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So now it’s “Sports, Beer, Being Buff and Casual Sex”. It’s still all forms of easily-won empty materialism.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 02:49 PM
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Think we’re gonna need a good path out of Nihilist Hedonist Sexual Alpha self-improvement pretty soon.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 03:09 PM
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The question is whether the bigger rewards are actually more pleasurable. Yeah, that's a tough one. Even as I get the girls, job, prestige, money, friends - after years of busting my ass - a strong drink still feels fantastic, maybe even more so. Is that because worldly gain only feels good to get and not to have? Because there is some root level discontent within me? Or within all humans that is inescapable? Because I'm not appreciating what I have? Because a civilization devoid of true communi…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 02:51 PM
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This sounds like the logical pendulum swing.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:32 AM
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relaxed, cool, happy sexy, warm, flirty, strong and masculine demeanour with a joyful, passionate and fiery spirit evident underneath self-assured These are natural byproducts of a high value life, not a mentality you can simply choose to adopt.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:03 PM
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I think that's exactly what he's saying. Those cognitive processes may change over time - but only as a result of your real, external situation changing - not by willing them to change. That may work for a while, but you'll eventually revert back.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:38 PM
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This should be the top comment. You need to work on yourself - your skills, physique, social life, financial situation - and these types of behaviors may manifest - but you can't just will them into existence and expect it to stick.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:36 PM
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Comedians (especially racial minorities) are the only ones who can deliver red pill knowledge to the mainstream without being ostracized. https://illimitablemen.com/red-pill-comedy/
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 05:17 PM
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To expand on that; if you think of sports as essentially a display of male genetic fitness, Bonds cheated men in the sexual marketplace.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 05:12 PM
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I don't think anyone has actually answered your question. those skills are as important as muscles for evolutionary survival Yes and no. Muscles, size and power have been useful evolutionarily since the dawn of animal life. However, higher-level thinking has only been useful in the past 400,000 years or so. In the evolutionary environment, muscles still beat brains and status still beat muscles. Thus, raw analytical thinking isn't inherently attractive to women looking for a provider, it's the s…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 05:02 PM
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Cut, cut, cut. Even if you want to keep getting bigger, cut down to 10% and see where you're actually at. I have a feeling it will be at a lower weight than you think.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 04:15 PM
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Totally with you on this. I stopped boxing after a few concussions. But I'm not sure I want to go back to combat sports, as I feel like I have enough boxing knowledge to defend myself at this point and BJJ doesn't seems as applicable to a street fight?
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:14 PM
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Also remember that fat chicks look way worse naked and splayed out on your bed... or so I've heard...
/r/askTRP25/03/17 06:10 AM
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It sounds like you're in a manic/angry state. That's not sustainable, as you imply. It also sounds like you've never actually burned out since you're so lazy - so maybe see how far you can go and adjust from there.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 06:06 AM
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Ha. Reframing natural truths (like that penises go into vaginas to give women pleasure) as "cultural ideas" is the central problem with feminism - and most modern progressive ideas. Maybe some natural truths aren't beneficial to a utopian civilization, but simply denying them is not the way forward.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 04:01 PM
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I wonder if you could say the same about men and sex. Men crave sex, but do they love it when it's gotten too easily?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:30 AM
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Don't feel that because you start having sex with a girl you need to stay in a relationship with them due to guilt, fear or societal pressure. This is such an insidious byproduct in BP social conditioning (and perhaps somewhat our natural instinct to protect). Girls feel NO guilt in rejecting men looking for sex - you shouldn't feel any guilt in rejecting them for commitment.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:42 PM
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Hahaha. I mean, if you said it with a coy smile while she was blowing you it might work?
/r/askTRP21/03/17 04:45 PM
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"I'm sooo dark triad, but please stop hurting my feelings :("
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 01:04 PM
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So glad that guys are all mindfucked to like tall skinny bitches - leaves the fat asses, hips and tits for us.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:46 AM
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Height 2) Muscles 3) Reddit-posting skills
/r/askTRP18/03/17 08:33 PM
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I tried reading this book, but gave up, as I wasn't getting much out of it except common sense stuff. What were your main takeaways that actually lead to a behavior change?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 06:15 PM
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Yup. The only thing that's needed from clothes is to frame your body and musculature well - all other expectations can fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 06:45 AM
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You may be "cute" but not masculine, thus no tingles.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 06:09 AM
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Huh. Looks like you're just as stuck in your own bullshit as she is.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 02:19 AM
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How can you vouch for those supplements? Besides melatonin, what's your evidence that they have any effect besides placebo?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:16 PM
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you want her to be reacting positively because she wants to fuck you, not because you're acting like X... You are presenting invitations for a girl to let you know she likes you. After a decade of game, this is what I've come to as well. The other benefit is that it allows you to get out of your head and just enjoy life - even if you don't get a reaction/validation/whatever.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:44 PM
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It sounds nice, but this is like saying "why do you need muscles? just act confident". Now, I could buy the argument "if you have muscles, it doesn't matter what's on your bookshelf" - but the bookshelf doesn't hurt.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:12 AM
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Maybe the best approach is to find a happy medium like Aristotle suggests. All good advice - thanks bro
/r/askTRP06/03/17 03:08 AM
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Yeah, that stuff is mostly a load of shit. Change comes from taking action, not from reading books. You can remind yourself of quotes, but you won't internalize them unless you NEED to. Unless a quote/advice can map to a behavior that you can do every single day, nothing will change.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:57 AM
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You talk about "Honor" but don't give credit. Anyways, decent post, we need more explicit posts about masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 03:27 AM
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Ultimately it's a delusional feeling. You aren't the best. The way to get authentic confidence is to win - beating other men at whatever game/endeavor. Then you can objectively feel you're the best - or at least better than most.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 04:35 PM
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Is the concussion risk less in MMA/BJJ than boxing?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:19 PM
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I see this on TRP as well. Former betas start having success with online dating when they're in their mid-to-late 20s with near or post-wall women. Then they need to rationalize that their late-20s/early-30s girl makes them a stud when she's actually given her best years to Chad.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:25 PM
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So what's the optimal strategy when you get into your late 30s/40s? You may think: "lock down a 23 year old when you're 36", but she'll be declining at a faster rate than you (according to the chart). I suppose the optimal strategy is to be prepared - by not relying on sex for fulfillment - which you should be doing anyways.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:14 PM
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If you ever dig in to where a girl got her hipster interests, 99% of the time it's from an ex-boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 08:28 AM
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Watch hours of RSD videos to try and convince yourself that looks don't matter, you love yourself and that you just have to self-amuse. Just kidding. Fuck a bunch of ugly chicks and then work your way up.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 04:24 PM
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In all fairness, Starbucks is the most predictably clean place to take a shit if you're stuck out in any American city. Also, read "Spent" by Geoffrey Miller (evo psych prof) for more - he goes into depth about the indefinite qualities of each car brand.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:53 PM
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how can one be compassionate? I hear what you're saying. If everyone is becoming more selfish and there are less expectations for sustaining a community and helping your fellow man, why care at all? First, find people who aren't like this - sometimes that takes a while, and it's hard when you're younger. You're probably selfish too at this point. Second, being compassionate is for YOUR happiness ultimately. Read/listen to some Eckhart Tolle or Jack Kornfield. Third, whatever you put into a relat…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:37 PM
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naturals miss the self awareness to do so, a lot of the time Right - why would you ever need self-awareness or to question mainstream thought if everyone is telling you that you're perfect your entire youth?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 04:24 PM
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The mindset you describe may look blue pill on the surface, but it is not. Just as our genes have programmed us to crave tits and ass, they have also programmed us to feel better when we're in a group with reciprocal love, acceptance and compassion. We're all slightly different and have different histories, but know that there is happiness beyond fucking a parade of HB9s. Sometimes you need to have a parade of HB9s before you start to even consider that, however.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 04:20 PM
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Game is like surfing – you must stay at the “lip” of the wave - not too aggressive, not too passive This is what makes game so addictive and fun - it's the buzz you get from flowing and slipping between comfort and shit tests and back again.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 01:34 PM
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I see the name, but c'mon man, give proper quote credit to Pook. The rest of that goes: Unlimited opportunities with women are just as frustrating as no opportunities. The Nice Guy and the Lady Killer will end up with the same frustration. The only cure is to create your own world, your own standards, your own life, and bring women into your world (rather then be sucked into their world).
/r/askTRP18/02/17 08:39 PM
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Just as there is a human need for sex and success and conquering, there's a human need to feel like you're part of a tribe and brothers in arms in some sense with your friends, community, etc. Also, if you are never vulnerable with people, your relationships will be boring and shallow. Yes, you'll get worldly power and security, but you won't find joy in your interactions. That said, you SHOULD follow the purely dark triad path and experience it for yourself, you're in the Anger/Depression phase…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:55 AM
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You're asking for discipline from the internet? You won't get it. Have you considered that you're studying something that you're not naturally good at? Maybe you need to do something... less intellectually intense... perhaps quit university. Honestly, I think you need to fail. It doesn't seem like enough is at stake for you to give up pleasures and sacrifice socializing, etc. The world will crush you, you'll eventually become a burden to society or your parents and at that point you may see that…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:49 AM
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Definitely a mistake - get out of that situation ASAP - not because she's a bad chick, but because she's a chick. As to your question, a ho is gonna ho, there's nothing you can really do except enjoy fucking her until she's not getting her validation tingles. It's OK to mention that it bothers you or ask her not to do it, but don't get upset or emotional about it or try to make her jealous or whatever you did. And if she fires back like she did, she's shown that you're not her "alpha". Also: if …
/r/askTRP16/02/17 04:55 PM
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On one hand, I'm glad you got laid and that you're making progress. On the other hand, this post was pretty uncomfortable to read. Doing/thinking way too much to fuck some tinder slut Taking "venting" calls before you even fuck her Drive over an hour each way Let her win by taking you away from something that could've helped your career
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:48 PM
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My gym day Like as in ONE day a week? That may be your first issue.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:37 PM
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Even if it sucks you'll feel better about things if you work hard and get feedback for it. If there's no reward and you can't even manage that, quit immediately. (Cue bullshit excuses...)
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 10:14 PM
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With the understanding that TRP is morally agnostic, I personally draw the line at lying. Girls don't mind being "used" for sex from a very attractive man - in fact, it paradoxically, turns them on, as you know - and usually they don't have a problem if you're explicit about your intentions and expectations. Sidenote: that's why BP guys got so upset at the "grab her by the pussy" thing, but most women secretly understood exactly what he meant.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:16 AM
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You're analyzing little details in odd ways and probably misreading situations. Clearly social skills are not your strength. I think your best bet is to continue focusing on improving your appearance until you reach a point where what you say doesn't even matter. At that point, you can learn some very basic game and you'll find that your vibes are no longer "weird".
/r/askTRP11/02/17 07:17 PM
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Lifters vs fighters: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YAXaCmky4Hw
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 07:08 PM
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I like a girl with curves, but I've never found a "curvy" girl who didn't become a "round" girl as soon as she got too comfortable in a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 11:44 PM
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So Lift, run, do yoga, swim (I recommend this, because when you are old you can still swim), eat clean do whatever the fuck you need to do to be healthy. Because without it, you’re nothing. And if you live by the sword, you die by the sword. Anyone who's had an injury that put them out of the gym for an extended time knows how fragile this is. It'd be nice if there was something more solid to attach one's self worth to, but that's not the way of nature - those things need to be trained/learned/s…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:53 AM
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The problem with thinking about IOIs and eye contact is that you're in your head and not just enjoying being a high value man who has fun to offer others. I never look for IOIs, I just make sure I look good and assume she'll be into it if I crack a joke. If your "flow heads to home/internet", then consider fixing that first.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 06:44 AM
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In my experience, the only way to get over imposter syndrome is through repetitive experiences of proving otherwise to yourself. In other words, you can't just mindfuck yourself out of it.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:51 PM
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I think PUA is great. It'd be dumb to develop a great product but then invest nothing in your sales team (not a perfect metaphor, granted). But this poster called it a "Red Pill Handbook", which might fuck some new guys up.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:18 PM
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Not all 8.5-9.5 women know their value Definitely. But you won't find them on Tinder. Some ~8-9 women I've been with who didn't know how hot they were fit one or more of the these categories: New immigrant Didn't go to university Lived at home during college Homeschooled Never drank alcohol Grew up in a cult/religion
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:09 PM
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This is PUA shit, not red pill. Almost everything you list is a natural manifestation of improving yourself and feeling like you deserve the girl.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:17 PM
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Open relationship: that's hipster for "I can't make my girlfriend cum"
/r/askTRP29/01/17 12:32 AM
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Not hating, just trying to help. You do have to reach the top 20% for this shit to work. It's night and day how women treat you. Let's look at it this way (note: these are exaggerations to make a point): Fat guy tries game: spends a lot of energy learning game and watching RSD videos to get girls; gets constantly rejected but gets laid once a month; eventually has to settle for plates that are 5-6's; gets somewhat satiated; loses time, motivation and isn't focused on his body and his social life…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 11:15 PM
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And if you're sensitive you're more in touch with your true anger, desires and limitations and can let them drive you. you notice the bullshit around you and can better avoid the 'feminine imperative'. you're attuned to how people react and can be more effective socially. you listen to your body and can take better care of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 09:49 PM
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And game is 10x easier to learn and implement after you look hot.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 09:33 PM
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If you have a low SMV, do not dedicate more than 5% of your time/energy into sex/game - if any at all - working on yourself will be a 10x return on investment in comparison.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:16 PM
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Great advice. How would you say this differs when talking with men?
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:50 PM
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You're not "spreading out your obsession", you're giving yourself options to fulfill a natural need so there won't be any obsession at all and you CAN focus on YOU. do you really sit there and say "That's amazing that ___ conquered a whole continent and discovered fire but I wonder how many bitches he fucked" Never. I wonder that all the time. A life without sex and women would be pretty unsatisfying, even if you're the buddha.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 08:01 AM
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^ don't ignore the second part of this answer, which you probably will anyways.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:40 PM
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We are programmed to be repulsed by seeing our woman with another guy, don't try to "get over it" and be another modern cuck - it's deep in your gut and nature. Back off the LTR (don't make it a focus of your life) and feel more abundance in your options (work on yourself and your game) and your jealousy may fade. If not: end it. You are probably too invested in this girl - she's not a unicorn, she's just another chick who loves tingles.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 04:37 PM
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Part of mature masculinity is the ability to support and provide for yourself and the community/tribe.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 07:41 AM
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And that's why men are the creators, inventors, pioneers and leaders - we need to prove ourselves over and over to get what we want.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 07:43 AM
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She may have just been making conversation. Military wives are potentially more self-selected to be actively hypergamous, as death is a true possibility. Unless you actually experience the personal, painful side (not just observing) of AWALT for yourself, you won't fully understand.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:02 AM
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Well I guess you're screwed then
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:04 AM
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We do have an answer: talk to everyone, have hobbies, be interesting, funny and cool.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:52 AM
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These women are only good for casual sex Nah man, skip that part too
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 03:42 PM
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Awesome
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:27 PM
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What are the downsides of LA (besides traffic and needing to drive everywhere)? I mean, why doesn't everyone move there?
/r/askTRP22/01/17 08:57 PM
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It's not a test. You sound like you're 17. Just be honest with her and find another girl.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 08:52 PM
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got drunk enough to have plausible deniability carry on a conversation with a guy well into 3 am. "Ok, have pleasant dreams." This was a little before 3am. she initiated. I refuse to be a guy she believes she can do this to, regardless of how she treats me personally. Its a slap in my face. Something in your gut is telling you something is wrong - certainly beyond the facts you wrote out. You're asking us for permission to move on and be with a girl who is fully satisfied by you - well, you got …
/r/askTRP22/01/17 08:48 PM
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Nice report. Glad this motivates you and doesn't discourage. A lot of guys assume that being in the top 20% is "good enough". Nope - that's just the bare minimum to bang 7's - after that, it becomes an exponential curve to the top 1%, which is actually an enormous difference in sexual lifestyle. The road from top-20% to top-1% has increasingly diminishing returns on personal investment and will depend a lot on your genetics.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 05:42 PM
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I'm currently at a 45k/yr private school I bet you agree with OP in 5-10 years
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 04:00 AM
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Some interesting stuff from Molyneux starting around the 40min mark. His position is that promiscuity damages women much more than men, therefore it's somehow immoral or wrong to sleep with women just for the sex.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 07:57 AM
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ALL girls are looking for tingles. If they're not, they probably have a very low sex drive or they're burnt out on a decade or more of meaningless sex. So in the "looks good, great sex, won't cheat: pick 2" paradigm, you're picking "looks good, won't cheat".
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:17 PM
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I generally won't call a girl back unless we have sex on the first date. She has wanted someone in her life enough at some point to do so and if I'm not him than she will always feel she can do better.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:48 PM
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Well said. Reminds me of the "stages of red pill" post by Whisper. Anger is good for getting started (getting out of bed, so to speak), but it can't be your ultimate motivation. It's tough to give up that resentment - especially when it has fueled you so well and is so deeply rooted in your subconscious.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 04:48 PM
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Just drink, talk and fuck. Anything beyond that should just be for your own amusement.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 01:15 AM
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Why the fuck are you playfully touching a girl at the office? Who gives a shit what the dynamics are - could be your SMV has dropped, could be you've gained weight, could be he told her some shit about you. The fact that you ask this question at all means you care, and that's inherently unattractive to her, I'm sure.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 01:14 AM
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at age 26 she needed 45 minutes to orgasm Yeah, dude, have you considered that you might be an unpaid male prostitute?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 12:38 AM
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Me too. It's simply that time of year: Bulk up a bit without worrying about your 6 pack, focus on career growth without worrying about getting out of work early to meet a bitch and doing interesting things besides sex.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:31 PM
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Agreed - but "being social" does not mean "cold approach". Don't bother approaching women until your SMV is higher than theirs.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:30 PM
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"It's easier to lose money chasing women, than to lose women chasing money" - sun tzu That said, if you wait until your early-30s to chase women, you'll definitely regret it.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 03:01 AM
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When people give the 315/405/225 benchmark - is that referencing 1 rep max or doing it for 3x5 or whatever?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:38 PM
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You control your looks to a large extent. Muscles, body fat, fashion, posture. What the fuck are you whining about?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:55 AM
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Do you really need to sign your post dude?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 01:03 AM
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Don't listen to these haters man - it's good advice. Your post is rather long-winded and void of content, however.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 02:45 AM
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I agree. I just read a highly-voted post on here that was like "if you're ugly and you lift, you'll still be top 20% and fine, you don't need to compete with Brad Pitt". I assume that these people probably have never lived in a major city and seen a true meat market. Top 20% is just to get to play the game (the bottom 80% has to trade marriage/providing later in life for sex) - there is definitely another tier. I see this as a good thing - there's still more work to be done and rewards to look f…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 08:52 PM
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If it's that bad, why not move to an Asian country and learn Thai or some shit?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 09:18 PM
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Man, only my true male friends stood with me, everyone else disapproved Regardless, that's a great thing - and the true moral of the story. The last time I got violent with someone, I lost friends over it. Being friends with a BP or white knight pussy seems fine until shit gets real and they don't have your back.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 05:51 PM
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What you're describing isn't a LTR. It's a high-level plate who doesn't quite demand commitment.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 09:18 AM
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"Let her do what she was born to do, Ho" - Snoop on Kim
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 04:52 PM
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She spent more money on him than visa versa - she did it purely for the thrill with zero empathy or internalization of morality.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 05:17 PM
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I watched the whole talk - interesting - definitely feel for the guy. That anger phase is gonna last a long time. Takeaways: Get a private marriage if you're gonna walk that plank. If things seem too good, they probably are. "Looks good, great sex, won't cheat -> pick 2"
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 05:15 PM
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Great post. Pure cold approach generally works on women who have no social ties themselves: a girl who just moved to the city, a freshman the first week of college, etc.. As you say, a lone woman is "foreign to mankind," so it makes some symmetrical sense. If a girl already has any social group and you're a lone wolf - you inherently have lower social standing and everything you said holds true. One addendum I'd make: cold approaching when out with a group of friends (esp. good-looking, mixed ge…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 04:42 PM
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^ Basically all you need to know about game. Banter, banter, banter - escalate, escalate - fuck her well and then shut the hell up. Intentions through eye contact.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 03:47 PM
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Do what you want to do - don't listen to us - what's the worst that could happen?
/r/askTRP27/11/16 03:57 AM
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"Ah, it was so hot, man - I busted my self-belief, thought, intelligence, God in motion and consciousness all over Stacy's huge tits."
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 04:05 PM
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Book of Pook
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:33 PM
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There is no revenge at the end of this journey, only freedom. To answer your question: yes. But by the time you've swallowed the pill, digested it and let it flow through your blood stream into your heart and mind, you probably won't care about your ex either way.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:24 AM
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Like the buddhist parable: Once you use the raft to get to the other side of the river, you don't need to carry it around on your back, it has already served its purpose. It is satisfying to give back to the community, but yes, TRP for intermediates should be a series of bookmarked articles, not a daily subreddit indulgence.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 07:57 PM
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XIV. Fuck her good. Fuck her like it’s your last fuck. And hers. Fuck her so good, so hard, so wantonly, so profligately that she is left a quivering, sparking mass of shaking flesh and sex fluids. Drain her of everything, then drain her some more. Kiss her all over, make love to her all night, and hold her close in the morning. Own her body, own her gratitude, own her love. If you don’t know how, learn to give her squirting orgasms.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 11:41 PM
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Exactly. HORRIBLE fucking post. You need to change yourself in the real fucking world by your actions, not your thoughts. Your "cool persona" will just materialize if you push yourself through fear and challenges and improve your external image and results.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 12:37 AM
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Exactly: be honest with everyone. Some girls won't be OK with your lifestyle and you have to be OK letting them go instead of lying.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:53 AM
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I appreciate the effort, but this is a bunch of bullshit. "Just believe in yourself" is the antithesis of the red pill. Anything worth having will take risk, hard work and long term dedication. Perhaps what you're saying is that guys don't want to take risks so they only focus on the hard work and dedication aspects?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:03 AM
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Remember what it was like from your childhood But it's not your childhood. You're a man - you should own it. Doesn't mean you can't go against societal expectations, but this will just lead to cognitive dissonance. Mindfucking yourself can only take you so far.
/r/seduction13/11/16 05:17 AM
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Lower your standards for a few months. Get abundance. Move up. What are you doing in the gym? You should be trying to get bigger. watched hundreds RSD videos on YT This is advanced shit - not needed until you can act normal and look hot.
/r/seduction12/11/16 02:14 AM
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Nothing beats telling your friends and laughing about it together - the main benefit of a wingman, IMO
/r/seduction12/11/16 02:12 AM
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Dude - you could not be putting this pussy on the pedestal any higher - jesus. You are not one of the "lucky few" - you are the guy out of her FWBs who can't do better and is going to get needy on her. As a man, you need to fuck her well and show her a good time. If you want to be emotional, do that a bit too. She'll naturally transition to needing more of a relationship (as most emotionally healthy girls do), when that comes, consider your options very carefully. In the meantime, yes, continue …
/r/seduction12/11/16 01:47 AM
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The base purpose of life is successful reproduction. To do so as a human male, this means you need to be able to procure resources, have the reciprocal support of a group (social power) and have as much sex as possible with the highest quality females. The more congruent you are with that, I believe, the more congruent you are with life and the happier you'll be. Beyond that, there seems to be a human need for 'service to others' and 'self-transcendence'; likely useful evolutionarily as group el…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 04:22 PM
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Fuck her as quickly as possible. Dominate her, make her cum multiple times - eat pussy if you're good at it, be somewhat emotional, fuck her in the morning again. Oh, and stop caring so much about her 'attraction to you' or whatever.
/r/seduction11/11/16 12:05 AM
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Poetry brah - we understand
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 05:22 AM
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Very important point about keeping it private. Say something 1:1 - every girl respects it - do that same shit on facebook and you're hosed. Also - it's all about the amused "I've seen this shit before and I have everything under control" rather than the active proselytizing.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 03:22 AM
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The US hasn't declared war since before Vietnam - we can do plenty of damage while circumventing those checks and balances.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 07:16 AM
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I don't have strong political opinion, but considering that TRP is about facing reality and decoupling from the status quo, mainstream hivemind, it's disconcerting to see so much single-mindedness.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 07:02 AM
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They don't want to know you - they just want to feel understood. They conflate these things
/r/askTRP21/10/16 10:38 PM
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Yeah, def don't have sex - give them my number instead
/r/askTRP21/10/16 10:37 PM
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Very consistent - protein is 1.5g/lb, and I run a 300-800 cal surplus daily. Don't get me wrong, I could probably put on another 10-15lbs natty over the next 2-3 years, but if the shortcut is worth it...
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:16 PM
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32 12-15% 4 years lifting; first 2 were lean gains-style; last 2 years were more serious bulking Schedule is a 4 day split run once a week: P/P/L/Back I can bench ~1.5x my bodyweight for 5 reps, and deadlift ~2x my bodyweight for 5 reps
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:09 PM
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1/2/3/4 stats What's that?
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:10 PM
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You clearly haven't your heart broken by what you thought was a unicorn. You don't understand AWALT - AWALT is just predicated on the notion that people will do what's in their best interest - so yes, it's "intellectually honest". If a woman is like what you described, it's because it's in her best interest (probably a much lower SMV) - but it's temporary and society is arranged to be working against it long term.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 02:52 AM
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Posted this on another thread: To summarize; there are four things: Objective sources of confidence (e.g. I won a gold medal at the Olympics): this is evidence. Acceptance of those objective sources of confidence (e.g. I am an exceptional athlete and should be damn proud): this is confidence. Inherent value you feel as a human (e.g. I would be just as valuable without any medal): this is self-esteem. The attitude of confidence you consciously fake and project (e.g. I haven't ever pole vaulted be…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 05:46 AM
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The hardest part of a cut for me is the diminishing sex drive (i.e. lower testosterone). What do you find is the lag time between refeeding (boosting leptin) and feeling horny? 24 hours? Less?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:15 PM
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So true. In the transition between being Big and being Shredded - there is Normal - which, if you're RP, feels horrible. Elliott Hulse talks about overcoming that psychological hurdle here.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:13 PM
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What company has high quality v-necks that aren't cut too low?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 05:28 PM
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This is all in your head. Girls don't think 6+ years down the road - let alone 6+ days. Once you actually have the money, it may be a different story....
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:33 AM
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That's probably true, yes. UNLESS, you're male-model good looking OR you can actually fight guys bigger than you and win (not just in your imagination, but in the ring) - a skinny boxer/fighter could have the same swagger and be legitimate.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:12 AM
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This was the greatest gift of PUA - that old Mystery flow chart of Attraction->Qualification->Comfort->Sex is a great starting point for a newbie who doesn't see ANY patterns at all. Over time, you build your own more complex versions of that flowchart subconsciously - tailored to, as you say, different types of relationships or, as OP says, different archetypes of women. Those mental models could perhaps be taught, but to work for you in practice they need to be part of your intuition - so you …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 07:31 PM
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I agree it's a bad idea, but for a different reason. If the OP actually would've had fun playing tennis regardless of her interest - it's a great thing to do. The best dates are things where the girl isn't the center of attention. And sure, you can drink and connect afterwards. But, it puts a lot of pressure on her to perform and it involves a lot of prep besides just doing her makeup and washing her pussy - makes it harder for her to let go and be feminine.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 07:12 PM
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The two-weekend-day thing is probably not good, but 95% chance it's something else - probably a better guy.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 07:08 PM
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I think of it as if I was a professional athlete who got injured. All that energy you spent training, should now be spent getting healthy and maintaining your condition. You aren't going to make progress injured, just like an injured baseball pitcher isn't going to improve their curveball with a ligament tear.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 06:48 PM
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Black girls = best ass White girls = best tits Asian girls = best pussy
/r/askTRP23/09/16 07:09 AM
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I think American men have been brain washed to like skinny/tall women. Those girls are cute once in a while, but a soft, fat-assed, big-titty bitch will make me want to fuck all night.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 07:07 AM
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That's good. Now it's time to push yourself more.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 04:50 PM
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Ha - not details on how to get jacked and shave your head - details on what identity change actually entails beyond the cliff notes on the basic/superficial changes. This isn't a "narrative example", it's an older dude who got slightly better looking. Would like to hear more, but I'm afraid there probably isn't much.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 05:13 AM
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Love to hear from older guys, but you gotta include some details besides "jacked up, shaved my head, heyo" - otherwise this post is pretty worthless.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 12:12 AM
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Look man, you're hamstering away your deep feelings that something isn't right. I'm guessing it's that she gave herself up to some guy easier and faster than you in the same work environment. Which makes you her 2nd choice. Definitely don't bring it up EVER. Just end it super amicably and hope it doesn't affect your job.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 04:44 AM
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Funny shit. an impressive body is one most people are unwilling to suffer for Suffering also means being able to withstand being fat for a while while bulking - not just sacrificing social eating/drinking when cutting.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 03:56 PM
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Exactly. Sidenote: a backing group of strong friends can instill [irrational, perhaps] confidence more than any litany of material accomplishments - it's human nature.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 04:35 AM
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I think you're talking about different aspects. To summarize; there are four things: Objective sources of confidence (e.g. I won a gold medal at the Olympics): this is evidence. Acceptance of those objective sources of confidence (e.g. I am an exceptional athlete and should be damn proud): this is confidence. Inherent value you feel as a human (e.g. I would be just as valuable without any medal): this is self-esteem. The attitude of confidence you consciously fake and project (e.g. I haven't eve…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 04:32 AM
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I was like you once. But I needed to experience AWALT in a profoundly painful way. I'm curious if your RP knowledge will save you. P.S. I acquired 7 HB9-10 plates from lifting (OK, maybe 9-10 HB7s, but still...)
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 04:23 AM
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15% is just wrong - if you're not an idiot, it's more like 99.9%. Sounds like you're trying to hamster away your lack of game.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 04:06 AM
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I do something similar. How do you deal with weekends? Is it anything-goes? I generally keep one day to do work for myself (not for my company) and one day to see friends and rest with no schedule.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 04:56 PM
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Contrary to what most people say it's more difficult working towards hard goals. "I'll lose 10 kg in 3 months" isn't wise things to say.... What's even worse if you could exceed your expectations - you won't. You'll stop at the 10 kg. I have to disagree with this a bit: For goals that are completely in your control, having a quantifiable goal is good (i.e. weight loss). Why? Every inch of progress feels like a motivator and you're not willing to deem ANY amount of progress a success and settle. …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 04:20 PM
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You should do a post on this. I was blind to this point for a while, even after TRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 05:06 AM
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Not talking about getting laid for one night, talking about life
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 09:45 PM
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perceptual = PUA, actually having fucking friends = TRP
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 09:22 PM
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Sounds like the key was meeting these 2 guys. You need to have friends/tribe and enjoy yourself before you focus on women. The momentum built naturally from that. Sounds like you have your shit together, but not your social life.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:26 PM
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Not to mention that debt highly correlates with other shitty decisions in life - he's gonna reeeeally miss that 17k when he finds all those texts to the hawt bartender/ex/drug-dealer.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:09 PM
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As a young BP, you're taught to come home and confide/whine to your girlfriend about "your day" and all your issues. Fuck that - it does no good. Nothing a good nap, lift and fuck can't fix.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 01:29 AM
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This is an awesome post. Nothing more confusing to your dick than a HB9-10 who acts masculine. Just as you should focus on femininity to feel attracted, you should focus on maximizing your masculinity to generate attraction - all good game flows naturally from your true masculine essence (not your routine, lines, etc.).
/r/seduction12/09/16 04:27 PM
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Yeah man, the older woman thing is great, but the married thing is not. Just find a divorced cougar at a bar - bad karma to fuck a married woman IMO.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 12:04 AM
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That doesn't work outside the vacuum of your mom's basement; when you're confronted with true challenges and intense situations, that fake confidence will sublimate like an ice cube on a hot skillet.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 05:43 PM
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I'm just suggesting that you set the foundation for however you plan on making money for the rest of your life (or at least the next 25 years) - our society is not set up for men to be figuring this out post-30.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:16 PM
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Do what you want, but by the time you're 30, you'll definitely want to have your education completed and have developed a strong career skillset and/or a thriving business.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 05:27 PM
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Seriously. She started saying shit like "you just forced me out of your apartment" - yikes - I simply offered to drive you home.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 08:08 PM
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Why is it an insult to a bipolar woman in particular?
/r/askTRP09/09/16 08:06 PM
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Yes, it does. You'll need to make up for it with muscles and a bigger personality if you're short.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 08:05 PM
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Well she just texted me a text wall and a picture of her naked tits, so, maybe I handled it as best I could?
/r/askTRP09/09/16 08:22 AM
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Get some sleep - that's the best medicine - resets your hormones, neurotransmitters, emotions. Do something dumb with your bros if they're around.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:23 AM
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I was thinking about doing a post on this. Unfortunately, the bachelor lifestyle doesn't allow for a live-in girlfriend to take care of this shit, so it's essential to your independence. Chances are, there's only 1 important thing you need to do every day. And housework can be done once a week. Everyday habits/routine can take care of the rest. Read "Getting things done". Now for long term goals, etc. - that's another level.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:07 PM
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The whole idea is to always avoid complimenting as a way of validating yourself to her. Tried this last night. Got a half dozen compliments from a plate over the course of the night and gave none back - even at times where I assumed it would be harmless or give some beneficial comfort. Worked fantastically - she literally wouldn't let me leave and begged to see me tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 05:21 PM
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Agreed, but anchoring your ego on internal traits ONLY is Blue Pill - you still need to prove yourself and compete in the material world. I'd say that most of us would be better off erring more on the side of too much material pride than intrinsic pride. I've been thinking about this recently in the context of goal setting. Two points: As you say, the ego investment you have in your goals should be based on the effort/progress you make daily - not on whether or not you reached some final destina…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 05:12 PM
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Glad you got something out of the post. I've definitely appreciated your contributions around here. Based on what you wrote, I'd like to know what you think about my response (above) regarding reciprocating compliments.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 04:44 PM
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"Thank you" or ignoring will almost always work, but in practice, I probably reciprocate compliments in three instances - note that these would all be calibrated to the girl: At first, I'll compliment her on something she's insecure about. If she's a hot dolt - I'll compliment how thoughtful/intelligent she is; if she's a smart chubby girl, I'll compliment how beautiful and round her ass looks. None of these are lies, they are always things I actually appreciate. During (not before) the first fe…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 04:41 PM
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You can. When your bros tell you that you look shredded or your business partner gives you a compliment on your product/results or your grandma says you're the best dressed boy in your class - enjoy it. Just not from the girls you're fucking.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 02:03 AM
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It's OK to have ego, just don't let it be based on her feedback. another good way to negate feelings of inflated ego is humility. jiu jitsu does this well for me. find something that consistently challenges you Absolutely. It's easy to picture yourself picking up a girl or winning a fight if you haven't done it recently - go fight, go approach - measure yourself in the real world every day.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 01:57 AM
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Read "How to manage your bitches" on the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 04:48 PM
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TRP mode every fucking second If it's a "mode", it's not TRP No condom usually Dumb if you're not snipped
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 10:57 PM
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The only puzzle pieces missing for females seem to be a real-live phallus to play with and finding emotional connection (pair-bonding) In a way, TRP functions to instill the same mentality of independence in men (minus the pair bonding): women are only needed for sex. Thus, leveling the playing field.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 11:23 PM
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Practical examples are nice - it shows how dirty/complex applying theory to the real world can be. Disappointed that they're mostly about online dating though.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 04:21 PM
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Yes, that's generally the case. The thing about frat/sports/rich alphas is that by the time they're in their late 20s, they usually aren't really very alpha anymore. I see 4 reasons why they usually marry sluts: As someone who has had it easy in life, they've never had to question the norms. The norms say to marry the sorority chick, so that's exactly what they do. They were the first guys to start getting laid. The first girls to get laid are usually sluts. So that's what they are used to - tha…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:46 PM
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if they strive to be the man they want to be, the pussy will come regardless It's dangerous to let the pendulum swing the other way into MGTOW territory, however. I'd argue that regular sex affects your psyche and physiology in such positive ways that sometimes you need to make sacrifices and to take risks to keep the pussy flowing - even if it's not "fun" in the short term.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 04:11 PM
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tl;dr Being authentic and honest with girls is very freeing - as long as you don't forget the basics (sixteen commandments of poon).
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 04:10 PM
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I'd listen to what you have to say - give me an example
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:46 PM
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Not everything that takes work has worth, but anything that has worth won't be on the path of least resistance - it will require some sort of pain to obtain: risk, psychological pain, physical pain, patience, exhaustion, boredom, etc.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:36 PM
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Anything worthy takes work. You should know this if you're truly a man. Keep fucking your tinder 6s and leave the good ones to the rest of us.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:20 AM
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I can almost guarantee your shrink is NOT helping. You need to be a man - embrace the rugby identity and enjoy your friends - chicks will follow once you stop caring so much.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:24 PM
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No. This just isn't correct. Physique is super important to women - yes, even those "smart/professional/good" girls. Unless you've gotten legit jacked and shredded you don't really know what you're talking about. Also, consider how fucking HARD rsdtyler has to TRY to get these girls - he has to dedicate his entire life to becoming great at entertaining them and building a whole appealing social scene for them - not to mention all the self-mindfucking involved to convince yourself that you're wor…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:22 PM
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It provides validation for confirmation bias, hope and escape. Just like reading /r/TheRedPill instead of acting
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:53 PM
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Man that video made me cringe so hard - couldn't even get through it. A great example of being too overt
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 04:40 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/ This community is about discussing the realities of sexual strategy - there is no prescription or rules on what to do with that information.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 03:37 AM
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I tell girls exactly what I want 100% of the time and it works because I have high value. What's the manipulation?
/r/askTRP27/08/16 02:53 AM
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"Dread" makes it sound evil, but it's really just a check/balance on human nature. If you had a job and you knew you could never, ever be replaced, even though you're a "good person", you'd still start to slack - there's no "dread" of losing your job. In other words, proper dread is not making the other person feel devalued, it's showing them that you're not dependent on them and that your value is high. Great relationships don't come out of mutual "nurturing" in my experience - they come out of…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 02:43 AM
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You're still in denial of human nature and the nature of the sexes. Also, I don't think most true red pill guys are manipulative or evil or lacking integrity - I think they just put themselves first.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 01:01 AM
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Read this book when I was 20 and gave me a glimpse of the Red Pill 10 years before I actually found it. Needed the AWALT pain to push me towards the truth though.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:21 AM
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Generally I'll give a hail mary shot before giving up entirely - doesn't take any real time and gives them the benefit of the doubt that they simply forgot or got nervous - this has worked out for me esp. with shy girls.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 02:42 AM
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As for how it relates to sexual strategy, you could sum it up as such: Women are confused, bored and ill at ease. They want to tie themselves to someone of value, someone with power to give them certainty. But, they also want to feel comfortable, connected and accepted. Thus, charisma is having power but also being warm and present with others. It's a balance, but as a man it's better to err on the side of too much power and not enough warmth. Think alpha: high testosterone and low cortisol. The…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 12:09 AM
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The most RP thing about Robbins might be that he demonstrates that both men and women are willing to pay huge money for brutally honest advice if spouted by an enormous, handsome dude with a deep voice. That said, I've used his generic goal-setting framework for years.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 01:48 PM
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The best way to practice shit tests is with your friends. Give each other shit and lob it back and forth like a big wet shitty tennis ball made of shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 03:13 AM
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OP - do not listen to this. Yes, OP may have some insecurities, but downplaying his feelings of unease and jealousy as "beta bitch" rather than actually rooted in her disloyalty is the shaming BP/feminist narrative. Regardless of insecurities (deal with those later), he should be pissed, should not trust her and should get out of the relationship.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 11:54 AM
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This is a common sense post about race and culture, and how that affects your status - it's not really generalizable to other traits. SMV is SMV - don't overthink it.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 02:42 AM
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Showing strong intent and simultaneously being disinterested IS the art of game.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 04:02 PM
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If you are built like a Greek God, wear a slimmer fitting shirt, but leave the rest to the woman's imagination. True. I've learned this recently. I have great arms/shoulders, but I get more attention when wearing a tight t-shirt than wearing a too-obvious tank top.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 03:54 PM
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Ha - make leg day ass day and you won't skip it anymore.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 03:44 PM
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Do you think doing heavy leg press is a sufficient replacement for squats? I also mix in leg curls, calf raises, and lower back stuff.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 03:43 PM
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You might be too skinny also
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:39 AM
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None of that shit is conveying masculinity. And looks matter more than game.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 03:46 AM
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This is a great comment. SO fucking simple. "Look good, be normal, have fun"
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 03:43 AM
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Unless he's taking time to plan how he's gonna fit her in between the 4 other chicks he's fucking that week. Whenever you go out with a girl you really like, it's best to have another 2-3 options that same night.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 03:32 AM
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Good post - I definitely agree that a social life is necessary, but it should probably come after you have your shit together and swallowed the pill. Also, this does not apply to high SMV guys: do not be that guy who goes to the bars alone and starts bothering all of the girls
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 10:35 PM
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Yeah, he's just saying it's a trade-off to manage - not advising going full tilt either way.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 10:30 PM
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The problem I find with the Greene books is that they seem to overcomplicate simple principles - things that should be intuitive become conscious/rational. So it's good info to internalize, but not something to follow practically.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:00 PM
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The Book of Pook also has a nice full Red Pill arc of: How to get girls How to be masculine How to live a fulfilling life with girls as a fun bonus Most books focus on only one of these aspects.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:57 PM
1

I have noticed: "hookup" to girls 28+ means making out, etc. "hookup" to girls under 28 means sex.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 06:49 PM
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Be careful with Eckhart Tolle. I read Power of Now, A New Earth, and watched all his YouTube videos. I was a serious meditator for three years. This philosophy ultimately encourages passivity. The way to actually live in the moment is to affirm life, take on responsibility, and get all your needs met in the real world. Then your life is good, and you effortlessly reside in the moment since nothing is subconsciously troubling you. I've been thinking about this for years - trying to reconcile "inn…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 04:00 PM
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18-22 year olds probably don't care about the house. How do you have status otherwise?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 12:42 AM
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I'd stick to one goal per month
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:32 PM
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And what do you do tell your customer once you sell that $5 product for $20 and they start to see all the faults? Or maybe you don't care at this point in your life (which is fine)?
/r/seduction26/07/16 04:06 PM
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Genuinely not trying to be a dick, but not trying to be nice either. Yes, there is a middle ground and a place for thoughtful tact in game. The implication is that if you change yourself fundamentally, you can stop analyzing/overthinking game (see above) and your interactions will be more natural, more fun, and you'll have less attachment to the outcome.
/r/seduction26/07/16 04:04 PM
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Well you can become lower body fat, workout, learn social skills, push yourself to be interesting, make money and move to a city. Then you would actually be appealing to women all day, every day, not just when you have your one-night bag of tricks?
/r/seduction26/07/16 05:22 AM
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Or you could just look hot, be social and live close by.
/r/seduction26/07/16 04:46 AM
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You could probably just skip the first two weeks and actually enjoy your life?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 10:59 PM
2

I think that emotional intimacy is the thing we're both missing and interested in, but fuck if I know a good way to do that without marriage/kids. I was with you until this last sentence. There is the potential for emotional intimacy in every relationship, regardless of the societal constructs or contracts - implicit or explicit.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 07:48 PM
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I was exhausted from some work travel and friends visiting the night before I didn't perform at my best That was probably it. Who knows why she agreed to meet again, but it seems like she had already made up her mind about you. Only option is to soft next and wait.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 07:28 AM
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I have a rotation of 6-8 girls and I usually figure out the sched on Sunday night. I also try to get a few new numbers every week - for instance, I'll go out for an hour before a date and approach. Also: napping after work is a necessity.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 10:33 PM
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See Rollo's amused mastery article
/r/askTRP23/07/16 09:53 PM
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I usually have a date/fuck lined up for every day where I don't have other plans (friends, sports, whatever)
/r/askTRP23/07/16 09:52 PM
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Yeah, don't rely on IOIs before you approach - just go.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 09:51 PM
4

Absolutely. Looking naturally lean and strong is better than looking like a diet-obsessed try-hard.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 09:46 PM
0

hobbies that exude confidence/sex appeal/money What are some specific options guys should consider? (I realize this isn't the point of the post, but its useful)
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 09:29 PM
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What’s it all about? It's about having your shit together, enjoying life on your own terms and, ultimately, self-love and love for others, including women. Love will never look like it does through the Disney/BP lens (a woman's love is never what you once wished it was), but loving relationships with TRP ideals are certainly possible - see Rollo or Pook or Archwinger.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 09:28 PM
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The road rage analogy is a good one. I never have road rage because I always expect people to make bad decisions, so I'm never surprised when they do.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 06:05 AM
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Horribly organized post, but interesting. I think you're listing a bunch of results ("do A, do B, do C") without considering the cause ("be X, Y, Z"). It sounds like your wife is naturally submissive and you're +2-3 over her SMV. To those stuck in a marriage: while you can't change the fact that you probably married some version of a slut/alpha-widow, this should definitely be your mindset: fucking enjoy it. If you and your wife aren’t laughing and smiling a majority of the time, you’re doing it…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 08:38 AM
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Appreciate the thoughtful response. I tend to agree with everything you said, including that linked post and the top-girls-pedestalizing bit (although there is a need to calibrate differently with hotter vs. uglier girls). I think we can agree on this: Yes, you do need to connect on a deep emotional level (whether it's genuine or not) - it's absolutely required - but it's so much more appealing and authentic if you can also pull the girl into your world rather than simple meeting and chatting on…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:47 PM
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That's all true. And 90% of the dates I arrange wind up being 1:1 drinks. But for the top girls, who have drinks with new guys and their girlfriends all the time, "action dates" are better. The Book of Pook puts this better than I could: The nice guy sees that fun is merely being around a beautiful woman. The jerk is a bit more... active. He wants to have fun his way. She is along for the ride. It has been well known that action dates (ex: dancing, bowling, rock climbing, etc.) work MUCH BETTER …
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:14 PM
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I wouldn't say TRP self improvement is to get pussy (that's PUA) - although that is nice - it's for the social power of being ABLE to get pussy, influence other men, feeling your physical and mental best. And that's far more gratifying than sex. So if you like to run instead of lift, that's fine - but you won't have the same power in the world. If you're an introvert, that's fine - but you won't have the same power in the world.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:42 AM
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That's not really what I was implying. It's totally personal. For me, I have a spectrum of sexual desires that can't be fulfilled by one girl, so I usually keep 2 girls (primary and backup) for each of 4 categories. There are other bonuses like "who will cook me the best meal?" "who will make me laugh the hardest after finishing this nice bottle of wine?" "who would be the most fun at this concert?"- but those aren't really that important.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:07 AM
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They are perfectly fine, but it puts more pressure on the girl to be the source of fun and it sounds boring if you haven't had the opportunity to game her enough. It's better to do something you want to do - even if that means getting drinks in a place/way that YOU genuinely think is interesting/cool. tl;dr: think about how you're gonna have FUN before you think about how you're gonna GAME the girl.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 04:05 PM
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You aren't saying anything wrong, they're probably just not that attracted to you. Would a girl bring her friend on a date with Brad Pitt? Don't do dinner dates. Don't do drinks either unless there's something else interesting going on - girls get bored easily if it's only conversation with a guy. Not saying it's impossible, but it's so routine for an attractive girl that they won't bother unless your SMV is +2 theirs. Ask more girls out.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 08:56 AM
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I think the TRP lesson here is that you shouldn't be on Tinder. If any of guys #1-3 approached her on the street, acted normal and made her tingle with a joke or two, she'd be sucking their dicks within 48 hours.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 08:48 AM
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When first starting, I don't think it's a bad idea to get a large group of "uglies" chasing you - as long as you're somewhat attracted to them. It's hard to go from 0->9; easier to go from 5->7->9. Without going into too much detail, I think of plates as each filling roles. There are a finite number of slots and I'm always looking to upgrade each of them. This makes it so I always have a full rotation, but I'm also motivated to always be approaching.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:16 AM
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Most people that care about you will try to keep you safe rather than pushing you towards happiness.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 09:12 AM
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Just introduce 1-2 things per week - it's a marathon, not a sprint - and you need to feel good about progress every day, not make your life misery. Also, if you're calling sex "home runs", I'd be thinking more on a 1-2 year scale.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 04:44 AM
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Don't listen to the medical advice responses - this is mental. Couple of things: It can't be "performance anxiety" if it's not a "performance". Focus on your own needs and sensations - also understand that being selfish and dominant in bed turns on 90% of girls. Go slow. Take your time. Both of you need to relax and get comfortable physically before you pull out your dick. Think of sex as a relaxing massage for your dick. Also, for now, find a girl who is actually very attracted to you. Preferab…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:25 AM
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Every man needs to experience this for himself - in a personal and profoundly shocking way. No matter how much I knew - game, evolutionary bio, experience with girlfriends - I needed the pain and the subsequent coping cycle to have true acceptance. Side note: congratulations on not marrying her.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 07:24 AM
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It's two separate things: 1. I don't disagree that dread was working in his favor, but there are much more covert and gentle ways of instilling it. 2. The harshness is also a turn on because it's a display of masculine power, but again, you could achieve this without sacrificing your frame/mood.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 03:31 PM
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I had been alpha widowed by myself! Hahaha. The logical conclusion of TRP. Serious: what did substances give you that you can't now give yourself re: sex?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 03:12 AM
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in order to plate anyone, you would have to offer them incredible sex and be very attractive. Yeah, that's a given first step around here. Stop complaining and start working on yourself. Even your username is a complaint.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 04:13 PM
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I agree - OP could've handled this in a smooth way with no tears or drama. It wasn't a "power play" - it's just a girl being a girl. You have to give her a modicum of comfort. I assume the wet pussy was from your SMV and your frame, not your harsher actions. "That really bummed me out." "Ah, I understand." "I feel like, what we have could be so much more." "I like you a lot, we have a really unique connection, let's not overthink things. This relationship has been amazing so far."
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 04:11 PM
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Only lesson I learned: have a huge dick.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 06:59 AM
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You now need to fuck a girl that's as hot as she was. Oh, you can't? Well then, work on that.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:38 AM
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I concur. Stop analyzing "society" and learn to fight. I personally recommend boxing - no tapping out, no antiquated artistry - just punching and trying to not get punched. Go to a legit gym that makes you nervous.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:34 AM
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You'll never be happy if you rely on female validation - whether you're neckbeard or Brad Pitt. It's a blessing that she doesn't like you, because you sound dependent and weak. Focus on making yourself stronger for at least 6 months to a year. Then fuck a bunch of girls you don't care about. Then come back here.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:30 AM
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If I could just be 100% honest, wear my heart on my sleeve, I would. I would honestly love to do that. I want a girl who I can be so honest with, she's like a friend. BUT TRP works, and that's how I got this new girl and the plates. You haven't had you're earth-shattering AWALT moment yet. You are applying RP strategy, but you haven't internalized it. That's fine - you're headed for pain, but it'll be necessary. That said, once you're RP, you CAN be completely honest because you'll no longer nee…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:25 AM
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There's no black/white answer to your question because it's a paradox that requires balance and calibration in every situation. It's like an improv jazz musician asking "should I play the scales perfectly technically correct or should I just let go and do whatever I feel like?". The answer is the middle path. You can both want the outcome and enjoy the process. You can balance authenticity with "social chess". Doing so is the game we all play every day and you'll eventually get a feel for that g…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:20 AM
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You're trying to fulfill a BP ideal using RP behavior - that will never work long term - that's PUA thinking. You haven't fully accepted RP/reality. The pain you're feeling now was necessary to kill that BP ideal, but the way you're talking it seems like you're headed for the same mistake again - keep focused on yourself and allow yourself to feel that depression/pain.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 09:35 PM
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I broke free and now the world seems large again That's the feeling of the red pill hitting your bloodstream
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 04:11 AM
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This is not a place to AMOG other men. It was a joke. It's generally true that wealth is not attractive among the most attractive young girls. Truth, humor, embracing masculinity - lighten up, this is just the red pill
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 08:02 AM
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Surprisingly that pickup line doesn't work around here ^
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 02:54 AM
1

What about sex every night?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 02:49 AM
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This comment should've been the post. Life is short. As Pook says, the goal is to make YOURSELF happy - not to get every hot girl to like you, not to get validation from some chick you had to chase - find a girl who likes who YOU are, but at the same time, push yourself as hard as possible and never get comfortable/marry/cohabitate.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 02:46 AM
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On the west coast, SF and northwards, wealth is uncool.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 02:41 AM
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This post has nothing new. But I always think this is funny: their sexual value should be within 1 point of each other. Generally, it's the man that settles (has the higher market value) So wouldn't that mean that all men are actually 1 point lower than what they think they are?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:38 AM
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The most successful males carry with them their own financial independence, social group, hobbies, interests. The social group part is really key. I rarely do it, but if you take a girl to hang out with your cool, attractive friends that respect you, there's no bigger SMV boost.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:33 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2rkz4s/older_players_late_40s50s_up_tell_us_what_you
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:53 AM
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The burden of the conversation is still on the guy when approaching. The ideal is to make it seem effortless and fun while engaging the girl, not to simply not talk as much. Rambling is an essential part of game IMO.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 06:05 AM
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I don't need to approach girls at bars. All this is awesome, but for anyone reading this - please don't think that you'll EVER get to a level where you no longer need to approach and just be a pretty little flower at the bar that gets high-quality pussy. Maybe this guy does OK, but he could do even better if he was more ballsy.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 07:57 AM
1

That's my biggest fear
/r/askTRP19/06/16 06:45 AM
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ha, no - why? would that imply older women?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:42 PM
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I've been noticing that more girls are deepthroating (or at least attempting to) these days as opposed to a few years ago. It must have been on one of the TV shows they all watch or something. Can anyone else corroborate?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 04:24 PM
2

The more I learn about game, the more I realize that the basic Mystery outline (ignoring the weird stories and gimmicks) is 90% of what you need.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:48 PM
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has the feel of either a guy who has never seen women's true dark side Regardless of the content of the post, I think the tone is informative. It's helpful to remember that exuding this exact "just be chill" attitude is the end goal of working on frame/amused-mastery - not anger or overthinking. The non-natural-alpha advantage is that one can establish that mentality while simultaneously internalizing the harsh truths of the world: and that's power.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:10 PM
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This is a great post anger-phase mentality checklist and generally what acceptance looks like: keeping the paradoxes of life/women in mind while staying realistic, masculine, and also somewhat light hearted.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 01:49 PM
2

Another way to state this paradox is that you need to both 1. strongly identify with your "true self" (ego) while 2. also having "no self" (wantless). It's dangerous to only identify with worldly desires, as greed is endless. It's dangerous to give up ego before you build a strong ego. That's denial of your nature and masculinity. This paradox can be expressed as a definition of "alpha": getting everything you want but being wantless.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 04:12 PM
1

Real question: do you have a normal sex drive?
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:15 AM
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men afraid of day game It's largely this. The initial approach has always been the biggest hurdle for men, so if you take that barrier away, the supply/demand shifts in favor of women.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 11:31 PM
1

You shave your arms/legs once every two weeks? Then you have awkward stubble, no?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:16 PM
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You need to convince yourself that it is over – once you do that, getting your ex gets a lot easier. This right here is the thing
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:04 PM
1

I mostly follow, but can you define the "New Man" opposite of billionaire Chad?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 08:58 PM
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Agreed. I hate that this is at the top of the front page of TRP because it's completely putting the cart before the horse.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 03:14 PM
1

Well said. Not sure how to shoehorn it into your metaphor; on the other hand, if the woman doesn't get any of the masculine charge, she'll give up entirely.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 03:10 PM
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Reading a large volume of books seems to have diminishing returns. What's the point of reading? Self-improvement? Being more interesting? Entertainment? Artistic indulgence/pleasure? Gaining perspective? Worldly awareness? If it's the first two, I feel most would be better off picking 1-2 books per month and reading them slowly, critically, and perhaps multiple times, rather than plowing through as much new content as possible. There is nearly infinite content on the web, and you look at that ev…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 09:19 PM
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Girls will protest that it's #3 - "Being with anyone before you would have been settling", but it's probably #1.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:34 PM
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OK, just remember that she probably has fucked a few guys on the first night. I went to an elite university and worked in the medical field. Educated girls and/or doctors are no different than any other girl.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:52 PM
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Yikes. You are headed for some pain if you keep her on this pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 08:03 PM
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The girl I'm dating complements my life, instead of being a necessary part of it. I hope you believe this. It seems like you still haven't hit your AWALT moment.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 04:57 PM
2

How do you think momentum is affected by planned breaks? For instance, a diet can be more sustainable with a cheat meal each week. Nofap can be sustainable with a release every two weeks.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:04 PM
1

What are some more summer-appropriate shoes that have a bit extra height?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 04:57 PM
2

Nah - I've gained more size and strength in the past 3 months bulking than the past 3 years "lean gaining". Post-dirty bulk, I'll move to a micro bulk/cut cycle for life.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 06:10 PM
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On the other end of the spectrum; as someone who has always been lean and is now bulking, I find it psychologically challenging to carry that extra weight. Walking around with a double chin knowing that I still have 2 more months of bulking is much harder than cutting.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 02:18 AM
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Regarding hinted "invitations to approach": What expression do you have on your face as your walk around? What's the mentality - is it "I just want to be friendly with everyone" or "I'm here to hunt you"? When the girl smiles at you, do you smirk, smile big or remain neutral? Do you lock eye contact for a moment to build tension or just start talking?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 04:10 PM
1

Is it worth the subscription?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 05:45 PM
1

http://adashofdata.com/2015/02/18/the-data-behind-the-bachelor-the-bachelorette/ The male age distribution goes against the "guys-peak-at-36" narrative. Perhaps that's our peak socially, but our looks peak around 30? Also, average height is 6'1" - obviously.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:45 PM
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Part of the BP lie is "work hard, get a good job, make money and women will come to you" (translation: "be a cog in our system and we'll let you have one of the older ugly chicks to support"). RP just says "girls will always just want the hot, high-status guy, regardless of money". This is incredibly freeing! Because now your career is about YOUR fulfillment, not getting some chick.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:06 PM
1

What do you at bars when completely sober? Order waters?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 04:23 AM
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Yep. It's the flawed reasoning of "I like pretty, quiet girls" -> "I'll be a pretty, quiet boy" -> "girls will like me like I like them". Truth is that women want their opposite - the masculine.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:51 PM
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Really interesting take. Nearly all the natural alphas I know are married to reformed party chicks - I always assumed it was because they didn't have the chip on their shoulder or insecurity a former beta might.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 04:08 AM
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We just disagree on the definition. What you're talking about I'd call Game - that does need to be practiced, just like any other sport. Amused Mastery is not what is said but how - i.e., the covert backing attitude. Looking back on Rollo's article, he says Amused Mastery is a form of social dominance. That sense of knowing the answer before the question is asked, but still giving the answer with a smirk is a very effective form of demonstrating higher value (DHV). An attitude of Amused Mastery …
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I believe Rollo coined "Amused Mastery" - read Rational Male. It isn't a strategy or a cause. It's a result and effect. PUA tries to mimic this state, TRP tries to get you to a place where you have such abundance, attractiveness and non-grasping freedom from women that you can't help but exude it. Amused mastery isn't practiced, it's earned. Earned through lifting, your career, your game, your social life, your self-reliance, and your internalization of Red Pill truths.
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"Ignorance is bliss"? "If you can't get over the betrayal"? That's not Red Pill. Ignorance is not bliss, the truth will set you free. It is not HIS responsibility to get over it - it's HER'S not to cheat. But yes, be strategic in how you sever it.
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