This may be an obvious one but I think there is always a subset of guys who find they lack game and whatnot, but I find it boils down to their income. This is a tough situation, because they may look good and feel good but the lack of money for even a basic date or just enough to buy one drink really hits. The people ik our view is to focus on getting yourself comfortable before you focus on game because without that basic comfort you can't really be in your own skin.

Basuc comforts being: housing, access to transport independently, food money. (can easily link this with Mazlo's hierarchy). Maybe somebody has a different view here, I'd love to share our thoughts below