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Field Reportrobml/r/seduction27/11/21 12:41 AM
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Conversationrobml/r/seduction19/02/22 07:43 AM
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Field Reportrobml/r/seduction01/08/22 12:59 AM
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Logisticsrobml/r/seduction23/01/22 11:51 PM
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Resourcesrobml/r/seduction16/07/21 09:47 PM
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Care to elaborate on the dating profile part? For example do you lead with the shirtless pic or make it a second/third pic? Do you include a face or no face? Bio? Link socials? Etc.
/r/seduction07/08/24 07:50 AM
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Based on the original comment I wouldn't say OP had the same delivery you imagined but generally I do agree with you
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:42 PM
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TIL the ends don't justify every mean
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:40 PM
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I know you meant Big Dick Energy but I kept defaulting to Bob's Delicious Enchilada
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:38 PM
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Prelim questions: are you in a position during your uni to dedicate time/money/energy for dating? A lot of cases usually are because of a lack of one of those 3. If so, what makes you think you have 0 chance with these girls?
/r/seduction20/04/24 04:48 PM
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This might depend on culture, but most girls I have encountered like that tend to be sapiosexuals if that helps (chemistry is first and foremost generated thru one's wit, intelligence, and ability).
/r/seduction11/04/24 12:19 AM
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Which geographies have you tried this in and what is your physical background?
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:37 AM
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See now you're attempting to distill this into a Logistic Regression problem. The question, my friend, is where the threshold lies. The good news is is that if you collect enough data and features this is actually a model that trains quickly so we can tune our hyperparameters to convert your real number inputs into a binary output. Mind you we have to make some assumptions about our data but since we are sampling from the real world, given a large enough random sample size that is IID we shouldn…
/r/seduction01/11/23 09:36 PM
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I misread that OP was 20 and that she was half his age...boy was I surprised on the reread and the comments.
/r/seduction22/08/23 07:05 AM
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Thanks dude
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:11 AM
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Sounds like you got friend zoned. If it helps you should make your intent clear at some point altho idk the full story here so can't say.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:11 AM
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You have 3 choices: beautifully hot, intelligently funny, sexually exhilarating. Now choose two xD. Edit: usually applies for guys and girls but hey if you get lucky you might meet someone with all 3 + is good with the family.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:49 AM
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It means they always have options.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:35 AM
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Gets less as you grow older I've noticed. That being said in prime dating years its a thing
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:00 PM
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Cold showers helped my obese friend get enough mental stability for self improvement^
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:54 AM
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Sometimes when you're flat out broke, money comes first lol. At least enough to get somewhat comfortable and afford free time for health and social life.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:52 AM
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A secret Egyptian relationship in college, mashallah bro good luck you're gonna need it (been there).
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:37 PM
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Well there you go. Start with trying to make acquaintances -> friends and then eventually flirting buddies -> more than friends type of ppl
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:46 PM
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Want to add footnote 1: if he/she is mentally unstable or wasn't really attracted to you in the honeymoon phase, all bets are off even if #4 is fulfilled.
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:34 AM
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I mean to be fair most iPhones don't look too different from one another one year to the next /s
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:30 AM
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Idk abt the others but Chris Hemsworth literally has kids while in a happy marriage in Hollywood lol, as far as I'm concerned he's winning.
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:27 AM
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Wdym
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:26 AM
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Depends on the country imo
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:18 PM
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You have the link to the OP?
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:30 PM
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Rules 1 and 2 always apply, but what about yourself do you find average as opposed to attractive in the first place?
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:54 PM
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Username checks out lol. You should check out a book called Reinventing Your Life if you want smth to help you work thru it.
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:59 AM
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Probably why you're getting rejected by 9s imho
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:29 AM
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I honestly don't care but if I had to choose maybe the first bc I like honesty.
/r/seduction04/04/22 08:27 PM
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This^
/r/seduction19/03/22 06:42 PM
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I too have dated whilst broke, but even then your dating pool options become severely limited, as you now need not only someone who is financially stable enough but also is willing to support you in terms of dating as well.
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:32 PM
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I'll give you a hint: $, even if you're not rich.
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:46 PM
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It's largely social proof mate. If you want pro tips I would look at how Ariana's current fiance/husband managed to pull considering he's not a Hollywood elite and is just in real estate.
/r/seduction18/02/22 07:59 AM
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Bro idk who's telling you the majority of 20 year olds are having sex twice a week that's not entirely accurate. Sure you have a subset, maybe, but the vast majority of us, go on not banging, occasionally banging, to constantly banging. Point being there is no fixed number, and highly depends on context and if you have free time from studies/work. What's your financial situation also matters. It boils down to self confidence and being comfortable in one's skin that tends to set those who give of…
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:29 PM
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I can't tell whether this is a joke or not
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:58 PM
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I'm actually curious of doing a study on this, see if the averages even out to certain locations.
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:31 AM
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Teach me yo ways baddog
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:30 AM
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This isn't sarcasm right?
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:29 AM
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I move around usually between cities. But im not in the US, heck the opposite side of the globe if that matters, and sometimes the Tinder game is dry and sometimes it's great. For me it's just a challenge of how you appear in the photos in terms of how much do you pose/behave like a photogenic insta model versus how quirky do you show yourself, that's probably the one thing I haven't fully grasped.
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:25 AM
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So I've been able to do that before, I do just fine irl. My question is what sort of theme do these photos have? Are you like posing as a model, are you showing something quirky, like that's probably what confuses me whether I should just throw in some nice photogenic Instagram pics or maybe smth with character
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:21 AM
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Yeah aight but what are "good" photos?
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:57 PM
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Aww that's so cute, I lost mine in a similar way. The advice in this thread is pretty good. A lot of ppl saying to not worry abt it which may make you be like "wait SHOULD I BE WORRYING ABOUT IT" but nah its just everyone being supporting of you and letting you know what worked for them. Note go slow, blood is normal, and be gentle and patient at first.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:58 PM
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OP I think many have missed your point on a cultural distinction. I have lived in a couple countries all in different regions of the world, and altho yes there are similarities amongst men/women, the flavor of typical interactions differ. Also the prevalence of certain types/behaviors also differ based on cultural values so I can highly agree with Russian women having their own unique place. That being said, you probably already know your gf is not necessarily the entire populace but a good girl…
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:22 AM
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OP idk if this helps, but I've lived around a few diff countries all with different cultures. I've realize the ones I've lived in more closer/typical to India do have less of a straight forward approach as say the West. However you are in the UK, you will not be beaten up bro dw. What I will say is this, there is never a harm in striking a conversation with someone and building from there. Westerners are more open to this. That being said I've realized Indians raised in India differ from those r…
/r/seduction02/01/22 10:29 PM
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This, OP I was abt to type this but this is key
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:38 PM
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For me it depends on the work schedule. If I'm so busy with work/studies then probably 1-2 otherwise more but I usually opt for recurring with beautiful girls with personality at this point.
/r/seduction27/12/21 09:57 AM
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I mean depends on the porn OP is watching
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:51 PM
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I think it's because even Gaston didn't take his shirt off in the middle of a Convo to flex his muscles. Girls like to admire, not someone who obviously shows his muscles off (depends on context but for the most part)
/r/seduction18/12/21 06:45 PM
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First off, ain't no talking happening at a club with loud music, only outside or in a smoke spot. Most likely you're gonna be playing off body language cues. I'll write the rest tmrw, imma schleep.
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:55 AM
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Sure dude, you see I'm coming off the opposite direction from (years of serious relationships with a couple casual hookups) so I defo get the butterfly feeling and honestly wish you the best. Also don't lose yourself to the girl completely, rules of attraction still are at play. It's like 3am where I'm at I'm abt to schleep ill DM u tho :)
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:25 PM
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I shall take you on that offer, once I can figure out where to get Chipotle gift cards lol.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:16 PM
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Idk I think there should be an age gap calculator, what if its a 17 year old and 18 year old?
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:23 AM
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Sounds like someone has been reading some Chris Canwell lmao
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:13 PM
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Approaching
/r/seduction04/12/21 09:47 PM
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Yeah you didn't fuck up lol, just give her her space to go thru her emotions and it'll be ok
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:18 AM
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The fact you were focused on dating in general was an implicit road to a hard time. Just do you my guy, they come to you when you're living life to your best and when you don't care (and take care of your physical/career interests)
/r/seduction08/11/21 10:34 PM
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Yeah just go for it altho ur chances of success may largely vary, it's better to be somewhat straight forward (altho like seduction goes some way). Also just know she may be getting with you out of vulnerability but hey it doesn't necessarily cause harm if you don't mentally abuse her and instead be a gentleman. Good luck.
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:17 PM
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Love this post, anyone have any notes if it differs outside of North America (i.e. Europe, Middle East, Eastern Europe, Asia, etc)
/r/seduction05/11/21 10:37 PM
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Flip it into either a flirt, tease, or ignore. Always one of those three (unless it's a deeply serious convo). If it's not clear ask questions. In this case "what makes it so cool?" and a response of "you do X and Y in these pictures, the design, etc" to which you can either continue with, "you like X?" If yes then invite to do it together at some point, else find out why not and hear that story (if you want to). Idk there's a lot of ways this can be developed is all im saying. An interesting ap…
/r/seduction24/10/21 02:48 AM
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I don't rly read up on the posts here but what is an example of the shitty advice? Also if a guy has slept with more people then that is possible if their seduction process works ergo the pedestal (it's not any different than any other skill and someone who's good at it). As for objectification yeah idk, but the rating thing I say happens everywhere whether consciously or not, some places are more explicit about it.
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:45 AM
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Yeah lmao, I think light touches moving on to gentle kisses in exposed erogenous areas (i.e. neck) and slowly building from there works better. Not to mention having the right dialogue and action couple together is key. Hate to stereotype but the thing about dudes being more visual has proven fairly true at least in my experience 😂
/r/seduction01/10/21 02:39 AM
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Just to add to OP, personal experience I have found works with women who are sexually reserved (and I don't mean where they secretly have a desire and whatnot). Except you know in the case of the male seducer I doubt swinging open a dick unexpectedly and jerking off would do much (I haven't tried it at least in without pretext), but again the mental game aspect I relate, and the seduction process was more about making the other person comfortable in your presence without feeling pressured, so st…
/r/seduction01/10/21 02:27 AM
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Literally been in this situation, someone I actually connected with, sex drive was great, etc. Fortunately had the chance to follow up with the girl. Prime suspect is abandonment issues and potentially that she is still in love with someone that doesn't really love her. Abandonment issues bc if you don't abandon her first to get her hooked, she will self sabotage and leave first in anticipation of your eventual departure. The in love thing with someone else (usually a figure who only texts her o…
/r/seduction06/08/21 10:59 PM
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How about the profile/bio? What did you actually care about and what caught your attention?
/r/seduction23/07/21 04:01 AM
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Question to OP, what worked on the dating app initially to get you two to Snapchat?
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:47 AM
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Should be somewhere in the about or wiki page. I highly recommend Atomic Attraction by Chris Canwell and The Game by Neill Strauss as two landmarks in game that I have seen prove their worth indisputably (not listed in the reading list). Besides that for your own internal issues also Reinventing Your Life (a psych book best coupled with therapy) and that makes a killer combo imo
/r/seduction23/07/21 01:44 AM
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My doubt on Bilzerian is due to him faking his image but I'll take a look at it
/r/seduction23/07/21 01:42 AM
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I'm ngl I found this thanks to CasuallyExplained and can't believe it's only 4 days old
/r/seduction03/03/21 11:48 PM
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