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Good luck my friend. My final piece of advice is the outcome doesn't matter as much as the act. What really matters is that you did it. Meditate on that thought for a little bit.
/r/seduction22/03/22 11:34 PM
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My Friend I'm going to give it to you straight, you haven't even tried yet. Imagine this in your mind for a second: there are two guys both interested in one girl. Guy A is friendly, but a little shy. He's had a crush on this girl for a good amount of time, but thinks he will ask when the moment "feels right". He rationalizes in his mind why he hasn't asked her out yet because he's understandably nervous. Maybe one day he'll ask. Guy B is also friendly, but comfortable with himself, and not worr…
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:59 PM
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OP I suspect you are a bit younger, so take this advice to heart-this is reactive and won't work in any positive manner. If she posted a photo and you're attempting to do the same right after, it's very clear you're doing it out of spite and it's not genuine. You're hurt bro, take some time to reflect on these feelings. The most attractive quality you could do is let her know it doesn't bother you. Go live your life and enjoy the moment. Flood your Snapchat or IG stories with that stuff.
/r/seduction03/03/22 07:43 PM
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Friend, the best thing you can do is acknowledge regardless if thats objectively true or not, you're in this situation and the only thing to do is get better at what you can control.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:48 PM
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Brother would you care to share some photos of yourself? I'm willing to bet if we all saw you we'd say oh wow a pretty average looking dude. Attraction isn't just a physical aspect, it's a mental one too.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:32 AM
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Man OP you really struck a nerve with this post I guess. I think it's good to honestly give people a gut check from time to time and say take ownership of your life and circumstances.
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:51 AM
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A couple of thoughts to ponder on: "Hurt people hurt people" "This nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so" There's no reason to come off rude and berate others comments. You need to change your outlook on life my man. You might be ugly, but your personality based of these comments definitely is.
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:24 PM
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This is legitimately too stupid of a sentence to legitimately reply to Honestly the fact you responded like this shows pretty clearly why you aren't having success.
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:15 PM
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People are 90% the same everywhere....lolno. This is one of the dumbest things I've ever heard As someone who's been in the military for the last 12 years and traveled all over the world I can tell you in a general overview women are the same. There's definitely cultural differences and values, but overall talking to a girl In Romania, Guam, Spain, New York or wherever is fundamentally the same.
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:47 PM
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The best strategy would be probably not to do it my man. You are specifically looking at a demographic that is intentionally looking to be showered with monetary benefit. In the same way going to s strip club isn't a good place to go for authentic seduction. Sure you might meet one or two you can win over with your charm, but 99% are there for a reason, and it's money.
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:44 PM
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It's a general term that typically implies you had sex. What I'm curious about is if you slept together (literally in the same bed) why would you not want to have sex? As a guy if a girl spent the night I would personally think the implication was meant to be sexual in nature (as would 90% of others). No judgement, just curious.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:42 PM
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Well if living your life in misery (that's what it kind of sounds like) is what you want to do then live your best life. Keep in mind everyone here is telling you it's probably best to move on with your life because this isn't healthy for you. Remember the point of struggling in life is to learn and grow from it. Don't let fear or complacency hold you back from living your life.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:56 PM
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I mean if the comment above doesn't scream I have no morals I don't know what does?
/r/seduction11/02/22 11:34 PM
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Bro, are you Patrick Bateman or something?
/r/seduction11/02/22 11:30 PM
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I'm not sure if you and your wife are in an open relationship (if that's the case then live your life), but if you aren't, and I genuinely mean this-you're an idiot. If that hurts your feelings, good. You need to pull your head out of your ass.
/r/seduction11/02/22 11:09 PM
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Brother you need to wake up, and get out of this relationship for both of your sakes. Long distance relationships can work, but are very difficult! Mix this with depression, insecurity, ect and it's very easy to go down a bad road. It's very clear from your writing you're in a scarcity mentality, and that's not a health base for any relationship. You two can absolutely love each other but come to a consensus that perhaps this isn't the right moment in time. This is what adults do, and you should…
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:25 PM
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Honestly considering most guys on this subreddit are incels, or don't genuinely have the guts to go and actually talk to women in real life with success take a lot of these comments with a grain of salt. With that being said in my opinion there's no perfect or straight forward answer to this question. At the end of the day you want to meet someone you have a genuine connection with beyond physicality. Someone you would consider a legitimate friend who you enjoy doing things with on a regular bas…
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:52 PM
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I'm sorry to hear you've had a hard time in this field my man-genuinely I am. At the same time looks are not the end all be all, and the longer you tell yourself that it will become a self fullfiling prophecy. I'm 31, 5'5" and am starting to thin up top, and there's nothing I can do about this. What I can do however is chose how I utilize my features to the best of my ability. I can learn more about fashion, I can go to the gym, I can learn more about social interactions, and so on. I have been …
/r/seduction23/01/21 11:55 AM
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I mean I understand that, I'm talking about how you shifted her frame once you got back to your place.
/r/seduction12/11/20 03:08 PM
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Would you care to share in more detail what happened once you reached your apartment? Way to go on the reframing man!
/r/seduction11/11/20 01:51 PM
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As someone who has struggled with drinking I can completely relate to your post. Going out and not doing it can at times feel weird, but I'd encourage you to remember it's only as weird as you make it. One decent line I have taken a hold of is this. Her: why aren't you drinking? Me: I'm in cutting season. You then roceed to grab her hand and put it on your abdomen. I say this line because I'm in decent shape already, and a certified personal trainer so its congruent to my lifestyle. Beyond that,…
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:58 AM
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Well then I wish you all the best!
/r/seduction30/10/20 11:25 AM
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Let me give my best arm chair doctor advice I have haha. The short answer-your ego. It's actually fairly easy to see too (which is genuinely a good thing because if you can identify the problem you can fix it quicker). I noticed right off the bat in your post you listed all these different external qualities on why you are a solid catch. I'm willing to bet you have tied yourself, and your identity to all these things, which bring you validation. Therefore whenever you see other guys succeeding y…
/r/seduction30/10/20 11:11 AM
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Hell yeah man, way to go on getting into self development. Understand it's a slow process, but over time it pays major dividends. From the sounds of it you are going in with a loaded hand, so I think you'll be solid. I wish I could have your height and age haha. If eve have any questions just ask the group or shoot me a message directly. One recommendation that will totally bring your game to the next level in my opinion is recording your conversations.
/r/seduction30/10/20 10:50 AM
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Way to go man! Any plans for a third date?
/r/seduction30/10/20 10:45 AM
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How do you figure? I still go out man.
/r/seduction28/10/20 06:14 PM
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Bro this post is my spirit animal. Blunt, and to the point about cutting all the BS limitations we make in our head. This content is gold, and makes me gut check myself. I will definitely use this, and share with others. Good stuff man 🤙
/r/seduction28/10/20 01:01 PM
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I have a lot of thoughts on this to be honest. Firstly, all this ultimately means that regardless of your situation In life all you can do is make the best out of any situation. I want to uplift anyone who's down and having doubt, at the same time I will always be honest and blunt to a point. there is a giant difference between "being yourself" and "being your best self". On an online dating app for sure it's all at face value, but I refuse to believe for any second that one variable like that w…
/r/seduction21/10/20 10:23 AM
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Look man if you want to have a genuine conversation because you're in a funk feel free to message me. We all have moments where we get down. However I refuse to accept anyone is permanently in a spot where they can't better themselves despite the odds. It's mentality my brother.
/r/seduction20/10/20 06:22 PM
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I'm not going to get in a back and forth. I wish the best for you man, sincerely.
/r/seduction20/10/20 06:02 PM
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I'm going to be 100% with you man, if you are here for a pity party brace yourself. If you purely think your height is the ultimate make or break for you, you need to pull your head out, and get a reality check (I mean this in the best way). Life doesn't give a flying fck about your looks, genetics, or status. It can flat out be a cold and brutal world. With that being said, your determination for success or failure is 100% in your head period. I'm 5'5", 31, have a slightly thinning hairline, an…
/r/seduction20/10/20 05:54 PM
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I felt this post as a fellow and former fat kid (I'm 5'5" and 151lbs, but formerly 198 at my highest weight). If you need any advice or help message me man. I'm a certified personal trainer now, and can give you good advice on working out, and some basic nutrition stuff. Always here to help the homies. Keep strong brother.
/r/seduction19/10/20 11:15 AM
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Man, there is no simple trick other than just to do it. All people struggle with approach anxiety to some degree or another. At the end of the day you just have to pull the trigger. I totally get this is easier said than done, but let's work this out in your head (judging by your post I bet you're a pretty logical individual). Understand you are trying to logic out an emotional feeling. This is the exact same thing some will try in a club or bar environment to muster up the courage to go talk to…
/r/seduction19/10/20 09:37 AM
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I definitely relate to this post on so many levels. I think it's safe to say that we all have introverted and extroverted qualities bundled up into one, but it's a grind all the time to move on the spectrum from left to right. I think one of the best analogies I've found with social momentum is this: social momentum, and being in state is a lot like climbing up a ladder to jump off a platform into a pool. When you initially get to the top and the edge of the platform you look down at the pool an…
/r/seduction16/10/20 02:53 PM
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