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| 3 | State of Mind - Chateau Heartiste - March 4, 2008Being RP never meant following a bunch of set and defined rules. It fucking sucks seeing a bunch of people become dependent and mold themselves to a specific way of thinking, and the current lack of embracing a self defined path is showing in recent posts and comments. The goal is really to stop listening to rules like a dog sitting for a treat. Here, you’re supposed to get a toolset that will help you do it rationally and truly become yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | If RP Became Mainstream, How Would It Affect Female Dating Practices?Religious dogma is always at the backbone of every perturbed society, even within the individuals that seem to reject it; the only difference is that the figure worshipped is not a symbolic deity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Ask Yourself This Question Every MorningThis. A mission isn’t simply a list of tasks given to you by your boss. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/19 09:06 PM |
| 7 | Do not let your mind be corrupted and consumed by the blackpill. My warning to some of the younger guys on here.That mentality can only fester in an echo chamber via the neglecting of the reality in front of oneself. That human interaction isn’t always black and white. Such an improper translation is the exact reason an incel cannot communicate correctly with a woman. Aka a result of the ‘internet matrix’ and mistaking its mechanics of communication as an offshoot of reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/19 05:22 PM |
| 8 | Playing the Devil’s Advocate: What’s Our Endgame here?Is real estate the best method you’ve found to do that? I’m still young but trying to forge a plan to escape that endless work cycle as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/19 05:21 AM |
| 1 | White house political censorship reporting toolAgreed. I trust his “side” of the debate as much as the left. Both are being driven by imperatives other than preserving the integrity of the nation(hint: they’re very similar motives). | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/19 03:54 AM |
| 5 | CH: Women Would Rather Be Miserable Than Bored | “I am finally dating someone who is kind, and smart, and likeable and attractive, and great, and the sex is awesome.” But…. “He’s emotionally available…and actually likes me.”She had already swung branches before the breakup | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/19 11:36 PM |
| 41 | CH: Women Would Rather Be Miserable Than Bored | “I am finally dating someone who is kind, and smart, and likeable and attractive, and great, and the sex is awesome.” But…. “He’s emotionally available…and actually likes me.”I’m assuming it’s hopping, like getting into a new relationship right after an old one. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/19 03:40 PM |
| 2 | The Approved Narrative: Why Dissent Must Be CrushedThe electoral college was put in place to stop one thing specifically: ‘stupid people in large groups’. For all you sophisticated gentlemen out there, it’s also known as “tyranny of the majority”. The founders knew that the many aspects of our system could be manipulated by able hands. We should be defending these systemic protections at all costs. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Rediscovered the Red PillI keep sinking back into that mindset and this comment brought me back out of it. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/19 11:19 PM |
| 13 | Google Moves to Address Wage Equity, and Finds It’s Underpaying Many Men (NY Times)You’ve looked hard if you can find even one source that you can trust. The amount of skepticism I have to use while reading basic news now is atrocious. However, there is a benefit: that skepticism has positively bled into other societal interpretations (recognizing the upside down clown world around us). | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 06:23 AM |
| 2 | The line between Manipulation and Emotionally intelligent conversation skillsStill improving my ability to cause said “emotional spikes”. I’ve read the sidebar and other important posts, any other tips? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 01:57 AM |
| 5 | Women Who Don’t Have Babies Go Crazy | "Western females are so mentally ill that at least 25% of them need to be medicated with pharmaceutical drugs. Their sterility and the extreme enabling of their behavior created a perfect storm that is leading to societal mass hysteria."My personal opinion is that many of the women are being lied to in a way similar to beta billy and his crowd of incels. The lies divide us, teach us to hate one another. We are of the same species, the same elements. The best women I’ve met were ones who were willing to work together with me and fulfill our life passions. I helped her discern reality from illusion. She told me the emphasis of nonverbal signals when her feelings would overwhelm her. I’ve had a woman describe to me her thought pro… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/19 06:47 AM |
| 4 | Femininity and the Cancerous FEMALE EGOYoung girls are now born into this mindset that develops in their mind at such a young age. Young Stacy will never know that she could possibly behave another way, because all the other girls are constantly staring at their phones and gossiping with each other. Ads on her phone constantly bombard her with messages of “female empowerment” (the businesses doing this think it’s a way to increase their supply of green paper, btw). I’m not going to tell a woman how she should behave, but nobody recog… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Nobody is giving away million dollar adviceThis thought was in my head earlier this morning. My mother got me a bunch of those “how to become a millionaire” books. I couldn’t stomach telling her how much these wouldn’t help me whatsoever... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/18 09:09 PM |
| 15 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckservativesThe social aspect is a large indicator of credibility in the newest generation, due to constantly being bombarded with it via their phones. Most of my 18-21 year old peers don’t understand political policy. School didn’t teach them that. So all of the newer methods of information spreading, like a celebrity saying “fuck Trump” on Twitter or a tabloid reporting “OMG Donald Trump licked a door handle”, have a much larger impact than what the Libtards or Cuckservatives say about their policy. What’… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 04:06 AM |
| 12 | Men are Responsible for the Decline of the WestAs everything around us goes to shit, as we slowly inch towards social dystopia, as the meaning of equality gets rewritten by those in power, is the next occurrence going to be the total societal subjugation of non-conforming ideas? With some buddies I saw a new Pixar film and sat there thinking that I’d never show this to a child. It saddens me to think that parents rely on these films to instill values into children, like a tumor that slowly grows as they age. The twenty first century image of… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/18 06:43 AM |
| 13 | Learn how to game mentally ill women, because most women are mentally illRaw dog and crazy can also carry a risk of disease. I’d also suggest using condoms you brought yourself as well, extra precaution can do nothing but help. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 10:06 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid being a TRP NPCIncluding synthesis is required to make a point credible and, if you’re trying to convince someone in debate, is even more needed. It’s like most arguments given against the left and the right by my colleagues today: they’re inherently because x, y, and z reasons (usually their own confirmation bias anyway). The backbone of said arguments? Never there. Never take a person’s suggestion seriously if they can’t answer this simple question: “how did you get to that conclusion?” Chances are if they d… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/18 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Fucking commiesAgreed with the thought that one can’t fight the system using resources within it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/18 04:30 AM |
| 8 | Yas gurl! The classic "That's so true/me"™In all honest, TRP is guilty of that too. Agreed. Having a constant awareness even of one’s own bias is imperative to navigate the shit storm that is today’s ideologies. If someone is reading this and doesn’t read anything, including TRP, with a skeptical mind, they’re doing it wrong. The difference in North Korea’s “news”, if you could even call it that, is that the incentive to censor is to keep their people down by force. Here in the US it’s monetary incentive that plays a part in keeping peo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/18 11:31 PM |
| 12 | Yas gurl! The classic "That's so true/me"™That’s exactly how they are designed. Whenever I try and explain to people that this is where societal problems are being inflamed, or how this is the mechanism of capitalism, I get responses of disgust from the people who choose to remain in their world of monetized depression. I love how our economy runs and the opportunity for success but that doesn’t mean anyone should shroud themselves from how it truly works. One response was “people aren’t really that greedy”. It’s not even a refusal of r… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/18 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Why the fuck am I getting shit tested a ton by everyone recently?Thanks for the much needed slap in the face. A strong mental frame requires a strong physical one too, need to work on that. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Why the fuck am I getting shit tested a ton by everyone recently?If it’s not on hard mode then there’s no test of skill. I’m sure all of us here will be glad we chose this mode in the long run. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Why the fuck am I getting shit tested a ton by everyone recently?I’m phasing in and out of the anger phase atm(no pun intended). I’m gonna admit that I should’ve done more lifting to keep up with the mental development, I’ll try and keep that in mind and have a little fun along the road! | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 10:23 PM |
| -1 | On the Shortness of LifeHe’s trying to explain that the ideas of these thinkers aren’t valued anymore by most readers here, despite a lot of TRP philosophy being based off of them. “Shiiit, Aurelius is over 2000 years old? No way can that ever help me get Stacey and her succulent boobs, who I’ve been eyeballing for six months”. The philosopher interprets and discusses their way on how life should be lived, as well as criticizing those they disagree with. I’m currently reading Voltaire. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 12:09 AM |
| 12 | The Quarantine is the best thing that has happened to TRPI'm enjoying the boost in content quality post quarantine. It's a wake up call: we as individuals need to be hyper-aware of our current societal situation and prevent ourselves from falling deeper into the abyss along with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 11:54 PM |
| 3 | What if all men had a curfew, Discussion on The ViewCan't wait until the definition of "mentally ill" is rewritten and this psyche is considered normal human behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Letting women misbehaveAgreed. I'm still young, and last week I did what you just defined: dumpster diving. Needless to say, she's ghosted and I'm not looking back. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 10:39 PM |
| 5 | Sokal 2.0 - The open secret of feminist philosophyThe problem will stretch into future offspring who grow up and are subjected to today's toxic culture, unless current societal "advances" are reversed. Last night, I talked to a friend who said verbatim: "I don't know how to speak to women". I told him about the time I went on a date with a so called feminist and forced her to pay half the tab, which she happily obliged. He was dumbfounded. I told him that equal rights = equal responsibility, and she respected my boldness to even act like that. … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 10:15 PM |
| 51 | In case you hadn't noticed....When it comes to the run-of-the-mill news stories today, Clickbait titles + fiery content > Actual facts Why? Factual evidence doesn't proliferate ad revenue. If one believes the crap reddit put in TRP's entrance, they're more likely to keep clicking on articles about how Kavanaugh is a serial rapist. Billy was never subjected to any other opinion, so he doesn't know that there's a whole other side. All he knows is what he can and has been taking in since he was born in 2000. When there's only o… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/18 11:40 PM |
| 8 | Dads and Big BrothersEvery one of us needed this in our lives, and some of us were lucky enough to have someone to do it for us. My parents divorced when I was very young. When I was a kid going through puberty, I never had that vital masculine influence. I, like every other teenage boy, wanted to fuck girls. Today, most of the boys that age are never given a toolset on how to achieve this, and are actually unaware on how to do it. Luckily, TRP would do much more than just that. Without this place I don't know if I … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 03:44 PM |
| 7 | The end of TRPI'm not giving up on my voice. Ever. Neither should any of you. Someone who wants to take it away will have to kill me. I was originally planning on enjoying the decline but the rate of descent just increased exponentially. We must defend what we still have left, to the tooth and nail. We must somehow get this knowledge spread around, it's vital at this point. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 02:53 PM |
| 2 | If You're Here, You're On Your WayNot all leftist ideology is Marxist or touts “equality of result”. It’s just the path our country is currently on... To them: anyone, even on the left, who doesn’t agree with this rigid outlook is considered a Nazi and must be silenced. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 09:31 PM |
| 5 | The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 2def shit_test: response = "Fuck you bitch." return response shit_test() | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/18 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its PowerAgreed. As a libertarian I incorporate both liberal and conservative ideas into my ideals. To assume all liberal thought is associated with the democrats or the current leftists is an exclusive way of thinking, and will contribute even more to political polarization. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 08:43 PM |
| 26 | Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its PowerThank God I wasn’t the only one who thought this. The idea of questioning everything around you and weeding out the bullshit involves doing so to TRP itself as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Field Report: First application of TRP principles leads to success (and sex)The constructive criticism TRP gives is the cornerstone of self-improvement. I didn't nearly get enough of it before coming here, and I'm sure OP is in the same boat. It took complete ego death for me to internalize the thoughts here in the correct manner, OP too will eventually move forward in the phases of swallowing the pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Weekend FR - Fucking a Girl in a LTR, Hamster Overdrive (Screenshot)This. Libertarianism is focused around individual liberty and free choice. That means things that the government has barred and regulated will now be free for people to do if they choose. However, it's subjective: it all boils down to what each person believes the government should be doing, and how to do it. That's why there is so many different kinds of libertarians. It sucks that the concept is seemingly so hard to realize. I don't hear about it too much unless I'm talking with other libertar… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Weekend FR - Fucking a Girl in a LTR, Hamster Overdrive (Screenshot)I have to agree with OP here. Libertarianism is on a wide political spectrum, and unfortunately today many think politics and ideas are based around the parties themselves. This is horrifically wrong. I'd call myself a moderate Libertarian: my views encompass ideas from people like Sanders as well as Reagan. Not gonna elaborate because that would take forever, but reducing debt through devolution and reapplying it to better areas (such as equal education opportunity) is my ideal. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Mission First, Women AlwaysFuckin Soul Eater! To actually perform well, the characters needed to have confidence in their own skill as well as their allies. Some of the themes coincidentally apply here. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Submissive women can have their downsides in relationships tooIt’s definitely good to have a woman with a little backbone. No one wants to constantly have to care for their girl like a baby (and no one should), she should be able to hold her own in pressuring situations and carves her own path just like you’re doing as well. My last LTR literally told me that some dude was hitting on her right before we met up and she said word for word, “I shattered his frame on the spot”. If you had no resistance, no shit testing when meeting her for the first time, what… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Distrust that Particular FlavourThis is true, as the winner gets to write in the history books. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 04:06 AM |
| 8 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical Thinkingvigourously insisting that human-created global warming was not only indisputable fact, but an existential threat to humanity, all because a journalist told them that some unnamed scientists said so. Most don't take the time to interpret the underlying reasons why such conventionally intelligent people take a single journalist's spin on things as undeniable fact. Today, our news is designed around only one thing: profit. One of the reasons Trump won the election was his leveraging of the media's… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingEvery time I see a 5 year old with an iPad I sigh a little. If you look at their face, it’s cold and unchanging, dead focused on whatever game their parents gave them to keep them quiet. It’s awful. When I was in my elementary years, I was reading books and developing vital skills thanks to them, such as critical thinking. I’d take my copy of the magic tree house wherever I went. I’m sure a lot of you here were similar in this sense. Now seeing how parents treat their children is extremely dishe… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 09:44 PM |
| 6 | High SMV Shit TestsSeconded. That sidebar will transform the way you view daily interactions with people. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Tips for gaining a somewhat high position in the SMP in college?Shit, I don't have much experience with sports. I guess the best option would to be to start at the rec/club level? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 12:23 AM |
| 2 | A message to those on the fenceI had a friend openly mock TRP in front of me, him unaware that I’m a subscriber here, heheh. Funny thing is that he’s not happy with himself so before that I was contemplating showing him the truth. Problem is you can’t teach someone to embrace TRP, it’s exactly like trying to change someone’s political opinion (basically impossible). I never did tell him anything, one must find TRP; this means they were looking for the advice here. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 10:05 PM |
| 3 | How to really succeed at Tinder (not just another Tinder guide, this is a detailed Tinder roadmap)Love the post, just like the above comment it is extremely logic driven and uses said logic to lay out all of the steps in an efficient manner. Your comment (and post) is literally bullshit free. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/18 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Spinning Plates Is Like Being An Air Traffic ControllerDon't promise her 6 hours and then leave an hour early - she'll hate it. Promise her twenty minutes, and give her two hours. She'll be overjoyed. I was just talking to a friend about this who was complaining on how the pizza guy said it'd be there in 30-45 minutes. However, this pizza joint always overstates the time to prevent angry customers. I told her, "If they say it'll be here in 25 minutes and come 35 minutes later, we'd be angry. But if they said the same thing and promised 45 minutes we… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 12:52 AM |
| 5 | The Man In The MirrorIronically, I just came back from the bathroom and was staring at myself in the mirror. The voice in my head was back, telling me how I looked horrible and would never get any better. I looked back at my face and realized that this voice was volatile, sometimes it praised and sometimes it insulted. Is it just his judgement? I am not sure, yet when I am mocked like that I won't stand for it. I told the voice to shut the fuck up. Once you conquer your inner demons the ones outside don't even seem … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 12:45 AM |
| 10 | 250,000 SubscribersCallum*, a 29-year-old from Western Pennsylvania, has a mild case of Asperger’s syndrome and speculates that “a great many” people on the Red Pill are likely on the spectrum. The author of that article obviously didn't even visit the subreddit. Some of the most informative information I've ever found was from here. TRP helped me change by views, sparked my persistence to lose weight, to change my life for the better. The posts here psychoanalyze human behavior regarding our natural instinct and … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/18 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Be prepared to walk away from anybody.Can confirm this, I did exactly what you said to a friend before I began the process of reversing my beta traits. He was going to hang out with a hot girl and smoke some weed. We all convinced him that it was just the weed she wanted, not anything else. Now, this could've been true, but at that moment in time I couldn't stand the thought of my friends leaving me in the dust. It seemed everyone else already had, and I couldn't bear to see one of my friends do it also. That was the only reason I a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Programming will destroy your social skillsFixed. I need to keep up with my coding or else the stacks will overflow. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Programming will destroy your social skillsShit you're right! I haven't done any coding for a while and before that it was novice level at best. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 11:04 PM |
| 24 | Programming will destroy your social skills'The method noFap determines if one is still fapping or not boolean Fap = True; if (noFap(Fap) = False) { System.out.println("Get laid"); else System.out.println("Stop fapping you loser!"); } | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/18 09:30 PM |
| 50 | My buddy's newfound success caused his (now ex) girlfriend to lose her mind.In a sense, she was hardwired... to self destruct! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 02:30 PM |
| 7 | My best bro was cheated on. She told him she was "happy that she cheated on him." He's still dating her.Dad left when I was 8 too... Good thing found this place exists! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Michael Douglas gets in front of the #MeToo storyIt's just one of those days... It's all about the he said she said bullshit Exactly what's going on here lol (On the she part at least) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 09:27 PM |
| 3 | The culmination of the pro-women movements and their unabashed abandonment of logic and reason is that their narrative can now be publicly misandric and any critical opposition is simply ignored as they march forward. Everything leading up to this has created the Hollywood sex scandal fever.Ironic these #male #allies don't realize it's the least safe position to take I think a lot of men make this mistake. These women can throw their ideas out everywhere thanks to the media, and some men just don't want to be next. The mistake they're making is that these women need their support to continue this whole thing. Without these men who submitted to these ideas early on and let them thrive, they'd never have become this embedded in our society today. Another response to this comment by /… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | STILL stuck on gaining value and achieving social successYou're right in that I am objectifying... I'm also nihilistic, arrogant, and condescending. Realizing this, I do my best to suppress the ideas that can hurt the others around me, hence I'm not regarded by others as this kind of person. However, I don't suppress the ideas in my mind, instead I try and analyze why I think the way I do, and what I can do to think a little more positively. I just can't help analyzing things, it was never my intention to follow a strategy, but it seems like I uninten… | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 09:09 PM |
| 3 | "You have to understand. Most people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured and so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it." Cognitive dissonance-whenever bias prevents someone from even considering an alternative view let alone weigh the merits.My goodness. Banning someone's RP opinion to promote "toleration". That's just plain hypocrisy. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/18 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Some motivational speech.....Second half of 2017, getting my shit together, earning the fruits of hard workHell yeah! My new years resolution is to make 2018 better then 2017 was. That was my resolution last year and it held for a good 6 months lol. But I'm ready to make this year the year. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/17 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at meGoddamit, they just had a hunting sasquatch marathon yesterday and I learned nothing from that. That shit was so bad we were just watching it for kicks. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/17 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentI'd beg to differ, OP I picked up a chick by telling her that I'd be on the play, and when she objected I started screaming "JUDGE!!! JUDGE!!!" All in all it was a good interaction. There were some sweaty dudes there though. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Don't be afraid to be a child again!I guess I'm doing this... Sometimes I'm referred to as a little immature. I suppose I act like a kid but don't actively apply it to the girls around me? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/17 01:24 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Though I don't like Roy Moore in most of his political views, I think that it's pretty fucked up he'd lose over something that's not proven. All the men who swung votes because of that reason are the reason why MeToo is a thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 11:00 PM |
| 4 | Tucker interviews women who say men should sufferUnfortunately it is impossible to leave politics out of this context because every feminazi is aligned with the left (correct me if I'm wrong). Historically, I favor the democrats' efforts to introduce healthcare reform and the like, as in the past I have benefited from these programs and want them to stick around. This is problematic in political debate because I don't completely agree with the ideologies of the far left (feminazis, marxists, etc). I get grouped (in political debate, due to ass… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/17 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Question the QuestionI just discovered Rammstein through Spotify a couple days ago. I've listened to Du Hast and Sonne so far, they're awesome! What are some of your favorites (I don't speak German lol)? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/17 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Making a boring study/jobtitle sound interestingI like to say that I'm a computer scientist and I program the robots that will one day take over the world. Poke fun at it but then shift towards your real job prospects and how they help others and shit. That's what I say, but I'm comparing that to my personality, so if that's not something you'd say then don't say it. | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Talk to EveryoneIsn't this just a repost from the sidebar? Anyways it's a good review but you should give credit from the original post. If you haven't read the sidebar yet, you need to read it! | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I've never found descriptions of "frame" to be precise enoughSounds very similar to some of the principles I just read in How to Win Friends and Influence People. One idea in the book is that winning an argument with another can be done by showing the benefits for them on your side of the table. By doing this and winning the argument, you maintain your frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/17 03:34 PM |
| 0 | The Gentleman’s Guide to Modern American DatingI have a friend who literally referred to himself as a gentleman and said to a friend and I "there's nothing that can change that". I tried to persuade him to act otherwise as his heart will be broken sooner or later... He'll learn soon enough that I was right. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/17 03:03 PM |
| 2 | I need some guidance in giving value/increasing conversation skills.Thanks for the advice man, I think I've got it from here. The best way is to learn from your own mistakes, so I'm gonna get out there and do it. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 01:46 PM |
| 3 | PerspectiveIt's like when hunting for a new job Wow, this is such a good analogy! Finding a job was a pain in the ass and took a lot of effort, and being successful in dating takes a lot of effort and is sometimes a pain in the ass. Didn't realize the similarities that existed between the two before, lol. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | I need some guidance in giving value/increasing conversation skills.I'm going to take you up on your offer of asking about reputation and social exposure. Although I have made some mistakes in the past that damaged mine, I'm in a better place then before. Most of my friend groups are tight-knit and I need others to fall back on if my relationship with one group falters. Exposure isn't a new concept to me, I'm not an introvert who struggles with anxiety in social situations, but I do struggle in finding situations to hold these value building conversations with o… | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 04:00 AM |
| 1 | I need some guidance in giving value/increasing conversation skills.First of all, thank you for these great responses, I know how much time it takes to write them. Wow, I was so lost I didn't even realize what the problem was anymore. I have another girl in which I wanted to build these connections with, and now I've realized that I pulled this same schtick on her and got the exact opposite relationship I desired. I've known this other girl for a while, and although she likes the tease (At least I think, it may not be so now) it doesn't build anything. You hit m… | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I need some guidance in giving value/increasing conversation skills.Here's an example, it's a little vague because I cannot recall the entire conversation: We were walking outside, it was super cold that night. Me: "If you wanna cross, lets just go now there's no cars around" Her: "I can't do it unless I know a car won't hit me" She pushes the button yet a few minutes pass and the walk symbol doesn't appear. She starts hitting the button multiple times, and the walk symbol finally appears. Walking across the street, I say "Do you even know how to press a button?… | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Law 38 explains why a lot of you here are actually struggling.This is quite a problem of mine. Another is gaining friends who have this lifestyle that attracts high value girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you approach on small campuses?Do you have any other tips regarding starting out in college and meeting new people? I'm asking because next fall I'll be in that predicament and want to be prepared for it. I'm working on inner game to have that all set by then. Unfortunately, in high school currently I am trying to expand my social circle but my past interactions with others and failure to socialize dug me into a hole that I'm slowly climbing back out of, albeit a bit late. This inaction plagues me: I want to meet new people a… | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 04:08 AM |
| 3 | What is the most diverse city in the US for a single minority guy to move to where he can date women of any race?A minority guy can succeed in any city if he's in the right mindset. | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | The Montage GenerationSelf-improvement isn't a glorious endeavor. It's the most unrewarding thing you'll ever do, for days after days, months after months. It's slow, cold, boring, embarrassing, lonely and exhausting. Day after day after day. Until the day where it's all worth it. That's some sidebar worthy shit right there. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 02:54 AM |
| 6 | The life of a pervert!I'm ruthless towards what I want, but have trouble hiding it behind the mask that you speak of. This puts me in a tough position: Try and achieve these goals and destroy my social stature or keep the mask and hold my current position, but I want to get higher up the ladder. I need some guidance. I've read on giving value, I have a strong frame, I've improved myself a ton over this past year. But keeping it behind the mask is hard for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/17 08:52 PM |
| 36 | Why/How TRP Has Helped Me FinanciallyAmen to this. If one stays fit, has a strong frame, and radiates his attitude without a care for anyone else's reaction, the bitches will come to him. He'll have the bitches as well as the extra disposable income. In doing so he'll also display value and maturity not seen in other men. Girl wants to break his frame? She'll have to get through that triple-whammy. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/17 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I strayed from TRP doctrine and got ghosted because AWALTHey man, I feel the same way. Today was a wake up call for me as well. I have a very close friend, we know a lot about each other and I thought I could trust her. She trusts me with her feelings, so I thought I could too. Long story short, she's ditching me tonight to go to a party with some beta male because he has drinks (guess I'm really the beta now if that was all it took). I'm relatively new here to TRP and the ideas here are some of the best I've been subject to. I've had the idea of AWAL… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be spoken to about sexual harrassmentThe worst part is that this behavior is able to flourish because of the beta males. Without them, the exaggerations wouldn't be accepted. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/17 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Short example of a guy who was so BP that his "date" was convinced that he didn't like herBeing the action guy is solid advice, thanks. That's something I really need to work on, because a lot of the time I'm exactly like the guys who sits there going "yeeeah". But I also remember the few times I did lead the group they were amazing and fun. I just never realized how important it is to take the reigns sometimes, shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/17 03:02 PM |
| 2 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?Eh, I'd go for what level you'd like to game at the beginning. Rejection is harsh, and finding the girl you want is a long and brutal road, but that's how life is too essentially. Once you overcome the harsh part, you'll be free. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Developing a personaThis persona that you want can be found by being your best self. This is said here quite often, but go to the gym, improve your style, conversation skills, etc. The most important thing is to free yourself from others' influence. I'm not talking about advice found here, but things like pressure in a social situation. Don't let outside influence and internal anxiety get to you. You can't be your best self unless you overcome these two things. I've lost weight, have an awesome style, and try to ta… | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill example: reddit's askfeminism banned me for using a negative example from the red pill.This is obvious, but I find it hilarious that they just ban anyone who has a different opinion. They preach acceptance and toleration, yet they can't tolerate anything that is different from their own beliefs, even if this differing belief is more logical or correct, one that would actually help them towards whatever goal they're trying to achieve (it's unclear at this point). Fucking hypocrites... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/17 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Sourced my anxiety with womenWill continue working on it. Thanks for the advice! | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Sourced my anxiety with womenNext time when I'm out with some friends I'm gonna do this. I tend to sometimes say things I wouldn't normally say, and it always ends up backfiring. | /r/seduction | 15/10/17 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Can't stop fucking talking around a pretty girl.Some good advice! I have the same problem as OP here, just not as severe. When I talk with people I tend to unintentionally brag or seem like a narcissist as well. I just keep talking to try and do the opposite and just dig the hole deeper. I'm a bit of a control freak as well and have a desire to be the center of attention. I've been forcing myself to sit back, but it's much easier said then done. Well, the first step in fixing the problem is identifying it. | /r/seduction | 15/10/17 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What would YOU talk about with a 16y old girl in your class?Looks like you need to work on your inner game first. Check the sidebar | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 07:16 PM |
| 1 | I feel like being successful with girls has too much work involved for me.Don't think about being successful in the future. Do things that you think will improve yourself, and success will come with it. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 01:48 AM |
| 1 | What keeps you going despite the mistakes you make?I can't remember where I read it, but just by being a man and having a dick you have a chance with any girl. The difference between guys who get her and those who don't is their body language and how the girl is perceiving their intentions. Tonight I held a stare with a girl longer than I've ever done. Doesn't seem like much, but not holding the stare is one of my biggest weaknesses. By slowly going over these hurdles you will be able to overcome them. I'm in the process of doing this now, but t… | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Good at pick up, but can't make friends? I'll teach you! (OP Delivers)Good post! Currently I have several friends who are more of acquaintances, we talk in class but not really a lot outside of it. Thanks to some other posts I am trying to become better friends by showing value and making an effort to hang out outside of campus. It's still a huge work in progress; I am currently attempting to find how I can give this value to other people. | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 02:52 AM |
| 9 | Girls get scared when they realize I have my shit together?I'm not in your shoes, but I'd think having your shit together would make others admire you. As long as you don't brag, you'll be fine. Once she asks just say it in a normal tone and give the impression that you feel happy and accomplished, rather than being a braggart. | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 02:45 AM |
| 1 | My anxiety over being a virgin is affecting my interactions with women, my friendships, and my grades.Nothing physically changes when you have sex. If you're one to argue that it changes your mindset, you're already thinking the wrong way. | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Acceptance of yourself will be your most powerful asset in attracting women. I went from having no friends, to receiving the greatest compliment I've ever gotten in my life.Amazing post. My girlfriend of 6 months (I had the confidence to ask her out thanks to posts just like this) told me that she loves how I just don't give a shit about what other people think. That wasn't always the case, when I visited seddit the first time around a year ago that was some of the first advice I received. Take it to heart everyone, it really does relieve a lot of stress and improves your life. | /r/seduction | 09/08/17 01:30 PM |
| 1 | We do everything in bed but she never lets sex happenI don't think that's the best option for a hookup. Now, a few months into a relationship that can be a great time. | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 12:25 AM |
| 1 | What is going on in a girl's mind when she is friend-zoning you?To give the impression that you wanna fuck, I'd use kino, even light touching as she will feel safer with you. Make sure you tease her (But not too much) and deliberately give her a ton of IOIs. This is what I did to a girl I have one-itis with and today we made out in an elevator. Don't go out of your way to do these things too much, just be aware and use them when it feels natural. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How I can improve on using kino to subtly build friendships/attraction?What he said (lol) It is a very effective way to build friendship and attraction when preformed correctly. | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How to broaden our topics of conversation?I found that talking to her like you do to one of your dude friends works great, just refrain from "dude" jokes, politics and anything else you know would disinterest her. Try meeting her outside of school. When you meet sit close and use kino, it really helps. | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Chatted up this cute girl today, any tips for me to improve my skills?Awesome tips, really appreciate it. I'll try the eye gazing next time I see her, and if the opportunity arises when it seems acceptable to ask her I'll do so. | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Infield of Me Gaming A Hottie + Her Sister At Target lolOops, for some reason I accidentally skipped that part. I've just been working on my approaches (because they suck) and wanted to see. Sorry about that. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Infield of Me Gaming A Hottie + Her Sister At Target lolHoly crap you made that look like smooth sailing. I just wanna know, how did you approach her? | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 01:33 AM |
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