was when I was in a really douche, materialistic nightclub full of attractive people. I saw a really hot blonde chick with fake tits around a bunch of short, ugly guys. Being drunk, and full of courage, I walked up to her and said “you’re way too hot to be with these guys.” (Kids, don’t try this at home). She immediately hugged me and said “OMG you’re sooo right!” I was in, and only because I had successfully guessed that a really attractive woman at a really do…
/r/seduction13/09/13 01:26 AM
3

From someone who used to spend a lot of time playing video games/studying IT/working an IT desk job now, gym is your friend. Unfortunately it took me til after college to realize that, but, never too late.
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:02 AM
2

Do you currently work out?
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:42 AM
2

It's a pretty good book, I need to do a review of it soon.
/r/seduction10/09/13 04:43 PM
4

Carry your ass out of r/seduction, lol.
/r/seduction09/09/13 07:51 PM
1

I was just joking man. I've got a lot to work on myself; that's why I'm here too.
/r/seduction09/09/13 05:47 PM
1

Baron, you're exuding a lot of confidence just through your text posts. I'm sure this confidence is spilling over in real life. From one G to another, keep up the good work fam. And don't worry about the haters on this thread.
/r/seduction09/09/13 04:30 PM
0

magic hat. my sir, i like your style. my favorite microbrew hands down
/r/seduction09/09/13 04:15 PM
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I've texted my way int a girl's pants before, but you definitely want to do the bulk of seduction in person. There are people who believe you should ONLY text to arrange meetings. I say that's a bit too restrictive. How old are you? I think the "text to only arrange meetings" thing is mostly advice for the 25+ crowd. College-aged girls and under love to fuckin text, and you can run a lil bit of game there to keep the interaction fresh between real life meets. In my experience, the less smileys a…
/r/seduction09/09/13 04:05 PM
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legitimately, i think we need a subreddit for betas and AFCs though. think of it like a support group. what should we name him?
/r/seduction09/09/13 03:56 PM
0

Stop analyzing other men too, that's real beta. So what if they got more muscle definition or whatever. Focus on you and get yourself right, not in comparison to them, but what you want to see in yourself.
/r/seduction08/09/13 04:18 PM
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Well, a smiley here and there is fine, I do it too. But I've found that overusing the smiley makes me come off as if I'm too invested. Too many smileys and "haha"s can throw off your demeanor, in my opinion.
/r/seduction08/09/13 02:32 PM
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Become the best version of yourself. I agree.
/r/seduction08/09/13 02:28 PM
1

I don't see Juggler getting mention too much on his sub. One thing he definitely helped me with was the 90/10 rule, aka be prepared to supply 90% of the conversation until it evens out to a 50/50 conversation. I back Models because even if it's not wham-bam PUA tactics, it's killer for inner game. It gives the AFC a strong base to work on.. highly recommended.
/r/seduction08/09/13 02:20 PM
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Put the P on him. Problem solved
/r/seduction08/09/13 02:08 PM
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Continue, but hold off on too many smileys. It can be tempting to use them with the frequency she uses them, but if you even halved the usage of smileys in the texts, you're gonna instantly come across as more suave and confident.
/r/seduction08/09/13 02:07 PM
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or if you're not exactly 40, any other activity will do fine. and when you hang with her try not to let it be mostly about work.
/r/seduction07/09/13 03:47 PM
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I thought my seven kills in a year after losing the v was doing work...but congrats man. Pussy changes your mood. you're ecstatic and it's spilling over clearly in this post haha
/r/seduction07/09/13 03:45 PM
1

yeah i'm gonna try to find it via ebook for my ipad though.
/r/seduction07/09/13 01:50 PM
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Co-sign this post. Forgetting her name is gonna make you look high status. as if you meet so many people that you can't remember names.
/r/seduction06/09/13 07:26 PM
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404 Not Found broski
/r/seduction06/09/13 06:17 PM
5

Why is it "fuck that guy"? Nobody likes a sausage fest.
/r/seduction06/09/13 06:00 PM
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You're going to a sleepover with just you and three girls; no offense, but do you think they think you're just "one of the girls" who won't try to make a move on them and they just genuinely enjoy your company as a friend?
/r/seduction30/08/13 02:03 PM
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Nobody touched on this one but you might wanna be wary of using obscure references around women that might not "get" it.. I know Lana Del Rey is mainstream as fuck right about now, but, I'm just speaking from my own experience. If she doesn't know Lana, chances are she doesn't know shit about shit. Gonna have to play your references dumber next time. Familiarize yourself with useless knowledge (like Miley Cyrus twerking) that you can throw out to make yourself look like you're "down to earth" as…
/r/seduction30/08/13 05:01 AM
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Hell yes.
/r/seduction30/08/13 04:54 AM
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Get your ass to r/grammar dude
/r/seduction26/08/13 03:34 AM
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Nice! Correct me if I'm wrong but a "shit test" usually implies that she's interested in you? Sometimes the vibe I get is more of "yeah you better not be hitting on me".
/r/seduction26/08/13 12:59 AM
1

In hindsight I probably shouldn't be worried, the only thing that I'm wary against is that she's batshit pretty and didn't want her to see me "falling" for her so quickly, girls like her love the chase, I wanted to play it out letting her chase me some more, but I thought I might have killed that by blurting out my intentions on the same night. Hopefully my impression stuck hard though and it's not a big deal.
/r/seduction25/08/13 01:40 PM
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The only thing I sent her was immediately after saying "oops wrong text" and then a ;) but she hasn't texted back. I'm definitely gonna let it play itself out, and wait for her to text back (if she does) and if not, no harm, but thanks for the advice, I must own it!
/r/seduction25/08/13 01:28 PM
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It depends on why she rejected you though. Maybe she's talking to plenty of guys at once and doesn't want to commit. Maybe she doesn't "realize" how awesome you are because she's shallow or a bitch. Either way, only be spiteful if she was rude or cocky about rejecting you. Show rude and cocky girls that they are not the shit. If she's just a normal girl and she wasn't feeling you then no harm no foul, I've been rejected by a few girls that I bagged like even 3 years after the fact. Don't give up…
/r/seduction23/08/13 09:02 PM
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That's too stern. You're not her dad, bro, so don't "reprimand" her for flaking--that's what really shows that she got you all butthurt or whatever. Be suave about it. Tell her your time is too valuable or something. Be cocky and playful but you gotta say it half-jokingly. But the best way to deal with it is to show her through action that she isn't the only thing in your world. Try keeping a light (few days to a week) distance from her in which you hang out with another girl or something. If sh…
/r/seduction23/08/13 06:34 PM
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