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I'm stress-free, I exercise, I eat healthy and plenty of meat, and I sleep as much as I feel like, I don't even use an alarm clock. I still can't be bothered to chase after women.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 08:31 PM
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So when you discovered the red pill, did you do it without listening to a new viewpoint? Or are you one of those natural redpillers who just know everything there is to know by instinct?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 11:14 PM
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Yes, but don't "always choose your own happiness". It's very tempting to get the short-term satisfaction of being right, but it's more rewarding to be wrong once in a while.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 08:22 PM
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Here's a crazy idea: How about you listen to their views, and judge the ideas for their own merit? Make an honest attempt to discern the truth, otherwise you're just in the blue pill of a different thought framework.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 08:05 PM
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despite me being actually interesting To yourself, since this is obviously a subjective qualification. Well, you get whatever people you attract. If you don't make any effort to attract interesting people, you deserve to be bored.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 05:07 PM
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Unless you're the smartest and most interesting person in the world (which is highly improbable, as you must be aware), the point-of-view of other human beings has the potential to enrich and improve your understanding of yourself and of the world. That is a fact. So if you haven't experienced it, there are two options as far as I can tell: Your friends suck. That's your fault. Increase your SMV and go find better friends. You don't know how to interact with other humans. Extracting deep meaning…
/r/askTRP02/07/17 08:24 AM
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Women are not brainless dolls. They are sentient human beings, just like you, which is why they have the same rights as you (even more, really), and why they can be MPs and presidents. If a woman makes a conscious decision to fuck you, you should respect her judgement, as long as its for your benefit as well. Unless you have proof that it will damage her, stop being such a condescending mansplainer and let her make her own choices. Fuck the patriarchy!
/r/askTRP02/07/17 08:13 AM
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Yes, there probably are. What's your point? ;)
/r/askTRP30/06/17 09:34 PM
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My take on this situation is that you need to up your fingering game. Are your fingernails well trimmed? Do you vary your movements? Do you give attention to the clitoris? A well-fingered woman doesn't care about tomorrow morning.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 09:19 PM
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Because you were already there and it took no effort on her part.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 09:16 PM
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It's 60% ass-kissing, 20% ass-covering, and 20% doing a good job. Don't let it become your life, or you'll have a miserable one.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 11:03 AM
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If she's consistent about it, you should try to respect her boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 11:11 AM
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You obviously know how to use words, so I'm guessing you're just bad at thinking on the spot. That can be learned through practice. Of course, the practice can be painful, which is why you don't do it. But it's a never-ending cycle, and if you don't break it, nothing is going to change. Regarding social competence: If computers can be taught to detect people's moods from pictures, you can do it too.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 10:55 AM
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Everyone is a moron once in a while. You have to give yourself the benefit of the doubt.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 09:04 AM
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The main game is a game of power. They will try to manipulate you, get you to say things you don't believe, or do things you don't want to do. And if they get you to do that, they will win, and they will get a little bored.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:15 AM
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You're right, women don't care for certain categories of life experience, like tragedy. Also, they don't look for someone who isn't playing games. They do appreciate responsibility and intelligence, but not more than other qualities, like being fun and emotionally-responsive. If you want to attract women, then start playing games again. Just make sure that you win, and make it seem like you weren't even trying.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 02:48 PM
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Some people start out life with more than others can build in their entire lifetime. The real reason to let go of the anger, is that you are the only one suffering from it. Life is not fair, and you shouldn't depend on some future reckoning that will punish the privileged. All we can do is accept the things we cannot change, and learn to play the game in a way that we enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 10:13 PM
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Damn, we don't have those in my country.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 11:31 PM
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How/Where do you meet them? If you don't mind me asking
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 10:50 PM
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So check out couchsurfing.com and go hang out with tourists. You might meet some locals on the way too.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:13 PM
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I meet about one or two new friends per year. Sometimes through my social group, sometimes just by chance. However, all friendships take work if you want them to stick, and often people drift apart regardless (just recently I "lost" a friend to his new girlfriend).
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:11 PM
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This comment may have changed my life.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 07:57 AM
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Exactly. Just be confident about it. You are obviously worth this much, so why would anyone make a fuss about it?
/r/askTRP31/03/16 01:47 PM
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Try to touch her during conversation whenever conveying a point, or shifting the subject. Be non-chalant about it. Start with neutral places like shoulders, arms, back, etc. When the conversation becomes more intimate touch more intimate parts like belly, hips, face, etc. After a while she will probably hint where she wants you to touch her next, but even if not, just become comfortable with it and you will soon feel how to proceed.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:07 PM
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I think that's a bit misguided. Reality is probably the other way around.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:01 PM
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In fact, it motivates me for the "wrong" kind of self-improvement.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 03:59 PM
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This is my go-to read: http://www.urbandharma.org/udharma4/mpe.html
/r/askTRP11/01/16 01:06 PM
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/r/truereddit /r/depthhub
/r/askTRP06/01/16 07:13 PM
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Just keep talking over him.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:06 PM
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I try to read here at least once a week, but I only see examples of really straight-forward shit tests. When I'm in an actual conversation and there's a lot of context, I'm not always sure how to apply it! Anyway, I am learning, would have done much worse a few years ago :)
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:09 PM
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Thanks, I'm still learning!
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:49 PM
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Meh, I don't need chances. I prefer to burn than to linger.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 05:56 PM
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Simple and elegant, I love it! Will definitely give it a try.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 01:16 PM
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Good question. Update us in a month.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:51 AM
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Maybe try to have a really open and honest discussion with him about it. The rules with guys are different, so maybe r/altTRP can help.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 02:27 PM
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You've literally made no more progress than if you've never sent that text. If you can't open a conversation with a person you already know, you are in dire need of reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 12:32 PM
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I can see the appeal, but I don't think you'll be happy this way. If you really like your friend and see him as a life-long partner, maybe you could adopt a child with him. But to try and force a romantic element into it seems silly to me, and also unfair to your friend.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 12:29 PM
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Most comfort tests are designed around her worry that you're not going to stick around I think you hit the nail on its head. What about more abstract comfort tests, such as "Do you care about me?" They cost me nothing. Should I indulge her as long as it's reasonably seldom?
/r/askTRP15/09/15 12:09 PM
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Implying she needs to be kept in line
/r/askTRP15/09/15 07:06 AM
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Actually the chance of infection declines which each hop. So if the flu spreads for 10% of sexual encounters, the chance that you pass it to those 4 dudes is 1% each or 4% total, and that they pass it to other girls is 0.8%, etc. So it's not that high. Considering STD transmission rates are below 1% with a condom (and in particular, HIV's infection rate is below 1% without a condom for vaginal sex), I'd say you shouldn't be overly worried.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 09:36 PM
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Okay, here's one by Nietzsche, but it's not really hidden: "If you go to a woman, do not forget the whip"
/r/askTRP13/09/15 09:31 PM
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As long as you have oneitis for her, any interaction with her will be painful. I would avoid her and focus on other girls, at least until you're over her.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 09:26 PM
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You built a huge ego to compensate for your low self-esteem. And it's low because your evaluation of yourself is compared not to who you are, but who you imagine yourself to be. It's a vicious cycle. Cut the cycle - see yourself as you truly are. Expect from yourself nothing more than to improve. Then set out and make effort to improve yourself, and in time you will gain actual accomplishments. Then you'll be proud of your actual self, and not of an imaginary character that you wish to be.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 09:20 PM
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I don't recall anyone saying women reject men who love them. They just reject men who idealize them beyond proportion.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 09:13 PM
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Many posts assume that LTRs can only be successful if the woman is a submissive virgin who has no aspirations in life except for keeping the house clean and raising kids. While I understand the fantasy, their reasoning sounds to me a lot like "bitch be disrespecting Jesus, red flag!", and I would be very unhappy in this kind of setup anyway. I want a woman who's smart like me, who has her own opinions and abilities that I don't, and I want her to put herself first, and to stay with me for that r…
/r/askTRP13/09/15 02:08 PM
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That's a strange question, I would ask her to clarify what she means. Obviously you have no desire to keep her from her friends, even if you had the power to do so. There doesn't seem to be much logic behind the statement, so try to notice the emotion behind it. Either way, just stay the course. You seem to be in a good position to keep her or leave her when you make the decision.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 12:59 PM
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I logged in just to upvote this. I hope to see balanced and reasonable posts like this more often in here.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 09:35 PM
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"You're projecting. Is that the type of guys you date?"
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:46 PM
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Suppose there's a friend you love, but he's not doing much with his life. You know that if he put in a little extra effort, took a little bit more risks, he would be happier in the long run. Wouldn't you try to push him to do better? A lot of people would do it for their friends, but not themselves. Some kind of mirror blindness. but not make love a co-dependent I never said that. My original statement was one of intention, not of an existing logical relationship.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:24 AM
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If you feel like you have everything you need, and that you're fulfilling your mission in life every day, then perhaps that sentence really isn't for you. But then I'm not sure why you're here.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:08 PM
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"What a big mouth you have" If she's being childish, treat her like a child.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:57 PM
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You sound really affected, all this by a bunch of strangers on the internet and virtual points that mean nothing. Ask yourself, what is the benefit of your anger and tension? If everyone is wrong, and you are right, you should be happy at your wisdom. And if you are wrong, you should be humble. Allow me to quote from the quote you just trashed: "The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly... none of them can hurt me. No one can implicate me …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:43 PM
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You don't deserve downvotes for asking a direct question. The mindset described in this paragraph is a necessary component of maintaining frame in society, and possibly the hardest part of it.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 12:28 PM
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"I love myself, therefore I will never be satisfied by my position in life."
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 12:25 PM
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"Things you own, end up owning you." Like he said, ownership isn't just about power, it's about pride and appreciation. Did women have pride and appreciation for their men? I should hope so. Actually, I hope some still do.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 12:16 PM
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3) I have the unicorn's address. Will you drive me?
/r/askTRP01/09/15 12:32 PM
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I assume they act that way because you don't seem to have any power. Not physical, nor social, nor otherwise. You can't get back at them, so why should they care? Respect always has some element of fear. Power comes in many forms. You can be strong, or witty, or influential, or rich. Step 1 is to achieve power. Step 2 is to display it whenever you are disrespected. Respect will soon follow. Story time - I went stargazing with a female friend and her group of friends, all of whom don't know me. T…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:29 PM
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Imho the tension started a little before the French revolution. It's been building ever since. It got a huge boost during the world wars, when women started integrating into the work-force in mass. The roles are changing, borders are moving all the time, just like two countries with countless skirmishes going back and forth. Feminism is at its 3rd wave but even the "1st wave" is just a continuation of a previous wave. The lines are blurring more and more, and at some point something is going to …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:46 PM
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When you are wrong, admit it. There's nothing wrong in changing your mind, if you decided to by using reason. Be vocal about how you changed your mind, and applaud the efforts of the person who persuaded you. Don't make a big deal about it either way. Do that, and you'll earn respect. Your frame is about you. If you feel like going around telling everybody how wrong they are, you are probably not very confident. Congratulate people when needed, by happy for them when they are happy. It's their m…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 06:39 PM
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Frame is the combination of your goals, mood and boundaries. Apart from your absolute do's and don'ts, you set different boundaries for each person you know. For instance, good friends can call you in the middle of the night, but you won't tolerate it from other people. You might be okay with a girl touching your hair because you like her, but you won't tolerate it from a girl you dislike. Maintaining frame means people can't mess with your boundaries, and if they want you to relax your boundari…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:43 PM
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You might as well ask how to reverse the direction of a Tsunami wave. There's tension that's been building up for hundreds of years, and lately it's been peaking. More than once I heard (non-sjw) women referring to the "war between the sexes" with utmost seriousness. The tension has to resolve itself, one way or another. If you want to make plans, imho you should either concentrate on building a shelter, or making plans to rebuild once the aftermath hits and everyone realizes how lost they are.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 01:33 PM
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In lieu of better advice, try to find the interest in the person and in your dynamics with her. While she blabs about unimportant stuff, tease her, challenge her, validate her, ignore her. Tune into the game. She doesn't really care if you listen, anyway.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 09:03 PM
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If they can twist your answers, that's on you. If they have minor details to dwell on, and it actually trips you up instead of making them seem petty, that's on you. Work on your interview game. Be cocky but earnest, say only what you want them to know, and get out smiling.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 12:31 PM
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Unless playing dirty resulted in very heavy penalties from those around you. But seeing how nowadays lying is pretty much socially acceptable, we are a long long way from that.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 06:11 PM
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It makes a casual situation sound very dramatic..
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 05:42 PM
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What a load of bullshit. You are blaming your clothes, your career, your weight, when the main thing that is wrong with you is your attitude. You need to go out there, knowing that you have value, and try and try again until you're able to sell it. Let me address your concerns: PhD student - that means you're smart. Find a passionate way to talk about what you do. That you're a student now just means you still have a drive and you haven't given up on life. Maybe you spent the rest of your time t…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 09:24 AM
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Nobody wears sheets in Israel.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 08:49 AM
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But unlike dung, they smell pretty good ;)
/r/askTRP15/08/15 10:37 AM
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A sarcastic "Good input!" and change the subject.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 10:33 AM
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Everyone is trying to analyze your behaviour, which honestly is a little difficult since you haven't provided any real-life example yet. But behaviour is only part of the deal. Are you in shape? Do you stand confidently, and look people in the eye? Do you keep good hygiene and make sure to have well-fitting cloths? Also, you should know the bad boy act can get boring very quickly, which might be why they're trying to get you to fight other men. Many women would prefer a guy who can be a bad-ass …
/r/askTRP15/08/15 09:55 AM
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I completely agree that there is something contradictory here. Here's a possible resolution: that the concept of "true love" comes hand in hand with the concept of a family unit, which most gay guys aren't interested in. As a possible support for this argument, it seems that NPH is pretty happy.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:49 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you. I recognize that all the behaviors TRP ascribes to women do correlate highly with the women I know, but I also know women who break that mold and men who fit it. I think it might be some behavioral archetype, a combination of certain mental incongruities and an enabling environment, that creates this correlation. Either way, it is interesting to read about, because no one else seems to discuss this archetype or its origins.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 10:53 AM
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Meditate.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 09:00 PM
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Is it a form of shit test? Only one way to find out: Escalate right back. If it's a shit test, or she backs off, just make fun of her for being inconsistent.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 08:59 PM
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Just have a conversation with the person. Ask them how they spend their days, what they aspire to in life. It would be pretty easy to ascertain if they are RP by their responses.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 08:57 PM
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A better reply would be "Half the world is"
/r/askTRP23/06/15 03:11 PM
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"Jealous?"
/r/askTRP23/06/15 03:05 PM
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Nice comebacks. I'm going to integrate some of these into my routine.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:23 PM
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If you're talking about actual logic, then there's no point: It's a biological imperative. If you're trying to decipher what might have caused this biological imperative to be more successful than others, then you should read up on evolutionary biology and sociology. Basically, having the toughest motherfucker around is useful for survival, and mating with one improves the chances of offspring survival. Of course, having a beta around is also very useful, but not as much for mating. You can imag…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 10:10 AM
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I wonder if your withholding of post-coital comfort was actually beneficial to her experience, or just something she was willing to overlook.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 08:08 AM
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The surest way to fail a shit-test is by taking it seriously.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 02:12 PM
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Tall, reasonably educated, solid build with muscles, confident. Frankly, none of that doesn't seem to matter except for height and build. When he walks the streets, women constantly check him out, even when his face isn't visible due to darkness.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 02:07 PM
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It took us thousands of years of civilisation to formulate how to throw a ball (gravity, acceleration, etc.), while every person alive could do it intuitively. Logic can be a few steps behind, but it will get there eventually.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 07:51 AM
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Crap. Every time I think I finally swallowed the pill...
/r/askTRP05/06/15 02:09 PM
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I think it's just easier now to find all the weird people.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:13 AM
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That sounds like straight-up depression. "But how can I be depressed?" you ask, "I have everything I could ever want!". Depression is not necessarily the result of life situation or external circumstances. Much like catching the flu, it's just something that happens and affects the chemistry of your brain, and it dulls your sense of enjoyment and motivation. I might be wrong, but you get it checked out. And anyway, get into philosophy. It will give you some tools to handle the big questions, whi…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 09:37 PM
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It seems like you care a lot, and putting a lot of effort and energy into her. Why? Just keeping going on with your life. If she's DTF and it's convenient for you then great, otherwise you have better things to do.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 09:56 PM
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Yes, swallow your pride. She will soon move on, and you don't want to risk your career with pettiness. If you don't think your ego can handle it, then fight back indirectly - figure out her weaknesses and discuss them with your peers, collect a list of her mistakes so you can use it against her if necessary. But be very careful, because that is a woman's game and you are far behind on experience.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 09:35 PM
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Money-makers are not necessarily wise, it may mean they're just pandering to the masses.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 01:47 PM
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Wow this bot really is terrible.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 10:20 PM
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Her: Tell me a joke! You: Okay, say "knock knock" Her: knock knock You: Who's there? Her: ... You: .. Don't worry you'll do better next time
/r/askTRP16/01/15 09:56 PM
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I don't see an apology. I would soft next her.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 09:47 PM
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I firmly believe that only stupid people can be bored So you have never attended a class or a company meeting? Because if these never bored you, I would like to know your secret.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 02:11 PM
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This seems like the female equivalent of kindergarten hair-pulling. If you want to stay friendly, try to tease them about it. "If you want to touch me, just ask, no need to be violent." or "Jeez you're worse than a cat" or "Nice shot, now it's my turn!" (jokingly of course). If they don't get the hint, you can add "but seriously, it's unpleasant, don't do that". As for their attitude, yeah it sucks. I'm guessing women don't see violence the way men do, because they're less likely to have to exer…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 10:19 PM
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You don't have to change your attitude. You can be muscular and friendly. Your giggling will turn into a hearty laugh, and your joke-voice will be less excited and more amused. You'll have to tone some things down, especially in body-language, but you don't have to change the way you interact or the things you say.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:52 PM
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But is it in my best interest to only make her uncomfortable? It should come after a portion of comfort building, no?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 06:31 PM
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29yo, that's all pretty much true for me. But there are high points : My social skills became more diverse, and while I drift away from my old friends, I'm gaining new ones from different walks of life. I'm already on a career path, and I have money to spend even after saving half of my salary. I used to stare at menus, now I glance. I used to ask how much will it cost, now I only think how fun will I have. I'm travelling more and gaining life experience and friends abroad. Regarding the last po…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 03:03 PM
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My problem isn't just with new girls, but also plates or old friends. Texting lets me build comfort without wasting too much of my time, since I can work or chat with several others meanwhile. It usually works well, but on the few occasions that the conversation turns to an actual subject, there's no way to suddenly move to a phone call (it would be way too dramatic), and so I can either drop it or find a way to discuss it over text.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:14 AM
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I'm a say-what-I-think kind of guy, and I have a lot of opinions. As a result, I get shit-tested all the time. I usually counter it with a sense of humor. I either agree and amplify, show them the same fault in them (more risky), or break their statement apart and make fun of it. I would say there are three steps. Be ready. Be aware of what you can be shit-tested on (your perceived faults & vulnerabilities) and find a way to speak confidently about them When shit-tested, try to understand the re…
/r/askTRP13/01/15 10:56 PM
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A lot of it is in the way you approach it. Talking about how annoying something is, or how it hurt you, or picking the situation apart, is likely be met with hostility. What you should do, is say something like "That thing you did, please don't do it again." and move on without any bitterness. No need to expand on it too much. Good expansions are "Because it bothers me" or "Because it's impolite" etc. If it's something that repeats itself, you can be more severe. For example you can say "Don't e…
/r/askTRP13/01/15 10:15 PM
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If you must imagine, go for a range of scenarios. Imagine all the little things that might go wrong, and how you would react - would you recover the harmony by saying something funny? pull away and make her work for it? Next her and walk away? These outcomes, not all of them are optimal, but in all of them you are no worse than you were before the date. Expect at least a few things to go awry, and you'll be pleasantly surprised when they don't.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 10:00 PM
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It can be a shit test. In my younger days I responded by flexing, and she just walked away without even looking.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 02:41 PM
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I find masculine women attractive. While I'm not a bodybuilder, I'm not feminine either - I mountainbike, I've been to fights (and won some too), and I'm mentally strong. It has to be the right balance though. I would go for ronda rousey, but probably wouldn't go for a female body-builder or a short-haired biker.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:25 PM
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It's not why, but frame is a very important part of being a public figure.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 02:16 PM
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That's not the kind of movement I want. men's rights is about demanding things, which obviously isn't working because no one gives a shit about what men want.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 05:02 PM
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Have you been improving yourself lately? Got new hobbies? Did she see you chatting with other girls?
/r/askTRP06/12/14 08:53 AM
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You are again not talking about rights. A doctor may get a reduced sentence, but he'll be tried all the same. And still, this isn't about rights. Also no one really cries about thugs getting shot by police, the problem starts when it happens to regular people just trying to live their lives.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:36 AM
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If you want analysis, provide samples.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:31 AM
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First, make sure you have the right size. Too loose or too tight can really hinder the experience. Then try different kinds: try really thin ones, try ribbed ones, try Ritex (which is becoming my favorite), etc. I would definitely reduce drinking, but that's your trade-off to make!
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:30 AM
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There is more than one crowd in this subreddit that's approaching 90k users. We have many ages, many countries of origin, and many walks of life. Join the discussion and contribute your point of view. I'm going to read about Robert Moore now, he sounds interesting.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:22 AM
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If egalitarianism is not simply the belief that all people are equal, but rather that they should be treated as such by the law then I'd have to disagree with this as well. Take voting for instance The point of egalitarianism is equality in rights (freedom, speech, fair trial, etc.) and equality in opportunity (everyone can study and work in anything they want, without restrictions or special favors). What you're lamenting is that voting is a basic right, instead of something to be earned. I def…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:15 AM
1

You can't "avoid" being bitter, but you can understand where the bitterness is coming from, and work on yourself to resolve those issues. It's all a matter of ego, of wants and desires, and most notably, of false expectations from reality.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:00 AM
1

I think I'm in the minority here who thinks that it's not bad that women become experienced with sex. That way they learn about what they like and what works for them, and that can help with their decision later on when looking for a mate. I think the problem starts when women are gorging themselves on dicks like it's a buffet, beyond what they can process emotionally. They enjoy the validation too much, instead of focusing on growing as a person. In my beta years I once dated a girl who confess…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:58 PM
1

How will you know you are being manipulated, if you are not familiar with the tricks? Also, why are "games" a negative thing? Games can be fun and create a bond. Would you prefer if girls filtered guys using a 10-point questionnaire, or using a fun game that takes creativity and character? The only bad part about it, imho, is that it takes time and effort to learn the rules.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:31 PM
1

She probably just wanted validation. Make fun of her instead, e.g. "I know."
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:25 PM
1

When I was in your situation, I made a decision for one of my dates: I will not have sex with her today, no matter what. Even if she drops all her cloths and starts grinding me, I will refuse. (That sounds harsh at first, but most chances you won't have sex with her anyway, so it's not much of a sacrifice). With that mindset, I played with her to see how far I can get. Make her curious, push-pull, play it cooler than she is, etc. Knowing that sex is not even an option cleared my head, and let me…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:21 PM
70

I once suggested that redpill could become a movement, and was downvoted to oblivion. People here are guarding the redpill like we're the illuminati. They don't seem understand that if every guy in society was redpill, we'd all be better off. They don't seem to understand that if redpill is truth and reality, then it will stay true even under public scrutiny.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:10 PM
6

There is nothing wrong with opting out, but holding resentment will eat at your very core. You have to interact with women: Some of them work with you, some of them are married to your friends, some of them are police officers, judges, bank-tellers, etc. Bitterness will cloud your judgement and lead you to non-optimal choices. If you want to opt-out of marriage, or relationships at all, that's fine. I'm all for MGTOW (as my username implies), but be happy about your choice, and don't resent wome…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:38 PM
6

Some guys act juvenile because they're used to getting away with it. The trouble is that by the time they're adults, if you shame them publicly they will resent you for it. I would take an opportunity when I'm alone with the guy and start ribbing him and dominating him, to the point of being insulting but still friendly. If he's smart, he will be more careful around you from then on.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:06 PM
30

Yes, there's a good reason to be bitter. There's also a better reason not to be: It gets you nowhere. Part of being a man is being pragmatic. Are you angry at the weather for raining? Are you angry at a stray dog for barking? No, you accept these things at they are, and society is yet another huge force that for the most part is out of your control. So will you be forever bitter towards it? It would be much better for you to accept that it will sometimes rain. Just buy an umbrella, and make sure…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:06 AM
1

It's lack of integrity. Have you ever encountered a person saying something like "the bible is true because it says so in the bible!" with a straight face? It's not because he's a good actor, it's because he actually believes this lie, and lacks the integrity to feel conflicted about it. I can't say for sure that a religious hamster and a female hamster run on the same set of wheels, but the result in strikingly similar. Imho, integrity is not an innate trait in people, it's a trait developed be…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 05:57 PM
1

more than a couple of minutes talk It shouldn't be difficult to maintain a conversation, unless she's in a real hurry. How do these conversations end? Does she say she has to go? Does she begin to turn her attention elsewhere? Do you get nervous and ask for a number to soon?
/r/askTRP03/12/14 05:25 PM
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No, it would just be a nice memory, like that time I scored a goal from half-court, or the time I solved a hard riddle quickly. None of those reflect on my actual value, not to myself and not to others.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:35 PM
24

this absolute .01% female with the most unbelievable face and body is just dying to sleep with you, but shes married. Are you going to decline? Maybe not, my morals aren't that strong. But I would never rub it in her husband's face, or laugh at him while he begs me to stop. Just knowing that he knows would probably ruin the whole thing for me.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 10:28 AM
1

Just keep your frame - you were right to want time for yourself, and she was childish and her reaction. You don't need to say any of that though, just say everything is okay and that you'll hang out later this week, or whatever you would say to an insecure plate who wants your affirmation.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 09:58 AM
3

One aspect of monk-mode that is often ignored, is that you remove a big cause of stress and misery from your life. If you are on a constant search for opportunities to hit on women, but keep chickening out, you feel like a loser and you will become depressed. Sometimes I would gather enough courage to make a pass, but I came with a bad frame and no value, and got rejected gloriously. I would feel like shit for days later. When you're in that deep of a hole, making a conscious decision not to thi…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:28 PM
1

There are plenty of different measurements.. I bet I can get 20% of the population into the top 1% of intelligence.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:01 PM
21

Not to mention how fat people take so much more space. But as for 3, just tell them to move their bag in a calm male oppressive voice. Usually works without any further discussion.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 10:33 PM
8

That's not proof, it's evidence. Learn some logic.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 06:29 PM
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I told her I'm not upset, I just need time for myself. That went over okay. Then I started giving her advice like the stupid nice guy that I am, and now I'm in a massive shit test. Whatever, I'm not going to play her game, she will probably fold, and I learned my lesson.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 07:20 AM
2

Stopping theory is very interesting, but in real-life you can go back. Unless you're a bridge-burner, few things are truly final.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 08:41 PM
2

It's not really a men's rights issue? This isn't an attack on men, it's an attack on reason.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 05:15 PM
1

That's odd. But adblock should solve it.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 09:22 AM
1

I don't recommend negative reinforcement. Whenever I punish myself I feel less powerful, which makes sense because alphas don't experience punishment, only betas do. I do strongly recommend positive reinforcement - treat yourself whenever you perform better than average.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 09:35 PM
1

Unless you interpret it as Average Women Are Like That.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 08:10 AM
1

If they take a break from me, when I don't want them too, it means either my strategy or implementation of it aren't good enough. How can the other guy be "beta" if he gets the girl when I want her?
/r/askTRP17/11/14 09:43 PM
1

Plates are great to practice LTR game on. I'm not even sure that I want one, but it's good to learn the basics.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 09:02 PM
5

Do you lack confidence in your looks, or lack confidence in yourself? If you just objectively think you don't look as good that day, you may be right. You could try to pick-up girls anyway, but why not just fix whatever is bothering you? There are some thing you cannot change, but skin appearance is not one of them.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 11:00 PM
14

Confidence isn't knowing your abilities (or lack thereof), it is having a correct perception of the world around you, and of yourself. Anyone can look at a banana and say with confidence "this is a banana", because they have no doubt in their mind about their perception. However, when you look at someone and can't tell if they're annoyed, and how much, it's hard to interact with that person with confidence. That's where approach anxiety comes from. And that's also where fake it till you make it …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 10:57 PM
4

I think the idea is to not provoke those who are stronger than you. If you wish to surpass someone, you have to wait patiently until you can match him, and then some. A small victory is not enough, because a vicious opponent will take it to the next level. You have to be confident that you can win all the way through, if required. Actually outshining your master can be a good baiting technique, if you think you're ready for a battle.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 09:41 PM
2

This is not new. Seventy years ago, a small group of scientists built the the most powerful weapon ever created by man. It was a doomsday device, one that could literally wipe out countries off the map. Did everyone tremble before them? Were their opinions about how to use this weapon respected or taken into consideration? No and no. They got their prestige, but it was worthless. The power, as always, remained in the hands of politicians, who are the alpha version of middle management. Are geeks…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 09:03 PM
8

You can still be loved for who you are - that's what friends are for.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 03:47 PM
3

Uh, really? Take a weekend in the Netherlands, where 40 euros buy you a suck&fuck with a hot girl.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 08:42 AM
15

Buy a goat, go your own way. Once you don't need women, they are much easier to get.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:33 PM
1

Sounds like you won't be able to die happy..
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:41 PM
1

Talk to guys. Talk to ugly women. Especially talk to old women. They won't drop you when you make a mistake, and you won't hate yourself if you make a mistake, so you can explore conversation technics more freely. Do it in the store, do it on the street, do it when waiting for the elevator. It may seem boring but it's important practice, and it will pay back in spades in the future.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:25 PM
9

We matched on tinder, and had a nice conversation. Out of the blue she asks me how tall I am. I reply my exact height, and then she shit-tests me. Her: Hmm u looked taller Me: You looked nicer.. Abundance mentality. My past self would say something dumb, try to salvage the conversation, or try to turn it around. I just left it there and nexted. 22 hours later she replies. I'm not angry, I'm just not impressed. She apologizes, and qualifies herself to whatever I say. I'm meeting her tonight.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:15 PM
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