ITT I will thank the seddit community and offer words of encouragement to anyone lurking out there doubting that the seddit principles can be applied to your own life.
I can attest that when you're either just starting out with seduction, or maybe if you're not even new at the game, but have been living in the same holding patterns for years, it can be really hard to grasp, appreciate and incorporate some of the advice you see here.
Mantras like "be outcome independent" or "develop inner game" or "accept that you're going to get rejected" were at odds with my comfort zone/safety net modes of interactions. Meaning, I'd always play it safe, not even daring to approach because I couldn't find the value in getting rejected.
Mind you, I'm not socially inept or anything, and I have had two great relationships and subsequent lays. It doesn't matter what level of competency you're at with picking up women. Even if you are a virgin, as I was up until my second year of college, you can improve. With just checking up on posts in this sub everyday, slowly but surely I'm breaking out of old habits and adopting positive new ones.
Reading this and still doubting yourself? That's fine. You don't have to believe that you are capable of sarging random women and opening up multiple sets without any fear of rejection. Lord knows that I didn't just flip a switch and become some RSD bro, and my personal goals with seduction and self improvement are far from being met. My growth is slow and gradual, but I'm already seeing noticeable results.
Since I've been reading and participating in this sub, I've gotten more respect from men, I've been engaging more women, and most importantly, I've been having fun going out and meeting new people.
So, TL;DR: I'd like to thank seddit for empowering me.
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