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LIES MEN TELLriotous486saturn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:24 AM
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LEVEL UPriotous486saturn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:20 AM
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LEVEL UPriotous486saturn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 07:31 AM
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LIES MEN TELLriotous486saturn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:37 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYriotous486saturn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:47 AM
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NAH, SISriotous486saturn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:22 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYriotous486saturn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:00 AM
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LIES MEN TELLriotous486saturn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:22 AM
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Same. I’m getting sterilized at 21 and I know I’m not going to regret it. Every plan I’ve ever made has simply never had kids in it. Having them never crossed my mind and now that I’m thinking about it, I am more sure than ever that kids aren’t a part of my lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:09 PM
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Sigh. Proving what we already know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:07 AM
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What was this from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:40 AM
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And the comments on this video are of people PRAISING him. 🤢 I really can’t with these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:39 AM
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In a lot of countries she still has plenty of time to abort and divorce him. I hope she’s not in the US, that would be tricky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:16 PM
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Yes. There are men who don’t watch porn, especially in the younger generations. They are out there. Don’t settle just because the majority of men are depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:26 PM
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Black pink is played on the radio here in the US, but you’re right about everything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:05 PM
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Marrying a LV/NVM is a death trap that will ruin a woman’s life. But marrying a HVM is awesome and makes for a happy marriage. I’d say to any woman out there that, unless you can find a HVM, avoid relationships all together. It is ALWAYS better to be single than with a LV/NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:51 PM
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That sounds really peaceful ngl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:45 PM
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I generally think my home is messy even though compared to the homes I have visited my home is practically spotless. I can’t imagine being so filthy that hours of cleaning still gets you nowhere. 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:14 AM
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Omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:53 PM
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This is financial abuse! Wtf. They’re married it’s BOTH their money. I hope she wakes up and divorces him for her and her children’s sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:51 PM
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Why did they ask a man to draw a woman’s reality? This is not at ALL what my friend’s places look like. Their spaces are clean and pretty and smell nice — even if they have pets. Even mine when “dirty” still never looks as bad as THAT. Like? Who are the women who live like this????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:14 PM
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PREACH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:00 AM
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Divorced the next day. What a sick man with disgusting, sick friends. I’m glad she’s sticking up for herself and leaving him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:45 AM
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Oh my god I am so sorry sorry they treated your dog like that. You’ll find a HV cf man who will take care of you when sick and treat your dogs right. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:19 AM
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You can test for lacking commitment by watching how he takes care of pets by pet sitting and also by having him take care of you when you’re sick. And don’t let a man tell you he’s “childfree” if he’s 21+ and not sterilized. He’s a liar and a fraud to say he doesn’t want kids but has done zero to actually prevent having kids. I just got together my cf boyfriend and he’s so far been HV but 99% of cf men are disgusting couch creatures with no ambition, future, nor life skills at all. Just complete…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:17 AM
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Literally. As a woman who is ACTUALLY attracted to other women and was expecting to enjoy LGBT spaces, it was the absolute worst when I got to college to see that these spaces were flooded with heterosexuals pretending like their spicy hetero sexualities made them unique. Like, they were “queer” and “homo-romantic” but only ever dated heterosexually. All the actual homosexual relationships were nit picked and criticized to the point where no one homosexual showed up. The “LGBT” spaces were full …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:08 AM
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If I could die from laughter, this comment would have put me 6 feet under. Girl!! The pencil emoji. Hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:22 AM
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You’re not gonna like my post history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:29 PM
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Hehe. Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:10 PM
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But when does the time come to stop coddling men and actually let them face the consequences to their own actions? It might be harsh, but women shouldn’t have to keep cleaning up men’s messes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:05 PM
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But if he really can’t handle it then HE can put them up for adoption or they’ll be taken away by the state. Sucks for the kids, but why should women suffer when the man WANTED the kids. Women need to step back and stop coddling men. If men actually had to deal with the consequences of their actions, there would be a lot less guys running around and getting women pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:04 PM
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Not sad at all! A self care is a beautiful thing. Don’t let yourself think of taking care of yourself as a bad thing! It’s good to spoil yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:00 PM
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Wow. That’s a lot of words to say: I just want to settle with a partner who sucks because I also suck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:25 PM
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To be fair, if a guy wouldn’t care about his own flesh and blood nor respect you enough to care, he’d already be a shitty partner in general, kids or not. You have to look for a guy who can take care of you when you get sick and provide enough to feed and love you, even when sex isn’t an option. A good man doesn’t cheat nor let his home fall into disarray just because his partner gets sick. We all get sick. A worthwhile partner will be able to make it a nonissue, unlike some pickme’s bfs where t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:31 PM
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Yet men with huge beer bellies and have outie belly buttons are flouncing about shirtless and no one says anything. Double standards are their worst. At least the woman has a legit reason to be so large.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:58 PM
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Cute!! Very beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:32 PM
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When I went to the gym I did personal training and then worked out alone with headphones. If ppl I didn’t like spoke to me I’d just outright ignore them. I suggest finding another gym, no need to be around toxic ppl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:47 AM
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I adore reading posts about women having self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:25 AM
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Yuuuup!!! Same. If a bunch of women are rejecting you there is a REASON. Especially since most women have low standards to begin with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:10 PM
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Nah, these filthoids are always going to the gym. The 200 lbs guys live with their mother, who feed them and clean their rooms for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:20 AM
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Yup! They hate women with high standards until they can afford women with high standards. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:10 PM
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This is true. It’s safe to say the majority of men are NV/LV, so that’s why this sub focuses on being happy single and how to find HVM who add value to your life. Most men won’t add value, unfortunately, so just remember that above all else, the focus is on you to level up and become a woman who is happy to be single unless hugely convinced to be otherwise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:22 AM
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I- ewwwww. Smells like yeast infection. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:09 AM
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100% Men who complain about women being “materialistic” are just mad women have high standards. Don’t let their negative behavior lower you, you deserve to have someone dote on you and show you how much they appreciate you. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:34 AM
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Omg. I have been serenaded before by an actually DECENT guy and he sang me my favorite love songs while playing a cello. Serenades aren’t done to win someone back, they’re done out of genuine affection and romance. Omg. I hate that a guy would take something so romantic and just flat our ruin it. What a joke. I hope she finds a guy who can actually serenade and romance her properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:53 AM
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He is mentally unstable...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:25 PM
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Omg. “Everyone but me sees my girlfriend as my girlfriend. AITA?” Yes. Yes, you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:30 PM
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Hard to find a 38 waist?! Dillards goes up to 46. These men probably just don’t actually go shopping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:00 PM
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This is the epitome of what kind of men conservative women get to date. Misogynistic meat heads who think being cruel to women is funny. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:36 AM
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I only want to have sex with people who can make me orgasm. That eliminates 95% of the male population and there aren’t that many lesbians. So, HELL no. I have my hands and my vibrator if I get horny. I don’t need some dude using me as a sex toy and possibly giving me STDs. Men and pickmes HATE that I’m single and loving it. They can’t wrap their heads around not living for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:34 AM
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Oh girl, I feel you. I was raped by two male childhood friends I’d grown up with, too. I’d known them since fifth grade and when the opportunity came for them to rape me and get away with it, they did. It sent me on a spiral of self-hatred and I got into “kink” and took a LOT of drugs (I was practically always drunk or high) and it took hitting my rock bottom before I finally went to therapy. Thinking back on it, there were a LOT of red flags that I was never taught to look for. I know better no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:00 PM
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Maybe you’ll meet one, maybe you won’t. Regardless, you’ll be happy either way! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:23 AM
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Hmm. I looked myself up on fastpeoplesearch and my address is wrong. So I looked up my aunt and it says she’s not married, but she has been for 12 years. So. Not very accurate. But like... still got some stuff right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:21 AM
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I did today, actually! They broke up and she’s with her sister. Always stick up for women, ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:55 AM
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It’s so funny they think tradesmen are gross and that marrying them would “solve” the hypergamy problem. Lmaoooo. Those men easily make 6 figure salaries, are well educated, and have muscular bodies. I’ll always take a tradesman over an “entrepreneur” any day. This article reeks of the insecurity of a hs teacher who tells you, “do you want to work as a garbage collector?” when you fail a test, all while leaving out the garbage collector makes six figures and they barely make $35k a year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:37 AM
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I’d buy myself some flowers, sushi, and chocolates then pocket the rest of the money. I never refuse money from dudes and am glad to spend it on myself. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:44 AM
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Pedophiles are a different breed. How do they go online and just openly discuss how they have been raping a child and found out that she wasn’t orgasming. What a shocker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:44 PM
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OMG! One did live in the basement under a trapdoor in his buddies PAINT shop. Basement dwellers! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:54 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:13 AM
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Lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:32 AM
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But his testosterone can’t fix the craters on his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:56 PM
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I disagree. I love getting piggybacks from my bfs. It’s sexy to know that they can carry me, and usually a lot of fun to be carried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:27 PM
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100% lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:25 AM
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Same. As a 20-year-old the old ass men who approach me and think that I’d actually ever touch their saggy, ugly asses disgust me. They are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:55 AM
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I mean, even if you see him in public you can just give a polite hello and walk away. You don’t have to date him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:45 AM
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I personally find it incredibly suspicious and weird that they want to be there to determine women’s health, but it doesn’t automatically make them bad doctors. Regardless, I also only have female doctors because I aim to avoid men, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:39 PM
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“Struggle love” is such a hoax. She’f be happier if she left the dude in the dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:30 AM
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With how little value he places on her I can see her situation escalating into abuse. I hope she listens to her gut and get out. He’s giving off so many red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:23 AM
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It’s heartbreaking how he only sees her as his slave. I hope she wakes up and divorces him or else she’s in for a miserable life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:10 AM
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He raped her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:06 AM
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Ugh. What a deadbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:20 PM
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Yup. Said it made her feel more connected to women because it’s a common experience for women and she can relate now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:23 PM
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Yup. Pretty much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:22 PM
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And THEN For her to say she was grateful for the experience l- 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:35 AM
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My marriage professor said the only way MOST people have lasting marriages is if you go in with low expectations and don’t rely on them for anything, but also that it means marriage isn’t good for most people (read: marriage benefits men and not women when these conditions are met (NV/LV + PickMe)). Only very few couples will actually meet all of Maslows needs. Marriage classes if taken the wrong way will make LV/NV men and pickmes think their marriages are “normal” instead of making them realiz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:28 PM
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Honestly, most men are NV/LV to begin with, so I’d stop looking for male validation and instead look inward. If you love yourself and believe in your self-worth the opinions of others shouldn’t matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:28 PM
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Literally!!! We deserve to have good sex. A relationship without good sex is not a good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:33 AM
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I am convinced that the only reason these were left up is so that way they could find trafficked girls, like with Craigslist and their personal ads. These dude REEK of “I’m a sex tracking fiend” and I just hope that’s the reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:03 PM
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A brilliant idea is to always wait and never do lives unless at home. I also post what’s up a day or two after the event. Smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:38 PM
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But there’s nothing wrong with her having lots of sex as a young, single woman in college. That was YEARS ago. They’ve been committed to each other for 4 and a half years now. He is the problem here and no one else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:25 AM
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That man should be embarrassed!! If you were his dream girl he would NEVER say something like that. All he did was whine that he wasn’t good enough for you. Good for you for letting the trash take itself out. And I doubt he would have ever stepped up if you were to have kids because he’s fake woke. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:05 PM
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That’s fine to not want to move too fast, but 1-2 years dating and no engagement is sus. Men know when they like women. Also, I’m also cf and 20. Just because I’m not worried about kids doesn’t mean you need to be a forever gf. Don’t let yourself be played.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:53 PM
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A good wedding takes at least 6 months to plan and people need to be told in advance, RSVP, and so many other things. Those 6 months don’t make you a forever financee. If it takes more than a year to plan the wedding that’s a nope. Block and delete because it’s never gonna happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:50 PM
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Yes, engaged, then it takes a bit more time to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:29 PM
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“Felt” or has HE asked YOU to be his girlfriend and made that commitment yet? Don’t mistake interest as an actual relationship. If he hasn’t specifically told you he wants to be your boyfriend and be in a committed relationship, don’t ciew it as such. You’re single until you’re married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:09 PM
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What? Girlie if he says he wants to pay, let him pay. No paying for dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:55 PM
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Judt keep vetting and make sure to drop him at the first red flag. We don’t put men on a pedestal and give them commitment until they prove to us they are HV, and then we still vet them because they could be acting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:16 PM
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Ehhhh. Every guy I’ve met who was a caretaker could never hold a relationship because they had to take care of the family member and couldn’t prioritize me. Which is fair, but it never made for a good relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:10 AM
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I am 20 in the midwest. I own my home and live alone on a part-time wage. I started out with a roommate, hated it, and got a better job to afford living on my own. I wouldn’t date anyone with roommates because they’re not on my level and I personally don’t like the idea of a partner who hasn’t lived on their own or had the stress of paying their own bills. Also, if I can live on my own with enough financial security to have zero issues and growing my savings, I am not interested in dating someon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:50 AM
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I’d report him to the police. He shouldn’t be allowed anywhere near animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:16 PM
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Yup! I’m not getting in another relationship unless it benefits me and brings value to my life. I can afford to live on my own and I enjoy being single. Someone is gonna have to be amazing to sway me and you’re right, 95% of men don’t even hit the basic, bare minimum standards. Living for a man sounds like a trap, I need a partner not a dependent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:12 AM
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Since I don’t use it that way I don’t know. I just know most of my friends and peers are on it. I also like the filters and the fact I can see snaps from all over the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:55 AM
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I’m Gen Z and snap is normal for my generation. Older tho? Sus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:34 AM
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Pretty sure they are, but I adore the fact these women stick up for themselves, script or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:26 AM
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I think it’s sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:42 PM
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So many red flags she glossed over. I hope she can recognize them in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:39 PM
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You do if you’re inhaling Doritos! Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:35 PM
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That show kills me. These women go OFF on these freaks who call in wanting another date with her after they completely disrespected her. And they leave so much info out. Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:26 PM
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These men want their moms, they can have em lmao. I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:02 AM
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Yes! I love this song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:03 PM
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I believe in feminism.* *the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:32 AM
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Lol. Sometimes in public to see if anyone is watching me I start swaying and see if anyone else does, too. Always a fun little trick to pick out who is tuned into your body language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:20 AM
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Yes. He has to make me feel safe, comfortable, loved, and connected. Foreplay is so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:30 AM
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If a man can’t make me orgasm the first time we have sex it’s a no from me. Sex is never rushed with me and I like spending 45-60 minutes on it with lots of foreplay and passionate love making. He needs to be focused on my pleasure and making me comfortable and able to put me in the mood to orgasm. It’s not hard and if he can’t do that then he’s not worth it. Like. He should still be trying to impress me, not disappoint me. Worse comes to worst, I’ll dump him and use a dildo. I have zero patienc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:29 AM
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Always strike their jugular and it only takes 15 lbs of force to knock their knee of out place. Strike em in the throat, bust their knee, and RUN AWAY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:42 AM
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I’m not giving up my last name. I have too many accolades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:21 AM
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Instead of bettering myself, I’ll bank on sex trafficked women I could never afford instead. /s Yeaaaah. What a catch. How could women NOT be throwing themselves at you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:51 AM
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God what a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:50 PM
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Just NVM tings. HVM are gonna be supportive and interested in your hobbies and not make you feel bad about it. You’re right. Most guys don’t like self-reflection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:38 PM
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My parents call each other “daddy” and “mommy” and I always just figured it was something parents called each other? It never had a sexual meaning until the internet made it a meme. To me it means she wants yo have a baby with the guy, so it’s sus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:21 PM
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He is 100% a porn addicted serial killer! I don’t nake the rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:24 AM
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It’s due to male entitlement. Just looking at those posts where women say they want the men to get vasectomies and the men cry about “bodily autonomy” and how by not fucking “cf” men without vasectomies we’re being sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:55 AM
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Ugh yuck. I left cf groups, too. It always sucks when we think people who have the same lifestyle are going to be “better” only to see they’re full of pickmes and scrotes, too. :/ We have an FDS discord that has a childfree section, try to join us there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:28 AM
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100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:59 AM
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Omg. Girl I was riding the same wave! Just got home from buying my favorite dinner and some flowers and am now going to watch Enola!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:58 AM
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I never want kids and I need a man who understands it’s his sperm so it’s HIS responsibility to do the right thing. I suffer enough every month, he can get snipped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:49 PM
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It’s why I only sleep with men who can prove to me they have vasectomies! I’m not playing these weird games anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:39 PM
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Once I realized that I was approaching dating the wrong way, I’ve seen a massive upgrade in the quality of guys I vet. My mental and physical health have improved as well since I’ve cut lvm and pickmes out of my life. Thank you FDS. Never again will I waste my time with people who aren’t worth it. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:07 PM
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80% of men WHO WERE INTERVIEWED SELF-REPORTED that they abused their gf/wives. And the women are considered the problem? Those men can ROT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:59 PM
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Omg. Disgusting. What an awful creep. “It won’t take a woman more time to cook three husbands dinner over two.” EW. AND HE EVEN MENTIONS WOMEN ARE CAREER ORIENTED. Cooking for some useless man, bah. These men can rot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:47 PM
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Being a HVW bas nothing to do with men. You aren’t leveling up for a man, you’re doing it for yourself. Being a HVW and opting out of marriage and children doesn’t take away from you being a HVW. So. I’d just stop relating being HV with those relationships. Focus on being a HVW for yourself, your friends and your family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:04 PM
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Like the other lady said, trust your gut. Yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:37 AM
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I used to be really attracted to those nerdy gamer engineer types. You know the ones. Like, the ugly, chubby, unwashed, unsocialized ones who think they’re the shit, but live off of MNT dew and pizza even though they make six figures? Yeah. Rough times. But now my eyes have shifted to those nerdy types like Henry Cavil and Markiplier where they have a lot more going on instead of just gaming and their jobs. They’re attractive and hygienic and respectful. If I could find a guy like that, I’d be h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:19 AM
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Girl, this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:39 AM
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100%. Super low effort and weird if it’s JUST a movie. Or like, I have some awesome theaters within 20 minutes of me. They all have big arcades and delicious foods. One is in a mall. So like??? It could be an AWEOSME date where we meet an hour before the movie, order food, and then spend time playing arcade games or we could spend time at the food court, check out some shops, and then go see the movie. But just a movie is NOT it. There has to be more to it than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:35 PM
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Unlike those women who wear Gucci, I don’t need to drink to have fun. #GirlBoss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:28 PM
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I personally really love dinner and a movie dates bc at dinner you get to talk and know them better, check out their manners, and then at the movie it’s about seeing how respectful they are. Do they talk during the movie? Do they keep checking their phone? Do they get upset and throw popcorn? Do they clean up their trash? I think in the beginning stages, a combo of the two is good. Several first dates started with dinner, which was good, and then ended with a movie, which many of them were INCRE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:57 PM
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Sameeee. Cf for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:04 AM
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I love my mind. Like, I come from smart and beautiful genes. A killer combo. I enjoy learning and how easy it comes to me. I’m getting my degree rn and it’s exciting. It’s nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:25 PM
16

~I don’t want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can’t get no love from me~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:21 PM
15

✨🧚🏻‍♀️🌿🌙 W I T C H Y 🌙🌿🧚🏻‍♀️✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:34 PM
6

Yasss. Carnations are gorgeous. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:08 PM
17

It is, they just want to gaslight the mom into thinking SHE’S the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:05 AM
3

I will never cook for a man, let alone feed one. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:52 PM
5

The Shape Of Water was SO delicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:55 AM
3

Gorgeous!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:31 AM
8

Omg. Weight lifting is so much fun and it builds awesome muscles! I love your collage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:18 AM
11

Don’t text that scrote!! Block and DELETE. You deserve better, hun. You deserve a man who respects and values you. Who understands you are the prize and will chase you even after you’re married. Never settle, love. Your inner peace is more valuable than dick, which is low value and abundant. 🧚🏻‍♀️✨💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:16 AM
3

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:59 AM
7

Go by yourself! You have to do your first one tandem, anyway. Life is too short to wait for others to join you on adventures. Make your plans and go with or wjthout friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:16 AM
4

Omg!! That sounds like so much fun! Enjoy surfing, it’ll be a blast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:52 AM
3

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:50 AM
6

If Covid hadn’t happened, I would have gone this summer. I plan on going when I can. ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:49 AM
8

Canva.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:47 AM
5

A rapist and rape apologist replies to you. I am not surprised, merely disgusted. Thank you for sending her that. I just hope she got to read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:06 AM
2

Good. Now internalize the message that you have inherent worth and deserve the best and won’t accept anything less than the best. We all came here from low points, you just have to invest in yourself and soon you’ll be seeing the results of your labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:12 PM
8

Try r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy to start with. Also, read the FDS literature that’s recommended. Read it a couple of times. Digest it. Then, write down your boundaries and stick to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:02 PM
34

If a woman or man negs you, ignore them. You need to build your self-worth and self-esteem up to the point where LV people’s opinions don’t bother you. You are a 10/10 and don’t let anyone tell you differently. Level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:58 PM
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That’s a really good way to look at it. The male number system has never been something that worked for me. I don’t rank men on a 1-10, but on a pass/fail. I also agree with other commenters that I don’t find many men attractive at all. Growing up was actually really shocking because the men in my family are all really attractive. They are 6ft+ tall, full heads of hair until they’re 80, and muscular/toned bodies. So imagine my shock when I grow up and as kids we’re all cute and then suddenly the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:56 AM
3

But why? WHY? Why stay with a man that treats you like an object? Why MARRY a man who has shown you from the beginning that he hates you? Tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:52 PM
78

Basically: Once I gave up my personality in the relationship it worked out perfectly. Tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:19 PM
17

Girl I don’t even date men who don’t have vasectomies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:16 PM
54

Please don’t applaud for the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:41 AM
17

Poor girl. She’s letting that NVM attach himself to her for the next 21 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:14 AM
21

... you can abort a baby up to 24 weeks, right? 3 months is only 16 weeks. She needs to abort this baby and sever her ties with this man. Why have a baby with him? Why go through the drama? WHY even THINK about keeping that baby? “He wants yo have sole custody so I pay him” ummm????? If you abort it you won’t have to pay anything. No legal fees or nothing. Just the cost of a $600 abortion and then you get to find a man worthy of you to have a baby with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:04 AM
26

Not just tiny. That girl will be ALL bones and with C breasts?! Her back would constantly ache. Men are so fucking dumb. They literally have no idea how womens’ bodies are built.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:52 AM
10

I dunno, but most men I know in college don’t even have jobs. Their parents pay for EVERYTHING and it’s infuriating to listen to them whine about how hard their life is. Like... you guys are living the dream by having zero bills and partying every night. What, exactly, is hard right now? It is SO unattractive. I feel like if I am going to date, it’s not going to be a guy who went to college and pays for the date with his mother’s money (🤢), but a guy who went to trade school. The guys in trades …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:27 PM
26

His gf broke up with him bc she found out he cheated. He hasn’t healed since and continues to be a NVM who justifies his actions with nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:09 PM
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Sadly, with how terrible it is to date rn, I won’t be shocked. Men have always had fragile egos and until they work to fix their issues, they always will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:23 AM
6

A week isn’t nearly enough time to know if a guy is truly a HVM or not. Continue to vet him and drop him completely with a block and delete if you see even one red flag. Best of luck on your new relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:21 AM
20

Creep shame the men who stare at your boobs exclusively when they talk to you! Creep shame the psychos that follow you to your car or around the store. Creep shame the weirdos that say you smell nice. Creep shame the creeps!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:41 AM
5

At 13 I was already fearing being raped bc several of my classmates had. I lived in the best/safest part of my state in America, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:39 AM
15

I dunno if you’ve met kids but they start dating and fucking in middle school. The younger we get our message out, the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:25 PM
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Yeah, the fact they base their entire lives around sex is what disturbs me the most. I got I to the kink scene in hs and was brainwashed to think that sex is something to live your life around. Incredibly dumb. There are so many things better to do than to live my life role playing and having sex all day. Bleh. These people need actual hobbies and interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:06 PM
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I don’t engage with it anymorebecause it’s a jab to try and make you “prove” your worth. I know my worth and their unwashed asses can fuck off. A HVM would never sit there and say: “wHaT dO yOu BrInG tO tHe TaBlE?” Because HVM don’t fuck with women who aren’t on their level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:15 AM
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Seriously! And these girls who HAVE committed guys even ask me “Well, what do YOU bring to the table?” Like??? Ma’am I am the PRIZE. He gets me and if he can’t recognize how lucky he’d be to have me, he doesn’t deserve me. Pick-me’s are always so happy to join in in the chorus of trying to pull women’s standards down to hell. Like, nah sis. I’d rather die alone than with a guy who doesn’t appreciate everything I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:53 AM
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Last year I felt the same way! I went from my dorm back to my gram’s house and felt suffocated. Then I moved into a trailer with my sister for a few months before she moved out. Now I live alone and it feels AWESOME! I just turned her old bedroom into a media room and have plans for so many more amazing, great changes to be made. Living alone is AWESOME and coming from someone who was also dirt poor growing up, being able to afford it is even sweeter. Enjoy your growth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:08 AM
7

You’re lucky. I answered that question and ZERO men had answered yes in a 25 mile radius of me. Scrotes everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:59 AM
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Omg. That poor girl. To have been raped by three men and the third one having the AUDACITY to be mad some other dudes raped her first. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:07 AM
142

Literally!! I am a 20 year old girl and the amount of old, crusty scrotes that flirt with me and get genuinely offended when I’m not interested is INSANE. Anyone over 24 is just NOT gonna happen, even 22 is pushing it. Why do men think women want some ugly old man when they could get a sexy guy their age who can stay awake past 10 o’clock. Blows my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:16 AM
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Or do what I do and only date men who can show you their vasectomy paperwork! It’s a serious game changer and honestly so sexy. Besides, why are we women the only ones taking responsibility? Men need it step it up, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:46 AM
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I was in middle school. A girl had been raped by a dude in her class and guys my age literally said she deserved it bc she wore spaghetti straps. It super jaded me and I only talked to the three (3) guys who had spoken out about it being wrong. Horrifying and sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:28 PM
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I personally didn’t lose my virginity until after hs. And that was the norm, but we had at least a third of our hs class sexually active by the time I graduated. At least. Imo they’re acting like how we used to act, but they have better style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:06 PM
21

When I grew up a lot of kids were already being sexual by the end of elementary school and the start of middle school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:18 AM
3

The thing is we all started out like you and it was our drive to be better that got us to where we are. If you’re not happy with yourself, you change yourself and that’s what you’re doing. Your journey is your own, don’t let anyone make you feel bad about it. Like others said, you’re already pretty HV because you saved your son from their father. That takes guts and courage. Additionally, you can recognize your flaws and are actively working towards becoming better. That’s growth and wanting to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:35 AM
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YUCK! The amount of guys who figured out I owned my trailer and thought that they could move in within the week was so gross. The entitlement is insane from broke loser boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:49 AM
13

Of course he’s a decade older than her and doesn’t respect her. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:45 AM
20

Omg. Sicking. I hope she gets away from him and seeks treatment for her trauma. That’s straight up sexual abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:19 PM
6

Yup. A HVM isn’t a man baby that needs to be coddled and taken care of because he can take care of himself. Instead he’s a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:16 AM
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The funny thing is that our strategy isn’t new. This IS the traditional way. It’s only recently women have been expected to be bang maids and to pay for dates. That’s a recent thing and I hope it dies just as quickly as it starts because FUCK that nonsense. If a guy can’t pay for a date, he isn’t ready to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:12 AM
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No, it was $15,000. The money was for her to get a tummy tuck bc pregnancy had pushed her abs out of place and she was living in pain and she just wanted to not look pregnant. So they saved and she brought it up, ready to get the surgery, only for him to be dodgy, she checks and boom. The $15k isn’t in there and he LIES about spending all of it on a computer. I hope she leaves that repulsive man, even his own mother told her to divorce him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:09 AM
4

Omg. You’re so right. None of these ugly, broke men coudld afford us. They’d be just as dry back then as they are now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:06 AM
6

100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:02 AM
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THIS! Who cares if he pays “most” the bills? Fuck that. He either cleans up after himself or he can gtfo. I can comfortably pay for myself and have plenty left over so I would NEVER let some dude come in here and mess it up just because he pays my bills. FUCK that noise. I clean up after my cat, not a grown ass man. Ugh. Just the thought makes me cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:01 AM
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Omg. We had to watch this in hs for our film class and I spoke up about him being a gross pedophile and my teacher tried to defend the movie. 🤢 I hate Indiana Jones. Literally so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:00 AM
6

Omg. That sounds idyllic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:46 AM
17

90% of the childfree men I’ve met and dated are losers who still live at home. The other 10% were just ok. I have yet to meet a childfree man within my preferred age range who would actually be worth continuing on. The best childfree man I’ve dated was my FWB from last year. He was sweet and pleasing sexually, but he lived with his mother and spent her money because at 24 he still hadn’t worked a job in his life. When I found this out, I stopped dating him, but let him be a FWB because he was ni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:44 AM
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This got 50k+ upvotes on r/meme. Make sure to vet properly ladies. Never settle for a useless man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:08 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 i’m ded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:45 AM
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And don’t forget their razor burnt faces (or scraggly beards, goes both ways), the fact there is plaque build up on their teeth, the fact you can see the wax in their ears, and that they always have dirt under their nails. Meanwhile, a fat woman comes in with ONE strand of hair out of place or no make up on and she MUST be going through something. Blows my damn mind. I agree, men (thin and fat) at my work have stopped showering daily and eating veggies. These grown men think it’s funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:29 AM
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I wish I could upvote this more. This is LibFem mentality. NOT feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:50 AM
3

100%. Women in happy relationships look healthy and happy. I am also childfree and if I could find a girl friend more power to me, but I’m also chill staying single foe the rest of my life. Stress free is key lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:30 AM
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The only women who look bad in their 30’s are the ones that are tethered of life-sucking Pieces of Shit bc the bastards are making her life complicated and miserable. It’s really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:51 PM
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Omg. One of my exes was always trying to skip work to cuddle in bed after I spent the night and I had to FORCE him to go to work. Like... In WHAT world is missing work ok when I could just come over again later once I got off work, too? It never made sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:48 AM
11

Bullying needs to come back in style. I miss the days when stinky ppl were bullied into showering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:40 PM
12

STOP DATING DISGUSTING MEN. OMG. EWWWWWW. 🤢🤮 I know men at my work don’t bathe and they have wives, but I just hope women stop putting UP with this disgusting BULLSHIT. GROSS!!!!! Sometimes I really just wanna grab the women in these situations and tell them they need to love themselves because wtf. How can you be attracted to someone who smells like BO? How can you KISS someone when they haven’t BRUSHED their teeth?!?! Sleep next to them?! 🤢🤢🤢 Have sex with em? Yuck. I’d vomit right in their fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:38 PM
17

100% i see ugly men and women getting dates and living happy lives together. One day these uggos will realize that it’s not their appearance that makes women stay far away, it’s their personality. An ugly inside is always worse than an ugly outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:21 PM
32

Girl let the trash take itself out. Don’t date , marry, or have sex with men who lack basic empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:17 PM
12

DUMP HIM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:40 AM
14

Crate training is a great idea for starters. Then just give em a big crate w toys, make sure you take em out before you leave, and then you’re good for them being left at home for work and take em with you shopping and out to cafes. Socializing dogs is the best way to make em nice and friendly and also wears them out so they sleep better. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:12 AM
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Talking for 2 years, dating for 5, THEN getting engaged for 3 years but taking ANOTHER 1.5 to plan the wedding???? What?! Dude if you don’t know you like me after two years it’s game over. The fuck???? Who the hell is wasting over a decade of their time on these stupid ass men who aren’t committing? The hell???? Everyday I am happier and happier to be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:39 AM
18

Projection. There are men who don’t watch or engage in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:32 AM
15

Well, fortunately you love yourself and that will bring you more prosperity and joy than a mediocre relationship. Stay strong and you’ll find a guy that lives up to your standards. Or you won’t. Either way, you’ll have your beautiful, wonderful self. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 05:37 AM
32

Sex is overrated. Men are horrible partners. If you’re into women that’s where you’ll find some bomb ass sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 05:11 AM
5

As a kid I loved watching Johnny Bravo get beat up for being a creep. It was satisfying. He reminded me of the Snookie show w the super Guido guys. Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 07:05 AM
15

Please don’t come here. There is literally nothing good here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:00 AM
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We all are... sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:54 AM
8

He literally makes No Sense. He keeps calling these women, who live in affluent areas and have rich social lives, gold diggers who just want to marry a wealthy man, divorce him, and take his kids and money.... like??? What? These women are moving here and are living in a wealthy place that they own because they’re working jobs they got educated for! And then they’re staying single and being picky and he thinks a cum stain like him would even be on their radar? Lmaoooo. MGTOW are so delusional. L…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:52 PM
2

Yeah, until the women treat them like placeholders, too. Then they want to lock the relationship down and if the women refuse they’re liars and whores. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:10 AM
13

Yeah, they get fixated on age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 10:05 PM
13

“And unfortunately they’re not keeping up their end of the bargain.” Love this lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:25 AM
9

Lame. Why not order a nice dinner and make it a romantic, special night? Even if you guys enjoy AC as a hobby, it isn’t in good taste to use it to propose. Even my gamer acquaintances know better than to try and pull something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 01:27 PM
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Sigh. You're right, it wouldn't get her far. But if she wants to, I support her. If she doesn't want to, I understand and also support her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:17 AM
7

True, but she has a lot of evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:45 PM
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This is rape tho so reporting the rape and having evidence will get this permanently on the guy’s record.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:50 PM
20

Id he tries to guilt you into things, he’s not HVM. HVM respect you boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:40 PM
10

Ah yeah. The ‘ole “if you don’t fuck me, it’s oppression” shit they throw at ya. Men can’t stand to be alone, so they try to make you feel bad for being a whole and complete person without them. I hear it all the time. From pickmes AND from loser scrotes. Just ignore em hun, they’re insecure and beneath ya. I personally am expecting myself to stay single for the rest of my life since my expectations are high and I’m cool with that. I’m not settling nor am I willing to compromise my happiness. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:17 PM
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Omg. I hate it when I see a guy says he likes hiking bc it’s what you described. But when I say I like hiking it’s because I’m a part of a hiking group that meets up several times a week to go hiking together on some of the most beautiful trails my in my state. 🙄 It’s so frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:59 PM
9

I think more like stock photo wise, not catfishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:32 AM
9

Omg yes. That sounds absolutely lovely and perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:26 AM
7

Omg. I was talking to a city boy who thought the SUBURBS were the country one time a party. I was telling a story about hunting with my sister and he got confused so I stopped and explained how to properly gut a squirrel so he could get why how my sister failed was funny, and he got SO offended. Enough so to push past me saying, “Thanks for women-plaining that to me.” Lmaooo. I know this boy. He has never stepped foot onto a trail nor has he EVER went camping. Boy felt emasculated because I knew…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:20 AM
4

Ew. What a gross rabbit hole to fall down into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:09 AM
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Oh no. It sounds like one of my exes. Ugh. He was younger but yikes. I’m sorry hun. You’re right tho. You can never convince a guy to love ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:46 PM
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Just admitting to being a horrible lay who cares nothing about women. What a catch /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:23 AM
9

I'm so tired of women settling for shitty men. It's really pissing me off. I want them to realize the shit they're putting up with and leave so they can be happier, but they get super defensive of their LVM instead. It's exhausting. They're like "I love him, he's my soul mate and he's SO kind and PERFECT in every way, except for the part where he has bad character and no morals." The most recent example I've come across was a girl wants to help her husband hide the fact his brother is serial che…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:35 AM
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Block him completely and never read another word he writes. That'll sting. End the games and move on, forgetting about him is the best thing you can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:40 AM
9

Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:13 AM
3

Ok this reminded me of this guy lol. (Start at 0:59.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:57 AM
1

Better to just not engage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:40 AM
1

Ah. Well the caption goes into details why that shit is stupid. So it’s not glorifying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:29 PM
1

What’s her @?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:44 PM
2

...Did ya read the captions tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:42 PM
2

Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:06 PM
12

My dad is the same way. He married my mom when she was healthy and then she got her first bought of cancer when I was 8. They’ve been together 18 years and she’s on her third fight with cancer (first cervical, then breast, and now the breast cancer has come back), he has devoted his days between work and taking her an hour and a half into the city to get her radiation done. I know good men exist because my father exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:48 PM
9

He DIDN’T pass the bar and in another post we see his GPA is a whopping 2.5. Lmao. He barely graduated, didn’t pass the bar, AND his law school is shit. He’a the ultimate clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 09:19 PM
26

Queens don’t date during quarantine. Putting your health at risk for a man is what we DON’T do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:42 AM
37

Men never make good friends for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:09 AM
19

OMG. The top comment says that it cured her fibroids and now she's finally PREGNANT and her periods have cleared. What kinda bullshit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:49 PM
3

Yes I've had guys take photos of me I didn't want. I'm sorry that it's happened to you. The best course of action is to get their phone and delete it if you can. If you can't then maybe ask them to delete it? I never take photos of someone I'm intimate with unless I'm in the picture, too, and they want to. Or I take a photo and then let them see. I can never stand how men just sneak a pic and think it's ok, especially a nude or risky one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:40 AM
2

Fire playlist. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:12 AM
18

"We don't give men power. If we give them that power they will spoil it." Powerful quote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:23 AM
8

What a jerk. German is a beautiful language. He sounds super immature, not gonna lie. Also, there are plenty of specific publishing houses for you to send your work into. I mean, yeah, you're gonna have to get a thick skin and be used to rejection becasue it's not a walk in the park, but wanting to be a writer is a long and worthwhile journey. He needs to support you because it can take years for your work to be published and you need someone in your corner. Honestly, that's super rude of him to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:56 AM
3

Keep a record of the texts in case in does escalate becasue the police won't do anything UNTIL something happens. This doesn't constitute as enough of something for them to get involved yet. Stay safe,.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:49 AM
2

You're not an impatient brat for finding your lazy and unmotivated bf unattractive. Him acting like that is a super turn off. He can be a decent guy, but you deserve someone who is just as motivated and excited to go through life as you. And you definitely deserve to not have to play mom and support him financially because of his laziness. Just because he might be a decent guy doesn't mean he's a good partner. I'd dump him and keep leveling yourself up so you can find someone more your speed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:43 AM
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Up until the beginning of this year I had FWBs when I wasn't seriously dating. It was nice to get some orgasms in from an actual partner, but honestly this year I just didn't feel like putting towards the effort for men I'd never see myself with in the future. So I've dropped all my FWBs and haven't been dating, either. So as of right now men have no place in my life sexually and romantically. They're just not worth it. I have a vibrator and awesome friends who I can talk to at any time. I don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:23 AM
44

Just be glad they out themselves as horrible partners and swipe left knowing you dodged bullets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:43 AM
3

Whaaat? Are you in Argentina?! That sounds horrible. I'm sorry you're around such awful men. Please stay safe...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:27 AM
3

Oh my god. I hope you're okay and are able to get help. Please be safe OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:32 PM
22

Same. The jocks in my school were typically tall, gorgeous, smart, kind, athletic, and talented in several things. They were a whole catch, but the nerds were smelly, yucky, abusive, and only smart at STEM while being shit at everything else and having zero talent beyond video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:13 PM
16

Men aren't worth my time and finding eligible gay women is really hard, especially since I live in the Bible Belt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:48 AM
8

I love that IG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 07:27 PM
9

I know right. Like, only asshole abusers get angry over things like that. It's like getting angry at women for shitting or farting. It's because they don't consider them human, but an object, and are repulsed to see that they have body functions other than sex bot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:36 PM
8

NOOO! That's horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:34 PM
4

What? The brainwashing is intense. WTF. 100% is not meant to traumatize your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:33 PM
10

WHAT?! You're not crazy. Sex isn't supposed to hurt! Should be sounding like you're eating some mac n cheese. Like, blue lagoon, baby! Sex has only ever hurt when my partners were pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:55 PM
10

Like, nibbling on the lobe or full on ear sex? Like, I like it when my ear is nibbled on after my neck is kissed, but... their penis? *holds back vomit*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:38 PM
14

that's honestly why I loved OKC, it was a great feature! You could find respectful people who believed human beings deserved to be treated with respect (tho some of them were lying about that, too) and weed out the vile piles of trash that permeated the site. Dropped my matches by a ton. Tho some people always just avoid those questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:33 PM
6

What does that even MEAN? that they're uneducated? I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:28 PM
13

Meh, sometimes you just don't think about it. The fact he got angry over her period coming early is a red flag and downright abusive. She's young. Her period probably hasn't stabilized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:26 PM
18

I couldn't even read the article because it made me want to vomit. Everything about this is so GROSS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:21 PM
2

I agree OLD is trash and they lie SO often is honestly a joke. A lot of them are entitled cheaters/POS who think hot women will fawn over them when in reality they get maybe three pickmeshia matches. It never ceases to amaze me how many absolute scary, horrifying men are on there, too. Some take a bit longer to explode, but you definitely dodged a cannon. He was crazy. BUT, on the other hand, I have always hated courting in real life. It has always been so awkward to have men I have no chemistry…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:09 PM
13

Wow. What a broke, whiney douchebag. Yeah, OLD is a cesspool. My sister found her HVM there, but they talked for a week to get the deal breakers out of the way, went on a date, and decided that they were golden. Been together for 7 months now and are still going strong. HVM don't stay on OLD for too long if they're there. I've had men offer my extravagant dates and the such as well and it's nice, but if their character doesn't match it's always a no. You can be rich and still be a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:14 AM
27

Not a diet coke! XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:08 PM
37

Genuine good guys DO love this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:07 PM
18

I fake vomit every time someone mentions porn and call it out as disgusting and horrible for women and men. Then I talk about how it gives men ED and objectifies women. At first my friends tried to tell me I wasn't being sex positive, but I told them there is nothing positive about the sex trafficking of women or 20 year old men needing to take viagra to get hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:40 AM
10

That's funny because men can get breast cancer, too. LMAO. Men just love hurting themselves if it means they can also hurt women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:41 AM
86

"Car crash films" is EXACTLY what these are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:30 AM
18

Reminds me of my boss who made a lot of time to fix his car but left most of the child-rearing and domestic labor to his wife who ALSO works a full-time job. Then on the mornings, he'd come in boasting about how he made his wife and kids breakfast he'd be upset that I'd remind him that his wife does that 360 days a year while you step up MAYBE 5 days a year. Or how he decided to take the kids shopping with him while his wife slept for the first time in 3 months and thought it was cute how she ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:12 AM
3

Yeah, I'm 20 and I have old friends that are still in high school and it's... just a weird dynamic. Like, now that I'm an adult the dynamic has changed from being friends to making me feel like their guardian when we go out because they're babies in my eyes - not even 18! It's honestly hard to keep the friendship going, not that they're bad or annoying, but because we're on different levels life wise and I can't relate to having my mom say no to anything I do anymore. I have a job and a home whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:53 PM
14

100%. Alone is better than being abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:40 PM
62

100%. Be kind to yourself for not knowing better, you know better now that THAT'S what matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:52 AM
10

Or is he just being his honest self?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:37 AM
3

Before the first date. I don’t see a point in wasting time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:56 AM
16

Ok but in what ways is he even a friend? He sounds toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:55 AM
3

Block and delete hun. Block and delete. Leveling up sounds like a better thing to focus on, what fields were you thinking about? Have you ever heard of the Dave Ramsey financial plan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:44 AM
2

No need to join a convent to reject patriarchal ideas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:19 AM
11

Raises hand ya got me lol. Never want kids and have plans to get sterilized ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:17 AM
21

100%. And I’ll happily die alone before putting up with another lazy POS. Which, according to men, is sexist bc if you don’t settle you’re oppressing men. No joke, I’ve been told this several times. So let’s oppress those men, ladies, and live happy, fulfilling lives without them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:41 PM
11

Nah, he don’t count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:37 PM
24

OMG! I once was stupid enough to admit to one of my exes that I’d been raped at gun point before and that’s why I didn’t appreciate him having a gun just lying on the floor. Which, thinking back on it, any guy stupid enough to leave a fully loaded gun just on the floor of their room is no one I need to be around. Anyway, he kept trying to hug me and I kept flinching away. He was getting hurt that I kept rejecting him and angrily said “we’ll I’ve been groped before and I still let you touch me.” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:35 PM
9

Yeah, he was a daily user and as far as I know, nothing has changed. Good for you! I do it recreationally but it’s only with trusted company and it’s for shits and giggles. I’m not out here doing it every day tho. I’ll never understand people who think weed is a personality trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:06 PM
20

Lmao. I had an EX who had a high paying job and apparently “lots of savings” while having a lot of material things (his own house, car, motorcycle, several gaming systems, etc) but he vaped weed so often he never really did anything outside of work except play video games and watch movies. He always talked about traveling and we broke up because he said he was moving and lo and behold a year later he STILL hasn’t moved lmaooo. Meanwhile, I’ve been out of the country twice since. Very much textbo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:49 PM
4

Never date a guy who lives with his parents. You’re not in high school and he hasn’t moved on from their house so he isn’t developed enough to be able to take care of you let alone himself. Don’t waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:29 AM
1

Oh my god. That made me nearly vomit. Crazy what a hair cut and shampoo can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:35 AM
8

100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:36 PM
6

Umm. No. The magazine are often misrepresenting the data. Look at the actual studies. Sexology is studying sex and sexual behaviors. The whole “men are from mars, women from Venus” isn’t considered fact in sexology. Men and women aren’t that different at all. In fact, men and women are so similar, there’s only 1-3 point deviation between them. Sexology is very new, first started in the 50’s and 60’s and is literally just about sex and sexual relationships. It incorporates sociology, psychology, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 10:20 PM
31

Just block and move on. No need to risk your health or teach them a lesson. They’re not worth your time anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 09:57 PM
1

Gorl wat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:06 PM
70

Girl I turned towards it due to abuse, too, and WHEW. I’m am glad that phase of my life is over. Nothing but psychos wanting to treat ya like meat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:12 AM
4

Yeah, but just to be clear I meant strike as in red flag, not hitting me. I don’t wait for it to escalate to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:51 AM
9

What I do is leave after the first strike. I don’t allow them to explain. I just say: that isn’t okay. Usually abusers will test the waters. They’ll start small. Like joking about smacking you or about your insecurities. They think they can hide it under the “just a joke” category but they’re not kidding. It’s not a joke. It shocked/hurt you and they know it. Leave. Leave at the FIRST sign of a red flag. Always. Edit for clarity: strike as in red flag, not them hitting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:11 AM
3

The twitter crowd is full of kore reasonable people when it comes to giving advice on those relationship threads. Reddit is just mostly trash so no, I don’t go on those threads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:17 AM
13

100%. I said what I said and you either respect it or you don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:16 AM
1

I know what you mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:14 AM
24

I don’t know. I seriously don’t even understand it. They all have kids and somehow think it’s ok to be disgusting. Never going to understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:40 AM
5

Generous of you, but no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:37 AM
13

Honestly? Omelets w spinach and green peppers and cheese comes to mind... Avocado toast. Those are the only two dishes I can think of. I eat them often enough. Americans take pride in their sugary and disgusting breakfasts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:33 AM
16

Oh no. Body builders don’t eat that. I have a taste for body builders and their diets are strict and very healthy. That plate doesn’t grow muscle, just heart disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:21 AM
53

ALL of the men at my job were PROUD of the fact they didn’t eat veggies and instead took vitamins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:15 AM
333

One ex would always try to kiss me so I’d stop talking. A grown man legit thought that the best way to stop losing an argument was to be affectionate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:55 AM
6

Just a lie to keep men from facing consequences for their heinous actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:33 AM
3

Then post Trump and Bernie videos outing them as LVM. Most politicians are LVM. It comes with the territory of being a politician. They’re liars and feed off power. Politics will ALWAYS be choosing the lesser of 3 evils.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:53 AM
19

Like when the guy has to go to my dad to ask “permission” from my dad. Like I’m not a whole complete human who’s not a slave or owned by my father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:35 AM
15

This sub always talks about LVM and how they take their power and abuse it. Biden abuses his power to be a creep. This belongs in this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:25 AM
22

Ok but lukewarm showers are good for your skin. Too hot and it hurts the top layer. Cold or lukewarm showers are best for your hair and skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:01 PM
1

Recognized my bad behavior once pointed out by FDS. Wrote down how men treated me in the past when I acted that way and literally looked at the evidence. Then I went out and double checked and it was right. The guys I acted pick-me to responded that way. But if I made them pay and made them step up, well... they stepped up. I had lovely dates and shitty dates and it just proved FDS. My fave is how I got a man to paint my house, serenade me w a cello, and take me on cute af dates. He was a troope…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:24 PM
77

Recently got into a fight that I had to disengage from. A scrote was trying to convince me that women who have too high of standards are SEXIST! Literally his exact words. He couldn’t seem to rationalize in his pea brain how women would rather be alone than settle. And somehow that thought process is sexist. Somehow preferring singledom to an unfulfilling relationship is SEXIST. Lmao. The scrotiest of scrotes. I had to just stop replying. The stupidity was too much. As we know, women having stan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:12 AM
11

Huh. Thinking about it you’re 100% right. The self-labeled witty people are never actually witty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:20 AM
75

Exactly! The problem is entirely them. WHY WOULD YOU TALK TO SOMEONE WHEN THEY JUDGE YOU FOR IT? Women don’t do this. We side with women and empathize, letting them share their feelings. LVM can’t even grasp the need to learn basic empathy and then turn around and complain about how the world is cruel because they won’t listen to their struggles. It’s pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:50 AM
31

I’m thinking about making one and have a thing kind of like bars where women get in for free but men have to pay a fee and profits would go to domestic abuse survivors. Kind of a dream of mine to open a comic shop/coffee bar. Might happen, might not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:40 AM
6

I feel this 100%. Vanilla sex satisfies and kink is just for spice. Porn has literally ruined kink for me tho because now all the men my age are just porn sick psychos looking to abuse their partner instead of simply add spice to the sex. It’s infuriating, but my hand never fails so. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:09 AM
4

Hmmm. I never got a chance to watch Midsommar fully. All i ever saw of it was the creepy ending where they stuffed the dude in a bear and set people on fire. I worked in a theater and never thought to see it. This makes me want to see it. A lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:09 AM
27

Yassss! Love that energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:02 AM
32

Omg. When he talks about the internet being there so you can look someone up to see if they’re a terrible partner I lost it. Like???? Bitch, where is that? On his MyLife page next to his income and marital status? Lmaooo. What a loser. Blaming women for shitty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:18 AM
6

Same. I’ve always been able to see the difference between the persona and the person. I literally grew up w Hannah Montana. Lmao. I knew better than to think the singer was literally that person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:22 PM
4

I think there’s more at play than a few songs encouraging women to be pickmes. It’s beyond just Lana to society as a whole. I didn’t watch You and then become a serial killer. Human beings are a bit more complex than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:12 PM
1

THIS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:05 PM
3

Oh okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:54 PM
1

??? 174lbs isn’t fat. How tall are you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:49 PM
7

Yes it does. Block him sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:45 PM
17

My sister was a super healthy eater (not skinny, but at least she ate healthy) before dating her current bf and was certain she could get him to eat healthy, too. Now they’re both really unhealthy eaters and I’ve tried to talk to them about it because they want kids and they get super angry. Can’t help people who want to self destruct, I suppose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:39 PM
5

100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:46 AM
7

I mean, as a single woman who lives alone, I love not wearing clothes in my own house. It’s freeing to finally get to be alone and be naked without the fear of a relative or roommate seeing me. But would I tell a potential partner who I haven’t even went on a date with yet about it? No! Because that’s weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:45 AM
1

That’s a lot of projection and you not reading my post right. The baby was an accident. She wanted to keep it so they both decided to try and make it work. She then refused to be a parent and was irresponsible dead weight (according to my aunt, who was the one picking up her slack bc my dad was working and couldn’t). My dad worked and did most of the child rearing for 5 years and the straw that broke the camel’s back was her cheating. She’s STILL negligent and irresponsible to this day with the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 08:32 PM
1

The situation doesn’t apply. She’s just a horrible mother. She’s neglected ALL of her three kids and now the youngest is terminally ill with a preventable disease while the other two are running the streets. My dad’s ex best friend is also a terrible dad. Their crusty asses deserved each other. Women can be incredibly Low Value, too. My dad’s ex is a prime example. FDS would not claim this woman, unless we now claim abusive narcissists. That being said, I still stand by my assertion that single …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:54 AM
8

Not always the case. My dad was a single dad because his first wife refused to settle down and be a mom. My dad divorced her when she cheated and took full custody of his son to live by themselves. His ex remarried the guy she cheated on my dad with and had 3 more kids that she continued to not parent and the guy was just as inattentive. They are literal devil spawn. My dad then married my single mom (my mom got knocked up by a loser who promised to stay and then bounced a week after). So. If an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:25 AM
27

I’ve got an IUD and I’m working on getting sterilized, too. Lol. Childfree gang gang. It’s also all for me because I don’t want kids. The guy is still gonna wear a condom to prevent STDs. Like. Nothing I do is for a possible SO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:07 AM
5

I’m 20 and the guys suck at my age, too. You just have to wade through the filth, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:19 AM
2

I’m proud of your brother. These were grown ass men. Sighhhh. 😞 College boys and men who can YouTube streams of games all night long but god forbid they search “how to wash laundry” or “how to cook” 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:06 AM
20

Very well put
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:18 AM
5

To be fair they washed their entire bodies, BUT they used bars of soap as 3-in-one solutions. So soap would be shampoo, conditioner, AND body wash. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:36 PM
43

If taken care of and trimmed I think they’re sexy. Those long wispy gandalf beards tho? Ew. Just. Ew. I would never go out with someone with a beard like that or JUST a mustache. Like, One time I thought this guy was joking about his mustache. In the picture that he had on tinder it was a really large fucking mustache, like it went out at least 1.5 inches from his face. So of course I just figured that it was fake but then he sent me a photo and there it was. The monstrosity. I gave him an ultim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:56 AM
3

Possibly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:57 AM
37

And in the 2010 census nearly HALF of women 15-44 were childless. After looking at these stats WHY would an American woman even want to have a kid with some loser? I don’t understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:57 AM
15

Did he have a beard? I know kissing men with beards irritates my skin and makes me break out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:37 AM
28

I DON’T KNOW! I’d watch guys in college and my bfs when they’d do their laundry and it was always so GROSS! I‘d offer the college boys some of my detergent (for the greater good) and only one ever accepted. I’d give my bf’s shit tho and go to the store with them. I’m not doing that anymore tho. I’m not playing mom for boys who can’t properly be adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:36 AM
75

So many guys think “cleaning” sheets and clothes is just stuffing the washer to the brim and letting it run. No detergent, no softener, no nothing. Just water. 🤢 I have no doubt the reason my face kept breaking out was bc my bf’s sheets were disgusting. UGH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:29 AM
7

100% my LV POS ex had me LITERALLY PROMISE to be open with him and not lie about anything and to communicate every day. We BOTH had to promise. And he didn’t keep up his end and then I was “too demanding” and he had “been through heart breaks” and it was “hard for him to open up” like puh-LEASE! I wanna shake myself so HARD! I’m so embarrassed by who I was and how I let him actually fool me into thinking that he cared when he didn’t and I’m such a fucking idiot. It’a just all so cringey. I’m so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:31 AM
33

Must be all the inbreeding to keep the royal genes pure. Weren’t his parents or grandparents brother and sister?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:48 AM
19

I’m 20 and already over dating. I don’t think a man will ever add any value to my life and with how the men in my life treat women it’s so often I see that they really don’t even deserve to get my body or my time or attention. Like, what even ARE men in the 21st century?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:43 AM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/epd87l/is_there_a_difference_between_redpill_term/feithcf/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf This comment is in response to asking what a HVM is. Who the FUCK thinks a terrorist is high value? 🤢🤢🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:25 AM
5

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:23 AM
3

My grandma and mom were diagnosed with cancer in July 2019 and in December 2019 they were cleared. My grandma had brain cancer and my mother had breast cancer. So. It’s not unlikely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:10 AM
3

Ooooh i love that link!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:17 AM
2

Ehhh. I’m happy single handedly raising the divorce rate lmao. I wanna get married, I just also won’t take any shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:53 AM
7

And the $10 scratch off is a vibrator. Hahaha. I’m 20, too and I feel you. Dating men has added nothing to my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:44 AM
3

I feel that way, too, ans I’m 20. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:39 AM
17

Went on Facebook and it showed this dude I was talking to had a gf hahahaha. I called him out on it and he blocked me. Scumbags are so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:38 PM
3

Ugh. I haven’t even made it to the giving out my number stage yet before guys are giving me bouquets of red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:26 PM
23

Thank you, I love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:18 PM
7

Yasss! Women ARE the gatekeepers of humanity. We make that baby so WE get to decide which men get to have kids. Louder for the people in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:39 PM
8

Get em Jade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:30 PM
19

Orrrrrrrr he should be a good partner and not a fucking psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:19 PM
13

Good for your grandma. My grandpa was an alcoholic too and that’s what the problem was. He kept getting my mom in mortal danger (my aunt and uncle weren’t born yet) and my grandma had ENOUGH because she had to get IVF to even HAVE my mom and my mom’s twin was a stillborn. When he drove home drunk YET again she pushed him down the stairs and told him to stay down there until he was ready to talk about divorce and he “shaped up” by giving her two more kids and they hated each other the ENTIRE time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:32 PM
25

It’s a big waste of time. 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:05 PM
131

Omg. My grandma pushed my grandpa down the stairs, too, for being a douche. I’m just glad divorce is more acceptable lmao. Fuck that divorce rate, some men are going years being good just to be evil and I’ll happily up the divorce rate single handedly before I fall into that “MaKe iT wOrK” bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:24 PM
16

Yes. 100% yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:02 AM
7

Awwww. She’s so cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:27 AM
4

“Back to the womb” 💀💀💀 😂 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:37 AM
1

Congrats on dumping facebook. Yeah, social media is a cesspool but little gold nuggets like this forum make it awesome. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:35 AM
1

I keep my IG private to just friends and since so many of them are travelers like me we don’t usually catch up often. So sharing things on social media for them to just catch themselves up is so much easier lol. I like reddit a lot too, especially since it’s mostly words. In all honesty, IG doesn’t really add to my life. The best memes and forums are on here and twitter. I’d recommend a twitter before an IG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:02 AM
2

Love this song!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:03 AM
14

Keep my friends up to date on my life without having to deal with all the old people and shitty memes on face book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 08:15 AM
6

That’s personally how I make sure they’re not a catfish tho. Get a photo of their faces to see they’re not a liar about that, at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 08:15 AM
7

My aunt is 5’10” and I’m 5’7”. I wish I could have been as tall as her. I LOVE wearing pumps and heels and so I’m often at 5’10” and enjoy being tall. It weeds out a lot of men lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:11 AM
2

2020 energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 12:44 AM
14

Meh. They both want to get married and have kids one day. They talked about it and as a result he proposed. A proposal isn’t marriage, but it is a promise. A proposal without having first discussed it would be a red flag but they both want this and have talked about it. I agree that if out of the blue you get proposed to then it’s a red flag, but that’s not the case here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:49 PM
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Nope! According to society she’s an ugly beast. She’s fat (size 20), with acne all over her face and body, and has depression/anxiety. Sometimes she doesn’t even shower for a week or leave the house. Even so, when she gets into those moods he works from home so he can cook her food, wash her clothes, and make sure she’s not alone. They are both super in love with one another and already discussing marriage after 3 months. Well, he’s already proposed and she said yes, but they’re not telling anyo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:33 PM
55

Men who want you make sure you know they want you. My sister’s boyfriend spoils her ENDLESSLY. Buys her gas, food, takes her out, he bought her a printer, and clothes. He racked up thousands of dollars on her already and they’ve only been dating about 3 months. If a man likes you, you’ll know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:20 PM
3

I have the kyleena which is a smaller mirena. Mine has helped me significantly control painful periods, blood flow, the regularity of the period itself, and cramps. As a downside I have a LOT of acne and also have some mood swings. I think I’m crazier than before I got on birth control but it hasn’t made me depressed or anxious, just a little crazy lol. I honestly prefer acne I can treat and mood swings to being pregnant though. So. It’s really just a trade off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:19 AM
8

Birth control doesn’t stop STDs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 12:17 AM
11

... would it stop your periods tho? Bc that sounds cheaper than a hysterectomy ngl. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 12:09 AM
21

People who have very different genetics than you do smell better than people who have similar genetics to you. I saw a study on it once and I can’t remember where I did or else I’d link it. Pretty sure it’s because we naturally want to diversify the population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 12:06 AM
34

That’s because most of them do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:54 AM
3

Get a pet and a vibrator then you’re set. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:25 AM
8

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:57 AM
2

Facebook is HUGE for women on literally EVERY group I’m on to talk about how useless their husbands are. They get away with it because they’re “nice.” Like... I can’t with married people rn. I know my marriage won’t be like that because I get instantly turned off when a man shows even one red flag now, but eeewww. WHY do gorgeous women settle so often????? It’s so sad. I pity them and the hoops they jump through to justify having to raise a man-child. Sigh. I can just hope they one day realize t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:55 AM
8

Omg read this as satire at first. Is this real?! How do these women exist? These poor girls, they’ll never be happy. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 05:49 AM
3

That is what cool girls are lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:56 PM
8

Oh, there’s always a chance these are just guys cat-fishing other guys lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:14 PM
24

... That screams sex trafficked to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 01:39 PM
36

It’s called sex work lol. And they’re typically called escorts, sugar babies, or prostitutes depending on who’s asking But these prices are outrageously low and honestly super insulting to look at. Like a woman thinks her time is only worth $7? Honey, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 11:14 AM
6

Ugh. Everything about that sub irks me to my core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 11:12 AM
9

Ewww. She’s not your friend. Dump that pick me, please, you’ll feel so much better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 10:02 AM
25

I wish I could upvote this more because 100%!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:51 PM
4

Sounds more like Goodfornotin-az, not Boaz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 07:33 AM
8

The only thing that bothers me about this is that they consider these people “broken.” You’re not broken. You’re traumatized and you can fix your mental scars by going to therapy and working on it. Broken is a misleading term that makes it feel like ya can’t ever be “fixed” but our brains have neuroplasticity and can be corrected. You just need to go to therapy for it. “Hurt people hurt other people” is a great quote that really stuck out tho bc it’a 100% true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:07 AM
2

Check my profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:00 AM
9

I got cold sores when I was seven and it was from my friend bc we shared water bottles so.... it’s not just sexually transmitted. About 80% of the US has it so I wouldn’t be too worried about it. Now, HIV, Gonorrhea, or Syphilis - those I’d be worried about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 10:51 AM
7

Omg!!! I loved that!! That is him!! Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:07 AM
39

I block randos on social media like Facebook and IG. I don’t block exes just incase they send me threats and I need to be aware of potential hostility brewing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:03 AM
104

HELL NO! Lmao. You couldn’t pay me to go to dinner with him. What kind of asshole still thinks we’d be on for dinner after I explicitly say to never talk to me ever again?! After he disrespected me like that?! He’s delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:56 AM
10

Omg!!! One guy I was having a really good convo with just dropped that he loved hitler like it was no big deal. https://imgur.com/gallery/PL7Duwt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:49 AM
11

Literally!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:34 AM
15

Girl your thread with that asshat pissed me off. He IS a rape culture apologist and you were 100% right!! It’s crazy how you got downvoted all to hell for spitting facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:29 AM
12

10/10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 04:27 PM
9

That’s a great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 12:27 AM
16

He sent all of that is less than a minute while I was on my way to block him lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:12 PM
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He sent ALL of that is less than a minute so it’s more of just trying to catch me before I blocked him. Edit: his spelling as a result of the speed, not his poor manipulation skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:10 PM
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Me too. Especially the ones who say they’re looking for something serious and then act like this. Why lie? Just say you’re looking to fuck and stop wasting people’s time who are trying to find love. At this point last year I’d have fallen for that move. I can only laugh now at how obvious they are thanks to this thread opening my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:09 PM
41

EXACTLY! Like what does that even mean? I’m weird for thinking we should go on a date when we’re here on a DATING app? Like? Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:07 PM
54

He also did all this before I could block him. Like. Sir, I said “bye.” https://imgur.com/gallery/slBJAJz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:38 PM
13

Same! I expected it to be filled with super crazy, unrealistic expectations just for it to be like: don’t let a guy treat you like trash. And then I was FLOORED by how people respond to this sub. Like... what, exactly, is the problem with women wanting to NOT be treated like trash and abused??? I love this community. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 08:56 AM
22

THIS! It’s been three years!! What else does he need to know?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 08:44 AM
30

Oh, it all starts with puberty. The sexual feels and such lead you to google which leads you to porn If we had real sex education and honest, accurate information readily available go kids and we taught consent and the dangers of porn, then these wouldn’t be issues! It’s sad, but this behavior is so preventable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 08:29 AM
13

gasp did he really?! I don’t keep up with celebrity gossip but wtf! She’s awesome! She definitely leveled up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 08:22 AM
6

Yeah, sorry. I get them mixed up ALL the time. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 08:19 AM
15

I admire Emma Stone. I like what she has to say about being single and that she’s dating herself. I, of course, will continue to date, but it’s nice to hear about women who are successful in every way who don’t let the world tear em down. She gets a lot of hate, but I really respect her and her desire to be picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 07:16 AM
14

Thank you for raising good men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 06:57 AM
7

English wasn’t his first language so I understand the grammar issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:36 PM
2

Thanks. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:34 PM
11

I won’t be doing that. I think it’s important to make sure they’re unblocked so that way if they get mad and send me a threat I can screenshot it for evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:33 PM
5

English wasn’t his first language. But yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:09 PM
50

https://imgur.com/gallery/rZsSqsj I talked to him enough to know that he wasn’t joking. He doesn’t joke like that. His humor is marked with a “lol” thrown on the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 08:47 AM
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He’s not even old. He’s 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 07:58 AM
4

Men don’t have to orgasm to get a girl pregnant. All it takes is precum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:51 AM
2

Nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:50 AM
7

Me too. He has to go down on me before i even touch him. Foreplay is a MUST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:49 AM
1

Girl Jan 1st I’m reborn as a virgin again. New year, new me bb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:47 AM
5

Hun they were always pedos. Just hiding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:35 AM
13

I disagree. I have a few FWBs and they make sure I get off and are nice people who I consider to be genuine friends. They just don’t make enough money for me to consider them dating material. Vet more thoroughly and be just as ruthless in order to find guys who are worth NSA. I’m also a sugar baby, though, so I dunno. NSA arrangements with generous men are my typical so I probably have a bias.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:55 PM
0

Not really. I just see an easy check to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:11 AM
8

... I do steal from guys who let me into their house... so... they don’t lmaooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:46 AM
8

While i agree with most of the post, I can orgasm multiple times and keep going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 10:47 AM
24

Life Goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 10:13 AM
5

Ugh, my ex used to wash with soap, he wasn’t even at the 3-in-1 Axe stage. Everything from his hair to his face to his ass was washed with one (1) bar of soap. I was stupid to have dated him long enough to finally cave only when he started to get distant. I’m glad ai found this sub. My dates since have been much healthier and better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 06:48 AM
9

Well he’s only half wrong. Humans as a species ARE polygamous, BUT we crave monogamy when it comes to settling down with someone so... half right. Guys aren’t the only ones who will have and enjoy multiple partners lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 12:58 AM
7

Adult sleepovers are totally a thing. I just stayed over at my friend’s house last night bc we went drinking and then back to her’s to smoke some weed and play video games. I wasn’t driving home high lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 12:54 AM
26

I had those “friends” and it kills me inside to know how well some guys hide their intentions until you finally let your walls down because you’ve known them so long you just figure you can trust them, but you can’t. It’s 100% why I prefer girl/gay friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 12:50 AM
2

Just because guys find you unattractive doesn’t mean you’re ugly. Benedict Cumberbatch is unattractive to me, but attractive to lots of people. He’s not ugly, I just don’t like him. Beauty is subjective and trying to model yourself off of what guys find attractive is a dark, sad hole to fall down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:09 AM
5

??? And? Imagine living your life for a man. Lmao. Couldn’t be me. If he wants to be with me we’ll hook up. If not, that’s his loss, not mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:30 PM
27

.... being fat and overweight doesn’t make ya ugly sis. But yeah, I see where you’re coming from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 04:31 PM
1

You lost me at alpha. He’s not a werewolf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 05:16 AM
2

Thanks for pointing this out. I will make sure to adjust my filters accordingly. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 10:46 PM
0

Just make a side hustle and sell nudes of other ppl from google like the rest of us. Make a little cash lmaoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 03:53 AM
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